Was anybody ever in any doubt? But she’s said it and he can if he so chooses ask her in front of an audience (haha) with no fear of humiliation.

No one doubts Kim would say yes. She love some Reggie B!!!!

they should, them against the world. I think they wold last too

damn they a nice lookin couple. i would marry either of them if it were legal.

any man asking for Kim Kardashin to be his wife must be gettin his dick sucked real good cause Kim is a “walkin disease”

i agree was there ever any doubt….eeccckkkk…Hey Reggie you remind me of my uncle ..his name is Tom…

@ malcolm , man u about to set off a fire storm

Is “malcom” a variation of “Malcolm?”

Hmmm. . .

Kim is not white. There is NOTHING wrong with a black man loving another race. My mom is white and my dad is black, get over it. It’s the twenty first mother f8cking century. Grow up and stop reverse racism.

i dont get why people hate this couple so much. they seem happy to me. maybe people just jealous.

whatever…
let them be happy and stop talking about her on a black site! DAMN

I’d marry her ass, shes rich, shes fine, shes rich, she has a bangin’ ass body, shes rich, shes in love with her man, shes rich, she makes her own money and showed her fanily how to do the same thing, shes rich, she likes to f*ck and shes famous……….Did I mention shes RICH?

how is she rich again?? please, we all would like to know?! or maybe you mean her step father is ricH?

Its6..

lol. u wild. u could the same things bout bush too. i think they a good match.

she is 28 years old living in her parent’s house, working in her parents store, et… one thing is sure, she is not an independant woman!

@christies’ secrets

she is 28 years old living in her parent’s house, working in her parents store, et… one thing is sure, she is not an independant woman!

This is true, but women aint held to the same standard as men, a woman can have a busted car, live with her momma, work some b.s. job… But if she fine, me and some other niccas is gone fuk, its the circle of life like the song…lol Fact, men get money to get the finest women, women try to get/stay fine to get the most paid man… period!

**SMDH will come in with FURY over her being married! LMAO. . .just wait.

BabyGurl-LMAO. I agree, to a point. Well…while I’ve lost respect for R Bush because he chose this chick over all of the attractive and smart black women that he could have, I have one concern besides race. What 28 yr old woman seriously considers marrying a 23 year old?? There’s alot of maturity that Reggie Bush probably lacks, simply because of his age and very little real-life experience. Women mature faster than men because our minds have to adapt to our bodies, which develop very early. The maturity/age factor is what raises my eyebrows, further proving that she’s probably in it for the $ and the status ONLY. I can see it now: marriage, kids, divorce, half his estate. Go head Reggie, be like Michael Strahan in 5-8 yrs. Dumb ar$e.

anyway, I think some men want the best they an have but some have more standards than ohers! Look at Jay-z for example Im sure he knows a bunch of goergous women but choose the one with the hardest work ethic who have goals and ambitions for herself!(im not a fan but i can recognize that)

why people act like they so worried about bushs money? i mean the same thing kim could do any woman could do. live and let live.

@christies’ secrets

anyway, I think some men want the best they an have but some have more standards than ohers! Look at Jay-z for example Im sure he knows a bunch of goergous women but choose the one with the hardest work ethic who have goals and ambitions for herself!(im not a fan but i can recognize that)

Oh no doubt, but you talking marriage, I’m too young for that shyt, so is reggie, they get married the real her is gone come out and he’ll be in them streets again, he seem like one of them men that think he aint got to change…lol

@Money,

Now that’s real talk right there. Dude’s motivation to make a boat load of money is to get the baddest of chicks. Sometimes, that bad chick is not going to be black. This is a fact of life ya’ll black females need to wrap your heads around quick and stop losing sleep over us brothas who keep our options open. Ya’ll need to do the same if that is possible. Babygurl, you a size 7 right? Hell half your battle won right there.

Switchhitter, dont act like EVERYTHING ain’t about money!! We wouldn’t know who Reggie Bush & KK were if they–oops he, wasn’t rich. It boils down to his being rich and her wanting to be a star at any and all costs. I never said I was right but that’s how I see it.
And jrod-STFU! I dont recall needing your approval to state my opinion. We disagree-so what??

Apparently he likes the trophy and she gets the prize… I have no problem with interracial couples. I do have a problem with liars and racist haters.

I don’t know Kim K. personally, but I don’t like her ‘persona.’ It’s phoney…and shallow, but she’s no different than any other hollywood starlet on the come-up.

Reggie like OJ needs to hold the ball and try to stay free. Trust me if she’s only playing for the treasure, we’ll read about it or see it on the news. I wish them no malice, but I’ve never heard Reggie speak. Have any of you?

I gotsta go-time for class. Let the cyberfightn begin! I’m sure this thread will have 1000 posts or damn near when I sign back on tonite lol
Holla

lol, well for a woman, 28 is a good age to get married! but fo hm, kinda young i agree!

@christies’ secrets

lol, well for a woman, 28 is a good age to get married! but fo hm, kinda young i agree!

Oh he got a good, 10 years of still hitting them streets, he looking like another Kobe to me. Sheet I got foreign countries to hit my damn self before they send my jersey to the rafters…lol

Babygirl

yeah i know money important and all but i think sometimes we as black put too much emphasis on it. im just sayin. if we focused on the strength of our families first i think everyone would be better off for it.

people get used everyday and reggie may be getting used too but he has learn that. maybe he knows he is being used and is ok with it. who knows. who are we to tell this man to date and why he should date them. u see what im sayin? i aint tryin to argue or nuthin.

@ thingsireallyhate; KIM IS WHITE! HER MOTHER IS WHITE,SHE ACTS WHITE, AND SHE WAS RACED WHITE! SO THEREFORE, SHE’S WHITE! EVENTHOUGH SHE’S HALF ARMENIAN, SHE DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO SPEAK THE LANGUAGE. SHE’S WHITE!!!

damn, where yall get your infomations! yall need to hang out around more woman outside of the hood! We don’t all want the most paid and are not going to deal with all the bs just to have a guy like that! that is why some women try to get a highly paid job and have ambitions for themselves so they don’t have to deal with men that only treat us like P*ssy! If a man
fine>>>>>>>COOL
RICH>>>>>>>COOLER
But he needs other qualities to keep a REAL woman (not a goldigger)

@christies’ secrets

damn, where yall get your infomations! yall need to hang out around more woman outside of the hood! We don’t all want the most paid and are not going to deal with all the bs just to have a guy like that! that is why some women try to get a highly paid job and have ambitions for themselves so they don’t have to deal with men that only treat us like P*ssy! If a man
fine>>>>>>>COOL
RICH>>>>>>>COOLER
But he needs other qualities to keep a REAL woman (not a goldigger)

A man gone pay regardless either in the long run with time, or the short run with money, either way aint shyt for free… C’mon baby girl thats real talk.

@If Money

Keep preachin’

lol, well! i think you need to meet more powerful women! i swear that they won’t be impressed by your money or maybe that is why you prefer woman like kim k! they fine but they aint a threat!

@Doc

@If Money

Keep preachin’

Preciate it dogg, I aint with the dogging of sistas, they just need to understand niccas thought processes is all…

Glad to see reggie back on the field

I wonder if Reggie knows that KIM is a mother. When Kim was married to Damon Thomas they had a child together. That may have bee he reason for the marriage. I DO KNOW THAT SHE IS A MOTHER.

@If Money

Hot is hot…Race has nothing to do with it.

@ thingsireallyhate; KIM IS WHITE! HER MOTHER IS WHITE,SHE ACTS WHITE, AND SHE WAS RACED WHITE! SO THEREFORE, SHE’S WHITE! EVENTHOUGH SHE’S HALF ARMENIAN, SHE DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO SPEAK THE LANGUAGE. SHE’S WHITE!!!
*******************************************
@JAYCEEE

THANK YOU!

@Stefany
Using your “logic” Obama is white also…

@christies’ secrets

lol, well! i think you need to meet more powerful women! i swear that they won’t be impressed by your money or maybe that is why you prefer woman like kim k! they fine but they aint a threat!

Naw baby girl, it aint about preference, I mean fine women come in all mentalities, Reggie a young nicca that aint never had no freak before, which is why he infatuated by the puzzy, we all done been there as men! I would chop Kim down fa sho, I wouldn’t discriminate fine is fukin fine. I respect powerful women and love that style, but you gots to play that different, its gone be more about your time and less about your money. So back to what I said earlier aint shyt for free, its either time or money, and if you get married she gone get both…lol

@Doc

@If Money

Hot is hot…Race has nothing to do with it.

Oh no doubt but the sistas hate to see that, since I am an emotionally lacking nicca, I choose to try to give them a different point of view, cause I prefer my own, but fine is fukin fine…sheeeeet

Shame on you women in here, you know damn well if you could you’d have Kims body.

i for one don’t have issue with interracial dating! if a man can stimulate my 3 sensitive points (brain, heart, pu**y) then im good!
but i want a black man! from the motherland!

@ Vee, I was concerned ovver the age difference too. I don’t think I could do that…unless my younger guy was from a country or province outside of the United States and the U.K. Then maybe, I would put thought into that.

But I am also sick of these Black MALE entertainers no longer checkin’ on black women. I mean, there are black women from every continent (Latin America, Europe, AFRICA, Australia)…are they afraid of having dark-skinned offspring? And no doubt, this has a trickle down effect. Before any jumps on my back, I’m saying like I’ve said before that this is a pandemic with BLACK MALE ENTERTAINERS. From Eddie Murphy, to Chris Brown, to Nick Cannon, to Taye Diggs, to Ne-Yo to everyone else…you RARELY see them dating a dark-skinned woman. But on the other hand, you don’t see White Male Entertainers dating half as much Asian and Middle Eastern and Latin and African-descent women. This is evidence that the average black male entertainer/athlete is scared of his own shadow…that is the sistas. I’m just being honest, the proof is in the celeb pictures I see posted everywhere.

Its a shame…

I think women should always maintain their financial independence — If you have your own, no matter what happens, you’ll be able to land on your feet while protecting your autonomy.

When you accept gifts/money/etc. from men, there’s always a price, IMHO.

@malcom

“Be honest sisters, you’re lacking big time”

Aren’t you lacking an “l” in your SN? lol

Where the hell is “SMDH” at? These Kim K posts just ain’t the same without her. The rest of the sistas that have a problem with her, or her AND Reggie just can’t serve up the hate like my girl “SMDH”.

@Christmas Jones

something towards you, I live in Cali. I rarely see dark skinned black females. All the black females i know are mixed with either filopino, chinese, white or mexican. cali is mostly mixed that why you see a lot of interracial relationships

You negroes need geography lessons. Armenia is not in the Middle East. It is in the Caucasus. No they aret Northern European but they are white/Caucasian.

@Kigali (Check out Shahrazad Ali on You Tube)

WTF, ARMENIA IS RIGHT NEXT TO TURKEY. they fall under turkish and persian people.

@Jaycee

I was raised white too, adopted by two white people. So you can STFU. I AM STILL BLACK even though I don’t talk, act or portray the stereotypical black. Stop being so damn ignorant…..

I dont appreciate black females who swear by their weaves accusing non black women of trying to have a “sistas” body. Maybe its a Puerto Rican body they want. You guys would have a heart attack if I reminded you that anytime you get a weave you too are trying to be someone else.

Sydney

for the same reasons u mentioned a woman having their own money i think men should have a side piece. except replace money with sidepiece.

@The Truth,

Yes as Armenia also shares a border with Georgia which also shares a border with Russia. What is your point? You remember in your history class they used to call Turkey the “Old Man of Europe” during the First World War? You associate white with being Western and Northern European. Armenia is in Southern Europe in the Caucaus region. Not apart of Asia, not apart of the Middle East.

I can’t wait for the war zone that is SMDH and Kigali in the same thread.

@Switchhitter

So men should have a sidepiece?

@pm

You’re an instigator, too, I see.

Interesting. . .

i’m not just a bored as hell at work like all of us

I didn’t realize how much older kim than reggie. He just so young and I don’t think anyone offically is on grown status until they hit 25 so maybe when she’s thirty he will ask but that clock is probably going tick tock

Sydney

lol. i honestly dont know if men should have side pieces or not. but i do know men use money as leverage and women use sex as leverage. havin ur own is the only way someone cant hold something over ur head.

It’s amazing that people here hate on Kim K just because of her race. As black people we really should think twice about doing that don’t you think? Who cares how many sistas Reggie stepped over…HE LIKES KIM!

ok I have a problem with people saying black women have all attitude problem! Stereotype much! how about black women from Europe, africa, carribean? is that the same too?!

@malcolm,

I said it before and I will say it again, the reason black females hate Kim K so much is because she makes them obsolete. She has everything these black females thought was exclusive to them minus the terrible weave and the terrible attitude.

Women like her put them out of business.

@christies’ secrets..no you know the African and Carribean men ann’t have the woman get out of pocket.

@malcom

Try this for a thought — Surround yourself with different women. Broaden your awareness. If you step up your own game, you usually will attract your match.

How are sisters worried about the Real Housewives and Keyshia Cole? Because they visit a gossip site?

@pm

Oh, I see. How pleasant.

@Switchhitter

I agree that some men use money as leverage, and other issues as well. But I think women should have their own, regardless of whether or not a man is in the picture. When you support yourself and your desires, that’s empowering.

@Kigali

Black girls in college have some of the worst attitudes, huh?

I have to ask, what school did you go to? Was it an HBCU?

Kigali

damn. that last statement was a bit much huh?

Kigali is always a bit much — I keep encouraging her to have a cocktail. She should make herself a mojito.

@Doc,

Black females react to a black man with a white woman the same way the KKK would. If they could do to him what was done to Emmet Till… there would be no stoping them.

plus ca change.

@Kigali

I’m not sure if my last message posted, but out of curiosity, what college did you attend? You seem to have gone to school with a group of very interesting sisters.

Hell…you dont even feel grown till you hit 30. Thats why the idea of marrying a 23 year old doesnt seem bizarre to Kim. She’s still a child in the mind.

@Kigali

So black women would torture and mutilate a black man involved with a white woman like those white depraved murderers did to Emmett Till? Is that what you’re saying?

@Sydney,

There arent any sisters or black folks for that matter on my campus but alot of my cousins went to HBCUs.

@Kigali

Plus ca c’est la meme chose

@Kigali

So you didn’t go to school with sisters? In that case, what is the source of your generalized observation, your cousins’ anecdotes?

I went to an HBCU for undergrad, by the way.

@Sydney,

Not exactly, but the visceral reaction to these couples is scary.

As a sistah to my other sistahs, never stop bringing ya A game ladies. Your nails, hand bag and shoes dont mean sh*T if your body is sloppy. Being slim and in shape is not strictly for white women and it is POSSIBLE to be slim AFTER having kids. My mother was bodybuilding in her 30-4s after three kids and stopping traffic. Niccas are VISUAL. They see curves..not colors.

It’s a good thing SMDH isn’t bitter…

@Kigali

It’s ironic that you weren’t scared by the brothers threatening physical violence against women in that video posted yesterday.

Now I’m more intrigued — You didn’t go to school with sisters, but you have a range of strong opinions regarding them. So do you have any sister friends?

@ eveinthegarden

That’s good game right their sista!!!

this should be the generalization spot or something cause everybody sayin some hateful stuff. i think some real members of the kkk are in here.

@Pm and The Truth…but I’m targeting a specific demographic: Black Male Entertainers. They are a subdivision of the average Black male and all you see them dating is something other than dark-skin. You can live anywhere, whether it be Cali USA or Switzerland Europe and still find a black, dark-skinned woman there. These entertainers fo sho get out ALOT but it depends on the circles they run with and what they have predetermined as success. For alot of these black male entertainers, success=non-black or doesn’t look like me.

Ladies~if you keep the body tight, know how to put a nicca to sleep with a hot plate of food and keep your tone pleasant and interesting you can have a nicca thinking twice about the likes of a Kim K.

wow me and reggie are the same age and i dont think either one of us is ready for marriage now lol.

Smdh

is everything ok in ur life? u seem really angry and u r saying some very hurtful things.

@ Sydney

It is that serious…

@eveinthegarden

all men are visual but some can see through it! i think those men that only see curves are just as superficial as the women that want their money so its the perfect match!

and false, some see colors and Choose the lightest or the whitest!! its a choice that i wont judge but people should be more honest and stop fronting saying that its our attitue!!
lol, if you take a white woman in a trailer trash, do you really think she is classier than a hood rat! i mean, really?!

@ Stefany

Oh, so you feel where I’m coming from??

@Sydney

Oui, je parle francais (Quebecoise)

@malcom

You’re talking about celebrity gossip — Let me let you in on a little secret, all women like gossip. It’s in our nature.

Now for the rest — where are you meeting these women? Because the club is not a suitable location for meeting your future soulmate.

This will probably fall on deaf ears but here goes:

Brothers and sisters need to wake up and develop a knowledge of self. The minute you start believing that we don’t need each other, we have a huge problem of social disorder. We are the only race that publicly and overtly denegrates its women for the world to see.

It is so painful to read comments that admonish black women about “stepping it up” and various added insults that would promote their inferiority to white women. The pain comes from knowing that black women have been the backbone of the black community and according to Sojourner Truth, “the mules of this world”. Black women have long since taken care of the family while also holding down the men. Even when a black man may not have been able to find a job, there were black women putting aside their pride and dignity and scrubbing some white families toilets and taking care of that families children while her own went without their own mother.
These kinds of sacrifices are still being made today. My mother and I participated in the march for Sean Bell in NYC in 2006. I marched in Washington DC to support the Jena 6 (7 months pregnant mind you). When I looked out at both crowds, all I could see was a sea of faces of mostly black women and children. Like me, most of them have no personal connection to the people involved in these grave injustices; Most of us just feel a sense of compassion.
Think about that when we get ready to bash sisters.

Oh and by the way, I saw no white women at either of these events. Maybe they were there, but I surely didn’t see them. Perhaps they felt it was more important to be “at the gym” working on those “nice butts” some people seem to enjoy so thoroughly.

eveinthegarden!!

YOU ARE TOTALLY CORRECT! !00% COSIGN!
cHECK OUT MY–MYSPACE! click my name!

@SMDH

I think I may surpass you in education and employment…can I comment on your weight now LOL

“@SMDH

I think I may surpass you in education and employment…can I comment on your weight now LOL”

Can I comment on what EVERY statistic says you have NOT passed me in?!?!?

@SMDH

Sista, it’s not worth it. . .It really isn’t.

@Doc

Ooh, Quebec. Tres bon.

@Sydney

I live in Toronto but I speak Quebecoise.

@SMDH feel free to comment, but how would you know?

@Christies~
To call a man superficial for being the way God made him is unfair IMO. He was made to appreciate all the curves that we women bring. Curves..not rolls. We try to guilt trip niccas into the idea that they should love us at 140 or 340 but real talk…who wants a fat ass? As for color preference yeah it exists, but it doesnt have to be the hindrance sistahs make it out to be.

LMAO @ all the stereotypes in some of these posts. I do see two sides up in here and both sides have made some really stupid off the mark points. Glad this blog doesn’t represent the people of the world as a whole. But it is entertaining…

The problem with SMDH and her multitudinous gravatars is that while she knows how to knock a black man down and highlight any number of his problems she cant explain why these sistahs cant keep from opening thier legs for them. This she will not answer.

Wow! this thread has gotten heated!
I think what the men on here are trying to get at by saying “step your game up ladies” is that black females are not the only game in town, and its like ya’ll haven’t got the memo on that yet. It’s nothing personal for me. I actually prefer black women, but ya’ll gonna have to realize some truths if there can be some real dialogue and not just race baiting.
You have to understand the law of supply and demand. Let’s face it, black women outnumber black men on college campuses like 8 to 1, and still these black females walk around with STANK

@ Today’s Mathematics…I hear you. Time will tell these men what they got themselves into. My mother always told me…the white women want the man and nothing else. They don’t care about the family, the people, the community, the history, nothing. But then again, neither does the dude courtin her.

Look, I’m not here to bash white women or Armenian women or Asian womeon…or even Black men.I’m frustrated with rich black Entertainers and athletes who think the highest social esteem is finally getting away from the black women and embarking on discovering brave new worlds aka, the non-black, non–dark-skinned woman.

very entertaining

cont…

attitudes like there arent 20 more chicks around the corner who look just like them, are educated just like them, but are also willing to cook and clean and let me hit that same night.

@eveinthegardens!
then mabe we are made also to love gossip,jewerly,shoes, bags et… but obviously we ae called superficial for that! But all women i say ALL love beautiful things! but when its a black women, she is superficial and a goldigger!

^^^LOL

@SMDH~real talk..I feel you on the frustration…Im just saying, do what YOU can cuz blaming the next nicca is a waste of energy.

I really don’t ubdert\stand the frustration from black women @ all!
(not if you are doing all t he right things! I mean…Are you guys upset because YOU aren’t dating these guys? Please explain!

think

“I think black women should start comparing black males to white men all the time to see how it feels to them!! Thats what I’m gonna start doing on this board from this day forward!!!”

@ SMDH…don’t do it. Nuh-uh, thats just a hop skip away from idolizing the white man, something we trying not to do since we been free.

How about this: lets not put anyone on a pedastol, but G-d because only He deserves any praise. And let us as Black women show black men that we really don’t need them in the equation. honestly, people are people…if someone loves you, they will love you, and if its based on material things or fantasies or fetishes…may G-d have mercy on your souls. Love will find us out, black women. Just love G-d and yourselves. “All things work together for the good of those that love G-d.” I know what I have to do now! G-d makes it so simple. “Take my yoke upon you, because my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

The end.

I c that Kim & Reggie still inspire much whining and consternation among the ig’nant…

How many sistas did he step over at USC?

Who cares. Get over it, he’s not with U!

She’s gonna take half his money like Strahan…

So what, it’s HIS money… other than busting your bubble, how does it change YOUR personal situation?

The only people worried about who celebrities r dating clearly have no relationship of their own 2 tend 2.

Sheesh…

@SMDH

“I think black women should start comparing black males to white men all the time to see how it feels to them!! Thats what I’m gonna start doing on this board from this day forward!!!”

No, you don’t because that would be beneath you — Because you know how belittling it feels to be compared to members of another race. We should be better than that because we know better.

Besides, why waste energy on anyone who would subscribe to the same beliefs espoused by your garden variety white supremacist? That person is obviously lost.

Stefany!

Tha t’s not true! If you lived in LA, it’s VERY EASY getting a person Like Kim… OR KIm at that matter! Someone has totally messed the game up!with all this money talk!

TRUTH 101!
Some top-notch women will just love our dirty drawers, just because!

(Tiray hums the rap song~(She just LOVES, ME! hUH!)

Lady d

how can u assume one group is perpepuating a stereotype when that group doesn’t have control of the media or any outlets for that matter to spread the stereotype?

further, why would they spread this generalization and still marry black women by the vast majority do by any statistic that u use?

a lot of these statement made in here are exactly what the white man wants us to do.

@ Todays Mathematics

Those sistas that you’re talking about, are becoming extinct… Today’s black woman, at least a big majority, are self centered, cut throat, and will do anything for a dollar… You see it right here on this site, and it’s becoming ridiculous… A real sista is a real sista, you can’t deny it, but a dumb broad is a dumb broad, and a lot of these sistas are just that… It shows in their conversation, even if this is just a gossip site..

i think it is really sad that the black man is the only one who has such a negative opinion of his female counterpart! so sad! why GOD is letting this happen! Was that really part of his plans?!! I don’t get it! I mean, nobody is perfect, white, asian, etc… We have suffered so much, why cant we just be happy!

@ Christie~thats true..and I’d say its only superficial when thats ALL you bring to the table. I dont know if you’ve ever dealt with pro athletes but what I found gets their attention is a woman who DOESNT talk about all that sh*t.

@HF

I agree — Who cares about this person?

But some of these stereotypes are very tiresome — It’s the same old destructive verbiage, day in and day out.

@christmas!

Whoa!
(out of the mouth of babes!)

@ SMDH aka Soy Sauce

Wow, are you serious???

@ SMDH, okay now you getting real deep. See the intelligence we HOLD?! Its the perfect time now to walk away..actions speak louder than words. Baby, i got yo back, but don’t give pearls to swines.

@ Tiray…dang, thankyou!!! lol

@SMDH

NOt sure why you have this attitude. Maybe you’ve come across countlessw horrible black men!

Anywayz…I do’t care if you think that black men are horrible. And i hope to GOd that you never change your attitude about us! I’d rather you keep this negative mindset about us and NEVER DATE US! Because , if you date us EVER AGAIN…. It means that you weren’t being sincere! What i’m saying is:
Don’t let us horrible blacks get to you!THere are plenty of great guys in other races to date!
It’s better for you to date others than to get all upset and bent outta shape.

think

@ SMDH…., okay now you getting real deep. See the intelligence we HOLD?! Its the perfect time now to walk away..actions speak louder than words. Baby, i got yo back, but don’t give pearls to swines.

@ Tiray…dang, thankyou!!! lol…..

“@ SMDH, okay now you getting real deep. See the intelligence we HOLD?! Its the perfect time now to walk away..actions speak louder than words. Baby, i got yo back, but don’t give pearls to swines.”

I’m out!! I have to go to my little work study gig!! Peace, Christmas!! You are deep and I really hope to converse with you again!!

ok this was deeply infomative.. see yall @ about 8:30am for the next days debates and discussions.

“No one deserves that much power.”

@ Sydney…sooooo true. I can’t get bent out of shape over the statistics. I gotta know that everyone will get theirs. But with the black male entertaienrs, I feel bad for them, they weren’t brought up right. Something happened to them that told them, “to suceed in life, you must get a contract, a $1 m bonus and a non-black woman.” It couldn’t have been the Cosby Show…what WAS IT?

Hey Syd, still holding it down for the sane black women. Be sure to have a cool drink. Trying to explain the idea of Black Love and Unity to Kigali & SMDH could give you a stroke.

@SMDH

MOORS:
Please tell the whole story, if you know it! YOu left out alot of REALLY important info. I can finish the history if you would like me to. ( Or were you just trying to make a point?)~?

@ SMDH …ahh me too, I got a paper to finish. This was my enlightenment for the day though. Thanks girl.

Peace out bossssipp!

Whatever

wow

@ Christmas jones

No not the Cosby show, but the media in general. If you are a black entertainer/ athlete you will sure get a lot more publicity if your significant other is not black. Google Kobe Bryant and Shaq. There will be at least twice as many pictures with Kobe and his family than Shaq with his wife. Most people don’t know that all the Pistons are married to beautiful black women, not even a bi-racial beauty in the bunch.

i pity smdh and kigagli. to so passionately spew ignorance tells me they are lost causes and true cancers in the community.

a few others just sound like they are trying to get a rise out of people or they have been hurt.

Yeah, we all have issues in the black community, and everyone has their own beliefs, and opinions…. But for the record, black women are really lacking, to fickle minded, to hateful, so not in tune with their men, all about themselves, all about a dollar… You have to get to the basics, and I’m sorry but you can’t learn the basics from all of the garbage that you worship… Just look around when you are out in the world, you are losing your men, and that’s just the bottom line.

Stefany!

NOOOO! Actually, blacks are in the best time of our collective lives! Black men are owning more businesses than ever before. We are also owning more homes than ever before!

See, what happens is: Alot of the younger blacks look to the (street’s) for positive influence! THIS IS WRONG! Look n the office buildings. et.al

When we look ghetto…you find ghetto……..
and vise versa!

think

Man!
Actually…Personally,i’m finding so really great black women AND white to date! Maybe it’s me, but i see no problem @ all! There are loads of single hotties!
DaMN GUYS!

THINK

Tiray

u r so right. all this ignorance being spewed that is completely unfounded. its ridiculous and insulting.

compare the status of black people now to where they were 30 or 20 or even 10 yrs ago. how can u find anything negative in our accomplishments despite our odds?

@SWICHHITTER!

I advertise for black businesses!(blackwiz.biz)!

We now have black wineries, plastic surgeons,doctors,et.al..We are doing big things!!

When we think ghetto……….

Check my avatar to see a Russian man (Naomi Boyfriend) and see where it’s at..Handsome white Dude who is a CEO,or Chairman not a ball player or rapper who might shoot himself in the foot or fight at a awards show.

Arnold Drumman Bush can have his x-rated, will do anything for attention star.

Im not trying to compare black females to white females. Im saying that a whole helluva lot of ya’ll chicks seem to think that just because you have a fat ass, no other type of woman can touch you. Have you noticed that that is no longer the case? Have ya’ll noticed the over abundance of booty on the market these days? Pookie, junebug, big earl and em hardly even have to spit game for ya’ll to open your legs. And as far as steppin out to white men. be my guest if you can pull it off (good luck with the attitudes and weight most of ya’ll carry). Even if a full quarter of you step out, there will still be an over supply.

@Christmas Jones

Sista, you can’t worry about what some black entertainer is doing — Worry about yourself and your own life.

I know it’s hard to disregard some of the vitriol that is tossed at us, particularly from members of our own race. Regarding the NYC video posted yesterday, I had watched a similar video months ago, and to be honest, I was hurt to my core, to the point of tears. During my life, in predominantly white environments, I’ve been called the N-word and been subject to other humiliation, but that pales in comparison to the pain I feel when hatred and ignorance comes out of the mouths of people who look like me.

But I have to dig deeper and understand that many of those individuals have a well of deeply embedded pain and misperceptions that have absolutely nothing to do with me. They deserve my pity much more than resentment. You can’t change or control another person’s beliefs, but you can change and control your reaction.

@blaq

Girl, I think I need a drink! If you’re ever in my area, we should meet for happy hour, lol.

Tealeaf

so wut was ur point in ur last post?

@ Joe

really losing our men? 5.5% of all married black men are married to non-black women. I think we are doing okay. If you look at BET and music videos for a true portrayal of the black woman your are already lost. And ultimately it is the black man who chooses outside of his race that will suffer the misfortune. He missed out on the best. Think about it all the real major players are married to black women. Obama, our new attorney general, Colin Powell, Spike Lee, Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Jay Z, Russell Simmons, and so on. Lisa Wu Hartwell took her husbands football money and flipped it into three family businesses. Trust me when the newness wears off and in ten years or so you’re looking over at your cute little blond girl next door and she’s looking like one of the golden girls. And submissive translates to doesn’t have an original thought and you have a yes man instead of a partner. Who is really losing out.

Blaq

that is exactly what im talkin about.

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@ Sydney

I’m in Oakland California home of the independent black thinkers. Where the brothers love thick sassy sisters with dark skin and nappy hair.

Blaq

and wut do the sistas love in oakland califorina?

@Stefany!

I think that it’s great that (BLACK PEOPLE~MALE OR FEMALE) ARE IN A GREAT PLACE!But that’s not what you said! I DO wish that we as blacks , stop this tit for tat childishness! What this does, is make us the people we talk negatively about!

Meaning: If a black man talks in a negative way about black women……X- HIM OUT! U WILL EVER BE APART OF HIS WORLD—-THIS IS STRENGTH! Worthless tit for tat rebuttals keep you in ghetto mode! ( Or the mode where the black men that ARE doing great things……shun!

think

@blaq

“I’m in Oakland California home of the independent black thinkers. Where the brothers love thick sassy sisters with dark skin and nappy hair.”

Well, Halleleujah! *clapping* lol

On a totally different subject, DeWayne Wickham, a black columnist for USA Today, wrote a recent column on Michelle and named her his “American of the Year.” I thought it was a nice tribute :

“In his winning presidential campaign, Obama helped a nation traumatized by the events of the past eight years heal its wounds. As his partner in marriage and his political life, Michelle Obama had an even bigger impact this year. She debunked the myth of the black woman. She is not a welfare mother, an angry woman, or an overachieving can’t-find-a-good-man sista. Obama said his wife is his “rock” — the strong, steadying force in his life. But for many black women, Michelle Obama is their “everywoman.” She is the well-educated black wife and mother that Hollywood won’t acknowledge and much of white America hasn’t discovered.”

@Sydney!

Ah! Argo the problem!

We are (for some reason) still worrying about fitting into the falisy that is Hollywood!

We now have the power to make our own rules!Will we heed the call, or will we wait for whites to define us…….again?

think

@ Switch
we love them right back.

@Stefany!

YOu’re coming from an ego stance! This puts you in the tit for tat catogory! Respectfully, how old are you?The reason i asked your age, is because , i remember when i was younger, it mattered SO much who was RIGHT..SO MUCH , that i forgot why i was arguing!

When i got older, i corrected ME, and didn’t let the opinions of others penetrate!
This is the definition of a strong black man/woman!

@sydney!

There was a black site called: http://www.blackfirsts.com .I think it’s gone now,but it told us everything that blacks had done, present AND past!

I agree 100% with you1 This is the yr. of te black man! (MAN?WOMAN)

Ooh, I just received an e-mail about the Alvin Ailey 50th Anniversary Celebration in NYC, and I can’t go.

I’ll have to catch them soon. . .I love them.

@ sydney

you would be amazed how many black people have no idea that we did anything but be slaves. And when you tell them of some of our achievements you can see the light rising in their eyes, the pride swelling in their chest. When you have pride in your self no crack dealer, video vixen, rapping step and fetch it can take that away.

@blaq

Girl, my parents made sure I had books, participated in black history quiz bowls, etc. when I was growing up. I took AP American History in high school and I think the only time we spent on black American history was a class on the Civil Rights Movement (and I was one of two blacks in the class, so it was a little uncomfortable).

I voluntarily gave a few presentations for my high school classes during Black History Month because I thought it was important to have our accomplishments acknowledged.

“When you have pride in your self no crack dealer, video vixen, rapping step and fetch it can take that away.”

So true, so true, sista! The negative stats that plague us have nothing on the knowledge of what we’ve already achieved in this nation and abroad.

@blaq

Actually, my American History teacher pretty rammed a quick synopsis of black history — basically slavery and then a big forward jump to the 60′s and MLK — and that was about the extent of it.

I like the facial expression on the chick in the background (Kim’s sis Khloe?)… It looks like she’s about to puke just lookin’ at them dancin’ (Read: Reggie stickin’ it to Kim on the dance floor).

no man who truly loves a woman
would treat her like this in
public.
no man who is worth a DAMN
would be so tasteless.
i don’t care if she if red, yellow,
black, white or brown — no man
who has a CLUE would treat a woman
that he CARES ABOUT like that
photo

@HF

Yep Yep

I agree fly_guy, this is shiet people do in hood clubs and proms, everybody in the background are not dancing. Kim and Reggie are trying to get attention, I try to see what everybody sees but I do not feel their relationship is geniune, one person wants it more than the other. I maybe wrong but thats the vibe I get. Reggie is treating Kim how strippers or hoes at a club get treated, smh

*pretty much rammed*

@S&J

Its not all black men momma, but I feel ya.

@Tina, I feel you and I’m sorry if I made it seem that way but I was so heated about malcoms ignorant comments. Black women are at fault too but I see a lot of hatred from black men on the internet, its ridicolous all while black women still stand by them no matter what!!!

@S&J

Your gravie is beautiful.

Hi, Tina

@ Tina, good night!!

For all of black women on this site, please don’t forget about the brothers who love you… Don’t forget about the man who puts you on a pedestal… I just don’t see why we can’t strengthen our bonds as a race, our women should not feel how they do about us… But our women do need to look in the mirror and quit blaming the white woman, and be honest how many of you really are interested in a white man??? You were made for us, I would die if my lil sister grew up and put white men over black men.. We need to get it together…

Damn reading some of these comments made me fell bad, Obamas presedent
but black women and men are STILL playing the blame game on each other SMH

But reggie stupid doe

Shake your butt, spend your last money for the latest fake hair, hate on all the sisters who are trying to live they life, 3 baby daddies, lookin for baller, always want to fight another woman or man, curse like a drunk sailor… That is a typical new age Black woman, but her hair is butter, huh…

lol@ the stereotype! some of you just need more people ! the world is not what you think it is! its a bigger world with different folks! I know a lot of women doing big for them, with or without kids!and yes they would achieve their goals with or without you black men! We are rising! Matter of fact, all women are rising! One day, a woman will be president of the USA! Watch and see!

Nott only are a lot of you haters…you are racist haters at that. Just because we are the minority doesn’t give us a pass on talking sh*t about people “coz they be white”

so is it ok to trash black woman! we call it self hate! i think its even worse!

@ christies’ secrets

lets just hope that it’s not a black woman… She would be liable to make the keshia Cole show a national holiday, or she would probably have 4 baby daddies, or she would probably hate on Rhianna or Beyonce…

so i guess that is what you think about michelle OBAMA… interesting! I wonder what you think about your mother! feel free to share!!!

@ mr.

I feel you, and don’t forget how they think that they are the only ones with a nice ass… They hate a white girl with a nice ass….

@S&J,

Stop lying to these fat, bad attitude and bad weave wearing black females by telling them that black men arent their only option. On the contrary black men ARE their only option no other man wants that crap. Black females and Asian men are the least dated inter racially. If black women were so desired most of them wouldnt be single.

Eat it.

Give me some numbers on how many black females are dating and marrying out of thier race. I bet twice as many black men are doing it and it is growing for them. It will be shrinking for you socalled Queens, as your ass gets fatter, your weave gets uglier, and your attitude gets worse.

@Kigali, speaking for myself only, black men are not my only option….and I see beautiful black women everyday, I dont know where you are staying at that all you are surronded by our fat, ugly weaved up black women but lets not act like only black women are fat, ugly and wear weave. I have seen fat white women, not so attractive white women and white women who wear weaves, INFACT, I bet you Kim Kardashian has worn weave once in her life before so stop generalizing.

@Kigali

Jeez you are on a roll!!!

why is she bent over on that table in a floor length dress???

@ betty boob, are you a black cuban?
anyways, there is way too much negativity! i mean, white men are more and more dating outside their race with african american, latinas or asian! does that mean that the white girl is not good enough!!
i just smh!!!!!!!
i have no kid, im not fat, im educated with my ambitions so i guess, im not really black! oh wait, i do wear weaves so…well, im african but i love you AA! be strong!

Ho he ain’t gonna marry you!

@mr

“all because they are so into A.T.L. Housewives…”

LOL, OK, Housewives is a guilty pleasure TV show, no more, no less. The Housewives of Orange County — all blondes and one brunette — is underway now, and, believe me, they scream materialism (One is a 30-year-old blonde engaged to a man who’s old enough to be her father and has cancer). Oh, and one of their daughters and her friend were shown getting expensive hair extensions last night.

The NY Housewives show was also all white.

@Kigali

Kigali, you never answered my question from earlier — Do you have any sister friends?

It surprised me that you admitted today that you don’t have any black classmates when you’ve alluded to the behavior of black women in college more than once.

What exactly IS your interaction with your fellow black women?

The Black woman this, The black male that. It is so stupid to generalize everyone according to race and genger.

Kigali and SMDH are bigots plain and simple. They need to be examined by a physcologist. It is ridiculous to hate everyone because they are a black man or a black woman.

Do something better with you time instead of concentrating on loathing someone who you don’t know.

I’m not obese, I’m 5’5 and 125 punds. I exercise daily. I eat healthy. generalizing statements are of ignorance.

Kigali has some deep rooted resentment towards black women. I think her mother did not show her what a good example of a black woman is. I think that is why she blogs on a regualr basis about how black woman are so trifling.

I have met my fair share of loud, ingnorant, trifling black women and I don’t associate with them. I don’t have to disparage every black woman because of it. character is what defines a person, not color or gender.

A person with a kind heart, generous, sensitive, caring, loyal are qualities to cherish in a human being. It doesn’t matter what color or sex they are. These are character traits to be cherished.

Mean spirited ,uncaring, selfish, disloyal,vengeful, and greedy people are to be disgarded like yesterdays rubbish.

I chose the people that I associate with based on these character traits.

SMDH was deserted by a black man who fathered her child. I’m sorry for her, but it happens. You live and learn from your mistakes, make better choices in chosing a mate and move on.

Rehashing old events and focusing on the negative things will make you a bitter person. I truly hope one day They let go of the hostility. She needs counseling as well.

ok, here it goes again another OJ.

^^^^Bklynz Own!
100% co-sign!!
Especially if you live in LA!
Especially if you know the game in LA!

And 18 years of Child support

@Sydney,

Not really no, I dont have any “sistah” friends. But I am related to plenty of black women and it is because of them that I know that there is a way for black women to be different. They, for the most part, are an example of that 30% that I rarely talk about. Good decent, intelligent not ghetto black woman. With their own hair.

I need a a DRINK PEOPLE!

reggie,

please do not do it.your nfl career has not met 1/200th of the hype of your “pac 10″ days at usc. he needs to focus on breaking arm tackles instead of kardashians back.

Ha! I like how some black men like act as if they are God’s gift to ALL women. When Barack offically takes office it’s only going to get worse! Meanwhile give me a Brandon Boyd or Shia Lebouf anyday!

@ Jamal

You are so thorough in citing facts and figures regarding the rate of HIV and STD infection amongst Black women, that you overlooked one thing…who do you think is INFECTING Black women with these diseases…yup..overwhelmingly…BLACK MALES SHERLOCK!!! If you really did your homework then you would find that your figures combined with the general knowledge quoted by the other posters (that Black women are, for the most part, loyal to Black men) will lead you to not only conclude what I just stated, but to deduce that the rate of infection is so high amongst Black women,because the Black men they sleep with have MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS AND ENGAGE IN UNSAFE SEX ROUTINELY WITH VARIOUS WOMEN..therefore spreading the disease around.In fact, you just proved the very point form SMDH that you were so smugly trying to refute. I rest my case.

p.s Sisters…PLEASE!!! USE A CONDOM WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH THESE MEN..INCLUDING THOSE YOU THINK ARE SERIOUS ABOUT YOU..GET TESTED…DO NOT GAMBLE WITH YOUR LIVES FOR THE FEEL OF RAWHIDE..LOVE YOURSELVES A LITTLE MORE!!!

Do any of you sistas, need a white guy, because I’m right here, and I have money, and I can get your hair done.

@dd.

If you get my nails done too, buy me a fake handbag, and take me to Kentucky Fried Chicken then I’m down for some vanilla swirling!

KIM K WUD SAY YES 2 N E FIN..4 REAL

Marry me Reggie!! LOL

Oh geez…..I see SMDH is still at it on these Kim Posts. GET A LIFE GIRL!!!!! Or start your very own Kim hating site, nobody takes you seriously or respects you. You make yourself look down right pathetic, insecure and BITTER!!!! Instead of building up black women you make them look BAD.

OMG, Reggie Bush is 23? Say What!

hey babygurl u got them outta there and i’m so proud!! i can see if kim was original but in all honestly she’s is tryna be like a black women. her body aint even like that forreal, forreal with her white woman pouch (insider). her ass is funny looking (doesnt look real at all). and she’s aight in the face her sister kourtney looks better. i can sit here and list a lot of black women who look better (megan good, tony braxton,beyonce, ashanti, naomi campbell,eva pigford to name a few). so please with her if he wants her good for him. and like babygurl said everyones got their own opinion and she is a ho. thats the thing with guys their so dumb, they got the real gold diggers being all that and the women who really love and stick with there a** they wanna give a hard way to go. so stupid!!

Of course she would say YES, her and every other piss on in Hollywood.

Sorry there is no escaping the golden shower it will flow with you where ever you go.

Lol@ silkky smooth (acutually at the name silkky smooth lol lol) wishful thinking

stop hating…jealous jealous jealous!!!

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nothing better than some black cracker love, keep neglecting your women, look where youve end up 2dai, in america, thinking your free, when you r not they say the best slave is those who think theyre free when theyre not, we should go back 2 africa rebuiild the motherland, kick these crackers out, n leave em alone, if kim and reggie were 2 marry, god knows it wouldnt last lol they just create a bunch of confused babies

As many times as I have seen this pic…I neva noticed Kim’s drag queen lookin sister in cut staring a the action on the dance flo.