Saturday, December 6th, 2008

Would You Wife Her?: Solange Knowles

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Fellas, despite all the weird ass attire and what not that this one consistently sports, she is cute as hell and is probably a very nice girl. With all things considered, would you still wife her?

More pics of Solange performing at the 2008 Cosmopolitan Magazine StarLaunch at Terminal 5 in NY when you pop the hood…

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  1. Pedro Capo status

    Yes, Yes and double Yes

  2. Tina

    She love feathers

  3. Pedro Capo status

    and oh yeah im 1st NYC cats are just 2 damn smooth

  4. Kiko

    ^^^^^^gay^^^^^^

  5. Philly

    HELL YES

  6. bg

    I would beat it like a cop, but I don’t think it would be enough room for me and her in Beyonce’s shadow. On top of the fact *****s gone be ignorant asking me why i didnt go for big sis.

  7. Playlist

    No

  8. snoop bloggy blog

    indeed

  9. Pedro Capo status

    Im from Nyc durrrrrrr meaning Im 2 smooth , you probably cant hear cos that wack ***** afro covering your ears

  10. Reesie....of Cephus and Reesie

    Beyonce’s sister???? She will do just fine…

  11. bg

    kiko i like your fro…i got some natural moisturiser for it and all, cream of nature boo

  12. dayg715

    solange, cute as hell? LMAO

  13. Pedro Capo status

    no one even asked yo ***** if u like it

  14. kahmmillion

    Seems like she is realer than her fake ***** sister

  15. CLEEN

    i think she’s very cute

  16. bg

    awww pedro. Og blog ganster. STFU. Do people even realize how stupid it makes you seem to be an internet G. Real G’s and bloggin ***** face

  17. reese615

    @ BG

    Co-*****ing-sign. SMH

  18. Pedro Capo status

    awww pedro. Og blog ganster. STFU. Do people even realize how stupid it makes you seem to be an internet G. Real G’s and bloggin ***** face
    …………………………………………..

    Wat the ***** are u talkin bout , i havent even commented you ……and you over there tryna get my attention

  19. Candid Canuck

    was thinkin the same thing bossip;

    as long as she displayed wifey-type qualities: i woud give it a shot… i would wife her b4 i’d wife bey…… aaaahhhhh… let me think about that last stmt..lol

  20. Pedro Capo status

    lmao and how the hell can Rees615 “Co-*****ing sign” and “SMH”, ive never even come across you , all shakin ya head like ive just said sumfin about ya mama

  21. mindelevation

    What is this capo status? Are you trying to promote gang activity in the black community?

  22. PURPPLE

    I know this questions isn’t directed towards me but Solange..”cute as hell”..hmmmmm, thats a new one…

  23. Pedro Capo status

    What is this capo status? Are you trying to promote gang activity in the black community?

    ……………………………………………………………………….

    No .

  24. mindelevation

    Thank you

  25. pm

    yes indeedy

  26. Talley-B

    i don’t no about “wifey”…maybe “cuddy”….”wifey” is for Beyonce….matter of fact, Sol can’t even be “cuddy” because is i try to wife up Bey, she wouldn’t be to cool with me smashing little sister and then i try to get with her…..or, maybe i’m doing too much thinking about this topic since being it wil never happen….disregard everything i said….


  27. You know what they say you get her and her family
    so HELL YEAH I am in that *****

  28. mindelevation

    Kiko, what happened to you? where’d you go?

  29. chai

    Now BOSSIP, y’all know damn well SoSo is not cute-chick looks just like her daddy. Now I was never a fan of the Knowles clan but I will give props were it’s due because I’m not a hater. Beyonce stole all the looks and Beyonce is a cute girl…her sister…not so much! Sorry SoSo-just ask your mom if you can be reborn again.

  30. BROOKLYN we go hard

    YES

  31. BE

    Easy Question… Yes!

  32. solae*

    I think she is very pretty. Esp since she dumped the strawberry blonde hair that she rocked back in the day. I never could pinpoint what I didnt like about her look because standing next to Beyonce she just seemed like a blob on the side but now I think she looks ridiculously fabulous/gorgeous.

  33. Mrs. Rance

    Rumor had it she is not very nice. She looks down on people and wouldn’t give a man from this blog the time of day. So hell no they wouldn’t wife her because she wouldn’t want them.


  34. yall crazy
    beyonce sucks just like her parent(mom)
    solange way more better than beyonce and moms nos it 2

  35. Black, Yet Never Incarcerated!

    I wouldn’t wife any shallow, self-centered, rude, arrogant, uneducated, inarticulate, and ignorant entertainer no matter how good she looked or how much money she had.

  36. Brooklyn, We Go Hard, We Go Hard!

    Hell no. She’s ignorant and rude. That is a huge turnoff to me.

    Beyonce on the other hand, Hell Yes! She’s sweet, humble, and sexy as damn.


  37. she betta leave my boo alone.

  38. The Real Jackson Brothers

    The mere fact that you asked that question of a bunch of internet bloggers with nothing better to do than live through someone else. Damn *****in right we would wife her! The question is, would she wife us? Hell to the *****in NO! LOL

  39. YAyy

    Damn yall saying she rude all because of that interview lol yall some sensitive ***** *****s..I guess Im the rudest person on this planet because I have done worse than that..geez I think Solange is real and I would wife her if I were a guy, she banking too, since she writes her music unlike someone in her family

  40. Kiko

    Pedro, I still think your gay. I don’t care if you’re from NY, that just makes you a bigger lame. The model in my grav’s name is Arlenis Sosa. Fall back little boy.

  41. Bus a Bus

    Hell Yeah! Then I’ll cheat on her wit her sister

  42. connie

    heck no

  43. thatgirllinda1

    I wonder if her babbies daddy will come out with a book

  44. IT

    her mouth/vocabulary is Ill/ only a Real ***** can even speak to her!


  45. i think she is a cutie pie, very nice catch for some fine young man. however, i feel sorry for her because it will be hard to find someone who won’t want her only to be a part of her famous family. Being a celebrity is really hard. But I am sure the money doesn’t hurt, lol.

  46. John

    Sorry, I don’t wife/*****ociate with women with children. Single mothers are like products at the dollar store…Damaged….That’s why they go for half price.

  47. DDub

    She’s cute but she doesn’t come across as intelligent. So that’s a huge strike. One of the hardest parts about relationships is dealing with the partners family and friends and with her you know that suck way more than your average around the way girl. Strike 2. Strike 3 would be the smoking and drinking and baby daddy bs that you know is right around the corner.

  48. JD's Revenge

    Hell naw! Real *****s don’t be wifing black hos who be having ***** nigglets out of wedlock, barely out of high school. ***** got loose morals.

  49. Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    Dont wife baby mommas. You are asking for trouble.

  50. nicole

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  51. honeyviolette

    I dont know, her marriage didnt last that long, that coochie must be defective!

  52. HisWifey

    ALL YALL STOOPID GUYZ SAYIN THEY WOULDNT WIFE A BABYMUM R NARROW MINDED. HAVE U EVEN GONE OUT WITH A BABYMOM 2 MAKE THAT DUMB***** COMMENT??? NO. SOLANGE IS MAKIN MORE MONEY THAN ALL YO BROCK ***** NI99AS THAT B CHATIN *****. WHAT BABYMOMZ WOULD WANT YO FUGLY ***** ANYWAY.

  53. honeyviolette

    @HISWIFEY

    Dont be mad at them for their opinions. Their right, babymamas are drama just like babydaddys are drama. AInt nothing wrong with preferring a woman who doesnt have a child. ITS CALLED STANDARDS. Calm yo ***** down. U must be a single babymama

  54. honeyviolette

    I just dont get how Solange says in her song, How she ‘WALKED A LITTLE DIFFERENT. DIDNT DO WHAT THE FAST GIRLS DO’

    ***** you got pregnant at 17, how is that not doing what the fast girls do? Lol

    Nah I love Solange but artists be stereotyping themselves all the time in their lyrics.

  55. HisWifey

    HONEY VIOLETTE READ DA NAME LOOOOL IM PROUD 2 SAY IM MARRIED HAPPILY!!! AND THATS MY OPINION DEAL WITH IT!!!! LOOOOL SHE MAKIN HER MONEY LET HER GET ON WITH IT!

  56. HisWifey

    LOOOL SOME PEOPLE!!! ASK BEFORE MAKING *****UMPTIONS!! LOL

  57. John

    Hiswifey=Single mother

    Don’t get mad at me because you couldn’t keep your legs closed. Now you are stuck with the local thug/goon/dumb ***** because men of means won’t speak to you. Ha. It’s funny! Now that I am a college-educated man, I wear nothing but nothing but suits for two reasons. You are supposed to dress for the job you want + it weeds out broke, baby-mothers such as yourself. The suit says to single mothers…***** don’t even look at me…I’m way out of your league!

    HA

    P.S. I love Kigali’s comments/ It’s nice to see that there are black women that don’t adhere to the status qua.

  58. honeyviolette

    ” The suit says to single mothers…***** don’t even look at me…I’m way out of your league! ”

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Woo. Had my laugh of the day.

  59. HisWifey

    LOOOL IM JUS LAUGHIN AT U COZ U DONT KNOW ME. IM MARRIED. COULDNT KEEP MY LEGS CLOSED YEAH? JUST LIKE YA SKANKY MUM LOL IF URE SO OUT OF MY LEAGUE Y R U EVEN ANSWERING ME????? IGNORE ME!! SIMPLE LOL

  60. HisWifey

    LOL LOL LOL

  61. lauren

    damn

  62. DDub

    @HISWIFEY
    He responded to your comment like you responded to others comment. Why do we have to deal with your opinion when you can’t deal with others?

    People’s views on relationships are usually shaped by past *****ociations–and those who had negative experiences tend to have a harsher perspective.

  63. DR.FUNK

    Not high on “wifing” single moms.Not really even high on dating single moms.Usually more trouble than it’s worth.She is attractive however.

  64. lauren

    well said ddub!!!!

  65. Really?

    Solange is okay…wasn’t she married already? So somebody thought she was good enought to marry


  66. first I know many well educated hard working single mothers who were left by to many dead beat men talk about that how can a man leave a women and his child behind ????????????????
    Solange is a single-parent she was married and it didn’t work out

  67. lauren

    good point!!! there r successful single moms out there.

  68. Obama's Cousin

    she is a baby mama. i prefer a virgin for my nights. how could she be such as an *****hole? have a baby out of wedlock


  69. If a man has a couple of baby mommas hes a hero
    if a women is a single and has a baby she is a zero
    That is so sad we must stop the double standards

  70. JD's Revenge

    The ho got knocked up, which forced that ***** to marry her to preserve that hos wholesome image. She’s a ho and he was a stupid ***** for being talked into a shotgun marriage. The ho should’ve got an abortion.

  71. lauren

    yes i agree! but i dont see it changing. and did she have the baby out of wedlock? or in marriage??? children r a blessing regardless. it takes a special man 2 bring up another mans child.

  72. lauren

    he should have worn a condom aand she should have took birth control. why dont people use protection now???

  73. Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @John,

    Thank you. I get alot of ***** coming on Bossip but men of character who arent simps always recognize game. These fools walking around here calling these social rejects black queens.

    Rock your suit boo and keep the riff raff out.

  74. Really?

    It takes 2 people to make a baby…so why the woman has to be the bad guy? why not the man? They contribute just as much to a baby

  75. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Nelsan Ellis’ Lafayette is a True Black diva R.I.P
    —————————————————

    Quite the contrary. I bet the True Blood writers did not kill Lafayette off. I beleive they wrote him in next seasons script as a vampire. His character was entirely too interesting to kill off so soon.

  76. lauren

    good point


  77. @ Lauren
    Your right??? So what its 2008 if can look down on a women for that shame on you shes doing her thing

  78. lauren

    huh?? im agreeing with u!!

  79. Oshie - Is Your Dixie Wrecked?

    No.

  80. Really?

    It is ridiculous to think all single women are not suitable to date. There are some who got married and got divorced, so are they now baby mamas too? Some single mothers get their education and do very well for themselves and will turn in man’s head SUIT OR NOT!


  81. @ The Real Jackson Brothers

    Well at the end of the show he was missing for two weeks then the black foot that fell out the car idk
    i really hope hes not dead Lafayette is a huge part of the show

  82. lauren

    good point. people need to know facts before judging and labeling all single mums. who are we to judge anyone anyway!

  83. Sydney

    @John

    “You are supposed to dress for the job you want + it weeds out broke, baby-mothers such as yourself. The suit says to single mothers…***** don’t even look at me…I’m way out of your league!”

    Hmm, I know of a single sister, an attorney with a first-rate education, with a daughter who did wind up marrying a brother, with no children, who is a doctor. So, apparently, she, indeed, was not out of his league. Everyone’s preferences are different.

    So, out of curiosity, do some of you believe Britney Spears is beneath marriage material as well? She’s now a single mom, no?

  84. Oshie - Is Your Dixie Wrecked?

    Oh, um, I meant no I wouldn’t wife her. *ducks out of room covering head and face*


  85. @ lauren

    I am sorry I was talking about that idiot John

  86. Really?

    @Sydney – Yep Britney is an official “baby mama”, let us see what happens!

  87. lauren

    oh right! its ok. i undastand everyone has an opinion but that comment he made about single mums being damaged goods is out of order.

  88. Sydney

    @Really?

    Coincidentally, Britney did refer to K-Fed as her “baby daddy” in her “On the Record” special this week on MTV — Just a shot of irony there.

  89. Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Sydney,

    Stop telling black females fairy tales. That situation with the doctor and the lawyer is RARE. Dont try to p***** it off as the norm because it isnt.

    Fools like you having these *****es walking around thinking, oh I got a baby but I can still get a doctor. Stop it. DELUSIONS.

  90. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “Stop telling black females fairy tales. That situation with the doctor and the lawyer is RARE. Dont try to p***** it off as the norm because it isnt.”

    It’s as much of a fairy tale as telling a woman with a child that she will never meet a man of quality who will see her as relationship/marriage material.

    I’m not trying to p***** it off as the norm, and it is a real situation that occurs, particularly as you grow older and you come into contact with more divorced men and women.

    So what is your take on divorced sisters? Are they still thrown into the “baby mama” category?

  91. lauren

    the way i see it is one mans rubbish is another mans treasure. each to their own.

  92. Sydney

    *I’m not trying to p***** it off as the norm, but it is a real situation*

    Please pardon the typo.

  93. Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Really?

    This isnt about whether baby mommas are suitable to date. But why would you when there are a bunch of women out there, just as fine, just as educated, who doesnt have kids? An illigetimate mother’s stock is a lot lower than a woman with no kids. Dont be made at men because they dont want to deal with it. Maybe she should just focus on raising her child and not dating because children dont like to see their mothers going from man to man. Why not these illigetimate mothers stop thinking about their own self? These illigetimate mothers made a decision so now they have to deal with it. Dont try to change the society around them to accept their new situation. No Thanks.


  94. @ Kigali
    you must be a black man..Why do Blackmen hate and love to put Black Women down so much it kills me
    can someone explain it to me

  95. DDub

    I know a single mother who would be cool date but her baby’s father ignorant as hell and who wants to deal with that. See there is a lot that already complicates relationships and to add kids just makes things that more difficult and exes that much more obnoxious.

  96. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “This isnt about whether baby mommas are suitable to date. But why would you when there are a bunch of women out there, just as fine, just as educated, who doesnt have kids? An illigetimate mother’s stock is a lot lower than a woman with no kids.”

    Would you say the same for men who have “illegitimate” children?

    Or are they just victims of the black woman who snared them into having children out of wedlock? Perhaps they slipped and fell into a vagina?

  97. Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Sydney,

    Yes, a divorcee is in an even worse situation because second marriages are notoriously unsuccessful.

    Lets see:

    A woman who has never been married no kids

    vs.

    A woman who is divorced with a child

    Which one would you want?

  98. lauren

    @ kigali was your mum a single mum? say there was a pretty lady with no kids but she had a foul attitude and was disrespectful to you but on the other hand there was a pretty lady with a kid that would love you and worship the ground you walk on. which woman would you pick???

  99. lauren

    noones life is perfect.

  100. Kigali (9 finger black females need to check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Sydney,

    Men usually dont have custody. They dont have that many strings attached but still, stock is less than a man who doesnt have kids too but he isnt in the same situation as a woman who has custody. Black females need to think about this ***** before they start having these kids because they arent men. Double standards cant just be wished away.

  101. John

    Anyone that has a child out of wedlock is a loser regardless of race. Don’t try to pull the race card out.

    @ Sydney:
    I don’t care how much education she has attained. If another woman with the same exact qualifications minus the children, which one is more desirable? It’s time to take the rose-colored gl*****es off. I’m pretty sure that this attorney’s attitude was like mother theresa.. She needs to make-up for her past indiscretion. He is a doctor with no kids…He’s the cream of the crop. If she didn’t come correct 110% of time, she can easily be replaced. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

    Solange was obviously married to keep the family name clean. I applaud Matthew Knowles for his business decision.

    If a woman was married for years (5 or more), I can understand it. This means that they got married because of love, not pressure.

  102. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Luaren,

    Thats a false dichotomy. It isnt a choice between nice baby mommas and women with no kids with bad attitudes. There are all kinds of combinations out there. And for the record, baby mommas have the worst attitude. Stress maybe.

  103. lauren

    @kigali true!!!


  104. Kigali

    Let see

    A Women who has never been married no kids but sleeps around loves to go to the club and is not looking for you but wants Kobe Bryant

    or

    A Women who is divorced with a child but her husband left her because he wanted to be with a younger women or they just grew apart as a couple

    Which one do you want????????

  105. Sydney

    @John

    “Anyone that has a child out of wedlock is a loser regardless of race. Don’t try to pull the race card out.”

    You pulled the race card when you directed your comments specifically at sisters.

    And haven’t you posted on this site before? I seem to recall your SN and the tenor of your posts, which tend to skew towards degrading certain women, no?

  106. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Nelsan Ellis,

    And this is the ***** I am talking about. Dont try to guilt blak men, I am female by the way, into accpeting all of Black females bull*****. I dont hate black women but I am not going to accept some of their anti social bull***** just because they are black.

    If I were a black man, I would not date an illigetimate mother, I would not date a woman who has been married. Why? Because I wouldnt have to and that kind of baggage makes relationships even harder.

  107. Really?

    okay Kigali – I think you made up a word “illegitimate mothers”…hilarious

    however

    Yes, black men can choose to date a woman without children if that is their preference but it is not right to say that these Black women should not try to pursue relationships because they have children.

    Just because you have children and a relationship did not work does not mean your life is over. Maybe having children makes their options slimmer but there are plenty of men who will date a woman with children if she has other good qualities.

  108. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Nelsan Ellis,

    “Which one do you want????????”

    Neither. I will stay single or hook up with a Chinese girl.

  109. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “Yes, a divorcee is in an even worse situation because second marriages are notoriously unsuccessful.

    Lets see:

    A woman who has never been married no kids

    vs.

    A woman who is divorced with a child

    Which one would you want?”

    Now I think you’re living in a fairy tale. These days, there are a number of men and women who are divorced with children, particularly over a certain age. And I know that plenty of them date and have not written off marriage with a suitable partner.

    My cousin, a doctor, married a divorced man with children. They’re very happy, and she recently gave birth to their second child.

  110. Really?

    @Kigali – women with children or illegitimate mothers are not the only ones with baggage. Baggage can come from parents raising or being bullied and all kinds of things that wear on self esteem.


  111. @ Kigali good luck finding a man or women without
    baggage. Baggage don’t come in only child form hum

  112. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “Men usually dont have custody. They dont have that many strings attached but still, stock is less than a man who doesnt have kids too but he isnt in the same situation as a woman who has custody. Black females need to think about this ***** before they start having these kids because they arent men. Double standards cant just be wished away.”

    Whether a man does or does not have custody of his children, he still has a financial responsibility to his offspring, so, yes, he indeed still has “strings attached” as well as the mother of his children still being present in his life, as far as parenting issues are concerned.

  113. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “Neither. I will stay single or hook up with a Chinese girl.”

    Why a “Chinese” girl? There aren’t Chinese women who are single parents?

  114. JD's Revenge

    Nelsan Ellis’ Lafayette is a True Black diva

    @ Kigali good luck finding a man or women without
    baggage. Baggage don’t come in only child form hum

    Yeah but the ***** be exascerbating the situation. Why add on to an already potentially *****ked up scenario? Best to hook up with a single ***** with no kids.

  115. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Really,

    “I think you made up a word “illegitimate mothers”…hilarious”

    Actually, that is what single mothers were called before the 1970s. Single mother is a euphemism.

    “Just because you have children and a relationship did not work does not mean your life is over.”

    How about you stop thinking about your life and start thinking about the lives you brought into this world? You made your bed, literally, and now you have to sleep in it.

    Black females are so freaking self centered.

    Nevermind the fact that children dont like to see mommy with different men. It makes them feel jealous, neglected, resentful and unwanted.

    All that time you spending with that man that you most likely will not stay with, you can be with your children. When your children are adults, go ahead and deal with who you want to deal with but since you made the decision to have those children, your life, your priorities, changed.


  116. @ Kigali
    good luck with that a Black Man with a Chinese women I am sure her family will be so happy

  117. Sydney

    @John

    “Anyone that has a child out of wedlock is a loser regardless of race. Don’t try to pull the race card out.”

    Oh, and does this apply to men as well? I would just like some clarification.

    Thank you kindly.

  118. Sydney

    Everyone, Kigali is a woman. :)


  119. @ JD’s Revenge
    I understand but there are lot of *****ed up single women out there that have Mommy or Daddy issues that worse then a child.

  120. Really?

    @Kigali – All that time you spending with that man that you most likely will not stay with, you can be with your children. *********************

    I agree with this statement but I would say balance is everything and not expose your child to everyone. Even if you are married you have to spend time alone with your mate away from the children.

    Yes the women made the choice not to abort their children regardless of marriage but they can also choose to have a life. Not one partying all the time but living and being a lady about what you do.

    I had never heard of the word illegitimate mothers, since it was used that long ago I am sure the feminst movement abolished this word but I still think it funny!

  121. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Sydney,

    I just picked Chinese out of the air. I could have easily said Russian.

    Besides, there isnt a accepted culture in China for women to be single mothers. You are less likely to meet a Chinese baby momma. You are far more likely to meet a Chinese girl who is educated, no kids, unmarried.

    When that becomes the culture among black American females then you will be more likely to meet a black female who is single, never married without children and educated.

    Alas, in our culture illigetimate motherhood is the norm. This makes black females less eligible than other women. Black females need to change their culture and what is acceptable to them.

  122. John

    Yes it applies for men too, however, as Kigali stated in an earlier post, men don’t normally have custody. Nevertheless, baggage is baggage.

    Kigali is also married!

  123. Really?

    @Syd – I forgot to say Hey!

    @JD – Do you call all women *****es?


  124. A Women with Mommy Issues she a crazy ***** that is very insecure and cry’s about everything

    A Women with Daddy issues – is very promiscuous is always falling in love, hates being lonely an probably hates her mother

  125. Really?

    @Kigali – When that becomes the culture among black American females then you will be more likely to meet a black female who is single, never married without children and educated.

    Alas, in our culture illigetimate motherhood is the norm. This makes black females less eligible than other women. Black females need to change their culture and what is acceptable to them.
    ****************************

    I agree 100%

    Changing culture is the hardest thing to do though

  126. Really?

    @John – Kigali is not the only blogger married

  127. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “Besides, there isnt a accepted culture in China for women to be single mothers. You are less likely to meet a Chinese baby momma. You are far more likely to meet a Chinese girl who is educated, no kids, unmarried.”

    Does this also apply to Chinese-American women who date/marry white men or other men of a different culture? And from my understanding, there are divorced couples in China as well. Please correct me if I’m wrong. Are you basing this on your personal data?

    And I’ve made my stance on single parenthood known many times on this blog. I believe in putting marriage before the carriage, and I think this is an issue for both men AND women. I don’t believe we’ll get anywhere on addressing the issue as long as we sling stones at each other.

    For every woman who has a child out of wedlock, there is a man who fathered that child out of wedlock.

  128. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Really?

    “I agree with this statement but I would say balance is everything and not expose your child to everyone.”

    You shouldnt expose your children to anyone ESPECIALLY your DAUGHTERS.

    “Even if you are married you have to spend time alone with your mate away from the children.”

    Yes but generally married couples spend time together in the home, and the children are seeing family, commitment, intimacy, stability, love, honor, respect, etc. That is the difference. Children like to see their parents together and happy.

    “I had never heard of the word illegitimate mothers, since it was used that long ago I am sure the feminst movement abolished this word but I still think it funny!”

    Apparently when white women started to have children alone they changed it from illigetimate mother to single mother. Its semantics. Bull*****. Lip stick on a pig.


  129. LMAO @ the guys that says they wouldn’t wife a babymama. I bet half of these negros mama’s were single parents. Don’t get mad cus yo daddy’s didn’t pay their child support LOL. Solange probably wouldn’t marry ya’ll broke *****es either. Better yet she can probably buy all ya’ll. Get ya’lls minds right and don’t ever disrespect or judge a woman because of some of the choices she made.

  130. Sydney

    BE, is that you? Hey, girl! I recognized your gravie, but I thought someone had copied it, lol.

    @John

    “Yes it applies for men too, however, as Kigali stated in an earlier post, men don’t normally have custody. Nevertheless, baggage is baggage.”

    So I gather that you’re taking some of your brethren to task as well, no? They, after all, should be held accountable for their “indiscretions,” and they better have the temperament of the Pope!

  131. DDub

    I hardly believe it’s the culture of black to have children out of wedlock that’s just bs. It happens to all cultures–always has always will. To think otherwise is nonsense.

    The difference is the outcome. You either keep the child, put it up for adoption or abort it. Marry the father, don’t marry and stay together or raise it on your own. Each family deals with the consequences of pregnancy differently and each culture tends trends one way over the other.

  132. Really?

    @Sydney – Yeah, I was feeling like…really? today


  133. Everything comes from the home and how children are raised Look at Keyshia cole if she wasn’t a singer
    and the way her family is *****ed up like that – *****
    and there are MILLIONS of Keyshia Coles out there Whos Mothers are strung out or just un-educated without a fathers in the home WE GOT TO DO BETTER

  134. Really?

    @Ddub – I would say that looking at our statics of single parenthood compared to our white, hispanic counter parts the trends are more in favor of black people having more children out of wedlock. So this is why I believe it has become more a part of the norm for us than not.

  135. Stion

    Bust it baby.. maybe.. to see Beyonce


  136. MzPinky is SOLANGE

  137. Sydney

    @Really?

    “@Sydney – Yeah, I was feeling like…really? today”

    LOL! This is a “Really?” discussion, isn’t it?

    And no one has really answered my question about Brit-Brit. . .

  138. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Sydney,

    You keep adding on these variable that dont really change the eqaution. I am not talking about inter-racial dating. I am talking about the desireability of a woman who is divorced and or with children. They are less disireable than women who doesnt have those things, Across the board. Men are territorial, women less so.

    Personaly, men with children are in a different situation than women with children. I’ve already stated women are more liketly to get custody. To add to that, a step mom can be better intergreated in an already existing family than a step father. A man with children has an easier time for whatever reason.

  139. Really?

    LMAO@MzPinky is SOLANGE

    Well I only popped in for a minute

    TTYL Syd

    Debate later Kigali.. (smiling)

  140. Film

    Hello, Ms. Baker :-)

  141. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Mz Pinky,

    “Better yet she can probably buy all ya’ll. Get ya’lls minds right and don’t ever disrespect or judge a woman because of some of the choices she made.”

    And black females will be forever doing *****ed up ***** because no one can say anything to them. Girl bye. If you *****ed up, you best believe someone is going to tell you something. You dont like it… stop *****ing up.

  142. Really?

    @Syd – I predict Brit-Brit will not marry for at least 10 years but she will get another husband and could get one now if she wanted…trust..Solange too

  143. JD's Revenge

    Sydney

    BE, is that you? Hey, girl! I recognized your gravie, but I thought someone had copied it, lol.

    @John

    “Yes it applies for men too, however, as Kigali stated in an earlier post, men don’t normally have custody. Nevertheless, baggage is baggage.”

    So I gather that you’re taking some of your brethren to task as well, no? They, after all, should be held accountable for their “indiscretions,” and they better have the temperament of the Pope!

    A ***** aint gotta do *****. If a ***** is too stupid to take the pill or insist on a ***** whering a condom, then thats her fault. And what happens if the condom breaks? Will the ***** gat an abortion or make that ***** be a daddy? Say what yall will about white or asian *****es but 8 out of 10 times, they’ll be more than likely to get an abortion than a black *****. Yall be acting like roe vs. wade never happened.

  144. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “You keep adding on these variable that dont really change the eqaution. I am not talking about inter-racial dating. I am talking about the desireability of a woman who is divorced and or with children. They are less disireable than women who doesnt have those things, Across the board. Men are territorial, women less so.”

    You added in racial/cultural distinctions, so I followed your lead. I thought you were privy to data that I haven’t seen, so I wanted you to share.

    “Personaly, men with children are in a different situation than women with children. I’ve already stated women are more liketly to get custody. To add to that, a step mom can be better intergreated in an already existing family than a step father. A man with children has an easier time for whatever reason.”

    If this is true — which I tend to agree it is — then it is a double standard, as you stated earlier.

  145. Sydney

    Hey Film :)

    Any thoughts on the topic?

    @Really

    “@Syd – I predict Brit-Brit will not marry for at least 10 years but she will get another husband and could get one now if she wanted…trust..Solange too”

    LOL, thanks for responding to my question. I agree.

  146. Lil' Nello

    YES YES & YES I think she looks almost just as fine as her sister B but because B is her sister she don’t really get the props for looking as good as she does although she does wear some weird ***** ***** sometimes I would still take a girl Solange who seems like she is real nice to like you mentioned!

  147. Boston*****

    HELL YEAH I’LL SUCK DAT P^^^^ FUC^ DAT P^^^^ AND LEAVE IT SWELL

  148. Film

    Sydney

    I have a dinner meeting I have to attend. I just stopped in to speak.

  149. Sydney

    Bye Film :)

    You haven’t had any “pain” lately, right?

  150. John

    @ Sydney

    So I gather that you’re taking some of your brethren to task as well, no? They, after all, should be held accountable for their “indiscretions,” and they better have the temperament of the Pope!

    Men with children is more of a financial restraint, whereas women with children are both finanial and lifetyle roadblocks. If it’s a man of means, you shouldn’t have to worry about anything…That just means that instead of getting a new car every 2 years, you will have to settle for one every 3 years…Schuks!
    If it is your local goon/thug, he needs to be on his best behavior because he doesn’t have the same options as upwardly mobile men have.

    No, because my friends are just like me…College-educated and have no kids. :)

    A women’s stock decreases as she ages. An aging single mother is the epitome of loosernes. A woman’s stock is based solely on her attractiveness. When that starts to decline and you have a child out of wedlock, what can you offer?

  151. Film

    Sydney

    LOLOL. Which ‘pain’ exactly? I experienced two last week.

  152. Sydney

    Film

    You know what ‘pain’ I’m talking about, lol.

    Forgive me. :)

  153. Film

    Sydney

    I couldn’t tell if you were being facetious. No, I feel great, and thanks for asking. :-)

    How long will you be on here?

  154. Sydney

    @John

    “If it’s a man of means, you shouldn’t have to worry about anything…That just means that instead of getting a new car every 2 years, you will have to settle for one every 3 years…Schuks!
    If it is your local goon/thug, he needs to be on his best behavior because he doesn’t have the same options as upwardly mobile men have.”

    Really, so if I choose to date a man with kids, I’ll never have to run into the mother of his children either?

    “No, because my friends are just like me…College-educated and have no kids.”

    Really? Mine, too. :)

    “A women’s stock decreases as she ages. An aging single mother is the epitome of loosernes. A woman’s stock is based solely on her attractiveness. When that starts to decline and you have a child out of wedlock, what can you offer?”

    Hmmm, depending on the woman, EVERYTHING.

    And do you mean, “loser-ness?” Is that a word?

  155. Sydney

    Film

    About another half hour or so. :)

    So you experienced just two?

  156. Film

    Sydney

    LOLOL. Yes, the physical pain, and the other one I couldn’t discuss because it was Sunday. :-)

  157. Sydney

    Film

    It’s Saturday today. :)

  158. Film

    Sydney

    I thought that’s what you’d say. And women say men are predictable. :-) You want to hear about in a couple of hours?

  159. Sydney

    Film

    LOL, I’m not predictable!

    Hmmm, too tempting. . .

  160. DopeBoy

    My first choice is already married to HOVA, so I guess I’ll take what’s left.

  161. Film

    Yes, you are Sydney along with other things. :-)

  162. Sydney

    Film

    LOL, well, I’m going to have to work on that. :)

  163. Crazy ***** Rodney

    I would not wife her. I would do something eLSe

    teeHEE

  164. Film

    Sydney

    Work on it for what?

  165. Sydney

    Film

    I don’t want to be predictable. . .

    I prefer mystery. :)

  166. Sydney

    Film

    I just saw your other comment, by the way, meanie.

  167. Film

    Sydney

    I like obscurity. :-)

  168. Film

    Sydney

    Meanie? I’m a gentleman.

  169. Sydney

    Film

    I like obscurity, too. Enigmas can be nice. :)

  170. Sydney

    Film

    Is that right? Yes, you are a gentleman. A very smart, engaging gentleman. :)

  171. Film

    Sydney

    So, you can’t understand me?

    ‘Is that right? Yes, you are a gentleman. A very smart, engaging gentleman.’

    Thanks! You’re a very intelligent woman, and I bet you’re excitingly appealing.

  172. Sydney

    Film

    Oh, I can understand you, and that’s a good thing. :)

    As for the other statement, no comment, lol. *blushing*

  173. Sydney

    Film

    I’m going to go work out soon. Too much energy. . .

  174. Lena

    First off… what kinda GAY quote is this:

    “If a man has a couple of baby mommas hes a hero
    if a women is a single and has a baby she is a zero”

    Where in da heck is a man who has to pay child support to 5 different babymamas a HERO??? lmao… Do you live on planet earth? A HERO??? aha hahahah… there some dumb folks on Bossip yo. And how you gonna say you would marry someone based on her looks??? That’s where those 5 babymamas come from. LOL… SMH

  175. Film

    Sydney

    I talked to you once, and you used a word that I was unfamiliar with. I had an idea of the meaning because of how it was used in the sentence. So, you gave me a vocabulary lesson. I think the word starts with a J. Anyway, I’m sure you teach other things great as well. :-)

  176. PURPPLE

    wow this got interesting…

  177. Film

    Sydney

    LOLOL. Bodily exertion, huh? :-) I probably would do that right now, but I have to attend this meeting. Hopefully, I can talk to you later.

  178. Sydney

    Hey Purpple!

    Really? I used a word that YOU didn’t know? Wow.

    Yup, I need some bodily exertion, lol.

    Yeah, maybe we can talk later. Have a good meeting. :)

  179. PURPPLE

    What up SYD :) I know your on your way out…Work it out in the Gym girl…i might breeze back through lata…

  180. Sydney

    @Purpple

    LOL, I will, girl!

    TTYL

  181. Mock Rock Stardust(Mock Rock says Ima Ima a Diva)

    Yoooooooooooooooooooooooooo
    Whgat the ***** is up Bossip…I missed yall mother*****ers!!!
    Hey Syd, Film, Tina…

  182. Mock Rock Stardust(Mock Rock says Ima Ima a Diva)

    OK…answer to said question…yes I would wife her if she also treated me like a wife…***** anything to be closer to “screwing” Bey

  183. Mock Rock Stardust(Mock Rock says Ima Ima a Diva)

    Hey Syd and Film
    My fiance and I are getting married in February in Vegas…how about we make it a double wedding

  184. Pedro Capo status

    Good luck with that Mock Rock :) Whats the lucky guys name

  185. THISISME

    YES I WOULD IN A HOT MINUTE!!!

  186. HarlemWorld

    Solange is quite scrumptious… I would wife her cute behind no doubt.


  187. DEAD@ this question, Solange is definitely cute, but how can you wife someone when you know you WOULDNT be able to take your eyes of their sister at the dinner table. I guess knowing Beyonce will eventually end up looking like Tina may help in that department though.

  188. shante'

    Solang wouldn’t date NONE of yall *****es. Bossip should quit the childish hypothetical B.S. I guess it must be a slow news day.

  189. slick *****

    I wouldn’t wife her but I would ***** her in the *****


  190. @ slick *****
    LMAO I bet Solange would love it

  191. Tay

    first off I had to comment and I don’t usually make comments on this blog, what Ive been reading is a bunch of bull***** by some very self hating individuals, who think because they can read and write that their gods gift to any women. and for the record I am a black women whose never been married and has no children and very articulate. first off I don’t think kigali is really a woman because I don’t understand any woman who would sit and down and blame black women for everything that is *****ociated with something negative, no I know you can’t be a black woman. I see black women everyday making bad choices that I myself would not make but I’m not gone sit here and disrespect all black women because of some bad choices. And for the record my parents have been together for many years with children and then married for 20+ years after having their first two and by the way I have no step brothers or sisters and my parents marriage ain’t all peaches cream and but my brothers step children love my brother as if he was their biological father so stop stereotyping because you cannot speak for all black women and definitely not me and John and kigali need to watch their mouths because I’m one of those never been married, no children, educated, beautiful black sistas they would definitely look at but knowing how they so quick to generalize all black women because they feel like some sort of prized possession because they can form a sentence I wouldn’t want to get know them. your preference is your preference but don’t try to make us all look bad because that happens in every race:; trust me I know one of my nieces is bi-racial her mother is white and shes a trip and by the way my brother is back with his black woman and step children and beautiful brand new baby girl. and I’m saying all this because all your judgements don’t apply to everyone.


  192. YOU BETTA PREACH TAY

  193. I Am Who I Am

    You know, you folks are an interesting breed, sociologically that is. See this is what the ***** is wrong with black people. Always got hang-ups, standards, reservations when it comes to us connecting on levels of intimacy to create a unionized platform. “No I wouldnt wife her, she a baby mama” “I ain putting no ring on no chicks finger” “***** dat, I dont want no chick who done been wit erbody” You guys speak about patriarchy and misogyny as it pertains to the black single mother, as if this was the extent of the problems within the black female. Your limited and skewed worldview will always cause you to never be able to come to a solution to the problems you point out, because you can never see beyond the limits of your “concerns” into the larger universe. In many ways your types are like ultra right evangelicals, only able to see what you WANT to see, always seeing people who are outside of your “judgements” and selections as the enemy. Our race has an overflowing redundancy of ignorance thats why we’re the only race lacking economic or social distinctions. For the most part, these views, which run heavy within the black community, creates a stunt in the growth and expansion of the black race which is steadily increasing. We will have created self extinction of our own damn race at a higher rate than ANY KKK or white nationalist group can do. Pretty soon, it will be a rarity to step outside and find someone in the universe who looks just like you. Keep black love alive people, we really need it.

  194. honeyviolette

    BOSSIP SURE KNOWS HOW THE START DRAMA.

    Lol, naw on some real ***** though, some of your negroids who said u wouldnt wife a baby mama (i.e. Solange) is dead ***** fronting.

    I bet yall dusty lookin *****s aint even in her league.

  195. the truth

    hell yes,and bust that ***** too.

  196. Volcanoluau

    Solange, to me, is a spoiled brat who feels entitled to a music career b/c of her older sister and her brother-in-law. Grant it, if Beyonce and Jay-Z were my relatives I would want a piece of the billion dollar empire myself…..

    What made me say this? I say a video on Bossip/TMZ when Solange got all huffy with a Vegas reporter over nothing. (I can’t seem to find the link, but it was a morning show in Vegas where she was promoting her new album earlier this year and she copped a real stank attitude for no reason) When I saw that, I knew this chic was spoiled to the core rotten.

    Beyonce maybe overexposed and no very original, but at least she has manners and was humble…..Solange, not quite…….

  197. Tay

    yeah a lot of people on here lying I wonder if Beyonce and JayZ had a child and got divorced how many people would be ready in line to date her let alone marry her.

  198. Mrs.P Williams

    I wud..if I was a dude :-)

  199. heavenlysound

    I’d wife the ***** out of her

  200. Film

    Mock Rock Stardust

    LOL. Congrats. How are you?

  201. Philly Phenom

    Do big kids like Mcdonald’s??

  202. Cali

    Pathetic rants!

    How about live ya’llz lives and see the cards your dealt with….then we’ll see how ya’ll handle that.

    Every REASONING sounds viable on paper/blog but LIFE is different.

    Ya’ll don’t the ish that awaits ya’ll. Life’s like that. Some will be lucky some will be unlucky……

    Don’t talk bullcrap til you live it.

    To those ish about single parents……hope you don’t have your partner die on you one day and leave you with a pack of rugrats to take care of and a lonely life……coz *****ody wants and should want a single parent right?

  203. Cali

    Pathetic rants!

    How about ya’ll live ya’llz lives and see the cards your dealt with….then we’ll see how ya’ll handle that.

    Every REASONING sounds viable on paper/blog but LIFE is different.

    Ya’ll don’t know the ish that awaits ya’ll. Life’s like that. Some will be lucky some will be unlucky……

    Don’t talk bullcrap til you live it.

    To those ish about single parents……hope you don’t have your partner die on you one day and leave you with a pack of rugrats to take care of and a lonely life……coz *****ody wants and should want a single parent right?

  204. BBrown

    Does She Swallow, take in the ***** and occansionally eat *****? If so YES, If NOT hell no!!


  205. @ THE Chinese women comment & how they dont have kids & you will more likely find them unmarried w/out kids, etc.

    That is because they are getting abortions. They still are having unprotected sex…Only exception…they chose to kill their babies. Which is their opinion.

    Now I for 1.. am a single parent. However I will be gettin my Masters this spring. All the while STILL over coming my adversities.

    Just b/c a BLACK women makes a mistake…dosnt mean she cant learn from it. Im sure you have made mistakes as well but you’ve learned from them.

    Also..us black women didnt make these babies by ourselves.

    Its just we CHOOSE to take care of ours & not let someone else pick up the slack!!!!!

  206. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    any1 up in hurrrrrr????????????

  207. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    What’s going on?

  208. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    waddup film??? aint ***** goin on over here… whats goin on wit u?

  209. Opie Taylor

    LiL_MaMa

    It’s that same attitude that adds more cannon fodder to ridicule you blacks. Go ahead and keep making those illegitamate mistakes. You’re proof positive that most stereotypes are justified.

  210. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    I’m doing some research right now, but, other than that, I’m pretty good.

  211. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    research? what kinda research??? to be totally honest, im folding laundry all alone in this big ***** empty house… but im bout to watch some p orn to cure my boredom.

  212. Illuminate Truth

    W*****up Film? What are you researching? Just curious.

  213. JD's Revenge

    FallinPoet

    So you being a lesbo, whatchu gonna put on? Dykes in Heat or Where the Boys Aren’t? I prefer Sistas by Video Team.

  214. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ JD… i dont remember ever speaking with u before.. so i guess uve been lurking or something.. but actually im bi… and i prefer st8 p*rn.. i actually do not watch lesbian p*rn

  215. JD's Revenge

    Oh! Then may i suggest All Dat AZZ or something interracial, like Black in the Crack or My Daughter is *****king Blackzilla.

  216. Illuminate Truth

    “… but im bout to watch some p orn to cure my boredom.”

    @ Fallinpoet

    LMAO. THAT was kinda abrupt. You have to ease into divulging that type of info. Warn a Brotha before you randomly hit him with those types of particulars……I feel you though.

  217. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ jd… umm, well thanks for ur interest and suggestions…

  218. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL… im fuggin bored!!!

  219. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    That’s confidential information. The remedy can restore your insufferable ennui. Have fun, Fallin Poet!

  220. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Lil Mama,

    My greatest fears is that black females dont feel like they make mistakes. When was the last time you heard a black female say, “Opps my bad!” Blacks females think they are perfect and are above criticism. Thats the biggest problems. Then they expect everyone to be of the opinion that they dont make mistakes.

    This is how this whole debate got started. A bunch of black females in here telling brothers that they didnt make a mistake by being a single mother and these black men must want them in spite of that. A few brothers in here told them they werent interested and they went buck wild.

  221. JD's Revenge

    FallinPoet

    Yo baby, i’m just here to help. There’s a lot of crappy ***** out there. I like to steer my fellow *****ohounds/connoiseurs to the more discerning quality filth that has been committed to the digital media that we call DVD.

  222. Film

    Illuminate Truth

    What’s up, man? It’s cl*****ified info.

  223. 100%

    Hit Yes! Wife, hell to the NO! DRAMA.

  224. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film… im gonna try :)

  225. leave-it-be

    >>>>> who THE HELL CARES!!!! HER FAMILY RICH WHILE WE STRUGGLING…. ALL THEM MEN BASHING WOMEN WITH KIDS YOU’RE EITHER YOUNG MINDED OR NOT A REAL MAN……. MARRIED OR NOT WOMEN ARE NOT HERE TO CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK OF THEM WHETHER OR NOT THEY HAVE THEIR CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK…. IT’S YOUR KIND OF IDIOTIC UNREALISTIC PERSPECTIVE OF WOMEN WHY WE DON’T GIVE MOST OF YOU THE TIME OF DAY!!! AND WHILE SOME OF YOU MEN ARE BASHING WOMEN, MOST OF YOUR MOMS RAISED YALL IN SINGLE PARENT HOMES, OR WERE “UNWED WHEN THEY CONCEIVED YOU!!!!!! SO STOP DISRESPECTING WOMEN CAUSE THEY THE ONE’S THAT BE HOLDING IT DOWN WHEN MOST OF YOU ARE JOBLESS, HOMELESS, AND LOCKED UP!!!!! FOR THE MAN WHO TALKING ABOUT HIS SUITS AND HE’S TOO EDUCATED FOR BLACK WOMEN WITH KIDS, TAKE OFF THAT ‘CLOWN SUIT”"”"”

  226. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Yeah, I know the feeling. One of those saturday nights…….I dunno. Work all week to get to a weekend that doesn’t amount to sh*t, return to work monday…..looking forward to friday again (*shrugs*).

  227. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    Doctors don’t try to alleviate cures (well, some don’t). Like I said, have fun! :-)


  228. @Opie Taylor

    1st of…”You blacks”…are you serious?

    And 2nd of all Im being real. You act like someone cant make a mistake!!

    So Im sorry, let me just go & have 25 abortions & not tell *****ody rather that get pregant once and learn from that pregnancy so I dont get knocked up again!!!!

    YEAAAAA thats what I’ll do.

    And what is your my*****e page b/c I just gotta see the face that matches the *****ery that comes out of your mouth!!!

  229. JD's Revenge

    Film

    ***** please. If yo ***** was doing cl*****ified research, yo ***** wouldn’t be on bossip. Some of you frontin *****s be tripping me out yo deluded self importance.

  230. Film

    alleviate symptoms .TYPO

  231. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    @Lil Mama,

    My greatest fears is that black females dont feel like they make mistakes. When was the last time you heard a black female say, “Opps my bad!” Blacks females think they are perfect and are above criticism. Thats the biggest problems. Then they expect everyone to be of the opinion that they dont make mistakes.

    This is how this whole debate got started. A bunch of black females in here telling brothers that they didnt make a mistake by being a single mother and these black men must want them in spite of that. A few brothers in here told them they werent interested and they went buck wild.

    And lil mama I think it is great that you are getting your Masters but what about all the other women in your department that dont have kids? Are the supposed to be less, more, or as desireable as you are? I am not talking about looks btw I am talking about personal cir*****stances.

  232. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL.. im just countin down to cali…

    @ Film… u a doctor?

  233. Illuminate Truth

    @ Film

    Cl*****ified? I don’t want to know. You might have to kill me.

  234. Film

    JD’s Revenge

    Okay, whatever you say. I’m looking at some numbers. I don’t need to say anything else, and I know how to multitask.

  235. JD's Revenge

    Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Yeah, I know the feeling. One of those saturday nights…….I dunno. Work all week to get to a weekend that doesn’t amount to sh*t, return to work monday…..looking forward to friday again (*shrugs*).

    Damn, now yo ***** is getting all existential and *****. I think Fallin has the right idea. Rent some *****. That’s the most pretentious-less art form/entertainment out here.

  236. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Cali? Moving or visiting? I could go for some Cali weather right now….its snowing in my parts.

  237. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    No, I’m not a doctor.

    Illuminate Truth

    LOL, no, it’s not that serious. I just finished a meeting, and I’m just looking at some papers.

  238. Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    JD’s REvenge,

    Its possible. By tomorow I would have writen about 15 pages since wednesday and I have been on bossip continualy. This last 8 pages I have to do requires me to research about 9 books and 4 articles. In a few weeks I will tell you my grades on both papers.

    I manage wasting hours of my life on Bossip while completing my school work. LOL.

  239. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ JD… nah i dont rent… i have some websites i regularly visit :D

    @ ILL… just a vist… 4 days my first time… got a friend in LA.

  240. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    hello kigali… i always c u on here… usually gettn into it wit other bossipers, but i try to stay outta all that.


  241. @Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

    I feel you. I think some women dont call their pregnancies mistakes b/c maybe they have the “Dont regret anything…learn from it”.type of attitude.

    And maybe they fell their calling their kids mistakes. Which hell most of us are!

    My parents were married for like 15 years.. then up & had me. lol

    But to say that were “damaged goods” was kind of a low blow. You dont know how many d*cks were up in those women w/out any kids. Or kids that are not living.. I should say anyway. Too judge us women who do have kids like that.

    But honestly…who cares. This sh*t is for the birds! I know who I am and dont need some lame ***** blogger(not you Kigali) to define me or tell me Im worthy of your time. B/c they probably ugly as hell anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!

    TTYL

  242. JD's Revenge

    Kigali

    Do what i do when i’m surrounded by work and deadlines. Just say *****k it, i’m more important than my problems, then smoke a doobie.

  243. Illuminate Truth

    @ JD

    Where the hell do you rent *****? I thought that went out in the early 90s. I haven’t seen a video store with ***** since then. They got sex shops and websites for that….and they ain’t renting.

  244. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    wish i can smoke right now… now thats a cure for boredom.

  245. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    Why do you stay out of the conversation?

  246. Opie Taylor

    Lil Mama

    *And what is your my*****e page b/c I just gotta see the face that matches the *****ery that comes out of your mouth!!!*

    *B/c they probably ugly as hell anyway!!!!!!!!!*

    Black single mother + Stupid + Narcissistic = Amusing.

  247. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film… which convos? the ones that Kigali is involved in lol? well usually bc it has something to do with black women… and i fuggin love black women, but i dont think they need an Arab gurl defending them to kigali… i think id prolly be ignored anyway lol

  248. JD's Revenge

    Illuminate

    Shiiiiid, at yo local moms & pops video store.

  249. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL, yea theres a fam owned movie store by my crib, but id rather just visit the websites… gives me a lot more options :D

  250. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    I think it would be great to hear an Arab’s point of view. I’m sure you’ve conversed with others who are conventional/stereotypical, so, you could bring a different, but equitable perspective to the discussion.

    You’d probably be partial (I love black women, too). :-)

  251. JD's Revenge

    It’s safer to rent at a moms and pops videostore than the big chains or the internet. They have servers and databanks that be keeping track of all the sick ***** folks be renting. I use to subscribe to Playboy and use to get all kinda wierd unsolicited ***** in the mail and on my e-mail account. If you want to stay off the *****ohound grid, it’s best to rent from moms and pops and always pay cash.

  252. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film, yea i know… but its pretty disappointing bc on bossip ppl cant just have disagreements and a good debate… instead practically every disagreement has name calling and stereotypes and a bunch of other bs that frustrates the hell outta me.

  253. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Oh…okay. I don’t know of any of those family owned spots around here. I’m sure they exist but the internet is too convenient to even worry about it. Now smoking to combat the boredom? Twisting as we speak. You’re about to go to Cali so you can get some of that “Cali bud”…..worth the trip by itself…..doesn’t help you now though.


  254. @ Opie Taylor

    Yep Im soo stupid for someone whose getting her Masters…. coming from someone who calls themselves “Opie”

    Im DONE with you dude!!! Goodnight! The convo is OVER!! Kick rocks!

  255. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL… yup, i already put in a order with my friend lol.

  256. Opie Taylor

    LiL Mama

    Oh the irony, coming from someone who calls themselves LiL MaMa?

    Btw, anyone can come on the internet and announce they are getting a Masters. Doesn’t make it true. Now why don’t you go back and supplement your welfare check with your well versed knowledge of the stripper pole.

  257. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    That’s very true, but the problem still isn’t solved. I’ve had written oppositions with others on this site, and my thoughts didn’t contain insolence/impertinent behavior. So, it all depends on the individuals, however some folks do deserve certain responses.

  258. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    I agree with Film. I’m sure you could provide worthwhile insight into some of these discussions. There is a lot of unnecessary name calling and some get more personal than others but the subject matter is usually interesting. I can get why you would stay away from getting involved though….people should learn to disagree without the personal attacks. There’s a difference between debating and arguing.

  259. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    recently some ***** was being said btwn to posters… keep in mind i was cool wit both… all i did was say to 1 poster that the other was cool ppl and she was outta pocket wit some of the ish she said.. all of a sudden a poster that used to joke around wit me & always chat wit me starts calling me a terrorist, sayn im one of bin laden’s nieces, that my father works at a 7eleven or some *****.. just a bunch of racist ***** ***** and i didnt respond with anything negative & yet she still kept goin… its really pretty sad and immature, and i didnt take any of that ***** to heart… but it just sucks that some1 cant voice their opinion w/o being called all types of *****.

    fyi… i just finished my business lmao ;)

  260. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    All of a sudden? So, you’re saying this was out of the blue?

  261. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ film, what do u mean? yea it was all of a sudden, she flipped on a dime… we started of being cool and bossip friends in the thread, and like i said all i did was say that i talked to the other bossiper off bossip and that she was cool ppl & not ugly lol(bc she was being called that), and then i was being called all types of names… a lot of the regulars were posting at the same time and told her to stop and that she was being mean but she kept goin, and like i said i didnt respond with *****… i just left it alone…

  262. Tay

    Opie Taylor is a racist ***** and has to come to bossip to say hateful things that you wouldn’t say in a persons face because he/she knows better.

  263. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    ‘fyi… i just finished my business lmao’

    You care to elucidate?

    This sounds very inane and adolescent, and you had on going discussions with her? Who are you referring to exactly?

  264. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    You just ran across an adolescent. The cyber beefs on this site are comical. There was a poster on here not too long ago (I can’t remember her name but she posted a picture of a breast for her gravie one time) that revealed herself to be about 4 or 5 different screennames and said she was researching the “blog world”. I don’t know if she was being honest about her intent but her *****ogy about this site being a microcosm of society was on point. You get a little bit of every type person here including the social misfit.

  265. Opie Taylor

    Tay

    Shouldn’t you be in bed, so you can wake up refreshed and coherent for you monthly visit with your Probation Officer? Btw, those urine test for drugs must be a drag.

  266. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film… i was watching, u know the good stuff, and umm yea i took care of business… and since im really not tryin to start ish i wont say her name, but she is a regular…

    @ ILL… yea ur talkin bout “ms. julips” or some *****… yea i remember what she/he/it said… the thing bout it is that like damn how old do ppl need to be to stop with the immature bs??? like the person that starting ***** wit me was prolly late 20s early 30s with kids… crazy.

  267. JD's Revenge

    i was watching, u know the good stuff, and umm yea i took care of business

    Damn! I wish i was there so i could smell yo fingers.

  268. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ jd… actually i did that tooo… i always do, i dunno why, but i do.. and im not tryin to toot my own horn or anything but i smell good :)

  269. JD's Revenge

    Fallin

    I bet you taste good too.

  270. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ jd… thats what she said ;)

  271. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    I’ve noticed certain cliques on Bossip, but, there appears to be a group of *****ociates who are definitely cretinous/moronic individuals. I don’t know whom you’re speaking of, but you seemed to handle the situation appropriately.

  272. JD's Revenge

    Fallin

    Damn! She lucky. I bet you be an epicurean’s delight. Makes me wanna come over and get my Chef Boy ar’ Dee on.

  273. Illuminate Truth

    @ tay

    Don’t respond to opie. He has obsessive disorders. What white person with an obvious disdain towards Blacks would come on a Black gossip site just to make racist comments? There is a thin line between love and hate…..both are emotions of extreme p*****ion. So his rants actually are a form of flattery. He cares so much about us that he takes time and energy from his day to concern himself with what we think. So much so that he comes on this website demonstrating that his hate has now crossed the line into obsession. Real talk. He needs help.

  274. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film… im cool wit the particular clique u may be speaking of, and like i said a cpl of them actually came to my defense…

    @ JD… lol… im just sayn lol.

  275. Film

    Illuminate Truth

    ‘Don’t respond to opie. He has obsessive disorders. What white person with an obvious disdain towards Blacks would come on a Black gossip site just to make racist comments? There is a thin line between love and hate…..both are emotions of extreme p*****ion. So his rants actually are a form of flattery. He cares so much about us that he takes time and energy from his day to concern himself with what we think. So much so that he comes on this website demonstrating that his hate has now crossed the line into obsession. Real talk. He needs help.’

    I concur.

  276. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    I’m not trying to tell you where to comment. But, why don’t you ever converse on more meaningful post? I’d like to know your thoughts.

  277. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Exactly! Ms Julips. That was her (or whoever). She was kinda stank with it but the way that whole thing unfolded was like a soap opera….provided me with some decent entertainment. Yeah, I noticed a lot of people on here are immature (typing that now, seems like an understatement) I mean to come out of pocket over something so childish and be THAT old…..you did right by not responding. Sometimes you have to consider the source and let their own misery be the punishment. You don’t need that type of person to validate your opinion.

    Btw: You’re quick! And a multi-tasker on top of that. Impressive.

  278. Opie Taylor

    Film & Illuminate Caa Caa

    Save your rudimentary psycho babble for the moths who are easily drawn to your bull*****. I see through your Junior College learned mini dissertation. It’s boring, just like you.

  279. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film… actually im blocked at work so i dont really comment much at all anymore, and when i come on late its just to chit chat with ppl…

    but ive noticed whatever the “meaningful” posts are about it always goes back to race…. and it seriously *****es me off how much racism is spewed… and its not just like some1 like opie talkin ***** bout black ppl… u got some black posters that abs hate white ppl( or at least are very racist towards them) and then u got me an Arab… i say that im Arab, but ppl will call me white so i cant win for losing… if i say some1 is being racist or their stereotypes are fugged up all of a sudden im a “white” girl on a black site and i dont belong… if i defend some1 then all of a sudden im a “white” girl thats “trying” to be black… so like i said theres no winning, so i try to stay away from posts that have all that racist ***** goin on.

  280. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL.. lol, yea the 3rd video finally did it lol… and yup i was bossiping and watching @ the same time.. i watched my hands b4 i started typing again tho lol… that last video got me extremely ……………..

  281. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    damn where’d every1 go??? talk bout multitasking… i did the dishes and im bakin cookies as we speak.. or maybe as i speak to myself lol

  282. Guess Who?

    Wanna play a game?

  283. Guess Who?

    Introducing Puppy *****! Lets get ready to rummmmble!!

  284. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Eeeeasy…lol. I have a vivid imagination and that last mental picture you painted……well…er… uhm……anyway, technology is great. (the third time is always a charm)

    I can see your dilemma as far as posting on certain subjects. You are in a position that no matter what, your opinion is going to be twisted into something it isn’t. Ignorance is bliss and there are a lot of happy people on this site.

  285. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL… thats exactly it, everything gets twisted… anyway im eating my cookies now lol :D

  286. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Cookies? Damn, what kind? I’ve got the munchies something fierce.

  287. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL… chocolate chip… they usually hit the munchie spot.

  288. The Real Jackson Brothers

    @ Fallin – Consedier this: if you are expecting to not encounter extreme racism on a black blog from people who have been severely impacted by it is like pulling the trigger of a loaded gun and being surprised when a bullet exits the chamber. It really has very little to do with your race either, because if there were strickly blacks on thos site, there would be still be internal racial conflict; it is woven into the fabric, so if you chose to stay around, expect it!

  289. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ The real… oh i know… and i never said it has a lot to do with my race, but i was sayn that those responses are the ones id get if i did join a racial discussion… believe me ive seen dark-skinned blacks and light-skinned blacks go at it in numerous threads…. so i know theirs internal racial conflict, and since ive been on and have chosen to go away i do expect it now.

  290. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    spell check…

    …i know there is*…

  291. The Real Jackson Brothers

    BTW, Iam eating choc chip cookies also! Its that damn weed!!!

  292. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    damn… howcome i got the cookies but no weed :(

  293. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Yeah choco chips usually do it. Considering the hour I *****ume they are the pilsbury ready made type or am I underestimating your multi-tasking skills?…..because, if they are from scratch you may have just made a new best friend.

  294. The Real Jackson Brothers

    I have lurked (read but but not join in) about enough to have read some of the racial stuff and I do know what your are talking about. The fact that you have chosen not to let it run you away is commendable

  295. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL… yea they were ready made nestle lol… i just had to ball them up and put them on the aluminum pan..

  296. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Fallin – The correct sequence is the weed first then the cookies will naturally follow. LOL

  297. The Real Jackson Brothers

    I envy both of you because I just to lazy to cook anything. We are talking Mc Donalds cookie here!!

  298. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Yeah, cookies without the weed is not a good thing. I don’t have the cookies but you have me contemplating going to the store. I just don’t feel like scraping the snow off the car, driving ALL the way to the store……..hell, I’m just stuck on stupid right now (thanks to the green) and don’t feel like going anywhere.

  299. Film

    Illuminate Truth

    ‘Btw: You’re quick! And a multi-tasker on top of that. Impressive.’

    LMAO!

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    Sorry, I had to do something.

    If I can recollect, I had a dispute with a white chick about black on black relationships months ago, and she had the audacity to tell me that she disagreed with my post, and of course I retorted. I believe she misunderstood my comments anyway. But, I can definitely fathom your conclusion formed. With you being an Arab, you can use your background and interject your own viewpoint into the subject at hand. If the topic is about race relations in America, compare and contrast your life (stereotypes) with that of a Black American. True, it could result in half-witted, insensate, jejune behavior, but I guarantee, at least ’some’ individuals will *****imilate your beliefs.

    Just make sure you thoroughly read the comments if you decide to parti*****te.

  300. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ The real… umm yea i have been regulated to just lurking bc my job blocked me being able to post anything, but sometimes its frudtrating bc the other day there was a thread that had to do wit Arabs and the ***** ppl were sayn was *****ing me off, but i realized some ppl just dont wanna learn from others bc there were an equal amount of ppl defending the Arab culture but some ppl just didnt wanna hear it.

    so, i will not run away from it… i guess im here to stay lol

  301. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ The real… unfortunately i didnt have any green thats what im sayn lol…

    @ Film… a lot of ppl dont want to hear the comparisons… and before when i was able to post i was at work and bc of that i wasnt able to read the posts as thoroughly as i liked so thats another reason i refrained from commenting.

  302. The Real Jackson Brothers

    @ Fallin – Not only are those who aren’t open to learn, you also have those who blog as strickly a way to vent. It is a waste of time to even try to reason with them. What really amuses me is the things people say about subjects like “Arabs” of which they only know what they have heard in the media. They will present it as if it is the only truth. I was lurking during that convo also.

  303. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Don’t get it twisted…..I don’t have any issues with the ready made..the pre cut ones or the ones that come in that tubular shape. I can work with either. When I get the ones that come in the tube only about half of it actually makes it to the oven……I’ve got this thing for chocolate chip cookie dough. One of my many guilty pleasures….although that one is on the tame side.

  304. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Fallin & Truth – Where do live? Truth mentioned snow. It must be pretty late there???

  305. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ The Real.. yea that’s what was so frustrating a lot of the bloggers were just recycling ish they’ve heard or seen in the Media…

    @ Ill… lol, i cant eat to much cookie dough.. i start feeling sick after a bite or 2… so what are some of ur other guilty pleasures?

  306. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin & the real jackson brothers

    I remember that thread. Something about Busta Rhymes. Yeah fallin, your input was NEEDED in there. You certainly could have provided some truth to a subject that generated a lot of innuendo.

  307. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ the real… i live in the great city of Chicago… and we’ve had snow practically all week.

  308. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Brrrr! Yeah it has been pretty cold here in Oakland too! It actually dipped to 65 degrees! LOL

  309. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    I’d like to see your comparisons, and I’m sure others wouldn’t mind as well. I understand where you’re coming from. It could just be a headache. Why can’t you post now?

  310. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Ill, yea i was reading that ***** and gritting my teeth i was pretty *****ed… but like i said there were some that were kinda defending my ppl… but what sucked even more on that, and this really disappointed me, there were a cpl Muslims that arent Arab… so they were defending our religion but not the Arab culture, and they were actually insulting and making stereotypical comments bout it.

  311. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Fallin – Is the Arab culture and the Muslim religion one in the same. I ask only because Arab countries are not the only contries where the Muslim faith is followed, right?

  312. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ the real… oakland, california? 65 degrees are u serious lol.. thats a walk in the park… im gonna be in cali next week… and i wasnt sure what i needed to pack.. my friend said i prolly wont need a jacket bc it wont feel cold to me lol.. so im takin some long sleeve shirts and hoodies.

    @ film… i think theres some kind of block… this happened before where i wasnt able to post comments but it was only for a cpl days… this block has gone on for a cpl weeks so im not sure.

    and some comparisons… racial profiling especially in airports, racial slurs being said to my mom or another female that chooses to wear the head scarf while doin reg everyday things like grocery shopping… and being oppressed by Jews in Palestine( more commonly known as Isreal)…

    where i live there is a very large population of Arabs and Muslims so it isnt too bad, but obviously after 911 things got kinda bad.

  313. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ The real… no the Arab culture and the Muslim religion is not one in the same… theres obviously a lot that intertwines the 2, but no they are not the same.

    & actually the majority of Muslims are not Arab, so ur right there are a lot of non-Arab countries that follow Islam.

  314. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    How did I know that question was coming? I set myself up for that. Now I have to decide as to what level of disclosure I’m willing to involve myself in on a public blog site….intimate details are usually reserved for intimate moments. Actually, forcing myself to hold my “guilts” up for personal observation makes me feel kind of cheated……I need to explore my inner freak more often. Life has become too mundane. Eating cookie dough might be the best I have for you……or as much as I’m willing to devulge anyway. Nothing illegal though….except for the weed but that is debatable and there is no guilt involved.

  315. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    I remember you telling me you lived in Chicago. If you don’t mind saying, what exactly did you experience after 9/11?

  316. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ Film… me and my fam personally just had the racial slurs directed towards us… i remember i was in college at the time and some1 basically said that i didnt have a right to speak… the city actually had a bunch of cops protecting the Mosque in our community… I was pretty scared for my mom and other women in my family bc they do wear the head scarves and i was worried some1 would do something crazy to them.. Thank God nothin too bad happened to us… but i remember other Arab students being attacked and an Arab shopkeeper killed the day of the attacks.

    @ ILL… i understand… sometimes, like earlier bout the p*rn, i couldnt help myself lol

  317. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Truth – I asked the quesion as I do periodically, but since you did not answer after a few posts, I let it go. It just wasn’t that important to me. However, in this case I was only inquiring about how late it is. It is almost 11pm, so if it is snowing there it must be about 2am. Just thought it was kinda late.

    It is necessary to be careful about revealing info on a blog. Last night I mentioned the area that I lived in Oakland and a poster named Oakland knew the area too well. After some second thought, I kind of regretted pin pointing my exact location. There is safty in anonynimity.

  318. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Good night all

  319. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    aww goodnight the real.. nice talkin with u

  320. The Real Jackson Brothers

    Truly my pleasure madaam!

  321. Illuminate Truth

    “Brrrr! Yeah it has been pretty cold here in Oakland too! It actually dipped to 65 degrees! LOL”

    @ the real

    Brah, you ain’t right. I’m in Jersey and 65 sounds HOT to me. It’s not as bad as Chicago though….those winds coming off of Lake Michigan in the middle of winter…..daaaaaaayum. I don’t care how many layers of clothes you have on…..you feel naked.

    @ fallin

    After 9/11 the hatred towards Arabs was thick…..and asenine. I never understood how black people parti*****ted in it. I know why though. They got caught up in the media blitz against anything that was Arab when they should have been pointing fingers at the US government, the UN…..you get the idea. I remember when all the major news channels showed people in Palestine supposedly “celebrating” the collapse of the towers but it was later revealed that it was file footage of people celebrating a soccer victory. I never did see one news show disclaim the footage (smh). This is the type of propoganda that floods our airwaves and causes even usually rational people to act with stupidity. They are being programmed to do it and most people don’t have posession of their own souls to do anything about it. Media says “think this way” and because of this your mother can’t even go food shopping without being har*****ed. Damn shame.

  322. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    @ ILL… man, u hit the nail right on the head, and in arabic i wanna say “eslem thimek” roughly translated as Thanks for ur mouth LMAO… it doesnt translate well but i hope u get what im sayn..

    so u been to the chi.. it is cold as hell lol… but i love the city so i cant see moving just bc of the winter.

  323. Illuminate Truth

    @ Truth

    My bad brah. I wasn’t ignoring the question about where I live….I didn’t notice it. My scroll wheel is hella sensitive. I’m in Jersey otherwise known as NYC’s ***** stain. Don’t blame me….I didn’t make that up.

  324. Film

    FallinPoet(My Truth’s so cool I don’t have to lie…)

    It’s good to know that your mom and others were unharmed. Some *****ociate Bin Laden with every Arab here in this country. They need to research and form their own opinions based on why there were numerous, unanswered questions by the government from the 9/11 Commission Report, and not just hearsay (media). SMH. If we only knew who were behind the attacks, citizens would perceive this greedy nation differently and recognize that we are enslaved by elitist for their own pleasures.

    Illuminate Truth

    ‘After 9/11 the hatred towards Arabs was thick…..and asenine. I never understood how black people parti*****ted in it. I know why though. They got caught up in the media blitz against anything that was Arab when they should have been pointing fingers at the US government, the UN…..you get the idea. I remember when all the major news channels showed people in Palestine supposedly “celebrating” the collapse of the towers but it was later revealed that it was file footage of people celebrating a soccer victory. I never did see one news show disclaim the footage (smh). This is the type of propoganda that floods our airwaves and causes even usually rational people to act with stupidity. They are being programmed to do it and most people don’t have posession of their own souls to do anything about it. Media says “think this way” and because of this your mother can’t even go food shopping without being har*****ed. Damn shame.’

    Good post.

    *I’m out. Be easy, everyone.

  325. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    goodnight Film.. thanks for ur posts :)

  326. Nicole

    Don’t *****ody want a woman with kids just like I sure as hell wouldn’t want no man with kids! That’s a HUGE turnoff for me. If a man says he has a kid or kids for that matter, I want him to erase me from his memory ASAP. I don’t care what his job is, I’m not step mom!

  327. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    aight ILL im out.. sleepy as hell.. ttyl babe… nice talkin wit u.

  328. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    LOL. Ironically I was recently talking to a friend (he’s studying Arabic) and he was explaining to me how Arabic doesn’t translate well into English and vise versa. It led to this whole discussion about how the difference in communicating, reading (right to left as opposed to left to right), etc. can lead to someone having a whole different thought pattern…..I don’t know – we were high and our thoughts were pretty obscure but I think you may get the basic idea. Anyway, don’t thank me. Thank the truth because that is exactly what that was. I was just repeating it.

    Yeah, I’ve been to Chicago but not in the last few years and only once in the winter (hell no, I learned my lesson!). It is a nice city. I wouldn’t mind living there. Actually I want out of Jersey so any place but here.

  329. Illuminate Truth

    @ fallin

    Oh aiight fallin. Good talking to you too. Be good.

  330. FallinPoet(My Truth's so cool I don't have to lie...)

    goodnight ILL and high or not ur friend was right it is hard to translate 1 to another.

  331. Quickfixx

    Hell Ya

  332. BKLYNZ OWN (another day another dollar)

    I WOULD WIFE IT.AS LONG AS SHE RESPECTS ME AND GIVE ME MY *****E……PLUS SHE BURNS TOO.. SO THERE WILL BE PEACE IN THE HOME.

  333. BKLYNZ OWN (another day another dollar)

    I WOULD WIFE HER…AS LONG AS SHE RESPECT ME,AND GIVE ME MY *****E,PLUS SHE BURNS,SO OUR HOME WOULD BE PEACEFUL

  334. BKLYNZ OWN (another day another dollar)

    OOPS

  335. BROOKLYN we go hard

    @ John

    The women are gonna hate you on this site, single with kids or not. Although I see where you’re coming from the women will not. Those same women some of whom probably don’t like Solange will still back her up because you are a MAN. You went to school so you should know they are sensitive ands always want someone to sympathize with them and their feelings as oppose to us men who talk about politics and sports. Off topic De la Hoya got his ***** handed to him last night by the way.

  336. Erik

    I wouldn’t. But not for the baby mama thing. Nia Long is a baby mama amd i would have no problem wifing her. Solange doesn’t come across as having alot of cl***** or intelligent. She seems like she would be a little immature brat in a marriage. No self respecting dude with options would put up with that. She would probably make a better cut buddy than a wife. That’s just my opinion.

  337. I ♥ BEYONCE (IS THAT ALLOWED ON BOSSIP)

    SOLANGE IS SO CL*****LESS I CAN’T STAND IT! SHE ACTS LIKE SHE HAS NO HOME TRAINING. LIKE SHE RAN AWAY FROM HOME AT AGE 15 AND HAD HER FRIENDS RAISE HER.

    SHE’S HIGHLY ANNOYING AND ACTS LIKE A SPOILED BRAT. SHE SEEMS LIKE THOSE “MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY” PEOPLE. I AM A LADY SO I’M TALKING ABOUT WIFEY HER ***** BUT I WOULD NEVER RECOMMEND HER TO ANY MAN.

    I KNOW SISTERS AREN’T ALWAYS ALIKE BUT HER AND BEYONCE ARE LIGIT COMPLETE OPPOSITES. SOLANGE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO KEEP ***** IN HER HEAD. WHATEVER SHE THINKS SHE SAYS, IT COULD BE A GOOD THING BUT ALSO A BAD THING AND SHE USES IT THE BAD WAY. I DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW PEOPLE LIKE HER HAVE ANY FRIENDS.

    AND SHE SEEMS LIKE A FEMINIST. UGH, I JUST HATE HER!

  338. princedonte

    i’ll wife her ex husband he’s sexy

  339. Obama's Cousin

    Its the task of a woman to protect herself from being knocked up. Solange was a fool enough to fail in this and she paid the price of being an outcaste. A woman has the right to say ‘Honey no nookie for you. its wrong time of the month’

  340. Jody

    I’d wife that Solange. She’s a solid “7″ not her fault hr sister is a “12″.

  341. JD's Revenge

    Obama’s Cousin

    Its the task of a woman to protect herself from being knocked up. Solange was a fool enough to fail in this and she paid the price of being an outcaste. A woman has the right to say ‘Honey no nookie for you. its wrong time of the month’

    Shiiiid. You know that most black *****es are allergic to birth control. They come out their mama’s womb fertile.

  342. I ♥ BEYONCE (IS THAT ALLOWED ON BOSSIP) + I ♥ A.KEYS ( I THINK THAT'S ALLOWED ON BOSSIP)

    @JD’S REVENGE

    YOU CLEARLY HATE BLACK WOMAN DON’T YOU. YOUR IGNORANCE IS THE REASON WHY I HARDLY DATE BLACK MEN. I AM FOR SURE NOT RACIST, BUT ALL THESE BLACK MEN WANT EVEY OTHER RACE BUT A BLACK GIRL SO LET US DO THE SAME. I’LL HOLLA AT MY ASIAN’S, CAUCASIAN’S AND INDIANS .. BLACKS, HELL NO. SORRY. I’M TIRED OF BLACK MEN TREATING US LIKE *****. I FEEL SORRY FOR THE INNOCENT BLACK MEN, THEY HAVE TO SUFFER BECAUSE OF YOU ‘***** ***** *****S’ ACCORDING TO KAT WILLIAMS.


  343. WOW. these comments went wayyyyy to the left. LOL

  344. Butt Crack Blues

    I ♥ BEYONCE (IS THAT ALLOWED ON BOSSIP) + I ♥ A.KEYS ( I THINK THAT’S ALLOWED ON BOSSIP)

    @JD’S REVENGE

    YOU CLEARLY HATE BLACK WOMAN DON’T YOU. YOUR IGNORANCE IS THE REASON WHY I HARDLY DATE BLACK MEN. I AM FOR SURE NOT RACIST, BUT ALL THESE BLACK MEN WANT EVEY OTHER RACE BUT A BLACK GIRL SO LET US DO THE SAME. I’LL HOLLA AT MY ASIAN’S, CAUCASIAN’S AND INDIANS .. BLACKS, HELL NO. SORRY. I’M TIRED OF BLACK MEN TREATING US LIKE *****. I FEEL SORRY FOR THE INNOCENT BLACK MEN, THEY HAVE TO SUFFER BECAUSE OF YOU ‘***** ***** *****S’ ACCORDING TO KAT WILLIAMS.
    —————————————————

    You don’t date Black men eh. Well good *****in riddance to yu monkey ***** *****. We as a race of people will not suffer if *****es like you decided to go elsewhere.

  345. LadyJ

    No, cuz Solange is a stuck up ***** with a nasty attitude

  346. Praying For The Future Generations

    as i scroll through the comments on this post,i keep thinking of the scripture that says smart people think before they speak and stupid people advertise their ignorance. this is a huge ignorance billboard! i cannot believe the close minded “men” that are labeling single women with children as damaged goods! how small of you! but i guarantee not one of the “men” making those comments are in a committed relationship with anyone. you dont know the cir*****stances responsible for these women being single parents….you dont know their story & you havent walked a step in their shoes so how dare you judge them and give them such a disrespectful and demeaning label??? what if that was your mom??? how would you feel knowing someone thought she was wasnt worth loving becuase she had you??? y’all need to grow up & stop acting like sex-crazed little boys that are only focused on hitting it then quitting it.

    and i think its BULL that y’all are even able to type the ridiculous comments that you would wife beyonce before solange based solely on looks! beauty fades sweetie. so you are potentially setting yourself up for a huge disappointment and clearly your maturity level is worse than the this country’s economy right now. thank god for men like barack b/c if the fools that commented on this blog were truly the future of the world we would be in some serious trouble…..

  347. snapcracklepop

    In a heartbeat. I’ll be married into a very rich family and happy than a *****. I BE DAT BABE DADDY!

  348. roosevelt taylor

    DO a bear ***** in the woods hell to the yeah I would wife her she smoke weed too. thats my little ***** right there I love her

  349. dude

    Yeah, wife her b/c she’s rich but am I the only one out here that thinks she is pretty busted. She is one of the weakest “little sisters to the stars” to come out so far.

  350. NoHateJustTruth

    OK Bossip tell me the truth… Beyonce is sponcering your Website isn’t she. Cause ya’ll take up for Beyonce left and right, and now THIS! Man Get Real!

  351. soulwoman

    Solange has serious identity issues.

  352. NO SIR!!!

    For those of you who said you would date her and/or her sister based off their looks have you seen her mom? That is what you have to look forward to. NO SIR!!!


  353. DUH! No, Double DUH! Of couse I would. She’s gorgeous, sexy, attractive, talented, rich and the sister of “B”.


  354. wait. one more duh. DUH

  355. Lady L

    i think solange is very pretty, she needs to keep her hair straight like this, it looks cute. she seems very real and down to earth.

  356. gb

    most definitely! she’s fine, talented and seems hella cool…I like her style

  357. WOW

    Wow!! Did yall just call Solange CUTE?!! SOLANGE KNOWLES?!!!!! Wow… Its common knowledge that Solange is not in ANY WAY attractive & the select few on here that said she is has been paid to do so! OBVIOUSLY.. The first Solange blogs had honest comments then all of a sudden “shes cute” & “her album was good” & certain people are taking up for her??? Do yall think we are stupid or something?! Bossip yall are falling the ***** off!! This ***** looks like a bug!! Id take a folded newspaper to her face if I ever saw her in person!!!

  358. EyeLurveDevon~

    I don’t think Solange would want any men who sit on a gossip blog all day, I’m just saying…

  359. Resurrected

    Ok I am so late, not sure if anyone will read this but this conversation on the page is crazy, mature, and bias. I am a single black women with no kids and as I read these messages both men and women are out of wack with their moral and values they should have for there lives. I will be 30 in a couple of months and I am in not rush to have children because people are taught to do more harm then they will choose to do good in someone’s lives. Even with all the time that I have taken to make better choices and have further education I can still become a statistic to this problem because the average black man is trifling and now days the average black women has not standards. I still have faith and hope that I will out bet this ditch that we have created for ourselves (black people/ the human race). I don’t think it nothing wrong with single mothers because that is the world that we live in but if you already see that you are not ready with the one child that you do have then please close you legs and take your time because when you rush you end up with the loser as the other parent.

  360. te

    hell to the no.she`s not all that good looking.really not beyoncee either.solange can`t sing a lick.maybe if you put your d*** in her mouth and stop her from hating on everybody like janetand pay more attention to her own *****ed up marriage and stop singing .how many reject albums is she gonna put out before she shut the hell up.dam. and i am not hating on neither one of them.

  361. mumma drama

    UM SHE IS NOT UGLY BUT AT THE SAME NOT CUTE. SHE SINGS REALLLY STUPID SONGS BUT I THINK SHE CAN BE MADE IN A WIFE….HER SISTER IS B , WE COULD OF HEARD SHE HAD SEX WIT BEANIE SIGEL, KANYE,OMARION, CHRIS BROWN, DREAM, 50CENT. GAME LIL WAYBE BUTTTWE DIDNT HEAR ALL DAT…SO SHE NOT WHORISH…SHE HAS A CHILD YES BUT IT COULD HAVE BEEN ALOT WORSE…BUT Y DOESNT BEYOUNCE DO SUMTING WIT HER,,,BEYOUNCE DATS UR SIS N ALL..BUST HER ON THE SCENE O SHE MITE B 2 WIERD 2 KEEP UP…

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