It’s coming up on a decade since I said “I do,” and there’s no amount of romance books, movies or soap operas that could have prepared me for what happens after the honeymoon. Many of us are fed a load of bull-donkey that you’ll be happy forever, have hot sex three times a day and never have a fight. If your marriage isn’t like that, then we think divorce court is just around the corner. It’s no wonder folks fall into a panic when things go awry–if you don’t expect them, then you won’t know how to handle it.

So to give you a little insight into married life, here are some common questions I get from my single friends followed by some solid, big sis advice…

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