Truthfully, the media does sensationalize or cause hysteria about things that go on in the Black Community. Hmm. Stop going to the media for your self-worth or validation or ammunition. Love is the rule of the day.

I did not know about how he treated Malinda, but if he said those things I read, he should be ashamed and apologize everytime they cross paths. Every woman deserves respect, and some things should just not be said.

My statements have nothing to do with my likings of what I find in a man. Also u said – Black women are getting more degrees but that doesn’t necessarily mean more money. Black men still out pace black women in pay – Yeah we all know we live in a SEXES society no matter what color u are women have to work extra harder, but the fact is that eventhough the black man out pace black women in pay, that is only the black man in the cooperate ladder(which the numbers are very small), but the fact is that there are more black women than black men in the coorporate ladder, so that means in total there are more black women making more money than black men in general, I’m not talking about the few black men in higher positions(because they are men and they will make more money because we live in a SEXES society), I’m talking in GENERAL. And this is because there are more black women in college. – Everyone knows that!

And eventhough u claim the numbers of black women in jail is growing, it will NEVER p***** the amount of black men. Black men are the higest in prison more than any other race or gender and I know u know this but wont admit this. People always say the numbers of black men in prison isnt that far from black men in college and that is very sad

It is clear to see that u are bitter about the trend and rise of black women white men IRs. To make yourself feel better u say negative things about black women white men couples and say positive things about black men white women couples. Talking about black women white men have the highest divorce rate. That is false, u said that to make yourself feel better. Black couples get divorced too. Anyway the people that got divorced in that list got married to another white male, so what does that tell u.Its lear to see u are the type of brotha who hates to see black women in IR relationships but is happy to see a black man in a IR relationship whether u admit it or not. From the way things seem to be going now, I think black women white men couples will surely be very high the way things are going now and I send my condolescence to u and any other black man like u

Black women are finally opening up and arent loyal to black men like we used to be. The reason why the IRs between white men and black women is because of black women. Most black women wouldnt give a white man the time of day! We realize we have to be open to all races of men and not just the black men. And many black men are in jail, not in college so what should a sista do wait for a good brotha(if he comes your way than thats good) when other decent race men are standing right in front of u – NOT

A growing number of black women are going to prison as well, and many are rendered as unacceptable candidates because they may have a child.

Look, my father is the product of a white man/black hispanic woman. My wife is also multiracial. Yet that means nothing in the world. I’m not against your something new movement. I just think you’re putting too much hope on race and not enough on setting down what you expect from a mate and going after that. I’ve heard the stuff you’re spouting all my life. usually from darker skinned black women, and I feel sorry because I’ve been where you’re going. If you put your hope in race you’ll never get as much as if you put it in something more substantail. The black men in your group probably left because they were tired of arguing. And Blakes’ rise in black/white IRs is mentioned in that article I sent you. You haven’t say anything new.