yep Jesus is coming soon yall, repent now, this aint no joke! dnt be lukewarm, and stop giving up to ur bodily desires!

2nd! this is a good idea!

looking forward for more information about this. thanks for sharing. Eugene

am 3rd

what ???

Top 10 and EWWWW SICK

Do people still have unprotected sex nowadays? I’m not talking about married people, or people in monogomous relationships. Just folks who want to get it on.

I ever saw this content on the biggest tall dating site ☆ tallchat.C o m ☆ you can meet some pretty and hot singles/ people/celebs there. Maybe some of them will be interested in your person.

i think it is a good idea…people need to know and sometimes you are ashamed to tell people..

nothing is better than taking control of your life..this is why AIDS is killing our community this inability to communicate effectively..

it’s just all right ,i think people who are interested in sexual and hot should have a place to set them up , and i occassionly go to a website ::::::::www.bigbisexual.com ::::::::::which is very siutable for this people . that site is about dating . if u re a person who like dating . i think that site will be best suit for u . dont miss it !

it’s just all right ,i think people who are interested in sexual and hot should have a place to set them up , and i occassionly go to a website ::::::::www.bigbisexual.com ::::::::::which is very siutable for this people . that site is about dating . if u re a person who like dating . i think that site will be best suit for u . dont miss it !

Interesting idea. not sure if its good or not.

LMAO, LMAO, LMAO OMG I have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard. Yall posted SH pictures to accompany this story LMAO!!! lol

3rd

That is a very appropriate picture, lol.

this story was boring as hell

this seems like some Dave Chapelle sketch without a punch line … and it is wild to think that people would risk their lives for such fleeting moments of pleasure. SMH

TEST

thanxx

Personally I am not impressed with this idea. I mean as a last resort, yeah, it is a great idea. But personally it seems a little impersonal to me. If I had to be notified with news like this I’d prefer a face to face so I can stab that Bastid up (LOL) or at least a phone call so I can ask him questions. I guess if I moved or my number changed and he couldn’t find me, this method is okay. I am just concerned that this may seem like junk mail or a scam and people might not take it seriously.

AWW GOOD MORNING SLIM AND THE CUTE LIL BABY!!!

hello everyone!!..

WASHINGTON (CNN) — A new national poll suggests that only a quarter of Americans think things are going well in the country today, while the rest of those questioned are angry, scared and stressed out.

Two-thirds of those questioned say they’re scared about the way things are going in the U.S.

Seventy-five percent of those surveyed in a CNN/Opinion Research Corp. poll released Tuesday said things are going badly in the United States.

An equal portion of those polled said they are angry about the way things are going. Two-thirds of those questioned said they’re scared about the way things are going and three in four said the current conditions in the country are stressing them out.

“It’s scary how many Americans admit they are scared,” said Keating Holland, CNN’s polling director. “Americans tend to downplay the amount of fear they have when facing tough times. The fact that more than six in 10 say that they are scared shows how bad things are getting.”

The 25 percent who said things are going well in the country is another indicator of the negative mood among Americans.

“Prior to 2008, we have seen that level of dissatisfaction only three times in the past four decades — during Watergate, the Iranian hostage crisis and the recession of 1992,” Holland added.

The survey also suggests that most Americans are not happy with President Bush. Seventy-two percent of those questioned disapprove of the president’s handling of his job.

The war in Iraq also continues to be unpopular with Americans, with 32 percent of those questioned favoring the war.

The CNN/Opinion Research Corp. poll was conducted Friday through Sunday, with 1,058 adult Americans questioned by telephone. The survey’s sampling error is plus or minus 3 percentage points.

PERSONALLY, I THINK 25% IS STILL TOO HIGH!!! WHO THE HELL THINK THINGS ARE GOOD IN THIS COUNTRY?? THE RICH THAT CONTINUE TO GET RICHER???

@ Slim

-child is beautiful!!

Morning Ms. Nytx

-I’m Just Me

Hola mija!!

@ Eden

Exactly!!!! Tell me in my face, point blank. Especially depending on who you are. For a nucca that was a good time, maybe I will just smack you, but if you were or are my man coming to me with news like this I am going to want to ask questions to you. Who, what, where, when and how could you not care enough to protect yourself. You are about to get me started Eden!!

WWWHHHHOOOOO SSSSAAAAAHHHHH!!!

:shocked:

Good Morning Fam…

Morning Just Sayin how are you today.

Ummmm…this is weird….oh well at least they have the decency to tell their partners…some people don’t that’s how ppl DIE!

@ I’m Just Me- Buffalo Bills (5-1) WE GOT MIAMI NEXT!!!!(Check me out!)

Hey….

I’m doing good and you…?

@ Capricorn Crazy

Hey…

Are you a Capricorn or Crazy for Capricorns?

super….i dont care too much for her….

@ Just Sayin

I am good, thank you. What teams are you going for this NFL Season?

Good Morning Mrs. Lauren! How are you today?

MORNING ALL

@Lauren

Is that you? Hot mama! Nice grav, lol….

@Just Sayin, IJM…

Goodmorning!

@ I’m Just Me- Buffalo Bills (5-1) WE GOT MIAMI NEXT!!!!(Check me out!)

@ Just Sayin

I am good, thank you. What teams are you going for this NFL Season?

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I’m a Ravens fan, but I like to see any game that’s good.

:LOL:

@ Re (MADVILLIANY…I heart DangerDoom)(Check me out!)

Hey………….

Just Sayin..I’m a Capricorn

Re…hey girly, i don’t see your gravy!

IJM….Morning sweety, girl I swore I was in labor this morning…i think the baby dropped.

Morning Everyone!

What in the shiggity! I wish i would get an e-card informing me of my “exposure”! I’d hunt that biatch down…i think its just another way people have become so displaced with reality. This whole new technological error just promotes the notion that its okay to be completely irresponsible for a person’s actions. SMH.

Hey IJM, Man, L-Boogie, Just Sayin, RE!

@ I’m Just Me- Buffalo Bills (5-1) WE GOT MIAMI NEXT!!!!(Check me out!)

@ Just Sayin

I hear that. Did you watch that Jets/Oakland Game on Sunday that went into OT? Did you find that game “good”? I found it to be torture to be honest with you.

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Naw…. I was in NY doing a shoot all day long, but I did win a fantasy football game.

Capricorn Crazy(Check me out!)

Just Sayin..I’m a Capricorn

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Me toooooooooooooooo…! so I know you can handle yours…

@ Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD) Bush is out…what are we gonna do! Damn!

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Hey…

Kesh…morning…

Just Sayin…Cap’s are the best, no matter where I go I always know a cool Cap…When’s your bday?

HEY KEESH HEY PHILLY AND IJM….I PROMISE I IWLL BE GOOD TODAY, I WAS BAD YESTERDAY AND I GOT SENT TO THE CORNER!!

lauren you havent had that baby yet

@ Capricorn Crazy(Check me out!)

Kesh…morning…

Just Sayin…Cap’s are the best, no matter where I go I always know a cool Cap…When’s your bday?

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True dat… Jan 17th..

ms philly you have been preggo forever

Hey OH Lawdy!

You were bad? Aww, thats ok. We all have our days. I’m feelin hella good today so i’ll be in good spirits!

yeah keesh there were alot of babboon lookin folks on here and told them if you are ugly dont put a pic up!!!

@ Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD) Bush is out…what are we gonna do! Damn!

R you from NOLA?

*rolling, sparking, puffing and passing to Kesh*

I got your breakfast right here Mrs. Black and Gold!!! What is your record anyway?

@ Ms. Philly

Probably! That time is right around the corner. How far away are you and are you ready?

Good Morning Man I just

How are you today? Is that yoru doggy?

@ Just Sayin

Oh okay….well glad you won fantasy football. I have yet to win, but I am not really into it like that.

@IJM

Hey girl, just fine…just sleepy!

@Lauren

Hm…I don’t know why…I see mine from work, but maybe the cache needs to be updated? Hold on…

Hey CP

Good Morning! I had that same issue this morning!!!

@ JJJ

LMAOOOOOOO

can*

@ CP

You remember the dude from BK serving a life sentence because he was purposely passing out AIDS to any woman he slept with because he was bitter? I wonder if he would have used this method.

@ NU

I hollered @ you… I see you have no response because you know you are going down!!!

OH LAWDY…

Tell me about it…this whole being preggo thing is getting old!

@ IJM

“@ CP

You remember the dude from BK serving a life sentence because he was purposely passing out AIDS to any woman he slept with because he was bitter? I wonder if he would have used this method.”

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yea I remembered that! I was shocked but yet belated to find out that people could go to jail for that..I guess that falls under endangering the lives of others..I doubt he would use it… he was being straight malicious with his actions..shame on it!

@ jjj,

“I guess men are not only going to hide their cell phones but they are now going to hide their computers, or have a personal e-mail address.

“Honey, what are you reading on the computer?”

“Nothing!!!!!!”

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DEAD! AND you know that ish is TRUE! Just another way for them to get even more clever at the lying…damn shame

Lawdy – is your pic up yet? I worked on it all morning!

I bet SH would be pissed if she knew her pic is part of the article.

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Someone should send this to her website.

hey kesha …that really ticked me off for a milli-second..i’m ok now lol

The blackest white girl I ever met tried to fight me in a nail salon. She had 2 mixed kids and blonde corn rows. I was scared because she was big and fat and had gold teeth for to bite me with.

@ CP,

she could sue but i’m sure it would appear as a frivolous lawsuit…

@ Daywalker,

Pretty good actually. Yesterday was a downer, today i’m feeling MUCH better…and yourself??

ok oshie how do i log in with my email!!!

If you gotta know by any means necessary…I guess this is the way to go *shrugs*

Good Morning EVERYONE!! *waves*

Why Superhead and not Paris Hilton who we all KNOW has something.

Anyway I think it is a good idea. Most of the people passing around diseases aren’t going to be the upstanding honest person you would think in the first damn place so what makes you think they’d all of a sudden turn to honest harry because they burnt someone? Makes no sense….I am for ANY form of information concerning spreading of diseases so that it can cease.

Good Idea. At least it’ll let people know they may have been exposed.

Better to be informed than to be Ignorant!

morning sxyq

oshie how i do that !!!!

HEY AFIYA!! HOWS IT GOING MOMMA?

@Daywalker

I’m doing much better! I just have to watch out for the Polar Bears around this freezing office…

Good morning everybody. I’m not sure if this is such a good idea first off this won’t help all those one hitter quitters because they don’t get to know each other well enough to exchange email addresses. Second some people don’t check their email that often and would probably just delet everything.

@ “I PUT MY FEET IN THE FOOTPRINTS LEFT FOR ME”(sxyQblondie says YAAAYYY its friday!)

Hey Sleepy Head…

Did you know you talk in your sleep?

@OH LAWDY

CAUSE I’M TIRED OF PUTTING YOU AND Z IN THE CORNER FOR CUTTING UP THE WAY THAT YA’LL DO.(snickering)

@MAN I JUST

YOU A FOOL..(LOL)

NU…What up boo?

Hey Daywalker!

Good morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Afiya

Sydney

Glok9n

Serafina

SMDH

jonjon23

Nina Knows

All my self loving brothers and sisters!!!! WONDERFUL DAY TO BE US AIN’T IT?

Hi Man I just don’t cuurrrr!

@ Lawdy: put your damn email in the Mail (will not be published) (required) box.

@DAYWALKER

THERES A REMEDY TO ALL 3

IDIOTS ON THE HIGHWAY-RUN EM OVER THE GAURD RAIL

NO COFFEE-CARRY EXTRA ENERGY SHOTS IN YOUR POCKET

SOMEONE DRANK THE LAST CUP AND DIDNT MAKE MORE-BOIL AN EXTRA POT TO THE HIGHEST LEVEL OF HEAT, THEN HOLD THE OFFENDERS JAW WIDE OPEN AND POUR ALL OF IT DOWN THEIR THROAT. LMAO

(run like hell when theyre able to unpeel their toungue from the roof of their mouth in an attempt to talk to the po po..lol)

JUST A FEW SUGGESTIONS!!

Hey Afiya!

Hey Lacombe…pretty pic! I like the hair color, is that your lil boy?

Hey Real Woman!

Hey Lauren, I forgive you cause you preggers so it’s ok if don’t feel like speakin’

@ CP,

I remember that lawsuit about the coffee…ole girl got PAID too!

As far as superhead goes, i wonder if she was a “cautios” hoe and used protection, lol? Did she ever say? And i mean seriously, she has to have SOMETHING! I know she aint sucked them dudes off while they were wearing a condom so i’m sure her mouth suffered some damage, lol…just wondering. A woman thats been passed around like that has to have some kind of something.

@REAL WOMAN

What’s up sister?

OH…HEY LAUREN

I’m feelin’ a little insecure this morning…I’ll be alright in a sec

Aw Lacombe, is that your lil man?

Look at those dimples! Tee hee!

LMAO @ ALL THE EFF YOU’S FLYING AROUND TODAY. SHOULDNT THAT HAVE BEEN SAID ON A GROUCHY MONDAY??

MORNTINS LANCOMBE! CUTE GRAVIE!

Good morning, all

OK, this is totally off topic, but I’ve read Essence for years and this morning I received an e-mail about their photo essay on sister celebrities in interracial relationships, including Alfre Woodard, Paula Patton, Robert DeNiro’s ex-wife, Halle Berry, etc. And there’s a feature “Looking for Mr. White” posted on essence(dot)com.

Interesting. . .kind of new territory for Essence, IMO.

hey afiya…

I’ve recently stopped doing roll call not because I don’t luv everyone..I did say good morning everyone

HEY SYD!! HOWS IT GOING MOMMA?

Hey Lacombe!

Awww, who’s the cutie in the pic…he’s so adorable!

Thanx Lauren! Yeah, that’s my Reese!

hey syd

I don’t know..I just can’t get down with the white meat just not my preference..i kind of get offended when they check me out…

Well I had to get y’all attention some kinda way Oshie…didn’t wanna call y’all the B-word…that’s beneath me to say that if I don’t mean it.

ok oshie now what!!!

@ Cutie Pie…I know the feelin’

Oh thank y’all! He’s my little man,only 3yrs old!

…And i have no clue where he gets those deep ass dimples from!

ok its there!!!

@ Sydney,

Im open…there’s this cute white man at my job. He’s married but if he wasn’t i’d give him a try. Shyt my options are limited these days. I’m not saying i’d bring him home to meet the family just yet (cause you know how we act at home, lol) but i’d consider it. I think love has no race

lacombe, who has dimples? is it the mail man or the milk man!!!

Lacombe: Reese is sucha CUTE NAME!!!:screaming::

AIFYA…U know u my babys grammy so I gotta acknowledge u! GO PHILS!

@ Oh Lawdy,

Who’s that on the stripper pole????

@Lacombe,

LOL! My baby has one! Its so cute though. I dont know where he gets it from either…

Hey SxyQ!

@Cutie Pie

I know what you mean, girl. I got hit on by a white man the other day, and I was kind of weirded out. . .

The first, and only time, I went out with a white guy was back in the 90′s, and I jetted when he tried to kiss me, lol.

@LANCOMBE

SOMEONE IN ONE OF YOUR FAMILIES PROBABLY HAS THEM.(the dimples)

good idea…and funny that they put superhead’s pic on this post

@DAYWALKER

WELL SINCE YOU HAVE IT ALL UNDER CONTROL, THEN YOUR DAY SHOULD BE GREAT. I JUST PRAY FOR THAT KIND OF PATIENCE..LOL

yeah my grvAIE WORKS!!!

@Kesha

I think more and more sisters are adopting your point of view. I still take a second glance when I see a sister with a man of another race, but I think a few years from now, it will be pretty commonplace. I think some sisters are re-examining their views.

I’m just so used to seeing articles in Essence about how hard dating is for black women, how they feel about black men in interracial relationships, etc., so this point of view from the perspective of sisters who have decided to take that plunge is interesting, and I think, very telling.

@SYD & CUTIE PIE

I’VE NEVER DATED, KISSED, NOR FOUND MYSELF REMOTELY INTERESTED IN WHITE MEN.(unless it was Johnny Depp. I’m going to get him ). NOT SAYING THAT IT WILL NEVER OCCUR, BUT I’VE JUST NEVER BEEN INTRIGUED. AT ALL!! THEY HIT ON ME ALL THE TIME. I POLITELY TURN DOWN THEIR ADVANCES. I JUST HAVENT MET ONE THAT MADE ME TURN MY HEAD.

White men don’t have the muscle tone by-and-large that black men do. But that’s about it.

And black men usually dress better, USUALLY.

Hey Blade

Oh lawdy…since i don’t drink milk, i guess it’s the mail man! lol

Kesha…it’s crazy how they come out with those things!

SxyQ…it’s weird cause no one in my immediate family has them and neither do they in my husbands fam.

Oh, and white people smell like wet dogs. And we don’t use washcloths. And we all worship satan and eat babies.

@ Lacombe, he’s a cutie, he’s gonna be a ladykiller, watch out!

damn oshie

@ Oh Lordy: LOL that picture sux, it looks like Courtney Love. I’ll get you a better one tomorrow.

@Oshie

“White men don’t have the muscle tone by-and-large that black men do. But that’s about it.”

LOL, I think when you get to a certain point in your life, you care less about muscle tone and more about being approached by men you can relate to on a deeper level and who will treat you well.

And you can always dress a man up — or upgrade him, as Beyonce would say.

@ syd

“I’m just so used to seeing articles in Essence about how hard dating is for black women, how they feel about black men in interracial relationships, etc., so this point of view from the perspective of sisters who have decided to take that plunge is interesting, and I think, very telling.”

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I think this is the driving force behind why black women are interested in dating white men..black women are tired of being loyal to only dating black men when they can’t find any for themselves so now they are interested in other options and I say more power to who u want to date as for me it goes past a loyalty i’m just not attracted to white men at all…not even the white actors that are seen as handsome.

i think its funny

Thanx Oshie!!

@ oshie

“White men don’t have the muscle tone by-and-large that black men do. But that’s about it.

And black men usually dress better, USUALLY.”

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this is true! the white men that are buffed have to drink protein shakes and hit the gym hardcore or worse take steroids..you got brothers some from africa who are just plain ripped without any type of hard labor…my b/f nephew has a six pack and he’s 4..

@ Sydney, and whoever: Well, if you look at the thigh (and this may sound weird and anatomy-classish) of a black guy and a white guy who both work out, the black guy’s leg just looks better. It doesn’t have that plucked-chicken look to it.

@DAYWALKER

I HONESTLY BELIEVE SHE’S SWEET ON YOU. AND I THINK THAT AFTER YOU’VE GIVEN HER TIME TO COOL OFF, YOU SHOULD ADDRESS IT. MAYBE IN A ROUND ABOUT WAY. JUST SEE IF YOU CAN “GENTLY” ASK HER, TO FIND OUT IF THATS WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.

@LANCOMBE

I HAVE VERY DEEP ONES. BUT FOR YEARS I COULDNT FIGURE OUT WHERE THEY CAME FROM BECAUSE NO ONE IN MY MOTHERS FAMILY HAS THEM. THEN I MET MY FATHER FOR THE FIRST TIME LAST YEAR, AND HE HAS THEM SLIGHTLY. BUT MY LITTLE BROTHER HAS THEM LIKE MINE. SO THAT ANSWERED MY QUESTION. LOL

Hey Auntie!! (waving)

Sydney,

In all honesty I am SO THANKFUL I’m not in that singles market…just from the looks of what’s out here is FRIGHTNING…they all look like they have some kind of infection…males and females.

And if I had to lay with anything other than a black man… (gosh, I don’t even wanna think about it)…but from where I sit right now…I guess I would be doing alot of masturbation

HEY AUNTIE!!

HEY MOCK!!

hey aunt viv

and dido on the commited relationship comment..but sometimes even with that u got to be careful thats where trust and knowing the person comes from…cause some of them be on the DL..but we won’t get into that the last time I spoke about that i wanted to cyber knock man out

I mean, honestly, there are things that are attractive/ unattractive about all races. Arab guys have pretty eyes, for example.

@cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

I think this is the driving force behind why black women are interested in dating white men..black women are tired of being loyal to only dating black men when they can’t find any for themselves so now they are interested in other options and I say more power to who u want to date as for me it goes past a loyalty i’m just not attracted to white men at all…not even the white actors that are seen as handsome.

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Come on now…U can’t tell me that U don’t find a fellow like Hugh Jackman(whatever his name is who played Wolverine in X-Men) and Brad Pitt when he was in “Interview With a Vampire” to be extremely attractive?

@AFIYA

LMAO

*waves* @ Aunt Viv

@ afiya

“In all honesty I am SO THANKFUL I’m not in that singles market…just from the looks of what’s out here is FRIGHTNING…they all look like they have some kind of infection…males and females.”

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agree. Everyone is too damn casual with sex these days..apparently, its boring to just have sex with ur significant other or to have one sex partner..SMH… thats why diseases are present to control peoples insatiable sex drives

@ Sydney,

Yeah, we honestly dont have much choice. We can either sit around and wait on our Black Prince Charming or just settle for Prince Charming of any race. I’ve never dated outside my race. Not because i dont find white men attractive, because i do, its mainly because i dont think i would feel as comfortable around them as i would around a black man. I dont think i could be myself. But i think white men definitely have black men beat on the whole “preparing themselves for that committed life”. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of white men cheat, i’m sure. But i think a lot more black men cheat. And a lot more black men are still on that immature “playa” mentality and personally, i’m over it. I just dont have the time nor patience for it. And that’s why i’m more inclined to date a white man.

@KESHA

“Im open…there’s this cute white man at my job. He’s married but if he wasn’t i’d give him a try. Shyt my options are limited these days. I’m not saying i’d bring him home to meet the family just yet (cause you know how we act at home, lol) but i’d consider it. I think love has no race”

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????? GASP ????

I don’t think Hugh Jackman or Brad Pitt are attractive. I like Hugh Jackman’s name though. Hugh Jackman.

@Condiments

NOT TODAY…PLEZZE!!!

@ mock

“@cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

I think this is the driving force behind why black women are interested in dating white men..black women are tired of being loyal to only dating black men when they can’t find any for themselves so now they are interested in other options and I say more power to who u want to date as for me it goes past a loyalty i’m just not attracted to white men at all…not even the white actors that are seen as handsome.

__________________________________________________

Come on now…U can’t tell me that U don’t find a fellow like Hugh Jackman(whatever his name is who played Wolverine in X-Men) and Brad Pitt when he was in “Interview With a Vampire” to be extremely attractive?”

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nope..the pink penis just keeps haunting my mind..plus white men turn all kind of colors..green when their sick, red when their hot or emotional, and blue when their dead..i like my men to be one damn color not 5+..plus I love chocolate

@ “YOU LIGHT A MATCH, YOU BLOW THE JOINT”(sxyQblondie even has love for the dummies)

What’s going on lady. It’s not nice to call people dummy…Jesus is going to come back for U So this post is really not cool. People really need to stop abusing sex…then U would just enjoy it without worries

@KESHA

“Yeah, we honestly dont have much choice. We can either sit around and wait on our Black Prince Charming or just settle for Prince Charming of any race. I’ve never dated outside my race. Not because i dont find white men attractive, because i do, its mainly because i dont think i would feel as comfortable around them as i would around a black man. I dont think i could be myself. But i think white men definitely have black men beat on the whole “preparing themselves for that committed life”. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of white men cheat, i’m sure. But i think a lot more black men cheat. And a lot more black men are still on that immature “playa” mentality and personally, i’m over it. I just dont have the time nor patience for it. And that’s why i’m more inclined to date a white man.”

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??????????? DOUBLE GASP ??????????????

HUGH JACKMON IS KINDA FINE.

@Cutie Pie

“I think this is the driving force behind why black women are interested in dating white men..black women are tired of being loyal to only dating black men when they can’t find any for themselves so now they are interested in other options and I say more power to who u want to date as for me it goes past a loyalty i’m just not attracted to white men at all…not even the white actors that are seen as handsome.”

Yes, I agree — we’ve been loyal for generations, and now, it seems to some sisters, I think, that that loyalty is being disregarded, and in some cases, even mocked. So I think some sisters are taking matters in their own hands, casting aside convention, and exploring new territory.

brad pitt is not cute (well he’s not ugly lol)

hugh jackman is not cute

johnny depp is not cute(he looks like he worships satin)….

George Clooney

Brad Pitt

Mark Walberg (sic)

are hot yt guys to me.

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A Rod and Madonna are now shackin’ up? EWWWWWWW

I don’t like the direction of this thread.

OK, George Clooney… I would suck his dick inside out.

Cyber hugs to Lacombe,sxyQB, cutie pie, Afiya!!

@Sydney and Kesha,

Syd, I know we talked about this last week, but I’m not opposed to sistas re-examining their views. I have been with a white dude who satisfied me physically, sexually, intellectually, emotionally. I would never have thought that, and we remain friends today. Being with him I realized that nothing is absolute, that life is funny, and you never know what God has in store for you. I am happily engaged to a Latino man. I know that I remain as Black as ever in mind, body, and spirit, and whoever I date isn’t going to change that.

@MOCK

I TRY NOT TO CALL PEOPLE DUMMIES. BUT THEY MAKE IT SO HARD ON THEMSELVES.(lol) ON THE BRIGHT SIDE, I COULD CALL THEM WORSE . BUT I AGREE WITH YOU ON THE “ABUSE OF SEX” STATEMENT. NOW A DAYS PEOPLE JUST WANT TO DO WHAT FEELS GOOD. NOT BEING CONCERNED ABOUT ENDING UP WITH THE WILLY LUMP LUMP. OR HAVING TO SAY TO THEIR DOCTOR.. “It burns when i pee!!” OR THE ULTIMATE WORSE. ENDING UP WITH THAT

House

In

Vermont

WHICH WILL EVENTUALLY DEVELOP INTO THAT

As

I

Die

Slowly

SOME FOLKS REALLY NEED TO WAKE UP AND THINK!

Brad Pitt used to be the man in Hollyweird for real when came out a thousand years ago. Nice body, pretty face and masculine somewhat. I have to dip yall…I have to wash clothes…but I’ll stick around for a few

@DAYWALKER

This is changing my world view….

@ Man: I don’t like the direction of your face.

@Kesha

“Yeah, we honestly dont have much choice. We can either sit around and wait on our Black Prince Charming or just settle for Prince Charming of any race. I’ve never dated outside my race. Not because i dont find white men attractive, because i do, its mainly because i dont think i would feel as comfortable around them as i would around a black man. I dont think i could be myself. But i think white men definitely have black men beat on the whole “preparing themselves for that committed life”. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of white men cheat, i’m sure. But i think a lot more black men cheat. And a lot more black men are still on that immature “playa” mentality and personally, i’m over it. I just dont have the time nor patience for it. And that’s why i’m more inclined to date a white man.”

OK, sista, *deep breath*, you touched on a very important issue for me.

I’ve been a Daddy’s Girl all my life, and I grew up with the married, responsible black man model, but I fear that that thinking is losing traction among men in my age group and younger. It’s like a Catch-22 for me — like you, I’ve never been in an interracial relationship, and I do feel uncomfortable in a romantic setting with white men (mostly because I feel that some of them view black women as sexual conquests and not much more). Yet I can’t accept the tired thinking that sisters should have to put up with more because some brothers just aren’t there yet.

Then you pile on the ol’ line from some brothers that black women have so many things wrong with them — which I truly believe is abuse that we don’t have to tolerate — and I think some of us are wondering what’s keeping us where we are.

Hi Daywalker!!!

@OSHIE

GGGGEEEEYYYYAAAAHHHHHH @ YOU SUCKING GEORGE CLOONEY INSIDE OUT. LMFAO

@ MAN

“I don’t like the direction of this thread.”

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not taking it out on you but I shall use u as an example…this is the sh*t I talk about the kind of ticks me off…and I’ll say this and leave it alone..black men can talk about banging white and all types of other races of women but once the black woman starts talking about simply dating (nothing sexual) a man outside her race it it becomes too much…there is a lack of equality there…..

Aunt Viv, I always like what you have to say. It’s always honest and sincere.

Thank you Oshie

@OSHIE

“I don’t like the direction of your face.”

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Well, point my face in the right direction and I will gladly place it there. With my mouth open and tongue out of course…

@sxy

House

In

Vermont

WHICH WILL EVENTUALLY DEVELOP INTO THAT

As

I

Die

Slowly

SOME FOLKS REALLY NEED TO WAKE UP AND THINK!

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Very Clever

People should already know there’s a deadly sexual tramsmitted disease…it’s 2008 I mean they obviously know of Jesus and that was like 2008 years ok so AIDS been on the scende since 1980 something. People want to die so I say let them die…not I though

inequality*

I sure miss her looking back on it. She is the only hooker i ever cauht true feelings for

@CUTIE PIE

“not taking it out on you but I shall use u as an example…this is the sh*t I talk about the kind of ticks me off…and I’ll say this and leave it alone..black men can talk about banging white and all types of other races of women but once the black woman starts talking about simply dating (nothing sexual) a man outside her race it it becomes too much…there is a lack of equality there…..”

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Is that black men in general or specific to me? As far as talking about banging white women out…

Thank you, Aunt Viv

@Cutie Pie

“black men can talk about banging white and all types of other races of women but once the black woman starts talking about simply dating (nothing sexual) a man outside her race it it becomes too much”

Yeah, they can talk about their attraction, and that’s fine, but I think it’s reality that more black women are also going to explore their options. I think it’s the traditional thinking that no matter what, the black woman will be there. We have been there throughout history — by the side of black men through all kinds of adversity.

What about our wants, needs, and desires?

Oshie you know about USO’s??

Mock Rock, what in the FUNK are you smoking and how in the FUNK can I get me some?

@SYDNEY

I MUST SAY SOMETHING THAT I’VE ACKNOWLEDGED OVER THE YEARS. BLACK WOMEN ALWAYS SAY THAT THERE ARE NO-FEW GOOD BLACK MEN OUT THERE. BUT WHO’S TO BLAME? THATS THE REAL QUESTION? IF THERE IS AN ISSUE WITH ONE OR THE OTHER, BOTH SEXES ARE TO BLAME. BLACK WOMEN OVER A COURSE OF YEARS HAVE ALLOWED BLACK MEN TO BECOME COMPLACENT AND TREAT THEM HOWEVER THEY WANT TO TREAT THEM. PARENTS ARE NO LONGER RAISING THEIR BOYS TO BECOME MEN (their girls to become women) INSTEAD ASSUMING THAT CARETAKING SOLEY RESTS ON PAYING BILLS, FEEDING THEM, AND BUYING THEM CLOTHES. BUT THEY ARE TOO BUSY TO TEACH THEM MORALS, LIFE LESSONS. CONSEQUENCES, THINGS THAT WILL HELP THEM TO MATURE WISELY. I WILL NEVER, EVER, GIVE UP ON BLACK MEN. BECAUSE THERE IS HOPE FOR THEM. BUT IF WE GIVE UP, THEN WHAT? WE MAKE COMPLAINTS ABOUT THEIR HAPHAZARD WAYS, BUT IF MORE OF US CHOSE “NOT” TO PUT UP WITH THE THINGS THEY DO THAT ARE UNACCEPTABLE, THEN THEY WOULD HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO CHANGE. THE OTHER THING IS THAT SOME OF THE WOMEN OUGHT NOT TRY TO PLAY EXEMPT IN EITHER. BECAUSE THEIR ARE SEVERAL TRIFLING, LOW LIFED, NO JOB HAVING, SUCKING UP MY TAX MONEY SO THEY CAN SIT ON THEIR ARSE, BLACK WOMEN OUT THERE AS WELL. IT STARTED WITH HOME TEACHINGS, OR THE LACK THERE OF.

@Oshie (every single place I go, I see the same hos…)(Check me out!)

Mock Rock, what in the FUNK are you smoking and how in the FUNK can I get me some?

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I got U!!! Come and holla at me…I’m out in the AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

That’s a good list, Kesh!

…mmmmm..David Beckham

David Beckham is fine, but I’d take Tupac over Beckham any day. I know he’s dead, this is my fantasy! Get out of my head! *swatting air around head*

@ man

“@CUTIE PIE

“not taking it out on you but I shall use u as an example…this is the sh*t I talk about the kind of ticks me off…and I’ll say this and leave it alone..black men can talk about banging white and all types of other races of women but once the black woman starts talking about simply dating (nothing sexual) a man outside her race it it becomes too much…there is a lack of equality there…..”

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Is that black men in general or specific to me? As far as talking about banging white women out…”

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in general..black men have a problem with black women dating outside their race…

@ Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)

Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuup…

LMAO @ Oshie

Ugh, it’s 2008, why do we still care if people date outside their race? We should be more concerned with the killer robots being built by John Connor.

@MOCK

PEOPLE DONT THINK UNTIL IT’S TOO LATE. HALF OF THEM COULD CARE LESS ABOUT JESUS, OR LIFE. PERIOD. THE SAD PART ABOUT IT IS THAT THESE THINGS WE WERE WARNED OF THOUSANDS OF YEARS IN ADVANCE. BUT SOME CHOOSE NOT TO TAKE HEED. THERE ARE SEVERAL YOUNG GIRLS (and when i say young, i mean under the age of 24) THAT I KNOW, WHO CONTRACTED H.I.V EARLY. ALL FROM THE SAME TRIFLING 30 SOMETHING YEAR OLD B-STARD. AND ALL BETWEEN THE AGES OF 16-22 WHEN THEY CONTRACTED IT FROM HIM. IT IS NOT A GAME OUT HERE!! THE SAD PART ABOUT IT WITH THAT NEGROE IS THAT HE KNEW THAT HE HAD IT, SO HE KNEW THAT HE WAS SLOWLY KILLING THEM. PEOPLE NEED TO WAKE UP AND CUT THE CRAP!!

@ Oshie

Yeah…let’s let TuPac stay dean and rest in peace. I personally had a thing for year for the Rock. I guess we had to break up on the count of my only guy/future fiance/future husband/forever and a day life partner…whew

@SxyQ

I totally agree that the problem lies on both sides, and this problem will only grow because we do have a number of children who are growing up without good male role models. And there are women who are also not holding up their end of the bargain.

Morning Dapro

my spelling is horribly off today…

Just thinking of Pac making a thrusting motion makes me all creamy inside…

@ oshie

“Ugh, it’s 2008, why do we still care if people date outside their race? We should be more concerned with the killer robots being built by John Connor.”

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OMG!! for real!!..I saw eagle eye over the weekend and that movies has got me thinking about some sh*t….

“YOU LIGHT A MATCH, YOU BLOW THE JOINT”(sxyQblondie even has love for the dummies)(Check me out!)

what is the deal with the caps lock? just click it off ma

Hi dapro!!!

How was your birthday yesterday?

Ashton Kutcher could get it, but he’d probably be smiling like a goofy dirtbag the whole time so maybe not…

You’ve been punk’d! Awesome!

@IlluminateTruth

“Have we (Black men) collectively effed up that bad that y’all are willing to pull a crossover?”

LOL, hey there, um, brothers have been in the crossover game for years — sisters are just catching up.

It’s hard to remain loyal when you’re getting your head kicked in, you know. . .

@Aunt Viv

Thanks (taking credit for all positivity…except HIV) Viv. We do our best in this oppressed mess

HEY HEY HEY!!

hey dapro

@ sxyq

I think its needs to begin in the home to rectify the spreading of the disease..i believe its like u said there are a lot of young girls who do not have fathers in their lives and because of this they seek else wear for the love and affection from numerous men..they use sex as a way to seek comfort from many many men and some of those many men have diseases..and for young black men I feel black mothers think they can raise their sons on their own(don’t attack me single mothers) but the reality of it all is you can’t a woman can not raise a boy to be a man because she herself is not a man and wouldn’t know what it takes to be one…..the good part about men raised in single mother households is that they are able to know how to treat a woman and care for one..well most of them but they need the best of both worlds..in my opinion.

hey jaxon

LMFAO @ super head pic, good stuff!

Thanks Mock Rock Star

@ MsJaxon…

Sorry MsJaxon… I am for real…

Hey…………….

I’m telling you the killer robots are coming…

i have to go. my boss dont allow me to be on the computer all shift long

Hi Jaxon!

Morning Ms.Jaxon!

@ Man

Who is the doggie?..so cute!! i think I love him!! Now i feel like I got to put my babies (not sure how babyish a Cane Corso and Mastiff can be) as my gravvy

@CUTIE PIE

“in general..black men have a problem with black women dating outside their race…”

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Yes, as do black women with black men dating outside their race. Isn’t that “equal?”

Hey Ms. Jaxon! I made you some waffles but I eated them

@ cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

This is dedicated to you…

Zapp & Roger

“Cutie Pie”

Cutie Pie, your the reason why

I love you so, I don’t want you to go

You’re the girl who makes me feel so good

Cutie Pie!

Cutie Pie, you brighten up my day

It’s impossible, for me to stay away

lately, hazey, you got my head goin’ ’round

I want you to know, how much I love you so

lately, hazey, got my mind goin’ round

I want you, to see, how much you mean to me

You’re the girl who makes me feel so good

Cutie Pie!

Nothin’ but a cutie pie

Cutie Pie, you really pick me up

’till I can’t, hardly get enough

You’re the girl who makes me feel so good

Cutie Pie!

Cutie Pie, you’re the reason why

I’m full of joy, since you came into my mind

Find More lyrics at http://www.sweetslyrics.com

lately, hazey, got my mind goin’ round

I want you to know, how much I love you so

lately, hazey, got my mind goin’ round

I want you to see, how much you mean to me

You’re the girl who makes me feel good!

Cutie Pie!

You’re the girl who makes me feel so good

Cutie Pie!

Nothin’ but a cutie pie

makes me feel so good

you’re my cutie pie

You’re the girl who makes me feel so good

Cutie Pie!

Nothin’ but a cutie pie

makes me feel so good

you’re my cutie pie

You’re the girl who makes me feel good!

Cutie Pie!

You’re the girl who makes me feel so good

Cutie Pie!

You’re the girl who makes me feel good!

Cutie Pie!

@AUNTIE

YOU KNOW IT MOMMA!!

@SYD

WE SEE EYE TO EYE. I CAN THINK BACK TO WHEN I WAS 15. I HAD A FRIEND WHO WAS 26, AND I USED TO KEEP HER CHILDREN. 1 GIRL, 2 BOYS. SHE WAS WILD. PARTIED EVERY WEEKEND, GOT DRUNK JUST ABOUT EVERY NIGHT. NO B.S. SHE WAS TOTALLY SATISFIED WITH COLLECTING HER 800 IN CHILD SUPPORT AND HER 500+ IN FOOD STAMPS. THIS WENT ON FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MIDDLE SON (FROM THE TIME HE WAS 4-5) HAD THE EXTREME CHARACTERISTICS OF A HOODLUM. CURSING AT PEOPLE, VIOLENT TEMPER, SADISTIC LIKE BEHAVIOR, BAD ROLE MODELS. I TOLD HER YEAR AFTER YEAR, “J, YOU NEED TO GET HIM UNDER CONTROL. WHEN HE GETS TO HIS TEENAGE YEARS, HE’S GOING TO TURN INTO A MONSTER.” THE RESPONSE THAT I ALWAYS GOT FROM HER WAS..”B*TCH MIND YO BUSINESS!! THATS MY MU*&%$ F*&^%ING CHILD, I’LL RAISE HIM HOW I WANT!!” AFTER ABOUT 5 YEARS OF TELLING HER THIS, I STOPPED TALKING. KNOWING THAT IT WAS FALLING ON DEAF EARS. IT IS NOW 2008. HE IS 17-18 YEARS OLD. HE’S HAD SEVERAL RUN IN’S WITH THE LAW. SO MANY TO THE POINT WHERE THEY KNOW HIM BY FIRST AND LAST NAME. HE’S BEEN IN AND OUT OF DETENTION HOMES, HAD A KID AT 16, AND NO PUBLIC SCHOOL IS INTERESTED IN HIM BEING A STUDENT AT THEIR ESTABLISHMENT. OH, AND DID I MENTION THAT HE SELLS DRUGS AND CONSIDERS HIMSELF A “BLOOD”? A JUVENILE DELINQUENT SOON TO BE AND ADULT, WHO WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FUNCTION WISELY IN THE WORLD BECAUSE OF LACK OF PROPER PARENTING AND TEACHINGS. THIS IS WHAT THE WOMEN OF HIS GENERATION WILL HAVE TO ENCOUNTER. ALL AT THE HANDS OF WHO? HIS MOTHER!!(and lack of a father)

@Kesha,

“And dont get me wrong, i know some black men have always prefered the white woman, but SOME, MOST black men really loved the qualities that the black women possess…where are those brothas???”

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They’re out there. Shoo, I have 2 brothers and male friends who fit the bill. But they’re here in NY, and I know you’re down South. Good brothas do exist, which is why I won’t knock the Black male species on the account of the knuckleheads. I’m not necessarily condoning “the swirl”, but I am condoning Kesha getting someone who will love, respect, and treat you the way you DESERVE to be treated. We hope he’s Black but if for some reason he isn’t, that should be OK.

@ man

“@CUTIE PIE

“in general..black men have a problem with black women dating outside their race…”

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Yes, as do black women with black men dating outside their race. Isn’t that “equal?”

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the difference is this..black women until recently were ashamed to say they dated outside of their race because of a fear of being disloyal…black men have been flaunting that ish in our faces for ages with little care to feelings..thats why I say i don’t even care anymore because for sometime that was a way to keep a black woman in their place putting the fear in them that a woman of another race would steal yall away…I say date who u want as for me i love balck men too damn much lol..or maybe for now u never know

@Afiya

It was good my beautiful sista, I went to Pappadeux (one of my joints)

@Lancombe

Hello gorgeous, how are you? Is that your lil man?

AAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!! @ Just sayin: I love that song!

I see that you’re talking about interracial relationships. Well, let me just say that some Greek men love black women. My dad is from Greece and my mom is black.

My mother’s brothers are all great men who treat women with respect. They are the true examples of what real men are they all value their friendships and relationships with their wives/girlfriends.

I mean you have to start out early. My son is only 5 years old and because he goes to an almost all white school, even he’s starting out on that white girl lust mentality. And i asked him why? And he flat out told me its because she (the lil girl he likes) has long hair and blue eyes! And he finds that attractive. And nothing is wrong with that, i understand everyone has to grow up with their own opinions. But to only see the beauty of one race, that’s where the problem lies. So i tell him to look deeper and look at mommy! Look at Grandma, look at your aunts. Tell me what you like about us, what do you think is pretty on us. And he does. He points our certain features that he kinds pretty on black women, he likes my mom’s skin color and he like my hair and like my sister’s eyes. So i’m trying to get him to see that beauty is not color blind. Women of all shades are beautiful. You just have to look deeper. You have to appreciate you for who you are. I want him to develop a connection with his race FIRST. And if later in life he still chooses to be with a person outside his race, then that’s his choice…but what he will NOT do is come in my house and tell me that he dont think the black girls are cute…HELL NO! I’ma MAKE him appreciate and love the black woman. he’ll only have play dates with black girls. He’ll only befriend the black girls. You have to start out young because other people try to influence YOUR kids just as much if not more than you. SMDH

To the men and women debating the racial dating situation, you may observe that a lot of the differences and problems you are discussing stem from the basic differences between men and women, i.e. men are assholes and women are overly emotional. Just a thought. Backing away slowly…

@AUNT VIV

“They’re out there. Shoo, I have 2 brothers and male friends who fit the bill. But they’re here in NY, and I know you’re down South. Good brothas do exist, which is why I won’t knock the Black male species on the account of the knuckleheads. I’m not necessarily condoning “the swirl”, but I am condoning Kesha getting someone who will love, respect, and treat you the way you DESERVE to be treated. We hope he’s Black but if for some reason he isn’t, that should be OK.”

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No, it’s not “ok.”

@CUTIE PIE

COSIGN 100%

@LADY D

THANK YOU!!

@OH LAWDY

YES YOU NUT!! I SEE YOUR GRAVIE!! YOUNGBLOODZ SAY THEYRE ADDICTED TO THEM BROADS ON THE POLE..LMAO

@ Oshie

Guess that will teach me to be late… I waffles..guess I’ll just have to eat soggy cereal

@ Man

Yeah I am that crazy…Just got the Cane Corso..he is not even 6 months already over 100 lbs and can stand up and put his paws on my shoulders…

@CUTIE PIE

“the difference is this..black women until recently were ashamed to say they dated outside of their race because of a fear of being disloyal…black men have been flaunting that ish in our faces for ages with little care to feelings..thats why I say i don’t even care anymore because for sometime that was a way to keep a black woman in their place putting the fear in them that a woman of another race would steal yall away…I say date who u want as for me i love balck men too damn much lol..or maybe for now u never know”

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Do you think this “throwing it in the face” was “intentional?”

What do you consider “throwing it in the face?”

@Dapro…Hey boo! I’m good!…Yeah that’s my Reese!

Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD) Bush is out…what are we gonna do! Damn!(Check me out!)

I mean you have to start out early. My son is only 5 years old and because he goes to an almost all white school, even he’s starting out on that white girl lust mentality. And i asked him why? And he flat out told me its because she (the lil girl he likes) has long hair and blue eyes! And he finds that attractive. And nothing is wrong with that, i understand everyone has to grow up with their own opinions. But to only see the beauty of one race, that’s where the problem lies. So i tell him to look deeper and look at mommy! Look at Grandma, look at your aunts. Tell me what you like about us, what do you think is pretty on us. And he does. He points our certain features that he kinds pretty on black women, he likes my mom’s skin color and he like my hair and like my sister’s eyes. So i’m trying to get him to see that beauty is not color blind. Women of all shades are beautiful. You just have to look deeper. You have to appreciate you for who you are. I want him to develop a connection with his race FIRST. And if later in life he still chooses to be with a person outside his race, then that’s his choice…but what he will NOT do is come in my house and tell me that he dont think the black girls are cute…HELL NO! I’ma MAKE him appreciate and love the black woman. he’ll only have play dates with black girls. He’ll only befriend the black girls. You have to start out young because other people try to influence YOUR kids just as much if not more than you. SMDH

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That’s true. I saw a show on PBS about children who were given dolls to choose from and all of the children chose the “white” dolls. When asked why they said because the dolls were pretty, and the “black” dolls were ugly. It’s all because our society tells us what is beautiful and it makes such a huge impression on children that they end up hating themselves. It made me want to cry.

HEY TINA (new friend) HOW ARE YOU THIS MORNING?

@PRO

GOOD MORNING HANDSOME. AND HOW ARE YOU?

@You Light A Match, You Blow The Joint

Hey yourself and you?

@Lacombe Redbone

What’s up?

HEY MS JAXON!!

What’s Up Tina? How’s it going boo?

@SYDNEY

“Sista, don’t think that we should be placed on a pedestal — KNOW that we should be placed on a pedestal, and too many of us don’t believe that.

Yes, there’s definitely a very destructive train of thought that exists among some that no matter what, black women aren’t going anywhere. Those days are changing, though, because I think fatigue is setting in for some sistas, particularly the ones who are positioned to explore options with very little effort.

And I absolutely believe that there are black men out there who adore and respect black women. And I respect the ones who continue to treat sisters with deference even if they’re dating women of other races.

And I agree with you that we have accepted a lot of bad behavior in our culture. I’ve heard the refrain “men will cheat” too often, and I think “marriage” and “commitment” have become four-letter words among some of us.”

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“KNOW that we should be placed on a pedestal, and too many of us don’t believe that”- who is the “we” in this statement?

@TINA

MY MORNING IS GOING GOOD. ABOUT TO GO AND GET ME SOME FZZZOOOD.(LOL) YOU CAME IN ON ONE OF THE THOUGHTFUL CONVO’S TODAY.

@ Auntie,

They’re out there. Shoo, I have 2 brothers and male friends who fit the bill. But they’re here in NY, and I know you’re down South. Good brothas do exist, which is why I won’t knock the Black male species on the account of the knuckleheads. I’m not necessarily condoning “the swirl”, but I am condoning Kesha getting someone who will love, respect, and treat you the way you DESERVE to be treated. We hope he’s Black but if for some reason he isn’t, that should be OK.

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Thank you! That’s all i’m saying…shyt dont we (black women) deserve happiness too! You do you, and I’ll do me If the white girl makes you happy, then more power to you. But dont get mad when i find me some vanilla lovin. DAMN HATERS

Hey Jaxon! Massa been keepin you busy huh, lol!

@Aunt Viv

Sorry I had Afiya on the brain, my bday was good.

@The Fam

There is no shortage of good black men. There is a shortage of understanding and patience in both black men and women

@You Light A Match, You Blow The Joint

I like good conversation. LOL

@Lacombe Redbone

All is well. I’m off work this week. So, I’m just relaxing. How’s it going with you?

Hey SxyQ!! Kesha….

@ Man

email..

Damn, thats a hell of a way to find out you got sumn…

Gd Mornin errbody!

@ MAN

“@CUTIE PIE

“the difference is this..black women until recently were ashamed to say they dated outside of their race because of a fear of being disloyal…black men have been flaunting that ish in our faces for ages with little care to feelings..thats why I say i don’t even care anymore because for sometime that was a way to keep a black woman in their place putting the fear in them that a woman of another race would steal yall away…I say date who u want as for me i love balck men too damn much lol..or maybe for now u never know”

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Do you think this “throwing it in the face” was “intentional?”

What do you consider “throwing it in the face?”

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*sigh*..forget it..i just don’t have the juice to do this right now..i am 100% positive u know what i’m talking about…

@Lacombe Redbone

I assume that’s your son in your picture. He’s handsome.

interracial dating…I go back and forth with how I feel about that… but in the end..do what you do

@ dapro,

“Sorry I had Afiya on the brain, my bday was good.”

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That’s OK, Afiya wished you a happy b-day yesterday too if I recall. You are one of the many good brothas out there. A perfect cyber-example!

hey redd

@ oshie

thats the problem no one wants to talk about it they just want everyone to get over it…i did a great amount of talking and writing about and i’ve gotten over it..its something that needs to be talked about..get it out of everyones systems…

@ Redd Tony aka Earth Sign “Nothing’s more precious than the rebirth of love”

Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuup!

THE PROCESS STARTS WITH KNOWING. HAVING TRUE CONFIDENCE, SELF ESTEEM, AND VALUES PLACED WITHIN YOU EARLY IN LIFE. HAVING THIS KIND OF FOUNDATION CAN OFTEN PROHIBIT AND INVIDUAL FROM FALLING PREY TO STUPID SH*T. NO BULL. I’VE HAD SEVERAL FRIENDS/ASSOCIATES, WHO HAVE FOUND THEMSELVES IN SITUATIONS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED, IF THESE KEY ELEMENTS OF LIFE HAD OF BEEN INSTILLED IN THEM FROM THE BEGINNING. SYDNEY, YOU ARE RIGHT!! “KNOW” THAT YOU DESERVE BETTER. “KNOW” THAT YOU ARENT GOING TO PUT UP WITH BULL. WHETHER IT BE FROM A BLACK MAN, A WHITE ONE, A PURPLE ONE. “KNOW” THAT YOU ARE IMPORTANT AND CERTAIN THINGS SHOULD NOT EVEN DWELL IN YOUR PRESENCE!!

Hey DaPro!!!

*waves*

*grins*

*shows leg*

Good morning Redd

@CUTIE PIE

“*sigh*..forget it..i just don’t have the juice to do this right now..i am 100% positive u know what i’m talking about…”

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LOL. I swear. And no, I have no idea what you are talking about? Really.

@Cutie Pie

“the difference is this..black women until recently were ashamed to say they dated outside of their race because of a fear of being disloyal…”

Very true. I know it’s an old movie, but I’ll never forget the scene in Jungle Fever when the Italian man is talking about having sex with black women and how he wanted to “ride” one into the sunset. I’ve always felt that dating white men would not only be an act of betrayal to brothers, it would also betray my sense of self and value. When white men express their attraction for me, I always question their motives — do they want to see what it would be like to be with a black woman, something to talk about with their friends? How would a white man relate to my experiences and beliefs?

I’ve heard brothers talk about their physical attraction for women of other races, but I think a number of sisters look at interracial dating from a more cerebral perspective, in terms of how it would impact them personally and the implications.

@SxyQ

What you just described is what I fear we will see more of because the two-parent household is becoming an anachronism in our community, and this will affect generations to come in a myriad of ways, including male-female relationships.

And I know some sisters who are accepting anything from men and conducting themselves poorly are allowing men to believe that all of us are the same. I’ve heard stories from brothers about the lengths that sisters will go to just to say they have a man. We have to show more self-respect and demand more for ourselves.

@Lacombe Redbone

Yesterday, you said something about two people asking questions. Start some right now.

@ illum

“@ Oshie

If I remember, that test was originally done back in the 1960s and repeated in this millenium. Sadly enough the tests yielded the same results. This tells us that TV/media and subsequently society is still dictating the “white is right” mentality. We can scream Black pride all we want but the fact is our children (as told by “Keesha”) are still being programmed to think a certain way no matter how hard we try to enforce self pride. It is sad to think that almost 50 years later, although interracial dating is more accepted, OUR self perception of ourselves still suffers. Dangerous combination if you ask me.”

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100% agree..and this is because we need to turn off the damn tv and pick up a book…if we knew out history there would be no need to feel any way about ourselves and our self-perceptions would be impecable..straight cheese

our*

our*

Thanx Tina!

I think women get most of their self esteem confidence from their fathers or male figures in the their life..If she lacks a father or positive male role model in their life then there is often a lack of self esteem and confidence in my opinion…Thats how I want my boo boo to grow up with self-esteem and confidence and she is going to always know that I am here for her..I just hope she can find a positive black man when she gets older

@Lacombe Redbone

Yesterday, you said something about two people asking questions. Start some right now.

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Ok, i do have a question…..Is it ok to let little boys play with dolls?

@ Lacombe: Yes.

@ Kesha and Oshie

I was about 5 I guess..my Uncle had just gotten married…when he returned from his honeymoon my new aunt took my sis and I toy shopping

I picked up the white Barbie..my aunt kept trying to get me to buy the black Barbie but I was not having it. She asked my sis (who was 8) why I was so stuck on having the white barbie. My sis answered truthfully “b/c auntie that’s the one that’s on the commercial”

Hey Redd, Hey Pro…i’m so busy getting upset about this ish i forgot to speak…how are the fellas?

@LACOMBE REDBONE

“Ok, i do have a question…..Is it ok to let little boys play with dolls?”

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Yeah, why not?

@ man

“@CUTIE PIE

“*sigh*..forget it..i just don’t have the juice to do this right now..i am 100% positive u know what i’m talking about…”

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LOL. I swear. And no, I have no idea what you are talking about? Really.”

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its kind of like the trolls that come on here that say nasty remarks about sisters defaming their characters trying to get a rise out of them and speaking in a positive light about women of other races…they do it with a motive…

@Sydney, sxyQB

“What you just described is what I fear we will see more of because the two-parent household is becoming an anachronism in our community, and this will affect generations to come in a myriad of ways, including male-female relationships.

And I know some sisters who are accepting anything from men and conducting themselves poorly are allowing men to believe that all of us are the same. I’ve heard stories from brothers about the lengths that sisters will go to just to say they have a man. We have to show more self-respect and demand more for ourselves.”

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Preach! This also feeds back to the original theme of this thread. Respecting ourselves and our bodies is paramount to preventing diseases, and strengthening our communities.

@Man

The “we” in my statement refers to black women.

@IlluminateTruth

“I was just wondering if you think Black men are less fitted for a monogomous relationship then their Caucasian counterparts.”

Yes, I think that’s a thought that some sisters have, and not just in regards to relationships, but to the art of courtship, in general.

I think there’s needs to be more honest, give-and-take conversations between brothers and sisters about what they want in relationships. There’s a lot of misunderstanding and hard feelings on both sides, I believe.

that 8) is supposed to just be 8 and the close parentheses

@Lacombe Redbone

It depends on how old he is. How much is the little boy playing with dolls, like how many times a week?When my brother and I were younger, he played with my dolls when he was around the age of four, but my father put a stop to that immediately.

@ Lacombe,

“Ok, i do have a question…..Is it ok to let little boys play with dolls?”

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Hell NO! I have a son…no playing with dolls! NO! Go get a toy car. I dont play that mess. Again, i think it starts out young. i just dont tolerate it. I’m sorry! And i have everyone in my family trained…dont give him a doll! Dont buy him a doll, not even a boy doll. He has NO dolls. I buy him cars, books, even play guns(which i dont really like those either but he’s grown attached to them and now i’m stuck with it) But he KNOWS that guns are bad. Still though, i’m torn cause now he’s talking about the joining the army when he gets older…and thats a WHOLE different horse of another color…**sigh**

@ Jaxon: That’s why I love kids.

I think it may slowly be getting better. Maybe. I don’t know. What do ya’ll think?

I’m going to lunch… cutie please don’t murder Man while I am gone.

Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD) Bush is out…what are we gonna do! Damn!(Check me out!)

Hey Redd, Hey Pro…i’m so busy getting upset about this ish i forgot to speak…how are the fellas?

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Im good today, just trying to get in the convo..lol

Lacombe Redbone (…Creole’s Need Luv Too! )(Check me out!)

@Lacombe Redbone

Yesterday, you said something about two people asking questions. Start some right now.

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Ok, i do have a question…..Is it ok to let little boys play with dolls?

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Hell no!

I have to disagree with the white man being more faithful than black men….they are very quick to pick up a hooker off the road and visit brothels as a hobby and forget about dominatrixes they love them…men just love sex a lot and society has a conscious understanding that they need more than one woman….but all men do not cheat and no race cheats more than the other…in my opinion

@SYDNEY

“The “we” in my statement refers to black women.”

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Oh. And the “pedastal” that “black women” should be placed on. It is exclusive to the “black woman?”

@cutie pie,

“I’m gonna go down there with aunt viv and her guitar and we’re gonna sing kumbaya and hand out sunflowers and sage”

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I’ll rent one of those ol’ school VW buses from Hertz for the roadtrip

yea i read up about monroe the other day..i never heard of the town and I hate not knowing things lol and I see there is still some sort of division down there..there are parts of towns in LA that black people can’t go to without the risk of getting lynched! but this is like a lot of towns down south..so sad new millenium and the past is still the present…

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You’re thinking of Jena… LOL, well that’s a half-hearted LOL…

Monroe is 65% black, and we all work together but there is definitely a track through the middle of town if you know what I mean. I think it’s stupid and I think 90% of the people who live here are stupid… anyway…

Ok, I’m out for real… Be back on in a few

@ Kesha and Oshie

I got another one..I worked at Wal Mart.. I was at the customer service desk and a white woman walked in w/ a black barbie she wanted to exchange for a white one..her daughter had gotten it as a bday present… My dsughter has both white and black barbies and baby dolls…does Dora count as a spanish doll?

“I’m going to lunch… cutie please don’t murder Man while I am gone.”

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i’m about to head out to lunch too!! can’t wait i’m hungry

BRB PEEPS!

BY THE WAY..HEY EARTHSIGN!! SORRY I GOT SO CAUGHT UP I FORGOT TO SPEAK!

My husband will not let me buy one of those Diego dolls for my son and i thought it was wrong. It made me sad cause i really like Diego!

@CUTIE PIE

“its kind of like the trolls that come on here that say nasty remarks about sisters defaming their characters trying to get a rise out of them and speaking in a positive light about women of other races…they do it with a motive”

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Yeah, they do have a “motive.” I can assure you everyone sees through them and pays them no attention.

@Aunt Viv

“Preach! This also feeds back to the original theme of this thread. Respecting ourselves and our bodies is paramount to preventing diseases, and strengthening our communities.”

I know we have a lot of light-hearted conversations on sex on here, but, truthfully, honestly, sexual activity is too often the core of a number of interactions between men and women. “Hook-ups” have become a replacement for courtship, the number of sexual partners that some brothers, and sisters, amass in even a year can be astounding. It is amazing to me, for example, that even in this era of HIV/AIDS, that there are still those who refuse to protect themselves and view sexual intercourse as just something to do.

And, sisters, we don’t have to have sex to get/keep a man. If he doesn’t want to wait, he’s not the one for you.

@ redd

and I said hi and u didn’t say anything back **sticking out tongue**

@ Jax,

See what i mean! Damn shame. Yes, Dora is Spanish.

G.I Joes

Transformers

Superman

Batman

Spider-Man

The Hulk

Yes, these are all okay.

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@ Day

Those are not dolls. They are POSEABLE ACTION FIGURES lol

@Redd Tony

I think women get most of their self esteem confidence from their fathers or male figures in the their life..If she lacks a father or positive male role model in their life then there is often a lack of self esteem and confidence in my opinion…Thats how I want my boo boo to grow up with self-esteem and confidence and she is going to always know that I am here for her..I just hope she can find a positive black man when she gets older

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Very True. It does start at home, and fathers do play an important role in shaping the lives of their daughters and sons. If the father isn’t present, maybe an uncle or brother in law could be the father figure for some little girls. The presence of a positive male could also show her how a women should be treated by pointing out pessimistic and optimistic qualities in men.

@ aunt viv

Yayyyy!! road trip!!..i’ll bring my vegan snacks i promise you’ll love em’

@ lacombe,

I like Diego to but honestly i’m with your husband on that one. I dont buy Diego either. SOrry! He’s my son…nope no Diego for him.

@Man

“Oh. And the “pedastal” that “black women” should be placed on. It is exclusive to the “black woman?”

Well, I think some sisters believe that women of other races are already put on a pedestal, and, yes, we should be on it, too.

You want to know why so many sisters are overflowing with adulation for Obama? Because he walks the walk — Michelle is on his pedestal. His family is the center of his world.

So, To The Fellas….

Little boys playing with “dolls” is a sign of femininity?

LOL @ Lacombe Redbone about the Diego dolls.

Isn’t that from Dora the Explorer?

@ syd

“And, sisters, we don’t have to have sex to get/keep a man. If he doesn’t want to wait, he’s not the one for you.”

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for real!!

this reminds me of janets song “lets wait a while”..too bad she didn’t take her own advice… BRB going to lunch!!

cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*(Check me out!)

@ redd

and I said hi and u didn’t say anything back **sticking out tongue**

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Hey CP you know I cant forget about you…Did you have a good time on ur B-Day?

@SYDNEY

“Well, I think some sisters believe that women of other races are already put on a pedestal, and, yes, we should be on it, too.

You want to know why so many sisters are overflowing with adulation for Obama? Because he walks the walk — Michelle is on his pedestal. His family is the center of his world.”

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Do you think that “belief” that other women are put on “pedastals” is true?

@Tina… yeah he’s her cousin!

Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)(Check me out!)

@ Lacombe Redbone (…Creole’s Need Luv Too! )

(Check me out!)

So, To The Fellas….

Little boys playing with “dolls” is a sign of femininity?

It is if it’s “Bratz” or “Barbie”.

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Pretty much…Only time its not feminine is when the kid is simulating Ken hitting Barbie from the back…lol

@ cutie pie,

“Yayyyy!! road trip!!..i’ll bring my vegan snacks i promise you’ll love em’”

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I know I will-I was vegan for 6 years, till I fell off the wagon

@LACOMBE REDBONE

“So, To The Fellas….

Little boys playing with “dolls” is a sign of femininity?”

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No, I don’t think so. If you are teaching him responsiblity and giving him an education he will be just fine.

Regardless of the toys he plays with. Chances are he won’t even be playing with them in a few months.

@ redd

“Hey CP you know I cant forget about you…Did you have a good time on ur B-Day?”

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whew!! did I?? got a tad bit crazy BRB

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and daywalker….ur silly

@Man

Do you think that “belief” that other women are put on “pedastals” is true?

Among some brothers, DEFINITELY.

Its crazy I would go out with women and not mention or even touch them sexually, and after a while it turns them on even more to want to have sex..why are yall like that?

Note to fellas, if you are trying to get the Cochie (CP ) Dont mention sex at all…lol

@ Redd,

“Its crazy I would go out with women and not mention or even touch them sexually, and after a while it turns them on even more to want to have sex..why are yall like that?”

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I dont think i’m like that. In fact, if you’re not touching me or talking about it then it makes me think you dont find me attractive and in turn i dont find you attractive. Thats just me though…now if i KNOW you find me attractive cause we’ve done it before and this time we’re on a date and you’re not talking about it…then THAT would turn me on! Why? I’m not sure. Maybe because then we get to play the role of the hunter and you’re my prey. I like to be the one to do the initiating sometimes…not all the time though

@Cutie Pie

this reminds me of janets song “lets wait a while”..too bad she didn’t take her own advice

Janet needs to stop playing the “sex siren” role, IMHO. After Nipplegate, that should have been a wrap. We all have to grow up and change eventually. . .

@SYDNEY

“Among some brothers, DEFINITELY”

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Ok. So ALL black women should be place on pedastals becuase SOME brothers place women of other races on pedastals?

Shouldn’t the brothas that place women on pedastals have to put the sistas up there too?

What about the brothas that don’t put women on “pedastals?”

Don’t you hate it when your “Side chick”

starts acting like your “Main chick?”

See, ladies, Exhibit A: Bad Behavior

No mas!

@tony….well hello you sure are handsome!!!

Didn’t Janet and Jermaine break their relationship off?

YO -

What it do ya’ll????

hey cheekie~!!!

LMAO @ Oh Lawdy’s gravie – I still cant stop laughin at that!!!!

Well family, it was nice chatting with you, but lunch beckons…BRB!

@Man

Shouldn’t the brothas that place women on pedastals have to put the sistas up there too? (In one word: Yes)

What about the brothas that don’t put women on “pedastals?”

(This goes back to my earlier statement about men of my generation and younger not having the same ideals as my father and other men of the older generation. I grew up in the traditional household with the man at the helm, and, yes, the woman should be placed on a pedestal and protected.)

@ ladies,

Dont you hate it when men start talking about all their women (i.e. side chicks, main chicks, jump offs)…ugh…rolling eyes at Daywalker!

You’re the prime example of what i was referring to earlier…that “playa” mentality. I used to like you too. Dont make me turn on you real quick, lol! I’m just joking…well not really but you catch my drift…you aint MY man so PERSONALLY i dont care

Hey Tina! Did they break up?

What it do Sweet Cheeks…

@ Day

You are crazy..but I am w/ Kesha…it only works on me IF we have already done the do

Topic still interacial dating?

I’m here to tell the truth. Ladies and Gentleman we are living in the last days. There a diseases out there that a condom can not protect you from. You should not have sexual relations with some one who has not provided you with a clean bill of health. Yes that means you should not sleep with someone on the first night you meet them. A Dr. Appt may take a couple of days, the test results about 5-10 more days. So hold off for that clean result. It is a matter of life or death. If by chance the person tells you they don’t have health benefits, well that’s an automatic disqualification.

This yo girl keeping it real…

I’m glad that have this service. It still doesn’t prevent the person that infected others from being cursed out and beat up. LOL!

SYDNEY

“Well, I think some sisters believe that women of other races are already put on a pedestal, and, yes, we should be on it, too.

You want to know why so many sisters are overflowing with adulation for Obama? Because he walks the walk — Michelle is on his pedestal. His family is the center of his world.”

Are you sure about that? – To my knowledge, this country has never elected a bachelor to the Whitehouse.

Their PDA’s could be nothing more than photo-ops for the the media. They could be in a loveless marriage of convenience, “ALA” the Clintons.

I’m glad they have this service. It still doesn’t prevent the person that infected others from being cursed out and beat up. LOL!

I’m glad they have this service. It still doesn’t prevent the person that infected others from being cursed out and beat up. LOL!

Hey Jaxon ~ Girl im ready for lunch!!!!!! my tummy is rumblin!!!!

@ DaPro ~ Hey boo!!! Enjoy your bday???

:8:

Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)(Check me out!)

@Redd Tony aka Earth Sign “Nothing’s more precious than the rebirth of love”

(Check me out!)

Its crazy I would go out with women and not mention or even touch them sexually, and after a while it turns them on even more to want to have sex..why are yall like that?

Note to fellas, if you are trying to get the Cochie (CP ) Dont mention sex at all…lol

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What works the best is when you start kissing and rubbing her back, and start getting all into it….and just stop and say “Whoa, we better quit.”

wait about 15-20 min

Then wash rinse and repeat!

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LOl…yeah is used to do that…women like to be teased a bit

@IlluminateTruth

I absolutely agree with you — and, you’re right, the whole I-want-it-now mentality extends beyond male/female relationships. I think some of us have a sense of immediacy with different aspects of our lives — we want a man now, so we do whatever it takes to get one without fully examining whether he’s actually a healthy partner, and vice versa. And sex only clouds the issue — Emotional intimacy is key for healthy relationships. If you just want to have sex, fine, but that’s not the way to establishing a real connection, particularly with someone you haven’t established an emotional/mental connection with, IMHO.

And I think you have to be healthy personally and to love yourself before you can establish a healthy, loving connection with another person.

OH LAWDY!!!!(Check me out!)

@tony….well hello you sure are handsome!!!

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Well Thank You…I thought my gravie had changed

So This is where everyone is hiding, LOL. Good day My Dears, and My Don’s !!!!

@Sweetz

My bday was cool beautiful, it could always be better (wink)

How was your evening? How did that date go awhile back?

WOW @ OH LAWDY”S gravie. You r sooooo Crazy

What the hell Super Head Nasty ass up to now, But I still love her tho, lol

@SYDNEY

“Shouldn’t the brothas that place women on pedastals have to put the sistas up there too? (In one word: Yes)

What about the brothas that don’t put women on “pedastals?”

(This goes back to my earlier statement about men of my generation and younger not having the same ideals as my father and other men of the older generation. I grew up in the traditional household with the man at the helm, and, yes, the woman should be placed on a pedestal and protected.)”

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At the first one… ok.

At the second one IOONO. It’s not the theory that I disagree with, it’s the logic. I think the very argument that you use could be used against BW.

Traditionally the BW has put the BM on a “pedastal” as well. A “pedastal” in the sense that they were “respected” and “honored.”

Do you think BW continue to place the BM on a “pedastal?”

@ Dapro

Happy Belated Birthday!!! I 4got to give u your Lap Dance, LOL

Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD) Bush is out…what are we gonna do! Damn!(Check me out!)

@ Redd,

“Its crazy I would go out with women and not mention or even touch them sexually, and after a while it turns them on even more to want to have sex..why are yall like that?”

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I dont think i’m like that. In fact, if you’re not touching me or talking about it then it makes me think you dont find me attractive and in turn i dont find you attractive. Thats just me though…now if i KNOW you find me attractive cause we’ve done it before and this time we’re on a date and you’re not talking about it…then THAT would turn me on! Why? I’m not sure. Maybe because then we get to play the role of the hunter and you’re my prey. I like to be the one to do the initiating sometimes…not all the time though

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I think you would be that way with me (snickers~)

Hey Sweet Cheeks and BrookLyn! (waving)

@ Oh Lawdy

Is that Oshie in your Gravie. LMAO

@ Daywalker,

Good, although i figured you were…i know how you are, lol! Glad to know its just a front and deep down inside you DO value the black woman and you’re not a cheater?? Or did i go to far with that last one…are you or aren’t you?

I think i know how the rest of the men on here stand:

1.)Redd- completely committed, dont cheat

2.)Man- he’s pretty much committed too, if he’s in a relationship. If he’s not, he tends to jump from P to P

3.)Pro-he doesn’t cheat either and he values his significant other as a counterpart

4.)Seen-is a male “gardening tool”, take it or leave it but hey at least he’s an honest one, lol!

Brook Lynn Choclate Gyrl (I bust them Windows out his Car!!!) Loving Jazmine Sullivan(Check me out!)

So This is where everyone is hiding, LOL. Good day My Dears, and My Don’s !!!!

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Hey Brook Lynn!

Hey Marquis, after reading articles about how Barack and Michelle met, how he pursued her, etc., yes, I’m convinced their love is real, and I don’t say that lightly because I do think many politicians marry for convenience or are in loveless marriages, a la John and Cindy McCain and Bill and Hillary Clinton.

And Barack is a politician, but Michelle isn’t, and when she talks about her husband, you can tell how much she adores and respects him.

((About to slap Brook for “attempting to give my man a lap dance))

Just kiddin ma – We can share!!!

Hey Lacombe ~ That booty feelin any better ma???

@ Sweets, Heeyyyy!! whats going on up in here. I am still laughing at Oh Lawdy crazy arse Gravie. My co workers is having a field day with it. LOL

P.s: I love Jaz Sullivan too, didnt have to go to jail this weekend so I’m good. LOL

@ Sweet Cheeks

Yea me too..I starved!

@ Brook

Hey mami!!

Brook said: @ Oh Lawdy

Is that Oshie in your Gravie. LMAO

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@IlluminateTruth

Very well said. Most of the time people are infatuated with the outer appearance, that some negate the pessimistic characteristics that were very recognizable from the beginning. I believe this is why certain relationships fail because it stemmed from just a sex. People lose track of what’s really important many of times.

@Syndey

I read something about their break up a couple of days ago. Who knows with celebrities these days. Janet may be with Nelly next week, and Jermaine could be with someone else.

Sweet Cheeks…

Oh yeah! Aloe vera is a miracle worker!

Hey Ms. Jaxson aka MRS. SEEN26 LOL, how r u pretty lady

Hey@ Fam

@ Brook ~ I have no idea whats goin on in here… I just came in myself.. IT kinda looks like that bish Courtney Love in Oh Lawdy’s gravie!!! Thats hilarious!!!

@ Redd,

Yeah, you think so huh? Would i be liquored up or sober? OR would this be because of your charming personality? (no sarcasm either)

Hey Brooklyn!

Hey Sweetz!

@TINA

“I read something about their break up a couple of days ago. Who knows with celebrities these days. Janet may be with Nelly next week, and Jermaine could be with someone else.”

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Let this be a warning to Nelly. If he breaks my boo Ashanti’s heart to go to Janet Jackson… I will hurt him.

Yes, I love Ashanti that much. To force a another guy to stay with her…. as long as I can get some “Good Good” from her on the side.

Hi Man!!!!

Hi Daywalker!!!

Hi Kesha!!!!

Hi Auntie VIV!!!!

@ Lacombe ~ I know thats right!!! Aloe & Robitussin can heal anything!!!!

@IlluminateTruth

“As far as your comment about Sistas being put up on a pedestal. Of course they should be…without question. I was brought up in a household with a father that demanded it. Women in the family were to be provided for, protected and NEVER disrespected. The only time pops hit me with closed fist was when I twisted my mouth to say something disrespectful to my mother (I think my chest still bares the indentation). Lesson learned. A woman should always be treated like the queen that she is (she’s the closest thing to God walking the earth, but that’s another conversation for another thread) and in turn she should treat her man like a king. It goes both ways.”

*putting on apron and pouring wine for IlluminateTruth while I cook dinner for him, turn on ESPN, and hire a masseuse for him*

Thank you, brother, thank you! You were raised well. No argument from me.

@ Kesha ~

Hey boo!!!! How is lil man doin???? & what happen to Reggie???

Ladies ~

Anybody do waxing down below??

Has anyone checked out the other thread about Will Smith being gay?

@ Lacombe ~ I know thats right!!! Aloe & Robitussin can heal anything!!!!

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LOL! Hell yeah chick! You know it!

Sydney

The “WOOING” stage of their relationship was years ago. People change, and when you factor in that they (the Obama’s) are in the public eye, you have to consider that most of “THE SOUNDBITES” should be taken with a grain of salt.

I just think its’ foolish to vicariously infer one(s) own pre-conceived romantic fancies in regards to public figures…In the words of Bob Dylan: “YOU SHOULD NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE GET YOUR KICKS FOR YOU”

:arrow: @ Ewwwww Courtney Love!!!!!!

@ Tina…… WHAT!!!!!!!!!

@ Sydney,

Damn! I was just gonna pour Illuminate Truth some wine and do all that SAME stuff…A day late and a dollar short, lol!

@ Daywalker,

Understood. You and Man are pretty much alike in that aspect.

DAMMIT MAN!!!!

@Man

Do you think BW continue to place the BM on a “pedastal?”

Yes, I do think that black men should be honored and respected, and I do believe that many sisters love brothers, but there’s also an amount of negativity out there as well. I think there are individuals on both sides who feel that there should be more understanding and better treatment.

And I would add that I don’t know many self-respecting brothers who are going to stay with women who mistreat them. I believe we should all stick to the adage of treating others as you wish to be treated, and that includes words, as well as actions.

@What’s up Brook Lynn aka Sexual Chocolate

Lap dance you say…..*pulls out wad of singles*

Oshie usually handles the dances but she’s on strike

@Sweetz

Keep your standards high sweetheart. Make the men you date elevate themselves to your standards, you deserve that

@Man, I just don’t care

LOL. I assume you just like the way she looks. Or do you like her look and singing too. She is very pretty. How are you this afternoon?

@ Sweetz,

Girl that fool done tore cartilage in his left knee my poor baby

LOL @ Kesha

Girl, we can take turns spoiling him because he “gets” it. He really does, and I greatly appreciate that.

@Marquis de Sade

I understand what you’re saying, and I’m not trying to say that Barack and Michelle are some cartoonish “perfect” couple. But when there is a dearth of positive images of black love, seeing the two of them together on the national stage does have an impact.

@ DaPro ~ I got cha papa!!! I already feel none of them are “worthy” enough..

((taking wad of singles from DaPro – I need it for lunch;) ))

Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD) Bush is out…what are we gonna do! Damn!(Check me out!)

@ Redd,

Yeah, you think so huh? Would i be liquored up or sober? OR would this be because of your charming personality? (no sarcasm either)

Hey Brooklyn!

Hey Sweetz!

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Its always about the personality with me…then everything else about me is just the icing on the cake

@Daywalker

They both probably have for years. If I’m in a committed relationship, I don’t see myself doing what they are doing. You remember them talking about their open relationship? I’m starting to think that the rumor about Will Smith and Duane Martin is true.

@Lacombe Redbone

Yes, girl, he hired some prostitute. This could be true too. Will has tooooo many rumors circulating about him.

@ Brook ~ I been a little scared to do it, but my homegirl just sold me on it!!!! Shaving is a bit too much!!! But now that you mention lazer, thats a GREAT IDEA!!! Do you do the brazilian wax or what???

@ Kesha ~ You mean My Poor Baby???? Awwwww!!!!!! LOL

@Daywalker

“Most definitely. I will treat a female like a queen, but she has to reaize that I am King, and it’s good to be the King! (Thankya verymuch!!!)”

Just so you realize that treating a female like a “queen” entails her as being your main, and only, woman. Or else she will send your mistress, aka the “side chick”, to the gallows. . .

@ Tina

I refuse to entertain that ….

@ Whoever asked about waxing

No I’m scurred lol I have been seriously considering it but you have to let it grow out for SIX WEEKS I dont think I could do that

@ Brook

I may need your help…

@ Jaxon ~ Really??? 6 weeks??? I def. cant do that!!! I hate it after its just been a couple days!!!

Im scared too, but im really considering it now!!!

@TINA

“LOL. I assume you just like the way she looks. Or do you like her look and singing too. She is very pretty. How are you this afternoon?”

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I don’t “like” anything about Ashanti. I “LOVE” EVERYTHING about Ashanti. She has a beautiful voice and she is VERY talented. She also writes songs.

She could get my whole paycheck and my only regret would not being able to give her more.

MsJaxon

You must be fan. I am too.

WILL SMITH IS NOT GAY

@ Tina

I’m beyond fan…we’re involved… lol

@ NU NU

And you know this…

@ Sweet Cheeks

That’s what the white ladies at my job told me…they get them done all the time…I dont want a full brazillian but I have been thinking about it for a while…

The one lady said just start w/ a bikini wax…that way you can still where your panties and work my way up to the full waxing…but if it hurts I’ll never go back so I figure I better go big or go home!!

@Man, I just don’t care

LOL. I remember what you said about your co-worker coming to your desk yesterday. I wonder what would happen to you at an Ashanti concert. I think she wrote that Fat Joe song, What’s Luv, I’m not sure. I did like that one in particular.

:::::::::::SNATCHING SWEETS FAMILY DOLLAR BRA…GIMME DAT DAM MONEY HEFFA….DATS MINE!!!

@DAYWALKER…HEY DADDY, SUCKIE SUCKIE 5.00$$$

Here’s a joke for ya’ll:

ALL THE WOMEN IN THE U.S. ARE SHAVING THEIR COOCHIES IN SUPPORT OF THE ELECTION. THEIR MESSAGE TO THE WORLD: READ OUR LIPS, NO MORE BUSH!!!!!

IM BACK IN THE HZZOUSSEE!!!

HEY BROOK!!!!

HEY SWEETS!!

YA’LL CARRYING ON!! LMAO. I’M SEING BRA SNATCHING, BUSHY/SHAVED VAJAYJAY CONVO’S GOING ON!! WHAT DID YOU NUTS HAVE FOR LUNCH AROUND HERE? LOL

@IlluminateTruth

“If a woman is already mentally beat down, there is little I can do to reverse the madness. Its hard to hold someone on a pedestal when deep down inside they don’t feel they are deserving of it and keep jumping off.”

I agree that self-esteem is an issue for some sisters, and for women, in general (because there are plenty of women of other races who have emotional issues and have the therapy bills to prove it). I think some sisters have carried emotional baggage from bad relationships, experiences that they need to remove — you can’t carry past ghosts into new relationships and expect them to succeed.

On the flip side, I’ve also met men who have been in bad relationships, had women cheat on them, etc. and are emotionally scarred and have an existing chip on their shoulder. So I think this is a two-way issue. Emotional health is an issue for women, and men. And, as you have found, you can’t fix another damaged person, and a damaged person can damage you (I found this out personally).

@MsJaxon

LOL. Excuse me. How did you like Hancock?

@Lacombe Redbone

You’re a fan too?

@Daywalker

I don’t cheat either when I’m committed. Do you mean doing what she should be doing is giving it up? Yeah, sometimes it is hard when others are making it very aware that they are attracted to you.

@ Jaxon ~ I heard it hurts, but not that bad!!! But im still a little nervous!!!!!

@ Sweetz,

LOL! You love him too? Thats my boo…i dont care what nobody says…he’s a BEAST on the field. i be yellin…GO REGGIE, GO BABY, RUN REGGIE, LOL! People in the stands be lookin at me like I’m crazy! AND I DONT CARE

Thank God I’m married!

@Jaxon

Get a full brazillian! Trust me, you will never let your sh*t grow back again! And the oral sex….WHEW!! ITS WAAAAY MORE INTENSE! Just had to but in on that one!

@OH LAWDY

“Sorry OhLawdy!!!(Hey, that kida rhymed) I don’t pay to get down like that. Now I will pay for a lapdance, though! *Hands OhLwady a 20* Now go hook Man, I just don’t care up!”

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Said “lap dance” isn’t a good idea. Read my comments at 1:06pm.

@ Oh Lawdy ~ Give me back my bra bish!!!! Dang, did you really have to pop the strap!!! Sheesh…

Hey SxyQ!!!

@2CUTE4U

“Thank God I’m married!”

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No….. too bad ur married. Too bad….

SWEET CHEEKS((I could fall back 7 years & ya’ll hoes still couldnt catch me))(Check me out!)

@ Jaxon ~ I heard it hurts, but not that bad!!! But im still a little nervous!!!!!

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It hurts like hell the first time! If you go to a nice upscale spa to have it done, they offer wine and coctails…but once you go consistently, you won’t even feel it.

dont worry man i can handle that!!!!

@Man, I just don’t care

Damn, it sounds like you may want to stay away from an Ashanti concert. LOL. Hey, that’s one of the great qualities in a man because some can’t stay hard for long at all.

Hey 2cute!

LOL @ MAN!!! I’m DYING OVER HERE!!!!!!!!!!!

@DAYWALKER

“I don’t need anything to get mine up, I need something to get it down, I get so rocked up, my sh*t can bust bricks!!!”

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Lol. yeah, me too. Occasionally at the worst times. Seemingly all the time at work LOL.

Too bad you’re married. SMH at Man, I just don’t care

A. Keys up there, you would just say she has bad acne and needs proactive, and overlook the fact that she has admitted to being a “damn good” home wrecker as she put it

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This BETTER not be true…

@ 2cute

Gotta leave a little…completely hairless is for little girls

@Sweet

Well the one girl that was honest said flat out it hurts but not in the places where you’d think and it’s not bad for a long time… Once I get some extra cash..I’m gonna do it… but like I said the 6 week growth process YIKES

@TINA

“Damn, it sounds like you may want to stay away from an Ashanti concert. LOL. Hey, that’s one of the great qualities in a man because some can’t stay hard for long at all.”

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Yeah, I can see the female coworkers smiling and snickering behind my back. They always come to say hello.

The male coworkers have begrudging respect mixed with envy.

*Reaches for Sweetz bra and pulls out a wad of twenties while taking singles*

That’s for you to play with

@Brook Lynn

Come get your money ma, I know times is hard

@Oh Lawdy

Lawdy you got big faces hanging out your thong sweetheart, break a 50 for me

@2CUTE4U

“Thank God I’m married!”

No….. too bad ur married. Too bad….

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LOL! Good afternoon Man!

@Sydney

How old are you? You said men of my generation in your previous post.

No doubt! I’ve paid for quite a few “Brazillians” in the past year! (Note to self: Find out mif Brazillian waxes are Tax deductable…)

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WOuld you like to finance one more before the year is out???

Waving at 2Cute!

Tina…

I absolutely love Will…I breathe Will…I would leave my husband and kids for Will!!!!!!!!!

@KESHA

“This BETTER not be true…”

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She did say that. She was confronted during the whole Swiss Beatz fiasco.

I think she only responded that way out of frustration to an insulting question insinuating that she was/is a homewrecker.

Hey Kesh!

Whats up Brook Lynn!!

@Jaxon

No little girls over this waaaaayy!! Yeah I feel ya, get what makes you feel comfy.

@Tina

I’m in Generation X. I’m referring to men in their 30s and 20s.

@LACOMBE REDBONE

“Tina…

I absolutely love Will…I breathe Will…I would leave my husband and kids for Will!!!!!!!!!”

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Okay Tameeka Foster Raymond. We understand you admire Will.

LOL.

Lacombe Redbone (…Creole’s Need Luv Too! )

Hey girlie!!! Your gravie is toooo cute! I always want to put one up of me and my twins but with this site, I have to think twice! I love that pic of ya’ll!

OKAY SO WHAT AM I MISSING? I’M OVER HERE CHILLY THAN A MUG. WRAPPED UP IN A BLANKET!! LMAO

I’m back family!

Hi Brook Lynn, Sweet Cheeks, welcome!

I like the Brazilian wax except for a landing strip, so I don’t feel like I’m pre-pubescent again. But warning to anyone who hasn’t gotten one, it hurts to do, but the result is so pretty.

Heeeeyyyy Miss Sxy Q! Whats up today girl? How’s it goin’?

@LACOMBE

Your son is all “cheezed” up in that pic. Like he couldn’t be happier to be taking a pic with you.

oooo 2cute do it!! luv the pic..u just sellin that leo steez

@SYD

YES THAT WOULD BE ME. LOL. HOWEVER I WOULD DATE A MAN IN THEIR 40′S IF HE LOOKED LIKE THAT FINE ARSE BLAIR UNDERWOOD..WHEWWWW!!

Damn you, Man! LMAO

@Lacombe Redbone

LOL. I feel the same way about Boris. Girl, he is just too fine, and tall. I just read your comment on the Will thread BTW. I could tell that you are definitely a huge fan.

Aunt Viv(Check me out!)

I’m back family!

Hi Brook Lynn, Sweet Cheeks, welcome!

I like the Brazilian wax except for a landing strip, so I don’t feel like I’m pre-pubescent again. But warning to anyone who hasn’t gotten one, it hurts to do, but the result is so pretty.

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Hey Auntie! I had the “landing srip” once and my husband liked it. So I kept it for a while. My hair “down there” is so light it just blends in with the rest of my “parts” so I guess it doesn’t matter.

@AUNTIE

I’VE THOUGHT ABOUT GETTING MINE WAXED. BUT IM ABSOLUTELY NOT UP FOR ANY KIND OF DISCOMFORT/PAIN NEAR MY VAJAYJAY!! WE (me and the precious vajayjay) TAKE THAT KIND OF STUFF CLOSE TO HEART!!!

@2CUTE

NOTHING MUCH MOMMA. I JUST WENT AND HAD LUNCH WITH THE BOYFRIEND. I’M ON A FULL STOMACH, AND READY TO ROLL!! LOL

IN REGARDS TO BRAZILAIN WAXES

Visuals are necessary before and after shots preferrably

*we now continue to our regularly scheduled programming*

@2cute

Good afternoon pretty lady

@ aunt viv

“I’m back family!

Hi Brook Lynn, Sweet Cheeks, welcome!

I like the Brazilian wax except for a landing strip, so I don’t feel like I’m pre-pubescent again. But warning to anyone who hasn’t gotten one, it hurts to do, but the result is so pretty.”

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I got a bikini wax on my b-day at the spa..my god I wanted to order out a hit on the asian lady!! it hurt like nothing i’ve ever felt before..and she look like she got a lot of pleasure out of causing me pain….

@ Day

Always a catch…lol

Where is Z today?

@LACOMBE

Your son is all “cheezed” up in that pic. Like he couldn’t be happier to be taking a pic with you.

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Yeah, he’s a character!!! He thinks he’s Bumble Bee from the transformers!!….for real!

…Thanks 2cute!

Hey Fam first! Like the glasses!

Sup Fam!!

…BRB

If Kobe Bryant married Ashanti I would happily be their slave. (no homo)

Yeah, he’s a character!!! He thinks he’s Bumble Bee from the transformers!!….for real!

…Thanks 2cute!

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LOL! My son Jayson thinks he’s spider man! Like for real! How old is your son?

HEY FAMILY FIRST!

YOU LOOK LIKE A FANTASY OF MINE IN THOSE GLASSES!

DO YOU DELIVER PIZZAS OR HAVE A COP UNIFORM IN YOUR CLOSET??? LOL

hey fam how was the b-day?

oh here we go….

@ DAY

Catch, Hook point, Quid Pro Quo…all the same…

@Syndey

Damn, you still not telling me anything. LOL. I understand what you mean.

sxyq, i am one of your so called dummies but u said u got love for me well i got love for u too dummy or not i got love for u back.

@ man

“If Kobe Bryant married Ashanti I would happily be their slave. (no homo)”

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wow! u really are a stan!! too bad I detest Kobe..Ashanti is ok in my book

@DAYWALKER

“Why don’t you just “club” ol’ boy over the head and get at Ashanti?”

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Dude, if I ever got that close to Shanti (that’s what I call her) and Smelly (that’s what I call Nelly) I would catch a case. Seriously.

I have it all planned out. I would start with spitting…..

@SxyQ

YES THAT WOULD BE ME. LOL. HOWEVER I WOULD DATE A MAN IN THEIR 40′S IF HE LOOKED LIKE THAT FINE ARSE BLAIR UNDERWOOD..WHEWWWW!!

Heeyyyy Cutie Pie! How have you been girl?

@SxyQ

Oops, sorry! I meant to write that Blair Underwood is beyond fine, and, yes, I would certainly date a man over 40 — more mature, knows what he wants, has the game playing out of his system, etc. Heck, I would even date a man over 50 (My friend think I’m crazy, but I like older men).

I’m hungry ya’ll…BRB!

LOL @ Daywalker, sxyQB, 2cute, Brook for your VJJ comments!

@cutie pie,

If you decide to go back for the Brazilian, go to the Brazilians or if not, the Russians. I have found the process a bit easier that way…

Hi Family First!

*my friends*

I like Family First’s glasses. . .Very cool.

@Man, I just don’t care

If Ashanti has a concert in L.A., you should attend, and go to a Lakers game before you head back home.

I know a man that’s a die hard Lakers fan. He travels to Los Angeles once a year and sits court side at ball games.

and no I didn’t see ur the “sh*t I hate” list…why??

Sydney(Check me out!)

*my friends*

I like Family First’s glasses. . .Very cool.

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I do too Syd! They’re “distinctive”…different.

@CUTIE PIE

“and no I didn’t see ur the “sh*t I hate” list…why??”

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“People that hate Kobe” was like number 7. LOL.

Wait, you don’t “hate” Kobe…. you “detest” Kobe. I guess I can continue to love you from afar after all.

**don’t respond to this, allow me my fantasy**

@ aunt viv

“@cutie pie,

If you decide to go back for the Brazilian, go to the Brazilians or if not, the Russians. I have found the process a bit easier that way…”

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u know of any in the city??

@Tina

I’m sorry, girl, but after getting burned, I’m very careful about what info I post on here, lol.

@2Cute4U

I like your new gravie, too!

Yes, his frames are very distinctive — good look

@SYD

I KNOW THATS RIGHT!! LOL

@HOT SAUCE BLAH BLAH BLAH

UNLESS YOU ARE A TOTAL IDIOT, THEN WHY ARE YOU ADDRESSING MY SCREEN NAME? AND YOU CLAIM THAT YOU DONT ADDRESS ME. LOL.. SHUT UP!

@ man

“People that hate Kobe” was like number 7. LOL.

Wait, you don’t “hate” Kobe…. you “detest” Kobe. I guess I can continue to love you from afar after all.

**don’t respond to this, allow me my fantasy**”

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lol

EEEEEWWWWW! LMAO at Daywalker! “wet squirrel in a leg-lock”…Yep thats nasty! I told my girl thats why her man won’t go down, cause she’s got one helluva bush down there!

@ DAY

That’s a very advanced POV… My dude would have to offer..I’m not into asking for things I just do it…

BRB PEEPS. HANDLING SOMETHING

i’m not for taking the hair all off I think if you trim it and put a little design on it it would be cute and is durable…personally I have never had it all waxed off although I am curious I heard that when you do and you walk the friction…well never mind lol..but bikini waxes are a must…

@cutie pie,

I forgot Dyanna Day Spa on 21st Street off Park Avenue South. They’re not bad either.

@Man, I just don’t care

I see that you’re a basketball fan. Do you like college ball too? I love the Tar Heels.

@Syndey

You don’t have to apologize to me, girl. I was just teasing. LOL.

@ aunt viv

“@cutie pie,

J.Sisters on 57th street is the go-to for Brazilians. They’re very good, but expensive. You can also try Completely Bare Downtown on 5th Avenue not far from Union Square.”

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cool!! I’ll try the 5th ave one

BRB everybody….

@ aunt viv

or maybe i’ll try the one on park ave south thats right by me…

Bikini waxes hurt my pom-pom. . .:(

sup 2cute4u and sydney

thanks for the compliment on the glasses but i gotta confess they arent even prescription. my eyesight is pretty good

hey cutiepie

my birthday weekend was too much. i was either drunk or hungover for like 72 hours and the only recollection i have of most of it is from pictures that people have been showing me.

hi MsJaxon and AuntViv!

sup Daywalker

@ 2Cute……

Yeah, he’s a character!!! He thinks he’s Bumble Bee from the transformers!!….for real!

…Thanks 2cute!

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LOL! My son Jayson thinks he’s spider man! Like for real! How old is your son?

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He’s 3 but thinks he’s a man! He’s obsessed with Resputia too! I think he’s gonna be in love with big girls! lol

the level of immaturity displayed by some of the posters is down right disturbing

@TINA

“I see that you’re a basketball fan. Do you like college ball too? I love the Tar Heels.”

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You obviously haven’t been warned not to discuss sports with me on here LOL.

You are beginning to “scare” me with our similar interest.

Actually I don’t watch college sports. The only time i was into college basketball is when Allen Iverson was at Georgetown. That was the pinnacle of College basketball evidence by the ’96 NBA draft.

Anywho, even though I don’t normally watch college basketball I love the Tar Heels. It can’t be explained because I don’t like:

Jordan (because of the Kobe comparisons)

Stackhouse (because of the rift with Iverson) Rasheed (because they beat Kobe n d finals)

Jamison (just look cocky)

Vince Carter (early Kobe comparisons)

there are slew of others I don’t like…. but I love the Tar Heels. Go figure.

@CUTIE PIE

“i’m not for taking the hair all off I think if you trim it and put a little design on it it would be cute and is durable…personally I have never had it all waxed off although I am curious I heard that when you do and you walk the friction…well never mind lol..but bikini waxes are a must…”

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I hate your boyfriend.

did yall sign up for the forum yet??

lol @ man

@ fam

*high five*…me neither!! I had over 6 drinks 3 of which wasn’t mine..and I almost got arrested!..we did it big..go libra! lol..but no hangover for me..i’m a pro at it lol

@ cutiepie

havent signed up for the forum. is that to replace the comment banter?

@ sydney

im bout to go put those glasses on as soon as i get home from work

@Man, I just don’t care

I was glad when the Lakers lost to the Pistons in the finals. I love everybody that comes from North Carolina. So when the Detroit won game 5, I was very elated when Rasheed got a ring.

I was a huge Jordan fan. Jordan is from the lived in the state of North Carolina when he was growing up, he went to UNC, and he now works for the Charlotte Bobcats. Too much N.C.

I heard that Jamison and Carter met a dentist, and they both married the dentist’s daughters. Vince is divorced now. Jamison is still married. Jamison is originally from N.C. as well.

I also like to watch ESPN classic during March Madness. With all of my N.C. talk, one would think I’m from there. I’m a Jersey baby.

@ fam

“@ cutiepie

havent signed up for the forum. is that to replace the comment banter?”

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i’m sure but I don’t think it will stop lol we’re too hard headed

@ cutie pie

i do remember that everyone was just being super nice to me the whole weekend. i wish it was my birthday everyday i had so much fun

This notification may be a good idea. I know a couple of People who are HIV positive that do not disclose their status AT ALL. They are very promiscuous as well.

It is a wise choice to go to the doctor and get tested together BEFORE you have sex. If your potential partner does not want to, then you need to run. He or she may know he is infected or has been so promiscuous they don’t want to know their status.

I meant Jordan lived in the state of North Carolina

cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

(Check me out!)

@ fam

“@ cutiepie

havent signed up for the forum. is that to replace the comment banter?”

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i’m sure but I don’t think it will stop lol we’re too hard headed

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i dont like change

Ok I signed up for the forum! Where’s my monies!!!?

@Family First

I have glasses, too, but not as cool as yours. I wear contacts during the day.

Don’t glasses give you a sense of gravitas? Like you’re more professorial, etc.?

@ Man,

Biggest Laker Fan over here. Biggest Piston hater, spurs hater, suns hater, new celtics hater, Kings hater. but everyone hates the lakers and i like that fact

@ fam

“cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

(Check me out!)

@ fam

“@ cutiepie

havent signed up for the forum. is that to replace the comment banter?”

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i’m sure but I don’t think it will stop lol we’re too hard headed

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i dont like change”

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lol

@TINA

“I was glad when the Lakers lost to the Pistons in the finals. I love everybody that comes from North Carolina. So when the Detroit won game 5, I was very elated when Rasheed got a ring.

I was a huge Jordan fan. Jordan is from the lived in the state of North Carolina when he was growing up, he went to UNC, and he now works for the Charlotte Bobcats. Too much N.C.

I heard that Jamison and Carter met a dentist, and they both married the dentist’s daughters. Vince is divorced now. Jamison is still married. Jamison is originally from N.C. as well.

I also like to watch ESPN classic during March Madness. With all of my N.C. talk, one would think I’m from there. I’m a Jersey baby.”

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I knew you were too good to be true. See, that “loves Jordan.” Yeah, that did it. Don’t get me wrong, I totally respected MJ’s game but he is completely overrated.

WOW at the comment about Rasheed beating Kobe in the Finals. Honestly though that Laker team deserved to lose. With all of the shenanigans going on over there. They only made it that far based on Kobe’s talent alone. (ok Shaq …. contributed too).

**sigh** I will leave it at that because I will spend the entire day pointing out the many many flaws of MJ’s game.

@ oshie

“Ok I signed up for the forum! Where’s my monies!!!?”

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thats what i’m saying they better give me my sh*t..and they better not pull a “foot in the door” scam and give us a dollar each from 1g cause im gonna be pissed….

@ sydney

yeah glasses do that dont they? it’s funny, over the weekend i was drunk at the party but i decided to drive myself home and my friends were like dont do it just stay over here and i put on the glasses and said to them “im straight. let’s go” (i know that was a bad idea and i shouldnt have drove home)

K i d s A r e Q u i c k

TEACHER: Maria, go to the map and find North America.

MARIA: Here it is.

TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America?

CLASS: Maria.

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TEACHER: John, why are you doing your math multiplication on the floor?

JOHN: You told me to do it without using tables. __________________________________________

TEACHER: Glenn, how do you spell ‘crocodile?’

GLENN: K-R-O-K-O-D-I-A-L’

TEACHER: No, that’s wrong

GLENN: Maybe it is wrong, but you asked me how I spell it.

(I Love this kid) ____________________________________________

TEACHER: Donald, what is the chemical formula for water?

DONALD: H I J K L M N O.

TEACHER: What are you talking about?

DONALD: Yesterday you said it’s H to O. __________________________________

TEACHER: Winnie, name one important thing we have today that we didn’t have ten years ago.

WINNIE: Me!

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TEACHER: Glen, why do you always get so dirty?

GLEN: Well, I’m a lot closer to the ground than you are.

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TEACHER: Millie, give me a sentence starting with ‘I.’

MILLIE: I is..

> TEACHER: No, Millie….. Always say, ‘ I am.’

> MILLIE: All right…’I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.’

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TEACHER: George Washington not only chopped down his father’s cherry tree, but also admitted it. Now, Louie, do you know why his father didn’t punish him?

LOUIS: Because George still had the axe in his hand.

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TEACHER: Now, Simon, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?

SIMON: No sir, I don’t have to, my Mom is a good cook.

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TEACHER: Clyde, your composition on ‘My Dog’ is exactly the same as your brother’s. Did you copy his?

CLYDE : No, sir It’s the same dog.

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TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?

HAROLD: A teacher

OK, I know I’m wrong for posting this but I thought it was cute

I hate sports. Lets talk about something more exciting, like me and how fine I am. Ready? Go!

@ The Ladies: How much do they charge for bikini waxes round your parts?

@EVERYONE

Z said she would be in later today….

@Fam

So they let you drive home after you put on your glasses? lol

Well, I’ve always thought Clark Kent was cuter than Superman. I think it was the glasses. . .

@OSHIE

“I hate sports. Lets talk about something more exciting, like me and how fine I am. Ready? Go!”

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Yes, and you taste like Ice Cream. Yum!

@ Afiya

sometimes you gotta knock a kid in his head when he gets too smart. im just kidding

but i know when my little brother used to talk back to me or my mom that stuff didnt last long. i ended that quick

@Man

Mike is by no means overrated!

How can you be a KOBE STAN and not see the obvious attempt to pattern his image and game after HIS ARINESS?

Kobe was never leaving LA for Phoenix either, he used them as leverage against the Lakers

@ Daywalker: No tattoos.

What’s a wet squirrel?

don’t like “Wet squirrels”, but I love “Fat rabbits”

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LOL!

@ dapro

“@Man

Mike is by no means overrated!

How can you be a KOBE STAN and not see the obvious attempt to pattern his image and game after HIS ARINESS?”

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I agree…Jordan was and will always be the truth!! Kobe in my opinion will never be as great as jordan because he is too damn interested in being like jordan to polish his own skills and be good at being kobe..but what do i know i’m still waiting for the Knicks to be hot again..I just know if nate robinson calmed down his little temper they would put him out on the court more..he’s small but he can play his ass off….

sxyq blah blah back at u, i usually dont address your ignorant screen mess i did today but damn sure wont no more n u shut the fuc6 up yourself dam self.

Hey Be!

…Blade, that’s gross! lol

@Man – I see they have you talking Kobe and basketball……..

@Day Walker – that wet squirrel thing sounds nasty…eeeeww!!

hey be

@DA PRO

“Mike is by no means overrated!

How can you be a KOBE STAN and not see the obvious attempt to pattern his image and game after HIS ARINESS?

Kobe was never leaving LA for Phoenix either, he used them as leverage against the Lakers”

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YES JORDAN IS OVERRATED!!!!!! By any definition that you use the man is overrated. PERIOD. Yes, I am aware that Kobe patterned his game after Jordan. AS JORDAN ADMITTEDLY PATTERNED HIS GAME AFTER DR. J AND ELGIN BAYLOR!!!!!!!!!!!

The thing is Kobe, is more skilled. There are a handuful of players that played with both and they all agree Kobe is the more skilled player. INCLUDING PHIL JACKSON.

I respect Jordan’s game. Truly I do, but I realize he had weaknesses as well.

Now, Kobe did use Phoenix for leverage. But it was to force the Lakers to get rid of Shaq. If they hadn’t done that please believe Kobe would be in Phoenix right now!! With the new contract limits the Suns and Lakers could pay him the same amount of money.

Hmm… just like everything else in Monroe it appears bikini waxes are way overpriced. At least my rent is cheap.

@Man, I just don’t care

You’re telling me something I didn’t know about the Suns, Steve Kerr and the other staff. I’ll check that out.

@ brook

are u a lesbian or a trisexual??

@Locombe – Look at the cutie pie, I remember when my son was small – time goes by quickly

@Ms. Brook – Did you say you worked at Sin City on Sunday’s only? Me and my cousin are thinking of coming one day

@CUTIE PIE

“I agree…Jordan was and will always be the truth!! Kobe in my opinion will never be as great as jordan because he is too damn interested in being like jordan to polish his own skills and be good at being kobe..but what do i know i’m still waiting for the Knicks to be hot again..I just know if nate robinson calmed down his little temper they would put him out on the court more..he’s small but he can play his ass off….”

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I love you Cutie Pie.

@ Man,

lol at achieving true hatred for the spurs

but how do you like kobe and the suns at the same time? that seems contradictory to me.

@ Sydney

yeah they had to let me drive home. there was a girl meeting me at my house

@ Tina

i acknowledge that the pistons are good but i just cant like them. but tayshaun is one of the most underrated players in the game i’ll give you that much

Hey Be!

@ Daywalker:

Um, ok, but only because I love itemized lists. And because you are secretly in love with me

Let’s stay on topic here:

Eye color? Green

Hair color? Blonde

Nails? Fake (white tips)

Bra size? 34 D (fake)

Butt? Sitting on it (and sitting pretty)

Clothing you like to wear? None

I guess its Kobe’s attitude and demaenor that I can’t stand..he is too cocky

I’ve never heard the term “snootch” in reference to a vagina…

@Cutie Pie – Hey Birthday girl – I read that you had a wonderful time on your birthday weekend, as birthdays should be! Too bad you only get 1 a year

@ Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)

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Ummm, I’m going to need your email address.

Don’t worry, it’s not something a shot can’t cure.

Just remember to clinch your butt cheeks tight before the needle goes in. You know how, LMAO !

Man and Cutie can I come to your wedding? I promise I will do the cupid shuffle drunk at the reception.

@ oshie

are u irish?..i noticed that mostly irish people have green eyes and red hair

@Fam First, I drive better when I’m drinking…go figure *shrugs*

Osh, you got implants?

I got waxed yesterday. I have the bermuda triangle. I switched from the landing strip.

@Hey Oshie!!!

You know I owe you an apology for the other day, I am sorry if I made you feel bad. I know you are over it but it is on my heart…and I don’t want to answer to God about Oshie when my day comes..LOL!

@ Lacombe Redbone

I love Creole’s, Y’all the best

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Thanks sweetheart

@ be

“@Cutie Pie – Hey Birthday girl – I read that you had a wonderful time on your birthday weekend, as birthdays should be! Too bad you only get 1 a year”

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yea it was soooo fun..i know!! me too… but thats what makes them so special

@Family First

He is underrated. Did he win a championships when he was at Kentucky?

“Oshie’s snootch is red”!! (((singing))))

MAN

Put your affinity for Kobe to the side for a minute

MJ was a more efficient scorer (compare shooting percentages)

Had the ball in the hands less but still averages about the same in terms of assist

Played in an era where defenses were allowed to basically choke slam you without a foul being called (see late 80′s early 90′s Bad Boys and Knicks teams)

DOMINATED EVERY OPPONENT HE EVER FACED TO THE TUNE OF 6 RINGS WHERE KOBE COULDN’T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE EFFECTIVE AGAINST THE 07-08 CELTS D

I like Kobe, I use to hate the cat but I appreciate his game but when compared to MJ it’s not even close

Kobe has the tools but not craftsmanship that MJ has in his game

Off the court fu^# Mike but on the court, GOAT

@ man

“I love you Cutie Pie.”

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thats what u say now..in the next hour we’ll be arguing again..as usual

@Fam First

My baby son and my youngest grandaughter (his neice) don’t get along…he says: “She has a smart mouth like you Mom.”…that’s my gurl *snickers*

brb after lunch

Hey Be! Thanks babe!♥

@ brook

“@ Cutie pie

Lesbian: Hell to the No!

Bi-sexual: Maybe

Tri-sexual: Most definitley. I’m a Uncle Luke Girl for crying out loud, LOL”

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ur an Uncle Luke Girl!! it all makes sense now….

HEY! I’m not a firecrotch. I said BLONDE. Not RED. Grr….

OK, off topic, but I just saw the post about Larry Johnson (whom I know nothing about). He spat in a woman’s face?? See, this is one of the many reasons I despite professional athletes. . .

No.Class.Whatsover.

*despise*

Hi BE

@ oshie

“HEY! I’m not a firecrotch. I said BLONDE. Not RED. Grr….”

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no..i didn’t say u had red hair I said most people with green eyes have red hair..green eyes are said to be a mutation and usually when a person have green eyes they have freckles or red hair or both..and they are usually irish or have it in their bloodline…i loved bio class

@ Be: Don’t even sweat it, Sometimes I do talk too much…

Oshie (every single place I go, I see the same hos…)(Check me out!)

HEY! I’m not a firecrotch. I said BLONDE. Not RED. Grr….

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My bad Osh…”Oshie has a blonde snootch…”! (((singing again))))

@ cutie pie: I do have freckles but I’m not Irish… My hair is naturally dark brown. I’ve been dyeing it blonde for many moons.

@Sydey

It’s not all athletes, but Larry Johnson has some serious issues. I also heard something about him beating a woman at a club not to long ago. This beating was not the first time. He just has an attitude and behavior problem. Certain ones with millions of dollars think that they are untouchable, just like O.J. did.

@2cute4u♥♥♥

(Check me out!)

Daywalker:

I’ve never heard the term “snootch” in reference to a vagina…

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I use it all the time! I say other stuff too

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I’ll bet you do!!

@ oshie

“@ cutie pie: I do have freckles but I’m not Irish… My hair is naturally dark brown. I’ve been dyeing it blonde for many moons.”

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ooooooo ok

I’m meant Sydney. My bad about the spelling.

You guys got that Fat Rabbit song stuck in my head, ya jerks…

“@2cute4u♥♥♥

(Check me out!)

Daywalker:

I’ve never heard the term “snootch” in reference to a vagina…

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I use it all the time! I say other stuff too

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I’ll bet you do!!”

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i usually call it pretty princess or cherry spot **shrugging shoulders*…

@Tina

I read that he has a history of violence. It may not be “all” athletes, but a lot of them seem to have a lot of issues. Brainless.Classless.Misogynists.Abusive, etc. etc.

@DA PRO

AND…..

there is something called the “Shareef Abdur-Rahim factor” This occurs when a team only has ONE good player. Jordan’s best statiscal seasons was when the Bulls were really bad and Jordan had to take a lot of shots. His highest season scoring average was 37pts a game and the team finished 40-42. For Kobe it was 35pts a game and the team finished 45-37.

Your talk about “tougher” defenses is negated by the fact that teams scored WAY more points in the eighties compared to now. This is largely due to less shot attempts and less fast breaks. Jordan himself will tell you this because that was the stategy the Bulls used to win.

The fact is Kobe is a BETTER player in every facet of the game. Sorry, but it’s true.

@Sydney – Hey Lady! I heard that on the radio this morning about Larry Johnson – I always liked Grandmama but I guess you can not judge a player by their talent.

@tina – did i read that you are from Jersey??? Me too!

you got mail for that a$$ for real

@BE

What’s “Grandmama?” I’m sorry, but I know very little about athletes.

But I do like to watch gymnastics — and, figure skating, at times.

i usually call it pretty princess or cherry spot **shrugging shoulders*…

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Lol! I gotta think of a cute name for mine…

@ oshie

we won’t be getting that 1g..they said in cash prizes not in the cash itself…SMH..

@SYDNEY

“What’s “Grandmama?” I’m sorry, but I know very little about athletes.

But I do like to watch gymnastics — and, figure skating, at times.”

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There are two athletes named “Larry Johnson.” One was a famous basketball player from the 90′s widely known for his commercials as “Grandmama.” (think Tyler Perry)

The other is the hot headed and overrated Larry Johnson of the Kansas City Chiefs. That is the one that is in trouble for hitting the female.

@Brook – oh god! I work in Jersey City at one of the colleges. I am originally from Newark but know I live in Middlesex county

@BE

Yes, I am! How are you this afternoon?

@Sydney

You’re right about a lot of them. My prediction is that about 70% probably do have the pessimistic traits that you described, and 30% may not. Don’t forget womanizing.

@Man

So there are two foolish “Larry Johnsons?” One is a cross-dresser and the other is a degenerate abuser? Good to know! Thanks

@Man – oh thank God it was not Grandmama – i was heart broken…I guess I should pay more attention

@Daywalker – Oh my that is a long list – I never knew one body part could have so many names. Microwave sounds bad like a funky disease

@ man

“There are two athletes named “Larry Johnson.” One was a famous basketball player from the 90’s widely known for his commercials as “Grandmama.” (think Tyler Perry)”

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oooooo i remember that commercial!! …tv was so great back then…

@ man

“There are two athletes named “Larry Johnson.” One was a famous basketball player from the 90’s widely known for his commercials as “Grandmama.” (think Tyler Perry)”

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oooooo i remember that commercial!! …tv was so great back then…

I think mine is the pink bubblegum, I don’t know, I’ll have to check my sources.

@SYDNEY

“So there are two foolish “Larry Johnsons?” One is a cross-dresser and the other is a degenerate abuser? Good to know! Thanks ”

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I wouldn’t call the first one “foolish.” He did a lot for his community and the commercials were quite funny.

Sweet Jesus is a helluva drank

YaDig

@Tina

*hitting forehead*

How could I forget? Womanizing! Yes, a faithful athlete is like a needle in a haystack. . .

grant hill is faithful..i love him and tamia together..a match made in heaven

@OSHIE

“I think mine is the pink bubblegum, I don’t know, I’ll have to check my sources”

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**filling out an application to become a “source”**

“Well, you call her a “Microwave” when she’s burning dudes! Like her vajayjay is a microwave.

Here, I’ll use it in a sentence:

“Yeah man, Roger hit Sheila, and stuck her in the microwave, dude.”

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this is just disrespectful…

@Tina – I am good! working for like a hebrew slave today!

@Syd – How could I forget? Womanizing! Yes, a faithful athlete is like a needle in a haystack. . .

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Do you really think so? I think they just publicize the bad ones and never talk about the good ones.

Mannnnn, y’all trippin!!! Larry Johnson the woman beater is fine as hell! I’ll let him spank me anyday!

…bending around, getting ready!!

@Man

Yeah, I think I remember that commercial. . .Yeah, I guess since then the man-in-drag bit has gotten traction — Tyler Perry, etc.

@cutie pie

Yes, Grant Hill is an exception — he and Tamia are a great match. There are some other examples, but I can’t think of them.

Syndey

Yes, those athletes are very hard time find now a days. You incorporate the action verb (hitting forehead) in your blog. LOL. That’s funny.

**shooting out tha windows and kickin’ in the door**

B-B-O-O-O-O-O-O-O-M-M-M-M-M-M-M-M!!

Splat-tat-tat-tat-tat-tat-tat-tat!

**blowin’ smoke off .44**

Whattup peeps!

@cutie – “Well, you call her a “Microwave” when she’s burning dudes! Like her vajayjay is a microwave.

Here, I’ll use it in a sentence:

“Yeah man, Roger hit Sheila, and stuck her in the microwave, dude.”

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this is just disrespectful…

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I don’t know if some woman is burning men how much respect does she need?

@Brook – You know I never go to Journal Square anymore? When I lived in Jersey City I used to go up there all the time to take the train to Manhattan..but I am a suburbanite now I drive EVERYWHERE INCLUDING MANHATTAN (don’t laugh) I am so ashamed now

@ Man who walk in the DAY–

How did that meal go?

I was hoping you opted for the Lasagna.

@ syd

“@cutie pie

Yes, Grant Hill is an exception — he and Tamia are a great match. There are some other examples, but I can’t think of them.”

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yea that was the only one I could come up with.. I would’ve said rick fox but he f*cked up big time..fooling us making us think he was a good old fashion family man…SMH

Hey 1Tru! (waving)

Hey Diva!

@IlluminateTruth

I’m glad you returned — your posts were on-point as usual, and I agree with your perspective. You didn’t respond to my last post

HEY CYBER-PEEPS!!!!!!!

WHAT’S GOOD TODAY???

@1True Diva – Hey I see you making your entrance like a TRUE DIVA – with you cutie pie daughter gravie!

@Illuminata – Born in EO General – whew that hospital has come a long way and Port Newark (still smelly though sometimes) I live in South Brunswick

“@cutie – “Well, you call her a “Microwave” when she’s burning dudes! Like her vajayjay is a microwave.

Here, I’ll use it in a sentence:

“Yeah man, Roger hit Sheila, and stuck her in the microwave, dude.”

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this is just disrespectful…

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I don’t know if some woman is burning men how much respect does she need?”

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its the overall name calling of women that bugs me..there aren’t alf as many names for men…

i’m all about girl power!! lol

Hey Lancombe!!

Hey Syd!

(in my southern voice)

How is ya’ll?

Lol!!!!

@IlluminateTruth

I’m sorry about that — I meant to write that you didn’t respond to my last post about self-esteem. Did you have any thoughts on that?

I will say that I think a man with your perspective is an ideal mate. You know a man’s role, and you will allow a woman to be a woman. I appreciate your insights.

half*

half*

WHAT’S THE TALK?

SEX, SPORTS, FOOD, MUSIC, E-MAILS FROM SUPERHEAD???

@BE

Don’t let them work you too hard. I’m off this week, but I will be back at it on Monday.

@Lacombe Redbone

LOL. Your comments about Larry Johnson is funny, but ignorance is a pet peeve of mine, and I can’t tolerate it. He is cute though. He just needs a lot of work.

@Cutie Pie

“its the overall name calling of women that bugs me..there aren’t alf as many names for men…

i’m all about girl power!! lol ”

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There are some names for men:

Brave

Loyal

smart

etc.

LOL.

@cutie pie

I’m through with Rick Fox — completely through. How could he do Vanessa Williams like that? And in her interviews afterwards, you could tell she was still hurt. . .

And why does he look so funny now? Like a Wild Man? Or he did the last time I saw him. . .

@ man

“There are some names for men:

Brave

Loyal

smart

etc.

LOL.”

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ha ha ha hardy har har **side-eyeing man**

@ cutie pie*

half*

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WHAT YOU WANT HALF OF???

*singing* I’M HEREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Done with the meeting

@Man

MJ dominated Karl Malone, John Stockston, Shaq and Penny, Charles Barkley, Dominque Wilkens, Hakeem, Clyde, Bird, Isiah……

He killed against the best of the best.These names are synonomous with the best the League has offered

Jordan not only kills Kobe statistically but in every facet of the game MJ wins

You know they scored more in the eighties because the fundamentals were much better. The lost art of the mid range J, offensive ball movement, and playing within a team contributed to better shooting

Today’s players are more athletic but not more skilled

Case in point, MJ in todays game could average 40 easy without taking away from the team

Kobe had a better stats last year 06-07 and his team had a worst record but he got MVP because he played within a team concept. You made this point against MJ but it hurts your argument

Man, seriously bruh we talking about MJ

@SYDNEY

“I’m through with Rick Fox — completely through. How could he do Vanessa Williams like that? And in her interviews afterwards, you could tell she was still hurt. . .

And why does he look so funny now? Like a Wild Man? Or he did the last time I saw him. . .”

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ok… let me go back and read up on this because I couldn’ve sworn everything was “amicable” between them.

In fact Vanessa’s last two husbands were all in the same house together.

You will need to elaborate for me.

@OSHIE

WTFFFF. WHAT HAVE I WALKED INTO?

@ syd

yea I know!!…i think he always looked like that..rick fox was never attractive to me

@ man

“ok… let me go back and read up on this because I couldn’ve sworn everything was “amicable” between them.

In fact Vanessa’s last two husbands were all in the same house together.

You will need to elaborate for me.”

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HA!! rick cheated on Vanessa..i believe multiple times…

@ Brook Lynn

FUTURE EX HUH? AS LONG AS I GET VISITATION PRIVELEDGES, THATS COOL!!! LOL!!!

@ BE

HEY!!! HOW YOU BE!?!

??

@Z – Hey Missy with the strawberry blonde hair?

OK, I HAVE PPL TO HARASS. Just stopped by to say hello. I’ll be on all day tomorrow! Toodles

hey z..bye z

@Lacombe Redbone

I know what you meant. LOL.

@ DA TRUFF!!!

Is She Hate Me your favorite movie? That movie did have some spicy scenes.

@Cutie – @ syd

yea I know!!…i think he always looked like that..rick fox was never attractive to me

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Co-sign – I always thought he looked gay, I thought they were breaking up before because he came out the closet but I guess not.

OK. You ALREADY know I have cyber ADD and I’m not even trying to get on topic much less stay on it.

Anywho–

On my drive to work this afternoon, I decided (against my better judgement) that I would give out candy to the little Gremlins this year.

After considerable thought and prayer, I have several conditions. (Call it what you want)

The the children who wish to receive candy from the home of 1TruDiva–

1. Please do NOT turn on my water hose. (Like you did last year and left it running!!)

2. Do not bring you entire family! (Leave Gramma in her wheelchair at home)

3. When I go to retrieve your candy, please do not walk in, sit down and reach for my remote.

4. Parents–NO you CANNOT use my phone, bathroom nor will I make you a porkchop sandwich.

5. Don’t ask me why I have so many pictures–it’s MY house!!

6. If I choose to give you candy corn, please don’t scatter it all over my driveway.

7. And last but not least–to the Lil mufukka who stole my windchime last year–now would be the time to return it–no questions asked!!!!

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYY!

Z’s here!

Sorry, I was typing a brief.

@Brook – oh, I never asked what was in a drink called Poison??

Man, I just don’t care(Check me out!)

@SYDNEY

“What’s “Grandmama?” I’m sorry, but I know very little about athletes.

But I do like to watch gymnastics — and, figure skating, at times.”

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There are two athletes named “Larry Johnson.” One was a famous basketball player from the 90’s widely known for his commercials as “Grandmama.” (think Tyler Perry)

The other is the hot headed and overrated Larry Johnson of the Kansas City Chiefs. That is the one that is in trouble for hitting the female.

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THANK YOU FOR CLEARING THAT UP…i love me some grandmama…

Awwwwww dammit.

ok everyone…i’m back!

What i miss??

@IlluminateTruth

Are you still there? I’m looking for that post for you.

@BE

No, I think Rick Fox may look like he has a little sugar in his tank, but he’s very hetero, but who knows. . .

All I know is that he broke ‘Nessa’s heart, and that makes him, well, not so nice. . .

Bad Rick! Bad Rick!

@Nik

*walk Nik to seat near the fireplace*

Where u been ma?

@Man

This is what gets me about the MJ VS KOBE debate

I think it was the 05-06 playoffs Kobe refuses to shoot during most of the second half and particlarly in the 4th qtr because of criticism he took in the previous game

You think MJ gave a fu*& about critics, he used that to motivate him to 6 rings

Kobe has pulled that soft azz sh%$ one too many times to be considered better than MJ

Kobe is the 2nd best 2 guard I’ve seen thus far but MJ is far and beyond #1

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

Z, NIK AND Oshie is here!!!!!!!!!!!

Oshie–

Why you have me LMAO Sunday?

Lol!!!

I love Halloween. And I love stolen windchimes.

Going to inhale carbon monoxide in cigarette form. BRB.

The other is the hot headed and overrated Larry Johnson of the Kansas City Chiefs. That is the one that is in trouble for hitting the female.

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Correction…he SPAT on her. He did not touch her. I LOVE LJ!

“5. Don’t ask me why I have so many pictures–it’s MY house!!”

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owwww I hate this question..this goes in with the other dumb questions such as when someone calls u and wakes u up from sleep and ask u if ur home!!..where the f*ck did u call me??!!!…..SMH

@ Tina

@ DA TRUFF!!!

Is She Hate Me your favorite movie? That movie did have some spicy scenes.

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ITS NOT MY FAV, BUT ITS ON THE LIST! SPICEY IT IS!!! LOL!!!

DUDE IN THE MOVIE IS MY HERO!!!

@Brook – @Be

Its a surprise it will F**K you up!!! LOL

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Really??? I need to come early and leave late to make sure I don’t get (stay) too drunk to drive!!

Good night all!

@ Brooke, Be and my homie Keee–

**In my Queen Latifah Secret life of the Bees voice**

Good Evening, Ladies!!!

It’s a great idea.I set up a similar site 4 years ago…but could’nt drive the traffic to it.Takes more money than I could pull together.

@IlluminateTruth

If you’re still lurking, here’s my response to your post:

“If a woman is already mentally beat down, there is little I can do to reverse the madness. Its hard to hold someone on a pedestal when deep down inside they don’t feel they are deserving of it and keep jumping off.”

I agree that self-esteem is an issue for some sisters, and for women, in general (because there are plenty of women of other races who have emotional issues and have the therapy bills to prove it). I think some sisters have carried emotional baggage from bad relationships, experiences that they need to remove — you can’t carry past ghosts into new relationships and expect them to succeed.

On the flip side, I’ve also met men who have been in bad relationships, had women cheat on them, etc. and are emotionally scarred and have an existing chip on their shoulder. So I think this is a two-way issue. Emotional health is an issue for women, and men. And, as you have found, you can’t fix another damaged person, and a damaged person can damage you (I found this out personally).

oshie smokes cancer sticks??!!…NOOOOOO!!!!!

@DA TRUFF

It did have some memorable scenes. LOL. I watched that movie and rewound it so many times. I don’t know how it ended.

Lol @ cutie pie–

Or the one when they call you OBVIOUSLY waking you from a deep sleep and ask–

Where you sleep???

Or better yet–

The ones when you call them and out of politeness ask about their 4-year-old and they put the Lil fukka on the phone–slobberin’ and shyt!

Can’t NOBOY unnerstand the bullethead except the parents!

And you gotta go along with the game plan!

Sheesh!!

Lol!!!!!!!!!

bye be

@Realwoman

Oh, OK. I always wondered why he left the league. Did you like the Knicks or just Larry Johnson?

HEY SEEN

LMAO @ 1Tru

my new hate is when someone calls my cell and the first thing they say when i pick up is “who’s this”..no fool who is this?? last time I checked u dialed this number and i answered…people really make me question America’s educational system..they need to think twice about the “no child left behind” program..some of them need that extra help lol..i know i know i’m wrong

Hmm. I’m trying to quit. I think I will start smoking bidis (sp?) instead. I need a reason to go outside every few hours.

Honestly? Just Larry Johnson. Don’t get me wrong I didn’t HATE the Knicks either…I just thought that with sooooo many talented guys playing ball in the hoods of NY you’d think the actual NBA team would be decent.

@ 1TruDiva

OK. You ALREADY know I have cyber ADD and I’m not even trying to get on topic much less stay on it.

Anywho–

On my drive to work this afternoon, I decided (against my better judgement) that I would give out candy to the little Gremlins this year.

After considerable thought and prayer, I have several conditions. (Call it what you want)

The the children who wish to receive candy from the home of 1TruDiva–

1. Please do NOT turn on my water hose. (Like you did last year and left it running!!)

***WE WUZ THIRSTY CAUSE YOU GAVE OUT RICE CAKES LAST YEAR!!!

2. Do not bring you entire family! (Leave Gramma in her wheelchair at home)

***NAW GRANNY IS THE WICKED WITCH THIS YEAR!!!

3. When I go to retrieve your candy, please do not walk in, sit down and reach for my remote.

***HAVE THAT MESS READY BY THE DOOR! WE GOT 1000 HOUSES TO HIT!

4. Parents–NO you CANNOT use my phone, bathroom nor will I make you a porkchop sandwich.

***PORKCHOPS!!! JUST THROW THOSE IN THE KIDS BAG!!! OH…, CAN I BORROW A DOLLAR?

5. Don’t ask me why I have so many pictures–it’s MY house!!

***THEN DON’T ASK ME HOW OLD MY 22 YR/OLD KID IS!!!

6. If I choose to give you candy corn, please don’t scatter it all over my driveway.

***SO I GUESS THE SHAVING CREAM & TOILET PAPER ARE OUT TOO?

7. And last but not least–to the Lil mufukka who stole my windchime last year–now would be the time to return it–no questions asked!!!!

***WIND-CHIMES ARE LIKE GARDEN GNOMES…, THEY LIKE TO TRAVEL TOO!!!

hey seen

DA TRUFF!!! The Truth Will Set You Free!!!(Check me out!)

@ Tina

@ DA TRUFF!!!

Is She Hate Me your favorite movie? That movie did have some spicy scenes.

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ITS NOT MY FAV, BUT ITS ON THE LIST! SPICEY IT IS!!! LOL!!!

DUDE IN THE MOVIE IS MY HERO!!!

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heeeey I missed you! How are you doing today sir?

@Kesha

But, girl, isn’t spitting as much of a violation as hitting a woman? That’s just vile. . .And then, according to the report I read, he continue to try to spit on her. What kind of nonsense it that?

Some of these “men” are out-of-pocket. . .

@BE

u look so beautiful in that pic…. different but really cute.

Hey TheSeen!!!

@ real

“Honestly? Just Larry Johnson. Don’t get me wrong I didn’t HATE the Knicks either…I just thought that with sooooo many talented guys playing ball in the hoods of NY you’d think the actual NBA team would be decent.”

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they do! they just don’t put them out on the court..too busy putting stephon on the court and he can’t do a damn thing anymore..he too hollywood buying jets and sh*t…mark my words if they put nate on the court more the knicks would do a lot better..and he’s from the hood u can tell from his swagger..I love the knicks but not so much now
.. i’ve loved them since birth…

they just don’t have the same excitement they use to have back in the day when they would play the Bulls..that was always an event

Hey SEEN! (waving at Seen)

HEY 1 Tru with the Platinum VOCALS, lol!

Sydney(Check me out!)

@Kesha

But, girl, isn’t spitting as much of a violation as hitting a woman? That’s just vile. . .And then, according to the report I read, he continue to try to spit on her. What kind of nonsense it that?

Some of these “men” are out-of-pocket. . .

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Spitting is soooo nasty! Remember when that nasty trailer hoe pumpkin did that on Flava of love…I remember peeps were talking about NY should press charges blah blah. I guess it can be considered assault?

Or the one when they call you OBVIOUSLY waking you from a deep sleep and ask–

Where you sleep???

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…and you answer YEAH…and they keep talking…WTF did I just say?

Or as you say…you ask how someone is doing and they put them on the phone…WTF…I ain’t ask to talk to them I just asked how they doing…UGH…I hate that!!

@Oh lawdy

Wasup silly lol

@Day

Whats hood wit it!!

LACOMBE YOUR BABY IS CUTE…HE REMINDS OF ONE OF THOSE BAD LIL CHIRREN THE LIL RED BOYS THAT PLAY IN TH EMIDDLE OF THE STREET IN THE NO PROJECTS….

LMAO @ 1Tru

my new hate is when someone calls my cell and the first thing they say when i pick up is “who’s this”..no fool who is this?? last time I checked u dialed this number and i answered…people really make me question America’s educational system..they need to think twice about the “no child left behind” program..some of them need that extra help lol..i know i know i’m wrong

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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know I’m wrong too but damn! If I call to talk to you, I don’t need a 4 year old tellin’ me he pooped in the potty–this time!!

WTF?????????????

Or——

I don’t need you interrupting the conversation every few minutes yelling a your damn kids!!

The cell phone thing?

I’m witchu on that!!!

No upbringing at all!

Lol!!

**going to join Oshie in a smoke**

BRB………..

cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*(Check me out!)

@ real

“Honestly? Just Larry Johnson. Don’t get me wrong I didn’t HATE the Knicks either…I just thought that with sooooo many talented guys playing ball in the hoods of NY you’d think the actual NBA team would be decent.”

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they do! they just don’t put them out on the court..too busy putting stephon on the court and he can’t do a damn thing anymore..he too hollywood buying jets and sh*t…mark my words if they put nate on the court more the knicks would do a lot better..and he’s from the hood u can tell from his swagger..I love the knicks but not so much now

.. i’ve loved them since birth…

they just don’t have the same excitement they use to have back in the day when they would play the Bulls..that was always an event

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True but you know how that goes… that is why my boy Rasheed Wallace said the NBA has turned into WWF…

@ cutie pie*

&

@ 1TruDiva

I trip out when they call you and ask for somebody else. When you tell them they got the wrong number, they try and challenge you with:

A- “yes it is, quit playing and put them on the phone.

B- “oh, well who’s number is this then”

C- “oh it’s not? well do you know they number?

It’s also funny when they call you back 5 times in a row still getting the wrong number!

HEY Seen! *turning chair around…crosses legs so Seen can see my fishnet stocking and cute heels*

Hey Sweetie…how are you?

@ Sydney,

Yes! That is the NASTIEST thing…another person’s saliva…eeeeuuu! You have to be a dirty mofo to spit on someone. If i ever got spat on, i think i’d bathe for hours (after i proceeded to beat the life out of the heffa).

He still fine though, lol…just sayin **shrugs shoulders**

Realwoman

You like Rasheed Wallace too? I love anybody from the Tar Heels.

@KESHA

“Mine is still undecided. yesterday it was a fireman”

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there are sooooooooo many responses to this I would LOVE to give.

WOW.

@Oh Lawdy…He would definitely be on of them!! lol

@realwoman

“Spitting is soooo nasty! Remember when that nasty trailer hoe pumpkin did that on Flava of love…I remember peeps were talking about NY should press charges blah blah. I guess it can be considered assault?”

LOL, yes, that was a very memorable moment that completely disgusted me (I’m ashamed to say that I watched the first two seasons of that show). According to the story I read, Johnson is being investigated for possible “nonaggravated assault,” so I think spitting is considered assault. He also has a court date scheduled for shoving a woman’s face (separate incident), so he has allegedly touched women as well.

Spitting is one of the most repulsive things you can do to a person, IMHO.

Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)(Check me out!)

@realwoman

(Check me out!)

Sydney(Check me out!)

@Kesha

But, girl, isn’t spitting as much of a violation as hitting a woman? That’s just vile. . .And then, according to the report I read, he continue to try to spit on her. What kind of nonsense it that?

Some of these “men” are out-of-pocket. . .

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Spitting is soooo nasty! Remember when that nasty trailer hoe pumpkin did that on Flava of love…I remember peeps were talking about NY should press charges blah blah. I guess it can be considered assault?

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Yeah, but did you notice that New Yawk never actually got innat azz? Now Funquisha from da block woulda’ cut that azz!

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Hey but she sure did TRY. Don’t forget when she threw that table to the side to get at that a$$. Sometimes I wish they wouldn’t stop fights…

oops..one of them!

@Man

I was waiting on you family I researched and watched games in the late 80′s thru today’s game

He dominated those players because in his prime no one was able to win a ring until he retired

He could have easily one more rings had he not been secretly suspended by David Stern for gambling in the 94-95 season (my theory along with Bill Simmons)

There’s an old saying “good offense beats good defense every time”

The eighties and nineties teams were superior offensively and defensive

In addition to the hand checking rules that wasn’t in effect and straight man to man D that era produced some solid teams not just individual talent

Kobe has a green light, he forces more shot attempts than damn near anyone I’ve ever seen

His judgement is sometimes suspect and he looked lost against Boston. MJ would never have lost by 40 in the finals

Zone defense is one the laziest ways to play D and you can mask the flaws of defenders in Z d (see Amare Stoudamire)

I take nothing away from Kobe’s skill and ability to ball, the kid is sick but compared to HIS AIRNESS, it’s a wrap

I’m a bigger Pippen fan than MJ but when it comes to who is better, MJ all day

I think its a great idea – but LORD knows I hope I never get one. LMAO Cover up folks.

@ realwoman

heeeey I missed you! How are you doing today sir?

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HEY! I’M GOOD, JUST BS’N. AND YOU!?!

Tina(Check me out!)

Realwoman

You like Rasheed Wallace too? I love anybody from the Tar Heels.

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YEP! I don’t care what they say about him…he keeps it real!

@Kesha

“He still fine though, lol…just sayin *”

He’s “fine” — and very, deeply disturbed.

Ted Bundy was also “fine.” There are lots of good-looking psychos I must say. . .

DA TRUFF!!! The Truth Will Set You Free!!!(Check me out!)

@ realwoman

heeeey I missed you! How are you doing today sir?

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HEY! I’M GOOD, JUST BS’N. AND YOU!?!

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hanging in there..guess everyone forgot about the actual topic AGAIN. lmao

@ Seen,

Aww, thats so sweet. I missed you too hun!

lol @ truff

i guess..but truth be told when she threw her head into the camera right after the spit action I REWOUND IT A MILLION TIMES. lmao

tag team back again…

what’d i miss?

@realwoman

“Hey but she sure did TRY. Don’t forget when she threw that table to the side to get at that a$$. Sometimes I wish they wouldn’t stop fights…”

They needed to stop that altercation-in-progress because New York had murder in her eyes, and I don’t blame her.

I’ve never been spat on, but if a man/woman/animal decided to take that revolting course of action, I would compose myself, call 9-1-1, and give them 10 minutes to vacate the premises. . .

@ seen

yea.. but i’m gonna get a load tomorrow i have a record breaking 4 meetings one right after the other..SMH..i’m gonna need a glass of wine tonight to prepare lol

Sydney(Check me out!)

@Kesha

“He still fine though, lol…just sayin *”

He’s “fine” — and very, deeply disturbed.

Ted Bundy was also “fine.” There are lots of good-looking psychos I must say. . .

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I feel like that is God’s way of evening sh!t out. Just like how some men claim that the females with the prettiest faces have the worst bodies….

everyone can’t have it all.

@Afiya

Girl I was there when we picked them fishnets out….lol. You don’t remember when I was going to rip them off of you with my teeth???? lol

@Lacombe

I dont have any children and I’m getting to that age where I am ready to have that first one. I see you make lovely children…. so ummm can we get married so I….. I mean we… can have more lovely kids???? lmao

@Day

Keep it pimpin pimpin!!!

bye dapro

@Daywalker

I wonder how he came at chicks though

“Hi there, I’m hot and I’m psycho! Let’s dance!”

He was white, charming, and good-looking, and that was enough to disarm his victims. He didn’t fit the general perception of what “danger” looks like. . .

Jesus ain’t coming. He’s here inside all of us. Either you recognize his presence in you or you don’t. You have a choice as to how you live. There is no pie in the sky.

@DA PRO

Yeah, good offense beats good defense. that is true.. BUT you HAVE TO HAVE THE BALL. Teams take less shots in today’s NBA. How can you not see this?

LOOK IT UP!! Google it. There will be article after article of fewer shot attempts. The team with the lowest scoring averages in the eighties would lead the league currently. Teams from the 50′s would have been leaders in the eighties. SCORING IS DOWN DEFENSE IS UP!!

Jordan did not beat Bird, Magic, Kareem or Dr. J in their prime. He beat Isiah once after years of losing to them. He beat Dominique once. He never went against Hakeem and he was 1-1 with Shaq.

The players that were ASSIGNED to defend him couldn’t even be allowed into an NBA arena today. Jordan’s second most famous shot was against CRAIG EHLO!!! That fool couldn’t be a water boy today. The lack of quality Jordan faced is undeniable.

Kobe has forced a lot of shots but his shots per game average is far below Jordan’s. Again, had Kobe been placed in Jordan’s shoes in the eighties he would of averaged 50. Mainly because he is superior outside shooter. Even Jordan admits this.

For the record here are the greatest in no particular order:

Kareem

Magic

Wilt

Russel

Jordan

Kobe

Shaq

Duncan

Hakeem

Oscar

@ Tina

i dont think Tayshaun won a national championship in college. he was shooting too many 3s during college

@ AFIYA–

LMAO!!!!!!!!!! Yoos just like me!

@ DA TRUFF–

NO!!!! Here (at work) I have caller ID out here on the packing line. I get a call today from a 622 area code. AS soon as I pick up, I realize it’s a bill collector but the thing that got me was–IT WAS A RECORDING!!!!!!!!!!!

I play along, holding until I get a warm body.

The bytch was DOWNRIGHT rude!

I’m like WTF???????????????

I (very patiently) wait for her to finish her rant. then I say say–Lucy C. has not been employed here for the past four years.

She died!

The woman ACTUALLY said–”OK. Can you give her this number and have her contact us?”

I said, “Sure. I’ll run out to the cemetary and bury it next to her!”

Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)(Check me out!)

@realwoman

(Check me out!)

i guess..but truth be told when she threw her head into the camera right after the spit action I REWOUND IT A MILLION TIMES. lmao

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When she tried to run in those heels and bust that azz!

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YES…do you remember her face? She had that true to the heart black girl I AM ABOUT TO KICK YO ASS face…

Did someone say Jeffrey Dahmer was fine? What the?

@ Sydney,

There are lots of good-looking psychos I must say. . .

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you aint neva lied!

Sydney(Check me out!)

@Daywalker

I wonder how he came at chicks though

“Hi there, I’m hot and I’m psycho! Let’s dance!”

He was white, charming, and good-looking, and that was enough to disarm his victims. He didn’t fit the general perception of what “danger” looks like. . .

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He probably could smell the vulnerable ones too… the physical profile of a serial killer is exactly him.

@Pro11

Chillin man!!! Just living life to the utmost

@Cutie

Yeah I know all about those meetings!!! I have to present different future projects to “important” people… so you know I be all nervous and iish!! lol

@Lacombe

I think the word kinky is an understatement lol. I am way pass kinky ask anybody on here. I’m on that new, blow yo mind level…

GIRL FIGHTS ARE SO STUPID AND USELESS……..

WHAT ARE THEY EVER FIGHTING FOR THAT IS REALLY WORTH IT???

WOMEN SHOULD BE LOVERS & NOT FIGHTERS!

@IlluminateTruth

Yes, low self-esteem is a significant barrier to healthy relationships. On your point — “I’ve been in situations before where a woman was too “clingy” due to not trusting me based on what happened to her in the past” — I was once in a relationship with a “clingy” man who didn’t want me going out with my friends, etc. I’m not the jealous type. In fact, I’m the total opposite — if I’m in a relationship, I want my man to have a life outside of me, friends and all. He had a life before he met me, and he should have a life while he’s in a relationship with me. Dependency is a turn-off. . .

@REAL WOMAN

“same with Iverson, TO, Barkley (even though I can’t stand him).”

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LOL. I love all three of them. Particularly Barkley. He’s my all time favorite athlete.

Ain’t that some ish?

@Realwoman

I was yelling at him through the TV when he kept approaching the refs during the Pistons and Lakers finals. LOL. I like Charles Barkley, well, I really like him on Inside the NBA.

@Family First

OK. I thought the Wildcats won the NCAA championship when he was playing. Maybe I’m thinking about the time when Tubbie Smith won.

I dont have any children and I’m getting to that age where I am ready to have that first one. I see you make lovely children…. so ummm can we get married so I….. I mean we… can have more lovely kids???? lmao

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@TheSeen…

Only if you let me get sum cutty from Blade before we jump the broom?? lmao

Sydney(Check me out!)

@realwoman

“Hey but she sure did TRY. Don’t forget when she threw that table to the side to get at that a$$. Sometimes I wish they wouldn’t stop fights…”

They needed to stop that altercation-in-progress because New York had murder in her eyes, and I don’t blame her.

I’ve never been spat on, but if a man/woman/animal decided to take that revolting course of action, I would compose myself, call 9-1-1, and give them 10 minutes to vacate the premises. . .

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You are good…the police would be coming AFTER I done with that person…

@Kesha

(big smile)

@TINA

“I was yelling at him through the TV when he kept approaching the refs during the Pistons and Lakers finals. LOL. I like Charles Barkley, well, I really like him on Inside the NBA.”

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Your fondness for Barkley has let you totally recover from the “rooting for the Pistons against Kobe” in my eyes.

You know, if you care….

@Realwoman

Did you ever see the movie “Copycat” with Sigourney Weaver? It totally freaked me out. But, yes, the profile of a serial killer is usually a white man.

Now, I’m convinced that the reason it took so long for the authorities to catch the D.C. sniper is because he didn’t fit the profile. When I saw those brothers’ mug shots, I was shocked, I must say. . .

i’m out goodnight everyone

Man, I just don’t care(Check me out!)

@REAL WOMAN

“same with Iverson, TO, Barkley (even though I can’t stand him).”

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LOL. I love all three of them. Particularly Barkley. He’s my all time favorite athlete.

Ain’t that some ish?

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I have a love hate thing with him…he’s funny as sh!t but when he tries to talk race and politics he sounds like a jackass. Stick to sports bighead…

@Lacombe

Damn I don’t like to share….but damnit make it quick!!! lol Blade u better pull out too!! lmao

Charles Barkley should be a stand up comic. Seriously.

Oh, trust, I would be calling the police for the other person’s protection. . .

@IlluminateTruth

“BTW, sorry about the lapse in time between responses but work keeps getting in the way. And on another note thanks for the dinner / wine (smile). Just don’t hire the masseuse….too impersonal. Save your money in lieu of the do-it-yourself version (wink).”

LOL, well, I have delivered the do-it-myself version, with oils and all, on more than one occasion. You betcha! *wink*

@ 1TruDiva

YEP! THEM BILL COLLECTORS ARE THE WORST FOR PLAYIN ON THE PHONE!

MY EX JACKED ME FOR A CREDIT CARD BACK IN DAY, EVEN AFTER THAT MESS WENT THRU COURT & I WAS CLEARED…, THEY CALLED ME EVERY WEEK FOR SIX MONTHS!!! STILL LOOKIN FOR THAT $425.72!!!

THIS WOMAN CALLED ME EVERY NAME IN THE BOOK AND THEN SOME!!! AND THE LETTERS WERE NOT TOO KIND EITHER!

I FILED HARASSMENT CHARGES IN CIVIL COURT. THEY ENDED UP PAYING ME 500.00!!! LOL!!!

Sydney(Check me out!)

@Realwoman

Did you ever see the movie “Copycat” with Sigourney Weaver? It totally freaked me out. But, yes, the profile of a serial killer is usually a white man.

Now, I’m convinced that the reason it took so long for the authorities to catch the D.C. sniper is because he didn’t fit the profile. When I saw those brothers’ mug shots, I was shocked, I must say. . .

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hmmmm and I like Sigourney Weaver but don’t recall that movie…though the name sounds familiar.

Yes that is DEFINITELY why it took them so long to find the DC snipers..lol.

@sxyQ

hey love You know I missed you too. Is everything good your way??? If not, who do I have to cuss out!!! lol

@ realwoman: You just like to argue with me because I’m white. Admit it.

Oh and you like to call white people names like “trailer park trash” and “hillbilly” and this doesn’t offend me, which irks you.

And then I said you were fat and you got mad. That’s it in a nutshell.

@Man, I just don’t care

LOL. I’m glad I redeemed myself. I remember when Ernie, Kenny, and Charles were picking their best players of all times from all five positions, and Charles wouldn’t put Kobe on the list. Ernie and Kenny both had Kobe as one of the best numbers 2s ever. Charles and MJ are friends, and Charles just can’t stand the fact people compare MJ and Kobe. That’s just what I think.

Charles Barkley is an ass!

I used to lurve me some Barkley back in he day.

Daywalker(Twisted steel and sex appeal!!!)(Check me out!)

@Sydney

(Check me out!)

@Realwoman

Did you ever see the movie “Copycat” with Sigourney Weaver? It totally freaked me out. But, yes, the profile of a serial killer is usually a white man.

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Swirlin’ sistas take note:

White dudes are crazies.

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lol you know you are wrong for that….

@Daywalker

“Swirlin’ sistas take note:

White dudes are crazies.”

Swirlin’ brothas take note:

Watch Snapped. On Oxygen.

@ Tina

maybe im wrong let me check

Well Gotta run!!! Another busy day. Take care of one another. Email me sxyQ when you can

@SEEN

NO ONE YOU’LL HAVE TO CURSE OUT LUV.(LOL) I’M PRETTY GOOD AT DOING THAT MYSELF. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

HEYYYY TRUFF!!

@Realwoman

“Copycat” came out in the 90′s, and Sigourney Weaver played a woman who studied serial killers, and one started stalking her, and he would imitate the acts of past serial killers, like Bundy, Dahmer, etc. It was very creepy.

“Swirlin’ brothas take note:

Watch Snapped. On Oxygen.”

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LMAO!!! LOL LOL!!!…ok i’m gone 4 real..that was hilarious….

Y’all have a good evening!!!!

hey did anyone peep supahead is married now and has a new book on how to keep a man?

@ SXYQ

HEY YOU! YOU IN OR ARE YOU OUT?

I don’t watch Oxygen. Does that make me less of a woman?

Daywalker…I believe snapped is a show about skaterboarders/snowboarders/bikers etc…doing tricks and fvcking themselves up. It is pretty nasty watching the bones as they crush, break, bend. Most of the participants are white guys and many of them continue the SAME behavior that has screws all up and down their a$$ trying to hold their body together.

I don’t think all black people are fat. Just you. Don’t be ridiculous.

@Man, I just don’t care

What about when Charles and the Suns lost to Jordan and the bulls. I think it was ’92 or ’93. You know I had to say that. LOL. In response to my previous comment, I think Magic was the fourth person picking players as well, and he put Kobe on his list too. I believe this was about a two NBA seasons ago. The only reason I watch Inside the NBA, it cause of Charles. Did you see that comedian they had on the show impersonating Charles?

@IlluminateTruth

I’m not a parent, but I realize that caring for a child is a huge, time-consuming responsibility, so, yes, women who decided to date you should be aware of that reality. I just think that relationships that are worth pursuing require compromise and understanding. It all depends on what you’re willing to compromise on, and that varies for women, as I think it does with men.

Oshie (every single place I go, I see the same hos…)(Check me out!)

I don’t think all black people are fat. Just you. Don’t be ridiculous.

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Yes and you came to that assumption how? All you know about me is that I am Black right? lmao…I truly believe you are an undercover racist but I don’t expect you to admit it. I kinda think you don’t even realize it.

OK. ADd to my list–

Halle–A real baby daddy.

Usher–A backbone.

McCain–Another 2 years added on to his life–without dementia.

@Daywalker

Wait, I’m sorry. . .OK, how do I summarize the plot of Snapped? OK, here goes:

Snapped is a half-hour show that airs on Oxygen, a chick network.

Here’s the basic plot:

Woman meets man of her dreams.

Man/Woman Cheats, Man is abusive, Woman is certifiable, etc.

Woman kills man, may be planned or in a fit of rage.

Woman goes to trial.

Woman gets convicted and sent to the Big House.

End of show.

Bye Lacombe Redbone!!

ooops wrong show! LOL

@”IF ONLY YOU COULD SEE THRU YOUR ELABORATE EYES”(sxyQblondie had a wonderful weekend)(Check me out!) & Everyone

So I’m washing clothes and I’m still working and it’s my day off. Washing mines (and some of his) sleep the porch and everything…I feel like an old maid…an old “high” maid

@TINA

“What about when Charles and the Suns lost to Jordan and the bulls. I think it was ‘92 or ‘93. You know I had to say that. LOL. In response to my previous comment, I think Magic was the fourth person picking players as well, and he put Kobe on his list too. I believe this was about a two NBA seasons ago. The only reason I watch Inside the NBA, it cause of Charles. Did you see that comedian they had on the show impersonating Charles?”

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Yes, I remember that. Actually I wasn’t hurt by this. At the time I didn’t despise Jordan the way I do now. Also, I was very optimistic. The Suns had a very good team. Charles was clearly the second best player behind Jordan. And most of the players on that team were in their prime.

In ’95, that was the Suns last REAL chance. Charles was breaking down and a lot of the support players were gone or they were breaking down too. After that season I KNEW Charles wasn’t going to win a ring. The only other time my heart was broken like that was by this girl that….. wait. No need to bring that up. The point is that ’95 hurt worse.

and I actually have watched that show!

@Daywalker

Oh, I’ll add that in many of the cases, the Killer Woman is a bouncy blonde/brunette, often the cheerleader type. . .

I wouldn’t say it so much if it didn’t obviously bother you – you get so defensive. *shrugs*

Have a cookie.

J-Hud– Another shot at American Idol.

Brandy–Eyes that are not so far apart.

Alan Thicke–His very own “I am a black man” card.

Ray-Jay– A penis that doesn’t curve so far to the right.

“swept”…I am stoned

@Man, I just don’t care

LOL with your relationship flashback. Did you like Kevin Johnson too? I met him once, and he was very nice.

daywalker, sup my dude.

@ Sydney

Oh, I’ll add that in many of the cases, the Killer Woman is a bouncy blonde/brunette, often the cheerleader type. . .

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I LOVE CHERLEADERS!!! BRING IT ON!!!!!!! LOL!!!

real woman, hows it going smart lady.

@ 1TruDiva

HOW ABOUT:

ALL OF FLAVA’S GIRLS—SOME PRIDE, DIGNITY, AND SELF RESPECT!

Hi, Truff! Trust me, you don’t want any of these women. . .

On one show, a blonde who I think was a cheerleader in school and was very popular with men, killed her husband in bed. She stabbed him so many times, the prosecutor called it “overkill.” Then she covered his body with rose petals because “American Beauty” was her favorite movie.

In court, she looked like she couldn’t hurt a fly.

I’m not making this up. Really.

@ Daywalker

@DA TRUFF!!!

Naw man, Psycho cheerleaders that try to kill you.

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IS THAT ANYTHING LIKE KILLER CLOWNS FROM OUTER SPACE???

@ Everyone

U know how I said Jesus isn’t coming soon…well he’s still not, but that’s no excuse for us (semi-including myself) to have a destination to go. I’m calling heaven

@Man, I just don’t care

LOL. You’re hilarious, Man. Kevin Johnson is running for office? What is he running for? That’s news to me. Yes, he had a great ball-handling skills and soft hands.

@ Sydney

Hi, Truff! Trust me, you don’t want any of these women. . .

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I KNOW SILLY! YOU MISSED THE JOKE…….

I LOVE CHEERLEADERS! BRING IT ON!!! (LIKE GABRIELLE UNION IN “BRING IT ON”)

@Mock Rock Star

What are talking about?

@Daywalker

Hey Mr. Man U can speak…we’re my Z anyway???

@TINA

“LOL. You’re hilarious, Man. Kevin Johnson is running for office? What is he running for? That’s news to me. Yes, he had a great ball-handling skills and soft hands.

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yeah, I think he was running for Mayor. he is a devoted republican though. So is Charles, but I don’t blame them since they lived in Arizona all that time. (I don’t agree, I just don’t condemn them)

Actually I need to check on it because it should of been decided by now.

@ Mock Rock

@ Everyone

U know how I said Jesus isn’t coming soon…well he’s still not, but that’s no excuse for us (semi-including myself) to have a destination to go. I’m calling heaven

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HUH???????

Mock Rock is on that presidential… and I don’t mean Barack.

Ooh… they should make a strain of hydro called Barack *calling weed-growers*

@Tina

A church member of mine just passed on yesterday…he’s going with Jesus

@Truff

I got the joke.

I liked Bring It On.

She’s done smoked herself illegible. LMAO

daywalker, eveything is fine my man, just taking in this nice cali weather n about 2 leave the job in about couple of hours.

@Mock

Girl, are you OK? It’s not even 6 o the East Coast. . .

@ mild sauce

nice california weather is irrelevant when we’re stuck at the job. sometimes the hater in me wishes that it would be ugly weather since i cant enjoy it anyways

Man, I just don’t care

So, he’s running for mayor. I never thought he’d be interested in politics, well, Charles neither. I don’t think Charles is Republican anymore. I remember him saying the Republicans lost their damned minds, and he also spoke out against conservative Christian months ago.

I’m going to go now. It was nice talking sports with you, Man. I’ll look up Kevin running for mayor in Sacramento.

@Mock Rock Star

Oh Ok, I’m sorry for you loss. You take care.

I meant sorry for your loss

@ SYD

OH, OK! I WAS WORRIED FOR A MIN.!!! LOL!!!

God I have huge perfect busoms.

Anyway, I’ll talk to you guys tomorrow.

@family first, man i will be getting off soon n i going 2 enjoy this weather in Cali, but my man u know we gotta keep it real having a job is the good thing but hell getting off n enjoying the weather just as nice.

@ mild sauce

im in here until 5 and yeah i gotta stop complaining about having this job because they just laid off this new girl last week

@ 1TruDiva

HOW ABOUT:

ALL OF FLAVA’S GIRLS—SOME PRIDE, DIGNITY, AND SELF RESPECT!

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I said I was giving out gifts.

Not working miracles!!!

Lol!!!!!!!!!!!

Let’s see–

I could give–

Kim K–a real ass.

Bush–a real woman.

Beyonce–A permanent lacefront that’s waterproof.

Rihanna–Beyonce’s life.

Lil Kim–her life to live. OVER!!!

Lol!!!!!!!!!!

OH Lawd!

Here comes the toothless clean up man!!!

When he grins, he scares me!!

I think I’d hit it, though!

Lol!!!!!!!

family first, hey dude you know its right they moniter on this job like nobodys business thats why i dont put up no pic or my real name, my job pays 2 good 2 be getting messed up over no dam picture man, hey im out of here in 20 mins holla at u tomorrow dude.

I think it’s a great idea.

I ever saw this content on the biggest tall dating site ☆ T a l l c h a t.C o m ☆ you can meet some pretty and hot singles/ people/celebs there. Maybe some of them will be interested in your person.

say it all day. There are worse things to be than fat…but I don’t expect a bulemic white girl to recognize that. *shrugs*

WTF will the world of technology come up with next?? This is RY-DIC-ULOUS!!!! Thats is just a punk move…tell them up front! becuz it would be messed up if they sent it to the wrom e-mail!!