We knew Diddy kept in touch with J.Lo, but did you realize married with-three-kids Ben Affleck does as well?

In a recent Hollywood Reporter cover feature Affleck talks about his friendship with J.Lo:

He stays in touch with Lopez, just as he does Paltrow and his high school girlfriend, Cheyenne Rothman. “We don’t have the kind of relationship where she relies on me for advice,” he says of J.Lo, “but we do have the kind of relationship where there’ll be an e-mail saying, ‘Oh, your movie looks great.’ I remember when she got American Idol. I said: ‘This was really smart. Good luck.’ I touch base. I respect her. I like her. She’s put up with some stuff that was unfair in her life, and I’m really pleased to see her successful.”

Don’t know about y’all, but would you be comfortable with your ex still “being cool” with J.Lo? And guys how would you feel in the same situation?

Not asking you Casper Smart. Clearly yo a$$ DGAF.