Random Ridiculousness: Man Wants Donated Kidney Back After Divorce

January 8th, 2009 72 Comments 9074 Views

Posted by Bossip Staff

Y’all, this is some crazy sh*t:

GARDEN CITY, N.Y. — A Long Island surgeon embroiled in a nearly four-year divorce proceeding wants his estranged wife to return the kidney he donated to her, although he says he’ll settle for $1.5 million in compensation.

Dr. Richard Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center, told reporters at his lawyer’s Long Island office Wednesday that he decided to go public with his demand for kidney compensation because he has grown frustrated with the negotiations with his estranged wife.

He claimed he has been prevented from seeing their children, ages, 8, 11 and 14, for months at a time.

“This is my last resort; I did not want to do this publicly,” Batista said.

He said he gave his kidney to Dawnell Batista, now 44, in June 2001. She filed for divorce in July 2005, although he claims she began having an extramarital affair 18 months to two years after receiving the kidney transplant, his attorney, Dominick Barbara said.

Douglas Rothkopf, the attorney representing Dawnell Batista, did not return telephone calls seeking comment.

Matrimonial attorneys were quick to shoot down any possibility Batista would succeed.

“I’ve been in this business over 40 years and I’ve never heard of that,” said Seymour J. Reisman, a Long Island divorce lawyer. “It’s not marital property, not a marital asset you can put a price tag on.”

What the f*ck? Talk about an Indian-giver. SMH

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72 Responses to “Random Ridiculousness: Man Wants Donated Kidney Back After Divorce”

iluvprada

1/8/09, 11:39:am

GOLD!

Christilicious

1/8/09, 11:40:am

silver

1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals---BOSSIP courtside is reserved for regulars. Take your ***** BACK up to the nosebleed section!!!!!

1/8/09, 11:41:am

Bronze bishess!
Lol!!!!!

Carmellatte

1/8/09, 11:41:am

Just sicking!!!!!!!!!!!

sickofitt

1/8/09, 11:44:am

LOL, you don’t want to be with me, Then ***** give me back my kidney and that coach bag I bought you in 98. Cl*****ic.

Aunt Viv

1/8/09, 11:46:am

Dear Dr. Batista,
A kidney is not like a shirt, that you can return to Macy’s whenever you feel like, worn or not. Fall back. SMH.

Sincerely,
Aunt Viv

Marquis de Sade

1/8/09, 11:49:am

That’s what his ***** gets for getting married in the first place. Donates a kidney and the ***** rewards him by cheating and then denying him visitation rights to his own children!?! Now who says there’s benefits for men to get married?

g

1/8/09, 11:51:am

smh

Daniel

1/8/09, 11:52:am

This is why you should give them one thing… Ya’ll heard Filmore Slim, right?

“Nothing.” [shaking his head]

“You mean you don’t pay them at all?”

[Filmore Slim just keeps shaking his head "no" in disbelief that the questioner isn't getting it.]

GOD

1/8/09, 11:53:am

If it is true that this WOMAN had an affair after her husband lovingly gave her the gift of life from his body. She will not prosper. When has anyone ever made fecal matter into gold? If it’s true that she’s being unfaithful and denying him access to his children her body may and will begin to reject his gift…kidney. I hope he isn’t Haitian cause they don’t play this type of f**kery. She’ll end up stankin somewhere without her soul, eyes, or his kidney. This proves my point marriage doesn’t mean that children will grow up in a healthy environment.

Take 1: Cheating mami roaming the streets with her husbands donated kidney meanwhile the kids are being USED as bargaining tools. Pathetic!

The Foosa

1/8/09, 11:53:am

shoulda let the broad die!

Shaunie27

1/8/09, 12:01:pm

DAYUM!!! ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HIM IN THIS CASE!!!

Christie's secrets

1/8/09, 12:03:pm

lol, he is acting like he was not *****ing out too! men just get mad when they get played the same way they play women! CHARGE IT TO THE GAME, NOTHING PERSONAL!

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 12:07:pm

“Indian Giver?”

Isn’t that a terrible stereotype? COME ON!!!!

Raquel26

1/8/09, 12:07:pm

Why couldnt she get the kidney from dude she was poppin off with?

Raquel26

1/8/09, 12:09:pm

LOL@Re…Really.

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 12:09:pm

If it is true that this WOMAN had an affair after her husband lovingly gave her the gift of life from his body. She will not prosper.
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That’s true…but she’ll have to answer to God one day….

…in the meantime, lets not forget there are always two sides to a story. Although thats heartless to take an irreplaceable gift from someone and ***** on it.

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 12:11:pm

What’s up with the skeletor picture with the butcher knife?

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 12:11:pm

@Racquel26

I can’t believe they used that phrase…that’s really mean, and untrue.

Marquis de Sade

1/8/09, 12:14:pm

Christie’s secrets

lol, he is acting like he was not *****ing out too! men just get mad when they get played the same way they play women! CHARGE IT TO THE GAME, NOTHING PERSONAL!

*****-*****, he gave his own kidney to save her life. This isn’t some ghetto/hip hop/pimp *****ogy that you can brush off.

OverTheTop

1/8/09, 12:20:pm

This is the craziest sh*t I have ever heard. My husband gave me his kidney and I had to just laugh when I heard this lastnight. That is a process you can’t reverse. Suck it up and move the f*** on dude. Hilarious…

JK

1/8/09, 12:23:pm

@ Over the Top
___________
I totally agree. He needs to let it go. No court is going to give him that kidney back or any money in exchange.

Wordz Of a Prophet (***** it...I'm HEARTLESS)

1/8/09, 12:23:pm

LMAO dat ***** said ***** dat..he won’t his ***** back. Haha

after da divorce is settled he gone catch dat ***** on the street n cut dat ***** out his self n run to the hospital..”umm…can you put this back in, I gave it away by mistake?”

Rejected Kidney of a cheating SLORE

1/8/09, 12:23:pm

Oh contray to your lie. Her body may begin to reject his kidney you never know only time can tell what will happen to rotten infidels who cheat on their spouses and turn their children into chess *****s.

Christie's secrets

1/8/09, 12:24:pm

yeah but we don’t know what happened! why she got into that relationship! like i said, we don’t know! from the outside it seems ugly but he saved her life which is great gift but does that mean that she has to love him forever for that?!
Its no really the same but I knew someone i used to love and i gave him everything, i did everything to help him out, with my money, my time and everything! and one day he left! people are just like that! but you have to help the others without expecting anything back! a real gift coms from the heart! most of the organ donors don’t know who they are helping!

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 12:24:pm

So…basically he expects them to cut into her body, and take an organ out because she cheated on him?

“taking it back” is definitely not the appropriate word here…to “take it back” involves cutting someone’s body open.

Does he not understand the seriousness and ridiculousness of this demand?

I am apalled.

Marquis de Sade

1/8/09, 12:25:pm

OverTheTop

Move on? What about his kids? Should he move on from that too? Should he let that other *****, pay the child support? You *****es slay me with your bull*****. One minute, you hoes are decrying how men ain’t ***** and now when he wants to see his kids, you say, move on.

Marquis de Sade

1/8/09, 12:28:pm

I think he realizes that he’s not going to get the kidney back, that’s why he amended it with a 1.5 million dollar settlement.

Well

1/8/09, 12:29:pm

I understand his anger… and as one poster said, she will not prosper from this betrayal.

I know he is hurting, you would too. This is not an example of why you shouldn’t get married, it is an example of why you should not cheat.

Divorce and infedility have far reaching ramifications…and it creates a generational curse on your family. So think before you go spreading yourself to other people outside the bounds of your marriage. God does not like ugly.

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 12:30:pm

You *****es slay me with your bull*****. One minute, you hoes are decrying how men ain’t ***** and now when he wants to see his kids, you say, move on.
_____________________________________________________

Um….errr….”you *****es?” Why do we have to be all of that?

Christie's secrets

1/8/09, 12:32:pm

test

Marquis de Sade

1/8/09, 12:35:pm

Um….errr….”you *****es?” Why do we have to be all of that?

Because of y’all cavalier attitude. If the shoe was on the other foot, and it was she who donted her kidney, and he rewarded her by cheating, taking the kids and denying visitation rights, you *****es would be crying “FOUL”, instead of “MOVE ON”.

LawdhavMercythis*****is real

1/8/09, 12:42:pm

that butch she is a mess horibble she tried it and u kno what i cant take no ***** that keeps a father away from his children . i dont kno if he were a good father im just going by his complaint and reasoning for taking it to this dramastic measure. that ***** need to be put back on that table and be opened up the nerve dirty nasty trashy no cl***** w*****

GOD

1/8/09, 12:44:pm

JUDGEMENT!

LawdhavMercythis*****is real

1/8/09, 12:46:pm

bitsch and was . was typing really fast …

Katherine

1/8/09, 13:15:pm

It was a gift, you can’t retrieve gifts back in divorce proceedings…

reese615

1/8/09, 13:21:pm

@ The Foosa

shoulda let the broad die!
______

I just died…laughing. What the *****1!!! LMAO

Black Barbie

1/8/09, 13:28:pm

What? He’s tryna call the repo man about a kidney! LOL!

Re is excited to see GAMBIT in May. FINALLY!

1/8/09, 13:28:pm

I don’t think all of us in here are commenting with a “cavalier” attitude.

I believe for the most part people shocked by a story so ludicrous…I see your point, but lets not generalize here…

PhillyGrownYoungWoman

1/8/09, 13:34:pm

petty, but i dont blame him…. how you goin to have my kidney and boo-love wit another.. lol

Mase

1/8/09, 13:40:pm

When some say “move on,” I think they mean about the idea of getting the kidney back because there’s no way he’s going to get it or compensation. I don’t believe anyone is referring to abandoning his fight for visitation.

PURPPLE

1/8/09, 13:49:pm

lol, he done saved her life and she got the nerve to cheat and want a divorce. bytches aint shyt.

liteskinsin

1/8/09, 13:54:pm

That picture is sickkk

relle

1/8/09, 13:57:pm

lmao she is trial for that she cheated on a dude who saved her life he should be compensated there arent any men willing to do that for a woman

WIFEY06

1/8/09, 14:13:pm

he should be compensated… point blank she was disrespectful…

Damn chicks can’t even get men to commit let alone donate a body part and this is what she does….

Naija King

1/8/09, 14:13:pm

YES!, i love it..

I hope, no i pray he wins…

stupid b*tch, women will bleed you dry if you don’t watch them..

F*ck ‘em n leave ‘em , don’t put a ring on ‘em, thats what i say…

I pray he gets his kidney back

♥ pYnK (AKA DIPSET HATER)

1/8/09, 14:17:pm

Yea I think he has some ***** to ask for this back……….BUT………. there are two sides to every story. He could’ve been doing dirt too and he’s not disclosing his dirty laundry. I’m not saying and eye for and eye, but maybe she got fed up with his shenanigans and was like ***** THIS *****.. I’m gonna get mine too. He might be the type of dude with an ego the size of King Kong thinking “no one would ever cheat on me, I’m all that.. I’m irresistible..” and then low and behold wifey *****s dem legs back for another dude and that was the all time blow to the ego. I’m just saying, she was wrong for what she did, if you feel you need to be out there kicking it and not happy in your marriage then get a divorce. She may have stayed for as long as she did for financial reasons.. and wtf? Why is her baby 14months old? If you ain’t happy in a marriage you sure as hell ain’t gonna try to have some more kids…Both of these people don’t sound too bright. He could be a controlling, manipulative *****hole and she could be a money hungry w*****…. Not a good combo… so to sit up her and speculate or judge and call him this and that, and her this and that and be one sided on this is absurd. So I’m not picking sides… let them duke it out…

You Smell Me??

1/8/09, 14:36:pm

Yo, the fact that she waited till she was all health and *****, then cheats on dude? Wow, I would of asked for my kidney back too. I extend your life so you can cheat on me….HAHA!

For real though there is no doctor thats going to perform that surgery. He better just stick to the stacks…

You Smell Me??

1/8/09, 14:39:pm

@ PYNK
“controlling, manipulative *****hole and she could be a money hungry w*****…. Not a good combo… ”

Thats a great combo! I dont want no money hungry w*****! Let the *****holes have them…

OverTheTop

1/8/09, 14:47:pm

First of all Marquis de Sade, ya momma is b*tch for having you. Second of all I was talking about the kidney, I’ve mentioned nothing else. So I’m not going to sit here and entertain your childish antics. I believe he should get compensated for infidelity after he gave up one of his organs, but what I’m saying dumb***** is that he can’t get his kidney back, it can’t be reversed like I said.

♥ pYnK (AKA DIPSET HATER)

1/8/09, 15:18:pm

@You Smell Me??
Good point!

knowledgeable

1/8/09, 15:18:pm

Ok everyone let’s think about this: you can NOT give back a kidney, it is medically unsafe and no REAL doctor would perform that surgery. Being that he is a surgeon he knows this and what BOSSIP DIDN’T tell you is that he wants to be compensated for his kidney and duress, it’s about $1.5 Million

If you hear his entire story you will feel for this man. AGAIN BOSSIP AINT GIVE ALL THE FACTS

@ GOD
“When has anyone ever made fecal matter into gold? If it’s true that she’s being unfaithful and denying him access to his children her body may and will begin to reject his gift…kidney. I hope he isn’t Haitian cause they don’t play this type of f**kery”

Do not generalize my people by the foolishness of the few you’ve encountered/dealt with

♥ pYnK (AKA DIPSET HATER)

1/8/09, 15:24:pm

Okay so he makes her better and she cheats…. whose to say he wasn’t cheating too… ya know? I’m jusss saying…. what if she sacrificed tons and held ***** down while he went to school? What if she took care of the kids, worked and was handling business and taking care of the fam while he went to school, put him thru school and then he turned around and was cheating on her… I’m just saying… there are two sides to every story. If she’s keeping them kids from him then it may be safe to say he wasn’t doing something right to have her take those drastic measures… My mom was handling ***** in the house while my dad was going to Pharmacy school and she was raising the three kids an ***** while he moved away to the college town because he needed to live on campus to focus on studies… I remember my mom telling me that my Dad would want to be Mr. Flirty man with all the ladies and she was like….”I’LL BE DAMNED IF I TOOK CARE OF OUR KIDS, WORKED, WAS SCROUNGING FOR CHANGE JUST TO KEEP UP WITH BILLS, PUT YOU THRU SCHOOL TO SIT UP HERE AND WATCH YOU LEAVE ME AT HOME TO GO AND KICK IT!” lol she let it be known…. She but that non-sense to rest…

enitsirk30

1/8/09, 15:32:pm

You know what, there are two sides to every story. As a women who has been hurt by her ex-husband and did some pretty jacked up things (including denying visits with his daughter)to her ex-husband, you don’t know what is going on between those two. Go threw a divorce yourself and she how easy it is to fall back to being 2 years old when your heart is broken. They both might just be trippin.

Tanisha

1/8/09, 15:32:pm

I think the situation is messed up! Will he get his kidney back? Most likely no. Should he be compensated? HELL YEAH! If she can not prove that he was egotistical or doing her wrong, she needs to pay up? People take marriage too lightly. For better or for worse….. He gave a kidney and she fuC##ng other dudes letting them hit her kidneys up….LOL! Sorry, this is funny but it’s not. He had to really love her to give her a body part. How many of us on here would do the same for our spouse? Unfortunately, that sealed the deal and she should understand where he is coming from. Even if she dont want to be with him anymore, not letting him see his kids? She owes him big time because he was the only person that could save her life other than GOD. Adam gave Eve a body part and you see what happened. (Sorry, I had to throw that in there!)

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Lauren

1/8/09, 15:38:pm

Maybe he could feel her cheating with his other kidney…??

JUJU

1/8/09, 15:41:pm

THERE IS 2 SIDES TO EVERY STORY, HOWEVER NOT ALLOWING HIM TO SEE THE KIDS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHATEVER THE STORY/SITUATION IS. BUT I WOULD BE UPSET TOO IF I KNEW ANOTHER DUDE WAS BEATING UP GUTS I DONATED-LOL UNFORUNAETLY!

sumthanelse84

1/8/09, 16:10:pm

ppl frm ny are indian givers

betty

1/8/09, 16:21:pm

she’s cold to me he has every right to be mad and sue her stank *****

betty

1/8/09, 16:22:pm

probably saved her ***** and repaid him with a divorce

Kimberley

1/8/09, 16:38:pm

The husband is claiming that she had a long term affair with her physical therapist after she a knee injury.
He does not physically want the organ back. He wants the *****esed value back. 1.5 Mill.
Hes a surgeon. If I were her. Id sleep with one eye open.

Kimberley

1/8/09, 16:42:pm

This mess will wind up creating clauses in a pre-nupt somewhere.

Razzell Dazzell

1/8/09, 18:42:pm

I’m a kidney donor, and this story really puzzels me. I donated a kidney to my mother who recently p*****ed away. She was the best mother ever, and God do I miss my Mother Dearest, but the idea of asking for the kidney back because she wronged is insane. I empathized with the fello, but when you give up an organ, it’s not for compensation, well the compensation is extending someone’s life, and for the love of the person, not for money. Now, would I turn money down, absolutely not LOL, but no, my mother paid me in love, attention, time, devotion, and lessons, so her deed was paid. Trust me, this woman won’t get away with her infidelty, but he is not the one who will hold her accountable. She’ll see. As someone said, we don’t know everything that ocurred in this marriage, but we can all pretty much agree, asking for the kidney back and money is pretty dubious—from a donor perspective.

BossLa

1/8/09, 18:52:pm

Maybe he could feel her cheating with his other kidney…??

…….LMAO…….

Triple T

1/8/09, 18:55:pm

He is just upset because she must have needed that kidney or she would have died and they have children together.

This is a hard one because he did his part as a husband. She has to live with the fact she took his kidney and cheated on him.

Mario Alex Joseph, Esq.

1/8/09, 21:54:pm

This poor SOB doctor has no chance in Hell, and is wasting greenbacks on his lawyer. What’s next? Is he going to also sue for the return of his semen? Fat cells attributed to food he bought? Is she going to counterclaim for the value of sexual services provided? It is a huge waste, perhaps designed to cause the ex-wife financial AND kidney shutdown!

terry

1/9/09, 01:19:am

Yall some dumb ***** ghetto *****ers. Do your research before speaking on a topic thrown out by Bossip. This full time surgeon gave his wife a kidney, he found out she was cheating on him afterwards, for over a year, and served him divorce papers while he was in the operating room!!!
And he wanted the current value of the kidney, around 1.3 million bucks not the organ, *****holes!!
Even his lawyer said he didn’t want the organ. But saying that makes for better headlines in the paper and you ***** ***** sheep on bossip just went over the cliff.
Losers!!

Louisiana Mami

1/9/09, 02:24:am

@ lauren
LOL )

THATS *****ED UP THOUGH!

Preach

1/9/09, 14:00:pm

He should have let the broad die. Espcially if she has a life insurance policy. Happily married or not that was a good way out.

Jess

1/9/09, 15:53:pm

LOL… and you want to get on women when windows are busted and tires slashed. This is on a whole other level!! This dude is insane. Yeah I agree he should fight for visitation rights but that is where it ends. My goodness put the shoe on the other foot and you men go crazy!!

Canikki

1/10/09, 13:43:pm

“Getcha ***** and leave. Everything you came with…your draws, your shoes, oh leave them Gucci’s, and you can leave my DAMN KIDNEY in the bowl!” LMAO! Bossip you all are ignant! They really didnt give the entire story. SMH!