Baby Mama Drama: Chris Bosh Begs Judge To Allow His Seed To Attend The NBA Finals

Posted on June 8th, 2011 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Babies, Baby Mama Drama, Celebrity Seeds, News, Sports

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Poor cry baby Boshy-poo:

Miami Heat superstar Chris Bosh desperately wants his 2-year-old daughter to watch him play in the NBA Finals — but his baby mama won’t let her go to the games — so he’s going to court to try to force her hand. Bosh and his ex-girlfriend, Allison Mathis, are locked in a bitter custody war — and while they hash out a permanent solution, they are currently abiding by a temporary court-ordered arrangement in which they share custody … and right now, their daughter is with Mathis.

TMZ obtained an emergency motion Bosh filed with a Maryland court last week — asking the judge to temporarily alter their agreement so “[Bosh's daughter] is able to share in what, to date, is the pinnacle of Bosh’s professional career, and possibly a once in a lifetime opportunity.”

In the docs, Bosh also includes an email he sent to Mathis last month in the hopes of striking a deal outside the courtroom. In the letter, Chris states, “I am embarking on a new chapter of my life by making it into the finals for the first time in my professional career and it’s very important to me to have the people closest and dear to my heart to be able to share these moments with me.”

Awwwww….him is so sensitive!

Check out the docs at TMZ

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  • Keep it Real

    Wow, I read the letter. I guess she’s unhappy and can’t understand why he didn’t marry her. I’m not :twisted:

  • luVn_liFe

    inTeresting…

  • Vincy2

    She’s two…the noise will be too much for her and she won’t know what’s going on anyway…Negro, stop being sooo petty!

  • Onnie

    She shouldn’t be so spiteful, but Bosh did her wrong. And I agree the child is only two, she won’t remember or pay any attention.

  • Darlin

    ………look, I don’t know about all of that but Home Skilled played his but+ off.

    Congrats on a great Bosh!

  • Mrs. Rance

    This is ridiculous to the tenth power. He is paying attorneys to fight for a 2 year old to attend basketball games she will neither enjoy nor remember? What kind of sh*t is that?

  • stacy

    I hate when women try to use a child to make a mna life miserable.. she just mad cuz he didnt marry her.. theie problems are between them two the child has nothing to do with that if he wants to share that moment with his daughter then let him heck a lot of men wouldnt even care at least he wants to be in her life..yeah i would be alot of noise but look how sweet it would be to see your daughter clapping for u on the side line(priceless).. bitter black women…smh

  • Lexy

    I don’t feel as though he is being petty at all. I feel sorry for him. She should at least respond to him, whether her answer be yes or no. He deserves an explanation as to why his daughter shouldn’t come see him play! Women need to stop making these children pawns!

  • Common Cent$

    Yes he is whining she is 2 not 12 she is not going to understand or remember it anyway so what she’s supposed stop everything she has going on in her life and fly across the country to appease him yeah right and just bcuz she’s his ex and he was recently married doesn’t make her bitter besides I’m sure she can do better than this closeted homo anyway

  • HARDMIKE

    Well in that case, children shouldnt be taken to graduation, I mean they aint gon remember or enjoy it anyway right? No church for them either cause with all that hooping and hollering that aint gon understand that neither, in fact, until children learn to read, comprehend and remember they should be kept inside.

    See how when you dont think LOGICALLY or RATIONALLY how you open yourself up to looking stupid, cause you thinking emotionally.

    as a black man, you damned if you do, damned if you dont

  • Lovely310

    I think he’s taking a page out of the DWade handbook!! This is the same guy that paid for that chick to get pregnant, dumped her while she was pregnant and then didn’t even bother to see about the child until she was 2 months old! And his babymama had to drag him to court to do so.

    I’m waiting for the day Allison spills the beans on Chris about his “how you doing?” tendencies! I know she knows!

  • Kendra

    Didn’t Bosh leave her with nothing after he found out that she was pregnant, and she had to move back to Maryland with her mom? If that’s true, she has a right to be bitter. No one knows their history except for those two, but from the looks of things, Christina Bosh seems to be quite shady, in my opinion.

  • HARDMIKE

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  • KGDC

    He’s being petty because he wants to share an experience with his daughter? How stupid and trifling must your life be that you can’t even appreciate that?

    It’s like saying that you should never give a child a birthday party until a certain age because they’ll never remember it. They probably won’t, but they can see pics… they can hear the stories… they can feel the pride of their parent experiencing that moment. You can, as a parent, decide not to give them one… but to call someone petty because they WANT to AND the other parent is holding the kid hostage?

    C’mon people. Let’s not get so bogged down in Tyler Perry politics that we can’t take a moment to see when a parent is trying to share something truly emotional and exceptional with his child.

    I feel for your kids if you can’t even see that.

    Wow.

  • Ezi

    Bosh left that pretty girl Alison and is engaged to that ugly scalliwag?
    Obviously he doesn’t know a winner. GO MAVS.

  • HARDMIKE

    Sigh……

    She wasnt his WIFE, which means he wasnt obligated to provide ANYTHING for her financially. And according to the LAW,a man does not have to provide for ANY CHILD UNTIL paternity has been established. She doesnt have the right to be bitter about the man wanting to be in his child’s life REGARDLESS OF THEIR PAST

    Dear God, why do ya’ll always give these women the benefit of the doubt? I mean dayum, the man is fighting for custody, which means HE WANTS TO RAISE HIS CHILD, and yall chastising him for it. My Granddad was right, women dont want REAL MEN, cause REAL MEN LEAD, and aint afraid to TELL THE TRUTH regardless of WHO’s feelings might get hurt.

    *and who the faq make the rule that a man must be financially for every woman he dates?

  • so what?

    @KGDC- not to be rude but you shooting hoops in the back yard is NOT the same as playing in the NBA finals.

  • Common Cent$

    Actually no I don’t think children that small should attend graduations they don’t have that type of attention span and as far as church goes I’m pretty sure majority of churches has something called sunday school which they usually have separated by age to better fit each age group with appropriate activities for each age bracket at least that’s how it is at the churches I’ve attended

  • HARDMIKE

    It probably more to do with you being around children without home training, because all children aint bad, and all children dont act up when ever they go somewhere. So church is ok, so they can “learn”, but all other social interactions and they aint gon “remember” it anyway?

    Its kinda moronic that when you do decide to use logic its circular at best. Aww did I hurt your wittle feelins? Did someone come in here all emotionally invested? :)

  • Matix Double Negative B

    Y’all anger bitter baby mamas are showing your azzes right now. How in the world of fuq is he doing a disservice to his child? He clearly LOVES his child-and clearly is fighting HARD to gain access to her! Children are not accessories-They are HUMAN BEINGS and should not be caught in the mists of hard feelings and full on fuqery. It’s his daughter and if he deems his Finals series are a suitable activity for HIS child-then so be it. SMMFH.

  • yooo

    I don’t feel sorry for Bosh. Remember HE has been playing hardball & dragging HER through court treating her wrong. He’s trying to do her how D.Wade did his ex-wife. So NO, she shouldn’t jump when he asks her to jump NOW, eff dude. He want to have her in court, so she playing by the COURT rules. & would you want YOUR daughter with that lil gold-digging wife of his that HE hasn’t even knew that long!?!?!

  • Matix Double Negative B

    What type of two year olds you ya’ll have? BEBE’s KIDS- I think NOT-WTF.LMBAO y’all are soooooo fuqed up – just to make a point.

    My bad on the typos and BS.

  • Matix Double Negative B

    I tell you- Black fathers can’t get a break to save their lives BIG UP ALL FATHERS trying to be in their child’s lives- To the bitter BM’s who use their children as pawns-y’all are saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaddddddddddddddddddddddd-pushing out a baby does not make you special-STEP YOUR GAME UP.

  • Louisiana Lickable Lips

    Im not a b.m., so i dnt know how it feels to be left with a child, while my mil.lio.nai.re ex-boyfriend marries another woman, with no kids. To top it off, the woman is of a different race

    BUT, i do know tht i would allow my child to spend time with her dad & let her partake in the NBA Finals. (This is a once in a lifetime opportunity for Bosh & tht lil’ girl.) On the condition i could come, J/k, j/k

    But the children are INNOCENT & should not be used as WEAPONS OF PAIN or pawns. Its sick & just shows are miserable & sad u r….

    Dnt get me wrong, i would be hurt as he11, but i would want my child to enjoy the best life ever!!!!

  • I love blake griffin

    BOSH is crap. he just want his 2 year old there because lebron and dwayne’s kids will be there, and they will have the better photo-op.

    the difference is dwayne and lebron are IN their children’s lives. dwayne has custody of his kids, and lebron is still with his girl and kids. Bosh’s baby mama had to drag him to court to even PAY any care for his child. he is such a sad case.

  • jenene

    @HardMike – No, small children don’t belong at graduations they are not participating in. And no, small children do not belong in the church during the sermon. You take them downstairs to the children’s service or daycare.
    Two year olds can’t absorb what’s going on. All that noise will probably scare and confuse her anyway. Children are not accessories to be dragged out for photo ops.
    Besides, Bosh should have thought about all this stuff when he was keeping his ex from certain opportunities a la his teammate Wade. She might have been more cooperative.

  • I love blake griffin

    like i said bosh dont give a rat’s a. about his child. he just cares about his image. lebron and wades kids will be with them when they win, and he wants his kids to be there so he can take pictures for the cameras and press and look like a family man/good father when he isnt! he just want to feel good bout himself. FAIL

    it is all for the cameras.

  • HARDMIKE

    Plz, she is so trying to do “right” by her child, by joining a TV called basketball wives, and trying to come up by having a child from an NBA player, we should all suspect that this woman only has her child’s best interest in mind with all of this right?

    Children arent meal tickets,and ANYTIME a woman wants to be famous and or rich because of who she has had a child by will always have the child’s best interest at heart right? I mean she will get no less than $5000 a month once a order has been establish, but of course that isnt enough huh?

  • KGDC

    This is the response you can expect when someone misses the point.

    Thanks for playing.

  • Hispanoila Brotherhood

    Yea, she is 2 and may not remember all the details of the game, but it would be a prideful moment if she saw her father win a ring. I mean, no one remembers their birth. Does that mean we should all go back into mommy’s womb?

  • Louisiana Lickable Lips

    Bosh trusted his new wife enuf to marry her.

    Im not saying it is rite with wht he did, or how he did it.

    BUT, the child should enjoy the pinnacles of her daddy’s life.

    If i were Allison, i would let my dtr come if I could be with her & if he put us up in a penthouse suite & furnished me with a nanny. ANY hotel in Miami would do that for free, since its Bosh.

    Again, i would be hurt if i had a baby for a guy who went & married another woman with NO kids & of a different race, sending bridal shower photos to all of the different blogs. Tht would be PAINFUL, but i wouldnt let my child suffer tho

  • Matix Double Negative B

    Like you SAID??? Come again??-I never read your comment in the first place- Your arrogance is astonishing-LMBAO but YOU caught some damn feelings though now didn’t YOU? …..Carry on.

  • 223

    Black women are too damn bitter he wants his daughter to have this experience it’s not to be taken for granted he may not make it to the finals again but y’all mad because he left his black bm and got him a exotic looking chick so you deflect by saying stupid sh*t like she’s to young to remember anyway FOH

  • HARDMIKE

    @jenene

    So every time their parent accomplishes something, the children should be sent to the babysitter? I dont remember doing a lot of things as a child, but I dayum sure got the pictures of it. No kids at DisneyWorld, Six Flags, Busch Gardens, cause they aint gon remember.

    Let’s not go there, cause the ramifications of what is deemed “appropriate” for children. Because in that case the park would be inappropiate for children.

  • http://is.gd.com/worldstarmoolah 2 Wealthy

    and another thing they both need to stop using their child against one another. if he has moved on then so be it there are PLENTY of people out there for the both of the to be happy

  • bre

    At least he wants her there… some woman are so stupid, than wanna go around telling everyone how they babydaddy is a dead beat -_-

  • HARDMIKE

    You sound and replying like your feelins got hurt, and basically you PROVING MY POINT, that you believe children shouldnt be able to participate in any part of their parents lives until they can remember

    Still using circular logic to make it “seem” if you right and im wrong. These are opinions, no right or wrong silly

  • Mrs. Rance

    Uh Hard Mike, no children should not be at those places you mentioned. They are disruptive and being forced to sit still for hours is punishment to them and they WILL NOT do it. That is why a lot of churches have now created children’s church, so that the adult who can actually get something out of it aren’t spending all their time trying to keep a little one in line.

  • Common Cent$

    Awe that was so cute two claps for you its clear who has actually had close dealings or interactions with children just bcuz children that age have a short attention span it doesn’t mean they’re “bad” its just age appropriate they get restless after a while which again means that its normal

  • Zaaquir

    This is a temporary court ordered arrangement. This is the agreement and right now the court order is for the child to be with the mother at this time. Parents please think before you decide to end a relationship with the father or mother of your child/children. When you end a relationship with the other parent, you also end the opportunity for you and the other parent to be able to spend all the quality time that you want and when you want with the child because the child’s time will have to be split between both parents. Both parents not being in the same household with the child will result in both parents not being able to have the child on those occasions that are special to them. This is what you give up when you don’t stay together. You trade spending every moment that you want with your child for your freedom. We may not agree on who is right in this situation

  • KNB1

    @Louisiana Lickable Lips

    I’ve seen twice where you wrote something that burned me up. Maybe he didn’t think of Allison as ever being his future wife. Allison got knocked up with his child without a ring. Obviously his new wife thinks highly of herself and so does Chris because regardless of race he chose to marry and give her the ring! A+ for her having no kids before marriage. That’s the way it should be.

  • chrissy17

    she looks like the the lil elf he married….okay he has a type….

  • StuckInDaMatrix

    @ 223 you sounds dumb and colorstruck! So anything that’s not Black is exotic? Come again son! Whether Allison is bitter or not you don’t know because you weren’t there. What you know comes from blogs and other sources which may or may not be accurate. I can tell your projecting your personal feelings into this by what you wrote. You need to get a life and expand yourself.

  • Zaaquir

    continuing……but we can agree that a COURT ORDERED arrangement must be honored by both parents and not when it appeases a parent.

  • chrissy17

    ALL YALL COMMENTS ARE VOID CUZ HE AIN’T WINNING NO RING….SO THIS IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME….TEAM MAVS..LETS GO DIRK…

  • Kendra

    @ I love Blake Griffin

    You hit the nail on the head: Bosh is only doing that for his image. If the Heat win, his teammates will have their family there, and he wants his daughter to be by his side.

    @ HardMike

    I rarely defend the baby mamas because I know that many of them have agendas to get pregnant by these men. I’m not saying that Alison had a plan to get thinking that Chris would married her (she more than likely did), but that isn’t a reason to kick her out of his home, allegedly. However, Bosh doesn’t seen like a stand up guy to me. There’s no excuse for a man who is able to visit his child two months after her birth. If he really cared, he would had been in the delivery with Alison. Even if he and the baby mama were having beef, he should have been the bigger person and waited in the hospital. Even if it was during the NBA season, he still could have made it. His former team would had understand and allowed him to visit.

  • NonHater

    His daughter should be there. This is one of the most important days of his life. He can say years from now that she shared this event with his daughter being there with him. He may or may not have this moment again.

  • StuckInDaMatrix

    Please excuse my mispellings and errors

  • WithAllHonesty

    Wow what a bitter bytch… now if they were together we all know her, the baby, and her entire family would be there.

    Most little ones love sporting event. And at most they get antsy because they want to play too.

    And even if it’s not a big deal to his daughter, maybe he would like to have his princess there for good luck.

  • jay32

    Its sad that y’all are knocking him for wanting his daughter to be there to see him play in the biggest games of his career.She may not remember the game but she will enjoy being at the game and cheering on her dad.I hate when women use the child as a way of getting back at the father for hurting them,especially when we know how so many black kids need fathers in their lives.I don’t know what her reasons are for not letting their daughter attend the games but I hope they’re good.

  • ReallyNow

    Black women are pitiful. Imagine how much money she is bankrolling in child support. The guy wants to spend time with his daughter and this is the type of sheet he is facing. Angry, bitter black women…such a sad bunch

  • HARDMIKE

    You would think, as much as black men are dogged about their fathering skills, that everyone would be happy that he is taking interest in his child’s life, but no, they hate the fact, WTF??

    @Kendra
    As a man with no biological children, but an adopted daughter,I cant understand how some can sit here and act like he should be FOREVER PUNISHED cause he and his baby momma cant get along.

    So many women consider themselves “playas” and refuse to admit to such, how many women do you know with dudes on the side paying the insurance and or light bill, but let her come up pregnant, and everybody wanna act like they been faithful and in a long term committed relationship. Like the state dont have give out a lot of paternity tests, Dr. Charles E. Corry did a study and found out that 30%(1.6 mil) of men paying child support are paying it for children that aint theirs, but of course the man is wrong whenever he questions it. Women lie, men lie, numbers dont.

  • I love blake griffin

    thank you sweetie, bosh just wants his child there as an accesory. he doesnt want his teammates who are actually good fathers to look better than him when they are taking pictures with their children.
    I never heard about chris bosh going to court for his child untill now.

  • Brown Barbie

    Just from reading the letter, you can tell it’s all scripted to build a case against her. He even mentioned that she has “no professional responsibilities” and that the child isn’t even in school to make her look bad. Propoganda. I wouldn’t even respond to that ish! I would just keep the custody agreement as it is. Too bad for him if he wants his child when it happens to fall during her time.

  • Matix Double Negative B

    He had valid points- he didn’t make her look bad-she made herself look bad by inventing “schedule conflicts” when she doesn’t work and the child isn’t in school. Clearly she is trying to evade access to their child.

    Scripted or not-it doesn’t matter if the statement holds truth. That’s the way the cookies crumble when you are in a custody battle.

  • Kendra

    @ HARDMIKE

    I agree with you on that. I was just questioning the sudden change of heart about wanting the little girl to come to the game. It’s a just a big mess that none of us know anything about. He fought Alison in court about not allowing her to go on “Basketball Wives”. Hell, even Royce is still on there and we all know that Dwight got a crazy court order against her. She got some stuff on Bosh that he doesn’t want anyone to know, which is keeping her from making her home money.

  • Just A Thought

    I think the mother should allow the child to attend the game(s). You have to give a little to get a little. I do not know the details of the custody battle between the parents. I do know Chris was raised in a two parent home with great parents. The child will be in the loving care of grandparents, a host of other relatives, friends & Chris’ wife. It is a week out of the child’s life. I see no harm in letting the child attend the game(s). I think the debate about if the child will remember the experience is a non-factor. It is a special time in her father’s life and a time he wants her to be apart of. I pray Allison puts her ill feelings on the back burner and allow the little one to enjoy this moment with her dad. Just A Thought!

  • Interesting……

    The quarterback for the NO Saints, Drew Brees, had his son on the field and he was 1 year or so. What’s the difference? He want his daughter there…so what!

  • keema

    Not one of us know what is going on behind closed doors between Bosh and his child’s mother…hopefully they can work this out amicably like two mature adults.

  • Louisiana Lickable Lips

    I read the letter.

    She has NO PROFESSIONAL RESPONSIBILITIES, which means SHE AINT GOT NO JOB!!!!!

    This is not write. He politely asked her to see his dtr & wished Allison well.

  • Louisiana Lickable Lips

    I read the letter.

    She has NO PROFESSIONAL RESPONSIBILITIES, which means SHE AINT GOT NO JOB!!!!!

    This is not rite. He politely asked her to see his dtr & wished Allison well.

  • gizzy

    Sooooo very true. Even if the child is 2 years old its not because she won’t enjoy the game that the mother doesn’t want her there. Its just another way to hold the baby as a tool because he didn’t want to be with her. Its a loud place, the little girl will be loud and have a good time pointing out her daddy. Will she remember it? probably not. but will he? yes of course and i’m sure he’ll have pictures to show her when she’s older. we have birthday parties for 1 year old and they can’t remember anything that happens.

  • gizzy

    ok so she’s bitter, so what. their kid is not a lottery ticket she can hold up against him. whether it was 2 months after the baby was born or 10 yrs, he has a right as a father to want to start a relationship with his child whenever he wants to as long as he isn’t causing that child any harm.

  • Muffy

    Baby mama need to stop being bitter and let that girl see her daddy play. My son just turned three and would have loved to see his daddy play. I think a girl would like it just thr same. Whats wrong with wanting his child there regardless of her attention span.

  • gizzy

    100% agree

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  • BIG REGG***MONEY TALKS

    THIS BYTCH IS JUST BITTER PLAIN AND SIMPLE,2YRS OLD IS NOT TOO YOUNG TO BE AT A GAME.WHEN LALA HAD THAT CHILD WITH CARMELO SHE WAS AT DAMN NEAR EVERY GAME BABY IN HAND,THIS BYTCH IS FULL OF SHYT.I DONT BLAME HIM FOR NOT MARRYING HER!!!!!

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