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very sad.. i was in shock over this.

I AGREE!!!!! SMH @ JULIA!!!!!!

SHE DIDN’T EVEN MENTION HER MOTHER AND BROTHER AT THE PRESS CONFERENCE!!!!!!

WELL.. EVERYONE DEALS WITH DEATH THEIR OWN WAY, I GUESS. SO SAD.

Save the taxpayers money and just off his ass!

He looks creepy anyway!

People please please be mindful of the relationships that you have around you children SMH

People please please be mindful of the relationships that you have around you children SMH

Please lets not place blame on anyone in this family they are going through a lot already

Please do not do this to their family… you have no idea the pain they are suffering from this horrific tragedy. Please let their family grieve without being scrutinized by the media. I understand it is your place to report but not to judge… Keep their family in your prayers

what if he didn’t do it. Lets not be so fast to jump on that man.

Okay so he went on a killing spree because he got kicked out of the house??? Does anyone know if the death penalty stand in Chicago?? He needs it!

OMG, breaking news on cnn and msnbc, they found the white suv with a body inside fitting the description of Julian….( so sad)

None of us knows enough information about Julia Hudson or her marriage to William Balfour to point fingers or pass judgement!!

My thoughts and Prayers go out to the family!!

one last thing…i am willing to pay as much “tax” to see to the death of who ever is responsible for this. Dont put them in jail…eletrocute therir wicked asses

whomever did this needs to be TORTURED TO death…. all involved should have all their limbs chopped off one by one(while alive) and after that someone should stick a sharp object in their eyes so they can suffer and feel the pain… then, cut off their lips, ears, nose, legs, arms, etc, etc, etc until they die a sloooooooooow and painfully grueling death.

People should not blame Julia as we have all made mistakes/choices/decisions that we later regret…she did the best that she could with the knowledge/maturity/foresight that she had at the time…….I sincerely hope that she and her sister will be able to pull together, love themselves and live their lives this is the best answer to such tragedy and pain puposely directed and inflicted on someone…GOD will give them the strength….and I also hope that they will be able to work together to share the Victory in this by informing others/starting a Foundation, etc about domestic violence…..this should be a spotlight and wake-up call for many other families around the world in every race on the tragedy that can occur when you allow others into your home/to stay in your home that are inflicting pain via abuse physical/verbal, alcoholism, drug addiction, sexual molestation, fear tactics etc

the Hudson Family can’t change the past but they can positively impact the future!!!

This is not the time to be pointing fingers. I am sure that this woman loved her mother and brother, but her son was the only thing on her mind at the press conference.

IT IS SAD BUT UNFORTUNATELY, IT IS SOMEWHAT TRUE. IF THIS MAN IS INFACT THE CULPRIT, THEN THIS SHOULD STRESS TO ALL OF US THE IMPORTANCE OF KNOWING WHO YOU ARE DEALING WITH BEFORE YOU BECOME SEVERELY INVOLVED WITH A PERSON AND BRING THEM AROUND YOUR LOVED ONES.

We all should just pray for JHud and her family. RIP

It is easy to pass judgement when you are not in the situation now is not the time though. I think Julia will have the rest of her life to look back and see better choices she could have made.

I’ll be praying for this family because it is definantly a hard experience, i can’t even imagine…wow

YOU SOUND STUPID TO SAY HE LOOKS LIKE A THUG. One out of every four people knows someone who is incarcerated or been to jail.

Has he been charged for the crime yet? You guys are convicting him before he has been charged or had a trial.

YOU SOUND RACIST & IGNORANT. YOU MUST BE VOTING FOR JOHN McCAIN!

but i think u sould not see from somene’s face and i found him profile on http://www.bigbisexual.com yeah he looks more better than here

WOMEN NEED TO LEAVE THESE JAIL BIRD MEN ALONE….LOOK AT LYFE JENNINGS AND NOW THIS BASTARD..ONCE THEY GO IN THE PRISON FOR VIOLENT CRIMES LEAVE THOSE BASTARDS ALONE..

I’m ver sorry but her stupid, ugly, fat, desperate for love, fat ass is just as responsible for getting invovled with this thug and having a child with him.

I’m mad as hell!

I won’t blame anyone – but the person who pulled the trigger and did the crime. No one knows whats going to happen from day to day – that’s why they say think about tomorrow, but live for today.

Keep focused on the real concern and the real problem.

The police told Julia what to say and what not to say during the press conference in order to preserve the investigation.

Anyone with common sense also knows that the police were also manning her Myspace page to see if any conversations yielded evidence.

The comments about judging someone based on looks alone are ridiculous. People should be judged on their actions and his violent past should have been the biggest indicator but to blame Julia for the deaths of her Mother, Sibling and Child is the WORST.

The guilt she feels from herself may just kill her mentally. God please give her and Jennifer the strength to heal.

Hopefully this will make Black women to rethink the whole thug love thing.

It is one thing to want to date a “Bad Boy”, or a man who is edgy, but it is another to want to have a dangerous criminal in your life.

I see it all the time where even among professional black women, they seem to be drawn to just awful, criminal black men and they romanticize it as dating a “Thug”. You even get Beyonce singing songs about the wonderful pleasures of dating a thug.

Well you see what happens when you date a thug; He will kill your family and your kids too.

Moe I totally agree with you. Not the time for the Blame Game… really I know all to well what murder can do to a family, I had 2 family members murdered, I know what it feels like to lose people naturally and the fact that your family members “suffered” and/or “feared” is so unbearable…. that girl will probably blame herself for things she couldnt of possibly forseen… she don’t need us doing the same… May GOD be with you all, it’s been 16 years and I still feel the pain….

Well we’ll see how good a job the cops do of putting the pieces together cause I don’t think this dude is gonna crack and tell them anything.

He looks like a sicko for real though. I see the likely motive, she left him and so he decided to hurt her in the worst way possible… by killing those dearest to her. JHud lucky she wasn’t home.

He’s just a demon-possessed psycho and it really has nothing to do with him having been locked-up. There are some really decent people who have criminal records or are locked up due to a variety of reasons. But there are also many other demon-possessed psychopaths just like him who have never been arrested.

I say the only answer in this time is to follow Christ and seek out a mate who is likeminded.

Julia deserves the suffer, no doubt about it. She started this ball rolling in the first place. The Hudson family were nice, respectable people but I guess that was too boring for her. Why didn’t she get her fat ass out of her moms house and get her own place? Julia reminds me so much of a lady who use to live across the street from me. She was obese too, loud, ignorant, laughed at me when I went jogging and she had two daughters, one 13 the other 15. The mother moved in her boyfriend thug who was about ten years younger than she was and had a long criminal record. She knew all this but moved him in over her girls, well he raped the youngest daughter almost from the moment he moved in but she kept quiet because he threatened to kill her mother if she told. He only got caught because the girl’s best friend told somebody and that somebody called his parole officer. Both daughters went out of state to live with their aunt because their fat stupid mama blamed the daughter for walking around in a short skirt to entice him.

i know if it was my family this happened to i would be torn up in tears wouldnt be able to speak i’d be cutting up some tears but when she did the video asking for her son back she did look too distraught to me. damn i know i’d be cutting up some tears.

this is just a sad story, whoever did this murder deserve texas style punishment

Yes God bless Jennifer, but that obese pig Julia can burn in hell as far as I am concerned.

Pass judgement my ass! More people need to speak up when they see their sisters, friends, cousins in relationships like this. Its ok to be judgemental sometimes. He was a convicted felon for God’s sake! Keeping quiet left 3 people dead! Julia rightly deserves some of the blame.

NO WORDS TO SAY…

THE HORROR HAS TO BE AMAZING….

I AM SO SORRY FOR THIS TRAGIC LOSS.

THE ABUSE AND HORROR OF OUR FAMILIES IS CRUCIAL…..

SO SAD…….

THE PEOPLE THAT ARE ON HERE MAKING ALL OF THESE STUPID COMMENTS ARE JUST HEARTLESS!!!!!

PUT YOUR SELF IN THEIR SHOES RIGHT NOW… THINK ABOUT IT THEY HAVE LOST 3 FAMILY MEMEBERS…TO MURDER!!

HAVE A HEART PEOPLE THIS WILL TAKE A TOLL ON THE FAMILY FOR YEARS TO COME!!

I AM PRAYING FOR STRENGTH SO THEY CAN GET THROUGH THIS TRAGEDY!!!

MY GOD!!…HAVE MERCY!!!

You are on point Isla! You are right on point. Enough of this not passing judgment because sometimes passing judgment is justified. Julia knew what he was like people can’t you see that. You pick up a snake and it bites you, whose fault is it? You knew what it was in the first place. And for Beyonce to sing about thug love is unforgivable. It is precisely these types of men who are bringing destruction into our communities.

CNN JUST REPORT THAT THE TRUCK WAS PARKED A COUPLE DISTANCE AWAY FROM WHERE BALFOUR LIVED WITH HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND….

We all have made dumb decisions in life. Sometimes it cost us our jobs,sometimes it cost us a relationship with friends or family.The list of consequences go on and on. Unfortunately Jen’s sisters cost her almost her entire family. We don’t have to pass judgement on her she will do that to herself for the rest of her life.Lets pray for them because that need that more than a finger pointing.

MATTHEW 24:12

“AND BECAUSE OF LAWLESSNESS WILL ABOUND THE LOVE OF MANY WILL GROW COLD”

THE PEOPLE ON HERE NEED PRAYER!!!

YOU HAVE NO HEART AT ALL AND IT IS SAID IN THE BIBLE SO IT DOES NOT SURPRISE ME…..PUT YOURSELF IN THE HUDSON FAMILY SHOES!!!

I mean we can point fingers and blame people all day but no one expects people to do crazy sh*t like this. I dont know if yall know this but people that dont have priors, who arent “thugs” kill people too. There are alot of people that kill whole families that are business men. No one is to blame for this but his sorry, demonic, heartless coward a$$. You dont think that she already is feeling guilty? It is what it is. This couldve easily happened and has happened in Beverly Hills. It senseless, cold blooded and no one is accountable but the person who acted as if he was God and snatched three people’s lives.

My prayers go out to his mother & father. Unless you’ve been in her shoes, please don’t judge. These families have lost a gift from God. So sad!

This is actually common. The only reason it’s getting nation attention is because of JHud. The young woman that was killed at the CNN bldg in Atl last year was the same situation. She brought a Miami thug into her home who the family thought was 20 something & turned out to be 39. Another woman here in Atl got into an arguement with her boyfriend cause he wanted to go to the strip club with his boys. This woman was 33yrs old living with her grandparents with her 12yr old son. She brought this thug to live in her grandparents home. After the fight he killed her son & grandparents with a knife. That was somehthing she would have to deal with for the rest of her life. She died 2yrs later for an unknown cause. Some say she died of a broken heart.

What I don’t understand is how the parents & grandparents would allow them to bring someone home. My family would NEVER see me homeless, but I sure couldn’t bring a man into their homes. I will never understand that.

@ tru3playboy

F@ck you with your harsh and hearthless comment!!!!

We don’t know who did this and need to wait for more information to come out before crucifying Balfour. Yeah, he sold her car……. who did he sell it to, and why?

Did Balfour have enemies who could have executed the family? Or was he picked up because he said something that made the police think he knew who did it? or because he did it?

Need more information.

I believe that he did it. I mean, we all watch CSI, and Law and Order and all that, right?

Okay then.

WHERE IS HE???????????????

If he is nowhere in sight (to be found), he did it. And he is on the run.

Too bad that this had to happen to the lovely JHud. I cant believe that this dude killed her mother, brother, and nephew. Its almost inconceivable to me. My brain still has a hard time getting around all this. Its shocking to say the least.

And as for her sister who dated the thug. I dont think that we should be pointing fingers at her. True, she brought him in the home because he was her boyfriend, or whatever. But there are some females on here RIGHT NOW that have made some bad choices in men (including me). Some experienced different levels of these bad men (cheating,lying, stealing, abuse on all levels, etc). SO WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE???? I’m sure that he wasnt wearing a I-kill-families-for-fun T-Shirt when her sister met him. And some of ya’ll females know you’ve dated someone like this before. Maybe not in the looks department, but definitly portraying a “thug” persona. And dont even lie.

I dont blame her sister, but she does have some responsibility because it was her boyfriend. If it wasnt, then he would have never even met the Hudson Family. It sucks that something like this had to happen on this scale.

Its crazy for most of us on here to act like they are better than her sister in who they chose to date. How many times has someone voiced their opinion about the person YOU dated? Okay, then.

Unfortunately, she chose a really bad apple. And allegedly this bad apple murdered her family. Either that or he had someone kill them. Whichever, it had to be 1 of 2 things:

1) Money

2) Jealousy

We should all be held accountable for the harm we bring to the Universe, including Julia. However, certain factors are not unusual with people who suffer from low self-esteem and a lack of education.

This is a sad day but it is indicative of what is written in Hosea 4:6 where we are told that ‘my people die from a lack of knowledge, because they reject knowledge.’

Julia married this fool in 2006 – after he had served 7 years in prison for attempted murder/car-jacking. It has also been reported that she knew this guy from childhood. ENOUGH SAID – she knew this brother and what he was all about. This thing about not passing judgment – well TRUTH overrides JUDGMENT! These things mentioned are TRUTH and until we as a people begin to deal with TRUTH we will die from our lack of knowledge.

I was a single mother of 3 daughters and I made a conscious decision not to have men in my home/near my home/near my daughters…..period! Regardless of my feelings, wants, needs, desires – I gave all that up when I became a MOTHER! ENOUGH of women deciding that they are first – when you become a parent your child becomes first until they are able to made decisions for themselves. Second, if you lay down with dogs you can expect at some point to get fleas.

Julia’s myspace says all one needs to know about her – she enjoyed the ‘thug’ life. She went into this situation with her eyes wide-open and I’m sure there wasn’t much anyone in her family could tell her since she ‘felt’ she was grown. But there is not enough love in this world for me to have this ‘flea-bag’ around my son. Parents need to practice what they preach and a ‘thug’ can’t raise anything but a ‘thug’

As a mother (who understood that my children had to come first once they were born w/o their permission) – this nicca would not have been accepted in my home…period. My daughters can love whoever they want but I don’t have accept their behavior in my home, which should be a persons sanctuary. This child did not deserve having this nicca in his life – (where was his real father and in a case like this why not fight for custody). Our children deserve better!

This guy could have very well killed Julia but doesn’t it hurt her more to take away everyone she loves instead and leave her here to suffer the pains of her decisions? His mission is accomplished!

When we as a people decide ENOUGH is ENOUGH and begin accepting those things we know as truth and stop trying to change the things we can’t – life improves, values are enhanced and love flourishes.

That being said, I truly send out heartfelt sympathy to Jennifer, but Julia can kiss my A$$!

For the record, these are not judgments but TRUTHS!

Her sister put the family out there

Julia should not have had to mention her mother and brother at the press conference. She was worried about her child and said that her biggest priority was getting him back, that her sister was taking care of the details with her mother and brother. I think that is very appropriate of her, she should be worried about her child and getting him home safely.

As far as the statement made about him looking like a killer; it is sadly racist. When I look at him all I see is a young Black man! if it were not for this incident, he could have been one of a million young Black men in America. Do all of them look like killers? The white folk who wrote the article did it from their prospective…anti-Black

I have been trying to understand and sympathize with Julia, but frankly (as Facing Reality said) SHE CAN KISS MY ASS!!

They need to pop off ALL THE THUGS ACROSS THE UNITED STATES!!!

They are destroying the black community.

Here is a thugs M.O:

1) Does not have a legal job.

2) Only assets are on his body and in his car.

3) Have low-self esteem

4) Cant hold an intelligent conversation

5) Have more than 1 kid, and more than 1 baby mama.

6) Lies all the time (dont know how to tell the truth)

7) Dont have any goals, except to make the next corny CD to add on top of the rest)

8) Dont have their own style; they copy other artists

9) Only talent is Basketball and/or Football

10) Dont read anything thats not a label.

11)

Plus many, many more…….

I’m sure she is suffering for her decisions…it’s all very sad.

We women must be careful of the men we chose to bring into our lives…especially when we have children.

My heart goes out to her…I won’t cause more blame by pointing the finger, the guilt alone is punishmnet enough.

FACINGREALITY= You make the most sense on here;^5!!!

The murders were gang related!!!!

Wow.. the woman is probably already for sad her child was missing and now is dead or presumed dead. No need to blame he is a nut

Reading some of the comments on here makes me sad. Its the reason why black women should be barred, by law, from being the head of any household, political office, business, community organization EVERYTHING. You guys are really the dumbest most ignorant weak people on planet earth.

Send all your dumb asses to Afghanistan. Its obvious you guys done lost the plot.

Man, if the step-father did this he really messed up. Cause in prison there are two things dear to them their mothers and their babies. No one accepts mama/baby killers, he will be a target the moment he stops in there. Oh by the way lose the hair style fast, it makes it easier to yang your ass into a shower stall.

smh, I thought the same.. Julia looks guilty too

This is terrible. A real nightmare.

This is what happens when women settle for garbage.

She knew this man had a violent past before she entrusted him around her family. I’m quite sure he probably showed signs of abusive behavior in their relationship too.

Ladies, don’t choose to ignore signs of aggression or abuse in your partner. It’s simply not worth it.

I personally think that this is more a lesson than anything. Far too many sistahs settle for something less than what they deserve. It happens over and over again, just so they can say they haave a man. But this to me is more a lesson to all those who just have some sorry boy around pretending to be a man. No man should have to live with his mother-in-law. Then this dude actually sold his wife’s car without her permission. Then he was put out of the house. Dukes mom’s is in such denial saying she didnt raise no killer. well ma his ass was locked up for attempted murder before. obviously you didnt raise him right!!!!!!! I am also tired of these mothers sticking by their toxic children even when they do something as horrible as this. Makes all of us look plain stupid. But again, to all the ladies out there with sorry ass men, you need to check yourself and ask why you are really with this dude. Its better to be lonely than to be with someone that will bring you down and take advantage of you. Just cuz he may lick you in the right spot doesnt mean he doesnt have to work or take care of business. Let’s get real from this moment on!!

My question is how long she knew this man what I understand they were married in 2006 how long old he released from prison???

@ FACINGREALITY

‘people die from a lack of knowledge, because they reject knowledge.’

TRUTH overrides JUDGMENT!

until we as a people begin to deal with TRUTH we will die from our lack of knowledge.

When we as a people decide ENOUGH is ENOUGH and begin accepting those things we know as truth and stop trying to change the things we can’t – life improves, values are enhanced and love flourishes.

these are not judgments but TRUTHS!

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EXTREMELY WELL SAID !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now this is a person playing there part well.

This is the most surreal thing I have seen in quite a while and I have seen a lot.

To have your mother, brother, child/nephew all brutually killed inside of 2 days is horrible, not only for them but for ANYONE who has ever gone through this.

My whole heart goes out to Julia, Jennifer, and Juilian’s dad at this time.

Alone with others, I have my opinions about this crime and who I think may be involved, but I am going to hold off on that until later, this is not the time.

This has got to be the most surreal thing I have seen in quite a while and I have seen a lot.

To have your mother, brother, child/nephew all brutually killed inside of 2 days is horrible, not only for them but for ANYONE who has ever gone through this.

My whole heart goes out to Julia, Jennifer, and Juilian’s dad at this time.

Alone with others, I have my opinions about this crime and who I think may be involved, but I am going to hold off on that until later, this is not the time.

@ YVONNE

THAT WAS ONE OF THE MOST INTELLIGENT THINGS THAT WAS SAID ON THIS TREAD TODAY!!!

I think it is clear that this man killed that baby and Jennifer mother and brother. As soon as I heard about the crime I instantly knew it was an inside job. When I heard the baby was taken and there was no force entry, that it was someone the family knew!

When a woman thinks it is cool to date whomever because she is going through some rebellion period against her family she needs to think about this sad story! When are we as woman going to say enough is enough? It is not ok to bring anybody around our families! Most likely Jennifer’s mom did not approve of this clown and Julia did not care. She was probably on some I am tired of my family tring to run my life stuff! Listen to your family ladies when they say HE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU!!!! I blame her because she knew better to be with a man that she had to put up in her momma’s house in the first place! I don’t care what no one says the man looks crazy and I know he did it!

God bless Julia for trying to give a fool a chance.

I’m not trying to be around some ex-con felon on parole, much less expose my Mama or children to that mess.

That is what always trips me out about needy, uneducated women — Black, white, and Hispanic, in particular. How in the hell do they hook up with these criminals?! He is 27 and spent seven years in jail? If someone was in jail for seven years for attempted murder, why would you bring him around your family, let alone your children? No sympathy for her, at all.

Even though it may be politically incorrect to say this, it is just the sad truth. One look at Julia and it is easier to understand why she would involve herself with the likes of the suspected killer. She is kinda unattractive with a major weight problem. Her self esteem must have been quite low and (at some point) she was probably just grateful to have a man…any man. When a person does not have anything else in life to be proud of it is harder to even believe you deserve better!

When did Black folks become just has heartless as some other races. I am not talking about the muderer

either. I am talking about the folks that have become judge and jury already. This family deserve sympathy now. The mother Julia deserves more than anybody. She is just another female that got manipulated by another person and may be paying the highest price ever. This happens to women everyday, whether they are skinny, fat, black, white, rich or poor. It does not make it right, it just needs to stop. No one could have predicted it woud have gone this far, it just does. No one thinks it will happen to them. Females need assistance through these times even though they may be to other

fat whales, stupid and all the other negative comments that have been posted. Just pray for the entire family, because this is just the beginning of many rough days to come.

@Candy Barr,you said…

That is what always trips me out about needy, uneducated women — Black, white, and Hispanic, in particular. How in the hell do they hook up with these criminals?!

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I must tell you that as a social worker in prison,women of ALL RACES,ECONOMIC BACKGROUND AND EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUNDS have been involved with the wrong men-when I worked with the female inmates,we had all kind getting abused-even so called”educated women”There is no boundary that stupidity doesn’t cross.The problem with many women is that they don’t feel worthy of anyone decent in their life due to a very low self esteem.I know many PHD’s getting their asses whipped on a regular basis.I can’t tell you how many women’s children were killed due to just one poor choice.

The only thing I can say is whoever did this to this child,I wish there was a way he could be sent to the prison I work at so he could get “pumpkinheaded”-for those who don’t know what that is,its when the inmates beat someone in the head to the point of it swelling to the size of a pumpkin and leaving him there to die!! The poor child was innocent.

Candy Barr said….

That is what always trips me out about needy, uneducated women — Black, white, and Hispanic, in particular. How in the hell do they hook up with these criminals?!

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I must tell you that as a social worker in the prison system,I have seen ALL RACES,ECONOMIC CLASSES AND EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUNDS of women make the wrong decision when it comes to the choice of men they mate with.This has nothing to do with education,its about the woman’s SELF ESTEEM AND WHAT SHE THINKS OF HERSELF.I can’t tell you how many women I have counseled over the years whose children and parents were hurt or killed due to the woman’s poor choices.I can’t tell you how sad it is to see a child blind due to his mother bringing the wrong man home-the man threw lye in her child’s face.I have saw things that would really freak people out.This happens everyday,we’re only hearing about this one because of Jennifer-many children have suffered like this and still do.

I just hope the bastard who killed that child can come to the prison I work at now so he could get “pumpkinheaded”.For those who don’t know what that is its when the inmates beat the person in the head until it swells up like a pumpkin and then he’s left to die!!!Poor innocent baby

Julia’s ex husband looks emotionally unstable, the signs were there.

Let me tel you something, after reading Julia’s myspace page there is something psychologically disturbing there. She is a church woman? she curses through her myspace page and there are traces of sibling envy…in a fun survey she states her parents love her sister more this is so Body guard. And she is open about her sexuality and promiscuity I am extremley sad for her loss but I am angry at women that choose the worst type of man for their children if you know a man has been in prison for 7/8 years for Attempted Murder please do not risk him being near your child … RIP God cover them with your love right now xx

Let me tel you something, after reading Julia’s myspace page there is something psychologically disturbing there. She is a church woman? she curses through her my space page and there are traces of sibling envy…in a fun survey she states her parents love her sister more this is so Body guard. And she is open about her sexuality and promiscuity I am extremley sad for her loss but I am angry at women that choose the worst type of man for their children if you know a man has been in prison for 7/8 years for Attempted Murder please do not risk him being near your child … RIP God cover them with your love right now xx

Let me tel you something, after reading Julia’s Myspace page there is something psychologically disturbing there. She is a church woman? she curses through her my space page and there are traces of sibling envy…in a fun survey she states her parents love her sister more this is so Body guard. And she is open about her sexuality and promiscuity I am extremely sad for her loss but I am angry at women that choose the worst type of man for their children if you know a man has been in prison for 7/8 years for Attempted Murder please do not risk him being near your child … RIP God cover them with your love right now xx If I am wrong in my assumptions I am sorry but there is something not quite right.

Alot of single women feel like they have the right to date whoever they want, and they do, but once they have children they forfeit that right and their children must always come first, before loneliness, sex, compainionship etc. , b/c as a single mother you are all your kids have. I think her and many other single mothers forget that they are their children’s protector. Even animals will fight to the death to save their young especially against the male species. I think it is always tragic when a woman thinks more of her twat than her own children.

kigali…are you kidding me? Black men should lead the families…NOW go out and find some, until then STFU! Black men are the leading contributers of violence in our community case and point to Julia’s stupidity and this nicca killing yet another “young” black man and family members. When will it stop. I pray for her family this shouldn’t have happened at all, but it couldn’t have come in a worst time for JHUD’s career. I hope she keeps going after the storm passes over. Her mother would naver have wanted her to give up her talent.

I agree, that a lot of these girls run around dating these “thugs”, thinking it’s cute. They don’t realize the danger they put themselves and their families in. My mom always told me that I could call myself running around with those little drug dealing boys if I wanted too…but if the day came that they got pulled over or caught and arrested…if I was with him…I got to go too!!!

I feel sorry for Julia. This has to got to be a mother’s worst nightmare. She paid the ultimate price and learned the ultimate lesson (I hope she learned a lesson)…I don’t think pointing fingers and making accusations is going to solve anything. I doubt she could feel any worse than she feels now. Three members of her family dead in 3 days. One of them being her baby….how much more could they go through?

she all swole up and fat looking. she woulda let anybody come around

Am I the only one who has heard that the suspect William Balfour was Julia Hudson’s husband and that he has known this family since they were little girls? He got in trouble back in 1999 spent 7 yrs. in prison for attempted murder n some other stuff. She married him in 2006 n apparently it was’nt long after he started showing his true colors.

everyone is so quick to judge but we are all human and no one is perfect. does anyone think she wants to be going through this and putting her fa,ily through this. It is so hypocritical to sit and judge and to make negative comments about her weight and to call her all of these names. that is really uncalled for. This woman has lost her mother, brother and her baby. She is going through it. Respect their privacy with out all the name calling and negative judgements. The person she was involved with was not the best choice, however, this is no different from a white man with money who haves an affair and decides he is going to kill his pregnant wife and baby aka Lacey Peterson. point being there are so many situations where people don’t know there spouse is

everyone is so quick to judge but we are all human and no one is perfect. does anyone think she wants to be going through this and putting her fa,ily through this. It is so hypocritical to sit and judge and to make negative comments about her weight and to call her all of these names. that is really uncalled for. This woman has lost her mother, brother and her baby. She is going through it. Respect their privacy with out all the name calling and negative judgements. The person she was involved with was not the best choice, however, this is no different from a white man with money who haves an affair and decides he is going to kill his pregnant wife and baby aka Lacey Peterson. point being there are so many situations. she shouldn’t be blamed.

I am utterly amazed!! Astonished! This woman just lost her child, her mother, and her brother. Heinously. People’s “shame on you” attitude is not what she needs. She’s probably already blaming herself and does not need any help. I don’t care what your opinion is.

And all that well “it’s being said cause that’s what people are thinking” is some b.s. Are ya’ll for real? Lawd have mercy people never really shock me.

My people perish for the lack of knowledge. If people who are obviously friends, family and loved ones would stop enabling Julia, she might feel some remorse and see that it is wrong to date down instead of equal or above. A mate should increase you not decrease you. And I’m sorry but common sense would have told me to run and run well. Yes, she is grieving,yes she lost her family including her baby, but there comes a time when you cut your losses. That guy was a loser from the word go and she should have thought enough of herself to not even be in the same room as he was. To you women condoning her “choices” “decisions” “judgment” you don’t have any self-esteem about yourself either. Which says that you don’t care about yourself. Didn’t you all’s mothers teach you the difference between a man who was marriage material and a bum? Didn’t you get home training about birds that fly together, flock together. Meaning if you lay down with dogs you get up with fleas. There comes a time when you have to realize that love don’t live there, and never did and move on. Yes, it hurts, however, there is a difference in being alone and lonely. You have to take thought and sense of being and say “will my actions cause an endangerment to my child and/or my family”. If you decide to make that choice and say f*ck that, I’m going to do it anyway, then yes the blood spilled is on your hands. And no amount of prayer, goodwill or denial will ever change whatever is left after the carnage. God gives us choices and that’s what separates us from the animals. Adam and Eve made a choice and ended out of Eden. Moses made a choice (pimp decision) and did not make it to the promise land. So you see, it is as it always will be which direction will you choose that determines your destiny and those who love and surround you. Choices.

What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty?

Yes this is very unfortunate for this family but when is the black community going to wake up. Why would Julia or anyone in this family be surprised something like this happened. When you play with fire you get burned. There is nothing positve about interacting with gang members or convicted felons especially if you have children. Single parents, all parents must start putting their children first and if this is something you cannot do then use birth control or give the child up for adoption. We see violence everyday in the black communities across the country but for some reason we continue to be shocked when something like this happen. The only person I feel sorry for is Julian. Mr. Balfour had violated his parole time and time again and the family chose not to take out a restraing order or contact his good for nothing parole officer. This is not going to stop until parents and family members start turning their backs on relatives that are known criminal and trouble makers that only want to cause harm to those in their own communities. They are nothing but cowards and terrorist holding their communities hostage.