Got Your Man, Ditch Your Friends???

When you’re single it’s easy to be a loyal friend; it’s easy to be there when you’re needed, to be a pillar of support and readily available. As single ladies, our girlfriends are the rocks that get us through disappointing work experiences and bad relationships. They are the women with whom we laugh, scream and cry.

Then comes the man of your dreams with the courage to get down on one knee. You get married and, suddenly, he becomes your first priority.

Girlfriends often feel left by the wayside as newlyweds tend to get wrapped up in their marital bliss. The transition from “me” to “us” can be difficult and newly married couples are faced with finding balance. Though it requires some understanding from your girls, much of the responsibility for maintaining previous friendships is up to you. If you don’t, a part of your individuality will be lost and you may find yourself feeling lonely and isolated.

If you’re engaged, newly married or in need of friendship rejuvenation, here are some tips for making the transition from great single girlfriend to awesome married girlfriend: