New 09 Swirl: Khloe Kardashian and Rashad McCants Confirmed
Posted by Bossip Staff
It seems that Khloe Kardashian and Rashad McCants are putting their vanilla and chocolate swirl dish on display just like Reggie and Kim:
As I’m sure most of you have seen, it’s being reported all over the place that I have a boyfriend. Well I just wanted to take this opportunity to tell you that it’s true… I do “officially” have a boyfriend. His name is Rashad McCants and he plays for the Minnesota Timberwolves, hence my little FREEZING visit there with Malika a few weeks ago, not to mention my other random visits there! Rashad and I have been dating since July, but it only got serious within the past few months. I don’t want you guys to think I was trying to hide this from you- it was all just so new and exciting and I wasn’t sure where the relationship was going to go. In the very beginning of it all, I felt it was the right thing to do to keep it to myself because I didn’t want to force whatever this was, or make it into something bigger if it wasn’t. I hope you all understand why it took me so long to “announce” that I have a boyfriend. Try to remember that just as you are reading about my life, I am living it and still trying to figure so much out. I love that you are all interested and that is why I have a blog, so I can share my life with my fans. I can’t wait to read all of your comments and I love when you guys reply to each other’s comments!
Damn, it looks like the Kardashian sisters are wrangling in rich black athletes by the truck load. Pray for their victims, ya’ll. You would think with Rashard playing in the NBA he’d know a little about using the draft to add talent to the roster…SMH at his first round pick.
Remember they were spotted in September swirling it up.
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Damn, those girls are serious attention seekers and big time groupies. What is most interesting is that they seem to think people give a damn about ever single thing they do. Personally, I don’t give a damn who this girl is dating and wouldn’t even know who she was if it wasn’t for blogs.
wow following after big sis, get’em girl
wow, those w*****dashian *****s sure love fine black men. can’t be mad at them for that.
OH GOD HERE WE GO AGAIN.
another thread about about black men and white girls
Bossip u are late. They have always dated black men. In the 90’s Kourtney Kardashian dated one of Micheal Jacksons nephew from 3T.
Why? Why? Why? What do these multi million dollar making Black men see in these white hoes? I personally do not date out of my race, because I believe there are plenty of desirable Black women, but I am beginning to wonder about the overall appeal of Black women to rich Black men. There seems to be a real disconnect with them wanting a Black woman so instead they are getting with all of these non black hoes. WTF has ths world come to? Is it that hard for them to desire and love a woman of color? I think it may be time for both parties to check themselves, Black men and women. It is either an extreme case of self hatred on the Black mans part or Black women need to figure what they are doing to run the brothers toward Nancy Drew!
NO ***** NO BUTT
Khloe and Rashad are a cute couple.
@talkin loud and sayin nothin
Your post is interesting and reminded me of a conversation I had with my mother over the holiday. Somehow we got on the subject of Wilt Chamberlain and his hundreds of sex partners, and my mother reminded me that he was asked publicly years ago why he didn’t date black women, and he responded with very disparaging remarks. Below is an excerpt from a People magazine article:
Chamberlain’s relationship with Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, his successor as pro basketball’s dominant big man, was ambivalent as well. When Abdul-Jabbar (then Lew Alcindor) was a high school star in New York, Chamberlain, then in his late 20s, all but adopted him—taking him to nightclubs, inviting him over for card games with cronies and even, on one occasion, giving him two of his suits. Later, however, Abdul-Jabbar clashed with Chamberlain politically (Wilt supported Richard Nixon in 1968) and publicly criticized Wilt for saying in his 1973 autobiography that many black women were inferior sex partners. “This was sexuality and capitulation and racial abandonment, all in one piece,” Abdul-Jabbar wrote in his book, Giant Steps. “I stopped seeing him as a political crossover and began thinking of him as a traitor.”
Bossip it is obvious what you guys are trying to do. Just like with Reggie & Kim, you want to start a race war on this blog. I know some people are gullible and fall for it everytime. It is a new year people, wise up! Khloe and Rashad look happy.
@talkin loud
So to answer your question, yes, it appears that some men, for whatever reason, are not attracted to sisters, and I counter that those men have every right to date whom they want. Why would any self-respecting woman want a man who doesn’t view her as valuable?
Now, back to the subject of the thread, I wish the two of them the best.
Well..the Kardashian girls technically are not white…they are basically Armenian..they are mulatto( a mixture of colors) but mainly Armenian
SMH? WAT DOES THAT MEANS
Oh my fuccin god. she has the grossest looking body Ive seen. Call me a hater if u like that Bytch is fugly.lol
Khloe has always gone for black men, she’s admitted it over and over again..so what?? Good for her and good for him…
If they like it, I love it! Happy for them.
I SEE THE ***** LIKES HORRIBLE NBA PLAYERS. HE/SHE LOOKS HAPPY.
Why that gravie, Hannibal? Why??
The Kardashians are such trash. They HAVE TO date dumb-jock black men;white men probably won’t touch Kim as she’s been run through by so many brothers. And while Kim is at least pretty,Khloe looks like a tranny. Was she/he/it born male?
WHATS THE MATTER WITH MY GRAVIE, SYDNEY?
@ Honeybun
Mulatto is a term used to describe a person with one white parent and one black parent, or a person who has black ancestry and white ancestry.
They may be Armenian but they are white. Its like saying Jennifer Aniston isn’t White she is Greek or Alyssa Milano isn’t white she is Italian. No , they are white. PLZ.
Absolutely nothing, Hannibal, absolutely nothing. . .
And typing in caps is YELLING, lol. . .
@ hanibal
oh so you aint all on kloes d*ck, i *****umed she would be your type!!!! but i agree she has no body at all, for all we know this ***** is half man, while im playing she may actually have a peter wacker
@ sydney
hey lil sis
howve you been seen any good movies kately… i have seen valkirie 3 times!!! and i am interested in seeing td jakes not easily broken
Hey Shay, is that you?
@Shay
The last movies I saw were The Curious Case of Benjamin Button and Doubt, which were both excellent.
I’m thinking of seeing Slumdog Millionaire or The Reader this weekend.
I think I’m going to p***** on TD Jakes’ film. . .I didn’t see the first one. And I haven’t seen a Tom Cruise movie in a long time — I’ll probably catch Valkyrie on DVD.
DAMN SHAY SHAY, THAT WAS MEAN
@ sydney
yes its me lil sis!!!
if you have been victom of my imposter remember i am never here on sundays and yuesdays thoses are my days off!!! i have lost you email address email me
lashayla586@yahoo.com
Lmao their father liked to black men (OJ) They like to fuc* em ..Who cares the brothers these hoes picked may have money but they are not cute either .So it’s not a loss for me.
Shay, have you thought about putting up a gravie?
Are you still doing your community service, Hannibal?
Hey you jealous bossip writers and readers, here is another couple for you black jealous woman to gossip about… treat your black men good and they probably wouldn’t date outside their race.. haters!!! jealous!!! lol
It’s 2009 people. We have a president who has a black father and white mother yet you continue with this “swirl” stuff. Do you see the hypocrisy? By 2042 there will be more people of color in this country than white people. The dynamic between whites and blacks and hispanics now is contributing to that fateful day. The election of Barack has probably accelerated that process.
Bottom line, let’s move on from this nonsense. Let’s let people be with whomever they want for better or worse. That’s what will happen anyway.
@MUNECA
U SPEAK THE TRUTH
@SYDNEY
NO IM DONE WITH ALL OF THAT
As long as Rashad stays away from that 80’s Star Trek blazer he wore on New Year’s Eve I’m cool.
@Hannibal
So you’re on the straight and narrow road now?
@SYDNEY
YUP
Isn’t it amazing how calm this thread is? *clapping*
It’s a new year on Bossip!
bossip is blocking
LMao knew someone would *****ume we are not treating black men right .I’m going to tell you what an old African American man told me on 125 street the night Obama won ..Brothers who look to outside of their race are not the ones we wanted in the first place to turn ones back on their own .Reminds me of Judas and he was such a great person.
Side note haters never that most black men who stray are not ones we would want they needed money too look better …
@Hannibal
That’s good.
You’re still trying to stir up controversy here, lol. And you’re still YELLING.
YUP
this website sucks yo
Rashard McCantz I SEE YOU WUUUUDDDDUPP!!!!!!!
@ sydney yes
i want to see doubt real bad. do me a favor give me the low down without telling the me, is it me or were the previews we were getting to see confusing as heck i wastched the preview and it looked like an excellent movie, however i couldnt tell you what it would be about, besides i love meryl streep to death
@SYDNEY
NAW, IM NOT TRYIN TO STIR UP ANYTHING, IM A GOOD GUY…
@Shay
Girl, you can view a full plot summary at imdb.com. Just do a search for Doubt, and you can obtain all the info you like.
Meryl Streep is excellent in it, as are the other actors (including Viola Davis, a sister).
@Hannibal
“NAW, IM NOT TRYIN TO STIR UP ANYTHING, IM A GOOD GUY…”
Not with that gravie, you aren’t. SMH.
@SYDNEY
I STILL DON’T SEE WHAT’S WRONG WITH MY GRAVIE?
Hannibal, OK, joke’s over. Have a good day now, OK?
*something’s missing*
I didn’t know Armenian (Armenia, country in the middle-east) chics were into black guys like that.
I’m starting to notice a trend with all this swirlin, upper cl***** black men with average white chick (in most cases…lol). A while back a brother made a comment on this site mentioning that most brothers who become sucessfull and move out the hood are use to dating black women.. so when they move up in cl***** they want someone brand new …someone they haven’t experienced before and that usually means a white chick or others..hmmm…there must be some truth to that..But I still love my nubian sisters regardless.
@ Hannibal
mean
who were you calling mean, everyone was thinking it, she looks like a linebacker hell, and thats the good part we all know that athletes and rappers are the most down low brothas anyway, so he wins he gets a manly built woman!!! hell she might be a man under all that thick ***** MAC makeup and and leggings and hair
@ sydney
im tired of looking at brad pitt iwll wait for benjiman button on dvd im not siiting in the show that long
Why this site so hateful seeing inter racial couples,if they are in love be happy for them,don’t hate and you call yourself Christians why jealous because you guys have a miserable love life.Go and find somebody to love you regardless of race.I’m black and married to a black woman but i don’t hate inter racial couples so get over it this is 2009.
good 4 khloe. i’m happy 4 her.
@ alber
go to church alber, i read the whole post and no one on here id defending or making preference to their religion, i dont think anyone on here cares who dates whom, however its a black gossip blog so we stated our opinion
@Shay
Trust me, I’m not a Brad Pitt fan, but this film drew me in, and, yes, it is lengthy, but the story line was very engaging. I enjoyed watching Taraji Henson, and I hope this leads to more prominent roles for her because she’s a very talented actress. Just my opinion.
Besides, Brad doesn’t look like himself during most of the movie, and that’s an understatement, lol.
He is just trying to get to Kim…
“Why? Why? Why? What do these multi million dollar making Black men see in these white hoes?”
may i answer the question for you? First off, it’s the “multi million dollar” remark in ur question. Some black women are some money hungry fools!!! Always wanna know how much money your man got in the bank, instead of putting Love first! Next: Some of these guys got to meet a lotta white folks in the money making process and found out that the white man / woman are not all so develish, as they were being brainwashed to believe since they were little. These guys simply don’t like ur reversed racism bull crap! Point! If you stop the nonsense hate, you just might keep a man.
Thanx the lord not all sisters have that ugly mentality!!!
@BOOGS
IT IS A PROVEN STUDY THAT IF U DATE A WHITE PERSON, U WILL HAVE GOOD CREDIT
@Boogs
Actually, if you’re quoting Talkin Loud’s post, I think he’s actually a brother. Hence this quote: “I personally do not date out of my race, because I believe there are plenty of desirable Black women.”
And I think Steven Spielberg, Paul McCartney, Donald Trump, and quite a few other men who have been through ultra-expensive divorces would disagree with the “money-hungry” label being *****igned to one particular race of women. . .
Just a thought.
@Bossip, you are more racist than the KKK
@Sydney, start your own blog. no one cares what movies you’re going to see. And you don’t have to comment 20 times. We got email for that.
BLACK MEN WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE MEN,NOT ALL THE DRAMA AND YELLING. A LADY SHOULD ACT LIKE A LADY. LOOK AT ALL THESE RICH ATHLETES ,THEY CAN HAVE WHOEVER THEY WANT,AND WHO DO THEY CHOOSE TO MARRY AND HAVE KIDS WITH,WHITE AND HISPANIC WOMEN.WE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT THE GROOPIES THESE GUYS USE UP,WERE TALKING ABOUT WOMEN THEY CHOOSE TO MAKE A LIFE WITH. MOST THESE WHITE GIRLS ARE EDUCATED,BEAUTIFUL,AND MOST IMPORTANTLY THEY ACT LIKE A LADY AND LET THE MAN BE THE MAN.YOU MUST ALSO REMEMBER THAT THESE WHITE WOMEN FOR THE MOST PART HAD FATHERS GROWING UP SO THEY KNOW THE ROLE OF THE MAN.MAYBE BLACK WOMEN TAKE SOME OF THEIR RESENTMENT OUT ON OUR BLACK MEN BECAUSE THEY NEVER HAD A FATHER IN THE HOME . TREAT YOUR MAN LIKE AMAN LADIES.STOP THE DRAMA AND LOWER YOUR VOICES
I do agree with commets on black men dating outside of there race they need to take a look at themsevles inside a strong balck women rised them. but yet they take these white women home like its something cool. They could never relate to them race bases and how can they relate when black men or black women go thru the hardship of just beening a men or women of color.what can you say how can they hold them down dont understand it
Which “fans” is she talking about?
What is she doing in her life apart from taking pictures of herself and then posting them on her blog???
well who really cares…..china can have em’
Please, don’t start a race war.
Black women or White women don’t act in a specific way, each woman has hers own specificities.
Besides, who cares about the ethnical type of women these Black athletes are dating, you should concentrate on your own life and find your soulmate.
HE LOOK SO GAY!!!
who cares!
Sydney
Didn’t Kareem Abdul Jabbar, marry outside of his race also?
As I’m sure most of you have seen, it’s being reported all over the place that I have a boyfriend. Well I just wanted to take this opportunity to tell you that it’s true… I do “officially” have a boyfriend. His name is Rashad McCants and he plays for the Minnesota Timberwolves
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This sounds like a business advertisement
Are Black Chic turning for white *****s?
I personally think they look great together…
dont *****ody want no white *****
Hi Purp
@Marquis
Honestly, I don’t know (nor care about) the race of Abdul-Jabbar’s ex-wife (he’s divorced, I think), but here’s some info:
“Born Ferdinand Lewis Alcindor, April 16, 1947, in New York, NY; name legally changed to Kareem Abdul-Jabbar in 1971; son of Ferdinand Lewis (a transit police officer) and Cora Alcindor; married Janice (name changed to Habiba) Brown, 1971 (divorced, 1973); children: Habiba, Sultana, Kareem, Amir.”
@Jeloi:
Evidently,you care for coming to this post.
@Marquis
Also, I grossly understated the number of sex partners the late Chamberlain claimed to have had — He said that he slept with over 20,000 women.
Just found this interesting tidbit on Wiki — I didn’t know that Arthur Ashe also criticized Chamberlain’s behavior: “Quickly, he became target for jokes and jibes, and fellow African-American tennis superstar Arthur Ashe was highly critical, blasting Chamberlain for embarr*****ing black men and fueling prejudices about their sexual behavior.”
Well be seeing a lot more of this sooooo get ready!!!
wow, she posted that on her blog? I swear the Kardashians relationships are whats keeping them in the headlines. Since when do you brag about your relationship?
Who cares about color he likes her so what , Bossip is crazy
Who wrote this?
Sydney
@Marquis
Also, I grossly understated the number of sex partners the late Chamberlain claimed to have had — He said that he slept with over 20,000 women.
Just found this interesting tidbit on Wiki — I didn’t know that Arthur Ashe also criticized Chamberlain’s behavior: “Quickly, he became target for jokes and jibes, and fellow African-American tennis superstar Arthur Ashe was highly critical, blasting Chamberlain for embarr*****ing black men and fueling prejudices about their sexual behavior.”
That’s all well and good, but in the end, we’re all individuals and shouldn’t allow ourselves to live or seek validation in someones or society’s self-imposed (ethnic) box…Afterall, no one ever criticized Warren Beatty for his “NOTORIUS” womenizing during the 60’s & 70’s.
This is an odd couple
I like Khloe, but does anyone besides me think this Rashad guy is just using her to get on tv and get more celebrity?
From what I’ve heard he’s a benchwarmer in Minneapolis so dating her will bring him a lot of attention. I mean face it, if he wants to date a white girl there are a million out there who look better than Khloe.
@Marquis
“That’s all well and good, but in the end, we’re all individuals and shouldn’t allow ourselves to live or seek validation in someones or society’s self-imposed (ethnic) box”
So you think that’s what Arthur Ashe was doing?
I heard about Beatty’s past womanizing. I was just informed by a friend that there was a recent article on Bill Clinton in which someone disclosed that Air Force One was privately nicknamed “Air F**k One.” (I still haven’t seen this reference for myself, though).
why do people hate on these sisters,is it because they date athlete’s or because they date black men,nothing wrong with dating outside your race,these men chose them,if you dont like it,you should be mad with these men
So I was a freshman at UNC with him the year he graduated and everyone pretty much knew he was gay. His was seeing this football player and Rashad bought him a truck, a chain….that ish was not secret. Maybe he’s bi or something??
@Marquis
Here’s more on what Mr. Ashe (whom I greatly respected and I was saddened by his AIDS-related death) said in reference to Chamberlain:
“Before his death from AIDS in 1993, Arthur Ashe was critical of sexually promiscuous athletes like Chamberlain, saying the behavior reinforced racist stereotypes. Ashe added that he didn’t believe Chamberlain’s claim, concluding, “I felt more pity than sorrow for Wilt as his macho accounting backfired on him in the form of a wave of public criticism.”
Hey Syd
I see you are getting your philosophical on this saturday morning…i hear ya!
daym that second smiley
LOL @ Purp
You can never smile too much.
I am white they are “white” technically but Kim and the old sister look ethnic. Anyway, I find this relationship soooo fake =they also know Kanye, Baron Davis and Ne-Yo and he won’t touch it. Khloe is a MAN MAN MAN! I wonder if he liked her DUI-jail sentence. He must be on the DL or just using her for some publicity. Kareem is with an Asian lady and his son god save the guy I saw him playing ball, he sucks he’s light as Khloe. But back to the topic. You don’t see Chris Paul taking on MANKhloe.
@ sydney
yeah i felt the same way about taraji henson, ihope his takes her to that level in hollywood tha i feel she so deserves!!!
as far as this black MEN AND WHY THEY DATE white women, im will break it down i have nine brothers and i will tell yall a lil secret 7 out of 9 brothers all married white woman, and their honest reasoning is they love a woman that stays in a womans place, and whether we black woman want to face it or not white woman bare completely different from us, the way they run a house, they way they talk to a man, the way the carry on personal business, the way the take care ofthem selves, im not sying its better nbut different, and the main thing, white women were always taught and to think superior, (the white is right complex) so the carry this level of charisma with them(most) and my brothers married woman that alowwed them to be the man, whether it was a good man or a bad man. for instance my one brother married his wife Dusty because he could still date as many sistas on the side as he wanted, shame on us for allowing him to have that freedom! and my other brother married his wife because she was just like my grandma but white she didnt take any *****, so we cal all go back and forth on why men dont daate black woman, FROM NOW ON LADIES WE MUST START HOLDING OURSELVES TO HIGHER STANDARDS CAUSE IF WE DONT NO ONE WILL!!! I COULD CARE LESS ABOUT A BLACK MAN NOT THINKING IM UP TO HIS STANDARS BUT IF I EVER HAD THOSES SAME DOUBTS ABOUT MYSELF THEN THAT WOULD BE A DIFFERENT STORY
Sydney
“So you think that’s what Arthur Ashe was doing?”
Yes! Wilt was a grown individual. If Authur, and Kareem chose to live and make certain choices in their personal lives to adhere to the “BLACKER THAN THOU STRUGGLE”, then that was on them. Wilt lived his life as he chose fit, and didn’t hurt anyone in the process. Swirling isn’t a crime – It’s a personal choice that’s afforded to everyone and shouldn’t be shacked down by some blacker than thou edict…Afterall, Barack is a by-product of “SWIRLING”.
LOL @ Ineedablackman
I chuckle whenever I see your SN. You haven’t find that brother yet?
Thanks for the update on Kareem, by the way.
The Kardashian sisters are like me, if its black they chase it down and attack! LMAO
@Marquis
I think Mr. Ashe was objecting more to Chamberlain’s claims of sexual bravado and how they fed into certain existing stereotypes of the behavior of black men, i.e. the Black Mandingo.
And I think (although I don’t know this for sure) that Abdul-Jabbar was objecting to Chamberlain’s very public denigration of black women. I think Chamberlain claimed that he had little in common with sisters — well, in my book, if you claim to have 20,000 sex partners, the only thing you have in common with these women is that you both want to screw (pardon my French).
Other than that, I can’t see anything about Chamberlain (may he rest in peace) that would have made him an healthy partner for any woman, regardless of race. If I’m not mistaken, he never married, and he even said on record that he pushed away the women he cared for the deepest, which is, actually, pretty sad.
@ OSH
WHAT UP FOOL
WHAT GOING ON
Sydney
@Marquis
I think Mr. Ashe was objecting more to Chamberlain’s claims of sexual bravado and how they fed into certain existing stereotypes of the behavior of black men, i.e. the Black Mandingo
…And that has what to do with Wilt living his life as he chooses fit? Those stereotypes was created by societal’s propensity to create certain “RACIST” double standards in hopes of keeping certain sheep in their place. It’s not anyone’s place to criticize a grown man’s choice not to incorporate the “BLACK STRUGGLE” with his “SEX LIFE”.
@Marquis
“Those stereotypes was created by societal’s propensity to create certain “RACIST” double standards in hopes of keeping certain sheep in their place.”
I’m going to play devil’s advocate here and ask you if you think the same double standard applies to behaviors exhibited by black and non-black women.
@corporatecutie
Whats up girl, I aint doing nothing but being a damned fool as always. Happy New Year to all my Bossip *****es!!!
w*****up bossip fam
Maybe it’s just me, but if I see a topic on Bossip that I don’t like, I just keep moving. I don’t waste my time posting about what a waste of time the topic is. But hey…….that’s just me. Anywho, the last time I checked, Reggie and Rashad and all the other men who date outside of their race are grown and can date/marry whomever they want to. Halle, Djimon, Russell, Seal, and anyone else can also do the same. Why get so bitter about people you don’t even know and who don’t give a damn about what you think of their choices anyway?
***** from a black man’s ***** taste sweeter than the tainted ***** of my white counterparts. White ***** tast like soured milk mixed with oatmeal!
Only about 5% of blacks are involved in interracial relationships. The vast majority of those are the rich and connected. Lets not get it twisted folks, they see us the same way they always have. Remember Obama didn’t win, Mccain lost. Racism isn’t dead. Also if this brother drove a trash truck would he be dating anyone other than a black chick?
*sigh* and here are all the regular haters..good for her. Idk who he is, but good for her. However i will say that i agree with the person who said it does seem like they love attention and think ppl care about everything they do (which i’m sure some do) but hell at the same time they’re celebrities so i guess i don’t blame them. LOL Gotta do what you gotta do to stay relevant right?
Point proven from blog above …..they all want the BLACK *****……quick ***** guzzlers….
Sydney
All joking and kidding aside – Yes and No. It’s all about personal choice and in the end, making sure you don’t hurt anyone in the process. In a perfect world, if one (if they be woman or man) decides to live a “DEVIL MAY CARE” hedonistic lifestyle, then get a vasectomy or tubal ligation so no mistakes are created during the interim. Ultimately, people are going to do what they’re going to do to satisfy their own selfish needs or agenda. Folks outside, lookin’ in, have the choice of getting caught up in said “HEDONIST” lifestyles or taking the path of least resistance and staying true to their own path – I reiterate, who’s place is it really to criticize Wilt. He lived his own life (alone) and died (alone), and with the exceptions of a few broken hearts, no one was hurt.
@ OSH
HAPPY NEW YEAR ALSO
I WENT TO ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS NIGHT CLUB IN DOWNTOWN DETROIT AND WE HAD A NICE TIME AND WHEN WE LEFT 30 MIN AFTER SOMEONE SHOT AND KILLED HER HUSBAND OUTSIDE OF THE NIGHT CLUB HE OWNS RIGHT OUTSIDE HIS TRUCK EXITING THE CLUB
DUDE! They look like a nice healthy couple! of course everyone would like to date their race, but everyone is not always went to be with someone in thier race! GOD LOVES US ALL! SOME OF US HAVENT REALIZED THAT YET!
i love black females,but do they love me back? no.thats why i date other girls outside of my race.i dont know why i cant find a good black girl.they always say im a square,im ugly,im too dark,im not a dopeboy.i dont get it.im a college graduate,i have no children,own my own home,2 cars payed of,so why can i find a good sister to start a life with?but the white and latin girls accept me for what and who i am.they respect me,give me my personal *****e,and treat me like a man.dont get me wrong,love is love,and i love the females i date,but my heart and soul is to have a beautiful black family.maybe im in the wrong town or something cause i dont see no change.so im going to keep doing me and date outside my race,because it makes me some what happy.
There’s something off right now in this thread. . .
Um, returning to the topic at hand. . .
@Marquis
You kind of dodged my previous question, but that’s OK.
“In a perfect world, if one (if they be woman or man) decides to live a “DEVIL MAY CARE” hedonistic lifestyle, then get a vasectomy or tubal ligation so no mistakes are created during the interim.”
Exactly — in a PERFECT world, there would be no mistakes. However, in the real world, if you parti*****te in a series of selfish, careless acts, sooner or later, it’s bound to catch up with you, and there is a consequence to pay.
@Se-Quoan
May I ask you what kinds of black women you’re surrounding yourself with, and in what locations you’re meeting them?
Wow, Shay! That’s some story!
@ SE QUOAN
YES I WAS ABOUT TO ASK YOU THE SAME THING!! cause i know alot of woman that just want companionship and an equal artner in life with no strings attached, and they get a goo man … PLEASE!!!
@ SYDNEY
GIRL THATS THE SHORT VERSION, I LOOK AND SOUND AWFUL FOR THE LAST COUPLE DAYS I HAVE BEEN IN A DOWNWARD SPIRAL AFTER WE LEFT THE CLUB AND HE STAYED BEHIND TO CLOSE WE GOT A CALL TO COME BACK AND WHEN WE GOT THERE IT LOOKED LIKE AND LAW AND ORDER CRIME SCENE, HE WAS ONLY 44 YEARS OLD, MY BFF IS SICK TO DEATH THEY JUST CELEBRATED THERE ANNIVERSARY LAST WEEK
@Shay
How sad. . .
well im not picky,and when ever i see a black female i like,anywhere,in the club,streets even wal-mart,i always get the same results.
@ SYDNEY
TRULY
SHE IS SUCH A GREAT FRIEND AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO BE THERE FOR HER, IM NOT STRONG WHEN IT COMES TO THAT TYPE OF STUFF!!! I HAVENT BEEN OVER THERE SINCE NEW YEARS… SHE KNOW ME WELL ENOUGH TO KNOW IM TRULY IN SHOCK HOWEVER BUT I WANT TO STEP UP AND BE THAT GOOD FRIEN I KNOW SHE WOULD BE TO ME
I can’t tell what’s more annoying — these swirl stories or the Bossip Troll Zannibal
LMAO
why everybody is saying that this girl doesn’t have a body ?! are we serious! she has more ***** than KIM!
She is just *****in tall,! I saw her on the tyra show and she is as tall as tyra with a huge booty! I knew it gotta to be real because that would be a lot of junk to put!
They love some black men! I hate the fact that they has to go to blogs (i saw the show) to see what people are saying about them and respond if they disagree! So since they will read it ” Girls, you are some attention w*****! I cant say if you are w*****s period but plublicize your relationship when people know you only through your sister who is already a Z lister?! ***** Please”
okay here we go again. Don’t get me wrong you can love who you want, but this is out of control. Why is it when a black man makes millions of dollars they are not attracted to sisters. Once upon a time in America this was rarely heard of. Now it seems this the only way to go. Now I wonder why the sisters do not grab a white man when she becomes successful. No we tend to stay with the brothers. Oh yea I must mention when a sister do get a white man the brothers almost have a heart attack. Maybe we should turn our backs on them also. I do not think there is nothing more beautiful then a black man with his black woman and black children, and they are doing their thing together. Do brothers who have decided not to honor us keep on stepping but remember this civialzation began in Africa.
@Bklynz Own
If you don’t mind me asking, what result is that?
@Shay
I’m sure your friend knows you’re there for her — That’s a very difficult situation.
Can you please stop using stupid phrases like “they look ethnic” or “she’s a caucasian”???
First of all: The word caucasian refers to a group of people in Europe AND NORTH-AFRICA, so it doesn’t make sense to use it as a term for white people.
And what’s up with the word ethnic? So u are saying white people have no ethnical background??? How ignorant ist that? Shouldn’t it be known to half way smart folks that ALL humans on earth use to be of darker complexion? Sooo, doesn’t that make white people extremely light skinned black people? They turned white within time, because of the colder regions they lived in. It was not a curse by God! Geeeeez, please educate urself. Google is for everybody LOL
*rolls eyes* @
“Do brothers who have decided not to honor us keep on stepping but remember this civialzation began in Africa.”
very dramatic…. :/
@HONEYBUNZ,
Armenians arent a mixure of races. They are white from the South eastern part of Europe in the Caucasuses. Get a *****ing map, no need to guess about ***** when you can google everything.
@MagMile,
“The Kardashians are such trash. They HAVE TO date dumb-jock black men;white men probably won’t touch Kim as she’s been run through by so many brothers.”
Does this explain why white men dont want black woman? I doubt any black woman would reject them.
I just want to know why the Kardashian sisters are even famous beyond their father and Kim’s sex tape. It seems like a PR stunt for them to do famous black guys these days. Even on the the E channel reality show, Mama Kardashian has a thing for black guys, as she has a big black *****. WTF
@ kigali
do you hear your self
he (mag mike) wasnt explaining why black men dont date women he was only stating that he doesnt find either of the two attractive. I dont know what black woman tryly fu*ked your head up, but i truly believe you should try taling some of that blackamosity out on her!!! some points you make are philisophical and sometimes well thought through, however the statements you put them in and the way you find a way to degrade and downplay the black woman is absolutelt amazing to me!!!
@Michelle,
“I do agree with commets on black men dating outside of there race they need to take a look at themsevles inside a strong balck women rised them.”
Dont play on the sentimentality that a man has for his mother to try to keep him caged up. Every black man loves his mother but most likely he cant find a black woman today that can hold a candle to her. Why not step your game up.
I guess the relative calm of this thread is about to explode. . .SMH.
@ whatever
your right!! its not ok for a black woman to have high standards and be picky shes a gold digger but when a white woman does it it is because she is a great woman and a great person, these non educated ***** dunmb jocks are smart enough to see when they ar beiing used as well!!! i just dont get it!!!
@Corporatecutieshayshay,
If it is true that white men dont want to date them because these women have exclusively been with black men its because of racism and not any defect on the part of the black man. Instead of accepting that racism you should be fighting against it but because you can use it for your own benefit you want to perpetuate it. So sad.
@Kigali
Out of curiosity, what happened to your references to “black females?” I noticed you’re using the “black women” label for all sisters, or am I reading your posts incorrectly?
@ sydney
i just checked out that doubt trailer
wow
im going to see as soon as i leave here
girl please no one pays ki8gali and any other black woman basher no mind, well the woman that aint ***** might find offense but i take it for good convo and a laugh, you took a psych cl***** just like i did, you know when people hold deep down anger and malice and such disreguard for another human that only means they have had some type of issue in there life with that person or race, so brush that drama off my shoulders and keep it moving, besides my hubby sends me to work with a smile on my face EVERYDAY
LOL @ Shay
I never took a psych cl*****, but some of these posts seem like a psychological study, don’t they?
@ whatever
corporatecutieshasha
your right!! its not ok for a black woman to have high standards and be picky shes a gold digger but when a white woman does it it is because she is a great woman and a great person, these non educated ***** dunmb jocks are smart enough to see when they ar beiing used as well!!! i just dont get it!!!
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why i dont get either is when i had this conversation with this guy in this same forum who was tellng me that getting an education was not an *****et to get a man? Still, they will be quick to call out a chick with a certain mentality for being uneducated or ghetto! I just don’t get it! If a black woman was doing what kim and her sister are doing, meaning, dating high profile athletes , she will be called groupie or goldigger! But because she is not black, and fine even though she is also not really educated, she must be sweet and not a goldigger! I mean, come on now! We just cant win! If we are proud of our eduction, our higher status in this society, we are considerd overly combattive and not feminine enough (this guy said tht being educated doesn’t entitle us to have a good man) otherwise, we are ghetto rat! Cant just win for nothing!
@sommer,
We had this conversation a few days ago. I will school you.
“Why is it when a black man makes millions of dollars they are not attracted to sisters.”
They are still attracted to sisters. They just dont date them or atleast not exclusively.
“Once upon a time in America this was rarely heard of. Now it seems this the only way to go.”
And I am sure black females are dying to go back to that time. I am sure they would want it to be illegal.
“Now I wonder why the sisters do not grab a white man when she becomes successful.”
Two reasons: They are black and they are older. Firstly White men date Asian women when they cross the fence. Black women have to compete with youger women for the richest and most eligible men. Black females have some issues which makes them less desireable than other women- fatness and attitude.
@Kigali
So you switched back to using “black females” just now?
Hmmm, interesting. . .
What’s good Oshie, I’m trying to holla at you right quick
hey sydney
@ SYDNEY
NO READ CORRECT
HE TAKES THE EXAMPLE OF A COUPLE TRIFLING SISTAS AND THROW THERE BAGGAGE ON PHENOMINAL WOMEN LIKE US, ONES WHO WORK HAVE DEGREES FAMILES TRUST FUNDS I.R.A’S AND HIGH STANDARS MORALS THAT WE RECIEVED FROM OUR HOME UPBRINGING!!!LIKE I SAID HE MAKES VSOME VALID POINTS BUT THIS ONLY DESCRIBES ABOUT 25-30 PERCENT, HOW DOES HE COMMENT THE OTHE 70-75 % OF US!!! JUST CAUSE I KNOW BLACK MEN THAT STEAL SELL DOPE RAPE AND HAVE ***** FOR BRAINS DONT MEAN WE WOULD SLAP HIS LOOSE MOUTH BUT IN A CATEGIRY WITH THEM!!!! BLACK PEOPLE WAKE UP!!! DONT DEMINISH OUR RACE UPLIFT IT, IF YOu CARE!!! I DO!!!
@Shay
Use your psychology training, girl. There’s something strange about this — I think a few posts I’ve read recently may be right on the mark.
And where has SMDH gone to?
“Damn, it looks like the Kardashian sisters are wrangling in rich black athletes by the truck load. Pray for their victims, ya’ll. You would think with Rashard playing in the NBA he’d know a little about using the draft to add talent to the roster…SMH at his first round pick.”
”””””””””””””””””””’
C’mon BOSSIP…Rashad was looking at the big picture with this “draft pick”.He’s tall.She’s tall.That would in all likelihood make their baby…REALLY TALL. ;^D
@Sydney
I have always made distinctions.
Sydney
@talkin loud and sayin nothin
Your post is interesting and reminded me of a conversation I had with my mother over the holiday. Somehow we got on the subject of Wilt Chamberlain and his hundreds of sex partners, and my mother reminded me that he was asked publicly years ago why he didn’t date black women, and he responded with very disparaging remarks. Below is an excerpt from a People magazine article:
Chamberlain’s relationship with Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, his successor as pro basketball’s dominant big man, was ambivalent as well. When Abdul-Jabbar (then Lew Alcindor) was a high school star in New York, Chamberlain, then in his late 20s, all but adopted him—taking him to nightclubs, inviting him over for card games with cronies and even, on one occasion, giving him two of his suits. Later, however, Abdul-Jabbar clashed with Chamberlain politically (Wilt supported Richard Nixon in 1968) and publicly criticized Wilt for saying in his 1973 autobiography that many black women were inferior sex partners. “This was sexuality and capitulation and racial abandonment, all in one piece,” Abdul-Jabbar wrote in his book, Giant Steps. “I stopped seeing him as a political crossover and began thinking of him as a traitor.”
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yeah I am quite familiar with Wilt, Jabbar & Giant Steps. I guess Wilt was one of if not the first Black celeb to announce his incompatibility with Black women. I guess in the very end everyone has th right to do as they please, but I will forever consider myself as one of the brothers who will continue desiring and loving the Black woman in spite of the supposively easier route to happiness…namely women of non color. There can be no other woman on this earth for me!
corperatecutieshayshay
@ SYDNEY
NO READ CORRECT
HE TAKES THE EXAMPLE OF A COUPLE TRIFLING SISTAS AND THROW THERE BAGGAGE ON PHENOMINAL WOMEN LIKE US, ONES WHO WORK HAVE DEGREES FAMILES TRUST FUNDS I.R.A’S AND HIGH STANDARS MORALS THAT WE RECIEVED FROM OUR HOME UPBRINGING!!!LIKE I SAID HE MAKES VSOME VALID POINTS BUT THIS ONLY DESCRIBES ABOUT 25-30 PERCENT, HOW DOES HE COMMENT THE OTHE 70-75 % OF US!!! JUST CAUSE I KNOW BLACK MEN THAT STEAL SELL DOPE RAPE AND HAVE ***** FOR BRAINS DONT MEAN WE WOULD SLAP HIS LOOSE MOUTH BUT IN A CATEGIRY WITH THEM!!!! BLACK PEOPLE WAKE UP!!! DONT DEMINISH OUR RACE UPLIFT IT, IF YOu CARE!!! I DO!!!
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IF I AM NOT MISTAKEN ARENT YOU MARRIED TO A WHITE MAN?
@ CHRISTINE SECRETS
EXACTLY
KLOE OR KIM HASNE EVER BEEN TO ANYONES COLLEGE, NEVER HAD ANYTHING OF THEIR OWN UNTIL THEY STARTED *****ING ON TAPE, AND YET IM SUPPOSED TO BELIEVE SHE IS SUPERIOR, PUHHHLLLE*****E, MY BROTHER WAS THE WIDE RECIEVER FOR THE COWBOYS… BASIR YAMINI, SO IF I WANTED TO ***** THROUGH THE NBA FOR MONEY AND RESPECT I WOULD HAVE AND COULD HAVE WENT THAT WAY BUT I CHOOSE TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT SO AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED THOSE LIL RAGGAMUFFINS ARE INFERRIOR TO ME!!!! THEY ARENT GOLD DIGGERS THEY ARE CAREER DIGGERS
@Kigali
Yes, you previously did make distinctions, but you initially entered this thread with your references to “black women.”
It’s fine — I know you want to generate a reaction, and, undoubtedly, you’ll get one.
@talkin loud
Thanks for coming back and confirming you are a brother because your post was on the verge of being labeled the opinion of yet another “bitter” sister, lol.
@corpoeratecutieshayshay,
I’ve told you before, I am female and no black female has done me wrong but they have done black men wrong and they have done their children wrong. I guess, in a way, they have adversely affected my life.
LASHONDA= Wow…Ummm interesting way to put it. And SMH @ Some of the comments.
If they’re together because they actually like each other and want to be together for all the good reasons SO WHAT! It’s all good. If they’re doing it for the wrong reasons than that’s messed up.
@Kigali
“I’ve told you before, I am female and no black female has done me wrong but they have done black men wrong and they have done their children wrong.”
Now wait a minute, “sista,” you have said repeatedly on here that, yes, black women (or as you refer to them, black females) have done you wrong in the past. You mentioned black women on the West Coast where you went to school, then on the East Coast, specifically Philly.
Now which is it?
BLACK *****ES NEED TO STEP THEIR GAME UP. *****ES GET A LITTLE OFFICE JOB AND CLAIM THEY IN THE CORPORATE WORLD. LMFAO
@ sydney_ your not going to speak to me today?
@Christie’s Secret,
Whoever told you that men dont really care about what education a woman has, he/she was more or less correct. Men are traditionally the bread winner, their role in society hasnt really changed. They dont need an academic, they need a wealthy woman. You dont need a degree to be a cl*****y, intelligent, pleasant person to be around.
Besides, have you been around socalled educated black females? They are the most obnoxious and bitter of them all. For some reason they thought, upon recieving their degree they were supposed to get a man who would be her slave and a house on the hill. They arent nice to be around, they arent pleasant. They just *****ume that because the have a degree or two, they are entitled to the world. They often lash out at the world, especially black men, when they dont get what they want. What is worse is that these socalled educated women use the lowest form of tribalism to rein in black men.
ewwwwwwwwwwwww she look like a dam line backer like hut hut im open lmao
OSHIE=LOL Wow…
@Fake Film
No, I’m not — Not until you impersonate that brother correctly and capitalize your words, use impeccable spelling and grammar, and expand your vocabulary.
Otherwise, I’ll have to bid you good day.
@Sydney,
Stop playing semantics with me. I have, like everyone else, had bad expiriences with black females. It took a lot more than those expiriences to put me on game when it comes to them. It was hearing the concerns of black men that convinced me of her problems. As I have said before, its black men and black children who will suffer the brunt of her pathologies.
And I dont refer to black women as black females. Black females are that 70%; black women are the 30%.
Fake Film = ccbc8259efe2823f42c7c73d6c8476a9?s=64&d=
Wrong property ID + No gravie = TROLL. Move it along *****.
@ sydney
So after i *****ed you want to act like that? That’s why us brothers love to get our swirl on. *****!
@ KIGALI
I STILL DONT CARE WHETJHER YOUR MAN OR WOMAN YOU NEED TO CORRECT THESE DEEP SEEDED ISSUES YOU HAVE WITH “ALL BLACK WOMEN” AS YOU KEPT REFFERRING, IF YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT THE % THAT DO NEED TO RE THINK LIFE AND THEIR BODILY WORTH THEN FINE HOWEVER I CANT SEE THE MAJORUITY OF THE BLACK WOMEN I KNOW HAVE NONE OR VERY LITTLE OF THE TERRIBLE QUALITIES YOU AND I ARE SITTING HERE DEBATING!!!!
@ TALKIN LOUD
UHHH DUHHH YES IM MARRIED TO A WHITE MAN, NEVER MADE ANY SECRET TO THAT I LOVE MY HUBBY I WOULDNT TRADE HIS ***** FOR DENZEL WASHINGTON!!!! I GREW UP IN A PRODEMNTELY WHITE STATE HUN, (WATERLOO IOWA) SO MY TASTE IN MEN WAS FORMULATED EARLY ON IN LIFE, HOWEVER AS I GREW OLDER I FOUND THATONCE I MATURED MYSELF AND KNEW WHAT I WANTED IN A REAL MAN THAT THERE WERE PLENTY OF WHITE AND BLACK MEN THAT AROUSED MY MIND HEART AND SOUL, HOWEVER IT WAS MY HUBBY THAT SWPET MY CRAZY ***** AWAY!!!
@ CORPORATECUTIESHAYSHAY
YOU ARE A *****ING IDIOT!
LOL @ The Keeper
Thank you kindly, sir.
@Kigali
Yes, I’m going to pay attention to semantics because you do. You told Shay that no black female has “done you wrong,” and within nanoseconds, you’re singing a different tune.
You also posted this within this thread: “Does this explain why white men dont want black woman? I doubt any black woman would reject them.”
So are you saying that white men don’t want black WOMEN (using your distinctive terminology) as well?
And please don’t get defensive — There are some puzzling discrepancies about your posts.
@ FAKE FILM
ALL IS PROOVEN WITH THAT LAST COMMENT, ANOTHER LOOSER ***** BROTHER ON THE INTERNET WITH NOTHING TO DO, GO CRUISE THE MALL FOR WHITE GIRLS PLEASE… WE COULD STAND TO LOOSE ONE LIKE YOU
@Fake Film
“That’s why us brothers love to get our swirl on.”
It should be “WE brothers.”
And that’s why sisters like me don’t care, lol.
corperatecutieshayshay
@ KIGALI
I STILL DONT CARE WHETJHER YOUR MAN OR WOMAN YOU NEED TO CORRECT THESE DEEP SEEDED ISSUES YOU HAVE WITH “ALL BLACK WOMEN” AS YOU KEPT REFFERRING, IF YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT THE % THAT DO NEED TO RE THINK LIFE AND THEIR BODILY WORTH THEN FINE HOWEVER I CANT SEE THE MAJORUITY OF THE BLACK WOMEN I KNOW HAVE NONE OR VERY LITTLE OF THE TERRIBLE QUALITIES YOU AND I ARE SITTING HERE DEBATING!!!!
@ TALKIN LOUD
UHHH DUHHH YES IM MARRIED TO A WHITE MAN, NEVER MADE ANY SECRET TO THAT I LOVE MY HUBBY I WOULDNT TRADE HIS ***** FOR DENZEL WASHINGTON!!!! I GREW UP IN A PRODEMNTELY WHITE STATE HUN, (WATERLOO IOWA) SO MY TASTE IN MEN WAS FORMULATED EARLY ON IN LIFE, HOWEVER AS I GREW OLDER I FOUND THATONCE I MATURED MYSELF AND KNEW WHAT I WANTED IN A REAL MAN THAT THERE WERE PLENTY OF WHITE AND BLACK MEN THAT AROUSED MY MIND HEART AND SOUL, HOWEVER IT WAS MY HUBBY THAT SWPET MY CRAZY ***** AWAY!!!
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No offense, but you are no different from all of the the other blacks who have turned away from their own race to seek happiness elsewhere. That in itself is not a criminal offense, but it does destroy your credibility on this particular subject. You are just a female Reggie Bush
Khloe… who gives a damn you are just like your fake butt implanted sister kim , chasing after the black dic!.. why you dont date Armanian men ???????
come on kigali! Im sure you don’t believe what you wrote! please! are you one of those black females you are talking about cause i kow my friends and I are not! However, I tink that I will not become a man slave because I don’t owe him nothing unlike my grand mother or even some of my friends who have nothing going on for them and who are so submissive its crazy! This being said, i love to cook, to have sex, to clean the house but i want a man to help me doing that! i think its fair especially in 2009! white men parti*****te a lot to the house work so why black man gotta be the chief in the villge when he s not the only provider! does that make me overly combative?!
corperatecutieshayshay
@ FAKE FILM
ALL IS PROOVEN WITH THAT LAST COMMENT, ANOTHER LOOSER ***** BROTHER ON THE INTERNET WITH NOTHING TO DO, GO CRUISE THE MALL FOR WHITE GIRLS PLEASE… WE COULD STAND TO LOOSE ONE LIKE YOU
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IF YOU ARE MARRIED TO A WHITE BOY THEN I AM GLAD WE LOST YOU TOO!!! GOOD RIDDANCE
CC, dont pay attention to Jus my opinion and talking loud and sayin nothing= two *****heads on a blog!
@Sydney,
Bare in mind that the 70% and 30% are only rough estimates. There might be a 10% margin of error. No one can say that I’m not a generous person.
Everybody be nice to Kigali, she was raped by a black woman.
@ CORPERATECUTIESHAYSHAY
EVERYONE GIVE CORPERATECUTIESHAYSHAY A ROUND OF APPLAUSE FOR HAVING A WHITE HUSBAND. THAT’S JUST AWESOME.
@KIGALI:
“Whoever told you that men dont really care about what education a woman has, he/she was more or less correct. Men are traditionally the bread winner, their role in society hasnt really changed. They dont need an academic, they need a wealthy woman. You dont need a degree to be a cl*****y, intelligent, pleasant person to be around.
Besides, have you been around socalled educated black females? They are the most obnoxious and bitter of them all. For some reason they thought, upon recieving their degree they were supposed to get a man who would be her slave and a house on the hill. They arent nice to be around, they arent pleasant. They just *****ume that because the have a degree or two, they are entitled to the world. They often lash out at the world, especially black men, when they dont get what they want. What is worse is that these socalled educated women use the lowest form of tribalism to rein in black men.
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Co-sign. Recently rid myself of just such a diva.
corperatecutieshayshay
@ FAKE FILM
ALL IS PROOVEN WITH THAT LAST COMMENT, ANOTHER LOOSER ***** BROTHER ON THE INTERNET WITH NOTHING TO DO, GO CRUISE THE MALL FOR WHITE GIRLS PLEASE… WE COULD STAND TO LOOSE ONE LIKE YOU
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You are such a hypocrite! I am truly done with you!!!
OSHIE LOOKS LIKE ANN COULTER
JUS MY OPINION
OSHIE LOOKS LIKE ANN COULTER
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AND YOU LOOK LIKE RICK ROSS WITH CHEETOS IN YOUR BEARD.
@ KIGALI
I DONT THINK ANYONE IS TRYING TO PLAY SEMANTICS
HONESTLY THOUGHT YOU WERE A MALE FROM YOUR COMMENTS, AND HONESTLY I NEVER HEAR WOMEN SPEAK SO ABRUPTLY ABOUT OTHER MINORITY WOMEN SO THATS WHERE MY *****UMPTION CAME FROM! I WASNT TRYING TO OFFEND YOU!!! HELL DONT THINK CAUSE I BATTLE BACK N FORTH WIT YA ***** THAT IM BITTER OR MAD, I ENJOY THIS DEBATE STUFF!!! AND IM GLAD WE HAVE SOME CONFLICTING OPINIONS CAUSE THATS MAKES FOR A GREAT DEBATE!! IF WE HAD THE SAME OPINION ON ***** I PROBABLY WOULDNT BE TALKING WITH YOU AT ALL!!!! I MAY NOT LIKE WHAT YOU SAY BUT AT LEAST YOU HAVE ENOUGH DECENCY TO USE A OPEN VOCABULARY, NOT *****S, HOES, *****EZ… YOU GET THE POINT
@ SYD
I LOVE SOME OF YOUR COMMENTARY
I GAVE YOU A NEW GRAVIE NAME ITS “MICHELLE OBAMA… PREQUAL”
Kigali ((Truth Hurts!! Proof read before you press “Submit Comment”)
@MagMile,
“The Kardashians are such trash. They HAVE TO date dumb-jock black men;white men probably won’t touch Kim as she’s been run through by so many brothers.”
Does this explain why white men dont want black woman? I doubt any black woman would reject them.
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Girl you crazy
every other day i step out the door a white man trying to holla, and don’t let me have my natural curls going then its really on
I have absolutely no interest in a white man and would turn them down.
girl you be talking crazy.
LOL @ Kigali
You’re side-stepping my questions, and you know it. I’m not saying you’re not a generous person, but I am saying you are certainly duplicitous, and I am very dubious about the veracity of your posts.
I think you help generate hits on threads.
LOL @ Oshie
@ HELL YEAH
SUCK A *****
Now, now people, no double standards. If one is openly sleeping white, but talking black, especially while decrying black men dating outside of their race, should be taken to task.
what a bunch of losers on this site all you do is talk about each other and never met each other..All of you seem like a bunch of real losers on a website judging and never met.
@Purp
LOL!
@ Sydney: Some people pathologically like to argue. I avoid those types because they are usually mean, angry at the world, wear trench coats and build pipe bombs in their parents garage.
jus my opinion suck my pus^y all day and night. Dont bother with your filth im gone for the day.
@ SYDNEY
USE YOUR INTELLECT ON SOMETHING MORE PRODUCTIVE THAN A GOSSIP COLUMN STUPID *****
@ TALKIN LOUD
“You are such a hypocrite! I am truly done with you!!!”
WELL THAT SETTLES IT… YOUR DONE WITH ME, WOOO IS ME, I CANT GO ON LIVING LIKE THIS!!!
***** THIS IS THE INYERNET… WORD OF ADVICE… GET OVER IT
@ HELL YEAH
BEAT IT *****
@Jus My Opinion
My, my, what language. . .
You did say you don’t date sisters, right?
*praying that he says yes*
Why do people have to hate themselves just because they chose to date outside their race? it’s 2009.. You’d think we would be p***** all of that!!!
@Oshie
“@ Sydney: Some people pathologically like to argue. I avoid those types because they are usually mean, angry at the world, wear trench coats and build pipe bombs in their parents garage.”
So true, so true. . .
The kind I watched in horror in Bowling for Columbine. . .
@ SYDNEY
“@Jus My Opinion
My, my, what language. . .
You did say you don’t date sisters, right?
*praying that he says yes*
THIS IS WHY I LOVE YOU!!! I SO DONT HAVE THE STRENGH OR HIGH GROUNDS YOU HAVE!!!!! YOUR REBUTTALS ARE TRULY THAT OF A PRINCESS!!! I CANT WAIT TO CHECK YOUR STATUS IN A COUPLE YEARS… ONE TO WATCH!!!!
@ SYDNEY
I DATE WHATEVER MY HEART DESIRES
I’m still trying to envision Rick Ross with Cheetos in his beard, lol!
@Jus My Opinion
“I DATE WHATEVER MY HEART DESIRES”
And I hope your heart desires anything but sisters.
LOL @ Shay
Girl, some of these individuals are disturbed, like Oshie said. Tread lightly. . .
Deon
Why do people have to hate themselves just because they chose to date outside their race? it’s 2009.. You’d think we would be p***** all of that!!!
I think most have with the exception of some black women and their predilection for double standards and those who decide to turn a blind eye to those trangressors to further their backhanded anti-swirl agenda (as long as it only pertains to black men).
Now, now people, no double standards. If one is openly sleeping white, but talking black, especially while decrying black men dating outside of their race, should be taken to task.
CCSHAYSHAY COMES TO MIND. LMFAO
@Sydney
Ms Lady it is so true. White men love black women with natural hair etc. They be on it heavy.
jus my opinion.. scram you ho!
@Purp
LOL! I’m laughing because I know it’s true. . .
Khloe Kardashian and Rashad McCants are both ugly as sin anyway, let them have eachother.
@Sydney
!!!!!
@ OSH
THATS WHAT I SAID ANY WAY, HELL THEY ARE BOTH MIDDLE LINE BACKERS SO BIRDS OF A FEATHER….
@Purp
LMAO!!
Stop it!
Oh, and they have no issue with color either.
Or I should say a number of them, at least — that’s what my friends of varying hues have come across.
corperatecutieshayshay
@ TALKIN LOUD
“You are such a hypocrite! I am truly done with you!!!”
WELL THAT SETTLES IT… YOUR DONE WITH ME, WOOO IS ME, I CANT GO ON LIVING LIKE THIS!!!
***** THIS IS THE INYERNET… WORD OF ADVICE… GET OVER IT
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Your grammer, spelling, attitude, ideology & approach are all equally *****ed up. You are indeed one og the Black females that Kigali talks about. If it were not for that white man you who agreed to marry you, I dont think you would even have a man
Well, except for the drunk driving, this one’s got some sense.
@ PURP
@ SYDNEY
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ASK MY HUBBY HE LOVES NATURAL HAIR, AND FOR SOME STRANGE REASON HE LOVES THE SMELL OF MY HAIR WHEN ITSWET RIGHT AFTER I WASH IT!!!! HOW ODD IS THAT???
And I hope your heart desires anything but sisters
SYDNEY SUCK A DEFORMED DONKE *****
@Sydney
They tend to act like they don’t know their white and your black…
corperatecutieshayshay
@ PURP
@ SYDNEY
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ASK MY HUBBY HE LOVES NATURAL HAIR, AND FOR SOME STRANGE REASON HE LOVES THE SMELL OF MY HAIR WHEN ITSWET RIGHT AFTER I WASH IT!!!! HOW ODD IS THAT???
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And I believe it!
@ TALKIN
I DONT EVEN HAVE TO ADRESS YOU YOUR NAME SAYS IT ALL HOMIE!!! BE BLESSED
Sydney
@Purp
LMAO!!
Stop it!
Oh, and they have no issue with color either.
Gee, the way you militant sistas laud these whitemen, then why are you so anti-swirl?
JUS MY OPINION
Now, now people, no double standards. If one is openly sleeping white, but talking black, especially while decrying black men dating outside of their race, should be taken to task.
CCSHAYSHAY COMES TO MIND. LMFAO
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NO *****!!!!
@purple
“Girl you crazy
every other day i step out the door a white man trying to holla, and don’t let me have my natural curls going then its really on”
That might be true for you but it isnt true for most black females. Most black females simply dont have what it takes to attract men of other races. Simple.
@Quiet Desperation
Who said they were “anti-swirl?”
Oh, excuse me, are you another troll?
Hi, I’m Syd.
@Purp
“They tend to act like they don’t know their white and your black…”
I don’t know if I’ll go that far, sista, lol.
@ SYD
@ PURP
DAMN WHYIS HALF THE THREAD TALKING ABOUT MY LIL PALE FINE ***** HUBBY AND ME!!! I HAVE BEEN HANGING AROUND BOSSIP FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS AND RECENTLY THAT REALLY HAS ***** SUCKAS SHOOK, I DIDNT KNOW A PERSON COULD CARE SO MUCH ABOUT ANOTHER PERSONS PERSONAL LIFE SO MUCH!!! OTHER THAN QUICK COMMENTARY!!! THIS IS AMUSING!!! BUT ITS THE DUMMIES THAT HAVE US 11 YEARS AND STRONG AND STEADILY CLIMBIMG THE US TAX BRACKET!!!!
BIG UP TO ALL THE HATERS AND NAY SAYERS!!!
HELL THIS THREAD IS ABOUT THE SWIRL I THOUGHT I WAS WELCOME, BUT THAT SHOWS BOTH OF YOU HOW RETARDED SOME OF THE BLOGGERS ARE, THEY ARE ON HERE DEFENDING KHLOE FOR GETTING A BLACK DUDE BUT I CANT HAVE MY WHITE CHOCOLATE AT HOME…. ITS AN AQUIRED TASTE… BUT I LIKE IT!!! JUST LIKE SUSHI AND CALAMARI AN ES CARGO!!!
I am a middle age white male and i date predominantly black females, but i must say they don’t make good wives.
Sydney
Excuse me, but you are co-signining with these anti-swirl posters. I’m just questioning the double standards.
@ KIGALI
“That might be true for you but it isnt true for most black females. Most black females simply dont have what it takes to attract men of other races. Simple.”
SEE I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY YOU WOULD SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT!!! IT MAY BE TRUE IN SOME CASES, BUT WHY WOULD A BLACK WOMAN MAKE THAT COMMENT? I MAY HAVE NO ROOM TO TALK SINCE IM A WHITE MAN LOVER AND ANY OTHER CREATIVE NAME THEY CREATE FOR ME!!!!
@Sydney,
“You’re side-stepping my questions, and you know it.”
No I am not and your questions have ***** all to do with the positions I take on black females. You are just employing a deversion so you dont have to actually deal with what I am saying.
“I’m not saying you’re not a generous person, but I am saying you are certainly duplicitous, and I am very dubious about the veracity of your posts.”
I have an opinion on black females. It is an opinion based partly on veriable facts, life expiriences and the expiriences and testimonies of others.
“I think you help generate hits on threads.”
Dont descend into conspiracy theories when you cant cope with the real world. But I do generate hits on threads because I am intelligent, I make the most cogent arguments, I’m controversial, and black females certainly arent used to people standing up to them.
I dont respond to people who type in caps. Sorry.
@Quiet Desperation
Excuse me, but please scroll up, and read where I wrote that men can date whomever they want. It’s not that hard, I promise.
Thank you kindly. I do admire your tenacity, though. You’re “quietly desperate,” lol.
Sydney
Excuse me, but you are co-signining with these anti-swirl posters. I’m just questioning the double standards.
@ SYDNEY DO CCSHAYSHAY NAPPY CAT GOT YOUR TOUNGUE?
Hi, I’m Syd.
@Purp
“They tend to act like they don’t know their white and your black…”
I don’t know if I’ll go that far, sista, lol.
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lol, they know but they be all up for experimenting and what not like the difference doesn’t bother them…or at least the ones who don’t have any ulterior motive to dating you.
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Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
@purple
“Girl you crazy
every other day i step out the door a white man trying to holla, and don’t let me have my natural curls going then its really on”
That might be true for you but it isnt true for most black females. Most black females simply dont have what it takes to attract men of other races. Simple.
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No bother Kigali…I’m just here to represent that 30%(10% margin for error not withstanding)
@ JUS MY OPINION
YOUR NOT TIRED!!! NO ONES RESPONDING TO YOU, AND THERE IS NOTHING LESBIAN ABOUT MY SELF, HELL MARRIED A DAMN WHITE MAN… THEY INVENTED ORAL SEX. IM JUST FINE AT HOME GO READ A BOOK AND EDUCATE YOUR SELF!!! YOU ARE NOT WORTH CAPS HOWEVER MY KEY BOARD IS GETTING STUCK SO THIS WILL HAVE TO DO
talking loud.. you got a lot of nerve talking about grammar, its of not og learn how to spell instead coming on a blog to talk about other, what a idiot.
@Kigali
“No I am not and your questions have ***** all to do with the positions I take on black females. You are just employing a deversion so you dont have to actually deal with what I am saying.”
The profanity is unnecessary, Kigali, and I am dealing with the content of your posts, which is filled with conflicting information.
“I have an opinion on black females. It is an opinion based partly on veriable facts, life expiriences and the expiriences and testimonies of others.”
This is another example of the discrepancies that mark your posts. What exactly are these “life experiences” of which you speak?
“Dont descend into conspiracy theories when you cant cope with the real world.”
Oh, don’t worry, I don’t delve into conspiracy theories, but I can recognize when someone is intentionally trying to stir the pot.
Now I have a lil teehee when the Indians who own the Dunkin doughnuts and the Saudi’s who own the gas stations try to holla ALL D TIME
@ CCSHAYSHAY
I DON’T BELIEVE YOU, I THINK YOU ARE A FRAUD BROKE ***** WHO MARRIED A WHITEBOY WHO WANTED TO BE A *****. YOU AND SEVEN OF YOUR NINE BROTHERS ARE IOWA HICKS
@ PURP
NOW THATS THE WORST
Jus My Opinion is kind of angry, no?
@ HELL YEAH
I THOUGHT YOU WERE LEAVING *****
@ JUS
GLAD U=YOU SPEND SO MUCH OF YOUR DAY THINKING OF ME AND MY FAM… I HAVE FINALLY BEEN VALIDATED NOW I CAN STRIVE… GET A LIFE!!! I THINK YOU DONT HAVE ONE THATS WHY YOU *****IZE MINE!!! IM NOT COMPLAINING… I LIKE BEIN FAMOUS, SO KEEP RUNNING CORP ALL THROUGH YOU RAGGEDY MOUTH WITH LISTERINE I LOVE IT!!! HAVE A GREAT NIGHT
And my fellow brothers and sisters from Africa, who tell me I don’t have to work and can just raise their babies and we will be financially set…well it sounds tempting but…
i can’t lie though they do be having like 18 jobs
Jus My Opinion is kind of angry, no
NO JUST A LITTLE BORED WAITING ON THE GAME TO COME ON
Purp, you’re making my sides hurt. . .
@ Kigali: It is spelled “experience”. Thank you.
LOL @ Jus My Opinion
So you wait for the game by cursing out as many women online as possible?
OK, gotcha.
*mouthing Help Us*
And my fellow brothers and sisters from Africa, who tell me I don’t have to work and can just raise their babies and we will be financially set…well it sounds tempting but…
i can’t lie though they do be having like 18 jobs
@ PURPPLE
SHUT THE ***** UP *****, WHERE’S YOUR ***** DYKE FRIEND NINA KNOWS
PURPPLE
And my fellow brothers and sisters from Africa, who tell me I don’t have to work and can just raise their babies and we will be financially set…well it sounds tempting but…
i can’t lie though they do be having like 18 jobs
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That’s why I always see that one guy working at the pay n park, the airport parking lot and the mall parking lot. I’ll be like, dude, where is your magic time portal???
Sydney
Purp, you’re making my sides hurt. . .
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lol, just sharing my daily life experiences….
Sydney
*So to answer your question, yes, it appears that some men, for whatever reason, are not attracted to sisters, and I counter that those men have every right to date whom they want. *Why would any self-respecting woman want a man who doesn’t view her as valuable?*
I’m not attracted to latinas or asian women. Does that take away their value? Sydney, you’ve just equated your value as a human being with someone elses physical and sexual wants. That goes totally agains’t all your prior “BLACK WOMEN ARE MORE THAN JUST A PIECE OF *****” comments. You accuse Kigali of contradictions, but you’re just as guilty. LOL!
So you wait for the game by cursing out as many women online as possible?
BASICALLY
@Engrich Teecher,
Its spelled, “who gives a *****.”
Khloe looks real good in that picture
They’re a nice couple. Khloe is not a bad looking girl. I wish people would stop criticizing who men choose as their mates. I could care less. I feel that women that knock interracial relationships are most likely ugly and insecure in their own skin. I know me and most of my girlfriends don’t lack self confidence and have no problem finding a man so we really could care less who other people are with. Maybe if certain women didn’t sit up on bossip all day bashing white females and dedicated some of their time to a social life they could find a man and not worry about other people’s lives.
@ PURPPLE
SHUT THE ***** UP *****, WHERE’S YOUR ***** DYKE FRIEND NINA KNOWS
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no habla ur englace…stop askin for Nina!(i c who’s on ur mind)
Oshie
PURPPLE
And my fellow brothers and sisters from Africa, who tell me I don’t have to work and can just raise their babies and we will be financially set…well it sounds tempting but…
i can’t lie though they do be having like 18 jobs
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That’s why I always see that one guy working at the pay n park, the airport parking lot and the mall parking lot. I’ll be like, dude, where is your magic time portal???
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Im convinced their sittin on riches…
WHAT A BUNCH OF JEALOUS NAPPY HEADED HOES.SHE PROBABLY ACTS LIKE A LADY,YOU BLACK *****ES SHOULD GIVE IT A TRY.YOU MIGHT NOT BE SINGLE YOUR WHOLE LIFE OR SITTING AROUND WITH NO EDUCATION,NO MAN, WELFARE, FIVE KIDS,AND STILL *****OUNCING THE WORD (ASK) AXE. QUIT HATIN WIREY HEADED *****ES
JUS
GLAD U=YOU SPEND SO MUCH OF YOUR DAY THINKING OF ME AND MY FAM… I HAVE FINALLY BEEN VALIDATED NOW I CAN STRIVE… GET A LIFE!!! I THINK YOU DONT HAVE ONE THATS WHY YOU *****IZE MINE!!! IM NOT COMPLAINING… I LIKE BEIN FAMOUS, SO KEEP RUNNING CORP ALL THROUGH YOU RAGGEDY MOUTH WITH LISTERINE I LOVE IT!!! HAVE A GREAT NIGHT
I THINK YOU ARE A LOSER, LOUD MOUTH, UGLY, LYING ***** SECRETARY
@Purple,
Actually based on some of your comments yesterday, you are firmly in the 70% margin. It isnt just about looks. It has far more to do with the mentality that is pervasive among black females.
@ Kigali: Ah, but as your purported idol, Ms. Judge Judy, would say, “Beauty fades – Dumb is forever.”
@Quiet Desperation
“I’m not attracted to latinas or asian women. Does that take away their value? Sydney, you’ve just equated your value as a human being with someone elses physical and sexual wants.”
WTH?
Good try, but you’re transparent. And I’m just not interested.
You’re really unaware that “value” has a non-sexual connotation?
You totally (and intentionally) misconstrued the meaning of my words. How disingenuous of you.
@Purp
Your daily experiences are cracking me up, lol.
@Pedro
Hi!
Wow, here comes another troll. . .
Should we start playing theme music?
Pedro and Anonymous says came out the closet yesterday. gay gay gay
@ Sydney
Ayo Syd wats gd ? I see your in a few battles in here ,wats that about b ?
OK I SEE MY IMPOSTER HAS ATRIVED
@ PURP
YOU SEE HABING A WHITE HUBBY HAS MADE ME FAMOUS
Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
@Purple,
Actually based on some of your comments yesterday, you are firmly in the 70% margin. It isnt just about looks. It has far more to do with the mentality that is pervasive among black females.
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well based on comments I made the day before yesterday about the football player’s tussle with his girlfriend, my words were, in your own quotes “genius”….since i know you like proof and facts go back and take a peak at it but Im sure you know exactly what you said…or do you?
So as usual you just don’t know when it comes to me do you….I understand….Well my genius mind says you make up about 50% of your 70 girl.
@Pedro
LOL, I was attempting to have a discussion earlier, but something happened. . .
And then there’s this brother who has cursed out every woman on here while he’s waiting for his game to start.
All in all, it’s just another day on Bossip.
How are you?
Kigali calling Purpple’s thoughts and intellect “Genius”…now how should i statistically categorize that?
OK I SEE MY IMPOSTER HAS ATRIVED
@ PURP
YOU SEE HABING A WHITE HUBBY HAS MADE ME FAMOUS
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I was about to say dang you just flipped on me…
IM OUT EVVERY ONE ITS ALMOST 4:30 I MAY LOG ON AT HOME DONT KNOW,
@ SYD I JUST CALL MY BFF IM GOING OVER THERE RIGHT NOW
@Sydney,
Please lets get back on topic.
“This is another example of the discrepancies that mark your posts. What exactly are these “life experiences” of which you speak?”
My expiriences with black females is that more often than not, they have bad, combative, argumentative attitudes. There is the popularity of the weave/wig hair style that I personally find unattractive and a testament to the fact that black females actually dont think much of their natural looks. Too many of them have allowed their weight to get out of control. I dont feel that they value marriage and traditional family which has over the past few decades damaged the black community. Those are my expiriences with black females and many black men and woman of courage feel the same as me. Unfortunately, we arent allowed to voice our opinions without meeting threats of violence and/or denial.
COMING OUT THE CLOSET PARTY
1.NE-YO
2. EDDIE MURPHY
3. JOHNNY GILL
4. CISCO
5. ANONYMOUS SAYS JAN. 2, 2009
6. TIM TIM
7. PEDRO
8. ???
COME ON OUT THE CLOSET BOYS
Sydney
Your discussion with Talking Loud veered onto Wilt Chamberlin and his sexual escapades with non-black women. It was you who equated black women’s value (or a lack thereof) with his sexual tastes in women (other than black), not I.
Ayo Syd wats gd ? I see your in a few battles in here ,wats that about b ?
Speaking of battles, i heard you were in a booty battle yesterday in the beyonce & mariah thread
You’re right, Purp — Kigali did give you a high compliment earlier this week.
@Kigali
“My expiriences with black females is that more often than not, they have bad, combative, argumentative attitudes.”
And, again, I refer you back to your previous post in this thread: “I am female and no black female has done me wrong.”
So you have had bad experiences with black females and they did “do you wrong?”
If they are happy, then I’m happy for them.
@ Sydney
Lol Dont worry about them b, Bossip be going crazy , notice how someone just tried cussing me lol , but ima ignore it ,
Im aight doe I feel a bit ill today,
So hows my favorite Meduim toned (harlem estimation lol ) bossiper today
Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
@Sydney,
Please lets get back on topic.
“This is another example of the discrepancies that mark your posts. What exactly are these “life experiences” of which you speak?”
My expiriences with black females is that more often than not, they have bad, combative, argumentative attitudes. There is the popularity of the weave/wig hair style that I personally find unattractive and a testament to the fact that black females actually dont think much of their natural looks. Too many of them have allowed their weight to get out of control. I dont feel that they value marriage and traditional family which has over the past few decades damaged the black community. Those are my expiriences with black females and many black men and woman of courage feel the same as me. Unfortunately, we arent allowed to voice our opinions without meeting threats of violence and/or denial.
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And you say this as if those who are conscious don’t already recognize this.
7 times out of 10 you direct your message at those who are well aware of this
Im more interested in knowing what are your solutions and how are you looking to implement those solutions on bossip or more importantly how you implement them in real life, or if you are just a fire starter with no water.
Now if your just here to vent and gossip please disregard my inquisitiveness.
Bossip puts up a swirl post everyday so I am amazed that everyday it gets almost 300 or more. I just dont understand what need to be talked about??? Bossip got some voodoo on you folks.
COMING OUT THE CLOSET PARTY
1.NE-YO
2. EDDIE MURPHY
3. JOHNNY GILL
4. CISCO
5. ANONYMOUS SAYS JAN. 2, 2009
6. TIM TIM
7. PEDRO
8. Chris rah osiris
9. ?????
COME ON OUT THE CLOSET BOYS
My expiriences with black females is that more often than not, they have bad, combative, argumentative attitudes. There is the popularity of the weave/wig hair style that I personally find unattractive and a testament to the fact that black females actually dont think much of their natural looks. Too many of them have allowed their weight to get out of control. I dont feel that they value marriage and traditional family which has over the past few decades damaged the black community. Those are my expiriences with black females and many black men and woman of courage feel the same as me. Unfortunately, we arent allowed to voice our opinions without meeting threats of violence and/or denial.
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Again, dear, it’s spelled “experience”.
Secondly, you know as well as I that not all black women have this “combative, argumentative attitude” that you describe. That sounds more like the way black women are portrayed in the media that a real life observance. UNLESS your observances are based on a very narrow, short experience with a few bad eggs, leading me to believe that you yourself are not black.
If you are black, my dear, and you truly feel this way about your sisters, may I go so far as to say that you need the ***** slapped out of you. You are not Jesus, and the black woman does not need to be saved by you or your glum neo-Iranian ideals on the “upbringing” of females.
@Quiet Desperation
This is my full quote, which is totally separate from the issue of Wilt Chamberlain and his sexual conquests: “So to answer your question, yes, it appears that some men, for whatever reason, are not attracted to sisters, and I counter that those men have every right to date whom they want. Why would any self-respecting woman want a man who doesn’t view her as valuable?”
I also wished the best to the couple in this thread. I guess somehow you took that as “anti-swirl?”
You’re still “quietly desperate,” I see, lol.
Hi Chris
@Pedro
I’m sorry you’re feeling under the weather. It’s that time of year, I guess.
Hi Sydney,
How are you doing? Happy New Year to you. Late I know.
@ Sydney
Who’s that actress on your gravie b ?
And whos your favorite actress ?
Sydney
LOL! Yes, but lets’ be honest, that response was in direct correlation with your Wilt Chamberlin segue. Why bring up Wilt in the first place, if it did’nt have a direct relation to this current thread, other than professional basketball, interracial dating, and your backhanded disdain for swirling when it pertains to blackmen?
Anonymous says quotes jan. 2 2009 @ 5:06
“later daywalker… keep them stacks tall dawg thats what matters in the end and ice cube is thick and cute so what the damn ever! later dawg!”
Happy New Year to you, too, Chris.
@Pedro
That’s dancer/c*****ographer/author Katherine Dunham. She p*****ed away a few years ago.
Who’s my favorite actress? I have too many to count. Angela B*****ett is definitely among them.
Who’s yours?
Where did Miss Kigali go?
@Purple,
Have you ever heard of that expression, “A broken clock is right twice a day?” Basically it means that if a clock is broken and its hands are, lets say, at 2:25, it will tell the right time twice but is still a broken clock. You are that broken clock.
I can go beyond my own prejudices and recognize when someone is right but you really stuck in my craw yesterday.
@Quiet Desperation
“LOL! Yes, but lets’ be honest, that response was in direct correlation with your Wilt Chamberlin segue.”
No, it was in response to the brother’s original post about why some high-earning brothers date outside, and since the thread is about an athlete, I recalled my recent conversation on Wilt Chamberlain.
I never said I had a disdain for interracial relationships (and you have failed to produce any evidence of such because it doesn’t exist) — What I do disapprove of, and have noted repeatedly on this site, is the denigration of both brothers and sisters, whether it pertains to dating or other issues. For example, if you’re in a happy and healthy relationship with a non-black, there is no need, in my opinion, to degrade members of your own race.
Does that clarify things for you? Or are you still quietly desperate?
Oh there you are, dear, I was worried you left to go get your weave fixed.
@Quiet Desperation
You’re one of those individuals who likes to argue for the sake of arguing, aren’t you? Are you a lawyer? lol
Khloe is not attractive in the least bit. It amazes me that some of you women call her a “linebacker” when you hang out and/or are related to women bigger than her!
I date all races…The thing is that whenever a black male upgrades himself in the social world, he becomes surrounded to women of all different races. Take me for instance…I enjoy going to art shows, non rap/hip-hop concerts, bookstores, tea houses, museums, fitness centers, and adult cl*****es such as cooking and Salsa/tango dancing cl*****es. Is it my fault that black women don’t share the same interests as I do. It doesn’t make any since!
Kim K. is pretty….
Thanks for the *****ysis Kigali….turns out it works as a self *****ysis also. Have you heard the expression “if the shoe fits…?”
1 up every time huh…I know it’s frustrating…
@ Sydney
My Favorite actress is Pam Grier ,shes hot , feisty and never looks bad even in the worst movie ever Pluto Nash
Sydney
*Does that clarify things for you? Or are you still quietly desperate?*
No, but your co-signing with those who’ve expressed their anti-swirl sentiments, has proven you’re full of it and would make a great politician.
Engrish Teecher
Oh there you are, dear, I was worried you left to go get your weave fixed.
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lol….and I wouldn’t(italics) put it past…..
@Engrich Teecher,
On the contrary, I am black and its my expiriences with some very delightful black women that make my comments about black females more pertinent. I’ve even seen it among black females in the United Kingdom. Except black females in the UK cope better than black females in the US. As I keep repeating, as people keep ignoring, I never said it was ALL black females just the majority. Anyway, I am not the only person saying these things. Ignore the rest at your peril.
“You are not Jesus, and the black woman does not need to be saved by you or your glum neo-Iranian ideals on the “upbringing” of females.”
What?
I am so bored. Can you guys not recycle the name arguments that I have to respond to?
I’m a black woman who goes to art shows, attends non-rap concerts, loves bookstores (an afternoon in Barnes & *****le or Borders is tres relaxing), museums (I look for exhibits all the time — last one was Jacob Lawrence), fitness centers, and I’ve taken cl*****es.
Oh, wait a minute. . .*whips out mirror and looks*
Dag, mom and dad lied to me, I’m white!!
*loses consciousness*
*gains consciousness*
Oh, and it’s “sense,” not “since.”
I have heard people say he should get with Keyshia Cole…Jennifer Hudson…Sanaa Lathan (mispelling)
Why?
Keyshia Cole: Ghetto family…Ghetto tattoos=Hell NO
Jennifer Hudson: Too much baggage. Judging by the horiffic events that took place last year, she still has a foot in the “hood.” What man would want to deal with this? Excuse me…What man with something going on would want to deal with this?
Ms. Lathan is very attractive and cl*****y…NO GHETTO TATS..GOLD TEETH…GHETTO family members..Well if she does, she keeps them well hidden as we should.
That brings me to another point. Why do US black people embrace aspects of the “hood life.” If I had any family members from the “hood,” I would disown them…Sounds harsh but you are who you *****ociate with. I would only *****ociate with them during family reunions and funerals.
@Quiet Desperation
“No, but your co-signing with those who’ve expressed their anti-swirl sentiments, has proven you’re full of it and would make a great politician.”
Again, WTH?
No, you would make a great politician, dear. You twisted my words and totally manipulated the conversation. Have you thought about running in ‘010 or ‘012?
@Pedro
LOL, Pam Grier is hot — I’ll give that sista a round of applause.
John, you sound very snotty. So you wouldnt date a women because her family was murdered? That could have happened to anybody, white black asian or hispanic. Murders dont only happen in the hood. As for Keyshia, she might be a lil hood but she could very well be a good women. Stop judging books by its cover, just cause you keep up with celebrity news dont mean you know everything. Sanaa could be a ***** that treats you like ***** because you dont have as much money as her, you never know.
@Purple,
Actually the shoe doesnt fit. I am not fat, I dont have a weave, I am married, and didnt have any children outside of wedlock, and with the exception of my abrasive blogging persona, I am actually a very genteel person. In fact, I have cousins who visit this blog and they dont even know who I am because I am so different in person. They would never guess that I have and express my views in this fashion. I am like this online because I can get away with it. I am smart enough to know that in the real world, a bad attitude isnt a source of strength, isnt the way black women should behave, and just makes their life harder.
Now unless a potential employer, friend, or mate, is going to judge me based on anonymous comments I make on an obscure black gossip blog, I am going to be just fine. Now just imagine all those black females who display my blogging attitude in their personal lives?
@ Kigali: On the contrary, I am black and its my expiriences with some very delightful black women that make my comments about black females more pertinent. I’ve even seen it among black females in the United Kingdom. Except black females in the UK cope better than black females in the US. As I keep repeating, as people keep ignoring, I never said it was ALL black females just the majority. Anyway, I am not the only person saying these things. Ignore the rest at your peril.
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Oh my dear, it is at YOUR peril that you ignore the latter half of my statement because you feign a misunderstanding. You arrogantly propose that black women need “saving” with your tedious rants about your their “attitudes”, their “combativeness” and some vague comparison between black females in the U.S. and the U.K. (which I think may be an attempt at condecension, a feeble one at that). But it seems that you have the biggest “attitude” of all the people who post comments on this particular blog who claim to be black women. So perhaps the 70% of black women you have encountered who you say have “bad attitudes” are merely reacting to the smug, condecending and pretentious person that is reflected in your writing? And perhaps the other 30% are just too polite to bear public witness?
@ Sydney
Lol yeah shes hot ,but my personal top 4 hottest black actress would be
Pam Grier
Sanaa Lathan
halle berry
Dorothy Dandridge
Nia Long ( Way back in the 90’s not present nia long )
Snotty…Thanks for the compliment..I am not one of the black guys that will bang a black chick just beacuse she has a fat *****, which nine times out of ten blend with the stomach…Which is which?
I was raised in a two-parent household with both parents obtaing college degrees. I have a college degree. I deserve the best. Call it snotty..I call it having standards.
Her family was murdered because her sister was dealing with undesirable hood blacks… Hopefully Jennifer learned her lessons and will not follow her family’s footsteps.
lol naw Kigali I think you meant in the real world if you talk all that ***** you talk online about black women you would get dog walked.
Blah blah blah Kigali daym, you are bored like a child who just keeps whining. I can see you now, you aren’t that attractive of a female and your trying to compensate with your brain. I wish you start some real conversation instead of pointless ranting disguised as a debate. Your hella annoying with the same level 1 shyt. sometimes you gotta move past the people who just don’t get it for the sake of the ones who do, some cousins just aint gonna make it. Comprehend that, thats level 1 so its right in your repertoire
This is the type of woman Shad would have went for in his college days at Carolina…he’s not into black women, so Khloe can have him.
@Pedro
What about Gaby?
@ Kigali: Actually the shoe doesnt fit. I am not fat, I dont have a weave, I am married, and didnt have any children outside of wedlock, and with the exception of my abrasive blogging persona, I am actually a very genteel person. In fact, I have cousins who visit this blog and they dont even know who I am because I am so different in person. They would never guess that I have and express my views in this fashion. I am like this online because I can get away with it. I am smart enough to know that in the real world, a bad attitude isnt a source of strength, isnt the way black women should behave, and just makes their life harder.
Now unless a potential employer, friend, or mate, is going to judge me based on anonymous comments I make on an obscure black gossip blog, I am going to be just fine. Now just imagine all those black females who display my blogging attitude in their personal lives?
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Ah, my dear, after reading this statement AFTER my previous entry, it confirms what I have suspected of you. Your “persona” on this blog is merely that. You are here to pick fights and cause trouble, and you withhold these “beliefs” you fight so strongly for using the written word in “real life” because they are not truly your beliefs. You are just an angry woman with her head in the sand and a few writers reference tools at her disposal.
Yup, you are snotty. *****ody was talking about *****, I’m talking about the fact you wouldnt date someone because of their family. EXACTLY, Jennifer’s sister NOT Jennifer. Damn, I would hate to be a celebrity because people judge without knowing. I doubt Keyshia or Jennifer would be interested in you and not because you are not a thug because I doubt they like those, I dont think they would date you because you look down at others. Not cool man, get off your high horse.
John, are you the same one who used “conversate” in a post about cl*****?
So if a woman byp*****ed you if you used such poor grammar, you would understand, right?
@Sydney,
You dont get it. When you were making all those cultural excursions how many other black women did you see? Exactly. You were the only one. Now where do you find black females? Nevermind. Dont answer that.
She’s not a good looking chic!
The only thing i can attribute this white girl, black athlete thing to, would be:
When the black guys were younger, they had dreams of being football/basketball players! The black girls maybe couldn’t see DREAMS…..only RESULTS!(When you are poor, the only thing you want is security NOW…no petty dreams or hopes!)~ i.e.~ THERES NOTHING LIKE WHEN YOUR WOMAN DISSES YOU AND SHOOTS DOWN YOUR DREAMS!~ So!, when these dreams DO get forfilled, the Black men look elsewhere for their mates!
In don’t expect black women to agree with what i’ve posted, due to bruised egos!
JUST ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE!
think
Women on this blog, aside from Kigali, are just bitter because they are what Kigali so eloguelntly describes as undesirables within the black community.
When the black guys were younger, they had dreams of being football/basketball players! The black girls maybe couldn’t see DREAMS…..only RESULTS!(
PREACH.
Oh and by the way, I dated all races before I graduated from college so it’s not like my college degree is the only thing that allows me to date women of other races.
@Kigali
“When you were making all those cultural excursions how many other black women did you see? Exactly. You were the only one.”
Actually, no, I wasn’t the only one, by any stretch.
And you’re showing your own bias, which is unappealing.
John
Women on this blog, aside from Kigali, are just bitter because they are what Kigali so eloguelntly describes as undesirables within the black community.
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It’s spelled “elloquently”.
That’s a big word for someone who sounds like they salute a swastika flag in their mobile home every morning.
LOL, who is bitter? You are just mad because you got shut down. Get off your high horse because I seriously doubt you are all that. You actin like Keyshia would even give you the time of day, not with that nasty ‘I’m so better than you attitude because I go to art shows and museums’ PUKE get off your high horse please!
Last time I checked, black females were all over the world, along with black males.
@ Sydney
Ohhhh Yeah Gabby I completely forgot , she replaces 90′S nia long
This is bossip…Am I going to get fired from my job for my mistake…I think not!
I am about to conversate with my friend..Hold on.
LOL
*So if a woman byp*****ed you if you used such poor grammar, you would understand, right?*
Not if it was Corporatecutieshayshay. That would be like the tea kettle calling the skillet black.
@John
“Oh and by the way, I dated all races before I graduated from college so it’s not like my college degree is the only thing that allows me to date women of other races.”
What planet are you from?
“I am about to conversate with my friend..Hold on.”
Yeah, you do that — Cl*****y! LOL!
BTW, you’re holding onto that college degree like it’s the Holy Grail, aren’t you? LOL!
@Engrich,
Wrong again. These are my beliefs but when discussing them with friends, family, and people I happen to meet, I take a totally different approach. How about civility, dumb*****. Now go back to correcting my spelling since thats about the only advantage you have.
Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
@Purple,
Actually the shoe doesnt fit. I am not fat, I dont have a weave, I am married, and didnt have any children outside of wedlock, and with the exception of my abrasive blogging persona, I am actually a very genteel person. In fact, I have cousins who visit this blog and they dont even know who I am because I am so different in person. They would never guess that I have and express my views in this fashion. I am like this online because I can get away with it. I am smart enough to know that in the real world, a bad attitude isnt a source of strength, isnt the way black women should behave, and just makes their life harder.
Now unless a potential employer, friend, or mate, is going to judge me based on anonymous comments I make on an obscure black gossip blog, I am going to be just fine. Now just imagine all those black females who display my blogging attitude in their personal lives?
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Im sooooo not convinced you don’t display this personality in real life, so not convinced. You need more people
You may be on the right side of the fence but you have no strategy and your tactics are asinine not to mention your level of understanding of even the simplest aspects of human persona rather less that of black women or black culture as a whole seems to be limited, despite your mental capabilities, which is in short is….a travesty.
I already know you lied because you are abrasive
on and off the computer, I would just be enchanted to know if you lied about the fat and unattractive part too? But no matters….you’ve got to be Kigali not me, thank the sweet universe.
Oooooh somebody getting mad
Dude..It’s one l..I guess my ability to type X words per minute has its disadvantages..:)
Did I put a g or q…Obviously it is supposed to be a q…Who cares? You should see my work emails.:)
John, if you are going to judge make sure your spelling is correct because you will be called out.
Somebody is getting mad. . .And she’s cursing. . .
She’s turning into one of those-those. . .
Black Females! *gasp*
@ Kigali: Wrong again. These are my beliefs but when discussing them with friends, family, and people I happen to meet, I take a totally different approach. How about civility, dumb*****. Now go back to correcting my spelling since thats about the only advantage you have.
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I’m sorry, my dear, but YOU are wrong. The advantage I hold is not hating myself or black women.
Instead, I find love gets you much further than hate. Hating everything and trying to “correct” everyone makes people look like buffoons in the end.
LOL I just said that Sydney!!! She not liking the taste of her own medicine LOL
okay I dont hate on no one because I have myself together to the dude that had the nerves to say that black women don’t make good wives it is the black women that you have been with that don’t make good wives do you think you make a great husband perhaps you should think about that, blsck women who are independent don’t wanna be men and we do stay in our place but the issue is some black men and I mean some don’t step to the plate they want to be the woman in the relationship they want us to take care of them then when they get a little money in their pockets they dont need you no more they are gone so we just stay single i dont have any children.not on welfare i have a job a car and a house but who needs a man that cant be a man who needs a man that can have sex with you but cant provide soap and water to bathe the sex away who needs a scrub and who needs a man that thinks he owns you because he has a lil cash who needs a man that just wants you to cook and clean have children and go to work if a man feels that cooking and cleaning and being a homemaker is a womans job then he needs to take care of that woman, if a man feels that a women needs to help out with the bills and take care of herself then he needs to help make the home but i’d be damn if I be a homemaker and work too thats why I dont need no man and about the weight thing the world is made for people to be different not skinny there are a lot of fat white women with no type of body and they have husbands who love them and there are alot of skinny white women who have husbands who love them the same with black women there are some good black men that I would love to meet but in the meantime i handle mine
@S&J
Ooh, somebody calm that black female down!
LOL!
BTW, you’re holding onto that college degree like it’s the Holy Grail, aren’t you? LOL!
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lol, you would too if that was all you had to offer, college degree trickin azz…
@ Sydney
Yes, what a angry black women Kigali is!
*woman
@ Kigali
Wat Part of The UK Did you stay in ?
@ Sydney
So you’re response to anything I say is to criticize my grammar. You really are a sad, sad, broad…
If you had parents like mine, you would be the same way.
Damn, it feels so good to be better than everybody in the hood.
Hold on my mom wants to conversate with me..
LMAO!
@Purp
Not “college degree trickin azz!” LOL!
@S&J
Yes, I have seen the Angry Black Woman, and she is Kigali.
*cowers in the corner*
LOL, OMG John what a angry black man you are!!! I know black men in the hood that don’t have a temper like yours!
. Damn, it feels so good to be better than everybody in the hood.
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Nah man , u still black like the rest of us
And they spell better than you too John!
@John,
They are only bringing attention to your spelling because they have completely exhausted themselves. Its just a deversion and you will come across a lot of it when talking to black females and the simps who love them.
First they will call you racist, then self hating, then say you arent black, then say all black women arent like that, then accuse you of not loving your mother, start talking about Rosa Parks or some other black woman from back in the day, then say you are mad because a black woman rejected you in the past (as if thats a bad thing), say you are broke and ugly and they never wanted you to begin with.
Dont worry, its a merry-go-round I have been on many times. You know how young children fight sleep by crying or becoming agitated? This is the adult version.
i kinda think they look cute together, if they happy thats what matters.
John! Stop talking on this blog I’m trying to conversate with you!
Take out the trash!
BTW, you’re holding onto that college degree like it’s the Holy Grail, aren’t you? LOL!
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lol, you would too if that was all you had to offer, college degree trickin azz…
Judging by your comments, you are some hood *****ody. What else is there to offer bird brain?
Dumb *****…..
@John
LOL, oh, so now I’m a broad? You’re showing your grand upbringing more by the minute, aren’t you?
“If you had parents like mine, you would be the same way.
”
Actually, they are. You’re amusing.
Keep on “conversating,” son. . .
“Even if you in a Benz, you still a ***** in a coupe.”
@ Kigali: They are only bringing attention to your spelling because they have completely exhausted themselves. Its just a deversion and you will come across a lot of it when talking to black females and the simps who love them.
First they will call you racist, then self hating, then say you arent black, then say all black women arent like that, then accuse you of not loving your mother, start talking about Rosa Parks or some other black woman from back in the day, then say you are mad because a black woman rejected you in the past (as if thats a bad thing), say you are broke and ugly and they never wanted you to begin with.
Dont worry, its a merry-go-round I have been on many times. You know how young children fight sleep by crying or becoming agitated? This is the adult version.
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And the above is the “adult version” of children who don’t get spanked enough.
Thinking you’re better than everyone doesn’t make it so.
@Pedro
London and Brimingham.
I can’t hate…I mean at the end of the day we are all just people…she just happens to be getting it in.
@ John
Damn Sydney’s commens are really bothering you huh? She getting under your black angry, college “educated” skin huh?
I can’t hate…I mean at the end of the day we are all just people…she just happens to be getting it in…LOL!!!
John! Stop blogging and conversate with me this instant!
Did you do your algebra homework??? You better not be talking to girls on here!!!
@ Kilgali!
I love black women, but i DO see this in alot of the post from black women…LOL!
TOO FUNNY!
think
Why is it that all black must thing alike? I am totally opposed to all welfare programs because it makes the hood what it is…the hood. If it was my decision, no welfare would be distributed. Just like the guy Blago just appointed to takes Obamas senate seat. Although he is black, I feel that he should not be appointed be cause Blago is under investigation for corruption. Now since the appointee is black, I guess I am a self-hating person because I will not give my blessing. It makes no sense.
LOL @ John’s Mom
Ma’am, please come get your son, lol.
@ Kigali
Yeah I stayed in london 2, a lot of black people there I notice , I stayed in Brixton , have u heard of there?
@Engrich,
Apologizing, excusing, and denying the bull***** of black females is the opposite of loving them. Go express your love for your children by rewarding them when they do dumb *****.
The blacks that dont hold those monolithic views are considered sellouts..My parents are both republicans as am I. We did vote for Obama because the GOP really destroyed the economy. You should see the flack my parents receive from “hood” blacks for being republican.. Why? What did they do to deserve this?
It is sad to think the black man still thinks that a white woman is the way to go. You cannot make me believe Rashad has never met a good looking black woman. If Khloe was black he would not give her the time of day. Khloe is not attractive and does not have a good personality. Wake up NFL & NBA share the wealth with the sistas.
This chic is ugly!
The only thing i can attribute this white girl, black athlete thing to, would be:
When the black guys were younger, they had dreams of being football/basketball players! The black girls maybe couldn’t see DREAMS…..only RESULTS!(When you are poor, the only thing you want is security NOW…no petty dreams or hopes!)~ i.e.~ THERES NOTHING LIKE WHEN YOUR WOMAN DISSES YOU AND SHOOTS DOWN YOUR DREAMS!~ So!, when these dreams DO get forfilled, the Black men look elsewhere for their mates!
In don’t expect black women to agree with what i’ve posted, due to bruised egos!
JUST ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE
Khloe cool! What is yall talkin about? She betta than Kim plus I don’t want that fool she with so i have no reason 2 b mad. He ugly 2 me LOL
John
BTW, you’re holding onto that college degree like it’s the Holy Grail, aren’t you? LOL!
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lol, you would too if that was all you had to offer, college degree trickin azz…
Judging by your comments, you are some hood *****ody. What else is there to offer bird brain?
Dumb *****…..
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LMAO@the fact you have to ask
why did you ever open your mouth and expose your bird brain i cant figure….
Damn John you have some deep rooted issues. And since you guys are better than hood blacks, why are your parents hanging with them?
@Pedro,
Yes, big up to south east london. I was in central, Kingscross, Isligton. Right on the border of Camden. I prefer the US though. UK is just dirty, cold and grey. If you ever been outside of London it just gets worse.
Ladies, I think John is having a venting moment. . .
Relax, Relate, Release. . .Relax, Relate, Release. . .
Engrish Teecher
*Thinking you’re better than everyone doesn’t make it so.*
You’re not exactly exempted from that sin either, my dear. Your constant haranguing in regards to others mis-spellings and grammar, borders on the obnoxious. Just saying.
I’m just expressing my views…Hopefully this will rub off on some of you.
Get under my skin….This is the internet..After I am done hear, I am going to wash my ***** and go out for a bite to eat…
S&J
It’s called charity…Who else is going to take care of yall…:)
@John
“After I am done hear, I am going to wash my ***** and go out for a bite to eat…”
Ewwwww!
Obviously she did John, you had to call her out her name. (Sad, sad broad is not her name) and no your views won’t rub off on anybody. Not all blacks think alike, another generalization. Stop making them.
LOL, I’m unclear about what is supposed to rub off on us. . .
@ Purple
Is that your future baby out of wedlock in your photo… Aww..so cute..What’s his name going to be Jaquavious or Jalanesha?
John! Did you just say “*****” on the internet!???
I’m going to wash your mouth out too young man!
No fudgecicle for you tonight after supper either!!!
John, I dont need any charity but I won’t brag about my education, salary and location to prove that to you.
All jokes aside, people should not worry about who others are dating. Why does it matter?
Later…
@Tiray,
Believe it or not I love black women too but they are being brought down by this army of misfits who share their color/gender and nothing else.
John
@ Purple
Is that your future baby out of wedlock in your photo… Aww..so cute..What’s his name going to be Jaquavious or Jalanesha?
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No actually john thats a picture of a fetus at 7 weeks from the Black genocide website..care for the url?
Kigali! I like you! You seem like a nice young lady!
My boy, John, he is kind of slow, but if you would be so kind, I don’t think anyone has asked him to prom. Will you be his date??? I will buy your dress! I know you said you are not fat and don’t wear weaves and I think that is just splendid!!!
John
I’m just expressing my views…Hopefully this will rub off on some of you.
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…and there lies the true value of this forum; others may elect to learn from you as long as you show the willingness to learn from them.
@Queit Depseration,
You know? this *****hole thinks he is the only one with a spell check.
No kids here Johnjalina incase ur wondering….
Wow. . .
Um, what exactly was that?
@ Kigali
Oh Kings Cross Yeah the Victoria line train from Brixton goes there b , London is just soooo grey and dull ,But the most interesting thing I found about London was the number of black people , Its like NYC lol
The black guys try to show off how hood they were , and the black girls were rude but sexy .
But thank god I never went out of london
woops…here
Happy Sydney!
Well it was nice conversating with you people….
Have a great day…
Yes, John, it was ni. . .
Um, it was ni. . .
Well, it was an experience conversing with you.
good bye and good riddins to you and your degree John..or should I just address the degree?
I happen to like “CONVERSATE”. It roles off the tongue rather smoothly.
My boy John, the doctors said he wouldn’t be right, but I kept him anyway…
I just want him to have a nice time. He is so bad though. He’s always been a bad child.
LOL @ Quiet Desperation
Wow, this is some thread. . .
He won that degree off a creal box contest. I think it was Fruity Pebbles. We bought a frame for it at Pottery Barn to make him feel good.
It was a lovely frame, though.
John! Do you still have that frame!? Did you clean your room yet, it’s a pig sty!!!
Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
@Tiray,
Believe it or not I love black women too but they are being brought down by this army of misfits who share their color/gender and nothing else
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girl stop lying you dont love black women you are a Shahrazad Ali wannabe thats about it but you have her misconstrued
In time you will come to learn though…..
Ooops! *ROLLS* Would hate to incur the wrath of the spelling/grammar *****, Engrish Teecher.
lol@johns mom
@ john
BTW, you’re holding onto that college degree like it’s the Holy Grail, aren’t you? LOL!
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lol, you would too if that was all you had to offer, college degree trickin azz…
Judging by your comments, you are some hood *****ody. What else is there to offer bird brain?
Dumb *****…..
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what else is there to offer? You mean as a person?
Having a college degree don’t make you “intelligent” and i do have a bachelor but i don’t overlook people who don’t have a college degree! Lots of them can be really smart, ambitious, hard working, nice, generous, devoted, curious, friendly etc… this is what a PERSON can have to offer to other people! Your degree don’t define you and definitely don’t impress me! but good for you!!
I used to watch Judge Judy while John was at summer camp. I always thought she was a nice lady. One that could teach John a thing or two.
OK, and on that note, I think it’s around time for me to make my exit.
What can I say about today? Probably not enough, lol.
Bye, all! Have a great evening.
Quiet Desperation? What kind of a name is that? Is that Dutch?
Spelling is very important! John never could spell very well. He’s 34 and still in high school. That’s why he needs to get going on his social studies homework!
Even though Khloe isn’t the most attractive, if you’ve ever watched their reality show you’d see she a good personality and is very funny. Kim is definitely gorgeous, but she’s also uneducated, vapid, shallow and materialistic. Yet people uphold her like she’s a god, solely based on her looks. She’s a thirty year old woman who tries to act like some teen valley girl princess. If I was a guy I’d take Khloe over her any day.
oops, I meant she has a good personality.
John’s Mom
It’s the title of one of my favorite Family Stand’s songs from their cd Moon over Scorpio. If you ever run across it, I highly recommend it.
*SIGH* I’m going to take my prozac.
I dated an educated black female for a while, what kigali said was actually very true in this instance. I loved that ***** though. You guys shouldn’t hate on swirl. Hello; Obama
@ Sydney
Later b
Oh! Well, Mr. Desperation, I only like Enya and Yanni. The soothing sounds relax me after a long day of listening to John wail while we tie him down for his sponge bath and to give him his shots.
@exotica,
I wish black females were principled enough to judge people based on the content of their character and not the color of the athelete they were dating.
and now he found me and we are happy in love. prop 8 stopped us from jumping the broom bummer
Pedro did you speak to your butt buddy anonymous says today?
I think sydney is a closet freak
TROLL
I think so too.
@Purple,
Shahrazad Ali is a sister in the struggle. She took what I say to another level decades ago. She is ahead of her time and if black females were on a fraction of what she was on almost three decades ago, they wouldnt have the problems they have. If she were so inclined she could have predicted the state of black people today long ago.
@Sydney
Get a life *****! We were cool before but after todays remarks you are non-existent in my book . shrugging shoulders
@Purple,
I would like to know how I have misconstrued her. What does she say and what do I say?
Lastly, call me a wannabe. All I ask is that you encourage enough black females to just listen to her. I dont care if you completely ignore me, just listen to her. She does it so much better. BTW, I never said black females have poor hygiene but she has.
lol Kigali you are a day late as usual with your Shahrazad praise, you should listen to her more and tweak your message accordingly, you could learn a few things. I mean really listen not just hear.
@ corperatecutieshayshay,
Majority of people are Christians so get a life,you must be miserable with your life,go get a dog to love if you can’t love any other human being of a different race.Just because it’s a black blog doesn’t mean you have to hate other race.Please don’t teach your kids to hate.
Hiya all i think kigali is just here to stir up trouble ..dont know why am posting just when am browsing these comments look so unreal that these convos exist. I mean not all people around the world are like this blk or wht (fictional 1sided traits with no dept). People can date who they wish who cares oh i forgot cause they are what u call celebrities? yr somewhat quazi gods pause…In the real world… some people of boths races wont understand interracial dating so may frown as they dont get the attraction being so attracted or secure in their own race blk or wht. Others are more open dating wise others dont see the need. Sterotyping indeed is very bad all these things seem like fictional traits in an i love Ny show or somethng cause to unreal. We can make excuses for why people do what they do, truth is they choose not you, you can have an opionion but its their life, just live yours 100% with care. Love within your own race is indeed beautiful but if you found it somewhere else and yr sure its the real deal, happiness is numero uno. God Bless.
Black women out there:
No need to hate on this one. McCants is a washed up ball player, he probably can’t even get anyone good looking cause he sucks so bad so he had to settle for this ugly w*****. She’s the sloppy seconds of 50 cent’s nuts, and he is on a team that won’t make the NBA playoffs for at least 10 years.
AT Johns mom!
Please dont stop you should be a comedian, I had a rough day and took a break from work to read some Bossip and you just had me cracking up laughing…thankyou!( btw was working at home today)
Is it me or does this broad look like she could be the love child of Chyna (the female wrestler) and Hulk Hogan? She is not cute! Neither is he?
@Kigali
Why do you post such negative things about black women. Its almost like you are obessed with us. Futhermore I think that you are one of the Kardashain sisters in disguise. You are either the ugly one with the broken nose or the nasty whorish one, who wants to have the same effect that Jennifer lopez had on the black community but never will(because she is way to stupid and offensive). No matter what negative things you say about black women you will never stop black men from being attracted to black women.Never!! Futhermore, the Kardashians are not white they look middle eastern and this is why is the white media could care less about them. Think about it… look at all the press Paris (not nicole), Lohen and Britney get for doing absolutely nothing. They are not in that same category and never will be. Besides Khole is busted and any black man she dates she takes down his stock.
He looks gay!! She might want to have that investigated.
who cares about McCants. His team sucks and is one of the worst in the league along with the Thunder, and the LA clippers. Kloe has a very nasty attitude and always stirs up trouble.
Black women shouldn’t get riled up over a sub par athlete on one of the worst Rosters of the NBA.
Oshie
@Sydney
Get a life *****! We were cool before but after todays remarks you are non-existent in my book . shrugging shoulders
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I can see my work here is done! Bwahahahahahahaaaaaaaa!
I wish black females were principled enough to judge people based on the content of their character and not the color of the athelete they were dating
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This is the pot calling the kettle black!! kigali belittles black women on a regualar basis by making generalizing rants about them. She does not know these women personally that she criticizes. She is full of hatred and animosity towards black women that she does not even know.
She blogs on this site to vent, like a lot of people. She is very angry inside and full of bitterness. Of course she won’t divulge how she feels about black women in a public setting. She will look like an *****hol*. People who are mean spirited like her will smile and be polite while secretly loathing someone on the inside. She is fake, and a hypocrite. Kigali is all about pretense.
Some of the ugliest people are usually the first to call others ugly, I mean mirror breaking ugly, I mean don’t look too long or you will vomit ugly, I mean camera breaking-melting ugly.
I really mean gargoyle mated with a hippo product ugly.
To me the Kardashians are meaningless but I wouldn’t waste my time attacking their looks.
who is in here?
hey
@DAYWALKER
wut’s up bro? what’s good dawg?
Daywalker, Daywalker
@ Gymo
I agree. Ugly people are always the first to call another one ugly. I knew a woman who had a disfigured face and was always calling others ugly. I guess she knew what she was and didn’t have anything else to lose.
Pretty people are more skeptical because of karma. Beauty fades. you can lose your beauty by mid 30’s if you don’t watch it.
I knew a girl who was strikingly beautiful and some girls were jealous and sliced her face. A surgeon corrected it years later.
Only a selected few stay beautiful past the age of 45 without plastic surgery.
Karma is a *****.
Your children can be ugly as well.
Damn MAn.
its just me and you. We better off going back to the other room.
khloe might want to do something about her mid section. It is not a good look. I doubt if McCants would date a black woman with this kind of body type.
***** these w*****s. And McCants is a *****ody.lol
I bet almost every rich Black man is laughing at him dating China the wrestler…ahahaha
@*****SPLEASE
“khloe might want to do something about her mid section. It is not a good look. I doubt if McCants would date a black woman with this kind of body type”
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A large percentage of women have this “body type.”
While black females have alway been by history…why hate on the swirl?
If 2 people make each other happy, that should be the bottem line.
We love Barak Obama and he is a product of a black man and white women coming together…don’t hate.
Peace… Rob
Correction…it should have read my…not by..history.
While black females have alway been “my” history
Peace…Rob
Not all ARMENIANS are white. They’re some Armenians I have met who are not white and would never cl*****ify themselves as white. The Kardashians are HALF Armenian, but they are exotic.
*****es stop hating on the kardashians…im pretty sure they look betta den ya black *****es!!
As a black women I personally no longer feel any anger towards black men for dating white chicks. I have always seen nothing wrong with mixed dating, for myself or anyone else. I used to be very hurt because I think the way black men do it so often, it just didn’t look right because it gave the impression to whites and latinos that there is something wrong with black women. But now that it is so common, and I see it so much, I learned something very funny. After working in the media for 7 years, and meeting tons of white girls with black husbands and boyfriends, I realized that black men abandon them, just like they do with sisters, they don’t pay child support, just like they do with sisters, and in most cases they are living off of the woman and driving her car, just like they always do. So at the end of the day, I realized that there is NOTHING to be jealous of, just because he is with her, doesn’t mean he isn’t dishing out the same ghetto mess he would with a sister. That’s why I am happy dating white and latin men, the white girls can have that headache.
who gives a ***** who dates who its 09 get over it and get laid before the world ends….or your world ends meaning you die!!! life too short to sweat what others are doing..
@Kigali
“My expiriences with black females is that more often than not, they have bad, combative, argumentative attitudes. There is the popularity of the weave/wig hair style that I personally find unattractive and a testament to the fact that black females actually dont think much of their natural looks. Too many of them have allowed their weight to get out of control. I dont feel that they value marriage and traditional family which has over the past few decades damaged the black community. Those are my expiriences with black females and many black men and woman of courage feel the same as me. Unfortunately, we arent allowed to voice our opinions without meeting threats of violence and/or denial.”
I find this interesting that every negative stereotype about women, happens to be attributed every Black women, especially since I am around both Black and non-Black women EVERYDAY and see how women from many races are not only combative, but jealous as a whole. Yet, despite the Michelle’s, Oprah’s, Beyonce, Vanessa Williams, Halle’s, Maya Angelou, Toni Morrison’s, and Alice Walker’s, we are all put into the same box as the uneducated, head twisting, smart aXX, having kids out of wed lock, non-supporting image that the media bombards us with.
You need to pay attention, there are countless educated Black women, like myself, who are educated, have natural hair, who are single. Can you say Conde Rice? Also, some Black women actually wear weaves for fashion; you know the way that many non-Black celebrities do, helX Jessica Simpson has a line, yet people like you continue to attribute any thing fake or bad to Black women. You say we are combative, well maybe it has something to do with raising kids that no one wants or cares about, or the men of our race choosing any unattractive women that is not Black to marry, and having to work twice as hard in all aspects of our life; including relationships with Black men, who we many of us love despite their jail record, kids out of wedlock, and everything else that I see other countless Black women deal with to maintain their relationships.
You also said that we allow our weight to get out of control; you need to ask yourself which race is infamous for anorexia, and then do your math on that issue. Also, as far as valuing family goes, it depends on your social cl***** and upbringing. But if a man will not date let alone marry you because he is not attracted to you because you are Black, how can you start a family. Also, since Black women are so effed up, I would like you to explain all the non-Black kids born out of wedlock, Kim on Atlanta Housewives, Kim Kardashian’s sex tape, Britney Spears showing her vagXXX more than once, and countless non-Black women who leave their rich Black man and take half, if not more of their fortune, can you say Strahan? You need to wake up! People are people, don’t call me combative as a Black woman unless you consider Hillary Clinton to be combative as a White women, I mean after all she promotes equality for women and is disliked and seen as combative by many non-Black men for it, but as a White women she is held to a different standard.
And you know that it is true. If Beyonce did one thing that Britney Spears did when she was hurt and being rebellious, she would be CONDEMNED FOREVER, as I mentioned in my other post. Also, by portraying non-Black women as submissive, you are insulting them, by speaking about them as if they are trained robots! Open a book, better yet, open your eyes.
@ STACY D!
LOL!! GREAT! tHAT’S WHAT I’VE ALWAYS SAID!
If black women don’t like how we do things, and by the looks of it, we won’t change anytime soon! LOL!
Hell, don’t date us anymore!
(sitting by, waiting for us to change will ,make you bitter and on the verge of a mental breakdown!
There are SO many other choices!
think
troll and jus my opinion are the same person , grow up and stop playing games , why play games on a gossip site that is so gay and wtf? how can you copy and paste what a some blogger said another day > i seems you are the one who is gay you talk it about it enough> grow up and stop playing games on a blog site!
Tiredofebs!!
All of the white women that you have named are doing well!(so it’s kinda wrong to name them)
Britney,with all her insanity,was STILL makng $700.000 a month.
YOU AS BLACK WOMEN DON’T HAVE THAT LUXURY!
When you leave the house, you have to be PERFECT!People are watching your EVERY MOVE,ESPECIALLY WITH THIS NEW ADMINISRATION!
Whites are going come at you with both barrels!
YES, I ADMIT!
There IS a concerted effort to DESTROY the black woman!
I look at your post. And everything that you stated with an explanation on why whites are just the same!(THEY AREN’T THE SAME! THE WORLD IS PULLING FOR WHITES TO WIN!…YOU DON’T HAVE THAT LUXURY!)
Yes, black women need to watch their health..HOW CAN YOU ARGUE THAT?
Black women are combative!
(sometimes they should be, but when the cards are stacked against you, approach all situations with caution…….!
NO MORE TIME FOR FAKE EGOS,OR EXCUSES!
PEOPLE ARE WATCHING!
think
@all black women
…here are the secrets that you’ve always wanted to know about a successful black man and his desires….1. he does not have to settle….which means that black women have to evolve and make themselves more desirable….
…..2. Being thick is ok, but there is a LIMIT and you must start to adhere to a healthy lifestyle….which means that it would behoove you to join a fitness club and eat healthy, because successful black men truly care about their appearance…..Fitness centers are truly one of the best places to meet us….we are just waiting to show you how to do a properly “bent over row” that’s actually an exercise and not a sex move!!…..
….3. work on cutting out the unnecessary drama in the relationship….no matter how successful you are in your education or career, all men want to be catered to, and a successful black man expects it and does not have to settle….if you don’t have an extensive education, be working on it!!…..
….4. a successful black man is not always the cat in the corner of the hottest club making it rain…..that guy is either slanging for a short period of time until he gets locked up, or gets killed, while putting your future at risk in the process, if you’re rolling with him (and he’s got 15 more just like you that he calls “Chicken-head!)…..that cat may also be an entertainer who will use you like yesterdays laundry (that’s probably ok with half of you though)…..
….4. take an interest in your own personal development, which means that if you are in school trying to better yourself, chances are that 99% of the black men there are on the same path….successful black men don’t just fall out of trees….it’s just that they are in places that help contribute to their success, and that’s not always in clubs making it rain…..
….5. once you find your catch, don’t smother him to death….extreme jealousy will push him away a lot faster….Also, expect that when you first hook up, that you may probably be stealing him away from someone else who might be treating him like sh*t, or who does not have any ambition regarding their future….expect the early secrets to be his transition to you, if you are truly handling your business….of course he is going to lie at first….no one with any common sense will be willing to jump head first from a frying pan into a skillet…..
….6. stop blaming other races for the inadequacies in your game….a successful black man often times just wants to be *****ociated with something positive….
….7. a successful black man is not going to leave negative surroundings to better himself, only to go back to negative surroundings to find his mate….i said that to say this….if you are having problems finding a successful black man and are blaming women of other races from stealing all of the good black men, then chances are that you are not living a healthy lifestyle (diet, fitness club), pursuing avenues to improve your individual development (college, trade school), going to the library to find your choices of literary art….
….8. immaculate hygiene is a big issue with ALL successful men, black, white, green, blue….in France i once met a good looking white women who picked me up in a bar and she had terrible hygiene….got the f*ck out of that backseat fast!!!!
….9. all successful black men are not gay….if you give off a vibe to him that you are suspicious of his manhood within the first encounter, because maybe he has on an outfit from Banana Republic, he will suddenly remember why he prefers to date women outside of his race….
….10. open your horizons and be more open to new things, because successful black men are successful because they think outside of the box….some black women are very spontaneous and smart, but like some backward thinking black men, some black women feel as though they need to conform with society’s label and interpretation of BLACKNESS, just to be accepted by their OWN race!!!!!!! Now if that’s not f*cking irony!!!!
….lastly, this is not a condemnation of all black women, i’m just throwing a bone to the ones who need it….the ones who are constantly asking themselves WHY!!!!
@ Tiray,
That’s just it: People have always watched. From centuries ago, when they noticed that certain Black slaves were strong and were sent to “horrible” plantations to be broken till today when Black celebrities like Beyonce are watched and can not do one thing that Britney Spears did when she was hurting and be “allowed to come back”. So I do not think it was wrong to name any of the non-Black women because they are making money (so are ***** stars). I used them as an example of how no matter what a non-Black women does (show her vagina, make a sex tape, sleep or marry men for money) it is okay, as you yourself have admitted, we do not have that luxury.
Also, I do believe that people are people, we may be different as individuals, but we all make mistakes and are not perfect. However, I just dislike when someone, such as the person that I replied to, *****ociates flaws of women from all races onto Black women, especially when they have countless examples of how wrong they are for doing so.
Also, I do not make excuses. Any successes or failures that I have experienced in my life, I have brought upon myself (I do not attribute them to “the man”). But I will not pretend that I did not or still don’t experience racism, because Obama is president, or because it sounds negative )however this is why I won’t dwell on it, make me bitter or stop me from achieving any of the goals that I set for myself. And I am not buying into any new propraganda that we have to watch ourselves, TRUST ME, we know that we are held to a different standard and have ALWAYS had to watch ourselves! When was the last time you heard of a non-Black man being shot down, or fired for “being aggressive”. With that being said, I would like to express my appreciation for your acknowledging that we do not have certain luxuries that non-Black women have.
I don’t care because his as! is ugly anyway so she can have that one. But Reggie I be Dam@ he know he fine, I don’t think it will last with him and Kim though she looks like she get’s on his nerves at times. LOL!
Who cares who he or she dates.
I’ll probably marry outside of the race too.
because successful black men truly care about their appearance….
—————————————————————————————————–tell that to Jazze phae and Rodney jerkins. They went way over their limit of food intake. They certainly didn’t care about their appearance while they were loading up on calories.
I am begging white girls to ***** up every ghetto hood rat brother they can find, you will be doing the sisters a favor. I’m with Halle girls, smarten up and forget about these whack ***** dead beat serial dads that are supposed to be the head of our “families”…yeah right. Learn from Halle girls. Be open to the white dudes, sure they make mistakes like everyone else, but you won’t have to be begging a white man for pampers, milk money , or a place to lay your head, they don’t usually abandon their responsiblities like black men do with such style. He takes care of his own, unlike our supposed “kings”, if your with a brother, get a real one, if you can’t find one, look into white dudes and latinos..trust me on this..you will get over the racial difference when you don’t have to pay for your own movie tickets and dinners when you go out, or worry about the prices on the menu because a brother can’t spend $19.99 on shrimp *****tail but willl put thousands into his wheels & rims. NEXT!
Bossip,
*****ody cares about these nasty w*****s and the typical n******* they date. My resolution for 2009 is to leave your tired bu!!$#!+ alone. Lets move the party over to MTO!
@TIREDOFTHEEBS
I also see like problems with the black male!
Why must the successful black man TAUNT one another? i.e. ~ football players,rappers,and even in the jobs that we hold in our office building.s!
We have a problem that i don’t think CAN be solved!
I like to call it (CULTURAL RETARDATION)…meaning, we have been on the other side of the tracks for so long, that we are “institutionalized” in our SERVITUDE!
Examples:
THE STRONG BLACK WOMAN!
DOESN’T TAKE (*****) from anyone,and will curse you out at a moments notice!
BEATING OUR CHILDREN
Beating our kids has kept them mentally retarded in terms of who THEY THINK THE BOSS IS! They are BEAT INTO SUBMISSION at an early age! SMH!
BLACKS THAT REVERT BACK TO SLAVERY TO EXPLAIN WHY WE ARE:
Slavery is OVER….EVOLVE!
Until we can admit our problems, then and only then will we evolve!
PS~ Bossip is not the place for this discussion,our other’s like this!
think
@tiredofebs…
I really like your posts!!
think
@Stacy Dee
Go for it! Let other races see what a prize you are.
@ STACY DEE
YOU DUMB *****ING IDIOT ENOUGH WITH THE GENERALIZATION
@ Stacy Dee
LOL! Too funny!
I don’t see a problem at all, with you guys dating others. I think it’s a good thing!
But i noticed in your post that this “ghetto thing” comes up. Weird,cause i kinda figure, if you look for this type guy(LOL) he will avail himself to you by the droves!
The solution is NOT to look for this type guy!
I’ve said this, time and time again:
BE THE PERSON THAT YOU WANT TO ATTRACT,AND YOU WILL NEVER HAVE ANOTHER PROBLEM.
think
i think they look cute together
@ Some brother must have really hurt you. You carry alot of hate in you, if you want to date other races fine thats cool, but why down all brothers, that’s the part i don’t understand.
@ tiray
cosign 100% with you bruh
Why cry over spoiled milk? Black men should able to date whoever the hell they want. I personally do not care. I find black women in particular who elevate their blood pressure over this tired subject matter.
I’m a black female and have dated outside of my race. Maybe you die hard sistas should be open to venturing to the other side!!
khloe is sexy to me….shes thick and probably treats him like a king.
@tiredofthebs,
Girl, I have read your arguments a million times already by different people. I just cant continue to respond to the same old ***** that you black females throw up as a defense for bull*****. Do you always have to bring up what white women do?
It confuses me when you black females say how you guys are losing by having to be judged by European standards of beauty and beahvior but then bring up the behavior of white women to make yourselves look better. Either you want to be judged by European standards or you dont.
You dont find it a bit self defeating when you name a hand full of successful black women and argue how they are representative of all black women then name a hand full of crazy white women and argue that they represent all white women? Are you so dumb that you cant even keep a consistent line of reasoning even in the same sentence?
“I find this interesting that every negative stereotype about women, happens to be attributed every Black women, especially since I am around both Black and non-Black women EVERYDAY and see how women from many races are not only combative, but jealous as a whole.”
Having read the above, it sounds like you agree that black females are combative and ill tempered but that women of other races are the same. Ok fine but my issue is with black women because I am a black woman, and you have black women here complaining that they are losing their men to other races. So stop worrying about what other women are doing and worry about your own sistahs because in spite of the fact that women of other races are argumentative and are, “combative, but jealous as a whole,” they arent having problems finding men. Black women are.
@Stacy Dee,
Prepare for the demolition.
“I am begging white girls to ***** up every ghetto hood rat brother they can find, you will be doing the sisters a favor.”
The solution isnt for white girls to hook up with ghetto boys its for black girls to STOP hooking up with ghetto boys.
” I’m with Halle girls, smarten up and forget about these whack ***** dead beat serial dads that are supposed to be the head of our “families”…yeah right.”
Are you talking about Halle Berry? Most black females dont look like her. They cant get the same men she can. First, the have to lose weight and lose their funky ***** attitudes then maybe they might be able to get like Halle. Until then no man of any race, no quality black man is going to give them a second look. You cant advise black females to get like Halle until they get to the gym and maybe a therapist to work on their issues with rage.
“Learn from Halle girls.”
Read above.
“Be open to the white dudes, sure they make mistakes like everyone else, but you won’t have to be begging a white man for pampers, milk money , or a place to lay your head, they don’t usually abandon their responsiblities like black men do with such style.”
The problem for black females isnt that they arent giving white dudes a chance. White dudes arent really giving them a chance because they have the same ideas of black females that you have of black males: that black female is fat, has stank attitudes, are baby mommas, are lazy, have poor hygiene, are promiscuous etc.
And the only reason why so many black men dont take proper care of their kids is because black females chose that type of man to make kids with. Instead of talking about dead beat brothers talk about dead beat sisters who cant use their brain cells to pick better dudes.
“He takes care of his own, unlike our supposed “kings”, if your with a brother, get a real one…”
And thats really the issue at hand. Black females have a penchant for hooking up with the worst kind of black men.
“… or worry about the prices on the menu because a brother can’t spend $19.99 on shrimp *****tail but willl put thousands into his wheels & rims.”
I doubt black men would put so much money into their wheels and rims if they didnt attract so many black females.
@*****Splease!!
because successful black men truly care about their appearance….
—————————————————————————————————–tell that to Jazze phae and Rodney jerkins. They went way over their limit of food intake. They certainly didn’t care about their appearance while they were loading up on calories.
……i would like to point out that success is not only measured by your bank account….if you are neglecting your health, it doesn’t matter how much money you have….you won’t be around to spend it…..and most music producers now of days go in and out like hair styles….and only the top echelon are truly commanding serious and consistent paydays….bad *****ogy if you ask me….reach for a brother with a graduate degree….it has staying power……
@all black men
…. That’s all half of you are good for anyway…. Libraries are truly one of the best places to meet us….we are just waiting to show you how to pay your bills on time and manage your responsibilities. But you can’t be too needy. That’s a real turn off.
…1. here are the secrets that you’ve always wanted to know about a successful black woman and her desires….she does not have to settle….which means that black men have to evolve and make themselves more desirable….stop hanging out on corners drinking beer and har*****ing us, calling us “sister” or “ma”, and begging for change.
…..2. Being thick is ok, but there is a LIMIT and you must start to adhere to a healthy lifestyle….which means that it would behoove you to join a fitness club and eat healthy, because successful black women truly care about the appearance of their men regardless of how they look…Making all this money is stressful and sometimes I can’t make it to the gym but you better damn sho be there so you can put in work properly
….3. work on cutting out the unnecessary drama in the relationship….no matter how successful you are in your education or career, all women want to be catered to, and a successful black woman expects it and does not have to settle….if you don’t have an extensive education, be working on it!!…..And nag me or ask me where I’m going, just be happy I’m bringing six figures in the house.
….4. a successful black woman is not always the ho in the corner of the hottest club making it droppin’ it…..that *****t is either looking to give you a disease or to “jam you up”, while putting your future at risk in the process, if you’re rolling with her (and she’s got 15 more just like you that she calls whooped!)…..that cat may also be an entertainer who will use you like yesterdays laundry (that’s probably ok with half of you though)…..
….4. take an interest in your own personal development, which means that if you are in school trying to better yourself, chances are that 99% of the black women there are on the same path….successful black women don’t just fall out of trees….it’s just that they are in places that help contribute to their success, and that’s not always in clubs making droppin it…..
….5. once you find your catch, don’t smother her to death or NAG….extreme jealousy will push her away a lot faster….Also, expect that when you first hook up, that you may probably be stealing her away from something else she’d rather be doing than taking a chance on your needy ***** or gambling that you actually do have a little ambition regarding your future….expect the early secrets to be her transition to you, if you are truly handling your business….of course she is going to lie at first….no one with any common sense will be willing to jump head first from a frying pan into a skillet…..
….6. stop blaming other races for the inadequacies in your game….a successful black woman often times just wants to be *****ociated with something positive….
….7. a successful black woman is not going to leave negative surroundings to better herself, only to go back to negative surroundings to find his mate….i said that to say this….if you are having problems finding a successful black woman and are blaming women of other races from stealing all of the good black men, then chances are that you are not living a healthy lifestyle (diet, fitness club), on drugs, begging women to clean their windows pump their gas, or pursuing avenues to improve your individual development (college, trade school), going to the library to find your choices of literary art….
….8. immaculate hygiene is a big issue with ALL successful women, black, white, green, blue….in France i once met a good looking white boy with a big ***** and f*cked him. (true story, he was a Croat) No questions asked, and I normally give black men a hard time. He sucked my toes. But what can I say, I had so many of ‘em (Europeans) coming at me and being overly nice, running up to me on the street, trying to take me to dinner, kissing me in my mouth and they just met me, and eyeballing me, I felt like I knew what it was like to be a white girl in a room full of black men. I met a few in Switzerland, but overall found the men very smug.
….9. not all successful black women are lesbians….if you give off a vibe to him that you are suspicious of her womanhood within the first encounter, because maybe he has on an outfit from Nike, she will suddenly remember why he prefers to date women outside of his race….
….10. open your horizons and be more open to new things, because successful black women are successful because they think outside of the box….some black women are very spontaneous and smart, but like some backward thinking black men, some black men feel as though they need to conform with society’s label and interpretation of BLACKNESS, just to be accepted by their OWN race!!!!!!! Now if that’s not f*cking irony!!!!
….lastly, this is not a condemnation of all black men, i’m just throwing a bone to the ones who need it….the ones who are constantly asking themselves WHY!!!!
….@…..meko …okay
and may i add if you think you may be bipolar…be that man who seeks therapy and medication
more black men should see therapists
You cant advise black females to get like Halle until they get to the gym and maybe a therapist to work on their issues with rage.
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What a stupid hypocrite. You included need to seek therapy. You are angry, and full of bitterness. I don’t know what drives a black woman to write rants everyday about women who she has never been acquainted with. You should seek therapy instead of venting on bossip. You are one sad, angry, pathetic person.
hmmm, touched a button i see
…..WHY I DONT LIKE TO BE CLOSE TO A WHITEY …What these whiteys need to know….again
and …@ Some Blacks for teaching (the lost ones)
The Whitey
WHITEYS talk about stinky BLACK chicks ….Yet they raped your ancestors and still will ***** a BLACK chick before they accept a BLACK MAN.
Whiteys talk about fat BLACK chicks …Yet THEY inject Fat into their lips and BUTT implants..and they love the soul foods….?????
Talk about how ghetto a BLACk person is but most of them are known to not wash their feet and walk around barefoot. Most will ***** a family member and ***** or kiss their animals in the mouth…
Talk about Black chicks weave but alot of WHITE chicks put hair extensions in their heads .
Talk about BLACK skin (Natural dye)…YET they tan
AND COOK THEIR SKIN LIKE PORK???
Talk about how most BLACKS have AIDS….YET your WHITE chicks are deep throating a BLACK MAN straight swallow…..
Talk about how most blacks smoke CRACK but I dont know too many BLACKS on CRYSTAL METH
Talk about BLACKS SHOOT each other ..yet a WHITEY will CHOP up their whole family.. a WHITE lady just killed her little girl (as before in history) Not to mention yall *****ers hung ppl from trees by the thousands(lynching)
A whitey will talk about how BLACKS dress with thuggery…yet.. they (you) copy our style buying …..Roca Wear, Baby Phat,Sean John…ect not to mention copying the dance moves and singing style
STOP being contradicting and be original…..These are just some of the reasons why I say *****,***** a whitey….Some of you have changed by Baracking your vote ..thanks ..but more change is needed like; if you see a black man or mexican being beat or done unjustly …SPEAK UP…or …Fall Back..Dont HATE me ..HATE yourself !!!!
WWWWHHHHHHAAAAATTTTTTTT!!!!! Truth for YA *****..
…..WHY I DONT LIKE TO BE CLOSE TO A WHITEY …What these whiteys need to know….again
and …@ Some Blacks for teaching (the lost ones)
The Whitey ……
WHITEYS talk about stinky BLACK chicks ….Yet they raped your ancestors and still will ***** a BLACK chick before they accept a BLACK MAN.
Whiteys talk about fat BLACK chicks …Yet THEY inject Fat into their lips and BUTT implants..and they love the soul foods….?????
Talk about how ghetto a BLACk person is but most of them are known to not wash their feet and walk around barefoot. Most will ***** a family member and ***** or kiss their animals in the mouth…
Talk about Black chicks weave but alot of WHITE chicks put hair extensions in their heads .
Talk about BLACK skin (Natural dye)…YET they tan
AND COOK THEIR SKIN LIKE PORK???
Talk about how most BLACKS have AIDS….YET your WHITE chicks are deep throating a BLACK MAN straight swallow…..
Talk about how most blacks smoke CRACK but I dont know too many BLACKS on CRYSTAL METH
Talk about BLACKS SHOOT each other ..yet a WHITEY will CHOP up their whole family.. a WHITE lady just killed her little girl (as before in history) Not to mention yall *****ers hung ppl from trees by the thousands(lynching)…
A whitey will talk about how BLACKS dress with thuggery…yet.. they (you) copy our style buying …..Roca Wear, Baby Phat,Sean John…ect not to mention copying the dance moves and singing style
STOP being contradicting and be original…..These are just some of the reasons why I say *****,***** a whitey….Some of you have changed by Baracking your vote ..thanks ..but more change is needed like; if you see a black man or mexican being beat or done unjustly …SPEAK UP…or …Fall Back..Dont HATE me ..HATE yourself !!!!!
@adiamondcenter…i was at the gym on friday and the hip hop aerobics cl***** was all white, even the teacher…crazee!
God Help Em…i thought one lady was going to get whip lash from jerking so hard, off beat of course
“Learn from Halle girls.”
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Do you know this woman personally. No. She just had a baby with a man whom she is unmarried to. She has not chose the right partners in her past. Her last husband was a sex addict!! She may be successful professionally but her track record is a failure in the relationship aspect.
There is nothing that Halle can teach me in reagrds to relationships.
A woman who has a happy, long lasting, loving marriage would be more knowledgeable about rearing emotionally healthy children. I will incline my ear to a person who has wisdom.
I don’t want to listen to any tips from a 42 year old woman who has a bad track record with men, and has sworn of marriage for ever.
You should seriously get some help. You make up these ideologies as you go along.
@ fierce chilli….they wanna learn from the original KINGS and Queens……God HELP em is right
I am tired of all of the insults on this site about black women. Every black woman is not fat and unhealthy. I work out 7 days a week. I just finished working out. I am physically fit at 5″5 and 123 pounds. I wear a size 4.
Every black woman is not lazy, getting fat and having illigitimate children waiting for welfare. There are a lot of us who work for a iving, eat healthy and take care of our selves.
Some of you walk down the street see a black unnappealing woman who has out of control kids while she is cursing and behaving innappropriately and attribute this kind of behavior to all black women.
Stop making generlizations about race. You don’t know all black women, and this is just ignorant to belittle all of them. A black woman who hates other black women had a bad upbringing and her mother did not show her the right way to behave. Stop feeding into Kigali. This is her sanitation dump site. She comes here to offend. She is full of bitterness towards her mother who obviously did a poor job. If her mother was a good upstanding woman with virtues she would not be looking for an outlet to berate others for her past troubles.
@adiamondcenter
Something was pointed out to me today…
It seems as if some of the Jewish community is concerned that there may be some anti-semetic backlash from the Bernard Madoff $$$ fraud debacle
no longer is the Black community labeled as the only ones that bear the brunt of one individual as a reflection on the entire race as we Blacks (especially Americans) do
times are a changing but we must not forget our past for sure
I refuse to listen to advise from ignorant buffoons. When you have been happily married for over 30 years and have adult children who are drug free, good morals, successful carreers and a kind heart, then you can speak on these kind of topics. Until then save your 5 page rants. I won’t bother to read all of that mess.
…@ Fierce Chilli …4 sho..I was talking to a real nice humble Jew man 2 mos. ago in school he changed my whole outlook and he touched me in such away with his words and faith and…..The Jewish community has suffered as well ,the Native Americans…the typical American European in the past and many today are just evil.. ..pure evil I got white *****ociates and they know how I feel and they dont agree with my tone but they admit the truths and I call them THE FAIR WHITEYS…..
meko
Your advice would be relevant if not for the fact that over 70% of African American woman of legal age to marry, will go to their grave unmarried, or didn’t you know that? You act as if the door of opportunity is constantly being forced open by a plethora of suitors who are lining up to put a ring on the finger of black women. Hate to burst your bubble, but that ain’t the case. Of all the differenct ethic species of female in this country, black women are the least desirable when it come to being walked down the aisle…Now for meaningless one night stands or bootycalls, you’re running neck n’ neck with the other *****es. Ain’t love grand? (Or in y’all case, lust).
@adiamondcenter
Talk about how many black women can’t get husbands but more white women do.
Your world is and illusion. WAKE UP!!
* grabs popcorn, sits back and waits for angry black women to go on a tirade about how useless and self-hating black men are *
* chewing popcorn *
OMG I HAVE A MAJOR PROBLEM WHEN BLACK “ONLY” DATE WHITE WOMEN I MEAN IF YOUR ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE OF A DIFF RACE THEN COOL BUT WHEN YOU TOTALLY SWEAR OFF WOMEN OF YOU OWN RACE I STRONGLY DISSAGREE! AND ANOTHER THING IT SEEMS THE DARKER THE ARE THE LIGHTER THEY GO FOR INSTACNE TAYE DIGGS: WHITE DEREK LUKE: WHITE REGGIE BUSH: WHITE!
Don’t let the one or two crazy negroes with their fat slulty white chick and the wierd white dude using a black woman as a sex toy fool you. They still see the way they did hundreds of years ago and its never going to change.WAKE UP!!!!!!!
i cant knock her & kim’s hustle. and the kardashian’s always put out the pic’s of them & the black guys. all those kim & reggie pic’s come from kim herself, not the media, and when they’re in public the kardashian’s do the extra public display of affection. their mama taught them well, she’s married to olympic runner bruce jenner.
@ Kilagi
Since you are condescending, insulted me by calling me dumb, and most importantly because I am a grown woman do not address me as girl. After reading your response, I understand the subgroup of the Black culture that you fall into: Coons.
You say I’m judging myself by European standards, really I guess being Black and having an afro is European, you really are ignorant! DaXX! Also, do not twist my words to make a point. You obviously did not grasp my point in listing positive Black women in the media and White women who maybe rich, but have made mistakes that were exposed to the public. My point coon, was that despite the positive images of Black women we are still judged by the uneducated, drug addicted, smart aXX, no goal having women that are born and do not make it out of poverty.
Where as despite what the White women I named did, they can still make a comeback, and will still find a Black man that will date them PUBLICLY. Coons are the worst kind of Black people that I have met, even worse than the ghetto ones who are hell bent on being a victim. You have a problem with reality. It disgusts me when Black women like you try to sound so evolved to the extent that they will try to make themselves above the problems in the Black community (that they see everyday). No one is complaining about Black men dating outside of their race. Obviously, we too as Black women love, love, we are talking about Black people in general who date outside of their race because they think a non-Black person is better, even when she or he is a piece of trash.
Also, just you stating that Black women have problems finding men, I see that you are oblivious as to why, and will not waste any more words trying to explain to a coon why, it would take all day.
LASHONDA
BLACK MEN WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE MEN,NOT ALL THE DRAMA AND YELLING. A LADY SHOULD ACT LIKE A LADY. LOOK AT ALL THESE RICH ATHLETES ,THEY CAN HAVE WHOEVER THEY WANT,AND WHO DO THEY CHOOSE TO MARRY AND HAVE KIDS WITH,WHITE AND HISPANIC WOMEN.WE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT THE GROOPIES THESE GUYS USE UP,WERE TALKING ABOUT WOMEN THEY CHOOSE TO MAKE A LIFE WITH. MOST THESE WHITE GIRLS ARE EDUCATED,BEAUTIFUL,AND MOST IMPORTANTLY THEY ACT LIKE A LADY AND LET THE MAN BE THE MAN.YOU MUST ALSO REMEMBER THAT THESE WHITE WOMEN FOR THE MOST PART HAD FATHERS GROWING UP SO THEY KNOW THE ROLE OF THE MAN.MAYBE BLACK WOMEN TAKE SOME OF THEIR RESENTMENT OUT ON OUR BLACK MEN BECAUSE THEY NEVER HAD A FATHER IN THE HOME . TREAT YOUR MAN LIKE AMAN LADIES.STOP THE DRAMA AND LOWER YOUR VOICES
this online because I can get away with it. I am smart enough to know that in the real world, a bad attitude isnt a source of strength, isnt the way black women should behave, and just makes their life harder.
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oh my *****ing god. preach. blk women need 2 read this ***** and take heed. after reading this post. u shouldnt have any trouble wondering why we swirl anymore.
@ lashonda…your post was the best post on this subject everrrrrrrrr. it was witty, simple, yet respectful. i luv women of all races. but each race of women have good and bad traits. 2 bad blk women are known for being loud, common, and bringing brothers down. its sad because theirs good blk women. but not many. 2 be honest, theirs not 2 many good women out there period. THE SAME GOES $ US MEN. not many 2 chose from. thats why we swirl. thats why this whole world swirls. its because when we find sum 1 that we can deal wit and be happy wit; we keep them and hold on. im in a interracial relationship right now. im not gonna let her go because shes only half blk. thats silly. im not gonna pick a blk woman because she blk. im not picking any 1 race of woman to b wit. ii love females and thats that. so i guess because i have blk in me i gotta stay wit a blk woman. thats *****ing retarded and last century. i hope ppl have evolved. i know i have.
@ Lashonda
I completely disagree with your implications about the reasons that Black men marry non-Black women. Here’s why: you said that these women are educated, beautiful, and act like a lady. It’s as if you make these traits synonmous with non-Black women, and I know many like myself who possess all of those traits.
You also said that they know how to let the man be a man, how can you compare them to 70% of women in a group who did not have fathers, and did not witness a healthy and solid relationship between their parents? Yet, many Black women are blamed for that, how about acknowledging that Black men leave these households, or date a non-Black women and treat them like a queen from day one because they feel privileged to be with her.
Lastly, growing up in a predominately Black and Puerto Rican neighborhood, I have seen countless Black women get left for a Puerto Rican neighbor who was just as uneducated and had just as many kids as they did. I would prefer that the Black men just keep it real like the Black men that I know that have honestly confessed that it does not matter what the Black women does, they are just not attracted to her. I don’t agree with their reasoning, and feel that they are victims of self-hate and the media, but I do respect their honesty. They don’t verbally abuse the Black women, they are just not attracted to us and admit it. Sort of like Russell Simmons did when stated when he said that he doesn’t like the Michelle Obama’a, at least he has admitted it.
PLS NOTE: I DO NOT KNOW RUSSELL SIMMONS OR IF HE SAID THAT (But I used his alleged words to give you an example of some of the comments THAT I HEARD DIRECTLY FROM BLACK MEN THAT I KNOW AND HAVE DISCUSSED THESE SUBJECTS WITH)
Lashonda overall, I just want people to acknowledge that there are a lot of men who know we are not loud, ghetto, or uneducated, they just don’t find us attractive, now the hard part, would be getting them to admit it.
@ tiredofthebs
im sorry but its a new day. and just cause ppl r the same race doesnt mean we gotta be 2getha. so i guess i gotta let my girl cause shes not 100% blk. smh. if that isnt a slave mentality idk wtf is. jealousy is definitely a female trait. but blk women have a burning hatred 2 see a blk man happy. especially if said blk man finds love and happiness with another woman of a diff race. see theirs human nature hate and theirs flat out hatred. its human nature 2 get *****ed if u see ya X wit someone else happy. thats natural. but 2 broil with anger because said boyfriend is happier with becky than he was with u. life is wayy 2 short 2 stress this race bull*****. if u find sumbod that makez ya hap E in dis *****ed up world. by all means go 4 it……bye the way. russell simmons didnt really say that in that context, well actually not even in those words.besides if u didnt notice already. kimora is half blk and half asian. so that makes her bi-racial. not just asian. have a blessed day brothas and ssistas(of all races)
Whatever!
Most men swirl because they like mixed women! they like the skin , hair, and that other black women aint ***** mentalit. my husband is mixed and he admits that I was the first black woman he dated that didn’t scream at him, but he liked how i put him in his place without going upside his head! Black men are just color struck! self hate is really scarey!
@ Kigali You said:
“And the only reason why so many black men dont take proper care of their kids is because black females chose that type of man to make kids with. Instead of talking about dead beat brothers talk about dead beat sisters who cant use their brain cells to pick better dudes.”
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Why should the blame be directed solely towards the black women. The black man is just as responsible for the destruction and image of the black community for choosing the wrong type of black women. So therefore your arguement is that we excuse or ignore the negatives of the black man,yet hold and condemn the black women for any and all actions perpetrated by BOTH parties.
Black women do have sins to be held accountable for as all races of women and men. Other races do not hold thier female counterparts soley responsible for the mistake of the m*****es.
We cannot continue to make excuses for our men in making bad decisions ; such as WHO THEY SLEEP with or being responsible fathers, cycleling to prisons..etc. Men , should be allowed to own thier mistakes,and or bad choices. Tough Love!
I am not relinquishing the bad choices of black women ; let thier faults be counted for , on its merit. But please do NOT lay the burdens due to the actions of black mens selfishness/upbringing on all African ancestry women!
@ tonnie….Before marrying my black husband I dated other races,several. …and here I find it very ironic that black men are feverish about black women complaints on swirl. Because most of my objectives dating outside of my race came from BLACK MEN! I often got horrible looks, stared , snickered at, or had very insulting comments such as ” oh she just need some black ***** and she be back”…due to my ambiguous racial visage it was a little easier for me to p***** dating others …but my sister who is much darker than myself and mostly dated outside her race constantly dealt with negative implacations from black men…even to the point where her fiance now white husband was brutally *****ualted by some black men because he responded to thier racial insults ….SO PLEASE DONT GO THERE ABOUT BLACK WOMEN!!
….@ BIG HEAD (lice)…one of my true point above must have been true about you…thanks for reading… Thats all you could come up with…plz I stated facts ……plz try to do the same ……like I said in the above …do something thats not copied from BLACKS do something original…cave creatures
@ BIG HEAD …..ps….and If I was quick to ***** guzzle a BLACK mans nut on the first date and suck his feet like white chicks will…I probably would have a new man every night…but most BLACK chick arent going for that shyte regardless of what you think…. and thats why the BLACK men are quick to bust many nuts in your white girls mouth…..lol dont get mad just learn from me ….I am here to teach
@rachel,
You cant understand that there is a difference between men and women? Women get pregnant so it behooves women to choose the best men they can. Dont get knocked up by Tupac and complain he aint acting like Bill Cosby when the baby comes.
….Whiteys ….Read all my above postings …I am here to teach the nasty whiteys ………just learn and be honest …..If you get mad it must be you that I am speaking of…….
adiamondcenter
You one ignant ***** *****. You talk all this foul ***** about white women being desperate hoes, like black women aren’t desperate. At least most white women have the common sense to practice birth control or get an abortion so they won’t embarr***** their family or have child by some ***** who spends more time incarcerated than employed. Statistically, black women are the biggest irresponsible w*****s in this country. ***** Off!
@tiredofthebs,
If I were you I wouldnt tell the black females in here you where you hair naturally. They will insult you and may even call you nappy headed. Its been my expiriences that women who wear their hair naturally are insulted by black females more than anyone else. Just some advice.
Again, I dont see why you continue to talk about white women. They are apart of the ethnic majority in this country. Those black women you need and completely out of most people’s reality. They cant form the basis of peoples opinions of black women because they are celebreties. And forevery Oprah, Beyounce, Maya Angelou, Michelle Obama, there are a thousand Shaquitah’s making the worst impression on black men and people of other races.
@ rachel…..no 1 is blaming the blk woman 4 *****. my whole point is why even care if we date outside our race. 2 say that blk woman dont say *****ed up things about blk men is a farce. just look @ this website. bossip administration post ***** like this because blk women hate it. all’s im saying is if u dont like blk men, dont like what we r about; then let us go. if u dont want my blk(red) ***** then dont get mad when u see us wit blondie.
This just in. Bill Richardson has just withdrawn his acceptance as Obama’s Secy. of Commerce. He would’ve been the highest ranking Mexican American in Obama’s Cabinet.
the point: every race of men prefer their own women first…then, they experiment with other races. black men like other races of women more than their own. backwards.
black women: get it together and open your minds. stop waiting on black men and date other races of men.
Stop listening to Kigali. She has absolutely nothing informatve to offer, just hatred and bitterness. She is just a girl in college with access to the internet. She lacks knowledge and experience about finding a mate. Why read her trash? It is like going to a community college and seeking the advise of children about your relationships.
@rachel
So well spoken honey! It takes “TWO”. Most black women want the father to stay, but he leaves and moves on to the next best thing while the black woman sucks it up and claim she can do it on our own. I feel that the men on here are puting all the blame on us when it takes two to tango honey. From personal experience my ex told me to stop talking so much, I told him to stop treating me like crap. Black men seem to come into a relationship thinking we aint ***** anyways, and some black women feel the same way.
@Ziggy Stardust
Because a woman hides her *****ty ways by killing her baby makes her better! give me a break! I went to college with white women and they are gold diggers like all other women!
@ rachel…..no 1 is blaming the blk woman 4 *****. my whole point is why even care if we date outside our race. 2 say that blk woman dont say *****ed up things about blk men is a farce. just look @ this website. bossip administration post ***** like this because blk women hate it. all’s im saying is if u dont like blk men, dont like what we r about; then let us go. if u dont want my blk(red) ***** then dont get mad when u see us wit blondie.
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@ Tonnie ….both my sister and I would agree on your point while dating/married outside our race TO BLACK MEN!!
I also noticed we havent nhrought up the subject of highly educated black men who can’t find a man! they have all the wonderful manners any man would love. I see them everyday! why are they single
lol! just playing bout the DL mess
BMW
Did i accused black women of being golddiggers? I accused them of being irresponsible by way of allowing themselves of constantly getting caught up in the cycle of unplanned parenthood with men who aren’t qualified to flip burgers, let alone be fathers.
@ Tonnie
I don’t care who most people date, it just seems that many black men date “other” women because they have a personal dislike for black women. How can you dislike your own race? it makes no sense! I don’t hear asians screaming about they hate they women. Makes no sense!
lmao
Its not new, that’s all he dated in college and he got the gift that keeps on giving, so you sisters not missing anything!!!
Ziggy Stardust
It takes two! how about the men who get caught up in just going around town creating broken homes? why are they not equally responsible? why do you blame it on the woman.
@Ziggy
I just heard that about Richardson — I wonder what happened. . .
@Kigali
“If I were you I wouldnt tell the black females in here you where you hair naturally. They will insult you and may even call you nappy headed. Its been my expiriences that women who wear their hair naturally are insulted by black females more than anyone else. Just some advice.”
LOL, once again, to what are you referring?
Natural hair is beautiful.
I agree it takes two. Women don’t make babies alone. For every unmotivated woman is an unproductive male. Srop labeling everything black and white.
Men don’t abandon their children and take up with someone else because of a bad nasty attitude. Their is something terribly worng with a parent who can leave their children without a vist, phone call or child support. It will leave a woman bitter if she has to raise children alone by herself without the help of a man who promised her that he would be their for her and the child. White women are giving birth out of wedlock as well and are left with all of the baggage.
I would encourage abstinence before marriage. Sex clouds peoples judgement about a person’s true character. You can be well matched in the bedroom and have nothing in common outside of sex. That is how a lot of out of wedlock children are conceived and by the time the child is born it is chaos.
When chosing a mate it is wise to build a friendship WITHOUT SEX. It is a good way to find out someone’s true character. After getting comfortable with one another you begin to let you guard down and then you can be able to detect if they are responsible, kind hearted, sensitive to your needs, respectful and caring. These are qualities that will make a good mate and loving parent.
Wow, this is deep. Now, I know I am going to take a big hit for this one. I am a Black gay male, and I find it amazing how stupid my straight Black brothers are acting. I really can care less about who people choose to date, but it’s sad when all these brothers with money going after third string White women. The first string White women go after first string White men. The White women dating Black men are the ones that can’t measure up to getting a first string White men. The K group is low budget. From filming videos, reality tv drama, and stealing money from the Norwoods is all public knowledge. Whites does not equate to quality. All these athletes should have learned from OJ. He lost his money, mind, and now freedom. When I see Paris Hilton, Ivana Trump, and the rest of the rich *****es settled down with a Black men than I know things have changed. Until than, Black men are getting played. lol
BMW
I put it on the women because they bare the responsibility of childbirth. You can ***** without getting pregnant. It’s called the pill; The Sponge, etc. If any woman is stupid enough to allow a man to go in her without a condom in this day and age, bares sole responsibility if the outcome results in pregnancy.
@anonimiss,
Dont tell Bossipers I have absolutely nothing to say by saying absolutely nothing. I am married sweety unlike most black females of marrying age.
@Mitch,
How ironic that as a gay black man you come in here defending black women when so many of them blame you and your kind for the HIV/Aids epedimic. Choose your allies carefully.
@ beemer
i understand that theirz ppl out there like that. but we r not the only race that deals wit these problems. i think its more of a human nature problem more than individual race thing. i love the blk woman. more than u will ever know. but blk woman tend 2 blame us when i dont think its a blk man or blk woman thing. its more of a human race thing. each individual has his or her own reasons for there hatred. true hatred is organic and manifests from within. i dont judge other relation ships so i shouldnt be judged in my swirl relationships. why blk women think that we deserted them if we get with a white chick? seriously. WE JUST BEING MEN PPL. A PRETTY WOMAN IS A PRETTY WOMAN.
@Sydney,
I have been insulted on Bossip by black females because of my natural hair. Not only do black females hate their natural hair they also hate the natural hair of other black women. Talk about self hate.
@Kigali
You’ve been insulted on here based on your personal description (because I haven’t seen your photo)?
@ Kigali
You don’t have anything informative to offer. You are rude foul mothed and ignorant. You make generilzaions about race and that is ignorant. Being married means nothing. You are in college and have nothing positive to say.
When you have been HAPPILY married for over 40 years and have children who are adults who are successful and happy in their lives then you don’t have anything to offer. just a bunch catty cynicism and unkind remarks about women who you have never been acquainted with.
Go sit the hell down, and prepare for a test like most college kids do. Not sitting on the college computer on gossip sites incensing others.
@BMW,
“Most black women want the father to stay, but he leaves and moves on to the next best thing while the black woman sucks it up and claim she can do it on our own.”
Now you know this isnt true. Because if it were true, dead beat dads wouldnt be able to move on to the next best thing. If black females really really wanted fathers, they would make dead beats pariahs in the community. But they dont. In fact a black female wouldnt think twice about getting pregnant by a man she knows already has kids he doesnt care for.
LOL, what bull*****.
Just a thought, why some people on here are insinuating that latino woman are different from black woman! Now we know its just a self hate issue! Have you ever been to a latino neighbourhood?!!! Ok, just say it, you like the light skin wih the big ***** and the long hair! just admit it! geez!
But you know latina girl PREFER their men though! i can understand, latino are FINE! And they love some black woman too!
Ziggy Stardust
It’s call “Family planning” and It still takes two. we can go in the physcology of sex and how not everyone is going to go down the route of birth control. Women except the man to natuirally help them if they get them pregnant, it’s just common sense and evolution. We can talk about how blacks and whites do view birth control differently.Growing up all the white girls poped the pills and stayed thin, while the black girls blew up like beach ***** when we attempted to do the same. It really just comes down to your values.
@Anonimiss,
If I were saying things you actually agreed with I doubt you’d care about how old I was. Funny though, I think most black women who were married for 40 years with adult children would agree with me on how trife these modern black females are.
So, Kigali, are you in the U.S. or overseas?
I think wite men are really content with their women! lets say its a white country who portray white women as the most desirable woman! If you look at hollywood, they dont really represent others type of woman not even asian that much! So its jut natural that they feel content in being who they are! Black men are just being men but like white men, they think that since all they see is white, then it must be right! I can ensure you that if black women start to be portrayed more oftenly in the media! they will start to think that maybe their women are the best! wether you think its true or not, its just a natural thing! Im sure the arborigens think their women are the best looking too! I know most african men I know, who live in Africa, not in Europe love their woman and would barely marry a white girl! Yo can find some mixedcouple but its NOT common. But if you take a black man raised in Europe all his life there is a lot of chance he is not that much attracted to black women! and this is not an attitude issue, its really just doing what you are exepected to do! Just when blond women are portrayed as the best looking one, most white girl are dying their hair blonde! Its a brainwahing machine! the media! they tell you what to eat, what music you should listen, what brand you should be wearing, what women you should desire , what body type or hair color is the best! I mean, some people can read into that and not fall into that trap but most people cant!
@Sydny,
Im in the US now.
@Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
So it’s by instinct that a woman would want her man to stay with her if she was to have his child! I guess marriage between a man and a woman is also not natural. You seem to think that black “woman” want to be alone with her child. You look down upon most black women, so I don’t see the purpose of this conversation. The problem truely happens in the African American community, because when blacks come from other countries they usually are married. Don’t blame all “blacks”
@Kigali
East Coast or West Coast?
@Christie’s secrets
Excellent point!
Most africans I know have no interest in marrying or even dating women of a different race. They are content with what they have. People are naturally attracted to their own race. In this country it’s the media that sets the beauty standards, and it’s dominated by whites.
This is to everyone on this blog that thinks blk men date non blk women b/c blk women are LOUD AND LOVE TO FIGHT PLEASE SHUT THE ***** UP YOU STUPID DUMB MOTHER*****ERS. I AM SO SICK LITERALLY SICK OF YALL ON THAT SHALL I SAY B U L L S H I T. I mean if that is the case then your screwed and you should probably be alone b/c I have personally seen that trait in allllllllllllll races. Your always complaining about their not being enough good blk men or women around well here is a little bit of advice. Why don’t you try to stop believing that bull***** and realize there are just as many good as there are bad and that the only reason your ending up with *****holes man or woman it’s b/c your picking the same kind of people which has nothing to do with race at all. The true reason people date outside their race is b/c they see beyond color it’s much much deeper than that it’s the true essence character and soul in one another not that one race is better than the other. To all of the idiots who do it for ignorant ***** reasons I suggest you do some soul searching b/c you have some serious issues that need to be addressed. It’s 2009 people if you can’t grow and mature now then you never will. signed UNITED WE RISE
@BMW,
“It really just comes down to your values.”
It certainly does. It begs the question: what kinds of values do black females have. While answering PLEASE dont bring up white women. PLEASE.
@bmw,
you are right! but africa black men are held responsible and have a strong sense of family! You don’t have too many men abandonning their family unles they’re dead! because even when a man accidently impregnate a woman, he has to man up and take care of the baby and eventally marry the girl! I know some think its the woman’s fault but let me tell you that in Africa the pregnancy is the responsability of a man! Women are desired by men and if a man wants a woman and impregnate her then he must marry her! no excuse! Now it starts to change but i think it should stay the same ! If the family has money, they can still plan an abortion!
But there is no father that will allow a man to disrespect his daughter by getting her pregnant and not acknolwedge her and the kid! I tell you, usually, the girl has lots of brothers or cousins and the guy will get his ***** kicked! You don’t bring shame in a family like that! Of course the girl that get pregant can get her ***** kicked too but at the end, the man has to stand up!! Beause in our tradition, the man is the BOSS!
@MRSINTELLIGENT,
“This is to everyone on this blog that thinks blk men date non blk women b/c blk women are LOUD AND LOVE TO FIGHT PLEASE SHUT THE ***** UP YOU STUPID DUMB MOTHER*****ERS. I AM SO SICK LITERALLY SICK OF YALL ON THAT SHALL I SAY B U L L S H I T.”
Youre kinda defeating your own point by cussing and typing in caps.
@BMW,
You must be new to Bossip. Everyone here knows that I am not talking about African black women, I am not even talking about all American black women, just 70% of American black females.
I will believe black females want the fathers of their children in their lives when they begin to make children with men who are suitable fathers. If I want a family for my children, I will make an effort to hold out for the higest quality male. Black females dont do that.
@Sydney,
I am on the West Coast, do you want my address now, social security number, Mothers maiden name?
Actually no one has hurt me bad enough for me to be bitter because I am not. I am the youngest of 5 girls and saw the “beauty” of a black man’s responsibility with my older sisters and friends who all made the mistake of thinking a black man has actual potential to be fathers to their kids. I saw enough growing up of how “honorable” brothers are , you know, they way they keep going to jail, having so many kids to the point they can’t keep a regular job because of child support payments, etc…For those who joke what a prize I am, well I am actually quite a prize. I am attractive, young, with no children and I live in the hottest neighborhood in NYC. I make good money, travel, and live a pretty descent lifestyle. I am happy, and thats because I am realistic about alot of things, including the myth of black men. If black women want to keep pretending that I am the bad guy here and want to defend these fools, then go ahead, you ***** will be alone and he will be with his non black girlfriend and/or wife doing his thing . SO keep chasing the dream of a real brotha.. They are few and far between, for all my sistas that have real one I am happy for you, your lucky, because real black men, with real value and ambition to be more than an athelte or rapper , or full time thug are very hard to find.
Stop acting like I am being so horrible. I have never in my life seen a race of weaker men than I have with black men. Whites, asains, and latinos all can see how disrespectful black men are to us, they see how little they stay loyal to us. Black American men are the only men on the planet who abondon their women and families as much as they do. They are the only ones who hate seeing a life partner next to them that even resembles someone of their own skin color.
Again, not all black men are like this, but the truth is many are, and if it makes you all feel better to act like it ’s not happening then stick with the fantasty if it helps you sleep at night.
My current boyfriend is black and a total sweetheart, if he wants a white chick over me, it will be fine, because there are plenty of fine white boys who want me too. He knows this , he can see this when we walk down the street, he is aware of my appeal to all races, so for him acting like he’s leaving me for a white chick isn’t gonna make me feel threatned or jealous. Stop acting like just because we are black women , we can’t give out hearts to white men who will treat us the way we deserve.
Black women stop making such a big deal over black men. Some of worth dying for, but most aren’t worth *****, be realistic and you’ll be much happier.
@Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
LOL! this whole blog is based comparing white women to blacks. Stop saying “black women” you need to say “some black women”. Why don’t you study the history of blacks in this country and figure out how “we” can solve this issue of self hate. You may linger on the negative and never discover the positive.
@Kigali
“I am on the West Coast, do you want my address now, social security number, Mothers maiden name?”
LOL, no, that’s unnecessary.
By the way, weren’t you “cussing” on this very thread yesterday?
BMW
You’re projecting a sense of responsibility on a section of black men who never had a sense of responsibility or accountability. Plus, you’re making excuses for black women, who for some reason, refuses to use all the over the counter contraceptives at their disposal. Give me a break!
It certainly does. It begs the question: what kinds of values do black females have. While answering PLEASE dont bring up white women. PLEASE.
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This is the kind of rhetoric that I am speaking about. It is ridiculous to speak on every black woman’s values. This is the epitome of ignorance. You can’t speak for an entire race of people. I can’t speak for Mrs. jones values next door to me because she is a black woman. I don’t know her. You can only speak for yourself. Making generlizing statements is for idiots.
Worry about your own short comings before you chastise women who you don’t know. You don’t have clean hands to judge someone else. Worry about your own flaws which are many I might Add. You are mean spirited, full of anger, catty, cynical, rude, loud, ignorant, abusive. and the list goes on. Kigali you can’t critique anyone. You are an angry bitter black woman and I don’t know who is crazy enough to put up with you, let alone marry you. I certainly hope you don’t plan on having children. An angry woman like Kigali will create havoc and permanently damage a child with this kind of mean spirited behavior that she displays on this site. Emotionally damaged people like Kigali should never EVER be parents. You should be on a therapist couch seeking help for your miserable soul.
smh @ this undertow of bull*****…i just want the modern blk woman 2 realize that she’s change for the bad. i mean as much as i like ***** and *****ies. i still think its *****ed how i see blk women shaking they ***** on youtube(even showing their faces) making they coochie pop. i admit that as a man i like seeing that. but they also have lil kids that c the same *****. even little girls doing the same thing. of course theirs other races that do it as well. but 2 be honest we r the front-runners. at least B.E.T. stop showing that *****. its just tons of blk women making them sav es look bad. like i said earlier, i love my blk sisters more than most will ever know.sisters still need 2 realize that its no 1’s fault but yours. that would be like the blk man blaming sistas cause he cant find a job or blame sistas 4 w/e our many plites are. i might seem like a lame 4 saying this. but i think id rather live back in the 60′z or 70′z. even though the 70′z was considered the “free” “peace” “drug” “live free” era. @ least the sistas had the big fros (natural) and had style like a mu*****a. eccentric sistas wit strong minds and great ideas. what happened 2 those blk women. the essence.its not like those sistas didnt have juicy booties and full lips. all that good stuff was still there.they just did other things besides reproduce kids and stay home. im mad im a 80′z baby. we havnt produce anything worthwhile. its just sad that the ppl chose 2 follow jay z and beyonce. smh @ following celebrities. i just hope that obama can help us out 4 these 4 years(@least 4). im sorry but my post is all over the place. cant seem 2 follow the premise and stay on topic… who cares anyway. wtf do i know. just anutha brutha caught up in a (s)whirlwind of race and politics.
@Tonnie
I’m having trouble following your posts. What exactly are you saying?
BTW, I apologize if Bossip has already posted this story, but this is horrible:
NEW ORLEANS — A man who initially told police gunmen kidnapped his 2 1/2-year-old son was arrested Saturday, accused of committing an “extremely hideous” murder because he was ordered to pay child support, Police Superintendent Warren Riley said.
Danny Platt confessed, told police where to find the child’s body and will be booked on a charge of first-degree murder in the death of Ja’ Shawn Powell, Riley said at a news conference.
@ stacy dee
u actually have a point. stacy is right. if u dont want our blk ***** then we should go elsewhere. if thats how u feel. u should let us go. women that dont want us shouldnt care. therefore if we *****ing blk or white its insignificant. if u dont want us then we should find sum 1 who does…..nice post stacey..
Oh, and I still see plenty of sisters with “great ideas” and “strong” minds, but you have to broaden your environment outside of BET and the club on the corner.
Try visiting a bookstore, poetry reading, museum exhibit, independent coffeeshop, cl*****ical/jazz performance, etc., etc.
tony, so your saying you want a black woman wearing an afro!Well, this is something new because lots of brothas hate our natural hair! and will trade us for the loud latina but who has “pretty hair”. Plus, you say black women shake their *****! I agre but don’t you think that the white society who has put the playboy girls on a pedestal,who celebrate sex, black women are just doing what they are expected to do! Men lov sex,men love *****, unfortunately, they are just trying to appeal to you (men)! white men love fit women with big bobs so white grl are lining up on dr’s office to get impants. Its a all SMH world but once again, only black women are blamed!People are claming that they want thick sistas but will call them fat, however, as a slim girl with healthy diet, ONLY black men told me that i should put on 30 to 45 pounds! I mean, some of you just don’t know what you want! Once again, it shouldn’t be that hard! just admit it, you don’t want us!
NEW ORLEANS — A man who initially told police gunmen kidnapped his 2 1/2-year-old son was arrested Saturday, accused of committing an “extremely hideous” murder because he was ordered to pay child support, Police Superintendent Warren Riley said.
Danny Platt confessed, told police where to find the child’s body and will be booked on a charge of first-degree murder in the death of Ja’ Shawn Powell, Riley said at a news conference.
All the more reason why black women must exercise common sense with whom they choose to procreate with…And don’t make excuses because we all know that this *****hole probably displayed all the signs of being unsuitable to be in a relationship, let alone being a father.
@Ziggy
I’m reading the story you just posted, and this is horrible! So depressing. . .This “person” killed his own child!
“He had said he would kill either his wife or his child before he paid child support,” which he recently had been ordered to do, Riley said.
Riley said he did not know the amount of child support and would not describe how the boy was killed, saying the coroner would do that after the autopsy was complete. The coroner’s spokesman did not immediately return a call.
“The mother is in a safe place,” Riley said.
Although he had visiting rights, Platt, 22, of New Orleans, had never visited the boy until he picked him up Friday, Riley said.
Police put out a notice Saturday asking people to look for the boy and saying his father had told them three men with dreadlocks and AK-47 rifles had piled out of an SUV and kidnapped Ja’ Shawn shortly before midnight Friday.
“His story never really added up,” Riley said. “He was a suspect from the very beginning.”
@Ziggy
“All the more reason why black women must exercise common sense with whom they choose to procreate with”
I totally concur with you on this — Obviously, this was a very troubled individual. . .
So sad. . .An innocent child was brutally murdered. . .
ton, you are inconsistent!
First you said that you should be entitled to date who you want, that you are just beng a man and a “pretty girl is a pretty grl”!Now you;re saying that you dating outside of your race because we dont want you!
What we are saying is that the same way some men can point our shortcomings as a whole and generalize all of us black women, the same way we can generalize you as dead beat father, criminal record having etc… Its not that we don’t want you, we want you! that is the whole point of this post!? But just like you dont want a loud unhealthy ugly woman, we don’t want a dead beat father, criminal record having! its not that hard to understand!
please dont remind me of the ***** that goes on here. and please dont speak on the corrupted as police that run a muck this pretty city(*****ing tourist)……anyway i guess in a nutshell im saying that blk women need 2 quit putting down brothers and make things right from within. its easy 2 blame others and make excuses. i guess my point is brothas will always look all over for women and diff types. doesnt mean we luv our blk women any less. just mean we men and love nice looking women. im sorry ppl but beauty doesnt have a color. in fact it doesnt have a face. it’s just beatiful. and women of all races are. so why get mad at blk men 4 being……….well…men.
@Tonnie
“anyway i guess in a nutshell im saying that blk women need 2 quit putting down brothers and make things right from within.”
This goes both ways, wouldn’t you say?
“i guess my point is brothas will always look all over for women and diff types.”
Well, I’ve met and dated black men who have stated (unprompted, I might add) their preference for black women. To each his own.
More about the brother in N.O., by the way:
NEW ORLEANS – A father accused of killing his 2-year-old son in New Orleans over child support apparently owed his estranged wife $4,000.
The boy’s mother, Daniella Powell, said Sunday she didn’t notice anything out of the ordinary when Danny Platt picked up the boy Friday for a weekend visit.
But a few hours later, she says Platt called her and told her that Ja’Shawn Powell had been kidnapped. She says Platt then gave her conflicting stories about how the boy was abducted.
Police say the 22-year-old Platt made up a story about his son being kidnapped and later confessed to the killing. He told authorities where to find the boy’s body Saturday.
@ sydney and christies.
im not making things hard 2 understand. i just tried 2 cover many topics in 1 large post…..i dont get what u r posting. truth b told this ***** happens everywhere.murder,rape,theft,all of it. my whole point is that u cant escape evil. truth is that we have twisted ppl on this planet…i can easily put up a link about some blk woman sticking her son in the microwave. smh @ that *****. now that story was on bossip. how about the other blk lady that that left her 12 year old daughter in charge of 4 other kids ranging from ages of 3months to 9 yrs old. the women *****ing jumped on a plane with her boyfriend on vacation. smh. i think its lame 2 post a story like that when u know thats nothing new. thats life ppl…anyway blk women shouldnt trip when they see blk man wit white women. wtf cares. grow up. how about u sisters and brothers channel that same anger u have 4 swirling 2wards being successful and teaching the young ladies something endearing and worthwhile(and i dont mean shaking ya *****, popping ya coochie,having 3 kids and 4 baby daddies, and blaming blk men 4 being men. we r men. ty
@kigali Do not respond to me any more you are one of the most childish ignorant *****holes out of the bunch and I will not waist my time on a pathetic unintelligent dumnb***** such as yourself. You of all people need to do the most soul searching b/c you are a truely screwed up individual. I do not take anything you say seriously your a JOKE to me hahahaha. With that being said you will no longer get a response from b/c your not worth my time or attention I will only respond to intelligent mature adults something your lacking in. signed Only The Wise Will Go Far In Life
Excuses! LMAO- it’s facts, excuses don’t hold up in court honey. You place the “man” on the back burner like he just donates and leaves!(which is the problem) it takes two to create a child. Two people to sign a birth certificate. you act like white women are queens of the over the counter contraceptives! please!
queen of the abortion i’ll say
@ tony, its alright! I might be wrong but i just saw you putting down sistas by saying that they keep shaking their ***** and don’t have a strong mind anymore and no idea! I don’t know! i guess, you shoud start first! stop putting us down by and expand the scope of women you deal with! by scope i don’t mean “color”, i mean the place you go, you might meet an unexpected kind of woman! just try!
@Tonnie
We’re posting the story today because it’s all over the news TODAY. Whether a woman or man kills a child, it’s an immense tragedy. Why is it “lame” to post it? SMH.
And who exactly is objecting to your dating choice? You’ve posted repeatedly about your relationship on this blog, and I have yet to see anyone approach you with “anger” because there is absolutely no need.
BMW
Excuses! LMAO- it’s facts, excuses don’t hold up in court honey. You place the “man” on the back burner like he just donates and leaves!(which is the problem) it takes two to create a child. Two people to sign a birth certificate. you act like white women are queens of the over the counter contraceptives! please!
Tell that ***** to dead child. In most cases, these children are born into poverty. You can’t squeeze blood from an onion. By your reasoning, it’s more important to maintain the image of the moral highground, than it is to make sure that you can actually take care of the child, let alone making sure that said child will be born into a safe, nurturing environment with a mother and father, as opposed to the latter being absent or gone all together. THINK!
@Tonnie
And I hope you’re following your own advice and being a role model to your fellow brothers.
@Stacy Dee,
Your harangue of black men neglects the fact that the stereotypes of black men propell him in the eyes of non black women. The black man, is strong, virile, edgy, kinda dangerous, and has a big *****. This is what women think of black men. If they are good looking, there is no limit to what they can get. The stereotypes of black women dont make her appealing to anyone, only the lowliest of black men. The image of black women is that they are overwieght, angry, have running loud mouths, and a brood of fatherless children. Dont act as if black females have an advantage over black men when it comes to dating inter-racially. Black men date inter racially twice as much as black females. That number will grow in the coming years. For black females it will stay the same or even get less and less.
“I saw enough growing up of how “honorable” brothers are , you know, they way they keep going to jail, having so many kids to the point they can’t keep a regular job because of child support payments, etc…”
And you should have also seen how honorable black females were when in spite of the fact that these black men kept going to jail, there was always some black females around to open her legs from them. Dont get it twisted.
“Whites, asains, and latinos all can see how disrespectful black men are to us, they see how little they stay loyal to us.”
What does the white, Asian or Latino see when he is looking at the modern black female? I know for sure the Asian sees her as a shrew who comes into his store loud as hell, cussing, and being rude while her kids are running riot. Its a good thing the white man lives and works so far away.
LOL at obama helping out you guys please half of you morons are a lost cause aint no helping that. signed SELF HATE IS REAL AND THAT’S A DAMN SHAME
@ tony,
are you saying that black men don’t have no responsabilities watsoever and its all the woman;s fault! you say all kind of things about women but don’t see anything wrong with black men because you are just being men!
oh well, im tired!just know this, i have a bachelor in Finance(and i don’t say that to brag but seems like you dont know any educated woman), no kid, nothing! just my job and lot of mentrying to get with me!! so there is alot of women like me! Since you think that men are doing nothing wrong and are just being men! spreading baby like they don’t care either, going to jail like they can’t think normally like everybody else, you can only point women’s flaw!
Oh well, im tired! Its 10 PM here so im done
Have a good day!
@BMW,
“You place the “man” on the back burner like he just donates and leaves!(which is the problem) it takes two to create a child.”
With that in mind maybe females should hold off child bearing until she is married. Men arent going to wife up any type of woman. Women need to be the kind of woman a man would want to keep and be loyal too.
See men are smart in that they arent going to wife these trife hoes, women on the other hand will get impregnated by any type of fool.
@Tonnie please shut up you sound like a truley
truely uneducated fool with that comment I mean have you not seen Girls Gone Wild honey give me a break hahaha see you are just ignorant a self hater at it’s best. signed SELF HATER AT IT’S BEST
HOW YOU CALL A MAN WHO DON’T CARE ABOUT HIS SEED?? This is anti-natural! Ony black men can sleep without knowing were his kis are!! This is really a mystery for me! I swear! I know some men that are so afraid to get a woman pregnant because they know they ain’t ready! and they will check the condom every time during the action! but they know that if a baby ever come, they will have to stand up! What type of man ***** a trifling Ho without wearing a condom! If he thinks she is ho, he has bigger issue at hand which is catching a *****in STD! SO the woman is a ho but a man is just being stupid and a man, he will just *****! please, if she is good enough for you not to wear a condom, then you will have to stand up if you impregnate her! 2 selfish and stupid people caught up! TWO PEOPLE!
now im leaving!
blk womens are queens, beautiful…just wish the modern blk woman have carried over the good traits from previous decades…just seems like the sisters skipped this generation. why brothers have 2 take blame. i have enough 2 deal wit being a blk man. i dont wanna hear u chew me out over the smallest things when i just get home from work. maybe we need 2 talk this out respectively instead of this blk man vs blk women thing. its a shame that brothers are being viewed as race traders because we meet a good women from a diff race. we have 2 wake the ***** up ppl. seem like blk men r just starting 2 get our feet in the door and now we gotta deal wit this *****. bad enough we have 2 deal wit so much *****(blk men) u mean 2 tell me we have 2 deal wit u too? u wanna know why we date outside our race twice as much as u. beacuse of 2 reasons. because we r men and men dont discriminate when it comes 2 sex. even the most racist white slave owner man had 2 stick his vanilla in some chocolate…2nd reason is….well…men and women r built different. women will a ***** a guy 4 many reasons. cars, money, status, materialistic *****. i cant speak 4 every man in this world but i aint gonna refuse a beautiful nice clean woman because she aint the right color. men dont think like women do. its 2 totally diff hustles. i hate 2 use that word but thats all that some ghetto women and men know. but thats the truth. a man will not turn a nice good looking woman down because she dont have a car. that ***** doesnt happen. dont hate the blk man. hate god 4 making it that way. im out.
like those stupid men that get a stripper pregnant?! I mean a *****in joke!
@Tonnie
You say you “love” black women, but you’ve spent hours today criticizing them.
“even the most racist white slave owner man had 2 stick his vanilla in some chocolate”
You know that you’re describing rape, right? Lord have mercy. . .SMH. Please read about your history.
Contrary to popular belief, ignorance is not bliss. Disturbing. . .
Christie’s secrets
if she is good enough for you not to wear a condom, then you will have to stand up if you impregnate her! 2 selfish and stupid people caught up! TWO PEOPLE!
Unfortunately, it doesn’t take two people to give birth to that mistake. And if said sperm donor is uneducated, living below the poverty level (which seems to be the case, a large percentage of the time), maybe you women should place a greater emphasis on protecting yourselves instead of being so concentrated on having the bragging rights to “I SHOWED HIM”.
tonnie,
lol @ black amn skipped this genertion. Let me tell you thatafrican americans are really centuries away form our african brothers you cant even compare! so i would not want to deal with a ignorant and incapable ***** just cause he is black! at last we agree! and stop stereotyping, womendon;t ***** for cars especially not the one that have their own! i think you just dal with too muc hoodrats sorry!
@ christies = pleaSE calm down. im not saying that its a blk womans fault. im saying that it isnt just our fault or yours, its ours. the kid doesnt choose 4 the family 2 split. so if it aint the kids fault. its gotta be the parents. take some *****ing responsibility ppl. ppl = all ppl not just 1 race. _____________________________________________________
@ ms intelligent – yes its spelled with an e. if u read the whole post u would c that i said that other races do it as well. but understand that its magnified 2wice fold in the medias eyes. so calm ya ***** down and relax. its sunday please maaam calm down. my girl is half blk anyway. have a good sunday ppl. god bless sistas and brothas.
@ ziggy
i have never been pregnant cause i take the birth control pill! but once again, the men i deal with will stand up if they get me pregnant! and if they don’t, they will PAY for the abortion! And if i want to keep the baby regardless, then its a different story! Im an african sista and i use to deal with african american men and i just cant ***** with them anymore! they are too irresponsible for me to have sex with them! an african man will always stand up when he do something! Actually, most men will do! except our dear black american dudes!
Ziggy Stardust
You seem to lack the skills to “Learn” and “think” about how we can resolve these issues! you imagine a perfect partnership where man and woman take full responsibilty (you seem to place all the blame on the women) why do you think we have social help programs, because not everyone is going to live up to your standrads. Learn what the problem is and “think” about to fix it. We can talk about this all day.
I still can’t believe that someone on here wrote about the slave owner “sticking his vanilla” in chocolate. . .
I know this is a gossip site overrun by English-challenged cretins, but come on. . .
@Tonnie How blk women treated you is no ones fault but your own it was your poor choice in women. Do not try to place every blk women into your silly category you sound ridiculous especially when I am a blk woman and I am none of what you mentioned so the garbage you speak makes no sense. signed Take responsibility for the choices you make
@Christie’s secrets
Sista, there are intelligent, responsible, “conscious” African American men out there, and you certainly can’t take the posts on here to heart because they are a poor representation of what actually exists.
Really.
@ tonny, its a different story when people split, they are still in charge of the kis! but when a man just disappear fron the face of the earth and you have to sue him for some child support! its really a sad situation! if you can’t have a baby just don’t *****! or put a condom!
@ sydney,
you are right! i just realize i was stereotyping too! sorry about that! lol
@ sydney
wtf. u have 2 be blinded by your own self hatred.. what im saying is that even a MAN that Hated blk ppl, still was attracted to the blk woman. because MEN love women. its that simple. as far as u picking out little snippets from comments and making them mean what u want them 2 mean, go right ahead. i know what i meant. and thats what i meant. if i went by your comments, i would think that u hate blk men. so please b cool. all the ppl in the room have a good day. and i would never bash blk women. but dont dish it if u cant take it.bye maam.lmao @ me hating blk women. well my girl is half blk. hell my great grandma is half blk. my mom is blk. my 2 sisters r blk. u r ignorant and angry and depict evrything good blk woman are striving not 2 be. go sit you angry ***** down and enjoy ya sunday. uno
@Tonnie I know how it’s spelled you moron that’s how I choose to write hahahah spoken like a true idiot.
signed Think before you type
@Sydney,
I agree there are great African American men out there. I just wish black females would give them a chance. I just wish black females would get their personal ***** in order so they can attract them and keep them.
@Tonnie
You’re crazy. If you read about slavery (or even look at a well-made do*****entary), you would know that most of the sexual interaction that occurred between slave owners and slave women was, in fact, rape. Slave women had little choice but to comply with the wishes of their masters. That’s not hatred — That’s history.
And I love black men, but I abhor ignorance.
BMW
You want a solution in a nutshell? Well here it is: LADIES, IF YOU’RE NOT MARRIED AND YOU MEET SOMEONE AND DECIDE TO HAVE PROTECTED OR UNPROTECTED SEX, MAKE SURE ITS’ SEX FOR RECREATION, NOT PROCEATION! THIS ESPECIALLY GOES TO THE *****TARDS WHO DECIDE TO ***** SOMEONE THEY RECENTLY MET AT A CLUB. IT’S 2009! THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS GETTING PREGNANT BY MISTAKE! IF IT HAPPENS, THERE’S THE MORNING AFTER PILL! DON’T MISTAKE A COUPLE OF MULTIPLE HAPPY ENDINGS WITH LOVE, RESULTING IN MARRIAGE, A HOME WITH A WHITE PICKET FENCE AND HAPPILY EVER AFTER. IT’S ALL ABOUT BEING PROACTIVE – IF THAT FAILS, YOU’LL HAVE A 2 – 3 MONTH WINDOW TO REACT AND GET RID OF SAID MISTAKE. LIKE I SAID, IT’S 2009!
Now, BMW, lets’ hear your chicken-***** spin to counter basic common sense.
So Tonnie basically want black women to live by a higher standard than black men cause they’re men. Black men get to (because thier MEN ) have thier cake and eat it too, (cause thier men). Black women on the other hand should be nuns and virgirns while doing all things to appease the black mans taste and desires. While black women are bowing down to black men(you know , cuz thier men) the black man mean while is still hooking up with other races …cause you know cuz thier men!
…and to Tonnie this is proper male to female etiquette cause BLACK MEN ARE JUST BEING MEN! AND BLACK WOMEN SHOULD JUST DEAL WITH IT! What????????
@Christie’s secrets
No problem, sista! You just have to recognize the quality of posters on this blog and not take half these posts seriously.
@Kigali
“I agree there are great African American men out there.”
Well, we agree on something! lol
@Tonnie,
Dont suc*****b to the bullying. First you dont have to preface everything you say by stating that you have this undying devotion to black women. It isnt neccesary. Tell them what kind of woman you want. They have no right to tell you that you are wrong or to make you feel guilty. Thats the problem with black females, instead of changing their behavior they want the world to live with their bull***** and celebrate it. I refuse.
More importantly, dont ever let them bring your mother into this conservation. We all know black men love they mommas. They are trying to use the devotion black men have for their mothers to exact devotion to themselves, eventhough they dont deserve it. Tell them if they were half the woman your mother and grand mother were, then you wouldnt be running into the arms of other women.
Peace.
@rachel,
Why not. Your grandmother and great grandmother grew up in a different generation. They stayed virgins and their men loved them for it. Try it sometimes. Besides black women are too busy to be *****s because they have school, work, church, and shopping. BTW the black man has never asked you to bow to him but since you females walk around threatening anyone who doesnt call you queen and ***** its the black female that wants a slave.
its senseless 2 argue about this. i swear 2 god at this point yall dont even know what we r arguing about. all this over a swirl relationship. who gives a *****. ppl need 2 be more lighthearted. ppl going at each others throats over opinions. thats so silly in itself. its funny how u say that im speaking on my own experiences like its a bad thing. of course i am, as r u. i cant tell u what its like 2 be white, asian, india, latin, etc…but i can tell u what its like 2 date those other races and truth be told each woman was diff in her own way. but each race has its own distinct culture. i can never say that all blk women r loud. i cant say that all of anything is anything becvause i havent experienced everything. i can say that asian women are humble, i can say that when a latin women loves her man she loves her man, i can say that my girl is half blk and half pakistan and shes americanized. her dad and mom r not. i can say that the majority of blk women i dated were not ghetto @ all. in fact most of them didnt have kids at the time when we dated. but 2 say that women arent attracted 2 materialistic ***** is such a lie that it doesnt merit a retort. nothing worse than a person full of ***** in this world. and anywoman that says that she doesnt like nice things, and that she doesnt get attracted 2 men who have nice things is well…….full of *****
if women didnt like nice thinfgs and were not impressed by nice things, dudes wouldnt spend half the money we do spend. hellooooooooooooooo ppl. women get dolled up 2 attract men and look good and represent, and men do the same to impress u. get it. we try 2 attract each other. get it, got it. goood.
@Christie’s secrets
I have to go, but before I leave I want to share a few blog links with you:
Ta-Nehisi Coates, a brother, has an excellent blog on The Atlantic’s site, theatlantic.com.
Also, The Root, theroot.com, features writings from a variety of bloggers, including very intelligent brothers.
Kigali, you are as ignorant as your statistics , cause if you do your research you will find the percentage of black females dating out side her races has incresed in last five years, not decrease yet the % of black men (while always been higher) have remained stagnet .
JUST PEEKIN IN!
Now…..If you guys would spend this much time in the street’s INTERACTing with said people. The (black) world would be a better place!
think
@ Rachel
exactly!
actually, i think our race is the only one where women cannot count on our men! Actually, they don’t have to hold us down, its not their duty! they don’t have to take reponsabilities for the kid they make, its not their duty, they don’t have to hold their family down cause they don’t have to! This why women are overy combative because somehow they had to deal without them! when a child is born out of a not so good situations,he is still there and if you can provide him love, affection and a chance of being a happy human being, why not! I don’t have kids and i wish i can have one! and if i don’t im just gonna do it by myself! I still have my career to take care of first but after 3 to 5 years of hard work, i want a baby! i will do like these white careerwomen freezing their eggs and pay for the perfect donnor!
But of course we also are responsible and like most women, we can act out of desperation but that don’t excuse us! however we are not entitled to making mistakes but our men are! yu know, they are our god so we cant say nothing otherwise, they will date outside their race!
lol @ some of the ***** thats being posted by me. its not about higher standards 4 women over men. im not saying women should be set 2 a higher standard, burt i am saying that women and men are different so we have diff standards 2 uphold 2. and bashing blk men wont help. bashing blk women wont help. but u females gotta be out ya rabid as minds 2 think its th eblk mans fault. if u didnt open ya legs and let him ***** n ya wouldnt be in the sticky situation u in right now. im scared as hell 2 have kids. ill wait til im 30 maybe. right now it seems like kids r being born into poverty and are being left 2 fend 4 themselves in this dog eat dog world. its also funny how this woman is trying to school me on slavery and the whole rape situation. its seems u r so self righteous that u cant comprehend what im saying. i know it was rape. we all know it was rape. im not speaking on the master raping. im explaining 2 u that men r attracted 2 women no matter what color if they r attractive. dammnnnnnnn wtf r u retarded. im speaking on the hateful spiteful racist masters attraction to someone that hefeels isnt worthy. the point is that even tthe most hateful person acknowledges beauty._______________________________
@ kegili—yeah man i know what u r saying. i know i dont have 2 give a disclaimer be 4 i state my opinion. its just funny how they claim 2 be so not the stereotypical blk woman….ie.loud, common, angry as *****, hateful towards blk men. yet they exude exactly what they despise.. like i said earlier. they need 2 channel that hatred they have 2wards blk men and do something 4 the future.——
4 the record all the sisters i have dated have had cl*****. smart educated, well spoken. still didnt work out cause it takes more than just the exterior.
I don’t have kids and i wish i can have one! and *if i don’t im just gonna do it by myself! I still have my career to take care of first but after 3 to 5 years of hard work, i want a baby! i will do like these white careerwomen freezing their eggs and pay for the perfect donnor!*
Good! That way, you’ll be solely responsible for that child instead of forcing fatherhood on someone who wasn’t ready to shoulder that responsibility in the first place.
@ tonny,
some men have nothing else to offer! I can ensure you that i know not so rich men that can bang good looking women cause they know how to talk, they know how to make them laugh, smile, feell good and all! Most of the guy with money i mt has the most disgusting attitude! they were like we have to bent over for him just cause he has money! I’d rather stay with an executive with an average salary who can treat me normally not like im inferior to him! everybody is materialistic at some point but that would only take you so far!
@ rachel —-wonder if u being sarcastic.?
Whew:
I came in here at the right time.. The *****ing coon *****got complaining whining ***** man *****es are in full effect up in here.
Here we go again where another coon is being taken by a trashy white w***** – who clearly knows exactly what she is doing in settling for a *****ing n!gger male – yet it’s the black woman fault that the n!gger male is so *****ing weak that he is the only race of man who truly believes anything is better than his own.. Again – THE ONLY RACE OF MAN! Its *****ing COMICAL how no other race – male and female included – actively seek out other races to fall in love with yet the only dumb*****es on the planet who do so always want another group of people (the black woman) who don’t do it – and are merely blending in with the status quo – to believe its THEIR fault!! Get the hell on with that bull*****!! This is just another example of a self hating, self loathing weak ***** black ***** piece of ***** seeking out that white woman to make him feel better about being the *****ing piece of s***** – even with money – that he is and will always be!!
Khloe is doing nother more than Kim told her manish looking ***** to do!! Kim probably sat her sisters down and told them You will always compete when it comes to a white man – especially with the blondes – however if you get yourself one of these self hating self loating white girl chasing stupid ***** weak *****ing n!ggers and get him to sife you up, you’ll be all set for life!! These white *****es know what’s up and they are using dumb *****ing coons just like this dumb *****ing n!gger monkey right here!!
I hope she picks his monkey ***** clean!!
@ ziggy,
I don’t hve to force *****ody! you too much! lots of men will love me to have their baby i justt did not find the good one yet!
but again, men who have sex without condom know that they will end up having a baby! so it means to me, they are ready !
@Tonnie
I guess you were attempting to address my post in your stream-of-consciousness writing, but I think my point went over your head, which is no surprise. I’m still having trouble deciphering your posts, but I’m taking it one word at a time. . .
Thank heavens for truly well-spoken brothers whose writing reflects their superior grasp of the English language, lol.
LOL, is that SMDH?
OK, now where is Kigali?
cause i know men who are not ready, and trust, they will go to the store to get a condom! TRUST!
And I am comically baffled that there are posters on this blog who truly don’t see that KIGALI is one of the very weak ***** male ***** *****ing n!ggers I referenced in my post above!! I can’t believe people in here can’t see right into the words of yet another one of the bitter angry weak ***** whiney ***** moaning ***** “poor me black male everything is everyone else sfault but mine lets all get along racially when I want a white woman but when I’m in legal trouble I’m gonna bring up race everytime if I think it will get me off” stupid ***** *****ing swamp apes I spoke of above!!
PLEASE stop entertaining this bitter *****ing coon like he is really a black woman!! NO BLACK WOMAN is constantly up in a post putting black women down! PLEASE stop playing into this tar-apes hand!! That’s how n!gger males keep the black woman down!! ***** rolls down hill and as long as the *****ing n!gger boy can make a sista feel bad about herself then it makes his sorry weak ***** feel better about how weak and sorry his *****ing coon ***** is!! And there is no better way to do that than to keep sistas at each others throats!! If we let sorry *****ing n!gger boys like Kigali split us up then we have noone cause we DAMN SURE don’t have the *****ing useless shiftless ***** black male!!! PLEASE stop feeding into that game!!!
lol @ executive wtf average salary? an exec is one a few of a committee. if u willing 2 settle 4 an executive then i would say that u r so detached from reality that u have no idea of business structure. but hey i could be wrong. shhhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit i have been wrong be 4…….anyway its good 2 see that u r willing 2 slum with an executive….correction maaam. we live in a country based on capitol. i mean look at how we worship stars. actors and actresses. athletes and especially rappers. ppl follow jay z and beyonce hanging on every word. thats why shawty in the club shaking her ***** yelling where the money at. 2 say that money isnt important living in a country based on clout and proprietary accounts. capitalism baby. thats the world we live in.
SMDH aka SOY SAUCE
My God, you’re offensive. Why so angry?
lmao @ sydney… that hurts. really.<<<<<licking wounds.
“LOL, is that SMDH?
OK, now where is Kigali?”
Trust me – Kigali’s bitter coon boy ***** doesn’t want any ofthis..
And it’s me!! What’s good? How was your Holidays?? I am getting ready to come back to school in a week but for now I sit here in Alaska enjoying my last few days of school break..
@Tonnie
Hey, your attempt to romanticize the high incidence of rape during slavery hurt me. . .
Really. The below excerpt may be of interest to you, and it has little to do with slave masters finding “beauty” among black women. That was a very poor *****ogy:
“As early as 1660 in Colonial America laws encouraged the “sexual tyranny” of African American slaves by slave owners to enhance owners’ economic and social gain. Slave owners especially victimized African American women; offspring from the rape of African American women slaves by slave owners increased slave populations and owners’ holdings. Moral justification for the sexual oppression and exploitation of African American slaves stemmed from 15th century Christian missionary attitudes that vilified the “sexual appetite” of Africans. Stereotypes about male African American sexual prowess and the sexual promiscuity of female African Americans linger to this day. Until slavery was abolished, African American slaves had no legal recourse for rape. After slavery, the American legal system treated the rape of African American and White women differently; African American women’s sexual *****aults were not taken as seriously.”
Alaska? Hmmmm, i guess that answered my question on why you’re so angry. I would suggests you take a chill pill, but that would probably be misconstrued as being purposely corny.
lmao…i must admit i do type some *****ed up sentences. missing key words and *****. not really important tho. this is a comment section on a gossip web site. i have nothing 2 prove. its fun venting tho. kinda cool in that aspect. ppl just come in vent. but some r taking this so serious that im willing 2 bet that its the same person posting under diff names. which is sad as hell. its not a true male bashing ceremony until shes here.
@ tonnie,
the problem with you is that you don’t know *****! an executive will always earn a lot of mney! He can mak a six figure easy after 3 o 5 years if he i in Finance fo example (Im working in that sector). Not everybody is gonna be a baller or a rapper so what’s your point! tHose people yelling where the money at areprobablyt wana be trip[er wit no education! OKI! Hollwood is not the reality! its a microcosm and not everybdoy is onto that fak *****!obviously you are! maybe your still a kid! Trust, go geT a degree! you wll always HAve more money and stabilty than your fake ***** wannabee rapper or whatever! Pls usually, excutive have education and that is prceless!
*still waiting for Kigali to reappear*
I know a lot of people have strong opinions as to where to lay blame in regards to how many black children are fatherless etc. However since many black women do have out of wedlock children they have to be aware that this will pretty much guarantee they will never find a man to marry them. Most successful, educated men do not want women who come with baggage, plain and simple. If you’re a woman who has three kids by three different men, don’t get *****ed off because you can’t find a good man and all the Reggie Bush’s in this world are with Kim K’s. You have to take responsibility for the decisions you make. Use some common sense, if you’re messing with the thug on the corner and he already has four baby mammas and won’t commit, don’t expect any different when you get knocked up and don’t go blaming white women.
“SMDH aka SOY SAUCE
My God, you’re offensive. Why so angry?”
Cause I can’t *****ing stand bitter***** little weak *****ing black males who always want to blame everyone else for him being the worst *****ing piece of s***** breathing life.. Everytime i come to this board some ignorant***** *****ing coon is up in here bashing the black woman.. WHAT THE ***** IS WRONG WITH YOU SELF HATING *****S!??
You know, the black male is the most racist piece of ***** on the planet in the sense that other races tend to be racist against those who are not like them. The black male isthe only *****ing piece of racist ***** out there bashing his*****ing won while worshipping the very race he probably should be placing some of the blame on for his *****ed up warped sense of thinking and dealing. I am TIRED of listening to and reading about the black male complaining about how he’s being treated when he treats everyone around him like *****!!! Man the ***** up and grow a set of *****ing nuts!! You’re the only race of male and you’ve had it for many many years so to start blaming sistas now for your white woman obsessions is *****ing offensive and this sista istired of it!!! Grow the ***** up and start learning how to TREAT PEOPLE and then maybe you’ll EARN the respect you deserve from your race and society as awhole without having to run to another race of woman to prop up your weak over inflated *****ing egos!!!
And that’s REAL *****ING TALK!!!
damn. im typing way too fast, i hope you get my point!
the problem with you is that you don’t know *****! an executive will always earn a lot of money! He can make a six figure easy after 3 to 5 years if he is in Finance for example (Im working in that sector). Not everybody is gonna be a baller or a rapper so what’s your point! tHose girls yelling where the money at are probably wanna be stripper with no education! OKI! Hollwood is not the reality! its a microcosm and not everybdoy is into that fake *****!obviously you are! maybe your still a kid! Trust, go geT a degree! you wll always HAve more money and stabilty than a fake ***** wannabee rapper or whatever! Plus usually, excutive have education and that is priceless!!
“Alaska? Hmmmm, i guess that answered my question on why you’re so angry. I would suggests you take a chill pill, but that would probably be misconstrued as being purposely corny.”
EXTREMELY CORNY!!!
Run along boy!! The adults are talking!! Go wash Miss Ann’s feet or kiss her ***** or something!!
And that’s REAL *****ING TALK!!!
No, thats’ real insane. Aren’t you afraid of busting a vein while spewing that hateful tripe?
LOL, OK, I think I’m sufficiently convinced that there are some made-up characters on this site. Some of these posts are hyperbolic beyond belief. . .
I guess “Kigali” has left the proverbial building, lol. . .
smh @ this chic. wtf romanticizing? wtf….thats silly…its funny how u the only one that took it that way. smh @ romanticizing. u took what i typed and got a totally diff message. u need 2 learn how 2 decipher with a lil less bitterness in ya heart. cause u seem very angry and bitter 4 w/e reason. personally i dont give a ***** but u should b cool. i was explaining the attraction men have 2wards women in general. a man can hate a women. b ut he still can be attracted 2 her. its carzy what a picture of a swirl couple would do 2 sistas. why do u even give a *****
Run along boy!! The adults are talking!! Go wash Miss Ann’s feet or kiss her ***** or something!!
You call those racist rants of yours “ADULT?”
I work in a bank and i see traders pulling hundreds of thousand of dollars! My objective is to become a broker! cause that is where the money at! no need to shake my ***** to make it!
@Tonnie
The conversation is over your head, so I’m going to excuse myself from it, if you don’t mind. And I didn’t make any comments in opposition to “swirling.” Once again, to each his/her own.
But for you to say that what occurred during slavery is an example of “attraction” that white men had for black women smacks of pure ignorance.
Now I’m sorry that I can’t write in slang and make it clearer for you, but I hope you can comprehend what I wrote.
“Most successful, educated men do not want women who come with baggage, plain and simple. If you’re a woman who has three kids by three different men, don’t get *****ed off because you can’t find a good man and all the Reggie Bush’s in this world are with Kim K’s. You have to take responsibility for the decisions you make.”
You know- you’re so busy spewing your hate against the black woman while worshipping white ***** that your *****ing brain is too clouded to see what your saying here makes no *****ing sense.. SO becuase a black woman has an out of wedlock child that means the black male needs to run off to another race a woman while bashing his own?? If he doesn’t want to deal with a womans kids then he can find awoman without a child to which there are man black woman who fit the bill.. That’s just another *****ing excuse the black male uses to explain away why he is the only race of male who can’t seem to be a part of or an *****ett to his own race so he as run off to try his hand at destroying the morals of another.. Before long there will be many white women with out of wedlock children as the black male populated his seed into another race!! It’s happening in record numbers now.. The very same stats that the black woman faces when she has a child by a black male is the same stats the white woman faces when she has a child by a black male – she will more likely than not raise her child alone while begging the sory ***** n!gger to be in the childs life or atleast help out.. So what does he do then?? Run off to another race of women and start all over again??
Please – come the hell on!!
Christie’s secrets
I work in a bank and i see traders pulling hundreds of thousand of dollars! My objective is to become a broker! cause that is where the money at! no need to shake my ***** to make it!
Well considering this current recession, you may want to rethink your anti stripper resolve. You may need to strip to supplement your income.
and *****ody is worshipping beyonce or jay -z! some people are just fans or totally lost!*****ody is thinking about them when they go home! I personnaly consider them as EXCEPTIONS not models! Most people don’t make money on entertainment! we should look up for different people cause they are some black people doing the damn thing, creating business or climbing the ladder in companies!
@ christie = the problem with u is…wait i fogot 4 a sec. i dont know u. so i cant summarize your experiences and gauge your personality. i have no idea who u r. 2 be honest i just hope everyone have a good sunday and lets not snap on our co-workers and bosses 2morrow. signed u hate me cause u hate yaself…
“*still waiting for Kigali to reappear*”
And you’re gonna KEEP waiting!!
Trust me – Kigali is one of those weak ***** moaning ***** *****ing coons who can’t handle the in your face take the same responsibility you always want the sista to take REAL TALK from a sista like me.. Kigali has no excuse for why the black male is the only race of man who has issues with his women, children and community – yet wants to always blame everyone else who is doing what the ***** they’re supposed to for it..
Kigali is gone boo!! If he comes back I’ll be extremely shocked – but veeeeeeerrrryy ready for his ***** *****!!
lol @ ziggy, trust, in hard time like that companies always invest more on commercial people! a broker is just a salesman! when some people are sellin, other are buyin, we are NEEDED!
Plus, this crisis won’t last!
He’s a homo, and she looks like a dude, so they are perfect for each other
But for you to say that what occurred during slavery is an example of “attraction” that white men had for black women smacks of pure ignorance.
I’ll have you know, that i was very attracted to Sally Hemmings and was the sole architect to bringing slavery to the American s*****s because of my insatiable appetite for dark meat. Tonnie is right on the money!
“You call those racist rants of yours “ADULT?””
What do you call the 600+ posts of black woman bashing that was going on long before I came in here?? Funny – I don’t see you having an issue with those??
I find my posts just as ADULT as all the punk ***** coons in here agreeing with that ignorance found theirs!!
@ ZIGGIE
and if i ever come to strip, i will be just another blackwoman shaking her *****! that will be another argument for you guys to diss us! no thanks!
“And that’s REAL *****ING TALK!!!
No, thats’ real insane. Aren’t you afraid of busting a vein while spewing that hateful tripe?”
UM – my REAL TALK has your monkey ***** shook or you wouldn’t keep responding to it!! I am merely speaking my mind about whiney ***** black males and you are all up in it!! If it doesn’t apply then let it fly!! Don’t get your panties all up in a bunch!! Damn – whose REALLY about to bust a vein now?!?
I guess historical figures have decided to grace us with their presence. . .lol.
“and if i ever come to strip, i will be just another blackwoman shaking her *****! that will be another argument for you guys to diss us! no thanks!”
YOU AINT NEVA LIED!!
Before long that will be another reason the black male is using for why he needs a white woman!!
@ sydney —ty 4 taking the high road….im sorry i had trouble breaking down your comments..i only speak jive mam. sorry once again. it did go over my head. but i think it went over my head because u wanted it too. and if thats your aim, then most likely it will. i think i got what your saying. what u r saying is that executives of companies have low salaries(sic) and u r willing 2 date a low level executive. pretty nice of u. strong sisters like u and the other blk women on this comment section r so right. your superior brain power and foresight scare the hell out of blk men like(hot ghetto mess that speak slang) im glad i found the error of my ways. i tried my best 2 understand. but i guess i aint smart enough..lol @ i aint. i hope u ladies have a good sunday. god bless….
Christie’s secrets
Well instead of looking at it as cannon fodder to demean black women, look at it as a form power. If your pole skills are on point, those same men who come on this board to demean you, will probably be the same men giving you their hard earned money to watch you gyrate, thus paying for your continued education, acquring your degree, getting that lucrative position at your bank, and denying said *****holes, housing and auto loans. The Circle of Life, Indeed!
@Tonnie
I didn’t make any comments about “executives” — I think you’re confusing me with another poster.
My head hurts — Have a good Sunday now.
SMDH aka SOY SAUCE
No, i find your vitriol offputting, but fascinating at the same time.
@Boogs – Umm so you really believe that these white women are with these dumb ***** black men because they love them???? Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
Now, seriously, where did Kigali go?
“i hope ppl have evolved. i know i have.”
YEAH – UNTIL THE BLACK MALE GETS HIS BLACK ***** INTO SOME LEGAL TROUBLE!!!
Watch how quickly he regresses back to race baiting then.. Then its ALL ABOUT RACE, huh?!?!
Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
lol! “All black men love they mothers” ha ha ha ha lol! but you talk so much junk about black women in this site. LMAO! they are also talking about your mother when you talk about black women.
lol..sorry..im jumping posts in dif rooms and trying 2 multitask…anywayyyyyyyyyy… enjoy chewing out sum other dudes. cause 2 be honest i know who i am. so its all in fun. i just hope the next man knows 2 take things lightly.
OK, well, have a good evening, all.
….@ ziggy thank you for giving me your mothers name “*****”…Hey ziggy get that little pink pecker up its so small you pee on ya *****!!!!and then go wash your dirty feet then go make babies with your sister …..Nasty white s***** cave creature …BLACK sista stayed getting raped in history by the honkie man …you know it and you would lick a BLACK ***** quick ….dont lie fool
Sydney
Now, seriously, where did Kigali go?
Why don’t you debate SMDH aka SOY SAUCE, Sydney? Surely, you don’t agree with her racist generalizations, do you? The way you beat up on Tonnie with such ease, certainly you can use that intellect of yours to spank SMDH? That’s of course if you don’t agree, but if you do agree, then never mind.
lol @ smdh — damn why u attacking that line. that was from the heart….dont b like that.
lol@ ziggie
,Im willing to bet that there a lot of girls doing that with the exact same plan! but some get caught up! like for everything, you need to focus and keep your goal in mind but i already have a loan so i guess, i will just stick with it and keep my pride!
BMW
You want a solution in a nutshell? Well here it is: LADIES, IF YOU’RE NOT MARRIED AND YOU MEET SOMEONE AND DECIDE TO HAVE PROTECTED OR UNPROTECTED SEX, MAKE SURE ITS’ SEX FOR RECREATION, NOT PROCEATION! THIS ESPECIALLY GOES TO THE *****TARDS WHO DECIDE TO ***** SOMEONE THEY RECENTLY MET AT A CLUB. IT’S 2009! THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS GETTING PREGNANT BY MISTAKE! IF IT HAPPENS, THERE’S THE MORNING AFTER PILL! DON’T MISTAKE A COUPLE OF MULTIPLE HAPPY ENDINGS WITH LOVE, RESULTING IN MARRIAGE, A HOME WITH A WHITE PICKET FENCE AND HAPPILY EVER AFTER. IT’S ALL ABOUT BEING PROACTIVE – IF THAT FAILS, YOU’LL HAVE A 2 – 3 MONTH WINDOW TO REACT AND GET RID OF SAID MISTAKE. LIKE I SAID, IT’S 2009!
Now, BMW, lets’ hear your chicken-***** spin to counter basic common
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You really are mentally disturbed over this oney! lol! chill out! lol! why don’t you take all that p*****ion you have for people sleeping with no protectin and donate you time to a planned parenthood clinic. Sprinkle some of that stardust on a young lady who may be scared to get on the pill! talk her into it! let the anger go! you can’t stop people from haveing sex! I’m sorry, because in “REALITY” not everyone is going to slip on a rubber, take the pill, get the shot, wear a patch, get sterilized and so forth! get over it. If you can’t sleep at night over this mess make a difference or take some sleeping pills and go lay down your confused somewhere.
I can’t hate on these white women. These guys are the perfect sucker that will allow them some financil stability even when it’s over. I’m bi-racial (mom is white and dad black) and I hear it all the time from my mom and the white women in my family. They know just what to do to get what they want from black men. They talk about how disgusting black men are but that the end justifies the means. The manipulation is incredible, they have it down to a science. When my dad found out that my mom was still seeing her high school sweetheart (white), he was furious but forgave her time and time again until finally my mom asked for a divorce. She got the house (paid for), car, and alimony and her high school sweetheart moved in one week after the divorce was final. Come to find out, he was in on this from the beginning.
@Ziggy
I’m purposely not confronting SMDH because I’m starting to believe my hunch that some of these individuals are the same person.
And I’ve confronted SMDH on more than one occasion.
@Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)
you’re still puting all the blame on the woman! You don’t seem to get it! Why should a man take care of a trif females baby? Why is her laying up with the trick anyways? My own father who is far from perfect told me that if you hang around the dumpster long enough you start to stink!
BMW
LOL! You’ve just named all the excuses that most black women use in order not to use birth control, thus proving my point on how full of ***** you are. You’re not enlightened, you’re worse, you’re an enabler. Now begone, you bore me.
Ziggy, you’re not “Quiet Desperation,” are you?
Sydney
But not with the same zeal, you had with Tonnie. Face it, your prior confrontations with SMDH, was half-hearted, bordering on milquetoast, leaving one to believe that you are in agreement with her, but are too chicken***** to admit it.
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
you hold resent towards black women, it may ot be something you really pay attention to. Your children will never marry another black person either. self hate is a *****!
I will leave it at this I have dated and experiened the good and bad of all relationships. I do mean all and the fact of the matter is we are all alike and share the same traits one in the same indeed. This is not a black thing it’s more like who chooses to express themselves in that manner. I personally have seen white hispanic asian native and so on get loud fight be materialistic and what not so again I will say you speak garbage pure nonsense. Being strong outspoken and intelligent with an E since you *****umed I did not know this already [which by the way I found amusing]has always been intimidating to [some] weak minded blk men and they use that bullish as a excuse to cover up the self hate within themselves.When you truely need to check yourselves to find out who you are instead of pointing the finger at us. Because if you believe that blk women are nothing more then ghetto booty shaking materialistic gold diggers then my brother where do you live and where did you get your facts b/c where I’m from their are plenty of educated well mannered independent blk women that speak their mind and do not need to get loud to get their point across. So again I say you speak nonsense and on top of that your disrespecting your girlfriend who as you stated is half blk. I love my culture my black people and I will not stand for the ignorant things we spew at each other. I get so sick of the hate we throw at each other all the time is it not enough that other races do it then we go right behind them and tear ourselves down even more it’s just sickening. Of all the things our ancestors went through for us we do them no justice by the actions we take towards on e another. With that being said love who you choose I have no problem with it b/c love is not defined by the color of ones skin but it does become a problem when you try to demean your own race inorder to justify your reasoning of doing so. signed MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS WE GOT TO DO BETTER
Sydney
Ziggy, you’re not “Quiet Desperation,” are you?
I’m many things to many people.
lol @ her beating up on me..i dont recall that…i kinda like the fact shes angry. i find this whole thing funny. what distinguishes arguments from discussions is how opinions r expressed. i like 2 discuss not argue. so if sum 1 is over-p*****ionate about there opinion to the point that they become offensive, it becomes entertaining. the ***** she was stressing was so crazy and off base. she took what i said out of context. besides its not like u gonna find resolve in an argument. resolve and common ground only comes thru conversation and communication. instead blk women want anger ridden banter. thats one thing women hate. if she wanna argue. and u stay calm and collective. it makes her crazy.
Interesting, Ziggy. . .
So, I’ll repeat, I’ve conversed with you before, haven’t I?
BTW, my dad is and athlete (basketball player, just retired 2005). He is trying to get back with his wife before my mom. He said that she was the only women he was able to trust. Oh, did I mention she’s black
@Tonnie
I’m not angry — Honestly, I had trouble understanding your posts. . .You’re all over the place.
As for your point about slavery, I obviously didn’t get it — nor do I think I was meant to — so I’m just going to drop it.
i have love 4 all. and i dont hate blk woman. and i dont have any kids yet. i dont think my girl will let me out of my 30′z w/o @ least 1 kid. but i dont think shell last neither. im career minded. but 2 say that i hate blk women is silly. i luv my sisters. sisters just need 2 learn how 2 compliment a brutha instead of compete with him. that aint healthy.
@Ziggy Stardust
you scare me! I’m glad i don’t know you’re crazy *****. I named the different methods of birth control, but sense you lack some sort of common sense?(lack of oxygen when you were born) you can understand what I am trying t say. Birth control failed because you’re here on those blog enlightening me with your stupidity. Go donate time (probably don’t know how to do that) and do us all a favor and learn to speak when you have something important to say.
@Tonnie
I also think you want — and expect — sisters to approach you in anger when, in actuality, I think few would actually care about your dating choices.
And I compliment brothers all the time — I just happen to be most attracted to ones with whom I can actually communicate.
Sydney
Why do you find it so hard not to straddle the line with your true convictions? Take a side. There’s no shame in being militant in your beliefs, even if that means, throwing objectivity out the window. That’s true p*****ion! Stop being a poser.
Say what you will about SMDH, but at least she/it stands by and voice her opinions with little regard on whose toes gets stepped on.
You’re by far the most intelligent person on this blog, but you seem to more intent on compromising your true convictions. Don’t be afraid to let loose. We’re all anonymous and can take it.
bmw u really need 2 stop. idk what u trynna say but i dont like it….as u were mam.
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
I don’t think I attemp to out do my husband. He was tired of most black women when he met me, but I proved him wrong. yes I do talk madd trash to his face, but that’s only when he crosses that line. My father raised me to get married and treat my husband like a king, but never allow him to run you over. My brother is married to a white woman, but he was a color struck fool since we were kids, so he didn’t marry her because he fell in lve with her, he married her because he wanted a white woman. that’s my problem with the whole swirl love, they love the color and not the person.
OK, Ziggy (the “militant” reference gave you away), are you “Quiet Desperation” from yesterday?
@Ziggy
And I’ve “let loose” a lot on this blog, don’t you think? lol
Can a sista take a break?
Oh, I just saw your response, “Ziggy”. . .
“I’m many things to many people.”
Well, I guess that answers that, doesn’t it? lol
@ sydney = women please have a nice day….thats all u do is *****ume. u seem 2 know alot about me. please ***** off….really ***** off..crazy over the top ***** ppl online…and what the ***** can i do wit attention online. how does attention from u online translate 2 happiness. i think u speaking 2 yourself indirectly thru me. if it makes u feel better go right ahead. but once u log off reality gonna hit your ***** like a MACK TRUCK…b cool lady..enjoy ya sunday…damn
^^^ Translation, please?
(Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
lol! have a blessed life brotha!
Sydney, you’ve never let loose. I’m not talking about some Profanity-Laced rant, (but coming from you though, it would by kinda hot) but something with some OOOOMPH! Let a **********a know, this is what and who i am, and not your typical by rote response by way of being politically correct. Let **********as know that you are a FORCE OF NATURE and not the usual “OH, SHE’S SYDNEY. SHE WOULD NEVER COME OUT THE BAG LIKE THAT”.
@ bmw – wowww. thats understandable. but please understand my plite a well. that last comment u made was one of the realest statements ive ever read here. and it didnt come across bitter or spiteful. thanx 4 not insulting me. u right alot of couples dont c the love they c the color. but all couples r not that way. i dont c the color when i look at her. if i was color struck i wouldnt date a half blk half towel head
i would go 4 the gusto….im happy that u and ya hubby have a strong bond thats cool. but as long as u treat that blk man like a king we good. i hope he treats u like a queen in return….thats good karma mam…wish yall well. not sure if marriage is 4 me but if it is i hope its a healthy marriage.
@Ziggy
LOL!
“Sydney, you’ve never let loose. I’m not talking about some Profanity-Laced rant, (but coming from you though, it would by kinda hot) but something with some OOOOMPH!”
LOL, so you want to see “Sapphire,” right?
Let me ponder that for a sec. . .
Nope, not going to fall into that trap, lol!
“@Ziggy
I’m purposely not confronting SMDH because I’m starting to believe my hunch that some of these individuals are the same person.”
And who am I supposed to be now?? Listen: agree or disagree with me – I’M REAL!! I don’t need to be on this ***** making up screenames and playing games.. I speak my mind as SMDH and whoever doesn’t like it can suck outta my *****.. I’m ALL REAL!!!
conglastin
Sydney, why does it have to be a trap? I’m going to let in on something. I was reading that ***** on the Alicia Keys thread, where a few bloggers jumped on you, and it really *****ed me off that you didn’t put them in their place…But what was really telling, was Red Tony’s “WHO WOULD TALK TO SWEET SYDNEY THAT WAY?”. There’s a time to be sweet, and there’s a time to let a **********as know that respect will be paid! Trust me, if I was there, that anonymous, and daywalker would’ve had whats left of their self-esteem stripped away with a furious vengeance. You should’ve let those *****holes have it with both guns blazing. You know you’re capable of it. I’ve seen a little of with Tonnie.
wowwwwwww…u mean they might be doubling up. under 2 diff screen names? omg….rubbs chin..hmmmm
13 years of slavery by solomon northrup
@Ziggy
So you read that? lol
I try to pick and choose my battles, particularly since this is a blog and not real life. Besides, I’ve been called names and so forth on here, and I’ve found that keeping my cool and not responding in kind is the most effective response.
(Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
Trying to be offensive, I do apologize. I’m glad you kept a upbeat mood on the blog, because you did get attacked. I’m glad you love her for who she is and not what she got( skin, silky hair, and all those other European features) My husband was bitter about most black women when he met me. He said that black women were fat, loud, and just annoying, but he still loved us. I proved him wrong, but I guess that’s because I was raised with a father and mother my whole life. My parents are divorced, but my mother always did her duty as a wife and cussed my poor dad out when he acted a fool. I’ve dealt with some losers before I got married. I let out my frustration on them because they were not living up to their potential, but talking someone down doesn’t help the situation either. You seem cool and laid back, but you have to understand that from the time a black girl is born in this world she’s told by just turning on the radio or flipping through a magazine that she aint ***** and she will never be cherished. The same situation for a black man, they are told that they are born criminals and natural athletes! That’s bull*****! I felt cherished because my dad told me I was the “*****z”, but too many black girls and boys are not being told that are “Starz”. yeah, I go off and act like laquieita shankia sometimes, I really think it’s a cultural thing. We are the only race that talks trash about each other, it’s very sad. You seem real cool, I’m glad you kept it cool. I love my husband and I am blessed to have him in my life.
@Ziggy
If you don’t mind me asking, are you male or female? I think I know the answer, but I just want to make sure.
Sydney
You’re right, it is a blog, so why hold back? This is the perfect place to say things that you can’t say in a real life setting. Sometimes, it’s okay to let a **********a know, you’re SYDNEY – THE MOST INTELLIGENT PERSON ON THIS *****, AND RESPECT WILL BE PAID! Think of it as the Matrix by way of Catharsis.
Sydney
@Ziggy
If you don’t mind me asking, are you male or female? I think I know the answer, but I just want to make sure.
Does it matter? Just know, that i’m your biggest fan and admirer. You’re my hero.
LOL @ Ziggy
What you described is so not me — not in real life nor cyber*****e. I’m just expressing my opinions, that’s all.
I also think there are a lot of intelligent people on this blog with whom I thoroughly enjoy conversing on a variety of topics. I really have learned a lot from some of the sisters and brothers who post here.
@ bmw – thats cool….lmao i caught on 2 ya lil comment (silky hair, skin,) 2 be honest she may have some of those features but she still has that negro nose(lmao)…it does bring me joy 2 c strong families together as whole. in the same household. thats a good look 4 our ppl. 2 be honest, society doesnt expect that from us neither. and as far as me staying upbeat goes. i cant let random comments from random ppl bring down my morale..but like i said earlier, its good that u have structure at home. the father play such an intricate role @ home that his absence can lead 2 catastrophic problems. only so much a woman can do w/o the man. likewise 4 the woman as well. just make sure u keep him happy and likewise. sum n tell me u cant cook tho. i have a feeling u cant get down in the kitchen. im just saying
Please don’t post stuff like on here, Ziggy. . .
The last time I got complimented, I got jumped on. . .
LOL! This CAN’T be real! I REALLY think that the BOSSIP staff has people here to attack . (just to start a convo!)
GREAT IDEA~IT WORKS!
I believe this because i’ve never seen this much drama in the people that i meet daily.
I MEET ALOT OF GREAT BLACK WOMEN!
What’s the deal with you guys NOT meeting the correct mate?
Have you guys thought about YOUR choices?
i.e.~ When you look in the gutter……….
think
*post stuff like that*
If you guys date losers…..guess what? It’s your fault!
That’s what i don’t get in all of this!(black man/woman hate!
IF YOU ARE WHO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT, YOU WON’T HAVE PROBLEMS!
Now if you guys can’t see this simple fact……….no amount of name calling will fix thi9ngs….IT’S INTERNAL.
think
Sydney
Please don’t post stuff like on here, Ziggy. . .
The last time I got complimented, I got jumped on. . .
LOL! But the difference is, this time i’m here and **********as will know not to cross that line…Besides, something tells me that the next time if some of these *****holes will try that, it’ll light a fire under your *****, and you’ll put them in their place. Don’t let anyone take away your power, even if it’s on the internet. You’re stronger than that. Trust me.
Good points, Tiray, and I agree.
ziggy – sarcastic
@Ziggy
“Don’t let anyone take away your power, even if it’s on the internet. You’re stronger than that.”
LOL, but I got a “B” in my self-defense cl***** in school because I couldn’t punch or kick with any real “oomph.” And I have a high-pitched voice.
I’m kind of a girly-girl, lol.
But, thanks for the vote of confidence!
Sydney
On the internet, you don’t need brawn. You have something that most people would give their soul for – That Mensa-like intelligence of yours.
when i hear and c ppl talk about color, integration, race relations in this manner..it makes me think dr. king died in vain. i mean in my mind i know he didnt die in vain. but it just seems like our progression has been slowed or even stopped by hateful individual wit cruel intentions. some ppl r afraid 2 evolve. this whole blk white thing is futile in many ways. most scientist believe that in a few centuries, it will only be 1 race of ppl. dont blame me. blame mother nature and that whole evolution thing.
OK, whatever you say, Ziggy, lol.
Let’s change the subject, lol.
So what do you think about the new development with Bill Richardson? Isn’t that something?
I’m hearing that Richardson may have been forced out of the running. . .
I missed Meet the Press today, so I’ll have to catch up on MSNBC.
Sydney
LOL! Mensa gave me away, huh? I think ol’ Bill was asked to fall on the sword because of his indictment over certain campaign donations from questionable sources. With this being so close to the inauguration, I don’t think Obama can take another ethics hit ala the current Blagovich(sp) scandal.
@Tonnie!
LOL@that evolution thing!
BRUTHA!
There will ALWAYS be the black race! Blue black negros,and the blue black girls that love them will be here when all others won’t!
BELIEVE IN THAT: Alpha-beta thing!
think
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
importance of a two parent household! It’s critical to a child’s upbringing! My parents taught me to plan out my life and I did. I graduated from college and married a man who was also well educated and going places. I’m only 26 years old but I was taught from an early age that I was no mans baby moms. hmpppppppp! I hate to hear that word. I did get pregnant before marriage and terminated the pregnancy because I wanted my child to have an involved father. I’m no angel, lol! I’ve done some crazy stuff but I learned from them and moved on. That’s the problem, people don’t learn from stupid mistakes. They keep on acting crazy in each relationship until *****ody is left happy and a child is left without a father. I refused to be a joke! Back to the cooking! lol! NO YOU DIDN’T! My mother, aunts, and grandmother had me slaving on that stove since the age of 6! I learned how to cook country cooking around 13 when we moved down south! Women should know how to cook, also a man so he can take care of himself just in case he got to let the chicken head go. Marriage isn’t easy, and I would highly advise both me and women to make sure you both got good credit and solid plans for the future. Marriage should create babies, wealth, and of course more love! Can your girl cook?
Hence all of this race hatred crap!
We will be here!
Now WHEN WE TRY TO BE LIKE WHITE PEOPLE,IS WHEN WE PERISH!!!
think
@Ziggy
LOL!
Yeah, “Mensa” did give you away. You gushed a little too much, lol.
It was sweet, though. Really. *hugs*
@ BMW!
Would you date a man with bad credit?
@Ziggy
This whole Blago debacle is another headache-inducing mess. . .I think Burris will be in D.C. this week.
I know Reid talked about the whole affair on Meet the Press, so I have to catch up on the latest.
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
Ha ha ha ha! no you didn’t go there! lol! I’m laughing my ***** off right now. Let me tell you something. I’m from the islands honey, and a real woman from the West Indies will put it down in the kitchen and bedroom. My husband is still licking his fingers from the oxtails I cooked today honey! how you think I got this ring on my finger! it wasn’t just from my looks and personality. I all the time, my husband excepts that from me. I can’t begin to explain the importance of a two parent household! It’s critical to a child’s upbringing! My parents thought me to plan out my life and I did. I graduated from college and married a man who was also well educated and going places. I’m only 26 years old but I was taught from an early age that I was no mans baby moms. hmpppppppp! I hate to hear that word. I did get pregnant before marriage and terminated the pregnancy because I wanted my child to have an involved father. I’m no angel, lol! I’ve done some crazy stuff but I learned from them and moved on. That’s the problem, people don’t learn from stupid mistakes. They keep on acting crazy in each relationship until *****ody is left happy and a child is left without a father. I refused to be a joke! Back to the cooking! lol! NO YOU DIDN’T! My mother, aunts, and grandmother had me slaving on that stove since the age of 6! I learned how to cook country cooking around 13 when we moved down south! Women should know how to cook, also a man so he can take care of himself just in case he got to let the chicken head go. Marriage isn’t easy, and I would highly advise both me and women to make sure you both got good credit and solid plans for the future. Marriage should create babies, wealth, and of course more love! Can your girl cook?
u cant cook..u might be a good chick. but i bet u would mess up boiling water.smh
Sydney
Yeah, I have a feeling that between now and the 20th, Obama and his people will be working O.T. in damage control.
How you know I can’t cook? Please present your argument!
hell naw. thats the prob. i told u that shes americanized….cant cook a damn thing. just know how 2 look pretty and shop and read. i admit she does read alot.
i xcant tell the way u type….naaa im just playing..its all good chica…cook them ramen noodles baby. cause if i luv ya ill eat it anyway
So you were “The Keeper” as well? lol!
Yeah, the Obama team has been very busy, indeed. There have certainly been some glitches, but, overall, the transition has been running pretty smoothly.
The girls start school in D.C. tomorrow — So cute!
And I’m very excited about Jan. 20!
Are you going to be in the crowd, or are you going to stay home and have an Inauguration party? I’m thinking about taking that day off. and watching it over some Capt. Morgan.
I knew you was going to say that! you try holding a two year and type at the same time. Grammar goes out the window. A man will not eat anything you throw at him. My husband wont touch the noodles, he wants a meal. lol! looking good is a full time job honey! i work out five days a week. I was fat when my hsuband met me, but he still loved my fat *****. I’m thin now,but I miss the big girl days.
She don’t cook, god bless you! you po thing! you must really like her!
Please, oh please, change your screen name. . .
You know, I haven’t decided yet — My mother is coming into town for just the day, so I’ll probably try to see as much as I can in person, but I’ve discussed the possibility of having an Inauguration party with some friends.
There are so many people coming into town — It’s going to be quite a sight. . .
lol thats igght. she cook sumtimez (tyson chicken nuggets, jenos pizza rolls. plus shes good at ordering things. like delivery.
I’m going to get ready for tomorrow, but it was nice talking with you.
Have a good night, all.
<<<dont date chickenheads so i dont have 2 worry about that. im no genius but if shes dumber than me.. she better look like hillary banks
Yeah, I know. The Washington Branch of the firm I work for will be closed that day, due to the numbers projected to show up. You know security is going to be downright pervasive. If you have a decent widescreen TV, i’d opt for the controlled environment of a nice cozy living room.
ohhhhhhhhhh that is too funny! she good at the frozen meals! lol! I do frozen once in a while. I gotta be extra out of it not to cook.What do you love about her the most?
Good night Syd.
*peeking back in*
Oh, now I’m really going to get it, lol!
Good night, Zig.
the fact that she trusts me. and the fact that she hasnt given me a vd yet
ok u want the PC answer or do u want the real real
And, Zig, please post more often. A brother who writes well is a treasure, indeed.
that was a cold blow. 2 bad i have no idea who the ***** u r. so that makes u insignificant. i would akin your significance 2 the proverbial gum at the bottom of my timbs.
I’m scared to ask! men love women for crazy reasons! my homebody told me he loved his girl because the head was out of this world! I want the Real Real!
yet! lol! you got burnt before? that’s not cute! I get tested every 6 months. My husband is only human you know. Trust is a difficult thing in relationships. Most people break up over money, sex, and my all time favorite is cheating.
SMH. . .
I presume that was directed at me, and that remark has nothing to do with you, or your timbs (or the “vd” reference you just made — Yuck). I just happen to like “Ziggy’s” writing, and I’ve told him that in the past. He is a very good writer.
So, please follow your own advice and relax.
Thank you and good night.
I’m going to go put my son to bed. It was great talking to you. I hope someday we can all find a common ground and love each other. I’m still not into the swirl thang, but whatever makes the sane or crazy happy is alright with me. :O)I wish your relationship the best, I hope she learn how to cook someday.
@Tonnie
They kinda got a history. Her and Marquis are buddy buddy if ya know what I mean.
@ bmw u carzy…na i never been burnt b 4…..thats a crazy question. it was good talking 2 u. but maybe ill tell u the real real when/if u come back. if not sleep well…..no cooking *****
*Sydney and Marquis de Sade buddy buddy*
Kim and Kortney look the best. Khloe look like a tall man
kortney will be something really nice really soon. shes a pretty girl
If you tasted my food you would get on the phone and tell your girl you aint ever coming home! Tell me the real real! you got 5 minutes! i hate being teased!
@Tonnie
Yep she is a pretty girl. You get what I meant?
SMDH aka SOY SAUCE > I just love you for speaking the truth and standing up for yourself. If you notice, these guys don’t respond to our comments because they can’t handle the truth. I have seen my mom countless times stroke my dad’s ego by lying to him and them call her friends or my aunt and complain about how weak he is. Blk men will never allow themselves to see the truth because they couldn’t take it. I have a million stories to tell about the interracial relationships. Yes I am a product of one but the truth is the truth and it’s not pretty. I would never marry a blk man due to what I’ve seen in my family. My mom and her friends all dated, married, had kids by blk athletes or entertainers for one reason only and that’s financial stability. One of my mom’s friend says that she has to throw up everytime they have sex. A few of my mom friends and my aunt were talking about what to do with blk men and I was floored. They talked about getting high so that they could stand the sex. They were laughing about what they say to stroke their ego’s and how the dumb fvcks are so stupid (their words). They often wondered how blk women put up with blk men.
@ deedee
that is really sad, what does your mother think about he black daughter? when she looks at you does she feel ashamed that she would go below her own standrads to live the good life. you should make your mother really happy and marry a black guy, I would love to see the look on her face. Priceless!
why u so demanding. damn mam………..well because she comes from a good family…she always encouraging me 2 do better and be better. when we argue sometimes i just smile. i know she a good woman. she corny as hell. and thats good 4 me. i dont mesh well wit ghetto girls. i tried them when i was a teen. it didnt work.
I was only saying it to say that you prolly took her comment the wrong way about a brotha that can write…You look cute to. lol
lol bmw – yeah im sure its not that bad. why would grown healthy women subject themselves to sleeping with men they hate just 2 get finances? sounds like prostitution 2 me.
@ heiress – why u lol?…….anyway its good..thanx 4 the comp
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
who would do well with a ghetto person? lol! I dated a thug and I all got was a court date and drama. I’m glad to see you really like this chick. I love my husband cause he makes me laugh and we are very open with each other. He is my bestfriend!I’m really out now! goodnight!
One more thang! Khole K look like China thWWF wrestler in the face. everything bout that girl is manly and rough. that dirty mouth don’t make her ugly self look no better.
@ bmw – u better leave talking bout kloe like that…. i still didnt give u the real real
I was just trying to help a brotha out. You welcome.
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
WOMEN WANT A MAN THAT WILL TAKE CARE OF THEM. I would have never married my husband if he was broke. My cousin married a man 20 years her senior because she wanted the good life. that old mans mouth was so foul! when he talked the odor would almost melt your nose off honey. I don’t know how she deals with being with someone so unattractive. it’s the money! many females suffer from greed and men suffer from ***** lust.
helping me out?
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
I’m on my iphone now honey! lol! that chick look like a man! How did her other two sisters come out pretty but she came out looking like china the wrestler twin sister. the girl is supa rough in the da face! I don’t thik they have the same dad. the girl is just too tranny!
The real is you in love. end of story
lol bmw – yeah im sure its not that bad. why would grown healthy women subject themselves to sleeping with men they hate just 2 get finances? sounds like prostitution 2 me.
@Tonnie> Like I said, you can’t handle the truth. You say you’re sure it’s not that bad, well, it’s far worse than you can imagine. I would’nt call it prostitution because prostitutes and their john know exactly what the game is, but the blk men that I speak about really believe that’s it’s all about them and that their women is soooooo in love with them. It’s a game and because you are so damn gullible, you don’t see it. My mom’s friend just introduced her 17 year old daughter to a baller last week and called and told my mom that she’s 100% sure that har daughter will hook him by Spring easy and that he has white pvssy fever.
@Tonnie
You said something like that was a cold blow. I was just telling you that she prolly didnt mean it that way. I been on this site since late 07 and know who are friends.
@deedee
Some black men know exactly what time it is. They just want that white skin at any cost. there is a sucker born everyday. Most men like there ego stroked and you’re in the money. it’s sad how they even pimp they own daughters to get the money! that is cl*****ic!
@Tonnie
Forget I brought it up. Take your hat and show your whole face. You to cute to be hiding. lol
that is really sad, what does your mother think about he black daughter? when she looks at you does she feel ashamed that she would go below her own standrads to live the good life. you should make your mother really happy and marry a black guy, I would love to see the look on her face. Priceless!
@BMW – My mom begs me not to marry a blk man. She tells me that she wants me to lead a normal life because “I’m intelligent and don’t need to follow her path” I’m in grad school right now and she’s right, I’ll never stoop to that level.
BTW, my mom loves me, I know that. We are each others best friend at this point, she did what she felt she had to do and she never has to work again in life if she does’nt have to.
@ bmw …. thats nothing new..robin givens mother did it to a famous baseball player…she raised her daughter 2 do the same thin. and 2gether(mom and daughter) killed mike tyson career. smh.
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@ heiress…ok i gotcha..thanx 4 the comp…
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@bmw naaa the re4al real is anutha story…but thats good enough. u get the idea.
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@ deedee— i was just saying that its mutual..no one forcing these girls 2 date blk men. but yeah i feel ya
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yall r all the same person. im out….this shi is funny as hell. all this blk men bashing dont make yall hugry or thirsty? yall not tired of bashing….anywayyyyy pppllllllllll
I meant, if she does’nt want to.
I’m not kidding, it’s like a business. My aunt had a party last year and invited all of her husband’s baller friends. The catch… This was a setup for her friends and others that paid her to attend. It was unbelievable. She coached the women who paid on how to act and what to say.
@deedee
Don’t you relaize that you are black? that is beyond horrible that your mother thinks so low of black men! imagine how she feels about black woman like yourself? she seemed to have raised you to believe that you are “different” from other blacks, but at the end of the day you are still a black person. I would never stoop so low to marry someone that is not on my level, but for her to be concerned about marrying someone of your own race is almost silly, even comical! How are you going to tell another black person not to marry a other black person? that is so childish! College may make you smarter, but it sure doesn’t give you morals and common sense. That starts from home.
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
lol! ha ha ha ha! i thought the same thing! lol! it sounds like she typing from a script or something like that! something don’t smell right!
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
Tired or thirsty! that is too funny! I’m laughing my ***** off in the bed.
just peeping in….i c the chic wit 3 diff screen names is back. her and the 2 alter egos…i know all yall the same damn person.lmao is it just me? or is it a conspiracy? ……in living color
Tonnie)…..uptown born, east coast raised, west coast living..frequent flyer mileage…..(504)
How r u scared of men when you black yourself? very strange
I got a headache from this mess! I’m out cause my fingers hurt and my eye ***** bout to bust. goodnight guys!
bye bmw..bust?…hmmm poor `choice of words
Burst! r u happy now teacher. Bye
naaa i was hoping u met bust!! bye
http://www.my*****e.com/tonie504
THATS RIGHT GET YOU YOU SOME BLACK *****.I SUUGEST THE SAME FOR YA’LL OTHER *****ES.
Clearlysome Black American women are very bitter…Simply because, its not the Black man embracing the White woman,the Black mans REJECTION of you, makn you feel your not good enough and that the White woman is better…
Khloe is not ugly etc, thats just hurt people, hurting people.
Here in Africa, mixed couples are rare yes, but strangley enough, like 90% of them are White MEN with really dark African females.
Marquis been keepin Sydney alter.BAWAHAHAHAHA
Marquis the Alter of the Keeper Ziggy Sydney #1 Stan Quiet Despiration. He hittin that stupid ***** ***** good. BAWAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
another publicity w***** couple- just like reggie and kim
she is one big biatch!!!!!
I HATE Y’ALL OH HATIN A*S PEOPLE THE KARDASHIANS ARE NORMAL PEOPLE JUST LIKE THE REST OF US YES THEY HAVE MONEY BUT OK GET OVER IT LET THEM LIVE THEIR LIVES AND DO THEM IF THEY’LL HAPPY THEN LET THEM BE SH*T IF Y’ALL DIDN’T SPEND SO MUCH TIME HATIN ON OTHER PEOPLE Y’ALL MIGHT ACTUALLY FIND YOURSELF HAPPY. STUPID A*S AND HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL YOU HATERS I HOPE THE KARDASHIANS BEND OVER AND TELL ALL YOU HATING A*S PPL KISS THEY A*S!!!
@BMW and Tonnie
Like I said, you can’t handle the truth. Believe what you must. I live this and have lived this all my life. It’s not pretty but it’s the truth. Dumb *****es are being duped by the very thing that you idolize. Dumb fu<ks.
@ BMW
I am the product of a blk father and a white mother. I am part blk and part white. I will never let anyone define me or make me identify as one way or another, I am a mixture of both. It would be the same thing if my dad was asian and my mom white, I would identify with both, not one or the other. Society does not define me, some old white law does not define me and you certainly do not define me. I define me.
He looks a bit gay & she looks like a pork sausage……
they dont even look right….LOL