If anything, she can use her story to say don’t be this way. I think because we end up in situations with single parents or kids by more than one person, we say it’s okay when should say, I did it, but you should want better if that’s possible (but ‘ol boy aint give her much of a choice in the end, did he).

So many entertainers stupidly say “I’m not a role model” when the funny thing is you don’t get to choose if you are one or not. The people who follow or emulate you determine that.

i agree with MIA1011, single mothers is something that occcurs in all races.

what about if a woman gets married, and then get a divorce… she’s back to being a single mother…

Your statements stem from the greatest ingnorance. Having a child before marriage is not only a practice that happens in the African American community. From what I have read, unwed pregnancy births are up for all races, not just African Americans. Instead of singling out one group of people and directing the negativity towards them, you should address the masses. No one race is responsible for the rise in unwed pregnancies, we as a whole should take accountability.

justvisitin didnt say that, I said that. She was quoting me and didnt get that I was being sarcastic.

you cant be going off they dont like that here you might get jumped.(lol)