Jhud Identifies Her Nephew’s Body

Posted on October 28th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Jennifer Hudson, Jesus Take The Wheel, News, SMH

Posted by Bossip Staff

It’s been reported that Jennifer Hudson confirms that the body is that of nephew, Julian King:

Jennifer Hudson endured more heartbreak Monday when she identified the body of her 7-year-old nephew – found shot to death in an SUV – at the Chicago city morgue. The Oscar-winning actress and singer, who grew up in the Windy City, journeyed to the coroner’s office, where the body of little Julian King lay on a gurney covered with a white sheet. “Yes, that is him,” Hudson said quietly when she saw the boy’s face on a video screen, said Sean Howard, a spokesman for the Cook County medical examiner’s office. For Hudson, whose mother and brother were found slain Friday, it brought the devastating death toll in her family to three. Still, she did not buckle under the grief: “She was just brilliant and strong,” Howard said. “Her last words to me were, ‘Just tell the general public once again to respect my family’s privacy.’”Hudson said her faith in Jesus Christ “was going to get her through that,” Howard said. “Those were her words.”As she left the facility, Hudson’s bodyguards held umbrellas to hide her anguish. Nobody has been charged with the murders, but cops are holding William (Flex) Balfour, 27, the estranged husband of Hudson’s sister Julia, at a state prison for a parole violation. “We’re following any lead we can get right now,” said city Police Superintendent Jody Weis. The Chicago Sun-Times reported Julian had been shot once in the head and was dressed in basketball shorts and a stained white T-shirt. Julian vanished Friday from his home on the gritty South Side after Hudson’s mom, Darnell Donerson, 57, and brother Jason Hudson, 29, were gunned down. Jennifer Hudson, 27, who won an Oscar for her role in “Dreamgirls,” and had remained tight with her family, immediately flew home and offered a $100,000 reward for information leading to Julian’s safe return. The hope that he was still alive was dashed Monday morning when Julian was found on the floor of a Chevy Suburban truck that had belonged to his murdered uncle. Balfour, Julian’s stepdad, has a long rap sheet: He has spent nearly seven years behind bars for attempted murder, vehicle hijacking and possession of a stolen vehicle. Out on parole, he was shacked up with another woman in a violent, drug-infested neighborhood on the West Side of Chicago near where Julian was found. “He’s like a cool little cat,” an upstairs neighbor of Balfour’s girlfriend said of the ex-con. It was a dog walker who spotted the suspicious truck and called the cops, and it matched the one sought in an Amber Alert issued after Friday’s double murder. As police searched weed-strewn vacant lots and alleys, neighbors said they noticed the truck Sunday. “I’d seen it out there three or four times Monday,” one woman, who would not give her name, said. She could not explain why she didn’t call police.

Such a tragedy.

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  • *QUIN*QUIN*

    Damn this is so so sad :-(

  • leave it be..(i finally got some jelly beans) enjoying her Harvest bar

    :(

  • Tonya

    I pray that God will give the family Peace!

  • Necy

    OMG, I can’t help but cry for him!!!! and for his family… and hope that the rumors out there are untrue( about his mom possibly having something to do with this)

  • finally17nluvinit

    thats sad,…i feel4her right now….man,dats y when i get famous,im immediately moving my mom from where we live now….jealousy breeds envy….

  • UpgreydU

    My heart goes out to the entire Hudson family. :(

  • Lisa

    This shines the light on what’s really important in life. At the end of the day, she’d trade it all in for her family back. I pray that she will find strength in the Lord who is gracious in healing so that she can go on and realize and fulfill her God given purpose in life.

  • Don’t mind me

    They must be in so much pain how unbearable

  • maria-ales

    the kid didn’t deerve it, u can’t pop pipo like flies.

  • tish

    i pray that God may strenghten you throughout this difficult time of your life. i am so sorry to hear this. just know your not alone remember the FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND. I give u my love and support jen. take care.

  • UpgreydU

    In unfortunate situations like this one, is it fair to place the blame on anybody?

    No. But, I am really looking at that sister with the side eye because poor choices favor poor results.

  • Creole Baby Don’t Wear Ree-bok He Wear N-ike

    my oh my

  • Whatchaknoaboutdat?

    That is sooooooo jacked up…. I’m praying that they find peace through all of this.

  • Cauli

    This is soo sad. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

  • Bella

    I WILL SAY I DON’T BELIEVE IN THE DEATH PENALTY, BUT WHOEVER DID THIS NEEDS TO BE PUT TO DEATH.

  • Ieshia

    THIS IS SO SAD ONLY A SICK ANMD CRAZY HEARTLESS PERSON WOULD SHOOT A 7 YEAR OLD IN THE HEAD THAT IS SO NOT RIGHT

  • *QUIN*QUIN*

    Man it takes a cold blooded person to kill anyone but to shoot a child in the head that’s just plain EVIL.

  • Ieshia

    I WAS MEANING TO SAY AND HEARTLESS BUT THIS IS REAL SAD WHO EVER DID THIS SHOUD GET THEY ASS BEAT DOWN IN JAIL

  • dfiestyone

    These senseless murders are uncalled for and whomever is responsibly for these henious murders, may they rot in hell. They need to be sentenced to the room where inmates are sent to get the lethal injection!!!!!!!

    I will pray for JHUD and her family through their grieving time!! May God bless them!

  • Jolie_Papillon

    I am still tripping….What is or was the motive…The kid, the mother and the brother? Why didn’t the sister identify the kid…What is really going on here?

  • ShavonDenise

    This is so sad. How can you kill a kid? Shot him in the head??? Signs the world are coming to an end.

  • Jolie_Papillon

    The sister found them shot when she came home…came home from work..the store…or? Is there a 911 tape or did she just call Jennifer to tell her what happened…something just aint right…just not lining up right…give the guy in custody a lie detector test and the sister too…

  • So Sad for J. Hud

    I am HEARTBROKEN for Jennifer Hudson. It’s like you hate to place blame – but WTF – her fat sister with the ex-con — why was he even around her — not to mention her child? She looks like a fat, greedy beast who from what reports are saying was trying to help her husband extort money from Jennifer with this entire mess – but then it went wrong, so wrong – and her family was killed…. a criminologist where I work casually mentioned yesterday that these types of plots are very common when you have someone who tries to get exorbitant amounts of money from a wealthy relative and then the plot falls apart — I bet her sister thought that her husband could get some of his friends could grab the boy for “ransom” and then get the money and let him go….they probably did not think that that boys uncle and grandmother would go down swinging to save that boys life — my family would hav too — the sisters lack of any remorse and calm voice equilibrium are other indicators in times of high body stress that she is trying to decive the public in some manner…..i’m not saying she had to be all broken up and falling on the floor – but you’ll notice in most cases, evidence shows, where the person people dont suspect (i.e. the mther) usually is too calm at the press briefing 0 remember scott /lacy peterson, and many others….they need to look at her sister hard —- i hate the fact that she lost her son and family – they ere so precious – and wer jhuds real supprt system — but i just feel in my gut that moroe will come out w/r/t her involvment in the matter……in any event black women – stop being so f*ckin dedsperate to have someone in your bed that you expose yourself and your family to thugs with nothing to lose and everything to take (i.e., taking the lives of your family members) – i’m out!

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    I wish the hudson family love and strength because those two elements will help them get through this very rough time….

  • First Lady

    Here name is Ms. Jennifer Hudson. You all need to show some respect for her name at least in the time of this traumatic ordeal, she is going through. It should say, “Jennifer Hudson identifies Julian Hudson’s Body”. SHOW SOME RESPECT FOR HER AND HER FAMILY.

  • DJ

    This is more pain than any family should have to endure. My prayers go out to the family and friends of the needlessly slain people and hope that God gives them the courage and strength to endure this senseless loss.

  • Paula

    First, this is absolutely horrible and I feel so bad for Jennifer. From this story though, I can’t get why that heffer who saw the car “three or four times on Sunday” didn’t call. Does this go back to that “don’t snitch” bullcrap? That could have been what saved Julian if he was barely clinging on to life. That woman who saw the truck has blood on her hands too. This whole thing is so sad. Secondly, I blame the mother Julia. She knew this fool had issues and now her family has paid the ultimate price for her selfishness. If you’ve visited her MySpace page, you can tell there’s nothing to her. She never mentions Julian and she says what does she like, “good dick” is her answer. Third, we are all praying for Jennifer to get through this. Her star is dim now but she will come back. She seems so strong and I’ll be praying for her.

  • http://www.healzoo.com blackexec

    This is so sad. Jennifer you are in my prayers.

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  • Fellow Houstonian

    Unbelieveable, many blessings for strength and courage!

  • http://www.stayinthenews.com SITN

    We Are Praying For You …

    Pray For Jennifer with us @

    http://www.StayintheNews.com

  • http://WWW.MSN.COM GLAD JHUD MOMS IS DEAD!

    THE FAT PIGLET WAS GONNA DEAD ANYWAY FROM A HEART ATTACK!!

    WILLIAM DID THE LITTLE FAT BASTARD A FAVOR!!

    YOU HAPPY MEAL EATING MONKEY!! DEAD FATTIE NEPHEW!!!

  • missydaCrunksta

    To the person making all the crazy comments talking bout you are glad people are dead, GO EAT A DICK!

    This is not the time nor the place for such stupidness!!!!

  • KENNEDY

    ENGLEWOOOD LOVES you Jennifer. And somebody asked above me “why didn’t the mom go to identify her son.” She did. She did not want to view the body of her 7yr old only child shot in the head! Can you blame her? I couldn’t bare to see my child like that either.

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re (MADVILLIANY…I heart DangerDoom)

    How terrible, for someone to have to identify the body of someone they love.

    The one shot to the head…that means someone is out to get something. This isn’t just a random murder, that’s for sure…

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    do not match this individuals nasty ways with nasty comments to them… the best thing to do is ignore them because they feed off of attention and they are clearly slightly retarded

  • WHAT?

    You are a sick person. There is a special place for bigots like you….You’ll see. It’s clear that you are an angry person. You are justlike the other bigots—-you hide behind your computer and spew hate but in reality you are nothing less than a COWARD!

  • KENNEDY

    Somebody also said they were extorting money from Jennifer, or wanted to.

    Thats ridiculous her sister is a CTA bus driver THEY ALL had the same jobs they held before Jen’s fame. They barely took anything from Jen. They didnt even wanna leave Englewood after she tried to get them to……..

  • pissed off

    For the idiot above, @ GLAD JHUD MOMS IS DEAD!

    You are a loser and thanks for proving that to the world. This was tragic, no matter who family it happened to. Think about your own family and how you would feel if someone said such ignorant statements like you. You may hate black people, be racist, but that’s just ignorance and I feel sorry for you and the people who raised you to be like that. Be more constructive in life, when it’s over, you’ll have to answer to whatever or whoever you believe in for all your negative energy that was put out during your lifetime. I will pray for anyway because we all need it.

  • iluvprada

    AND the people who lack the respect to show to others should be banned from being aloud to BLOG!

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    this is so sad… i cant even imagine what she was goin through… i have 2 nephews and 4 nieces, this is too crazy.

  • Dyma

    You are a sick person.

  • da darkness

    there’s alot more to this story… America eats its young, respect your-self, do more good, put the drug down, have some ownership

  • kk

    was Julia a SCHOOL BUS DRIVER? cuz, there was no school on Friday, right? hmmmmmmmmm

  • tiredofitall

    Can someone help me on this one….If I was lost my child, mother, and brother would I be on myspace???? This is what she posted………….

    Julia’s Blurbs

    About me:

    LETS SEE IM 29 YEARS OLD I HAVE ONE CHILD AND I’M ALWAYS BORED, I LOVE TO HAVE FUN EVEN START A LITTLE S*** HERE AND THEIR i HAVE TWO YOUNGER SIBLINGS MY SISTER IS JENNIFER HUDSON YES THE JENNIFER HUDSON AND MY BROTHER IS JASON,

    I GUESS IT’S TIME TO UPDATE THIS WHEN I STARTED MY MYSPACE ALL OF THE ABOVE WAS TRUE , NOW BECAUSE I CHOSE TO DO WHAT WAS NATURAL TO ME AND LOVE SOMEONE , IT COST ME MY BEAUTIFUL FAMILY MY WONDERFUL BEAUTIFUL LOVING SUPPORTING MOTHER DARNELL, MY TRUE BLUE BABY BROTHER JASON , I LOVE U BIG BABY … AND LAST BUT NEVER NOT LEAST MY ONLY SON JULIAN , MY INNOCENT BABY ONE THAT WAS SHELTERED FROM ALL THE EVIL OIN THE WORLD BECAUSE WE LOVED HIM SO MUCH… BUT THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR LOVING SUPPORT, I KNOW SOME OF YAL HAVE YOUR OPINIONS AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO THAT , LIKE WHY IS SHE LOGGING ON TO MYSPACE AT A TIME LIKE THIS , LET ME TELL YOU WHY I WAS HOPING THAT , THAT WAS A WAY TO MAYBE HELP ME GET MY SON, MY BABY THE ONE I CARRIED UNDER MY HEART FOR 8 1/2 MONTHS THE SON IT TOOK ME 21 HOURS OF LABOR TO BRING HERE THE SON I GREW TO KNOW AND LOVE FOR JUST A FEW MONTHS OVER 7 YEARS THATS WHY … AND NOW FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ACTUALLY CARED THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT , THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS , THANK YOU FOR POSTING HIS PICTURE ON YOUR PAGES AS YOUR DEFAULT PICTURE THANK YOU… BUT HIS LIL SOUL IS AT EASE, I TAKE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT JULIAN IS WITH MY MOTHER AND MY BROTHER AND MOST OF ALL THE LORD AND NOW HE’S MY ANGEL HE’S PROTECTING ME… .

    I think stupid ass is going to shoot herself in the foot just CTFU…what is this about???

  • GLORY

    @ GLAD JHUD MOMS IS DEAD!

    You are doing waaayy too much! Who comes on a site and spreads hate in a time of grief. You need to go somewhere and pray b/c your just pure evil…WOW.

  • iluvprada

    @ tiredofitall…wow say it isn’t so! The last thing I would be doing is blogging! I’m telling you something just isn’t right wit this one, 4 real!

  • ms meca

    wow its very sad that some of yu are really happy that her family is dead… everybody doesnt think money is everything.. yu see they still had the same job after she got famous that means they werent trying to live off of her !!!! some of yu are just ignorant and tthats very sad

  • MPleasant

    Sorry, we are not falling for you trying to antagonize us with your hatred!! It’s just not going to happen!! It’s not going to be a race war and you are already defeated. For you are the devil and the devil is a liar. You have to understand that God is in Control, and no matter how much hate you try to put out there, Senator Obama will become President, we will not fall victim to your nonsense and the world will become a better place for all. Jennifer is not worried about what you say, she has more on her mind then your useless chatter. We are a smart race and your words only show how desperate you are. We are God’s people and we are not afraid.

    Much Love to our enemies, we are praying for you.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    Good morning to all the sane people.

    RIP to JHud’s deceased family members.

  • SIMPLY JUICY

    HE GIVETH POWER TO THE FAINT AND TO THEM THAT HAVE NO MIGHT HE INCREASETH STREGTH. ISAIAH 40:25

    STAY STRONG JENNIFER AND JULIA THE LORD IS WITH YOU!

    REST IN PEACE DARNELL JASON AND JULIAN!

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    people grieve in their own way..the internet has become very innovaticve over the years..people seek comfort in texting so why not blogging?..everyone is different..

    shame on all of you for making this woman out to be something you are not 100% she is. She lost her child! have a heart..maybe her going to myspace is how she copes with the lost of her family..come on don’t jump to conclusions…people can be so harsh

  • Vee

    Good Morning Folks. May God be with Jennifer Hudson, her family and her community after such a terrible loss. May He have mercy on the souls of those that were killed without warning as they enter His kingdom. I pray that whoever is responsible is punished severly: and I pray for tolerance to deal with people who are filled with hate and cruelty, like GLAD JHUD MOMS IS DEAD…because unlike them I know that you never turn a blind eye Lord and that all of us will reap what we sow.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    @CUTIE PIE

    “people grieve in their own way..the internet has become very innovaticve over the years..people seek comfort in texting so why not blogging?..everyone is different..

    shame on all of you for making this woman out to be something you are not 100% she is. She lost her child! have a heart..maybe her going to myspace is how she copes with the lost of her family..come on don’t jump to conclusions…people can be so harsh”

    _____________________________________________________________

    cosign 100%

    In addition to losing her child this woman is going to face undo criticism about the rash actions of an obviously disturbed person.

  • ms meca

    .. well about the myspace comment.. i mean that doesnt really mke her a bad parent… we all deal with grief different ways.. they did post the missing report thru myspace and maybe she felt she wanted to thank everybody for being interested enough to help find her son… yea ok everybody says she should not of had him around her son .. that much i can agree on .. but how many of yu have kids and have new boyfriedns maybe even husbands?? do yu kno if he is the right man to be around yur child???

    now w e all have our own opnions but sheesh they lost they whole family can we not place blame and point fingers .. this is not a racial debate either

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    well said vee :)

  • iluvprada

    I’ve been doing a little digging and word is; from what someone said from another blog site, had this to say about her blogging and what have you…

    NicetyMonroe…

    I WAS THE FIRST PERSON TO REPORT THAT SHE ACCEPTED ME AS A FRIEND AT 1 IN THE MORN ON SATURDAY, 10 HOURS AFTER THE KILLING….NOW ITS EVERYWHERE! I TOLD MEDIATAKEOUT AFTER SHE HAD SIGNED IN…SHE WAS ONLINE FOR ABOUT 15 MINUTES!

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    hey man :)

    thank god someone can actually think on their own with out influences from others..this goes back to what we were talking about with the power of groups how they can be good and bad…

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    @ cutie pie, i agree with u that ppl grieve in their own way, but this is her child… ask ur ma wat she would do if u died before her( God Forbid), im sure most mothers will be curled up crying on somebody’s shoulder…

  • Jonsey

    Julia was writing on her myspace again this morning, explaining that her love for a thug cost her her family. Now she gets a clue. Too fat you obese whale.

  • Sydney

    From today’s Chicago Tribune:

    Officers questioned William Balfour, 27, the estranged husband of Julian’s mother, on Friday night, but he stopped talking when police suggested he take a polygraph test, law-enforcement sources said. Balfour has not been charged in the slayings.

    Although the sources say Balfour remains the focus of the investigation, the motive remains murky. Police say there have been ongoing disputes between him and his estranged wife, Julia Hudson, and her family.

    Hudson’s mother and brother had thrown him out of their Englewood house in the past, sources said. Julia Hudson also told police that Balfour had threatened the family. A source said Balfour told Julia Hudson he would kill her if he found out she had a boyfriend, despite the fact that he had other girlfriends.

    In another incident, sources said, Julia Hudson arrived Friday morning at Sunrise Bus Co. on payday and discovered her wages had been garnished because of unpaid car payments. Sources said Balfour had taken her car months earlier but promised to make the payments on the vehicle. After seeing her pay stub, Julia Hudson called Balfour to complain about the unpaid bills, sources said.

    Police believe that Balfour went to the Hudson family home Friday and shot through the front door, striking Hudson’s brother, Jason. Hudson’s mother, Darnell Donerson, came into the living room, screaming, and Balfour shot her as well, sources said. Shell casings were also found in the child’s room, but there were no bullet holes or other signs of violence there. Much of the account of what police believe happened that day came from an interview with a girlfriend of Balfour’s, sources said.

    The sources also said Balfour’s girlfriend contradicted his alibi and told police that he was involved in the slayings.

    Police have not ruled out the possibility that more than one person was involved, though Supt. Jody Weis said Monday that Balfour was currently their only “person of interest.”

  • kk

    i think she’s about to TELL ON HERSELF – LET HER KEEP TALKING

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    @ fallin

    u don’t know what she was doing as she was typing..because you were not there..everyone is coming to their own conclusions about a situation they know nothing about..no one in here is speaking from first account everyone is getting their information from the media..sitting here and blaming this woman for the death of her son is just wrong…

    not every mother is going to curl up and cry if their child dies..you don not know every woman so you can not speak on behalf of all of them..some people don’t see death as the end but the beginning of something else you do not know her thought process..know one knows anything i just find it negative that you all come on here and drag this women’s name through the mud..

  • what

    How come the sister logged into her myspace page yesterday and changed up her picture? Anyone grieving over their only child and murdered family members should be to distraught to change up her myspace picture. May God be with Jen doing this time of need.

  • Jahpson

    Now is the time for Punk to perform pre-hubby duties and really comfort Jen and Co.

    She might need him more than ever now!

  • Vee

    Back at cha CutiePie…when will people learn to use these blogs to say things that are APPROPRIATE in times of crisis??? There’s a time-and-a-place-for-everything. Trying to predict how someone should react to sudden death of their loved ones and being happy for such misfortune are clearly signs of how DISTURBED some people truly are. Its sad and its uncalled for. Fortunately though: good always prevails over evil because MOST of us are showing compassion and empathy. I’m relieved and glad to see/read that.

  • Sydney

    Here’s more:

    Julian was found slumped over in the back seat of the Suburban, shot in the head. A bullet was found lodged in the vehicle, leading detectives to believe he had been shot in the vehicle. Police don’t know precisely when he was killed, saying they are waiting for more information from the medical examiner’s office. Police are hoping to find physical evidence at the two crime scenes that breaks the case.

    A prayer service was held for the three slain family members in Pleasant Gift Missionary Baptist Church, where one of Hudson’s cousins is a minister.

    And on the block where the shootings happened near 70th Street and Yale Avenue, about 100 friends and strangers gathered for a candlelight vigil of song and prayer Monday evening.

    Surrounded by stuffed animals, balloons and posters that had grown throughout the day, the crowd sang Jennifer Hudson’s song “Spotlight.”

    On behalf of the Hudson family, the Pleasant Gift Missionary Baptist Church announced establishment of the Hudson-King Domestic Violence Prevention Fund, c/o Seaway Bank and Trust Co., P.O. Box 19522, Chicago, Ill., 60619.

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    no*

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    @CUTIE PIE

    “hey man

    thank god someone can actually think on their own with out influences from others..this goes back to what we were talking about with the power of groups how they can be good and bad…”

    ______________________________________________________________

    Yup. My fear is that Jhud and her sister will have “fingers” pointed their way for the actions of someone else. Someone they have no control over.

    SMH at this entire situation.

  • ms meca

    yeah but nobody really knows what they will do until it happens.. we can say oh i would not do this and that but yu cant actually kno until that time comes

  • KENNEDY

    She posted those things on MYspace out of desperation. Have any of you ever lost a child? wouldn’t you be desperate?

    There alot of bored people on mysace like yourselves who have nothing better to do. She was hoping it would work in her favor, everybody grieves differently.

  • Vee

    @ African Princess…just read your comment. OMG! I’m sorry to hear that such a TERRIBLE thing happened to your aunt! This world is goin’ to hell on the EXPRESS!!!

  • Lady elle

    There needs to be a banning done in here today.

    3 generations gone
    :(

  • Jahpson

    I think the FBI needs to be notified of the post (and the IP address..oh yeah it can be found)

    made by GLAD JHUDS…..

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    @ cutiepie, im not tryin to start anything lol.. or drag her name through the mud… just a few clarifications i said “most” mothers would be curled up and crying, and i NEVER blamed her for the death of her child… we can agree to disagree without getting mad.

  • KENNEDY

    Thank you MS MECA

  • Tampa Bay thinks they’re slick..half a game 2 go!… GO PHILLIES!

    RIP lil Julian…so sad. :(

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    @ fallin

    I would never get mad at someone giving their opinions..to me its just disturbing how people are sayiing what she SHOULD be doing…should’s sap the energy…

    my grandmother lost 2 kids and almost my mother in a house fire when she lived in africa..she loved them so much so much so that she would give her own life..she never shed a tear over them in front of anyone..the following day after their death she went to work..that does not mean she loved them any less..thats the only point i am trying to make

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    @ cutiepie, i understand what ur sayin…

  • ms meca

    @ CUTIE PIE

    OH IM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT!

    and that what i was trying to say … jus becuz yu go to work or get on the computer doesnt mean yu didnt love your children yu are just dealing with it differently

  • ms meca

    kennedy

    yur welcome

  • KENNEDY

    EXACTLY Cutie Pie PEOPLE GRIEVE DIFFERENTLY!

  • Rotex

    love the fact that she still has faith in Jesus Christ! I pray for peace to reign in her and her family’s life!

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    @ meca

    “@ CUTIE PIE

    OH IM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT!

    and that what i was trying to say … jus becuz yu go to work or get on the computer doesnt mean yu didnt love your children yu are just dealing with it differently”

    —————————————

    yea, people will always have their opinions but I just feel it is wise to let others know it is their opinions and not a set way or logic for others to follow…

    everyone sufferes tragedies in their lives just like their aren’t any perfect families I think the most important thing is gathering up the strength and courage to get through those rough times and being grateful for all that everyone has..family is so important and it usually takes a tragedy like this to remind people how important family and life really is…

  • tiredofitall

    I understand people use myspace to maybe look for her child…

    But 10 hours after your child is missing why in the hell are you accepting friends??? you can get messages if you are not a friend…Why are you explaining yourself…do you really have the time too??? Its just not sounding right but the way how she is explaining herself its seems like the story will come out anyday now…

  • Oshie RIP Julian

    I don’t feel right reading this. I feel like it’s none of my damn business. :?

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    there*

  • tiredofitall

    I don’t care if anyone agrees with me this is reminding me of the Susan Smith case…This kind of behavior…

    She is doing the same things

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    Hey, good morning BE… :) lol

  • African Princess (I’m a Pisces)

    @ Vee…Thanks. Things are so bad I’m afraid what quality of life my 2 year old son will have. When I grew up we would play in the streets til the sun went down. We would play in the bush and go over to peoples houses and our parents wouldn’t worry about what would happen to us.

    Now the world is filled with hate, murderers, child molestors and terrorists. You can’t trust anyone. You can’t just go anywhere. I’m just really sad about the world we live in now. You have a better chance of being killed by someone than you do getting cancer or being hit by a bus. Mothers and Fathers please stand up. We have the ability to change the fate of our offspring.

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    @ be

    when these losers come on here I just can’t help but to feel sympathy for them. They clearly are not happy people and unfortunately for them happiness can not be purchased in stores and they are not wise enough to find happiness in themselves so they come on here an spew hateful things to feel good about themselves..not knowing that the negative words they say will manifest metaphysically in their everyday lives..people will and must learn..

  • Afiya – GO PHILLIES

    Just coming in so I don’t know if this question has been asked and answered but…

    WHY DIDN’T JULIA IDENTIFY HER SON’S BODY…WHERE WAS HER ASS?

    Have you all read her myspace page…sounds like a young teenager instead of a grown-ass woman…I have absolutely so symphathy for her at all…none! and her thug ass husband needs to SUFFER not die…that would be too good for him :(

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    @ princess

    “@ Vee…Thanks. Things are so bad I’m afraid what quality of life my 2 year old son will have. When I grew up we would play in the streets til the sun went down. We would play in the bush and go over to peoples houses and our parents wouldn’t worry about what would happen to us.

    Now the world is filled with hate, murderers, child molestors and terrorists. You can’t trust anyone. You can’t just go anywhere. I’m just really sad about the world we live in now. You have a better chance of being killed by someone than you do getting cancer or being hit by a bus. Mothers and Fathers please stand up. We have the ability to change the fate of our offspring.”

    ————————————–

    thats why I feel it is the respinsibility of us the new generation to do something about it..start calling up your city counsil man your district offices and complaining about the current conditions in your community..if you make enough noise something has to be done..get in touch with the press, newspapers, etc..and let them know about whats going on..don’t just let it continue and become the norm because it will only get worst…

    it really is time to take action..you have people plotting to kill people and what have you and if nothing is done things will continue…

  • Aoki Lee

    Women need to be more CAREFUL about the men they bring into their lives as their relationships effect EVERYONE.

    This thug was a criminal she knew he had a jail record & STILL decided to deal with him?! which would have been fine if she did not have CHILDREN!!!

    Now Jen has lost her MOMMA, BROTHER & NEPHEW because her dumb assed sister made wrong dating decisions!

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    @ afiya… uh oh, i had the same opinion bout her myspace page but its not a popular one.

  • WhatsYoursIsMine-Voting Early and I can’t wait!!!!!

    I couldn’t imagine the pain her family is experiencing right now. I hope they can find justice for Balfour and closure for the families of everyone involved.

  • LADY ARCHITECT (DOING BIG THINGS AT 23)

    I pray that everything goes well with the Hudson family and all other families that go through tragedies such as this. Nobody ever deserves this.

  • JAD

    My thoughts and prayers go out to the Hudson family during this time of grief. No one deserves to lose their life like this. Justice will come.

  • LADY ARCHITECT (DOING BIG THINGS AT 23)

    people please stop being so negative…it helps nothin.

  • crazychris

    that dude must have really been pissed off to do something like that jennifer hudson has sold her soul for fame and sadly this is the toll you must pay satan always gets his in the end feel bad for her.

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    @ lady architect… u look good.

  • as seen on t.v.(my gravie went to Harvard with our next president)

    I just don’t think that this woman should be tried in the court of opinion without facts…Everyone grieves differently…For me after losing my cousins and best friend to gun violence…I couldn’t function..Couldn’t eat, sleep, even think beyond what had happened…I just pray that if she did have anything to do with this that she rots in jail and sees the faces of her mom, child and brother for the rest of her life…This is too sad for words…I know what it’s like to lose family to murder…It hurts beyond compare and time doesn’t heal the hurt only lessens it…Peace be with you Jennifer…

  • BE

    @Falling poet – Good Morning!

  • Afiya – GO PHILLIES

    The damage is already done @ FallinPoet…all Jennifer has now is her friends and other family members…her sister should be so far removed from her life right now…I couldn’t even look at her if she was my sister…she knew that MF was no damn good and he probably warned her that something like this would happen (OVER A DAMN CAR)…they both could go to hell if it were me.

    Jennifer’s mother was her heart and life…once someone took her…party over!

    I just feel so bad for Jennifer…it’s heartbreaking :(

  • Aoki Lee

    @ Lady Architect,

    I’m not trying to be negative but this world we live in is vile! And with the looming economy it is ominous that things are going to get worse. As a women who one day hopes to become a mother it will be my job to protect my child. The best defense is offense we know fools are crazy out here, why up the chances of homicide by bringing criminal elements around your child & family?

  • KENNEDY

    Right behind you Meca……….

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet()

    @ afiya… its very tragic, i have been so sad for Jennifer Hudson bc i cant even imagine whats shes goin through.. no1 should have to go through all that.

  • tiredofitall

    @afiya

    Agree 100% but she has time to blog on myspace but Jennifer goes and ID the body..

  • Afiya – GO PHILLIES

    It’s not my job to forgive Julia and her thug ass husband…that’s God’s job.

    I say screw them both…like it or not!

  • ebGCH

    That is so sad.

    I was hoping they would find him.

    He’s is with God now.

  • Afiya – GO PHILLIES

    @Be

    Who are we suppose to show love to besides Jennifer?

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    I’m gone clearly this thread is not the type of damper i want on my day and because I feel most of you in here like to point fingers and fail to have compassion in your heart. i pray that all of you upon hearing this news as well as before hearing the news you called up your family to tell them how much you love them and appreciate them…

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ afiya… so how’d u feel bout the game being suspended last night? u have a good feeling ur boys are gonna pull through?

  • Redd Tony aka Earth Sign {Its time for a Revolution)

    Gd Morning errbody…

    God Bless J Hud and her family….

    Errbody kiss their loved ones and tell them you love them..

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    morning aunt viv :)

    people can disgust me at times…

  • http://signoftimes@msn.org hot sauce’s mild sauce part of the sauce family

    i cant even comment on this ignorant shyt.

  • BE

    @Aifya – Even if you want to just grieve for Jennifer how does it make her feel that her sister is being dogged?

    I am sure that they have more family and friends that are reading these blogs, what about them?

    Even if that mother is guilty feeling guilty will no doubt eat her alive for the rest of her life – why pour salt on open wounds – to make who feel better. condolescenes are for the living , the people who are dead don’t know nothing they are already gone but grief is for the people who have to still move forward…

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ Redd Tony aka Earth Sign {Its time for a Revolution)… like ur gravie… way better than the other one…

  • mona

    Some people are truly heartless. (ie) the comment above D@ Pop3.

    At a time like this When she has lost her mother brother and nephew. How can you be so heartless and say all of those things.

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    ^^^^^d@ pop did not say that he was quoting some other person

  • thickems

    You are in my prayers.

    Maybe I missed it somewhere but where is the sister? If this is a crazy question please forgive me because this is such a sad situation.

  • Redd Tony aka Earth Sign {Its time for a Revolution)

    @Fallin Poet

    Thanks!

  • thickems

    My prayers are with you !

    I truly missed it but where is Jennifer’s sister? Please forgive me if you find that my question is crazy. This is such a sad situation.

  • Afiya – GO PHILLIES

    @Be

    It’s not my place to feel sorry for her sister…that’s Jennifers…and I’m sure what we say won’t change a damn thing about their situation…we all have our own crosses to bear.

    @FallinPoet

    My father-in-law is lovin’ it…he works for them…lol…it’s suppose to rain the rest of the week…so it don’t matter to me when they get their win…they gonna get it though *crosses fingers* ;)

  • BE

    PS – I never went to ID my mothers body because I was too scared I would break down. Everyone handles death differently..but I had strong family members who walked me through that time and I got through it..(now I am late for my 11 am meeting- be back)

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ Redd who was the football player anyway, i never looked closely enuf, but everytime id see it i would c Cedric Benson and he was bad news for my Bears… it wasnt him, was it?

    @ afiya, i dont really care who wins but id be happy for ryan howard, rollins, victorino… its a good team.. i did like the rays story tho… oh and u philly fans have a horrible rep… lol

  • http://dreampsychic.blogspot.com Dwayne The Dream Psychic

    Jennifer Hudson tragedy, #3 & Halloween is all a sign. Pt.2 today on my blog–dreampsychic.blogspot.com

    In honor of Jennifer Hudson, people should not participate in Halloween.

  • LADY ARCHITECT (DOING BIG THINGS AT 23)

    Fallin Poet,

    Thanks for the compliment.

    Aoki Lee,

    I feel you and other people are upset about certain things. I was just telling people not to be so negative because truth is we don’t know what went down. I agree with the putting family in jeopardy and everything, but did she know he was a convicted felon? There’s just not enough information to pass so much judgement because criminals walk among us everyday and unless you know someone that has access to private files, you wouldn’t know unless the person tell you. But I do understand where you coming from. I feel the same way, but we only know what the media has stated so far.

  • Afiya – GO PHILLIES

    LOL @ FallinPoet *hangs head* I KNOOOW!! :)

    @Dwayne

    Holloween is the devil’s holiday…don’t celebrate it…

  • Redd Tony aka Earth Sign {Its time for a Revolution)

    @Fallin Poet

    It was Sean Taylor from Redskins..he died last year

    @Errbody

    Dont even burn up the energy to even worry about the hateful comments..It aint worth it..

  • ms meca

    i am gonna say a prayer for those who are being ignorant i just really pray for yu and your family!!!

    i refuse to let this ignorance ruin or bring negativity to my day!!1

    good morning to the rest of the educated and caring people on this page

  • ms meca

    And…..(with 5 dots

    i agree People do strange things when their conscience is messing with them.

  • 444

    1) if you can plump in front of a computer and type and accept new ‘friends’ then you got time to id your child

    2) if you put ANY type of blame on your husband then you take his picture down

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    How can you blame Julia for not predicting that someone would murder her mother, brother and CHILD???

    Who could’ve known that???

  • LALAI LEE

    I HOPE THAT DEVIL BURNS IN HELL!

  • Sydney

    Here are more details on possible motives for the murders from chicagotribune(dot)com. Also, it appears that the Julia had known Balfour for years:

    Much of the account of what police believe happened that day came from an interview with a girlfriend of Balfour’s, sources said.

    The sources also said Balfour’s girlfriend contradicted his alibi and told police that he was involved in the slayings.

    In one dispute, sources said, Julia Hudson arrived Friday morning at Sunrise Bus Co. on payday and discovered her wages had been garnished because of unpaid car payments. Sources said Balfour had taken her car months earlier but promised to make the payments on the vehicle. After seeing her pay stub, Julia Hudson called Balfour to complain about the unpaid bills, sources said.

    Balfour’s criminal rap sheet dates back at least a decade. Court records show that Balfour was arrested in 1998 after police spotted him driving a stolen vehicle. They tried to pull him over near the 6900 block of South Yale Avenue — about a block from the Hudson family home — but Balfour stopped the car and fled, according to court records.

    Balfour was out on bail when a man saw Balfour breaking into his new Chevrolet Suburban on Nov. 29, 1998, and ran outside to stop him, court records show. Balfour, then 17, drove off with the man hanging from the roof rack.

    As police followed, Balfour drove through alleys, front yards, through a police barricade and onto the Dan Ryan Expressway — all with the victim clinging to the vehicle, records indicate. He eventually crashed into a telephone pole and fled.

    The victim suffered burns from fallen electrical wires as well as other injuries.

    Balfour was sentenced to 7 years in prison after pleading guilty to attempted murder and car hijacking in September 1999. He was released in May 2006, returned to the neighborhood where he grew up and reconnected with Julia Hudson, one of the three Hudson siblings he had known while attending Yale Elementary School.

  • tiredofitall

    @444

    Thank you…I feel for Jennifer I really do…something is not right…If this was a WHITE woman and she did this then we will like SHE HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT..

    This is my opinion and if its not like oh well

    1. Let me get the facts right. First Julia finds out her check is garnished she calls her husband Flex. Then he gets mad and goes off in a spree. One if anyone knows usually then husband kills the wife so he skips Julia and kills the mother, brother, and step son and just leaves her.

    Ten hours later when her son is missing she goes on myspace and accept friends? huh? yeah she is really grieving. I understand logging in myspace to read messages again you don’t have to be a friend to get them.

    Yesterday the body is found. She is on myspace again to put the BLAME on her husband and not there to ID the body. Yeah she probably couldn’t take seeing him but she can take seening his pics are her hubby pics on myspace write a blog.

    Something is just not right…

  • LADY ARCHITECT (DOING BIG THINGS AT 23)

    yeh something is missing. Remember when they try to say MJ’s dad was murdered randomly and come to find out it was over a million dollar debt from a poker game. SMH someone knows something. It better be deeper than a friggin car payment.

  • Obama supporters need to beat down hateful rednecks!

    LMAO @ the wannabe criminal investigators in here.

    cute

  • KENNEDY

    Obama supporters need to beat down hateful rednecks!

    LMAO @ the wannabe criminal investigators in here.

    cute

    LOL Iknow, who appointed these fools?

  • Tina

    I still can’t believe all of this could be over some car.

    I read somewhere that Julia wasn’t the one accepting friends on Myspace, it was the police. They were looking for answers.

  • K-mia

    she looks so pretty right there

  • Tina

    K-mia K-mia Hello

  • ms meca

    tina

    is that the cast of girlfriends on yo gravie?? what season was that

    just curious

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    Has there been any evidence to convict that ass “…flex…?”

  • KENNEDY

    MAN I JUST DONT CARE “Has there been any evidence to convict that ass “…flex…?”

    Not yet, they had to release him to the IDOC. But I still think he has something to do w/it, directly or indirectly. Maybe one his guys but the buzz in Englewood is that he has somethin to do with this……

  • dapro11(rip to family of jhud and stay strong sista chi town got ya back)

    RIP

    Darnell Donerson, 57, Jason Hudson, 29, and Julian King

    Lets continue to stay strong for the sista

    Live life to the fullest family, tomorrow is never promised

  • Sydney

    Hi Aunt Viv and all. . .

    @Man

    It looks like they may charge Balfour soon, but others may be involved as well.

    @MissBlaze

    I have a question for you — through your blogging, have you come across any rumors about a ransom? I heard that there’s some speculation floating around Chicago that there’s more to this story.

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Man I just don’t care

    Last I heard, they were checking his clothes for gun powder.

    This case is so strange in s many levels. First off the point of the victims being shot “multiple” times shows that the perpetrator has / had hatred and or jealousy for their victims.

    We’ve ALL been taught that through CSI, Forensic, which ever show you watch, you know this to be true. Shooting or stabing a person once or twice is entirely one thing. But for someone to just keep shooting or just keep stabbing – That’s personal.

    The police need to look into that and start questioning other close family members.

    I bet you any amount of money that if they sit Julia in one of them rooms for 24 hours; with no food or water, she’ll talk!

  • Tina

    Hey Ms Meca!! Yes, that’s my TV girls. I’m not sure what season it is. I think it’s season 3. I was mad when the took the show off.

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    Yes – here and there – but not a whole lot of people are really harping on that.

    Like us, they want to know why Julia and Family waited around for Jennifer to show up to identify the bodies of Everybody, when the Sister could have easily identified the bodies of the mother and brother, at least.

  • ms meca

    tina

    i neva seen that picture of them befor !! i love girlfriends.. i havent seen any episodes of season three.. and im mad they took toni off and now gonna take show off

  • steven

    that’s so sad!! so ruthless! and so cruel!! all my friends on ” A g e l e s s m a t e. c o m ” feel sorry for the family. Hope they will get over this soon!!

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    My boyfriend seems to think that this whole thing was a Kidnapping that went horribly wrong, but I don’t know.

    I just wish they start questioning the Sister, for real. I’m sure she knows more than what she’s saying, but is probably afraid to say anything because of the rammifications.

    My God, that poor baby… He so didn’t deserve that, just like countless other children don’t.

    My prayers for Julian and the little 11 year old child killed by her mother this weekend.

    We’re truly living in the LAST DAYS!!!

  • dapro11(rip to family of jhud and stay strong sista chi town got ya back)

    Word on the street is that the girlfriend of William Balfour might have been involved

    The truck was found on the west side of the Chi a few blocks from his girlfriend’s house and were he was caught at

    He may have been using the kid as a ransom because of a dope debt (speculation from people in the area)

  • Jay

    This whole sisuation is tragic, but to shoot a 7 year old in the head….that’s just pure evil!!!

    I hope Jhud can pull through this and continue to make her family proud.

    May God be with you and your family through this senseless tragety!!!!

  • Tina

    @Ms Meca

    I think I’ve seen all the episodes of every season except the last one. I love the show, and I was mad as hell when they took the show off too. Why did Toni leave anyway? I heard rumors but I didn’t believe them.

  • Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    Who knows. . .

    I read on TMZ, and this hasn’t been confirmed, that Balfour was undergoing anger management before this happened.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    @MISS BLAZE 43

    “My boyfriend seems to think that this whole thing was a Kidnapping that went horribly wrong, but I don’t know.

    I just wish they start questioning the Sister, for real. I’m sure she knows more than what she’s saying, but is probably afraid to say anything because of the rammifications.

    My God, that poor baby… He so didn’t deserve that, just like countless other children don’t.

    My prayers for Julian and the little 11 year old child killed by her mother this weekend.

    We’re truly living in the LAST DAYS!!!”

    ____________________________________________________________

    I want to ask you a question about this but I’ll do it later….

  • Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    Another 11-year-old was killed this weekend?

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    @MISS BLAZE 43

    “I bet you any amount of money that if they sit Julia in one of them rooms for 24 hours; with no food or water, she’ll talk!”

    __________________________________________________________

    ….. or attack everyone in the room.

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    I can believe it. His mood of feeling “forgotten” (indicated on his myspace page), then who knows what he could’ve been propelled to do.

  • ms meca

    @ tina

    girl they said toni left to pursue her acting career after they wouldnt give her more money to stay on the show!!! see after a while i had start missing so many episodes and didnt even kno they still came on after they switched channels!!!

    i did see a couple of the new ones cuz i believe mya was pregnant again or something lik that and she was deciding wheather to keep the baby or not or did she have a miscarriage ???

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    Yes – an 11 year old girl – WHOSE MOTHER HATED HER BECAUSE SHE REMINDED HER OF THE FATHER.

    Mind you, the little girls was living with her father in – I forget where – The Dominican Republic – I think. But this chick sent for the little girl only to beat her to death with a broom stick.

    When she broke it over the childs head, she ACTUALLY TOOK THE TIME TO TAPE IT BACK TOGETHER – and then resumed to beating the child again.

    This was in East New York, Brooklyn

    AND PEOPLE THINK THAT A FAMILY MEMBER OF JENNIFER’S COULDN’T DO THIS.

    Get real, people and stop being IN DENIAL!!!

  • shyhomie

    My take or observation and knowing a lil’ bit about the Englewood neighborhood. Jennifer’s mother is like most Chicagoans, if a child or sibling moves away, they are hell bent on staying (same situation with my mother), it’s all they know and they feel comfortable. Jennifer is still making moves and building wealth, which is why her sister and brother have continued to stick around the Chicago area a live with their mother. The estranged husband is nothing but a street cat who sees this family as an opportunity to come up!! Jennifer’s mother probably expressed her feelings to her daughter about her comfort of ole’ boy being around the crib, hence she kicked him to the curb. He probably made threats to Jennifer’s sister, as any coward would do, but hadn’t actually planned to act on them. If it is true about Jennifer’s sister going to her job and having issues with her paycheck, she probably called ole’ boy and cussed him out. Now, the threat is coming to fruition for the estranged husband, but he knows he have Jennifer’s brother, who by the way from pics, didn’t look like a pu$$y, so he grabs a gun to confront Jennifer’s sister with the possiblity of having to deal with the brother. When he arrived at the house, some arguing probably ensued and my man probably at that point just went in for the kill, probably with intentions only towards the brother, but the mother was there, which probably made him even more enraged. He probably then, at that point grabbed the shorty with no real intentions on harming him, but after realizing how deep he was in it, decided to finish what he started. Sad, sad, sad situation. Ole’ boy is lucky he’s locked up right now and better not hope he have to go through the county.

  • Special K

    @cutie pie

    I am sorry for oyu loss but I commend you for staying so positive amongst all the negative. And for people who think you can’t hack into someone myspace and email and start sending stuff or blogging please believe you can. Just like your idenity can be stolen people can do things without your knowledge it is not a guarantee that it is her on her myspace WE don’t know that and I think before passing judgement or throwing around innuendos we should all stop and think about the main focus these people are GONE never coming back maybe she is writing maybe she doesn’t want to think about her son having a hole in his head, are never being able to talk to her mom or brother again. IT is hard people really hard I lost my mom and it really hurts I heard someone say on the radio that it hurts to the bone marrow and I couldn’t give a more accurate description and I could not imagine losing a mother and a child all at the same time. Please be uplifting and don’t cast stones on this poor woman. GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY IN THEIR TIME OF NEED.

  • Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    Omigod! No, I hadn’t heard about that. . .Horrible.

    I’m not a proponent of the death penalty, but in crimes involving children, it doesn’t seem like incarceration is punishment enough.

  • ms meca

    shy homie!!!

    thank yu thats what im talkin about….

    that whole job incident could definitly be possible… people said why would he kill them and leave her ?? could it be that she wasnt there and he didnt kno her where abouts and when he realized she wasnt there he had to destroy all other eveidence!!!

  • shyhomie

    What up Meca!!!

  • KENNEDY

    The streets is sayin something totally different than what all of you all are “speculating”…….

    These people know more than the police and so does JHUD, I wish they would tell what they know!

  • ms meca

    homie

    what up !! i been on here all day trying to get that point across!!!

    and people are on here wishing this happened smdh @ the follishness

    i cant log into the other forums so i been here all day how yu been??

  • LADY ARCHITECT (DOING BIG THINGS AT 23)

    hey Aunt Viv!

  • Aoki Lee

    uh SMDH I do NOT believe all black men are HOMICIDAL. No this could happen no matter what color, race. creed ect.

    The problem was that this man was an EX CON & here in NYC the papers are reporting that this fool had was a KNOWN thug!

  • ms meca

    @ tina

    wth?? her and todd seperated or he moved there on business???

    i figured joan and toni would eventually not be friends because joan was jealous everytime somebody got married and toni just always made things about her!!! is there a way i can get all the seasons on dvd because i have alot of cathcing up to do!! awww man i figured she lost the baby i didnt get to c the whole episode :(

  • http://www.yahoo.com Man, I just don’t care

    @SYDNEY

    “Omigod! No, I hadn’t heard about that. . .Horrible.

    I’m not a proponent of the death penalty, but in crimes involving children, it doesn’t seem like incarceration is punishment enough.”

    _____________________________________________________________

    Yeah, I’m with you.

    Unfortunately the justice system is clearly “unjust” in study after study. Particularly against the poor and minorities.

    It can only be assumed that the death penalty has been and will continue to follow the bias of the jusitce system at large.

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    No, prison doesn’t work. Look at the case of the former cop who is doing time in a mental hospital for sexually molesting his girlfriends two daughters for instance.

    The daughters and their mother are pleading w/ the parole board to not let him out.

    Not only are they afraid for themselves for that reason, BUT THEY THINK THIS FOOL MIGHT HAVE KILLED HIS WIFE ALSO. It was never proven that he killed the wife, but hell, nobody knows where she’s been all these years, either.

    BUT, they want to release this fool to a half-way house or homeless shelter so that WE, THE TAX PAYERS can help him find adequate housing.

    Nevermind everybody else who may need adequate housing as well, but where going to help this man, because afterall, HE WAS A COP!!!

  • MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    No, prison doesn’t work. Look at the case of the former cop who is doing time in a mental hospital for sexually molesting his girlfriends two daughters for instance.

    The daughters and their mother are pleading w/ the parole board to not let him out.

    Not only are they afraid for themselves for that reason, BUT THEY THINK THIS FOOL MIGHT HAVE KILLED HIS WIFE ALSO. It was never proven that he killed the wife, but hell, nobody knows where she’s been all these years, either.

    BUT, they want to release this fool to a half-way house or homeless shelter so that WE, THE TAX PAYERS can help him find adequate housing.

    Nevermind everybody else who may need adequate housing as well, but where going to help this man, because afterall, HE WAS A COP!!!

  • http://signoftimes@msn.org hot sauce’s mild sauce part of the sauce family

    Tina, i heard it was the police also accepting friends on Julia’s my space page looking for comments and things, plus i heard they put up “flex in jail’ on his my space page,this is so sad i just cant get over this .

  • geemama

    I wish jhud and her family God’s peace in this time of truama.God will surely bring back the smile on ur face and the joy in ur heart. So sad…

  • luv4theRigeous

    I feel sorry for the victims the most.everyone should be a suspect to solve THESE MURDERS,including the mother.All mothers do not luv their kids.Sad but true, only true facts will solve these murders.sometimes others fame bring out an envy in those closest to them,they want it to be them.My observation,the ex husband moved on ,Jennifer is shining plus found luv and big sister wants to be famous too ,went crazy with envy and she still crazy.her eyes weren’t even puffy(red flag) ,it looked like no tears ever fell from her eyes.the sister is #1 in my gut. I can’t commit murder ,but that doesn’t mean she can’t. her myspace situation (red flag). it’s not about what u would do if it were your child.it’s about looking at the facts to bring justice for the victims.if it was their time to go, GOD would not have needed a killer and a gun.this is about someone who decided to take others lives in their own hands and finding the killer or killers.

  • Sydney

    @Man

    “It can only be assumed that the death penalty has been and will continue to follow the bias of the jusitce system at large.”

    And this is the reason why I can’t fully support the death penalty — that, and the fact, that some innocent people have been executed.

    I do believe, however, that there should be longer sentences for crimes against children. Some of those sociopaths basically get a slap on the wrist.

    @MissBlaze

    Are you talking about Drew Peterson? I stopped reading about that case because it’s so disturbing.

  • Tina

    @Ms Meca

    No, they divorced. They were in court over custody ’cause Toni seemed unstable sometimes, but Tod eventually dropped the case, and said she was a good mother. Tod got a job in New York, and then Toni moved so the baby could be close to her father.

    Lynn moved into Joan’s house, and Joan started living with her boyfriend. I won’t tell you everything, but I think they sale DVDs at Best Buy. I don’t think it’s the complete season though.

    @Hot Sauce’s Mild

    Yep, it was the police. I just got tired of people saying she was accepting friends after her son was missing. It’s very common for the police to search the internet when they don’t have many leads, and sometimes if they do, they just look for more clues. How are you?

  • Tina

    @Ms Meca

    Sorry. I meant I don’t think it’s the every season for one price. It’s sold individually.

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    the death penalty is a sin..two wrongs do not make a right..

  • ms meca

    @ tina

    dam now yu got me bout t run and get them.. i kno i seen season one in stores but wasnt sure about 2 and 3!!

    dam joan found a stable guy and moved out i definitly never seen that coming… ok one last thing was william still around i kno i had seen him with that ine chick and i think she tried trapping him with a baby

  • http://www.raiders.com M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST(RAIDERS WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

    I just dont see the logic in killing a 7 year old kid.

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    The streets is sayin something totally different than what all of you all are “speculating”…….

    These people know more than the police and so does JHUD, I wish they would tell what they know!

    _____________________________________________________

    @KENNEDY

    It’s NOT that easy Fam…

    Cause if you get involved you could get yourself in something that you wish you NEVER did…

    Them street cats are ignorant and dumb as sh#t, with NO thought or regard to the consequences of their actions because of the so-called “code of the street” and/or to “keep it real”…

    In some cases, saying what you know will not only put yourself in danger but ALSO your loved ones…

    Witness protection program my a$$…

    Remember in that neighbor they hear gunshots “on the regular”…

    I’m speaking via personal experience where a friend passed away due to domestic violence (*she was dating a thug AGAIN, her baby daddy passed due to street violence) and her best friend told me the true story of what went down… which was a totally different story from what the news outlets and police were saying…

    Someone’s gonna “sing like a canary” especially once the reward money gets high enough… Sorry to put it like that, but that’s the truth…

  • Redd Tony aka Earth Sign Its time for a Revolution

    I cant fully support the death penalty either, why kill em when they aint learned nothin…

    I believe that a person who commits these types of crimes end up building up an enormous amount of remorse for what they did the longer they stay in jail…Besides the prisoners in jail dont make it easy for other inmates who kill children…

  • jus blazing jus saying

    if this shyt happened to my family – i would beg the killers to come to my house to be personally forgiven – the death penalty is useless [2 many innocent people being executed] EVERY family got that one gully member that can take of bizzness [tapping side of nose] as for my family it’s me and my crazy uncle – nice sit down dinner and then a swim in the hudson river .. that easy ..

  • Special K

    @ Cutie Pie again you are right

    “EYE FOR AN EYE AND WE WOULD ALL BE BLIND”

    honestly death would be to good for this individual anyway.

  • Sydney

    @Redd

    “I believe that a person who commits these types of crimes end up building up an enormous amount of remorse for what they did the longer they stay in jail…”

    Some may, some may not. I think prison makes some inmates better criminals. Some should never see the light of day again.

    And it’s hard for me to reconcile with criminals who have their lives spared when they kill children. Of all people, children are the most defenseless and vulnerable.

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    there is a program for inmates who commit homicide in which they meet the victims families and letters are exhanged expressing how they feel…

  • TDC

    This is such a tragedy and by God’s Mercy and Grace many of us on this site have obviously never been in this situation. The rarity of losing three family members in one weekend is unimaginable. So with that said and though I agree there is probably more to come, it is not for us to judge Julia’s actions or reactions. She lost her mother, brother and son, her actions are going to be unpredictable and unexplainable, but this does not make her a criminal. So reserve your judgement because only God can judge.

  • MissBlaze43

    Do you any of you remember this:

    I remember years ago watching a program about a mother whose daughter had been murdered. They caught the man who did it and he received a life sentence.

    One of the stipulations the mother had was for this man to pay the mother $1.00 per day for the next 21 years, which was the age of the daughter upon her death.

    At one point the man tried sending the mother a LUMP SUM. She promptly sent the lump sum back to him and said, NO, that wasn’t the agreement. The agreement was for you to send me $1.00 EACH DAY.

    That stiuplation that the mother insisted upon WORKED. That man said he’d rather send a lump sum then to have to actually send her that money every day.

    He Said having to do that hurt more than having to do the time!!!

  • KENNEDY

    @Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    Duhhhh. Iknow that sweetie Im from Englewood. It was just wishful thinking is all…….

  • Sweet and Sour

    one of the founding members of the sauce family has arrived

  • LADY ARCHITECT (DOING BIG THINGS AT 23)

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original),

    I agree with you. There was an instance in New Jersey where someone witnessed a killing and reported it. Somehow the killer found out and had a mob of guys kill the whole family including mom, dad, children, and even the grandparents. These people were suppose to be “protected” by the police.

  • ms meca

    @ kennedy

    yu from chicago???

    im from there too not engle wood though but my brother lived over there

  • laa

    DAYUMMM .. THIS IS WHY MY DADDY WON’T LET ME PARTICIPATE IN MY CHURCHES PRISON MINISTRY – HE SAYS THIS KNUCKLEHEADS ARE GOOOOD AT CONVINCING WEAK CHICS ..

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    there is probably more to come

    ___________________________________________________

    @TDC

    Good point…

    I believe things are going to get VERY interesting once more of details are revealed and the story unfolds…

    This is just the beginning…

  • ms meca

    ill neva trust witness protection !!

  • jus blazing jus saying

    @ cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    (Check me out!)

    there is a program for inmates who commit homicide in which they meet the victims families and letters are exhanged expressing how they feel…

    ——————-

    CAN THEY SPEND THE NIGHT .. NO SUPERVISION JUST THE VICTIMS FAMILY AND INMATE? PLEASE TELL ME YES

  • ms meca

    On the morning of the day Jennifer Hudson’s mother and brother were killed, the singer’s sister Julia Hudson had argued with her estranged husband over car payments, sources say.

    The husband, William Balfour, is in custody but has not been charged with the killings of Jennifer Hudson’s mother, brother and 7-year-old nephew.

    Sources said that Julia Hudson on Friday was told by her employers at the bus company where she worked that her wages would be garnished over the car. Balfour was supposed to have been contributing some payments for the automobile, sources told the Sun-Times.

    Julia Hudson complained to Balfour in a phone conversation Friday, a source said. Balfour later went to the Hudson residence on Friday, the same day Jennifer Hudson’s mother, Darnell Donerson, and brother Jason Hudson, were killed in the home. The body of a nephew, Julian King, was found in an SUV on Monday.

    The car dispute was among “a whole series of arguments and disagreements,’’ a source told the Sun-Times. Balfour had also accused Julia Hudson of dating someone else, the source said.

    On Monday, the award-winning actress anchored her family at the morgue, calmly identifying the boy and then turning to her deep faith.

    “Yes, that is him,” Hudson said when Julian King’s image appeared via live video feed, according to a spokesman for the Cook County morgue.

    After identifying her nephew, Hudson said she felt that her belief in Jesus would help her survive.

    The identification capped 2 1/2 days of a wrenching search for the boy, who was missing from the Hudson family home in the 7000 block of South Yale on Friday after his mother, Julia Hudson, returned to find her mother and brother shot to death.

    Balfour has been in custody since Friday evening, after he was arrested at a girlfriend’s house on the Southwest Side. Balfour, 27, is being held on a parole violation on a 1999 conviction for attempted murder and vehicular hijacking and has not been charged.

    But suspicious details emerged Monday.

    A neighbor on his girlfriend’s block, in the 1900 block of South Spaulding, said he saw a man who he now believes was Balfour park a white SUV across from his house about noon Friday. He watched the man fiddle around with something in the glove box and then leave the car and walk about half a block — glancing over his shoulder the whole way — to the house where Balfour was later arrested.

    At that time, no one in the city knew about the slayings, and it would be hours before an alert would be issued for Julian that said he might be in a white Chevy Suburban driven by Balfour.

    “[The boy] had to be in the car,’’ said the neighbor, Willie Graham. “I figure he had to be. I wished I had known.”

    One theory is that Julian was shot inside the SUV soon after he was taken from home. Donerson, 57, and Jason Hudson, 29, were believed to have been shot after a confrontation started at the front door, sources said.

    The possible sighting of Balfour on his girlfriend’s block is potentially important because, if true, it puts him in the white Suburban after the murders, which police believe happened around 8 or 9 a.m. Friday, and before the discovery of Julian’s body inside the vehicle Monday morning. Sources say Balfour’s alibi has already been contradicted by his girlfriend, and his cell phone records raise suspicions about his account of his whereabouts. Police were able to track him Friday through cell phone records, sources said.

    Police also have been told that Balfour and Julia Hudson had been at the Yale home early Friday before the shootings and may have argued. A family friend said Balfour had made threats against the family and Julian. Julia Hudson and Balfour are believed to have had ongoing domestic problems.

    Balfour’s mother, however, has denied that her son was at the Yale home Friday or that he was involved in the shootings.

    The SUV was discovered early Monday in the 1300 block of South Kolin after a dog ran to the curb where it was parked and howled — making a noise its owner had never heard before.

    ÒHe just ran down the stairs and started howling,” said John Louden, of his chihuahua, Lil’ Man. ÒHe has a very keen nose.”

    Louden took down the plate number and went back inside to compare it with one his wife, Lynette, had written down after watching police reports about Julian’s disappearance.

    “When he came back in, he said, ‘It’s a match’,’’ Lynette Louden said of her husband. “I said, ‘Oh, God. I hope that child is not in there.’ ”

    The couple called police, who responded in two minutes.

    Inside the SUV was Julian, who was wearing basketball shorts and a T-shirt. He was home Friday because of teacher meetings. The boy had been shot once in the head and was in the back seat, sources said.

    The Suburban was taken to Area 5 police headquarters, which has a garage where vehicles can be minutely inspected, sources said.

    Jennifer Hudson and her family had offered $100,000 for the boy’s safe return.

  • MS. SIPPI

    Two tears..

  • Tina

    @Ms Meca

    I can talk about Girlfriends all day. I just can’t talk about death all day. It’s depressing. William and Monica got married, and were going to have a child. She and Mya were pregnant around the same time. After Mya lost her baby, she started calling Monica’s baby her own. LOL, you did miss a lot. You remember the movie The Wood?

    @Lady Architect

    ‘I agree with you. There was an instance in New Jersey where someone witnessed a killing and reported it. Somehow the killer found out and had a mob of guys kill the whole family including mom, dad, children, and even the grandparents. These people were suppose to be “protected” by the police.’

    __________________________

    I heard about that. I’m from Jersey.

  • Coloreds

    Colored people continue to kill each other at alarming numbers.

    If Obama becomes president he will increase free government handouts and then there will be even more colored folks killing colored folks.

    You all know this is true. Wild monkeys are their own worst enemies.

  • Redd Tony aka Earth Sign Its time for a Revolution

    Is anyone for torture then?\

    Waterboarding anyone?

    Or how about Chinese Water torture? The Chinese would tie a man to a bed an let water drip on his forehead for years and the water dripping would 1)make them go crazy, or 2) eventually kill the person because the water would eventually break the skin and cause the person to bleed to death….

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    Duhhhh. Iknow that sweetie Im from Englewood. It was just wishful thinking is all…….

    ___________________________________________________

    @KENNEDY

    Duhhh… I’m not from Englewood and a lot of other people on here aren’t either…

    Moreover, some people don’t know and wonder why folks aren’t speaking up… I was just giving an explanation as to why Sweetie :-)

    I know a little bit about the Chi…

    Them jokers don’t play up there… I volunteered with at-risk youth at Robert Taylor Projects and visited Cabrini Green before the gentrification took place… *I remember how different things were in comparison depending on which side of the train tracks you lived = the projects on one side of the train tracks and “whiteyville” on the other…

  • Tina

    @Redd Tony

    Yep. I’m all for torture. If someone sits in prison for years, and waits to take the long walk to the chamber or chair, that’s torture enough ’cause you don’t know when you’re going to die.

  • Tina

    Seems like we need to adopt the Chinese way for Balfour and whoever else kills little kids.

  • EWOK

    So So Sad for J hud????? You have spelled out my suspicions sweetie and bravo for telling it to black women.

  • ms meca

    @ tina

    oh ok that was ol girl name i knew it was something with “m”.. ok c now i remember that because they were both pregnant…and william was thinkin she trapped him !!

    yeah i remember the movie “the wood”

  • KENNEDY

    Yes Ms.Meca Im from Englewood born and raised. I live in Bronzeville now, but my family is still there…….

  • ms meca

    kennedy !!

    i didnt kno that!!

    well that makes yu me homie and ms braided beauty!!!

    but im from 79th kenwood and 93rd essex..

    so yu are familiar with the situation back in april with anthony scales the 5 people killed after the barbecue???

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    @KENNEDY

    Out of curiousity – since you’re up there… What are the “streets” saying? You know, your cousin “Ju-Ju” and them…

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    @ JUS

    “@ cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985*

    (Check me out!)

    there is a program for inmates who commit homicide in which they meet the victims families and letters are exhanged expressing how they feel…

    ——————-

    CAN THEY SPEND THE NIGHT .. NO SUPERVISION JUST THE VICTIMS FAMILY AND INMATE? PLEASE TELL ME YES”

    ——————————————–

    no its all supervised by a counseler..and its within the facility that the inmate is being held

  • ms meca

    @ kennedy

    and my people that lived in englewood…

    my lil bro melvin

  • http://signoftimes@msn.org hot sauce’s mild sauce part of the sauce family

    Tina, im fine sweetie, how are u, im just on to give my symphathy out to the Hudson family n to say hey 2 my sauce family who i love dearly, but im out because it is some real ignorant mess up in here today even 2 ignorant for me!

  • KENNEDY

    MS.Meca

    Yes my brother lives on Champlain so that was awful. I was really spooked b/c up until recently they didnt have anybody in custody for that crime….but yeah girl I remember that…..

    SLAFPG

    The brother, Jen’s brother is all i’ll say………..

  • Coloreds

    John McCain should give a 9mm to every colored person after he wins the election and then within his 4 year term the coloreds will all kill each other.

  • ms meca

    @ kennedy

    tony scales was my cousin… and yeah not havin anybody in custody really had my family scared … i am so happy i dont live there any more but i have family and it scares me

  • mojojojo

    Meccccccccccccccccccccccccaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    loan me 5 dollas!!

  • Coloreds

    Why do colored people have so many cousins?

  • KENNEDY

    Meca, No, that was your people? Im so sorry to hear that. I hope you all are kinda feeling some kind of comfort now. WOW I’m sorry…

    So where did you escape to girl? I been thinkin about relocating to Winter Park,FL Chicago is getting worse as the years go by. You know youre from here, the politics, the taxes, the realestate…its time to go.

  • ms meca

    hello sweeeets

    mo

    where the five smokey gave yu

    that five is gonna come out of that couple hundreds i owe yu

  • ms meca

    tseting

  • Tina

    test

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ kennedy and ms. meca… howcome u just dont go to a better part of the city… i live in chicago as well.

  • ms meca

    @fallin

    dam are yu?? i neva knew that either

    girl i live in cincinnati now.. where do yu live in chicago if yu dont mind me askin??

  • KENNEDY

    I’m glad for your family though. And Cinncinati, yeah I heard it was bad up there too. I should’ve known you was from the Chi….

    Your hair is cute LOL look like the egyptians did it LOL

  • ms meca

    bosssip is having a posting problem i assume!!! where was this problem when people were being ignorant

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    i used to live on 75th and pulaski… now im in the southwest suburbs, on harlem… i worked in maple/morgan park for 10 yrs… on 115th and racine.

  • ms meca

    kennedy

    at first here in cincinnati it was the racial stuff.. and it still is but now the black on black crime is ridiculous also …its always something!!!

    thank yu —> Your hair is cute LOL look like the egyptians did it LOL

  • Coloreds

    Colored on colored crime like I said earlier!

  • KENNEDY

    I did FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)I went to Bronzeville.

    Its the overall bs throughout Chicago that has me tired. I know I shouldn’t be runnin but damn……

  • ms meca

    alot of people i kno are starting to move to the suburbs i dont blame them

  • Tina

    I can post on other threads, but my comment won’t come through here.

  • KENNEDY

    Fallin Poet

    55th and Racine? whhhheeeeewwwww girl bye LOL. She still alive? JK LOL

  • ms meca

    LMAO @ WHEEEEEWW GIRL IS SHE STILL ALIVE… IM TELLIN YU ITS THAT DEEP

  • dapro11(america suprise us and let a black man guide us

    It’s all speculation as to what’s going on

    I’m born and raised in Englewood, I got 27 yrs in the wood my big bro lives on 64th and Yale just a few blocks from the home of the Hudson’s

    We can all guess but in reality we lost 3 lives

    They have taken their rightful place with Allah(God)

  • KENNEDY

    I dont blame them either. But then I look at neighborhoods Meca, like where youre from and other areas that are starting to change. And I wish they wouldn’t leave, you know w/the olympics coming and everything those house are gonna be worth soooo much…..

  • We “Blacks” Are The Real Hebrew Israelites

    We’re in the last days. Things that were once unthinkable and unspeakable are happening on a daily occurrence and peoples hearts are growing colder and colder.

    “He shall come like a thief in the night..”

    Her faith will get her through this. So sad and tragic.

  • thickems

    I had to do some research. I found the video of the sister pleading for her son’s safe return.

  • ms meca

    LMAO@ SWEETS..

    BUSSIN OUT SMOKEY WINDOWS COST ME SOME SERIOUS MONEY!! AND SINCE NOTO STOOD ME UP WE HAVE ISSUES

  • DA TRUFF!!! The Truth Will Set You Free!!!

    SO SORRY FOR HER & ALL FAMILY AND FRIENDS…….

    THIS SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO HAPPEN TO ANYONE! COMMUNITIES AS A WHOLE NEED TO STAND UP AGAINST NEEDLESS VIOLENCE SUCH AS THIS.

  • ms meca

    BUT YA KNO people get mad when these celebs leave i dont blame em…

  • KENNEDY

    77th and Cornell? yall just allover. I know girl you see what they do to rappers when they come here. So what they care about doin the same to common folks is nothin……….

  • dapro11(america suprise us and let a black man guide us

    @Fallin

    I do not practice the faith as I should, I can’t call my self a true Muslim

    @Sweetz

    What’s up baby ((grabs sweetz by the waist and lifts her in the air))

    How you been sweetheart?

  • WordtotheWise

    It’s bad enough to lose your mother and brother, and worse to lose your child. It’s bad enough to go through this with the spotlight shining on you and people making comments when they don’t even know you. I am not going to pass judgment on Julia. It is not my place to say how she grieves b/c I don’t know her heart. Any sane mother is going to grieve at the lose of their child. It appears by her myspace page that she realized she made a bad choice when she got with her husband and that choice cost her dearly. Lord knows we’ve all made mistakes. She has to live w/that. I’m sure in hindsight she would’ve done better. Hopefully this is a learning experience not only for her, but for other women. If you don’t know a man has a questionable character, that’s one thing, but to KNOW what he’s about is another. Protect your children.

  • Tina

    Still not posting my comments.

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ DAPRO…same here, i’m Muslim but i dont practice it as i should…

  • ms meca

    @ sweets

    wher is smokey???

    yes i am learning from my mistakes . that dam can cost me some shoe money lmao

    yal still in the forum

  • Tina

    Ms Meca I’ve been trying to tell you about The Wood for a while

  • dapro11(america suprise us and let a black man guide us

    I left clues for you, didn’t you see the footprints?? lol

    I’m good ma, just working and studying. Papa is trying to move on to big things so we can get that house you want so bad

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    The brother, Jen’s brother is all i’ll say………

    _____________________________________________________

    @KENNEDY

    Gotcha ;-)

    I’m just sitting on the sideline and waiting to see how things play out, I gotta feeling that this is going to get VERY interesting…

    We’ll see how things turn out…

    This whole thing is a damn shame :-(

    The truth is gonna come out sooner than later if you ask me, because this is such high profile case…

  • ms meca

    @ sweets

    lifetime full of jasy oh bish thats a deal !!!

    why she talkin ish about me??

  • ms meca

    tina

    i was wondering what yu had to say about the wood

  • dapro11(america suprise us and let a black man guide us

    @Fallin

    assalamu alaikum brother, it’s hard out here to keep the faith especially when sh#@ like this continues to happen

    @Sweetz

    As I told you before, a woman of your caliber makes it easy for me to treat this way

    I going for project management certification and the book is boring as hell

    I need a little inspiration to keep me focused……

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    Hopefully this is a learning experience not only for her, but for other women.

    _________________________________________________

    @WordtotheWise

    I was thinking the SAME thing, but didn’t want to say it = I hope that other women in similar situations see this as a “wake up call” and “open their eyes” so to speak…

    You can’t be having certain types of folks in your life, etc…

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ Dapro… Allakum Al-salam, but im a girl lol… thats me in the gravie.

  • ms meca

    @ sweets

    i miss yal too… i definitly be in there tomorrow

  • Tina

    testing..

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    The brother, Jen’s brother is all i’ll say………

    _____________________________________________________

    @KENNEDY

    *I’m being nosey now*

    What did “Ke-Ke” and them say about the brother and his involvement?

  • dapro11(america suprise us and let a black man guide us

    @Sweetz

    Dc been on the low lately I’m about to go looking for her azz in a minute

    Come to the Lauren Hill thread with me ((reaches out hand))

    @Fallin

    I apologize dear sista but I can’t see gravies at work. I just made an assumption my queen, pardon me

    Did you also mention you where from the chi?

  • Tina

    testing…..

  • Tina

    I’m about to give up.

  • http://www.myspace.com/tomboyswagg FallinPoet(“Oh, the real world just don’t feel right”)

    @ DAPRO… lol, no problem… and i used to live on 75th and pulaski now im in the southwest suburbs, right off of harlem.

  • Crazy in love with a jailbird

    All i have to say is that crazy monster gone BURN!! I FEEL SO SORRY FOR JENNIFER AND THE REMAINDER OF THER FAMILY, THIS IS DEFINITELY A TRAGEDY!

  • ms meca

    night

  • Jennifer

    Jennifer Hudson and her family are grieving, and all alot of you can think of to talk about is how they are grieving! If you’ve never lost a child, you don’t know how you’d react! Everybody don’t fall over in the floor, and shout their lungs out. Not everybody cry upon someone’s shoulder. Some people keep pain bottled up inside. They cry alone, they may even get online to thank the people for their true love and support during their difficult time. We all grieve differently. But just because Julia is not grieving the way you all think she ought to doesn’t make her in any more less pain. To even think that people grieve the same is illogical, down right ignorant!!!! I’m a nurse, and I deal with death all the time. Some family members, fall in the floor, some shout to the moon, others just shead a tender tear. Then there are the ones who merely kiss there loved ones on the cheek and walk out without ever shedding a tear. Is it fair for me to say that that person is not grieving…sad…upset…feeling helpless, NO IT IS NOT!!! As for “glad jhud’s mother is dead.” You really hate yourself. Your not satisfied with your life, your childhood was screwed up and your mother probably gave you away. So now your’re projecting feelings of yourself to someone else. You’re really praying that someone puts a bullet in your own head. “Forgive him Father, he knows not what he do”

  • dz

    you all act as if you know this jennifer. this is crazy. you dont know how she really treated her mother, if she was spiritual – nothing. this is crazy but that is why they are rich because you pay them buy cds, watch movies. like they are Gods Jesus is the answer. put your trust and faith in him. thats what really matters not celebs.

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