The Hudsons Were Killed Over This Woman????

Posted on December 3rd, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Hudson Family Murders, Jennifer Hudson, News, One-Time

Posted by Bossip Staff

Get this, prosecutors allege that no-good thug William Balfour killed everyone because of jealousy over Julia Hudson:

Prosecutors said Balfour had come to the workplace of his estranged wife — Julia Hudson, the actress’ sister — in early October to complain about her dating another man and threatened her family with harm if she continued to see him. He went to the house the day of the slayings to again warn her about the relationship, prosecutors said. He and Julia Hudson left the house together, prosecutors said. She got into her car and drove off. He was walking toward his car when he was last seen by Julia Hudson, they said.

We’re not saying a woman has to look like Kerry Washington for someone to go into jealous rage but damn. Our prayers are with Jhud and her family.

F*ck a Thug, that’s the anthem we sing over here at Bossip.

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  • dani

    it would be respectful to refrain from distasteful comments concerning this tragic event

  • ???

    crazy

  • http://myspace.com/daintygirlgt anitabonita

    No comment

  • http://myspace.com/daintygirlgt anitabonita

    If u know what i’m sayin

  • ♥Ayita Loves Adam♥

    I hope this asshole gets life for killing that little boy. How can someone just kill a live child like that?

  • Frog-a-licious

    SAD! That’s all I gotta say.

  • Diamond D

    I hate to say something evil but the Prosecutors needs a better motive than that!!!!! I believe people are innocent till proven guilty. I just can’t see this guy killing three people of the elephant woman!!!!

  • Diamond D

    I menat over the elephant woman!!!!

  • Diamond D

    meant!!! there third times a charm!!!!

  • Chi-town

    I’ll pull tha switch on his @zz!

  • B.Cherry

    Oh well…ain’t nothin’ we can do about it now! Next…

  • cee

    F*ck @ Thug

    lamo!!!!

    nice t-shirt :)

  • PGHCheeze

    Weren’t or we’re not? Just wondering…

  • Richard

    People don’t understand this sickness is not about the woman.

    If your man beats your ass it’s not because the ass drove hime crazy. it’s because he was already there.

  • Whoever

    Classless. No need for this type of post. Are you saying that the mother of a murdered child, the sister of a slain brother and the daughter of a killed mother is…

    ugly?

    No, you’re ugly. And you obviously have no talent and no way of finding yourself appreciated other than to diss people on a black gossip blog.

    Internet bloggers are the new radio personalities. They hate on everything because, quietly, they hate themselves.

  • qt

    sorry, he didn’t do it – facts will come out at trial .. but NOT OVER THIS WALRUS [my words not theirs]

  • http://abbyjean.tumblr.com abby jean

    are you kidding me? i have never seen anything so distasteful as to pick on the physical appearance of a woman who just endured a massive personal tragedy. the assumption that domestic violence is restricted to beautiful women (and the implication that women should take domestic violence as a compliment and validation of their beauty) is sick and wrong and flat out disgusting.

  • blaq

    The prosecution is going to lose. True or not, when the jury hears he had a pregnant girlfriend they are just not going to buy the reasoning he killed her over another man, especially if they don’t produce the other man and he testifies about a jealous Balfour. Like I said before, Chicago police are grabbing at straws because they don’t have any idea who killed those people.

  • Goonie Goo Goo

    She seems like the typical overweight black woman just so happy to have a dick between her legs that she crept with a criminal thug and put her family’s life at risk.

    Look, either lose some weight and get some dman self esteem or be fat and celibate. I am tired of these walruses letting their babies get killed/raped/molested just so they can have some loser to cook friend chicken for.

    Sick!

  • Jewish Baby

    *whew* that’s one fat buzzard

  • De’Vincent

    Man it just amazes me how this website acts like they r so concerned about Jennifer Hudson and her well-being but for the sake of entertainment and laughs, they make jokes and distasteful comments about her sister Julia. Regardless of Julia’s decision, if she lives a 100 years from now, she cannot go back and change the past!

    If anything, the people who run this website and the people who are commenting on this website should continue to uphold Jennifer and Julia Hudson & the entire Hudson family in their prayers, after all this is the first time in their life they will truly spend their first holidays without their family. Please think before you write.

  • ???

    We need to STOP making
    excuses for ANTISOCIAL BEHAVIOUR

    not all antisocial people kill people, people need to stop making excuses for no good men and women

  • Negro Please

    I knew Julia had something to do with the murders from the very beginning. I bet there is even more to this twisted story than we really want to know…

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Goonie Goo Goo,

    That was awesome. Prepared to be attacked for it though. The black female has a right to lay up with any kind of man she wants and when that man explodes on her, she bares no responsibility for what happened. You will be attacked for even suggesting that Julia Hudson shares some of the blame.

    The black female is forever innocent, forever a victim and is a beautiful black Queen who cant be questioned.

    All Hail The Queen.

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Angee,

    I think my neighbors son is getting out or prison soon. How about I fix him up with your daugher?

  • Angee

    @De’Vincent

    That might be the most intelligent thoughtful comment I ever read on this site!

  • kenya

    not bowling

  • Angee

    @Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    What the hell are you talking about??

    Sure Julia could have chosen a better mate, but she could not have predicted that her MOTHER, BROTHER AND SON would end up dead. Some women have married nice, mild mannered men and he turned out to be a serial killer!!

    Julia could have married a nerd, and this same thing could have happened! I don’t know and neither do you!!

  • Jaye

    This is really a sad tragedy…

    Bless the remaining family members.

    I hope Julia does not forever blame herself. Some people are just plain sick in the head… You can never predict the actions of a crazy or irrational person.

    Jaye :-(

  • crazy

    @negro please

    I thought Julia was suspect too from day 1. Who goes on their myspace the day after their family is murdered, saying your murdererer boyfriend gives good dick. I say arrest her too; she is probably just as guilty just for being bad human being.

  • hmmmmmm

    she must feel terrible…thats wat chasin after them thugs do tho

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

    SMH…this whole tragedy was pathetic and his soul will rot in hell…as his father’s is.

    Just ri-damn-diculous…foolish idiot!

  • Rozza♥ – My Dog’s Name Ain’t Baby, It’s Hannibal (Mr. Nibbles If You’re Nasty!)

    @1TruDiva: Hey guuurrrrrllll!!

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    I’ve got writers’ block.

  • Rozza♥ – My Dog’s Name Ain’t Baby, It’s Hannibal (Mr. Nibbles If You’re Nasty!)

    @kigali: What is that image in your gravie?

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    I bet all these 9 finger females up in here defending her are as big as she is. SMDH.

  • Shana

    Obsession does not discriminate. It is a sickness. People commit acts of jelousy over their exes even if they have found someone else. Looks does not matter. It is a physcological dysfunction.

    It is all about control. You are not suppose to move on. If you do, then they start plotting revenge. They start fires, cut tires, smash windows, stalk, and make threats.

    I guess in Balfours case he killed her family and son so she could suffer.

    Julia Knew he did those murders because she said in her myspace that she lost her family because she loved the wrong man.

  • THISISME

    LOVE DRIVES PEOPLE TO DO CRAZY THINGS!!!

  • Triple T

    First of all, I dont’ believe he did it. He had two girlfriends at the time, he wasn’t checking for Julia’s as*. I think he just wanted to be in the family because of Jennifer Hudson.

    It is more to this.

    Where are the people from CSI? This is bullsh*t

  • Shana

    That is not love it is OBSESSION and Lust. Two totally different things. If you truly loved someone you would leave them alone and wish the best for them. Not kill their loved ones.

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @KzzzMerg

    Anecdotally, I believe fat 9 finger black females have a greater propensity to hook up with the worst of our men thus giving them incentives to perpetuate their behavior.

  • Rozza♥ – My Dog’s Name Ain’t Baby, It’s Hannibal (Mr. Nibbles If You’re Nasty!)

    @kigali: I hope she hasn’t done anything to be defended from. However, fat or not, so many women do not take the time to care who they bring into the family fold, just to have companionship or validation. I was shocked to find out how many women, for instance are willing to build relationships with convicts, even while they are still behind bars, because they lack love in their lives or self-esteem. And these women are fat, skinny, young, old, rich, poor.

    What is the meaning of 9 fingers?

  • blaq

    @ goonie go go and Kigali

    Kigali you admitted to dating a psychopath, mistake made, mistake rectified when you left him and went on to find your husband. Humans make mistakes.

    Goonie go go

    as un-attractive as you appear in your gravitar, I suspect you’ve spent one or two lonely nights as well.

    Julia realized William was not a good for her, ended the relationship, what the hell else was she suppose to do? Instead of throwing blame, Kigali go arrange some marriages, and goonie goo goo you should teach a class on self-esteem. Go and be prosperous.

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Rozza,

    I found this image on google images. Its actually from the cover of a Morrocan cook book. I thought it was cool. It looks like a tradionally dressed Tuareg man. Their nomads from parts of North Africa and the Saharah.

  • Shana

    @ TRIPLE T

    That means nothing that he was seeing other females. An abusive, obsessive mate has to be in control. When the ex is not under his control anymore is when the violence escalates.

    My best friend was stalked and had acts of violence committed against her even though her ex had another woman. That means nothing.

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Blaq,

    I am a bit of a Libertarian so you should date who you want to date but as soon as you bring kids in the picture or if you already have kids than it is the community’s problem.

  • Rozza♥ – My Dog’s Name Ain’t Baby, It’s Hannibal (Mr. Nibbles If You’re Nasty!)

    @TruDiva: And I am NOT child-proofing my house! Folks’ children should know not to touch other people’s stuff and not run in my home! If a kid won’t listen, and keeps running, I will stick my foot out and trip him so he can hit his nugget on some furniture or something. Betcha he won’t be running like a fool in my house again!

  • Power

    I THOUGHT THAT WAS WARREN SAPP!!!

  • hmm

    Sometimes it’s about the personality.

  • Triple T

    @ Shauna

    The reason I say this is because she would have gotten back with her estrange husband in a heartbeat if he was really ready to come home. She was trying on for size to have another guy on the side because she knew he had girls on the side.

    Believe this, they are holding on to him because they have no clue in the world who did it. None of it adds up. His fingerprints wasn’t even on the gun that supposedly shot everyone. I

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Rozza,

    “What is the meaning of 9 fingers?”

    I don’t know if you have studied biology but if you have you will recall how animals have adapted and evolved in order to survive their environments. For over hundreds of thousands of years, animals, including humans, have either changed colors, grew wings, or learned how to breathe under water.

    My hypothesis for the future appearance of the 9 finger black female is simple. Humans will continue to evolve. As a result of the black females refusal to marry and provide stable environments for herself and her children, her left hand would have adapted to having loss any practical use for her ring finger, thus creating the 9 finger black female. Thousands of years from now, black females will be born with only 9 fingers having loss any use of the ring finger.

  • lilianasanchez86

    she has a moustache? ummm.. just saying

  • Shana

    @ Triple

    Well Julia said she lost her fammily because she loved the wrong man. She knew what transpired between the two of them. She knew he was a loose cannon and capable of murder, or whe wouldn’t have made that statement.

    It is plausible to believe that she would of taken him back. A woman involved in a obssessive co-dependent relationship always goes back, even when she is treated poorly.

    They sometimes seek the comfort of another mate to punish the ex and make him jealous. That is why sometimes they don’t make it out alive. It is a sickness.

    A dysfunction that is cause by childhood abuse and trauma. They don’t know how to let go of the abuse familiar from their childhood. That is why they seek men who treat them poorly, control them, cheat on them, verbally abuse them, as well as physically.

    I hope she is getting counseling, because if she goes untreated she will just move on to the next mate who will cotinue the pattern of abuse.

  • Rozza♥ – My Dog’s Name Ain’t Baby, It’s Hannibal (Mr. Nibbles If You’re Nasty!)

    @truDiva: “Then I elbowed him RIGHT IN HIS THROAT and STEPPED ON HIS FOOT–r.e.a.l slow!!!!”

    LOLOLOL!!!!! Next stop should have been doing the same thing to his mama and doing it in front of her budding felon!

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @blaq,

    You know what it is? Its that the 9 finger black females think all those things are a virtue. She is no longer fat, she is thick. She doesnt have a bad attitude or is combative, she is sassy, she is a diva. Her weave isnt a poor imitation of someone else, it is her being versitile. She is a strong single black mother holding it down, instead of someone who made a huge mistake that she shouldnt repeat for the second, third or fourth time.

    I have to ridicule these things so we can get to a stage where we can all see it for the vulgarity that it is. It isnt us. Its an ugly costume that we dont want to take off.

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    @LellowKeys – yeah feel u , just that sadly our actual law enforcement is a joke so probably the TV CSI would have already solved this case. Its probably all little deeper but probably something with money and dope involved.

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    @lilianasanchez86 – cant wait til going back to brazil probably this summer, beaches is where its at..

  • Shana

    @ KIGALI

    I know you blame Juia for those murders but should be more open minded. There are Black, white asian, and hispanic Juia’s all around the globe.

    A lot of woman are attracted to this type of mate because they are co-dependent. They are addicted to pain and emotional abuse. This stems from childhood abuse.
    They are accustomed to emotional instability, abuse, neglect, turmoil, chaos, drama, and pain. This is why they seek out potential harmful mates who can give them all of the abuse that stemmed from childhood. It is like comfortable shoes that fit when they find this unstable mate.
    They are accustomed to unhealthy relationships. This is a physiological issue that afflicts many men and women.
    Race is not a factor. It is the childhood upbringing. Their emotional needs were not met. These women who chose partners such as this man comes from a dysfunctional household.
    Women who choose these type of males come from household of drug abuse, alcohol abuse, sexual abuse, emotional unavailable parents, compulsive gambling, compulsive eating, and a number of other things that can make a child have low self worth.
    Having received little nurturing themselves, they seek out needy men who need fixing. They are going through that same emotional cycle trying to fix their relationship with their abusive parent or parents.
    They go through extreme measures in order to gain his or her affection. Emptying bank accounts, taken him back after numerous affairs while they endure emotional neglect and physical or mental abuse.
    These unhealthy relationships are addictive and obsessive. They cause catastrophic damage to the household and children always suffer as a result of it. They only way to break this cycle of abuse is to seek therapy and spiritual counseling. It can cost your life

  • Rozza♥ – My Dog’s Name Ain’t Baby, It’s Hannibal (Mr. Nibbles If You’re Nasty!)

    See ya later, Kzzm!

  • R U KIDDIN!!!!!!!!

    THIS UGLY FAT WHALE? WHO WOULD EVEN TOUCH HER ASS? SHE MUST FEEL AWFUL. THIS STORY IS VERY SAD AND PAINFUL. BUT I DONT LIKE THIS BROAD.

  • R U KIDDIN!!!!!!!!

    OK, I TAKE IT BACK GOD BLESS HER BUT I FEEL LIKE SHE IS JUST TROUBLE.

  • lilianasanchez86

    @Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest) – im going home on summer 2. (bahia) yeaaaaa. best beaches in brasil are in bahia FOR SURE!!! what part of brasil did u visited?

  • Shana

    @ R U kiddin

    That is good that you are trying to have sympathy for her when her choices infuriates some people.

    I just hope she gets help.

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    @lilianasanchez86 – yeah click the link where you see my name will link you to my photo site. I got pics of where my moms is from in Panama ill probably be going back to Colon there as well. Trying to work on my portugese though

  • Shana

    @ Tru Diva

    Only a mean spirited person would see things that way.

    People who are Narcissistic would relish in this opportunity to feel important.

    Narcissistic people are incapable of love and are only concerned about their image.

    Narcissitic people would use their child’s death for attention. Narcissitc people are attention seekers.

    Regardgless of what you think. That fact is that she lost her only son. I know as a mother I feel sorry for her loss. This is a devastating blow. We are not with her in her time of sorrow so we don’t know her true feelings about the matter.

    I won’t attack a woman who just lost her only child. Only God knows her true feelings and it is wrong to specualte that she had no love for her only child.

  • lilianasanchez86

    ow, just saw ur pics from rio de janeiro, so so beautiful. rio is a great city… i can teach u portuguese lol

    cute family 2 :)

  • kit

    I can see how he trip she probably look like his prison love BUBBLES.i mean cellmate

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    @lilianasanchez86 – yeah my moms from panama couple of those brasil pics are mine and some of the others from my boy when I was building site. Now I got this better camera so Ill have alot more to work with when going on vacation. My lil niece isabella is a trip I usually take her with me when goin to work in studio or babysit when sister working. Yeah my portugese is heh I work in progress , I need to tighten up my spanish since moving back to Austin aside from my kinfolk nobody really speaks spanish on this side of town.

  • Ty

    F*ck a Thug

    That’s a movement I can get behind.

  • lilianasanchez86

    @Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest) – work in the studio humm? so what u do? awwww how sweet babysiting ur lil niece…. : ) im brazilian but my father is from bolivia. so im great at portuguese and spanish and they are very similar i think. so u tragel alot? thats great i love 2 travel 2, i have been in 3 diferent continents already, just need to visit asia and oceania : P

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    lilianasanchez86 – I got a production company up here, I produce and write music – Square gig do Network Admin/IT work as well (recession grind haha). Yeah Ill still jam the hell out of some Bossa , heh get some strange looks from my boys while in the ride. I do like going abroad as much as can , feels that definitely expands your horizons and lets you see things from other peoples perspective. Rosalia de Souza gets alot of spin my deck

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    @1TruDiva haha your on point no need to worry bout those typos ..

  • Yvonne

    Didn’t William have 2 or 3 girlfriends and one of them was suppose to be pregnant by him? That makes me wonder why would he be so jealous over Julia seeing someone?

    There are a few videos on CLTV with William’s mother ranting and raving on some call in show about him not doing this.

    On one of the other videos the prosecuting attorney says there was gun residue on William’s car on the steering wheel.

    They also said William killed the mother in the living room and killed Jason as he was lying in bed and William had stole the gun from Jason in the summer. They have yet to say when little Julian was killed but they did say he was killed in the SUV.

    I have read so many variations of this story that I am confused at this point.

    I still say Julia knew from the beginning what brought all this on and why she did not get a restraining order when he first threatend her family, but instead kept seeing him is beyond me.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    waddup ppl….

    why do ppl keep bringing up that he had 2 or 3 girlfriends like that keeps a man from being jealous… a lot of men believe they can do and see who they want but they dont want their girl doin the same…

  • lilianasanchez86

    ahhh i love her. :D but my favorite brazilian singer is djavan i dont know i just love him maybe cause i met him once.YAY. for real ? u work alot but thats all very intresting tho… ive seen some coutries but i still feel like brasil is the best cause of the diversity and all the natural beauty :)

  • http://deleted CriticXtreme

    Dame shame, if home boy did do this ish, the cooter made him do it. They say there’s someone for everyone out there and here’s proof.

  • Honeybunz

    Violence is violence and ultimately the only person that shall be blamed is the perpetrator..we are all responsible for our own actions..I’m sure Julia Hudson (although she made a bad choice) didnt think that half her family would be killed by this man..I’m sure her burden is already heavy..maybe she should have taken his threats seriously but who knows how many times he has threatened her before..it doesnt matter how she looks that is so shallow..if jealousy was his true motive this kind of violence is about control..plain and simple..but u know ANY of us could pick the wrong person… a person could be a person with no previous record that many ppl have great things to say about and they could be the most deadliest choice any of us ever make..I have been personally affected by this violence..my sis in law and one of my best friends was brutally beaten to death by a man who had no previous record and was an ultimate fighter champion who many ppl in the community were shocked that he would commit such a crime..He killed my friend my beating her with an iron..stomping her and many more heinous things..the images of that trial are in my head forever and how such an innocent person must have suffered because of someones inability to control their own emotions..Violence crosses all lines..race..economic lines etc…so instead of pointing our fingers at Julia and knocking down even more a person that has to be already on her knees, lets give her our support..who knows one day it could be any of us that goes thru this..i dont wish on anyone what my family has experienced over the loss of Maria..and i support the Hudson family!

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    waddup 1tru…

  • lilianasanchez86

    ahhh i love her. :D but my favorite brazilian singer is djavan i dont know i just love him maybe cause i met him once.YAY. for real ? u work alot but thats all very intresting tho… ive seen some coutries but i still feel like brasil is the best cause of the diversity and all the natural beauty :)

  • Shana

    @ DIva Said

    The last thing on Jula’s mind is getting counseling! This woman is basking (sp) in the glory of being the center of attention!

    Her self-esteem is just that damaged that–in a sick, demented sort of way, she actually feels more popular than her famous sister!!

    ——————————————————————————————————

    A person who is not in touch with their emotions would feel this way.

    You were speculating that she was using this tragedy to be popular.

    No loss is worse than burying a child. Empathize with her loss, and what that child might have experienced before his death.

    A sick, damaged, individual would seek attention from losing a child.

    People chose bad mates all the time. That is why the divorce rate is high and so is domestic violence.

    This woman indeed placed her child in harms way, because of poor choices, but it is so mean spirited to assume she is using this for publicity, and that she is not grieving.

    You should study and research Dysfunctional relationships, personality disorders, codepenecy, toxic relationships and abuse.

    It sheds light on the reason why women make such poor choices, when involved in an obsessive co-dependent relationship. It also sheds light on a personality such as William Balfour.

    It is no excuse to justify their wrongdoings. William being a violent obsessive Narcissist and Her suffering from a number of things that I mentioned in a earlier post.

    These kind of people gravitate toward one another. It is a perfect fit. Blame can be placed on everyone.

    Why did Julia have such low self worth that she subjected her son to such a man?

    Why was William so controlling over Julia when he had other women?

    They are both two very troubled people.

    You were right about one thing. This is not LOVE AT ALL!!

  • WHATEVER!!!!!

    OPPS, I meant *last, but NOT least*

  • Shana

    @ Diva

    Nix Mary Brown was killed by her stepfather while her mother watched and did nothing. That child layed on the bathroom floor the night of her last beating while her mother watched her gasping for air and did not call 911

    The mother got more time than the stepfather who did the actual beatings. She failed to protect her child as well.

    I think this was different Because Julia did not know that he would to this.

    Nixmary’s mom watched and did nothing. How could a mother watch her child be brutalized and murdered in front of her eyes and do nothing to intervene?

    That is more loathsome than anything else.

    These other women you mentioned killed their own kids.

  • Derick

    again, if you’re easily offended by this sites content, STOP TYPING IN B.O.S.S.I.P dot com!!! OR just delete it from your favorites ..

  • ViDeOpHoNe*StAr

    Ordinarily people would side with the family of the victims BUT she has tried to capitalize on the tragedy and getting attention from the public. She didnt just use her myspace page as a platform to find her son when he was missing, but even after the funeral she was still taking time out to post new pictures, make comments and captions on said pictures (now that justin’s gone, i’m the prettiest) even if these things were said in jest its still incomprehensible that she would even think about turning on a computer during what many would believe should be her time for mourning. i lost my brother to cancer after a long battle and for months i would not leave my room. i refused to talk to people and could barely cope. to this day i still think of him and am not the same. People handle grief differently, but we have not shown her handle hers at all. Public perception of her which she created herself is why people do not symphathize with her and why i look at her picture and think GOT DAYUM SHE UGLY.

  • lilianasanchez86

    what? my coment is waiting for moderation? txhustla… the coment that is waiting 4 moderation is 4 u. hahah

  • ViDeOpHoNe*StAr

    I dont feel closure on this case though. I think Chi cops felt pressure to close on this because of the high profile aspect but I dont think this guy murdered 3 people like that. He either helped, was an accomplice or set it up. This doesn’t feel like a one man show.

  • lilianasanchez86

    ahhh i love her. but my favorite brazilian singer is djavan i dont know i just love him maybe cause i met him once.YAY. for real ? u work alot but thats all very intresting tho… ive seen some coutries but i still feel like brasil is the best cause of the diversity and all the natural beauty

    (finally….god!)

  • Shana

    Susan Smith original story was that a black man kidnapped her kids. I knew as soon as I heard that story that is was bullshi* because a black man don’t want 2 white toddlers. The police in N.C. are so stupid that they ran with this story for 2 days before the realized she lied. She claimed her new man didn’t want children.

  • Tina

    Hey Fallin 1Tru!!

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    ok 1 tru lets talk bout sex…..im sick of the serious stuff…

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    hey tina!!!

  • Tina

    Wheres my pic?

  • ViDeOpHoNe*StAr

    @ Derick

    i think she had something to do with this too. Her just happening to leave as he was coming over is just too coincidental.

  • Tina

    I think I typed the wrong email. My tarheels are on TV. We gonna kick some Mich St. ass tonight.

  • Honeybunz

    Thanks 1 tru diva! i’m so sensitive to this because this trial was in Rhode island just a couple of weeks ago..Violence especially domestic is a major issue ..ppl need to realize that any of us could make the wrong choice

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    What you up to?

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    watermelon… :D

    i asked my ex what i tasted like and she tried to be funni and she said it tastes like chicken lmao… but id saw strawberries..

  • Tina

    @1Tru

    Your little girl is too cute.

  • Tina

    Those flavors yall name make good drinks.

  • Shana

    @ Diva

    I think William received too many beatings. A man who is so violent in cold in nature has most likely been abused, physically, verbally, and mentally. Anger is the only thing they know. It supersedes all logic. They are emotionless, no empathy for others, and is never remorseful for any wrongdoings. They just place blame on their victims.

    I hope that sick pathetic man never see’s the light of day.

  • Tina

    LMAO@1Tru

    At one point, I went into the kitchen. The lil mufukka comes in and asks me if I can get him a drink of water. I did.

    Then I elbowed him RIGHT IN HIS THROAT and STEPPED ON HIS FOOT–r.e.a.l slow!!!!

    I whispered to him if he did ANYTHING else to Mykel, I was going to sneak into his house, kidnap him and his dog and bury him in my backyard!!!!
    ______________________________

    You made him piss hisself. Girl, he gonna be wettin the bed at the night thinkin about you. That was funny as hell.

  • Sistah_PhD2be

    @ WTF
    ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ I am flatlining over here from laughter @ “a friend who is 300 lbs and ugly” LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Sistah_PhD2be

    oh yeah ome more thing Eff a thug!!

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    @lilianasanchez86 – yeah haha shes real dope , then we go to the classics like sergio. Im still going to have to ride for Panama , where my moms is from is tight Colon is hidden little coastal town that overlooks the caribbean

  • BeingMyself

    She is not ugly; she is just fat. Being fat does not make you ugly. People are attracted to all types of people. Obviously, the killer thought she was someone special to kill innocent people just because her boyfriend gave her a gift. Let us not be like Young Berg LOL. We do not need to put her down for being fat or full figured. It is sad that this guy killed three of her family members, which included her son, mother, and brother. He was mad, because she decided to date someone else besides him. We have to be careful about the people we choose to date these days.

  • lilianasanchez86

    i dont really kno much about panama… but from those pics looks reallly good. but hey, it might be u that is a good photographer. hahaha

    oh u live in austin and im in detroit (SOUTH VS NORTH) : D lol

  • Sistah_PhD2be

    Hi all

    @1trudiva I remember that conference too, it went a little sumtin like this, “Just please let my son go, if your beef is with me then take it up with me” she never mentoned one thing about Balfour.

    She appeared rehearsed while covering a deep secret, something just ain’t right here. While I have nothing negative to say about the young lady’s looks, she is hiding something very ugly; something our minds could never ever conceive.

  • Sistah_PhD2be

    mentioned*

  • Shana

    @ Diva

    It is still not equavalent to plotting and carrying out your kids murder. Julia made bad choices in a man and subjecting her son to a bad man. She didn’t kill her whole family. William Did.

    I’m not saying she has clean hands but it certainly is not the same as plotting and killing your children or child.

    hypothetically speaking, if a woman has a relationship with a peodphile who has never been caught and punished, but she does not know he is and he happens to molest her child. Who is to blame? The mother for not knowing and subjecting her child to him or the pedophile himself? The pedophile is to blame.

    That child will be scarred for life emotionally and the mother will have to live with the results of her bad decisions.

  • Micaroni715

    Whoever the author of this article is needs serious help. The tone of this story is too meanspirited.

  • Ms. Hiphop

    Editor…did you proof read your work? WOW!!!

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    You workin late?

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    oooooooooooohhhhh weeeeeeeeeeee Blair underwood is so fineeeeeeee… ugh i love lookin at him on my screen…

  • Ms. Hiphop

    Ok…you did not proof read your article!!! Go back and do it now!!!

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    How is that possible. I think thats what happen to Man. What you watchin with Blair? He is fine though.

  • Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @1Tru Diva,

    LOL. I am back. My paper still isnt done. I dont have a problem with parents spanking their children but all too often parents, especially single mothers, especially black mothers take out their frustrations on their children. Thats why so many black kids are in the system.

    Black mothers exact revenge on children not discipline. If she had a man around, a man wouldnt even have to hit his children. A look is worth a thousand smacks. Bring the man back into the home you 9 finger females or continue to use your children as punching bags.

    Diva I am calling CPS on you. That or I am going to contract out your services. How much would you charge to whoop a kids ass?

  • Sydney

    *yawn*

    Hi, all — Just popping in before I head to bed.

    @Kigali

    Whatever inspired you to write this?

    “As a result of the black females refusal to marry and provide stable environments for herself and her children, her left hand would have adapted to having loss any practical use for her ring finger, thus creating the 9 finger black female. Thousands of years from now, black females will be born with only 9 fingers having loss any use of the ring finger.”

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    wadduppppppppppppppppp syd…

  • Sydney

    Hey Fallin!

    Hey Diva!

    Hey Tina!

    I saw the old gang, so I wanted to pop and say hi. :)

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    You aint missin much. Its just the same ole same ole. UNC is kickin some ass girl. They winnin 63 to 41. Mich. St. might as well go sit they asses down. Its a wrap. I may have to talk to Man tomorrow. He likes them too. What was Blair wearin

  • Sydney

    *pop in*

  • Tina

    Hey Sydney

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ Tina… i root for the tarheels too bc its MJ’s alma mater… :) and tyler hansbrough(sp?) plays kinda crazy but hes good…

    and Blair is wearing a suit..

  • Shana

    Some people equate discipline with beating a child until they bleed. showing a child no love, no affection, no attention, is emotional abuse. When you treat your kids in such a manner they will have some sort of emotional trauma.

    The laws have changed to protect children because parents were too severe.

    KIGALI stop saying black mothers as if child abuse is only done by black women.

    Ryan Oneal knocked his son’s teeth out when he was an adolescent. He was abusive towards all of his children. His son who he beat is a drug addict who just got arrested recently for drugs and His daughter Tatum Oneal is a known addict. They are white. Dysfunctional families, and abuse are in every race.

    I do agree that parents tend to take their frustrations out on their children.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    chicago is awesome like always… just cold as hell right now lol… but its all good… :)

  • Sydney

    On a side note, I’m looking at a mug shot of Balfour on chicagotribune(dot)com, and he looks totally defiant. This is all so senseless. . .

  • Tina

    LOL@Fallin

    I was talkin about the Bulls.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    LMAO………..oh the bulls…umm i havent been following… i know im bad.

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    I should start just readin more comment too. There are some smart men that I could enjoy just sittin back and readin their comment. I just want to talk to some. I have alot of paperwork to do to so i dont know

  • Sydney

    LOL @ Fallin

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    watchu laughin at syd lol???

  • Tina

    LOL@Fallin

    You know I had a Paris moment before remember.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    btw julia is one ugly ass chick… her lips disgust me, just sayn… and bihs thinks shes all that a a bag of flamin hots( yea im takin it back)

  • Shana

    @ Diva

    Ok hypothetically speaking you and your Jump off parted ways. Now all of a sudden he is obsessive, won’t stop calling and he keeps coming to your house unexpectedly. Now he is threatening you because you won’t return his calls and he NEEDS to see you. Now he is cutting your tires, Now he is popping up at your job. you get a restraining order and he is ordered to stay away but he just can’t and does the unthinkable…………………

    Relationships go sour. It doesn’t matter if you are married, single, just sex buddies, or platonic friends and the other wants more. Some people are just physco, and hide it well.

  • Sydney

    @Fallin

    I totally would have made the same mistake, that’s all. I’m sports-impaired. :)

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    yea i remember u had a jessica moment, not sure what it was bout tho… but we all have them

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ syd……… nah i love sports…… :) just been busy.

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Stop you know you do some things to her

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    Tina… watch yo mouf!!! hell nah i wouldnt touch that woman wit a 10 foot pole… i dont like big girls, andi dont like dumb girls, and i dont like nasty looking girls…

  • Sydney

    LOL, I guess I’m the only one who’s sports-impaired. . .

    OK, ladies, I’m out, have a good night!

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Geesh. I mean you should give love to everybody. Stop being so stingy with your goodies.

  • Tina

    LMAO@Fallin

    That was funny as hell. Good one

  • Tina

    93 to 58 UNC lead

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ tina.. blah blah blah

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    blah blah hell What post do you read since you cant write?

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    where is every1, and why cant we talk bout something good since i cant post during the day

  • Tina

    What you want to talk about? When I don’t post, I read. Its just as good to me cause I have a crush girl.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    *hold up, wait a minute, dont go there, cuz i aint wit it* who the f*ck is ur crush???

  • Tina

    LMAO@Fallin

    Knew that was comin. I can’t tell you that. Its a dude though.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ tina, trick u better spill the beans… actually i have 2 guesses actually maybe 3…. fifth1found@yahoo.com hit me up.. :D

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    hello coleslaw and mashed potatoes, and potato salad and all that good stuff :D how u doing..

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    What make you think you have a guess.

  • Tina

    Hey Keyshia!!

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    watchu mean what makes me think that i have a guess.. bc i do… and i be seeing who u be talkin too… im observant… 1 guess is the babyface from the chi.. ;)

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    OK. What you been observin. Tell me who you think it is without sayin the name. I’m gonna email you and tell you.

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    You leave? My email address is a television character from The Game. It’s comin.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    no tina im still here i guessed already… i said maybe the babyface from the chiii

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Wrong. You wont guess it. This is a rare breed girl. Had my eye on him for sometime now.

  • This Hoe

    This hoe just wanted some dick. All these over weight women WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to get something ANYTHING in between they fat thighs. It disgusts me. They think nobody else will be intrested in them so they pick the 1st loser with a dick lol. Its funny but at the same time its sad. But this whole story is sad and Julia should be ashamed.

  • Tina

    @1Tru

    You can do that at yahoo, hotmail, gmail. Its the same way as a real one. You just make up another one.

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ Tru, whatchu mean a bogus email??? i guess i made one up that has all false info… no real name, no real location….

  • Tina

    Wrong Wrong again. LMAO. You wont get it Fallin. My email is a Game character. I’m gonna send it to ya.

  • Tina

    @SXYQ

    Is that you? Who your favorite character from Girlfriends?

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    how bout dapro???

  • Tina

    Wrong. I’m gonna email it to you now. OK

  • sxyQ SAYS I AM FEELING ONE LEVEL ABOVE CLOUD NINE

    LOL!!!

    GIRL YOU KNOW MYA WAS MY CHICK ON THAT SHOW!!

    I AM GLAD YOU ARE STEERING CLEAR OF THE IMPOSTER AND MAKING HE/SHE WORK!!

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    tina that isnt sxyq i checked the properties.

  • BE

    Hey Tina, Fallin and Diva

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Yep I know. I just wanted to see how much studying she been doin

    Hey BE!!

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    hey be

  • BE

    Diva

    I just read blaq’s 7:28pm post–

    “as un-attractive as you appear in your gravitar, I suspect you’ve spent one or two lonely nights as well.”

    _____________________________________________________

    ________________F.L.A.T.L.I.N.E.D____________________

    YEAH I WAS DEAD AFTER THAT TOO…LMAO1

    and she sounded so sincere about calling her ugly
    priceless

  • sxyQ SAYS I AM FEELING ONE LEVEL ABOVE CLOUD NINE

    HEY DIVA!! YOU BETTER HAVE MYKEL IN BED AT THIS HOUR MAMA OR I AM GOING TO CALL CPS AND TELL THEM YOU BEING A BAD MAMA!! LOL

  • BE

    @diva – just go to yahoo and make up a name…use onetrudiva for instance…when the profile info comes up put in one true diva and any zip code, I think you can leave the rest blank. this will allow you to give out the e-mail address and filter e-mails to those you trust to another e-mail once you are more comfortable..

  • Stace FACE

    Those innocent people were murdered because of a person who is a sociopath, a kidnapper and a murderer. This poor woman is not responsible for these murders. THE MURDERER IS!!!!!!! And please stop the ridiculing of his poor woman, I would imagine she is devastated by the loss of family members. This is such a sad story, but good always prevails. God loves.

  • BE

    @Diva – where are you meeting Martians, Midgets and Goat herders??!!! LOL

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Check now.

    @1Tru

    There’s a way that you can create an e-mail account that you can receive messages but it’s not an actual account.
    ______________________

    I aint know that. Learn something new everyday

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Just think The Game. I don’t know if you saw that before.

  • sxyQ SAYS I AM FEELING ONE LEVEL ABOVE CLOUD NINE

    DIVA!!

    THIS IS THE FUN IMPOSTER!!

    PLEASE COME BACK AND COOL YOURSELF WITH A MARTIN LUFFA DA KANG CHURCH FAN!! IT WILL BE ALRIGHT!!

  • Tina

    Bye 1Tru!!

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ tina……… lmao…………… oh thats interesting… hes cool ppl, i like his convo.. oh lemme email the rest.

  • sxyQ SAYS I AM FEELING ONE LEVEL ABOVE CLOUD NINE

    ANY CYBER DICK FOR ME TONIGHT??

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    You betta stop playin. Don’t make me come to the Chi and kick ya ass.

  • sxyQ SAYS I AM FEELING ONE LEVEL ABOVE CLOUD NINE (434) 845-0911 AX FOR Q

    DIVA COME BACK!!

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Check again

  • sxyQ SAYS I AM FEELING ONE LEVEL ABOVE CLOUD NINE (434) 845-0911 AX FOR Q

    EYES GOING LOOKING FOR DIVA!

  • Tina

    @BE

    What you been up to?

  • T.C.

    Yeah GOONIE GO GO look a hot mess. I can’t believe that she has the nerve to call out Julia. Judging from her screen name and looks Goonie suits her.

    I certainly don’t think that she has a lot of options. Sh got to take what she can get, when she can get it.

    Fuk a lonely night or two.

  • BE

    @tina – nothing much…..just trying to stay above this recession or depression..How was your thanksgiving

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    @ tina… sent.

  • Tina

    @BE

    We had so much food left over. Alot of family didn’t show up. It was still good. Was yours cool?

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    Did you get it

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    yup yup i got it… time to put a face to the name and perona… stop slackin.

  • BE

    @tina – yeah my t day was great!

  • The Scarecrow

    Is it just me or does JHUD’s sister not look like the Witch from the Wiz? “Don’t nobody brang me/NO. Bad. News!!!”

  • BE

    ggod night ladies…whew i can not hang!

  • CrooklynQueen

    It’s sad that people will pretend that Julia’s lack of attractiveness had something to do with this… Balfour was CRAZY and if it hadn’t been the Hudson family, it would have been someone else.

    Another reason why THIS black woman sets a bar for any dude to meet, black or white. No hood rats/criminals/trailer park trash need apply…

  • Tina

    @Fallin

    I will

  • Tina

    Bye BE!!

  • Tina

    I guess everyone is gone. TTYL Fallin! Keepin fingers cross

  • FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    c ya tina… ill keep my fingers crossed as well…

  • http://ilovewhatwomenwant.blogspot.com/ shannae

    And… What are you trying to suggest… its like your post implies that she is less than human because she isn’t a supermodel with a size 2 waist…

    SMH…

  • Diamond D

    While this is clearly a tradegy. Lets see if Julie Hudson gets a swelled head because of the rumor that her ex killed three people because hewas jealous over her. I bet any money she post something stupid on her myspace page. I’m only saying this because of the cnn report that seem to mention everything silly she posted as the story unfolded. But my prayers will be with you.

  • faye

    Some of you people are so cruel and sick my sister was one of those big girls and she was sick all her life with ashtma before she ever got big. God took my sister on 11/28/08 and you know what it hurts sooo bad I miss my sister she wasn’t fat she was like julia hudson a person.Even being sick she had a 3.6 GPA @ North Carolina State University So when you are being cruel remember someone loves these people that are fat as much as you love the skinny people in the world. And yes you can grieve and go to myspace the only way I could express myself besides cry was to blog on myspace. I wouldn’t wish my pain on anybody so walk a step in someone shoes before you judge my sister was 24 yrs old and my 20 yr old sister found my sister cold in the bathroom dead from an ashtma attack. you can see me and my poor baby sister on myspace.com/butterfly2521 please go to my site so you can really understand the pain:-( Faye

  • kola

    I read you guys alot and have never made a comment, but what you guys listed here is just WROND and DISRESPECTFUL!!! It does not matter what she looks like! You should be Respecting Jennifer and her family at this tragic time and having comments like this plastered across your site..is NOT the way to do it!

  • kola

    THIS JUST NEEDS TO BE REMOVED ASAP!

  • Mrs. Rance

    I love how entertainment blogs and the people who frequent them act like only women who look like Halle Berry get men to fall in love with them. Even while most of them are only average themselves. I guess they ain’t got no man and they’re mad about it or something. He obviously loved her enough to marry her so him being jealous about her dating isn’t much of a stretch at all.

    Still I think Julia has mental shortcomings. Her leaving that man on her MySpace page after the deaths of her family members goes beyond self esteem issues. And now that we know he came to her house and threatened her the day of the killings the MySpace thing is even more strange. Girly got issue for sure.

  • John

    When you associate with thugs, bad things happen. I hate to say it but…TOLD YOU SO!

  • Ermy Erm (Chitown til it go DOWN!)

    I agree with 1Tru…Julia is showing signs of someone who has NO remorse and doesnt care one lick about what has happened. Personally, I dont think William Balfour did this, I DO however believe that he and Julia KNOW more than they are saying. I think more than one person was involved. Didnt the little boy get killed while Balfour was in jail? I dont know. Somewhere I read that Julian had only been dead 6 hrs when they found him and Balfour was in custody on FRIDAY. Too many questions dont add up. Somethin is fishy and it STINKS! I hope they bring in Julia for questioning. I watch SNAPPED and by her behavior, I feel Julia is capable of knowing who did this and not saying anything. I know we cant dictate how someone should act, but her behavior is bizarre. My heart goes out to Jennifer for this loss.

  • MONEY IS A GIRL’S BEST FRIEND

    @ Goonie Goo Goo

    Before you cast stones please check your ugg mug in the mirror. I’m pretty sure someone would rather be fat then a dusty azz skeletor looking, buckwheat on crack, crusting mouthed nappy headed hoe. People kill making comments about other people when they look like they’ve just crawled out of casket, cracks me the f#@k up every time.

  • PREGG0 && FiERCE

    hmmm…iDK B0UT THiS 0NE B0SSiP…
    Y0U MAY NEEd M0RE PPL T0 PR0VE THiS….

  • TAMEKA NOT USHER WIFE LOL

    DAME SHE IS UGULY I FEEL SORRY FOR JH WHAT A DAME SHAME I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GLAD THAT JH BORTHER IN LAW IS GOING GET LIFE FOR KILLING HER MOTHER AND BORTHER AND NEPHEW.HE ONE CRAZY AZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ GUY I BEEN SAYING THAT HE DID IT AND I WAS RIGHT SO HE CAN GO TO HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLL RIGHT NOW. AND IF JH SISTER GO BACK TO HIM THATS MEANS THAT SHE HAVE SOMETHING TO WITH IT TO. SHM

  • http://aol ASPEN

    This guy was crazy, but Julia brought this brother into this mess and now she has to deal with it. Julia has to get what she can get.

  • Ms. T.

    Balfour is no prize. They should just take him out back and handle things the old fashioned way.

  • liynnt

    Some of you really need to stop with the nasty things you say about people. I mean what gives you the right to belittle anyone. I feel bad for Jennifer she lost alot. But my heart pours out for her SISTER she lost her mother, brother and HER SON. Her family is gone not coming back. Someone posted that Jennifer will never be the same. Well I say none of them will be the same. And for the ones that feel the need to put this women down and call her ugly. Look in the mirror and see who is checking for you.

  • And…..(with 5 dots)

    This “motive” doesn’t seem legit. There had to be more to it than some “jealousy” issues. An ass whoopin over jealous, yes….but a triple murder, no! I’m not buying it.

  • MyLittlePony

    Goonie Goo Goo you sound real stupid. I am tired of @$sholes like you assuming that big girls have low self esteem and are so desperate for a man that they will scrape the bottom of the barrel. I am a big girl with tons of self esteem who is very particular about whom she dates. I am married to a man who is neither a thug nor a homicidal maniac. While your comment may be true for Julia, it’s totally disrespectful for you to decide that such a trait is typical of fat black women. Unfortunately there are also many beautiful thin women that fall into the same trap.

  • http://www.gravatar.com OmG

    MyLittlePony

    Goonie Goo Goo you sound real stupid. I am tired of @$sholes like you assuming that big girls have low self esteem and are so desperate for a man that they will scrape the bottom of the barrel. I am a big girl with tons of self esteem who is very particular about whom she dates. I am married to a man who is neither a thug nor a homicidal maniac. While your comment may be true for Julia, it’s totally disrespectful for you to decide that such a trait is typical of fat black women. Unfortunately there are also many beautiful thin women that fall into the same trap.
    ___________________
    Thank u so very much for that post

  • nicole

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  • The Real MS. T.

    I think everyone should look at the whole picture. Julia’s brother was no angel (god bless the dead). Both balfour and the brother was in a gang at one point and are the police are clueless. Their brother was shot before and i think it had something to do with that. hhhhhhhmmmmmmmm…. Who cares about their relationship but i pray for the rest of the family.

  • Cmon

    @ Goonie Goo Goo

    Sounds like a “typical overweight black woman” either screwed your man or your daddy. Those comments don’t sound like someone who is straight with who they are. And if that’s your pic in your avi, I can see why you’re mad. LMAO.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Ok its been enough time, F*ck shes ugly! Like Ive said since 02/13/07, Fat ugly b*tches love those thug n*ggas fresh outta jail! They dont complain about sh*t, they just want a hot meal, they dont have to work, fat sloppy musty puzzy 24/7 and her momma to clean up after you.

    I’d look at Julia’s picture again but I just had breakfast.

    I told ya’ll 6am never wrong.

  • tg

    That’s the problem with Prosecutors. You don’t know who is innocent or who is really guilty – because half the stuff that comes out of their mouth – sounds preposterous.
    I hope they are not making up SHYT as they go – just to get the case closed. I know it sounds just as preposterous, but anyone who has any personal knowledge of the criminal justice system knows this to be true. Why do you think so many people go to jail for crimes they didn’t commit, especially if they committed a crime in the past – half their defense game is over already – weather they did it or not.

  • huss

    @ Man Down

    Actually she had up ‘for god so love the world he gave his only begotten son’ as her statement. Which made no damn since.

    I always knew she had something to do w/ this and that she knew Balfour did it. I knew it for sure when I saw the same message you saw on my space where she’s like she didnt know loving this man would cost her whole family.

    Oh really so you knew then he took your family and you said nothing to the police?

  • http://gallery.me.com/silkyj#100088 Txhustla15 (Austin’s Finest)

    lilianasanchez86

    i dont really kno much about panama… but from those pics looks reallly good. but hey, it might be u that is a good photographer. hahaha

    oh u live in austin and im in detroit (SOUTH VS NORTH) : D lol

    Hows Detroit bet its cold as hell up there , we lounging in 70′s down here..

  • je$$i

    im not going to say anthing to disrespect jennifer hudson and her family my sympathy goes out to her but thats sad . and he diserves life

  • Emmy

    I stand by what I said, darling. People have their opinions.

    But, I’m pretty much done addressing this…because…its kinda GAY to fight over comments on a blog.

  • deafjam04

    @ huss

    Well said! I certainly wouldn’t be on the blogs constantly after losing a child. It really just makes you wonder what is going on in a person’s head. It’s not even my family and I feel like I’m grieving everytime I think about the mom, brother & nephew!

  • Wow

    This by far is the tackiest post in the history of blogging. You make Perez Hilton look like a teacher at a Charm School.

    Tasteless, tacky, and you should be ashamed of yourself. You truly are the definition of uncouth.

  • Cracka

    Pvssy looks like it smells like the bottom of a dumpster. When she get wet it probably looks and smells like that sh!t that be dripping out the bottom of a dumpster.

  • Cracka

    And what is up with fat black women that wear the brightest colors(clothes, hair, lipstick, etc).
    They should spend more time eating right and exercising than accessorizing. Don’t BS with the stereotyping cause you seen ‘em to. Walking 5 deep in the mall or on the sidewalk and then wanna fight you even when you say excuse me to get by.
    Throw a piece o’ chicken down if you wanna distract ‘em and get away.

  • Cracka

    She in dat pic like “I know I look good”.

    Of course you look like a beauty queen to all them convicts you pen-palling with.
    Starve a n!gga and piss gonna taste like apple juice to him.

    It is all about the men you attract. Put a water-buffalo in some tight pants and parade it through the projects and them corner boys gonna be like
    God Damn dat is a phat ass.

    You wanna attract a Barack Obama or a Lil’ Nuk Nuk.

  • Princess Moon

    she needs to seriously lay off the country fried gizzards

  • http://www.gravatar.com OmG

    I’m not gonna argue with some of you on here and I’m not demonizing your points…..I will say that them 5 0r 6.. Big Mekas that you see in the mall in a group right behind them is them….lil nu nu’s and shay shay’s with the loud weaves and tacky stilettos in every color with da dark eye liner around their lips….thinking somebody checking for they broke ass……

    Note for ya the next time you see a pack traveling in a group be sure to tell them how you really feel face up….and if you have advice spew it in an adult manner not to hurt someone personally because you never know how someone may feel……thats Y Karma is a bad B

  • turk

    man they is tripped out..look how big that damn lady is go head wit that man what the fuk!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • http://leolabernard@sbcglobal.net Texas

    That was a real bad lesson Julia Hudson had to learn the hard way. It took her to loose her mother, brother, and precisou litle boy to realize that dating a thug is not the way to go. She is too old not to have better judgement in regards to the male companion. So sad. So sad.

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  • Ms. Stephanie

    Maybe I’m out of my league here, but I sincerely think that there is more to the story than what is being told by the media and the family. Although we all would love to think that the case has been solved by a sudden charge to this Balfour guy, but I think Julia needs to answer a few more questions. First, how did this guy end up with the gun belonging to the brother? Remember he was asked to leave the home over a month ago. The brother was shot through the door, and there was no evidence of breaking and entering. Why was her son not even in school at that time? She left all of them home and she was the one to find them. Love comes in all shapes and sizes, and no one can determine how long and how much one can love another. If he loved her as they claim, alot of us choose to think that it is because he saw himself losing his meal ticket or close relation to the celebrity Hudson. Nevertheless, it is my opinion that they need to look a little further. There is sure to be more to the story. I have a daughter and just the thought of something happening so tragic to her, I would be neither able to sit, stand, talk, or walk but that’s just my opinion.

  • mewo

    several months before the killings, a LIFE INSURANCE POLICY was taken out on the mom, bro and kid by JULIA AND JENNIFER .. someone needs to look at that

  • RosieDD

    @letshkeepitreal. There is a big difference between men who are loafers and men that are murderers. Since you feel that you are educated, take a basic psychology class and learn about the intrinsic factors neccesary to permit a person to commit cold blooded murder, especially the murder of a child. You are way out of your league speaking on that one. A BUM DOES NOT A MURDERER MAKE. If it did, we would all be dead. If you say she is just as responsible that would mean her mother and brother are responsible for their own deaths as well because they also accepted him into their lives. Just like Julia, her mother, her brother or her sister Jennifer, they had no clue that this man is a psychopathic killer. You are trying to merge (all races of)womens poor choices in men (lazy, no good cheating loafers) with murderers. It makes no sense. I’m quite sure she would have prefered being cheated on or recieving no spousal support to her whole family being massacred. You are talking about two vastly different types of men.

  • blackgirl

    I think IN THIS CASE…Julia Hudson is responsible for her childs and mothers death. She brought a complete loser around her kids rather than being alone. Ive said this before because I wholeheartedly believe it but I’m tired of hearing that black females should choose better. The choices are not there. There are more black women than black men. There are even more black women getting skills than black men. Common sense says that some black females will need to be alone rather than do what Julia did. However, I would like to say this….since it is evidently the fault of black women for all the failures of the black community….then let men do the choosing. I’m tired of hearing folks lay blame on black women for the failures of black society. Men…they can be a plum crazy loon but its women who are responsible for having the better judgment. Disregard the brother with no sense. Dare I say….black men…if you see a loser women…YOU CHOOSE to leave her alone but no…all the fault is on the female. Never mind the fact that black men have brains too and should be able to think about their mate as well. It is my belief that if we as black people are going to solve the issue with black love…both men and women have to realize the problems. Ok true…black women choose wrong…but….1 – can we get better choices. 2 – since black females are so feeble they cant choose right then let black males “choose”..see if they are better at it.

  • leave-it-be

    <<<<< i DONT GET IT!!! I JUST DON’T GET IT??? YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THAT AFTER ALL THIS TIME THE PO-PO HAD THIS MAN IN CUSTODY, THEY ARE NOW JUST TELLING US THAT HE WAS AT HER HOUSE THE MORNING OF THE MURDER AND JULI8A LEFT OUT THE HOUSE WITH HIM AFTER SHE KNEW OF THE PREVIOUS THREATS TO HER FAMILY!!!!!!!!????? UH-UH!!!! SOMETHING IS BEING OMITTED FOR WHATEVER REASON IT WILL COME OUT!!!!! AND WHY DIDN’T JULIA OR THE POLICE AT THE BEGINNING OF THIS TRADEGY STATE SHE WAS WITH HIM AT THE HOUSE THAT MORNING!??? THE POLICE STATED THEY TRACED HIM THROUGH HIS CELL PHONE??? SO MAYBE WHEN THE GUY’S PROBATION OFFICER SAID THAT BALFOUR TOLD HIM ” HE WAS BABYSITTING, AND THEY FOUND THRU HIS CELL PHONE HE WAS IN jHUD’S AREA, HE WAS WITH jULIA???? she need to be locked up WITH HIM!!!!!!

  • RosieDD

    @letskeepitreal. ‘Explain away’ what facts? There is no way to ‘explain away’ a triple homicide. Maybe you need to define what you mean by ‘no good’. A man that kills three people is much worse than ‘no good’. She was supossed to konw this man was going to kill her family? How exactly was she or her mother or her brother supposed to know that? If they did, wouldnt they still be alive? Be for real. Unless she was in collusion with this man, it is not her fault, period.

  • qtpa2t

    Julia had something to do with this. She married a loser and it wasn’t even the loser father of her child, but another loser. She caused all of this. Insecure, fat and ghetto. Death doesn’t erase the fact that she is those things. Her press conference was very suspect to me. She said, and I quote “I don’t know if Julian is in the truck..” why would she even say that? They found that child in the truck. How in the hell would she know that, other than some type of involvement or knowledge. She’s suspect number 1, in my opinion. She had no love for him, he was raised as her brother not her child. Jennifer and their mom loved him more than she did. She’s suspect. Her and Balfour should be locked up.

  • Ms. Stephanie

    @letskeepitreal, I 2nd that.

  • Joseph

    HUDSON CASE

    My Sympathy and Condolence go out for Jennifer Hudson and Her Family. I think there some truth
    About this this case with William Belfour, there
    things with the evidence here that just don’t make
    any sense it just don’t add up people.
    Apparently, Jason Hudson was entangled in the drug trade and had a drug conviction on his record.
    In fact, according to sources in the neighborhood, at the time of the murders, Jason was walking around with a bullet in his leg from an altercation with other drug dealers in the area.
    It’s possible that the murders were the result of a drug deal gone bad rather than a domestic dispute.
    But police officials appear to be hanging their case on the claim of Balfour’s girlfriend that he confessed to her and asked her to provide an alibi.
    Peterson said there is physical evidence that has been collected but stopped short of stating whether any of it links Balfour to the murders. Forensic and ballistic testing is also still pending, but he said he’d rather not get into any specifics on what tests are outstanding.
    He also said it appears that no one else is involved but that developments may arise later.
    While Balfour has not confessed to any involvement in the homicides, he has made statements to police about the investigation, Peterson said.
    He is scheduled to appear in bond court Wednesday.
    Investigators also revealed yesterday that Hudson’s slain brother Jason had suffered a gunshot wound to the leg before he was killed last Friday. Police are trying to discover how he got that wound and whether it is related to the murders. A public memorial service for the victims will be held tomorrow at the South Side church where Hudson sang as a child
    Chicago police are investigating the possibility that the gun used to kill Jennifer Hudson’s mother, brother, and nephew may have belonged to her murdered sibling, who reported the weapon stolen just months ago. The chrome and black .45-caliber Sig Sauer semiautomatic pistol, found near the body of Hudson’s 7-year-old nephew, is identical to the one Jason Hudson reported stolen, reports the of the forensic and ballistic or test finding of the caliber bullet found in Jason Hudson leg and see what that match may determined who else is involved in these murder’s.

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