Seen on the Scene
Posted by Bossip Staff
The flyest presidential couple ever to grace the White House, Barack and Michelle Obama, went out last night in Chicago for dinner.
Before you peep the pics below, check out a few Liveteez’s 8 Steps Black People Must Follow Under President Obama:
2. As “Black People,” we can no longer say that we do not know a family like the Huxtables, now we will say “I know one better, they live in the White House.”
3. “Black People” cannot abuse these four words, ‘My President is Black’. Which means do not pull into McDonald’s drive-thru and tell the person at the window, “I can have it my way, because ‘My President is Black.’” Drive across the street to Burger King.
5. Fellas, do not shoot up your whole ‘hood’, then expect “Black People” to stand behind you. That’s just plain ol’ stupidity and we won’t have any excuses for your black behind.
6. Ladies, be responsible for your actions and don’t allow yourselves to get pregnant by a no-good dude, then name the baby Obama-ichelle, and think that it’s okay. “Black People” and the Department of Family and Children Services will still look at you the same.
Hit up Livesteez for the rest of the steps.
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Obama 08 *****
1st that ***** don’t count, Obama 08 *****.
LEAVE BARACK AND HIS FAMILY ALONE. LET HIM DO HIS D@MN JOB PLEASE. HE IS NOT A CELEBRITY…HE’S THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES. DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE TRYING TO KILL THIS MAN. STOP PLASTERING HIS EVERY MOVE OVER THE INTERNET. GOSH!!!
The pictures are so sweet and they are an attractive couple (Michelle is particularly hot).
Black men step up to the plate!
Lookin hot Michelle, those boots is wooorkan!
He will be our president and his every move should be known. He knew the job was dangerous when he took it and he’s not hiding from it. Nor should we. Go with God Barack.
Exxon take your white stupid ***** back to your trailer….you’re a piece of trash you idiot. No matter what you say thats your president lol lol lo lol lol lol lol lol. Get over it!!
Obama 08
I loooove looking at them, they are so distinguished and delicious looking. You cant help but respect it.
MY S0N WiLL BE THE 3rd BLACK PRESiDENT…
You guys forgot the BIG one….to all the brothas out there. MAN UP.
SO WHAT YOUR DAD WASNT IN YOUR LIFE.
SO WHAT YOU WERE RAISED BY A SINGLE MOM.
IT DOESNT STOP YOU FROM PUSHING THROUGH AND BEING..
A GOOD FATHER.
A GOOD HUSBAND.
A SUCCESSFUL MAN MAKING AN HONEST LIVING.
O P*****ED UP MAJOR CASH TO WORK AS A COMMUNITY ORGANIZER.
STOP SELLING DRUGS AND GET A REAL JOB.
REPRESENT.
Let’s just hope he can handle all of the obstacles and dangers that America is facing. The honeymoon is over. He wanted the job and got it. Now let’s see if he get the job done.
AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN.
AND STOP WHORING AROUND.
GET MARRIED AND BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR WIFE.
I think people are doing a terrible disservice to the Obama’s by putting them up on this high pedestal. Yes they are a great example but coming up with all of these lists about how other blacks should live up to them only puts the Obamas in a dangerous position. We must remember that they are HUMAN BEINGS and are open to all of the experiences many people go through. What will you say when your fairy tale couple doesnt live up to the hype like many political families before them? Will you turn your back on your leaders and then lump them in with all the others?
Just chill out people, enjoy his success. But do not attack other people for the choices they have made.
stop being retarded and saying black people..why cant we all just be people..*****ing noobcakes…
THATS BULL***** Mr. Famu~
OUR PEOPLE NEED TO STOP MAKING EXCUSES.
BROTHAS…MAN UP.
Michelle is fierce. That’s a bad ***** coat she’s wearing. I know that people want the media to stop following them everywhere, but you must realize that the WORLD loves them and wants to see them.
@ Heavenly
you should apply all of those things you said to women too. In fact, if black women didnt want to date bad boys, most black males wouldnt be bad. So before you start preaching about what men should do, you and all these other women that condone the behavior of black men, should take a hard look in the mirror.
I LOVE THEM
!!! and it was cold as hell in chicago last night, damn.
Obama is a very attractive man
The Happy First Couple! BEAUTIFUL!
And don’t y’all be lustin’ after our President!
I don’t like how he’s just out in the open like that…
I just love them they are so great together.
Michelle’s boots are cute
@Mr.Famu…
Oh I agree 100%. They acting like he’s Jesus, when he’s just a good man. Obama can not fix your life problems, that’s when you should step up to the plate yourselves. I hate how this is going, I love the Obamas for who they are, not because their saving me from anythign.
If a man or woman didnt step up their game until the Obamas came around they are a sad excuse for a human.
@Its the Foose…
I’m a Black woman, and I totally agree with you. all that does is keep us divided. there are mis-haps and wrong doings on both sides. Even if all the men stepped up, there still would be trifling ***** women, it works both ways. Step your game up individually and find a mate to match. You cant change anybody until you fix yourself first. If a woman/man aint *****, how the ***** they think they suppose to marry the cream of the crop. You only as good as the piece of ***** you date.
They make me proud!
Oh, and I’m so glad to see Michelle in heels…I wasn’t too fond of them flat shoes…but hey…she can wear whatever she wants and she’s still fly…but she really looks good in heels.
I love black couples, but the obama´s are not the only black couples that looks good, we have Jada and will smith Beyonce and jay-z Denzel and Pauletta;)
Hail the new President!!!
Good Afternoon my Bossip fam!!!
BTW, those rules were stupid..the Obama’s do set a great example for what every black person or any person should aspire to be..but lets not get carried away
I might catch some heat for this, but I don’t care..its good to see a black man love a black women, not the light skinned video vixen chic but a black women who is well educated and strong and equally beautiful..
Wait for it…wait for it
NBA BALLERS AND THE REST GO GET YOU A SISTA LIKE MICHELLE. The lady is fierce. Yall can’t handle a sista like that.
I feel that most people are just plain PROUD that we have a black president! I expect for him to get in office and do what politicians do. That doesn’t mean I am not proud of him. I just pray that GOD is with him at all times because people are all watching him alot more than the past presidents!
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS POWER COUPLE! NO ONE IS PERFECT EXCEPT FOR GOD BUT BARACK AND MICHELLE DO EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO BE EXEMPLARY AND TO CRUSH ALL STEROTYPES AND BARRIERS, THEY ARE A TRUE TEAM!
I think it’s fine for them to be on display, Barack doesn’t have a problem with it nor should we, he is walking with GOD and I pray for him and his family everyday, he WILL be alright!
@ Heavenly, I totally agree with everything you’re saying, It’s time for all of us (particularly black men) to step up to the plate and stop playing being on bullsh*t! I have always and will continue to ridicule continued idiotic behavior, yes people make mistakes, some change for the better and there aer those that have a carless, nonchalant, pessimistic attitude that keeps them down. There are plenty of opportunities for us but it’s up to each and every indivudual to go out and seek them!
Brack said it best(quote taken from his website barackobama.com): I ASK YOU TO BELIEVE….Not just in my ability to bring about change in Washington, I’m asking you to to believe in yours”……let that marinate!
i feel you Nina and FAMU
@Hanna
I am sorry but Jay-z and Bey are NOT on the same level in anyway as Obama and Michelle!
@ Its the FOOSA
absolutely..it applies to US ALL but I feel its important for BROTHAS to LEAD. Sistahs have had to tow the line regardless-its a million Michelle Obamas out there.
EXPECT MORE OF YOURSELF.
DEMAND MORE OF YOURSELF.
STOP MAKING EXCUSES.
Katherine
BTW, those rules were stupid..the Obama’s do set a great example for what every black person or any person should aspire to be..but lets not get carried away
I might catch some heat for this, but I don’t care..its good to see a black man love a black women, not the light skinned video vixen chic but a black women who is well educated and strong and equally beautiful..
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Katherine, ***** it, some ***** need to be said. You keep it real, and if they dont agree, oh well I do. THIS is what a real woman is and looks like. At the end of the day this is woman who will ride with you to the end and back again.
@MR. FAMU THIS IS HISTORY, And we need to hold our black people to a higher standard. Let us celevrate and enjoy hte moment as long as we want. Do you know how far black people have come, And we still have a long way to go. It doesnt matter if Obama p***** or fail. He did it as a black man and he take the excuse away from black men, Yes we will still have rascism in America and things will not be one hundred percent. But let blacks and all people enjoy this moment any way we like. Only in America could this happen. You remind me of those people who don’t wnt to see BLACKS HAVE NOTHING. Espically if it’s good.
Damn, now people can’t be proud…you dammed if you do and damned if you don’t…goodness.
Let the people basked in his glory.
I love it and I love how the violence has dropped and people are rethinking their futures…it’s great and I hope it continues.
@slim-
YOU SAID THAT RIGHT. Bey and JayZ..puleeze. Jay Z aint shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh*t compared to Obama.
O wears ONE piece of jewelry. A WEDDING BAND.
HE DOESNT NEED ANY BLING OR RECORDING CONTRACTS OR HOES ON A STRING OR COMMERICALS OR CLOTHING LINES.
YALL BEST TO CHECK YOURSELF ON WHO YOU HAVE BEEN IDOLIZING. BEY CANT TOUCH MICHELLE AND DIDDY’S WHORISH BEHIND CANT TOUCH OBAMA.
HELL THESE BLACK WEATHLY BROTHERS ANINT CHECKING FOR NO SISTA, THEY AINT EVEN LOOKING OUT FOR US IN NO KIND OF WAY. SO LET MICHELLE AND OBAMA BE AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT BLACK LOVE SHOULD LOOK LIKE. bossip keep the haters off the site.
“You guys forgot the BIG one….to all the brothas out there. MAN UP.
SO WHAT YOUR DAD WASNT IN YOUR LIFE.
SO WHAT YOU WERE RAISED BY A SINGLE MOM.
IT DOESNT STOP YOU FROM PUSHING THROUGH AND BEING..
A GOOD FATHER.
A GOOD HUSBAND.
A SUCCESSFUL MAN MAKING AN HONEST LIVING.
O P*****ED UP MAJOR CASH TO WORK AS A COMMUNITY ORGANIZER.
STOP SELLING DRUGS AND GET A REAL JOB.
REPRESENT.”
AMEN AMEN AMEN!! I was just about to say somethign right along these lines.. Everytime the conversation of black children comes up its always about the black woman aaccepting her mistakes and taking responsibility but always conveniently gos right over that the black male has the highest rate of child abandonment on the planet!!! When it comes to telling the black male step up and try harder at fatherhood then the person saying it is blacklisted by blacks like Bill Cosby or Al Sharpton or Jesse ‘Hot *****ing Mess’ Jackson wants to “cut their nuts off” like with Obama..
Give me a break!! Black males need to step up as well!! A woman does not impregnate herself!!!
They look good! Looking at the comments, I think that we have to hold black men and women accountable not just because of the President but because it is long over due. How long are we going to run under the slavery skirt? Identify the issues, work on them and move on as a race.
I mean the Jewish peopel still talk about the halocaust but they used it as a catalyst to better themselves.
If having a black first family does not at least inspire some hope and movement waht will?
Luv it, beautiful black luv at it’s finest
“HELL THESE BLACK WEATHLY BROTHERS ANINT CHECKING FOR NO SISTA, THEY AINT EVEN LOOKING OUT FOR US IN NO KIND OF WAY. SO LET MICHELLE AND OBAMA BE AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT BLACK LOVE SHOULD LOOK LIKE. bossip keep the haters off the site.”
AMEN!!! Lets just overlook these weak ***** white ***** chasing n!ggers and focus on the true future of this race – strong proud black men and women.. I hope these white *****es continue to weed out these weak ***** *****ing coons so we can push them right to the waste side…
@ heavenly ..There are not a million Michelle’s out there.
I dont think Sean Bell was making excuses, or countless others. There are good black men out there.(dont believe the media hype) Lets lead by example. pointing fingers aint gonna make anybody run out and do better. Give solutions, not just rants. I agree black men need to step up, but women too. Some black people peroid need to step up. I need a partner, This ***** is mutual. I dont need a man to tell me how to be a woman or act like my father. I’m supportative, not submissive. big difference. A woman is just as important to a household as a man is. Just play your part and support each other, and the rest will fall in place.
We need to have each others back…. peroid.
“AND STOP WHORING AROUND.
GET MARRIED AND BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR WIFE.”
AMEN AGAIN!!! Black males cheat like its in their blood to!!
@bella
amen, I hope everybody is doing a headcheck.
BROTHAS–MANTHEF*ckUP.
SISTAHS–DEMAND RESPSECT AND RESPECT YOURSELF.
“I dont think Sean Bell was making excuses, or countless others. There are good black men out there.(dont believe the media hype) Lets lead by example. pointing fingers aint gonna make anybody run out and do better. Give solutions, not just rants. I agree black men need to step up, but women too. Some black people peroid need to step up. I need a partner, This ***** is mutual. I dont need a man to tell me how to be a woman or act like my father. I’m supportative, not submissive. big difference. A woman is just as important to a household as a man is. Just play your part and support each other, and the rest will fall in place.
We need to have each others back…. peroid.”
if only the black male could get on board with this instead of putting everyone and everything out there above his own!!
See how we do in the CHI! RECOGNIZE we breed superstars and PRESIDENTS!
They look soo flyyy
“I might catch some heat for this, but I don’t care..its good to see a black man love a black women, not the light skinned video vixen chic but a black women who is well educated and strong and equally beautiful..”
AMEN AGAIN!! Try telling that to these *****ing white wonmen chasing golliwogs out there who would sell their mamas sould for some white *****!!!
Sorry Bella…black men might not be checkin’ for you…but believe me…black men are still checkin’ for that black woman…the black women that have style and cl***** to themselves…
Michelle is the baddest chick in the game.
Kim, what’s up I am not White Trailer Trash, I am a proud black man. Obama 08 *****.
SMDH, Soy Sauce, wnhats up lady? Sauce family in the house, i agree let the real men man up and show that they can stick with black women like Obama does and raise their black kids and stop running to those dic# chasing white women! Obama and Michelle = the worlds greatest!
@ smdh
How did you get your photo upthere?
“AMEN AGAIN!! Try telling that to these *****ing white wonmen chasing golliwogs out there who would sell their mamas sould for some white *****!!!”
And white ***** ***** at that!!
You know, there is a part of the movie Malcolm X where Denzel is with this white girl who asks him if he ever had a white girl sexually before and he says yes.. She then says “I mean a white girl that isn’t a w*****/prostitute.”
Its just uncanny how the black male – when it comes to the white women – is willing to jump right into every stereotype out these face first!! The white man said over 90 years ago in Birth of a Nation to watch the black male and the white woman for he would obsess over her adn wouldn’t stop until he had her even if it meant he had to work harder or make more money to have her and the minute he had money he would go for her.. 90 years later black males are out here fulfilling that prophecy with PRIDE!!!
Its just amazing how predictable the self hating self loathing weak ***** black male is!!!
@pm….
I would beg to differ with you–you just may not find em up in the CLUB. They are there and they have always BEEN there. The brothas are just to busy climbing over their back to get to the half naked hoe with no degree and no panties on to SEE US.
“SMDH, Soy Sauce, wnhats up lady? Sauce family in the house, i agree let the real men man up and show that they can stick with black women like Obama does and raise their black kids and stop running to those dic# chasing white women! Obama and Michelle = the worlds greatest!”
HEY BABY!!! How’s my favorite SAUCE???
SMDH, and what about those black men who go to 2 the white woman and talk bad about the black woman, what a sellout and especially when they mother is a black woman, you never here the white woman talking bad about the white man she just gets what she wants and thats what shes in it for, ***** slobbing and gold digging off the rich ones, that bitc* is getting two for one plus i would never put any damn woman over my mother especially one from another race!
Also do what Barack said, “pull up your pants.”
He is right, we need to worry less about cars, jewelry,and clothes and worry more about finding jobs, being fathers and mothers to our children, and setting goals and achieving those goals.
Don’t expect for things to be handed to you because your President is black, work for the things you want.
Also I wish some of us would show a little humility. I know this is an exciting time, and a big step for us, but we need to remember that rubbing it in people’s faces is rude.
The Good: DAMN Barack and Michelle look fly.
The Stupid: That list has been p*****ed around by several people here at Bossip, and for Bossip to steal it and rename it as if Bossip came up with the list itself is utter bullsh-t.
“SMDH, and what about those black men who go to 2 the white woman and talk bad about the black woman, what a sellout and especially when they mother is a black woman, you never here the white woman talking bad about the white man she just gets what she wants and thats what shes in it for, ***** slobbing and gold digging off the rich ones, that bitc* is getting two for one plus i would never put any damn woman over my mother especially one from another race!”
Thats the type of black male that needs to be taken out back and shot to death!! Screw whomever you choose to but when it turns into bashing your own that’s a coon that needs to be whipped like a greasy slave..
@SMDH
all men cheat, not just black men.
How did this thread become a black male bashing forum? WTF is this, the Color Purple?
More Obama and black men of his ilk and less of those rappers with their sagging pants and their buffoonish ways.
“@SMDH
all men cheat, not just black men.”
AMEN – but at this current time we are discussing the black male and the black male cheats like its been programmed in to his bloodstream – like he needs to cheat to live…
“How did this thread become a black male bashing forum? WTF is this, the Color Purple?”
LOL!! The thread didn’t turn into a black male bashing thread thats just ME beign MW!! Don’t blame the whole group for me and my feelings…
Solutions for change can be debated all day but I agree something has to be done. I think most of this has to start with the families – you have to connect with the mothers and fathers they are the ones responsible for the children that are coming up and teach them to be responsible for themselves. Many adults are just as immature as the children.
To me some people never change even the night Barack got elected ignorant black people was on this blog acting stupid! So if we can not respect one night how can we make long life changes when all we want to do is keep each other down…
SMDH, im good baby that troll oshie tried to imposter the sauce family Friday but it aint going down because the sauce family is too strong we dont have to imposter . we just set the damn record str8. I just dont understand how anybody can call u a imposter as much as you have shut this blog down with your debates plus i dont care about a picture , they say yours is fake how the hell do you know theirs is real but some of those horses have 2 be real you cant fake that ugliness. I just laughed at that oshie she aint whipped no game on nothing she was just plain comical!
@Afiya – Sorry Bella…black men might not be checkin’ for you…but believe me…black men are still checkin’ for that black woman…the black women that have style and cl***** to themselves…
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True, I know just as many single men who complain they can not find suitable wives…not people they CAN marry but women they WANT to marry. It goes both ways, some women are just as trifling as the men
1st off it is not a Black President that represents us, it is a biracial President that represents us, and all of the racial slurrs need to stop, think this who cares whom you love if you love them, I love me a white man with intelligence, not some ignorant black man, that sells drugs, and carries a big ***…. Let us be proud that this man has overcome the biggest leap for mankind and that is overcoming racisim. Let us follow in his footsteps, and take pride in knowing he represents both our race and the white race as well.
@selfrespectingblackman~
You got that right. I am so tired of seeing black men dressing like clowns and pimps.
Shake that bondage off and be the Alpha Males God created you to be.
Yeah! My New President!
Those are some good points. I think more should be added. Like, a.)Stop the N word all together. b.)Follow Favor in Life, know that you are a diamond. We as a people need to make better decisions, do better and stay better.
black mothers raise their sons not to trust black woman, how ironic for Obama to be raised by a white woman, to be able to find a black female he can trust. Remember single mothers you create the men you hate.
“I dont think Sean Bell was making excuses, or countless others. There are good black men out there.(dont believe the media hype) Lets lead by example. pointing fingers aint gonna make anybody run out and do better. Give solutions, not just rants. I agree black men need to step up, but women too. Some black people peroid need to step up. I need a partner, This ***** is mutual. I dont need a man to tell me how to be a woman or act like my father. I’m supportative, not submissive. big difference. A woman is just as important to a household as a man is. Just play your part and support each other, and the rest will fall in place.
We need to have each others back…. peroid.”
@ Nina
100% Cosigning that. Good post.
Smdh, one thread had a white woman on who said her black told her black women are argumentative, lazy, wear too much weave, fak, gold diggers and have 2 many baby daddies now thats the kind of black man that needs 2 be whipped, i would never go to another race talking about my black man its just ridiculous.
the the go-getters stand up!
intelligent black people and those who are ready for a change and responsibility.
that whole “im so hood” bull***** is played out.
THERES GOING TO BE SOME GQ STYLE IN THE WHITE HOUSE NOW! NICE PICTURE!!
@bettyboop~
absolutely…our president is BIRACIAL and this discussion is not meant to take ANYTHING from his white heritage but we do need to take his example…as PEOPLE OF COLOR and RISE TO HIS EXAMPLE.
@Betty Boop
That sounds good and all, but white people never see a mixed person(half white) as being white and representing them. That’s the sad part. To them he’ll be another Black man.
enough!
im so jealous. michelle is a very lucky women. please God let me meet an educated, stylish, handsome, swagger, love black women, black man. i love these pictures. please black men, dont you want this?????
@Betty Bop – 1st off it is not a Black President that represents us, it is a biracial President that represents us, and all of the racial slurrs need to stop, think this who cares whom you love if you love them, I love me a white man with intelligence, not some ignorant black man, that sells drugs, and carries a big ***…. Let us be proud that this man has overcome the biggest leap for mankind and that is overcoming racisim. Let us follow in his footsteps, and take pride in knowing he represents both our race and the white race as well.
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I am sure you love an intelligent white man and that is your right but there are intelligent black men also who do not sell drugs and carry weapons..you watch too much TV!
If Obama was overcoming racism he would not be getting threats on his life! Racism is a systematic plague that can only be overcome through time and the changing of minds and hearts.
If all women can bring up when it comes to black men is the ones who aren’t shyt then you prolly aren’t shyt either. Obama is not the standard for the good black man nor did he set the precedent, there are good black men out there, belee dat! And I can make a list that goes on and on about trifling black women who have no idea they are trifling.
forgot my freakin gravatar
Its the Foosa…
Not all of us, for every trifling black man I see, I can also find a trifling black woman, that puts up with it. I think it goes both ways. You got women horny sitting up praying for a man at church instead of a partner and a father. You get what you asked for. they ask for a man, you get one. Now if you want a Barack, you got to do more than that.
Then you got the self-hating *****s that put every other race they can find before a sista. Will make all kinds of kids with a black woman, but when he come up he want to all of sudden wife his white woman. stand by her side and then tell all the black women, they haters and jealous. Then, call us gold diggers when some of us just want the best out of life.
all I’m saying is we can point fingers and play the blame game, that’s what whitey wants us to do. But who’s gonna be that example. Who’s gonna get they Obama on and step they on game up? I know I am. If your a good woman, just wait, the right one will come along, and vice versa. Everybody want a fly by night quick fix of a relationship. We were destined to be great. ***** look how long the Obamas were married before they actually had kids.
I can dog black men all day but for what. All I can do is when I give birth to one, raise him right and proud, and make sure he has a father to do the same. I make it a duty to surround myself around black people….. not *****s.
brown sugar thank you. I’m a different person since Obama got elected its an internal thing
They is fly and we are going to do big things now. We cant be stopped.
@purpple…
IM SORRY…O IS SETTING THE NEW STANDARD. WHO THE HELL ELSE DO YOU SEE DOING IT?
I love this couple! I can’t wait for Jan. 20.
It feels so good that the Bush era is coming to an end — we’re saying goodbye to eight years of incompetence, ignorance, fear-mongering, that nefarious Cheney, etc., etc. According to a new poll, Bush will leave the office with lower approval ratings than Nixon when he resigned during Watergate. Amazing.
and then bytches wonder why they cant find a man or a good one..the answer is usually in the mirror
“SMDH, im good baby that troll oshie tried to imposter the sauce family Friday but it aint going down because the sauce family is too strong we dont have to imposter . we just set the damn record str8. I just dont understand how anybody can call u a imposter as much as you have shut this blog down with your debates plus i dont care about a picture , they say yours is fake how the hell do you know theirs is real but some of those horses have 2 be real you cant fake that ugliness. I just laughed at that oshie she aint whipped no game on nothing she was just plain comical!’
AMEN!! Aren’t they COMICAL?!!?
oooooo nina preach on
@heavenly
If your standard wasnt already set then you are slow.I been on my shyt way before Obama and Have had plenty EXCLNT examples of good black men in my life. Im not stepping up nothing because Obama is president, my game been stepped up.
Can someone tell me how to put my picture up, thank you so kindly
Did anyone see Valerie Jarrett on Meet the Press yesterday? I like that sista, too. She’s on her A-plus game and is a wonderful spokesperson for Obama.
@Nina- well I guess Nina does know, you betta speak!
THEY LOOK GREAT AND THEY ACTUALLY GO OUT TO DINNER LIKE NORMAL PEOPLE.
NICOLE go to gravatar and make an account then use the email address u signed up with under mail in the comments so it can link back to your gravatar
@Sydney – yes, I saw her, they said she was iranian so I was guessing she was still black by the way she looked. The special they did was really really good and Obama is getting the right peoeple (not cause they are black) he is surrounding himself with people that he trusts. Gotta love a man with his own mind!
First, we know Obama is biracial, but since he considers himself a black man, I will too. We need to quit beating this dead horse.
Secondly, I know Barack and Michelle are not perfect, and they will make mistakes, but I’m lavishing in this b/c they are a perfect example (in the public eye) of what a great family looks like.
I love GOOD black men, but once you become an adult, you are responsible for your own actions. Quit blaming your mama for your f-ups.
Smooth lookin’ couple.
“and then bytches wonder why they cant find a man or a good one..the answer is usually in the mirror.”
And then coon boys wonder why they can’t seem to pull any woman, regardless of race, above the trailer park stripper w***** status… the answer is usually in the mirror!!
@ SIMPLY GOURGEUS..HE’S THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES. DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE TRYING TO KILL THIS MAN. STOP PLASTERING HIS EVERY MOVE OVER THE INTERNET. GOSH!!!
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THIS IS A DUMB AZZ COMMENT. DON’T U KNOW THAT THEY FOLLOW ALL THE PRESEDENTS AROUND 24/7 . NO ONE IS TRYING TO KILL HIM. STOP BEING NEGATIVE AND PARANOID..IF YOUR STUPID AZZ GOT SOME INSIDE INFORMATION ON POSSIBLE HIT MEN THEN YOU NEED TO GET OFF OF BOSSIP AND CALL THE DAMN POLICE. STUPID HEFFA. LMAO!!!!!!!!!
@purple – and then bytches wonder why they cant find a man or a good one..the answer is usually in the mirror
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yep the mirror and their external standards: this tall, big D*ck, good hair, light skinned, dark skinned
how about
educated, good job, health benefits…***** that is enough to get me to a straght orgasm
Can hardly wait for 2012. The GOP will rise like the Phoenix and swat you liberals and your black sycophants DOWN!
@PURPPLE…
My point exactly. If you just now stepping your game up because of the Obamas, you aint *****. You should already be on your ***** doing better as an adult. Looking at them should be refreshing.
That for kids becoming adults to look at as a standard. For grown ***** adults, it’s just sad. If you didnt attempt to step up your game until this man became president, you get a big hoe sit down.
Obama is not the second coming of Jesus, just a respectable man with a stong family. Holding it down, and beign a good example for his own kids. and we get the pleasure to witness it and have him as our president.
“I love GOOD black men, but once you become an adult, you are responsible for your own actions. Quit blaming your mama for your f-ups.”
You aint speaking nothing BUT the truth!! God Bless You!!
Isn’t it a goddamn shame to see grown ***** men still trying to blame a woman, especially a single black mother – THEIR single black mother, for their inabilities to be a *****ing man???
he be!!
how much ***** you think obama pulled down while campaigning? i say at least 20 women
@purpple~
I happen to have been lucky to have a wonderful father who always has and IS a driving force in my life to be all I can be so IM BLESSED but EVERYBODY hasnt had that and I can dang sure see the absence of good examples in the rest of my family. If YOUR GAME is so tight that the historic nature of this election just rolls off your back then good for YOU, but there are plenty of people who havent had any example to follow or belief that it could be possible. So if you dont need to step UP..fine..step ASIDE then so some other people can SEE. You act like someone is personally attacking YOU.
“IM SORRY…O IS SETTING THE NEW STANDARD. WHO THE HELL ELSE DO YOU SEE DOING IT?”
@ heavenly
Answer to your question: My pops set the standard long before I knew who Obama was. All this should start at home, not in Washington. Obama is like any other public figure in the sense that he is someone we can point to as an example for our children. Parents have to be the PRIMARY role models and THEN be able to look to outside influence for the exclamation point. A child with no true foundation of self respect will not look at Obama with the same eyes as a child who has to look no further than his or her own household for the most influential example of strength.
@BE
She was born in Iran (Her father was working in Iran at the time), but as far as I know she’s black. From what I’ve heard of her, she’s very big on the Chicago political scene.
Also, I came across this tidbit about her on CNN(dot)com. I’m looking forward to seeing whom Obama’s cabinet picks will be:
(CNN) — A prominent Democratic source close to Barack Obama confirmed Sunday that Valerie Jarrett is Obama’s choice to replace him in the Senate.
Jarrett is a Chicago lawyer and one of Obama’s closest advisers. She is also one of the leaders of Obama’s transition team.
@NICOLE:
Join the site first.
After you do that your profile will give you the
to upload a picture.
Should be a search picture button offered.
If you collect pictures of stuff…they are on
your main hard drive.
@Heavenly,
“Sistahs have had to tow the line regardless-its a million Michelle Obamas out there.”
I knew this ***** was going to pop up somewhere. I am salivating at the oppurtunity to burst this particularly pernicious bubble. No, there ARE NOT MILLIONS of Michelle Obamas out there. THere are however millions of Bust it Babys out there that love to put on the mantle of some quality black woman when they are far from it.
The only line “sistahs” have to tow, which they have been towing for decades now is the I’m a overweight Diva with a compulsive obession with ghetto *****hs. As a result I am poorer than I would already have been, I am less educated, I have poorer health, and I have to raise children alone.
No there are not millions of Michelle Obamas out there. Dont make me throw up in my mouth.
And let me remind you that President Elect Obama was raised by a single mother but not the type that dominate the hood. In fact if Obama were raised by your average black female, the ones you so foolish call Michelle Obama-lite, he would have become a career felon or a self destructive sociopathic homosexual.
SMDH
I Like you. You understand how worthless these black males are. I say put them back in the field and make them earn an honest days pay.
@Kevin
“how much ***** you think obama pulled down while campaigning? i say at least 20 women”
Oh, we’re discussing Obama here, not Jesse Sr. You have your black politicians confused. . .
@illuminate Truth!
You are right, it SHOULD start at home. Who do you think this conversation is being directed at? I FOR ONE AND TALKING TO OTHER PARENTS AND TO MEN AND WOMEN WHO WILL BE BE. START MAKING CHANGES IN YOUR HOME, IN YOUR KIDS, IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, IN YOUR MARRIAGES. We can sit on here all day and fuss over Bey and Jay Z or mock Kim and Diddy but we are taking it too far to take the most powerful man on the planet and look to his example? Obama isnt trying to be some posterchild for marriage, but damn….its a good ***** MODEL TO FOLLOW.
I guess Sydney has intimate knowlege on where Obama has been sticking his member other than his unattractive wife.
“Can hardly wait for 2012. The GOP will rise like the Phoenix and swat you liberals and your black sycophants DOWN!”
Oh Lord here we go again!! LOL!!!
Now that you all got your *****holes spanked last week now you’re already starting up with the 2012 thing, huh?!?!? Rush Limbaugh is that you?!?!? Could this be Sean Hannity?!?!
LOL!!! Shut the ***** down!! You aint taking ***** in 2012!!
@KEVIN:
I’m sure every A-List broad on the planet probably offered Obama some *****.In fact I’m sure that’s gonna be a permanent feature of his new job.The dilemma being that EVERYBODY with a camera & notepad is watching.No brotha’ on the planet could be slick enough to duck that.What reporter WOULD’NT wanna break that story? I kinda’ feel bad for homie in that respect.If you’re Denzel…or Lebron…or Jeter…no story.If you’re ‘Bam …BIG STORY.
LOL – where’s Hannibal??
I haven’t see nhim since Obama greased up John McCains ***** and spanked him last week!!! What’s up Hannibal?? What happened to your boy McCain?? I though he was gonna knock Obama off the block!?!?
ROTFLMBAO!!!
@Heavenly
I didnt take it as a personal attack at all, Im actually disturbed to see that this is what it takes for black people to “step it up” when PLENTY of people have been doing real work to advance the black community before Obama came on the scene. Hey love Obama all you want but Id advocate finding a black man in your neighborhood, that you know, can touch, can see and can spend time with to look up to and be role models for you and your children. Not saying you personally but for all those with no role models. Role models should be people in your everyday life, not political figures on tv that you don’t know personally. That is where the problem is starting…people are rarely ever who they appear to be and trying to be like them is perpetuating this fallacy
Obama is scrumptious.
the things i would do to that man…if he wasn’t with his wife, and president of course…;)
@ everyone… can everyone please stop buying records from these rappers who talk about nothing but selling drugs and hoes?? cause i truly believe that is where a huge part of the responsibility lays. it has become cool to have “street cred”. seriously dam that, get some college cred. and stop this whole “stop snitching” movement, cause all that does is empower killers and drug dealers. i really think that is a huge part of the problem. and this crosses all color lines, this is really about poor people. we are the ones effected most by these backwards messages. i think it is great that Obama got elected, he is the first REAL person we have had in the white house since JFK. but dont forget that more white people voted for obama then did for mccain, so please stop saying that WHITEY doesnt want black people to succeed, because obama wouldnt have won if only black people voted for him.
@ SMDH
sitting his ignorant ***** down somewhere, like he should have been doing.
@Katherine,
Please stop. You make yourself look like ugly and petty. So what if he did marry a light skinned black woman? Some light skinned women are attractive. Sometimes they are the most attractive. Please this isnt School Daze. Not every light skinned girl is a video vixen and not every dark skinned girl is secretly wishing she were her.
@Opie Taylor
“I guess Sydney has intimate knowlege on where Obama has been sticking his member other than his unattractive wife.”
No, I have no “intimate knowledge” — Common sense tells me that if there was some dirt of that nature out there, it probably would have reached the surface by now. And I just don’t think Obama is that kind of man — key word being MAN.
@Kigali:
Clearly you’ve had your coffee this morning.Sista’ checkin’ with a vengeance! Bad behavior…especially of the stereotypical variety should always be called for what it is. Keep up the good work;->
@kigali~
sorry, there are plenty of bad examples among men and women but bottom line for me is this….Michelle handling her business, getting her schooling, raising her daughters and supporting her husband when he didnt have sh*T…thats what sistas DO. The black family has survived for better or worse through the perseverance of a black woman who didnt have the luxury of quitting. Sistahs have had to MAN UP even when the brothas p*****ed on job. There arent a million sistahs with Harvard degrees no…but there are a million Michelle’s who are working hard, raising families, and loving their husbands thru thick and thin. If you dont know any…I’d wonder where have YOU been for the last 200 years. All black women are not living in ‘da hood’.
Fellas, do not shoot up your whole ‘hood’, then expect “Black People” to stand behind you. That’s just plain ol’ stupidity and we won’t have any excuses for your black behind.
Ladies, be responsible for your actions and don’t allow yourselves to get pregnant by a no-good dude, then name the baby Obama-ichelle, and think that it’s okay. “Black People” and the Department of Family and Children Services will still look at you the same.
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Co-sign 100%!!!
The bar has been raised & a new standard has been set. Black men & women have to step up and do & be better!
All the blaming and finger pointing at “the man” has to stop. If you want to do that, start with a mirror!
say whaaa, check Kigalis statment ladies, i dont know where to start
OBAMA IS FINEEEE
Poor Obama has to set the tone for you coons to start acting like actual responsible human beings. CL*****IC!
@ kigali .. damn
Honestly Opie,
On behalf of all WHITE people, shut the hell up. Honestly. You don’t represent us. You represent a small sect of worthless, no good individuals who’s hate mongering is not tolerated by the general public. I’ve been on posts and kept my mouth shut but couldn’t any longer. So go home and retreat into your little racist corner where you belong.
@Kigali
We need to find you some new sisterfriends. . .
@ Everyone who reads Bossip-
3. “Black People” cannot abuse these four words, ‘My President is Black’. Which means do not pull into McDonald’s drive-thru and tell the person at the window, “I can have it my way, because ‘My President is Black.’” Drive across the street to Burger King.
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This is an ignorant and stupid statement. I don’t see where the humor is…What does this have to do with being Black?
5. Fellas, do not shoot up your whole ‘hood’, then expect “Black People” to stand behind you. That’s just plain ol’ stupidity and we won’t have any excuses for your black behind.
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I’m hoping that Obama’s victory, which is supposed to be for the people, would insprie you to push beyond what life used to be like and turn into something new…This statement too is ignorant and has nothing to do with being black..It angers me when I read stuff like this, as if every black person goes around shooting stuff and people up..Sad, indeed, when it’s pretended that we do nothing more than what’s described..
6. Ladies, be responsible for your actions and don’t allow yourselves to get pregnant by a no-good dude, then name the baby Obama-ichelle, and think that it’s okay. “Black People” and the Department of Family and Children Services will still look at you the same.
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Black women should stop having children out of wedlock. I know stuff happens, but we limit oursleves and our children, when we do things like this…And that statement about dept. of family and children’s services, will still look at you
the same…No self-respecting woman would be down at the welfare office, to begin with…
This blanketing everyone under welfare comments has got to stop. There are no limits on what any of us can do.Stop this ghetto ish and move forward.
@ Kilstupido-”
And let me remind you that President Elect Obama was raised by a single mother but not the type that dominate the hood. In fact if Obama were raised by your average black female, the ones you so foolish call Michelle Obama-lite, he would have become a career felon or a self destructive sociopathic homosexual.”
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First and foremost, it is rather ridiculous that you would open that trap of yours continously without THINKING….the thing is NO woman should be raising children alone and if you are, have some standards…How do you know what Barack would’ve been, if he was raised by Michelle, obviously he liked what he sawm because he married her and stuck around, to have a family with her..Damn your stupid. So just because Barack’s mom was white that’s the reason that he became successful?? You’re as stupid as a brick. Barack met Michelle, who was already working for a law firm and courted her while she was mentoring him…That doesn’t sound like a AVERAGE BLACK WOMAN TO ME. Actually, you insulted Michelle and Barack. Michelle has done a pretty damn good job while Barack was running around te country to get elected by having his back and still doing her part. There were years when Barack wasn’t avaiable, because he was building his career, who do you think took care of him and his kids? That would be Michelle, you stupid tramp. I know you think that you have one, but grow a brain, you stupid trick…Idiots, come a dime a dozen and you’re free…..You’re always talking about some ghetto ish, because that’s all you are and all you know…
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@Purple…
Role models should be people in your everyday life, not political figures on tv that you don’t know personally. That is where the problem is starting…people are rarely ever who they appear to be and trying to be like them is perpetuating this fallacy
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and yet young people are idolizing rappers and ballplayers. If they have to idolize ANYBODY Id rather they model O and Michelle than Kim and Reggie or Bey and Jay Z. Our role models should be people in our everyday lives but the reality is, what we are looking at NOW in the Presidency of Obama is something NONE OF US have ever witnessed in our lives. This is a NEW MODEL on mulitiple levels and if flies in the face of every stereotype black people have built into their psyche.
Is Kigali a man or a woman? Black or White?
Opie Taylor
“Poor Obama has to set the tone for you coons to start acting like actual responsible human beings. CL*****IC!”
You know i cant STAND OPIE but he sure aint lie with that last comment..OPIE thats how *****z and koons are…dont charge Afrikan Queens and Kings with that bullshyt though, we stay in the struggle chin checkin bytch crackas like you..dont get it confused.
@Sydney- No we need her to go kill herself and make this world a better place…When trash gets a computer or goes to he library…Ask her what goes through her mind running after the bus, while pretending to be above every black female that she sees. I hate this STUPID tramp……
BTW-KEVIN:
Should ‘Bam find himself compromised in
someone else’s bed-AT LEAST SHOW MORE CL*****,
FLAIR & SELECTIVITY than BILL *****IN CLINTON!
He only has the entire Hollywood A-list to
pick from.
So many parents have lost their Parenting Roles – the first example comes from home but a whole slew of them are too busy, too tired, too drunk too ????
Once you have children you have to learn to put them first and be the first example of a responsible adult they should not have to watch TV or go to school for their only role models
and when you addresss stereotypical negroes, you would ALWAYS be talking about Kilnasty…That’s all she’s got a view of a huge trash can. She always talks about the hood, cause she lives in the hood, no expectations out of life, just “hood vision”, while life keeps on p*****ing you by…….
Hood hoes unite and get it together, Kilnasty, you are the queen of the underworld, get all your sorry ***** hood hoes and start a new curriculm, so you might be able to move up and out, maybe if all of you combine your social *****istance checks, you might be able to get a run down apartment,somewhere…
@Heavenly,
“The brothas are just to busy climbing over their back to get to the half naked hoe with no degree and no panties on to SEE US.”
Because there arent any black females who are naked hoes with no degrees? A man isnt and doesnt have to be interested in a woman with a degree. He is so much more simple than that. Likewise your degree isnt going to cover up the stank attitude so many black females with degrees have. Black men want peace. They will p***** you over if you are a ***** who thinks she is entitled to a good black man without ***** to offer.
Your problem is that you have a very skewed view of black females. You see Michelle Obama, I see a mixture of Mo’nique, Shanique (50’s baby momma) and Tiffany “New York” Pillard. This is the average black female not Michelle. Disabuse yourself of that myth that there are a bunch of Michelle Obama’s in the hood just waiting around for a Prince to play Capt Save – A- Ho. There a bunch of Plies Bust it Babies, fat, bad weaves, bad attitudes, looking for unprotected sex with just about anyone.
I didn’t need Obama to do anything other than win. My life was already good before, I don’t need to be told by a bunch of losers, how to improve it, I know how to do that. Raise my children, of course, or I wouldn’t have had them. My husband does his part too, of course…..You guys are pretty damn stupid and ghetto, your damn selves…GROW UP!
kigali…
you are a disgusting piece of *****. the best thing you could do for anyone is kill yourself *****. You come on here time and time again starting *****. You should be vaporized from all exsistence. you filty, ignorant *****.
every *****ing time it never fails, you *****ing stalk black women. I dont know what you are, if your even human, but If I ever met you in life, you would be one dead ***** *****a.
whoever or whatever gave birth to you should have been beaten and castrated. You are a hateful, evil, demonic individual. I know you wouldnt say 1% of the ***** you put on here in person. I am so sick of seeing you try to pump hate, you sick *****.
@BE
I believe Kigali is a black woman. Right, Kigali?
Now I have to post the same question to you now as I have in the past:
What did sisters do to you? What is the root of your anger and frustration?
Inquiring minds want to know. . .
@Dr. Funk
If Obama were to ever find himself in a “compromising” situation, he’s smart enough to recall the Clinton debacle. After all, Monica “Down on My Knees” Lewinsky took him into impeachment proceedings.
He has what he needs at home. He is a real MAN.
And Klnasty you describe all your hood hoe friends perfectly…And it would take one to know one…Do you ever do anything besides sit around and talk about hood ish all day, every day..You live to try to cut down black females, God I wish you would get hit by one of those buses you are always riding on…..
@ILLUMINATE TRUTH….
Parents have to be the PRIMARY role models and THEN be able to look to outside influence for the exclamation point
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GLAD TO HEAR YOUR PARENTS WERE ROLE MODELS. MANY KIDS ARE ORPHANS AND IN FOSTER CARE AND HAVE NO PARENTS.MANY HAVE FATHERS WHO RAN AWAY. OBAMA IS IN THE LIME LIGHT. YOUR PARENTS WERE NOT. SO HIM BEING PRESIDENT AND IN A POSITIVE LIGHT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO SOME YOUNG BLACK BOYS..WHETHER YOU BELIEVE IT OR NOT. I HAVE ALREADY SEEN IT SHAPING. MANY ARE INFORMED ON POLITICS AND WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THEIR COMMUNITIES AFTER HEARING AND LEARNING ABOUT HIM. KEEP IT POSITIVE.
@Kigali
“Your problem is that you have a very skewed view of black females. You see Michelle Obama, I see a mixture of Mo’nique, Shanique (50’s baby momma) and Tiffany “New York” Pillard. This is the average black female not Michelle. Disabuse yourself of that myth that there are a bunch of Michelle Obama’s in the hood just waiting around for a Prince to play Capt Save – A- Ho. There a bunch of Plies Bust it Babies, fat, bad weaves, bad attitudes, looking for unprotected sex with just about anyone.”
No, it is you who have the skewed view. You need to travel more, stop watching BET, and read more about driven, educated, and prestigious black women and surround yourself with them.
You named entertainers and a reality show reject as models of black womanhood. Sista, you have to come better than that.
Once you have children you have to learn to put them first and be the first example of a responsible adult they should not have to watch TV or go to school for their only role models
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and I say AGAIN, Obama is a good model of the PINNACLE of possibility for that single mother or that young man who didnt know his father, or that young woman who is getting her degree and wondering if this “THING” called a loving marriage is even POSSIBLE. I’ve heard younger women saying that they have renewed hope about marriage after seeing the Obamas. I have younger cousins who are inspired by O’s example and talking amongst themselves about stepping up their game.
Obama isnt JUST a ‘role model’ on TV. You guys are belittling the magnitude of this moment in history.
And they’ll p***** you by on the bus as well, Kilnasty….the point is, anyone will p***** you by. You should be trying to do you not worried about EVERYBODY else. Watch your own as- and preach to yourself, if you knew all that you wouldn’t be rding a bus to begin with, Kilnasty..And you are probably closer to all the Shaniqua’s combined, I also find it very interesting that you know all the latest “hood” terms, –A bust it baby?? How would you know? Unless you are one? That’s exactly what I mean….Kilnasty-please go off yourself…
@Heavenly
People with role models in the home still idolize singers, entertainers and political figures. We live in a culture of idolization so there are people with two parents in nice neighborhoods idolizing rappers and football players, now that is reality. If you have parents or not is NOT always the problem.
@heavenly,
Forgive me for not celebrating black females who ironically overcome the obstacles they put before them. Read my screen name. Black females CHOOSE to be single mothers judging by the qaulity of men they CHOOSE to have unprotected sex with. Dont put broken gl***** before your path than ask me to give you props for walkin through them all the while being a wanna be Diva who cant be critized. And not it doesnt begin in the home. It begins the moment your average black female decides to get her eagle on with random do nothing *****hs.
Good work black people we can turn the most positive post into a good ole session of how terrible the black man and woman are. We can’t be happy about the fabulous example of black man and womanhood, we have to keep talking about the thugs and bust it babies. We sound so utterly ignorant. Let’s toss aside the role models and trash our image by stating there are more black people doing bad than good. For every success we have made was made because we had faith in ourselves.
Our community is rich and full, we have doctors we have thugs, we have black women who are professionals with loving husbands and we have babymomma’s trying to make ends meet. But you know what every welfare mother has the potential to go back to school have a career and get married to a responsible man. Every Thug has the ability to be a man take care of his woman and children.
I saw plenty of so-called thugs and hoodrats on election day, casting a vote for the first time in their lives because they saw the chance for change.
A Black man does not go out and sell drugs and commit crimes because he thinks he can be a corporate executive, he does it because he believes he can’t
A black woman does not have a child out of wedlock by a criminal because he self worth is high, because she feels she will marry a successful man.
If we really expect our people to do better we need to act better towards each other. Because someone is Ghetto does not mean they do not have worth or do not have a purpose.
@Heavenly
Ok, Obama is the “1st” Black president, or ill give you atleast in our lifetime, which is way overdue so I should be on the jock Obama train why? Im freakin offended I should act happy as if this shyt isn’t overdue. Please hit me on a more intellectual and less emotional level people! Another black man gotta stand up for the rest of yall to stand up, just ridiculous….
KILNASTY IS A THING. NOT A MAN OR WOMAN. A DAMN IT. HE/SHE..Don’t get it twisted…
@Heavenly,
Get it through your skull, allow it to penetrate the weave and the weave glue:
MICHELLE OBAMA GOT TO WHERE SHE IS BECAUSE SHE ISNT LIKE THE AVERAGE BLACK FEMALE NOT BECAUSE SHE IS.
LIKEWISE BARACK OBAMA GOT TO WHERE HE IS BECAUSE HE WASNT RAISED BY YOUR AVERAGE BLACK FEMALE NOT BECAUSE HE WAS OR BECAUSE HE MARRIED ONE.
I hate, btw, typing in caps but I had to get this point across.
lisalisa
I don’t like how he’s just out in the open like that…
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You took the words right out of my mouth! I don’t recall anyone in office that has made this type of move before (2 many crazy people out there!)!
But I know what I said before, in prayer…please lord, be with the OBAMA family.
Well I can only speak to what I know. My children may admire some famous and non-famous people but you have to be able to talk to your kids. It is okay to have role models but when the parents are not involved in the kids life the kid will not have the proper guidance in what to keep and what to take from role models. Now on the flip side I know parents who live with their children and I flinch at the things they and say to and around their children because they soak up everything. True kids can get all twisted with the parents and sometimes no matter what you do some kids will just take the long road but good parenting will always bring the children around eventually.
Obama/Michelle are excellent role models but there has to be more to effect change.
@ BLAQ… that was the best post of the day. you are totally right.
“SMDH
I Like you. You understand how worthless these black males are. I say put them back in the field and make them earn an honest days pay.”
I second the motion!! Hell, tell me where to sign adn I’m there!!! Maybe a little back to the past will teach today’s black male to appreciate his own and the struggles of his own instead of being more problem than solution like he is today!!
@SMDH>>>girl, I know. I’m so sick and tired of these weak men blaming their mama for there *****.
@Sydney and everyone else questioning Kigali>>>”she” is a black male. Have you met a black female that has so much contempt for other black women? I haven’t and I’m 40 something. He/she/it is a troll. She/he/it and Opie Taylor should be ignored. Oh, and Kigali, if you plan on responding to my post, consider that the “ignore” button on your name has been pushed.
@Heavenly,
Dont even think about trying to convince single mothers, especially single black mothers who already have their own *****ed up world view that handicaps the development of most of their children by telling them they can make it despite being a single mother or not having a father. BARACK OBAMA is an exception. That means given the cir*****stances he a boy like him would not become successful. The odds are against children of single mothers of children with absentee fathers.
You are dangerously idiotic.
@purpple…
you know what…this is the bottom line for me. My kids are 6 & 8. I and their father are their role models but there is NO DIMINISHING the fact that this country has not been set up to reinforce positive images of people of color. Thats a FACT. The election of Barack Obama strikes at the deepest core of a deficiency we have lived with as people in this country….an invisible asterick that said *except YOU. For THAT reason, fairly or unfairly, Obama represents the loosing of mental bondage that has kept us bound. YES WE CAN be president. YES WE CAN be good fathers and husbands. YES WE CAN achieve greatness. YES WE CAN….(fill in the blank).
I grew up in a two parent family and this man’s presidency has rocked ME to my core. I pray that millions of others feel the same way and dont have this ‘and so what’ attitude that you seem to be conveying.
@ Kigali
Do you believe your comments encourage weak minded black females to do better, or does it just concrete their poor self image so they teach their daughters and sons they ain’t ***** either, thus keep the cycle going.
Instead of holding up Michelle and saying this is a good example of what the black woman is. And little black girls look up to her as that’s what they want to be. Weather they came from a single parent home in the projects she still thinks she can accomplish great things.
Im amazed, that in this day and time we as Blacks are not more educated with our system as well as Politics nationally and Internationally in present day and more importantly the history of these things, if you were you’d be alot less “curious” about the political events taking place and why.
You know these Crackas get on here and say alot of valuable shyt, not cause what they saying is true but you can find a lesson in EVERY perspective
@blaq-”If we really expect our people to do better we need to act better towards each other. Because someone is Ghetto does not mean they do not have worth or do not have a purpose.”
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Your post was excellent. However, if your ghetto like kilnasty and want to critcize and put black women down then you being put down is what’s needed..People like to talk over peopple, likethey are better, when in reality , it’s a field negro/ house negro mentality…Ole girl is a slave. All she rants about is “the black female” never anything positie, only negative and the thing that ‘gets’ me, is she doesn’t realize that she is talking about herself..Can you get that ?? Self- hatred is a mother–I just wish she would end it all..by killing herself- she has absolutely NO logic or practical sense, I can see why she will always remain in the hood, with the bust it baby men ashe talks about on the regular….
“Clearly you’ve had your coffee this morning.Sista’ checkin’ with a vengeance! Bad behavior…especially of the stereotypical variety should always be called for what it is. Keep up the good work;->”
Its interesting that you would say this because Kigali will bash the ***** out of a black woman while praising a white ***** in a heartbeat!!! But, you’re right, it SHOULD be called out and its *****ing monkeys like Kigali that are more of the problem and less of the solution!!! Maybe your ignorant *****ing monkey ***** should read more of HIS posts before you drop to your knees and start sucking his ***** over being “fair”…
@WordtotheUnwise,
Well you can ignore me. I understand it takes courage and intelligence you clearly lack to actually address my argument. It doesnt matter if I am a troll, a man, a woman, a pet rock? Deal with the sunstance of what I am saying. You can kill the messenger but not the message.
Neocons and Neoliberals: Two Masks, One Face
George Washington Blog
November 10, 2008
Obama might very well be cl*****ified as a “neoliberal”.
If you’re a liberal, you might think this is great. Instead of the Neoconservatives who have been in power for the last 8 years, we’ll now have neoliberals. You may *****ume that “neoliberals” are new, smarter liberals — with liberal social policies, but with a stronger, more realistic outlook.
Nope.
In reality, neoliberalism is as dissimilar to true progressive liberal politics as neo-conservatism is to true conservative politics (if you don’t know it, most leading neoconservatives are former followers of Trotsky communism – not very conservative, huh?)
For example, did you know that Ronald Reagan was a leading neoliberal? In the U.S., of course, he is described as the quintessential conservative. But internationally, people understand that he really pushed neoliberal economic policies.
As Philip Giraldi writes: “Neoconservatives and neoliberals are really quite similar, so it doesn’t matter who gets elected in 2008. The American public, weary of preemptive attacks, democracy-promotion, and nation-building, will still get war either way”.
And leading neo-conservative strategist Robert Kagan recently said :
“Until now the liberal West’s strategy has been to try to integrate these two powers into the international liberal order, to tame them and make them safe for liberalism.”
So neoconservatives are not really conservative and neoliberals are not really liberal.
But neocons and neoliberals are very similar to each other. Neocons are alot more similar to neoliberals than to true conservatives; neoliberalss are more similar to neocons than to real liberals.
Do you get it? Both the Republican and Democratic party are now run by people with identical agendas: make the big corporations richer and expand the American empire.
There is only one party, which simply puts on different faces depending on which “branch” of the party is in power. If its the Democratic branch, there is a slightly liberal social veneer to the mask: a little more funding for social programs, a little more nice guy talk, a little more of a laissez faire attitude towards gays and minorities, and a little more patient push towards military conquest and empire.
If its the Republican branch, there’s a little more tough guy talk, quicker moves towards military empire, a little more mention of religion, and a tad more centralization of power in the president.
But there is only a single face behind both masks: the face of raw corporatism, greed and yearning for power and empire.
Until Americans stop getting distracted by the Republican versus Democratic melodrama, America will move steadily forward towards war, empire and — inevitably as with any country which extends too far — collapse.
Neoliberalism is neither “new” or liberal. Neoconservativism is neither new or conservative. They are just new labels for a very old agenda: serving the powers-that-be, consolidating power, controlling resources. Whether the iron fist has a velvet glove on it or not, it is still an iron fist.
A true opposition party is needed to counter the never-changing American agenda for military and corporate empire.
They are an amazing couple.
hi everyone.
don’t you know that Opie is NOT white…
he’s out here, probably employed by bossip, to incite, and stir debate. i’ve been paying attention…
cause at first, as a white woman, i was outraged…and fired back… then i just watched…. read yesterday’s posts. i’m serious.
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the pictures are hot. date night for the Obama’s. not sure how i feel about the paparazzi knowing where they are… i pray for their safety… Nice to see Michelle in heels…
The only reason anyone can get mad @ Kigali is if he hit too close to home. If its not you then keep it movin.
Bossip/Lives*****/Whateva lol…ya’ll were reeeeal pressed to show off this lil list huh?
Some of it I can agree with:
1. This day forward “Black People” should cease from hating on another black person. Stop crabbing on the next man, because there’s enough room in the barrel for all of us.
4. “Black People” must refrain from cussing out non-Barack supporters just because they said something offensive, rude or disrespectful. Simply, turn the other cheek and be the bigger person; this way we retain our power.
6. Ladies, be responsible for your actions and don’t allow yourselves to get pregnant by a no-good dude, then name the baby Obama-ichelle, and think that it’s okay. “Black People” and the Department of Family and Children Services will still look at you the same.
7. Don’t go into an interview before a panel of other “Black People,” wearing some leopard print tights and halter top that you had on at the club the night before, and expect to get the job.
THEN you guys fyck it up by saying ig’nant ish like this:
3. “Black People” cannot abuse these four words, ‘My President is Black’. Which means do not pull into McDonald’s drive-thru and tell the person at the window, “I can have it my way, because ‘My President is Black.’” Drive across the street to Burger King.
~*~Was this supposed to be funny?~*~
8. “Black People” should never again walk into a bank asking for a loan to buy 24-inch rims to go on a brand new Escalade that will be parked in front of your mama’s house, when you know your credit is bad.
~*~WTH does this have to do with Obama being elected? There were dumb*****es before Obama and there will be dumb*****es after Obama…an idiot is an idiot, common-sense is NOT so common.~*~
Beautiful couple.
Conned Again
Paul Craig Roberts
Infowars
November 9, 2008
If the change President-elect Obama has promised includes a halt to America’s wars of aggression and an end to the rip-off of taxpayers by powerful financial interests, what explains Obama’s choice of foreign and economic policy advisors? Indeed, Obama’s selection of Rahm Israel Emanuel as White House chief of staff is a signal that change ended with Obama’s election. The only thing different about the new administration will be the faces.
Rahm Israel Emanuel is a supporter of Bush’s invasion of Iraq. Emanuel rose to prominence in the Democratic Party as a result of his fundraising connections to AIPAC. A strong supporter of the American Israeli Public Affairs Committee, he comes from a terrorist family. His father was a member of Irgun, a Jewish terrorist organization that used violence to drive the British and Palestinians out of Palestine in order to create the Jewish state. During the 1991 Gulf War, Rahm Israel Emanuel volunteered to serve in the Israel Defense Forces. He was a member of the Freddie Mac board of directors and received $231,655 in directors fees in 2001. According to Wikipedia, “during the time Emanuel spent on the board, Freddie Mac was plagued with scandals involving campaign contributions and accounting irregularities.”
In “Hail to the Chief of Staff,” Alexander *****burn describes Emanuel as “a super-Likudnik hawk,” who as chairman of the Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee in 2006 “made great efforts to knock out antiwar Democratic candidates.”
My despondent friends in the Israeli peace movement ask, “What is this man doing in Obama’s administration?”
Obama’s election was necessary as the only means Americans had to hold the Republicans accountable for their crimes against the Constitution and human rights, for their violations of US and international laws, for their lies and deceptions, and for their financial chicanery. As an editorial in Pravda put it, “Only Satan would have been worse than the Bush regime. Therefore it could be argued that the new administration in the USA could never be worse than the one which divorced the hearts and minds of Americans from their brothers in the international community, which appalled the rest of the world with shock and awe tactics that included concentration camps, torture, m***** murder and utter disrespect for international law.”
But Obama’s advisers are drawn from the same gang of Washington thugs and Wall Street banksters as Bush’s. Richard Holbrooke, son of Russian and German Jews, was an *****istant secretary of state and amb*****ador in the Clinton administration. He implemented the policy to enlarge NATO and to place the military alliance on Russia’s border in contravention of Reagan’s promise to Gorbachev. Holbrooke is also *****ociated with the Clinton administration’s illegal bombing of Serbia, a war crime that killed civilians and Chinese diplomats. If not a neocon himself, Holbrooke is closely allied with them.
According to Wikipedia, Madeline Albright was born Marie Jana Korbelova in Prague to Jewish parents who had converted to Catholicism in order to escape persecution. She is the Clinton era secretary of state who told Leslie Stahl (60 Minutes) that the US policy of Iraq sanctions, which resulted in the deaths of hundreds of thousands of Iraqi children, had goals important enough to justify the children’s deaths. Albright’s infamous words: “we think the price is worth it.” Wikipedia reports that this immoralist served on the board of directors of the New York Stock Exchange at the time of ***** Gr*****o’s $187.5 million compensation scandal.
Dennis Ross has long *****ociations with the Israeli-Palestinian “peace negotiations.” A member of his Clinton era team, Aaron David Miller, wrote that during 1999-2000 the US negotiating team led by Ross acted as Israel’s lawyer: “we had to run everything by Israel first.” This “stripped our policy of the independence and flexibility required for serious peacemaking. If we couldn’t put proposals on the table without checking with the Israelis first, and refused to push back when they said no, how effective could our mediation be?” According to Wikipedia, Ross is “chairman of a new Jerusalem-based think tank, the Jewish People Policy Planning Institute, funded and founded by the Jewish Agency.”
Clearly, this is not a group of advisors that is going to halt America’s wars against Israel’s enemies or force the Israeli government to accept the necessary conditions for a real peace in the Middle East.
Ralph Nader predicted as much. In his “Open Letter to Barack Obama (November 3, 2008), Nader pointed out to Obama that his “transformation from an articulate defender of Palestinian rights . . . to a dittoman for the hard-line AIPAC lobby” puts Obama at odds with “a majority of Jewish-Americans” and “64% of Israelis.” Nader quotes the Israeli writer and peace advocate Uri Avnery’s description of Obama’s appearance before AIPAC as an appearance that “broke all records for obsequiousness and fawning.” Nader damns Obama for his “utter lack of political courage [for] surrendering to demands of the hard-liners to prohibit former president Jimmy Carter from speaking at the Democratic National Convention.” Carter, who achieved the only meaningful peace agreement between Israel and the Arabs, has been demonized by the powerful AIPAC lobby for criticizing Israel’s policy of apartheid toward the Palestinians whose territory Israel forcibly occupies.
Obama’s economic team is just as bad. Its star is Robert Rubin, the bankster who was secretary of the treasury in the Clinton administration. Rubin has responsibility for the repeal of the Gl*****-Steagall Act and, thereby, responsibility for the current financial crisis. In his letter to Obama, Nader points out that Obama received unprecedented campaign contributions from corporate and Wall Street interests. “Never before has a Democratic nominee for President achieved this supremacy over his Republican counterpart.”
Obama’s victory speech was magnificent. The TV cameras scanning faces in the audience showed the hope and belief that propelled Obama into the presidency. But Obama cannot bring change to Washington. There is no one in the Washington crowd that he can appoint who is capable of bringing change. If Obama were to reach outside the usual crowd, anyone suspected of being a bringer of change could not get confirmed by the Senate. Powerful interest groups–AIPAC, the military-security complex, Wall Street–use their political influence to block unacceptable appointments.
As Alexander *****burn put it in his column, “Obama, the first-rate Republican,” “never has the dead hand of the past had a ‘reform’ candidate so firmly by the windpipe.” Obama confirmed *****burn’s verdict in his first press conference as president-elect. Disregarding the unanimous US National Intelligence Estimate, which concluded that Iran stopped working on nuclear weapons five years ago, and ignoring the continued certification by the International Atomic Energy Agency that none of the nuclear material for Iran’s civilian nuclear reactor has been diverted to weapons use, Obama sallied forth with the Israel Lobby’s propaganda and accused Iran of “development of a nuclear weapon” and vowing “to prevent that from happening.”
The change that is coming to America has nothing to do with Obama. Change is coming from the financial crisis brought on by Wall Street greed and irresponsibility, from the eroding role of the US dollar as reserve currency, from countless mortgage foreclosures, from the offshoring of millions of America’s best jobs, from a deepening recession, from pillars of American manufacturing–Ford and GM–begging the government for taxpayers’ money to stay alive, and from budget and trade deficits that are too large to be closed by normal means.
Traditionally, the government relies on monetary and fiscal policy to lift the economy out of recession. But easy money is not working. Interest rates are already low and monetary growth is already high, yet unemployment is rising. The budget deficit is already huge–a world record–and the red ink is not stimulating the economy. Can even lower interest rates and even higher budget deficits help an economy that has moved offs*****, leaving behind jobless consumers overburdened with debt?
How much more can the government borrow? America’s foreign creditors are asking this question. An official organ of the Chinese ruling party recently called for Asian and European countries to “banish the US dollar from their direct trade relations, relying only on their own currencies.”
“Why,” asks another Chinese publication, “should China help the US to issue debt without end in the belief that the national credit of the US can expand without limit?”
The world has tired of American hegemony and had its fill of American arrogance. America’s reputation is in tatters: the financial debacle, endless red ink, Abu Ghraib, Gitmo, rendition, torture, illegal wars based on lies and deception, disrespect for the sovereignty of other countries, war crimes, disregard for international law and the Geneva Conventions, the *****ault on habeas corpus and the separation of powers, a domestic police state, constant interference in the internal affairs of other countries, boundless hypocrisy.
The change that is coming is the end of American empire. The hegemon has run out of money and influence. Obama as “America’s First Black President” will lift hopes and, thus, allow the act to be carried on a little longer. But the New American Century is already over.
@Kilstupid- No woman lives a man’s life. He makes those decisions and choices, himself. How stupid do you sound, that the black female is responsible for decisions that thes clowns make on a daily basis…No that would be their own faults…Barack went off track for a while, but HE was the one who decided, that HE had enough and wanted more..I’m a mrried woman and if my husbnad left me tomorrow, I would not perish. My children would not turn into croiminals. You *****ing stupid *****. I would go to my family and have them help me, if I needed it. I would do it alobe if I have to. No way in the world that just because you’re single, you have to expect or take less. Stupid is as Stupid does, my dear, you are stupid…Please go kill yourself, so this can be a better place….
yhea and if you agree with kigali you must be another ignorant obsessed *****, feel free to keep it moving as well.
@blaq,
I cant possibly hold Michelle Obama up as a positive role model while there are other females trying to convince me that these *****ed up ***** black females out here are already Michelle Obama. M.O. is where she is because she ISNT your average black female. Once your average black female realizes that she is trife than we can move on. If she keeps thinking her ***** doesnt stink, there is no where I can move.
Do NOT and I repeat do NOT put Jay and B in the same sentence as Michelle and Barack they are much more cl*****ier. When “video girls” dance and dress like B is in her new video we call them video hos but because its Beyonce its art and tasteful whatever. I will co sign Denzel/Paulette and LOVEs me some Will and Jada. *****ody thinks Barack is Jesus I just love to see black ppl in love. I have been single a long time and im keeping the faith for my faithfull, strong black man!!! Know that!
@Heavenly
My children will aspire to be the exception to this system not the inclusion. They know ANYTHING is possible for them because they are GOD manifested. Ill make a bet mental bondage will not be lost Heavenly..they’re are still going to be hustlers, killas, drug dealers and absentee fathers, it goes way deeper than a black president. I CANNOT name ONE PRESIDENT YET WHO HAS EVER HAD A BLACK AGENDA, EVER…or a POSITIVE ONE, cause lawd knows theyve had black agendas. Ill bet money that wont change. O excuse me now that we have a black president his agenda shouldn’t be black focused(especially when we are in worst economic shape race wise) cause he represents allll people…no matter how well you cover it up I know bullshyt when i hear it. Good guy maybe, Change a coming…youll see.
@KIGAGI
Are you saying that people shouldnt aspire to be exceptional?
@WordtotheWise
I think Kigali has said more than once that she’s a sister, but who knows. . .
@Kigali
How do you define the “average black woman” or “black man?”
@pm
“The only reason anyone can get mad @ Kigali is if he hit too close to home. If its not you then keep it movin.”
No, wrong, I think Kigali’s comments rub some people the wrong way because she stretches one segment of the population into a blanket representation of black women, which is not only erroneous but stereotypical and, frankly, ignorant. People have done the same to black men on here and have also been harshly criticized.
Change the Globalists Can Believe In
Kurt Nimmo
Infowars
November 9, 2008
David Edwards and Andrew McLemore, writing for Raw Story, report on the Clintonite John Podesta, chairman of Obama’s transition team. “The high voter turnout and landslide electoral college victory spell a clear path of American support for Obama’s message of political reform, Podesta told Fox News’ Chris Wallace on Sunday,” report Edwards and McLemore.
Podesta told Wallace they are “moving aggressively to try to build out that core economic team, the national security team.”
“I think his charge to us is that he wants a broad diverse cabinet, one that’s built on first criteria excellence,” Podesta said.
When asked by Wallace what some of Obama’s first decisions might be to prove his dedication to changing Washington, Podesta mentioned that Obama will review all the executive orders issued by President Bush and determine which ones should be repealed.
The co-chairman said Obama would probably overturn the ban on stem cell research as well as orders concerning healthcare and energy transformation.
Stem cell research is a pet cause for Democrats, but you will notice there is no word about National Security Presidential Directive 51, allowing the president to declare martial law and trash the Constitution. Naturally, Obama and his globalist bosses will need this so we can expect it to stay. It provides the president with absolute dictatorial power over the government with no checks and balances. Podesta admitted as much when he said: “There’s a lot the president can do using his executive authority without waiting for congressional action and I think we’ll see the president do that.”
“In the battle of political philosophies during this election, the progressive philosophy won, Podesta said.” For Mr. Podesta and the coming Obama administration, flexing “executive authority without waiting for congressional action” is part of the “progressive philosophy,” but then so is the phony GWOT and the lost cause occupation of Afghanistan. Of course, the Democrat controlled Congress will not have any problems with our new Caesar ruling in authoritative manner. He is a kindred spirit.
Finally, a bit of background on John Podesta is required so we can better understand where we are headed now that Obama has his mandate. Back in 2003 Podesta, along with Harold Ickes, founded what is called the “Heritage of the left,” the American Majority Institute, a 501(c)(3) non-profit “think tank,” or maybe that should be conspiracy tank. Morton Halperin of the Council on Foreign Relations was slated to run the show and George Soros was tagged to provide the lucre.
Masquerading as a progressive, former Bill Clinton chief of staff Podesta worked as a lobbyist for BP, Lockheed Martin, General Dynamics, the Swiss pharmaceuticals corporation Novartis International AG, and Wal-Mart.
Is it possible an operative for the CFR, the death merchants, multinational pharmaceuticals corporations, and slave-mart will deliver “change”?
Sure it is… and the moon is made of green cheese.
I see black women are trying to bash black men by pointing to Obama and how incredible he is. You guys are saying that ballers and performers are selling out with white women and I agree with that to a certain degree–BUT. Look at the type of black woman Michelle Obama is: Princeton and Harvard educated; had no children when they met; seems to be content with herself and b***** with self confidence; is very intelligent and not loud and ignorant; is accomplished in her own right; Im sure she is not the town w*****. I’m just saying, men will play you as much as you let them. If you refuse to settle for less you want be in a bad way. Most women can recognize men that they should stay far from. If you get weak for no good men and lay with them and have their kids you are partially responsible for the problem.
@Sydney,
You want to now what sisters have done to me? Ok, I will tell you.
Black females have bad attitudes. After their children and black men, other black females are a victim of this attitude. Because of them people prejudge me. They PURPOSELY have children with poor qaulity men, disenfranchising black children. Keeping them impoverished, poor health, poor education, and destructive world views. I hate your average black female because I love black men and black children. I am sick of black females victimizing men and children creating all kinds of ***** in our communities.
ATTENTION: Kigali is a troll people, dont even waste your time going there with him. and pm is kigali’s little nut sack,co-signing with all that ***** *****.
We all know there are plenty examples of successful worthy black men and women. Of course they are some not up on their *****, just like any other race of people. Let them fester in their own ignorance.
AGAIN….
kigali…
you are a disgusting piece of *****. the best thing you could do for anyone is kill yourself *****. You come on here time and time again starting *****. You should be vaporized from all exsistence. you filty, ignorant *****.
every *****ing time it never fails, you *****ing stalk black women, you are obsessed with black women. I dont know what you are, if your even human, but If I ever met you in life, you would be one dead ***** *****a.
whoever or whatever gave birth to you should have been beaten and castrated. You are a hateful, evil, demonic individual. I know you wouldnt say 1% of the ***** you put on here in person. I am so sick of seeing you try to pump hate, you sick *****.
Oooooo Eddiedollars215 so what you tryna say?
@Eddie Dollars- Thanks for the posts but not this time. Kigali ought to stop before she gets herself hurt..
@Kilnasty- no matter how much you try to ‘clean it up’, you can’t, you go opening that trap and can’t stop, diarrhea of the mouth…If you would just get an educatuion or move out the hood, maybe you wouldn’t hate yourself so..No, you’re not a man or woman, probably a pet rock, no need to listen to the message or the messenger, if that person is stone cold crazy, which you are..In this case, we should tar and feather the messenger. Go somewhere else and infect your hate, you stupid bust it baby…
@Sydney,
You want to now what sisters have done to me? Ok, I will tell you.
Black females have bad attitudes. After their children and black men, other black females are a victim of this attitude. Because of them people prejudge me. They PURPOSELY have children with poor qaulity men, disenfranchising black children. Keeping them impoverished, poor health, poor education, and destructive world views. I hate your average black female because I love black men and black children. I am sick of black females victimizing men and children creating all kinds of ***** in our communities.
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@ Kigali
I don’t even know where to start with you. I’ve seen you post your obvious hatred toward the Black women many times and I’ve tried to wait until you actually made (some) sense in order to have something relevant to respond to. My wait has been futile. All you have done is taken every idiotic stereotype and rhetoric about Black women and used them as some sort of commentary on what your twisted mind THINKS they are. Nothing of truth or relevance. Black women are the most beautiful women on earth (bar NONE) physically, emotionally and spiritually. Yes, you are right. Black men do want peace and I (for one) can only find it in a Sista. If you have only experienced the type woman you speak of then that speaks more about you than the Black woman. Your need to TRY to bring down the mother of civilization is an obvious attempt to make yourself feel better about your shortcomings…..whatever they may be.
Infowars is a good website
Having a black family at the forefront of the society will hopefully cause the media to portray that picture to the mainstream instead of constantly peddling the idea that having as many “hoes” and kids as possible is the way to go. That is not to say that there aren’t those out there that believe that the world should be handed to them just for existing. Sadly, that goes for both sexes. You cannot get someone for nothing. Even salvation wasn’t free; it just so happened that someone else paid the price on your behalf.
We as a people need to stop pointing fingers and think about our own actions. I cannot expect to be wanted if I am not doing something for myself. I also should hope that I look for someone that improves me and not someone that brings no substance to the table. Substance is not always money, in fact, substance is really values and character. Money is a bonus. My parents did not have a lot of money, but what they gave me is an outlook and a foundation that is priceless. We need to build more foundations and watch our people grow from that.
excuse my typos, I let this trash, get me *****ed…..
My children will aspire to be the exception to this system not the inclusion. They know ANYTHING is possible for them because they are GOD manifested. Ill make a bet mental bondage will not be lost Heavenly..they’re are still going to be hustlers, killas, drug dealers and absentee fathers, it goes way deeper than a black president. I CANNOT name ONE PRESIDENT YET WHO HAS EVER HAD A BLACK AGENDA, EVER…or a POSITIVE ONE, cause lawd knows theyve had black agendas. Ill bet money that wont change. O excuse me now that we have a black president his agenda shouldn’t be black focused(especially when we are in worst economic shape race wise) cause he represents allll people…no matter how well you cover it up I know bullshyt when i hear it. Good guy maybe, Change a coming…youll see.
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This country, not more than 15 years ago was one where a black man was tied to the back of a pick up truck and dragged till his body fell apart. This is a country where a little more than 40 years ago black people had to fight for the right to vote. Where Blacks and whites could not be legally married. Blacks were being beaten, hosed and blown up for demanding equal rights. They were lynched without due process and castrated for fun.
Today, a black woman who once might have only aspired to be a maid in the White House is going to be LIVING IN IT as the First Lady. We have gone from SLAVERY, being the LEAST of these…to having a man of color as the PRESIDENT, and even more than that, applauded all over the planet.
If OBAMA doesnt do another thing but just LIVE and be PRESIDENT, he has changed the course of this society and the mindsets of millions of people. Not to mention the millions who have yet to be born who will grow up in a world where this people went from slaves to Presidents. If you are WAITING FOR THE CHANGE..then you missed it. CHANGE HAS COME.
Illuminate Truth….. EXCELLENT!!!
@Kigali
Sista, I’m going to need some quiet time to talk with you on a serious level. If you’re only in contact with the type of women you just described, you need to move, travel, find new friends, etc., but you’re carrying a load of negativity.
We can surround ourselves with unhealthy individuals who affect our view of all people, and when our internal feelings reach that level, it’s time for some serious soul-searching and changes.
I think you’ve reached that level.
Booooooo @ this entire conversation.
I give you all a D-
FAIL!
*because you’re carrying a load of negativity*
@Its the Foosa,
The reasons this has become a black male bashing threat is because black female, while proclaiming to be oh so strong and oh so independent love to play the perpaetual victim. She loves to brag about how she is the rock of the community, that she is the head of the household and the backbone of the family, EXCEPT ofcourse, when she goes wrong. As it has. When people point out to her, as the CEO that the company is failing, the family is messed up, its poor, its under educated, that the community she has been the head of is a cesspool, then she bring up how the black man hasnt been around. She now wants to play the rear now that the results of her self ceneteredness are in full view of the world.
@Sydney, if Kigali is a “sister,” she needs help to get rid of that contempt and hatred for her own race/gender. It isn’t normal, and it’s very destructive. I guess she thinks her ***** don’t stink and that when God made the black female, he broke the mold w/her. Please. This person obviously have issues (she just stated she hates black women) so her only help is Jesus or an exorcist. Responding to her posts aren’t going to help this chile.
Oshie…..
Boooo you *****, this entire conversation doesnt even concern you. Your not black, and I see your only joy from us is when your being entertained. You probably bump our music, and jack our swag, and use our lingo, but when a real situation arises, we get a boo. ***** go kick rocks, realwoman already blasted your *****.
take your bubblegum blogging ***** elsewhere.
Sydney said: @pm
“The only reason anyone can get mad @ Kigali is if he hit too close to home. If its not you then keep it movin.”
No, wrong, I think Kigali’s comments rub some people the wrong way because she stretches one segment of the population into a blanket representation of black women, which is not only erroneous but stereotypical and, frankly, ignorant. People have done the same to black men on here and have also been harshly criticized.
Here! Here!
@ Kigali
A person thinking and feeling they are trife has never inspired anyone to do better. If you tire of being confused with a downtrodden, unproductive, woman of little worth, than maybe you should work to improve the image of the Black Woman, instead of perpetuating the same stereotype. If Michelle cannot be a role model, and we go back to the disenfranchised black person and being the norm, what does that do for your plight to not be confused with them?
On one had you are upset at being confused with this average black female, but when another example is portrayed you are first to say, hey we ain’t really like that, she’s just one most black women are *****ed up. So therefore you will continue to be looked upon like you ain’t *****. Your argument is baffling.
:spin:
their swagga is too sick. i mean geesh….fresh to death…
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and everyone has good points….but heavenly is right. black men need to start leading.saying that women want a badd boy is an excuse for your bad behavior. as a black women i had to take a step back and re-evalute what i wanted from a man. i used to think that a committed relationship to a black man was impossible until i visted with my paster and his wife and now i have the Obama family to look up to also. when the black men step up, handle their business, and stop wifing wanna be video hoes, and attempt to understand the black women…the black race will be a force to recken with.
@purp… what I’m always saying… it’s really not that hard to trick *****s… barack is a sock puppet for the bankers… HIS FIRST APPOINTMENT ISN’T EVEN AN AMERICAN… HE IS A ZIONIST TERRORIST (as was his father) DUDE IS ALREADY TALKING ALL THIS ISRAEL FIRST *****… *****s ain’t won *****… “a black man can only be successful when raised by a white woman”…? if the repubs wanted to win they wouldn’t have ran a cancer patient… and trailer park barbie… funny how all the “new” buzz words are… new order… global agenda… SAME *****… NEW FACE… WAKE UP…
@chris… WOW… you people are really naive… this is what I’m talking about… *****s really think they won something… NEWS FLASH THIS MAN IS A HAND PICKED FOUNDATION/BANKER SOCK PUPPET… THIS ELECTION WAS NOT FOR/ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE… IT IS MERELY TO APPEASE WHITE/LIBERAL GUILT… AND TO PUT A NEW FACE ON THE SAME POLICIES… McSame was the new Bob Dole… when the democrats run the hip new guy… they repubs always run a corpse… 2 sides of the same party…
EDDIEDOLLARS215 I feel you, just wanted you to spell it out for the lames what your post were insinuating.
Because there arent any black females who are naked hoes with no degrees?”
Sure there are and they tend to eb the ones you weak ***** *****ing coons gravitate too and then when you can’t make that hoe a housewife you run around judging all black women instead of judging the w***** YOU chose to put all your stock into!
“A man isnt and doesnt have to be interested in a woman with a degree. He is so much more simple than that.”
And the weak ***** black male isn’t interested in any woman, let alone a black woman, who is doing hetter than his sorry ***** is.. Its much easier to put a w***** down.. A hard working black sista will hand your punk ***** to ya and then walk out…
“Likewise your degree isnt going to cover up the stank attitude so many black females with degrees have.”
Stank attitude or an attitude that says “n!gga, I’ve been doing it this long without your weak punk ***** and I will do it long after your weak punk ***** is gone…” Could it be the level of inferiority that the black male feels when someone is doing better than is shiftless *****?!?!? Its amazing how everyone doing better than the black male is out to get him or emasculate him.. Man the ***** up and stop being a *****!! Go get your own!!
“Black men want peace.”
I wish they wanted jobs or an education or fatherhood as much as they “want peace”…
“They will p***** you over if you are a ***** who thinks she is entitled to a good black man without ***** to offer.”
Considering the black woman has MOUNTAINS to offer above what the coon male has offer your comment seems rather bitter!! The black male can’t offer a woman anythinmg but a *****ing headache and a sexually transmitted disease.. Oh yeah, I forgot single parenthood…
“Your problem is that you have a very skewed view of black females. You see Michelle Obama, I see a mixture of Mo’nique, Shanique (50’s baby momma) and Tiffany “New York” Pillard.”
And what would she see if she could see you? A sorry ***** *****ing n!gger sitting online hatin on her and her husbands success!! Compared to that woman and her success alone your money ***** is NOONE… What law firm do YOU work for?!?!? Sorry ***** black basatard!! Sorry ***** *****ing minstrel hatin on a woman!!!
“This is the average black female not Michelle. Disabuse yourself of that myth that there are a bunch of Michelle Obama’s in the hood just waiting around for a Prince to play Capt Save – A- Ho.”
Lemme tell you this much – there are many many less Baracks than Michelles in the black community!! The black woman does her motherly role!! What does the black male do except live off of her?!?!? Dude, you’re always gonna lose this arguement.. Until the black male zips up his ***** and starts doing what MEN do you will always be laughed at when you bash the black woman achievements… And you bottom of the barrel suckin n!ggers never mind a white ho!! Whats wrong with a black one?!?!
“There a bunch of Plies Bust it Babies, fat, bad weaves, bad attitudes, looking for unprotected sex with just about anyone.”
Whose that?? The white woman?? And you keep mentioning bad attitudes like the black male is the role model!!! What type of attitude makes a *****ing n!gger more of a threat to his own that any other race of male?!?!? Even in this racist society the black male is more of a threat to his race than anyone else is!! Oh yeah, thats being a good role model!! Go get an *****ing education and a job – KEEP THEM – and then come back and whine about a sistas weave!! LOL – the things that matter to black males versus what should matter to his good for nothing *****!!!
@Eddie
If he is a puppet or not does not affect what we have to do for ourselves. Is it encouraging to see a black man as president? Of course it is. Do I think that we have made it? No. Obama got that far as a man that fought tooth and nail to reach where he is. He had to overachieve to get a chance. When I see a black guy with a C average get the presidency, I’ll say we made it.
I AINT HEAR *****Z SAY SHYT ABOUT CYNTHIA MCKENNEY
Warnings from world leaders all within 72 hours
Daily News Caster
Monday, Nov 10, 2008
“Australian PM Kevin Rudd – “Nuke strike would make 9/11 insignificant” and other weird warnings”
“Over the last 72 hours there has been a strange melange of cryptic messages leaked from world political leaders about what could be in store for America over the next few months.
These predictions of impending doom come from England, France, Australia and the United States.
Biden told the top Democratic donors that a “generated crisis” will develop within six months and Barak Obama will need the help of community leaders to control the population as unpopular decisions are made and Americans resist.
Thus he said, The fourth beast shall be the fourth kingdom upon earth, which shall be diverse from all kingdoms, and shall devour the whole earth, and shall tread it down, and break it in pieces.
—Daniel 7:23
Biden speaking at the fundraiser, “I can give you at least four or five scenarios from where it might originate, And he’s gonna need help. And the kind of help he’s gonna need is, he’s gonna need you – not financially to help him – we’re gonna need you to use your influence, your influence within the community, to stand with him. Because it’s not gonna be apparent initially, it’s not gonna be apparent that we’re right.”
Biden’s ominous language at the Seattle Sheraton are followed with statements by long time establishment insiders Colin Powell and Madeline Albright both say there is a m*****ive crisis on the horizon and Biden was simply making a “statement in fact.”
“The problems will always be there and there’s going to be a crisis which will come along on the 21st, 22nd of January that we don’t even know about right now.” Powell told Meet the Press.
Lord West, adviser to Prime Minister Gordon Brown on national security says, “There is another great plot building up again and we are monitoring. It dipped slightly and is now rising again within the context of severe. The threat is huge. We have done all the things that we need to do, but the threat is building – the complex plots are building,”
Across the channel from England you have the French Foreign Minister Bernard Kouchner warning the press that he believes Israel will strike Iran before they can develope nuclear weapons completley ignoring the fact that the chief of the International Atomic Energy Agency, Mohammed ElBradei, said that Iran lacks the key components to produce an atomic weapon.
“The devastation that could be wreaked by one major nuclear weapons incident alone puts 9/11 and almost everything else [in] to the category of the insignificant,” Rudd said.
Why are there so many high level politicians around the world in a seemingly coordinated effort warning of huge threats and developing crisis’ that may include a nuclear device? Are they preparing the m*****es for an event or series of events that have been in the making for some time? Is the public being prepared for new and forming enemies with a potential to plunge the entire world into war?”
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A number of notable public figures, to be sure; Biden, Rudd, Colin Powell, Matelaine Albright, Lord West and French Foreign Minister Bernard Kouchner. Taken alone there are plenty of ready explanations, but within 72hrs.?
Are there any more recent examples out there?
feel you 2 CHRIS
You can’t be talking about me. In order for a company to fail, that would include everyone’s input. Just like these car companies are failing and no they should not be bailed out, adding to the average taxpayers bill. If I am failing, I am out of business, no ifs ands or buts. Noone comes in to save me. That’s ehy it’s key to KNOW what you are doing and play your role,w hatever it may be…Too bad you’re ghetto *****, don’t have to worry about that, right Kilnasty?? Make sure you catch that bus and keep sitting in the back, and talking ish—*****ocy can hear you..
@ Word to the Wise- No it irritates me that she paints us all with such a broad brush, some of us have worked really hard at overcoming obstacles in our lives and then to have to listen to this?? I don;t think so….And yes she is stereotypical, ignorant and erroneous…
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I’ve NEVER been on aid- of any kind.Never have, never will. If I had to run back to my cousins, and mother, it would only be temporary. you can’t keep a good woman or man down. That’s a fact. You take your choice and make it happen or not…Or maybe you just sit on the sideline and hate because everyone else is getting more out of the game and actually prospering..Maybe you’re mad because you’re one of the left behind…
My former moniker-Always Knew- Changed it because of fake females, like you, pretending to be you….
@WordtotheWise
I’m just trying to understand. . .*sigh*. There’s so much anger and hostility among us, and I think the time is long overdue for all of us to join together, give each other love and respect, and work collectively for solutions to ameliorate conditions in our communities.
I recently watched a video on CNN of young black boys in Chicago reacting to the election and how inspired they felt to push for more in their lives. No, we shouldn’t look to one person for guidance, but we’re in a historic moment that has touched many of us, and that’s a great positive.
I see African Americans as a whole as being in a pivotal position at the moment. For better or worse, we’re under a magnifying gl***** like never before, and we can use this time to work together for better or to drift further apart.
The choice is ours.
@dede…
so have I. On every level from my marriage to parenting to my walk with Christ. Its one thing to have faith that all things are possible. To now see with our eyes what we’ve believed in our hearts…is overwhelming.
@ eddiedollars215
Have you ever heard of, The conspiracy of conspiracies.
It’s where the conspirators seed the populace with all types of plots, plans, and “secrets” of the govenment or powers that be.
They offer “explanations” and correlations of and between events that have taken place. This causes confusion & mistrust among elements of the populace.
Once enough seeds of doubt & confusion have been sewn, they begin to grow exponetially until they reach a tipping point at which time the original, and true conspirators can implement thier plans in a state of anarchy.
You ever see that movie “Arlington Road”? You could be that guy!
“A person thinking and feeling they are trife has never inspired anyone to do better. If you tire of being confused with a downtrodden, unproductive, woman of little worth, than maybe you should work to improve the image of the Black Woman, instead of perpetuating the same stereotype. ”
No – what his sorry n!gger ***** needs to do is venture outside of his project tenament and surround himself with better black women.. Maybe he needs to come up in the quality of woman he surrounds himself with and his opinion of the black woman won’t be so bitter… I can’t stand these *****ing oversexed underachieving golliwog *****s who gravitate towards wet ***** w*****s and then when they act like the wet ***** w*****s that they are he wants to run around judging all of us!!! Coon males need to start dating and interacting with better quality women.. If you stop and think about it, even when he ventures outside his race he will STILL end up with the w***** with the wettest, loosest ***** out there.. Just look at the quality of white women they get!! black males need to come up in their tastes and they won’t be so w***** bitter all the time!!!
@Illuminate Truth,
Are you seriously going to try to convince me that Plie’s Bust it Babies are the mothers of civilization? There goes my lunch. See your problem is that you actually think every black female out there is some mixture of Beyonce, Celie of the Color Purple, Michelle Obama, Maya Angelou with a sprinkle of Super Head when the occasion arises. She is not.
In fact in her most recent incarnation, she is a self centered, over weight, can say ***** to, shell of an actual human being.
I can distinguish between likeable black women and your average black female. You want a black woman, great. Just please find one that was raised outside of the Anglo-sphere. Try Africa.
@ Eddie
The president of the United State is the Chief Executive Officer. It like if your job gets a new CEO, some things will change, but it’s still business as usual. Obama is a politician, politics are a game. His appointments are those of someone who is there to play ball. He should hire people who are pro’s at the game, a bunch of novices would send him on a fast track to destruction. This election was beneficial to black people because of realization of a dream that has carried us through all types of oppression and the faith we can achieve all that was held out of reach. Politics and Parties are all about taking money out of the left pocket and putting into the right and vice versa. But when peoples attitudes change, the world changes.
Just love this couple, They are intelligent, sexy, and care about the race and america in general.. Cant wait till he is sworn in,, and I am working on tickets.
@Heavenly
Things are the same the as the day they were before Obama even came on the scene. He just gave Blacks more reason to shout loud while SAYING NOTHING.
It was a proud day in history to see a black man win the presidential election.
It is a disgrace for black people to use this couple as an example to belittle on another.
It is refreshing to see a black educated couple who are raising their children together. They make a good example of how education can help you accomplish your goals. However I refuse to use them as examples of good parents, a good husband, or a good wife, or a loving marriage.
These are flawed human beings. They are not perfect. The only thing we know about them is the exterior. They conduct themselves in a dignified manner in the public eye. I can’t *****ume that these people have good moral character, based on public appearances.
One should look at the Obama’s as an accomplishment of hard work and determination and not letting go of your dreams.
If Black people need an example of good morals, kindness, sincerity, or any other positive attributes, you should look in the mirror and try to conduct yourselves as such.
Don’t look at imperfect humans and turn them into a righteous individual who can do no wrong. You will always be disappointed.
Christianity..just another part of the problem for *****s but i surely wont go there….
@ Kilnasty- No in order for you to do some serious thinking, that would involve a brain and that’s something that we all know, that you do not have…
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And no matter what I will always help and look out for my brothers and sisters. You can’t separate the real ones, sweetheart. I know who I am. I believe in each one teach one, not try to crush all around you so noone has a reason to believe anymore, the real ones show and lead by example. Nothing that you would know about. I can take the most broken down woman or man and rebuild them into a million dollar money making machine. BUT, if their mind isn’t right, it won’t make one bit of difference, especially if they think or act like your trifling behind….
have a GREAT DAY and grow a brain! I don’t like to stand around and conversate with stupid people, it can drain you too…and then make you stupid….I’m only spreaking from experience, look st Kilnasty- see? That’s why got to keep moving, trash comes out if you stand still, in one spot for too long…
@ Heavenly
you should apply all of those things you said to women too. In fact, if black women didnt want to date bad boys, most black males wouldnt be bad. So before you start preaching about what men should do, you and all these other women that condone the behavior of black men, should take a hard look in the mirror.
WELL SAID
It’s takes two to tango. Stop giving thugs the time of day and they will step up. Black males: If you require more from these so-called attitdue-laden, overweight, s*****y women, they will change. They must…
Kigali
why don’t you go to Africa and let them cirm*****cise you and pick you a mate that will beat the ***** out of you, give you AIDS, and have 10 other wives. Maybe you will shut the ***** up and stop this abusive rhetoric against black women.
Your the worst kind of black woman because you are hateful, mean spirited, and just lacking common sense. Education does not provide common sense.
SHUT THE ***** UP BECAUSE YOU ARE A DUMB *****!!
so cl*****y, i just love seeing them
@Purple~
Things are the same the as the day they were before Obama even came on the scene. He just gave Blacks more reason to shout loud while SAYING NOTHING
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I feel for you if you truly think this way. You fight to reinforce your defeated spirit. Thats sad.
@WordtotheUNwise,
I didnt state I hated black women. I hate black females and by black females I mean the average black female that was raised within the Anglo-sphere, i.e. the Germanic speaking Western World. This doesnt include many in the Carribean or Central /South America. There is something about the culture of these societies that produce the worst kind of black females and America takes the cake.
“@Sydney, if Kigali is a “sister,” she needs help to get rid of that contempt and hatred for her own race/gender. It isn’t normal, and it’s very destructive. I guess she thinks her ***** don’t stink and that when God made the black female, he broke the mold w/her. Please. This person obviously have issues (she just stated she hates black women) so her only help is Jesus or an exorcist. Responding to her posts aren’t going to help this chile.”
LOL – do you really believe Kigali is a woman?? Kigali is a *****ing golliwog minstrel show *****ing n!gger male whom I am guessing, by his ********** bitterness, has a little *****!!!
@ kigali
Why do you hate Black women???
In all of the places I have lived there are a majority of great Black women! They have educations, jobs, self respect, respect for others, take care of responsibilities and have very good and functional relationships with Black men.
I hope you are just on a single minded rant for a blog and that this is not your full and actual Black experience.
PURPPLE
Christianity..just another part of the problem for *****s but i surely wont go there….
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NOW we talking home girl!! Eddie Griffin just had a recent standup… funny this was he said: before whites came we had all the diamonds, gold and land, and all they had were bibles. Now we the one with all the bibles and they the ones with the gold, diamonds, land and riches!!
But you dont hear me though…..lol. If we go there, they’ll start calling us the devil, been hearing it all my life.
@ SDMH
Why do you hate Black men???
In all of the places I have lived there are a majority of great Black men! They have educations, jobs, self respect, respect for others, take care of responsibilities and have very good and functional relationships with Black women.
I hope you are just on a single minded rant for a blog and that this is not your full and actual Black experience.
It’s sad that so many of you have ghetto surroundings and ghetto mentalities to boot…THANK GOD some of us black people have far more black mentors than we do thugs in our families.
God they are KILLIN IT for REAL!!!!!!
That dude is cool.. Let the swagger jackin begin for real…
“I didnt state I hated black women. I hate black females and by black females I mean the average black female that was raised within the Anglo-sphere, i.e. the Germanic speaking Western World. This doesnt include many in the Carribean or Central /South America. There is something about the culture of these societies that produce the worst kind of black females and America takes the cake.”
Apparently all cultures produce *****ing sorry ***** black males cause no matter where you go around this world the black male is the *****ing bottom of the barrel as far and all aspects of that society goes… I know this much, no matter what the country or the continent the black male seems to have serious issues with rape and murder!!!
@John,
Thank You.
@purple
naw they aint ready for that today…
@Heavenly
Don’t feel sorry for me babes,I don’t look to anything exterior to validate my struggle as a Black Person or a human period. I knew I was great and could accomplish anything I put my mind too before my existence in this world. Dont feel sorry for me at all…all you are emotionally involved in is an Illusion, it is not real, it’s only meant to help you discover that which is real. Dont feel sorry for me Heavenly, anything I need to know is already within. Anything outside of myself is a FALSE REPRESENTATION OF HOPE OR CHANGE. thats what you should feel sorry for, people looking outside of themselves for the answers.
“Why do you hate Black men???
In all of the places I have lived there are a majority of great Black men! They have educations, jobs, self respect, respect for others, take care of responsibilities and have very good and functional relationships with Black women.
I hope you are just on a single minded rant for a blog and that this is not your full and actual Black experience.”
Let’s do it like this: When I see you comment to the sorry ***** bitter *****ing coons up in here bashing the black woman then feel free to ask me whatever you want to!!! I will gladly answer!!
@ PURPPLE
Christianity..just another part of the problem for *****s but i surely wont go there….
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You are right! Christianity is a BIG problem for *****s!!! Huge!
But good Black people don’t have much of a problem with it at all.
@brown sugar
I know ima just leave that one right on alone and keep it movin….
@chris… Thats the difference between people like me and you I guess. *****s like me won’t be slaves. We run and fight for freedom. We try and teach the others how to read, and show them the north star. We would rather die on our feet than live on our knees. When my mother told me I could be anything I wanted to be as a child… i believed her. People like me know that the world is ruled by the aggressive use of force, and that evil flourishes when good men do nothing. That ignorance is usually a lack of understanding, and that man is supercilious by nature. That the lesser of two evils is still evil. I see through all the half truths and lies. I know the true authors of the so called “black liberation ideaology”… I AM NOT FOOLED… I know what JESSE DID TO MARTIN… I KNOW WHAT ELIJAH DID TO MALCOM… AND I KNOW WHAT R.R. DID TO MARCUS… THERE IS US… AND THERE IS THEM… MAKE NO MISTAKE BARACK OBAMA IS ONE OF THEM… PERIOD…
“Are you seriously going to try to convince me that Plie’s Bust it Babies are the mothers of civilization? There goes my lunch. See your problem is that you actually think every black female out there is some mixture of Beyonce, Celie of the Color Purple, Michelle Obama, Maya Angelou with a sprinkle of Super Head when the occasion arises. She is not.
In fact in her most recent incarnation, she is a self centered, over weight, can say ***** to, shell of an actual human being.
I can distinguish between likeable black women and your average black female. You want a black woman, great. Just please find one that was raised outside of the Anglo-sphere. Try Africa.
@ Kigali
No. It is not my problem that I have grouped all Black women into some unfactual category. That is YOUR problem. Have I read right into thinking that you are yourself a Black woman? That would mean I am actually posting to defend YOU from YOU and that is sad. There is nothing else in your post I can actually respond to. I can’t offer logic to something so illogical as your rants.
@Kigali
“I didnt state I hated black women. I hate black females and by black females I mean the average black female that was raised within the Anglo-sphere, i.e. the Germanic speaking Western World. This doesnt include many in the Carribean or Central /South America.”
So are you saying that black women who were born and raised in this country are somehow “tainted?” That’s a pretty broad swatch of individuals you’re referring to.
*broad swath*
@John~
I most definitely believe men AND women should step up. My point is that black women always have. We havent had a choice-if the man walked out we still had to make a way. We have had to be the default leaders in our homes. My “preaching” is done in love…men need to RISE and *****ume their positions. YOU ARE THE MEN. STOP WHINING AND LEAD DAMNIT.
@kigali
You sound like a one dimensional clown! Black men, like Barack Obama Sr, abandon their children more than any other race of man.
Barack Sr left Obama’s white mom holding the bag just like he did the mothers of ALL his children (black & white). And he was a HIGHLY educated man, not some “thug”. So get off these overplayed stereotypes.
@WordtotheWise
I’m just trying to understand. . .*sigh*. There’s so much anger and hostility among us, and I think the time is long overdue for all of us to join together, give each other love and respect, and work collectively for solutions to ameliorate conditions in our communities.
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couldnt have said it better myself. the wille lynch letters are TRUE. the black race is still divided and will forever be divided if we dont get it together soon.
To Heavenly
Preach!!! chile Preach!! this election showed that ANYTHING is possible with GOD on our side!
To Heavenly
Im glad someone see my point.
pm
@ heavenly ..There are not a million Michelle’s out there
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You’re right, there’s more than a million
lol@Nina Knows
Right!!!! im not even in the mood today theyre azz prob find out where you live and come try to kill i mean convert ur azz! Ive already said too much…HEEEELP! AND LMAO at what u said to oshie, i guess if your not black you wouldnt really relate.
SMDH
“Why do you hate Black men???
In all of the places I have lived there are a majority of great Black men! They have educations, jobs, self respect, respect for others, take care of responsibilities and have very good and functional relationships with Black women.
I hope you are just on a single minded rant for a blog and that this is not your full and actual Black experience.”
Let’s do it like this: When I see you comment to the sorry ***** bitter *****ing coons up in here bashing the black woman then feel free to ask me whatever you want to!!! I will gladly answer!!
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I asked the kigali why they hated Black women @ 3:05pm. They stood out so I asked, & I asked you too.
@ X
No good ole p*****ified,zombified,ignorant Black folk dont have ANY problem with Christianity. I totally agree with you.
@Sydney,
Thankfully, I was raised by Afro-Francophoners. There is help though. There are a few delightful black women here on Bossip, who are black Americans but have eman*****ted themselves from the despotic rule of the average black female. I dont see them here today but they are always in my prayers.
Nina Knows
you talking bout the stand up Eddie did where he was talking bout when he crashed the car etc…that shyt was good..Eddie be hittin on somethings forreal.
@Moreaces…we can agree to disagree.
heavenly
@pm….
I would beg to differ with you–you just may not find em up in the CLUB. They are there and they have always BEEN there. The brothas are just to busy climbing over their back to get to the half naked hoe with no degree and no panties on to SEE US.
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Preach
@ PURPPLE
@ X
No good ole p*****ified,zombified,ignorant Black folk dont have ANY problem with Christianity. I totally agree with you.
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NO! Don’t change & agree with me. You had it right the first time. *****s have the problem and *****s ARE the problem.
@X… I don’t believe conspiracy theories… I know about a few conspiracy realities… but yeah there is crazy disinfo out there… could i be a victim…? yeah no doubt… thats part of the problem… most ***** has a grain of truth but as time goes you/they add ***** until you get a story so far fetched… half of the so called “awake” are running around with copper coils and tin foil hats… hahahahahaha… but the bottom line is from the begining of time somone has always tried to rule the world… the thing is… try ***** they do… and its much worst then you or even I could ever imagine… my point is most people are sheep…
@blaq… see my last phrase to x… get a clue… You were so right in saying that the president is like a CEO you seem to be literally clueless to how right you are… Corporatism = Fascism… I am not trying to offend you… I don’t care if i did… but I really doubt you know what your talking about…
@DeDe,
“…the wille lynch letters are TRUE…”
No the Willie Lynch letters arent true but are apparently a self fulfilling prophecy.
“I asked the kigali why they hated Black women @ 3:05pm. They stood out so I asked, & I asked you too.”
I don’t hate black MEN!! There is a certain type of black man that I cannot stand and that’s what I call the black MALE. The black MALE is the weak ***** brotha who constantly exhibits actions what show his lack of respect for himself, his community and his race however, he demands respect simply cause he was born with a *****!!! This is the tyupe of man I hate!! Ido not hate the black MAN – good black MEN!!
Some Black women in Africa re desensitized and have no *****oral stimulation due to some abusive male deciding upon her birth that she is unworthy of pleasure.
African women are abusive by their mates, they are cheated on. Some of the males have sex with their offspring. Some of the males are middle aged men who take a young girl with their parents permission, and are impregnated as early as 12, against their wishes. Giving birth at such an early age sometimes causes these women to be incontinent. Their husbands in turn ban them from the household.
Why should black American women emulate these women who are dying by the m*****es in Africa due to their abusive parents who give them away like cattle to an unloving man. These Afrcan men have many wives and generations are being wiped out due to AIDS.
According to that idiot KIGALI we should be trying to emulate these women who are abused from birth. According to that *****hole KIGALI we should all have our mates chosen for us because we are too foolish to do so. These African women are having their mates chosen for them and live in misery and eventually die of AIDS due to their husbands promiscuity.
KIGALI SHUT THE ***** UP!! If you like these deplorable practices, go there and live. You certainly won’t be missed here. Your a dumb ***** and will fit right in with the rest of the women living in fear and misery.
@ Kigali
If you continue to focus on the black female, you will continue to be confused with her. Once you broaden you vision you will be able to see our future and the possibilities instead of the failures and setbacks. If it were not for our mistakes we could not realize our victories
@ Eddie
Knowledge is power.
@ Chris
Thanks for your continued postitivity
@SMDH
The black man vs the black woman is our biggest problem.
@ X
you will not likely get a response from those who relish in their narrow views and self hatred,
@kigali
“The despotic rule of the average black female??”
You’re taking hyperbole to another level. What on earth are you talking about?
Are you familiar with all the “delightful” black women who have existed in this country throughout history and continue to make their mark?
There are times when our rhetoric reflects more poorly on us than on others. If you can only name stereotypes as the people who exist in your environment then, I’m sorry, but that says more about you than the women you’re railing against.
X
too bad most Black people seem to be *****s in disguise..sorry, that would make the “black” in ur statement automatically revert back to *****, which means in turn means ur a ***** too.
you should apply all of those things you said to women too. In fact, if black women didnt want to date bad boys, most black males wouldnt be bad. So before you start preaching about what men should do, you and all these other women that condone the behavior of black men, should take a hard look in the mirror.
*lowering head…staring at the man in the mirror*
@ Nina Knows
PURPPLE
Christianity..just another part of the problem for *****s but i surely wont go there….
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NOW we talking home girl!! Eddie Griffin just had a recent standup… funny this was he said: before whites came we had all the diamonds, gold and land, and all they had were bibles. Now we the one with all the bibles and they the ones with the gold, diamonds, land and riches!!
But you dont hear me though…..lol. If we go there, they’ll start calling us the devil, been hearing it all my life.
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Comedians can make anything sound good at the minstrel show! That’s a big part of the problems with the ***** mentality.
You are too bust letting Katt Williams tell you how great being a pimp and a ho is…, instead of listening to somebody tell you how good education, and responsibility is.
Obama Website Scrubs Mandatory Community Service Call
Paul Joseph Watson
Prison Planet(dot)com
Monday, November 10, 2008
Following a controversy over language that appeared on Barack Obama’s official website suggesting that Americans would be mandated to complete up to 100 hours of community service as part of a national service program, the original text has been memory-holed and replaced with a more sanitized version.
Despite numerous bloggers picking up on the switch, along with screenshots from before and after proving the language was changed, mesmerized Obama supporters are still claiming that that detractors had invented the language and that the website had not been altered.
The text from Obama’s change(dot)gov website, which went online shortly after the election result, originally appeared as follows.
Obama will call on citizens of all ages to serve America, by developing a plan to require 50 hours of community service in middle school and high school and 100 hours of community service in college every year.
The text was changed at some point on Friday afternoon/evening to the following.
Obama will call on citizens of all ages to serve America, by setting a goal that all middle school and high school students do 50 hours of community service a year and by developing a plan so that all college students who conduct 100 hours of community service receive a universal and fully refundable tax credit ensuring that the first $4,000 of their college education is completely free.
See the two different versions in the following screenshots (google it).
On a separate area of the website, the program was also described under the heading “Require 100 hours of service in college,” but this has also since disappeared.
Clearly, the use of the word “require” suggested that the program would be mandatory, stoking fears that such community service programs would be one aspect of Obama’s promised “civilian national security force” that is “just as powerful, just as strong, just as well-funded” as the U.S. military.
“The language of requiring students to serve and the creation of a “Cl*****room Corps” sparked a surge of criticism from bloggers for bringing back memories of the much-publicized video of marching Obama youth and Obama’s “civilian national security force,” which the candidate said in July would be just as powerful and well-funded as the U.S. military,” reports World Net Daily.
“Gateway Pundit called Obama’s plan the “creation of his Marxist youth corps,” and DBKP commented, “‘Choosing’ to serve should be approved by parents – not required by the government. No amount of good intentions can sugar-coat words like ‘mandatory,’ ‘compulsory’ or ‘required.’”
The fact that the language has been sanitized suggests the people behind Obama’s transition to power were worried about elevating the controversy surrounding Obama’s “national civilian security force,” a wildly popular story on the Internet and blogs, but one that has received scant attention from the mainstream media.
Despite the do*****ented fact that the text was altered on Friday, Obama kool-aid drinkers refuse to acknowledge it, claiming that bloggers simply made up the story and that the website was never changed.
“They are calling me — and all of you who have written about this so far — liars. Despite the facts of the screenshots. This is how far they are prepared to go,” writes one blogger, adding, “The highlighted text that was the subject of our previous article is just gone. Gone. Gone without explanation or acknowledgement. Furthermore one of their minions writes in a comment telling us that it was never there in the first place, that I misquoted it. Is it really going to be this easy to manipulate the truth, to manipulate us? Evidently they think so.”
A Newsvine blogger also described the efforts of Obama supporters to dismiss the story as a concocted hoax.
Fears of “youth brigades” or civilian stasi units increased following Obama’s appointment of Rahm Emanuel to chief-of staff.
In his book, “The Plan: Big Ideas for America,” Emanuel writes: “It’s time for a real Patriot Act that brings out the patriot in all of us. We propose universal civilian service for every young American. Under this plan, all Americans between the ages of 18 and 25 will be asked to serve their country by going through three months of basic training, civil defense preparation and community service.”
The book also notes, “Some Republicans will squeal about individual freedom, ruling out any likelihood that they would let people opt out of universal citizen service.”
Emanuel is also an enthusiastic supporter of the United States Public Service Academy Act, a lobbying group founded in 2006 in order to promote the foundation of an American public service academy modeled on the military academies – a youth corps whose students would be trained in “civilian internship in the armed forces”.
PURPPLE… I’ll say this, there’s a reason the white man dont have a problem with *****s going to church. cause the ***** you really should know….. aint there. The ONLY book a slave could read was a bible. Then as soon as slaves got off a boat, the first thing they did was baptize them. makes you go hmmmmmm
and yhea that oshie hoe love to comment on blacks, but she dont wanna go there. she gave us all a D, but I dont remember making that ***** my teacher. Just like a white person love us for entertainment purposes only, but anything else is bull***** to them. I’m not shucking and jiving for oshie or any other cracka.
Now that’s what you call GANGSTA!!! He don’t even have secret services around him. BIG UPS TO THE OBAMAS!!!
@Heavenly,
“My point is that black women always have.”
WRONG.
“We havent had a choice-if the man walked out we still had to make a way.”
WRONG.
“We have had to be the default leaders in our homes.”
WRONG.
Here we go again. The black female rehashing the same old story about how she has always been a paragon of responsibility and decision making and if it wasnt for those shiftless black men all would be good in the hood.
Black females have not alway stepped up. Because of age old gender dynamics, the only thing black females have to do is choose good partners. They have completely and totally failed at that. This has set in motion all of her problems, the children’s problem, the family’s problem, the community’s problem.
She became the socalled defualt head of the household because she choose incompetent men.
I have yet to decide whether black females intentionally chose to mate with poor quality men because she didnt want a father for her children or because she is just an idiot. Maybe a mix of both.
Listen, when black females choose good men, marry them, then have children with them and are subseqeuntly abandoned, widowed, or divorced, than she can sing her sawn song. Until them, she is either her own worst enemy or a complete idiot.
PURRPLE… yhea that’s the one
X…first of all what he spoke was true. Because your dumb ***** dont get it is your problem. He was only the vessel to display the information, and it was his choice to put it in his stand-up and make it funny. The information is not hidden, but if your eyes are wide shut then you will never see *****. Go ahead with YOUR ***** mentality, cause us real Black people are doing quite fine.
@Kigali
I guess I should be ashamed to be an African-American woman.
After all, Ida B. Wells fought against lynchings here and abroad.
Mary McLeod Bethune founded a college and was a strong proponent of education.
Shirley Chisholm ran for president in the 70s.
Zora Neale Hurston wrote books as one of the best known Harlem Renaissance writers.
Dr. Mae Jemison was the first black woman astronaut.
Oprah Winfrey is one of the wealthiest women in the world.
My mother, whose own parents never went to college, pursued her education, was a professional and raised a family.
Oh, and before I forget, Michelle Obama will become our nation’s first black First Lady.
Yeah, how could someone ever admire and respect black women like these?
X
just stop. real recognizes real so you wouldnt understand anything were saying about Eddie..dont try to throw in Katt cause all the *****s be riding his jock..he has nothing to do with what we are talking about. If you werent a *****, even though you havnt seen Eddies show im sure, you wouldnt have even opened your mouth cause youd know he hit on TRUTH. EVERY JOKE HAS SOME TRUTH TOO IT. betta believe dat.
“You guys forgot the BIG one….to all the brothas out there. MAN UP.
SO WHAT YOUR DAD WASNT IN YOUR LIFE.
SO WHAT YOU WERE RAISED BY A SINGLE MOM.
IT DOESNT STOP YOU FROM PUSHING THROUGH AND BEING..
A GOOD FATHER.
A GOOD HUSBAND.
A SUCCESSFUL MAN MAKING AN HONEST LIVING.
O P*****ED UP MAJOR CASH TO WORK AS A COMMUNITY ORGANIZER.
STOP SELLING DRUGS AND GET A REAL JOB.
REPRESENT.”
AMEN AMEN AMEN!! I was just about to say somethign right along these lines.. Everytime the conversation of black children comes up its always about the black woman aaccepting her mistakes and taking responsibility but always conveniently gos right over that the black male has the highest rate of child abandonment on the planet!!! When it comes to telling the black male step up and try harder at fatherhood then the person saying it is blacklisted by blacks like Bill Cosby or Al Sharpton or Jesse ‘Hot *****ing Mess’ Jackson wants to “cut their nuts off” like with Obama..
Give me a break!! Black males need to step up as well!! A woman does not impregnate herself!!!
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Preach. Church!! **Waving at smdh** Hey sis, I see your comments -and they just happen to be all true! How have you been? I haven’t seen you around lately! I hope your ok and don’t let these trife females or males, get you down! Stay up!
HOW IN THE HELL DID A THREAD ABOUT A NICE BLACK COUPLE, TURN INTO A BLACK MAN-BASHING FEST???????????????
OPENS BIBLE READS AUTHORIZED KING JAMES VERSION… TRANSLATED out of the OLD TOUNGES and with the FORMER TRANSLATIONS diligently COMPARED…
(side note) but wait they made… complied… whatever… they bible in 325 a.d. and left a bunch of ***** out…
cont… When James I ascended the throne in 1603, he found himself heir to the religious turmoil and confusion that had characterized the entire 16th century. IN THE HOPE OF BRINGING ORDER OUT OF THIS CHAOS… NEW TRANSLATION ACCEPTABLE AND USEFUL TO THE ENTIRE CHURCH…
Go Sydney! Madame C.J. Walker was missing from yor list. First black female, entrepreneur..Your right, nothing to look up to here..Harriet Tubman LEAD THE SLAVES TO FREEDOM…Don;t talk to me about strong black women. These chices are excellent! Thank you for choosing to stay true to all of our struggles….
@Nina Knows
You **********in right…the shyt they dont try to push on you or let you have is the shyt we need to be worried about.
And yes Ive seen Oshie say she is white so coming on a black blog and giving a conversation about a black issue a Boooo and a D… is very cracka like. why she even felt the need to comment I dont know. O well, she must know blacks will start shyt with everybody else including thier own before they attack m*****a…o well, if this wasn’t the computer, she wouldnt have had the ***** im sure.
I REPEAT:
@kigali
You sound like a one dimensional clown! Black men, like Barack Obama Sr, abandon their children more than any other race of man.
Barack Sr left Obama’s white mom holding the bag just like he did the mothers of ALL his children (black & white). And he was a HIGHLY educated man, not some “thug”. So get off these overplayed stereotypes.
Black man + Black woman = single black mother
Black man + White woman – single white mother
I’m happily married to a handsome, successful supportive man. Who like me, wouldn’t dare consider becoming a parent before marriage. Take a wild guess what color he is?
@ eddiedollars215
@X… I don’t believe conspiracy theories… I know about a few conspiracy realities… but yeah there is crazy disinfo out there… could i be a victim…? yeah no doubt… thats part of the problem… most ***** has a grain of truth but as time goes you/they add ***** until you get a story so far fetched… half of the so called “awake” are running around with copper coils and tin foil hats… hahahahahaha… but the bottom line is from the begining of time somone has always tried to rule the world… the thing is… try ***** they do… and its much worst then you or even I could ever imagine… my point is most people are sheep…
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OK! I get you now. I see what you think. Plus your non-defensive honesty is great!
I just have one thing to add, comment if you wish. You wrote: “from the begining of time somone has always tried to rule the world” This is true, but that is the nature of life. All living things seek to control thier own and even others territory.
In nature someone or something allways has to be in charge!
If were not living under this type of governmental system we would just be under a different one.
@ Eddie
I don’t know what I’m talking about but you can’t find fault with my statement?
I am well aware of the system the powers that be, the Rothschild family, the German-Jewish family that began their conquering of the world in the 1700 by obtaining power of all the world banks, how they used this power to influence wars in order to bankrupt countries and spread their power and influence, I’m aware of Obama’s pledge to Isreal and so on, I doubt you have anything I have not heard, you can liken him to the anti-christ a puppet or whatever you like, but if his election to the highest office of the land encourages millions of black people around the world it is a good thing. The world will still turn as it has always turned, the rich will get richer and the poor will get poorer and eventually there will be a change in power.
anyway NINA
i forgot to say I was surprised Eddie Grif was as on point as he was when i saw that stand up
@notimeforfakeones
“Go Sydney! Madame C.J. Walker was missing from yor list. First black female, entrepreneur..Your right, nothing to look up to here..Harriet Tubman LEAD THE SLAVES TO FREEDOM…Don;t talk to me about strong black women. These chices are excellent! Thank you for choosing to stay true to all of our struggles….”
I knew I left out a bunch. Thanks for the additions! Let’s keep it going. Feel free to list more examples.
How could I forget:
Rosa Parks — who made the power of one individual’s actions palpable to millions across the nation
Sojourner Truth — who proclaimed “Ain’t I a woman?”
Fannie Lou Hamer — who put her life on the line and suffered horrendous beatings as a civil rights activist
@Sydney,
“You’re taking hyperbole to another level. What on earth are you talking about?”
Black females are despotic. Like any old dictator, she cant be critized, she is to be adulated no matter what, and she uses race, gender, and our historical legacy in this country to brow beat blacks into submission. She is the new fascism.
From The Oxford American Dictionary:
The term Fascism was first used of the totalitarian right-wing nationalist regime of Mussolini in Italy (1922–43), and the regimes of the *****s in Germany and Franco in Spain were also fascist. Fascism tends to include a belief in the supremacy of one national or ethnic group (in this case, the socalled Strong Independent black woman), a contempt for democracy (No freedom to criticize her, she is to rules without opposition- she will crush any black man who tries to oppose her and threaten any black woman who disagrees with her) an insistence on obedience to a powerful leader (The strong indepdent black woman), and a strong demagogic approach (her stank ***** Diva attitude).
She fits the modern description what a fascist leader is. There arent millions of Michella Obamas in America, rather millions of Hitlers and Musolinis.
“Are you familiar with all the “delightful” black women who have existed in this country throughout history and continue to make their mark?”
Yes, but these women either no longer exist or are a shrinking minority.
Eddiedollars215…
They dont understand that. You can throw down actual facts all day and a ***** will walk right over the *****. You can show them the proof, but all a white man has to do is tell it to them, and they stop drop and believe anything. Thank God I was giving the ablity to think outside the box.
PURPPLE…
I swear your my cyber twin! lol…yhea and dont let me get started on our so-called colleges, and education system. Note: ***** is free for a reason…. watch out for them free flu shots too. You have to have a third eye for bull*****.
Michelle need to stop wearing the rubberband ponytail.
@kigali
“There arent millions of Michella Obamas in America, rather millions of Hitlers and Musolinis.”
So you’re comparing black women to Hitler and Mussolini???
And I do find it more than a little ironic that you rail against the so-called “average black women” qualities that include a “stank attitude” when you’re exhibiting these same characteristics in your posts.
You know, it’s human nature to despise in others what we dislike within ourselves — perhaps you exhibit many of these abhorrent qualities. I think you’re projecting your own faults onto a faceless m***** of women you’ve never met.
@ Nina Knows
@ PURRPLE
I’ll just address you two together. I don’t know why you want to insult me, when I did not insult you.
Lets cut out the comedians jokes and the history of religion and just get to the point.
Good Black people with educations, jobs, and who take care of thier responsibilities,(like myself) are not the problem in the Black community.
*****s who commit crimes, drop out of school, and run from obligations, are the problem. Until we as a people collectively come together to solve THAT problem,(like myself) nothing else will matter.
Now if either of you have a problem with that. Then it is easy to see who is who.
Why is it most Blacks will believe some fairy tales told in a book written by a social outcast (King James) but will not believe the information that is right in their faces? We were force fed a religion during the time of slavery. So, am I to believe that of all the atrocities done to us in slavery, m*****ah was going to give us one GOOD thing and enlighten us to some sort of truth? “Nina Knows” is right. It is the ONE book we were allowed to have (Bible) and the ONE time we could congregate (church). Our true sense of self was stolen and we never got it back. Instead we cling on to the same people for acceptance that enslaved us and wait to die for salvation, all in the name of being a “good” Christian. Slave mentality personified.
@Kigali~
Im afraid its you who is wrong. Whether the woman made a good/bad choice, whether she was fooled or fooled herself, bottom line, when it comes time to raise that baby…its HERS. If the sistah suffers from anything, I believe its a longing within in the woman to be cleaved to the man and sistah’s understanding (greater than any other woman can) what the brothah has had to endure and therefore she is more forgiving and less demanding. It is her determination to be with the blackman that has been taken advantage of. She longs to help someone find value in himself who doesnt see the value in himself. So as he rejects himself, he rejects her. Her reward is to be called a fool as you have said? Sistahs are willing to work with brothas–she loves his black ***** when no one else will. She sees potential where others see just another ni**A. She can see the beauty in his face when he doesnt have a pot to ***** in. She longs to validate him and be validated BY him….if that makes her an idiot and her own worst enemy…I dunno what to say.
@Kilstupid- The point is that they did exist. And they were strong and postive. they had a lot going agaonst them, and they still towed the line. They still stood for what they believed in, they did not turn their backs on their race, they embraced it. They tried to change the things that were negative, they realized you can’t get anywhere, putting people down. You have to raise them up. I will not say that black women don’t need to be strong. There are all kinds of people, that make up our race. We cannot be defined, by our race. We excel. We have fallen but guaranteed to rise again. You still have not explained why you hate all black women and love to stereotype and crticize, especially when you do nothing to help. But stand there regularly to cut down and tear apart. Willie Lynch is alive and well, in her project tenement and always will be. I don’t believe anyone can talk any sense into her..She always hood bound and can’t see anything else, except for the hood, that’s the ‘hood vision’, I was talking about, some people you have to give up on, like KILRETARD- she’s lost and there is NO help for her, she likes the way she is and noone can tell her anything. Every black woman should be subserivient and stand 10 feet behind their men, they should be *corrected** by being slapped in the mouth or beaten–that’s what Kiltrash said–
Why would you ladies even bother?? She can’t understand because that would require a brain.
@heavenly–”@Kigali~Im afraid its you who is wrong. Whether the woman made a good/bad choice, whether she was fooled or fooled herself, bottom line, when it comes time to raise that baby…its HERS. If the sistah suffers from anything, I believe its a longing within in the woman to be cleaved to the man and sistah’s understanding (greater than any other woman can) what the brothah has had to endure and therefore she is more forgiving and less demanding. It is her determination to be with the blackman that has been taken advantage of. She longs to help someone find value in himself who doesnt see the value in himself. So as he rejects himself, he rejects her. Her reward is to be called a fool as you have said? Sistahs are willing to work with brothas–she loves his black ***** when no one else will. She sees potential where others see just another ni**A. She can see the beauty in his face when he doesnt have a pot to ***** in. She longs to validate him and be validated BY him….if that makes her an idiot and her own worst enemy…I dunno what to say.”
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CHURCH. KEEP PREACHING, BUT BE AWARE IF THEY ARE STUPID AND BLIND THEY CANNOT HEAR YOU!….
blaq
@ X
you will not likely get a response from those who relish in their narrow views and self hatred,
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Actually have some responses! You just have to come at them in a nuetral fashion. If they snap, don’t snap back.
At least not right away! lol!!!
X…
I guess I will speak for Purrple and myself when I say I dont disagree with what you just said. You are the one who said we had ***** mentalites because we mentioned a skit by Eddie Griffin. Actually there was a slight “inside joke” with that from another one of his skits we both thought were funny.
Now I havent read all your comments, but that last one I have no problem with. If you scroll up Purpple and I comments are basically what you just put. So I dont know what to tell you.
There is a difference between *****s and black people and that’s what we were speaking on. and we dont have to cut out what eddie grif. said because it pretained to what we were speaking on.
You confused me bruh…..
@ Nina Knows
I know girl Its good to see other Innately and Intellectually intelligent Black folks. You cant buy common sense and I wouldn’t trade it for 10 PHD’s..And I feel you hell to the NO for flue shots as well as that other bullshyt….YOUR THIRD EYE NEVER LIES..YOUR PINEAL IS XTRA REAL.
@ Kigali
Just a question where is this pool of good black men who were overlooked by these black females?
You mean to tell me these good black men failed to create families, reproduce, they just dried up and blew away? You act as though these single mothers trampled over all these excellent examples of black manhood to obtain the drug addicted felon to just father their children so they could continue to have nothing and ensure their offspring also had nothing? This notion that these black females just woke up one day and said I’m gonna discard all of my family values and pursue a life of poverty and misery, that’s what I want a man in jail, i don’t want my children to have fathers, I want to be lonely and an outcast of society. These are the black females you speak of.
Or is it possible that we live in a society that worships the dollar. Than Regan era sent millions of blue collar jobs to other countries causing such a rise in unemployment that working cl***** cities across the country were thrust into poverty. That the introduction of crack cocaine into depressed neighborhoods became a means of survival in prosperity. A teenage boy who’s father has left the household due to his inability to support the family aided by the mothers willingness to feed the family got rid of her unemployed husband in order to receive aid to feed the family. Successful black people running from their roots and abandoning their communities. Thousands of addicts having children that would later be raised by the state then released to the world with no morals, home training, guidance and support. What does a black female know about choosing a proper mate or raising a family when she grew up in foster care. Instead of trying to show the black female how *****ed up she is, try and figure out how she got there, as to avoid repeating the scenario, then we can move on.
@X… I can only speak for myself and my be lie fs… but man is not evil by nature… God and by god I mean the creator of all not some architect… man builds God creates… doesn’t create evil… man is stupid… we good and mix multiple things that by themselves are good… kind of like piano notes… evil is merely the playing of bad chords…
@blaq… you just proved my point… knowing what you just professed to know… you still don’t get it… you are talking about the self esteem… jesus *****ing christ this is the god damn problem… spare me your we shall overcome bull*****… not all of us we/are hat tippin’ yes m*****as’… you don’t get it… you don’t know what you are talking about… that was the whole point of Obama… John McSame would have been a lame duck day 1… BARACK IS NOT THE ANTI CHRIST… HE IS MERELY A SOCK PUPPET… everybody was starting to see the light… you can see right through bush… so you bring in cousin barack… I can’t adequately explain this in text but you clearly don’t get it… you KNOW some ***** but you have not yet broken through the left right paradigm… George Bush sets up all the brand new presidential powers for BARACK TO USE… YOU ACT LIKE I’M SUPPOSED TO BE HAPPY BECAUSE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HISTORY… THE BANKERS HAVE CHOSEN A HALF BLACK COUSIN (WITH NO SLAVE BLOOD)… RAISED ABROAD… AND IN HAWAII BY “TYPICAL” (HIS WORDS NOT MINE) WHITE POPLE FROM KANSAS… SELECTED A FORMER POVERTY PIMP FOR THE FORD FOUNDATION… TO BE THEIR SOCK PUPPET…
@ Illuminate Truth
Why is it most Blacks will believe some fairy tales told in a book written by a social outcast (King James) but will not believe the information that is right in their faces?
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What information right in our faces do you want us to believe?
I luv them!
@ Kigali
If the black female is a fascist, believing she is superior why does she parti*****te is so many rituals of self hatred?
Bella, just because no one is checking for you doesn’t mean that black men don’t appreciate the darker sisters. Maybe it’s just YOU!!!
Eddie, stfu!
SO GLAD TO SEE A POSITIVE IMAGE OF A BLACK FAMILY,WE NEED TO SEE THIS MORE OFTEN, WE AS A PEOPLE NEED TO DO BETTER,STRIVE FOR WHAT EVER YOU WANT, WORK HARD FOR WHAT YOU WANT,NO ONE IS GOING TO JUST GIVE IT TO YOU,YOU CAN DO IT,EDUCATION IS SO IMPORTANT,KIDS TODAY NEED TO STRIVE TO BE BUSINESS OWNERS, DOCTORS AND LAWYERS,NOT JUST RAPPERS,SINGERS, NBA OR NFL PLAYERS,THAT INDUSTRY IS TOUGH EVERYONE CANT MAKE IT BIG.
@smdh… if I was one of those fake christian types I would say some ***** like I’m gonna pray for you… you are the epitome of self hate and delusion… I hope one day you achieve peace with in and truth, but you seem to be so full of hate I doubt that is likely…
PURPPLE…
Thank you kindly! Your post always have me laughing, mainly because it’s exactly what I would have said. X got us confused off of one comment we made to each other, he/she should scroll up. I dont think either one of us suffer from *****ness. lol
@ X
you may not agree with thing i said, you make think differently but at the end of the day what you just said is noting different from what Nina or I have been saying. Dont try to rationalize my thoughts into what you think they should be. You have your Martins(you), you have your Malcolm’s and Black Panthers(Me) and you have your Jesse’s so there are MANY different methodologies and thoughts on the BLACK PLIGHT.If we disagree or get into intelligent debate then so be it. I dont have a problem with what you said because that is already established, you arent saying anything new.
Loving the Obamas.Cl*****,Intelligence and Power!!! And Michelle is Fly as hell with them boots.
@ Nina Knows
X…
I guess I will speak for Purrple and myself when I say I dont disagree with what you just said. You are the one who said we had ***** mentalites because we mentioned a skit by Eddie Griffin. Actually there was a slight “inside joke” with that from another one of his skits we both thought were funny.
Now I havent read all your comments, but that last one I have no problem with. If you scroll up Purpple and I comments are basically what you just put. So I dont know what to tell you.
There is a difference between *****s and black people and that’s what we were speaking on. and we dont have to cut out what eddie grif. said because it pretained to what we were speaking on.
You confused me bruh…..
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Don’t be confused. And I’m glad you agreed with my last post becase that’s the bottom line. There is a difference in the two one helps the other hurts. I’m gald you are least on the right side of the Black issue.
A black comedian was praised while Christianity was bashed. I simply stood up for my faith. It has not destroyed any Black person that I know. But I do know plenty of Black people who never shared the faith and thier lives were and are far from desirable. That is the only thing I can say on that.
@ Eddie
I don’t want you to be happy about anything. If Barack makes the hat tippin’ house *****’s happy so be it. It is obvious I am neither stupid or ignorant. What is the point you are trying to make that
Obama is a puppet, aren’t all politicians?
We should not be happy Obama is president because it is just more of the same?
Throw black people a token and we’ll shut up about freedom?
Honestly I did not read all of your post, But the people who “saw the light” are not blinded by this presidency they still know what’s really going on.
So what point did I miss?
@ Nina
exactly we been saying this shyt aint nothing new
and yes sometimes i read ur comment like did i post that??LOL..then look at the name and see i didnt.
PURPPLE…
I ALWAYS do the martin/malcolm *****ogy.
I am such a *****ing Malcolm, Black Panther it’s sick. I will not shut the ***** up and pray for you, but I will beat your ***** and teach you better.
I can imagine the number of sistas that looked over nerdy little Barrack back in the day Before Michelle got him and supported him in the fullest.
@Eddie
YOU ACT LIKE I’M SUPPOSED TO BE HAPPY BECAUSE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HISTORY… THE BANKERS HAVE CHOSEN A HALF BLACK COUSIN (WITH NO SLAVE BLOOD)… RAISED ABROAD… AND IN HAWAII BY “TYPICAL” (HIS WORDS NOT MINE) WHITE POPLE FROM KANSAS… SELECTED A FORMER POVERTY PIMP FOR THE FORD FOUNDATION… TO BE THEIR SOCK PUPPET…”
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Here’s whats hard for me to understand. If the position doesnt mean sh*T then why would they fight so damn hard to keep it to themselves? Even if you subscribed to the belief that the position itself was a puppet, you have to look at the systematic way that people of color have been treated over the past 200 years and realize, there was at least a two fold goal of denying access and depressing the spirit.
So you say that these bankers needed to put a different face on their puppet in order to maintain power–ok…but the trade off was that people of color, around the world woke up to a new sense of awareness and a new consciousness of what frames their reality. They may have thought the monetary gain was the greater purse, but the boundless spirit of a people is without price and the possibilities without measure.
@Nina Knows
Exactly!!!!!!!!!! Only thing is Im threw tryna convince people OR “make them see”, evidence of everything I state is out there and if you don’t get it, u just dont *****in get it…lmao@beat your ***** and teach you better…word!
BLACK FIST IN THE AIR AT THE OLYMPICS FOR THAT ONE LADY!!!
@ X
Start with eddiedollars215 posts (he breaks it down better than I can) and follow your questions. My point is that most people will believe in something written during the Renaissance era (time of change ironically…..do you know what they were changing FROM?) and never question it. Then it is force fed during a time where you KNOW that our best interest is not at heart, yet we accept it blindly. Then we question Brothas like eddiedollar without even researching the truth of what he says. Christianity was given to us WITH an agenda attached….much like the propoganda we are faced with daily….actually exactly like it.
@Eddie
THERE IS NO POINT BRINGING FACTS AND LOGIC INTO AN EMOTIONAL CONVERSATION OR ARGUMENT. no offense to anyone else but if people could only check their emotions at the door sometimes….
PURPPLE…
(from your last comment)…..In other words stop being so damn sensitive. lmao
@ PURPPLE
“Things are the same the as the day they were before Obama even came on the scene. He just gave Blacks more reason to shout loud while SAYING NOTHING.”
“Christianity..just another part of the problem for *****s but i surely wont go there….”
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I read these two cooments by you earlier. They read as being from someone who was not Black; and did not have Black people’s best intentions in mind, by saying they were shouting about nothing, and calling them *****s.
Since you say you are all for what is good and right in the Black community then we have an accord.
I would share, but Eddie, Nina, Purple, and Illuminate share my sentiments….
On another note, p***** the word and SAY NO TO CODEX ALIMENTARIUS, WE HAVE UNTIL MARCH 2009 TO DO THIS, IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS LOOK IT UP…
WHAT CODEX WILL BRING
What can we expect under Codex? To give you an idea, here are some important points:
Dietary supplements could not be sold for preventive (prophylactic) or therapeutic use.
Potencies would be limited to extremely low dosages. Only the drug companies and the big phytopharmaceutical companies would have the right to produce and sell the higher potency products (at inflated prices).
Prescriptions would be required for anything above the extremely low doses allowed (such as 35 mg. on niacin).
Common foods such as garlic and peppermint would be cl*****ified as drugs or a third category (neither food nor drugs) that only big pharmaceutical companies could regulate and sell. Any food with any therapeutic effect can be considered a drug, even benign everyday substances like water.
Codex regulations for dietary supplements would become binding (escape clauses would be eliminated).
All new dietary supplements would be banned unless they go through Codex testing and approval.
Genetically altered food would be sold worldwide without labeling.
SAY NO TO CODEX ALIMENTARIUS
SAY NO TO CODEX ALIMENTARIUS
SAY NO TO CODEX ALIMENTARIUS
SAY NO TO CODEX ALIMENTARIUS
SAY NO TO CODEX ALIMENTARIUS
THE IS TRULY THE BADDEST ***** (NEXT TO OPRAH) AND A NUMBER 1 STUNNA (NEXT TO ME)!!!
THEY DOING THE GODDAMN THANG IN THE CHI!!!
@blaq… I guess you get my points and I’m just frustrated at the renew apathy… hahahahaha… change my “i’m supposed to be happy to” (your words… It is a good thing that)… but my point about the hat tippin’ wasn’t really about obama but more to the victim/inferiority complex within most black people… it pains me that most people don’t see this man for what he is… and those that seemingly don’t care… this is just like when we celebrated R.R. Morton and then he gave us syphilis…
Nov 10, 2008 – 4:30 pm pm
I can imagine the number of sistas that looked over nerdy little Barrack back in the day Before Michelle got him and supported him in the fullest.
KEEP ON IMAGINING! Per Barack himself, he was NEVER a nerd! He was as he puts it, a student “who did just enough to get by”; until he hit college He was on the basketball team and very popular.
I get so tired of you lames trying to claim Barack. You don’t have to choose, one can be scholarly without being Urkel.
@X
trust me If there was ANY gain to me sitting here trying to break my comments and Obama sentiments down to you I would. It’s not meant for everybody to understand which is unfortunate. The younger generation is through with Christianity, Political Lies and *****s pretending to be “Black People”. The one riding for the community IS NEVER THE SHINY NEGRO…ITS THE SPOOK BEHIND THE DOOR…BET THAT. yeah we “may” be on the same accord with totally different methodologies but I am yet to see.
@ Illuminate Truth
So you are saying the things people write on a gossip blog are the absolute truth? They have no agenda or are not propaganda?
Should we not question thier writings and just accept it as is? Are we just supposed to get in line and follow behind them where ever they lead us?
I think I know what kind of response I will get, and I have a great response for that!
@pm
“I can imagine the number of sistas that looked over nerdy little Barrack back in the day Before Michelle got him and supported him in the fullest.”
For the last time, Barack Obama has never publicly expressed any displeasure with black women. Please stop projecting your issues on a man who never claimed them.
PM,
If anything, how many SUPERFICIAL BLACK MEN, searching for Halle Berry overlooked Michelle?
I can’t tell you all the insulting comments I’ve heard thrown at Michelle because of her looks. Superficial dudes checking for barbie dolls get what they deserve when ol’ girls turns out to be yapid and so self involved that she can’t stand with you when it matters.
Redd Tony
THAT CODEX THING IS SERIOUS!!!! Im stocking my seeds and natural herb/plant resources up cause they fitting to one world our azzez!!!
PURPPLE
Redd Tony
THAT CODEX THING IS SERIOUS!!!! Im stocking my seeds and natural herb/plant resources up cause they fitting to one world our azzez!!!
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I know, let see if Barack got our back on this one…I think not…
@pm
Also, if you’re familiar with Obama’s biography, you would know that he spent many of his formative years in diverse environments, and I’ve rarely seen black girls in his old school photos.
Besides, if you were rejected by sistas in school, guess what, that’s the past. I was also a black nerd — I got over it!
@Heavenly,
Ahhh…What? Your hagiography of the black female pysche is bizzare. Black females have spent the better part of the past 30-40 years being more dangerous to this black man she socalled loves and respects than the KKK and the penitenary.
I am a step away of advocating strict segregationist policies between black men and women so that black men can be in safety and security rebuilding everything that the black female stripped of him or failed to instill in him.
Dont give me this bull***** about black females loving black men. If she loved them she would covet and value in a man the best qualities and she would try to encourage the same qualities within her children. She does none of the above.
SMH at people trying to recruit members for the Bitter Black Men/Women Club. . . .
Sydney,
Not only that. The girlfriend Barack credits as making him take a serious look at himself and changing for the better was a balck girl he dated during his freshman year at Columbia.
The lames are trying desperately to recruit Barack. Sorry, dude is brilliant, handsome, harbors no hate for women as a whole (black or otherwise). Why would he?
Redd Tony…
Yhea it’s the battle of two eyes vs. three eyes today…lol
Thats intresting, I read up someting similar to that before. Over the counter drugs as we know it, that are easy to come by, will soon be extremely hard to get. If we can get them at all. Simple vitamins will damn near be taboo. It’s slowly happening right now, they’ve already started watching certain over the counters and covering it up to say, drug dealers use it to make x pills and *****. that’s not the real reason they are cutting down our medicine in drug stores.
@ X
I’m not telling you to accept ANYTHING. That is the polar opposite of what my point is. Research it for yourself. Use facts to support logic. Critical thinking Brah. Is that the response you are waiting for?
@Redd
I was about to say yeah right…and
at the fact everybodys so enamored with Obama that they think they can rest easy while they make this shyt law right infront our daym faces.
I lost “hope for change” when I heard him say we will get Bin Laden or Iraqi terrorist or something to that effect. I said not you too….
@iLuvyelloBoyz
Tell me if I’m imagining this — but didn’t the two of us cover this topic a while ago on this blog? lol
I didn’t know that about his Columbia experience — Thanks!
Yeah, harboring bitterness and resentment is not his style. And thank the Lord for that!
Nina Knows
Redd Tony…
Yhea it’s the battle of two eyes vs. three eyes today…lol
Thats intresting, I read up someting similar to that before. Over the counter drugs as we know it, that are easy to come by, will soon be extremely hard to get. If we can get them at all. Simple vitamins will damn near be taboo. It’s slowly happening right now, they’ve already started watching certain over the counters and covering it up to say, drug dealers use it to make x pills and *****. that’s not the real reason they are cutting down our medicine in drug stores
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No doubt..lets spread the word. If we know this, we need to be educating people the best way we can..Even if it still p*****es at least we tried..
I love to see Michelle and Obama out together they make such a HOT couple. And of course young people will look towards the Obamas as role models, because he’s a black President and she’s a black first lady. So, it’s natural. For me, they are more of a role model than Jada and Will, because they are educated and not apart of Holllywood, and don’t feel it’s necessary to say they have an open marriage, or say things to get attention. The Obamas’ are two black people who worked hard to get to the highest office in the land, not by a ball or through their voice, but they use their brains. Respect that. And, for all those who are hating the fact that people are calling them role models, well look at it like this, Follow God’s plan , look up to him, because if you live the way God wants you to live, than that’s the right path. But, to deter these young people from looking up to a positive image of people that look like them, is sad. They can see that Obama made it by being a nerd, they can too, they don’t have to follow the crowd and be an idiot in cl*****.
@blaq,
I am not Dr. Phill. I imagine that there is a thin line between extreme narcissim and extreme masochism. When you think about it, black females dont actually think they are hurting themselves. Because they are perpetual victims when they are confront with pain and defeat there is always someone to blame. Black females are enigmatic that way.
X Illuminati Truth just said the realest thing anyone will ever tell you, DONT LISTEN TO SHYT WE OR ANYBODY ELSE IS SAYING, DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH!!!!!!!!
@heavenly… this will be hard to understand… I can’t explain it fully on here but… if you look at the way people of color have been treated over the past 4400 years… the usual Frances Welsing sp? conclusion is that racism goes back to white genetic annihilation… this is true but only part of the story… racism (and we’re not going to debate system vs. whatever) goes back to tribalism… racism or at least the categorization i.e. negroid, caucasoid, ect. is a product of the 19th century… before then for the most part everybody was a different race… i.e. saxon, norman TRIBALISM… if you look at the population of the world you see the same end game in place… their is a deeper division not one of black vs white but more to the zionist… wether they be jewish, gentile, teutonic/tentonic, germanic master race… if you look you literally see these people come into and out of egypt… like i said it can be really easy to wind up with a copper coil and tin foil hat…
Sup Illuminate!
I tried to plug in that link you gave me on Heligan Philosophy but it didnt work..can you provide it again?
@Heavenly- See how stupid some people are? They just don’t get it..”Dont give me this bull***** about black females loving black men. If she loved them she would covet and value in a man the best qualities and she would try to encourage the same qualities within her children. She does none of the above.”
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@KIGALI- (the only one whose mother should’ve practiced birth control)–Obviously, you have never known love between a black couple, otherwise you wouldn’t hate yourself so much….I love quality black men. I love quality black women. The people that Kilghetto speaks of, is the life that she lives and notice how there is never anything good in her posts..She single handedly is the most backward thing to come out since slavery and all negroes like these, should be disposed of….As quickly and efficiently as possible…And they say you can teach a new dog new tricks….Right, this trifling dirt bag wouldn’t appreciate a positive black woman or man, if they smacked her in the face….Her mother was negative, her father (if there, or her mother even knew who he was) ws negative and everything around her tenement negative,too. It must really suck to be her….Keep it up with the broken gl*****, ***** everywhere, liquor bottles, that’s where you belong…
No one cares about you advocating segregationist policies, you are not in power and noone listens to you except for mentally challenged people–mainly sorry, good for nothing, record having,can’t get no job, got a whole bunch of kids, bad credit, homo on the under, or white woman loving, black hating male….I hope you find one just like you, so you can continue to grow backwards…What a worthless piece of garbage…
Redd Tony
Yeah, I heard about Codex and all its ramifications. I didn’t know they were so close to making it the law of the land. I guess we have to receive our nutrition the old fashioned way…..eat to live. Problem is with so many genetically altered fruits and vegetables (I heard they crossed a tomato with a damn trout) that will be near impossible unless we grow it ourselves.
BTW, did you get the post I sent you about Hegelian philosophy on Friday?
@Kigali
I read your posts sometimes, and I think to myself. . .
Thank goodness for gun control.
As a black man, there is no need to take offense at posts of hatred from delusional “queens,” outsiders, and other distractions who arbitrarily anoint themselves as capable of defining and explaining the black man. We certainly don’t mind them. I learned from my own father that as a black man, everyone will hate, and that as a man, I should never expect gratitude or praise. It just doesn’t work that way.
However, the idea that something so beautiful as what happened this past election day is ammunition for ANY group to spit at another, whether across gender or racial lines is stupid and moronic. If the appearance of Barack and Michelle wasn’t enough to inspire you to look at yourself and only yourself, then you were most certainly part of the problem before the election, and you will probably continue to play that role afterward. Either that or you already perfect, and I think that it’s safe to say that so many of you are.
Kigali, pls don’t go there with the victim mentality.
“we can’t get nowhere becasue they give all of you (black women) the good jobs”
“they always tryin to keep a brotha down”
I could go on!
There is a huge example of stupidity and NOT to what raise your children like…May I present to you…kigali
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If you love yourself or your family STAY FAR AWAY FROM THIS MISERABLE HATER, WHO WISHES SHE WAS DR.PHIL….NOTHING EVER POSTIVE TO SAY..I CAN USE BIG WORDS AND NOT KNOW THE MEANING OR CONTEXT OF WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY…..LOOK AT ME, SEE HOW SMART I AM? (Where’s a good violent black man to slap the taste out of your mouth, when you need one to take out the trash–Kigali-that would be you–the trash…)
Peace Redd,
I’m going to put it in again but bossip won’t allow me to post it as a straight link. You gonna have to type it in yourself.
h t t p: / / philosophy.eserver.org/hegel-summary.html
This stupid kigali ***** act like black men are s***** from a sea pod. Talking about remove all the black men. Damn ***** it takes a black female and a black male to birth another black male.
Or was your dumb ***** smoking crack in biology cl*****. What a dumb *****.
If I knew how to hack a computer, you would be one multilated ***** *****er. SMH
Fixing the problems in the black community is one thing, but removing one gender from the other is some more *****. Unless you trying to wipe out all black exsistence. Who the ***** knows with this *****.
@ redd there is a book i’m reading called the aquaian gospel of jesus the christ… you might want to check it… I’m a little weary of the fact the author claims to have transcribed it from the akashic records… and they describe jesus as fair haired with blue eyes… but they break a lot of ***** down about the supposed lost years… (side note… were in pisces going into aquarius… supposedly) and I may be mistaken but I thought codex went into effect… 12/31/09… I know they are already implementing it but did they move the deadline up?
To all who are talking about other black leaders and important people in history:
This is Obama’s time. We know MLK and the others struggled and fought for Civil Rights, but this is not their time. This is his. He’s the one that is begining a new chapter in the world. He’s the one that is changing the landscape. Let him have his moment. And although, I’m grateful for the work that MLK and others did, my uttmost gratitude is to the slave. The slave that survive the bondage of being traded by his African brothers to the Arabs , than to the Dutch. The slave that survivived the months on route to the Americas. Who watched his brothers and sisters tossed into the ocean with chains and fell to the bottom of the ocean floor. The slave who was sold, the slave who risked his life for his family. The slave who face humiliation the likes no modern man could understand. The slave who fought for his freedom. And the slave that survived being sold like chattel in front of the White House. Who spent years doing labor no man should have to do. To the black men who wore signs “I AM A MAN”. If it wasn’t for these simple acts there would never be an Obama.
Sydney,
I believe we did. These “men” are so sad. Their hate for black women is so potent it’s pathetic. When the reality doesn’t fit there agenda they’ll just make it all up.
Yes, Barack said his ego and *****iness was out of control and unproductive. He was partying, being kind og a jerk and not taking the feelings of others into consideration. One moring his then girlfriend came to his dorm room and saw what a mess him and his friends left for the cleaning lady. He dais, she screamed and let him have it! And reminded him that the woman cleaning up that mess could very well be either of their grandmothers. And to not tkae the opportunity to be at an ivy league school go to waste.
I am a step away of advocating strict segregationist policies between black men and women so that black men can be in safety and security rebuilding everything that the black female stripped of him or failed to instill in him.
Dont give me this bull***** about black females loving black men. If she loved them she would covet and value in a man the best qualities and she would try to encourage the same qualities within her children. She does none of the above
Mkay..from the first paragraph its clear that you are out of your mind. The black woman stripped the man? WHEN? HOW? If I recall it was back in slavery that the blackman was stripped of his position. The BM had to hide in the barn while his woman was raped by the slavemaster and be silent as his children were sold away. His spirit was broken back THEN. He was stripped of his self esteem back THEN. In the meanwhile sistahs have had to do what they do-HOLD UP THE FAMILY. If the sistahs have lost their own way along the way its because the men are still hiding in the barn.
As for your incredulousness about the idea BW loving BM…you must not be either.
Illuminate Truth
Peace Redd,
I’m going to put it in again but bossip won’t allow me to post it as a straight link. You gonna have to type it in yourself.
h t t p: / / philosophy.eserver.org/hegel-summary.html
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Peace Blood!
Ah ha!…Got it mayne! This text is much better…lol
@ Kigali
No response huh? Not surprised, but you really should have more faith in the black male, if he can’t deal with this “black female” you speak of how is he going to deal with the white man, the government. If this black man was incapable of instilling enough value in his daughters to choose suitable men and to keeps his sons out of jail, how will he overcome those who encourage the ideal of the helpless black man how will he ever find someone to marry, since black women are so in the minority.LMAO. Oh yeah we should go to Africa, where the black man and woman don’t have the issues we black americans have. I mean it’s not like their countries have been ruled by the same people who enslaved us. There’s no poverty, AIDS, drugs, or abuse of women there. The carribean doesn’t have baby momma’s and video vixens right. Black people around the world don’t look to us and our leaders with hope and pride right? I guess I should subscribe to Kigalis philosophy of the Black female ain’t *****, ain’t never been *****, won’t ever be *****, and the black man is too weak to do anything but follow her lead and not be ***** either.
@ PURPPLE
I can understand you not wanting to state your exact wiews and sentiments in your comments.
As far as my personal experience goes, young Black people are not “through” with Christianity. Many still care and share the faith. Most people dislikes political lies, and *****ody really likes “*****s” do they?
Like I said, I’m active in the Black community helping young people to see, believe and strive for a better way of living. I’m out there on the street, in the park, at the hang-out spot offering help. Not hiding behind a door.
The only people who do not want to see me and people like me come around are the; drug dealers, thugs, pimps, and other criminals who count on us not showing up, so they can continue to destroy.
@Blaq,
Girl stop. I have answered that age old question. Yes the chicken did come before the egg. The chicken is the black female, the egg is her children. She being a chicken (head) with all that that entails, ruined the egg, her children, and failed to produce enough good black men at replacement level. So, I am in my late 20s. That means when my daughters grow up and are looking for a husband, the women are my generation are directly responsible for not having raised enough good black men that my daughters can marry. Now you see the ripple effects? Its its bad in my age bracket, its even worse for women younger than me.
So, no. Black females didnt just wake up and begin eating the flesh of good black men. They just rewarded the bad boys and gave incentive to their bad behavior. Not only did this encourage the boys who were already bad, but those who were on the fence, the vulnerable.
Nina Knows
Oshie…..
Boooo you *****, this entire conversation doesnt even concern you. Your not black, and I see your only joy from us is when your being entertained. You probably bump our music, and jack our swag, and use our lingo, but when a real situation arises, we get a boo. ***** go kick rocks, realwoman already blasted your *****.
take your bubblegum blogging ***** elsewhere.
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I wasn’t even talking to you you bitter *****…. but you get a booo as well.
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
eddiedollars215
@ redd there is a book i’m reading called the aquaian gospel of jesus the christ… you might want to check it… I’m a little weary of the fact the author claims to have transcribed it from the akashic records… and they describe jesus as fair haired with blue eyes… but they break a lot of ***** down about the supposed lost years… (side note… were in pisces going into aquarius… supposedly) and I may be mistaken but I thought codex went into effect… 12/31/09… I know they are already implementing it but did they move the deadline up?
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Ill check out that book…good looking out…
According to most of my sources the global implementation of Codex should be in effect by 2010, as for America, they say by April 2009…I said March 2009 before, cuz you no how some Negros be late in all..lol j/k
@ Redd Tony
Lol. Yeah. Hegel’s writings had me like…huh? Like I said on Friday, the book America’s Secret Establishment by Antony Sutton (primarily about Skull and Bones) has a chapter dedicated to Hegelian philosophy and how it is implemented in our day to day lives (especially education). Worth checking out based on that chapter alone.
Heavenly:
Mkay..from the first paragraph its clear that you are out of your mind. The black woman stripped the man? WHEN? HOW? If I recall it was back in slavery that the blackman was stripped of his position. The BM had to hide in the barn while his woman was raped by the slavemaster and be silent as his children were sold away. His spirit was broken back THEN. He was stripped of his self esteem back THEN. In the meanwhile sistahs have had to do what they do-HOLD UP THE FAMILY. If the sistahs have lost their own way along the way its because the men are still hiding in the barn.
LOL, I’ve been saying this for ages!
@blaq,
I am not Dr. Phill. I imagine that there is a thin line between extreme narcissim and extreme masochism. When you think about it, black females dont actually think they are hurting themselves. Because they are perpetual victims when they are confront with pain and defeat there is always someone to blame. Black females are enigmatic that way
Always someone to blame huh? Like you a black woman not taking responsibility for the state of your community but instead blame it a bust it baby’s desire for a thug. Not that a black man chose to be a thug but it was the black female that drove him to it. Where is his taking of responsibility? Where is the responsibility of all the educated morally sound black women like yourself allowing yourself to be defined by an uneducated morally void black female who grew up with nothing and raised in a foster home.
I mean if black woman are the to take responsibility why is it women like you have allowed our community to be taken by these black females. You sound quite a bit like the fascist you mentioned.
@Blaq, Heavenly, Sydney
You are speaking to a woman who beleives in arranged marriages for black women…There is no way you will see eye to eye with Kigali, and vice versa
Oshie…
***** you said:
Booooooo @ this entire conversation.
I give you all a D-
FAIL!
so that’s EVERYBODY in here. Take yo wanna be down ***** somewhere and shut the ***** up. Who the ***** made you a teacher in this ***** *****a. Cause a couple of jiggaboo ***** *****es entertain your little antics, I’m not the one.
So ***** you and your entire exsistence *****. I’m so sick of these crackas coming in here acting like they know what’s up. ***** run your simple ***** over to a swirl thread.
only one who has failed is YOU. That’s why you got your white ***** on a black blog site anyway. what your trailer park ***** dont fit in with the uppity racists at perezhilton.
Now that’s all the entertainment you getting out of me oshie opie whoever the ***** you are.
@blaq,
Black Americans and black Africans have problems but I believe black Americans have organic problems. Black Africans have structural problems. I never said black females aint *****, aint going to be *****. They were the *****, at one point, but a culture has developed within too many black females that have turned them into aint ***** females.
“…and the black man is too weak to do anything but follow her lead…”
The black man wouldnt just be following the lead of just any black female. I am talking about his mother, his baby mother, his sister. These women/females have a profound influence on him especially since there is a vacuum of influence that has been created by the black female who didnt fill it with a quality man.
@iluvyellowboys
so by that logic, albeit by cir*****stance(rape, slavery), you believe that the black man’s self esteem has been taken away from him?
@ Illuminate Truth
@ X
I’m not telling you to accept ANYTHING. That is the polar opposite of what my point is. Research it for yourself. Use facts to support logic. Critical thinking Brah. Is that the response you are waiting for?
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Of course it was!!! Even if it was’nt I could still sy so.
My point on that. People post things as the truth, then call others: blind, sheep, clue-less, un-imformed, idiots, having no third-eye, mis-lead, and a whole bunch of other stuff.
Then when you ask, is this the truth? do you stand behind it? You get, oh look it up, make up your mind, use your logic…….
It winds up being a bunch of double-speak.
I’m sure 400, 300, 200, even 100 years ago; people had similar ideas about the secrets of our society, and look how horribly things turned out for us! lol!
The chicken is the black female, the egg is her children. She being a chicken (head) with all that that entails, ruined the egg, her children, and failed to produce enough good black men at replacement level. So, I am in my late 20s. That means when my daughters grow up and are looking for a husband, the women are my generation are directly responsible for not having raised enough good black men that my daughters can marry. Its its bad in my age bracket, its even worse for women younger than me.
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Kigali is an unhappy single woman and its everyone else’s fault.
I will raise my children to avoid black females like you, like the plague…Ain’t that something, you are one of the females that you refer to:
No male in the home, you have children-females at that? I wouldn’t want to touch you or them rug rats of yours, with a 10ft pole–what a waste and disgrace, somebody forgot to wear protection…Myabe all those low-lives you speak of, should’ve stauyed out of your bed, then you wouldn’t be raising daughters, by yourself with the messed up slave mentality that you can’t seem to get rid of….LMAO laughing at you and those messed up kids you’re raising…
no self-respecting black man would want them either, myabe they’ll procreate with some of the hood negroes that you love and maybe they’ll treat your daughters the same way that you treat other black women…I feel sorry for the man that laid down with you, obviously he was really hard up….
so that’s EVERYBODY in here. Take yo wanna be down ***** somewhere and shut the ***** up. Who the ***** made you a teacher in this ***** *****a. Cause a couple of jiggaboo ***** *****es entertain your little antics, I’m not the one.
So ***** you and your entire exsistence *****. I’m so sick of these crackas coming in here acting like they know what’s up. ***** run your simple ***** over to a swirl thread.
only one who has failed is YOU. That’s why you got your white ***** on a black blog site anyway. what your trailer park ***** dont fit in with the uppity racists at perezhilton.
Now that’s all the entertainment you getting out of me oshie opie whoever the ***** you are.
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Oh good gravy. ***** my entire existence? Take some *****ing prozac *****.
BEAUTIFUL black couple!
@ kigali
Is that true? Do you belive in arranged marriages? Are you Muslim? Hindu? Shinto?
@Sydney
If you can only name stereotypes as the people who exist in your environment then, I’m sorry, but that says more about you than the women you’re railing against.
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^10 with both hands!!!!!!
@Redd
“You are speaking to a woman who beleives in arranged marriages for black women…There is no way you will see eye to eye with Kigali, and vice versa”
I’ll have to agree with you on this one. Although I have asked my parents to arrange a marriage for me.
No, seriously. . .It’s scary out there. . .
@ Kigali
no you avoided my question, what happen to all these good black men and their offspring?
If women like Michelle Obama are so rare how did you come about, are you American, where on earth did you find a suitable black man to marry, is he from Africa?
What it really sounds like is you feel that black men are weak and black females taken over by having babies, and strong positive black men & women are powerless to their rule. You are right these upstanding black community members did everything possible to separate themselves from the Black community and all it’s stereotypes to live as second cl***** in some white community with their noses up some white *****. “oh yes m*****a dem *****s down in the projects ain’t *****”. They left the black community to pimps and drug dealers who created this black female you despise so much. Since you know so much about what is wrong with the black female take some time to figure our how she got that way? You are like a doctor with a bunch of cures and no knowledge of the disease.
@ X
I understand X, we all should do the same, I know I do. Im not sure your age and I know you dont know mine but a lot of the people I hang around, and Im in my 20’s are NOT INTO RELIGION at all, they may be spiritual but they are not into organized religion, especially one the SLAVE MASTERS brought them..and in the realm of who’s who in this world you would be a spook, you are no big name on the forefront as a leader..in other words people who really change things are behind the scenes, not in the front 9/10
@Sistah_PhD2be
^10 back to you
And good luck with your studies!
What makes white people dwell on Black blogs???
@Heavenly,
No need to get personal. Trust me, it doesnt go over well. Just my expirience. I am quite happy and havent been single in 7 years in Febuary. I dont have children though. Before I am 30 hopefully. Pray for me girl.
I wish more black men were like Barrak, hopefully black men will change and want to achieve greater things in life and be proud to have a black women by there side.
@Oshie- i usually skip right over you, and have NEVER made any comments directed to you, HOwever, my dear, you called me out when you said everybody,
1. You talk way tooo much ish
2. The topics discussed have nothing to do with you.
3. You aren’t my teacher or anyone’s teacher
4. Keep all that bs out of your mouth, not everyone is a jokey type person. Trust me, I’m not, rarely do you catch me tee heeing up with anyone.
5. Life is not a joke or a game, why do yo act so and play so?
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Grow up and get a life! TMZ is the other website for you! Please try it…..
@ Tony Redd
Kigali is just frustrated by the state of the black community. She has lost faith in the Black man and since she loves the black man she has to find him a scapegoat. This is a practice taken on by many black women, they find excuses for their underachieving mates. And since they are filled with self-hatred they turn this hate and anger to those who they resemble other black women.
Kigali is misguided but means well. I also appreciate the postings of those who think outside of the box, like yourself.
@ PURPPLE
What makes white people dwell on Black blogs???
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MENTAL ILLNESS!
PS: I will keep doing what I do, but refrain from calling myself a “spook”.
Sydney
@Redd
“You are speaking to a woman who beleives in arranged marriages for black women…There is no way you will see eye to eye with Kigali, and vice versa”
I’ll have to agree with you on this one. Although I have asked my parents to arrange a marriage for me.
No, seriously. . .It’s scary out there. . .
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With that said if we took Kigali’s advice on arranged marriages, the Black American race would really be screwed…
Your “expirience”, must not be too much, you never say anything of value…Additionally, quality people don’t come in particular colorss or cultures. Quality people come in every race, color and creed. Experience has taught me that it is better to be considered a fool, than to open one’s mouth and remove all doubt. Honey, they were talking about you when they came up with it….Please grow a brain…If you had a quality man, you wouldn’t be living in the hood with ‘hoodvisison’, a quality man wouldn’t want his woman any where near trash..No wondr your outlook is so horrible, you don;t have any QUALITY in your life..Good luck with your ‘hood vision’ may you stay there forever, right along with the trash you love to denigrate and criticize……..
IM SOO JEALOS. MICHELLE OBAMA IS THE LUCKIEST WOMAN. SHE HAS A MAN WHO IS INTELLIGENT AND TRULY LOVES HER. DID I ADD, HE BANGIN AS HELL?
@blaq- I know you mean well.”Kigali is just frustrated by the state of the black community. She has lost faith in the Black man and since she loves the black man she has to find him a scapegoat. This is a practice taken on by many black women, they find excuses for their underachieving mates. And since they are filled with self-hatred they turn this hate and anger to those who they resemble other black women.
Kigali is misguided but means well”
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She doesn’t because she doesn’t think before she opens her mouth. We as black women are already too divided. I refuse to sit here and letting this filth keep bashing us. She is her own worst enemy. Maybe it’s time to get rid of the trash and raise up the rest..Each one teach one, leave the ignorant behind..She’s one of the one’s that get left behind,trust me…I find it very endearing that you would try to look beyond her mask, to understand her….There’s already too much hate, but she is one of the main recruiters and each time,noone except 2 or 3 retarded black males, back her…Everyone else can never understand why she would feel that way or disparage her own people in this manner……
@kigali
I’ll do that but I’ll say this (and forgive me-its personal).. If being childless until now has NOT been your choice there may be a good reason. Should God bless your womb with life when you have such disparaging regard for His Creation. Your words come across like bitter poison…imagine that bitterness in you p*****ing to your child. For fertile ground and heart to bear life, I’ll pray for you yes.
@Redd
“With that said if we took Kigali’s advice on arranged marriages, the Black American race would really be screwed…”
Out of curiosity, why do you say that? What aspect do you disagree with?
I don’t go places on the internet because some bitter internet nerds tell me to, sorry.
Point blank, I’m interested in the ***** that’s on this site. I’m not interested in what’s on TMZ. Not really sure why that makes anyone angry. Don’t really care.
I didn’t say anything offensive. If you take it that way that sounds like a personal problem, most likely stemming from misdirected anger – what better way to vent than from the anonymity of the internet.
In regards to the thread itself, Michelle looks lovely and our new president appears cool, confident and ready to rule. Oh, and by the way, kiss my *****.
^ The pasty one on the picnic table.
BOSSIP NEEDS TO WRITE MORE ABOUT OBAMA’S PERSONAL LIFE CUZ HE IS FINNNNEEEEEEEEEEE. =]]]]
now that a beautiful couple…he make me wanna cut my dreds and get a hair cut…and im gonna call it the OBAMA….yes we can
X
call me a spook all day everyday please watch the movie then get back at me.
@ Purpple
they can’t help it white people are attracted to everything we do. Music, fashion, our fine ***** men are gorgeous women, our cute little phrases, and genuine loving personalities, I mean we are the *****, do you know any other race of people who went form the cotton fields to the white house in record time with opposition all the way. We’re the *****, you can’t blame a white person for trying to get a taste.
WE NEED MORE GUYS LIKE OBAMA. WHITE, BLACK, HISPANIC, OR ASIAN. WE NEED REAL MEN!!!!!!!
I KNOW EVERYTHING BLACK is fascinating to white people but daym, we cant have shyt for ourselfs..why was segregation a bad idea again?
blaq
@ Tony Redd
Kigali is just frustrated by the state of the black community. She has lost faith in the Black man and since she loves the black man she has to find him a scapegoat. This is a practice taken on by many black women, they find excuses for their underachieving mates. And since they are filled with self-hatred they turn this hate and anger to those who they resemble other black women.
Kigali is misguided but means well. I also appreciate the postings of those who think outside of the box, like yourself.
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I dont think she means well… she speaks of black women from a different cultural position, so she cannot relate..How can another black woman, say those things about another black woman, and not understand what they go through, and the choice of the men they choose etc?…I told her before, a hood minded woman will most likely mess with a hood minded man…The hood man is on their level…she aint gonna mess with a ***** wit a PHD..If that black womam had no example of what a good black man is, dont you think it would reflect in their choices? That is my logic…
@blaq
Likewise, I enjoy your posts as well…
HOW DO WE PUT OUR PICTURE AS THE ICON?? SOMEONE TELL ME PLEASE. THANX
FINEEEE *****ES. DON’T HELP ME! =[[[
Ha ha ha ha ha ha I’m whiting up your secret black bloggggg…. *putting up pictures of Donny Osmond and spraying my wet dog scent everywhere* Nanner nanner naaaannnnerrrrr….
lol@Blaq
u aint lie but that mess makes me go hmmmmm,I know there are some genuine ones(im reaching) who want to be in our midst but…..you give them a little lead way and they think they’re down all the way
Sydney
@Redd
“With that said if we took Kigali’s advice on arranged marriages, the Black American race would really be screwed…”
Out of curiosity, why do you say that? What aspect do you disagree with?
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I disagree with arranged marriages period..The woman should have the choice…It is accepted in other cultures but not in America…You are a right insinuating, black women dont have too many good black men to choose from these days, so how could an arranged marriage be the answer…thats all I was saying…
Is all the swearing necessary? Lovely Pics.
Opie Talor- I dont like you. Just thought I’d point that out.
@ Notimeforfake
Kigali has issues I’d need several degrees to decipher. But she is an example of one of our diseases. Self hatred. She is also a product of the black community who desire is to forget and or separate ourselves from a painful past and uncertain future. It is easier to throw blame than to admit we have dropped the ball as a people. This black female she talks about does exist, so does this black man who’s only *****ociation of manhood is that of a thug, but it a failure of all of us. But also a job for us all to fix it. I don’t believe in Kigali’s arranged marriage bs, but a woman does need mentors on choosing a good mate, so do men. We have so many successful men making families with pretty w*****s, and black women feeling a K-Fed is better than no man at all. We complain about the single mothers, but bash couples like Usher and Tameka, T.I. and Tiny, Nick and Mariah, Will & Jada, we act as though this is the only black couple to look up to and as soon as you do some self hating black person will tell you Barack’s mama is white not because it’s not true but to separate him from the average black man. I had a serious blog exchange with a man from Nigeria challenging Barack as being a African American, saying he was a Kenyan American. Basically he wanted to say he was one of his people instead of one of mine, missing the point that we are the same people.
@WTF – to put up a picture go to gravatar .com and create a p*****word with the email you use for bossip there you can upload pictures!
@Redd
“I disagree with arranged marriages period..The woman should have the choice…It is accepted in other cultures but not in America…You are a right insinuating, black women dont have too many good black men to choose from these days, so how could an arranged marriage be the answer…thats all I was saying…”
I agree.
I guess. . .
@ tony
good point! we can complain about what’s wrong, but do nothing to correct it. People are inspired by Barack and Michelle because they are well educated but don’t try to separate themselves from the Black community. Michelle picked Barack because she had a good example of a black man in her father. Barack picked Michelle because his white mother taught him he was black and to not be ashamed of it, so he sought out someone like himself.
beyonce take notice, he’s right where he’s supposed to be, walking behind her … i hope she’s going to bring her fashion game hard…and i hope that she gets involved in some worthwhile causes during her time as the first lady…she’s grinning ear to ear…I AM LOVING THIS everytime i see them or him and i realize that this man is the PRESIDENT i grin from ear to ear…i can’t explain it!
You guys had a really nice discussion I enjoyed reading the posts@Sydney @blaq @Nina @Purpple and you too REDD
@ purpple
we just like that, we accept everyone, wiggers, asians, mexican’s, fat, retarded, ugly, no matter what you affliction you get love in the black community.
@BE
I was going to say the same thing. There were some fireworks, but I think this was a very interesting, multi-faceted discussion.
notimeforfakeones..
@Oshie- i usually skip right over you, and have NEVER made any comments directed to you, HOwever, my dear, you called me out when you said everybody,
1. You talk way tooo much ish
2. The topics discussed have nothing to do with you.
3. You aren’t my teacher or anyone’s teacher
4. Keep all that bs out of your mouth, not everyone is a jokey type person. Trust me, I’m not, rarely do you catch me tee heeing up with anyone.
5. Life is not a joke or a game, why do yo act so and play so?
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Grow up and get a life! TMZ is the other website for you! Please try it…..
GOOD ONE
Hey Be! Thanks
Aight yall Im out, have a good nite…
@Blaq
Unfortunately and Fortunately that is true..they say the heart is the seat of the soul and weve got plenty of that….HEART.
@ BE
Thanks, I come on this site in spite of being filled with self hating idiots, bitter broads, and disrespectful comments because, at least a few intelligent people come through with something spark my intellect.
me too BE, im down for intellectual conversation anytime, whether we agree or disagree I can respect it.
Dis where the party at?
My name is everywhere apparently. Lets dispell a few myths here. I dont have children because unlike too many black females I know how to use birth control. Besides, I was in school.
Secondly, yes I do believe in Arranged marraiges, not be confused with forced marraiges (Red Tony, resident man-gina).
Thirdly, dont smear me by accusing me of being self hating. What I hate is actually worthy of hate. Furthermore when you call a black person self hating, essentially what you are saying is that there is only ONE kind of black person and if that person doesnt fit that particular mould it is because of hate. Well not really. I do hate black females with bad weaves, attitudes, morbid obesity and righteous stubborness. Who wouldnt?
I havent lost faith in the black man. He is malleable, as are most men. He just needs proper care and feeding. (Dr. Laura). He needs a submissive, wise, patient, loyal, responsible, honest woman. Most black women arent this. Most black females would stab a black man in the heart before she even considers playing her role. Shame.
“The hood man is on their level…she aint gonna mess with a ***** wit a PHD..”
She doesnt need a *****h with a PHD. A black woman wouldnt stick around with a man who was working toward his PHD especially when there is a duffle bag boy riding around the hood on 20s showing her some love.
“If that black womam had no example of what a good black man is, dont you think it would reflect in their choices? ”
Lets face facts Red Tony. Something especially difficult for you. Black women dont want good men. They want instant gratification which is why they have such risky sexual practices.
Typically a black girl would be influenced by her good black father. However if her triflin as momma doesnt bother having her with a good black man, she is left to use her imagination. Black females are the nexus of the problems of the black community. Men like you just keep the blinders on for her. Thats why all these *****es in here give you love.
@balq- I really appreciate and respect your point of view. I am one of the people, that would prefer black with black. BUT I do think that just as black men have chosen to broaden their horizions, there is nothing wrong with black women being with whom they see fit, maybe if there were more Barack types, those same females would find a renewed interest in their search for their counterpart.
I accept everyone. I might not agree, but I accept everyone. In my extended family, we have white, black, mixed-race, Phillipino and Italian, in my family. I don’t always agree but it takes each and every one of us, to make up this world. Yes, there will always be problems, but just like anything. It’s how you see it. Sometimes problems, turn out to be opportunities. In business, sometimes you develop the best relationships because a “problem” occured. It’s what you do with it. That half empty, half full gl*****. Everyone’s responsibility to everyone around them and each other is to leave this place, better than what you found it. I refuse to dwell in how or why the problems exist.I’m only interested in discussing and then ORGANIZING to affect a different outcome. I will not tear people down, because their background is not one of wealth. I use it as a weapon to those who make fun of or try to condescend, make disparging comments about black women–i.e. fat, weave wearing, felon having for a man, unattractive, etc. EVERY DAY the same pathetic trash ripping black women apart and I AM TIRED OF OF IT!! The same way people try to penetrate hat backward way of thinking, she barrages with big words that sometimes have no direct meaning or are wrong in the context used, as if no one else on this blog has been educated and she is the only inetlligent one, when in fact, that’s the same ignorance that drives us apart. We have to learn a different way. NO more hate just cause people have different ideals. Subjugation never makes anything better. Be part of the solution or STFU!
Blaq- I admire you. Educated woman with whom I have had some disagreements with but no insults. You are a good example of all women should aspire to be like…Open-minded while keeping it educated, liveley and interesting..New ideas is what this next chapter with Barack is all about. Those who fear or are slow to adapt, will get left behind………
The Obamas are wonderful. I am so glad that black males have someone else to look up to and aspire to besides hip hop thugs.
Maybe your out look wouldn’t be so blurry if your surroundings and your mind weren’t filled with so much bs….Educate don’t instigate with hate…You don’t have to tear down black women or black men, but when you start with that, the path gets very slippery…You CANNOT paint people, like that. That’s the same exact thing that has been done to our community for years and the same reason, why it has taken so long for it to be a Black President. It ’s the way people think, their mindframe..Unfortunatley, we don’t agree, I dislike you because you are part of the problem, not the solution..What do you gain by tearing black women down? Who made you the judge? I am not fat, I am not overweight. I am blessed to be married and with 2 beautiful black boys. I hope they don’t run into anyone like you. It would completely kill their spirit. They are going to continue to be raised, with love and around people of all different backgrounds. Hopefully, they will marry an intelligent black woman, if they don’t, I will still accept, whomever they choose to love, but first, they will finish their educations, take over the businesses or start their own. They aren’t going to be raised to be concerned about what’s between people’s legs..There’s plenty of time for that, the one thing you can’t get back is time, and it will be well spent, with them being educated, and ultimately, they will be their own men. I will instill loyalty, honesty, integrity, responsiblity and accountability. They will know the value of a hard earned dollar, they will continue to extensively travel, grow,train and develop into the hardworking young men, I envision for them to be. They will be attracted to a self-started no matter what the color, #1 is already into balance sheets and stacks of cash. he already knows the difference between $20’s and $100’s. He is very detailed, he is very well mannered. His father engages him extensively. #2 is shy but more outspoken, whatever they turn out to be, is on them, no matter how these women raise their kids, that;s still on the individual, all we can do is the best we can, some have help, some don’t..No need to fuel the fire and p***** on hatred, that you do so well…..
I DON’T KNOW WHATS UP WITH PEOPLE WRITING DAMN NOVELS AND ***** AS “COMMENTS”. LIKE PEOPLE REALLY READ THE LONG ***** BULL***** THEY WRITE.. *SHAKES MY DAMN HEAD*
true, but when you gotta make a point…
ITS ALLLLLLLL GOOD. ALL I KNOW IS OBAMA IS FINE AS HELL THATS ALL.
I wish we as a people were in a better position to really capitalize on this historic event but it is what is it. We have so much work to do in terms in of creating and keeping in tact families, valuing education, etc. But the inspiration that this provides is invaluable and something we desparately needed. We also now need to make sure Obama is a two term president – Obama 2012
I like the long posts — there are plenty of shorter posts in the swirl/random naked girl threads that require less introspection.
Nice chatting with you all! Good night.
TRUE.. SOMETIMES IT’S LIKE OBAMA’S ELECTION IS BECOMMING SORT OF LIKE A TREND. I WISH THE YOUNG PEOPLE WHO VOTED REALLY VOTED BECAUSE THEY KNOW WHAT HE STANDS FOR AND EVERYTHING. I KNOW I VOTED FOR OBAMA FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.. NOT JUST BECAUSE ITS THE “COOL” THING TO DO.
LEAVE OBAMA ALONE HES OUR PRESIDENT NOW SO ALL OF YOU THAT DOES NOT LIKE HIM NEED TO SHUT YOUR WHITE RACES SELF UP OR BLACK STOUPID PEOPLE SHUT UP BECAUSE WE ALL KNOW IM BLACK AND ALL OF US KNOW THAT BOTH OBAMA AND MCCAIN ARE KNOW GOOD AND THEY BOTH WOULD HAVE DID THE SAME THANG BUT THE THING IS ABOUT ME I DONT LIKE WHITE PEOPLE ONLY THE PEOPLE IN MY FAMILY BECAUSE THEY GOT HOOD ALL UP IN THEM FO REAL *****E2 LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL!!!!!!!
Oh, I think a number of young people know more about Obama than perhaps their parents and grandparents. Look how he used the Web in ways it has never been used before in political campaigns. His site was stocked with information on his background and policies. In addition, unlike the 2004 campaign, political blogs are in great number and are a constant source of news. Not to mention that Obama has an extensive e-mail list and he distributed text messages during the campaign. I think more people were plugged into this election than ever before in recent memory.
If you haven’t already, please check out change(dot)gov. It’s the new official transition site for Obama and Biden. It has lots of info a well.
Wow. Now if only they were black…..
Lawd ha mercy, I am just as infatuated with this beautiful man as the media and the world is but I do think that everyone is getting carried away with it. Its soooooo many things about him to like other than political issues. He married a real black woman, he is sooo smart, has the most beautiful smile, his stride, he is a decent person not just a rich one. Alas, he does not perform miracles. He has some extraordinary issues to deal with. I, too, am trying my best to calm down and see Obama as a politician who will do his best to help.
@ Kigali
what is a malleable man gonna do with a submissive woman. Follow some other man
you keep confusing woman with female, watch that or it will be *****ume you being a black woman displays these qualities you hate so much and therefore appear to be self hating.
Again I ask what happened to make all black women trifling? Where are these good black men that were p*****ed over for a thug?
I suppose they married some black women to create and send 2.3million black children to college in 2006, started businesses that generated about 88 billion dollars last year, considering 64% of black households have families and 45% of those families are married couples. 81% of blacks over 25 have a high school diploma. I guess if you concentrate on all the negative *****, you’d wouldn’t notice these stats.
OMGGG @BLACKGIRL.
I CANNOT AGREE WITH YOU MORE!!!
@ notimeforfake
Thank you!!, that is on of the best compliment I have ever received (especially on a blog):)
Michelle Obama described in one word: FIERCE *shakes finger at picture*
Michelle Obama described in one word: FIERCE *shakes finger at picture*!!!Love Michelle
That’s great. You can enjoy this.I know the first and largest dating site for Cougars and Young Men … S u g a r M o m m y Match.C o m … where cougars and young men seeking love! That’s better!
GO OBAMA! Our “New” President Of The United States! I do agree that EVERYTHING they do should not be all over the internet. I however cannot wait until he is officially in office & proves all these “non-beleivers” wrong!
The White House swagger is about to go up a billion points come Jan. 20th.
@ blaq
@ purpple
we just like that, we accept everyone, wiggers, asians, mexican’s, fat, retarded, ugly, no matter what you affliction you get love in the black community.
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Not everyone!!! NO HOMO!!!
@ @ kigali (Dozens of birth control available to black femles)
YOU ARE NOT ALL THAT.
Your men are, but you arent. Far and away he is more beuatiful and more attractive than you will ever be. Keep buying the weaves, keep putting on the weight, keep up the attitude, and the black man will still be far more desired both secretly and openly. It kills you doesnt it?
You better be nice to black men. Very nice. The reason I havent completely unloaded on black females is because they at the very least continue to give birth to these beautiful, charming, Adonis like creatures that they will eventually ***** up. Regretably.
Go outside right now and count on your fingers how many good looking black men you see and then compare that to the number of sorry looking, fat, weaved up, still wearing the clothes they slept in chicken headed black females. Girl you better thank God everyday you are in such company.
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kigali, what is your race, sex, and sexuality???
No self respecting, straight, Black woman would write some of the things you write & they way you write them!!!
You refer to Black men as “your men”…….
You refer to Black women as though you have nothing in common with them. (Except for wanting Black men)
What exactly are you???
PS: And the reason people mention your name the most is because you write the most craziest stuff! lol!!! Plus you conrtadict yourself alot too.
….@ bossip I agree…. blacks have finally come full circle and they should act pleasent as they can …just to give respect to Obama and make him look even more worthy to be President…I do not think he is God of course …but he has accomplished what other’s couldn’t do for years therefor,I think he deserve respect from all ….mostly blacks
That’s a good looking couple!
Will somebody please tell him not to be outside so much with out a shield….some whitey’s are mad
@iLuvYelloBoyz. Barack Obama freshman and sophmore year was at Occidental College.
@SMDH. Sweetheart, you need to get out of hood. Blacks are not monolithic. Like skin color, we cover the full spectrum. There are rich, middle cl*****, and poor blacks. Howard and Meharry were graduating black doctors and other professionals since the 1860’s. They married there cl***** mates. All across America, there are generations of functional black families. My father meet my mother at Howard and married her while they were in medical school. Both paternal and maternal grandfathers also when to Howard Med. I’m surrounded by, and know nothing, but black love. Less than 5% of blacks are in interracial marriages. If you can’t find the right person, then check yourself.
SMDH is the dumbest ***** on this website and hopefully one day she will put her hatin ***** out of her own misery…. miserable ***** dont have anything better to do than talk *****… i hope u choke to death on your hatred ur foul mouthed w*****
Barack got that I’m about to get some walk!!
ROLL CALL TIME!
WHO IS IN HERE THIS EVENING??
WHERE ARE THE REGULARS! I REMEMBER WHEN BOSSIP WAS BETTER AND I WOULD GET OFF WORK AND SPEND MY ENTIRE LIFE BOOSTING MY SELF-ESTEEM CHATTING WITH RANDOM PEOPLE ON A BLOG!
@ kigali (Dozens of birth control available to black femles)
- MY HAT GOES OFF TO YOU FOR YOUR INSIGHTFUL POSTS. I JUST SPENT TIME READIONG SOME OF THEM AND I COULD HAVE VERY WELL BEEN READING A BOOK WRITTEN BY AN EXPERT ON THE SUBJECT OF BLACK WOMAN AND BLACK MEN. I AM AMAZED THAT YOU ARE SO KNOWLEDGEABLE AT SUCH A YOUG AGE! I JUST HOPE THESE OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE CHATTING WITH YOU ARE SMART EHOUGH TO SOAK UP SOME OF THAT SCIENCE YOU ARE DROPPING, ESPECIALLY YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT THE BLACK WOMAN MUST TO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE BLACK MAN.
TO ALL BLACK WOMEN OF THE WORLD: God gave all women the most blessed gift and that is reproduction. Along with that gift comes the responsibility of making sure that it is not squandered on low lifes, playas, gangsta, convicts, pimps, dead-beats, etc. You have the power to say yay or nay when it comes to sex. Say NO unless that nicca is living right, because whatever he is, will become what your children might become one day….and we owe it all to you!
@Kigali
An arranged marriage is in essence a force marriage in some cases. I know African women who wont see their fathers because of this…
I dont have blinders on for black women, I just know the Black Man must be that rock for their woman. There are plenty of submissive, wise, patient, loyal, responsible, honest women out their. I have one at home. However, a lot of them have been beat down emotionally and physically by Black Men, and of course that is a part of the problem.
Remember at one time women Pharoah’s ruled civilizations, named Isis, Merneith, Nitocris…Black women are queens then, and they are queens now.
Now with that said, what are your solutions to help the plight of black women….
2 things yet to be said:
1-Hes the President Elect meaning hes open to the media…
2-Great example of “Achievement” for Any race
The Obama’s are such a work of cl***** and elogance like many of us. Certainly, A needed and good look for America.
According to my encyclopedia, black is the most beautiful thing in the entire universe.
Fact
Not only are most of the modern day black women allergic to all forms of contraceptives, but most also seem to be allergic to all forms of accountability as well. Hmmmm, It must be nice to walk on water and ***** icecream…Kigali as usual was the VOICE OF REASON. Kudos.
Marquis de Sade what is going on blood?? I havent been on here in a few months and here you are speaking your logic as always. Do you thing blood.
Oh Lord, here we go again, Marquis. You just don’t learn do you? I figured Kilfolly would be right up your alley. Again black men are allergic to all forms of accountability as well being that there’s something called a condom. Hmmm, I wonder what they are for. There’s no reasoning with you as there is none with Kigali. You both are stuck on…never mind.
Hey Jay Z and Bey …notice who walks in front – not behind!!!
The more i read these comment, the more i dislike black women. You black *****es are foul.
@du durdy, the more I read these comments, the more I dislike SOME black men so we’re even, sweetie.
i heard george left anthrax in then air vents.
Nina Knows
‘I dont think Sean Bell was making excuses, or countless others. There are good black men out there.(dont believe the media hype) Lets lead by example. pointing fingers aint gonna make anybody run out and do better. Give solutions, not just rants. I agree black men need to step up, but women too. Some black people peroid need to step up. I need a partner, This ***** is mutual. I dont need a man to tell me how to be a woman or act like my father. I’m supportative, not submissive. big difference. A woman is just as important to a household as a man is. Just play your part and support each other, and the rest will fall in place.
We need to have each others back…. peroid.’
I concur. You see the significance of not abasing ONLY black men, but understanding that ‘both’ black women and black men should take responsibility for themselves, rather than the excessive finger pointing. Your comment is equitable and impartial.
Sweetie Pie
‘I am so glad that black males have someone else to look up to and aspire to besides hip hop thugs.’
I can’t dispute that because we as black men need to be held more accountable for our actions (raise children, invest in condoms, desist womanizing). I was privileged to be raised by both parents, so they are my inspirations. However, I can fully fathom that others may have a different background.
You’ve already mentioned young men having Barack Obama as role models. We can’t overlook the females, right? Now, if these young girls can refrain from thug worshipping, and conceived out of wedlock babies that’s spreading like ripples through water, then they’ll be emulating Michelle Obama. I must say, she does possess opmistic, distinguishing traits, doesn’t she?
Illuminate Truth
My brother is a historian, and he’s extensively researched secret societies and conspiracies. Recently, he sent me via mail the “Secrets of the Tomb: Skull and Bones, the Ivy League, and the Hidden Paths of Power,” by Alexandra Robbins. I’ve heard about private meetings that take place between the media conglomerate and government officials held at unknown locations. Anyway, as I was reading the book (almost complete), I began to look at things more attentively and thoughtfully.
I’m sure my brother has the book by Anthony Sutton that you mentioned. I’ll have to borrow it soon.
optimistic. TYPO
@ BE I have a good black man, takes care of home and the kids. The sisters you call trifling, if you look at their childhood no real black man was there to make them feel good about self. Most of them did not have a father or a male role model. So it goes back to my statement, They need to take note from Obama Black Men step your game up.
Obama is the man
Not only are most of the modern day black women allergic to all forms of contraceptives, but most also seem to be allergic to all forms of accountability as well. Hmmmm, It must be nice to walk on water and ***** icecream…Kigali as usual was the VOICE OF REASON. Kudos.
PREACH
I’ll say it again…Leave Ray-Ray in the hood. With me being a black male who has my life in order (college degree, no kids, no criminal records, professional job), I only *****ociate with the better half of our society. I am a equal opportunity fornticator, which means I will not p***** up a good women of another race based solely on her ethnicity. That makes me racist. Black women always get angry whenever black males of means engage in relationships with someone outside their race. Whenever your financial game comes of age, you will begin to frequent establishments that are higher in society. For instance, I went to a restaurant last night which was packed with my type of women which are single, sexy, educated, and attitude free. None of them were black. Based on responses from this board, I should have ran out the club to find a “black queen! GTFOH! This is the main reason I do not frequent hip-hop themed events…Too much drama (thugs/wannabe thugs/hoodrats. I am not disputing the fact that black women have their stuff together but there are some things that a man of means will not tolerate. I’ll be damned if a black chick attempts to talk to me like my name is Pookie. I HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE!. If all you can conversate about is what is happening in the urban sector of America, I don’t want nor need you. It’s frustrating because when I do find a black women that has her stuff together, that s*****y attitude comes out, which I neither tolerate nor condone. If your grandmother and mother were single parents, maybe it’s time for your entire family to take a trip to a counselor. You black women wonder why you are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to marriage and dating, either within your race or abroad.
At what point are the women going to stop gravitating to thugs. It is baffling to me as why one would even speak to a “hoodrat” or “thug”. What can they offer you? A lifetime time of drama. Thanks…but no thanks….
@ John: CONVERSATE is not a word.
i have been stalking ‘chell for almost two(2) years , and i know without a doubt that is not her in that picture. Nice photo-shopping but you cant fool ME. her leg have never been that skinny and her head aint that small. i got pic if you want pics
THEY SAY WE N.I.G.G.E.R,WE ARE MUCH MORE,STILL WE CHOOSE TO IGNORE THE OVIOUS,MAN THIS HISTORY DONT ACKNOWLEDGE US,WE BEEN SCHOLARS LONG BEFORE COLLEGES.THEY SAY WE N.I.G.G.E.R WE ARE MUCH MORE,STILL WE CHOOSE TO IGNORE THE OVIOUS, WE ARE THE SLAVES AND THE MASTER,WHAT WE LOOKIN FOR, WE ARE THE QUESTION AND THE ANSWER.-NAS
@Film…
Thanks!!, I just didnt want to feed into the negativity. We all know the obvious wrongs from both counterparts. But I was hearing no soluitions. Whats the point of pointing fingers if your not going to touch down on a soulution.
The swagger is at an all time ridiculous high! Ri-damn-diculous! For you women: I’m sure its got to be some kind of sin to lust after the President. LMAO! And Michelle is killing it in those boots! Do yo thang 1st family!
The swagger is at an all time ridiculous high! For you women: I’m sure its got to be some kind of sin to lust after the President. LMAO! And Michelle is killing it in those boots! Do yo thang 1st family!
The swagger is ridiculous
@Its the Foosa
Good points. Its not just black men that need to step up. Black women need to step their game up too. When 2/3 of black babies are being born out of wedlock, it aint just the man who’s being irresponsible. Some of these sistas need to keep their legs closed.
And to the dumb sistas who dont want a decent, well spoken, suburban black man, but only want a ghetto “thug” ***** with that “street swagger”… remember, if you lie down with dogs you rise up with fleas.
It’s a shame that men on Bossip think that black women don’t have their shyt together because they have children and maybe only a high school diploma. I’m a 26 year old African American female with no children that is pursing a Master’s degree in Business, and I do not judge people based on the baggage that they carry. Just because you are college educated does not mean that you have followed all the correct steps to success…it just means that you were extremely blessed and extremely lucky. Instead of tearing our women and men down, help them. Offer words of encouragement, because just as quickly as you opened up your mouth to spit out ignorant stereotypes, surely the people before you and after you have and will repeat the drill. It creates a constant cycle of negativity, and to be honest most educated black men THINK they have it going on waaaaay more than they actually do. 2008 is the time for everybody to take the game to the next level and start taking accountablity, which is not something that black women are solely at fault for.
This will solve all the problems in regards to this cival war amongst black men and you whiny self-righteous ***** *****es:
Brothas’ Marry white or asian women exclusively. That way you’ll increase the odds of raising another Obama, Tiger Woods or (Hell) a productive law abiding citizen.
You Whiny ***** *****es continue to f*ck these in and out of jail thugs that you seem to be so enamored with and produce the next generation of William Balfours, or you may get lucky and raise the next 50 cent or Snoop Dogg.
@John and Marquis>>>This black woman, and many like me DON’T CARE IF YOU DATE OUTSIDE YOUR RACE. Please do. I do not like arrogant men, and I’ve noticed that SOME black men carry a proverbial chip on their shoulders. Since you believe “others” are superior, why complain about your perception of black women. John, I go to restaurants and see cl*****y, established men, who smile and are free with who they are. None of them are black, so we’re even okay. If you don’t like black women, bounce, but quit complaining about us.
Men always complaining about the women opening their legs. Well if you’re getting between them, what does that make you? Shut the hell up, will ya.
These black men here talking ish are the same ones that fall over themselves when Kim K or Coco makes an appearance. Oh, that’s right. They aren’t black women. I forgot women of other races are superior to black women. Shame on me.
@Bee>>>You are so right. I was talking to my sister about the websites I visit and some of the conversations we have (especially bm/bw issues) and she told me I need to stay away from the negative posts. It just gets your blood pressure up and it won’t do any good. She’s right. I’ve never seen a group of people (myself included) that continue to beat one another down. It’s really kind of sick.
Wordtothew*****
Yeah but it’s fun!
^^^Troll, don’t address me. I know you’re a black guy so keep it moving. “Ignore button pushed.”
The new First Family of the USA!!!
Barack is so fine and sexy. I would be giving him some every night in that White House!
damn…minus me being referred to as a “n*gga b*tch”…i agree with john and marquis. It makes real sense and I know the type of women they are talking about but its a two way street which is why black women aint marrying black men and black men aint marrying black women. So the problem will never get solved. John just like you meet sisters that have it going on but have an attitude, I meet black males that have the degree but their attitude is horrible(ie – plum ignorant, self-absorb, male w*****s). One reason this is happening for black men and women is because no one is emphasizing being a good “sense having” person in addition to an educated one/money-having one. No one is telling folks you need to be a good person and that a good person is not equivalent to rich or educated. A good person believes and follows the mantra “do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. You can have money/5 degrees and be a total ignoramus. So yeah I agree but black males are the same way. Like I said black men/women wont solve the problem just stray away from each other. At least I have the Obamas to think of…:)
This picture is very ackward for me,seeing her looking all done up!
For once, she looks great in what she is wearing , instead of softening up her image after her very honest opinion and getting her to look all mommy and old main.
She looks middle age sexy here.
my people, my people! Our new Prez and first lady have raised the bar on the new swagga, style, and sexy…
@lisalisa
@ John: CONVERSATE is not a word.
No, it isn’t, and thanks for pointing it out. . .So much for this guy’s college degree and so-called refinement.
Maybe his name really is “Pookie.”
lol
@lisalisa
“@John: CONVERSATE is not a word.”
LOL, no, “conversate” is not a word, and thanks for pointing that out. Obviously, the speaker is attempted to sound more refined than he actually is. What a shame.
They have brought glamor and fashion back to washington. They just . . .damn. You cannot say that they aren’t doing the damn thang. Damn. Make you want to step up your own game at whatever you do. Damn. They just . . . DAMN!!
And I LOVE THAT COAT!!
lovely..
its funny how the ladies are trying to tell the guys to ‘man up’, as if ALL the ladies “deserve” a good man, when more than half of them dont deserve it.
tooooooooooooooooooooooo much swagger lovin it………..the UK is loving it. Obama’s keep doin you and God speed.