If you haven’t yet, meet the man who has been warming Solange‘s nights and filling in for Juelz’ dad by day for the past three years.

His name is Alan Ferguson and he is a video director who’s worked with countless big name artists, including Hubby Hov and pre-Baby Bump Bey Bey… Alan was the man being “Party” and “Dance For You.”

While she’s been really private about his identity for most of their relationship, only being spotted out and about starting this year, Solange seems finally willing to put that part of her life all the way on front street.

In her latest bit of photoblogging on “MyDamnBlog.com,” Solo posted pics of herself and the two great loves in her life as they spent time in the French countryside for a friend’s wedding.

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