Monday, January 5th, 2009

Jesus Take The Wheel

Posted by Bossip Staff

murderer

This sick son of a b*tch deserves to burn in hell:

A Louisiana man, who said his son had been kidnapped by gunmen, is now behind bars charged with his child’s murder. Police say Danny Platt confessed to killing his two-and-a-half year old child. Danny Platt said he was under a lot of pressure. He apparently owed his estranged wife $4,000 in back child support.

But there were no signs of stress when the 22-year-old father, accused of killing his 2-year-old son over the child support debt, went to pick up his little boy for a weekend visit, his mother said Sunday, according to CBS13.com.

On Friday, several hours after her son, Ja’ Shawn, left, Daniella Powell received a phone call. It was Platt. He said their son had been kidnapped and quickly hung up. Powell called back in disbelief. She said her husband gave different accounts of the kidnapping. She asked if he had called police. He said he had, but when she called authorities, they hadn’t heard from him.

Police said Platt made up an elaborate story about his son being kidnapped by three men armed with AK-47 rifles late Friday night. Platt eventually confessed to the killing, telling authorities he “would kill either his wife or his child before he paid child support,” Police Superintendent Warren Riley said Saturday.

Later, he led police to the boy’s body. He has been booked on a charged of first-degree murder, reports CBS13. On Saturday night, as he was being led to jail in handcuffs, Platt said he was under a lot of pressure and acknowledged killing his son, but disputed the slaying occurred solely over the debt to his estranged wife.

“I’m sorry about killing my baby,” Platt told reporters. “I had a whole bunch of reasons.”

Powell said Sunday the two never had any violent fights and Platt wasn’t going through any emotional problems. “He knew what he was doing. He killed my 2-year-old son,” she said. Powell said her son’s body was found in a plastic bag at a park. She and her family were busy preparing her son’s funeral arrangements. “I don’t have money for anything. We are trying to come up with it now,” Powell said.

Police said Saturday in announcing the arrest that Platt hadn’t seen his son in quite some time. Powell said Platt had taken the boy trick-or-treating on Halloween, but acknowledged they hadn’t spoken for a couple of months. However, she didn’t think it was odd Platt wanted to spend the weekend with his son.

Ja ‘Shawn was excited about seeing his father, she said. “He went to the door and said, ‘Daddy’ when he came to pick him up.”

This dude is straight despicable. They need to bury this mf underneath the jail.

via Livesteez

Comments(637) on “Jesus Take The Wheel”

  1. Frog-a-licious

    You got that right Bossip. So sad!

  2. Hannibal

    LMAO, HE’S THE MAN

  3. High Life

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  5. Nina Knows

    Damn this is fucked up. He killed lil man because he didnt wanna pay child support… and he didnt even know how much he was even gonna pay.

    and how the hell he picked up the lil boy, if he hadnt ever seen him before that day. All that shit sounds foul…. from all sides.

  6. Proud ArmyWifee

    Thats why my momma is on my brother just in case he need a break so he wont flip out either…that jacked up how he did that and why…

  7. Raquel26

    @HighLife: Oh, they will. Its some dude right now named Cecil who is licking his chops. lol

    This is what n*ggas do. Not the black people with morals and respect for human life, but n*ggas. Ignorant, will-never-be-nothing-in-life but compost for the worms when they push up daisies, n*ggas.

    I’d love to torture his ass! And ya’ll know my torture tactics…..my endings are always putting the mutha_fucka half-alive into a pig sty.

    And this is why I don’t eat pork! They eat ANYTHING!


  8. You know those criminals hate child molesters and killers.

    If the justice system doesn’t get rid of him…the inmates will.

  9. vgeezy

    If a man who is out of his child’s life suddenly shows up I would not let me child go with him. Whether he is his father or not….IMO

  10. High Life

    I just don’t understand why he killed the baby. He could have did like a lot of men and just not paid if it was that serious.

  11. BOSSIP_LEE_THE_NIGGA_NINJA ( I promised my Master that I would be First One Day Heeeyaah Bitch)

    top 8 fiyyahhh

  12. RAY

    YEAH THIS DUDE WILL BURN FOR ENTERNITY….THERE IS NO WAY TO UNDERSTAND THIS STUPIDITY…WAIT OH YEAH…THE DEVIL…

  13. High Life

    @Raquel26

    Yeah I’m sure he will get his.


  14. This @sshole will get his ass beat in prison. Seriously tho, why couldn’t he just be ghost like the rest of the deadbeat dads? Just leave…
    He didn’t want to pay child support….i hope he pays thru his ass everyday of his life.

    God bless the families that are grieving…

  15. Raquel26

    Everybody wants to fuck and get a nut, but when a baby comes from that fuck…..will you be woman or man enough to step up to the plate and be a mother/father?? Giving birth doesnt automatically make you a mother nor a woman. And busting a nut doesnt make you a father or a man. But if you let these ignorant n*ggas and b*tches tell it, you will get a different story.

    They need to bury him alive in a glass box filled with water and put some fuckin pirahanas in that bitch. Go to sleep, n*gga.

  16. ms meca

    vgeezy

    i agree.. if he never seen the child before why did he suddenly picked the child up and you mean to tell me the mother just up and let the boy go with him ? father or not

  17. BOSSIP_LEE_THE_NIGGA_NINJA ( I promised my Master that I would be First One Day Heeeyaah Bitch)

    LMAOOOOOOOO @RAQUEL
    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO

    YOU KNOW MY TORTURE TATICS !! LMAOOOO

    THEY ALWAYS END WITH BEING PUT IN A PIG STY HALF ALIVE LMAOOOOOOO

    CLASSIC!!

  18. BOSSIP_LEE_THE_NIGGA_NINJA ( I promised my Master that I would be First One Day Heeeyaah Bitch)

    ALMOST LOST FOCUS OF MY DREAM OF BEING NUMBER ONE!! FOR A SPIT MILLI ISOTOPE OF A FRACTION OF A SECOND BUT IM BACK!!

  19. Sydney

    This story disgusts and depresses me beyond belief. . .And this man’s apology on camera adds further insult to injury. Why on earth would you kill your child? Monster. . .

    More from timespicayune.com:

    New Orleans police said Saturday that Platt killed his son rather than pay about $4,000 in child-support arrears, an accusation that Platt denied with a “No, sir” to a reporter, as detectives accompanied him to Central Lockup on Saturday.

    “I’m sorry about killing my baby,” Platt told reporters. “I had a lot of pressure on me. . . . I had a whole bunch of reasons.”

    To collect the child-support debt, the state of Louisiana deducted a little more than $100 each week from Platt’s paychecks from a French Quarter restaurant, Powell said. The amount was determined in December after a blood test proved his paternity, she said.

    Platt became liable for child support not because Powell had pursued the issue, she said, but because she had applied for food stamps, which requires applicants to identify noncustodial parents, and for government health insurance, which in some cases also requires that information from applicants.

    Powell said she especially needed Medicaid for her son because he suffered from frequent respiratory ailments.

  20. Sydney

    More:

    Ja’Shawn was born Feb. 14, 2006, a Valentine’s Day baby. His father first saw him when he was 4 months old but didn’t seem very interested in him, Powell said.

    For the past year and a half, she said, Ja’Shawn has had a solid father figure in her boyfriend, Jamie Payne, who works at a local hospital. Still, Powell was determined to maintain a relationship between Ja’Shawn and his father, she said.

    “I wanted him to bond with his daddy,” she said. When Ja’Shawn began to talk, the two began having brief conversations on her cell phone. Although Platt’s interest was sporadic, he took his son on outings a handful of times and had always returned him without incident, she said.

    It wasn’t uncommon for Platt to promise to get Ja’Shawn and then not show up. But on Friday about 8:30 p.m., Ja’Shawn woke up from a nap, thrilled that Platt was outside, ready to keep him for the weekend, Powell said.

    “He said, ‘Oh, my daddy’s here,’ and he ran to the door saying, ‘Daddy, daddy, daddy.’ He was so happy,” Powell said.

    Her eyes filled with tears. “I never knew that it would be the last time I’d see him,” she said.

  21. Doc

    @Hannibal

    YOU ARE A SICK SON OF BITCH!


  22. i don’t wanna even finish reading this one!

  23. Raquel26

    @Bossip Lee:

    LOL

    I think I’m horrible sometimes for thinking of ways to toture people. Am I?? I only think of it when I see dumb ass people like this who hurt innocent children, or even innocent adults. I say…you give a life, you give your own. Simple mathmatics if you ask me.

  24. Hannibal

    @DOC

    THANX MAN

  25. BE

    This is just sick…I am suspect of why the child was left to go with a man he did not know. I mean where are the maternal instincts. i guess you just never know what a person is capable of…

  26. Nicole

    Why in the hell did the mother just let her child go with this monster. She knew from the jump that this fool did not want to be a father. Did she think that he suddenly had a change of heart. My son’s father is not in his life, he’s only met him once. If he wanted to see his son I would certainly not allow him to be alone with him, let alone take him away. That stupid bitch was probably just desperate to have his father in his life. Fuck that!! Some mothers need to wake up. Your children can NOT defend their selves. It is your job to be the defenders and protectors of your children. You only get one shot… don’t fuck it up!!!

  27. BEAMERBUNNY504

    THIS JACK ASS IS FROM NEW ORLEANS, ONLY 22 WITH A MIND FRAME LIKE THIS. HE SLIT THE THROAT OF THIS CHILD AND PLAED HIM IN A BAG IN A PARK NEAR THEIR HOME. ALL OVER 4000.00 BIG ONES. IM SURE THE KID WAS ASKING ” DADDY WHAT ARE U DOING?”

  28. BE

    @Sydney – thanks for clarification. So he had spent time with him before. He is just a sick son of a BI***

  29. Raquel26

    And this nigga talking about pressure?????? LMAO

    Nigga, you probably wasnt even on anyone’s payroll, so you dont work. That’s no pressure right there.

    You didnt go to school to enhance your life and well-being. No pressure.

    You dont pay bills because the state pays them for you. Again, no pressure.

    Where’s the fucking pressure he was talking about???? I mean, he said he had alot of reasons to kill his child. Even though this IS NO JUSTIFICATION.

    Ummmm, so I dont know really where his pressure would lie.
    He’s a sick son of a bitch who let the devil tempt him to make a horrible decision. An idle mind is always a devil’s playground.

    And from the looks of dude, his brain has been idle for quite some time.

  30. Raquel26

    *from previous post*

    If you TAKE a life, you have to GIVE UP yours.

  31. msT

    I fault his mother…if a father doesn’t have any interest in a child than you should leave him alone.

  32. Sydney

    Hi BE, I’m still reading the Times-Picayune story, and it appears that the mother really wanted for a close relationship to form between her son and his father, but there were problems from the get-go — For one, he refused to travel to be there for his son’s birth and didn’t see him until he was 4 months old. All the signs pointed to his unwillingness to be a stable part in his son’s life.

    I think it’s a reminder that women have to be extremely careful about which men they pick to form relationships with and to have father their children. This man clearly has psychological problems that trouble even the investigators in the case.

  33. Sam

    you running from my questions?

  34. Sydney

    So they disclosed the manner in which this precious little boy died?

    I’m going to be sick. . .

  35. BE

    @Syd – I think it’s a reminder that women have to be extremely careful about which men they pick to form relationships with and to have father their children. This man clearly has psychological problems that trouble even the investigators in the case.

    ***********************************

    I agree sometimes the best thing for the child is to have that parent NOT in their lives. this mother will have to live with the what ifs

    @Raquel – I agree what pressure?? We all have pressure but we don’t take our kids out, pretend to be okay, then slit their throat…that is a heinous crime.

  36. pm

    I would have killed the mama..joking

  37. Sydney

    @BE

    “I agree sometimes the best thing for the child is to have that parent NOT in their lives. this mother will have to live with the what ifs”

    Exactly. You can’t make a man do what he doesn’t want to do and, in this case, he clearly didn’t want to be a father. For him to brutally murder his own son shows that he had no emotional attachment to him whatsoever.

    From the article I read, the mother’s boyfriend had actually filled in as a father figure for this little boy, but she was determined to maintain a relationship with the biological father.

    The whole situation is just tragic. . .


  38. DAMN
    I THEY SAY ITS THE BLACK WOMAN THAT ARE NUISANCES, WHAT ABOUT RETARDED FUCKS LIKE THIS… I HOPE THEY GET HIS ASS IN JAIL AND STICK AND ELECTRICSL PIPE UP HIS A** AND SEND 250 VOLTS OF ELECTRICITY RIGHT THROUGH HIS A**

  39. eddiedollars215

    Prime example of why I am in favor of the death penalty… and for cruel and unusual punishment… if only we had an actual means of establishing guilt… This man is crazy… why not just sign away your parental rights and be done with it… and ladies popping out all these little niggas… by these little niggas is not cute… child support is for suckers… any nigga (substitute black man, afro american, god, king whatever for you kente cloth types) you need to take to court for child support is a… wait for it… A SUCKER TYPE DUDE… and fellas IF you ARE playing your part and your chick wants to put you up in that court system… and have you explaining your personal business to some random… fuck that bitch… she’s not down for the team… NO CHICK THAT IS DOWN FOR ME IS GONNA PUT ME IN THE SYSTEM… PERIOD… i guess this nigga didn’t know Obama was president and he could’ve been anything he wanted to…


  40. OOPS SCREEN NAME WASNT RIGHT
    GOOD MORNING ALL

    DAMN
    I THEY SAY ITS THE BLACK WOMAN THAT ARE NUISANCES, WHAT ABOUT RETARDED FUCKS LIKE THIS… I HOPE THEY GET HIS ASS IN JAIL AND STICK AND ELECTRICSL PIPE UP HIS A** AND SEND 250 VOLTS OF ELECTRICITY RIGHT THROUGH HIS A**

  41. Raquel26

    @Be: For real!! I’m sure everyone on here has some kinda pressure or stress on a daily basis; and I’m sure some of you have kids.

    And this would never cross your minds. Or mine either.

  42. BE

    HOPE THEY GET HIS ASS IN JAIL AND STICK AND ELECTRICSL PIPE UP HIS A** AND SEND 250 VOLTS OF ELECTRICITY RIGHT THROUGH HIS A**
    ****************************

    Damn corp!

    @EddieDollar – I agree in this case the death penalty almost seems too good though

  43. dre

    u suppose to be sucking marquis dick. aint he keeping ur alter??? where is quiet despiration???

  44. Lashonda

    Typical reaction to child support from another lazy man walking this earth. I wish we could rid the world of all of yall and just have women on it. It would be a better place.Not only do you make kids and leave, but account for almost 95% of the crime rate. Yet we can’t so the only way to combat this problem is to stop people from breeding until they get married. Not only that, for the male population to think that it is okay to sex up any female walking without consequence says a whole lot about society. I purely blame it on the mommas who shield their sons from their responsibilities and the dads that walk and out and never come back because society has accepted it as the norm for men to be absent.Ladies have got to get smarter and stop letting any and everything impregnate them and close their legs because no matter what, men are going to do what they do best and when it’s all said and done you’re going to be stuck with carrying the load literally and the moment you say child support they’re going to be all up in arms about it. Losers

  45. Sydney

    Good morning, Shay.

    @Eddie

    I don’t think it mattered what this brother thought because he’s obviously mentally ill. It takes a special type of psychopath to do what he did to a child.

    I’d be surprised if he lasts in prison — Even the most hardened rapists and murderers despise child killers. . .

  46. laney28

    @Sydney, thanks for the info.

    Wow! This is so sad. I believe we’ll be reading about him soon enough in the papers as he will no longer be amongst the living. He’ll definitely be taken care of in the pen. No pressure!


  47. @ SYDNEY
    DID THEY SAY HOW HE WAS KILLED YET

  48. MiMi

    I think all mothers want fathers for their children. We need to give her credit for giving his sorry ass a chance. I know she’s probably blaming herself for not being a bitch to this man. She could have not let him get to know his father, not let him talk to him, etc… But she put her childs feelings first. Sometimes you have to step back and let that abscent parent either do the right thing or dig that ditch a lil deeper. The child, as they grow up, realizes what’s real or what’s not. But DAMN! this baby won’t get a chance to know that his father ain’t shit and never was!!
    Yea I hope they give him hell (x10000) in prison. Make his ass suffer everyday!

  49. Mz_Magnificent1 LUVS Her Prez

    WTH…this man WILL get whats coming to him. Trust and believe that…

    What I want to know is…WHO would actually lay down and sleep with this man??? ***scrolls back up and cringes*** He LOOKS disgusting…absolutely trifling.

    Why was he allowed to even be near the child in the 1st place???

    And last but certainly not least…

    I think the mama should be locked up too…clearly she is a dumb-azz and should not be allowed to procreate EVER again.

  50. MiMi

    AND he ugly as hell!!!

    I had to add that right quick.

  51. Sydney

    @Shay

    I just found this on another site:

    Danny Platt admitted to police that he killed his two-year-old son and then told them where to find the boy’s body.

    Platt’s son Ja’ Shawn Powell had been originally reported as abducted by three men with ak47s on Jackson Ave. After Platt’s story of what had happened kept changing he admitted to killing Ja’ Shawn because he was under a lot of pressure.

    “His story never really added up. He was a suspect from the very beginning. The homicide detectives brought him in earlier today where he eventually confessed and also told us where the baby’s body was,” said New Orleans Police Chief Warren Riley.

    The body was recovered from an open lot near a children’s playground behind the 1900 block of Jackson Ave.

    Sources tell FOX8 that the child’s throat was slit though the coroner has not completed his report.

  52. ronica

    i hope this bitch get gang raped with niggas and brooms in prison you sick son of a bitch you poor excuse of a fucken father bitch nigga. you so dam retarded either way yo black ass was gonna wine up in prison. stupid bitch now you got watch ya ass it would of been easier not to pay the dam childsupport you fucking sperm donnor.i feel sorry for yo fucking mother bitch.

  53. dre (marquis is keeping the alter of sydney)

    did he beat up ur pussyyyyyyyyyyy good??? all this time i thought yall were the same person the whole time!! lmao!!

  54. qc704

    ppl
    are a mess these days.
    smh

  55. Q'ILLA

    dude deserves the Brazen Bull…google it if you don’t know what it is

  56. Christie's secrets

    wow

    im speechless! the devil never sleeps!

  57. lady

    this is so sad. i mean really. people are really crazy. Wake up world. get your life right with GOD! fa real!

  58. MissBlaze43

    This is so, so sad on so many levels. All this woman wanted to do was make sure her son bonded with his father – and this is what happens.

    Some of y’all remember me telling you about my grandson’s father and his dumb-ass family not wanted to keep Jay all the time. After reading this – they ain’t got to worry about seeing my grandson NO TIME SOON!

    Like my daughter said, “They won’t see Jay for a long time – if it’s going to be a problem, then I’d rather not send him there.”

    I told my daughter she made the right decision.

  59. Raquel26

    We can blame the dude all we want, and rightfully so. But on the other side of the fence, we have to look at the females who are actually making babies with deadbeats to begin with. Ladies, we all know there are certain guys that we wouldnt want to get pregnant by, so what do we do??? 1) Either dont fuck him or 2) Wear a freakin’ condom.

    I mean, I know personally of some guys that will never, ever, ever, ever, get the pussy. Ever. So, this weens out alot of possible baby-daddy’s. Plus, I look at criteria as well. You have to have something to bring to the table BEFORE I even go out on a simple date with you.

    These females will just want to fuck a nigga because he has a big dick or some ignorant shit like that. And then when they get caught out there, they think that a baby will change a nigga into something that you want him to be. It aint happening.

    So…to prevent this (or at least decrease your chances) of getting a deadbeat….take your time to get to know a person before you sleep with them. Time will allow you to get a feel for what a dude is really like.

  60. tlatrice (Resident T.I. stan)

    first of all, some of you are obviously not reading the article. this was NOT the first time he’d seen the child.

    second of all, if she’d never had any violent confrontations with him, why was she wrong for trying to get him involved with HIS child. children deserve to know where they come from. and while it’s admirable that her boyfriend willingly stepped into the father role, that doesn’t relieve the biological father of his responsibility.

    dude is the only one to blame. the mother was trying to do the right thing. this dude was just a selfish ass. period.

  61. ME

    I think the mama should be locked up too…clearly she is a dumb-azz and should not be allowed to procreate EVER again.

    _______________________

    Dumbazz? Why do you say that? What did she do wrong? the original article and what Sydney posted say nothing as to what the mother did to cause this. She wasn’t even going after him for child support. Welfare was doing that. From what I have read all it appears she did was try to promote a relationship between her son and his father. The article says he has come and taken the child before without incident. Why should she have feared sending the child this time?

    What exactly did she do wrong and that’s a question for everyone here who blamed her not just you? What did she do wrong?

  62. pm

    @MissBlaze43,your grandson should see his father.

  63. ME

    first of all, some of you are obviously not reading the article. this was NOT the first time he’d seen the child.

    second of all, if she’d never had any violent confrontations with him, why was she wrong for trying to get him involved with HIS child. children deserve to know where they come from. and while it’s admirable that her boyfriend willingly stepped into the father role, that doesn’t relieve the biological father of his responsibility.

    dude is the only one to blame. the mother was trying to do the right thing. this dude was just a selfish ass. period.

    _______________________________

    I’m wondering this myself. How does it become the mothers fault that this murdering azzhole kills his 2 year old child? What did she do wrong? Some people will find a way to blame the black woman for everything and thats the problem with the black man right now. At some point he has to take responsibility for the things he does.

  64. dre (marquis is keeping the alter of sydney)

    lmao!!!thats what i thought

  65. Soul Touch

    @Raquel26

    GREAT points!!!!

    *************

    Terrible story!!! $4000 = the cost of a child’s life. Disgusting

  66. ME

    We can blame the dude all we want, and rightfully so. But on the other side of the fence, we have to look at the females who are actually making babies with deadbeats to begin with. Ladies, we all know there are certain guys that we wouldnt want to get pregnant by, so what do we do??? 1) Either dont fuck him or 2) Wear a freakin’ condom.

    ______________________________

    What does this have to do with the clear evicence that has been laid out in this blog? This woman did nothing wrong. She did nothing but allow her childs father to spend some time with him. Where is all this hate for the mother coming in at? I see more hate comments to the mother than I do the azzhole who killed his child. I mean is this a black woman thing? If this had happened to a white child with white parents would you all still be bashing this woman for giving her childs father a visit or trying to keep her childs father in his life? What is all the hate towards this woman? She just lost her child to his murderering black father. What is going on here? Such ignorance.

  67. Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    Does your grandson’s father object to seeing his child?

    @Raquel

    “These females will just want to fuck a nigga because he has a big dick or some ignorant shit like that. And then when they get caught out there, they think that a baby will change a nigga into something that you want him to be. It aint happening.”

    You can’t say this enough — Some men AREN’T worth the time nor energy. And a baby surely won’t bring a man closer to you — if anything, if he already has a foot out of the door, an unwanted pregnancy will push him out that much more quickly.

  68. Carmellatte

    @Hannibal,

    WTF is your problem…Seriously if you are that damn ignorant and darn right that cold hearted about this pathetic situation, you need to burn in hell right with him. You fuc*kin douche bag!

  69. ME

    These females will just want to fuck a nigga because he has a big dick or some ignorant shit like that. And then when they get caught out there, they think that a baby will change a nigga into something that you want him to be. It aint happening.

    ________________________________

    What about any of the articles said this woman had a baby to trap this guy thinking it would change anything? Is this what happened in this womans relationship or are you intjecting your ignorance into her former relationship? This is why black people will never bond and will never have anything. Look what black people will support. You are in here making excuses for a man murdering his child. What ignorance. Such ignorance.

  70. ME

    You can’t say this enough — Some men AREN’T worth the time nor energy. And a baby surely won’t bring a man closer to you — if anything, if he already has a foot out of the door, an unwanted pregnancy will push him out that much more quickly.

    __________________________________________

    But is this what went on or are you two just saying this woman had a baby to trap this guy? Is this the old black woman baby daddy assumption or do you have proof thisis what went on? Youre the one posting the articles. Fill us in. Is this what went on?

  71. Sydney

    I don’t think people are blaming the mother per se, but as women, we have hold some responsibility for the men we allow into our lives. . .If you have to push a man to spend time with his child (and, according to reports, he initially didn’t spend any time with his newborn son), then there’s a problem.

    The reality is some men do not want to be in their children’s lives. Period. And, as the saying goes, you can make a ho a housewife, and you can’t make a deadbeat a daddy, no matter how hard you try. Yes, it’s unfair that sometimes the burden of care for a child falls solely onto the mother, but, to me, that’s even more reason for women to use caution with whom they allow into their lives. We have the gift of instinct, and we should use it to the fullest.

  72. tlatrice (Resident T.I. stan)

    raquel,

    a person can carry themselves as the epitome of uprightness and still be crazy. the man who killed all those people on christmas eve was an usher in his church and his neighbors said nothing but good things about him. yet he killed 9 people. he shot an 8 year old child in the face.

    having been married, i can say that people DO change. they just do. and you can’t always predict HOW or WHEN they will change.

    if the child was 2 and the dude was 22, then that means that he was 20 when the child was born. and she was quite possibly the same age. they were young. things that are important to you at 20 are not so important at 30. that’s not an indictment against young people. that’s simply the way it is.

    you have no idea why she chose to have a child with him. you don’t know how long they’d know each other before. maybe they were high school sweethearts, but grew apart and he couldn’t handle that. but that’s not something she’d necessarily see in the beginning.

    she didn’t do anything that hasn’t been done time and time again and the kids don’t end up dead. she was trying to make sure that her son had a coneection with both of the people who created him. what’s wrong with that?

    this is the guys fault. period.

  73. ME

    This is so, so sad on so many levels. All this woman wanted to do was make sure her son bonded with his father – and this is what happens.

    _______________________________________

    Thats what I mean. If this was a woman who was keeping her son from his father she’d be getting dogged for that too so what gives? Shes at fault when she doesn’t let him see the child and shes at fault when she does? What do you all want from this woman? She is the victim as is her baby.


  74. @ HANNIBAL
    STOP MAKING ENEMIES THIS MORNING!!!! WE MAY KNOW BUT THE NEW COMERS DONT, THIS IS A CHILDS LIFE BE SENSIBLE TODAY… REGAURDLESS IF THE MOM DIDNT HAVE THE BEST TASTE IN MEN IM SURE THE LAST THING SHE THOUGHT ABOUT WHEN HE LEFT WITH HIS CHILD THAT DAY, WAS THAT HE WOULD BE BRUTALLY MURDERED AT THE HANDS OF HIS OWN DAMN FATHER!!!! SOME THINGS EVEN A DEADBEAT DAD WOULD GET A BENEFIT OF DOUBT!!!!!
    WE WOMEN DEFINITELY NEED TO START HOLDING OUR PRECIOUS BODYS CLOSER TO HEART, IF A MAN ISNT EVERYTHING YOU WNAT IN HIM… LET HIM MOVE ON, DONT FUCK HIM DONT PLAY WITH HIM AND DONT KAUGHT WITH HOM AND DAMN SURE DONT DATE HIM… NOT EVEN ONCE, YOUR THEN SUBJECTING THAT MAN TO THE IDEA THAT HE IS UP TO YIUR STANDARDS…
    IM JUST SAYIN… I DONT WANT TO BE ON THIS SITE HAVING THE SAME BLOG THIS TIME NEXT YEAR ABOUT A DIFFERENT CHICK AND HER LOW LIFE BABY DADDY

  75. Sydney

    @ME

    For clarification, that quote is not in reference to this particular article. I don’t know the details of this particular couple’s relationship, but here’s some info from the Times-Picayune article: “Powell, 21, had known Platt almost all her life; he and her brother were good friends, she said. The two dated briefly, from May to August 2005, and she became pregnant in June. After Hurricane Katrina, they both ended up in Texas, he in Austin and she in Arlington, near Dallas, she said. Although she heard very little from him, her sister offered to fly him to Dallas for his son’s birth. He refused, Powell said.”

    And, yes, I do think there are some women who believe that having a baby will magically cause a man to show more care and responsibility than he had previously shown.


  76. very sad story,innocent child, some men need to use condoms if they don’t want to pay child support or have kids,these kids are innocent they didn’t chose to be here,there’s no excuse for his actions,this story makes me so angry

  77. ME

    I don’t think people are blaming the mother per se, but as women, we have hold some responsibility for the men we allow into our lives. . .If you have to push a man to spend time with his child (and, according to reports, he initially didn’t spend any time with his newborn son), then there’s a problem.

    _________________________________________________

    I agree with what you have said here but where is the proof she was forcing this man to be in his childs life? She never even took child support from him until Welfare demanded it. Where is the proof that this woman is everything you all are saying she is? How does not even asking for child support translate into her forcing this man to be in his childs life? I bet she wanted it. What mother doesn’t? But how does that translate into it being on the mother that this bastard killed his 2 year old baby? Even if she was forcing him to be in the childs life how does that make what he did ok?

  78. Soul Touch

    …be damned if I got knocked up by some loser raggamuffin..I have the womb, it’s my responsibility to protect it. No man can convince me to have unprotected sex, I don’t care how suave you are…or how long we’ve been dating. Doubt he became broke overnight either…


  79. @ T LATRICE
    I AGREE WITH PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING YOU SAID!!! AS LONG AS BEFORE SHE ALLOWED HIM TO LEAVE WITH HIS FATHER THAT SHE KNEW HE WAS TRYING TO BE THAT SAME POSITIVE INFLUENCE HAD IN A DAD GROWING UP!!!
    HOWEVER, IF SHE WAS THE FEMALE THAT KNEW HE HAD A TENDANCY OF SLAPPING A CHICK EVERY NOW AND AGAINAND HE WAS SELLING WEED, LIVING WITH HIS BOY AT HIS GRANDMA HOUSE, IT REALLY DEOENDS ON WHAT SHE KNEW OF HIS LIFESTYLE AFTER LETTING HIM GO WITH DAD FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 2 YEARS, IF THIS WAS REALLYINNOCENT AND SHE SIMPLY WANTED BABY TO KNOW HIS FATHER THEN I HOPE THE GANG RAPE THEN IMPREGNATE HIS ASS WITH BULLETS, POISON, AND PISS

  80. MissBlaze43

    @ Raquel 26

    You and I are mostly on the same level, but with this case – you will have to look even deeper.

    If I’m not mistaken, wasn’t there a football or basketball player who killed his girl or ex-girl because she refused to get an abortion? Wasn’t this chick like 8-months pregnant or something?

    I know these are two separate incidents – but isn’t the MO the same in both cases? Neither of them wanted kids to have to shell out child support to for the next 21 years of their lives.

    Now, like you said – getting pregnant by these fools is NOT going to change their minds about how they feel. FORCING A CHILD ON THEM WILL ONLY MAKE MATTERS WORSE IN THE LONG-RUN.

    And this man took his situation to the highest level by killing his son. No child – No child support.

    Listen up ladies – ’cause this could have been anybody – y’all have GOT to stop playing these cat ‘n mouse games with these damn men. If a niggah say he don’t want now babies – DON’T LAY YOUR STUPID ASS DOWN AND GET PREGNANT – just to see ‘what he’s gonna do, now,” because you might not like the outcome OF YOUR OWN STUPIDITY.

    AND AS FOR THE MEN: If you don’t want to shell out that child support or have unwanted babies – THEN COVER IT UP BEFORE STICKING IT IN!!!

  81. Hannibal

    @SHAY SHAY

    WHAT U TALKIN ABOUT, IM BEIN NICE TODAY

  82. ME

    And, yes, I do think there are some women who believe that having a baby will magically cause a man to show more care and responsibility than he had previously shown.

    _____________________________________

    I agree. I do too but I don’t get how everyone is so sure thats what happened here. The father is the killer and he needs to held accountable for it. It start trying to find ways to blame the mother is crazy. He did it and the blame lies with him.

  83. gemini62065

    My heart goes out to the family of this blessed child. Without placing blame, I will only say that we as women have to treat our bodies and our lives as sacred as possible and choose wisely!

    SMH

  84. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Raquel26,

    And this nigga talking about pressure?????? LMAO

    Nigga, you probably wasnt even on anyone’s payroll, so you dont work. That’s no pressure right there.

    You didnt go to school to enhance your life and well-being. No pressure.

    You dont pay bills because the state pays them for you. Again, no pressure.
    ————————————————————–

    And with this profile he still was able to find someone to make a baby with. I wonder what the mother is like.


  85. @ hannibal
    i know you… and…. idoubt that your being nice, i havent yet read your comments, but you pissed off some chick alreadyyyyy!!! its not even noon yet!

  86. mycalah69

    @Sidney

    Some people on here saying it is the mother’s fault so they are blaming her. Like some others have said this woman was just tryign to make the daddy be a daddy but we can all see that you can not make a grown man do anything. I understand what she was trying to do and my heart goes out to her and the family.

  87. Sydney

    *can’t make a ho a housewife* (please pardon the language)

    @ME

    Of course, women naturally want men to be in their children’s lives, but the reality is not all men want — nor are capable of handling — that responsibility. I’m saying that from the little I’ve read, it appears that this man never showed enthusiasm for stepping into his son’s life. He went for months without seeing him after his birth and while he did see his son on occasion, those visits were sporadic.

    I’m saying that, as women, we have to read the tea leaves and look for red flags. I absolutely hold this individual responsible for the hideously depraved act that he is accused of committing, and, of course, I’m sure that no one close to the situation could have imagined that he would be responsible for the murder of his own son (there’s a video of his apology).

    I’m saying that, yes, in an ideal world, all men would step to the plate, but we all know that’s not the case. And if it’s not happening naturally, there’s a reason.

  88. Hannibal

    @SHAY SHAY

    I WILL BE NICE TO U, BECUZ I KNOW U WILL MAKE A FOOL OUT OF ME IF I DONT, AND WHO IS THE BITCH U SAID THAT I PISSED OFF?

  89. hi haters

    i bet the mom is dark and ghetto!! thats why i am attracted to only light skin women

  90. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Lashonda,

    “Typical reaction to child support from another lazy man walking this earth. I wish we could rid the world of all of yall and just have women on it.”

    Well, not really but it women would just stop giving incentives to these men we wouldnt have a problem. We can be sure that this niggah has been trife since day one and some stupid black female still thought it a good a idea to get pregnant by him.


  91. @ kigali
    i guess now that this ignorant ass man decided to murder his child you , (as usual) will find a way to blame the mom… fuck the fact that a grown 22 year old male was able to slit the throat of his own child, as normal we know how you feel about the mom
    (yes its obvious) but what are your thoughts on the low life father!!! if there is such a thing in you eyes?

  92. ME

    And with this profile he still was able to find someone to make a baby with. I wonder what the mother is like.
    _______________________________________

    Another ignorant jerk who just can’t seem to blame this man for killing his child but with you in the other post calling black women black bitches I really didn’t expect much more from you. Black man is to ignorance like air is to breathing. Theyre one in the same. You really can’t expect much more from the majority of them.

  93. MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    No, he doesn’t object – he just leaves my grandson with HIS mother and then she gets frustrated because he leaves and stays out all night.

  94. JK

    Oh, he going to get his at “The Farm”, Angola prison. They don’t play that.

  95. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @corporatecutieshayshay,

    I am almost certain that this fool has been trash for a long time but momma didnt care about it then.


  96. @ hannibal
    see… now why she gotta be a bitch, she might have been a reall cute white girl that you would have like!!!! willyou be good, and you cool with me today im going to spend my day bashing this loser ass 22 yr old that killed his son!!! im going to flatline his ass before the end of the day!!! i can see if he cut her throat,(just playin) hell she was the one he laid down with but an innocent child!!!! nooooooooooooooo

  97. Raquel26

    @tlatrice:

    From the words of Sydney…..”I don’t think people are blaming the mother per se, but as women, we have hold some responsibility for the men we allow into our lives”.

    Well said, Syd.

    Now to add on:

    I’m not saying that it was wrong for the mother to want her son to have a connection with his father and yes, it is his fault solely as far as the murder goes.
    But I think you missed my point.

    My point is that while people can change and turn into either the worst or for the better, you still need to get to know a person. Find out from friends and family how that person is. Do your research.

    My cousin dated a “thug”, didnt know much about him except the fact that he had money, dressed nice, but had no job. Hung out with the wrong crowd, etc. These are things females need to take into account when meeting guys. Most likely, a guy like this isnt going to be good material for anything. She ended up having to do a 5 year bid for this dude in prison all because she didnt know a thing about him, slept with him, let him up in her house and then she gets shitted on.

    Not the same story, but my drift is that leave niggas like THIS (above) alone. Most likely you will have drama following you if you dont. And this is this young lady’s drama. High school sweethearts or not. This dudes pictures rings deadbeat.

  98. Sydney

    @mycalah69

    My heart goes out to the mother and the family as well.

  99. Raquel26

    @Kigali:

    Yeah, I agree with that statement. Alot of females will know how a dude is but for some reason, stay stuck on stupid.

  100. Hannibal

    @SHAY SHAY

    LETS BE HONEST, THIS IS THE BABYMAMA’S FAULT

  101. ME

    Well, not really but it women would just stop giving incentives to these men we wouldnt have a problem. We can be sure that this niggah has been trife since day one and some stupid black female still thought it a good a idea to get pregnant by him.

    _____________________________________________

    I agree. I wish they would just make a bunch of huge jails and fill them with these black men who have no motivation. Thye should then all be bombed. Then these screwed up black men could stop preying on young girls and impregnating them and thr world would be a better place. Stop and think about it: would the would the world really miss the black man? Our race doesn’t even miss him. WOuld the world?

  102. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @me,

    On the contrary, I can blame this man for the murder of this child, I can also blame his ignorant ass mother for trying to start a family with this low life. You sleep with a rabid dog what do you expect to happen?

    In the future, I will give black females a check list on what types of men to avoid. She can walk around town with it and interview the prospective baby daddy. If he scores below a 75, she either has to wear a condom when she is having sex with him or she has to just keep a legs closed- an Olympian task in and of itself.

  103. Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    So he’s really not spending time with his son? Has he ever considered possibly taking parenting classes?

  104. Raquel26

    @Kigali:

    Some women have no care or concern about what their man is like as long as they can say they have man.

    I’d rather be happy and single.


  105. @ kigali
    you may be right but what if they met when she was a young tenderoni in school and she may have saw potential, i just dont want to go bashing her, instead of saying you aint shit you broke and cant see your son, she allowed him to have time with his child and this is the result, we as woman always take the beating for keeping a man from his child and when we take the higher road some shit like this happens

  106. hi haters

    @mycalah

    it is the moms fault!!

    @sydney

    where is ziggy dust?? u get him and sydney #1

  107. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Me,

    These men arent preying on young girls. These females arent victims. They are desperate for love and they are children emotionally. And if they are young girls, where are her parents? Thats right, her momma is getting her weave tightened and cussing out some Korean for fucking her nails up.

  108. ME

    Danny Platt said he was under a lot of pressure. He apparently owed his estranged wife $4,000 in back child support.

    ___________________________________________

    Okay so now that the article clearly establishes she was married to this man what is your next move Kigali? This wasn’t someone she just opened her legs for. It was her estranged husband who did this. So the “black bitch” did the right thing as far as that was concerned. She what is she to blame for now?

    And where does the article say this man was a thug? He was clearly down on his luck but I don’t see any references to thugging or any jail experiences or nothing. So are you saying that all black men down on their luck are thugs? Is that how you see the black man?

  109. Sydney

    Actually, Kigali, a checklist is not a bad idea.

    @ME

    I think you’re internalizing this situation — There ARE black men who are caring for their children (my father being one of them). For me to cast a blanket generalization on brothers would be to disrespect and malign some of great black men in my own family.

  110. hi haters

    @sydney

    u found ur dad?

  111. ME

    These men arent preying on young girls. These females arent victims. They are desperate for love and they are children emotionally. And if they are young girls, where are her parents? Thats right, her momma is getting her weave tightened and cussing out some Korean for fucking her nails up.

    _______________________________

    Sorry but your still not explaining what this has to do with it being this mans fault that he killed his child. What does who is doing the grandmothers nails have to do with a man slaughtering his two year old child? NOTHING but to an ignorant black man like you. You have yet to say two words about this murder but you have been bashing the black woman this entire time. You’re over in the Kim Kardashian post calling us black bitches. Why is that? You obviously have serious issues that would make you so hell bent on bashing a black woman that youre overlooking that a two year old baby is dead at his fathers hands. Your hate for the black woman is clouding your judgement. You are more harm to the black race than help. Go take your bitter little angry butt somewhere to someone who htinks its ok to murder babies because they have issues with black women.

  112. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    I’m trying to understand how the mother let him pick him up after all that time!!!

    Couldn’t they have started visitation while she was present?

    Something’s just not adding up or—-ol’ girl was probably so glad he “all of a sudden” wanted to see his son that she didn’t see any hidden motives!

    He probably wouldn’t had to pay more than $50.00 a week!

    Damn shame!!

  113. MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    Girl, no. He’s too busy out there chasin’ other girls. The only thing he’s managed to do successfully is buy my grandson the same namebrand clothes that he wears – Pelle-Pelle jacket, Avirex jacket, Mauri shoes – that kind of foolishness. My grandson doesn’t know about crap like that.

    Every time my grandson is with his father I’m scared soembody is going to try and rob BOTH of them – wearing all that stupid shit. It’s just senseless to me.


  114. @ kigali
    i just read that he became recently unemployed and was down on his luck sooooooooooooooo.
    your theory for this thread just got flatlined!!!
    BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEEEPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!
    DEAD HE WAS HER HUBBY AND HAD FELL OFF!!!
    SO MY STATEMENT IS WHEN WE WOMEN TRY TO DO THE RIGHT THING AND GET MARRIED AND HAVE A FAMILY WE GET A CLOSET CASE CRAZY ASS MAN>>>
    IM NOT SAYING YOUR THEORY OF MOST BLACK WOMEN IS WRONG, FRANKLY I CONCUR… BUT TO SOME EXTENT “THE BLACK MAN”
    WILL HAVE TO EVENTUALLY STAND UP AND BE THE MAN THAT IS EXPECTED OF HIM.
    SOME FAST TAIL GIRLS ARE LACKING GOOD PARENTING AND FOR LACK THEREOF THEY RIN ACROSS THE 1RST MAN SHOWING AFFECTION AND END UP PREGNANT OR ON WELFARE, BUT THIS ISNT THAT CASE

  115. MissBlaze43

    @ 1TruDiva

    That’s all my grandson’s father had to pay – $50 per week – but had he paid it? Hell no. Now that its adding up, there’s certain shit he can’t do, like get a passport.

  116. 4evaURLgirl

    ME:

    Don’t argue with Kigali. He’s a race bashing faggot punk. I was reading a post last night where a girl who said she is in Alaska came in and punked his punk azzz so bad he ran from the post and wouldn’t come back. She had the same issue you did but was much more vocal about it. Someone as weak as Kigali isn’t worth your trouble. Go look at a post about Khloe Kardashian and her new boyfriend and you’ll see for yourself how this punk ran. Ignore him. Kigali is weak and I saw it with my own eyes.

  117. pm

    @MissBlaze43 thats not a good reason to keep your grandson away from his father… as long as he is not putting him in harm. I bet its just the other grandmother complaining for nothing when she know she don’t mind watching him.

  118. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Me,

    The penal system will take care of this man. He is going down for his crime but what about the crimes that are routinely commited by black females? They bring these thug ass, low lives, criminals into their lives and when shit like this happens, when shit like Julia Hudons whole family getting killed happens, no one is around to say that these black females shouldnt be trying to rehab these niggahs. No one is around to say these black females shouldnt be making babies with these niggash. No one is around to say these black females shouldnt be exposing herself, her family to these niggahs. No one is around to expose her role in the situation.

    As for Kim Kardashian, black females have this visceral hatred of her that is so irrational and immature calling them bitches regarding it is being generous. How about you call out them black females out for calling her and her sister even worse name than bitches. Oh thats right, a black female is entitled to her rage against attractive white women who are dating wealthy black men.

    I am a woman btw.

  119. Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    SMH. Has he bought his son a book? The money he spends on designer clothes could buy a lot of educational toys.

    He doesn’t seem to be fully ready to be a father.

    OK, I have a similar situation with a relative, and without going into detail, I’ll say that she had a child with a man who already had a shaky background and was in no position, nor did he express the desire, to have a child. And it has been a struggle. It really has, and it’s the child who’s suffering the most.


  120. @ ME
    FYI
    KIGALI SAYS SHE A GIRL… I DONT KNOW WITHPUT A GRAVIE SHE COULD BE A WHITE MAN FOR ALL WE KNOW

  121. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @4evaURLgirl,

    I dont recall “running” from any post. I probably went to my cousins house or to bed. Anyone have anything to say to me about my views, I am back bitches.

    I am woman.

  122. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @corporatecutie,

    Does it matter who or what I am? Just deal with my arguments. If you dont have the intellectual fortitude but instead can only make personal insults, just ignore me.

  123. Sydney

    Kigali, have you and SMDH ever been in a thread at the same time? It seems that since your views run directly counter to one another, it would seem that she would be a direct target for your perspective.

    Just saying. . .

  124. 4evaURLgirl

    @4evaURLgirl,

    I dont recall “running” from any post. I probably went to my cousins house or to bed. Anyone have anything to say to me about my views, I am back bitches.

    I am woman.

    No your not. Your a MAN who ran from a woman last night when she was gettin in that azz. You ran and the post points that out.

  125. ME

    ME:

    Don’t argue with Kigali. He’s a race bashing faggot punk. I was reading a post last night where a girl who said she is in Alaska came in and punked his punk azzz so bad he ran from the post and wouldn’t come back. She had the same issue you did but was much more vocal about it. Someone as weak as Kigali isn’t worth your trouble. Go look at a post about Khloe Kardashian and her new boyfriend and you’ll see for yourself how this punk ran. Ignore him. Kigali is weak and I saw it with my own eyes.
    __________________________________

    I just found it and read it. While she is very eccentric in her speech she does bring up some very good points about the black man. Thatks for pointing it out. Now I know who Im dealing with.

  126. eddiedollars215

    @BE… that’s why I added in creul and unusual punishment…

    @Syd… scratch that… criminally insane we don’t want to be disrespectful to the mentally ill…

    I swear my little bullshit raps are like the bible/koran… life stories that apply to everything… parables from Eddie Dollars…

    “My niggas G’s but we scared of the trap (Aids)/ niggas ’s dying everyday it’s even worse than crack/ cause you can get a little shot to take care of the clap/ but that other shit/ they ain’t got no cure for that/ nigga for real ain’t no shot for that/ they (aids) droping bodies everyday/ but you can’t shoot that back/ so when my dick gets wet/ my dick gets wrapped/ you shooting dice with your penis/ I ain’t fucking with that/ but shorty over there i’m trina fuck with that/ I ain’t trina abstain/ I’m trina strain my back/ but I don’t need no dick pains if I’m laying with that/ AND I AIN’T READY FOR MY KIDS… SO I SPRAY IN MY HAT”

    hahahahaha… a little graphic and I promise it sounds better than it reads… but IF YOU AIN’T READY FOR NO KIDS… SPRAY IN YOUR HAT… or at least use the catholic method… when did it become too strenuous to pull your dick out the pussy… and fill up the belly button… hahahahahaha… OK I’m done that was my disgusting for the day…
    see everyone needs to be more like me the world would be a much better place…

  127. MissBlaze43

    @ pm

    No, the other grandmother is MISERABLE because she’s still got young ones of her own to deal with. How young? My grandson has an uncle just three (3) years older than him – that’s how young.

    She shouldn’t have to be the one keeping my grandson – her son should show respect to his OWN mother and keep his OWN son when he’s there.

    She had the audacity to say to my daugher, “I don’t see why your mother can’t keep him.”

    Because I’m not the 24-hour babysitter, that’s why. Her son doesn’t work – he doesn’t go to school. He’s out there hustling, going to court all the damn time.

    My daughter works two jobs and this niggah can’t find one? AND you can’t keep your son when my daughter needs him to.

    If that’s not reason enough for my daughter to keep her son away from her father and his family – then I don’t know what is.

    It’s not a good thing, in my book, to bitch and complain about little children. That shit is NOT COOL.

  128. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @4evaURLgirl,

    Its obvious you are baitng me. Its ok. I dont remember corresponding with anyone from Alaska but in the meantime I will return back to that thread and answer whatever concerns they had. Or, just copy and paste them here so I dont have to go to the trouble. Anyone who knows me on here knows that I dont run from a fight. I start them, I win them, I finish them. Trust me.

  129. 4evaURLgirl

    Kigali, have you and SMDH ever been in a thread at the same time? It seems that since your views run directly counter to one another, it would seem that she would be a direct target for your perspective.

    Just saying. . .

    If you are talking about the girl who handed Kigali his azz in that post last night I have seen them in the same post. I have seen them in many swirl posts together before. You dont forget Kigali or SMDH that easily.

  130. eddiedollars215

    This is a serious question and it is sheer eddie logic… but opinions…? NO CHILD SUPPORT… FOR KIDS BORN OUT OF WED LOCK…?

  131. ME

    @4evaURLgirl,

    I dont recall “running” from any post. I probably went to my cousins house or to bed. Anyone have anything to say to me about my views, I am back bitches.

    I am woman.
    ______________________________

    Maybe you should go back and read the post. I looks like you ran to me. Even Sydney points that out at one point. You disappeared very quickly.


  132. @ KIGALI
    GILR PUUHHLLEASE
    IHANDLE YOU BLACK GORL BASHING ASS JUST FINE =.. NOW SINCE YOU WANNA BE AT IT THEN.. I THINK YOU MAY BE AN UGLY ASS BLACK BITCH … PROBABLY FROM AFRICA AS I MAY HAVE HEARD EITHER YOU OR YOR IMPERSONATOR SAY.. YOU WERE PROBABLY DID WRONG BY YOUR FUCKING MAMA THATS WHY YOU ARE DOWN RIGHT DISRESPECTFUL TO BLACK WOMEN!!! ICOULD CARE LESS IF YOU WERE GREEN WITH RED HERPES, NO ARGUMENT YOU GIVE CAN RUN ME AWAY, YOU MAY HAVE VALID PIONTS BUT YOU HAVE IGNORANT COMMENTARY CALLING WOMEN BLACK BITCHES, I WONDER WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT THE BLACK BITCH THAT BIRTHED OU… AND OH BY THE WAY I DIDNT CALL YOUR MAMA A BLACK BITCH… YOU DID! JUST WONDERING HOW YOU THINK THA SOUNDS!!!
    I DONT GIVE A FUCK YOUR A WOMAN I ROAST ALL AND ANY GENDER I WAS CLEARING UP YOUR GENDER FOR ANOTHER BLOGGER!!
    YOUR ASS PROBABLY WAS CIRCUMSIZED AS A CHILD AND HAVE ANGER ISSUES WITH YOUR OWN MAMA, TAKE THAT SHIT UP WITH HER, AND STOP BEING ON A BLACK GOSSIP BLOG SO FUCKING SERIOUS, NOW PUT THAT IN YOUR PIPE AND SMOKE IT!!!!

  133. 4evaURLgirl

    @4evaURLgirl,

    Its obvious you are baitng me. Its ok. I dont remember corresponding with anyone from Alaska but in the meantime I will return back to that thread and answer whatever concerns they had. Or, just copy and paste them here so I dont have to go to the trouble. Anyone who knows me on here knows that I dont run from a fight. I start them, I win them, I finish them. Trust me.
    ____________________________________

    Yeah well you didn’t finish this one last night. She dusted you all up in your azz and you disappeared. You punked out. Why respond now? SMDH is gone. She isn’t even in this time zone. Why didn’t you respond last night when she was handing you azz to you?

  134. dre

    @sydney

    ur alter keeper marquis is in the chris brown!!!

  135. ME

    Yeah well you didn’t finish this one last night. She dusted you all up in your azz and you disappeared. You punked out. Why respond now? SMDH is gone. She isn’t even in this time zone. Why didn’t you respond last night when she was handing you azz to you?

    ____________________________________

    You’re right. Alaska is in a different timezone. At the time she was cursing him out it wasn’t even night time or it was here. I have seen her post before now that I think about it. She is a wild one but very accurate.


  136. @ ME
    KIGALI DOESNT WIN FIGHTS
    SHE STARTS THEM TO GET A RIZE AND LEAVES UNTIL THE NEXT DAY!!! I HAVENT SEEN A KO YET!!!! IM STILL WAITING

  137. 4evaURLgirl

    @ ME
    KIGALI DOESNT WIN FIGHTS
    SHE STARTS THEM TO GET A RIZE AND LEAVES UNTIL THE NEXT DAY!!! I HAVENT SEEN A KO YET!!!! IM STILL WAITING

    Yeah well he got his azz run up out of a post last night.

  138. MissBlaze43

    @ Sydney

    EXACTLY – it’s always THE CHILD that suffers. These kids didn’t ask to be in this world – yet they’re the ones abused, used and mistreated.

    My daughter and I are the ones who get my grandson books and educational toys to expand his mind, and at 3 he’s a smart, bright kid.

    I aim to keep him on the straight ‘n narrow as he gets older. Truth be told, I’m GLAD my grandson will be spending less time with his father. That way none of his trifling ways can be picked up by my grandson.

    My daughter and I want to raise a MAN – not a Thugg!


  139. KO = KNOCK OUT

  140. Sydney

    @4evaURLgirl

    LOL, OK, I’ll have to keep out for their meetings from now on because I couldn’t recall a real conversation between the two of them.

  141. ME

    @ ME
    KIGALI DOESNT WIN FIGHTS
    SHE STARTS THEM TO GET A RIZE AND LEAVES UNTIL THE NEXT DAY!!! I HAVENT SEEN A KO YET!!!! IM STILL WAITING

    ________________________________

    LOL I see that from the fight he ran from last night.

  142. meg

    i live in new orleans…in the same neighborhood that this happened. so sad. but he’ll get his because now he’s in central lock-up which is an awful place to be–especially for a child murderer


  143. @ MEG
    THATS GOOD TO KNOW
    MAYBE HE WONT MAKE IT TO ARRAIGNMENT :)

  144. ME

    This is a serious question and it is sheer eddie logic… but opinions…? NO CHILD SUPPORT… FOR KIDS BORN OUT OF WED LOCK…?
    __________________________________

    How ignorant. So a woman should have to raise her child without financial support from the father because they weren’t married when she got pregnant? Again no lesson learend for the black man who is clearly the problem in situations like this. I’d imagine this would float very well with baby abandoning black men. Do you really feel the black man should just answer to NOTHING? I’m so happy he is not the one who make the decision as to who gets his money when it comes to his children.

  145. Boston George

    @Hannibal

    You’re a piece of shit just like this nigga. Probably have a couple of your own illegitimate bastards running around. SMDH at your cornrows starting in the middle of your chrome dome…lmao Fake ass Layzie Bone Clone

    Cock sucker off yourself!

  146. Sydney

    @MissBlaze

    Yeah, my relative’s family has the same mindset. . .

    I just feel pain for the children caught in these situations. They are the true innocents.

  147. 4evaURLgirl

    This is a serious question and it is sheer eddie logic… but opinions…? NO CHILD SUPPORT… FOR KIDS BORN OUT OF WED LOCK…?

    LOL. let me leave this thread. The black man pity party is starting to turn my stomach.

    PEACE OUT ME!

  148. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @4evaURLgirl

    Ok, I went back to that Kardashian McCants post and there wasnt anyone on there that I hadnt been speaking to already. SMDH crazy ass showed up but thats it. I would like to know specifically, who are you talking about that “ran” me off the post. If you can, paste what they wrote here that got me running. I would love to read it.

  149. marquis is keeping the alter of sydney

    ur dick is in the chris brown!!

  150. ME

    @4evaURLgirl

    Ok, I went back to that Kardashian McCants post and there wasnt anyone on there that I hadnt been speaking to already. SMDH crazy ass showed up but thats it. I would like to know specifically, who are you talking about that “ran” me off the post. If you can, paste what they wrote here that got me running. I would love to read it.

    ______________________________________

    I think shes gone according to her last post but I am guessing thats what she was talking about. How you stayed for all the other comments that appeared to be going your way but the minute SDMH showed up you ran and wouldn’t respond to her. Looks kinda punkish to me.

  151. marquis is keeping the alter of sydney

    @kigali

    everyone should go to kardashian mccants post right sydney???

  152. eddiedollars215

    @me… typical emotional response… you completely missed my point… and this is what you ladies don’t seem to get… MOMMA’S BABY DADDY’S MAYBE… my mom is pregnant as shit in her wedding picture… but had the sense to mess with a stand up dude like my pop… I also have close family members who chose to MURDER their unborn babies rather than face their actions… MEN DON’T GET PREGNANT… I CAN’T GET PREGNANT… and if I could… I WOULD NEVER LET SOMEONE FUCK RAW AND THEN EJACULATE INSIDE ME… STOP MAKING BABIES AND START MAKING FAMILIES… HAHAHAHAHA… REAL TALK… the root cause of the problem at hand is yall keep fucking with these flea ass niggas… none of the broads I mess with have these types of issues because they fuck with niggas like me…

  153. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Me,

    “Maybe you should go back and read the post. I looks like you ran to me. Even Sydney points that out at one point. You disappeared very quickly.”

    I think you should check the time of my last post on the Kardashian thread and check the first post from SMDH. I am sure some time had elasped between then but again, SMDH says the same shit over and over again and I refuse to even address her until, like every other dysfunctional person in her answers me why, if black men are so bad, do they find it so easy to get pussy from black females. She certainly ran from that question by admittedly saying she couldnt answer it. Now tell me what SMDH said yesterday that she hasnt already said a million times before?

    “This race is doomed. With black men like Kigali among us this race is doomed.”

    Funny how the race is doomed because I called Bossip black females bitches but not because black females have overwhelmingly turned their backs on traditional families in place of her current mating, or rather breeding patterns. I call them breeding patterns because black females no longer raise children but shallow vessels that go on to repeat her mistakes.

  154. Sydney

    @eddie

    “none of the broads I mess with have these types of issues because they fuck with niggas like me…”

    No, the problem is when you deal with a “ni**a” and not with a BLACK MAN.

    It is seems like you’re absolving brothers of all responsibility, including child support (if I’m reading your proposal correctly).

    May I strike “ni**a” from the Bossip lexicon? lol

  155. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Me,

    And for the record I wasnt on the thread when SMDH showed up. Ok, I am done with that issue.

  156. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    Ms. Blaze–

    I apologize for responding so late!!!

    I’m at work ACTUALLY working so you KNOW I’m pissed!!

    Lol!!!!!

    True story–

    One of my brothers was ordered to pay $1.00 (Yes, ONE DOLLAR) a week in child support.

    In addition to THAT—he used to get the dollar (AND THE ENVELOPE AND STAMP) from the child’s mother.

    I…..KID……YOU……NOT!!!!!!!!!

  157. Sydney

    @Kigali

    “Funny how the race is doomed because I called Bossip black females bitches but not because black females have overwhelmingly turned their backs on traditional families in place of her current mating”

    It takes a man and a woman to make up a “traditional family,” and it will take men and women to repair the broken structure in our community.

  158. Yvonne

    This man(?) wasn’t distressed. He is a selfish, ignorant coward who didn’t want to take care of his responsibilities.

    If he was so distressed why didn’t he kill himself.
    No, this fool kills his son instead.

    If he didn’t know stress before he will now. He will be given a life or death sentence AND his ass will be properly handled when he gets among his prison “buddies” so many times he will wish he had killed himself.

  159. Sydney

    Wow, Diva. . .

    Really???

  160. P

    Hannibal is a troll, NEVER RESPOND TO HIM.

  161. ME

    @me… typical emotional response… you completely missed my point… and this is what you ladies don’t seem to get… MOMMA’S BABY DADDY’S MAYBE… my mom is pregnant as shit in her wedding picture… but had the sense to mess with a stand up dude like my pop… I also have close family members who chose to MURDER their unborn babies rather than face their actions… MEN DON’T GET PREGNANT… I CAN’T GET PREGNANT… and if I could… I WOULD NEVER LET SOMEONE FUCK RAW AND THEN EJACULATE INSIDE ME… STOP MAKING BABIES AND START MAKING FAMILIES… HAHAHAHAHA… REAL TALK… the root cause of the problem at hand is yall keep fucking with these flea ass niggas… none of the broads I mess with have these types of issues because they fuck with niggas like me…

    _____________________________________

    Now ehen your ready to remove the emotion from your response maybe you can answer the question I asked you.

    Mama’s baby daddy’s maybe however you do not get child support until the maybe is removed so that little explanation is right out the window. Back to my original question and try to stay with me this time: Are you saying that a man should have no financial responsibilities to the child he creates becuase he wasn’t married when he and another prsn made the child? What responsibility does that teach him?

    You are speaking from the obvious anger you have towards the black woman but bashing the black woman isn’t going to teach the black man responsibility. When she makes a child out of wedlock she ends up raising that child alone so in fact she already pays dearly for letting a man run up in her unprotected. Are you saying the man who ran up in her unprotected should get patted on his head and sent on his way?

    Now try to process the question fully before you respond and this time try to answer it a little more maturely and a little less angry black manly.

  162. Exxon300

    Obama 08, Nigga.

  163. P

    Also, it’s pretty well-known that SMDH is an idiot and has no valid viewpoint on issues regarding black men.

    She obviously blames her poor choices on all black men, and it’s not only sad, it’s kind of funny to watch.

  164. niasia

    Ok for anyone blaming the mother in this….just stop it! How the hell was she supposed to know he would KILL the boy! I am sure she is in all kinds of hurt now. Who the hell would think that their child would be killed at random by the father! I mean come on people there is no way she could have seen this coming. Especially if the man never displayed this type of behavior! Do not start talking shit about the boy’s mother…geesh people a MOM is actually a human being who did not get a manual just like the FATHER! That asshole did this…she should not be blamed at all for this! That is the problem…as soon as there is an issue…blame the woman…Hell she is the MOTHER…as though that title holds more responsibilty than say FATHER! Give me a FUCKING break! that is the problem right there blame the woman when shit fails..oh she should have paid attention to who SHE slept with, SHE should have not let him go with him…that is how it always is blame the MOTHER! Give me a break!

  165. Sydney

    @P

    You’re right about Hannibal — Although it does surprise me that he would attempt such a stunt in a serious thread of this nature.

    Like I’ve said before, something’s missing. Or as the elders like to say, that boy ain’t (sic) right!

  166. ME

    Kigali listen honey: YOU RAN!! There was not this long time between you and her post. It was only about 15 minutes and I have seen longer than 15 minutes response time from you in that thread. She came in and blasted you out and you ran. She even said a few times that you wasn’t going to come back so she is clearly used to you running from her. You ran just admit it. You dont even have to admit it. The proof is in the pudding.

    Now I am not SDHM. I am not going to argue back and forth with the likes of your ignorance or rather argue with myself while you disappear from the thread. Do yourself. I have already seen what you’re about. I wouldnt even give you the time of day any further. You’re not worth it. You have your feelings about the black woman and I have mine. We aren’t going to see eye to eye so I’m willing to let it go now.

    See I am telling you I’m going to let it go. Notice how I didn’t run out of the thread?

  167. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @ME,

    “Are you saying that a man should have no financial responsibilities to the child he creates becuase he wasn’t married when he and another prsn made the child? ”

    You just dont get it. It isnt the black men who isnt confused about whether he should pay child support. When the black female gets knocked up by bum niggahs she is effectively saying she doesnt give a fuck it her child eats or not. Its that simple.

    Now can you or SMDH tell me why black females get pregnant and give pussy to bum niggahs?

  168. ME

    Also, it’s pretty well-known that SMDH is an idiot and has no valid viewpoint on issues regarding black men.

    She obviously blames her poor choices on all black men, and it’s not only sad, it’s kind of funny to watch.
    _______________________________________

    And to read the thread it’s kind of funny to see how Kigali ran out with his tail between his legs. Regardless of how you feel about what she said Kiglai didn’t want any parts of her. LOL.

    Maybe Kigali should stop blaming his bad choices in women on everyone or he should keep doing it and SMDH can keep airing him out.

  169. ME

    @Me,

    And for the record I wasnt on the thread when SMDH showed up. Ok, I am done with that issue.
    _______________________________________

    Yes you was. You just ran from it post haste.

    Seriously though I’m going to stop egging on an e-fight between the two of you. I’d hate to see you think you’ve grown the balls to step to her and she has to hand you those too.

  170. eddiedollars215

    @syd… no no no… its really hard to get my point across… I am saying this nigga/brother/whatever is a flea… MOST baby daadys are fleas… I/men don’t choose chicks… chicks choose us… child support and welfare are not meant to benefit anyone… they are meant to destroy the family… Any chick/female/woman/whatever that took ME to court would be out of pocket… because I would play my part… accidents happen… believe me I know… but in my case there would be no need for child support… IF YOU NEED TO TAKE SOMEONE TO COURT FOR CHILD SUPPORT YOU MADE A MISTAKE… YOU WERE FUCKING WITH A FLEA… STOP FUCKING WITH FLEAS… birth control and abortions FOR THE MOST PART (outside of the rape/incest/heath deal) are merely excuses for women to act like sluts… MEN RUN AROUND STICKING THEIR DICKS WHEREVER AND I WANT TO TOO… thats how people think nowadays… the fact of the matter is that two people that obviously were not ready to raise children… procreated… and now a innocent child is dead because… his mother was conned or knowingly let a flea hit it… seriously this guy has winner written all over his face… keep letting flea niggas hit… and this shit will keep happening… YOU HAVE THE POWER… NOT US…

  171. Special K

    It amazes me how this turned into her not being there for her child or black women not being there for their children and how they should marry or what not. People who are in marriages kill there children as well case in point Andrea Yates killed all of her children and she wasn’t black.

  172. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    “her momma is getting her weave tightened and cussing out some Korean for fucking her nails up.”
    _____________________________________________________

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I’ll cuss ‘em out when they t-r-y to charge me “essra” for some damn duck sauce!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  173. hi haters

    sydney and marquis are the same people. were is kevin??? u need to confess!!

  174. ME

    “This race is doomed. With black men like Kigali among us this race is doomed.”

    Funny how the race is doomed because I called Bossip black females bitches but not because black females have overwhelmingly turned their backs on traditional families in place of her current mating, or rather breeding patterns. I call them breeding patterns because black females no longer raise children but shallow vessels that go on to repeat her mistakes.
    _________________________________________

    No the race is doomed because violence is so second natured to black men that black men like you actually sit here and condone other black men murdering their children in place of blaming women for who they are sleeping with. TRADITIONALLY whne responsible men don’t want to be fathers or aren’t ready to THEY USE CONDOMS! They make it so that no woman can ever claim he fathered something that he didn’t. And you act as if this girl knew this man was a lazy useless murderer and just layed back and spread her legs for them. Hows about laying a mans uselessness on the mans shoulders instead of everyone elses. Everyone is getting tired of it.

    Also seeing that the article points out that they were MARRIED I think your out of wedlock anger laced tirade against the black woman is irrelevant.

  175. Special K

    @ Eddie

    You know I can actually appreciate your point. I really can and I see where you are coming from. It’s almost like saying the age old saying “if you play with fire expect to get burnt”

  176. Redd Tony

    @What up Eddie! I checked your YouTube video out..Was that you spittin?

  177. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ Sydney–

    Yes, it’s true! I was there when she reminded him to put his child support payment in the mail once. He replied, “I will as soon as you give me the money and a stamp.” What was even sadder was he had to send it by money order. I was like “doesn’t it cost 40 cents to purchase a money order?”

    SMH!

    BTW–This is the same child (nephew) that we buried almost four years ago.

    Cause of death you ask? Homicide.

    We DO become a product of our environment.

  178. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @ME,

    Shock horrow, she was married. Now that truly threw me off. In any event, female condoms cost between $2.50 and $5.00 and with a thorough disinfecting, can be reused. So now females have no excuse to have children with dead beats.

  179. richie

    I said it before and Imma KEEP ON sayin it:

    REMEMBER THIS STORY WHEN THE ISSUE OF GAY MARRIAGE/GAY ADOPTION COMES UP AGAIN. CHALLENGE THE BIBLE THUMPERS TO EXPLAIN HOW GOD COULD CONSIDER MARRIAGE SACRED AND EXCLUSIVE TO HETEROS, WHEN SHIT LIKE THIS IS HAPPENING!

  180. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    For the record…..

    Kigali is NOT a man!!!!

    I find it funny how it’s assumed she is a he!

    Her views are her views and…agree or not, I respect them.

    Stereotype much?

  181. ME

    IF YOU NEED TO TAKE SOMEONE TO COURT FOR CHILD SUPPORT YOU MADE A MISTAKE

    __________________________

    You clearly have trouble reading becuase the article says she never took him for child support. She applied for food stamps and Welfare – THE WHITE MAN – came after his scrawney black butt for the money.

    You’re losing focus again. Not to mention you sound as ignorant as that wimp that ran from SMDH in that post last night. I think I’m done posting to you to. The fact remains thta the black man, as will no man, EVER be excused from supporting his child financially as long as the white man runs things – and thank God. Thank God for the level headed white man who understands responsibility is necessary. If its good enough for him, its good enough for you. There is really no need in me getting all risen up over something that will never happen anyway. Pay your child support and stop complaining or use a condom next time. Condoms have a 99.99% effectiveness when used properly.

  182. ME

    For the record…..

    Kigali is NOT a man!!!!

    I find it funny how it’s assumed she is a he!

    Her views are her views and…agree or not, I respect them.

    Stereotype much?
    ______________________________________

    I never said Kigali was a man. SMDH said that in a post last night. But from his/her posts and the hate for the black woman in them I have no reason not to believe SMDH is accurate in saying that he/she is a man. I believe that Kigali is a man.

    But the balls in your court. How do you know Kigali is NOT a man? Have you met him/her?

  183. Sydney

    @eddie

    “birth control and abortions FOR THE MOST PART (outside of the rape/incest/heath deal) are merely excuses for women to act like sluts…”

    So what exactly are you saying, that birth control shouldn’t be used by sexually active people?

    As far as abortions are concerned, that’s a woman’s personal choice, IMHO.

    “MEN RUN AROUND STICKING THEIR DICKS WHEREVER AND I WANT TO TOO”

    So are you saying you subscribe to this way of thinking?

    OK, here’s the deal: We are humans, not animals. If you watch one of those documentaries on Animal Planet, yes, you will see the male beast impregnating as many females as possible because that is his innate nature.

    We as humans have the brain power and ability to make choices. We have a conscience. We have knowledge. That goes for both men AND women.

    I’m not going to let men off the hook with the whole “boys will be boys” excuse line — If you’re a man and you have a line of women bearing your illegitimate children, guess what, you also have a problem that you need to rectify. Control yourself. Use some sense and protection.

  184. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    Did someone mention child support???????????

    Damn! You just reminded me that if I EVER see my ex-husband on this side of creation, I’ma bust ‘em in his head to the white meat!!

    I got a claw hammer under my seat with his name aaaalllll over it!!!

    Bastid!!!!

    Lol!!!!!!!!

  185. S&J

    Disgusting piece of shit. Rot in fuckin’ jail nigga!

  186. hi haters

    @sydney

    u dumb cunt!! u will confess soon!!

  187. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ ME–

    That was NOT directed primarily at you!!!

    In reading some of the posts, I read where there’s reference to her as a man.

    I was just pointing out the fact that she’s not.

    I also pointed out the fact that it may be assumed she’s a man because of her views.

    That’s all.

    Carry on…………..

  188. ME

    @ME,

    Shock horrow, she was married. Now that truly threw me off. In any event, female condoms cost between $2.50 and $5.00 and with a thorough disinfecting, can be reused. So now females have no excuse to have children with dead beats.
    _________________________________________________

    And male condoms are even less. You can walk into a clinic and get condoms for free! Maybe if black men don’t want to take care of their responsibility they should be investing heavily. Maybe if he invested more he wouldn’t have such high STD levels and wouldn’t be spreading them at the dangerous levels that he does. If the woman has to raise the child alone the LEAST he can do is step in financially.

  189. Sydney

    OK, I’m confused. . .I was under the impression that the couple in question is unmarried. In fact, the children have the mother’s last name. Am I mistaken?

    @Diva

    Sista, that’s a horrible story. I am so, so sorry. . .

    What a tragedy.

  190. niasia

    @Kigali

    OK so if a woman does indeed sleep with a FLEA does that take aways the FLEA’s responsibility say b/c it is a flea. “Well you knew I wasn’t no good so you get what it is” All the blame cannot be placed on the female. That is the major problem, we always blame the WOMAN for the failures…I have seen people who were well humans and not say “fleas” act totally different when there is a child involved. Again all of the blame can’t fall on the woman! If a man is a flea shouldn’t something in HIM tell him ok now I have a child I may need to change? But no that doesn’t happen but the woman had better get it together now that the baby is coming. I bet if the single women started dropping the babies off at the men’s door with no forwarding address it would be totally different! I do not have children but if I did have one where I was not planning to oh I would be right there at the door like here you go! Well I take that back b/c I would actually be at the clinic…anywho…Society always expects the MOTHER to be the responsible one with low expectations of the father!

  191. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ ME–

    Actually, you have a point. In response to your question–no, I don’t know for sure. I can only conclude that from previous conversation where she’s let that be known.

    On the same note–how do we know who’s what up in here??

    **checking inside of panties**

    Yup. I’m still a she!!!!

    Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  192. ME

    I was just pointing out the fact that she’s not.

    I also pointed out the fact that it may be assumed she’s a man because of her views.

    That’s all.

    Carry on…………..

    ________________________________

    No problem but before I carry on there wasa question in there that you missed. How do you factually know that Kigali is a female. Have you met him/her? I don’t want to get anything started here but it would appear the only way you could factually know that is if you are Kigali or if you’ve seen id/birth certificate. How do you know so positively?

  193. Brook Lynn Choclate Gyl (I blamed it on the Ah-Ah-Ah-Ah-Ah-Alcohol)

    Mutha Fucker!!!

  194. eddiedollars215

    @me… no black woman… black man… just woman… man… of course the men have a responsibility rather a duty to raise their children… not just a financial responsibility… a child needs 2 parents not one… the problem is these retards keep having babies out of wedlock, and the courts are designed to destroy the family… my point is one of governmental interference as a result of poor judgement on the mothers part… I am talking about the degradation of societal values… women need to realize the power that they hold over men and start using it… women used to inspire men to be better than what the were… now they are too busy trying to be men and raising their men to act like boys (if the modern man can even be called that)… if it seems like I am absolving men of their duties… that is not my intent… I am merely asking women to hold themselves in better esteem… you have to realize I was raised by Smart Setters, United Negro Business Women, and very very classy, wonderfully strong black women… that taught me women and men are EQUAL but very different… and that a man should act like a man and a lady a lady… they taught me that while a man should be the head of his household… THE WOMAN IS THE NECK… AND THE NECK TURNS THE HEAD… so if you treat men like sperm donors that is how they’ll act…

  195. Passenger 57

    WOW….

    Yet another post where people throw salt at black women and let this monster off the hook.

    Look, I have heard too many black men use the excuse of “being under too much pressure” whenever they cause physical or emotional harm to black women and children.

    They just can’t handle taking care of a child (not even living and raising them, just sending a damn check in!) and are so fucking lazy they wait until they own $4000 in BACK support.

    Ugh, this is exactly why black women OF ALL TYPES (even the “hoodrats”) have to leave black men ALONE. Stop dating them, looking for their attention, worrying about them, sacrificing for them, letting them impregnant you, etc.

    Just pretend they don’t exist until they prove they are worthy of your attention. Or continue to face violence, poverty, disease, abuse, etc.

  196. ME

    @ ME–

    Actually, you have a point. In response to your question–no, I don’t know for sure. I can only conclude that from previous conversation where she’s let that be known.
    ____________________________

    Sorry – ignore my last question. I didn’t see this response.

  197. Redd Tony

    Ok about the thread:

    That bastard should pay dearly, and he is a coward for killing his own son…

    As for child support I aggree with Eddies stance…If a man is doing his part, financially and emotionally for his/her child, the should be no reason for a woman to put a man on child support..

    I beleive it takes two to tango…Sex cant initiate unless the niggas dick is hard..bottom line..I cannot place the full blame on the female when the man is laying down with her too…

  198. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @ME,

    And this is why I have very little respect for the modern black female. Black men arent spreading STDs, black females are contracting them because she doesnt want to insist on condom use. Black females are so strong, so indepedent but she cant afford a $2.00 or $5.00 condom that will probably save her life? How pathetic. Men arent responsible for the health and welfare of the women they are casually fucking. If you bitches were anything you say you were, you wouldnt be waiting around for some man to buy condoms. BUY YOUR OWN if you so strong, if you so indepdent.

    Female condoms are even cheaper than hair weaves and a full set.

  199. Fangbanger aka Sookie

    omg. that IS despicable for ANY reason, but over 4G’s? may the little man rest in peace….

    that poor mother.

  200. Sydney

    @eddie

    “women used to inspire men to be better than what the were… now they are too busy trying to be men and raising their men to act like boys (if the modern man can even be called that)…”

    OK, why is it the responsibility of women to “inspire” men? Are men not the head of the community and of the household? Does it not take a man to raise another man?

    There’s a bit too much being put solely at the feet of black women, who are already under tremendous pressure and strain.

    Come on now. . .

    Should there not be men who are teaching other men how to fulfill their responsibilities? I have breasts and ovaries — I have no idea what it’s like to be one of you!

    This role reversal is killing us — Let us be women, please.

    Thank you kindly.

  201. And.....(with 5 dots)

    Let’s see…pay the measley ass $100 or go to jail for life? $100 or jail forever? Where is the logic behind this? Clearly he was crazy from jump to think that $100 is more precious than his son’s life. What a jackass.

  202. STEFANY

    keep letting flea niggas hit… and this shit will keep happening… YOU HAVE THE POWER… NOT US…
    ***************************************************
    I never understand why women opt to lay down and get pregnant as opposed to being responsible for their birth control, how fucking hard is it for you to make a man put on a condom or swallow a dot sized pill or get a fucking deop shot that last for three months, and the sad thing is low income women can get this shit free and too damn sorry to take advantage of it..It easier to keep producing children by random sorry ass no good men rather than being responsible for your sexual activity, then you complain when the sorry ass bastards don’t pay child support or be fathers to their children.

    Women have the power to stop this mess, and yes it takes two to make a child but the woman carries the ultimate responsibility, medically, emotionally, psychologically and financially so we should bare the sole responsibility, I will. I will never put the fate of my body in any man hands.

  203. Marquis de Sade

    What part of the “FLEA” analogy don’t you women understand?

    A “FLEA” is an unemployed, undereducated, (in all probability has a strong working knowledge of it’s local correctional facilities), and has the earning potential of a fast food burger flipper.

    Why would any sane women allow themselves to get knocked up by a “FLEA”?…And how much in child support were you expecting? Oh, well, i’m out. Will read responses tonight. Ciao!

  204. Special K

    @ Sydney

    I could not have said it better!


  205. WELL ACTUALLY THE BOY DID KNOW HIS FATHER IF YOU WANNA CALL THAT ASSHOLE THAT WELL BETTER WORD SPERM DONOR AND HE WAS IN AND OUT THE BOYS LIFE THE LAST TIME HE DID COME AROUND WAS FOR HALLOWEEN TO TAKE HIM TRICK OR TREATING THE DUMB ASS JUST DIDN’T WANNA PAY HIS CHILD SUPPORT 4000 DOLLARS @ THAT SO NOW HE WILL ROT HIS SORRY ASS IN JAIL OVER 4000 DOLLARS I KNOW THIS MAY SOUND HARSH BUT I HOPE HE GETS WHAT HE DESERVE BEFORE HE COULD ASK GOD FOR HIS FORGIVENESS

  206. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    “Female condoms are even cheaper than hair weaves and a full set.”
    _____________________________________________________

    **reminder to see Lhing Phung on lunch break**

  207. MissDee

    This makes me sick to my stomach… that poor baby didn’t deserve that… there are some really sick monsters in this world!

  208. Sydney

    And while sisters are taking care of children and are being asked to “inspire” and support black men, who’s taking care of them?

    *crickets*

    *more crickets*

    *silence*

  209. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57,

    This whole thing starts when black females, being so emotional and impatient, just cant wait until she is financially stable, and cant wait until the man is financially stable, to have children. Fact is we wouldnt be having this problem if black females had taste and sense. Here is a novel idea, because statistics show that men who were once married to the mother are more likely to be active in the childs life, why not these females wait until they are married? This is 2009, no mistake pregnancies if you arent an illterate imbicile.

  210. ME

    Let’s see…pay the measley ass $100 or go to jail for life? $100 or jail forever? Where is the logic behind this? Clearly he was crazy from jump to think that $100 is more precious than his son’s life. What a jackass.
    __________________________________

    That’s how dumb brothas handle their responsibility. They don’t get reasoning like what you just laid out here. They lack the intelligence to.

    I have a friend whose childs daddy is in arrears to child support from all the times his sorry butt was unemployed and let the money build up instead of taking his dumb butt into court and letting them know he isn’t working so they would halt or lower the payment. He just chose to do nothing. So the money built up to almost $8000. Do you know he will not file his tax returns becuase he refuses to give her the money he owes her quciker than the little extra from the arrears that was added on to what he already has to pay every week?

    This goes to the point you made in your response. If youre not going to get your tax refund anyway why not have it go towards a bill that you owe that will always be over your head and come back to hurt you later? But this fool would rather let the IRS keep the money than to send it to his child.

    But thats how dumb brothas get down.

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  212. ME

    And while sisters are taking care of children and are being asked to “inspire” and support black men, who’s taking care of them?

    *crickets*

    *more crickets*

    *silence*
    __________________________________

    Good point. Noone ever worries about inspiring the sista. She has to carry the weight of everyone else but never gets any recognition or uplifting for it. All she gets is dumped on even more for the so called MAN of her race and what he can’t or won’t do. But noone ever gives her any thanks or support. She is either carrying the broke black man or watching him carry a white woman once he isn’t broke while leaving her behind. She just gets no support or anything.

  213. Passenger 57

    @ Marquis,

    Do you really wanna know why so many black women have relationships with deadbeat, violent, wreckeless, dieases-infested black men??

    Because those men are the ONLY men that will give the typical African American woman the time of day. Period. Stop rentedning that the average black woman (in terms of appearance, education, and social-economic status) has access to the so-called “good black men”.

    Now explain to me why so many so-called “good black men” do not show the average black women any attention, please.

    Because the truth is, MOST black men are not capable of providing for a family or protecting their mate and children. Yes, that includes the so-called “good ones’ who want to pretend like they have this great character when in reality they are just as color struck and racist as some whites. The REAL TRUTH is that for a lot of black women who are not “exceptional” are left to choose from the average black American male and we ALL KNOW what his profile looks like. And even for those of you average black men that don’t have a criminal record – I bet most of you who have kids, don’t have a viable source of employment with upward mobility, are not 100% diease free, haven’t been to a doctor since childhood, cannot control your sexual impulses, have a fetish for non-black or very light skinned women, etc.

    So you are not a good man, you just may be good for a black man.

  214. BE

    @Kigali – you know I don’t mind debating but you calling me an idiot in the Akon thread is totally uncalled for…I know you think that you are the only one in the world who can say anything right but that shit is foul! I have never disrespected you and I expect the same.

  215. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @ME,

    “How do you factually know that Kigali is a female. Have you met him/her?”

    Funny. I am a female because I say I am. How do you know that I ran away in that Kardashian thread? You really dont know unless you were in my room, saw me read a comment by SMDH and decided to not post but since you werent you dont know that I decided to leave, and she came after I left. If you are allowed to make judgements based on scant evidence or unreliable evidence, so can other people.

    Typical black female hypocracy.

  216. cutelady113

    That idiot is just A trifling coward. He deserves a public hanging

  217. eddiedollars215

    @redd… yeah me on the raps… me on the tracks…

    @syd… what way of thinking.. no I try not to go around fucking whatever… I’m not a pussy ain’t got no face type dudes… see my post to me… I am saying Men are acting like boys and little girls… IN PART… because women are trying to act like men… we are animals just highly evolved… and as such… you choose us not the other way around… if I wanted to I could go out and get six different females pregnant tonight… even if you are on some jon and kate plus 8… my vagina is a clown car type deal and have 6 kids at one time… they all will have the same father… stop choosing fleas… go back to nature… Ain’t nobody checking for Bambi if he got a peg leg… because it waters down the gene pool… well we’ve been watering down the gene pool for some time now… so keep procreating with these halfwits and raising your little learning disabled babies Alone (only directed by those knocked up by halfwits currently raising children residing on the low end of the bell curve)…

  218. hi haters

    @marquis

    u could have spoke to sydney.lmao!!!

  219. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Be,

    My apologies. Sometimes I forget who I have rapport with.

  220. ME

    Come on now. . .

    Should there not be men who are teaching other men how to fulfill their responsibilities? I have breasts and ovaries — I have no idea what it’s like to be one of you!

    This role reversal is killing us — Let us be women, please.
    ______________________________________________

    This is so true. Role reversal isn’t the right description of what is going on within the black race. Role reversal implies that the black woman acts as the man while the black man acts as the woman.

    These days the black woman has to lay the role of man, woman and head of household while the black man, for whatever reason – be it jail, death, flight or just doesn’t care, is just plain absent.

    See how different that is from role reversal?

  221. hi haters

    @sydney/marquis/kevin

    i hear crickets from you.

  222. Redd Tony

    Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    “This whole thing starts when black females, being so emotional and impatient, just cant wait until she is financially stable, and cant wait until the man is financially stable, to have children. Fact is we wouldnt be having this problem if black females had taste and sense.”
    ______

    So I guess this behavior is learned from the mother right?

    What impact does the role of the Black father have in your opinion?

  223. Passenger 57

    Kigali,

    Your statements are so hyperbolic. Black women are no more emotional that non-black women. They have no more SEX than non black women. The problem is, the pool of men they have to choose from is FAR WORST AND MUCH MORE DAMAGED than non black women. This is why we see the chaos we see in the black community. Look at Bristol Palin – her baby daddy dropped out of school to get an apprenticeship and is going to marry her. This happens in lower income white communities all the time. And his MOMMA just got ARRESTED for drug possession. Yet he doesn’t just abandon his responsibility becuase he was raised by a heroin hillbilly.

    Why don’t black men do that? Why is it always some excuse or some black woman’s fault that they barely know how to wipe their own asses? Black men are wreacking havoc on black women and children and the only thing other so-called “good black men” and their female groupies can say is “pick better mates”?

    ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Where is the average black American female supposed to go to find these good black men? And then when she is there – why is it that the so called good man is more likely to pick another type of woman over her?

  224. 7lady

    HANNIBAL: the venom you speakin will weaken your soul and kill you a violent agonizing death in the presence of the devil you praise.

  225. BE

    @kigali – thank you..apology accepted.

    Sorry I know yall having a serious debate..carry on.

  226. ME

    @ME,

    “How do you factually know that Kigali is a female. Have you met him/her?”

    Funny. I am a female because I say I am. How do you know that I ran away in that Kardashian thread? You really dont know unless you were in my room, saw me read a comment by SMDH and decided to not post but since you werent you dont know that I decided to leave, and she came after I left. If you are allowed to make judgements based on scant evidence or unreliable evidence, so can other people.

    Typical black female hypocracy.
    _________________________________________

    I don’t know anything for sure because I wasn’t in your room but all evidence points to you ran. It’s just too coincidental that you disappeared for the night as she appeared. Thats just my opinion but she seemed pretty sure you ran too like you had done it before. She called it. She said you wouldn’t come back and you didn’t.

  227. Sydney

    Test

  228. Its6amHoGetOut

    Lets see here;

    Deep south? check
    Ugly unemployed n*gga daddy? check
    Ghetto ass name for kid? check….Ja’shawn?
    having children without being married? check

    Not passing judgement, just letting everyone know 6am is never wrong.

  229. Hannibal

    @7LADY

    HAPPY NEW YEAR


  230. <<>>>>> Bwahahaha!!!

    Shall we play?

  231. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57,

    Because those men are the ONLY men that will give the typical African American woman the time of day. Period. Stop rentedning that the average black woman (in terms of appearance, education, and social-economic status) has access to the so-called “good black men”.
    ———————————————————–

    This right here brings a tear to my eye.

    Well, if I may chime in, I think the main problem is, is that the black female has failed to reproduce good black men at replacement level. Because the black female has turned her back on the traditional family in place of her currect breeding habits, she hasnt provided quality future mates for black women. When black females decide to reestablish the traditional family by playing her role, losing weight, and the diva “cant nobody say shit to me” attitude, she will raise enough good black men with her husband so when her daughters are older they will have plenty of good black men to choose from. Black females have to be qaulity women, so she can attract marry and keep quality men so they can raise more quality men and women that can repeat this cycle. Then we will not be fighting over scraps.

  232. Sydney

    Da*n, I’m trying to post that famous quote from Zora Neale Hurston about the black woman being the “mule of the world,” and it won’t post. . .


  233. (Gazing out window after outfitting muscular body with black pants, medium black t-shirt, and gold-tipped snake skin boots)

  234. ME

    Yes, that includes the so-called “good ones’ who want to pretend like they have this great character when in reality they are just as color struck and racist as some whites.

    ___________________________________

    One of the things SMDH said in that post yesterday that stands out to me is that not only is the black man a racist but he is the worst kind of racist because other racists are atleast hateful to what they are not. The black man is the only racist that is hateful to his own. I agree with her. A great deal of the racist hate the black woman feels is directed to her from the black man. Now that I think about it who is really more hateful to her than the black man? Who is really the biggest threat to her existence? When you think about it its scary and sad.

  235. Sydney

    @ME

    You made an excellent point. Perhaps “role reversal” is the wrong terminology.

    Here’s the full quote from Zora Neale Hurston, by the way:

    “Honey, de white man is de ruler of everything as fur as Ah been able tub find out. Maybe it’s some place off in de ocean where de black man is in power, but we don’t know nothin’ but we see. So de white man throw down de load and tell de ni**er man tuh pick it up. He pick it up because he have to, but he don’t tote it. He hand it to his womenfolks. De ni**er woman is de mule uh de world so far as Ah can see.”

  236. eddiedollars215

    @syd… you don’t get it… and I can’t explain… you see the role reversal but you don’t understand why it is there… or how it was put in place… GO READ THE WILLIE LYNCH LETTER (yeah it is an obvious forgery… but the methods and out comes are real)… you took my inspire comment as most others out of context… my intention is that a man and woman are supposed to complement each other… they are supposed to be your better half… make you better than what you are… not a wife raising her husband… but rather a wife/woman guiding her husband/man (because a marriage ain’t shit but a piece of paper)… to be a better man… if you stop looking for dick/sex and start looking for partner(s)… you minimize these problems… start with a good man make him better… not start with a flea and turn him into a man…

  237. Redd Tony

    @Passenger 57

    Well said!

    I find it also as a result of a low pool of good black men to chose from, Black women are more willing to accept a relationship with married men…

  238. Sydney

    @eddie

    “because women are trying to act like men”

    Are sisters trying to “act” like men, or have they been put in that position?

    I attended a forum on relationships a few years ago, and I had what could be akin to an out-of-body experience because I let some deep-seated emotions come forth. The panel consisted of brothers — all professional, mostly married, and one single brother — and I said to them that all I want as a black woman is the ability to be a woman. The freedom to be feminine and to not have to worry about “taking charge.” I don’t want to be a “Strong Black Woman” — I know my place, and it’s not at the head of the household.

    I don’t think I’m the only one who feels this way. . .

  239. JK

    @ 6 am
    _____________
    What deep south gotta do with this and a so-called “ghetto name”? That is irrelvant to the fact that someone killed their own child. It could have happened anywhere and to a Katie. Would that make the story less tragic. And, Katie’s parents Bob and Rachel could be married, would that than garner sympathy.

    Ignorance: check and put a star by it.

  240. Passenger 57

    Kigali Said:

    Well, if I may chime in, I think the main problem is, is that the black female has failed to reproduce good black men at replacement level. Because the black female has turned her back on the traditional family in place of her currect breeding habits, she hasnt provided quality future mates for black women. When black females decide to reestablish the traditional family by playing her role, losing weight, and the diva “cant nobody say shit to me” attitude, she will raise enough good black men with her husband so when her daughters are older they will have plenty of good black men to choose from. Black females have to be qaulity women, so she can attract marry and keep quality men so they can raise more quality men and women that can repeat this cycle. Then we will not be fighting over scraps.

    ————————————————-

    Again, you are placing the responsiblity SOLELY on the black woman. And using words like “breeding habits” is just plain digusting. No one looks at a white mother with five chidren and says, “look at her breeding habits”. And the ONLY difference is that her mate MARRIED HER. And don’t give me that crap about beingmarried BEFORE having children because white folks are the main ones to get married while pregnant. White people from all social classes do this. When that stick turns blue, most white men immediately KNOW WHAT TO DO. They start making arrangements, looking for better jobs, etc. They know that there behavior has resulted in a child and they are committed to that child and that child’s mother. But a typical negro American male – yells and screams at her for getting pregnant, threatens violence, swears it ain’t his, quits his job cuz he’s “so stressed”, takes up with another woman, etc.

    DO YOU SEE WHAT I SEE? I am not saying that black women are not at fault because they are too. They do not value themselves and have displaced loyalties. They are loyal to the worst types of black men – the damaged, racist ones that propagate media and pop culture. And then they are left to choose from the black men who just use black women for sex, money, a place to live, emotional support, etc.

  241. Sydney

    @Eddie

    “my intention is that a man and woman are supposed to complement each other”

    Yes, I agree — This is one of the keys to a healthy relationship, but it’s not always occurring among us, and the blame doesn’t lie solely with black women.

    “start with a good man make him better”

    Does this go both ways? And I believe in the true meaning of “potential,” meaning if a man has “potential,” it means just that — He’s not there yet. I’m not sure how much “raising” I want to be responsible for in relation to the man who is supposed to be my partner. I’m striving on my own to be a better woman, and I don’t need a man to push me in that direction.

  242. eddiedollars215

    @syd… Are sisters trying to “act” like men, or have they been put in that position?

    no doubt… you are right… they were FORCED into that position ( see willie lynch for details)… and have now in many regards adopted it…

    I gotta make moves real fast… i’ll be back…

  243. mytmax

    This is SAD…I hope this dude gets gang raped i in the joint every day the rest of his natural life!

  244. JK

    @ passengar 57
    _________________
    I totally agree. Black men are not taught to grow up make a career for themselves, not get a “job”, and get married, provide for a family, and raise a family. There is this “playa” mentality that has taken over our society. My husband and I talk to our son everyday and my husband tells him this is how you treat a black women. It is not how much money you make, it is how you chose to use it and take care of your family.

  245. PrettyBlkBoriqua

    That is so sad. I am so tired of sorry ass people doing sorry ass shit and then using a sorry ass excuse for what they’ve done. I hope that Bitch gets his ass hole bust wide open numerous times while he’s in prison. No sympathy for that Nigga.

    How can you do that to your own creation that God, you and another person created. That was his 2 year old son, who did not ask to be here. That precious baby will not have the opportunity to live life because of a sorry ass son of a bitch took that special thing from him.

    Niggas!!! :(

  246. Redd Tony

    Sydney

    @eddie

    “because women are trying to act like men”

    Are sisters trying to “act” like men, or have they been put in that position?

    I attended a forum on relationships a few years ago, and I had what could be akin to an out-of-body experience because I let some deep-seated emotions come forth. The panel consisted of brothers — all professional, mostly married, and one single brother — and I said to them that all I want as a black woman is the ability to be a woman. The freedom to be feminine and to not have to worry about “taking charge.” I don’t want to be a “Strong Black Woman” — I know my place, and it’s not at the head of the household.

    I don’t think I’m the only one who feels this way. . .
    -___________________________-

    Ayo Sydney.. I feel you…Looking at the woman I have she feels the same way

  247. Sydney

    I’m serious, Redd. . .I surprised myself when I spoke up like that because it felt cathartic. . .I’m a woman, not a male/female hybrid. . .I know my place, and I want the freedom and ability to assume it.

    @eddie

    Since you’re acknowledging that black women have been “forced” into their current position, that’s one step forward towards finding solutions to our current problems. I believe until the situation is reversed, our families will continue to suffer because we were not meant to carry the entire burden on our own — and be abused all the while. It’s a recipe for failure.

  248. Redd Tony

    I BELEIVE THE CREATION, STABILITY, AND CONTINUITY OF THE BLACK FAMILY STARTS AND ENDS WITH THE BLACK MAN…

  249. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @JK,

    And what does your husband tell your daughter? Judging by the black females that infest Bossip I can see why black men are players. These women aint about shit. I wouldnt want my son to touch most black American females with a 10 ft pole.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

  250. Sydney

    And the “pimp/h*” culture is destroying us. . .Being playas or playettes is the style of the day and that leads to nothing but spiritual/emotional/even physical damage.

    We need to return to our roots — We are known for our focus on family and community. We have been able to survive the worst atrocities because of those bonds.


  251. @ hannibal
    see see look at you at it again

  252. Redd Tony

    @Sydney===> Thats why I wanna start my non-profit one day, to teach young men that never had fathers what it is and how to be a man…sumn like mentor and big brother programs…

  253. gemini62065

    I wonder why it is that black women are once again being bashed for the mistake of ONE man? I mean say what you will…the fact of the matter is at the end of the day…it was the father that took the child’s life, not the mother. Regardless of her poor choice in partners or whatever, this mother was attempting to live her life outside of the father (and according to an article, they never had a violent interaction nor disagreement) She did not even seek child support, the state did when she applied for Food Stamps…so what could of been his reasoning? The sad reality of this situation was the father did not want to take on the financial responsibility and resorted to taking the life of his own seed. Period!

  254. VJ

    I just don’t know why the mother would let that baby go with some guy that never came around before. A similar situation happened in my family where my niece’s father came from nowhere talking about can he take her for the day….my mother, who takes care of her, was like hell no, she don’t know you. And that was that. Parents need to be more protective of their children, damn….

  255. ayisiennumero1

    I hope he pays for that in jail. I hope they Big Tigga his ass and tear him a new one. I hope they fuck his ass up in prison. I’m just trying to wrap my head around this being the moms fault. How is trying to build a relationship between father and child the mothers fault? Another thing, this nigga wasn’t just any regular ole dude from down the street, this was her husband; for better or worse till death do us part? So where is all this black women bashing coming from? All this she should have kept her legs close. Ppl are so judgemental that’s its sickening.

  256. Passenger 57

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women. Thats about what they are good for. Compare that to black females who get pregnant and throw their futures away behind aint shit black men. The black man is very smart.

    —————————————————

    Black women, please read KIGALI’S statement over and over and over. This is exactly why black women are DYING at the hands (and penises) of the average negro American male. She, a supposed black woman, is giving black men a PASS for being promiscuous, disease-carrying ingrates just because SHE doesn’t like the attitudes of some black women on the internet. BLACK WOMEN DO YOU SEE WHAT IS GOING ON HERE? Some of your fellow “sistas” and black male groupies, justifying your demise because you aren’t behaving in a way they deem approrpriate.

  257. Sydney

    @Redd

    I wish you the best with that venture, and I mean that from the heart. I think you really get it, and I really appreciate that. :)

  258. And.....(with 5 dots)

    ME

    And while sisters are taking care of children and are being asked to “inspire” and support black men, who’s taking care of them?

    *crickets*

    *more crickets*

    *silence*
    __________________________________

    Good point. Noone ever worries about inspiring the sista. She has to carry the weight of everyone else but never gets any recognition or uplifting for it. All she gets is dumped on even more for the so called MAN of her race and what he can’t or won’t do. But noone ever gives her any thanks or support. She is either carrying the broke black man or watching him carry a white woman once he isn’t broke while leaving her behind. She just gets no support or anything.
    _____________________________
    OMG ya’ll better preach!

  259. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57.

    Must you bring up white folks everytime? Are you incapable of a response that doesnt include what white people are or arent doing? I will give you a second chance.

  260. JK

    @ Kigal
    _________________
    If you describe black men as such then your ignorace is truly astounding. There are a lot of things that I could say to you or in this event blog/type. However, I shall not. You come in different posts everyday to try and “stir up trouble”. I chose to ignore you when you act out like this. I don’t care what you think about black women, that is your personal choice, I don’t care what you say about black women that is again your personal choice. Your opinions on important subjects such as this one have no value to me. Your worth as a human being as no value to the world, especially when you sprout ignorance as you do on a daily basis. Knowing you from previous posts, you probably will get upset about this and write mean evil things about me. LOL. Yet, again I do not care. Thank you and try to have a blessed day and learn something worthwhile. Cause contrary to popular belief ignorance is not bliss.

  261. Redd Tony

    I hear you loud and clear Syd, Im with you..We gotta keep our young black males out of jail..For Black males ages 25-29: 11,695 per 100,000. (That’s 11.7% of Black men in their late 20s.)

  262. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Sydney,

    There can be no pimps if there arent any hos.

  263. Atlien

    I’ve been waiting for someone to hold the Child Support System alteast somewhat accountable. Anyone who’s ever had any dealing with them knows exactly how damaging their intervention can be when introduced to any family enviroment. Hostility, rage, ect….

    I’m not in any way trying to justify what the brother did, but I’d be willing to bet that the way he was treated by Child Support agents played a huge role in it. They have no respect for you, even if your intentions are fair and noble.

    Again, I’m in no way justifying his actions. I’m just suggesting that we re-examine a system that would drive a man to commit murder due to money he owes (or the state says he does anyway, some of the support amounts turn the non-custodial parents new families into second class citizens after the “monthly obligations” are met,) to the mother of his child.

  264. Passenger 57

    Kigali, please. I brought up the DIFFERENCE IN BEHAVIOURS OF THE AVERAGE WHITE MAN COMPARED TO THE AVERAGE BLACK MAN.

    So if black men do not want to be compared to non black men in terms of personal responsiblity and accountability, they are in NO PLACE to preach all this hyper-masculine bullshit about needing to be the head of the household.

    You are either held to a standard that ALL men are held to, which is the ability to protect and provide for a family, or you are less-than and are treated as such.

    Black men have no problem holding black women to the standards of non-black women – especialyl regarding things they can’t control like COMPLEXION and hari texture. But oh, the minute a black woman says “Hold up, why is it that a white man can get a woman pregnant and acts right?” she is somehow WRONG for doing that.

    Now how about YOU create an argument that doesn’t involve insulting black women – your turn!

  265. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57
    @JK,

    Listen, dont get all emotional. A man, all men, most men will try to get it when they can. If there are enough women out there that are offering it, ofcourse a man is going to jump at it. Now a man will not treat you like a trampoline if you dont act like one. If you want to be a wife, you have to be wife material. No man wants to wife up a trampoline. Dont act like a trampoline.

  266. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Atlien,

    The black females will use any arm of the socalled judicial system that is notorius for not giving a fuck about the welfare of tradional or the promotion of family to punish black men. I have a suspicion that black men were far more secure under Jim Crow than he is today. Thanks black females for becoming the new and improved KKK.

  267. Creole Baby isa Cash Money Stunna on his 14th Summa

    typical jamacain. next story please.

  268. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “@Passenger 57.

    Must you bring up white folks everytime? Are you incapable of a response that doesnt include what white people are or arent doing? I will give you a second chance.”

    Well looks whose up in here running their fucking neck!! It’s my favorite fucking n!gger Kigali!! What’s good you fucking faggot?? If the coon male doesn’t want to be compared to the white man then maybe his faggot fucking ass should stop comparing the black woman to his precious fucking Miss Anne. How comical is it that we can be compared to the fucking white woman whenever you n!ggers take a liking to do so over sex, weight, sucking dick and stroking the coon males useless worthless ego and dumb shit like that but how dare we compare you dumb fucking clowns to the white man over the shit that matters like being a good parent, responsible employed educated MEN and positive members of society – something the black male can’t seem to grasp. LOL you dumb muthafucka!! Get used to it!! You sorry ape bastards aint got SHIT on the white man. He is a better man than you and will always be!!

  269. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Red Tony,

    Aw Tony. The brotha who never misses an oppurnity to miss an oppurtunity. The only force that keep children disciplined and well heeled are fathers. When the black female feels she has use for a father instead of repeating her mantra that, she dont need no body and she can do it her dam self, the father will be the force to keep the children in line.

  270. Passenger 57

    @ATLien -

    If this man was really concerned about providing for his child, why didn’t he do so outside of the justice system. There are plenty of men that can comply with court orders and if they don’t want to be in “the system” they pay the mother of their child on their own accrod. Better yet, how about he actually LIVE with is child so he can control the day-to-day finances and probably end up spending less money.

    I know the child support system is messed up, by why are so many men caught up in it in the first place? The gov’t runs shit TERRIBLY, so why rely on THEM to make sure your child is being taken care of. No person belongs up in that mess, just like prison. But when you don’t act right, you end up in there so it’s pretty dumb to compalin about the outcome.

    My parents were divorced and had a pretty messy separation but they NEVER had to go to the court to settle money. My dad took care of us WELL and never begrudged the fact that we were still his reponsibility eventhough my mother had custody.

    It is possible. That system will never change, black folks need to get OUT OF IT.

  271. JK

    @Kigal
    ______________
    I agree, and that is why I chose to get married before having children. However, that is one’s personal choice, and those who chose to have children and not get married, that does not make them bad people.

  272. JK

    And, as far as using the system to get child support. Many women have no other option especially when a man refuses to accept his responsibility and take care of his child. What is the woman to do, just sit there and raise the child money wise by herself while he trying to be a “playa” and buying shit for himself that he really don’t need.

  273. Passenger 57

    Kigali, if no man wants to “wfie a trampoline” than why does the so-called “good black man” typically wife a non-black female WHORE?

    If whores can’t be made into housewives, then someone needs to tell the six figure black man that he continues to make a HUGE mistake.

    I know non black men who believe in “fresh starts” and “clean slates” and will seriously consider dating and marrying a woman with a “questionable” past. How do you think all these white college girls find husbands anfter sucking and screwing men and women and goats and shit? They can always turn a “new leaf”.

    A person’s sexual past should not be a barrier to finding a healthy, responsible mate and having a future together.

    Only brain-washed black women think like this because they have allowed insecure black men to infiltrate their psyche. So sad.

  274. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ Kigali–

    You typed “But if anything, it shows how smart the black man is. He has casual sexual relationships aint shit women.”

    I understand your point.(At this point I would’ve sincerely hoped your were being sarcastic but unstanding your position with black females, I know you weren’t.) However–I must strongly disagree!

    Let’s take the statics of black on black crime, homicide, prison population, unemployment etc.

    If he is so smart as you say–why are those negative statistics so high for our black men?

    From your theory–it would seem to me that if he was “so smart” to prey on black women in the fashion your suggested, why can’t he overcome the other obstacles I mentioned.

    I’m not dogging my brothas out yet at the same time, you must know that you cannot take one form of what you believe is positive within the black male and leave the other (just as important issues alone).

    I’ll check back later for your thoughts.

  275. MiMi

    @ Passenger 57
    KIGALI must be out of her rabbit ass mind!! Don’t praise a black man for being stupid and running game on your black sistas and their children. That’s ignorant!!!

    Why can’t we uplift our race? True, some of us make very bad decisions in life but DAMN!!! Do you believe in redemption?

    Sounds like KIGALI has some deep issues? I don’t think Dr. Laura or Judge Judy can help her. She needs a higher power.

  276. niasia

    um preganancy does not always happen b/c there was no B/C They can fail you know….condoms slip off or taking the pill incorrectly. Again why should all of the responsibility go to the FEMALE…I just don’t get it! I swear sometimes I wish I was not a black woman I really do…we are the lowest in the social class..and to top it off the BLACK ass man gives us shit too! I say all the black women just opt to date white men and let the Black man make it on his goddamn own! I can’t believe it has turned into a Black Woman bash when clearly this BLACK MAN had all of the wrong doings! Fuck black men…they can kiss my ass! I say keep on locking them up and we can clean out the gene pool!

  277. Shani

    This is sad. As a parent, I would have told the estranged father No, you can’t visit this child unspervised and would of directed him to family court.

    A responsible, loving, caring, parent does not abandon his offspring. A loving father enjoys spending time with his son regardless of child support or a poor relationship with the ex. A father who abandons a child does not have the right to see his child on demand. The mother should of asked for court intervention.

    Family court will not allow an absent parent to take a child unspervised for visitation. The courts will usually ask a third party that the child is familiar with to supervise the visit.

    The made a foolish error. If a man did not care enough about the childs welfare, food , clothing shleter or anything else why send your child unspervised to visit a man he does not know.

    The divorce rate is well over 50% and there are children who are abandoned everday because of the noncustodial parent not wanting to pay child support. Abandoment is a sign that the parent really does not care for his offspring so why subject your child to further abuse.

    Children are not wise enough to make decisions for themselves. A mother has to make decisions that may seem unfair but sometimes it is in the childs best interest.

  278. JK

    @ Passengaer 57
    __________
    I totally agree. I went to a predominately white college, and those white females were “out there”, yet at the end of the day “they changed their ways” and by graudation they were either engaged or married.


  279. @ kigali
    i see your still at it… useless i swear
    still trying to make a point ny insulting otherss, if you were as educated as you would like to be you could still make the same points with insulting a whole race of women that you claim to be apart of… THATS HARD TO SWALLOW


  280. This is ridiculous. Must EVERYTHING turn into a racial situation? I mean damn…this man killed his child to avoid child support.

    White men AND black men alike have been known to commit heinous crimes to avoid responsibilities. Sheesh.

  281. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    As usual the fucking coon ignorance up in this thread never ceases to amaze me.. This piece of fucking dung murders his own child to avoid paying child support and every ignorant fucking n!gger on the World Wide Web manages to find this thread to spew their fucking ignorance on the matter.. You dumb fucking apes have managed to find one more thing that the homocidal animalistic ape male is responsible for and managed to blame it on the black woman. Now this girl is only trying to have her childs father in his life – a privlidge that very few of your fucking coons deserve – and she becomes the reason this Godless piece of dung slits his 2 year old baby’s throat?!?!

    No this is not a black woman thing.. This is just another act of the homicidal useless shiftless piece of shit black male using crime to get out of responsibility. This is just another example of how the ape male to this day is the biggest threat to his own race. This is just another example of why the n!gger male doesn’t have shit now and never will. This is why if you coons can’t throw a ball around or rap your lives and basically over before your adulthood begins.. This is just another example of why the white man should bring lynchings back!! Half of you bastards deserve to be swinging from a tree, on fire with your fucking nuts packed into your mouths. Im through wondering why the fucking n!gger boy is the only male species on the planet that seems to always want to avoid responsibility.. You sorry shiftless bastards need to just die!!

  282. ME

    OH SNAP! SHEEEEEEEEEEE’S BAAAAAAAAAAACK!!!!

    *runs out of thread*

  283. JK

    People are again forgetting that this was not the first time he was allowed to see the child. And, I don’t give a damn if it was and the mother made perhaps a “poor choice” this is no way signfies that she is somehow responsible for what this monster did. Damn, it is so easy for people to throw rocks and say well I would have done this or she should havd done this. Shut the F up and sit down. Anybody could have said that would have done this and that but until you are actually in that particular person’s situation you don’t know what you would do. Everyone’s situation is different. Damn, someone got it right when they said Bossip is all about black women bashing.

  284. Sydney

    @niasia

    “I swear sometimes I wish I was not a black woman I really do”

    It’s statements like this that break my heart. . .Sista, please don’t feel that way. . .Believe me, I understand, but we can’t allow that negative thinking to penetrate our minds and spirits.

  285. niasia

    @ JK

    I totally agree it is all about bashing black women!

  286. Black.Woman

    I hope he got family to put money on his books, because paying child support is now the least of his problems. What a dumb choice.

  287. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @niasia,

    “Again why should all of the responsibility go to the FEMALE…”

    Because when there is a pregnancy, one half of the baby isnt in the mother and the other half in the father.


  288. @niasia

    Why would you wish NOT to be in the skin you’re in? Is there another race you feel would suffice?

  289. STEFANY

    condoms slip off or taking the pill incorrectly. Again why should all of the responsibility go to the FEMALE…I just don’t get it!
    ***********************************
    @Niasia

    The reason I said that the woman should take the responsibility is because we end up catching all the bullshit in a failed relationship where there’s a child involved, all a man has to do is walk away or say “It ain’t my kid” and the woman ends up being stuck with the financial and emotional burden of raising a child..In most cases the woman is the sole care giver, I don’t nessacery see it as a woman getting dumped on but a woman protecting herself.

    As a woman I’ll gladly take the responsibility for my body and my birth control, and part of taking control is simply making a man but on a damn condom..I have no problem taking charge because I know I don’t want a child.

  290. Stop Trippin

    I’m confused as to why there is a debate on this issue. This man is a criminally insane idiotic monster. From what I’ve read and heard on the news, this man was the woman’s estranged HUSBAND. Not a baby daddy, not a jump off, or anything of the sort. They were in a committed relationship that ended. That being said, he would have every right under the sun to see the son that belongs to him. If she denied him visitation, the police would have been called and she would have a whole other issue on her hands to deal with in full view of her son. No woman has a child to raise alone, and I’m sure that she thought that she was doing what was in the best interest of her child. This momma bashing that is going on here is ridiculous. Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone learns from them. It’s just a shame that this mistake cost her the life of her child.

  291. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “@Atlien,

    The black females will use any arm of the socalled judicial system that is notorius for not giving a fuck about the welfare of tradional or the promotion of family to punish black men. I have a suspicion that black men were far more secure under Jim Crow than he is today. Thanks black females for becoming the new and improved KKK.”

    I can’t believe this dumb fucking n!gger just sat here and posted this shit.. What a dumb fucking coon!! HEY YOU FUCKING DUMBASS: the coon boy is the only fucking racist on the planet who attacks his own over others!! Every other race that has racist issues attack others!! THEY DONT ATTACK THEMSELVES!! Only the sick twisted useless shiftless worthless self hating self loathing bitter angry hate filled MASSA pleasing white ass kissing minstrel show complex having ape pussy male attacks his own women and children just as this shiftless homicidal coon right here did!! You are the only disturbed pieces of shit with all of these issues – yet you want the black woman to think its all her fault? You have the nerve to call the black woman the KKK?? Stupid fucking n!gger!! Grow a set of fucking balls and Man up!! Stop blaming women for your fucked up way of thinking and living!!

  292. Tim

    @niasia

    i wish sometimes that dark black women wernt born.


  293. @ jk i agree
    but im normally called a hypocrite when i speak because imblack and married a white man. Fusck the fact that i married a man that had loved me like no other, i married a man that no other man can light a candle to when it comes to me, but regaurdless of whom i married and why im still a beautiful black woman with two dehrees and i dont like being stereotyped into the average “hoodrat”
    every race has its share of loosers… blacks have hood rats and thugs, whites have trailer trash and psychos, mexiacans have eses etc etc etc, so why is the black woman always the worst species on here!!!!
    the black female cant do any good!!

    and of course you can ignore kigali, you can except someones opinion but there is a proper way to say everything, i have addressed her earlier on today around or before lunch… she must have been raped by a heard of mean rude “BLACK BITCHES”
    BECAUSE HER WORDS REFLECT SUCH NASTINESS

  294. Passenger 57

    “Because when there is a pregnancy, one half of the baby isnt in the mother and the other half in the father.”

    Kigali, you MUST be a typical Negro American male who attended public school if this is your rational.

    Black women are not having immaculate conceptions, moron. And the fact that women carry, birth, and feed a child is all the more reason why the MAN who helped create it should at least be somewhat responsible and no out somewhere making other babies.

    The typical American negro male has no clue what responsibility means. He has been coddled by black women and so-called civil rights leaders. But no one thinks about the rights of black women to be happy and healthy. No one.

  295. Shani

    THIS IS NOT AN ISSUE OF BLACK AND WHITE.

    The family courts are full of people of every race. I have seen Indian, white, hispanic, hindu, jews, and more white people than any other race in family court for child support.

    It is not as simple as He or she should of chose a better mate. Relationships fail.

    A man could be on his best behavior until you are pregnant and then he changes into a controlling, abusive, tyrant. When the relationship fails the woman ultimately has to shoulder the burden alone. No woman choses to raise her children alone. Sometimes it is the best choice for the child.

    Many fathers who refuse to pay support stop seeing the children or child out of revenge and anger.

    If you feel like your child is unsafe, you can file a protective order on behalf of yourself and your child. There are many women who fear for the safety of their child and the courts tend to ignore their pleas if the father is paying support but still has shown a violent history.

    If you need free legal counseling their are court Liasons who are experienced in child support and visitiation and they can give you the proper information. Don’t ask your girfriends. If you feel unsafe don’t send your child on the visit, and file a motion to have the case heard by a judge, and asked the court for monitiored visits. If the father declines and does ot show up, then you know he had an alterior motive and was not interested.

    As a mom myself, there is nothing that can separate me from my children. I need to know how they are, if they are fed, cared for, did they complete their homework. If they go out for a day without me, I truly miss them.

    An absent parent who does not show interest in his child is a low life loser and never let your child go alone with him or her.

  296. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    @ ME:

    You’re right boo!! That weak ass fucking n!gger sprinted his bitch ass outta that thread the minute I came in it and then wantch his ass being eaten up from afar!! That fucking tarcoon ape piece of shit knows whats up!!

    Thanx for holding it down!! :-)


  297. @ TIM
    IM SURE YOUR MOM FELT THE SAME WAY WHEN THE BLACK WOMAN THAT YOUR FATHER CHEATED ON HER WITH LEFT HER PALE ASS!!!
    GOOD NIGHT!!!

  298. *meToo

    Kill that Ni@@a.

  299. STEFANY

    It’s not just about a woman taking responsibility for her birth control but taking responsibility for the type of sorry ass men she lays down with as well, some men are just sorry and no good point blank.

  300. Tim

    @corperate

    IM BLACK BITCH AND WHAT THE FUCK YOU TALKIN ABOUT GOOD NIGHT. YO MOM SHOULD HAVE HAD THAT COOTCHIE SAWN UP.

  301. JK

    @Corperatecutieshayshay
    _________________________
    Just because you marry outside of your race and chose to speak on issues important to black women does not make you a hypocrite. The fact remains that you are still a black woman who faces issues that are related to again black women. Whoever said that need to get sit down somewhere.

    And, Black women are looked down cause they are stronger than black men, and black men can not stand that shit. Really come on. Who is more likely to graduate from high school? Black women. Who is more likely to seek higher education and recieve a degree from an accredited college? Black women. Who is more successful in numbers in the career field? Black Women.

  302. SMDH

    “Kigali, you MUST be a typical Negro American male who attended public school if this is your rational.’

    Thats EXACTLY what his bitch ass is… In fact the fucking coon posts like he is uneducated PERIOD.. He posts just like an ignorant fucking n!gger who is probably up to his neck in child support and is bitter to the black woman for what his oversexed monkey ass got himself into..

    “Black women are not having immaculate conceptions, moron. And the fact that women carry, birth, and feed a child is all the more reason why the MAN who helped create it should at least be somewhat responsible and no out somewhere making other babies.’

    Thatas asking the black male to be responsible and you know the only thing the black male is responsible for is being 6% of the countrys population but responsible for over 50% of the crime that plagues it..

    “The typical American negro male has no clue what responsibility means.”

    You aint NEVA lied!!

    “He has been coddled by black women and so-called civil rights leaders. But no one thinks about the rights of black women to be happy and healthy. No one.”

    AMEN. Noone ever thinks of the black womans happiness.. She’s too busy uplifting fucking clown coons who run from her to a white woman the minute his punk ass gets a little something!!!

  303. sepia830

    As a Child Support Officer, I find this story to be both tragic and appalling. First off, $4000 in back child support is not a lot. On average the cases I see everyday owe 10 times this amount. If you feel you cannot pay what has been ordered (usually by default because the father ignored the Summons and Complaint against him!) you only need to fill out financial docs and request a hearing to have a judge order a lesser amount. The truth is that Child Support Services would rather have you pay a small amount than nothing at all.

    Black men if you do not want to pay child support, use protection! Otherwise look forward to having a percentage of your earnings taken, your license suspended and possible jail time for non-payment.


  304. @ JK
    I AGREE BUT WHEN I SAY IT ALL HELL WILL BREAK LOOSE IN HERE

  305. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “And, Black women are looked down cause they are stronger than black men, and black men can not stand that shit. Really come on. Who is more likely to graduate from high school? Black women. Who is more likely to seek higher education and recieve a degree from an accredited college? Black women. Who is more successful in numbers in the career field? Black Women.”

    AMEN!! We are the only race of woman who consistently has to be the strength of our men while getting no support in return! But everytime you turn aorund these apes who can’t even come up to our societal level are putting us down!!

  306. Tim

    @stephany

    there are sorry men these black bitches choosing to sleep with the men

  307. eddiedollars215

    @syd… you are right but in order to reverse the situation you must first realize what lead to the circumstances… this may be hard to follow but…

    Gemini62065 wrote

    “She did not even seek child support, the state did when she applied for Food Stamps…”

    child support is a tool of the state meant to further destroy the family… not just the black family… the family in general… people don’t dig deep enough or pay attention to detail… they just stop at this trifflin sp? fool murdered his child… they discount the fact that there was state intervention… not to say anyone other than this flea ass nigga is responsible… NO ONE IS TO BLAME FOR THIS CHILDS MURDER… I am merely trying to identify the circumstances of the situation leading up to the event in question…

  308. sepia830

    SMDH….lmao. Keep giving Kigali the business, girl.


  309. @ TIM
    NO YOU ARE NOT … YOU ARE A DUMB ASS REDNECK ON THE LIBRARY’S COMPUTER THAT CANT SPELL, FUNNY YOU WORRIED ABOUT MY MOM AND YOUR ASS SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR GRAMMER, SHIT I CAN SEE I YOU WERE TYPING A LONG JOURNAL LIKE SOME OF US, BUT IT WAS ONE SENTENCE… A MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE!!!! FUCKING RETARD

  310. Sydney

    @eddie

    “@syd… you are right but in order to reverse the situation you must first realize what lead to the circumstances… this may be hard to follow but…”

    I’m listening. . .

    It’s time to reverse the situation — In fact, it’s past time.

  311. eddiedollars215

    NO ONE IS TO BLAME EXCEPT THE FATHER…

  312. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “It’s not just about a woman taking responsibility for her birth control but taking responsibility for the type of sorry ass men she lays down with as well, some men are just sorry and no good point blank.”

    And she takes that when she raises her child alone!! She pays for her mistake for 18 years!! What does the sorry ass fucking piece of cow dung that made the child as well pay for?!?! Nothing, right?? He’s just supposed ot get off cause he’s the poor black male and nothing is the poor black males responsibility, huh??

    Thank GOD you dumb fucking coons are the only ones who believe that. Thank God for the white man to force the black male to take responsibility whether we wants to or not.. About the only thing I would ever worship a white man for is his ability to put and keep a fucking coon in his place…

  313. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    What the hell does race have to do with anything? This piece of shit killed his child over money! I don’t care about anybody issue about race here, case in point their is a soldier who killed and raped his sister over the holidays and he was white. Does it matter that he is white or that he committed these heinous crime.

  314. JK

    Damn Soy Sauce, you going hard. But that shit needs to be said.

  315. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    CORPERATECUTIESHAYSHAY – Why do you bother entertaining fools? when you acknowledge stupidity you give it credibility. Carry and hold you head up.

  316. Tim

    @COREPERATE

    YOU BOUGHT UP MY MOM FIRST CUNT. YOU SEEM TO KNOW ALOT ABOUT LIBRARY COMPUTERS DUMB ASS. YOU PROBABLY GOT MORE THAN ONE BABY DADDY TO

  317. JK

    No it does not matter about color. However, ever post such as these usually turns to color, cause we have people in here always wanting to blame the black woman for the situation. Have you read all the comments to see how it got to this point?

  318. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    HEY KIGALI?? I THOUGHT YOU DIDN’T RUN?? When you was accused of running from me further up your monkey bitch ass swore it wasn’t true!! Where is your bloody tampon sucking ass at now??

    You little pussy ass bitcha!!! This muthafucka ran again!! Aint that some shit!!

  319. Tim

    THE MOTHER IS TO BLAME TOO. SHE LET THE DUMB FUCK IN HER LIFE JUST LIKE MANY BLACK WOMEN DO

  320. sepia830

    @eddiedollars215…

    child support is a tool of the state meant to further destroy the family… not just the black family… the family in general…

    __________________________________________________

    Is that what you really think? Can you please provide some evidence of this? I’ve been working in this field for 11 years now and can’t tell you how many black men have repeated this ridiculous claim to me. Child support HELPS the custodial parent take care of the child’s everyday needs (food, clothing, etc…) by forcing the non-custodial parent to pay when he otherwise wouldn’t. This is fact. End of story.

    What IS destroying the black family and has been doing so for decades is the transgressions of the black male who thinks it is his personal responsibility to overpopulate the world with kids he has no intention of taking care of. Yes, the black female bares some responsibility in this as she needs to stop having babies by men who have not shown her a strong committment or who clearly can’t financially take care of himself and therefore cannot support a child. :(

  321. Passenger 57

    Black women PLEASE de-program yourselves. We have been hOODWINKED for generations and continue to be.

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE wake up and smell the double standards. The violence that is going on in these black urban centers is really rivaling the Congo. Black women and children are being “murked” because black men have refused to take responsibility. They have been blaming everyone else and now that the “blame the white man” thing doesn’t work, they have turned their venom towayds US.

    But the truth is, the more black women wake up, and ONLY guve attention to black men and men of other races who TRULY support us and our physical and emotional well being then the black man’s stock with non black women will PLUMMET!

    That is what they are MOST afraid of. Us airing their dirty laundry poisons them to non black women who believe the myth that they are these amazing lovers – LOL! So once they start seeing black men as disease-infested baby makers who aren;t nearly as good in bed as they claim to be – those women want want them either.

    We have a lot of power, black women, don’t waste it on these garbage men.

  322. STEFANY

    And she takes that when she raises her child alone!! She pays for her mistake for 18 years!! What does the sorry ass fucking piece of cow dung that made the child as well pay for?!?! Nothing, right?? He’s just supposed ot get off cause he’s the poor black male and nothing is the poor black males responsibility, huh??
    ***************************************************
    By all means the black man should be held accountable but I’d rather avoid dealing with a sorry ass if I can prevent it..This why I stress birth control, because the black woman is the one who ends up cathing all the hell..It’s kind of hard to get child support when you’re dealing with a lazy ass who won’t even half keep a job or a roof over his head, be careful ladies.


  323. @ TIM
    I BRUNG THE BITCH UP CAUSE I CAN… NOW GET THE HELL OFF THE LIBRARY’S PC AND TAKE A TYPING CLASS, YOU DUMB FUCK!!! AND THINK ABOUT THAT THE NEXT TIME YOU COME ON A BLACK GOSSIP SITE IN A BLOG FULL OF BLACK WOMEN. WHT THE FUCK ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT WHOM MY CHILDREN ARE BY? YOU ONE OF THOSE UGLY ASS REJETS THAT GETS NO ASS SO YOU SIT ON THE PC ALL DAY AND INSULT WOMAN. GO SUCK A DICK YOU FAGGOT ASS PEDOPHILE!! MATTER OF FACT YOU CAN SUCK OUT MY ASS WITH A FLAVOR STRAW UNTIL YOU NOSE BLEEDS YOU RAGGEDY ASS LOW RIDER BOOT TOTIN, BAD ACHNE, WITH A CASE OF TRICHAMONIA HAVIN ASS LOW LIFE NO DEGREE GARANIMAL WEARING ASS CLOWN. FUCK YOU!!!

  324. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “child support is a tool of the state meant to further destroy the family… not just the black family… the family in general… people don’t dig deep enough or pay attention to detail… they just stop at this trifflin sp? fool murdered his child… they discount the fact that there was state intervention… not to say anyone other than this flea ass nigga is responsible… NO ONE IS TO BLAME FOR THIS CHILDS MURDER… I am merely trying to identify the circumstances of the situation leading up to the event in question…”

    THANK GOD FOR THE WHITE MAN!! I hope he taxes more of you irresponsible coons checks!! It’s a goddamn shame that he even has to!! Its a goddamn shame the black male isn’t made of what all other races of men are made of paternally to the point that the white man has to not even give him a choice to pay and take it right off the top! Thats the sign of a fucking weak ass male!!!

    Andwhat led up to it?? A shiftless fucking n!gger who had been made to take the responsibility that he wouldn’t take on his own and his dumb fucking coon ass found it easier to murder his son and spend the rest of his useless wasted fucking life in jail rather than to get a job, keep it and pay $100 damn dollars in child support.. Dumb fucking n!gger!! Who really opts to spend the rest of their life in jail rather than to pay the money?? Only a shiftless fucking coon!!!

  325. Sydney

    I know it’s bad, but why am I cracking up?

    This blog is something else. . .

    On a totally unrelated note, “Ain’t that some sh**” is one of my favorite “black folk” lines, and we do have some doozies, lol. . .

  326. Shani

    Her are a list of children killed by their fathers out of jealousy

    Amy and Owen Philcox by the hands of their father Brianh He drove his children to a country lane and gassed them with exhaust fumes. They were white.

    It is only two years since John Hogan responded to his wife’s request for a separation by grabbing their two children, Liam and Mia, and throwing them from a balcony in Crete.

    Six-year-old Liam died where he fell. They were white.

    At around the same time, Perry Samuel – another unhappily estranged spouse – babysat for his children Caitlin, five, and Aidan, three.

    He asphyxiated both of them; their bodies were found in a bathtub. The judge in his case said the motive was malice against the children’s mother.

    A few months before, Gavin Hall discovered that his wife was having an affair. Payback came in the form of drugging their four-year-old daughter Millie and then suffocating her with a chloroform-soaked rag as she put up a terrified, vain fight for life.

    Just three years before that, Keith Young reacted to the news of his estranged wife’s pregnancy by a new man by taking their four children, aged from three to seven, to a beauty spot – and phoned their mother from his mobile so she would hear their screams as they died of suffocation.

    And the list grows longer: the fathers, the killings, the horror.

    Stop blaming issues on race and color. It is ignorant. Blame it on the abusive parent who committed the crimes, or the courts. Everyone has had a failed relationship. It is human. No one is flawless.

  327. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “What IS destroying the black family and has been doing so for decades is the transgressions of the black male who thinks it is his personal responsibility to overpopulate the world with kids he has no intention of taking care of. Yes, the black female bares some responsibility in this as she needs to stop having babies by men who have not shown her a strong committment or who clearly can’t financially take care of himself and therefore cannot support a child.”

    AMEN!! SAY THAT GIRL!!

  328. JK

    Child support system is for mfs who refuse to take care of their children. End of Story. How can it destroy a family, when there is really no such thing as a black family anymore. Damn, whoever wrote that dumb shit is ignorant.

  329. Tim

    @PASSENGER

    LOOK AROUND YOU. WE AINT STUDYING BLACK WOMEN. YALL AT THE BOTTOM OF THE TOTEM POLE!!


  330. @ GET THE FU*K
    OH I WILL HGET RAW IN HERE DONT DOUBT ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO THE FAM AND MY HUBBY, I JUST DIDNT FEEL LIKE THIS WAS THE THREAD,(SORT OF) A YOUNG KID LOST HIS LIFE AND LEAVE IT TO KIGALI TO TURN IT INTO A BLACK WOMAN BASHING, WE WEREHERE TO GIVE OR OPINION ON THIS LOOSER OF A MAN! AND BECAUSE IN SO IN SHOCK OF THE CRIME… THATS ALL I WANT TO DO IS MALE BASH THE MAN RESPONSIBLE

  331. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    SMDH aka SOY SAUCE – Who you calling a coon? LOL

    Woman choose who they bed down with period, if the guy is just out get some cookie and she gives it up hey. But to any male Black or White that doesn’t not take care of his child(ren) is a piece of SHIT! If I can make ten babies I better be man enough to take care of them. In the end woman control their bodies, be selective ladies!


  332. Can one of you ignorant fuckers please explain why you are blaming the mom?

  333. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    CORPERATECUTIESHAYSHAY – As I said don’t step down to their level, never!

    As for the loser keep bashing, in fact i’ll give you the bat, pipe, 2 x 4, bricks, etc… but let me curb stomp him please.

  334. Shani

    I have to agree with some of the comments. I’m not male bashng but I have seen a large number of males complain to the courts that they are not working and can’t pay the minimum of $25.00 per month. That is sorry. I have seen some men incarcerated because of not making payments even when they are working. Some men have the mentality that they come first before their children. If you don’t want to support children then get a vasectomy or wear a condomn.

  335. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    Okay so everyone can se efor themselves now that yesterday was no coincidence!! Kigali’s bitch n!gger faggot bleeding ass ran from me today just as his bloody tampon sucking bitch ass ran from me yesterday!! What a fucking weak ass n!gger!! You talked all that shit up in here but when THE ONE showed up your bitch monkey ass ran AGAIN!!

    As I said in that post yesterday Kigali is a weak ass fucking n!gger who, like most coon males, can’t stand up to a woman who isn’t going to go for that poor black male bullshit.. He is a weak fucking coon who comes here merely to vent his own frustrations with what he is not as a man.. Kigali is a pussy and thats the type of black male sistas need to stay away from!!!

    This bitch said further up that he starts shit he doesn’t run from it.. LOL – WHERES YOUR BITCH ASS NOW?? Fucking faggot!! I’mma get you a pair of Nikes for a belated Christmas gift so your monkey ass can run REAL TALKING SISTAS on the streets as quickly as run from us in here!!!

  336. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    All you black females in here talking trash about black men. I have a list. Next time you see a wealthy eligible black man with a white woman, dont start crying.

  337. Redd Tony

    ITS TIME TO STOP BLAMING EACH OTHER AND START COMTEMPLATING REALISTIC SOLUTIONS TO HELP OUR FAMILIES!!! THE COMMENTS ON THIS THREAD IS EVIDENCE OF THE CYCLE!!! IT TAKES A VILLAGE PEOPLE!!

  338. Passenger 57

    @STEFANY

    If black women were to “avoid” all the low-life black men out there, they wouldhave no choice but to date outside the race. The truth is this:

    The ACTUAL number of black American males that are gainfully employed, intelligent, can hold a decent conversation, emotionally sound, NON COLOR STRUCK, family oriented, protecting, non violent, somewhat attractive, and disease free is EXTRMELY SMALL.

    THIS is what these internet black men always fail to point out. The so-called “good black men” have some serious color complexes and hair issues that they like to pass off as “preferences”. So if the average black woman (medium brown to darker skinned) with natural hair or hair that is not naturally straight and LONG is ASSED OUT in the black dating world. Why do you think those are the majority of women “left behind” in these crazy ass communities.

    It is time that we seriosuly address this and take it for what it is. The average black woman has a better chance of a white man appreciating her beauty than a Negro American male.

    This is REAL talk.

  339. Sydney

    “I’mma get you a pair of Nikes for a belated Christmas gift so your monkey ass can run”

    Oh, no, she didn’t. . .

    *looks again*

    Oh, yes, she did. . .

  340. STEFANY

    I know in most situations the woman ends up getting the short end of the stick, even if she can get a sorry ass to pay child support 9 times out of 10 she still ends up being a single parent raising the child with no physical helf from the man, and the child still suffers emotionally and mentally.

  341. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @SMDH,

    Listen dont be manipulative. If a black man rejects the black females triflin ways, dont accuse him of harboring some deep seated love for white women. If the black man rejects your bullshit, as he should, it doesnt have nothing to do with the white woman.

    Now why are all these coons finding it so easy to get with these upstanding black females?

    Stop having these black females think the white man is going to play Capt Save A Ho. The white man thinks youre too fat, too loud, and have too many coon children to get an invite to Christmas dinner.

  342. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    Hey Sydney?? Isn’t this deja vu?!?! I come into a post to dig into Kigali’s faggot ass. As ususal he disappears and you appear..

    .. could this be a well laid dastardly plan to make it appear that I am Kigali – a question that you asked in the post yesterday and again further up today???

    If I am wrong forgive me however should I be right – it’s not gonna work boo.. Posters here KNOW I am not Kigali and have seen me go back and forth with him many many times!! Back to the drawing board!!!

  343. JK

    I wish that black men would just do better by themselves and black women. When the black men finally choses to step up his game in this way, it will be a better day for some. However, I do not expect this to happen until Jesus walks the Earth again.

  344. Tim

    @CORPORATE

    NEXT TIME YOU COME ON A BLACK GOSSIP SITE IN A BLOG FULL OF BLACK WOMEN.
    _______________________________________

    THIS IS WHY YALL FUCKIN DUMB CUNTS SINGLE AND COMPLAIN. YOU BROUGHT UP MY MOM AND CHILDREN FIRST CRACKHEAD BITCH. YOU SUCK MY DICK AND AFTER I CUM IN A CUP YOU USE A STRAW DRINK MY CUMSHAKE ALL UP YOU RETARDED MORE THAN ONE BABY DADDY HAVING, NO REJECT SPELLING. COOTCHIE EATIN CAUSE DONT NO MAN WANT YOU AND YOUR LIBRARY TOTEN CARD UGLY ASS BITCH.

  345. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57,

    And the black females failure to raise decent black men are the reasons why there arent many to begin with. You females raise them to be thugs and if they arent thugs you reject them abuse them, and complain that when they make their money they hook up with white women.

  346. Passenger 57

    LMAO @ Tim.

    Dear, sweet, single digit IQ Tim.

    Black women are only at the bottom of the totem pole when dealing with black men. When black women know better, they tend to DO BETTER. When they are taken out of the brain-washed state they have been put in by morons such as yourself, they tend to do better.

    I live in Los Angeles. I was at brunch with my husband Saturday morning (who happens to be a black MAN but nothing at all like the majority of you worthless bastards) and you would not believe how many black women we saw brunching with their non black boyfriends/husbands. I mean, it was really crazy. To the point where we actually started counting them. See, my husband is not insecure like the typical American negro male. He is not threatened by another black woman making herself happy and FREEING herself from the parasites. He has even suggested to a few of his black female friedns that they date out. He haseyes and he can see what is going on. He is also not color struck and loves natural hair. He is EVOLVED from the slave-thinking many of you are stuck in.

    So anyway, we see all these black women looking happy. They are not reaching for their wallets to pay for a meal. They are not driving some male-with-a-felon-and-no-license in her car. They are HAPPY andm oving on and not looking back.

    So keep hiding behind the black woman’s skirt and cursing her at the same time. Chances are you will have to beg some black woman for a job in the near future. You better PRAY she has mercy.

  347. Tim

    THATS THE PROBLEM THE VILLAGE INCLUDES ALL THE DONT KNOW HOW TO BE BLACK MOMMA STUPID CUNTS

  348. Sydney

    @SMDH

    I stand corrected, and I apologize.

    I now see the two of you in front of me, and I’m just trying not to get any blood on my shoes. . .

  349. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @JK,

    Why should the black man step his game up? You black females are wiling to be his bust it baby no matter how much dirt he got going on.

  350. JK

    @ Kigal
    _____________
    Why would I cry if I saw a wealthy black men with a white woman. I could give a damn, if he was a poor black male with a rich white woman or vice-a-versa. That’s how it is when you got your own. I don’t give a damn about that black man.

  351. Shani

    All of you fell for Kigali’s Bullshi*. I din’t even read her rhetoric because it is always the black womans fault even when a man murder’s his own child to avoid paying support. She is damaged and can’t empathize with a child being killed. STOP READING HER FILTH. YOU GIVE HER EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS.

  352. STEFANY

    The ACTUAL number of black American males that are gainfully employed, intelligent, can hold a decent conversation, emotionally sound, NON COLOR STRUCK, family oriented, protecting, non violent, somewhat attractive, and disease free is EXTRMELY SMALL.

    THIS is what these internet black men always fail to point out. The so-called “good black men” have some serious color complexes and hair issues that they like to pass off as “preferences”. So if the average black woman (medium brown to darker skinned) with natural hair or hair that is not naturally straight and LONG is ASSED OUT in the black dating world. Why do you think those are the majority of women “left behind” in these crazy ass communities.
    **************************************************
    Passenger57

    AMEN!

    Especially the part about “PREFERENCES” not realizing if they didn’t have money they wouldn’t have the option to have a preference..And don’t forget about the brothas locked up or are gay..But I agree, most of the decent black men are fucked up socially to the point where they don’t won’t their own brown sista’s after they acheived a certain level of success, they’d rather share their wealth with a non-black or white woman..Like I said sista’s got it bad that’s why I stress taking responsibility for your birth control because it’s hard enough for us as it is.

  353. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    Aw look everyone!! The fucking bitch ass n!gger boy went somewhere and brought a set of nuts and came back!!! Well here we go:

    “@SMDH,

    Listen dont be manipulative. If a black man rejects the black females triflin ways, dont accuse him of harboring some deep seated love for white women. If the black man rejects your bullshit, as he should, it doesnt have nothing to do with the white woman.”

    What bullshit is the n!gger boy rejecting?? Him being made to pay support for the babies his fucking n!gger ass makes and abandons?? Damn – there was a time that the slave master split the black male from his children.. Fast forward thhrough the poor me black man bullshit and the dumb self hating fucking ape boy is doing it all himself!!! What a sorry ass bastard!!

    “Now why are all these coons finding it so easy to get with these upstanding black females?”

    What coons are with upstanding black females?? For the most part you fucking coons are out there chasing white bitches! You are not the educated successful black woman choice.. You may ge tthe chickenhead ghetto bitches but not the good sistas!! They’re the ones throwing you shiftless monkeys outta their lives to the ghetto thug loving bitch, black and white!!

    “Stop having these black females think the white man is going to play Capt Save A Ho.”

    He’s saving her now.. Without his hand on the black males check she wouldn’t get the support she so often does through garnished wages.. I’d say the white man is saving the ho very well!!

    “The white man thinks youre too fat, too loud, and have too many coon children to get an invite to Christmas dinner.”

    But he apparently thinks they should get child support cauase he never misses the opportunity to eat you shiftless irresponsible coon bastards checks right up!! He doesn’t have to love us or want us.. We’re used to that from you self hating coon bitches.. But he will make sure black kids are taken care of financially and thats alot more than can be said for you sorry baby abandoning pieces of ape dung!!

  354. JK

    @ Kigal
    __________
    I can’t speak for others, but I have never been anybody’s “bust it baby”, and true why would a man change if women run after him even if he is a piece of shit.

    As for failure to raise a good black men. That is not true in all cases. My brother is 25 years old, works hard, educated, and no kids. And loves him some black women. As for my son I expect him to turn out the same.

    However, you on some other shit, I really think you say stuff just to start controversy. But me I love my race and truly believe in my race, therefore the mindless comments you chose to make roll of my back like water.

  355. Mase

    Damn, dude needs to be put under the jail. I can’t believe a man would even contemplate murder to avoid paying support. That’s a sick man, very sick.

    Black people, men and women, we’ve got to be more selective when choosing a mate, even more selective with whom we choose to bear children with. It takes years to really get to know someone. What’s the rush people? Take your time and get to know someone. Children can wait.

  356. eddiedollars215

    @syd… specifically black women were trained to take on the role of the male through slavery… first the male was broken (I’m sure I don’t have to elaborate… this man is a prime example)… with the male image one and the female left alone to fend for herself… she begins to raise her children in reverse… the male emasculated for fear that he may suffer the fate of his father before him… she raises him to be psychologically weak and dependent, but physically strong… and the female to be psychologically independent… thus leaving the female out front… and the man behind scared… this feat was further agitated by the so called women’s liberation movement (don’t jump on me too quick WOMEN ARE AND HAVE BEEN EXPLOITED/ CONTROLLED by men)… women were tricked into thinking that they were being liberated and could have it all… I am not one of those a woman belongs at home types (my mom was a career mom)… but the so called traditional family consist of a man… breadwinning and a woman… taking care of the house (more important in my eyes)… most businessmen are not capable of taking care of the household… hence the stay at home mom… one worker one parent raising the family… the so called liberation taught people that they could have it all… so now we have everybody doing what feels good… the men run around humping and doing whatever… I want to too… The men have careers and I want one too… which is find… but people fail to realize that something has to give… my grandmother was the have your dinner on the table when you get home type (not that she didn’t work or have a life of her own)… but she was very traditional… my mother not so much… she was a career mom and took on that role… diner was whatever I ordered with the money she left… or hot pockets or some shit… so today when I don’t look to her necessarily as the caregiver but as more of a provider… she’s confused… well she didn’t really care for me in the traditional sense (nothing wrong with that I think I turned out OK) she cared for me by meeting my financial needs… (in this example don’t read too far into this… hahahaha)

  357. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    On another note–

    I saw an episode of outrageous videos this week. There was a segment where a young man went into a convenience store with a one year old child. The hidden camera was positioned right at the beer cooler, undoubtly to deter theft. However–what it captured sickened me!!!!!!!

    On the video, it showed the man stepping on, kicking, puching and finally taking the little one’s pants down and beating the tar outta him!

    What was even sadder was once he slammed the little down he walked away only to have the baby get up and follow him.

    Crying!

    That shit broke my heart!

    OK. Who’s to blame here? The sick bastard’s mother for him thinking it’s OK to abuse a child?

    The baby’s mother? (She was out in the car. She didn’t realize this happened until it was shown on the news later on)

    Society? Circumstances? The “hood?”

    We can blame all of them all day every day but the person that went to jail was the one that needed to!

  358. Tim

    @PASSENGER

    THATS GOOD HE TELLIN THEM TO DATE OUT CAUSE HE KNOW BLACK MEN DONT WANT YALL. PLAIN AND SIMPLE. YOU TALKIN ABOUT ONE DAY YOU SAW ALL THESE BLACK COUPLES AND YOU WAS SURPRISED. NO WONDER CRAZY YOUR ASS AINT NEVER SEEN IT THAT MANY BLACK MEN AND WOMEN TOGETHER. SOON YOUR LOW IQ HAVING ASS WANT SEE NO BLACK WOMEN WITH ANYBODY. YALL ALL GO BE LESBIAN. WATCH.

  359. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    Here’s something for you ladies, I have a son who I Adore! He is my legacy and I will provide for him in any way possible. His mother took me to court for CS three months after we split, yes I was annoyed by it because I was already giving her money ($600 a month) to support my son. We have never had any problems in regards to me doing for my child but she was screwed over by other sons father who is construction worker. He makes 85k a year but somehow the courts have seen to it he pay $50 a month, yes $50 freaking dollars, this asshole makes 35k more than I do. But yet I still get his child the things he is incapable getting. So I don’t blame her for her reaction but I do blame the system that screws fathers that do provide without government oversight.

  360. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57,

    Great, so you saw a bunch of black females with white guys during brunch. Wonderful. Now do me a favor and describe how most of them looked and behaved. Were they fat? No. Did they have those ugly ass hairstyles with gold teeth? No. Were they acting all wild, loud, with a bad attitude? No.

    Ok now that we have that established, how are the rest of these black females going to get white men when most of them are fat, loud, and have fucked up ghetto hairstyles and aethetics, and a bunch of children to boot?

  361. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “@JK,

    Why should the black man step his game up? You black females are wiling to be his bust it baby no matter how much dirt he got going on.”

    The n!gger boy should step up his game merely to be on the level of every other race of man on this planet!! Even in third world countries men are better fathers than the fucking n!gger boys in the USA!! You should want to step up your game for your own self pride and self achievement, muthafuck a woman!! yo ushould want to step up you game because you are the only race of man less educated and employed than your female counterparts.. You should want to step up your game becuase there are more of you pieces of shit in jail than college.. Yo ushould want to step up your game becuase though you make up a mere 6% of the country you account for over 50% of the crime that riddles it..

    But leave it to the fucking shiftless piece of shit ape to base his existence on a woman!! You fucking n!ggers can’t think beyond a woman!! You wonder why you fucking apes are shit!!

    Ignorant fucking n!ggers!!

  362. Passenger 57

    Kigali,

    You are of no value to this conversation or any= convo for that matter. It doesn’t matter howmany ways you try to insult black women – you are a Negro American Male groupie. You are just as bad as the so-called black women you think are embracing the thugs. Your defense of the indefensible is down right laughable.

    Even the most fervent supporters of “black love” admit that the black man in America is close to extinction. I suggest that if black women want there to be black men in the future for their daughters to date – they need to create those future black men with NON BLACK MEN. WOmen are the custodians of culture and we can ensure that our biracial children grow up knowing loving and embracing their black heritage. Or hell, we may even create more Barack’s for the furture Michelle’s.

    We need to stop further damaging the gene pool by having babies with the typical american negro male. Even the so-called “good ones”. I propose that black women treat their wombs like gold and really take mating more seriously. Don’t leave your children to have to fend for themselves without a father or a seriosuly damaged black male father who will pass on his anger and self-hatred.

    Guard your wombs and keep them away from 97% of black American males.

  363. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    “THATS THE PROBLEM THE VILLAGE INCLUDES ALL THE DONT KNOW HOW TO BE BLACK MOMMA STUPID CUNTS”
    _____________________________________________________

    Let’s just hope that if and when (or in the case you might already be a father) you choose a BLACK WOMAN to mother your children, she’s strong enough in her character to know that when you refer to black women as cunts, that you are not referencing her.

  364. Passenger 57

    Tim, please do us all a favor and go kill yourself. Seriosuly. Why would any woman want a man like you who can’t even use proper punctuation or spelling or make a coherent sentence.

    You are of NO VALUE to any black woman so THANK GOD you don’t like them.

    Now go watch some asian lesbian porn or something before you free internet access at the library expires.

    LOL, seriously, you should be ashamed of yourself.

  365. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “Ok now that we have that established, how are the rest of these black females going to get white men when most of them are fat, loud, and have fucked up ghetto hairstyles and aethetics, and a bunch of children to boot?”

    Gee then why will he hire us to work right along side him in his office before he will even consider hiring a fucking n!gger boy as a fucking jaitor?? Gee all the sudden a white person being willing to fuck you and spend your money for you means less and less, huh?!?!

    Typical fucking n!gger unable to think beyond his dick!! Do you oversexed homicidal monkeys ever stop to think that unity social acceptance isn’t someone being willing to fuck you but just may deal with how they view and respect you?!?!

  366. Tim

    @1TRU

    I AINT CHOOSING NO BLACK WOMAN. I DONT DATE YALL AND YOU HOPE I HAVE KIDS BY IT? DUMB DUMB BITCH.


  367. @ tim
    YOU JUST SHOW HOW SMART I AM, EVERYTHING I SAID YOU TURNED AROUND AND SAID THE SAME SHIT TO ME … HOW ORIGINAL
    YOUR DEAD TO ME … BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEEPPPPPPPPPPPPP
    DEAD!!!

  368. Sydney

    @Passenger 57

    I find your posts very interesting, and I wondered if you don’t mind me asking if you can share more of your husband’s thoughts on the dating prospects for black women.

    @Diva

    I saw that video, and it turned my stomach. Thank the Lord for the video, or else he may have gotten away from it. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. . .That was his girlfriend’s son, right?

    @eddie

    It sounds like you’re further acknowledging that this situation is not the creation of black women, but has roots in slavery and the historical degradation and subjugation of blacks in this country, right?

    Shouldn’t men have a prominent role in re-establishing themselves at the helm of our households?

  369. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ Kigali–

    I’m waiting for a response from you from my 2:48pm post.

    **drumming fingers on desk**

  370. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    Everyone this is Bossip announcement….Tim is Gay and is afraid to come out. Let us help him. ROFL

  371. Tim

    BLACK WOMEN WEAR WEAVES. ONLY LIGHT SKIN ONES HAVE REAL HAIR. YALL TRYIN TO LOOK WHITE. WHY WOULD WE WANT A IMITATION BONIQUA WHEN WE CAN HAVE THE REAL REBECCA?

  372. Sydney

    *Don’t feed the trolls*

  373. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ Sydney–

    You’re scaring me! When I saw it, you crossed my mind and I wondered if you had saw it!!

    **shudders**

    Lol!!!

    In fact, it was her son but he wasn’t the biological father.

  374. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “AND HAVE BEEN EXPLOITED/ CONTROLLED by men)… women were tricked into thinking that they were being liberated and could have it all… I am not one of those a woman belongs at home types (my mom was a career mom)… but the so called traditional family consist of a man… breadwinning and a woman… taking care of the house (more important in my eyes)… most businessmen are not capable of taking care of the household… hence the stay at home mom… one worker one parent raising the family… the so called liberation taught people that they could have it all… so now we have everybody doing what feels good… the men run around humping and doing whatever… I want to too… The men have careers and I want one too… which is find… but people fail to realize that something has to give… my grandmother was the have your dinner on the table when you get home type (not that she didn’t work or have a life of her own)… but she was very traditional… my mother not so much… ”

    Okay – so we have established in this speel what the womans role should be ot her amily.. However she is only able to carry out that role (mother, dinner on the table, blah blah) when the black male is out there carrying out his – such as working a good job and taking care of his woman and family!!

    Yet its only pointed out what the womans role should be.. yet again the black male is completely absolved of not doing his part!! This is ocmically pitiful!! Again, I am so glad that only the black male, and not society, feels he shouldn’t have to answer for anything wrong in his race!! I’m so glad the white man who is in control doesn’t see him this way and will punish his black ass accordingly!!!

  375. dapro

    Sh*t is sick,

    but

    DAMN ya’ll take it too another level with these arguments

  376. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    To all my strong Black woman keep your heads up so that you see a real Black man handle his. As long as you look down you will see only the least desirable. Peace, Happy New Year, God Bless and get ready for Jan 20.

  377. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “BLACK WOMEN WEAR WEAVES. ONLY LIGHT SKIN ONES HAVE REAL HAIR. YALL TRYIN TO LOOK WHITE. WHY WOULD WE WANT A IMITATION BONIQUA WHEN WE CAN HAVE THE REAL REBECCA?”

    Damn do they still give n!ggers in jail computer time?!?!

    Where’s a fucking lynch mob when you need one?!?!

  378. Tim

    @CORPORATE

    LET ME PULL THE PLUG. THATS RIGHT DIE BITCH DIE. BEEP BEEP BEEP.

    TIM IS GAY CAUSE HE DONT DATE BLACK WOMEN. TYPICAL DARK BUTT SLANG. ITS ALWAYS SOMETHING WRONG WITH US WHEN WE DONT DATE YALL. THATS WHY YALL SINGLE. TIM HAS A FINE NON-BLACK WOMAN.

  379. Passenger 57

    “Ok now that we have that established, how are the rest of these black females going to get white men when most of them are fat, loud, and have fucked up ghetto hairstyles and aethetics, and a bunch of children to boot?”

    LORD, you really do think that most black women look and act that way on purpose? They act that way and look that way because in their eyes, that is how you attract 97% of the negro males in America. Emulating white women’s hair is what most black women do because they KNOW that is what MOST black men like. Now as far as the “ghetto” hairstyles, I think that like anything else those women can change that behavior. The problem is they have been isolated in these all black communities full of DAMAGED people. Now, some of these black women are not going to be able to be saved. We are going to have to admit that they are just as damaged as the black men they let piss on them.

    But there are plenty of black women on the bubble. There are plenty of black women who may not know how to present herself in the best light, doesn’t know how to communicate with people of other races, etc. But these women ALSO know that black men don’t want them. So they have a choice. They can listen to black women such as myself (I run a program for young adult black women here in LA) or they can listen to black men (which will result in their death prematurely).

    As far as weight goes, anyone can lose weight but it is a lot harder for a black man to get a decent job with such a poor reputation. Black women WILL get it together – the ones that want to. They will stop believing the lies and feeding into this “black love” bullshit. They will start making themselves marketable to ALL men ,not just booty-loving black men.

    Women who already have children can indeed find happiness and a loving mate. It may be a bit harder, but heck, it’s better than letting Rae-Rae hit it after he got out of jail and giving you HIV.

    Like I said, black women are getting it together and opening their eyes and seeing shit for what it really is. So don’t worry about them. Us big sisters will help them while women like you will sign their death certificate.

    Why do you care about black women so muc?

  380. Tim

    @SMDH

    YOU USE YOUR CHILD SUPPORT MONEY FOR THE WEAVE IN YOUR PICTURE?

  381. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    @ TIM–

    Now, I’m sure you know that I’ve read many of your posts from time to time and may have commented.

    Actually, in hindsight, I haven’t. I usually just ignore you.

    However–since you had to revert to the name calling, I feel the need to tell you that THE OLD 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals would’ve typed something to the effect of–

    You can kindly go crunch on my dead dog’s nuts but since I’ve left the hate in ‘08, I’ll be nice by letting you know that it shouldn’t take anatomical knowledge for you to find your own ass to kiss!!!

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Damn–old habits die hard!!!


  382. @ GET THE FU*K

    I HAVE A BETTER ONE YALL EVER SEEN AMERICAN HISTORY X WELL WE CAN MAKE THIS LOOSER BITE THE CURB WITH HIS TEETH AND THEN STOMP THE BACK OF HIS HEAD!!! THAT SHOULD DO IT!!! NO MRE NEEDED!!!!

    @ TIM IF YOUR SO AGAINST BLACK WOMAN WHY WOULD YOU NO DEGREE HAVING ASS SIT UP HERE AND PICK ARGUMENTS, YOU DONT WANT ANYONE COMING AT YOUR DUMD=B ASS BUT YOU SIT ON A BLOG SAYING DEMEANING SHIT, YOU SAY YOU DONT DATE US, HAVE YOU EVER IENTERTAINED THE IDEA THAT WE DONT DATE YOU INTERNET SITE CRASHING ASS!!!

  383. niasia

    @Kigali

    You are an asshole! your reply to me was very sexist and stereotypical of gender roles in our society. YES the woman carries the baby…but that does not mean she should have all of the responsibility. Hey you know that should be a new defense in child support court “well I didn’t actually carry the baby I just put the sperm there…so why shoud I have any responsibility in this” you are ignorant and I see your only aim is to spew vitriolic things in order to rile up or offend!

  384. Tim

    @DAPRO

    BLACK WOMEN LUV TO ARGUE ESPECIALLY ABOUT BLACK MEN. THEY LUV TO SIT ON BOSSIP AND COMPLAIN ABOUT US. THEY LUV US, BUT WE CANT RETURN IT.

  385. Sydney

    @Diva

    I remember when that video made the national news, then I think I actually saw the full video on the show you described (was it the MSNBC show?), and I was shocked. Just shocked. . .It was sick beyond belief. The fact that the child wasn’t seriously harmed after that vicious beating is a blessing.

  386. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57

    Youre an idiot. You actually think you are going to do this without black men. How sad. When a man is single, he is free, when a woman is single she has no one. DO you understand those sexual dynamics? An older man can get what he can get well into his 40s. A 40 year old woman isnt getting shit. You are the ones that have to play by his rules. You dont want to have to compete with 20 yr olds. OK? So yes, keep giving these women the same bullshit advice. No man is going to want to deal with her mentality, and the white man isnt coming to rescue you. Your last hope is the black man. After him, there is NO ONE. You know it.

  387. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    Please take a moment to calm down before you respond to me.

    You know them niggas that looooooooove the other persuasions get heated when a sista puts them in their place and we want to at least comprehend your pitiful attempt at a comeback!

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  388. Get The F*(K Outtta Here!

    @CORPERATECUTIESHAYSHAY

    I have it at home and have watched it a couple of times. That stomp is just insane.

  389. dapro

    QUESTION-

    How did a post about a sick twisted mofo turn into a debate about black woman????

    Sisters on Bossip, don’t be baited and lose your head trying to argue with ignorance

    It’s pointless, I know your worth in the world and more importantly “YOU” know your worth

  390. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “@syd… specifically black women were trained to take on the role of the male through slavery… first the male was broken (I’m sure I don’t have to elaborate… this man is a prime example)… with the male image one and the female left alone to fend for herself… she begins to raise her children in reverse… the male emasculated for fear that he may suffer the fate of his father before him… she raises him to be psychologically weak and dependent, but physically strong… and the female to be psychologically independent… thus leaving the female out front… and the man behind scared… ”

    Oh boo fucking hoo!! Get the fuck on with this outlandish bullshit!! Here we go again where everyone is blamed for the black male’s utter fucking weakness but him!!

    LOL this n!gger is on Gin and Juice!! I LOVE it when the black males shiftlessness today dragged all the way back to slavery!! If we raised black men to be so weak then why were black men turning out just fine in the period after slavery ended until the civil rights movement?? Why weren’t all these dumb weak mutha fucking bitch ass n!gger males around then??

    BECAUSE BLACK MEN WEREN’T AFRAID OR TOO FUCKING WEAK AND SHIFTLESS TO BE FATHERS TO THEIR CHILDREN THEN!!! TWO PARENTS WERE RAISING THEIR CHILDREN!!

    However I do agree that black males are weak little scared souls now!! And that should further prove the point that a woman cannot teach a boy to be a man and that he needs his father for that whether he is married to the mother or not! Black males are WEAK today because their fucking daddies aren’t teaching them to be men as they did then!!!

  391. STEFANY

    my grandmother was the have your dinner on the table when you get home type (not that she didn’t work or have a life of her own)… but she was very traditional… my mother not so much… ”
    *******************************************
    Why should a woman have to chose between being at home and being a good mother, why can’t she do both..I know a lot of womnen who hold it down on both ends, having a career and being a damn good mother..Hell, now days it almost take to incomes to make ends meet..It’s not like it was back in our grandmother day, shit cost a whole lot more.

    Theres nothing wrong with being a house wife but in some ways it renders a woman powerlsess to not have an idenity or money of her own, and to soley depend on a man for all of her needs..Theres nothing wrong with working it builds charcter.

  392. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    Syd–

    It was MSNBC. Didn’t it break your heart?

  393. Shani

    @ Sydney & Dapro

    There are a lot of black people who hate their own race. They use this site as their loathing station or trash dump. No one would listen to their mess face to face. They can’t wait to write their hate speech on blogs.

    There are a growing number of parents killing their children, because of jealousy, visitation issues, and child support. I wrote a few of the stories in a earlier post. Those children were white.

    If these people on her spewing all of this trash about black people were so concerned about the future of black children and were soooo sympathetic they would join a support group for advocates of women and children. They wouldn’t come on this site everday to write 6 pants rants of curses, sterotypes and filth.

  394. Tim

    @CORPORATE

    YOU ADDRESS ME FIRST AND THEN I ATTACK BACK BLACK WOMAN

  395. Tim

    BLACK WOMEN WERE DOING THE NORMAL BLACK MEN BASHING FIRST. MOST DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE B/T A GOOD BLACK MAN AND A THUG. THEY ALL WANT THUGS SO YOU GET THUG BEHAVIOR.

  396. Passenger 57

    @Sydney

    My husband is a realist. He was raised by his grandparents who were well into their sixties by the time he was born. His grandfather was a trcuk driver who moved his family to Delaware so his grandson wouldn’t have to live in Brooklyn, NY. He taught my husband that a black man has an obligation to further his race and uplift his race in America. He SHOWED him this by not only being the father to five of his own children but by also adopting two neighborhood boys with no fathers. He ran a daycare center with all black kids and made sure that they all felt valued and loved.

    He took care of his wife (she never had a driver’s license so he drove her to and from work everyday) and let hiskids know that his devotion was to her first and them second. If she wasn’t happy, they wouldn’t be happy either. He loved her and the way she looked despite her never being able to grow her hair pass an inch off her scalp. As she got older, he loved her more.

    He taught him that a black man needs to first love himself and his APPEARANCE before he could love a woman. Love your kinky hair and your dark skin and your lips and your nose. If love doesn’t come naturally, force yourself to love it. Take time to REALLY examine why you find a white woman attractive. Really THINK before you act.

    So my husband took all this with him and really lives by this mantra. He truly does love himself which is why he picked a woman who looks very much like him.
    This is why I say that most black American men are worthless to most black American women. Even if they are “good” and well employed they do not love themselves and that lack of love will infiltrate your relationship and wreak havoc. He will cheat on you, he will blame you for his failures, he will accuse you of stealing his manhood. He will belittle you and praise non black women in your presence. He will show that he’d rather be with them and is settling for you.

    Any man who says, “A white woman would not nag me. She would let me be a man,” is pretty damn damaged in my eyes.

  397. eddiedollars215

    JESUS CHRIST I am not excusing not paying child support… I am saying if you have to ask for it you are fucking with a flea… we are talking about fleas versus men…

    @sepia 830… I don’t give a shit what anybody says the intended circumstances were are… the fact of the matter is …

    mothers are promised a tax free income from the “supposed” bread winner for 18 years… you have a government agency that guarantees payment and protection… furthermore now all parties are now “in the system”… this is a system of financial control meant to enslave you in the name of your children… this is no differnt that “our” masters before being instructed from abroad on the castration of the black male (see previous post)… like I said before emasculate the male in front of the women and child… and the cycle continues… case and point… I BET THIS PIECE OF SHIT WASN’T RAISED BY HIS FATHER… and the cycle continues… these are the means employed by the courts… you need to go and look at who funded so called radical feminism and their true intentions… if you don’t know what I’m talking about look into the CIA funding of Gloria Steinem… look into the ford foundation funding of katharine graham… look into Cord Meyers and the so called “Independent Research Group”… Look into meyers “congress for cultural freedom”… Look into Clay Felker and Esquire Magazine.. Look into Robert Williams and his Policy Studies Inc. and then get back to me… it may change your outlook on things…


  398. Bossip needs to take up mone for this child’s funeral…I’ll send some money in…but not much

  399. Sydney

    @Diva

    Yes, it did break my heart — and it angered me beyond belief. What an absolute coward. It was so vicious. . .

    @Shani

    You’re right — There are a lot of trolls on this site.

  400. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    I guess with some of you black men, there cannot be a difference of opinion without the name calling!

    If you can’t be respectable to women without reverting to degredation—-fuck you…

    …on a blog.

    …in the fog.

    …I bet you itch…

    to call me a bitch!!!

    You’ll probably need your “other persuasion” to break this down for you!

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    **whew**

    I kill me!!!!!!!

  401. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Passenger 57,

    Youre telling tall tales about black females. The black female started wearing her outlandish weave and in fact she is the first to call you nappy headed if you arent wearing one.

    “Emulating white women’s hair is what most black women do because they KNOW that is what MOST black men like.”

    LOL. The black woman is so strong, so resilient, everyone wants her ass lips and skin color but she cant help but to wear some Asian ladies hair. Stop. It.

    Please dont talk about the black man’s poor reputation. Youre reputation isnt any better. The black man is still portrayed as a strong, virile, athletic, big dick having bad boy. Females love that. The black woman’s reputation is that she is rude, loud, bitter, angry, got too much junk in her trunk, and is a baby momma. That doesnt appeal to any men. So the black man still has the advantage over the black female.

    You may not get our economy but there are still lots of jobs, labor intensive, dangerous and male dominated, that bring in good money, and you dont need a college degree. Again, the man/black man, has that advantage.

    Black females can significantly reduce transmission of STDs if she would take her strong indepdent black woman attitude and buy her own dam condoms. She can wear the female one or insist the man wear the male one. No excuses.

  402. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “Youre an idiot. You actually think you are going to do this without black men.”

    We’re doing it now without n!gger boys!! What’s changed??!??!

    “How sad. When a man is single, he is free, when a woman is single she has no one.”

    No thats what the n!gger boys ego allows him to think.. With all the bullshit he brings to the table when a sista is alone – SHE IS AT PEACE WITH HER SANITY!! Only you fucking coons think a womans life is a mess cause your not in it.. You just don’t know how fine her life ususally is until she lets one of you shiftless pricks into it..

    “DO you understand those sexual dynamics? An older man can get what he can get well into his 40s. A 40 year old woman isnt getting shit.”

    You know this how?? Sounds like the ramblings of an ignorant fucking ape to me.. A 40 year old womans relationship tends to be more stable than a 40 year old man chasing after young ass.. Try again you dumb fucking n!gger..

    “You are the ones that have to play by his rules.”

    Or so the coon n!gger thinks.. Noone has to play by the rules of the most useless worthless man on the planet!! You fucking monkeys just think a woman has to..

    “You dont want to have to compete with 20 yr olds. OK? So yes, keep giving these women the same bullshit advice. ”

    Whatever!!

    “No man is going to want to deal with her mentality, and the white man isnt coming to rescue you. Your last hope is the black man. After him, there is NO ONE. You know it.”

    No – the n!gger boys last hope is the black woman!! We are the ones who keep this race moving aorund.. The n!gger boy is too fucked up to move anything but his ass in and out of a jail cell.. With the coon boy absent in his race on so many levels how do you even claim the black woman only hope is the black male.. I for one am with a Spanish man who is 10 times the man of any n!gger boy I have even been with.. You fucking n!ggers try to use that to keep the black woman running behind your sorry fucking nutless asses but she is much smarter than that!! LOL – you n!ggers really think becuase a white bitch will marry you when you have money that she’s the great white hope?? She’s the same white bitch who will sit on your juries and put your monkey asses in jail for a very long time **coughs OJ coughs**.. Get you head outta your ass n!gger boy… Without the black woman there is no you and very little black income!!!

  403. JK

    Man, I am so sick of hearing of this supposed “system”. If your ass pay child support than nobody would have to put you in this proposed idealized “system”. Come on for real, I am really suppose to believe this. Man, I am glad my parents made me go to college.


  404. I meant to say money…I just looked at the picture again and this motherfucker looks like trash…women for now on don’t get with unkeep, nasty looking freaks like this (and not freak in a good way)

  405. HATERS LUV TIM

    @1TRU

    IF I SAW YOU. I KILL YOU TOO.

  406. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @SMDH,

    “If we raised black men to be so weak then why were black men turning out just fine in the period after slavery ended until the civil rights movement?? Why weren’t all these dumb weak mutha fucking bitch ass n!gger males around then??”

    Yes and right after the Civil Rights movement, the black females valued a government crib and a check every month over the presence of the black man. She then became the bread reciever, and raised a bunch of infantilized, feminzed boys who she now complains about. She raised the black boy to be a black female and has the nerve to blame him for it.

  407. HATERS LUV TIM

    BLACK WOMEN TALKIN ABOUT BLACK MEN ON A BLOG. NOONE WANTED TO LISTEN TO YOU FACE TO FACE TOO

  408. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    That’s why I keep shit close by.

    Just for switch hitters like you!

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Tim and haters luv tim–

    You’re the same person AND you’re making this too easy!!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  409. niasia

    @Kigali

    “When a woman is single she has no one” ok you are just sexist and stuck in the gender roles of 1950. I bet you believe in old maids and eggs drying up too don’t you! Why is that if a man is not married oh he is just waiting but if a woman is not married then something is wrong with her! let the GENDER roles of the 1950’s go people it is 2009! and if you are a female it is sad. In case you missed the memo women don’t stay home and cook anymore dear! And having a man doesn’t have to define you! Again I think you may be purposefully spewing vitriol!

  410. JK

    @ Kigal
    ________________
    Really, I mean really? Please don’t have no damn kids. Cause you are to ignorant. Yes, I said it, and if I saw you I would tell you to your face. The black man is not idealized, no one gives a damn about his ass, that is the problem. He rob, kill, make babies and all other kinds of shit. (Not all but a lot) And, yes there are some angry black women, they probably angry cause they heard this crazy shit you talking.

  411. dapro

    Child Support is a joke I can speak to that first hand

    The system (it is a system by design) takes all cases and lumps them into one self serving machine

    It should be broken down on a case by case basis

    Men mean more to a child’s life than a simple check or money order

    @Shani
    We would be better organizing as a group as oppossed to arguing and calling each other names but I’ve come to expect that on Bossip

  412. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “Please dont talk about the black man’s poor reputation. Youre reputation isnt any better. The black man is still portrayed as a strong, virile, athletic, big dick having bad boy. Females love that. The black woman’s reputation is that she is rude, loud, bitter, angry, got too much junk in her trunk, and is a baby momma. That doesnt appeal to any men. So the black man still has the advantage over the black female. ”

    LOl and thats ALL his monkey ass can be protrayed ass.. All he can ever be portrayed ass is a fucking piece of oversexed ape dick!! And LOL that its perfectly fine with n!gger boys such as yourself!! Most men want to be knows for their intelligence or contributions to society and growth or for making alot of money or for their achievements.. Leave it to the fucking n!gger boy to take pride in only being known for his dick!!! Yeah women like that until they realize this fucking n!ggers big dick isn’t paying the bills and thats why while a white woman will fuck you the majority of them know hwo butters their bread and by the time they are ready to settle down its rarely with a n!gger boy!!!

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I have heard of women being good for nothing but a fuck!! How coincidental is it that the black male would be the only race of male so readily categorized with a flat backing wet ass bitch!! The n!gger male is good for nothing but a fuck and he’s proud of it!!

    But then what else can he be proud of?? Not his education, employment, parental, crime or societal records, thats for sure!!!


  413. This thread is a bit too serious for me so I’m going to split

  414. Sydney

    @Passenger 57

    “So my husband took all this with him and really lives by this mantra. He truly does love himself which is why he picked a woman who looks very much like him.”

    Sista, this says so much in few words. I have repeatedly posted an excerpt from Nathan McCall’s book, Makes Me Wanna Holler, in which he talks about the self-hatred of some black men, and how, in turn, they turn that hatred against black women. We are a reflection of our brothers, and if a black man hates his own reflection, then it’s nearly impossible for him to show true love and concern for the women who look like him. In truth, his despise has little to do with his target, but it is the target — the black woman — who suffers.

    When I see some black men publicly belittle and demean black women, I immediately equate it with what it is — emotional and spiritual abuse — and we don’t really talk about the lasting repercussions of this prolonged dysfunction. If you keep telling me I’m worthless, and I don’t have a strong foundation to deflect those untrue statements, sooner or later, it’s going to seep into my psyche, and that leads to a new and destructive set of issues.

    It’s a vicious cycle, and it has to stop.

  415. HATERS LUV TIM

    @1TRU

    FUCK YOU STUPID CUNT

  416. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    Your multiple personality ass has got to be a bitter ass black man!

    If you want social acceptance, you’re in the wrong place, son!

    Please read the caption behind my name.

    Help me to HELP YOU!!!!!!!!!

    LMAO @ the typical black male that can’t even hide his weakness behind a PC. A BLACK woman stands up for herself and he cowardly switches up to make others think he’s got a rider up in this bitch!!!

    To think you call US weak!!

    GTFOOH! You’re beginning to pester me.

    Troll!!!

  417. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “The black woman’s reputation is that she is rude, loud, bitter, angry, got too much junk in her trunk, and is a baby momma.”

    As is the black male only lets add murder, rapist (especially white women) gun slinging, race destroying, baby abandoning, angry, bitter, violent, criminal record having, poor credit having, woman beaters, drug dealers and the list goes on and on!!!

  418. JK

    Amen Soy Sauce- It’s true he is known for his dick and not much else.

  419. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @SMDH,

    Its like a pyschotic roller coaster with you. The black females knows she is at a disadvantage which is why her blood pressure goes through the roof anytime she sees a black man with a non black woman. Actions speak a lot louder than your words. If black females were so secure in their positions in life, with their job, with their degrees, with their income, then stop bothering the black man and his non black woman. Leave him alone. Dont say anything about him. Dont go get a fucking hemorroid when you see Reggie Bush with his beautiful Armenian woman. Ok. Because you black females lose it everytime you see a black man with a non black woman, I know you guys are shaking in your boots.

  420. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    **yawn**

    Tell ya what, you ignorant waste of an orgasm–

    I’m going to step out to smoke a Newport. That’ll give your monkey ass time to call your bitch and let her know you’ve been given your ass handed to you on a blog. Maybe between you two diseased infested asswipes, you can come up with a response.

    Oh, that’s for BOTH Tim!!

    Damn–this is one time your mother should’ve gulped!!

    **throwing holy water as I exit thread**

  421. dapro

    Yeah this “black male insert insult” and “black female insert nonsense here” is part of the reason we’re failing to move forward

    Instead of going at each other head we could advance further if we uplift instead of insult one another

  422. HATERS LUV TIM

    @1TRU

    YOU A DARK BUTT AINT YOU? THATS WHY YOU MAD. DONT YOU MEAN BOSSIP RESERVED FOR ALL THE LOUD, WEAVE HAVING, BLACK WOMEN THAT ALL THE TIME COMPLAIN ABOUT BLACK MEN. YALL GOT ALL THEM SITS FILLED UP.


  423. @ EVERYONE
    TIMIS ONE OF THOSE REAL UGLY ASS BLACK DUDES YOU SEE AT THE MALL STARING AT YOU ALL GAZEY EYED AND YOU FEEL SORRY FOR HIM.. HES THAT GUY, NEVER HAD ENOUGH REAL GAME TO APPROACH A REAL BLACK WOMAN SO HE SITS AT HOME AND THINKS OF REALLY CLEVER INSULTS, GOES TO THE NEIGHBORHOOD LIBRARY AND INSULTS US!! POOR THING… AND I DO MEAN THING YOU PROBABLY LOOK LIKE BIGGIE SMALLS MIXED WITH SHABBA RANKS. I WILL BE ABLE TO TELL BY YOUR RESPONSE IF I AM RIGHT!!!

  424. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @SMDH,

    “As is the black male only lets add murder, rapist (especially white women) gun slinging, race destroying, baby abandoning, angry, bitter, violent, criminal record having, poor credit having, woman beaters, drug dealers and the list goes on and on!!!”

    Yes but he can still get a black female pregnant and make you guys cry with a white chick on his arm. Check and mate honey.

  425. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “Yes and right after the Civil Rights movement, the black females valued a government crib and a check every month over the presence of the black man. She then became the bread reciever, and raised a bunch of infantilized, feminzed boys who she now complains about. She raised the black boy to be a black female and has the nerve to blame him for it.”

    And the fucking n!gger boy valued going to jail, selling drugs, beating and raping women, dropping out of school, abandoning his children, running from the law, hanging on a corner.. The black male has been going to jail and choosing crime in record numbers since the civil rights movement began and as a result of it he began a cycle where women had to be come both parents along with working and getting the education so the family could be fed while the n!gger male was out keeping the state company.. She then raised a generation of males without fathers and the problem spiraled out from there!! If the n!gger male had taken what the Civil Rights leaders fought for and turned it into something positive for himself instead of using it as a ticket to fuck all the white women he wanted while trying to correct nothing else that slavery and the Jim Crow era tokk from us – I’m sure we wouldn’t be here!!

    He has gotten nothing else right post civil rights movement but the right to fuck and marry a white woman.. LOL!!

  426. Sydney

    Everyone,

    “Tim” is a multiple and has changed clothes at least a few times in this thread to try to provoke a reaction.

    I repeat, please do not feed the trolls.


  427. @ TIM
    I THINK YOU MEAN “SEATS”
    SOMEONE GET THIS FOOL A DAMN THESAURUS/DICTIONARY PLEASE HES TYPING 1 SENTENCE AND CANT SPELL AND YOU WONDER WHY YOOU HAVENT DATED SISTA CAUSE WE LIKE MOFOS WITH GOOD DICTION AND SPELLING AND HIT!! SOMEONE WITH A REAL VOCABULARY!!! YOU ARE THE WORST I SWEAR!! YOU HATE WOMAN CAUSE YOUR MAMMA LEFT YOU WITH SOMEONE THAT MUST HAVE RAPED AND BEAT YOUR SOUR HEAD ASS!!!

  428. Passenger 57

    @ Kigali,

    You really think that black men are going to get these blue collar or green collar jobs?

    LOL. Latinos and poor whites will be hired FIRST. And yes, they would rather have a black woman out there with a jackhammer than a black man. This is FACT. In Los Angeles I see more black female SECURITY GUARDS than black males. And the ones I do see are FOREIGNERS hustling between two or three gigs.

    But I will tell you where I see the typical negro American male – STANDING AROUND waiting for some woman to get home from HER job so he could borow HER car or HER MONEY so he can roll around with his “boys” and find other desperate women to fuck around with.

    aznd to so-called good ones are all desperately trying to get the attention of some non black woman on the westside. Who will fuck him, cackle with her friends about it, and then drop his ass off back on Crenshaw. No way is she taking the side streets because she ain’t stupid and doesn’t want to get killed.

    Even in my office building I see NO BLACK MEN outside of a few and truth be told they are all cool and nice to me. I don’t know who they date on average andreally don’t care but they show me respect and are courteous.

    So let’s see how many black men get jobs via Obama’s public works program. First you have to be able to fill out an application and we ALL know that takes TIME and that may just stress theaverage black man out too much. He’ll have to go hit the joint after every other line. Then if he manages to get an interview, he has to not ROYALLY screw it up by acting like a fool and hitting on the latina receptionist. Then if he actually gets hired he hasto stop smoking weed long enough to pass a drug test. And then if THAT happens he has to beg his baby mama for a ride til he gets enough money for a bus pass.

    So Kigali, if all of this happens and no one gets shot in the process, A FEW black males may be able to get jobs.

  429. HATERS LUV TIM

    @1TRU

    THAT AINT YOUR BABY IN THAT PIC IS IT AND YOU SMOKING CIGS? I HOPE YOU HAVE MONEY SAVE FOR THAT LIL GIRL CAUSE MOM AINT GOING TO BE AROUND LONG TO SEE HER GROW UP. WHO WILL BE DISEASED INFESTED SOON? CANCER HAVING CAUSE SHE COULDNT PUT DOWN THE CANCER STICK.

  430. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “Yes but he can still get a black female pregnant and make you guys cry with a white chick on his arm. Check and mate honey.”

    So he and you think!! Frankly the majority of us get pleasure out of focusing on his weakness and how sad that is fr the white woman he has now brought his weak ass inability to be a man n!gger issues to!!

    And he can also get a white bitch pregnant too.. When you clear some of that black woman hate out of your shiftless fucking n!gger head read up on the stats of shild abandonment with biracial children.. The n!gger boy can’t get fatherhood right with Becky either!!!

    Trust me and woman out there crying about a n!gger boy period is apparently as weak as his shiftless monkey ass is!!

    Try again you shiftless golliwog bitch!!

  431. STEFANY

    Yes, I said it, and if I saw you I would tell you to your face. The black man is not idealized, no one gives a damn about his ass
    ******************************************
    @JK

    You’re right!

    Unless his black ass can play ball and make a million dollars, then he can buy some tolerance from the white man..The black male is the most degenerated, feard species on the planet..And he knows it that’s why when they get some money they buy a white or mixed breed bitch to put on their arm..Look at coons like Michael Jorden, Reggie Bush black as night but you won’t see them with any sista’s, because they’re searching for acceptance among whites because they know that they’re stereotyped so they want to show the white man “look I’m not like them” pathetic niggas.

    Only people who idealize brothas are nut guzzeling, gold digging, white/mixed breed ho’s because it’s so easy to mind fuck them and get in their pocket.

  432. eddiedollars215

    @steffany… I’m sure my mother thought the same way… I’m not saying you are wrong in terms of two incomes… I am saying that is also by design… and like I said my grandmother had a career, founded one of the oldest organizations for black women and had many other accomplishments… she was merely MORE traditional… if people can’t see that almost everything in this world is meant to hold you down… I don’t know what to tell you… spend your whole life breaking your back… to make someone else rich… so you can afford a bunch of meaningless shit… that you don’t have time to use… because your always working… or commuting to and from work…

  433. Ermy Erm (Chitown til it go DOWN, even though its cold as FUGGIES outside!)

    :shock:


  434. @ SYDNEY
    I LIKE THAT
    ” PLEASE DONT FEED THE TROLLS

  435. HATERS LUV TIM

    @CORPORATE

    I AINT NEED GAME TO APPROACH A NON-BLACK WOMAN. THUGS NEED GAME TO ATTRACT BLACK BITCHES

    @SYDNEY

    YOU WOULD KNOW ABOUT MULTIPLES SINCE YOU ARE ONE.

  436. Mase

    dapro said:

    Child Support is a joke I can speak to that first hand

    The system (it is a system by design) takes all cases and lumps them into one self serving machine

    It should be broken down on a case by case basis

    Men mean more to a child’s life than a simple check or money order
    ————————————
    Child support is based on a formula. However, if the paying parent can prove financial hardship, the amount paid monthly can be lowered. Therefore, support, indeed, can be determined on a case by case basis. You just have to do the research and the work.

    I agree, a man being in a child’s life is more important than a check. However, I think most of the men who have to pay court-ordered child support are probably not in the child’s life anyway.


  437. @ ERM
    WHAT UP I DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WALKED INTO

  438. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @SMDH,

    “All he can ever be portrayed ass is a fucking piece of oversexed ape dick!! ”

    Yes, so is the black female but no body ever wants to go there with her. Anyway yes, a man sexuality is very important. If it was all about smarts and intelligence, Asian men wouldnt be as single as the black female. Asian men and Black females are the least dated inter racialy and are chronically single. We know why no one wants to deal with the modern black American female but why not the Asian male? Still, the black man has it just a bit better. If he didnt, you bitter black females wouldnt blow a gasket when you say him with a white or non black female. I mean shit, you guys go ape when he is with a light skinned black woman. Yall just confused.

  439. dapro

    @Syd

    Who should be feed cause I’m dying for a meal sweetheart?

  440. Shani

    @Niasia

    I hear you. A woman who has to raise the child or children alone are by themselves. It is hard to get money from a man who refuses to pay. Some of them refuse to show up for court, they quit their job to avoid their wages getting garnished, or they move away without a forwarding address. ultimately it is the woman who will shoulder the burden.

    The cost of rent, food, clothing, heat, electricity, phone and other utlities can leave a woman broke, and the children go without. How could a loving father not care if their children don’t have enough food. After all of this turmoil, the children suffer, becasue the mom is working and then comes home tired and most likely in a bad mood because of the stress.

    If a man has little finances to offer, that shouldn’t stop him from being a father. They left because they didn’t want to be fathers.

    A lot of times those children they abandon become succesful, sometimes rich and famous and then he becomes a proud parent. Trying to take credit for something he didn’t do. Some examples are Shaquille, Keyshia Cole, Chilli of TlC and Jay Z.

  441. Sydney

    @Haters

    “YOU WOULD KNOW ABOUT MULTIPLES SINCE YOU ARE ONE.”

    Actually, no, this is it, little one. This isn’t my real name, so why on earth would I need to create other aliases for myself? I want my opinions attributed to one name only.

    Thank you.

  442. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    SITS??????? WTF is a SITS??

    See, it’s not the black women that’s tearing you down!

    Your illiterate ass can’t even spell and you DAMN sure don’t listen!!

    I told your muliple personality having ass to calm the fuck down before you respond–typing in caps (shouting) and not saying shit!!

    Just like the typical, rude, ignorant ass “brotha” you profess to be!

    You’re right! WE don’t want your type! The “Becky’s” of the world can have you. That’s what you need to validate your sorry bitch made ass anyway!

    Let this go!!!!!!

    My hands are starting to smell like shit from constantly handing your ass back to you!!!

  443. Ermy Erm (Chitown til it go DOWN, even though its cold as FUGGIES outside!)

    Hey hey Corp! :) I been reading this thread off and on for the past hour and um… :shock: LOL

    WOWWWWW!


  444. @ TIM
    “I AINT NEED GAME TO APPROACH A NON-BLACK WOMAN. THUGS NEED GAME TO ATTRACT BLACK BITCHES”
    WITH DICTION LIKE THIS YOU BITCH ASS NIGGA YES YOU DO!! GO GET A DEGREE BEFORE YOU START TELLING SOMEONE YOU HAVE A DATING PREFERENCE… I HAVE A PREFERENCE TOO ITS CALLED EDUCATED

  445. SMDH aka SOY SAUCE

    “@SMDH,

    Its like a pyschotic roller coaster with you. The black females knows she is at a disadvantage which is why her blood pressure goes through the roof anytime she sees a black man with a non black woman. Actions speak a lot louder than your words. If black females were so secure in their positions in life, with their job, with their degrees, with their income, then stop bothering the black man and his non black woman. Leave him alone. Dont say anything about him. Dont go get a fucking hemorroid when you see Reggie Bush with his beautiful Armenian woman. Ok. Because you black females lose it everytime you see a black man with a non black woman, I know you guys are shaking in your boots.”

    The issue with the n!gger male is the lack of concern of his own race – let me rephrase that – the deliberate destruction of his own race while uplifting and worshipping others.. The blaming of the black woman for his fucked up head while worshipping the very ones he should probably lay some of the blame on.. The problem is the Civil RIghts fight turning into a group of shiftless fucking n!ggers who could care less about his existence and even goes out of his way to diminish it that much quicker.. The issues is untied we stand divided we fall yet the black male goes for the latter everytime..

    You’re the only race of fucking male just determined to kill off, hold back or doscriminate against your own and it angers the black woman to even have to be associated with you!!! A sista said further up she wishes she wasn’t black!! YOU RACIST FUCKING N!GGERS MAKE HER FEEL THAT WAY, NOT THE WHIITE MAN!! The n!gger man is the biggest detracter to his race today!! He is the biggest threat to and the hardest on his own race today!!

    When you have issues like that the white bitch is the last thing on your mind!! You’re issue is with HIM, not HER!! But golliwog boy is so fucking cuaght up in his me me me everything revolves around me bullshit that his ignorant fucking monkey ass can’t see that!!!

    I cna say wholeheartedly today that my issue with n!gger boys worshipping whiute ass while bashing their own is not a white woman.. When I bash I bash who deserves to be beashed – the weak ass fucking n!gger boy.. If I trash a white bitch its becuase she’s a free for all wet ass n!gger dick sucking whore who deserves it, like Kim K and to further show the n!gger male just how weak and dumb his sorry self hating ass is!!!!

  446. Ermy Erm (Chitown til it go DOWN, even though its cold as FUGGIES outside!)

    My hands are starting to smell like shit from constantly handing your ass back to you!!!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! *faint*

    Hey 1Tru!! :)

  447. Sydney

    @Da Pro

    LMAO! Why did I just think of that McDonald’s commercial? You can’t have any of my 10-piece, bruh! LOL!

    What would you like, sweetie? *putting on apron*

  448. Passenger 57

    Also, Kigali…

    I don’t know about some black women but the ones I know that truly have moved on from black male conditioning don’t give a rat’s ass who these damaged negroes date. They don’t want me or a woman who may look similar to me so it really doesn’t matter. And even if they did date a woman like me there is no telling how well he treats her. Ask some of those married black women in PG County Maryland if they would have rather married OUT. Ask them why they have to hide their faces because those professional black men in that area are known for BEATING their wives. See, when a black man gets frustrated his FIRST victim is always going ot be a black woman. Heck, even when they RAPE white women they have probably raped a black woman first. But no one cares.

    So yeah, let those non black women deal with disease, promiscuity, fists-to-face drama, low expectations, etc all so they can say that they are fucking a black man. LOL. And probably FAKING an orgasm because lord knows you cannot tell a “brotha” he doesn’t know what the hell he is doing because he is KING-DING-A-LING!

    SMH, black women better wake the hell up and stop making excuses for black man’s failures. If you have a TRULY GOOD black man (and you know what that is because it is what a GOOD man is across ALL CULTURES) stick with him and y’all will make it. But if you are dealing with one of these skin-shade racist, homophobic, excuse-making black men get out NOW. Before you end up beaten, with AIDS or raising a child by yourself because he is under “too much pressure”.

  449. Sydney

    Hey Ermy!

    LMAO @ Diva

    Ladies, you have delivered some lines today, I must say. *taking notes*

  450. Kigali (Channeling her inner Dr. Laura and Judge Judy for Bossip retards)

    @Stefany,

    And the black female isnt easy to manipulate? If thats true how is it that these broke ass felon niggahs be getting them pregnant and pussy with no condom?

  451. Raquel26

    @Kigali:

    You are one controversial female! But you know what? I like it. Simply because you arent a “yes” girl. You dont agree with others just to make friends on the net like some people do. I guess it makes them feel important to do so. In any event, you play the devils advocate…..probably pushing the minds of others to think beyond their normal playing field. Now, I’m not saying you’re some kinda messiah (lol) but people like you keep topics interesting and debatable. Who wants to debate with someone who agrees with them all the time?

    Your points, though sometimes harsh, are true and sometimes when the truth hurts you dont want to hear it. You get mad. You get defensive. All these things happen when someone is spitting the truth at you. I know some black women are fucked up as do I know that some black men are fucked up. And just because I’m a female, I’m not going to stick up for some of these sorry ass females (not pointing fingers on here cuz I dont know ya’ll), and I will agree and disagree on things about both races that ring true.

    I think that with black females and black males, its a constant tug-of-war. And who is suffering? That red tape tied in the middle representing the children.

    He’s no good…..she’s a ho…..that nigga aint shit….that bitch aint shit…..i need me a baller….girl, i gotta get my hair and nails done…..man, i wanna fuck that bitch…look at that ass on that bitch…..etc….

    This is how we communicate with each other. Always disrespectful, but when we date someone outside our race, we treat them with respect. How you gonna respect a white man whose ancestors done probably whipped your granny’s back, and treat a black man like shit and he will MOST LIKELY stand by your side. Now to all you bossipers who cant read between lines…MOST LIKELY is the operative word. This doesnt mean he will wholeheartedly. But for real….that always baffles me. But thats another topic.

    I guess what I wanted to say is that I dont take sides, I dont try and make friends on here. If you’re cool you are and we can say “what up” from time to time. But I come on here to voice my opinions and to hear what you guys have to say. I dont expect you to like me, to love me, or even hate me. But do what you feel anyhow.

    Kigali: I know these females are knocking you upside your head and now I’m awaiting my turn. I guess because I’m not cussing you out??

    *looking up thinking*

    Man…am I in High School again????

    Basically….there are fucked up people in every race. Just stay away from those people and you’ll be good. Even in this post there are some strong black women. And I’m sure they are part of your 70%, but you have to admit, when someone is being controversial they are going to respond in that same manner.

  452. eddiedollars215

    my overall point was/is that a man should not be forced to pay child support… he should be there to support his child… if he is UNWILLING to support his child… you are both better off with out him… I could come in and say black men need to raise their children… BUT THIS OBVIOUSLY HAS NOT WORKED (because of the measures I spoke of)… WE’VE BEEN SCREAMING THIS FOR YEARS… TO NO AVAIL… so since these FLEA ASS NIGGAS WON’T raise their children… stop fucking with fleas…

  453. JK

    @ Passenger 57
    _____________
    LOL, that was to funny yet true. Especially about the part where he got to try to stop smoking weed to pass the drug test. I would be suprise if he got that far, just about ever black male I know has to have a black female fill out the application for him anyway.

  454. Ermy Erm (Chitown til it go DOWN, even though its cold as FUGGIES outside!)

    HEY hey Sydnaaay!!! :) i know im comin in here late but i was working like a hebrew slave today

  455. dapro

    dapro said:

    Child Support is a joke I can speak to that first hand

    The system (it is a system by design) takes all cases and lumps them into one self serving machine

    It should be broken down on a case by case basis

    Men mean more to a child’s life than a simple check or money order
    ————————————
    Child support is based on a formula. However, if the paying parent can prove financial hardship, the amount paid monthly can be lowered. Therefore, support, indeed, can be determined on a case by case basis. You just have to do the research and the work.

    I agree, a man being in a child’s life is more important than a check. However, I think most of the men who have to pay court-ordered child support are probably not in the child’s life anyway.
    _________________________________________________

    Greeting family but I disagree somewhat, it’s a two way street

    Some men are foul and don’t step up as a man

    Some women are greedy or scorned and want to hit a man where it hurts most

    The formula is based on a design that is outdated and out of touch, you can’t calculate the meaning of being a father by simple x’s and o’s

    Problem is men are viewed(particularly black men) as numbers either by the correctional facility, credit bureaus or by their income

    My worth to my children was calulated by the fact that she chooses not to further her life and I have so the system decided I should support her and not my children

    The door is opened to laziness, content and living of someone else by allowing her to be supported by me

    I would have gladly shared more of the parental burden but out of spite she tried her best to keep me from my girls

  456. 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    THAT AINT YOUR BABY IN THAT PIC IS IT AND YOU SMOKING CIGS? I HOPE YOU HAVE MONEY SAVE FOR THAT LIL GIRL CAUSE MOM AINT GOING TO BE AROUND LONG TO SEE HER GROW UP. WHO WILL BE DISEASED INFESTED SOON? CANCER HAVING CAUSE SHE COULDNT PUT DOWN THE CANCER STICK.
    ___________________________________________________

    First you type it’s not my daughter (which it is) then you type “her mom?”

    I told you– you are making this TOO easy!

    “They’re all gonna laugh at you!”

    “They’re all gonna laugh at you!”

  457. Redd Tony

    @Dapro===> I hear you dogg…I said the same thing earlier, this blame game is a microsm of the cycle..And yes I agree with your sentiment on the Child Support system….

    Since when did money solve problems with parenting..yes we all need money but the emotional aspect of parenting is more important…

    I know greatness when I see it Pro! You and Eddie..WE ARE LEADERS!!!


  458. @ 1 TRU
    GET YO LIL ASS IN THE CORNER!!!
    HOW THE HELL YOU GONNA MUDER THIS NIGGA RIGHT IN FRONT OF US!!!
    *looking behind my back wiping up blood and shit from the crime scene*