First? I am just a bit curious..the magazine HOLLYWOOD GOSSIP reported his profile was found on the famous free interracial dating site ~~mixedmate . c o m ~~~) last week and he was seeking his interracial love there. wow!!

Bad move

another mutt in the world…

WOW!

and all these females are fighting over who is pregnant by him and married to him, because…lol, his relationship with anyone is a joke.

Next time get a pic of the chick to go with the story! Then people will care.

um is that how you keep it hood? just wondering…

Not Surprise!!! Child Support it comes!!!

OBAMA 08!!!

Time for a family reunion.

wut do you get when you cross a rice patty with a trailer parkho? Weezy’s new babymama.

I just heard this on the radio…WOWWWW

Damn…

Convinced these men only want mixed kids damn shame they dont even know who the hell they are much less the kis. Guess long as their hair is straight it does not matter.

Congrats to the newborn. Some of these comments are a crazy to me. Its a baby who cares what race the mother is.

Good for him, as long as she’s not black.

Haha, this board is going to be pure comedy. He can’t blame this one on the lean. SMH.

d*m he got a baby mama here in cincinnati wow.. i neva would of thought that… i wonder what nail shop she work in because she look str8 familiar

Disappointed… I was hoping it was Nivea or his ex-wife. Even more disappointed to find out his first son is a half breed. I know that comment will offend some but oh well… that’s just my opinion.

This is the oddest hook-up…???!!

@jswang wrote, “Congrats to the newborn. Some of these comments are a crazy to me. Its a baby who cares what race the mother is.”

You’re right. The bigger issue is that this punk is having unprotected sex with gods knows how many people, of either gender.

He is nasty. And anyone who sleeps with him without protection is nasty. Male or female.

I guess Khia will have a long rant on her myspace page about this one now….

I ALREADY KNEW IF HE HAD A BABY ON THE WAY IT WAS NOT GOING TO BE BY A BLACK WOMAN. YALL BUILD THEM UP THEY PLAY HOOD ALL DAY MAKE THAT MAONEY, AND LEAVE THE HOOD FOR GOOD. THEN AGAIN THEY HAVE TO BECAUSE THE HOOD HATERS WOULD DO DAMAGE.

DANG!!!!!

Weezy how many baby mommas you got???

Get more details @ http://www.stayinthenews.com

“She’s a nail technician who splits her time between the pedicure tub and banging celebrities.”

Priceless

Yes somebody said “good for him as long as she’s not black” AMEN TO THAT. WE DO NOT WANT Weezy. YUCK.Congrats anyhow.

let me get this straight: he just had a baby with this asian chick AND married Nivea? So that means he was messing with them both at the same time and Nivea still married this fool! AND isn’t Supahead preggers by him also? What do these women see in him? He looks nas and tee.

Black women don’t be jealous because you’ll be gettin them welfare checks in stead of dem alimony checks

Wow this is surprising…ok Wayne?

He is pulling a Flavor Flav move..a ugly, crispy looking dude, getting with a non black chick to feel attractive…

hahahahahahaha

Ultimate Hustla WTF are you talkin about? He is not married to this girl, duh its called reading comprehension. Its his baby mama. Baby mamas can NEVER receive alimony checks,ALIMONY IS FOR DIVORCED,individuals………

I’m not usually one to have anything bad to say about interracial situations(to each his/her own). But in this case I must say, “Weezy,what the……………. f****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” All those beautiful, talented black women he has been linked to and this is want he has chosen.

@I got it like that

I wonder too?

Ditto with Damn shame, Simply Ecstasy, and Bella’s comments. Well at least the broad got the one we Black women don’t care for anyway.

If u can afford them have as many kids as u want

Thanks for posting a pic…took ya’ll long enough, but guess what…I lied! I still dont care.

I see how he got that bump on his lip. Ewwwwww.

Sh*t.

[How does Nivea feel about this?]

Reginae is a big sister!

@ Nita

Umm… who said I had a problem with the child? I know children can’t pick their parents. I have a problem with Black Men not building stronger family foundations within our own race. I personally hate seeing black men with white women… I have an opinion and you don’t have to like it. Black men need to stop sleeping around and start getting wives instead of “baby mommas”.

LAME!

Wow, I didn’t know 9 year olds could have babies.

THANK YOU SIMPLY ECTASY!!!!! Will the real Black men who love and know how to appreciate Black women please stand up??? Because believe me there are plenty of good Black women out there waiting so please stop filtering our supreme race!! We were filtered enough with slavery got damnit.

How do you say “jackpot” in vietnamese?

Closet Columnist and Simple Ectasy Never happen yall. Black men are the most disloyal men period………

@ Kennedy:

I ain’t talkin bout them official alimony checks, I mean that green he givin out on da side. Dumb f*ck..

Who cares! Congrats Sarah and Dwayne! She’s not the first and he’s not the last!

Morning Folks

WOW, but Congrats to further populating our world, we appreciate it. LOL

CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS MEN

KENNEDY(Check me out!)

Closet Columnist and Simple Ectasy Never happen yall. Black men are the most disloyal men period………

No, we’re not disloyal – You’re just attracted to disloyal men.

And Nivea would be a fool ass to stay with a boy who’s prob still f*cking the nail tech for a free mani-pedi.

“She’s a nail technician who splits her time between the pedicure tub and banging celebrities.”

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Sarah B. not only does nails and makes babies, but she does teeth too. She decorated Weezy’s teeth quite nicely!!

Marquis de Sade

My husband is VERY loyal to his race.

He is not attracted to non black women b/c he loves himself sweetie, sorry. Try again…..

a baby is a blessing but dang it is 2008 please use protection.

@ Kennedy

You’re right Black men are disloyal in so many different areas. But I just wanna add one more thing… what ever happend to back in the day when if you found out you were pregnant the man stood up and made you an honest woman. There was a shot-gun wedding to cover it up and then a month after the wedding there was an announcement that she got pregnant on her honeymoon. What happend to that? We look at being a baby momma as normal anymore.

Kennedy

Need i remind you, you made the blanket statement in regards to the character of blackmen, so spare me/us the supercilious attitude.

I wasn’t expecting that, not that there’s anything wrong with him and the Asian chick, but I thought Nivea was the one that was pregnant.

What hold you when Badu was having babies by 3 different dude she was earthy and oh well she can afford to have a lot. I see that when Wayne does it he is worthless and no good. Double standards much people.

congrats weezy, now raise him to be a strong loving respectful man.

no swirl comments? lol

i thought he was dating olivia from da huxtables?

@ Simple Ecstasy

I agree with you but shouldn’t we as strong black women get husbands instead of baby daddies lets not just put it on the men to grow and nuture and family foundation women need to take responsibility as well. I don’t care what race creed or color you have to be accountable for you. Back to the topic Wayne hasn’t gone around having a thousand kids like TI or NElly yes I said Nelly who has a ton Wayne has 2 children the daughter by the ex wife and this new son which by the way they are spaced a significant amount of time perhaps it was not an uh oh maybe he was ready to expand his family but just not marry the broad.

When I say black men are disloyal I mean they look outside our race the most. When you see mixed couples it’s 95% of the time a black man with a non black woman. That is disloyal. to me. I love my black men and I will stand behind them 100% until the day I die but the truth is the truth.

Injera70

LOL! I think in the eyes of some of these “SISTAS’” – The difference is Badu kept her irresponible behavior and decision making within their “SKEWED” moral confines of the hood, ie “BLACK”.

uuch man,dude baby moma look like she could really use that mill’ion ASAP!

Simply Ecstasy

I always question that. I don’t know really. It seems OUR community is the only one who hasn’t grasped the importance of a strong family foundation.

How can anyone say he is a good lyricist, what the hell is he saying. Thats not him rapping, thats the sizzurp, mad dog or whateva the f*ck he drinks. Well they will all be short when his 15 minute of fame is up, just like Juvenille’s career. He will have a drug habit and a gaggle of kids. Live ur life es.

Congrats to the happy couple and big up to Lil Wayne for successfully keeping the media totally in the dark about who he is banging. The blogs have been so busy talking about Nivea that they missed the whole pregnancy.

Women are largley to blame for lowered standards and the proliferation of “baby mommas” in our culture.

Women “allow” men to treat them as “disposable” items.

Women “allow” men to get them pregnant without prior committment.

Women proclaim that they can take care of themselves without a man’s help.

I figure if a man really loved me, he would marry me before I got pregnant. It maybe a little old-fashioned, but that’s how I see it.

Furthermore, I would never allow myself to become pregnant by a man who was not committed to me. At least I wouldn’t be pregnant for long.

@ Special K

Yes we women should stop settling but traditionally the man is the rock. The man is the leader. The man is the head of the household. The man sets the tone. We were created to be a helper to our man but our man is too busy sleeping around to appreciate us for what we were created for. Black men need to be stronger and make better choices and us women will follow his lead.

Simply Ecstasy

Uhhh, inter-racial dating/mating makes up a very small percent of this country’s population. I think you’re over-reacting.

Simply Ecstasy I agree. Its so disrespectful. I mean a Jew would NEVER bring a German to his mothers dinner table out of respect for his mother and what she endured, I have Jewish friends. So I feel you………

This b*tch ain’t no damn student LMAO- she’s a professional skank (I’ve seen the other pics of her already). And most of the beautiful people in the world are Black- like Naomi Campbell, Nia Long, Sanaa Lathan, Iman, Beverly Johnson, damn do I need to go on??

Simply Ecstasy

@ Special K

Yes we women should stop settling but traditionally the man is the rock. The man is the leader. The man is the head of the household. The man sets the tone. We were created to be a helper to our man but our man is too busy sleeping around to appreciate us for what we were created for. Black men need to be stronger and make better choices and us women will follow his lead.

THATS IT!

That last one was for Ms Atl- still luv ya tho…

aww lawrd!!! not my baby jesus!!

Call him on the main line tell him what you want!!!

not the white heifa…jesus!!

*rocking from side to side*

Dang I have seen him with this girl at a concert at my school two years ago she holding his jacket and was really close to him but I never would have saw this coming.

@ simply ectasy

i think both genders in our race or disloyal, and it’s so much self hate with in our race

Ms ATL

Well she can’t be that smart…Afterall, she just became another ghetto cliche – A BABYMAMA BY WAY OF A SELF-DESTRUCTIVE, DRUG ADDICTED RAPPER.

Like I said earlier: Talk about lowering the bar of expectations.

@ Throwback

I agree that woman are as much to blame for making bad relationship decisions but who were our role models? Where are our fathers? Why is 75% of black children born to unwed parents? The best way to teach our daughters are by being examples.

he got a baby by a woman who probably smell like acrylics and egg rolls!! JESUS!!!!!!

Beauty is the eye of the beholder..so you’ll never agree on “the most beautiful” people in the world…I tend to think Black is beautiful, not mixed black and not mutt black…

Lol Lil Wayne dating an asian girl, priceless

Just out of curiosity, how many kids does Lil’ Wayne have out of wedlock? I just hope “Sarah B.” has had all her medical tests performed because that whatever-he-is looks like a walking piece of dirty graffiti. . .

*shudder*

And there’s no need for some of the racially offensive posts. . .

I’M SICK OF ALL THESE DUMB WOMEN HAVING CHILDREN AND NOT MARRIED TO THE FATHER AND THE FATHER IS NOT EVEN IN HER LIFE…..FOOLISHNESS

Marquis de Sade(Check me out!)

KENNEDY(Check me out!)

Closet Columnist and Simple Ectasy Never happen yall. Black men are the most disloyal men period………

No, we’re not disloyal – You’re just attracted to disloyal men.

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Is this the real MDS? I don’t believe it..he is ACTUALLY not bashing Black women??? AND MAKING SENSE?

I hate to say it but I kinda agree with him. I know what my sisters Simple Ectasy and Kennedy are saying as well, but we have to STOP disrespecting our good men by putting them in the same category as the men who are not handling their business properly.

I SEE WHY MOST MEN ARE GAY BECAUSE MOST WOMEN ARE DUMB..

Purpple(Check me out!)

Beauty is the eye of the beholder..so you’ll never agree on “the most beautiful” people in the world…I tend to think Black is beautiful, not mixed black and not mutt black…

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ooohhhh WAIT til the biracial gang reads this…the ones who always referring to dark people as TAR and too Black…but they don’t ever want to be referred to as MUTT…

***grabbing my popcorn**

I think its funny that black mothers tell their sons not to trust these woman and then the next generation of black females have to deal with it and get mad.

Whassap, Sydney!

Ok… 1st congrats 2 Weezy!

Also, just like Erykah Badu…. as long as u can financially support yours… u have a right 2 make as many OOW children as u want… DO YOU, WEEZY!!!!!

Well, I wonder how many immigrant visas can Weezy sponsor at one time?

Whassap, Sydney!

Ok… 1st congrats 2 Weezy!

Also, just like Erykah Badu…. as long as u can financially support yours… u have a right 2 make as many OOW children as u want… DO U, WEEZY!!!!!

IN MY BEST CHINESE NAIL SHOP ACCENT.. “SHE DO NAIW AND HAVE BABY WIF WEEZY.”

SMH

CONGRATS ON THE BABY BOY THO… HOPEFULLY HE ISN’T A FAGGOT LIKE HIS DADDY AND GRANDDADDY!!!!

SMH

oops.. double post.. sorry…

WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE CONGRATULATING LIL WAYNE? THIS MAN IS PART OF THE PROBLEM IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY, INPREGNATING WOMEN AND NOT MARRYING THE MOTHER…WHAT IS THERE TO CONGRATULATE. ANOTHER CHILD IN THE WORLD WITH NO TWO PARENT HOUSEHOLD…

AND THIS GIRL IS SO STUPID, SHE’S NOT EVEN WITH LIL WAYNE NOW SHE HAS TO GO AND FIND ANOTHER MAN WHO WILL TAKE HER WITH A NEW BORN BABY…ALL FOR THE SAKE OF MONEY…

LOL @ HF

Everyone has a right to make kids — Doesn’t mean all of them should. I’m just saying. . .

*wondering if Sarah had to close her eyes to sleep with him*

I’m not one to hate on the birth of a child (especially one that will be taken care of). I’m the least bit of concerned with her race… Hey, get your swirl on Wayine if it makes you happy, but am I the only one that thinks that this chick looks a tad bit jitter-bug-ish? She looks every bit of 14… Hope he isn’t Chesterizing the game.

how yall know lil wayne’s not going to marry this woman, how yall know if he’s sleeping around on her? he could be in a serious relationship with her. yall need to read less magazines and more books.

LOOKS LIKE CASSIE…

Of course she did Sydney LOL

@Kennedy

I don’t know how she did it. . .I really don’t.

God bless her, and the baby. . .

*does sign of the Cross*

@ Ultimate Hustla:

“Black women don’t be jealous because you’ll be gettin them welfare checks in stead of dem alimony checks”

Dumb ass. Keep up. He knocked up this chick, but he MARRIED Nivea- a black chick. Since when do baby momma’s get alimony. They get child support. Nivea stands to get those real stacks… as long as he was high enough on syrup to forget a pre-nup.

Sydney

LOL @ HF

Everyone has a right to make kids — Doesn’t mean all of them should. I’m just saying. . .

*wondering if Sarah had to close her eyes to sleep with him*

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Hey Syndey, I agree, it sounds ignant as hell but hey, if it’s good enough 4 MISS Badu…

does anyone of you realize that ‘black’ people here in America are REALLY not all black.. Daym, Y’all are some confused muthers..

Be happy he had a baby, and be happy for her, cause it was her decision to keep it and every child is a blessing.

.. oh, and yeah.. whatever happened to Weezy and Lauren london?

scanclodike- thats was uncool, no need for racsism

WHAT HAPPENED TO LIL WAYNE AND NIVEA…

And Im officially SHOCKED… Wayne picking up strays at his concerts now?? I mean I mean.. congrats and everything but damn..thats all i gotta say…damn. I want to see a MUCH BETTER picture of this lil beezy!

Oh yeeeah when did he marry Nivea??

@ yeah i said it:

“how yall know lil wayne’s not going to marry this woman, how yall know if he’s sleeping around on her? he could be in a serious relationship with her. yall need to read less magazines and more books.”

Umm… I think wifing another chick while this broad was almost full-term would suggest that.

@ Simply Ecstasy

Once again I agree with what you are saying but I also agree with Throwback and Marquis de Sade. I think that WE should be responsible about whom we chose to follow and who we follow. You will not lead me into the darkness if I am already following the light. People will do to you what you allow them to do to you sistah and that goes for any and everybody if you allow yourself to be treated as a jump off then GUESS what you will be a JUMP OFF often times WOMEN lower there expectations and settle. MEN do the same sometimes but it is more commonly seen in women whatever the reason STOP settling fix you. GHANDI said it best ” become the difference you want to see in the world” point blank. Be your own example.

@HF

Oh, I expressed disappointment with Erykah as well. . .

And I know no one’s talking about her looks — Look at him! And he’s not even dressed for Halloween. . .

And I think we women have more control over our fates than we realize or acknowledge. We have the gift of intuition and common sense, and we usually know when a situation is unhealthy.

Hi Marquis

@ octavia

oops, i guess i may need to read more magazines..lol

I didn’t believe this at first when I heard it on the radio yesterday. I don’t remember Weezy passing through the city in the last year so i’m guessing they met outside of Cincy. But why is everyone comparing him to Flav? This is only his second child. I would make more of a comparison between TI and Flav than Wayne. I seen better pics of him and this girl on M T O so they may really have a relationship. Just because he doesn’t put it out for the media to see doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about this girl and their child. We’ll see how this plays out if the baby really is his.

I’m sure being half white and half vietnamese makes her a terrible person. Shame on her.

SMA.

Why any woman of any race would let Weezy touch them is beyond me. I hope he is satisified with himself having unprotected sex. I don’t care how much mooney you have AIDS is no joke!!! Nassty

Hello Sweet Sydney. How you be?

@BE

“Why any woman of any race would let Weezy touch them is beyond me.”

Thank you! I just don’t get it. . .

Sydney(Check me out!)

@BE

“Why any woman of any race would let Weezy touch them is beyond me.”

Thank you! I just don’t get it. . .

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Because some women can be sold. The only thing lil wayne has going for him in my eyes is money. But in my case I prefer to make my own. That’s why grown responsible women like you and I cant see what some of these other women see in him. SMH

I’m not usually one to have anything bad to say about interracial situations(to each his/her own). But in this case I must say, “Weezy,what the……………. f****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” All those beautiful, talented black women he has been linked to and this is want he has chosen.

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Because a beautiful, talented black women would have enough common sense to #1 NOT have any form of sex with him #2 enough self respect to want better for herself #3 would never reduce herself to be known as a babymama or hoodho..

I’m good, Marquis. I missed Obama in Va. yesterday.

Speaking of HIV, just came across this story near St. Louis:

NORMANDY, Mo. (AP) _ Officials plan to start HIV testing at a suburban St. Louis high school where as many as 50 students may have been exposed to the virus that causes AIDS.

St. Louis County spokesman Craig LeFebvre said Wednesday that the mode of transmission in the scare at Normandy High School could include sexual activity, drug use, piercings or tattoos.

The St. Louis County Health Department said last week that a positive HIV test raised concerns that students at Normandy might have been exposed.

The Health Department is not saying whether the infected person was a student. Testing at the school is beginning this week.

@Nina Knows

Agreed — I provide for myself, and I refuse to put myself in harm’s way. Money means nothing if you left with a baby and no ring, HIV, etc.

*you’re left*

For real..once I don’t have to take care of the kids I DO NOT CARE…however it would be nice for the not so rich moms and dads to try committment (see not even necessarily marriage)in regards to their families. Financially and emotionally it works out for everyone.

We have to be realistic though..nothing is written in stone EVEN in marriage. See increasing DIVORCE rates…

Oshie – uh huh… ok… whats up.. SHETUP(Check me out!)

I’m sure being half white and half vietnamese makes her a terrible person. Shame on her.

SMA.

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i mean im sure she sat up in her dads nut sac with a pen and pad and submitted her racial preferance to her mamas womb right? shame on her indeed

I had this nail tech chick diggin me…then she got all upset with me cause I cut my hair off…i tell u Asian people.

Where my main squeeze ZZZZZZZZZZZZZz

Women are largley to blame for lowered standards and the proliferation of “baby mommas” in our culture.

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@Throwback

Excellent point!!!

Do you know I got a co-worker that I went to Grad School with and she’s making 6 figures and this broad got knocked up by some dude who ain’t put no ring on those stubby fingers of hers…

I was SOO DISAPPOINTED in her cause she’s educated, a good Sista and knows better (*I’m talkin’ ’bout not using protection and the fact that she’s around 30 and not a young chick who got pregnant by accident) because she used to work as a Hospital Administrator…

SMH as I type and think about her and her situation…

We as a people gotta stop with this dysfunctional bullsh#t = having children out of wedlock and thinking it’s Ok and alright

*It’s the thinking it’s alright and just fine that bothers me… And we as a people are TOO accepting of this phenomenon…

i’ve never understood the real reason why a Black man can’t simply be with a Black Women…since when did it become un popular…since when did mixed children become the new “it” thing…..I’m sorry but I don’t agree with the swirl….of course the baby can’t help it but come on Black Men and Black Women …..our race is beautiful…strong….stop diluting it….DANG!!!

CONGRATS ON THE BABY BOY THO… HOPEFULLY HE ISN’T A FAGGOT LIKE HIS DADDY AND GRANDDADDY!!!!

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@Ms. Panama

LMAO!!!

Now you know you wrong, which your fine a$$…

SMH @ myself for laughing at that comment…

(*but I thought it was funny though)

realwoman….. excellent point!! Let’s start with a commitment to each other. Marriage has no guarantee’s but damn what ever happen to “my word is my bond”… guess that went out the window with the “I’m doing me” syndrome.

Ok forget the wedding ring, can we at least work on a promise ring…..

My question is DOES HE EVEN KNOW THIS CHICK or was she a one-night stand? Eewwwwwwwwwww.

Anonymous3 – the fire sign(Check me out!)

i’ve never understood the real reason why a Black man can’t simply be with a Black Women…since when did it become un popular…since when did mixed children become the new “it” thing…..I’m sorry but I don’t agree with the swirl….of course the baby can’t help it but come on Black Men and Black Women …..our race is beautiful…strong….stop diluting it….DANG!!!

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do who should the lil swirl baby u didnt aprove of being concived date in twenty years, seeing as no matter who that person is the swirl baby will be “diluting” another race? cant people just be with who they want to so long as its responsible?

hot sauce

you’re totally irrelevant….can someone with real sense respond to my post

Who cares that she is not black?? When I heard Lil Wayne had a baby on the way I knew the girl wasn’t gonna be a Rhodes Scholar. Women of all races need to learn to keep their legs closed and stop having unprotected sex with the rappers, rock stars and God knows what other celebrities. She and the baby need to get tested ASAP!

@Anonymous3

Sista, you can’t get upset about Lil’ Wayne. I mean, look at him. . .Would you want him??

OK, what if sistas started a new kind of movement, like Operation Close Our Legs, or something along those lines. Do you think it would work? Abstinence is the only 100 percent way to ensure that you won’t encounter issues like unwanted pregnancy, HIV and other STIs, etc. And it may actually help sisters be healthier emotionally because when you’re not physically intimate with a man, that’s one less bond you need to break when it’s time to move on.

I think women have settled for too long and given up their control in relationships. Take it back. Don’t settle. Demand more. And if he doesn’t give it to you, move on — someone else will. And know that a number of men nowadays have multiple partners, so protecting our physical health is key.

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

Women are largley to blame for lowered standards and the proliferation of “baby mommas” in our culture.

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@Throwback

Excellent point!!!

Do you know I got a co-worker that I went to Grad School with and she’s making 6 figures and this broad got knocked up by some dude who ain’t put no ring on those stubby fingers of hers…

I was SOO DISAPPOINTED in her cause she’s educated, a good Sista and knows better (*I’m talkin’ ’bout not using protection and the fact that she’s around 30 and not a young chick who got pregnant by accident) because she used to work as a Hospital Administrator…

SMH as I type and think about her and her situation…

We as a people gotta stop with this dysfunctional bullsh#t = having children out of wedlock and thinking it’s Ok and alright

*It’s the thinking it’s alright and just fine that bothers me… And we as a people are TOO accepting of this phenomenon…

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On point, Slide. I just disagree with the part where it said “women r 2 blame 4 lowered standards…”

I think men AND women JOINTLY r responsible 4 these types of pathologies in the community.

Nina Knows(Check me out!)

So many people wanna say congrats because that baby is a half breed. I always have to go back to the nasty comments about usher and his baby he created with a black woman with whom he married. Basically there’s alot of double standard and self hate when it gets down to it. Folks had no problem with saying how ugly tameka and that baby was. little usher was created im sure out of love on somebody’s part and not for profit.

*im grabbing some popcorn with realwoman* it’s about to get crunk in a min when the jiggaboos and mutts get on here…….

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YEP! It is a double standard! It cracks me up all the nasty things said about Tameka Raymond just because of her skin complexion and non euro look. Age NOT BUYING IT because Chilli is the same age! Looks NOT BUYING IT because she is pretty. Waiting to see if they dog this NON MARRIED, NON COMMITTED, NON-EDUCATED, LOW-LIFE the way they did Tameka.

do who should the lil swirl baby u didnt aprove of being concived date in twenty years, seeing as no matter who that person is the swirl baby will be “diluting” another race? cant people just be with who they want to so long as its responsible?

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NO!

Isla(Check me out!)

Who cares that she is not black?? When I heard Lil Wayne had a baby on the way I knew the girl wasn’t gonna be a Rhodes Scholar. Women of all races need to learn to keep their legs closed and stop having unprotected sex with the rappers, rock stars and God knows what other celebrities. She and the baby need to get tested ASAP!

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AGREED

Anonymous3 – the fire sign

hoodho i got 12 inches of relavince behind my zippa thatta have yo simple azz sprung.

@HF

“I think men AND women JOINTLY r responsible 4 these types of pathologies in the community.”

Thank you! We each have played our part in this unfortunate situation.

Throw Floryda in there too, oh wait he already fell off? ok

ina Knows(Check me out!)

do who should the lil swirl baby u didnt aprove of being concived date in twenty years, seeing as no matter who that person is the swirl baby will be “diluting” another race? cant people just be with who they want to so long as its responsible?

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NO!

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no what? they cant be with who they want? ur a joke…

Its 6 am thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

6am’s predictions for fall 2008-2010

deep south rap will kill itself slowly.

Dre, eminem, new 50 cent and methodman will be massive giving the deep south free bullets to load the gun so they can commit suicide.

Rick Ross will fall off

Yung Joc already has

Jeezy will be the next rapper outted as a fraud.

Love 6am

HI, HATERS:)

ONE WORD (NASTY)

FOR BOTH OF THEM

@mandah…. no actually lil wayne is the joke. But no hard feelings…ok?

I dont think swirl babies dilute a race. but the intentions of the parents create confict. IF a “swirl” baby is born because one race has an inferior mindset and thinks their doing better by creating a mixed baby. Then that is a shame, and their views ultimately dilute the race.

But if your a swirl product because your parents are just humans who pro-created, then fine. But i’m sure your aware that “some” equate other races as being better than their own, and that my dear is the biggest joke of them all.

fyi, i wasnt picking on you, i feel where your coming from. plus you said you were a product of a swirl or something like that, so i’m sure your a little more sensitive and particular about the subject at hand.

Like for real..how are you going to blame women alone for the lower standards? That makes no sense. MEN need to be men and stop blaming women for their damn problems. What woulda happened if MLK or Malcolm X decided to blame Black women for them not getting jobs due to racism, being unfairly incarcerated by whites due to their race, not being allowed to buy homes in certain areas, educate their children etc BECAUSE OF RACE?

NO. They were REAL men and they fought for theirs EVEN sacrificing their lives for their other brothers and sisters who wanted nothing more than freedom to LIVE without harassment and prejudice. We still have some men like them but they are a dying breed.

Heard she was a stripper not a nail tech…

@Nina Knows

thank u for understanding my point of view, some of yours were valid as well. but it agravates me when ppl say “oh yo mama just wanted you to have good hair so she got a white nicca” it very ignorant as well to down ppl who are interacial relationships just because you think they were trying to get something out of it or make a statement or that they hate their own race. i have seen many interacial relationships with ppl in them because they love each other and not because “they babies will be light skinned and have good hair” including myself.

realwoman…. good point.

two words: COP-OUT

@realwoman

Well, speaking for myself, I’m not blaming women alone for the overall problems facing our community, but I can’t make men do what they should be doing. But I can make smart, healthy, logical decisions for my own life, and that includes not dealing with riff-raff. We can assert more control over who we allow into our lives.

There will always be men who don’t fulfill their responsibilities, are inept at relationships, etc., but we don’t have to deal with them. They should be left alone, IMHO. Those who want to do right, will, and those who don’t, should suffer the consequences by themselves.

Gross! I don’t care about the interracial aspect of this, Lil Wayne just looks like walking death to me. I couldn’t see myself having a conversation with him, let alone handing my precious body over to him.

@Mandah….

I agree, and feel you on that. Actually to me, most of the “diluting” comes from blacks who are not mixed. I see more culturally stronger individuals that are mixed like Alicia Keys do more and support more for us then lets say Beyonce. Who only speaks about themselves. Dont step outside themselves at all. Look at Obama, (in my opinion) if he was born to two black parents, he would have most likely ended up with a white or non-black woman. Being a product of a swirl has nothing to do with participating in the breakdown of your people.

You also gave me another way of looking at it too. Not all mixed people come from those those self-hating enviroments, (trust I can look into my own family for that) but I cant deny that some of my male fam members will not date black women, or when they do, they quick to replace them with lighter or white. not because of any particular reason other than wanting a “bad yella bone”. I would think a light skin woman would be offended by that. If a dude only wanted me because of my skin color, I would kick his dumb ass to the curb.

I’m going to need that white russian in a min….lol

LOL @ WhatsYoursIsMine

Nina Knows

I don’t think that light skinned women would be offended because they are sought out for their complexion becuase society dictates that lighter is better…not that she feels superior..

Here we go again black people….another BLACK/bi-racial child born out of wedlock. The same women who say there are no “good black men” are the ones chasing the Lil Waynes, 50 Cents and Latrell Spreewells. Women of all races need to raise our standards when it comes to men. Sorry, that’s just my editorial for the day…….

Young black men are commitment shy and/or sleep around waaaay too much. Women try hard to love the black man but usually he’s not focused on building a family structure. He’s looking for a good time. So then we females are off to the next man with the hopes that the next one is better than the last. Even if we don’t have children from that relationship and let’s just say we didn’t even have sex with him… it’s still the same thing… our black men failed us. I’m not male bashing. I’m just making observations within my culture. Even good women (not jump offs) have a hard time finding a suitable mate because the black man plays way too many games. How many times have you cried or had a girlfriend cry to you about a man. Yes there are good men out there but they come few and far between.

lmao at HOt SAuce.

I agree with Simply Ecstasy.

That’s it, Hot Sauce. I’m sending you to Charm School. Leave now!

@nina

thnx for the insight.

* hands u that white russian*

no hard feelings

@Anonymous3 – the fire sign…

Your right. I guess I feel like they “shouldnt” take that as a compliment. But since it works in their favor, they roll with it, not realizing it’s a negative term. If a man only date me for my skin tone, I would be turned off. Like I dont have any other qualities or what?

But I agree with you, society does play it that way.

Would some of you agree that a number of these issues are rooted in the breakdown of the family structure in our community?

Yes Sydney, MOST actually……….

The obvious self-hate issues with black men is so embarrassing

@Sydney

I agree that these issues are definitely caused by the breakdown of the family structure in our community.

@ Chris

“People just need to be honest and do right by each other.”

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That line you put pretty much sums it up. I agree with you. It apply to both men and women. Just wake up and do the right thing for both parties.

@KENNEDY

Well, I think that’s at the core of many of our pathologies, and, collectively, I don’t think we’re doing enough to stop the hemorrhaging. It just seems like it’s continuing from generation to generation, and getting worse.

@Chris and Everyone

Then what can we do starting now to change it? And the finger-pointing isn’t helping, and that’s what we like to do as brothers and sisters, turn our frustrations on each other. It’s not working.

Exactly. And with 75% of new black babies being born out of wedlock I see no end in sight……….

Sydney(Check me out!)

Would some of you agree that a number of these issues are rooted in the breakdown of the family structure in our community?

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Sydney… MOST DEFINETLY. If our family structure was stronger or existent for that matter, alot of these issues, wouldnt be issues. Until then, it remains taboo. I just try and play my part, and hopefuly one day pass it onto younger generations. There is strength and power in family. But I do feel like we also get the word out in our own generations by having these type of conversations.

nobody ever accomplished anything being quite and silent.

EACH ONE , TEACH ONE.

And a number of those babies, Kennedy, will grow up and produce more children out of wedlock. This is a cycle. . .

keeping it cool(Check me out!)

congrats to him, the baby’s mom, and the baby!!! God makes no mistakes, so i wish them all the very best, and she looks like a pretty girl too!

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ur positivty is unbelievably refreshing.

@ Simply Ecstasy

It’s still the same thing… our black men failed us.

Our black men have not failed us. We’ve failed ourselves.

We’ve allowed ourselves to be manipulated by the promise of love and the inability to make good decisions about our future. Then we get angry at men because they have disappointed us.

I would NEVER EVER consider having a baby for someone that I was not married to. It’s simply something that I wouldn’t consider. However, many women do and it’s a decision that they make. Not the man……it’s the woman.

A man’s life will probably not be changed by having a child, but a woman definitely will.

I read a story this week about a pregnant 12-year-old. 12-YEAR-OLD. This madness has to stop. What’s happening to us?

You’re so damn right.A vicious cycle too. The scariest part is they do grow up and become conditioned and believe that a 2 parent household is not imperative in raising a productive kid.

Its guaranteed to happen….

wow, bad move weezers!! bad bad dog!! what are u thinking? did u INTENTIONALLY take the condom off? u wanna be the brokest rapper alive now? is that it?

@ThAtMixEdChiCk!

Hey, dont get mad cause your a mutt, im just speaking how I feel. Everybody’s got opinions and that was mine. Im sorry your confused about who you are and stuck in the middle, blame your parent mixedmutt

@Sydney and everyone

Well on a large scale it is going to take a lot of work to get this situation rectified, but I have made some rules for myself that I am attempting to live by.

1. Don’t sleep with someone you wouldn’t marry

2. Search for someone with similar values

3. Don’t make decisions out of lust or in the moment

4. Make marriage a priority, not a last resort

I’ve always wanted a family of my own and that is something that I’ve strived for. When I was young, my parents taught me the importance of family and marriage. We definitely need to pass those values on to more people.

In order to make a difference, we need to first make changes in our own lives and then pass along the word. Too many people are listening to bad advice or refusing to listen to good advice because the person giving it isn’t living it.

@chris..great values!!

Sydney my sister is public school principal here in Chicago.

She had an 11yr old student who had a baby. But wait for this Sydney…….Her mom had her @ 11 so the grandmother of the new child was 21 or 22. Talk about a cycle……….

Kennedy, it already has happened. I think there’s a mindset that has already formed out there that negates the validity of marriage and has rendered it inessential in creating families. Children mirror what they see — Their parents serve as models of behavior, so it’s no surprise when they wind up in the same situations as their elders.

She’s um… Idk I expected better even for him.. she looks used, N not 2 clean, but owell she got a meal ticket atleast lol

Plz stop bashing Blk women stop the jealousy we’re the best!;)

Wonderful post, Chris! Are you a man, if you don’t mind me asking?

@Kennedy

Wow, an 11-year-old with a baby. SMH. I think I was shocked the first time I heard a story about a grandparent in his/her 20s or 30s, but I think it’s becoming more commonplace.

Do children have a childhood anymore?

Exactly. And with 75% of new black babies being born out of wedlock I see no end in sight……….

thats why Hot Sauce do his part by pullin out before he nutz. Fukk that babymama drama.

People come on this site talking about how ugly someone is and can’t understand why someone would want to be with them, it must be this, or that. What is really unattractive is being shallow. When will these silly people learn how attractive someone is to the public has little or nothing to do with their ability to create a happy lasting relationship or their ability to attract those of the opposite sex. For all the peope who call Jay z, Tameka Foster Raymond, Serena, Tiny, Weezy and others ugly and try to make excuses as to why they have mates when u don’t. Maybe you should work on your personality. Weezy never has a shortage of women, whenever I see him with women he appears to be a gentleman, attentive, and complimentary and generous, trust those qualities go far beyond a pretty face and nice abs.

We’ve failed ourselves.

We’ve allowed ourselves to be manipulated by the promise of love and the inability to make good decisions about our future. Then we get angry at men because they have disappointed us.

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@Throwback

Get ‘em Darling…

These women knew EXACTLY what type of man they were dealing with before they got knocked up and/or he did her dirty (*for the most part)…

They saw how:

- he treated other women in his life

- he was irresponsible

- he was a liar (*even lied about dumb stuff)

- he couldn’t keep a job

- he at the club EVERY weekend

- coming home all hours of the night with a dumb excuse or no excuse…

etc…

And expect for him to all of a sudden change his ways and character when they tell him she’s pregnant… WHATEVER… SMH @ these women…

lol @ hotsauce. bust on backs and bellys

@Sydney

Yes, I’m a man. I am a law student at Georgetown Law.

@Chris

Good for you! Excellent school.

You obviously grew up with a family who instilled strong values.

I’m just trying to figure out how to make those values widespread again in our community.

@ Purpple

I am def not confused who I am. Iam a beautiful, intelligent, biracial woman who embraces all races and cultures.And I guess Barack Obama and Halle Berry are “mixedmutts” too right? LMAO Thanks for making my day :]

Nope, these babies cant have a childhood when your mom is 15yrs older than you, her man is attracted to you, you’re fighting him off daily, and your dad lives across town, but you don’t know where b/c he won’t tell you or your mom. So These kids are on their own. There is no man in these households to protect and teach these kids anything.

@ Blasian

I agree 100000000000% percent!

No, there’s no real guidance, Kennedy, and there are so many dangers awaiting them. It’s really sad to me. I also think that there are too many parents who are trying to be friends to their kids, instead of parenting and disciplining them.

These are all significant issues, and they’re only growing.

@Sydney

Thanks. I think we can do it by placing more importance on those values in the youth. Most people coming up today are taught that marriage is a prison and that it is a miserable existence. They are taught this by people that are normally bitter and/or upset for some reason or another. (Scorned).

We should glorify families and marriage the way we allow other things to be glorified in our communities. Doing so will not bring about change immediately, but it will certainly hope make things better for the generations to come. We just need to get our stuff together in dealing with each other. We also need to get into positions in the community where we will have the influence and platform to affect people’s views.

@Throwback

you took one excerpt from the comment and ran with it… Did you read the part that said even without the birth of a child or even without having a sexual relationship with the man… young black men are simply not focued on building foundations. And that’s REAL… look around! So tell me why he:

-he treated other women in his life

- he was irresponsible

- he was a liar (*even lied about dumb stuff)

- he couldn’t keep a job

- he at the club EVERY weekend

- coming home all hours of the night with a dumb excuse or no excuse…

etc…

THANKS, THAT’S MY POINT EXACTLY! Black men are not focused.

and the ones that are focused don’t want a used up bitter woman

@Chris

“Most people coming up today are taught that marriage is a prison and that it is a miserable existence. They are taught this by people that are normally bitter and/or upset for some reason or another. (Scorned).”

This is an excellent point, and it goes back to the thought you expressed earlier about monitoring who we allow to give us advice and guidance. There is this meme that is now prevalent that marriage carries more negatives than positives — that you stand to lose more than you will gain.

Like you said, we should glorify families and marriage the way we do other unhealthy behaviors, like promiscuous sex and materialism.

@Simply Ecstasy

I’m talking to a very focused black man right now.

Chris, meet Simply Ecstasy. Simply Ecstasy, meet Chris.

Blasian is delusional…

This post has took a spin and you’re lost sweetheart. This isn’t about interracial dating anymore. We’re talking about something else… get with it or get lost.

HI CHRIS!!!

Syndey, I didn’t write that. Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original) did. However, I do agree.

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My point is if black men are not focused, it is not our jobs to fix them. That’s something that they will have to do for themselves.

Just like black women cannot continue to blame black men for their problems especially when they exercise poor judgment and make bad decisions with their lives.

Hi Simply,

How are you?

get the f*ck over it….dat dude can f*ck and procreate with whomever he desires and its PLEANTY of broke n*ggas bringin babies in this world everyday that have no intention at all of taking care of them. this dude seems to be proud of his son and he’s taking care of his daughter so there’s no reason to assume he wont take care of his son. he only has 2 kids as oppose to these othe n*ggas wit 5 and 6 chillen (dats rite – bad azz chillen). do ya thang weezy and let the haters hate…

please stop saying all black women on this post are haters. i am one and never said anything disrespectful about anyone.

stop lumping eveyone together, smdh!

I agree, Throwback. We should take responsibility for our own actions.

LOL @ Simply Ecstasy

Feel better now?

uh oh we got the “mixed” ones up in arms- the confusion is killing them.

Could someone, anyone please explain to me, why anyone would be offended by a man having a child with a woman of another “race”,

WITHOUT YOUR RESPONSE HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH RACISM?.

Even if you assume that the first people to walk the earth were in fact BLACK than WHITE people would have had to have been a descendant of someone BLACK.

Assuming you are very religious you would have to believe that Adam and Eve were the first people on the planet, right. So regardless of what “race” they were, wouldn’t that mean that “all” races stemmed from their union.

Assuming you believe that “Caucasian” people were in fact the result of genetic experimentation by what would have been “Negroid” scientist in the beginning (believe me there are people who believe that (5 PERCENTERS for one), wouldn’t that mean that the “Negro” “created” the “Caucasian” and if so what about the “Mongoloid” race. Would the “Mongoloid” race be the union of the Negro and Caucasian? (Just Asking,lol). And wouldn’t that also mean the “Negro” created his own “Oppressor”.

Assuming anyone of these hypotheses are true wouldn’t that mean that the “Caucasian” is in fact a descendant of the “Negro” and therefore a part of who you are.

RACISM IS ALIVE AND WELL. IT ONLY SEEMS FITTING THAT THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN OPPRESSED WILL SOMEDAY OVER COME THEIR OPPRESSOR. KNOWING THAT, WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL BE THE OUTCOME OF BEING IN THE POSITION OF THE OPPRESSOR. WOULD THAT BE THE LEGACY YOU WOULD WANT TO LEAVE TO THE FOLLOWING GENERATIONS TO COME?.

It really is a shame and a disservice to Mankind to have been subjected to such an insidious ideology. People talk about The Holocaust, but I truly believe this to be the BIGGEST HUMAN ATROCITY TO HAVE EVER BEEN BESTOWED UPON MAN.

SO I ASK AGAIN, HOW CAN ANYONE BE OFFENDED BY A MAN OF EITHER RACE WHO DECIDES TO BE WITH A PERSON OF ANOTHER RACE, WITHOUT YOUR RESPONSE HAVING TO DO WITH RACISM?.

@POWER OF LOVE !…..

Scroll up darling, there were plenty of examples given. (please look past the hoodho comments) There are ample amount of comments on here, that touch on the subject.

Power of Love go head with all that bullshyt pls, call it racism call it whatever you want, that shyt still aint 100% with me.

thats why Hot Sauce do his part by pullin out before he nutz. Fukk that babymama drama.

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PULLING OUT is not going to stop you from getting HIV fool. It also does not prevent pregnancy. If you had a brain you would know about pre-ejaculatory fluid.

@blaq

I am so sick and tired of everyone’s moral list for black men and black women. a lot of women have children out of wedlock, because no one asked them to get married, they found out there were pregnant and wanted the baby. I’m sure I am not talking to any virgins out there so everyone who is not currently married is subject to becomming a babymama/daddy.

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LOL!!!! I’m still a virgin and I’m still holding out hope.

And no, I’m not an ugly 12 year old. I’m older than that.

If we were all meant to be mixed why the hellz we start off as NOT mixed. Shyt is the way it is for a reason, stop trying to make this a la-di-da-di world, because its not!

If we were all meant to be mixed why the hellz we aint start off as mixed. Shyt is the way it is for a reason, stop trying to make this a la-di-da-di world, because its not!

@Marquis de Sade

LOL. You wrong at 9:09

@Sybil Blaize

That’s a very nice picture, I must say.

@ throwback

Good for you!!! are you over 18? If so even better. Hold strong to your convictions and only accept that which is in line with your plans for the future. Most people don’t wait for marriage as I am sure you are aware of.

No one here is perfect. I guarantee you all of you had sex without being married so no one should be judging others so harshly.

It’s funny how people think that they are the epitome of righteousness when they want to criticize others.

Mind your own business look at your own life. At least he took responsibility for the child. Some men just walk away and say “it ain’t mine”.

@ Simply Ecstasy

again I am with THROWBACK you say the black men is not focused but why are the women not focused enough to move around if he is indeed doing

-he treated other women in his life

- he was irresponsible

- he was a liar (*even lied about dumb stuff)

- he couldn’t keep a job

- he at the club EVERY weekend

- coming home all hours of the night with a dumb excuse or no excuse…

etc…

WOMEN try to change them and they even start hating on one another alot of women will go and have a baby with a man knowing he is not taking care of the other babies he have. Women need to stand up and be responsible. Prime example is if the mom had the kid at 15 instead of the grandma making her stay at home and raise the baby they babysit while she is out and being grown again, instead she should be made to learn by her mistakes and own up to them not only the girl but the boy as well. But the is age old it doesn’t matter what color you are there are just absentee fathers and husbands. And you can be married and get a divorce and at times the ex-husband will think he can divorce the children too.

@Throwback

Congrats on that. That isn’t easy to do by any means.

Thats sum white gurl lookin right there…Go weezy!

I bet that baby look cute doe…I’M NEXT ;D

Duke Ellington’s music is great

POWER OF LOVE how are you going to ask a question like this without having race in the answer? That is the point…

No matter how you slice it the races are different even our DNA differs slightly. The same way people have issues with sleeping with same sex, children, animals etc. you will find people having issue amongst race. ME? As long as you do it for the right reasons I have no issue but when you make it that you go outside of your race because your own race is somehow inferior…that is senseless to me.

@ CHRIS

So glad to see a FOCUSED black man… just wish there were more of you. Whenever your in Cleveland holla at cha gyrl!

@Special K….

I agree, but it takes two to raise a child. The woman and the MAN should be responsible in picking more reliable partners. Please dont group all women in the same catagory. There is a lack of parenting on BOTH sides.

@Tina

I love Duke Ellington’s music. It is amazing to see what he was able to do and how he was able to create some masterpieces in under 30 minutes. That’s God given talent at its finest.

@Simply

I was actually out there in Cleveland 2 summers ago when I was working for Progressive for a brief time. If I ever find my way out there again, I’ll be sure to say hello.

@Nina Knows

Girl I feel you. Im not saying it wouldn’t be nice if everything were so peachy and we could afford to be color-blind but that dont work when we the ONLY ones who is color blind but everybody else DEF sees color, or shyt they may not see color but they see BLACK..beige might slip through but they daym sure see BLACK. Yeah I get caught up in fantasy too but I know what reality is so Im def not gonna play myself with that kumbaya mess.

Hi Tina, do you like Coltrane?

@tru3playboy

I don’t roll my eyes and get bent out of shape when I see interracial couples. If you’ve been following my threads my arguement has been about black men not taking a stand within our culture to do better by our black women. 23 percent of black women over age 40 are unmarried while it is only 7 percent in the white community. 70% of black children are born to unwed families and 60% of those are born to FATHERLESS homes. The black MAN is not embracing our women and children. Take my comments how you want to but the truth is the truth.

I know yall know the fact by now that BLACK hair is the only real human hair when it comes to the DNA in the hair…all that other hair is just like dog hair/animal hair! I love being black!

Purpple(Check me out!)

@Nina Knows

Girl I feel you. Im not saying it wouldn’t be nice if everything were so peachy and we could afford to be color-blind but that dont work when we the ONLY ones who is color blind but everybody else DEF sees color, or shyt they may not see color but they see BLACK..beige might slip through but they daym sure see BLACK. Yeah I get caught up in fantasy too but I know what reality is so Im def not gonna play myself with that kumbaya mess.

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AMEN. This is what I am talking about! When we are ready to love OURSELVES then and only then can we love somebody else…

So all the women in here that consider themselves to be a good catch but are yet still single and don’t date thugs and do respect themselves… why do you think you’re still single then?

@realwoman and Nina Knows

Im just glad to see other Black women or women of color period who are up on game telling it like it is and not being wavered. Salute.

If a male or female withhold sex from a would be suitor for enough time before this would happen, they wouldn’t have to worry about out of wedlock children.

The good thing about doing that is that the shady men would get antsy and want to bounce because they weren’t getting any loving. At least then you’d know what the deal was.

Sex in this country seems to be completely backwards. I still wonder why it’s not like this in Europe.

@Chris

Yes, it is God-given talent at it’s finest.

@Sydney

Hey yourself. I love John Coltrane too. My favorite by him is Coltrane For Lovers.

There’s a bit of ultra-sensitivity about dating “others” who are not of our race. We need to tone down it down. People are attracted and fall in love for all kinds of reasons. Some make sense and some don’t.

I’m a fairly tall woman…..5’8 in my stocking feet. Normally, if I date someone, I like for the person to be taller than me. It doesn’t MEAN that there’s something WRONG with a shorter man, it’s just something that I prefer. If a met a really nice shorter man, I’d fall like a rock, but it’s a personal preference.

Both my brothers are married to white women and I don’t view them as disloyal. It’s just who they happen to like. My sister is married to a Jewish attorney. Is she disloyal too? My mother is married to an alcoholic. Is she disloyal?

Just because some black men like to date white women, it’s OK. It doesn’t mean that something is wrong with black women. We’re OK too!!

@Tina

Yeah, I also have some Thelonious Monk.

Do you like classical, too?

LIL WAYNE MAY DO A FLAVOR FLAV AND FORGET ABOUT HIS BLACK DAUGHTER, NOW THAT HE HAS A MIXED CHILD. FLAV STORP PAYING CHILD SUPPORT TO HIS CHILDREN WHEN HE MARRIED AND HAD HIS NEW BABY, YOU NEVER SAW HIM ON MAGAZINES HOLDING THOSE LITTLE DARK SKIN CHILDREN. THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH. AND HIS ASS KNOW HE IS UGLY, AND THAT THAT CHIC MARRIED HIM FOR THE LITTLE MONEY HE HAS.

@ tru3playboy

Nicely said!!

Also, just to add on to what I was saying earlier about us dragging each other in these blogs… I went to a political blog yesterday on CNN or CBSnews.com (can’t remember which one), and those white folks weren’t in there clowning and dragging each other like we do on this site… THEY WERE DRAGGING BLACK PEOPLE!!! Just something to think about.

true3playboy sounds mighty angry. . .Whew!

-CC

I gets wayne really takes that “protistute flang” to heart

Oh, and on the subject of women and other races with hair extensions, the Washington Post ran an article in 2006 on their increasing popularity. You can do a Google to find the article in its entirety:

By Korin Miller

Washington Post Staff Writer

Monday, December 4, 2006; C05

Remember those Rapunzel Barbies whose hair you could make longer by giving it a good pull? They’ve come alive and walk among us.

Take Britney Spears. After announcing her split from hubby Kevin Federline, the pop star sported a blunt chin-length cut. What better way to express her singledom than to redo her do?

But wait. Two weeks later, her hair was cascading down her back.

Guess what, ladies? Britney has fake hair. And though we know we shouldn’t care, on some level we do, tangled up as we are in a society obsessed with hair and what it represents: beauty, power, sexuality, vitality. Men try to keep theirs, and women, well, that’s a long story — and one we enter (cue sound of blow-dryer whrrrrr). on a recent Friday afternoon, as University of Maryland sophomore Giulia DiMarzo is seated at David’s Hair and Day Spa in Bethesda. Svetlana Sintukovska is stationed in an identical chair just a few feet away. They’re not going anywhere for a while.

“Last time I was here for six hours,” Sintukovska, 25, says with a slight grimace. This time she’s hoping to be out in an hour.

Once a Hollywood trade secret — though common in some ethnic communities — pricey hair extensions are a growing phenomenon.

“It’s everywhere in magazines,” Sintukovska says while stylist Massimo Quartararo painstakingly glues golden locks in a tidy row near her scalp. Her hair is expanding — in length and volume — by the minute. “Different celebrities . . . they have short hair and then you see them with long hair. They obviously have extensions,” she says.

Quartararo has been extending his clients’ hair for more than a decade but says business has really picked up within the past few years. “People come in with pictures of Britney Spears or Christina Aguilera and ask, ‘Is that extensions? I want this look.’ ”

David P. Marshall, author of “The Celebrity Culture Reader” and “Celebrity and Power: Fame in Contemporary Culture,” isn’t surprised. “Celebrity culture is tightly connected to consumer culture,” he explains. “They provide patterns for us to consume and tell us what to consume. We say: If they can do it, why can’t we?”

Well Obama is biracial. But his BLACK father left his mother at an early age and it was his WHITE mother and WHITE grandparents that stayed around from day 1 and molded him into the man he is today. Obama made a fathers day speech earlier this year that was critical of the absent black fathers. The black man (not all but most) is lost and it has a trickle down effect to the women and children. God created man and then created woman to be his helper. But how can we help when there is no clear leader.

@Sydney

I’m going back and forth from threads.

No, I don’t like classical, but I do like Monk and his hats too. My favorites are Blue Monk and Straight No Chaser. My all time favorite musician is Miles Davis and Kind of Blue album. I listen to All Blues (track # 4) every morning.

Oh, and just so we’re clear, these hair extensions cost in the hundreds, so women of other races are paying a pretty penny:

“Permanent” (vs. clip-on) extensions at David’s range from $250 for a quarter-head of added hair to as much as $1,300 for the works. Prices at the Georgetown Aveda Lifestyle Salon & Spa, which does about five extension clients a month, can reach $1,400. Washington’s Toka salons top out at $2,000 each among the several extensions it does every month. Despite the price tag, most extensions last only about three months before the wearer is due for maintenance. The hair eventually has to be removed and replaced by new extensions because as real hair grows, the bonds move down and become obvious.

Still, Quartararo insists that this beauty option is something that nearly everyone can afford: “Not all my clients who do extensions are rich. Some just want nice hair.”

Less inexpensive, but not cheap, removable options are available. HairDo products range from $85 to $500. The line was launched by Jessica Simpson with celebrity stylist Ken Paves several months ago at HairExtensions.com.

Carliz Teague, CEO of the Web site, says her business increased 40 percent this year and Simpson’s line is making a big splash. “The clip-in human hair products are really hot right now,” she says.

@ truplay

Why do you have so much hate and animosity for black women. So what black women wear weaves, we’ve been taught our whole lives something is wrong with nappy hair, dark skin, big lips, thick bodies, but you know what we still do the damn thing, and one of us is considered to be the sexiest woman alive with her weave on. The black womans beauty has no bounds and we are imitated by every race of woman on a constant. I know that if you are a black man, that you know what discrimination is and how it hurts do don’t do that to your own women.

situations like this bring out all the racists; In order for racism to stop, the first step would be for everyone to look in the mirror…Ignorance continues..

Nina Knows

I feel you you Girl!!! I dont perm my hair, its long and I can wear it curly or straight. Skrew whatever anybody else is trying to kick really.

Tina, I like Miles Davis, too, along with Sarah Vaughn and many others.

realwoman

(Check me out!)

POWER OF LOVE how are you going to ask a question like this without having race in the answer? That is the point…

No matter how you slice it the races are different even our DNA differs slightly. The same way people have issues with sleeping with same sex, children, animals etc. you will find people having issue amongst race. ME? As long as you do it for the right reasons I have no issue but when you make it that you go outside of your race because your own race is somehow inferior…that is senseless to me.

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Your right that was the point, lol.

So many people are making comments that seem to be based on what they were either taught, heard about other “Races”, feel pressured to believe for fear of being seen as a “Sell Out” or from the effects of having been raised in and living in a racist society and disregarding the facts.

True “DNA” does differ “SLIGHTLY” as you pointed out, even amongst people of the same race. Doesn’t it suggest that if it’s possible to share similar “DNA” that we are more the same than not.

I think it’s really unfortunate that you would equate people of the, pedophilia and bestiality with sleeping with someone of another “race”.

Your suggestion that this “in anyway” equates with someone having an issue with having sex with “CHILDREN AND ANIMALS” suggest to me that “Racism” is apparently much more “damaging” to the minds of some than I previously thought.

Although I vehemently agree with you regarding the idea that someone would choose to be with someone of anther race because they felt that members of theirs were somehow inferior. And doesn’t that say how “Extreme” Racism has become that members of the “same race” are able to see “each other” as being “inferior”.I truly believe that the ability of someone to view members of their own race in such a disparaging way is in fact a result of Racism.

As I said before “Racism is Alive and Well” and the worst ATROCITY ever bestowed upon man. It even has “Brother going against Brother”.

@true3playboy

Your language is deplorable. . .Did you read my post? It may give you some insight on your previous writing.

@Purpple

If we were all meant to be mixed why the hellz we aint start off as mixed. Shyt is the way it is for a reason, stop trying to make this a la-di-da-di world, because its not!

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Interesting question which of course I don’t have the answer to, because I wasn’t there.

I would like to ask you though

“If we were all meant to the same THAN WHY AREN’T WE? AND HOW WOULD IT ALSO BE POSSIBLE FOR US TO HAVE BECOME MIXED?.

Using your own logic WOULDN’T THAT BE FOR A REASON AS WELL. Just Asking, lol.

As far as trying to make A LA DI DA world, wouldn’t that be boring, LMAO !. I’m much more interested in dealing with facts as they exist today than the Eutopia you assume I’m searching for. To my knowledge there will always be a reason to dislike or even hate someone else IT IS A PART OF THE HUMAN CONDITION. But when it comes to race and dealing with the facts it is not logical to hate someone merely because of the color of their skin and too obtuse when there are other very “REAL REASONS” to.

@lala#1 wrote, “I’m not usually one to have anything bad to say about interracial situations(to each his/her own). But in this case I must say, “Weezy,what the……………. f****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” All those beautiful, talented black women he has been linked to and this is want he has chosen.

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Because a beautiful, talented black women would have enough common sense to #1 NOT have any form of sex with him #2 enough self respect to want better for herself #3 would never reduce herself to be known as a babymama or hoodho..”

That is poetry.

@tru3playboy

I’m mixed (dad Greek/ mom Black) and I occasionally wear a weave. It makes my hair look fuller. I know for a fact that a lot of white and mixed women wear weaves constantly. You’re just in denial, and it seems that you just want a reason to hate people.

@Power Of Love

Words are everything so you should use them wisely. Nobody said hate but you. It’s always hate when black loves and supports their isn’t it. Id be a fool for arguing with one.

Thanks.

@Power Of Love

Words are everything so you should use them wisely. Nobody said hate but you. It’s always hate when black loves and supports their own isn’t it. Id be a fool for arguing with one.

Thanks.

tru3playboy…… You are hilarious. yhea yhea yhea we all know some dominicans are black, blah blah. But that still doesnt give you a pass to talk down about black women. Alot of dominicians want to claim the african descent in their heritage only when its beneficial. (example: trying to rap) other than than, they keep it with themselves. and the sad thing is some of yhall have more African features than blacks, but are straight out racist…. like you.

You just pissed the dominican girls didnt want you. and dated a real black person instead. Your little antics are just lame, just like you.

@sydney…. thanks babe, for putting up the information. I can always count on you to put up the facts. Thanks for keeping it real girl.

LOL @ Nita

Well, yeah, that’s a reality. . .

For the record, I don’t have a weave. I also go to Dominican salons, and I see black women with hair of all lengths — including long — in the ones I frequent. And they’re all beautiful.

@Purpple

SMH @ the stringy dog hair comment. I bet if someone said something about your hair, you’d flip out. Ignorance at it’s finest.

For the record..My child is “a product of the swirl”

its crazy how other people’s buisness brings out all this discrimination.. how bout he had a baby with a prostitute/stripper!? not what color the b%$#! is…

@Nina Knows

Sista, I’m keeping that article in my file for the next time the old “all black women wear weave and no other women do” discussion comes up — which will be in about 5 minutes. . .

*sigh*

I just feel bad for his Ex-wife with her pretty and square lil self!!! He went from Toya to this to reproduce? One might ask…WHY???

@ Ms.LaDyJ frOm the Bay

Very good point.

@Sydney

You seem like you have good taste in music.

Purpple

(Check me out!)

@Power Of Love

Words are everything so you should use them wisely. Nobody said hate but you. It’s always hate when black loves and supports their own isn’t it. Id be a fool for arguing with one.

Thanks.

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I never once said “YOU” or anyone else who felt the way you do hated anyone. I merely suggested that it was a result of being raised in a Racist society. In your own words

I never once equated members of the same race “loving their own” as hatred, you “INADVERTENTLY DID”, when trying to make your point.

“Words are everything so you should use them wisely”.

@Tina

LOL@the ignorant calling someone else ignorant.

@ Rina you must’ve been under a rock dear Nivea and the Dream are no longer together they do have a 2 year old though.

@ Tina you made an excellent point it is your hair do what you like with it no matter what the reason and the same goes for any other race.

Sometimes people take their personal opinions as FACTS and it’s not!

POWER OF LOVE !(Check me out!)

True “DNA” does differ “SLIGHTLY” as you pointed out, even amongst people of the same race. Doesn’t it suggest that if it’s possible to share similar “DNA” that we are more the same than not.

I think it’s really unfortunate that you would equate people of the, pedophilia and bestiality with sleeping with someone of another “race”.

Your suggestion that this “in anyway” equates with someone having an issue with having sex with “CHILDREN AND ANIMALS” suggest to me that “Racism” is apparently much more “damaging” to the minds of some than I previously thought.

Although I vehemently agree with you regarding the idea that someone would choose to be with someone of anther race because they felt that members of theirs were somehow inferior. And doesn’t that say how “Extreme” Racism has become that members of the “same race” are able to see “each other” as being “inferior”.I truly believe that the ability of someone to view members of their own race in such a disparaging way is in fact a result of Racism.

As I said before “Racism is Alive and Well” and the worst ATROCITY ever bestowed upon man. It even has “Brother going against Brother”.

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Wait wait.. I gave you EXAMPLES of other unions that people don’t like right? Well did you know that our dna only differs slightly from a chimpanzee? Are you now going to go to the zoo and ask one out on a date? If no, why not? Same thing with children. I would like for YOU to explain to me without using the cultural stigmatisms why they shouldn’t be allowed as well. Go on now…

I mean according to NAMBLA there are young children who actually like having relations with adults. They even take pictures and show each other. If the kid is game would it be ok in your eyes?

Those men that always swirl usually have small d*cks, and know they are inadequate. So when I see a black man consistently swirling, I know he is doing me a favor. We black women should not be checking for anyone that is not checking for us, as much as I may love black men,I will swirl before I wonder “why wont any good black man have me” Naomi Campbell swirls and she is never by herself she always has a man, and her men aint asking her for gas money either.

@Purpple

LOL@the ignorant calling someone else ignorant.

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Who did “you ” call ignorant?, and what’s so funny about that?. LMAO !.

@Chris

I think it may be both. I wore extensions years ago one summer because I wanted fuller hair (I kept the length the same because I wanted it to look natural). My hair stylist told me that men liked longer hair, but that wasn’t the reason I wanted it. My hair stayed the same length, but I wanted it to be thicker.

So I was very self-conscious of it at first and I kept asking my friends if they could tell I had extensions, but I eventually got used to it. I was able to spend minimal time doing my hair, so it gave me a lot of flexibility.

Then when I had it taken out, I discovered that my real hair had been damaged, and it took a while for it to get back to its previous healthy state. I eventually started going to Dominican salons where I think they take better care of my hair, and it grew on its own.

I haven’t tried extensions again since. I just keep my hair healthy, and it grows on its own.

So you want to know something very ironic? Years after I stopped going to my old stylist who gave me the extensions, I wound up running into her one night at the mall. She asked me who my stylist was because my hair was never that long. Funny!

The prevailing mentality of the black community, “If you can take care of your child (financially), have as many as you want.” I don’t agree with that. Taking care of a child is more than just putting Pampers on his/her behind or feeding the baby. It’s being a positive example to the child, passing on wisdom and knowledge, being in a stable relationship so that when he/she grows up, they’ll have some type of example to go by, conducting yourself in a way that is respectable and moral so that he/she will be a productive member of society (no guarantees, but at least you’re doing your job as a parent). I don’t celebrate this nor E. Badu either. A lot of people say, “Well at least she’s gonna get paid.” What? So children are now payroll check?

Also, you have to be a fool to go raw in this day and age. I don’t know either one of them, so whatever. Just my opinion.

@ Chris

I wore a fake pony tail for one summer back in 1994 but that fad was short lived because I don’t like being fake. I don’t like fake hair or nails or none of that. I got dreds a year ago and I love it. I’m trying to do the natural thing but that’s just me. But to answer your question… when I did wear fake hair, it was because I liked the way it looked , it had nothing at all to do with a man.

@tru3playboy

Huh? The salons where I go to have stylists with a mix of skin complexions, from cafe au lait to beautiful ebony. You sound a little color-struck, if you don’t mind me saying so. . .

And, to my chagrin, some of them are starting to offer extensions, so I’m not sure that’s entirely true in the area I’m in. I just go for wash and roller sets, and I’m very pleased with the results.

tru3playboy…….

As for dominican women not wanting me, sure plenty want me, but I choose who I want to be with.

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Im really done talking to you, but I wanted to point out one thing you said.. you said you chose who you wanted to be with…… and apparently you CHOSE an Italian, lol I know your gonna come back and try to clean that up…. good luck with that.

I thought love was sooooo blind…. lol

ok I’m done with the insults, but why do people always act like they dont see color. You know you do. now whether it matter to you or not is another story, but please stop trying to act like you have NOTHING to do with who you fall in love with.

If love is sooooo blind, how many of you would date Flav or rosie o’donnell, or whoever for that matter? no matter how he/she looks, if they treat you right would you take em’?

@Sydney

I believe that both are contributing factors as well. I find it funny when a guy says that he hates weaves, but wants someone with long hair exclusively. He is setting up a situation that promotes weaves. It is even funnier when a woman with a weave makes fun of a woman with short hair. It is hypocritical.

I think that one’s appearance can be a direct representation of how they feel about themselves. For example, there is a beautiful administrator at my school that wears her hair slightly longer than mine. (I wear mine short and wavy). Then there are some women on the metro in the morning with and without weaves that…just aren’t doing it. It is all about presentation. Present yourself well and the utensils used to put together the masterpiece aren’t as important as the actual picture/work of art.

@Purpple

Just so you know, my hair is very course (mom’s genes), and my stylist blow dries my hair, then flat irons it. So, no, I don’t get relaxers. But you’re calling people’s hair stringy so that you can feel better about yourself is ignorance at it’s finest. You call me ignorant, yet you can’t spell purple (Purpple). I’m just teasing. But whatever you say. I think natural hair is gorgeous, and my mom doesn’t get relaxers either.

@ Sydney

I own the 50th anni Miles CD, and thanks for the NS information.

Heck no but not because of the way the look becuase of the character of the person I mean Flav has several children different mothers and also been addicted to drugs. Rosie O’ Donnell is well Rosie O’Donnell she is rude and she also thinks her opinion should be everybody elses and she is very obnoxious to say the least come on NINA give me some people I can work with. lol

@Tina

you are so nice you try not to be so in your face with it I love how you finesse your delivery!

@Tina

Good for you. and who’s talking about stringy hair? Obviously the topic is over your hair, im talking about the genes of the hair regardless of the character. I just couldnt possibly be spelling the word the way i want to can i. daym.

@Chris

“I find it funny when a guy says that he hates weaves, but wants someone with long hair exclusively.”

You know what? You’re really smart, and I mean that sincerely. I haven’t met too many men who make that connection. I believe popular culture (i.e. music videos, TV shows, etc.) also promotes the long hair paradigm of beauty. So if you’re a woman with low self-esteem, you may be susceptible to it, and it may affect your decision to alter your physical appearance.

In my personal experience, some of the most striking women I’ve seen have shorter hair because it reveals their facial features (I think Halle looked great with her cropped cut, for example). But, I think you’re right, it’s all in the presentation. Beauty comes in all hair lengths.

Special K….. lol, I know right. Those examples did suck.. lmao. I meant on their looks alone, but I admit it’s hard to think of them, without thinking of how they act.

well damn, it’s hard to think of anyone without thinking of their actions. Well I guess any person that’s not viewed as “attractive” does it really matter, could you bring yourself to love them…..

I was just trying to let people see how you look does matter to a certain point.

over your head Tina, you get it

realwoman

Wait wait.. I gave you EXAMPLES of other unions that people don’t like right? Well did you know that our dna only differs slightly from a chimpanzee? Are you now going to go to the zoo and ask one out on a date? If no, why not? Same thing with children. I would like for YOU to explain to me without using the cultural stigmatisms why they shouldn’t be allowed as well. Go on now…

I mean according to NAMBLA there are young children who actually like having relations with adults. They even take pictures and show each other. If the kid is game would it be ok in your eyes?

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I don’t know how me saying,

“I think it’s really unfortunate that you would equate people of the, pedophilia and bestiality with sleeping with someone of another “race””, prompt you to ask me,

“Are you now going to go to the zoo and ask one out on a date? If no, why not? Same thing with children. “If the kid is game would it be ok in your eyes?”, LMAO!.

but here it goes,

With the facts that are known about children, concerning their development and their lack of “true” understanding of there actions it’s very easy to see that the “ADULT”, whether the child was interested or not, would be taking advantage of the “CHILDS” physical and mental state.

As for the zoo animals, come on now, although it was funny, you know your reaching with that one, LMAO !. I’ve never heard of an animal presenting itself in such away as to have a “Person” beleive that that animal was interested in engaging in sex or in anyway consenting to doing so. Although it could be possible that the person engaging in sex with the animal somehow rationalized in “there own mind” that the animal was ” somehow asking for it”.

Ok, as you asked my answers had nothing to do with what society frowns upon, but are based solely on common sense.

please explain why Dominicans who look like Americans of African Descent (African Americans) and share African Ancestry don’t consider themselves Black….lets be clear ..Black is not indicative of where you are from but more so a reference of your skin color…why because Dominicans happent to speak spanish and have latin names….true the culture is different for those who just came over…but not for those born here….

And, to add, because this has crossed my mind more than once, I’ve read the word “nappy” written on this blog repeatedly in a derogatory fashion — there’s nothing wrong with those of us who have naturally coarse hair. It’s part of our heritage and our identity.

Don Imus equated “nappy-headed” to ugliness, but there’s no part of us that’s ugly or inferior.

Natural or permed, straight or curly, we are beautiful.

I think the comments about nappy head this and nappy head that are made by people who are still affected by a slave mentality….they think that if it’s not straight like Mastah’s then it’s not right…there’s something wrong with it

@ realwoman

By the way what I said about someone who desires to be with animals is also is also true of some “Pedophiles”. They have managed to rationalize their desire to be with children in their own minds by believing that the “Child” wanted it.

@ Nina

Yeah you are right I mean I guess for anybody you have to have something you are physically attracted to. But I mean some people just have a beautiful spirit about them like Oprah she is just a genuine person to me . and even Jay Z who is not attractive to me but I look at him and have seen him in interviews and I have I bet he would be cool to hang out with sometimes you can overlook the looks if the character is strong enough. You know what I mean?

“Those men that always swirl usually have small d*cks, and know they are inadequate. So when I see a black man consistently swirling, I know he is doing me a favor.”

My Lord your ignorance knows no bounds..

“We black women should not be checking for anyone that is not checking for us, as much as I may love black men,I will swirl before I wonder “why wont any good black man have me” Naomi Campbell swirls and she is never by herself she always has a man, and her men aint asking her for gas money either.”

So let me gets this straight. You don’t like men who get down like that, but will then get down like that yourself?

Youz iz krazy…

Special K….

Yes, I agree, I know what you mean. People think Spike Lee is ugly and corny. But I find him very attractive. Sorry, guess that flav and rossie was a strech…..lol.

Like for me, Beyonce is beautiful, but I see nothing but a shell, a robot. No substance, just a pretty picture to look at. In my opinon anyway.

scanclodike you are an ass. another mutt, kind of like what Barack Obama. Well, there’s about to be a mutt in the white house then on November 4. If a white woman’s hair smells like dog, then she ain’t keeping herself clean.

@Anonymous3

“I think the comments about nappy head this and nappy head that are made by people who are still affected by a slave mentality”

Well, those folks need to grab hold of Harriet Tubman’s coattails and ride to freedom because the Emancipation Proclamation was signed. We’se free. If my hair doesn’t look like Massa’s, it doesn’t mean it’s any less beautiful. . .

sydney… anonoymous3 I agree with both of you.

It’s that whole good hair vs. bad hair which translates to white hair vs. black hair.

There is nothing wrong with kinky, nappy hair. It’s strong and black… like me, lol.

but seriously calling white hair, good hair subliminally creates a negative conotaion in young black kids minds. They automatically think something on them is bad, when it’s just different. Kinky hair is different than straight hair. That’s all. It’s not better.

@simply ecstasy

B*tch you bet not have a perm and second

pleasssseee on the 95% White Female and Black male

That Something New is not a black woman with a White man, thats something old, White men been takin black women.

Nina – Yes I agree about Beyonce I am from Houston born and raised and when I hear her talk I cringe she still has a problem with pronunciation but yet she would like to be ICONIC I almost laughed myself to sleep when I heard that. But you have someone like Alicia Keys who speaks with so much depth and sincerity that I almost look pass her looks

Special K… yhea bey is a ditz. (im in Dallas) and I always hear peple from Houston say the same thing… its true though. Icon my ass!! Alicia keys is a very good example. Its like her beauty is just the icing on the cake. I like her alot. She one of few celebs with substance.

Free love ya’ll

blag…..

That was such an amazing point. Your sooo right. We need to not dwelle on what’s keeping us back and acknowledge what’s keeping us alive. We are the #1 survivors in human history. Kill the positive with a negative. You know you just made my day with your post. Thanks…. you deserve a bow

Big up’s for that post!! You alright with me. I feel like bumping some Tupac right now…..

I dedicate this to ALL the black women and men, beating the odds and striving every single day to maintain. It’s so hard to be black in a white man’s world.

sorry I meant BLAQ…. didnt mean to chop up your name, it was a typo.

Wow she is banging! Wayne knows whats up

she does have pics of her and wayne together. she runs around myspace talking about she got the best rapper alive and how it’s her future baby daddy, but believe me beezy hasn’t been pregnant lately.

BTW-Wayne has no real talent.

If you can read a post about lil wayne and think that his actions are somehow in concert with the actions of black men in this country or around the world, then i think it says more about you than it ever could about black men.

Thank you Special K!

CAN SOMEBODY ON THIS BLOG NAME ME ANOTHER RACE THAT ENCOURAGES THEIR PEOPLE TO GO OUT AND DATE A BLACK PERSON.

We are the only race that wants to be accepted by other races so bad, That when we get a little money we want to leave being black and show the other races that we are not like the rest of the black people. Just name me one race that goes out of thier race to get a black woman or man when they become succesful. NFL, NHL, ANYBODY. YOU HEAR JESSE AND AL SHARPTON SAYING WE WANT JUSTICE FOR BLACKS AND HISPANICS, BUT I NEVER HEAR THE HISPANICS POLICTICAL LEADERS SAY JUSTICE FOR HISPANICS AND BLACKS. I NEVER HEAR WHITE SAY WHITE AND BLACK. ALL YOU SMART ASS ON THIS BLOG HOLLA BACK AND ANSWER THE QUESTION. BLACK PEOPLE ARE THE MOST RACIST PEOPLE ON EARTH TOWARD EACH OTHER.

wow! even weezy done left the nappy heads alone thats it I’m selling out too starting tomorrow

Sarah must be desperate for a man she picked Lil Wayne. How do you know if the baby has straight hair ? The hair will be bushy, for real.

@ all black people

are we going to point the finger forever? Or actually make a change for real, because all i here is black men this black women that. i think both genders are unfocused if you want to know the truth and both genders play a role in the negative press we get.

@bella i am white, and i constantly encourage people to date outside their race, its not about dating black, its about erasing color lines. and please explain how it is that when black people get money they try to leave “being black” and what is “being black” you are doing a disservice to black people everywhere confining your heritage to one culture/steriotype. i am just really curious, cause that doesnt make sense to me, and please, give me an example of what/who black is?? cause i guarentee you cant

@Power of love,

When will you black jacka@@es understand that you look like fools when you do mess like this. That is why black men are at the bottom of the pile. No one has any respect for you. That is why Obama has had to fight so much to win during this race. You just don’t get it. You just don’t understand that you look like fools.

@ beck

are u black?

@Bella,

Don’t worry about what these silly clowns do. Some black folks are fools. Some of us are just so stupid that we would sell are own children to get to non black behind. Some of us worship “others”, but when ish hits the fan we expect black folks to take our backs. Just let these fools alone. What goes around comes around.

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i am white, and i constantly encourage people to date outside their race, its not about dating black, its about erasing color lines. and please explain how it is that when black people get money they try to leave “being black” and what is “being black” you are doing a disservice to black people everywhere confining your heritage to one culture/steriotype. i am just really curious, cause that doesnt make sense to me, and please, give me an example of what/who black is?? cause i guarentee you cant

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Being “Black” was encouraged by the “Black Power Movement” lead by the “Black Panthers” in “opposition” to what was happening to “Negroes” and all people of color due to racism. It had less to do with the color of someones skin, do to the fact that there were and still are people of fairer complexion who consider themselves to be “Black”, and had more to do with those people of color that associated themselves with “being black” and “the movement”, because “Caucasians” who were the “Oppressor” had deemed themselves to be “white”.

People seem to have lost site of the fact that “The Black Power Movement” as well as the “Civil Rights Movement” was supported, although on the periphery, by “Whites” also.

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A very reliable snitch revealed to me that the new mother was paid by Baby and Wayne to carry their child and that they will celebrate by getting married in L.A and hold the reception at Roscoes Chicken & Waffle on Pico and Le Brea.. Congrats!!!

he is my hero!!

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@ Beck

@Power of love,

When will you black jacka@@es understand that you look like fools when you do mess like this. That is why black men are at the bottom of the pile. No one has any respect for you. That is why Obama has had to fight so much to win during this race. You just don’t get it. You just don’t understand that you look like fools.

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LMAO ! Although I have no idea why you would call me a fool. You’ll have to forgive me, I tend to deal more with the facts than someones opinion of what should and shouldn’t be.

The reason why “Black Men” are at “the bottom of the pile” as you put it, is due to “Racism”. I’m not exactly sure what comments of mine your referring to when coming to the conclusion that I look like a fool, especially being that you also came to the conclusion that “Black men are at the bottom of the pile and No one has respect for you makes “you” sound “Racist”. Not only is the statement inaccurate in it’s scope but also a dangerous assumption to make. Sounds like the very same logic and rhetoric used by Racist organizations to rationalize their own short comings.

@ power of love

I totally agree with what you said, i am in the process of getting my masters degree in African American studies, so i am very familiar with the history of the Black Power Movement. my father actually marched with a chapter of the Black Panthers when he was in high school, so like you said, i also know that the movement was supported by some whites as well. my point however was that, too many people look at “being black” as the way you look, talk, dress, etc. when that is not true. even the people that you surround yourself with do not make or break your “whiteness” or “blackness”. i have personally had people tell me “you are black on the inside” or “you are more black than (someone that is “whitewashed”)” and i always say no. no i am not. i am white, and because i talk a certain way, or i listen to this kind of music, im still irish. in the same way that if a black person listens to rock and roll and speaks in standard american english, that does not make them any less black. that was my only point, too often people that are squares are looked at as not being black. when in fact, in mine and your definition of black, the people that have set good examples ie; educate themselves, take care of their family and community etc. are in fact the best example of what “being black” is….
i believe that in every culture, people should be held to the highest standards, learn about their history, and define who they are as the best person they can be, in the same way that Malcolm X, the Black Panthers, Martin L. King, Marcus Garvey, Barack Obama, etc.

@ another one…. you from cali?? not too many of us on here… i always get confused cause the times on the posts are in east coast time lol

Well now he’s…..

7 Baby mommas behind Shawn Kemp (8)

1 Baby Momma behind Ricky Williams (who has 3 in 3 states)

God knows how many Pretty Ricky father’s has. Since he claim his serm is condom proof.

stop referring to black women as “sista’s” , it’s creepy!

And instead of complainin about black men and trying to change them into the good men they cannot be , just find a WHITE MAN or latino =D.

My family loves the “swirl” and quite frankly i’ve given black men a try but they are a waste of time and effort, I can’t even look at them without wanting to yack.

if their white or latino, willing an waiting….black dick would jus give me HIV…no thanks

@ 12345 WHEN YOU NAME ME ANOTHER RACE THAT DATES OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE WHEN THEY MAKE IT, OR BECOME SUCCESSFUL. NAME ME A NFL BALLER WHO DATES A BLACK WOMAN, NAME ME A NBA BALLER WHITE WHO DATES A BLACK WOMAN, DON’T PLAY CRAZY YOU KNOW THE DEFINITION OF WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT WHEN I SPEAK ON BLACK PEOPLE, PEOPLE ASK QUESTIONS THAT THEY ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO. HOW THE HELL YOU GOING TO PUT 12345. DON’T HIDE, SAY YOUR NAME.

@Simply Ecstasy wrote, “@ E

Ummm you can’t read one post and jump in like you know what’s been going on in here. Yes, 95% of interratial dating does come from the Black men hooking up outside their race.”

Serious question: where did you get your stats from? Let’s check out the Census, courtesy of (shudder) Wiki, concentrating on the United States alone, for now (since you might be from outside the States, who knows):

Married Couples in the United States in 2006:

– WHITE MEN

White Wife 50,224,000

Black Wife 117,000

Asian Wife 530,000

Other Wife 489,000

– BLACK MEN

White Wife 286,000

Black Wife 3,965,000

Asian Wife 34,000

Other Wife 45,000

– ASIAN MEN

White Wife 174,000

Black Wife 6,000

Asian Wife 2,493,000

Other Wife 13,000

– OTHER MEN (talk about a catchall category)

White Wife 535,000

Black Wife 23,000

Asian Wife 41,000

Other Wife 558,000

Caucasian Americans are the least likely to marry interracially, although in absolute terms Caucasian Americans are involved in interracial marriages more than any other racial group.

1.9% of married Caucasian American women and 2.2% of married Caucasian American men have a non-Caucasian American spouse.

1.0% of married Caucasian American men are married to an Asian American woman, and 1.0% of married Caucasian American women are married to a man classified as “other”.

3.7% of married African American women and 8.4% of married African American men have a non-African American spouse.

6.6% of married African American men, and 2.8% of married African American women, have a Caucasian American spouse.

Only 0.1% of married African American women are married to an Asian American man, representing the least represented marital combination.

There is a notable disparity in the rates of exogamy by Asian American males and females. Only 25% of Asian American/Caucasian American marriages involve an Asian American male and Caucasian American female, and only 15% Asian

American/African American marriages involve an Asian American male and a African American female.

19.5% of married Asian American women and 7.2% of married Asian American men have a non-Asian American spouse.

@ 12345 TELL ME WHT MARCUS GARVEY THOUGHT ABOUT INTERRATIONAL DATING? EVERY RACE SHOULD BE HELD TO A HIGHER STANDARD AND LEARN ABOUT THEIR RACE. THINK ABOUT THAT Most blacks don’t even know who the hell their Daddy is how they going to know about thier race or history. We have to do DNA just to find out if the Daddy is the real Dad. what are you talking about.And you took African American History. You think Lil Wayne is an example of the highest standard for the black youth of today, his new born son, his daughter. Are you smoking weed as you blog? Or drinking

No i don’t care for Asian men or any other race which is why they were not named.

And stop trying to correct me, my views are my views.

Wow, i’m amazed at how many people actually care who and what Weezy is doing. You don’t even know this girl–leave her alone.

o wow! well atleast it should b a cute baby

Wow, you guys were getting it in on this thread…sorry I missed all the fun.

I still think Lil Sleezy looks dirty, why would anyone let him touch them is beyond me.

Since the baby is here I am sure he has enough money to take care of the baby and he seems like a good enough father based on what I read about him and his daughter.

with that said i doubt she nag him all the time and STFU when he out making money or watching sports.

however, no matter how much money you have, many asians arent too pleased to have a black in their family

either way the baby’s eating habits are doomed.

fried rice and fried chicken! damn

i think she’s the chick from the music video go dj. she kindof looks like her.

OK no one has EVERY had a baby out of wedlock or unprotected sex or mother with two kids from two women ALL you all need to stfu I know alot of people with these same problems and the only problem is its with a broke azz n@igg@ that is not taking care of it!! plze you all talking that bs on this site and I bet half of you dont know who your baby daddy is!! As for me both my sons are by my husband but I dont sit and put anyone down Im pretty sure lil wayne has been seeing this girl for a while and was committed some kind of way if he was sleeping with all these women without protected sex he would have had a baby in 10 years that his daugther has been here trust me ppl call him ugly but half the hoes will slept with him for the money

why are you sistas worried about what color she is remember his is ugly and you dont want him I can promise you a ugly man will treat u better thats why most women are by themselves

anotha one lost to da swirl!!! damn…

Congratulations to Weezy.

So did no one watch the BET AWARDS where he announced his b’ma was Karrine (SUPERHEAD) so why is everybody still on this nobody broad it was all just a cover up.He has too many chicks to keep up with let alone claim like a big nobody from Cinn city!….lmao @ this gossip and how word of mouth changes from beginnning to end.

Preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

she use to work at the nail shop in tri-county mall by the food court.

That child is going to be half-hot, half-gremlin, and all short.

@ bella, my name is margaux, and please quote me where i ever said weezy was a high standard of society. i feel like what you said was exactly what i was saying, so im kind of confused. i completely agree that people have to have a stong family foundation, but i dont think that has anything to do with who you choose to date/marry. i believe that you cannot blame the black man, or any other race of man for broken homes. the women who gets pregnant by someone that is not committed to them is just as responsible. and if a woman doesnt know who her babies father is, that is her fault. and you act like this is a problem that only black people deal with. that is not true at all. this is a poor people problem. and that is exactly my point as to why we need to unite as humans. we should be working to try to help all people that are struggling in life, whether it be children, single parents, drug addicts, victims of abuse. these are things that all races of people deal with. and they are things that, unfortunately, people living in poverty are across the board dealing with this more than anyone else. this is exactly what i mean by we have more similarities than differences. as far as what you said about marcus garvey, i know he was not for interracial dating,but there were other historic african american figures who did support it, like fredrick douglass. and times were different then. this is 2008, i personally think it is time to unite, there are other things that are more important than throwing your anger at someone because of who they associate with.

@12345 THANK YOU FOR YOUR POINT, I GET IT. However, I can care less who people. I don’t consider myself angry, I just made a point how black men don’t really want to or get to cross over until they get some money or little sucess. AND NFL, NBA, BALL PLAYERS ARE NOT SEEN PULLING A BLACK WOMAN OUT THE GHETTO EVEN IF SHE LOOKS GOOD, YOU JUST SON’T SEE IT. Listen we could go on on and on, I understand and agree with you,It’s time for all races to unite. But it doesnt mean you must date outside your race. I have a son, and I would want him to date in his race first, but the most important thing to me is for him to be HAPPY, The lady treat him right and have some morals and belief in GOD. If she has half of this and treats my son right with respect and , respect both way. I am a happy . I just expreesed my feelings on Lil Wayne and other black men. So we can call it a truce, I get your message, I with ya!

@12345 i mean white NBA Business men, You want the best for your child, regardles of race. But race plays a part in just about everything.

Lil Wayne is a trader 4real, i knew somethin was up with his asswhen i saw an asian girl in i cant believe it video im like WTF does anybody like us sistas anymore

@Bella

I agree with you and 12345 but I think race plays such a part because we as a people put so much emphasis on it. I want to be treated with kindness and respect regardless of my color. And there are plenty of White men who swirl as well… And there are plenty of black NBA,NFL Baseball etc who are married to Black women.

@ SPECIAL K LIKE I SAID IN MY POST WILL SOMEBODY NAME ME ONE JUST ONE NFL ( NATIONAL FOOTBAL LEAGUE, PLAYER MARRIED AND PLAYING IN THE NFL MARRIED TO A BLACK WOMAN, BORN OF A BLACK WOMAN AND BLACK MAN? Name me one NBA basketball player WHITE married to a black woman. NAME ME ONE HOCKEY PRO SPORTS HOCKEY PLAYER MARRIED TO A SISTA. YES PLENTY PRO BALL PLAYERS MARRIED TO BLACK WOMEN. I SAID WHITE PLAYER, BUT YOU CAN NAME ME A HANDFUL OF BLACK ATHLETHES WHO ARE MARRIED TO WHITE WOMEN AND OTHER RACES.

That girl in the lingerie and the girl in the other pic onstage are TWO ENTIRELY DIFFERENT women! The Asian woman in the video is an entirely different woman, too!

Ah, who cares what she is. I just hope they both make great parents to the little baby boy.

jeez ys everyfin gta b about race? da fact is weezy gt dis gal preggers n nw dey hav a baby boy 2geva. stop h8in man if u fink hes ugly y shud u care if hes wid a whit/vietnamese gal?

ppl need 2 mind der own biznis n stop h8in

PEOPLE SHOULD STOP BEIN MEAN,SURE I WAZ A BIT JEALOUS AT FIRST BUT IF WEEZY’S HAPPY.GOOD LUCK 2 DEM!

yeah i said it cant nobody eat no dic*s cause your stank butt ate them all.

Okay…That just confirmed it, that “Nati” girl is a grunge box.

Why:

1. From Nati…okay okay for “Nati girl” I wont generalize…That label goes for certain locations live Over the Rhine/Bond Hill…There are probably more areas…but my @$$ didnt try to find them.

2. Half “Pink Toe” – Gold Diggin is in her blood.

3. Half Vietnamese – Me love ANYBODY long time for $5 dollah

Thats a lipring on him? I swear I thought it was a herp or something. Lmao. Damn.

To Sad:

This also has nothing to do with race or our culture. At this point we no longer have much culture to speak of.. Do we? Don’t blame it on having multi-racial kids, thats not what is ruining our “culture”. Its the thug mentality & our men thinking they are pimps and having a bunch of different babys mama’s is cute. And the women thinking that it is ok. It is the movement away from the family. So if he is doing ANYTHING wrong it is the fact that he is bringing a man into the world that will probably be like him and knock the kind of women he knocks up.

Another thought black women we need to step our game up and also adventure outside our race/culture.

well, congrats. But one thing though, It’s odd that people are saying its normal that black women have kids without marrying. Hmmm, Im wondering was this just ms. Sarah’s shot at getting Wayne even if he doesn’t wife her. I’m giving this chick a stamp on certified golddiggin.