What in the world will the american public have to forgive Usher for in the first place? Who he marries is his business. He doesn’t owe us anything. If his marriage falls apart tomorrow. He doesn’t owe us a thing. That’s his business. His purpose is to make music we’re satisfied w/and are happy to pay for. We’re not paying for him to live his life according to OUR standards or to get permission to make a life decision from us.

People Kill me. I wish we were this p*****ionate about coming down on hoodrat babies mama’s who pop out babies for welfare checks, shiftless hood kids and gun toters who run around shunning education and terrorizing communities…or pathetic brothers crying foul just because they’re black and use that as their p***** to be shiftless. Don’t we have more to concern ourselves w/ than if one woman ruins one public figure’s life? That’s his and his family’s business. We sure are narssasistic to think the world needs our permission to turn. I gotta go pee!!! Will the American public be okay w/ me running to the restroom?

Furthermore, Usher’s fan base is bigger than black america. I think Michael Jackson (yeah, Michael is done now, but he lasted far beyond the shunning glares and pointing fingers of american disapprovers (there, there’s a word besides haters for you) and proved American disproval isn’t the end of an artists stardom, as have boyz II men and other so-called “played out” artists, all who over seas enjoying royalties! We are some self-centered people. We think we’re single handedly responsible for the rise and fall of everything and everyone! Get over yourselves! The only thing we ever uniformally runined was our image in the eyes of the world at large as a cultural group. How bout if we focus on that rather waiting for this relationship to go to pieces so we can gossip about it…

And to the smart *****es who will comment, YES, I know, this is a gossip site and that’s what its for. And that’s EXACTLY why I came here to spit MY OPINION, which is based on educated knowledge and the study of something besides american pop culture and booty shakers and ghetto weave and the whose screwing who of hollywood.

All you commentors, do you know the crisis popping of in Korea and Afghanistan concerning nuclear weapons or the status current status of the civil warfare happening in Darfur? Do you even know what/where Darfur is? Its not on Ushmeka Island…I’ll tell you that much!

Fact of the matter, no one knows what the consistency is of that relationship but them. What are we? mad cause this woman’s with him and those of us who do the most hating couldn’t pull a man w/ the noteriety of flavor flav….let alone Usher Raymond? And while we’re p*****ing judgment on her looks, everyone blogging here looks like the spring line up for the new supermodels of the season right? Without weave, tons of mac and skin tight outfits on to make us feel better about our less than attractive faces, or clothes bearing the best *****ests we have in efforts to deflect from our flabby babies’ mama’s bellies, sagging *****, smokers lips and nasty attitudes? Only hoochies, hood rats and cl*****less chicks have to bag on the next female to make themselves feel better!!! yep I said it…anyone who wants it bring it!

cause the fact of the matter is, the more people, especially us sisters, run this woman down for NO APPARENT reason, the more we make ourselves look like what society says we are, self-hating, bitter hags w/ nothing better to do w/ our time than destroy the character of the next woman.

We keep hollering about how old she is. She’s what…36 to his 27 or 28? Demi Moore was 14 or years more Ashton Kutcher’s senior. Why was the black female population not on that? Its the same thing!

This hypocrisy and self-righteousness is disgusting. All I know is…people in hood fashion houses shouldn’t throw beauty advice and opinions. We when stop promoting blonde weaves, nappy ponytails, rainbow mains and quick weaves as high fashion, we may have room to judge others.

Let’s work on our own tackiness as a group before we worry about who Usher married to and whether she meets our standard of beauty. Cause the fact of the matter is, not everyone speaking on the matter is drop dead gorgeous themselves. You got so much to say…let’s see your best shot…w/out the weave and wonder make-up!

what is she good for?