….

DAMN, GROUP SEX WITH THEM WOULD BE AMAZING…

SHE’S RIGHT!!! IF YOU LIKE THEN YOU SHOULD PUT A RING ON IT!!! F#*K GIVING IT AWAY FOR FREE!!! WHY SHOULD WE SETTLE FOR LESS?

WHY MUST A MAN “PUT A RING ON IT”, IN ORDER TO HIT IT? WOMEN ARE TOO STRICT THESE DAYS…

Respect her stance. Whatever floats her boat yet I believe when you have an emotional and/or spiritual connection with someone than its okay. If it feel right you dont need a ring on it Angela trust me! But I’m proud of you girl because your strong! Until you get a piece that is! LOL!

second!!!

great, but how many girl’s that get married now, have never been slid some sausage?? She say’s that but sum 1 has played hide the Dick n her!! But i’m gonna check it out if i’m home n not busy!

lol@ttlee

Who the hell is T.K??

Who the hell is going to marry someone without taking it out for a test spin first? The last thing anyone wants to do is get into a marriage and find out that you’re not sexually compatible. Someone needs to ask this debutaunt, when was the last time she walked out of a shoe store with a pair of Manolo Blahnics without trying them on first?

BORING!!!!!!
Bad Girls Club is better

LMAO!! I don’t believe for a second that angela has never had sex..please. Secondly, that puttin a ring on it crap needs to come to a damn hault..its ruining lives

Different things, work for different people. Good for her, sex is fun, but I damn sure wouldnt do it with a guy that wouldnt stay otherwise…

HER BOYFRIEND, OR EX-BOYFRIEND

charlieblanco, i’m a comment virgin…lol

who the hell is T.K. though

THATS WHY LADIES GET RAPED….BECUZ THEY WANT A RING BEFORE SEX, SOME MEN JUST DONT HAVE TIME FOR THAT…

You go girl! i wud hope more girls follow her example!

Marriage before sex is always the best way, but we all know young people just dont do that

@elle,
you think if she did sleep with someone they wouldnt have already came out talkin trash? Especially the way niggas are, it woulda been a youtube video

Wow @ Hannibal

I was going to leave a comment, but. . .

*leaving thread*

Check out more about this story on http://www.hiphopswag.com

I like these young ladies, and I think the show will be the opposite of many of the stereotypical depictions that currently abound in popular culture.

And I think they should stand strong on their principles.

*leaving*

@ redd tony not all young girls are giving it up like that i applaude her for having some morals but shes living in a tough town though women in la give it up for fame money exposure ect

Hannibal your an idiot the whole purpose of sex is to have it with your spouse how old are you grow up. if thats the case you might as well sleep with a hooker if you are that horney since you have no moral values on sex.

@relle

I know there are few, but the reality is most dont

The show was just “meh”. I guess I’m just getting too old for this kind of stuff. It seemed horribly scripted and banal for my taste.

I do like these girls though. They seem to have a good head on their shoulders. I can’t knock that.

I am against waiting to have sex until marriage

@TREETOP

LOL

ya right, she know that Kitty Boilith over, unless she play for the other team.

Ain’t nothing wrong with waiting until marriage but, good luck finding someone. That’s just the beginning of what’s going to continue to happen for her. I ain’t saying have sex with just anybody but, sex is a fundamental part of life. That’s just being real.

@ pm

uh huh..you make a good damn point..my lesbo radar sure did start going off when I read ur comment

@ttleee, TK is a black skateboarder/rapper from cali.

If you marry who God designed for you and wait on God you shouldn’t have an issue with the sex… I commend her…..sex doesn’t keep a marriage together anyway…..virgins these days are endangered species

Angela stop lying and nobodys waiting for to get married try out the merchandise before you buy it thats what I believe you don’t have to be a slut but have sex before marriage it’s sex

wasn’t bow wow hitting it

IS THE SHOW THAT ****ING BORING, THESE BORING F***S ARE TALKING ABOUT PRE MARTIAL SEX TO TRYING AND ENTICE US IN?

BORING BORING BORING!

THERE IS NOTHING WORST THAN UNATURAL “LET ARE SCRIPT WHAT WE HAVE TO DO” PRERECORDED REALITY SHOWS…IT IS ALL FAKE!…BAR BOBBY AND WHITNEY LOL

A BUNCH OF DRY SPOILT RICH BRAT KIDS WILL NOT ENTICE ME AT ALL!

The show was alright…But to me these young celebrities hopping on the Virginity wagon (i.e. promise rings or professing that they’re waiting for marriage) seems a like a fad to me. I just don’t want her to preaching this shiz and then turn around and hit a “Britney Spears”. I mean I proud of her and all, but I still can’t 100% trust it. And does this make anyone else think if this was the reason her and Bow Wow stop talking?!?

THE ONLY HOOD I WANNA POP IZ VANESSA COOCH…. I HAVE DREAMZ OF BANGING HER AND TASTING HER CULO!!!

Vannesa ann’t even gone sit and tell that lie. lol those skins got basted along time ago.

@ bored

exactly, and speaking of Brit justin wasn’t even her first…she was sexing from the time she was 14 as revealed by her mother in her book..I can’t stomach people who like to put on fronts

Women should have more respect for themselves and other women. If she says she is a virgin, let it be. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. And like she said TK left her, and if he can’t respect her morals then she should be glad that he didnt get any. He didnt deserve it.

Place some value on your virtue!

Puhleeze.That was definitely for the cameras.
*yawns*
If they wanna jazz the show up…have a raw discussion about the responsible use of BIRTH CONTROL.That would be honest.That is a discussion that plenty of young sistas’ need to hear.

This should be a p o r n o

that’s why hiv and herpes and all other type of shyt is running wild because women think there body is a car to let people hop in a drive. Sex before the ring is a risk… not marrying the right person is a risk.. @ elle you must not have any kids to sa something so stupid……

when you have a daughter and try to rasie them right than you wont be singing the same tune. Sex comes with a lot of respondabilty that these young people just don’t get. Wait until your married are old enough to understand what you are doing.

If she wants to keep it……then let her keep it . I’m pretty sure her ex told her the exact same thing. She is going to wade through a lot of people before she finds somebody that is on the same wave length as her. She lives in a very sexually charged time, and nobody including me believes that premarital sex is wrong. I’m sure plenty of women will say they hooked there husband because they knew how to throw it on him. I never heard a woman saying she hooked her husband because she didn’t throw it on him. Till this day if I’m really into a chick and she reveals she’s abstinent for some strange reason…that is pretty much a deal breaker.

I commend her for not giving in. That way she wouldn’t have to live her life with any regrets from sleeping with guys that aren’t worth it.

Good for her….to much shyt out there anyways

DR.FUNK

Puhleeze.That was definitely for the cameras.
*yawns*
If they wanna jazz the show up…have a raw discussion about the responsible use of BIRTH CONTROL.That would be honest.That is a discussion that plenty of young sistas’ need to hear.

LOL! Judging from some of the prior threads on BOSSIP, sistas’ are allergic to all forms of over the counter & prescribed contraceptives. If this site’s a microcosm of the overall mindset of black women, I would suggest that all men either avoid having sex with sistas’, double bag it, or be prepared to deal with 18 years of “BABY MAMA DRAMA”.

I guarantee that this will boost angela’s dick attraction through the roof. She now presents a challenge. Be the first to bang the virginal Simmon’s girl.In other news, I swear that Alicia is their extra marital affair sister.

Find an Arab man to marry Angela.They’re turned on by virginity.

Shidddd, I’d say if more “women” followed her example you have less: 1. STD’s, 2. Babydaddies and more HUSBANDS, 3. Frustrated 40+ year old women wondering why they never had a man that ever wanted to marry them, 4. Stupid boys not knowing how to be Men becasue they momma had them sans a HUSBAND so they grew up with no man training.

And the list goes on, and on and on…

@MARQUIS DE SADE:

COOOOOOOSIGN!!!

Oh and for the ladies out here, trust, all the crap these dudes is talking is just that….crap.

No man worth his salt will wife up a “well traveled” woman. It happens, but in the back of their heads they know they could never truly love an exhoe, that’s just how our minds work and why so many females will never get married. Double standard, yes, is it right? You be the judge but at the end of the day, that’s just how it is and how most men think…

the show seems boring,but that’s good Angela wants to wait,more people need to do that these days,so many young girls have so many sex partners,and aids numbers are still increasing

That so many sistas’ have this convoluted ass-backwards take on sex in this day & age is annoying…and as much a turn-off as the “abstinence front” displayed by the young Ms. Simmons in that clip.

@ nwmasssmedia.com

That’s only if you raise your daughter to demonize sex. Now to educate on birth control,condoms and self-respect and confidence is what I would instill in my daughter if or when I have one. I think that sex is one of the greatest things that mankind has at our disposal, and I’m not into being a hypocrite and telling you premarital sex is wrong when I enjoy it myself.

Wow, so sisters can’t win, huh?

If you have sex, then you’re a whore.

But if you actually want to place a high value on your body and save yourself for a worthy man, then you’re being unrealistic and undesirable.

I think women should stand true to what feels right to them. If a man doesn’t respect your decision to abstain, he’s not right for you.

This is an example of a woman who knows her worth and desires more than the average…so why all of the negative commentary? It may not be everyone’s first choice, but I commend her for doing what is right for her!

I am sorry but the show was very boring. I was hoping that it would be more entertaining but maybe later in the show it will get good. I am glad that they are showing a more positive side to African Americans. (seeing that we have seen our fair share of our people acting a fool on tv. Remember New York, Flav,Chance and Real.) Sad for me to admit but the drama is sometimes more entertaining. And am I the only one who thinks that there cousin might be a lesbian. She seemed very rough around the edges and the part when her and the friend was on the couch and she had her legs on her looked real funny. But if she likes it I love it.

MistaO

So, are you implying that the average “AMERICAN” man wants to marry a virgin. Sorry, bruh, but the average man wants to marry a woman who knows her trade in the sack, but also is faithful. Don’t get it twisted.

@ Sydney…

well said

I commend Angela for sticking to her values. I think she should date men from the Church and not skateboarders and rappers. Those type of men get play all of the time so the word “no” doesn’t exist in their world!!

@gemini62065

I go back to one of my favorite song lines from Lauryn — Don’t be a hard rock when you really are a gem.

Take care with whom you decide to share yourself.

@ Sydney

I agree

Wow, so sisters can’t win, huh?

If you have sex, then you’re a whore.

But if you actually want to place a high value on your body and save yourself for a worthy man, then you’re being unrealistic and undesirable.

I think women should stand true to what feels right to them. If a man doesn’t respect your decision to abstain, he’s not right for you.

I think you’re projecting…And this whole “MY BODY IS A GIFT” goes both ways. Some of you women on subconsious level, tend to equate your sexuality with some skewed form of catholic guilt.

SEE THE DIFFERENCE between girls who have good fathers, and those who dont. her father taught her well. girls/women, dont let these guys wear you out before you get to a GOOD man.

I hope she’s not looking for virgin black man to be with. Cus good luck

so you have to let every guy test drive first. guys try to test drive knowing they have no intentions on buying anything (aka ‘putting a ring on it’)

@Marquis

No, it’s about “guilt” — It’s about reality. A number of women tend to view sex differently from men — It’s more than physical pleasure, you’re actually forming an emotional bond, whether you desire to or not. Why give something so valuable to someone who is unworthy?

Yes, intimacy is beautiful and pleasurable, but I believe it is best shared with someone with whom you have a pre-established emotional connection. Then it is truly lovemaking, and not just some romp.

so you have to let every guy test drive first???. NO guys try to test drive knowing they have no intentions on buying anything (aka ‘putting a ring on it’)

@PhillyGrownYoungWoman

Your post is so true — A lot of my thinking stems from conversations with my father, in fact. He knows the game, played the game in his younger years, and shared the rules with me.

Enough said!

I am just interested to see the responses. It seems like women of color don’t stand a chance! To some, we are either whores to test drive or virgin liars…SMDH!

@SYDNEY:

The “WHORE” label gets thrown around more by WOMEN being catty with WOMEN.(imo) ‘Yall seem intent on maintaining that double standard mindset.I have no issue with a woman who’s trynna’ “stand true to what feels right to them”…but if a man explicitly hears that from a woman he should assume she’s probably not into him…and/or she’s gonna make him jump through some hoops.He should also look elsewhere because “winning” with her will feel like anything but…

Sydney

I’m not saying give it up to every guy you have a casual date with, but this whole pre-conceived notion that “IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU SHOULD WAIT UNTIL WE’RE MARRIED” is unreasonable, unrealistic, and just plain nuts.

@Dr. Funk

“The “WHORE” label gets thrown around more by WOMEN being catty with WOMEN.(imo)”

Have you been reading the comments on this very site? Black women are called “whores” and other colorful terms on a daily basis.

“but if a man explicitly hears that from a woman he should assume she’s probably not into him…and/or she’s gonna make him jump through some hoops.”

That’s true for the wrong man. The right man will see her as a woman with a good head on her shoulders who is actually trying to get to know him and establish a real relationship (which becomes more difficult once sex prematurely enters the picture).

joy rides are good “once-in-a-while”…and both parties have to be on the same page

these days most virgins are ugly as hell I’m surprised with angela being pretty she is still a virgin. I still think she might like sushi

@Marquise – Not saying a woman has to be a virgin, but let’s be real with it, there are many females out here who are just plain soiled! Heck it even mentions staying away from and not becoming tied to a woman who get’s around (not in those words but you get my drift).

And that’s the problem today far too many women took that feminism crap to heart and honestly thought they could behave as men and believe everything would work out fine. Now just look at the state of the family unit in general in this country and the state of the Black family in particular.

Getting away from traditional values has cost us dearly. Just look at how many plain fools walking around out here today because they didn’t have the benefit of growing up in an INTACT home with mother AND father there!!!

And all this, believe it or not, stems directly from the female. If women (such as you see a lot today) just give it up willy nilly, men have no motivation to “do better”. So you got dudes out here today who aint about nothing because they know they can get some without having to be about something. Know they can just show up at a young ladys house and pretty much be sure it aint no FATHER there ready to question him about what he’s about before trying to date his daughter.

See a whole lot of nonsense happens when the female aint right in the head then you get what we see now in full effect, generations of dummies walking around with no sense…

@Marquis

“I’m not saying give it up to every guy you have a casual date with, but this whole pre-conceived notion that “IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU SHOULD WAIT UNTIL WE’RE MARRIED” is unreasonable, unrealistic, and just plain nuts.”

Actually, there are women of all races who did stay true to this principle and are happily married as we speak. There are men who respect such a mindset, so it is, in fact, not totally “unrealistic.”

The timing of sexual intimacy is a personal decision, and I believe women should decide what works best for them and their hearts.

How about if you love me you should wait until I’m ready and if ready means married then so be it…if ready means (2 weeks, a month, 6 months, or a year) of dating then so be it…

First paragraph ment to say in the Bible…

women: dont let these guys have you like a stretched out-of-shape rubber band, with nothing to show for it but maybe some kids/stretch marks/and a single mother label lol lol

@SYDNEY:

I don’t know how old you are…but your take on things sounds like that of a woman between the ages of 25-32.Generally speaking-that woman has two very unattractive things hanging off of her:

1) AN AGENDA
2) A TIMETABLE

;^D

“so you have to let every guy test drive first???. NO guys try to test drive knowing they have no intentions on buying anything (aka ‘putting a ring on it’)”

Hmmmm, y’all sound like whores to me. If the only way a man can get your “GOODIES”, is to spend anywhere from $2500.00 to 5000.00 for your services, is not only a form of emotion extortion, but prostitution.

thats great..probably said mosty for PR but if its true it is to be respected.
Men seem to have a hard time realizing that women dont need sex like they do.In fact the harder we work the lesser we need. So sorry that the male species is so dependant on sex. Maybe time andevolution will teach you guys to control urselves.

@MistaO

“And all this, believe it or not, stems directly from the female. If women (such as you see a lot today) just give it up willy nilly, men have no motivation to “do better”. So you got dudes out here today who aint about nothing because they know they can get some without having to be about something. Know they can just show up at a young ladys house and pretty much be sure it aint no FATHER there ready to question him about what he’s about before trying to date his daughter.”

Exactly. I’ve heard from enough men that it takes little to nothing (heck, not even a date) to get a number of women into the sack, so they feel little need to put forth any effort.

If you want to be respect as a woman, you have to project a demeanor that demands it.

@Dr. Funk

“I don’t know how old you are…but your take on things sounds like that of a woman between the ages of 25-32.Generally speaking-that woman has two very unattractive things hanging off of her:

1) AN AGENDA
2) A TIMETABLE”

If the “agenda” is self-respect, so be it.

As I said before, if a man doesn’t like, appreciate, or respect your mindset, he is more than free to move on to the next prospect.

@JENNIFER:

Stop.There’s no hornier a creature running on this planet than a MARRIED WOMAN.She’s just not horny for her husband. Real talk from an ex-bartender(South Beach)/ex underwear model. ;-D

@SYDNEY:

Agreed.

@ Marquis de Sade: im married boop…just trying to give pointers

DR.FUNK

@SYDNEY:

Agreed.

Touche! There’s more than enough women out there, who lives in the real world, and realize that they have needs too and said needs is not predicated on the promise of committment or marriage.

LOL, believe me, from reading most of the posts on this blog, I know many of the brothers here aren’t in keeping with some of the values and principles I hold dear.

But it is a sad day when men would actually take women to task for expressing their desire to place a higher value on themselves.

@Marquis

“There’s more than enough women out there, who lives in the real world, and realize that they have needs too and said needs is not predicated on the promise of committment or marriage.”

‘Tis true — And those men are more than welcome to continue on their hunt.

Sydney…”Tis true — And those men are more than welcome to continue on their hunt”.

as snoop would say….chuuuuuuch

When it comes down to it immaturity and irresponsibility is what leads to single baby mama’s and diseases. Sex is only the vehicle that get’s you there. There are plenty of households where the parents are not married. There are plenty of people f#cking that don’t have kids or diseases. Yes abstinence will keep you away from babies and STD’s but so can a mature mindstate. Believe me I had my first child this year at 28 and I’ve been f#cking for a very, very longtime. I was taught that condoms and birthcontrol are key and to use them if I wanted to get to where I wanted to be in life. Guess what? It didn’t even take a Bible, Quran, or Torah.

*if you want to be respected as a woman*

Please pardon the typos.

circa-81

You are a woman who lives in the real world. Kudos.

@circa-81:

Bless you child.

@circa-81
Just a question, are you married?

If sex is the only thing a man will stay around for…..guess what? He wasn’t going to be around that long anyway. If hes really into you, he’ll wait to get “into you”. It all comes down to what he is looking for. If he is at the point in his life that he is looking for a soul mate then his motivation changes…..and his priorities. He’ll realize that it is what is between the ears that makes her desirable, not what is between her legs.

MistaO

@Marquise – Not saying a woman has to be a virgin, but let’s be real with it, there are many females out here who are just plain soiled! Heck it even mentions staying away from and not becoming tied to a woman who get’s around (not in those words but you get my drift).

And that’s the problem today far too many women took that feminism crap to heart and honestly thought they could behave as men and believe everything would work out fine. Now just look at the state of the family unit in general in this country and the state of the Black family in particular.

Getting away from traditional values has cost us dearly. Just look at how many plain fools walking around out here today because they didn’t have the benefit of growing up in an INTACT home with mother AND father there!!!

And all this, believe it or not, stems directly from the female. If women (such as you see a lot today) just give it up willy nilly, men have no motivation to “do better”. So you got dudes out here today who aint about nothing because they know they can get some without having to be about something. Know they can just show up at a young ladys house and pretty much be sure it aint no FATHER there ready to question him about what he’s about before trying to date his daughter.

See a whole lot of nonsense happens when the female aint right in the head then you get what we see now in full effect, generations of dummies walking around with no sense…
___________________________________________________________________
Your comment really stood out to me. Idk what kind of relationship you have with the women in your life but the last time I checked it took a man AND a woman to create a child. Your entire comment basically blames women for the plight of our society. But then you contradict yourself by saying that dudes can do whatever they want to girls these days b/c there is not father there to question where and what will you be doing with my daughter. Make up your mind on your opinion. Either way, there are some virgins in the world. I know them. You can wait until marriage. Decide for yourself what you want to do with your body and stop judging other for what they won’t do with theirs.

Hey what’s up Marquis….no,no I’m a dude. I have balls just like you. If it makes you happy though all the chicks that I dealt with were definitely my female parallels. Shit, Bro…reading these comments I would say it’s about where your from, what you were taught, the type of person you are, and what your goals are and how determined you are to get there. Point blank. I keep telling people to push education, education, education. Pushing the church does not work, pushing the topic of abstinence and how “wonderful” it is proves ineffective. All you have to do is sit down and join these youngin’s in the real world and talk to them like you are talking to somebody that is becoming an adult instead of talking to them like they are a child. Communication is a hell of a device if you actually can talk to them respectfully instead of condescending to em’ a b.s. lesson like they don’t know about anything. That is the sh!t that actually works.

@Ill

“If sex is the only thing a man will stay around for…..guess what? He wasn’t going to be around that long anyway. If hes really into you, he’ll wait to get “into you”. It all comes down to what he is looking for.”

I knew you would come through, my intellectually astute brother.

something learned from my father: if a man wants you to have his phone number, ask for his house number, if he says no, that maeans somebody is there already(his woman).

@circa-81
And you is right. Teach them don’t preach to them.

It sounds good, but sexual beings the reality of it all.
Wear a condom.
No means NO.
Don’t respond to all the lust signals that are sent to your private parts.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with waiting for LOVE, whatever that means to YOU. I don’t romanticize with sexuality and ideations of chastity. I was meant to walk and I was meant to make love…not with anyone.

My best-friend is the daughter of a preacher and she was nothing nice growing up. My mother use to think she was sending me to a good girl from a good family. When in actuality she was sending me to a natural born sex addict. They say birds of a feather flock together. I plead the FIF. I love her dearly, and I got a million preachers daughter stories.

LOL @ PhillyGrownYoungWoman

Dads know all the tricks, don’t they?

Self respect does not always carry abstinence as a by-product.I personally know some women in the porn industry who are married…with children.These women are anything but desperate whores.All appears well @home.The kids don’t need therapy.The bills get paid.

@DR.FUNK
No, self respect doesn’t equal abstinence but no Porn star has a drop of it.

MistaO

I’m not sure if your asking me that question because you think I’m a chick which I just explained to Marquis that I’m not. But, anyway I’m not married. Me and my girl talk about it sometimes, but it really doesn’t hold the signicance to us or adds in any enhancement to our relationship that the general populous perceives it as being the tool to do just that. Mindset is what really gives any relationship that special definition. In my household is about freedom of thought, non-confomism, individuality, diesism with a lil’ agnosticism mixed in. Basically intellect reigns supreme in my life and household and not traditions.

I WATCHED THIS EPISODE AND I THOUGHT IT WAS FANTASTIC THAT SHE MADE IT PUBLIC ABOUT WAITING TILL SHE’S MARRIED TO HAVE SEX. IF I WOULD HAVE HAD A POSITIVE ROLE MODEL LIKE THAT IN MY TEENS, I PROBABLY WOULD HAVE WAITED. I LOVE THAT SHE’S NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK ON HER BELIEFS. THIS IS THE TYPE OF ROLE MODEL YOUNG BLACK GIRLS NEED TO LOOK UP TOO.

On a side note, Ta-Nehisi Coates (a brother who writes for The Atlantic) has a profile of Michelle Obama in this month’s issue of the mag, theatlantic.com.

I love his writing.

Sydney

On a side note, the second season of Damages starts tonight.

I never had ‘celebrity’ role models. ‘Celebrity’ Role models are for those individuals growing up in front of the television. People teach your children and youngsters the reality of unplanned pregnancy’s and the consequences.

I’m not knocking the opportunites that the Simmons sisters are afforded via Daddy and Unkkie BDR.

LOL @ Marquis

Oh, I’m on it! It looks like it’s going to be a great season — there’s a lot of star power in this cast.

all i want to know is what was good with her gay ass cousin?

She has a lot of girls that look up to her. FOR ONCE someone in the spotlight is making conscience decisions about what they are doing with themselves and that not only does it affect them but other people around them. So many celebrities live a life of debauchery. She is taking a stand and I’m proud of her… GET EM GIRL!

test

@ Sydney

Why can’t there be more women like you?

I was always told that a man loves to test drive “used cars” but in the end the man always goes after the “brand new car” w/ no mileage on it.

I think lightning must have just struck because I agree with Kigali.

@Marquis De sade,

I am waiting fo rhte third seanson of Man Men. Forget every other show out there.

@Maybeline

Oh, I think there are women with the same mentality out there — It just doesn’t get the same publicity as the usual stereotypical mush that we’re bombarded with on a daily basis.

“I was always told that a man loves to test drive “used cars” but in the end the man always goes after the “brand new car” w/ no mileage on it.”

Me, too. No man wants a car that everyone has test driven, no matter what he may say.

Ladies

Well I guess, this is all attributed to WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS, AND MEN ARE FROM MARS: WOMEN GIVE SEX TO GET LOVE, MEN GIVE LOVE TO GET SEX – THE SAGA CONTINUES

Kigali, you’re right Madmen is the shit, but i’m really looking forward to Sunday: 24 – THE JACK BAUER POWER HOUR!

@Sydney If that new car doesn’t handle well its left that the car lot.

@SYDNEY

Hello. Film was in the other thread.

@pm

That may be true, but the new car still has its value intact. And when the right driver comes along, it will be smooth sailing.

@Man

LOL!

How are you doing?

Ladies

What’s with the “WORN OUT” analogies? Haven’t you heard of cagels(sp) or the ol’ CLEOPATRA GRIP?

LOL @ Marquis

Why are you fighting this so hard, especially after some of the comments you’ve made about the behavior of “black females?”

Sydney

Awww, you know that’s just my ol’ “BAIT N’ SWITCH” routine. Without me to poloarize some of these threads, BOSSIP would be boring. Oh well, i’m out. Talk to you later, O RADIANT ONE, WHOSE ALTER I NOT ONLY KEEP, BUT WORSHIP!

@Marquis

LOL, I think you should be a little nicer. We all want more love and peace in ’09, no?

Take care.

Hey Syd

I hope she is actually abiding by what she is putting out there and not just saying it. Good for her thoguh.

cute girls

Hey Special K

Well, I agree with another poster that we can’t hold celebrities up as role models. My parents were my role models growing up, and I think there’s no substitute for good parenting.

cosign 100% with Sydney, Katherine, Illuminate Truth & Kigali

Every woman is entitled to make her own choices according to what works for her. Some fellas will respect that and others will not. And I applaud her for having the courage to be true to herself…especially since this mindset can draw suspicion and ridicule from others, as evidenced by some of the comments on here.

Neither one of them jaints is virgins yea right they sellin dreams to fit their ‘daddys girls’ personas

Don’t sleep on em….betcha bow wow hit that!

get it girl that’s right!!! Y does there HAVE to be sex before marraige? If people did what Angie does there would be no AIDS, STI’s, ect. Get it together Bossip Bitches!!!!!

MistaO, you are an idiot by all means. Double standard my ass. Look, A LOT OF YOU MEN ARE GOING TO BURN IN HELL WITH GASOLINE DRAWLS ON BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT THAT YOU HAD SPECIAL PRIVILEGES AND COULD DO WHAT EVER WITH WHO EVER WHEN EVER. MARRIAGE WAS ORDAINED BY THE HIGHER POWER AND I’M SURE HE DIDN’T WANT YOU “WELL TRAVELLED MEN” SPREADING DISEASES LIKE YOU TEND TO THESE WOMEN. DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY FAITHFUL WOMEN HAVE GOTTEN INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A HOE-ISH MAN THAT THOUGHT PARLAYING WITH ANOTHER BITCH WAS OKAY AND BROUGHT SOME SHIT BACK HOME TO THE ONE WHO REALLY LOVED HIM. GET YOUR DAMN FACTS STRAIGHTS, IT IS NOT OKAY FOR A MAN OR A WOMAN TO BE A HOE AND WHEN PEOPLE REALIZE THAT THE STD RATE WILL DROP DRAMATICALLY.YOU BASTARDS ARE SPREADING THIS STUFF WITH YOUR LACK OF SELF CONTROL AND DISRESPECT FOR THE WOMEN THAT WALK THIS EARTH. TRADITION WAS BROKEN BECAUSE WOMEN GOT TIRED OF BEING DOORMATS FOR YOU BUMS AND THE COMPLETE DISREGARD FOR WOMEN IN GENERAL HAD PUSH THEM TO THE BRINK AND THAT IS WHAT BEGAN FEMINISM. I AM SO GLAD THAT MY HUSBAND IS NOT LIKE ANY OF YOU FOOLS, UNLIKE THE MAJORITY OF THE MALE POPULATION INCLUDING YOU, HE RESPECTS ME AND IS MAN ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT WOMEN REACT AND DO ACCORDING TO HOW MEN TREAT THEM. THE LACK OF HUSBANDS COMES FROM MEN WANTING TO BE HOES INSTEAD TO TIED DOWN TO ONE FEMALE. MAJORITY OF WOMEN WOULD LOVE TO BE MARRIED,I CONCUR THAT IN GENERAL IT IS NOT A WOMAN’S FAULT BECAUSE EITHER WAY IF SHE’S A HOE OR WANTS TO REMAIN PURE YOU BITCHES WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED.

@Marquis de Sade: kegals dont do it past a certain point. my guy homie once told me about 1 of his experiences “it felt like i was sticking (fill in the blank) out a window

@ Philly….Maybe the nigga aint got a house phone

I got a $500 dolla cell phone Im always working I dont need a house phone another Bill

I bet her mouth ann’t virgin

THE PROBLEM IS BEYONCE CAN HOLLA PUT A RING ON IT!!! SOME OF YOU GIRLS AND THE WAY YALL LOOK…WOULD BE LUCKY IF A NIGGA PUT A WING ON IT…

Ok for the simple minded Neanderthals out there, it’s not about looks, it’s about self respect. If a man can’t respect your BODY he doesn’t respect you. If a man will leave you because you won’t give it up, let his trifling ass go! It’s time more females respected their virtue!

I was so glad to hear her say that. I myself have been celibate for 6 years. If I had the right guidance growing up I would have never had sex in the first place. I’m glad that young women can see someone who has fun, enjoys life and is attractive decide wait. Also, one of the big benefits of waiting is that you quickly get rid of all the guys who really don’t want to be with you. Instead of spending 5 years with some player the way many women do. If a guy is full of crap he will show his true colors really quick if he is not getting any. I wish more women had her point of view.

I respect her, but I’d go wit her non-virgin sister instead.

Omjussayeen

@ BOSSIP_LEE

LMAO! That’s true if a ni99a is turned on by you he is going to spend that guapo with no problem. Believe me…my girl knows I’m into her and only her because I spend way too much f%cking money. And I’ve been spending that dough since day 1 damn near. Now that is 1 thing that I’ve noticed alot of chicks that complain about dudes are not that attractive. If a chick is bad (and knows it) she going to get treated right. Confidence is important but maybe some chicks need to realize they are not in the same class as a Halle or Beyonce or Rhianna. So maybe the dudes that they coming in contact with just are not into them like that.

Usually a bad b!tch is going to get bad b!tch treatment.

Call me crazy, but I wouldn’t want to take her virginity

@ Crazy Ass Rodney

*shrugs* Okay, your crazy. I don’t even know which one is which.

@LL,

Good point. Women do need to be shown that they can have a good enjoyable fun filled life without becoming a slut bag. Women need to find fulfillment within themselves. While they are not having sex, they are doing better in school, involved in sports, forming close and loyal relationships with like minded girlfriends, working, etc.

@ Kigali

So what you’re saying….is if you are a nympho you can’t be productive. Get outta here! (doing a jerking motion with my hands over my crotch) Does anybody actually believe that?

@circa-81

I think sometimes the “hot” girl chooses the wrong guy. For example, as gorgeous as Halle is, she went through a string of abusive, unhealthy relationships (She lost her hearing in one of her ears in such a relationship). Her looks didn’t keep her from being mistreated.

All women should take care with their selection of partners.

Kigali, I have to agree with you again.

Can somebody tell me because I’d really like to know…HOW MUCH SEX OR SEXUAL PARTNERS MUST A WOMAN HAVE BEFORE SHE IS AS YOU SAY WORN OUT?

I bet no one can answer that question with any reasonable credibility. More propoganda. SMH at girls who let these short dick men.

HINT: Its more about the size of the penis than the size of the whole its going into. My bestfriend lost her virginity to someone who was small and besides the initial entry excitement she said she didn’t feel anything after 5 minutes.

SMH at girls who let short dick men make them feel like something is wrong with them

@ Sydney

True Dat! True Dat! But, obviously there was some self-esteem issues there. I said if they are bad and they know it. Ya dig? Usually girls that look like models get treated like models. If a dude that isn’t worth a sh!t knows that you are vulnerable. He will exploit that. Ya dig?

I don’t recall her saying she was a virgin. She said she was waiting until marriage. She could of realized she took a wrong turn and then decided that she was not going to engage in premarital sex any longer. I seriousy douubt if Bow Wow was waiting for sex, when he could have a different girl everyday of the month.

Sometimes it can be a learning lesson that sex does not cement a relationship. A woman can feel hurt, scorned , used, and unworthy when a man is immature and not ready to make a committment.

It can be devastating as well to find out that someone who you have claimed to love and shared intimate relations with is sharing the same acts with another.

If Angela choses to hold on to her virtues before marriage she should look for a man who shares the same ideas and views. If she is looking to convert a man to share the same morals she will be sadly disappointed.

damn the chick on the bottom right(dark butt) thats the nicest one….as far as sex before marriage goes..that’s totally circumstantial..

@circa-81

Well, it’s true that there are beautiful women with low self-esteem, and, yes, a number of them are mistreated, get involved with unfaithful men, etc. It’s about what you will allow.

Halle looks like a model, but until she started developing higher self-esteem, it didn’t matter how good she looked, she was involved in unhealthy relationships, which she has discussed very candidly in the past.

The IQ in the thread just dropped substantially. . .

I am in the same situation. I am very religious and I don’t believe in having sex before marriage and some times it can be a trial. But any guy worth his salt will respect that and actually know what a prize it is. He doesn’t have to worry about other guys or diseases. It’s a gift that once taken can’t be given back. It’s like if you are ready to commit to me and truly value our relationship we can wait. But it’s like if sex is the only thing you’re in this relationship for then be gone -poof good-bye. I respect her for sticking to her guns. I respect those who have had pre-marital sex because it is a personal decision but I just wish that those who choose not to would receive the same type of respect.

am i completely missing the point? apologies if i’m incorrect but i’m seeing a culture that wants to get paid(the ring) for giving it up(the sex)? getting paid to give it up? i think i understand now.

OK SO SHE SAYING SHE DIDNT GIVE BOW WOW NONE…CMON ANGIE!

@circa 81,

No I am not but for the record nymphos have many other underlying pyschological issues that prevent them from leading normal happy lives. Remember nymphomania is a pyschological diagnosis that needs to be treated.

@Sydney,

“The IQ in the thread just dropped substantially. . .”

You have never been to Media Take Out then. I swear everyone on there is like 12 years old.

Yeah, every behavior in psycology is an ailment that needs to be treated. But, I used the word ‘nypho’ loosley. So let me deflate the word and say if a chick is a ‘freak’ would that prevent her from becoming a doctor, biologist, attorney etc? I know plenty of freaks that have masters degrees if not more. I would say that you are fashioning info to fit your perception, no?

*nympho*

Having premarital sex sometimes clouds a woman’s juddgment when searching for the right mate. Sometimes she will cling to a man who is bad for her, because of the intimate relations between the two.

Clinging to an unsuitable mate because of the physical attraction can be detrimental to someone’s phycological health.

If you can build a friendship with a man who shares the same ideas and views and who does not mind waiting for marriage, you will be able to find out what his endearing traits are and what are his flaws and if you two are truly compatible.

LOL @ Kigali

Yes, you’re right. There are more stories posted there, but the level of discussion isn’t the same.

I just think there are a few posters here who may feel more at home on the MTO side, lol.

@Tia

“Having premarital sex sometimes clouds a woman’s juddgment when searching for the right mate. Sometimes she will cling to a man who is bad for her, because of the intimate relations between the two.”

I definitely agree with this.

Kigali is what happens when your online all day and night trolling. Cut and Paste! LMAO @ GOD

Well, it’s true that there are beautiful women with low self-esteem, and, yes, a number of them are mistreated, get involved with unfaithful men, etc. It’s about what you will allow.

Halle looks like a model, but until she started developing higher self-esteem, it didn’t matter how good she looked, she was involved in unhealthy relationships, which she has discussed very candidly in the past.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You just proved my point. So if a chick that looks like a model know that she looks like a model she will get the treatment that average women yearn for. Matter of fact the women that I have dealt with that were blessed with superior looks often complained about men trying to wife them and smother them and so forth. So maybe all of the complaining is due to this population of complaining women not having the qualities that it takes to be a trophy wife. Remember we are men. We are only really concerened with whats on the outside, but if you have a nice personality then that is just a plus. Plain and simple. We’re men….we’re pretty shallow when it comes to dating.

NO you idiots are discussing an intelligent conversation on a GOSSIP SITE. GTO and go to the New York Times.com

Having a three way conversation is not cute Ladies and InTelmen.

@God,

There is a direct correlation between the levels of depression, suicide, and STD infection with teens who are sexually active. Their counterparts who arent sexually active are alot happier, dont want to commit suicide, and arent becoming infected with STDs. Teen mothers are more likely to live in long term poverty and welfare dependency.

Why the hell you keep calling me Nigali? Something wrong with the “K” on yur keyboard?

“How do you measure another persons happiness based on their sexuality?”

Generally, when you are happy, you arent depressed and dont want to kill yourself.

“You don’t promote anything positive about women, especially Black women.”

Youre wrong. I am promoting the decision of Angela, who is a black woman, not to have sex until she is married. When black females start doing positive things then I will support her decisions.

@Circa 81,

I dont know what you mea by a freak but in order to become a doctor lawyer, etc, you need to dedicate alot of time to study. Doesnt leave much time for your personal life. See my point?

NO you idiots are discussing an intelligent conversation on a GOSSIP SITE. GTO and go to the New York Times.com

——————————————————————————————————

There is nothing wrong with engaging in healthy conversation about relationships. It can help someone who is in a unhealthy relationship.

Negative people are the only ones who relish and enjoy trading insults, negativity, racist views, and cursing people out.

Some of you must be very young and lack parentel guidance. I read one of the posters comments and she is more shallow than that sissy girl Kanye West. Booowhooo if I get a butt implant and a wig sewn into my scalp I’ll look like a model and I’ll catch a baller. STFU! Didn’t some of you have a mother with a backbone and a BRAIN? IT doesn’t matter if you look like MOEgilla gorilla or like a model if a man isn’t into you HE’S JUST NOT INTO YOU! LOVE YOURSELF, RESPECT YOURSELF, EDUCATE YOURSELF, SAVE, KEEP A FICO OF 780 if you can. Travel LIVE ENJOY life and he or she will come. Stop being desperate listening to this PAJAMA bloggers who wouldn’t know their face from their ass. BPS is never treatable just ask suck sauce.

if all else fails buy a docjohnson vibrator and batteries. Hell with good credit and a good education you may travel someplace exotic and meet Mister Right, just stop looking DESPERATION can be smelled a MILE AWAY.

@circa-81

“We are only really concerened with whats on the outside, but if you have a nice personality then that is just a plus. Plain and simple. We’re men….we’re pretty shallow when it comes to dating.”

Yes, this is true — I’m just saying that good looks doesn’t make you immune to bad treatment if you make poor choices or stay in unhealthy situations.

Also, it depends on what you want in a relationship — Yes, you can be a man’s armpiece, and you still don’t receive the love and attention that you truly desire.

In my personal experience, it works best when a man not only admires your physical appearance, but he also appreciates and respects your mind, character, and the other intangible qualities that truly make you relationship material.

@10 inches,

God is what happens when you dont have a counter argument and are left to make personal attacks and talk about irelevant shit.

@God

“IT doesn’t matter if you look like MOEgilla gorilla or like a model if a man isn’t into you HE’S JUST NOT INTO YOU!”

True.

Nigali I don’t give a damn what you’re promoting. You’re an idiot. You don’t know ANGELA personally you know of her from TELEVISION. Save the morality for someone who cares.

@SYDNEY

Shout outs to Sydney! Gon’ girl!!

@Sydney,

I only go to MTO for the pictures. Reading the comments on there makes me depressed about the intelligence of the average black person.

They will have a story about a kid who got ran over by a bus and you will have 100 comments like:

DAMN, i guess thats sad. lol
——————————————
visit my myspace page

@ Kigali

God, let me get this one. First thing we’ve actually talked before about statistics and there flawed and unreliable nature. When you do such a study the analyzer’s behind it don’t include the many different nuances that would lead to such dior and self-destructive results for each of these individuals. There are too many social factors that are present in each one of these teen lives to blanket every sexually active teen and say they are depressed and suicidal. Once again that does not even make sense. I can pull up just as many studies that claim highly sexual people are more inclined for happiness. See where I’m getting at?

syd you still here?

For the record you wouldn’t need to give me a ring for me to give it up

Just saying….lmao

BOTTOM LINE: girls/women, dont let these guys wear you out before you get to a GOOD man.

@Naija Girl

LOL! Hey, girl!

@Kigali

“They will have a story about a kid who got ran over by a bus and you will have 100 comments like:

DAMN, i guess thats sad. lol
——————————————
visit my myspace page”

LOL! So true.

gooooooooo circa81

I never underestimated YOU!

xoxo

@dapro

“For the record you wouldn’t need to give me a ring for me to give it up”

LMAO

No doubt, bruh, no doubt.

Can somebody tell me because I’d really like to know…Boss LA says”HOW MUCH SEX OR SEXUAL PARTNERS MUST A WOMAN HAVE BEFORE SHE IS AS YOU SAY WORN OUT?I bet no one can answer that question with any reasonable credibility.”

are you serious????????….talk to a mature woman sweetie, she’ll tell you how it can happen. (unbelieveable)

Oh and to get back on my hobby horse, you guys do know that girls who are raised in single parent homes are more likely to be sexually active earlier than anyone else.

Ahhhh. Now I feel better.

i luv the simmon bitches they rich as shit but not stupid, smart young black ladies who dont walk around like they the shit .. even though they could…. shit i believe her she gots no reason to lie esp[ecially about sex cus ya kno someone will go online or to a magazine put this gurl on blast … good shit Angie i mean u dont have to wait til marriage just do it when u want no pressure educate these stupid bitches out here .

@10inches,

“Debating a celebrities virginity is like debating Karl Marx on the joys of Communism. Get a LIFE loser.”

I am not debating a celebreties virginity. I am suporting a celebreties decision on saving sex until marriage. I do that because studies show that women, girls are much happier when they arent having casual sex with people.

Rocsi

That’s very commendable that you’re holding fast to your beliefs. I to was raised in a religious household, but I strayed from what was instilled into me at a certain age.

I respect virtuous women that realize that their bodies are immensely invaluable and they’re willing to wait for that one person to explore emotional and physical intimacy with in depth. From a male’s point of view, you’re doing the right thing by waiting to make love with one man. If a man says you’re not worth waiting for, count it as his loss. It’s takes a ‘real man’ to recognize and respect the qualities he finds attractive in his soulmate, and no one else (no side pieces). He also fathoms that marriage is a partnership, and it should be held sacred and taken seriously.

Partaking in sex is just gratification for both male and female. But, making love is a passionate affection expressed through love (caressing, eye contact, romantic sincerity) and it’s much more than the realm of physical contact. It’s the transportation to another place that allows both parties to express themselves freely and emotionally through an intense, interpersonal connection.

From personal experience, I enjoyed the company of my fiance before marriage, I did propose, and a wedding was planned. So, it’s possible to find a man that believes your worth it, but just don’t settle for anyone.

Its appears that you owe me, BTW

Film

There you are, lol.

“Partaking in sex is just gratification for both male and female. But, making love is a passionate affection expressed through love (caressing, eye contact, romantic sincerity) and it’s much more than the realm of physical contact. It’s the transportation to another place that allows both parties to express themselves freely and emotionally through an intense, interpersonal connection.”

Yes.

Film

“Its appears that you owe me, BTW”

LOL, oh, I do?

“We are only really concerened with whats on the outside, but if you have a nice personality then that is just a plus. Plain and simple. We’re men….we’re pretty shallow when it comes to dating.”

Yes, this is true — I’m just saying that good looks doesn’t make you immune to bad treatment if you make poor choices or stay in unhealthy situations.

Also, it depends on what you want in a relationship — Yes, you can be a man’s armpiece, and you still don’t receive the love and attention that you truly desire.

In my personal experience, it works best when a man not only admires your physical appearance, but he also appreciates and respects your mind, character, and the other intangible qualities that truly make you relationship material.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Once again you’ve proved my point. The key phrases are….

1) poor choices
2) stay in unhealthy situations.
3) it depends on what you want in a relationship

So if you have this highly attractive, highly confident woman who is use to people bending over backwards to please her she will most likely not make a POOR CHOICE to STAY IN IN UNHEALTHY SITUATIONS because it DEPENDS ON WHAT SHE WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP. People that are highly attractive (men and women) are use to being treated differently. relationships unless they have a low self-esteem. I know it is unfair but that is the way it is. A pretty girl finds her way to a ring and a fully financed life easily if she wants it.

Hey Sydney>>>girl, you are on point as usual! Thank you for intelligently breaking that down. I applaud this young lady for keeping her body sacred until the right one comes along regardless of what anyone says or thinks. It’s her body and she’s doesn’t want to be a cum bucket.

Also, let me add. Men, it would be wise to learn to control your sexual prowess as well. For too long, men have been encouraged to poke their poles into every hole they can find and they are given a pass. If a woman is a hoe for giving it, then what does that make you for taking it? Just a thought.

Check the other thread, ma’am.

Hey WordtotheWise!

@Film

The other thread, sir?

Film

OK, I just read your comment.

LMAO

Yes, you’re right. *sheepish look*

Highly attracted people also have to deal with a myriad of other issues such as whether or not that person is with them for arm candy or true love. What happens if you pair up with a highly attractive person and that person unfortunately loses their appeal? Are you going to stay or walk away? What if he/she gets cancer? Are you going to bounce or “fall out of love?” Many a pretty woman has been left and treated like crap (hence Halle Berry), by men who were probably once enthralled by her looks. Looks fade. I would suggest to any female that if a man cannot respect your wishes, he’s not for you. Don’t settle for less.

Kiggla

There you go throwing out your PSUEDO half truths. You clearly stated above “God is what happens when you dont have a counter argument and are left to make personal attacks and talk about irelevant shit.”

I always thought to counter another persons argument it meant you were DEBATING. You’re all thesaurus without the BRAINS.

I don’t know what online classes you’ve been, but you should consider requesting a refund.

Thanks, WordtotheWise.

I wasn’t sure how to respond to this, um, interesting perspective.

*scratching head*

Some of you are killing me with this Mister RIGHT bullcrap. Mister Right is Right alright RIGHT about seeing through a scared insecure girls defenses. How about some of you STFU and study psychology 101 before the BOSSIP POLICE diagnosis you with a disorder or worse insults your BLACK MAMA.

You’re welcome, Sydney! Well just respond anyway your want. It’s all good.

LOL @ “Mr. Right at least tonight”

Or is it “Mr. Right Now”

@WordtotheWise

Girl, you covered it, lol.

*is it “Mr. Right Now?”*

Sydney

Does that sound like a new R&B song?

Mr. Right. . .At least tonight. . .

LOL!

WordtotheWise

‘What happens if you pair up with a highly attractive person and that person unfortunately loses their appeal? Are you going to stay or walk away? What if he/she gets cancer?’

I agree. Well, that’s because most men choose their significant others based on just physical appeal. What ever happen to treasuring other qualities (intelligence, wit, etc.) in your woman? If you love more than her physicality, it’s much easier to care/provide for her if she did become ill or physically disable.

Film

“If you love more than her physicality, it’s much easier to care/provide for her if she did become ill or physically disable.”

And vice versa.

If you love a man for the person he is — not for how he looks, what he owns, or what he can give you — that’s the foundation of a genuine relationship.

I Believe Angela and I am Proud Of her. I’m a Virgin but i wouldnt necessarily say i’m going to wait until i’m married. I’d rather wait until i found someone who i felt was worth giving myself to. If it so happen to be until We get married then so be it. It is a Struggle but Thats life itself. And no a Man is not necessarily wrong if he does not want to stay with the girl because she will not give in, thats simply his choice. But its all about respecting ones wishes and putting things on the table early. Say what to expect and what not to expect and if they dont like it they can keep it moving.

@ Film

My goodness you have said a mouthfull. I concur!

@ Syd

Where is our home girl Nina Knows I just knew she would be on this one.

I don’t understand some of these comments. I’ll just perceive it differently, I guess.

Film, you are so on point. When the rubber meets the road, you want a person that’s going to be there for you regardless. I always said it’s the character of a person that makes them such as the qualities you mentioned above. Unfortunately some people can’t see past the physical.

WordtotheWise

That all depends on the nature of the person that they are dealing with. That is pretty much a standard and repetitive question. I don’t think any genuine person is going to leave a loved one that has been mutilated or fell terminally ill. I mean…c’mon.

I don’t know where Nina is, Special K. I haven’t seen her today.

@Film

No comment.

Syd

I’d play hard to get though for at least the first 5 minutes of the date

Didn’t McCain (who has a history of dating women of “superior” beauty) leave his wife (who was a model) for Cindy after she had the accident that resulted in the altering of her looks?

Waiting til marriage, damn what a valiant effort but it’s also dangerous

LOL @ dapro

5 minutes, brotha? That’s it?

Yes McCain did,

He also married the other chick for her paper

Sydney

LOL @ dapro

5 minutes, brotha? That’s it?
________________________________________________

Ok, I can wait at least 20 or until you get too close whichever comes first…I’m a man of standards you know!

circa-81>>>I’m not talking about a genuine person who truly loves their mate. I’m talking about people who once thought they were in love and soon fell out of love when that person fell short of their expectations in the looks department. It happens all the time.

Good point, Sydney!

@dapro

“He also married the other chick for her paper”

Yup, that, too.

And you remember that video of him eyeing Palin?

@ Syd

yes McCain did and now he has a woman who is addicted to pain killers and doesn’t claim her half siblings lol. see men it is not always an upgrade.

dapro, why is it dangerous to wait until you’re married?

@dapro

LOL

@WordtotheWise

The body language between McCain and Cindy was painful to watch during the campaign. I think it’s clear that she loves him, but his body language came across as cold and rigid towards her, IMHO.

And really the point is that people that are dimes are tended to and treated better plus they have access where others don’t. You guys are talking about whats under the skin while my point was based on there physical appearance and nothing more. I’m a man and I come from a family where we are mixed with bahaman, puerto rican, and chokotan native american so we carry some very good looks. And it is no mistake that all of us have some sort of luxury that we access easily no matter if it’s husbands, wives, sexual partners, jobs, treatment etc. Kigali, you like studies right? Well did you come across the study that indicated that attractive people are more likely to get a job over an ugly candidate. May not be fair but it is the way it is.

Sydney, you are right. It was painfully obvious. It seems to me that because of how they got together, it might’ve been doomed from the beginning. God don’t like ugly. She was his little trophy wife and reality set in. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side, huh?

Film, you’re right — I don’t understand some of these comments either.

@WordtotheWise

Yes, Cindy McCain strikes me as the trophy wife who has lost her shine.

@ God…

Your comments may seem harsh to some by I totally agree! If you are busy preparing yourself for your future…you won’t have time to search for Mr. Right…period!

WordtotheWise

I dated one girl solely on looks (nothing else), and outside of the bedroom we didn’t have anything in common. My father asked me, ‘What do you find attractive in her?’ My only response was she’s gorgeous. I realized that I didn’t value her, but only her ‘time’ when I was in need. Yeah, I know. I was selfish.

I’ve made a complete 360, and a woman needs more than a pretty face if she wants a relationship from me.

Special K

‘My goodness you have said a mouthfull. I concur!’

LOL, I basically forced to do it.

I commend her. Its her body and her choice. If the guy doesn’t want to wait he can always keep it moving. I think its a wise decision morally and physically. There are too many diseases in this world to risk it for a test drive or getting pregnant. And even if she doesn’t wait for marriage she will be with the one she feels is worth it. Why waste good Pu$$y and good time (The Roots- “the Unlocking”) on sorry a$$ men who want to jump up and down on you. Take your time and deal with some Gems.

circa-81, I don’t think anybody is denying that in our looks-obsessed society that looks are a benefit. You also have to be careful that the people that are so-called treating you better – what are their motives? My issue is that once those looks are gone, then what? Also, when you look at the average Joe or Jane Blow on the street, most are not with drop dead gorgeous people. Circa-81, what kinds of access do you have that other less attractive people don’t? Just asking.

Sydney

‘No comment’

About what?

Film

Oh, that was in reference to you commenting on some of the statements in the thread. We’re on the same page.

I know you felt “forced,” but I’m glad you did share your thoughts.

@Film>>>Bingo! This is what I’m trying to convey to circa-81. I mention Halle Berry. She’s considered one of the most beautiful women in Hollywood; however, she’s had a horrid past with men who mistreated her, cheated on her, caused her to become deaf in one ear, etc. I’m sure she has benefited tremendously for her pretty face, but look at the suffering she’s endured as well.

Syd

I have a confession, I was eyeing Palin too

@Word to the Wise

If we lived in a society where people stay married for the rest of their lives it’s fine but the attachments of one giving themselves to their husband/wife is significant in that you may stay in the marriage for all the wrong reasons

Marriage can be the most beautiful thing in this world but a failed marriage is torture

WordtotheWise

What are you talking about? The key ingredient to love (between a man and a woman) is attraction. Which means that the ‘model type’ is going to find love or what appears to be love quicker and easier. That’s the point. So who cares if she receives more infatuation than love the point is she still receives more than the average person. I don’t know if you ever had somebody infatuated with you but let me tell you it is flattering to say the least and very close in content to what people call love and I say it because I’ve had girls infatuate with me a few times.

if a chick that looks like a model know that she looks like a model she will get the treatment that average women yearn for.
________________________________________________________________________

Yes, this is nothing but the truth…

@The Fellas

Keep in mind a lot of these video vixens that you like and want to “wife”, ain’t cooking or cleaning A DAMN THING!!!

and

your money/paper better be right cause with most of them = there’s no romance without the finance

@circa

you lost me with naming all of your nationalities. Mixed or Unmixed you can’t lay claim nor trade mark GOOD LOOKS. If none of you don’t learn anything from the celebrities which are posted here learn this: It’s NOT what I think about YOU it’s what YOU think about YOURSELF. I can call Jeezy a conehead to the cows come home, but I bet Keyshia Cole doesn’t think so. I bet you say *SLAVE VOICE* she got GOOD HAIR? R

Regarding attractive vs. ugly potential job candidates: I wish you would’ve sent that MEMO to Obama because he hired some UGGLY hiteous former Clinton Killers for his cabinet post.

Note: Being MIXED does not guarantee good looks cause I’ve seem many UGLY ricans native americans and bahamans. beauty is always in the EYE of the beholder and most people watch so much television they wouldn’t know beauty if she slapped them in the face. The MEDIA and places like Bossip tell some of you shepple how to think what to think who’s pretty and who is ugly.

Lose the shallowness PEOPLE life is only unfair when you fail to make goals and achieve them for yourself.

Confession: I was treated the worst by a man who complimented me repeatedly on my physical appearance (he also told me about his past relationships with very attractive women — particularly the ones he dated in school as an athlete — most of whom he wound up mistreating).

He even asked me if I was mixed (he had an issue with color as well). His thoughts on my looks meant nothing when it came to how he treated me, and beyond the physical intimacy, there was no real connection.

Being “pretty” was no shield from getting my heart broken.

*if I were mixed*

@ Syd

we almost have the same confession lol. and I get asked am I mixed with something all the time and sometimes it really nerves me. I just tell them no I mixed with black and blacker now leave me the hell alone.

Syd

He might have been insecure with himself, he wanted you as a trophy but you offer so much more than physical beauty from my standpoint

Of course there has to be a physical attraction but beyond that I need mental stimulation not just “book” smart women but one who can hold a conversation about the world, sports, politics, religion, etc…..

I don’t know why these spoiled brats trying to act like they’re virgins.

-JAY Z

Circa-81, what kinds of access do you have that other less attractive people don’t? Just asking.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I’ll let you answer that for yourself. What type of access do you think attractive people get? It’s definitely not just pu$$y.

The thing about “EYE CANDY” is it’s only as good as long as the flavor last

That’s why so many flock to comestic surgeons to try to keep themselves “beautiful”

@Special K

Are you mixed with something?

You got Indian in you – Cherokee, Navaho?

@ Slide

Just black and blacker lol

You know phwo certain people are they see a light skinned black woman and we have to mixed with something.

WordtotheWise

Exactly. Well, that goes back to my original statement. One can’t equate pulchritude/sex with love. A true friendship requires adoration/devotion and a positive aspect of life. In Halle’s case (similar ones), beauty can assure immortality.

I’ve come to the conclusion that everyone just can’t comprehend infatuation verses true love. I’ve seen a successful marriage at firsthand, so, I know the significance of focusing on the goodnesses of the other person.

@Special K

LOL!

@dapro

Yeah, I think he was a bit insecure — He was also very controlling (didn’t want me to go out with my friends) and had a jealous streak.

“Of course there has to be a physical attraction but beyond that I need mental stimulation not just “book” smart women but one who can hold a conversation about the world, sports, politics, religion, etc…..”

Yes, me, too. I really, really need mental stimulation, lol.

goodness’ TYPO.

@Special K

I know phwo certain people are I’m just messing with you…

But you ain’t answer the question though = How did you get that “silky smooth” indian hair? or are you wearing one of those Beyonce type “wet & wavy” weaves’?

I’m sorry to hear that, Sydney. I agree with the Dapro.

@circa

you lost me with naming all of your nationalities. Mixed or Unmixed you can’t lay claim nor trade mark GOOD LOOKS. If none of you don’t learn anything from the celebrities which are posted here learn this: It’s NOT what I think about YOU it’s what YOU think about YOURSELF. I can call Jeezy a conehead to the cows come home, but I bet Keyshia Cole doesn’t think so. I bet you say *SLAVE VOICE* she got GOOD HAIR? R

Regarding attractive vs. ugly potential job candidates: I wish you would’ve sent that MEMO to Obama because he hired some UGGLY hiteous former Clinton Killers for his cabinet post.

Note: Being MIXED does not guarantee good looks cause I’ve seem many UGLY ricans native americans and bahamans. beauty is always in the EYE of the beholder and most people watch so much television they wouldn’t know beauty if she slapped them in the face. The MEDIA and places like Bossip tell some of you shepple how to think what to think who’s pretty and who is ugly.

Lose the shallowness PEOPLE life is only unfair when you fail to make goals and achieve them for yourself.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@ Party Poo Poo
I’m not trying to be vein or anything. I described my background because you know how us as black people are obsessed with what some of us are mixed with. So I just used myself as an example because of the treatment that me and my family receives. My grandparents would not say anything for years because I guess back in the day my family was not accepted by any race so they would only tell us that we are black. But through the years growing I got tired of people asking me what am I? So after irking my grandparents long enough about a year ago they finally spilled the beans.

@ slide:)

no honey I came already out the womb with wet and wavy.:) I was one of those ones that when I was younger i didn’t want the wet and wavy I wanted the bone straight like them lacefronts Tyra Banks be wearing lol. and it’s so funny you used her as an example cause she don’t need the wet and wavy either she has/had beautiful hair under all that weave.

@Syd

I can see that but true stimulation is catering to all the senses and understanding the “gauge” or gas tank of the person you’re involved with

Mental foreplay increases and heightens the relationship and sex

The show was ok, I could find better things to do for 30 mins….but if she wants to wait, than good for her.

dapro>>>I hear what you’re saying.

Circa-81>>>What are you talking about? The key ingredient to love (between a man and a woman) is attraction.

Oh, I beg to differ. Maybe for you the key ingredient is attraction. First off, what is love to you, circa? People are attracted to others in so many different ways. Some people are attracted to a person’s intellect or other unseen quality. There are time when I wasn’t attracted to someone until I got to know them and then, voila, there was a connection. But see, people don’t want to hear that. They want instant. If what you’re saying were the case, every male/female you saw together would be drop-dead gorgeous. Trust me, I’ve seen a lot of non-attractive people in great, loving relationships. Looks are only the tip of the iceberg.

Which means that the ‘model type’ is going to find love or what appears to be love quicker and easier. That’s the point.

Right! What APPEARS to be love. Circa, you don’t get it. First of all, define love. Love goes deeper than the initial point of attraction. Yes, you can meet a person, be attracted to them, but when you get to know them, you either like or dislike them regardless of whether they are the “model type,” as you say, or a Don Juan.

So who cares if she receives more infatuation than love the point is she still receives more than the average person.

A lot of women care, circa, because when she gets with a man, she’s going to want someone with more than just infatuation for her. She’s a human being, not a commodity. When the rubber meets the road, women want to be more than a trophy on some man’s arm. Those kinds of relationships don’t last. Have you ever talked to beautiful women and asked them if infatuation is more acceptable to her than love? If she’s a woman worth her salt, she’ll tell you 9 times out of 10, that she wants more than a man infatuated with her.

I don’t know if you ever had somebody infatuated with you but let me tell you it is flattering to say the least and very close in content to what people call love and I say it because I’ve had girls infatuate with me a few times.

Circa, flattering indeed, but would you marry someone who was only infatuated with you?

Film

“I’m sorry to hear that, Sydney. I agree with the Dapro.”

Oh, don’t be. I just learned a hard lesson from the experience.

@dapro

“Mental foreplay increases and heightens the relationship and sex”

Yes, it does.

no honey I came already out the womb with wet and wavy
________________________________________________________________________

@Special K

Alright then curly…

Be careful of them lacefront joints or you gonna end up with that Naomi Campbell/Susan Taylor (Editor of Essence Magazine) hairline…

You know what I figured it out you’s “Creole” like Beyonce and just don’t want to admit it…

I’d rather have my woman admire me than be infatuated with me

It’s something about a woman’s trust and love being given to me that makes me strive for more

Look at how Michelle looks at Barack, that shit is beautiful ((wipes tear away)) I ain’t crying just a lil misty eyed

Sydney

If you don’t mind me asking, how long did this relationship last?

@ Slide

Yes I am but my parents are still black creole isn’t a race lol but yeah they are both from louisiana and No NO NO NO I have never worn a lacefront lol I just wanted it straight like that only when I was in high school.

LOL @ dapro

I love the way Barack looks at Michelle, and the body language (the constant touching, etc.)

I love that she dated him when he didn’t have a dime to his name and there was a hole in the bottom of his car.

@ WordtotheWise

No I do get it. I said it is easier for them to receive proposals of marriage. I can care less what the motive is. The point is that they get more offers that the usual person. And, yes, the ugly duckling may have a dime piece. But, once again she can replace him a million times over…while he probably can’t. It’s time for me to leave the office holla @ yall later.

@ Dapro
lol! you are funny but I look at them and think the same thing like they really enjoy loving one another and it is a beautiful thing.

Yes I am but my parents are still black creole isn’t a race lol but yeah they are both from louisiana
_________________________________________________________________________

@Special K

Oh my bad, you “Cajun” then?

Film

It was a while ago, but we were off and on for roughly three years (we continued seeing each other after the official break-up).

In the beginning, he mentioned marriage, and he introduced me to his parents, but I ignored all the warning signs, and it was obvious we were incompatible.

@Special K and Syd

That’s real right there. I mean you can see genuine love and admiration for one another

That’s what I need right there, a good woman can make a great man

@ Slide

Yeah lets go with cajun.

And what it your ethnic background?

I’m out peace ladies and gents

bye Dapro

@dapro

“I mean you can see genuine love and admiration for one another.”

Yes, it’s obvious that there’s a high level of mutual respect.

Good night!

@Film

WordtotheWise

Exactly. Well, that goes back to my original statement. One can’t equate pulchritude/sex with love. A true friendship requires adoration/devotion and a positive aspect of life. In Halle’s case (similar ones), beauty can assure immortality.

I’ve come to the conclusion that everyone just can’t comprehend infatuation verses true love. I’ve seen a successful marriage at firsthand, so, I know the significance of focusing on the goodnesses of the other person.
_____________________________________________

Right! Film, that’s what I’m talking about. It takes growth to look behind the superficial and see the qualities that really matter in a strong, healthy relationship. There is really no concept of the word love that’s why I asked what it meant.

Circa>>>other than sex, I don’t know what benefits you have. That’s why I asked.

Sydney

Yeah, I’ve been there before. I think one of the best policies is to take your significant other home to meet your parents. Sometimes, love clouds possible warning signs, and it’s best to have another set of eyes when ours are blinded, and especially ones that have experienced pessimism/optimism in their lives. JMO.

It’s worked for me in the past. I don’t know you personally, but you’ve seemed to bounce back.

circa>>>have a good one!

WordtotheWise

Are you married, if you don’t mind me asking?

Film, no, I don’t mind you asking at all. I’m not married, but in a relationship.

I’ve been on here all day, and I have to go to work. LOL, I’ll feel it tonight.

@Special K

Just black and blacker lol

Ya heard me (*that’s how some of them 9th Ward youngin’s down in New Orleans talk)…

Quick question, you didn’t happen to be down at the Essence Music Festival 2 years ago and you were with your niece… And you were talkin’ to this wonderful Brotha and y’all were clownin’ Beyonce while she was sin… excuse me, entertaining…

Film

Yes, that’s very true. He did meet my parents, and my mother sensed a very negative vibe from him right away, and she shared her dislike with me. She thought he was very arrogant and imposing.

Yes, I’ve bounced back. My point is, we’ve all been through trials and tribulations, so the pain I’ve experienced has enabled me to reach this point in my life, and that’s a blessing.

WordtotheWise

Okay, I couldn’t really tell, but I knew you wouldn’t settle for less. He’s a lucky man indeed; you seem like a good woman.

@ Slide

Nope sweets it wasn’t me. I have no neices only nephews I am sure i would have been clowning her though had I been there.

I fathomed your point, Sydney.

I’m out guys talk to ya lata when I am at home and actually supposed to be blogging and not at work lol

I’m sure you did, Film.

Bye, Special K!

Okay, just checkin.

Film, thank you very much. I appreciate that. He appreciates me, so that’s a blessing. I won’t settle for less. It’s not worth it, and I try to be the best woman I can be with or without anyone in my life.

Have a great day, Film.

I didn’t mean to open up like that, by the way. . .

I’m sorry.

WordtotheWise

Have a great day as well!

Why are you apologizing?

I don’t know. . .I don’t want to be distasteful or anything like that.

@Circa,

Damnit! I don’t have a sarcastic response. I’ll work on my online etiquette.

Nite night

Sydney, no need to apologize whatsoever. Bye everyone!

Bye WordtotheWise!

I didn’t think you were being distasteful. I’ve talked about my ex-fiance and a tragedy a few months ago.

@Special K

Oh Ok… I was on some random bulls…

Look, there was this girl that I met down there (Essence Music Festival) who was sitting beside me (*I’m talk to you like you one of the homies) and she was PHAT to DEATH!!! DAMN this girl was fine!!! Oh my GOODNESS, her body was bangin’ = her a$$ was like “WHOA”… her ta-ta’s were… hmm just “magnificient”… AND her face was… whew = GORGEOUS!!!

and to top it off she could carry a conversation and was intelligent!!!

She was a FINE dark butt chick!!!

Louisiana women have got it going on!!!

I love me some southern women!!!

(*For the most part – minus the ones with the gold teeth)

They act like ladies and know how to cook AND clean and when you take them to your parents place they act like they got some “home training”…

I apologize for the random comment everybody

I’m messing up the flow of the thread and sh…. ’cause I want to play around… Oh well…

Yes, I remember — I thought it was very brave of you to share that memory.

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

‘Look, there was this girl that I met down there (Essence Music Festival) who was sitting beside me (*I’m talk to you like you one of the homies) and she was PHAT to DEATH!!! DAMN this girl was fine!!! Oh my GOODNESS, her body was bangin’ = her a$$ was like “WHOA”… her ta-ta’s were… hmm just “magnificient”… AND her face was… whew = GORGEOUS!!!’

LOL, flashback, huh?

Look who’s temporal lobe if functioning perfectly.

I know we don’t know each other, but I sense you have a good heart as well.

And you still owe me, lol.

Film

“Look who’s temporal lobe if functioning perfectly.”

LOL

‘I sense you have a good heart as well.’

Owe you for what?

Well, my dad grew up deprived and lacking common necessities, whereas my mom was very fortunate during her childhood years. So, my dad wanted me and my brother (since 10 years of age) to understand the importance of giving our time to benefit the public/community. That’s where most of my consideration stems from.

You confounded me the other day, lol.

Your parents did well.

@Film

I was just playin’ around on some REAL random sh…

Oh yeah, I agree with your comment on bringin’ the person that you’re seeing home to meet your parents…

I did that one time and my mother told me that she didn’t like the girl and that we wouldn’t last…

2 weeks later me and the girl broke up…

We had a “bs” relationship, I must admit…

*I was young at the time and was blinded by the girls’ beauty…

On a side note, is “dark butt” now a regular term used on Bossip? Just trying to keep up with the ever-changing neighborhood lingo. . .

YAY ANGELA!!!!!!!!! I new I liked her!! I’m a virgin I’m glad that she put it out there that we do still exist!!!

‘You confounded me the other day, lol.’

When did this happen?

Thank you, and I can say the same goes for you. Your parents did a great job.

I know you’re not going to tell me how old you are, but I think I’m older than you. I could be incorrect, though.

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

Sometimes, mothers want there sons all to themselves (not to say that that’s your situation), especially if there isn’t a father present. I understand what you mean, though. I was blinded by beauty as well.

You know that night you had the “upper hand” and I wound up mentally exhausted, lol.

LOL, I think the reverse — I could be wrong as well.

‘LOL, I think the reverse —I could be wrong as well.’

You remember my innate, instinctive powers that never fail me, huh?
They never fail me. *shaking head*

Sydney, I remember the other night. I’m just playing senile.

Ah, yes. To be Black – Young – And Rich! Such a WONDERFUL combination.

“You remember my innate, instinctive powers that never fail me, huh?
They never fail me.”

So you really think you’re right? lol

“I’m just playing senile.”

Oh, OK, lol.

Hey MissBlaze

‘So you really think you’re right? lol’

Uh, yeah, I do.

Film

I guess you couldn’t possibly be incorrect, could you? My, aren’t we confident? lol

What’s up Sydney, Slide & Film

I can’t ‘talk’ too long – I’ve got to pick up my ‘CORONA’ friends ’cause my man, ‘CHIEF’ is coming over soon.

I’ll holla back soon,

PEACE

‘I guess you couldn’t possibly be incorrect, could you?’

I guess I could be, but I’m dubious.

‘My, aren’t we confident?’

If you saw me, you’d be understand why. *pops collar* J/K.. I’m only messing with you.

MissBlaze43

Be easy!

LOL, have fun, MissBlaze!

Film

“If you saw me, you’d be understand why. *pops collar* J/K.. I’m only messing with you.”

LOL!

I saw that you let loose a little bit over the weekend with a touch of profanity.

YAY ANGELA!!!!!!!!! I new I liked her!! I’m a virgin I’m glad that she put it out there that we do still exist!!!
_________________________________________________________________________

@Ava

This is the internet and you’re anonymous on here…

Out of curiousity – How old are you and how long do you plan on staying a virgin = ’till marriage?

Ain’t nothing serious, just asking – cause I was curious and wanted to know why you’ve chosen not to give up your virginity…

I don’t believe you though, I know you’re a little freak… JUST KIDDING!!!

In all seriousness it’s a good thing, cause you’ll definitely weed out the guys that just want some and aren’t seriously interested in you…

‘I saw that you let loose a little bit over the weekend with a touch of profanity.’

Yeah, I do that from time to time. I think I picked that up from my co-workers because my parents don’t curse. When I’m pissed off, I usually mouth the F-word.

Speaking of profanity, I noticed you don’t use profane language.

Go Angela! I also waited for marriage and it was the best decision that I ever made. Yes like Ava said, we do exist!

Film

“When I’m pissed off, I usually mouth the F-word.”

LOL, I actually that it was a nice spark from you.

I try not to use profanity on here (Southern girl complex, I guess, lol).

*I actually thought*

Sorry, typo

I’ve got to pick up my ‘CORONA’ friends ’cause my man, ‘CHIEF’ is coming over soon.
______________________________________________________________________

@MissBlaze43

Ni@@a What?

Before Chief comes home? Is this a man or woman?

You ain’t licking coochie no more? And I say this with no disrespect intended…

I’m confused now – Sis, I thought you were a lesbian?

Remember you taught me and the other folks on Bossip about there being feminine dykes who got with other feminine dykes and that when two dykes get together that the other one doesn’t necessarily have to be the “man” dyke (*think Rosie O’Donnell).

When you get back, you’ve got some explaining to do, Sis…

You mean to tell me that you’ve found Jesus and ain’t “in the life” no more?

A nice spark, huh? In real life, I don’t tolerate any BS, and I’m very aggressive at times. But, in my line of work, I have to be.

‘I try not to use profanity on here (Southern girl complex, I guess, lol).’

On here, huh? The Southern girl complex is only a disguise, and you know it. You’re not fooling me, Sydney

“The Southern girl complex is only a disguise, and you know it. You’re not fooling me, Sydney”

LOL!

Whatever do you mean, sir?

Sometimes, mothers want there sons all to themselves (not to say that that’s your situation), especially if there isn’t a father present. I understand what you mean, though. I was blinded by beauty as well.
________________________________________________________________________

@Film

Naw cousin, it wasn’t even like that…

My mother had my best interest in mind and didn’t want me messing with that particular girl because she could tell our relationship wasn’t really about nothing…

My parents are still together and she (Mother) just had my best interest in mind and didn’t want me wasting my time with her…

My mother has only met one other girl that I’ve dated and that was kinda by accident because I was acting up and told my (then) girlfriend to call my mother and complain about it… AND you know what – the girl did!!!

My mother actually liked her cause she was about something and ‘ol girl was trying to get in good with her because she knew me and my mother are close and so shawty would send my mother Christmas Cards and call her on her birthday… AND complain about me when I doing something stupid = ‘lil snitch

My mother hasn’t met any of the others because they haven’t been worth bringing home = I know better and have sense = I know what type of woman I should marry and if there’s no potential for marriage they ain’t meeting my folks…

Well, I haven’t seen many examples during our conversations where I can draw a conclusion from. You remember Dissociative Identity Disorder? I’m not totally sold on the distinction between you and your twin.

Oh, really?

You have another side yourself, mister, lol.

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

‘so shawty would send my mother Christmas Cards and call her on her birthday… AND complain about me when I doing something stupid = ‘lil snitch’

LOL, oh, some of them can’t even hold water. They’ll tell all of your secrets.

‘I know what type of woman I should marry and if there’s no potential for marriage they ain’t meeting my folks…’

Yeah, that’s the best policy. When I was younger, I wish I’d used more common sense.

I’ll repeat, I’m not totally sold on the distinction between you and your twin.

‘You have another side yourself, mister, lol.’

LOL, of course I do, and another nickname (don’t even think about it). Well, my fiance gave me this name.

“LOL, of course I do, and another nickname (don’t even think about it). Well, my fiance gave me this name.”

Oh? The plot thickens. . .This is a different nickname from the one you shared with me?

Yes, it is.

Do tell.

The last one was a family nickname.

“The last one was a family nickname.”

Yes, I know, lol.

‘Do tell.’

Didn’t I say, don’t even think about it, woman?

“Didn’t I say, don’t even think about it, woman?”

LOL, come on, Mr. Micheaux.

*waiting*

So, a few months ago when I first discussed my fiance, I remember you mentioning an organization you established.

Is the Operation Close Foundation, LLC on the verge of insolvency?

LOL! No, you are not changing the subject. . .

Hmmm. . .

I have to go work out now. . .

Who is that in your gravie?

Why should I tell you, Sydney?

That’s Lady Day. . .

“Why should I tell you, Sydney?”

Oh, no reason. . .You brought it up.

Wait, you may still be seeing my old gravie of Katherine Dunham — I changed it today.

You have a point, and I did bring it up. But, what does that really mean, huh?

I don’t see Billie Holiday.

Yeah, that’s who I see.

“But, what does that really mean, huh?”

Quid pro quo — You owe me.

Are you speaking French? OMG!

I owe you? Is that what you had in mind?

LOL!

“Is that what you had in mind?”

It’s a start — since you brought it up. J/K I’ll stop now.

Hannibal’s a rapist!!

Okay, it’s a reptile of the suborder, Serpentes. You should have an idea, now.

It’s a specific name, though.

Film, you’re not going to believe what I just came across:

WASHINGTON (CNN) — Another major American industry is asking for assistance as the global financial crisis continues: Hustler publisher Larry Flynt and Girls Gone Wild CEO Joe Francis said Wednesday they will request that Congress allocate $5 billion for a bailout of the adult entertainment industry.

“The take here is that everyone and their mother want to be bailed out from the banks to the big three,” said Owen Moogan, spokesman for Larry Flynt. “The porn industry has been hurt by the downturn like everyone else and they are going to ask for the $5 billion. Is it the most serious thing in the world? Is it going to make the lives of Americans better if it happens? It is not for them to determine.”

Yeah, that’s the best policy. When I was younger, I wish I’d used more common sense.
________________________________________________________________________

@Film

So what did you learn and have you figured out the qualities in your potential Mrs. Right?

I’ve got a naggin’ suspicion that a lady (*or two) on Bossip would like to know… Nah mean

*whispering* = here’s your chance ni@@a, be smooth ‘wit it

Are you kidding me? That was anticlimactic — Didn’t you share this with me before? lol

Is this the Sydney & Film thread? Is this a budding romance? LOL

LOL, we’re just conversing, that’s all. . .

oscar micheaux

‘Quid pro quo’

Okay, I just looked that up. Forget what I said before. LOL. I see why you where laughing, now. You could have to me, Sydney!

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

I’ve already discussed what qualities I find attractive in a woman, but they haven’t told me what they prefer in a man in depth. I guess I’m still waiting.

I didn’t know about the article. Why does the adult entertainment industry need to bailed out? How Americans are hurting if they can’t rent certain DVDs to satisfy their needs? This is just a way for bankers to continue to control the nation’s credit. The dollar produced = 1 dollar + x percent of interest of this dollar, which results in immediate debt.

‘Quid pro quo’

Okay, I just looked that up. Forget what I said before. LOL. I see why you where laughing, now. You could have to me, Sydney!

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

I’ve already discussed what qualities I find attractive in a woman, but they haven’t told me what they prefer in a man in depth. I guess I’m still waiting.

I didn’t know about the article. Why does the adult entertainment industry need to bailed out? How Americans are hurting if they can’t rent certain DVDs to satisfy their needs? This is just a way for bankers to continue to control the nation’s credit. The dollar produced = 1 dollar + x percent of interest of this dollar, which results in immediate debt.

….

@ Ava

Angela never said she as a virgin, She said she was waiting until marriage. There is a difference. She never said the word Virgin, or said she never had sex in the past.

I don’t think Bow Wow was just content holding her hand and stealing kisses on the cheek. Ciara was giving up the goodies and I know Angela did as well, because Bow Wow wouldn’t even waste his time, with a woman who refuses to have sex.

I am single, not a virgin, but have been celibate for some years and waiting for marriage as well.

LOL, I thought you were joking! My bad. *snickers*

Oh, according to Larry Flynt, people are too depressed to have sex. LMAO!

Flynt and Francis concede the industry itself is in no financial danger — DVD sales have slipped over the past year, but Web traffic has continued to grow.

But the industry leaders said the issue is a nation in need. “People are too depressed to be sexually active,” Flynt said in the statement. “This is very unhealthy as a nation. Americans can do without cars and such but they cannot do without sex.”

could have told me, Sydney. TYPO.

…

Flynt said it’s time for Congress to “rejuvenate” the sexual appetite of Americans.

I’m not making this up — It’s on cnn.com. lol

“could have told me, Sydney.”

I’m sorry, Mr. Micheaux. Was I bad?

I’ve already discussed what qualities I find attractive in a woman, but they haven’t told me what they prefer in a man in depth. I guess I’m still waiting.
_________________________________________________________________________

@Film

Hmmm…

What did you say Black?

I hope you ain’t say something like = Shawty gotta have an a$$ like Angel Lola Luv, titties like Queen Latifah, etc…

You know what, I take that back – you’re one of the more mature intelligent bloggers on Bossip and so I know you ain’t say nothing like that…

I don’t know what to tell you, but I think you’re doing alright…

‘people are too depressed to have sex. LMAO!’

I have a joke for this, but I’ll keep it to myself. And stop snickering.

‘Americans can do without cars and such but they cannot do without sex.’

Well, I agree with this to a certain extinct. Some men and women can’t control their sexual urges. Some are like predators, they just get hungry. There could be a downfall to this, and I hate to say it, but some men with an uncontrollable appetite could result to excessive force on a female.

Film

“I have a joke for this, but I’ll keep it to myself.”

No, you opened up Pandora’s Box — You have to share.

“And stop snickering.”

Make me. *snickers*

I am single, not a virgin, but have been celibate for some years and waiting for marriage as well.
________________________________________________________________________

@Leah

So what if a good man comes around, you mean to tell me that you won’t give him some of that “good stuff” = nah mean

Not even a little bit?

How ’bout some head?

‘I don’t know what to tell you, but I think you’re doing alright…’

LMAO.. Have you been observing, other than today?

Sydney

Yes, you’re being very bad, ma’am. You know what? I’m starting to think you enjoy teasing me.

Film

Just a smidgen *holding up fingers*

Well lookie here…

*Winking at Sydney & Film*

Wowzers. . .There goes the F-Bomb.

*covers mouth*

I do declare!

@MissBlaze

LOL! Hey, girl!

Sydney

Make you? If you were in my presence I would hush you. I’m not afraid to wrestle a woman. All we need is a mat and oil. J/K

Let me find out y’all tryin’ to be the first BOSSIP COUPLE!!

Film trying to bee all proper with his studious English

LMFAO!!!

Carry on…. OR better yet, exchange e-mail addresses already.

Stop, MissBlaze43!

@ Kigali

Gurl, can’t you see what’s going on, have they even responded back on your comment?

LMAO @ MissBlaze

You’re not afraid to wrestle, huh?

Bring it on

@Syd

girl you still in this thread? I looked back in and see ou and film just flowing.

@Slide
they don’t all know how to cook you meet some that may not know how to fix you a good glass of ice water

@ Film

Oh, okay.

Hey Special K, lol!

hey girlie… might as well stay in this one you know bossip super slow with updating they info

LOL, Special K, you starting, too?

@ Special K

Some people can’t even BOIL water. My daughter for instance – she called herself making box maccarroni and cheese and burned my damn pot so bad that she just threw the whole thing in the garbage. I went to through something away and I saw that shit and was like WTF!

And she didn’t get that from me either – ’cause I KNOW how to cook – she just refused to learn.

Sydney

You’d lose. I’m too strong for you, sweets.

I meant ‘Throw’ away.

@film

I had to start ya’ll in here conversing like ruby dee and ossie. I looked back in here and jus saw ya’ll

@MissBlaze43

I asked you this question earlier and was wondering if you could explain, if you wouldn’t mind:

*************************

I’ve got to pick up my ‘CORONA’ friends ’cause my man, ‘CHIEF’ is coming over soon.
______________________________________________________________________

@MissBlaze43

Ni@@a What?

Before Chief comes home? Is this a man or woman?

You ain’t licking coochie no more? And I say this with no disrespect intended…

I’m confused now – Sis, I thought you were a lesbian?

Remember you taught me and the other folks on Bossip about there being feminine dykes who got with other feminine dykes and that when two dykes get together that the other one doesn’t necessarily have to be the “man” dyke (*think Rosie O’Donnell).

When you get back, you’ve got some explaining to do, Sis…

You mean to tell me that you’ve found Jesus and ain’t “in the life” no more?

Film

“I’m too strong for you, sweets.”

I have to leave now. . .I feel flushed. . .

@Special K

Not Ruby Dee and Ossie! lol

Just looking at y’all Gravatar you could already tell the two of you have something in common.

I’m just saying…

Do you prefer James and Florida Evans…damn damn, damn

Flushed as in blushing or embarrassment?

Is it the historical figures, MissBlaze? lol

Confession: I did think it was amusing when we had a conversation last week with my old gravie, and all you saw were Oscar Micheaux and Katherine Dunham. I’m sure it was a sight, lol.

LOL at Special K

@ Slide

What’s my Bossip Name? MissBLAZE – I’ve got the Corona – Beer and my Man CHIEF is for me to Blaze on…

OF COURSE I’M STILL LICKIN’ THE COOCHIE!!!

@Special K

LOL! I liked James and Florida.

I loved Ruby Dee and Ossie Davis as well — They were great together on-screen.

@Film

“Flushed as in blushing or embarrassment?”

Neither, but let’s change the subject. . .

@ Ms.Blaze

trust i know i have two sisters and neither learned how to cook so all hoildays and family functions are left for me to cook. I can’t believe she burned your pot girl she was really cooking lol

Us hoes still exist. Oops I meant US virgin hoes still do exist. Goodmorning goodevening goodknife.

I don’t quite understand, but I hope you’re alright? What do you want to talk about?

@syd
yes they are wonderful… I am sure you and film will look wonderful on screen to..
_____________________________________________________
@Ms. Blaze
lol i still lick coochie

Stop playing senile, lol.

Um, I don’t know — The Superbowl?

Miss Blaze I know who your friend chief is YOUNG LADY. How bout’ I come over and smoke your dro…I mean ARREST YOU!

@ Slide

See how you have me talking in front of these ‘nice people’?

Now you’ve made Sydney want to ‘change the subject’ and you KNOW Film is going to want to follow.

Sorry, Sir. Sorry, Ma’am for my using such forward words in your company.

LOL @ DEA

I totally missed that reference — Is “chief” a nickname for something?

MissBlaze, girl, please, lol.

OF COURSE I’M STILL LICKIN’ THE COOCHIE!!!
_____________________________________________________________________

@MissBlaze43

Oh ok…

Does he know?

…Ummm, do y’all do threesomes too?
(*F#ck it, it’s the internet and we’re all anonymous)

@ DEA

Sure… since I’ve busted up Sydney & Film’s ‘private party’, We ALL might as well Blaze – this world we’re living in is going KAPPUT anyway.

I was thinking about discussing your age again, but the Super Bowl is fine.

What do you think of Muntadar al-Zeidi throwing his shoes at Bush. Who knew these people were so crazy, right? J/K

LOL, yes, the shoe-throwing episode was wild — I didn’t know that is considered a very offensive gesture, but I admired Dubya’s ducking reflex. He didn’t miss a beat, lol.

I don’t blaze, MissBlaze, but I’ll still enjoy the festivities. Pass me a cold one, please.

@Ms.Blaze

I’ll bring the cigarillo’s

You still want to give me a Q&A, don’t you?

So, you caught that, huh?

No one answered my question — What is “chief?”

Is it the “chronic?” What do they call it?

@ Slide

Heck no! You mean to tell me you missed the ‘cyber action’ with Brook Lynn and me last week? That’s too bad. That was a once in a life-time performance for me.

Besides, Slide, Film is a VERY proper Gentleman and I feel funny being ‘naked’ in front of him.

LMFAO!!! Y’all CRAZY!!!

@Sydney

don’t allow sinful Miss Blaze to corrupt you.

Yeah, I caught it — My innate, instinctive powers never fail me.

Of course, I do, but you won’t answer my questions. Your Southern girl complex won’t allow it.

LOL, I did hear/read about this “cyber action” — You all are something else! lol

@Jose

LOL!

But, seriously, what is “chief?”

@ Sydney

Oh, Yes, that’s EXACTLY what it means, Sydney. I’m sorry I didn’t answer sooner. Slide keeps trying to slip up in here.

I feel strange answering personal questions in public, Mr. Micheaux.

You know how it is. . .

LOL!

Thanks, MissBlaze — I thought that was a nickname for one of your friends, lol.

See, I learned something new today!

@ Sydney

Chief = smoking weed

See how you have me talking in front of these ‘nice people’?
_______________________________________________________________________

@MissBlaze43

Dang, you’re right Sis…

They’ll be alright this is Bossip…

So when you told him you “swing both ways” what happened and how did he react?

You know what… He’s still with you and so I guess he’s down for whatever…

How do you break it to a man that you – you know = play on both sides of the fence?

and if you wouldn’t mind

How can I tell if a girl is bisexual, what are the dead give-away signs?

Let me tell you, one time I was on a blog and this girl started talkin’ ’bout being a lesbian and put up a link to some website with pics of some event that these lesbians had… I ALMOST cried by seeing all of those fine a$$ Sistas who ONLY messed with other women…

Give me a moment please… SMH

MissBlaze

Why do you think I’m proper? I don’t even post that much on Bossip. My comments are here and there.

Feel free to put on your birthday suite, ma’am. Wants you start drinking and smoking, it’s coming off anyway, right? J/K

LOL at Sydney.

LOL @ High Life

Thanks — I’ve never indulged, but I have been at parties where there was a certain odor in the air. . .

MissBlaze

Why do you think I’m proper? I don’t even post that much on Bossip. My comments are here and there.

Feel free to put on your birthday suite, ma’am. Wants you start drinking and smoking, it’s coming off anyway, right? J/K

LOL at Sydney.

……

Is it about to pop off in here?

Hey, I’m not SINful – I’m JOYful.

MissBlaze43

I know. Don’t take me seriously.

BRB

You mean to tell me you missed the ‘cyber action’ with Brook Lynn and me last week? That’s too bad. That was a once in a life-time performance for me.
______________________________________________________________________

@MissBlaze43

WHAT!!!

You were being naughty on here and you’s probably was in “rare form” too… Tsk, tsk, tsk

I’ve gotta go but I’ll talk you lovely folks later

@ Film

LOL, yes, you’re right. But the reason why I say you’re proper is because of words like ma’am – and the fact that you hardly make an ‘appearence’ on Bossip is another key.

Not to say that we ‘regulars’ don’t know how to conduct ourselves, it’s just that I can tell that there’s something different about you.

Then again you could be an ax murderer for all we know. Ted Bundy was nice n’ polite, too and looked what her turned out to be.

I messed that last sentence up a bit, but you know what I meant.

@Miss Blaze

Your not a VIRGIN are you? I mean, CAN YOU ROLL? I bought a DEA outfit from Fredrick’s of Hollyweird

The world is NEVER over! Our corrupt government has been F-in’ with our water, food, and minds, for centuries. They’ve gotten so good that some of US destroy ourselves then each other. Miss Blaze: How can you compromise with the biggest arm dealers in the WORLD? When they won’t sleep until we’re all dead and gone.

x

LOL @ MissBlaze

I’m going to depart soon myself.

@ Sydney

Yes, all jokes aside, I’ve got to finish a couple of chapters in my m’script. I’ve already come up with my next idea for a third book, so I need to raise up out of here.

I just like messing around with y’all at night because it’s so much more live than during work hours.

@ DEA

VIRGIN?!!! Chile, puh-lease – I’m a GRANDMOTHER!!

But a very young looking grandmother – that 43 in my name is also my age.

My Gravatar is of DENISE VASI – that sweet young thang on All My Children.

Thank you, though.

MissBlaze43

Sorry about that. I have to leave for work very soon.

‘I can tell that there’s something different about you.’

LOL, how can you tell I’m different?

‘you hardly make an ‘appearence’ on Bossip is another key.’

Why is that?

‘Then again you could be an ax murderer for all we know. Ted Bundy was nice n’ polite, too and looked what her turned out to be.’

LOL, you have a point. I’m sane.

I hope your grand kids aren’t bay bay kids. Wanting me to pass the B. NOT ON MY WATCH!

I’ll holla,

PEACE

Film will you take your cybermackin ass to work. I don’t want my link card to get cut off on the account of you getting fired for talking bullshit online. That woman is a virgin grandma!

@ DEA

Bey-Bey Kids? No. And I only have one (1) grandson – that’s it. I have two GROWN daughters who do their own thing – as I taught them to be strong black women and to do for self.

Don’t let how I carry on and talk fool you. I was raised by my grandmother and I was raised up to respect people and judge no one.

Don’t get it twisted!

Sydney go smoke that dope go get all deep and intergalactic and come back and holla at me. I got chapters for your book!

I meant Miss Blaze. Sydney can join.

@ Dirt Weed

I think you need to scroll back up and see what was written and by WHOM – ’cause your comment made no sense – but I guess it’s YOU whose the REAL DOPE!

I don’t mess with dope – I BLAZE!

DUMBASS!!!!!!!

Some of you are too ignorant and spiritually dead to recognize and celebrate a good girl with good Christian values when you see one. I am also a virgin that is waiting until I get married. My fiance respects and shares my values. We are in our thirties and have never been happier. People suffer so much trying to do things their way instead of just doing things God’s way.

But Sydney WEED IS DOPE. U dumb azz!

This show is so fake and scripted. Its retarded.

Mya

Some of you are too ignorant and spiritually dead to recognize and celebrate a good girl with good Christian values when you see one. I am also a virgin that is waiting until I get married. My fiance respects and shares my values. We are in our thirties and have never been happier. People suffer so much trying to do things their way instead of just doing things God’s way.
————————————————
I hear ya, the less sex or better yet no sex before marriage the better U’re off @ least in that area…Congratulations to U

If their show is ANYTHING like her fathers show, I would rather have a needle stuck in my eye than sit through a single epidsode.

23YR old and waiting till marriage.People have too much meaningless sex.few people in thier lifetime make love.think about that.

Alycia and Vanessa look like twins…I have been saying that since I first saw her on Run’s House.

I notice there are some other photos of them on a Herpes dating site” STDpal,,,com”.

black women need to just close they legs period and say dont even have sex with black men any more all they gone do is use your dumb ass. they trying keep the black race going cause they with other women and make babys with you then leave you yall so dumb. smh glad im a smart black woman no black man is worthy of this beautyiful body black men are to nasty in bed anyways i heard i dont want hiv first of all anyways lol.

@ WTF

If a guy dumps her because of sex than he is not her soulmate anyhow. The quicker he’s gone the better. Who wants to waste a whole lot of time with the wrong person? Some of us are actually looking for the right person and not just someone to kill time. I don’t know about her but I would rather die single than have this guy and that guy sticking his body parts in my body. Who cares what everyone else is doing? If you have to have sex with someone just so that they will date you than that person isn’t worth dating. By the way, who said anything about years? The only people I know who date for years and years outside of high school and college are people who are not with the right person. When you are not having sex with a guy he will show his true self quick, It does not take years. Believe me I know and I am happy that I do.

Well said Angela.

Terry “TK” Kennedy is a damn skateboarder that is her now ex boyfriend

IS IT JUS ME OR DON’T VANESSA AND HER FRIEND STTIN ON THE BACK OF THE CHAIR WITH HER LOOK MORE LIKE SISTERS?!?!??!

Ho please! I’m sorry but I don’t believe 4 a minute Bow Wow didn’t hit that. I hope shes just implying that she’s celibate now & not a virgin,cuz that would be a laugh.

To all of the idiots saying she isn’t a virgin how do you know were you there???
I’m 23 going on 24 and I am waiting until I am married also ppl act like just bc they’ve been having sex since they were 12 everyone has to be too SMH!!!

I respect people SOOOOOOOOO much for waiting until marriage. Big ups to Angela.

bonafied_trini I was thinking the same thing.

hannibal you’re just gonna die old and lonely
no woman who wants to get married that’s worth staying married is going to touch that std’d dick with a 10 foot pole

There’s nothing wrong with sex before marriage, as long as there love and caring involved in the realtionship it’s oaky.

tk is her boyfriend
hes a pro-skateboarder dey been started going out
cant believe ya didnt know dat wow

someone email me at cortrellweeks@yahoo.com

WWW GHETTOGAGGERS COM

WWW GHETTOGAGGERS CO UK

WWW EBONYABUSE COM

WWW DEFACEHERFACE COM

WWW CUMBANG COM

WWW PINKEYESURPRISE COM

WWW KDGALLERIES COM

Hah! That really made me laugh – thanks!

That’s some excellent information you’ve gathered on , but how do you find the time to gather it all??

Angela Simmons is beautiful and has a wonderful spirit.