The Old Lady Stepped Her Game Up

Posted on January 1st, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Coupled Up, Happy New Year, News, Not a Total Betty But a Vast Improvement, Tameka Foster, Usher

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Damn, after popping out a baby just a bit ago, crazy ‘ole Tameka is looking pretty darn good. She still might look a wee bit tranny-ish, but it is still a major come up on her part…

Tameka and Usher brought in the New Year in Vegas too…check out pics below:

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A few more on the flippy…

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Images via WENN

  • King Jaffe Joe

    killa

  • A New Year (and Texas is still gettin shit)

    Top 2..Maybe 1st?

  • Pedro

    Happy new year yall bossip , bossip commenters ,

    Im out fa real now

  • therealest

    I think they look really nice.

  • thephatdiva

    I never remember her looking bad! She has two small babies she looks great and her shoes are bad (in a good way) PS top five

  • Brush Dem Haters Off

    Bossip don’t start the hate….I love Mr.& Mrs.Raymond…Black love

  • Grandma

    Tameka must be very good in bed for usher to marry her and have babies with. i mean why

  • A New Year (and Texas is still gettin shit)

    Considering I just saw the Usher Boondocks episode this is rather ironic..but funny.

  • Nizzle

    Mr. Usher looks a little Tense. Keep those hands in your pockets sir.

  • MeanGurl

    Tameka in NOt an ugly woman. I’m glad to see her and Usher happy and in blacklove. Usher like his women with REAL woman curves. Not plastic.
    Happy Kwanzaa/Happy New Year

  • MWNY

    I haven’t really been a fan of Usher’s since he started acting like a you know what towards his fans.

  • HarlemWorld

    What is wrong with you people. I never though there was anything wrong with Tameka. As a black man I can honestly say that I understand why Ursh mess with her because she gets her own stacks (she actually styled Nas for one of his album covers i just ran across) and I know she ain’t with that prissy mess in the bedroom. Plus she looks like she don’t take no mess but also keeps her mouth shut. Sounds like a winner to me.

  • Carla

    Karma is a bitch for Usher, now isn’t it ? He didn’t want to be tied down with Chilli but Tameka trapped him her invisible box, lol….

  • pamelicious

    OLD LADY??????? what is she like 37 years old? She looks gorgeous, she definitely looks a lot better than most!!!!!!

  • http://Bossip.com jjj / Proud Jamaican

    I see that some things don’t change going into the new year…the hating continues.

  • HarlemWorld

    Who needs some young thang that’s gonna come in and try to be more fly than Usher in addition to scooping his stacks instead of holding him down. Later for that B.S. go ahead Ursh. I cosign on that and she thick!

  • jazi

    She looks fab!

  • sickofitt

    She looks Fab. Doesn’t she have like 5 kids? She looks damm good. Her stomach snapped back in no time

  • Angee

    She look good. They look good together.

  • karen

    please, quit hating on her she looks nice. They both do, they make a good couple.

  • Grandma

    usher could have married rihanna… my girl rihanna is very talented, wins everyday and sings very good and will be at the Obamas inaguration

  • BKLYNZ OWN(09 our time to shine)

    BIG UPS TO URSHER AND FAM

  • http://myspace.com/mockrockstar Commenting for the New Year

    It’s funny that you all call her crazy, but I would say just a mild, ghetto mental illness…they look great through and I wish them well

  • Laila

    I see that some things don’t change going into the new year…the hating continues.

    ^^^^^^so true, 2009 is supposed to be about all kind of change, but honestly all these people who choose to have hate in their hearts really only hurt themselves. I don’t know about you all, but i’m leaving the childish hate in 2008!

    Tameka looks awesome!

  • The Bear – Black is the new White!!!

    Say whatever you like but what I notice is that in these pics Usher looks happy as heck… I mean I see a genuine (not fake or put on) happiness in the dude in these pictures and you cannot put a price on that.

    I think Tameka is a beautiful woman as is but if I found a woman that made me as happy as Usher appears in these pics her looks (and what people have to say about them) would not matter one bit to me.

  • zappy

    Come on, she looks good, they both do. This woman is going to prove all her haters wrong.

    She seems real, she had two kids for him and I haven’t heard any real drama between them since they married.

    Bossip, it’s time for you “hos to sit down” on this one.

  • Lisa

    Awww they look cute. Chocolate skin is so beautiful. She looks great after just having a baby. Good for them.

  • The Bear – Black is the new White!!!

    I have NEVER seen Jay-Z looking this happy and proud to have his woman by his side (before or after he entered his business merger… err I mean married Bayonce).

  • The Bear – Black is the new White!!!

    sorry I meant *Beyonce*

  • The Bear – Black is the new White!!!

    Shoot… he didn’t even want anybody to know he married her. Now that REALLY whack.

  • The Bear – Black is the new White!!!

    Now bossip ladies. What would you say/do if you married some dude and he tells you… “OK I’ll put a ring on it but I don’t want nobody to know you’re my wife.”?

    I’m sure you’d be like; “excuse me?”

  • lashondra

    WHATS UP WITH THE FAKE STRAIGHT HAIR. SHE LOOKS LIKE A MAN FOR REAL.THATS THE BEST HE CAN DO ?

  • mo

    I have come to the realization that bossip just cannot seem to stand it when dark complexted women are appreciated/loved by these celebrity men.
    I mean even Kim (the penis sucker), gets so much more love on this blog than Usher and his wife. I am glad to read hear that people are seeing through this constant hate of this man’s wife for no justifiable reason, other than she does not fit the mold of what is perceived as beautiful by the author of this blog. Stop attacking Tameka!!! Pleeeese!

  • lala

    Had he married a fat ugly white woman, or a tranny lookin white woman, no one would have anything to say about it!

  • Hannibal

    WHO CARES, SHE IS STILL A TRANNY…

  • simon

    I agree with Mo.
    From this brother’s viewpoint this woman looks absolutely beautiful, stunning as a matter of fact. And even more so when you consider she has had five children. Do your thing bro Ush!

  • Coco

    LMAO SMH at those using words like cute,awesome, and beautiful. All of these she is not! Stop being in denial just because he is with a dark chocolate sista. There are some baaaaad chocolate sista’s that she can’t hold a candle to. She looks like a tranny and the haiwian silky weave is not for her.

  • Hannibal

    I WONDER WHAT SHE SHAVES HER BEARD WITH…

  • ♥♥♥2cute4u♥♥♥

    Their clothes are coordinating nicely, but I still can’t honestly say “they make a nice looking couple”.

  • WAKE UP USHER!

    Usher had better go ahead and LET HER GO like he was supposed to! God is only going to play his “I don’t want to be alone game” for so long. He WILL continue to suffer great consequences as he stays with her. NOTHING HAS CHANGED OR IS GOING TO CHANGE WITH TAMEKA!

  • WordtotheWise

    Looking good, Usher and Tameka. She looks fantastic. I hope their marriage lasts a lifetime, and I’m sure she isn’t thinking about the naysayers. It’s a waste of time.

  • OhLaLa

    DAMN WHY SHE GOTTA BE AN OLD LADY??? SHES LIKE 3 YEARS OLDER THAN ME….SHOULD I APPLY FOR MY SOCIAL SECURITY NOW? :-(

  • vickie

    she stepped her game up when she married him

  • IM GASED UP BITCHES

    I am still up from yesterday bitches but I am starting to come down now. Only have a couple lines left but trying to hold out bitches. shrugging shoulders flipping dirty blonde hair back while wiping my runny nose with a dirty snot/coke run infested paper towel

  • Bradley

    Oh, I see ole’ Tameka done tried to work some mo’ jo on Usher to keep him from filing for divorce. That shit only lasts for so long, cause dude ain’t that stupid!

  • old school

    I think they look nice and she definitely looks better than I have seen in the past. But I guess I’m a little old school (my grandma’s voice is in the back of my head), didn’t she just push a baby out a few weeks ago? She already out with a short dress and heels on? Her body ain’t young like it used to be, I’m just saying (not hating). But anywhooo…. do your thang!

  • me

    she has preety eyes

  • thephatdiva

    Everyone is a little crazy… It’s those small character imperfections and family dysfunction’s that give each member of a family individuality. Theses are some of the very things that make some family members lovable; though only to the family members who get it or, understand why a person would have that “I don’t take any stuff” persona. She just has a strong demeanor. It takes strength and patients to hold a young man down while they are still gaining wisdom, learning life’s lessons and becoming more mature everyday. This is especially true when the groom is young and handsome not to mention successful. His wife is older than he is and likewise with my husband and I. That being so, I KNOW how that is when you already made some mistakes in life and you try to warn your husband but he just has to learn the hard way (trial and error) lol. Men take a little longer to grow up. Recognize the real in that. It’s hard being a new wife. This I know!!! And issues with the mother in-law can make things seemingly impossible. Usher was man enough to cut the umbilical cord with love and respect. Not every man can do that! He is the median or shall I say common party. When the wife and mother in-law are left to resolve matters on their own things can and do get out of control on both ends. The key is respect. When you get married your parents are giving you away. At that point my mother can no longer control what I do in my home. I must show respect, however at the same time “respect is due to a dog”. You have to treat people the way you want to be treated. Some parents think because you’re their child that means your still a child. Yes, we’ll always be their babies and they are our elders; but how you view or treat your son or daughter is one thing… Now the way you treat you daughter or son in-law is a bit different. Because you know how your child is, rather he or she is mature or not; you know of all the irresponsible habits your son or daughter may have. However in my case I’m college and trade school educated. Even as a teen I took a college course, worked multiple jobs while helping to watch my little brother, helping to care for my disabled aunt and completing high school with more credits than needed. Not to mention doing chores and later obtaining my own place. I’ve been voting since high school. I’m old enough to go to a casino, drink, rent a car and get cheaper drivers insurance. All these things I have done!!! I’ve even seen over five different countries as a teen. I’ve traveled out of state by my self as a teen many time. LOL, once on business as a junior activist, while visiting Alex Haley’s ranch in Tennessee as a mentor in my school district. I have also learned many lessons for the mistakes that I have made in life. I have lost friends and family to death and suffered heart ache a time or two. Today I’m in the beginning stages of self employment; investing my own money in my success. I’ve always been mature and exceedingly responsible. And that’s not my full story so when you’ve done things in your life that you consider to have molded you into a young adult and your mother in-law prefers to over step, dis-acknowledge and degrade you, buy not recognizing you as the woman of your household, you tend to have a different perspective for women like Tamika more respectfully “Mrs. Raymond” now. Mothers tend to say offensive things to their daughter in-laws because they know they usually get away with it like pregnant women spazzing out on everyone. in both cases it’s only so long before the person enduring this lets it be know that they feel slighted. Its common that the mother in-law and daughter in-law beef but like fine art it takes time before it’s appreciated and admired by the masses.

  • Hannibal

    @THE FAT DIVA

    DID U REALLY HAVE TO SAY ALL OF THAT?

  • Z A.K.A Lemon Pepper Sauce (Filled with Hot Sauce)

    whats up ppl!

  • adiamondcenter

    Great look ……much better on her part….Black love is in the air

  • Georgiaboy

    at the end of the day, the mother in law knows what’s best for her son. if she overstep her boundary it’s because she recognize game. The foster chick has been trouble from day 1. er body knew dat. a mother in law will give respect when it is erned.

  • Anton Slizzardhands

    ERSHER I SEE YOU wut UP !!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/zitb Z.I.T.B.

    LOL @ the words on the wall behind them….”The Bank”…..classic

  • STEFANY

    Tameka in NOt an ugly woman. I’m glad to see her and Usher happy and in blacklove. Usher like his women with REAL woman curves. Not plastic.
    ************************************************
    Tameka is a pretty brown woman she’s also educated and a business woman before she met Usher, at least he married an authentic black woman and he’s cnfident enough in himself that he doesn’t need some mixed breed or white trophy ho on his arm to boost his confidence.

  • http://Afo.net Britt

    @ Mo I agree with you, They like to keep hating on dark black skin women, Meka looks good and I am happy for her and Usher, I wish thiem well. I respect Usher for giving a dark skin sister a chance. get your own ladies, don’t wait on these men.

  • Crazy Ass Rodney

    Call me CRAZY but I think Bossip Hates BLACK l o v e

  • thephatdiva

    Yes, Hannibal it is needed. This is a new year… We have to lead by example of greatness, understanding, wisdom, comprehension, and love. May be someone can gain insight and benefit from what I wrote. You will hate less people when you learn to understand them. She’s not ugly she’s just not your forte. However when you feel you’ve noticed a flaw in your neighbor, know that there is beauty in the one who doesn’t insult the creators works and the one who notice a flaw (physical and/or non physical) and prays for that person. Be thankful to the creator for not giving you qualities that are displeasing to you instead.

  • Hannibal

    @THEPHATDIVA

    YOUR WORDS ARE VERY POWERFUL. I AGREED WITH EVERYTHING U SAID, TAMEKA IS BEAUTIFUL! SHE ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE A DARKER VERSION OF HALLE BERRY.

  • Kennedy

    They look beautiful together. Let’s celebrate Black Love in 2009!

  • thephatdiva

    My thing is sometimes its just more to the story Georgiaboy. Sometimes they want their son’s with weak girls so they can still run the show and they want you to be all joe and extra. The mother in-law should consider maybe the girl is reserved or shy with new people; maybe she stays away because she isn’t feeling welcome. Could it be she’s not shy but just quiet and that she’s taking you in as well. How about she’s quiet because the mother in-law is confrontational, disagreeable and standoffish. When I encounter people who are not friendly or people who make offensive statement I tend to close them out protecting us both from saying some stuff that may be irreversible. How about try to see what it is that the son see in her. We’re not perfect maybe her good out ways the bad. What did Tamika do that was so wrong? Also how do you know its true?

  • thephatdiva

    Thank you Hannibal

  • Hannibal

    NO PROBLEM

  • heatherette

    Are yall talking about Ushmeka and Patton relationship issues or just people in general? B-Cause if it’s about Tameka, she’s never been shy. Ms. Patton is only considered to be overbearing by someone who has attempted to gain control and power over her and her son. And sometimes a woman (the wife) would rather her man be weak so she can continue to maintain a sense of authority over him.

  • She’naenae

    she does not look tranny-ish.wuts wrong with u ppl? why u actin like she needs to impress anybody? i love readin gossip here, but y’all r pretty wack sometimes

  • http://www.myspace.com/understandingone UNDERSTANDING

    As a fan of dark-skinned women I’m loving how she’s lookin’. She looks good … no other way 2 put it.

  • Oshie

    IM GASED UP BITCHES

    I am still up from yesterday bitches but I am starting to come down now. Only have a couple lines left but trying to hold out bitches. shrugging shoulders flipping dirty blonde hair back while wiping my runny nose with a dirty snot/coke run infested paper towel

    ________________________________________________

    Everyone knows I know how to spell simple words like “gassed”. Try again.

    PS. You are looking fly as hell today.

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  • Sit yo five dollar behind down before I make some change ( Immma A Diva!!!)

    Awwwww snap….I might have to change my gravie….freaking Tom-ecka done came up with a vengeance on y’all…lol….I guess she why tired of people calling her a trannie or maybe Usher was caught looking at a younger chick when she was somewhere taking a break from being his overseer…lol

  • Sit yo five dollar behind down before I make some change ( Immma A Diva!!!)

    Either way she’s good….

  • roosevelt taylor

    Tameka looking good.

  • Razzell Dazzell

    I like them together. The only thing is….they kinda look alike–lol. No really, they are a handsome couple and I want for them only the best. His son’s are too cute, we’ll see what happens. I must say though, I don’t approve of Usher’s behavior (with or without permission from Tamika) in his newest video. It would have been perfectly fine before he was married, but it defintely sends the wrong message to young men and women. Usher, you are a responsible young man…ACT LIKE IT (WITH YOUR SS)

  • thephatdiva

    Well, heatherette it was about Tamika but I did use insight for my experiences to give a better understand, outlook or approach to the bossip readers. It is possible to be viewed as quiet and strong-minded at the same time. You can be viewed as quiet and be overbearing. I think that’s how my mother in-law may view me. When it comes to bills, goals, etc., what I have in mind may differ from what she has in mind. Therefore should her son side with me or even when I’m not involved. When he is unable to do something because of conflicting schedules with just them two I feel I will always be to blame in the corner of her mind. I know this because of things she has said. See someone on the outside can’t advise effectively not knowing the players full hand. You have to know all the couples expenses, goals in order of priority. Can you imagine your mother in-law making decisions and just like that over night your husbands income decreased by well over 50%? Well, I can because it happened to me recently. When it comes to making decisions I think both husband and wife should make them together. My husband is a heavy spender he makes purchases we afford; than I have to take the load. That I don’t mind, I want him to have the world. Just don’t make carelessness the norm because I’m about progress. I tell him all the time even the super rich has a place where they have to draw the line or you can be spending more than you make. hypothetically being a billionaire, having say … about 4 billion, I can’t go buy a billion dollar property in every city. There are other things to look at like, the things you buy having maintenance expenses like property taxes and so on. She’s his wife, that’s their credit. rather she’s the main bread winner or not when your married depending on your state legislation they look at you as one. The IRS looks at you together and so will the collectors. Now I say this because from my understanding their spat was over business matters rather they be financial or creative either way it boils down to dollar signs. I think Tamika had good intentions advising her husband; like I tell my husband “the professional advice I give him can effect me, so I’m not going to tell him something wrong.” I’m not the type of person who speaks without knowledge, so if you hear it from me you can bank on it. Put your self in her shoes and understand that we don’t know all the fine details.

  • uzumaki

    Why does Bossip hate real black love? Tameka looks fabulous and usher looks happy. Really, ya’ll need to grow up.

  • thephatdiva

    your right uzumaki

  • thephatdiva

    yall don’t know what that woman does she left the ex not the kids stop the lies

  • Really Now

    Tameka is doing the damn thing in 2009. Get it gurl!

  • HarlemWorld

    All the black man on this thread are saying that they like the way she looks and don’t see a problem. SISTAS TAKE A HINT. STOP HATING!!!!

    I am an educated brotha and I talk with talented, professional, educated brothas everyday — we are not checking (in long term, realistic terms) for no fake hair wearing “fly” ass women. Like Tameka, you need to have a career or something tangible going for yourself (even Beyonce dumb ass can sing) and know how to play the background with class and dignity a la Michelle Obama.

    That is all.

  • Oshie

    Tameka looks like she has a rainforest growing in her panties.

  • thephatdiva

    There is no hope for some fools. Hate went out in 08 though it never was in style in my book. Your just trying to find something wrong with her. PS she is a professional stylist to the stars and the last time I checked that was a job

  • heatherette

    Well thephatdiva, the debackle all relates back to control and power. Patton has the right to discuss spending with her son, if in fact she is his manager.

    I’ve never met a quiet yet overbearing person. That’s an oximoron. Usually strong-minded or opinionated people have lots of mouth on them. They may appear to be quiet on the surface. In reality, they don’t sit idle in a corner allowing life to just “happen” to them.

  • roni

    They look great together and happy. Don’t know why the reference to her being an “old lady”, as men have been doing the reverse for years. Bossip, ya’ll need to grow the hell up.

  • leave-it-be

    2009…… HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY!!!!! IMA STOP HATING ON USHER’S WIFEY…. YEAH SHE LOOKS TRANNY BUT HE MUST REALLY LOVE HER, TO STICK WITH HER REGARDLESS OF HER PAST, AND TO LET HIS MOMMA GO AND JEOPARDIZE HIS CAREER, WHICH HAS FALTERED SINCE HE DID THAT…. HOWEVER THEY DO LOOK HAPPY IN THIS PICTURE SO LIVE YOUR LIVES……

  • Black Pearl

    Sometimes I wonder what some of you people look like that want to criticize this woman? She’s 37 and not old by any means! I’d be willing to bet money she looks better than some of you hatin azz broads on here! Much love to the ladies that can respect Usher’s wife and the mother of his children! At least he put a ring on it and showed you groupie hoe’s how it should be done!

  • tchapman86

    It is not her that I do not like. It is their behavior towards Chilli. Usher left Chilli with one child to be with a woman that has three children. Not only that, but she was married with they were messing around. He decides to settle down with her, but played around with Chilli. Also while he was dating Chilli, Tameka was his stylist traveling with him and Chilli. He was her boss. You don’t mix your profession with pleasure. What they did to Chilli will come back on both of them. I can’t bless a relationship based off of deceit. Chilli left because she was smart. I am not sure Tameka is smart considering the videos and music he is making.

  • tchapman86

    Black Pearl I believe black love, but there is no use in calling people hoes and groupies. I believe that none if these wives of athletes, musicians, etc. can compare to the wives of Barack and Bill Clinton. That is point blank.

  • tchapman86

    why is usher hands in his pockets. Have you seen black love line Lance Gross and Eva. Michelle and Obama. They touch their wives. Tameka may be his invite to the party, but she also has to invite his public display of affection. Usher show your ring.

  • Encyclopedia Brown

    Ersher has always been the best dressed. How much does Tameka charge for her services?

  • Keisha

    @tchapman86

    Chilli left usher becasue he cheated on her. They were a cute couple to look at but it is history. Usher had several other women after the break up including Naomi. These entertainers don’t live their lives for the public. Maybe they are affectionate at home. It is none of our business.

    Comparing peoples wives is not a wise choice. The last time I checked a person’s is defined by their inner qualities. Not a position in office, who you are married to, or social status. You don’t know Michelle Obama Personally or Hilary.

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  • tchapman86

    Keisha, entertainers so live public lives since they serve the public for sales. There is no privacy. In that case, you should stop reading gossip columns. Obviously, you can’t like me. His sales has went down and he deserves it.

  • c.moore

    Tameka is still T-E-R-R-I-B-L-E and looks like a man. It is what it is. He can and should do better. It is what it is ain’t nobody hating. The truth is the truth. That broad is ugly. She trapped his azz.

  • Keisha

    tchapman86

    These people do not serve the public. They are not entitled to share their private lives with us. It is even more annoying when people speculate about their relationships. We all know that Tameka was his stylist for many years while she was married and during his relationship with Chili. SO WHAT!! he is entitled to move on with whomever he choses. That is why Beyonce does not divulge any information. I don’t blame her.

    The only thing Usher has to do is make hit records. He is not entitled to share every aspect of his life with the Public. If you beleive that then you are delusional.

    For the ones that keep calling this woman ugly get over it. She is a nice looking woman whom USHER chose. He does not need any ones approval in who he choses in a mate.

    Lets take a look at your significant other. 9 times out of 10 he is probably unattractive as well as yourself.

  • tchapman86

    On Young black and Famous website, Usher and Tameka was celebrating her birthday. They have matching star tattoos, but he was not wearing his wedding ring.

  • tchapman86

    Keisha, you are probably Tameka’s publicist. You never mentioning them messing around while in a relationship like it’s normal. We so not care about him as much as white women aren’t digging Brad Putt when he left Jennifer Aniston for Angelina Jolie. YUCK. It is not because of Tameka and her looks, but because the nature of the relationship

  • larry

    THATS ONE FUGLY LADY,LOOKS LIKE HALF MAN FOR REAL. BUT LOOK AT HIS SKINNY ASS HE LUCKY TO HAVE HER

  • Keisha

    I don’t have to go anywhere. I don’t like all of the catty intrusive remarks. I read to know what is going on around the industry. I like to treat people as humans with feelings. Not puppets who live for the public. We can’t dress them, groom their hair, or chose their mates. Some of the celebs read these blogs. All they have to do is google and then read all of the hateful commentary. I don’t thrive off of negativity. If I feel that someone is ugly, I keep that comment to myself. I don’t type it on a blog. If I don’t have genuine comments to share, I skip over.

    I don’t live for the day when a celeb’s marrigae or relationship is breaking up. I have more important things to think about.

  • Scorned,Armed,and Dangerous

    I never thought the chick was ugly,I just thought it so foul how she played the game.She was the hired help.She said in Essence, Usher always came to her for advice regarding older women,and he gave her advice about her marriage.Now, how in the HELL you gonna seek advice from a immature brother who can’t even hold on to his girlfriend without cheating.And as for her giving him advice, well, she can’t speak for any older women I know. She was Creepin’ with him while he was with Chilli, and while she was married with not one,two, but three children.Mark my word, she will lose him the same way she got him, and vice versa!!!!

  • TRINA

    what i want to know is y in the hell are u outside 3 weeks after having a baby with everything open?thats how you get SICK!!!THERE IS NO WAY IN hell I WOULD BE THAT DESPREARTE TO KEEP TABS ON MY HUSBAND THAT IVE GOT TO FOLLOW HIM ACROSS STATES AFTER GIVING BIRTH!SHE SHOULD BE HOME TENDING TO THOSE 4 CHILDREN SHE HAS NOT PARTYING IN VEGAS ..THATS SAD… ,WELL MAYBE HER 5TH SON(THE 20 SOMETHING YR OD)WAS HOME WATCHING HIS YOUNGER BROTHERS …HOW COME NO ONE EVER SPEAKS ABOUT HIM ANYWAYS?IT SEEMS ONLY SANDRA ROSE KNOWS ABOUT THE OLDEST CHILD SHE HAD WHEN SHE WAS 18 WITH THE DRUG DEALER FATHER WHO WAS KILLED.AND WHY DOES EVERYONE KEEP SAYING SHES 37 ?HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE SAYS 1967…

  • TRINA

    I AGREE!(WITH SCORNED ARMED AND DANGEROUS)PEOPLE DONT LIKE HER BECAUSE SHES DARKED SKIN ,ITS HER PAST THAT PEOPLE DONT LIKE AND THEY WAY SHE HANDLED THINGS ,CHEATING ON UR HUSBAND AND MESSING AROUNGD WITH A MAN YOU KNEW WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME1 ELSE(CHILLI)IS JUST FOUL !THATS WHY SHES FOLLOWING HIM EVERYWHERE HE GOES CAUSE SHES AFRAID SHES GONNA LOOSE HIM THE SAME WAY SHE GOT HIM!…KARMA KARMA…

  • TRINA

    HER COLOR HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!…ITS HER DEMENOR AND PAST…

  • shawanda

    TRINA,PLEASE READ A BOOK EVERY NOW AND THEN. IT’S EMBARRASSING TO READ YOUR POSTS.YOUR SPELLING IS HORRIBLE.YOUR GRAMMAR IS WORSE

  • Kino

    Oh please while you are so negative towards Tameka you should look at Usher. He is no Saint. He is a known cheater. stop being so judgemental. All of you have probably done some kind of dirt in your relationships. So what she went out for a night. It is not strenuous activity. The doctor does not tell you to stay in bed for 6 weeks.

  • Kino

    Oh Trina shut the hell up. So what she had a child at 18. Tameka does not have to justify her past to anyone. Usher is happpy with her and that is all that matters. Everyone made past mistakes. The only person she has to answer to is God. You should worry about your own conduct. You probably need to clean your own back yard while you are judging Tameka.

    Did Tameka tell you that she was seeing Usher while he was with Chilli. No one ever admitted to that not even Chilli. Furthermore if they were creeping why didn’t he take her out in public after his break up with Chili. Instead he dated a model, Naomi, and other women.

    When he was seeing all of these women including supahead it was okay for him to be promiscuous. It seems like a double standard. you seem to be searching in the cesspool for information about Tameka to disparage her.

    Usher married her and he seems to be fine with whatever happened in her past, which is none of anybody’s business.

  • http://bossip.com toocute

    they look great,tameka looks nice,so what if shes older than him,he looks happy with her

  • http://myspace.com/mockrockstar Mock Rock Star is not delusion I am great

    test

  • TAMEKA NOT USHER WIFE LOL

    USHER LOOKING GOOD AND I WAS THERE IT WAS HOTT PARTY YEAH I SAW HER TO SHE LOOKED BIG BUT SHE NEED TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT HER BREAST ITS ALWALS POPPING OUT DONT LIKE HER NAIL POLISH. SHE FINNLELY GOT HER WAVE RIGHT HER DRESS WAS NICE HER SHOES WAS NOT BUT SHE STILL HABVE ASHEY FEET SHE KEEP FORGETTING TO LOITON IT AND I TOLD HER THAT SHE LOL AND SHE WENT TO THE BATHROOM AND DID PUT SOME LOITON ON AND SHE FOUND ME AND TOLD ME THANKS AND IT WAS MY TURN TOPUT LOITON ON MY HANDS. BECOUSE SHE SAID WHEN I WAS SHANKING USHER HANDS THAT SHE NOTIN THAT MY HANDS WAS ASHEY THEN I PUT SOME ON RIGHT THERE AND A LOL AND MY FACE TRURN BEET RED. AND USHER SAID THATS OK YOU BORTH LOOKED GOOD ENJOY THE PARTY AND I DID WOW!!!!!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ME LOL YEAH MEN.

  • LadySlap

    Tameka is beautiful….u go girl..forget bossip..they’re alway the ones posting about you anyway…I dont see you doing any of that about them

  • LadySlap

    Usher looks like a mutant ninja turtle..hahah lol

  • BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL

    As a 36 year old woman, I can honestly say that Tameka looks way better than most her age – considering she didn’t get knifed up.

    This is a real looking woman in hollywood and I mus add, that bitch has AMAZING SKIN!! Look at her friggin arms.. I AM JEALOUS!!

  • spinner 22

    They look good not bad for just having a baby

  • Sistah_PhD2be

    Go head Tameka and floss with your beautiful glossy chocolate skin!!!

  • Christie’s secrets

    Tameka has such a beautiful skin! its true that maternity give you glowing skin?! I want a baby!
    And to people that are condemning Tameka for dating Usher while he was dating Chilli!
    Lol, as usual, its always the woman that is wrong?! How about the cheater ass ! USHER is a notorious cheater! He might as well cheat on Tameka because that is his ways and i hope she will cheat too!

  • Knottmy Hair

    She’s not really bad looking for her age, but she could have used some oil for her skin, cause that Victoria lotion she use was not working for that ashey skin…and I’m sure Usher could afford more than just a slit up satin pillow case and a head wrap for a belt or what ever that material was for a dress….just my thoughts :O

  • It’s 2009 people

    they won’t last

  • iluvprada

    I haven’t let this couple grow on me, simple because I miss seeing him wit Chilli (old news I know!)! They looked sooo HOTT together, and happy!

    WHY!? **waiting for a response**

    Oh and if adding tons of makeup on your damn face is called stepping you’re game up, then thats pretty sad!

  • andreas2g

    Is it just me or does it look like the youth or life has been sucked out of Usher? He looks older than she does. SMH

  • VERY Sad 2C Dis

    Usher’s baby maker looks OLDER than a bag of fossils!
    I have a feeling there is something “fishy” (no pun intended) about their whole marriage thing.

    Has she blackmailed the black male? LMAO
    Sum’in ain’t right…

  • Born

    I must admit I was a hater of this relationship at first, but if they’re happy what business is it of mine. God bless them and their family, peace to all.

  • MissBK

    I don’t care what nobody says she looks like an old ass musty tranny. All these people talkin about black love that’s fine but he could’ve found a chocolate sista that looks way better than that. Smh!

  • free

    woodrow and esther!!!!

  • azcreoleprincess

    she is ugly. It does not matter that she just pushed out a baby she only got him because she got pregnant. Last I heard he was going to file for divorce untill she turned up pregnant again. What is she going to do push out a baby every year.

  • Soul Touch

    She looks great.

    …can’t believe people are still talking about chilli and Ush…they’ve moved on, why can’t you?

  • TRINA

    shawanda and kino go sit down ,thats what blogs are 4 dummies to voice your opinions!!SMH so what because i left out my “A”inthe word “demeanor”,thats because im typing so fast “illiterate child”.if you werent so busy trying to CRITIQUE my every word and post on the matter at hand you would be better off .and kino everyone knows they were messing around when she was still married you fool, check out the pictures of them “frolicking in the water together in st barts a few years ago.and no one is saying he should not be held accountable for being a cheater as well ,IT JUST LOOKS WORSE FOR HER BECAUSE SHE WAS “MARRIED W/KIDS”IDIOT …SHE WAS THE ONE WHO TOOK A VOW TO RYAN GLOVER AND DID NOT KEEP IT!CHILLI ALREADY STATED USHER CHEATED ON HER AND DID THE ULTIMATE “NO NO”..SO TALK WHAT U KNOW AND KNOW WHAT YOU TALK !WHO CARES BECAUSE PEOPLE FIND HER UNATTRACTIVE ,UGLY ,MANISH LOOKING ,OR WHATEVER EVERYONE ON THIS SITE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINION AND CAN SAY WHAT THE HELL THEY FEEL ABOUT HER!GOOD OR BAD,IF IT BOTHERS YOU SO MUCH ,THEN YOU MUST HAVE YOUR OWN SELF ESTEEM ISSUES THAT YOU ARE TAKING ALL OF THIS PERSONAL…GTFOH!

  • Simone

    Wow body language says it all !Go and google usher and chilli,look at all the images of them together usher always has her in an EMBRACE with his arms wrapped around chilli…(thats real love)NOW take a look at these photos above usher has his hands in his pocket as if he is reluctant and doenst want to be bothered ,TAMEKA is all clingyand at one point he looks as though he was trying to walk away and she stopped him for another photo ,anyone who studies body language can clearly see he doesnt WANT TO BE BOTHERED (HANDS IN HIS POCKETS ?..SMH)!LOL HE PROBALY TOL HER ASS TO STAY HOME BECAUSE SHE JUST HAD A BABY LIKE 2 WEEKS AGO ,AND SHE PROBALY JUMPED ON THE WINGS OF THE PLANE TO GO TO VEGAS ,SHE AINT GONNA NEVER LET HIM BREATHE OR GO ANYWHERE BY HIMSELF ,CANT YOU SEE THE CRY FOR HELP IN HIS EYES? POOR THANG CANT ESCAPE HES A CAGED BIRD…MOMMA PATTON GO SAVE YOUR SON!!!!!!

  • BRIAN

    i agree simone.. she is always “overbearing”in all the pics they take together ,either hanging all over him or coming up from behind ,etc.he always looks like a trapped rat like help meeeeee..like hes forced to take them ..

  • http://bossip shaunie27

    STILL NOT A BIG FAN OF HERS… BUT I WILL SAY SHE LOOKS NICE ESPECIALLY AFTER JUST HAVN A BABY BUT PLEASE IN THE FUTURE WHERE SOM AGE APPROPRIATE DRESSES IM SURE THE CERVICAL JUICES ARE STILL DRIPPING DOWN NO BODY WANTS TO SEE THAT!!! TRY A MOO-MOO!!! LMAO!!!

  • me

    She looks like Sapphire from Flavor of Love in the first pic.

  • wifey06

    Only people with none to very little pigmentation would call her ugly. They would not understand……

    That is why society only pushes the issue for light black women. Others just hate being blck so much they hate seeing people who remind them of their true origin.

    I say big ups to black love…. Bossip has never said anything positive about any dark skinned woman.

    Why do we keep supporting these black websites run by white people?

    Ugly, bitchy, lonely women have to find a reason why no one has picked them, yet. so whateva makes them feel better!!!!

  • Scorned,Armed,and Dangerous

    @ Simone….I agree with u about all the images of Usher & Chilli on Google. It’s just not the same kind of chemistry with Temeka. When they were together, that’s what they always spoke about in interviews when asked about their relationship during that time,it was the chemistry they had together. Even in a recent interview Chilli talked about it. I’m sorry I know Chilli and Temeka are two totally different people, but as for Usher & Chilli, they could’nt hide the beauty and glamour they had together even if they tried! I don’t know what it is but his fans,and her fans would love to see them back together. Check out the tribute a fan put together on You Tube about that past relationship. It’s somewhat unreal that someone would take the time to do that, but so, so cute. All you can say after watching it is..”DAMN, What a shame it could’nt last!!! Especially while listening to the song playing in the background by Faith Evans.

  • One sick puppy u are

    Sad how Tameka has nothing else to do but jump from blog to blog talking to herself. If there is no drama, she’ll pretend to be a unhappy Usher fan just to drum up a conversation. Yeah, everyone knows how you do Tameka, its no secret. Desperate to keep your name in the air and will go to great lengths to do it. Sick and psycho.

    Remember, he didn’t choose you he puts up with you. Big difference.

  • wifey06

    FYI- tameka looks just like his mom except slimmer and younger. How dumb do youhave to be to see

  • Scorned,Armed,and Dangerous

    I did read from a very “credible” journalist that Usher found out some shady stuff regarding Temeka during some celebration gathering for Tyler Perry.And that the only reason he stayed with her was because of the baby. He did’nt want to make it seem as if he was leaving his pregnant wife.I also read she wants a reality show, but he disagrees. I’m tellin you, this chick is tryin’ to use strategy,but because Usher is so dumb,He’s falling for it head first.

  • Ginny Juice

    Usher get your babies,and your paper and RUN, FORREST, RUN!!!

  • Carla

    Usher is trapped in Tameka’s invisible web of her own creation, lol….
    And by the way Usher’s mom is way better looking then Tameka, lol…

  • Carla

    Usher is trapped in Tameka’s invisible web of her own creation, lol….
    And by the way Usher’s mom is way better looking then Tameka, lol…

  • Ginny Juice

    His body language in those pics speaks volumes. Damn Temeka,Back yo’ ass up some.I see she let those “bangs” hide that “bus” she calls a forehead.

  • jenna love

    CUTE COUPLE I’m proud to see Usher with a cute chocolate sister. Working it our BOSSIP can’t hate on this. But Black rich men are sticking with the sister’s.

  • IamThinking

    Tameka was arrested for theft and separately welfare fraud in the past. It just show the kind of person she was (and I believe still is),I have no respect for con people and mothers that leave their kids behind.

  • FURIOUZ STYLEZ

    BRAVO FOR TOM-EKA–THE BEST SHE’S EVER LOOKED

    URSH IS GETTIN’ CHUNKY AS IF HE’S THE ONE BEEN HAVIN’ THE BABIES

  • Ginny Juice

    Yeah, I heard about some kind of criminal history on her part. Is it true he wrote “Moving Mountains” about his past relationship with Chilli? If that’s true, then apparently everybody including “wifey” are just fillers. Damn, knowing him, “Here I Stand” is probaly about her,too. Sometimes you don’t miss what you had until it’s long,long,long gone.When Chilli said in an interview that she will always love him,but she’s not in love with him, he was so caught off guard that she even said that. He made some dumb-ass comment about it being “unrealistic”, and that he’s a married man. Then he said he’ll always be in love w/ Katie Holmes and Halle Berry, but that it meant nothing. I can bet when that interview was over, he was smiling from ear to ear. I’m sure deep down inside, he’s not over her either.

  • http://bossip.com MIZZ PIMPIN

    Tameka be doing her thing, she looks good to me, always have

  • thephatdiva

    Maybe Usher banged his ring up in the swimming pool and had to get it repaired or cleaned. As far as his hands being in his pocket maybe that’s a pose he like stop looking deep into that type of stuff. And what’s wrong with a woman who has three children? Does that mean you’re a bad person?

    OK now lol!!! Still at it I see… First there is nothing wrong with going out after giving birth in fact it’s good for both mother and baby because moderate sunlight is good for your body vitamin absorption and liver. Also stop being afraid of germs coming in contact with people builds the immune system because the body naturally builds a defense. Using hand sanitizer to often can be a bad thing because the germs and bacteria can build a defense of their own and become resistant. I tell you some people! Did it ever occur to you that maybe he asked her to come with him as he travels so he don’t miss out on his brand new baby? And that winter break is convenient because she may not be as busy with the older children. my mother and father went out for new years how does this make you a bad parent. In my opinion it makes you a batter parent when you make a healthy amount of “me time” to keep you mentally and emotionally balanced.

    Breakups can go on for years before people actually walk away; with that being said I’m more then sure Tamika and her ex husband knew for some time that in fact the end was near. You are all making it out like he left Chili and just started dating her right away. There were others in that time frame. Even in the case that this was true, Usher and Chili wasn’t married. Therefore he don’t owe her his life long commitment. That’s the risk you take when you let a man in your life without the ring. Could it be there was something about Chili’s personality Usher didn’t like? I mean she was pretty mean to Left Eye during her life. Dating is for two people to get to know each other, sometimes exclusively. I doesn’t mean it going to work out sometimes it just don’t. There’s no rule about dating that says you have to get married. Dating is a gateway for sins like lust you can’t expect God to bless a tainted situation. Yea he dated Tamika as well but they didn’t wait years before making things right. Tamika and Usher’s relationship started the same way Chili and Usher’s started; they both left the father of their child/Children. We can’t judge though because we don’t know why that was. What we do know is, they’re human despite the fact that many artist from Atlanta have written lyrics about space travel lol.

  • old school

    Wow… interesting. People, I don’t think everyone has a problem with the fact that Tameka is a dark skinned sister, I think it is her perceived personality and her background that the media has put out there for everyone to see. I for one, could care less about her skin tone. But as I said on an earlier post, they look nice, but she need some more clothes on since she just had a baby…. Can we say post delivery secretions…….

  • Ginny Juice

    @Thephatdiva… WOW, out of all the stuff I’ve read since Left-Eye’s death, I never heard anything about Chilli being mean to her. I think to even assume something like that is damaging. Left Eye had some issues going on before her untimely demise.After watching the doumentary about her you can plainly see it.GOD rest her soul.Those girls had been together for a long time. As a matter of fact,they referred to one another as sisters. So when they lost her , I’m sure the void was, and still is unimaginable. As for the females after he and Chilli,like I said, they were just fillers.But the one good thing I can say about Usher, He was her rock during that difficult time when Left Eye passed. As a matter of fact, Left Eye reportedly invited Chilli to visit Honduras with her just before her death, but Chilli said she never got that chance.Everything happened so fast. As far as everyone thinking he started dating Temeka right away, HE WAS CREEPIN WITH HER THE WHOLE TIME!!!!!!!

  • kiara

    @THEPHATDIVA IS SO VERY IGNORANT !

    1ST of all any ob/gyn doctr will tell you that it is best to take it easy for at least 6weeks after giving birth to a child to LET YOUR BODY HEAL!for 9 months your body has been stretched and takes time to get back to its normal pre-pregnancy stage ,she can suffer maternal infection or hemorrhage or as our elders like to call it a “setback”…your pores are open and there is no way in hell usher asked her ass to accompany him to vegas PULEEZ ITS WRITTEN ALL OVER HIS FACE!SMH…IM sure she is still bleeding after 3weeks of delivering a baby,and this is the BONDING period for mother and child !not to mention your hips (pelvic bones are still loose for awhile after having to accomodate all of the weight from the uterus etc.SHE IS STILL IN WHAT IS CALLED “THE POSTPARTUM PERIOD “Your body has gone through numerous changes in the last several months and also needs to recover from the process of childbirth and it is important to properly take care of your body .I AGREE WITH GINNY JUICE EVERYONE KNEW from the pics of hIM in st barts with her while she was still with her husband why do u think ryans glover her ex husbands attorney asked for those pics for divorce court?its called ALIMONY BABY!AND WHY WD A MAN ASK HIS LADY TO TRAVEL WITH HIM SO HE WONT MISS OUT ON HIS BABY ?HOW STUPID DO U SOUND?wE ALL KNOW HE CONSTANTLY TRYING TO ESCAPE and shes always tagging along..trying to keep a watchful eye with her overpossesive ass,DONT WORRY YOU WILL LOSE HIM THEY SAME WAY YOU OBTAINED HIM !

  • Ginny Juice

    SAY IT, KIARA, SAY IT!!!!!

  • CARMENROCKSTAR

    what a dumb ass!
    Guide for New Parents
    Resuming Usual Activities Following Your Vaginal Birth:

    Driving/travel (long distance) — After six-week postpartum visit/instructions

    Back to Work — After six-week postpartum visit/instructions.

    and wearing high heels DAMN SURE AINT GOOD FOR YOUR PELVIS …EVEN LIONS STAY WITH THEIR CUBS LONGER THAN THAT!I FEEL SORRY FOR THE KIDS ,WHILE MOMMAS OUT CHASING DADDY THEY ARE STUCK WITH WHOEVER WILL BABYSIT WHILE SHE CHASES HIM ACROSS COUNTRY,TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH THAT MAN GO SIT DOWN AND BE A MOTHER FOR CHRIST SAKES!HES A GROWN MAN ,HE KNOWS HOW TO FIND HIS WAY BACK TO THE HOUSE!SHE WAS OUT A FEW DAYS BEFORE XMAS AT THAT OTHER PARTY AND SHE HAD THE BABY ON DEC 10TH!HADNT BEEN HOME A GOOD 2 WEEKS …CAN U SAY INSECURE STALKER?LOL

  • thephatdiva

    Ginny Juice please read more careful next time, because I said during her LIFE!!! I take it you became a fan after her death because people who were fans before then knew they didn’t get along while she was living. In many interviews they clearly argued T-boz and Chili would gang up on her. I like them all creatively though. I’m sure today they regret some of the things they used to say and do to her. They didn’t think she was that needed during that time and tried to push her out of the creative process. Now they see just how important you are. I’ve seen interviews before her death where they said she was crazy even if that was true you don’t treat a friend that way in a time of need.

  • Miss Know It All

    haha yall are ignorant on here…….anyway i think is about time she started looking a little better

  • CARMENROCKSTAR

    shutup please @thephatdiva
    they were working on their 4th TLC album “3D “@the time of her death ,they had already gotten past their little “falling out”and had forgiven eachother …who doesnt have disagreement with their family friends or sisters?But for you to insinuate that she was sooo mean to left eye etc,is pathetic AND A SICK attempt to make MS.welfare fraud DRUG DEALER DATING ,SCHEMING,STEALING SOMEONE ELSES MAN ,GOLD DIGGIN GOING OUTSIDE OF HER MARRIAGE ,DISSING HER OWN CHILDREN ,PRETENDING NOT TO HAVE 6 KIDS BORN IN
    1967 ,LYIN ASS look good ,is just LOW DOWN .CHILLI LOVED LEFT EYE JUST AS LEFT EYE LOVED THOSE GIRLS ,THEY MAY HAVE NOT ALWAYS AGREED,BUT THEIR BORN WAS UNDENIABLE U SICKO!

  • CARMENROCKSTAR

    THEIR “BOND”WAS UNDENIABLE !

  • Ginny Juice

    @ PHATDIVA… Please go somewhere and get a clue(LOL). I’ve been a fan since they came on the scene in 1992. My cousins and I went to one of their first concerts. It would serve no purpose to become a fan of someone after they die. Real Talk, Left Eye was the cornerstone of TLC, but she had some issues that T-boz and Chilli didn’t even know about until later. Like the time she pretended she was missing. Bottom-line, they all endured a lot of stuff together. You act as if they should be somewhere blaming themselves for her death. It’s human nature to regret things once your loved one dies. You need to stop bringing up old beef between family, especially after one of them has died. They Sqashed that beef a long time ago. That’s why they made “3D” before her death. They loved each other dearly. And by the way, they knew she was important before she died THANK- YOU!!!

  • Ginny Juice

    @ CARMENROCKSTAR….you’re so right!!!

  • Fresh

    She looks nice!!!!

  • CPTCHICK

    This is a nice pic of her but she still looks too old for him. These old women go after these young men instead of finding someone their own age. What they don’t realize is when that menopause and shit set in, tis gets to sagging etc., these guys will still be young men. This is what leads to them cheating and stuff. Game 2nd baby mama is the same way. They old asses need to be ashamed of themselves.

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