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wtf?

That belly is round as heck. He must treat her really well cause he is not hot.

She is cute pregnant.

She looks really pretty pregnant, and how old is she anyway? Aren’t her and Halle about the same age????

She is carrying real high and she looks cute but until she drops she has a long way to go. Bet they are girls.

damn, she still pregger’s?? she looks good tho…but my i swear she been carry them kids since noah was building the ark…

HER HUSBAND IS FUG!!!!!!!!!

Lord bless them childs make them look like they momma!…why he look so? White people dont age right at all..he look like he gonna be an ugly old man! Shes so pretty even though she is carrying a serious wide load

Morning Baby B!

Morning ruby red..where you been at??

She could do way better.

Is he English ? He’s hella pale

All I have to say is good thing she took those playboy pics before she got pregnant cuz after those babies come her stretch marks are going to be something serious. But I guess photoshop takes care of that these days.

He loves her and she loves him!! They have the same last name and THEY ARE MARRIED!!!

Their children will be beautiful and loved.

Man!

Those playboy pics are the bomb! This guy is the luckiest of the lucky!

Don’t let her loose in the LA street’s.(especially near pico & robertson )

think

hey why are people so shallow….? theres more to a person than their looks… id always prefer an avergae lookign an who is kind, funny and generous than a good looking jerk. i think they look very happy and sweet together

She looks beautiful much better than that Halle but I digress…Good Luck Momma!

HI BMAMA

HI RUBIE-MAE

HI NOTCHY

Ugly men try harder. They care more about you and treat you better. They are kinder, more generous and are more dependable. I think most women prefer a sense of humor, financial and career success and parenting skills rather than good looks.

Researchers also believe ugly men exist as a way of repairing our gene pool. Women would rather date men with good genes, who can fight disease easily, than a really classically beautiful man.

It’s so funny how you all are saying the dude isn’t fine. I’d ask how your own boyfriends look, but you lot probably don’t have any, just babydaddies. The guy seems like a gentleman, has a succesful career, treats her well, and is like 40/50 years old. Looks alright to me. Oh sorry, I forgot, he’s white, so we have much higher standards for them than we do for black men. Shame!

Here we go again.

Another black person lowering their standards to date white. Sad. It’s fine to be open to non-blacks, but do we always have to take the left-overs?

How is she lowering her standards?

What standards are those?

Who set them?

How do you determine if you are a leftover?

OCTAVIA, U SAY LEFT OVERS BUT WHAT MAKES U THINK SO.

I SAW A PIC OF BILL GATES AND PAUL ALLEN FROM COLLEGE AND DAMN THEY WERE THE MOST STEREOTYPICAL LOOKING NERDS EVER. ALSO BILL GATES WAS JUST TOO FUG. LOOK AT HIM NOW, WOULD WE MAKE ANY OF THESE COMMENTS. I GUESS NOT.

Octavia

Here we go again.

Another black person lowering their standards to date white. Sad. It’s fine to be open to non-blacks, but do we always have to take the left-overs?

Please explain to me how his is a left over?

Last time I checked his wasnt living in a trailer park!

Jalili…you make some great points!! So what he doesn’t look like Halle’s man and he’s a bit pale, he’s probably European. *shrugging*

Olivia…? Well, I’ll just second what JaliliMaster said.

PERSONALLY, I THINK THAT BLACK WOMEN ACTUALLY RAISE THIER STANDARDS WHEN THEY DATE INTERACIALLY.

FOR EG:

1. U SAY HE IS UGLY (IE NOT A BRAD PITT EQUIVALENT), WELL HOW MANY OF U HAVE DATED OR EVEN SEE (WHEN WALKING DOWN THE ROAD) BLACK MEN WHO ARE DENZEL WASHINTON, TYSON BECKFORD, MORRIS CHESTNUT OR SHEMAR MOORE EQUIVALENT. ALL THE AVERAGE BLACK MAN HAS TO DO IS BE DARK-SKINNED AND U GUYS WILL (LIE AND) SAY THAT HE IS GOOD LUKIN JUST SO THAT IT DOESN’T SEEM LIKE U ARE A SELL-OUT. YET U WANT TO DATE A NON-BLACK MAN WND ARE EXPECTING THE MOST GORGOEUS LOOKIN. PLEASE.

2. HOW MANY OF U WOULD AGREE TO AS MUCH AS HAVE SEX WITH A NON-BLACK (ESPECIALLY WHITE) GUY WHO U KNOW HAS MULTIPLE BABY MOMMAS? U WOULD WANT ONE WHO HAD A GOOD JOB, WAS RESPECTFUL AND U KNEW WOULD MARRY YOU YET U DON’T DO THE SAME WITH BLACK MEN! EVEN LOOK AT K-FED. AS MUCH AS I DON’T FIND HIM VERY DESIRABLE, HE TAKES CARE OF HIS KIDS WITH SHAR, TREATED HER OTHER KIDS AS HIS OWN AND EVEN SENT THEM ALL TO AN EXPENSIVE PRIVATE SCHOOL 9WITH BRITS MONEY LOL!). HOW MANY BLACK MEN AROUND U DO U KNOW THAT ARE PREPARED TO DO THE SAME? THEY EXIST BUT U BLACK WOMEN DON’T BOTHER TRYING TO MAKE SURE TO GET THAT U JUST SETTLE FOR RUBBISH JUST BCOS THEY R BLACK!

LOOK AT THIS VIDEO.

GIVE EM BACK HO. LOL

I think they make a cute couple. I think her husband is okay looking I don’t think he is fine. But what works for her is for her.

Foxycleopatra

K-fed is the last person you want to give respect.

If britney never dated this guy he will still be bum

at maury show it’s plenty of whitemen not taking care of their business.

Quit making excuses for these guys they dont make excuses for you.

God bless the both of em’.. May they have healthy and happy babies.

Does she not realize she is a beautiful haitian woman??? oh man idk if our white, but don’t be looking like that…

I am surprised to see him on the red carpet, he usually passes on that, very few pics of them 2gether. Seems like “HE” keeps his marriage to “FANCY” on the DL

wow, it seems like you folks are taking this white guy/black chick thing pretty well.

funny how the black guys/white chicks threads are always flooded with a bunch of angry black women.

do i smell a double standard here?

@ Flex

@ nahnah

Thank you. The Golden rule thing was great. Some black women are so quick to put someone’s relationship down but at the end of the day if they love each other then f**k what everybody else thinks.

by the way people,

none of you guys know them personally so how do you figure she’s treated well? just because he’s not traditionally good looking doesn’t mean he doesn’t have other women on the side. and just because they’re smiling doesn’t mean they’re happy.

not that i’m saying they are having problems, but don’t think just because he’s average looking and whites, he’s automatically faithful, kind, and generous.

haha @ not-so-good-looking-men don’t cheat.

JaliliMaster

you can get your points across without stereotyping and putting others down. it makes you look angry, unedcuated, and hella ignorant.

in fact, you are no different from those you are huffing and puffing at.

and how do you figure he treats her well? do you live with them, or is it because he’s white?

@ kj

Co sign 100%. People can only speak from their expericences and if that’s all they know that’s all they can speak on. You have to remember some of these people have never ventured outside of their own race, neigborhood, or city. They can’t see the beauty in other cultures but get mad when white folks can’t see the beauty in ours. So sad.

He is such milk toast. But I bet he treats her like a princess!

OMG! Stop the nonsesnse! Yes he is not the best looking but it doesn’t matter that he is white. Blacks look bad too. Look at Megan Goods thing! Shakes head

IN REHAB AKA ON A VACAY, LOL.

HI BMAMA

HI RUBIE-MAE

HI NOTCHY

LOVES IT, LOL.

kj

Why is it thst it’s okay for her to have that funny looking white dude. But when a black man gets a white girl how dare we say that she treats him well her family has money and she really cares.The black man is acusses of being a sell out. Not every black man cheats not every black man is broke and not every black man wears flat bill ball caps and saggy jeans.

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i think the point is this.

1. this guy is not ugly, he is just average or maybe below average. that guy dating megan good if compared to this guy (taking age into consideration) is also average or below average (in my opinion). u would see a black woman dating a black guy then if she dated a non-black guy, she would tend to date guys who are better looking or are on the same level of looks as the average brotha she would date.

2. for black men, they would date gorgeous black women but when they date non sistas, they would tend to go for average or below average women. you know this is true. i am not trying to stereotype or over-generalize here. i am just trying to explain to you the what causes pple to have the thinlking that u might then want to tag as a ‘double standard’

nahnah

wow, it seems like you folks are taking this white guy/black chick thing pretty well.

funny how the black guys/white chicks threads are always flooded with a bunch of angry black women.

do i smell a double standard here?

nahnah

by the way people,

none of you guys know them personally so how do you figure she’s treated well? just because he’s not traditionally good looking doesn’t mean he doesn’t have other women on the side. and just because they’re smiling doesn’t mean they’re happy.

not that i’m saying they are having problems, but don’t think just because he’s average looking and whites, he’s automatically faithful, kind, and generous.

haha @ not-so-good-looking-men don’t cheat

nahnah

JaliliMaster

you can get your points across without stereotyping and putting others down. it makes you look angry, unedcuated, and hella ignorant.

in fact, you are no different from those you are huffing and puffing at.

and how do you figure he treats her well? do you live with them, or is it because he’s white?

^^^^^^^^nahnah, it is soooo obious that you are either a black man, or, less likely, a black woman that just likes to hate(I’ll go with the black man). If you want to talk about double standards, why not talk about the black men who exclusively date interracially, yet get violent when they see a black woman with a non-black man. This is because they believe that she’s doing it for the same reasons that they are! And on a side not, I will get my point across however I see fit! Stupid loser!

kj

Why is it thst it’s okay for her to have that funny looking white dude. But when a black man gets a white girl how dare we say that she treats him well her family has money and she really cares.The black man is acusses of being a sell out. Not every black man cheats not every black man is broke and not every black man wears flat bill ball caps and saggy jeans.

^^^^^^^^^Are you truly serious? Black men DO NOT date pretty, from good families, well educated, wealthy white women. For some strange reason, they seem to only be able to attract the bottom of the barrel. Tom cruise(atleast twice), Brad Pitt(atleast three), George Clooney (atleast two), Donald Trump (long term about six years ago), Robert DeNiro(the greatest living Hollywood actor), Boris Becker( Tennis Legend), Robin Thicke, Matt Damon (his high school sweetheart who broke his heart)….etc.

These are a few of the famous high calibre men that have dated black women in the past. Now give me a list of famous, high calibre white/non-black women married to/dating/dated a black man. I tried. I guarantee that you will struggle. You black men are seriously joking if you think you are the desire of women the world over. In fact, only Nicole Kidman comes to mind, and both she and the press tried to hide it.

JALILI MAKES A VERY GOOD POINT IN HER ABOVE POST

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If black women can date caliber of white men, why do they worry so much about who a black man is dating??????????

Also, why are blacks “competing” to get the best whites????????

Blacks are a lost race.

She looks really pretty and she seems happy! Who knows whether her marriage is great or not and who cares, they both seem to really care about each other. So what he’s not fine, there was obviously something she found in him that she liked and their marriage has lasted longer than most hollywood marriages, so that’s a plus

I CAN THINK OF HIGH PROFILE NON-BLACK MEN DATING/HAVE DATED/MARRIED TO BLACK WOMEN.

I CAN THINK OF HIGH PROFILE BLACK WOMEN DATING/HAVE DATED/MARRIED TO NON-BLACK MEN.

I CAN THINK OF HIGH PROFILE BLACK MEN DATING/HAVE DATED/MARRIED TO NON-BLACK WOMEN.

YET I CAN’T THINK OF ANY HIGH PROFILE NON-BLACK WOMAN DATING/HAVE DATED/MARRIED A BLACK MAN!

IT SEEMS THE ONLY ONE THAT COMES TO MIND IS NICOLE KIDMAN WHO JALILI MENTIONED AND EVEN SHE TRIED TO HIDE IT.

JalilMaster

^^^^^^^^nahnah, it is soooo obious that you are either a black man, or, less likely, a black woman that just likes to hate(I’ll go with the black man). If you want to talk about double standards, why not talk about the black men who exclusively date interracially, yet get violent when they see a black woman with a non-black man. This is because they believe that she’s doing it for the same reasons that they are! And on a side not, I will get my point across however I see fit! Stupid loser!

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hey, why get your panties in a bunch? you seem like you’re hurting inside. what’s wrong? not getting any attention at home?

fyi, i am a female – one who refuse to get all worked up about “interracial” dating. if garcelle or any other woman/man who date outside of their ethnicity, then that’s great.

i was simply pointing out the double standard amongst other black women who go crazy when they see black men with white women, but say stuff like “if she’s happy, that’s all there is to it” when they see black women with white men.

aside from the fact that you’re ignorant, what’s your problem?

nahnah, your sermon would be better spent on yourself. I may be wrong, but I perceive a low self esteem from you. I am not African american, so do not adhere to this black is ugly mantra many of you fools have going on. I was raised in Vienna, Austria, moved back to Nigeria, and now I school in England, yet I don’t have even one ounce of inferiority with regards to white chicks. I dunno, maybe it’s ‘cuz I’m hot! Not my fault if you are fat and ugly.

Here’r an idea. Hit the gym, drop of the pounds. That way, you’ll become a butter face. Everything’ll be fine but-her-face. Get it. Heehee.

@nahnah

Hollywood doesn’t push and promote the white women as the standard of beauty. WHITE MEN in Hollywood, actually the same high caliber white men black women desire to date, push THEIR women as the standard of beauty.

You state that many black men in the industry harbor this “mentality”. How many men in the industry did you interview to arrive at that conclusion? Maybe some of them actually love their mate? Maybe???

catfish

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If black women can date caliber of white men, why do they worry so much about who a black man is dating??????????

Also, why are blacks “competing” to get the best whites????????

Blacks are a lost race.

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1. I THINK THAT SOME BLACK WOMEN WANT TO BELIEVE THAT ONE DAY, BLACK MEN WILL ‘COME BACK’. THAT IS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN ATLEAST NOT AS LONG AS THEY BELIEVE YOU R WAITING FOR THEM.

2. PLS DON’T GENERALIZE ALL BLACK PPLE. IN A WAY U CAN SAY THAT THE BLACK RACE IS A LOST RACE, WELL U ARE ONLY LOOKING AT AFR-AMERICANS WHO MAKE UP LESS THAN 2% OF THE BLACK POPULATION WORLDWIDE. EVEN AT THAT, THERE ARE A LOT OF AFR-AMERICANS WHO ARE RESPECTABLE AND ARE PROUND OF THEIR GOD-GIVEN HERITAGE SO HOW CAN THEY BE LOST?

jalilimaster, you are obviously in desperate search of attention. you wouldn’t know intelligence even if it crawled up your neck and bit you in the ears.

go wash your sweaty cunt, it’s stinking up the thread.

by the way, you’re nigerian? why didn’t you stay in nigeral?

are you one of those africans who go for white guys to have “beautiful” children? the inferiority complex is so in the minds of africans, probably more so than african-americans.

The woman looks happy with her husband. God bless them.

Very interesting how racist programming works in the minds of black women. How do you “know” he treats her well? Just because he’s white? Interesting how you’ve been programmed to give the white man the benefit of the doubt. I never heard it said of a white woman with a black man, well at least she treats him well! Mmmmm…..

catfish

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If black women can date caliber of white men, why do they worry so much about who a black man is dating??????????

Also, why are blacks “competing” to get the best whites????????

Blacks are a lost race.

No the black race is thriving. The african-american race is what is lost! You fools need to really shut it. Most black people do not live in US OR UK. Most are in africa, like majority of my family. We are not starving, facing famine disease etc., as your media would like you to believe.

Its a good thing that I am black,’cuz based on the attitudes and behaviour of you african-americans and even black british, especially the men, I’d probably be a racist myself. You lot are so full of moral degeneracy, it’s sad. Most of the good black people I’ve met in the west are usually african, children of africans or women. Yes, most people round the world put african american women above their men. I never really got it until I met them. As much as majority of af-am women annoy me, I cannot deny the fact that they do a much better job at contributing to society than their men do. I would have great admiration for you ladies, but with the way I’ve seen your fathers, brothers, sons etc behave and speak, I find it very hard to believe you women are that much better. Maybe that fool that usually posts here, Big Jim, is right when he says that you af-am women just know how to hide your shortcomings!

@JaliliMaster

I understand you pissed off at nahnah and catfish but stop generalizing and stereotyping ALL black people and especially women. I am a black woman. What you are saying is offensive not only to me but to a lot of other black people and people in general. Speak on your experiences and stop speaking for everybody. You don’t have that authority.

@foxy

Don’t generalize the black race. Aren’t you the same chick who stated “black men tend to go for average and below average non black women.”

You are obviously too foolish to carry on a conversation with.

Also, since this is a African American site, I will comment about my people as I see fit. Please feel free to go to the African gossip site and leave us 2%er’s the hell alone. We need not your commentary.

catfish

@nahnah

Hollywood doesn’t push and promote the white women as the standard of beauty. WHITE MEN in Hollywood, actually the same high caliber white men black women desire to date, push THEIR women as the standard of beauty.

You state that many black men in the industry harbor this “mentality”. How many men in the industry did you interview to arrive at that conclusion? Maybe some of them actually love their mate? Maybe???

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YOU MAKE SOME VALID POINT BUT STILL SEEM TO BE MISSING THE POINT.

IT IS HOLLYWOOD THAT PUSHES WHITE WOMEN AS THE STANDARD. STOP THIS ‘BLAME THE WHITE MAN’THING IT SEEMS U R TRYING TO PUSH. HOLLY WOOD IS NOT ONLY CONTROLLED BY WHITE MEN. IT IS ALSO (BETTER BELIEVE) CONTROLLED BY THE POPULATION IE THEY GIVE U WHAT U WANT TO WATCH. FOR EG, THEY DO NOT DO SHOWS THEY THINK WILL TOUCH THE VIEWING PUBLIC. THEY DO SHOWS THAT THEUY BELIEVE MOST PPLE WOULD WANT TO WATCH AND THEREFORE INCREASE THEIR RATINGS.

NOW, U SAY BLACK MEN HAVE NOT BOUGHT INTO IT. ARE U SERIOUS? FOR DECADES, BLACK MEN HAVE TENDERED MORE AND MORE TOWARDS BLACK WOMEN WITH WHITER FEATURES EG LIGHT SKIN, NARROW NOSES, SILKIER HAIR ETC. NOT ALL OF COURSE BUT A LOT AND THEY ARE INCREASING.

IT SEEMS THAT IN THE WESTERN WORLD ESPECIALLY IN US AND EUROPE, NON-BLACK MEN ESPECIALLY WHITE SEEM TO APPRECIATE THE BLACK WOMANS BEAUTY MORE THAN BLACK MEN. I AM NOT SAYING THAT BLACK MEN DON’T BUT THE Y DEFINITELY DON’T SHOW IT! IF THEIR EXCUSE IS THAT THEY DON’T KNOW HOW OR THEY ARE MORE INWARDS WITH THESE KINDS OF FEELINGS, THEN HOW COME THEY SEEM TO BE SO WILLING TO SHOW IT WHEN IT COMES TO NON-BLACK WOMEN?

B4, AMONG BLACK MEN IT JUST USED TO BE LIGHTER SKIN BLACK WOMEN. IT THEN WENT ON TO MIXED-RACE. NOW ITS GOING TOWARDS NON-BLACK.

AS MUCH AS BLACK MEN MIGHT COME HERE AND TRY TO ‘REASSURE’SISTAS, INSIDE THEM THEY KNOW THAT THEY ARE EITHER LYING OR ARE A SERIOUS MINORITY. LOOK AT BLACK MEN ORIENTED MAGAZINES. THE ONES WITH NON-BLACK WOMEN ON THE COVER FAR OUT-SELL THOSE WITH BLACK WOMEN ON THE COVER. ARE U SAYING THAT IT IS WHIT MEN BUYING THESE MAGAZINES? THE BEST SELLING ONES ARE THOSE WITH LATINO WOMEN. WHEN QUESTIONED, THES MEN SAID THAT THEY FIND SOME OR A LOT OF BLACK WOMEN ATTRACTIVE BUT THEIR PREFERENCE IS WOMEN WITH WHITE FEATURES AND BLACK WOMEN BODIES…QUE LATINO WOMEN!

catfish

Hollywood doesn’t push and promote the white women as the standard of beauty. WHITE MEN in Hollywood, actually the same high caliber white men black women desire to date, push THEIR women as the standard of beauty.

You state that many black men in the industry harbor this “mentality”. How many men in the industry did you interview to arrive at that conclusion? Maybe some of them actually love their mate? Maybe???

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Hollywood doesn’t promote white women as the epitome of beauty? Are you living in America? As a matter of fact, are you living on earth?

Let’s see who the Hollywood “sex symbols” are:

1. Pamela Anderson

2. Angelina Jolie

3. Jeniffer Aniston

4. Gweneth Paltrow

5. Britney Spears

6. Paris Hilton

7.

Black hollywood “sex symbols”

1. Halle Berry – biracial women with obvious European ancestry.

2. Beyonce Knowles – black woman with obvious European ancestry.

The same way you deny the racism in hollywood is the same way I can understand how you can’t see the obvious problem with a lot of black men in Hollywood.

nahnah

jalilimaster, you are obviously in desperate search of attention. you wouldn’t know intelligence even if it crawled up your neck and bit you in the ears.

go wash your sweaty cunt, it’s stinking up the thread.

by the way, you’re nigerian? why didn’t you stay in nigeral?

are you one of those africans who go for white guys to have “beautiful” children? the inferiority complex is so in the minds of africans, probably more so than african-americans.

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Oh please shut it. My grandfather from my dads side was some white scottish/english guy. I myself am part british, I just don’t feel the need to ram it down everyones throat. You asked why didn’t I stay in Nigeria, well I came to to Britain to study, Chemical Engineering to be precise. Now let me ask you. Since you have been freed from slavery, why haven’t you gone back to your forefathers land. Your slave master has freed you, so run along honey, cross the shores. Oh sorry I forgot, you don’t know where exactly in AFRICA you are from, not that an country would want your unproductive arse anyway. Bloody cunt. I answer and english surname because I inherited it from my british paternal ancestors. You answer whatever name you do because you inherited it from your slavemasters. So don’t give me lectures on blackness. Whoever I marry, I will have beautiful children ‘cuz they will win the genetic lottery. With my looks, or their fathers(whoever the lucky sod is), they will look like angels. I don’t suffer from this colourism crap you westerners have. I could care less if my future babies are dark or light skinned, either way, they will be very loved!

nahnah

jalilimaster, you are obviously in desperate search of attention. you wouldn’t know intelligence even if it crawled up your neck and bit you in the ears.

go wash your sweaty cunt, it’s stinking up the thread.

by the way, you’re nigerian? why didn’t you stay in nigeral?

are you one of those africans who go for white guys to have “beautiful” children? the inferiority complex is so in the minds of africans, probably more so than african-americans.

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WHY DIDN’T SHE STAY IN NIGERIA? YOU FOOL. I AM ALSO NIGERIAN AND I STUDY IN THE UK. THE EDUCATION HERE IS BETTER. I WILL TAKE IT AND MAKE GOOD MONEY FROM IT. OR DO U SEE GETTING AN EDUCATION AS A BAD THING? GOODNESS!

Jalilimaster and Foxy should start their own site on how wonderful their African stars are. Next!

Why do you people feel the need to comment on a website geared to people you feel are inferior? I don’t understand that. Did we African Americans request your presence?

@FOXYCLEOPATRA

I understand some of what your saying but it’s still flawed. ‘IF’the majority of black men are checking for white women I ain’t mad at them. Every other race that has come to this country under free will has been able to hold on to their culture. African Americans have not. We are westernized. Have you read the articles about black people being fired because their hairstyles were too ‘ethnic’. It’s true. Give me a minute and I’ll find it and give you the site. Some of us relax our hair, put in extensions, dodge the sun like it’s a plage, and feel embarrassed by our curves. WHY, the people who own the companies where the majority of us work are white and sadly they want us to look like them. That’s why we have BET, JET, ESSENCE, AND EBONY. We needed to see us and say ‘hey I am beautiful (dark skin and all) even though the white folks mags say I have to be light skinned. God made us and anything he makes is perfect regardless of man’s standards.

WHY DIDN’T SHE STAY IN NIGERIA? YOU FOOL. I AM ALSO NIGERIAN AND I STUDY IN THE UK. THE EDUCATION HERE IS BETTER. I WILL TAKE IT AND MAKE GOOD MONEY FROM IT. OR DO U SEE GETTING AN EDUCATION AS A BAD THING? GOODNESS!

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my question was not intended to insult nigerians, my dear, so please calm down. jalilimaster seem to have a superiority complex going on, where she thinks she somehow better than african americans, so i was making a point by asking her that question.

it’s funny how so many africans and caribbean folks think they are superior to african americans. and of course a lot of african americans have that superiority mentality as well.

Boring ass topic.

But I see the tried and true queens knew what to post to wake up some.

More media manipulation.

She looks lovely and like she’s enjoying her pregnancy…..

@ nahnah

Reading is fundamental. “Hollywood” doesn’t make decisions, people do. White men in offices decide who will be sex symbols.

@logic lady

If white men appreciate black womens beauty more than black men, why don’t we see more black women in leading lady roles for mainstream movies and tv shows. White men are the majority.

First of all….More power to her to date a white guy…Most of you chicks on this site that are sitting her moaning about black guys need to cross over to the other side. I’m happy for her….As for the sex symbol issue…Halle Berry is now black she is biracial….Beyonce is black….there is no mistake about that under that weave and make up is a black woman….There are no black symbols in hollywood because Hollywood does not think African American’s are beautiful….Just Fat and Funny…Sad but true

@Fly for a White Guy

Thank you for giving a different perspective. Some of us black folks have been so brain washed that we fight each other. I am black and have dated white guys and an asian guy (although the asian guy didn’t want anyone to know). I lots of friends of different races and am getting a better understanding of how they view black people. I really appreciate your honesty.

JaliliMaster

Oh please shut it. My grandfather from my dads side was some white scottish/english guy. I myself am part british, I just don’t feel the need to ram it down everyones throat. You asked why didn’t I stay in Nigeria, well I came to to Britain to study, Chemical Engineering to be precise. Now let me ask you. Since you have been freed from slavery, why haven’t you gone back to your forefathers land. Your slave master has freed you, so run along honey, cross the shores. Oh sorry I forgot, you don’t know where exactly in AFRICA you are from, not that an country would want your unproductive arse anyway. Bloody cunt. I answer and english surname because I inherited it from my british paternal ancestors. You answer whatever name you do because you inherited it from your slavemasters. So don’t give me lectures on blackness. Whoever I marry, I will have beautiful children ‘cuz they will win the genetic lottery. With my looks, or their fathers(whoever the lucky sod is), they will look like angels. I don’t suffer from this colourism crap you westerners have. I could care less if my future babies are dark or light skinned, either way, they will be very loved!

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JALILI, DON’T U THINK UR ABOVE COMMENT IS OFFENSIVE? I DO. IF A WHITE PERSON SAYS THIS, I’M SURE U’D GET ANGRY BUT THEN U THINK ITS OK FOR U TO SAY IT TO THEM? COME ON

Hollywood sex symbols, in any order:

Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Alba, Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry, Beyonce, Scarlet Johansson, Jessica Biel, Allessandra Ambrosio, Adriana Lima etc.

What is unique about these women. All the white or latino ones, bar Angelina, have what you’d call a black womans body. Slim, with a bubble shaped backside and some great knockers. Angelina used to be like that in her Tomb raider days, now she’s kinda bony and not so hot. But what is she most famed for. Her lips. Same with Alba, Johanson, Biel and Lima. Thay have those luscious type lips that you only typically find naturally on black chicks. I’m actually quite surprised to hear that so many black women have low self esteem, all because of hollywood. Correct me if I’m wrong, but all the famous actresses are trying to look like you guys!

We as black people are way too consumed with looks (outer beauty). I was trying to make this point yesterday. We need to understand we block ourselves from seeing the gifts in others when we view everything from the outside.

It’s actually funny seeing africans arguing with african americans. Talk about Random. I heard a story about an african man who got angry at his white colleague for calling him the n-word. The boss wanted to settle the matter, but got irritated when the african guy said that he wasn’t offended by the word, just the fact that he’s an african and only african americans can be (the n-word). I don’t understand why people think like that. Shouldn’t it be offensive to you anyway?

HERE WE GO AGAIN WITH THE RACE CRAP!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously, does everything posted that features two people of different races have to turn into a discussion about lowering standards, self hate, etc etc?

They are obviously happy. So he’s not fine.. She is pretty enough for the both of them!

And why does she have to be lowering her standards b/c he’s not aesthetically attractive? Hell, Beyonce is with Jay-Z and he looks like Joe Camel but ain’t nobody say she was lowering her standards. There’s plenty of beautiful women with so- so or average men.

This whole ‘it is the white man’talk is getting annoying. Fine blame white guys for anything, just not for the lack of black female sex symbols. It was white guys who voted Halle Berry sexiest woman alive. White guys who voted Beyonce No1 fantasy girlfriend and N02 for hottest body. When its a poll voted for by white women, you never see any black women in the top ten, yet see them in the top five when white men are voting. Get my point?

AND…

@FOXYCLEOPATRA

I understand some of what your saying but it’s still flawed. ‘IF’ the majority of black men are checking for white women I ain’t mad at them. Every other race that has come to this country under free will has been able to hold on to their culture. African Americans have not. We are westernized. Have you read the articles about black people being fired because their hairstyles were too ‘ethnic’. It’s true. Give me a minute and I’ll find it and give you the site. Some of us relax our hair, put in extensions, dodge the sun like it’s a plage, and feel embarrassed by our curves. WHY, the people who own the companies where the majority of us work are white and sadly they want us to look like them. That’s why we have BET, JET, ESSENCE, AND EBONY. We needed to see us and say ‘hey I am beautiful (dark skin and all) even though the white folks mags say I have to be light skinned. God made us and anything he makes is perfect regardless of man’s standards.

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I UNDERSTAND UR POINT BUT WHITE PPLE DID THE SAME IN WEST AFRICA. INFACT WHEN BLACK WOMEN WERE RAPED AND GOT PREGNANT FROM IT, AT FIRST, THE MIXED RACE CHILDREN WERE DISCRIMINATED AGAINST JUST AS BLACKS BUT LATER, JUST TO PUNIH, THEY THEN BANNED ALL MIXED RACE FEMALES FROM BRAIDING THEIR HAIR OR DOING ANYTHING WHITES DEEMED AFRICAN. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT HERE, WE COULD SEE WHAT HAPPENED AND ALTHOUGH WE HAD TO OBEY WHAT THEY SAID, IN CLOSED DOORS, PARENTS MADE SURE THEY TAUGHT THEIR CHILDREN TO BE PROUD OF THEIR HERITAGE. SEVERAL AFRICAN CULTURES HAVE LOST THEIR LANGUAGES DUE TO EUROPEAN INFLUENCES. FOR EG IN ANGOLA, THEY NOW SPEAK PORTUGESE AFTER BEING COLONISED AND THE LOCAL ORIGINAL LANGUAGE THEY SPOKE HAS BEEN WIPED OUT FOREVER. THE SAME WILL SOON HAPPEN IN CAMEROUN WERE THEY MOSTLY SPEAK FRENCH. IN SOUTHERN PARTS OF AFRICA, CHILDREN WERE FORCE TO LEARN IN AFRIKAANS (A FORM OF DUTCH) WHICH WAS THE OPPRESSORS LANGUAGE. OFCOURSE THE WHITES ONLY DID THIS TO PREVENT THE BLACK KIDS FORM GETTING AN EDUCATION (GO AND READ ON THE SOWETO UPRISING).

BLACKS WORLDWIDE HAVE HAD IT HARD BUT IT SEEMS THAT THOSE IN US AND EUROPE SEEM ONLY TOO HAPPY TO LET EVERYTHING GO. THERE IS ONLY SO FAR THAT U CAN BLAME THE WHITE MAN. HE WILL DO AS MUCH AS U WILL LET HIM

Catfish, I’ve met some Nigerians and they seem alright to me.

Fly For A White Guy

It’s actually funny seeing africans arguing with african americans. Talk about Random. I heard a story about an african man who got angry at his white colleague for calling him the n-word. The boss wanted to settle the matter, but got irritated when the african guy said that he wasn’t offended by the word, just the fact that he’s an african and only african americans can be (the n-word). I don’t understand why people think like that. Shouldn’t it be offensive to you anyway?

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I ACTUALLY ALSO HEARD THIS STORY. THE GUY WAS A NIGERIAN. WHEN NIGERIANS HEARD IT MOST OF US JUST THOUGHT HIM TO BE A FOOL. SO DON’T ASSUME ALL AFRICANS THINK LIKE THIS. BEAR IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALSO CALLED N****** BUT WESTERN BLACKS SEEM TO HAVE DECIDED TO ‘RECLAIM’THE WORD. HOW CAN U RECLAIM WHAT U NEVER HAD? DID N***** EVER MEAN A GOOD THING?

Plenty of people said Beyonce could do better. PLENTY!!!

@Fly for a white guy…Yes, I get your point, and I do agree White men love black women…

I also think more than ever before that Black women are beginning to love white men the same because the way white men cherishes their inner beauty as well as the outer beauty.

I also think black men have been coming to the realization that white women are equal gain in today’s society, and they are going after them in the masses.

Hey, if there are any black girls out there looking for a white dude to date, I’ll be more than happy to hook you up. A friend of mine is so mad for black chicks. He’s only ever dated one back in high school, all the others were white. Infact, his most recent ex was one hot blonde chick, but he still thinks black chicks are the bomb. I don’t actually get it. A friend of mine (she’s a girl) is convinced that she can walk into any black club and come out with any guy that she wants, just because she is half white/half latino, yet my friend is the kind of guy that all the girls like. Yet, when it comes to black girls, he’s not so lucky. So I’m wondering, why are black men so for white or asian chicks or whatever, but black girls are not. I can date any race so if a black girl turns me down just because I’m white, I’ll just say okay and move on, but this friend of mine only really likes black girls.

@whiteboy

Follow the thread before you comment!

In case you got lost, Perez Hilton is down the block and around the corner.

I will be happy for the day when BLACKS as well as all races of humans decide the N word should be band from all. And I wish blacks stop thinking it is acceptable to call each other a word that was created to keep us as a race down….

Shawn

I will be happy for the day when BLACKS as well as all races of humans decide the N word should be band from all. And I wish blacks stop thinking it is acceptable to call each other a word that was created to keep us as a race down….

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RIGHT ON BUT FAT CHANCE OF THAT EVER HAPPENING IF THE BLACKS WE SEE IN THE MEDIA ARE ANYTHING TO GO BY

this site is a success because is isn’t positive.

if this site was more education, it would get like………3 hits!

funny, but true!

think

Foxy Cleopatra, you are very funny. Next nahnah will say she went to cameroun. This is kinda sad though. I’m a dude, and I’m actually enjoying being on this gossip site.

Tiray

this site is a success because is isn’t positive.

if this site was more education, it would get like………3 hits!

funny, but true!

think

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TIRAY U ARE SORT OF MAKING ME FEEL EMBARRASED WITH MYSELF COS I KNOW THIS IS THE FACT! WHAT A SHAME

@Shawn

“I will be happy for the day when BLACKS as well as all races of humans decide the N word should be band from all. And I wish blacks stop thinking it is acceptable to call each other a word that was created to keep us as a race down….”

I have been ‘preaching’this for years now. I hope we get there one day cuz what we doing now is not working.

@Fly For A White Guy

Please don’t let some silly people in this world give you a bad impression of all black folks. That chick in the club you was talking about would have flipped if the shoe was on the other foot.

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@Fly For A White Guy

Please don’t let some silly people in this world give you a bad impression of all black folks. That chick in the club you was talking about would have flipped if the shoe was on the other foot.

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Don’t worry, I don’t judge people based solely on one persons actions. But now when I think of it, it was kinda funny.

THIS IS A POEM WE WERE TAUGHT AS PART OF OUR CURRICULUM IN SCEONDARY SCHOOL IN NIGERIA. IT WAS WRITTEN BY AN AFRICAN POET CALLED DENNIS OSADEBAY:

REJOICE AND SHOUT WITH LAUGHTER

THROW ALL YOUR BURDENS DOWN

IF GOD HAS BEEN SO GRACIOUS

AS TO MAKE YOU BLACK OR BROWN

A PEOPLE OF GREAT NATION

A PEOPLE OF GREAT BIRTH

FOR WHEREFORTH WOULD SPRING ALL THE GOODNESS

IF GOD TOOK AWAY THE EARTH

REJOICE AND SHOUT WITH LAUGHTER

THROW ALL YOUR BURDENS DOWN

FOR IT IS A GLORIOUS HERITAGE

IF YOU ARE BLACK OR BROWN!

COPY THIS POEM AND TEACH IT TO YOUR BEAUTIFUL KIDS WHETHER THEY ARE FULLY BLACK, HALF BLACK, 1/4 BLACK OR WHATEVER!

2Shawn

“We as black people are way too consumed with looks (outer beauty). I was trying to make this point yesterday. We need to understand we block ourselves from seeing the gifts in others when we view everything from the outside.”

YOU ARE ON IT. THIS IS THE TRUTH.

SORRY SECONDARY SCHOOL

@FOXYCLEOPATRA

THANKS. Its sad they don’t teach stuff like that in schools in the US.

Foxy Cleopatra, that poem was nice. If I end up with a black girl, I’d definitely read my kids a poem like that.

Yes nahnah, I agree with you 100%. But I don’t believe the way to solve anyones self esteem issues is to just tell them they are beautiful. If they don’t believe it, then whats the point?

@And…I agree with you

@ Fly For a White guy,

What state are you from?

cafish:

i AGREE, reading is definately fundamental, and your comment is proof of that. Obviously, all you do is read and not comprehend, as comprehension is another task of its own – an ADVANCED task at that.

Hollywood is an entity created by the elite. And the elite consistS of rich white men.

COMPREHENSION IS ADVANCED!

Foxy, as a Caribbean person I hear you loud and clear…but lets definitely not blame people for their last names..that is just cruel really.

I do understand your frustration, but all you can do is live your life the best way you know how…and if someone is amenable to help, and you are able to provide it, then do it.

People don’t want to realize that words do have power..and the more they use such words on themselves, the more they become those things.

Its truly useless…don’t bother..

Oh, and the caps..really not necessary. No need to shout.

Aahhh,

My old “friend” NahNah- Shockingly I am not completely opposed to your rationale…but that’s TODAY…who know what tomorrow may bring..lol

Flex,

So what if those are the things said about black women on other sites? We can’t stop racist people – especially when they have the anonymity of the internet to play their games.

What about the black men with money marrying the fat ugly groupies or babysitters? Do black men worry about what is said about them on other blogs? GMAB!!

I noticed that anytime a black woman is dating/married to a white man, we are always told about how white people feel about us. But when black men marry white women, it is because we are too fat, too loud, we don’t give head or we don’t do the things white girls would do for a brother..

You know what, the way I see it, maybe white women love the fact that brothers sit and berate their women, they may love your penis or whatever.. But it seems to bother y’all that all the things you complain about, white men are not detered. Maybe the white guys like the fact that we are bossy, they may like a little extra meat.. Or perhaps they see a lot of women, some very educated, some accomplished… They see hard working women and decide to give them a chance instead of dwelling in the superficial and insignificant things.

I always hear the excuse that successful black men marry women in their circle. Like Tiger married his friend’s Nanny, Montel his stripper and then the airhostess?

Then why the hate when white men marry black women in their circle? Garcelle’s husband is an Agent and she is an Actress. At least she didn’t marry the Janitor or the Chippendale gigalo!

I will be happy for the day when BLACKS as well as all races of humans decide the N word should be band from all. And I wish blacks stop thinking it is acceptable to call each other a word that was created to keep us as a race down….

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i agree! it’s called complacency – black people being satisfied with being niggers. it’s a subconscious thing and they don’t realize it.

*waves at marley*

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HEY GUYS

Is it just me or do you guys know how to generate hits and keep their site going? Please notice how the last few days have been about “interracial” dating – a topic that will guarantee a few arguments that will generate over 100 posts.

oh and last week was, ummm, bill o’reilly’s racist ass and all those other people making comments about black people.

boy i tell ya, they know how to get us going!

@nahnah – I mostly agree with you, except with the word complacency…I think BLACKS have taken on the role as if we now own this degrating word, and have changed it to mean something good among our own kind (giving it a total different meaning). However, I really don’t think it is okay to make it seem the word means anything other than the way it meant to be received from the start.

Garcelle is so Gorgeous when pregnant and when not pregnant. I dnt care who she married I just hope she is happy and the babies are healthy!

@And – I totally agree with your statement. Basically, it is important to create dialogue on various topics, and hope to sometimes come away with broader view which enhances growth (which we all need).

@nahnah

So we agree.

“Hollywood” is run by elite WHITE MEN who make decisions on who will be projected as sex symbols. That wasn’t so difficult was it!

@nahnah

Not just those that use the N word are ‘black and live in the urban/inner city’. Regardless of race, class, gender the word is bad. I wonder how many black folks would walk up to Martin Luther King Jr (if he were still alive) and say how you livin’n***a? or that’s my n***a?

catfish, you decided to disagree with me when in fact you agreed.

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anyway, to make a general comment here: we accept hollywood’s racism and that’s one reason why we will always have problems. it is important to know that your actions as a person is greatly determined by how you feel about yourself.

@ and…

i tend to see black urbanites use that term more than black suburbanites.

whites who use it usually do so in the comfort of their own homes. they don’t want to be branded as racists even though they are.

though i have a white friend who uses that term like crazy, and i tell her about it. she’s very “black” in a sense where she only listens to hip hop (she’s an artist herself) and date black guys. she isn’t racist at all, but it’s the music she listens to and the people she hang out with. hey, i can’t blame her too much, she’s simply a product of her environment!

ibw – ideal black

people like marley and jailil master have superiority complexes, and i was just trying to let them know the truth, which is there are black americans and black americans are them.

regarding your experience with white men – same thing happened to me with a guy i met from croatia. he admitted he was only interested in “knowing what it feels to be with a black girl”. it’s called racial fetishism and it’s sick.

Dear IBW..

Really..you love all Black people? You love OJ (he gives a rats ass about you) You love “dog killer” Micheal Vick? Hey, if he treats a dog like that..he’ll do the same to a human.You love Clarence Thomas (he is doing his best to keep you DOWN)..oh and he does not love you…I could go on..but why even.

You are African…what is up with the double negative slang stuff..

Guess what..some people are better than other..Sad, but true.

Props IBW

@LolaCola,

there are a few blacks that have strayed and cannot be saved, but I actually do like Michael Vick. On the field the man can play but people’s private doings off the field not my concern. Doesn’t make me like them less. Clarence Thomas, Rev. Patterson and Juan Williams have some self-hatred issues they need to work out. But overall, I like black people cuz you will never ever be bore being around a black person and they’re strong.

nahnah…well i’m not interested being nobody’s fetish so I cut him loose.

lolacola, are you some sort of vegan or something? cuz if you ain’t, then you too is an animal killer.

millions of americans hunt and fish for the hell of it, and somehow it’s acceptable. factor farming is the worst kind of animal torture there is, but this guy is being crucified for something that’s prevalent in this society. what hypocrites you people are!

@ IBW-Ideal Black Woman

good, because that’s degrading.

nahnah

ibw – ideal black

people like marley and jailil master have superiority complexes, and i was just trying to let them know the truth, which is there are black americans and black americans are them.

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NahNah…why are you trying to draw me into this?

I was being decent to you by listening to your comments respectfully. That is not going to change, and neither is it going to change that I DO NOT feel connected to MOST Black Americans, and as you don’t know me and never will, you cannot just blanketly say you are me and I am you.(or something along those lines)

It is not about having a superiority complex, it is about feeling like some people are inherently different to the core than I am, and it has little to do with race. I do not automatically feel a kinship with MOST Black Americans..and I am not bothered by it.

Neither should you be bothered by it. Not all people of WI descent feel this way, but the truth is many do. I cannot speak for Africans as I am not familiar with their culture, and am greatly dismayed by some of the things I read about in so many countries on that continent…I suspect the horror is far greater than what we read about..

Truth is, life is not perfect except in Utopia…but I still cannot shake that feeling of discomfort with some B A’s in particular.

Just trying to be truthful in this open forum…and yet I do not wish to bash anyone If I can possibly not do that…Therefore, any comments that are negative will not be responded to in a nasty manner by me. I am just trying to convey MY truth…yours may be different..but I still wish you well.

Even you NahNah…in fact especially you…clearly you are an intelligent woman, I believe. If you are a man please forgive me..no offence intended.

I am a vegetarian..but I am not a crazed PETA member..I do some dairy if it is organic..and I am very particular where I buy my organic produce.

As a Californian I try to live as green as possible…this is a general concept I know..and far too long to include here..but some things include-

Using long life low power output lights

Unplugging electrical items not in use

Recycling

Not buying tons of little plastic water bottles(I buy a polycarbon one and rinse and reuse)

Keeping the thermostat on 78 (or OFF)

Purchashing miniamlly processed- packaged items

Reusing bags in grocery store

Shopping with companies that share my vision

…..I could go on…

Lets all try some of these thing..

Make them HABITS

@Marley

Well said.

marley,

i’m a female.

when i go to a section of manhattan called sutton place’, i feel totally disconnected, as it’s a very rich and snooty area. so feeling disconnected is one thing, but generalizing a group of people is another, and that is what you have done. you put non american blacks over american blacks and that’s not a good thing to do.

it’s natural to feel disconnected from a certain culture, but that doesn’t make yours better, just different.

lolacola – i am a vegan and i commend you for making an effort.

Hiya AND

Thanks a lot.

Peace

Nicely said about Marley that is

Those twins are gonna stretch out that previously taut belly beyond repair. Damn kids.

Her husband is/was her manager. We all know familiarity breeds content. Interpretation: if you look at someone for long enough, they get hot. Look at Christina Aguilera and her troll husband. Well, Christina’s man is apparently rich and great in bed. Hell, I’m curious…

And don’t forget! We also got to protect and recycle this country’s most precious commodity: WHITE WOMEN, THE ONLY WHITE MEAT THAT’S WORTH A DAMN!

anon, what makes halle intimidating? can people have their preferences or must we all put halle on a pedastal and talk about how beautiful she is?

halle has been hyped up, and shoved down our throats. and not everyone believe the hype. halle is ok and nothing special. she’s a pretty woman but that’s it, a human being who’s pretty. nothing to bust an artery over.

out of the ones you mentioned, i think gabrielle union is the most gorgeous. she has a very beautiful and exotic look to her. it’s that simple.

Oreo..

you are sad

OR a TROLL..

Actually, I thought PIG was the other white meat.

Anyway, lets not turn this into a ww argument..some are my friends..and some I don’t like..but we are all HUMAN

I don’t really understand why people take the time to overly defend or criticize some people. There are too few working black actors. I like Halle and I’m liking her more and more. I love Gabrielle, but I disagree with nahnah. She’s not exotic looking. She’s very all-American. Hating someone because they have a white partner is idiotic and it goes for the men and women on here. It’s just as ignorant as some things that some f-ed up white people so on sites like Perez. Racism is not cute regardless of who it’s coming from.

daria,

i don’t like halle and i don’t gabrielle as performers. i just think gabrielle is a strikingly beautiful woman and her facial features, specifically her eyes and skin combination is what i think makes her look exotic.

and i don’t feel too good about halle’s man. he looks really shady to me, and i think halle literally picked him up for sperm purposes. sorry.

She is so so beautiful.

Haitian sensation We need more of her in Hollywood.

Yes, Emerson . . . I agree with you.

I had a question . . . Why don’t you talk about how ugly NY Jets running back Thomas Jones is? His GF might be knocked up, and if the baby looks like him, it truly will be an ugly baby. At least the Nilons are married.

Its a shame that black men and women have more hostility toward each other than the men/women of any other race. It must make God sad to see this.

She’s been preggers forever! When she gonna have that baby??

YEA HE LOOKS A MESS BUT IM SURE HE TREAT’S HER WELL ..AN ON TOP OF THAT HE MIGHT KNOW HOW 2…SLOW ROLL IT…..HEEEEEYY WUT YALL KNOW BOUT DAT OLD SCHOOL.

I need help. I still don’t understand something.

Why do people who feel no connection to Black Americans com to a site geared towards Black Americans? Did they get kicked off the Jewish site or the gay site? I just don’t get it. Why not just go among people you feel connected to????????

wow, it seems like you folks are taking this white guy/black chick thing pretty well.

funny how the black guys/white chicks threads are always flooded with a bunch of angry black women.

do i smell a double standard here?

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The answer to your question is that Black women do not insult and denigrate black men publicly! But ignorant “coonish” niggers will talk about why they don’t date Black women in magazines, and on radio shows, all day long!

You never hear of Black women, even if they date white…doing that!

Hope this helps clarify your confusion!

Many of you must be using a heck of a double standard here. GBN’s husband is a very attractive man in a guy-next-door way — not at all what I would call “ugly.” I wish them much happiness.

Don’t take it personal Emerson!! You’re right, all of you can’t (and don’t) look like Brad Pitt — and we don’t want you too. George Clooney or the dudes from Prison Break would be a much better look! LMAO!!! (But they are extremely hot!)

All the best to you and your wife with your twin blessings!

Garcielle (or however you spell it) looks very beautiful, and she’s extremely smart to keep the heels low.

Oh LEESA, u sound sooo hot when you’re being an angry cunt! I just luv it when you call us black men “NIGGERS” and you have such a knack with adverbs – “COONISH”. Do you eat out your girlfriend with that nasty mouth of yours?

You say that you’re entering the mental health field … with THAT shallow, ageist, simplistic point of view? What a depressing thought. Being a beautiful human being is about SO much more than six packs and bank accounts. I feel deeply sorry for the folks who may end up in your care one day.

Octavia, you say that you’re entering the mental health field … with THAT shallow, ageist, simplistic point of view? What a depressing thought. Being a beautiful human being is about SO much more than six packs and bank accounts. I feel deeply sorry for the folks who may end up in your care one day — people who will surely need maturity and empathy rather than arrogance and superficiality.

At this point she needs to be sitting her azz down somewhere. She looks like she is about to burst on the sidewalk with those high heel boots!

Now, now Trudie, superficiality is an underrated quality, especially when it’s articulated with such clarity, candor and honesty. I applaud Octavia. Ain’t nothing wrong with embracing superficiality…Most people go through life not knowing what they want, but at least Octavia is mentally healthy enough to know what she doesn’t want…And that is to wake up every morning to somebody who she finds unattractive. BRAVO!

Ok, Trudie. You keep living in a world where looks and success don’t matter. Where kindness pays your bills and you can force yourself to be sexually attracted someone. When you get done smoking that, pass it to me.

But while I am still on Earth, I’m going to keep it real. I’m not cruel. This is just a frank discussion. If you worked hard to earn your way of life why can’t I want a man who did the same? If I keep myself up, what is so wrong with saying I like to wake up to a nice smile and body? What is so wrong with not wanting to pump my man with viagra while I’m still in my prime?

I guarantee you I’m not going to work hard for my PhD. and keep my appearance up to settle with someone who’s way past their prime or is not putting for the same effort.

It appears to me that so many brothas and sistas feel the same… UNTIL a white person comes along. Then the list of criteria go out the window. I am speaking the simple truth: a lot of us (black people) set two different standards: 1 for other blacks (we want our dream guy or girl) and 1 for non-blacks (whatever comes along). I am not gonna pretend like I don’t see it.

I bet you right now there is some fat, toothless white girl in Arkansas who truly believes she could take a Nelly from an Ashanti. I also bet you there is some old crusty white guy who thinks he can take a Nicole Parker from a Boris Kodjoe… and the sad thing is they are probably right.

Why can’t black people be fabulous together?

Wow do they look happy. Isn’t that a day brightener? They were married in 2001, and still look like they can’t wait to get home.

Gotta love that. The rest is just blather.

Ms. Octavia, I had the pleasure of perusing your MySpace page and I must say that you are a vision that was truly blessed by the Gods. If I was asthmatic, I would need A shot of Primatine Mist, for you truly took my breath away. Cheers.

WOW, AND AFTER THAT YOU WONDER WHY SOME WHITE POEPLE ARE RACIST? SOME BLACK PEOPLE ALWAYS CRIE ABOUT RASISM, BUT IN FACT THEY ARE THE MOST RACIST POEPLE YOU CAN FIND!

Stop the nonsesnse! Blacks look bad too. Look at Megan Goods thing! Shakes head

@Oreo

Hi, Im impressed that your comments have become nicer in tone. The sarcasm is still there but far less crassness. Take care

Another sista lost to a white boy. What a damn shame! I bet his parents already disowned him just cuz he married a black women.

Shawn:

If his parents disowned him, and I doubt that they did, he obviously doesn’t care!

No illegitimate kids being born here…he loves his Black Queen, they’ve been married for years, and they have a baby on the way!

Isn’t just like a hateful underachiever like Shawn to make a stupid crack like that!

But, what can you expect from “one of them”.

Why would you comment on the appearance of Gabby’s husband, one does not marry for looks alone, he must treat her like a queen. I would rather have an average looking man that treats me well, versus one who is fine and treats me like crap!