Crotch Grabber

Posted on October 17th, 2007 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, Sports

Posted by Bossip Staff

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These athletes sure do have some nerve. First Shawne Merriman is dousing women down with champagne and now New Jersey Nets guard Jason Kidd is out groping women. Via NY Post:

Kidd was partying inside the club Tenjune on Oct. 10 when he allegedly walked up to the 23-year-old woman and grabbed her crotch. They got into an argument and she said Kidd grabbed her again. Two bouncers broke up the spat, but Kidd was allowed to stay in the club. The woman filed a police report the following day, accusing the NBA All-Star of inappropriately touching her.

Sure she was probably wearing next to nothing, but these dudes need to fall back and should ask first before stepping out of pocket. Oh yeah, we forgot his track record…he most likely didn’t ask his ex-wife Joumana if he could touch her before punching her in the face.

  • shoeluva

    WTF?? what is wrong with these atheletes?

  • lacyd

    “Sure she was probably wearing next to nothing”

    Oh that’s funny!!!

  • shootalltheuglymen

    ^^^^I don know but she did the right thing if this story is true….lol, chick like me probably woulda grabbed him back and kept squeezin till his eye balls popped out. Yup, that expression on his face looks about right, lol

  • shootalltheuglymen

    squeeze it, pull it, twist it

  • hiphoper
  • Will J. Powers

    With son’s rep, she lucky he didn’t grab a handful of her hair out. Check those divorce docs.

  • Will J. Powers

    Yo is it me or does look a little crazy? A little shell-shocked or on some Britney ish?

  • Bahama Mama

    man these busta’s just ain’t run up on the right woman yet…we wouldn’t go to the po-lice we was calling pookie and them

  • helltothanaw

    lol @ bahama mama

  • Just Sit And Be Pretty

    Not only would I press charges, I would sue!! At some point, arrogant a-holes have got to get over themselves.

  • http://myspace.com/thagrindaholic BLUNTBLAZER

    MAYNE THIS IS HELLA SHADY I DONT BELIEVE IT AND KIDDS X WIFE IS CRAZY LIKE USEHR WIFE IF HE DID TOUCH SHE LET HIM

    http://WWW.MYSPACE.COM/THAGRINDAHOLIC

    NEW TRACK UP “LATER 4 U”

  • Bahama Mama

    yea right notchy…lmao *wink wink* j/p

  • Richard

    I doubt if this happened. How many times had peple accused Mike Tyson of groping them.

    I used top escort that cat when he was in the club (back in the day) to keep the gold digging skanks away.

    These dudes usually have a buffer to keep women like this away. They rarely talk to women themselves for just this reason.

  • Richard

    Jason is too old in the game to make this kind of mistake. He would have offered her money.

  • AND…

    *correction*

    Number 2…

  • Richard

    What I find so funny is that black women know how we get treated by the cops.

    What black man is going to do this in the club to a random chick baller or not?

    Are u guys THAT naive? There are more gold diggin ho’s out there than ballers.

  • shootalltheuglymen

    ^^^^u’re kidding right?

    Nahhh, none of these ballers have EVER concidered themselves to be above the law

    Nahhh, people don’t get bold when they get drunk

    Nahhhh, dudes egoes don’t get hurt when they get rejected, especially high profile ones

    Nahhhhh, black guys NEVER EVER EVER feel up chicks in the club

    that’s just totally unbelievable

  • M-DADDY

    Jay is my friend from back in the day. I hope he isnt runnin around groping women. I know his family very well and his parents raised him better then that

  • Keepin It Real

    That broad probably sat on his hand and then went and filed a police report…lol…Now guess what comes next…(drumroll please)….a lawsuit for 10 million dollars because of “emotional distress”…..these no integrity having broads kill me…LOL

  • Keepin It Real

    @shootalltheuglymen…..you seem to be a real reasonable voice concerning this matter….look at your name….it was probably you that sat on Kidd’s hand…LOL…

  • Ms. Dee (The All Powerful 1)

    Well… something smells a little fishy about this story (besides Jason’s hands after grabbing a sweaty crotch in the club)!! LOL!!! First of all… why is he not pressing charges against her for smashing him over the head with a glass, bottle, sippie cup, SOMETHING!!! I don’t give a rat’s azz who you are… step to me that way and it’s LIGHTS OUT!! I mean really??? What happened??? Did he grab her crotch, she address it, he grabs it again, and then it gets heated? After which, she goes back to partying in the club… realize who he was after being told by her girls the next day — THEN FILE A REPORT on the incident with the police… again, THE NEXT DAY??? WTF??????

    Oh yeah, and did I mention, he would still be holding a raw steak on both of his blackened eyes???

  • http://www.TheShoeGame.com G-Roc

    Dang Kidd, what’s wrong with you? It’s no secret, you need JESUS

  • http://www.wooohah.com Yeti

    Athletes are like hip-hop stars…think no rules apply. But the point is this chick like most girls in clubs probably was wearing some skank ass outfit who wants attention. Then when they get the attention they shut u down or complain to their girls that no guy hit on em. Make up yo mind!!!

    http://www.wooohah.com

    Where hip-hop and Hollywood collide

  • Bronx Brawler

    Son has a problem keeping his d**k beaters off women. He punched his chik back in school in her jibbs. This dude is outta control. He hasn’t ran into a honey who keeps the gemstar ready lmao.

  • AND…

    @ Yeti

    there is no justification for touching another person’s genitals without their consent…PERIOD. I guess what you are trying to say is that “men” have no self control so when they see a woman ‘wearing some skank ass outfit’ they can’t help themselves? Sounds like an animal to me. Well since some “men” act like animals someone should put leashes on them.

  • malicious one

    maybe he didnt feel like grabing his balls!:)

  • shootalltheuglymen

    and correct me if I’m wrong but no law suite as been filed yet so let’s save the conspiracy theories until we gat some more to go on

  • JoyfullyArrogant

    Man, chicks nowadays are walking around begging you to grab their crotches. Personally, I refuse their request :-D unless they’re really hot!

  • shootalltheuglymen

    sureee nothin popped off, that’s why bouncers had to “break up the spat”. Ha!

  • Dino

    @ joyfullyarrogant

    Man, chicks nowadays are walking around begging you to grab their crotches. Personally, I refuse their request unless they’re really hot!

    lol. U stupid for that one

  • kigali

    I guess with attitudes like these, these women should be happy they live in America. In other places in the world, its always the womens fault if she is violently assualted as a result of her sexuality. We all know the attire when we go to clubs and we all know that this will give me an excuse to do what they want with women.

    Ladies, when it happens to you, lets hope that the judge in question actually believes that your body belings to you and no one else regardless of how you dress.

    Next up: She was drunk, she knew I would rape her if she got drunk.

  • Delta Diva

    ^^^^^ Nowadays it doesn’t matter what a girl wears in the the club, she’s going getting felt up bu some ignorant negro who feels he can do it…How many of you ladies in here have went to the club with JEANS on and got your butt or your stuff grabbed and when you cuss the MF out, her gets all mad!!!!

    Brother’s do it all the time. And Men if a woman was running down your street butt naked, it does not give you the right to touch her!!!! Period.

    J.Kidd is not innocent so please don’t make him out to be the poor little b-ball player that has been played by a gold digget (but who really knows if she is one)

  • AND…

    @Delta Diva

    You make a good point. I have NEVER worn a skirt, shorts, or dress to a club. Simply for this reason but it hasn’t kept some dudes from trying to brush upon me. It doesn’t matter what she had on. Guys be honest you just want some and could care less. If she’s reasonably attractive and wit it you would do it. Hell you can barely even tell what women look like it be so damn dark in the clubs.

  • AND…

    Co-sign to whoever said he too damn old to even be in the clubs. Everybody on here knows what goes on in clubs and what type of crowd is at them. If you in the public eye and trying to stay away from gold-digging women KEEP YO STUPID ASS OUT THE CLUBS.

    p.s. that includes bars.

  • shootalltheuglymen

    LOL

    Is she sueing him god?

  • god

    double standard for us right elove?i don’t know how many time a fat girl grabbed my ass.i didn’t press any charges.maybe the next time a should:)

    and…why would i be stuck by lighting?is your “god”that cruel?

  • god

    lol.does santa and the easter bunny give you gifts at x-mas and easter?

  • Dino

    yea. i also know the tooth fairy and the turkey from thanksgiving

  • Dino

    @ and

    Real talk: How would you look at a dude that filed a complaint against a chick that touched his pee pee?

  • http://stylerazzi.blogspot.com StyleRazzi

    I wonder how his jump-off/ex-chick GABRIELLE UNION will have to say about this one!!!!!! This chick is about to have a Merry Xmas…. i smell a lawsuit cooking!!!!! LOL!!!!!

    http://www.stylerazzi.blogspot.com

  • me

    btw, that pic makes him look insane lol

  • La. Finest

    He stupid. He just put some money in her bank account and don’t even know it.

  • AND…

    Dino

    @ Dino

    “Real talk: How would you look at a dude that filed a complaint against a chick that touched his pee pee?”

    That’s the whole point. Guys don’t file a complaint b/c they think it makes them look like less of a man or something not b/c what she did was okay. That’s why I typed “And if someone grabs on you, don’t you have every right to file a complaint? Of course you do but don’t blame anyone else if you CHOOSE not to.”

    I can’t help that if that’s the way you feel but right is right if a chick put her hands on you it’s sexual harrassment. Period. I’m not a guy so I can begin to understand how that may feel. The other thing is image. Guys need to change this whole “all we want is ass, we are dogs, we will sleep with anybody” thing. Not all guys are like that and I don’t see why more guys who aren’t don’t stand up and start saying so.

  • AND…

    @ me

    well said.

  • Dino

    @ and

    i see ur point ma, but you completely side stepped my question. Everybody has a choice to do whateva. yea i feel you.

    But let me ask u this: If your man was going to file a sexual harrassment complaint against a chick, wouldn’t you look at him as less of a man?

  • Mahogany

    I agree w/ me.

    That pic is very creepy and spooky.

    :)

  • AND…

    @Dino

    No, no, no I didn’t side step your question. If I had a man (christian guy just tryna do the right thang) who came home and said “babe this chick at work today grabbed my package, do you think I should file a complaint?” I would tell him HELL TO THE YES. And dammit I’m going to work with you tomorrow to tell that child of God that obviously keeping her hands to herself was a challenge for her so I was gonna help her out. Now, that’s real talk. I wouldn’t think less of my man I would think more of him. Not only did he not yield to the advancements of this woman but he was honest and open about it with telling me. I can’t speak for every woman but to me that’s a good man.

  • Delta Diva

    @ Dino

    Hon, you completely missed the point

  • AND…

    It really saddens me to hear that some guys really think this. I hate that there is this “you gotta act hard, don’t let anything get to me, don’t tell nobody how I feel” mentality with our men. I want a man that will stand up for what is right. I know y’all out there come on. I need you to have more than money and a big dick. What about the stuff that isn’t tangible? I need that stuff too.

  • Dino

    @ delta diva

    sorry u feel that i missed the point. hon!!

  • AND…

    @Dino

    I understand and we are all just products of our environment. I really do mean what I’m saying which is partly the reason I have such a hard time finding a guy to date. My friends tell me my standards are too high but I just know what I’m worth and I know that there are some GOOD BLACK MEN out there so I feel no need to settle. I rather wait and give the right one everything. If I were your girl and you told me some chick was on you at work please believe I would have gone to work with you the next day to have a ‘lil girl talk’ with her.

  • Dino

    @ and

    thats another reason why i dont think dudes should be crying sexual harrassment, cause im pretty sure they can get another chick to handle her if it was that serious, and vice-versa.

  • god

    @and…

    you women always say you want a guy who express there feeling,but you would rather have a guy with a long rap sheet than a guy who works a 9-5.why is that?

  • god

    also men need to start filing complaints on women.better them than you going to jail right?

  • Dino

    @ AND

    why is only a christian man considered “good”, what happen to the pimp, or hustler thats just trying to get out the hood, they can’t be a “good” man also.

  • AND…

    @Dino

    “I use to work with a chick that use to touch me, fat ugly chick, i never smashed, but if thats how she was getting her kicks, i let her rock, go ahead touch all u want dont mean u getting it. But thats just my thoughts.”

    This part made me think of how the slave owners use to come and rape the black women right in front of their husbands and they couldn’t do anything to stop it. I know that woman didn’t rape you but our people have been “just taking it” for too long. Dammit fight back. I’m not saying that you are black but you are a person and no one likes to be touched like that. Speaking from experience.

  • AND…

    @god

    “You women always say you want a guy who express there feeling,but you would rather have a guy with a long rap sheet than a guy who works a 9-5.why is that?”

    I represent the image of a woman not all women. I can’t speak on what other women want in a companion. I can only speak for me. I want a good man not criminal.

    @ Dino

    Christian man for me. That’s what I meant. The pimp can be a good man but I want the guy who at the very least use to be a pimp but has done better and is continuing to do better.

  • Dino

    @ and

    O i’m black ma, i might be light skinned but im a black jamiacan

  • Dino

    @ and

    aight ma i see your, different strokes for different folks. as long as you enjoying YOUR life.

  • Dino

    aight lata folks, clock out time. Peace

  • summer27

    I’m not making excuses for his behavior, because I think its appaling and tacky. But if he was a normal dude, let’s say, named Shaquan, her azz wouldn’t even have blinked an eye. Woulda just thrown a drink in his face and kept moving.

    I smell a lawsuit possibly coming soon.

  • god

    people still go to clubs??what good comes out of that?

  • god

    people still go to clubs??what good comes out of that?you have guys looking for a fight rather that looking for a girl and you have girls acting a fool and blame it and a drink.

  • Delta Diva

    Ok, for the dudes, I completely understand why you may not want to file a sexual harrasment suit. Yes, there is a double standard for guys but in order for things to change you have to report such behavior to let ppl know that it is unacceptable!

    @ God

    There are women and I say women that want a good man, I know plenty of good black women who have a hard time finding a decent black man. However, when someone knows what your qualifications are they automatically say that your standards are too high. Also if a man had a long rap sheet and he has or is trying to turn his life around, good women should just turn their backs on that brother.

    Most and I say most women have wanted to have a thug or bad boy at one point but that us merely for a fling or some people say it but won’t do again. Thugs are not what Real Women want, we want Good Black men!

    So to you God, just tell me where are all the Good Black men b/c the Bad sure outweighs the Good!

  • Delta Diva

    Correcting my typos. Sorry

    Most and I say most women have wanted to have a thug or bad boy at one point but that is merely for a fling or some people say it but won’t do it.

  • http://www.lovingmeansaol.com 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals

    Delta Diva–

    You got a point there. Just to add to your point– Most women do want a little “thug” in their man at one point in there life or another. At the same time–how many men want a freak in the bed yet a woman away from the bedroom?

    Both sexes have double standards.

    On the sexual harrassment topic–

    I know that its wrong and there are double standards but men are looked upon different when the harrassment is geared toward them. ( I just completed a Sexual Harrassment in the Workplace seminar). Statistics show that men have been put in positions that fall under the guidelines of sexual harrassment but tend not to report it. One of the reasons is because they feel that other men would look at them different.

    One of the things that define sexual harrassment is UNWANTED ( and that’s the key) sexual advances made toward someone. You’d be surpirsed at the number of same sex sexual harrassment suits that are out there!

  • god

    @delta diva

    they want a good man after the 4 kids with 5 baby daddies:) or when they are getting up in age(40 plus)

  • http://www.spymac.com/details/?2284071 www.killk-fed.com

    this guy is HHHOOOMMMMOOO!!!!

  • dee vee

    Would not surprise me if this was true w/J Kidd. He seems to be a horndog. Reportedly, he had women in various NBA cities throughtout his NBA career. Also, there was that alledged rumor of the love triangle w/him, Jimmy Jackson & Toni Braxton back in the mid 90′s when they were teammates in Dallas that destroyed that team. SMH, the most powerful space in the world is a woman’s “valley” & make men do crazy things.

  • god

    woman’s vally is overrated:)checking your bank account and seeing all the zeros is a much better feeling.

  • keely

    i can’t stand jason…i’m related to him on my mothers side and he acts so stuck up at the reunions…

  • Delta Diva

    @ God

    That is true in some cases but I know a lot of younger women like myself that desire a good black man but they are really hard to find… I think all women have been through their share of bad ones. I guess a lot of my friends and myself are different b/c most of us grew up with our parents being married and we saw good relationships( they had flaws too) so I think sometimes its the type of environment that you grow up in that determines what type of man you want. Girls always want someone like their daddies but if a woman never saw her father, she has a difficult time determining what a good man is like…So they fall for the thugs b/c of their sweet lines, if they have money, or the sex.

    However, real women know that a good man will not disrespect you by groping your body withour your permission, He understands that you could care less if he’s a millionaire, etc. I could go on and on on what a good man is.

    On your reference to the multiple children with multiple daddies, there are some women that believe if they have some man’s child that he will love them more and stay but many of my sistas fail to realize that having the best sex or paying his bills, or having his child will make him stay. Most of this has to do with these women growing up in fatherless homes and low self esteem.

  • Delta Diva

    ^^^^^^or sometimes a man doesn’t want a good woman, he wants the one he can run around on or the one that is weak minded. He wants the ones that are easy to spread their legs or the ones who haven’t received higher education, has a good job, her own car, and her own house. He feels intimidated by a woman with all those qualities b/c he feels that if a woman is independent that means she doesn’t need a man but that is not true. Everyone wants to be loved by someone…

  • richie

    This is the typical behavior of a gay man in deep denial.

  • Gobacktosleepblacks
  • JaliliMaster

    I cannot be said for sure, but it is most likely that this Jason Kidd idiot did sexually assault the woman. I hope he gets everything thats coming to him! LOSER!

  • Sarah
  • MsDade305

    u tryna say its alright for black people to talk about blacks n wrong for white people to do it. Damn ya’ll stupid n DNA proves it..LMAO!!

  • 504okaay

    SMH @ SOME FOLKS SAYING WHEN YOUR 40 YOU SHOULD STOP CLUBBING. WHAT ARE THEY SUPPOSE TO DO ? HANG OUT AT THE BINGO HALL ? PLAY CHESS WITH OLD UNCLE CHESTER ? STAY HOME, KNIT SOME BLANKIES & WATCH CSI ? I BET YA’LL BE THE MAIN ONES @ 40 TELLING YOUR NEICES & NEPHEWS “I’MMA SHOW YA’LL HOW TO REALLY DO IT, MAN I USED TO SUPERSOAK THEM HOES. JUST WAIT TIL SATURDAY NIGHT. U GONNA SEE HOW I DO”

  • 504okaay

    P.S. HE LOOKS LIKE AN UGLY WHITE SKINHEAD.

  • d c dina

    I wonder how many broke or unknown brothers groped or bumped her that night, everybody’s looking for a come up, so so sad!!!

  • itsmefool

    A FOOL DID THIS ITCH TO A FRIEND OF MINE @ A CLUB HERE IN THE ATL, THE 1ST TIME SHE TOLD HIM TO BACK OFF, SO HE DID IT AGAIN AND SHE CLOCKED HIS A$$ W/ THE WINE BOTTLE AND SENT HIM OUT OF THAT PIECE ON A STREATCHER! KIDD DEF WONT BRING THAT SH*T HERE!

  • Here we go

    @ d c Dina

    Your comment sure shows your utter ignorance. Everytime a woman makes it clear she will not stand for a mans sexual behavior, people like you ALWAYS try to make it the womans fault…get a life

  • bmoregyrl

    This girl probably found a way to brush her crotch against his hand on purpose and now trying to get money for it. Scandalous!!! I mean c’mon be foreal…..look at that dudes picture. He looks like he’s scared of Pu$$y!!!

  • DSGG

    See, this is why no one respects us as black women now. How you gonna assume right off the gate that it’s the woman’s fault? We’re all scandalous gold digging hoes? Well if this is what you think about your own women what does that say about you?

    I don’t give a damn what she had on. You don’t have a right to put your hands on someone like that EVER! There are some men out there who think just because they see something they like, they have a right to touch her. I have a question: What if some 6’6, 370 LB. homo thug saw YOU and wanted to touch you b/c you were asking for it in your Dickies and BAPES?

    I’m appalled that some of you act like that’s “no big deal”. Will it be a big deal if it’s sexual assualt or rape? I hope none of you ignorant, misogynist simps have or ever have daughters.

    If this did happen I hope she gets paid. Maybe next time he and other fools like him will learn to keep their hands to themselves.

  • bmoregyrl

    Point taken…but at the same time let’s not be blind sided and assume every woman out here is a saint because that is far from the truth. There are alot of scandalous women/men in this day and age.

    And as far as her getting paid will that resolve the issue of her getting groped? Probably to some but I would think jail time would be more of a suitable punishment. But of course money comes to peoples minds first 9 times out of 10 when something like this happens…wonder why that is.

  • Mahogany

    testing…

  • Akimbo

    If some big burly dude squeezed your nuts, then handed you a wad of cash, what would you do? Just out of curiosity. Would you silently take the money as you assume a woman would?

  • RICKY2009

    The same white trolls on the other posts criticizing African Americans for any and everything, are on this thread defending Jason Kidd to the hilt for rape. I’m still trying to figure out why they even come onto ALL of our websites.

    Wake up, black people!!!

  • La Dominadora

    White people come to black websites cuz they are miserable azzhole chickensh-ts with no lives. After all their own US govt is selling their flat azzes out in favor of some illegal Hispanics so you know they got a bee or a whole hive of them up their flat red azzes LOL!

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