Random Ridiculousness: Man Wants Donated Kidney Back After Divorce

Posted on January 8th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, Random Ridiculousness, SMH

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Y’all, this is some crazy sh*t:

GARDEN CITY, N.Y. — A Long Island surgeon embroiled in a nearly four-year divorce proceeding wants his estranged wife to return the kidney he donated to her, although he says he’ll settle for $1.5 million in compensation.

Dr. Richard Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center, told reporters at his lawyer’s Long Island office Wednesday that he decided to go public with his demand for kidney compensation because he has grown frustrated with the negotiations with his estranged wife.

He claimed he has been prevented from seeing their children, ages, 8, 11 and 14, for months at a time.

“This is my last resort; I did not want to do this publicly,” Batista said.

He said he gave his kidney to Dawnell Batista, now 44, in June 2001. She filed for divorce in July 2005, although he claims she began having an extramarital affair 18 months to two years after receiving the kidney transplant, his attorney, Dominick Barbara said.

Douglas Rothkopf, the attorney representing Dawnell Batista, did not return telephone calls seeking comment.

Matrimonial attorneys were quick to shoot down any possibility Batista would succeed.

“I’ve been in this business over 40 years and I’ve never heard of that,” said Seymour J. Reisman, a Long Island divorce lawyer. “It’s not marital property, not a marital asset you can put a price tag on.”

What the f*ck? Talk about an Indian-giver. SMH

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  • iluvprada

    GOLD!

  • Christilicious

    silver

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals—BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ass BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

    Bronze bishess!
    Lol!!!!!

  • Carmellatte

    Just sicking!!!!!!!!!!!

  • sickofitt

    LOL, you don’t want to be with me, Then B!tch give me back my kidney and that coach bag I bought you in 98. Classic.

  • Aunt Viv

    Dear Dr. Batista,
    A kidney is not like a shirt, that you can return to Macy’s whenever you feel like, worn or not. Fall back. SMH.

    Sincerely,
    Aunt Viv

  • Marquis de Sade

    That’s what his ass gets for getting married in the first place. Donates a kidney and the bitch rewards him by cheating and then denying him visitation rights to his own children!?! Now who says there’s benefits for men to get married?

  • g

    smh

  • http://dicooper.spaces.live.com/ Daniel

    This is why you should give them one thing… Ya’ll heard Filmore Slim, right?

    “Nothing.” [shaking his head]

    “You mean you don’t pay them at all?”

    [Filmore Slim just keeps shaking his head "no" in disbelief that the questioner isn't getting it.]

  • GOD

    If it is true that this WOMAN had an affair after her husband lovingly gave her the gift of life from his body. She will not prosper. When has anyone ever made fecal matter into gold? If it’s true that she’s being unfaithful and denying him access to his children her body may and will begin to reject his gift…kidney. I hope he isn’t Haitian cause they don’t play this type of f**kery. She’ll end up stankin somewhere without her soul, eyes, or his kidney. This proves my point marriage doesn’t mean that children will grow up in a healthy environment.

    Take 1: Cheating mami roaming the streets with her husbands donated kidney meanwhile the kids are being USED as bargaining tools. Pathetic!

  • The Foosa

    shoulda let the broad die!

  • http://bossip Shaunie27

    DAYUM!!! ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HIM IN THIS CASE!!!

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    “Indian Giver?”

    Isn’t that a terrible stereotype? COME ON!!!!

  • Raquel26

    Why couldnt she get the kidney from dude she was poppin off with?

  • Raquel26

    LOL@Re…Really.

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    If it is true that this WOMAN had an affair after her husband lovingly gave her the gift of life from his body. She will not prosper.
    _____________________________________________________

    That’s true…but she’ll have to answer to God one day….

    …in the meantime, lets not forget there are always two sides to a story. Although thats heartless to take an irreplaceable gift from someone and shit on it.

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    What’s up with the skeletor picture with the butcher knife?

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    @Racquel26

    I can’t believe they used that phrase…that’s really mean, and untrue.

  • OverTheTop

    This is the craziest sh*t I have ever heard. My husband gave me his kidney and I had to just laugh when I heard this lastnight. That is a process you can’t reverse. Suck it up and move the f*** on dude. Hilarious…

  • JK

    @ Over the Top
    ___________
    I totally agree. He needs to let it go. No court is going to give him that kidney back or any money in exchange.

  • Wordz Of a Prophet (Fuk it…I’m HEARTLESS)

    LMAO dat nigga said FuK dat..he won’t his shit back. Haha

    after da divorce is settled he gone catch dat bitch on the street n cut dat bitch out his self n run to the hospital..”umm…can you put this back in, I gave it away by mistake?”

  • Rejected Kidney of a cheating SLORE

    Oh contray to your lie. Her body may begin to reject his kidney you never know only time can tell what will happen to rotten infidels who cheat on their spouses and turn their children into chess pawns.

  • Christie’s secrets

    yeah but we don’t know what happened! why she got into that relationship! like i said, we don’t know! from the outside it seems ugly but he saved her life which is great gift but does that mean that she has to love him forever for that?!
    Its no really the same but I knew someone i used to love and i gave him everything, i did everything to help him out, with my money, my time and everything! and one day he left! people are just like that! but you have to help the others without expecting anything back! a real gift coms from the heart! most of the organ donors don’t know who they are helping!

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    So…basically he expects them to cut into her body, and take an organ out because she cheated on him?

    “taking it back” is definitely not the appropriate word here…to “take it back” involves cutting someone’s body open.

    Does he not understand the seriousness and ridiculousness of this demand?

    I am apalled.

  • Marquis de Sade

    OverTheTop

    This is the craziest sh*t I have ever heard. My husband gave me his kidney and I had to just laugh when I heard this lastnight. That is a process you can’t reverse. Suck it up and move the f*** on dude. Hilarious…

    Move on? What about his kids? Should he move on from that too? Should he let that other nigga, pay the child support? You bitches slay me with your bullshit. One minute, you hoes are decrying how men ain’t shit and now when he wants to see his kids, you say, move on.

  • Marquis de Sade

    I think he realizes that he’s not going to get the kidney back, that’s why he amended it with a 1.5 million dollar settlement.

  • Well

    I understand his anger… and as one poster said, she will not prosper from this betrayal.

    I know he is hurting, you would too. This is not an example of why you shouldn’t get married, it is an example of why you should not cheat.

    Divorce and infedility have far reaching ramifications…and it creates a generational curse on your family. So think before you go spreading yourself to other people outside the bounds of your marriage. God does not like ugly.

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    You bitches slay me with your bullshit. One minute, you hoes are decrying how men ain’t shit and now when he wants to see his kids, you say, move on.
    _____________________________________________________

    Um….errr….”you bitches?” Why do we have to be all of that?

  • Christie’s secrets

    test

  • Marquis de Sade

    Um….errr….”you bitches?” Why do we have to be all of that?

    Because of y’all cavalier attitude. If the shoe was on the other foot, and it was she who donted her kidney, and he rewarded her by cheating, taking the kids and denying visitation rights, you bitches would be crying “FOUL”, instead of “MOVE ON”.

  • LawdhavMercythisshitis real

    that butch she is a mess horibble she tried it and u kno what i cant take no bitch that keeps a father away from his children . i dont kno if he were a good father im just going by his complaint and reasoning for taking it to this dramastic measure. that bitch need to be put back on that table and be opened up the nerve dirty nasty trashy no class whore

  • GOD

    JUDGEMENT!

  • LawdhavMercythisshitis real

    bitsch and was . was typing really fast …

  • http://myspace.com/toolive4urcrew Katherine

    It was a gift, you can’t retrieve gifts back in divorce proceedings…

  • Black Barbie

    What? He’s tryna call the repo man about a kidney! LOL!

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

    Because of y’all cavalier attitude. If the shoe was on the other foot, and it was she who donted her kidney, and he rewarded her by cheating, taking the kids and denying visitation rights, you bitches would be crying “FOUL”, instead of “MOVE ON”.
    _____________________________________________________

    I don’t think all of us in here are commenting with a “cavalier” attitude.

    I believe for the most part people shocked by a story so ludicrous…I see your point, but lets not generalize here…

  • PhillyGrownYoungWoman

    petty, but i dont blame him…. how you goin to have my kidney and boo-love wit another.. lol :)

  • Mase

    When some say “move on,” I think they mean about the idea of getting the kidney back because there’s no way he’s going to get it or compensation. I don’t believe anyone is referring to abandoning his fight for visitation.

  • PURPPLE

    lol, he done saved her life and she got the nerve to cheat and want a divorce. bytches aint shyt.

  • liteskinsin

    That picture is sickkk

  • relle

    lmao she is trial for that she cheated on a dude who saved her life he should be compensated there arent any men willing to do that for a woman

  • WIFEY06

    he should be compensated… point blank she was disrespectful…

    Damn chicks can’t even get men to commit let alone donate a body part and this is what she does….

  • Naija King

    YES!, i love it..

    I hope, no i pray he wins…

    stupid b*tch, women will bleed you dry if you don’t watch them..

    F*ck ‘em n leave ‘em , don’t put a ring on ‘em, thats what i say…

    I pray he gets his kidney back

  • You Smell Me??

    Yo, the fact that she waited till she was all health and shit, then cheats on dude? Wow, I would of asked for my kidney back too. I extend your life so you can cheat on me….HAHA!

    For real though there is no doctor thats going to perform that surgery. He better just stick to the stacks…

  • You Smell Me??

    @ PYNK
    “controlling, manipulative asshole and she could be a money hungry whore…. Not a good combo… ”

    Thats a great combo! I dont want no money hungry whore! Let the Assholes have them…

  • OverTheTop

    First of all Marquis de Sade, ya momma is b*tch for having you. Second of all I was talking about the kidney, I’ve mentioned nothing else. So I’m not going to sit here and entertain your childish antics. I believe he should get compensated for infidelity after he gave up one of his organs, but what I’m saying dumbass is that he can’t get his kidney back, it can’t be reversed like I said.

  • ♥ pYnK (AKA DIPSET HATER)

    @You Smell Me??
    Good point!

  • knowledgeable

    Ok everyone let’s think about this: you can NOT give back a kidney, it is medically unsafe and no REAL doctor would perform that surgery. Being that he is a surgeon he knows this and what BOSSIP DIDN’T tell you is that he wants to be compensated for his kidney and duress, it’s about $1.5 Million

    If you hear his entire story you will feel for this man. AGAIN BOSSIP AINT GIVE ALL THE FACTS

    @ GOD
    “When has anyone ever made fecal matter into gold? If it’s true that she’s being unfaithful and denying him access to his children her body may and will begin to reject his gift…kidney. I hope he isn’t Haitian cause they don’t play this type of f**kery”

    Do not generalize my people by the foolishness of the few you’ve encountered/dealt with

  • ♥ pYnK (AKA DIPSET HATER)

    Okay so he makes her better and she cheats…. whose to say he wasn’t cheating too… ya know? I’m jusss saying…. what if she sacrificed tons and held shit down while he went to school? What if she took care of the kids, worked and was handling business and taking care of the fam while he went to school, put him thru school and then he turned around and was cheating on her… I’m just saying… there are two sides to every story. If she’s keeping them kids from him then it may be safe to say he wasn’t doing something right to have her take those drastic measures… My mom was handling shit in the house while my dad was going to Pharmacy school and she was raising the three kids an shit while he moved away to the college town because he needed to live on campus to focus on studies… I remember my mom telling me that my Dad would want to be Mr. Flirty man with all the ladies and she was like….”I’LL BE DAMNED IF I TOOK CARE OF OUR KIDS, WORKED, WAS SCROUNGING FOR CHANGE JUST TO KEEP UP WITH BILLS, PUT YOU THRU SCHOOL TO SIT UP HERE AND WATCH YOU LEAVE ME AT HOME TO GO AND KICK IT!” lol she let it be known…. She but that non-sense to rest…

  • enitsirk30

    You know what, there are two sides to every story. As a women who has been hurt by her ex-husband and did some pretty jacked up things (including denying visits with his daughter)to her ex-husband, you don’t know what is going on between those two. Go threw a divorce yourself and she how easy it is to fall back to being 2 years old when your heart is broken. They both might just be trippin.

  • http://Bossip Tanisha

    I think the situation is messed up! Will he get his kidney back? Most likely no. Should he be compensated? HELL YEAH! If she can not prove that he was egotistical or doing her wrong, she needs to pay up? People take marriage too lightly. For better or for worse….. He gave a kidney and she fuC##ng other dudes letting them hit her kidneys up….LOL! Sorry, this is funny but it’s not. He had to really love her to give her a body part. How many of us on here would do the same for our spouse? Unfortunately, that sealed the deal and she should understand where he is coming from. Even if she dont want to be with him anymore, not letting him see his kids? She owes him big time because he was the only person that could save her life other than GOD. Adam gave Eve a body part and you see what happened. (Sorry, I had to throw that in there!)

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  • Lauren

    Maybe he could feel her cheating with his other kidney…??

  • JUJU

    THERE IS 2 SIDES TO EVERY STORY, HOWEVER NOT ALLOWING HIM TO SEE THE KIDS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHATEVER THE STORY/SITUATION IS. BUT I WOULD BE UPSET TOO IF I KNEW ANOTHER DUDE WAS BEATING UP GUTS I DONATED-LOL UNFORUNAETLY!

  • sumthanelse84

    ppl frm ny are indian givers

  • betty

    she’s cold to me he has every right to be mad and sue her stank ass

  • betty

    probably saved her ass and repaid him with a divorce

  • http://Bossip Kimberley

    The husband is claiming that she had a long term affair with her physical therapist after she a knee injury.
    He does not physically want the organ back. He wants the assesed value back. 1.5 Mill.
    Hes a surgeon. If I were her. Id sleep with one eye open.

  • http://Bossip Kimberley

    This mess will wind up creating clauses in a pre-nupt somewhere.

  • Razzell Dazzell

    I’m a kidney donor, and this story really puzzels me. I donated a kidney to my mother who recently passed away. She was the best mother ever, and God do I miss my Mother Dearest, but the idea of asking for the kidney back because she wronged is insane. I empathized with the fello, but when you give up an organ, it’s not for compensation, well the compensation is extending someone’s life, and for the love of the person, not for money. Now, would I turn money down, absolutely not LOL, but no, my mother paid me in love, attention, time, devotion, and lessons, so her deed was paid. Trust me, this woman won’t get away with her infidelty, but he is not the one who will hold her accountable. She’ll see. As someone said, we don’t know everything that ocurred in this marriage, but we can all pretty much agree, asking for the kidney back and money is pretty dubious—from a donor perspective.

  • BossLa

    Maybe he could feel her cheating with his other kidney…??

    …….LMAO…….

  • Triple T

    He is just upset because she must have needed that kidney or she would have died and they have children together.

    This is a hard one because he did his part as a husband. She has to live with the fact she took his kidney and cheated on him.

  • http://www.tristatelawyer.com Mario Alex Joseph, Esq.

    This poor SOB doctor has no chance in Hell, and is wasting greenbacks on his lawyer. What’s next? Is he going to also sue for the return of his semen? Fat cells attributed to food he bought? Is she going to counterclaim for the value of sexual services provided? It is a huge waste, perhaps designed to cause the ex-wife financial AND kidney shutdown!

  • Preach

    He should have let the broad die. Espcially if she has a life insurance policy. Happily married or not that was a good way out.

  • Jess

    LOL… and you want to get on women when windows are busted and tires slashed. This is on a whole other level!! This dude is insane. Yeah I agree he should fight for visitation rights but that is where it ends. My goodness put the shoe on the other foot and you men go crazy!!

  • Canikki

    “Getcha shit and leave. Everything you came with…your draws, your shoes, oh leave them Gucci’s, and you can leave my DAMN KIDNEY in the bowl!” LMAO! Bossip you all are ignant! They really didnt give the entire story. SMH!

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