ChitChatter: Pilar Sanders Speaks Her Piece About Deion Sanders Physical/Mental Abuse, How It Affects Their Children, And How Black Women Are Portrayed On Reality TV

Pilar is talkin’ that talk

Pilar Sanders Talks About Her Messy Divorce To Deion Sanders

The long, drawn-out saga that is the divorce of Pilar and Deion Sanders has been well-documented and talked about ever since earlier this year when Deion’s daughter Deiondra went HAM sandwich, airing Pilar out on Twitter. Since then Pilar has been the subject of insults, accusations, and downright hate, but now the model and mommy has decided to speak to HelloBeautiful about her experiences during this tumultuous time to let people know what’s REALLY good.

Check it out.

It seems that when you do a search online about Pilar Sanders, nothing but negative news items appear, what can and/or are you willing to do to make people see you in a positive light?

Negative, only because now of the divorce and everything surrounding it. Most divorces aren’t happy occasions. Neither is mine. My divorce just happens to be with an ex pro baller (football and baseball) and is filled with abuse, lies, and part-time parenting. All I can do is be me. I’ve been honest, tried to be private and always been a good mother (putting my children first). Anything negative about me came from lies and or from those who don’t know me. But I can’t worry about that, all I can do is live my life the best way I can. I cannot worry about things that I can’t change or have no control over. Everyone is going to have an opinion whether it’s based on truth or lies, regardless, that’s life. My truth is my life whether it is accepted or not.

As a mother, would you say you are a good role model for your children?

Absolutely! I believe role models should indeed be those closest to you and who do the most for you. I believe hands on mothers, as myself, have so much influence on our babies. It’s amazing. We shape their thoughts, behaviors their character; we give them a point of reference for love, respect and life in general! There’s nothing more precious and needed than mommies.

Hit the flipper to read about how Pilar thinks Deion’s abrasive nature has rubbed off on their young sons.

Images via WENN

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