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It’s listenable! LOL…is that a word?

You know, I’m liking the song a liiiiiiiiiiiiittle bit more since I’ve seen a bit of the video, but I’m not really feeling this joint. Love me some Mary, but I can’t bump this one.

You know what tho, the hook is hot! I’m happy Mary is happy. And she looks too fly in the video.

I LOVE this song. I’ve been listening to it for the past 2 weeks and I’m glad she has a video for it. Love it!!

I’m not a happy-go-lucky Mary fan either! Give me “If Lovin’ You Was All That I Have To Do” or “Don’t Go”. The My Life cd was her best ever.

I am NOT feeling this song…….it’s sounds like a “pop” song to me.

i love the song..

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Ummm not feeling this one…she looks out of place an immature…I love her mature music.

I can’t seem to watch her like this, I feel embarrassed for her. I heard the intro, was that supposed to be like Michael Jackson’s don’t stop to you get enough? Ew. I love Mary when she sad, as an artist that is. It’s weird how good love has changed Mary and Janet Jackson.

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LOVE IT!!! Just downloaded it from iTunes, thank you! I am definitely going to skip about Paris to this one. )

I love it!! I am glad she is happy. Yes her music was hot when she was down and out, but I have no problem with the new Mary. I liked this song from the first time I heard it. If you dont have a problem with your life, then you should singing “Just Fine”…I know I am!

DAMN.. CAN WE GET THE OLD MARY BACK!!!!??

Im glad she happy…..but Ima fan of that classic mary j but i can bump to dis 2

I love this song. Mary are you dating someone at http://www.richromances.com? I saw your profile over there, you are a certified millionaire, right?

I really like the song, but this video not so much. Mary is my girl, but she could have come harder in this video…add a party scence, old school house party and a few cameos and she would have been set. Mary know she is not that good of a dancer so she should have not went there (LOL)>..

the song is good but the video? hmmmm and besides maybe its because i`m not a mary j fan though she has had some good songs

mariah carey where are you? this video makes me want to buy a mariah carey album asap

the sad thing is. you ever notice you have more friends when you are depressed and doing what you aren’t suppose to and then as soon as you find happiness and peace your friends leave you. I think the saying is misery loves company…. Well isnt that the same thing with Mary when she was coked up and drunk everyone loved her but as soon as she dropped the dead weight the nay sayers start coming out. Truth is once you have peace and happiness more things come your way ie her grammys. I think the song is hot and is sending a message to be happy with who you are, and if you know anything about music which apparently some of you don’t, bet if she had her ass and tits hanging out or singing that damn superman song you would be supporting her. But if you know true music, then you know this song is hot and she is a butterfly who just came out of its cocoon. HOLLA HATERS

Tee – I agree 100%. 200%!

love the song but the video is borderline cheesy…

I def appreciate that she’s in a different place in her life, I mean damn, does the lady have to be depressed, addicted and lonely for people to feel her? that’s a reflection of the listener, not her. always seems like people are looking for failure. let her be happy, stop looking for the catch.

the video, however, is just…just…superficial. standing in front of a blue screen and some mirrors just doesn’t cut it if you’re trying to match the energy in your song…fire whoever told you that was a good look. stat.

and it looks like she thought of some dance moves she hadn’t done in a while and was like, “what the hell…”.

the wop, man, the wop.

after you fire the director, fire the choreographer.

I’m a My Life girl from now til whenever. But that’s the best track Mary’s done in a loooong time. Love it (and her hairstyles)!!

I LOVE Mary and I am glad that she is in love to a positive man that treats her like the Queen that she is but…..I HATE THIS DAMN SONG!!!! This sounds like something Rihanna/Christina Milan should be singing. I don’t understand how people can like this song and dog Alicia Keys’ song “No One”? Everytime I hear this song on the radio in my car I either turn to another station or turn the radio off.

shawna says:

DAMN.. CAN WE GET THE OLD MARY BACK!!!!??

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You mean the depressed Mary? – who was on drugs and who didn’t love herself?

I love this song! When I first heard it, I thought it was just alright and just like every other Mary song, the more I listened to it, the more I liked it. She does look kind of look awkward in the beginning of the video, but the rest of the video is hot. The outfits and the hair especially. It looks like Mary has stepped her game up, style wise.

I am a big Mary J. Blige fan. I have all her Cd’s from What’s the 411, but when was Mary ever depressed and on drugs? The Mary I see seems like the same Mary from back in the day!!!

I just knew Zavion Glover would be in the video tapdancing…Oh well. The songs corny and so is the video. I like the KCi Rocked out My Life Mary too!

But the Video and song is nice, seems like Mary’s Signature.

And what the hell is K-Ci rocked out “My Life”?

wooahhh! I must admit it is weird seeing Mary happy, but good for her. She’s what 36 now? It’s about time for her to feel Fine…Fine…Fine..Fine..

@ Auntie

Mary has struggled with drugs and depression for many years. She’s talked about it on Oprah and numerous other occasions, but she says she’s at a new point in her life where she no longer relies on those things and that her faith in God as well as her husband Kendu helped her get there.

Yes!!! I feel “fine” after hearing that song. I guess I’m growing with Mary cause I’m still loving her today as I did in the 90′s. Mary, is just an all around wonderful woman and role model. She is so in a league of her own. Guess I’ll be adding another one to the collection. It’s obvious to me that some of these bloggers are somewhat unhappy with themselves or their personal lives. I’m all about a positive outlook on life. The only way for our people to make progress is make uplifting songs such as this one instead of glorifying that “I’m So Hood!!!” What the hell? When did being “Hood” become “Good?”

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I KNOW am feeling fine!!!

We personally are fans of the K-Ci rocked out “My Life” Mary J. Blige, but to each his own

Definately agree. Mary needs to go back with KCI and drugs so we can have some music!

I DID NOT like this song at when it first came out…but now I LOVE IT…it was playin in the background one day when I was cleaning up and I was like…”wait a min this is kinda hot” I think the song will catch on… The video though….I love my sister mary and have since forever but I don’t like when artists just have themselves in the video dancing and no one else or no creative scenes…my other ladies beyonce and mariah are always doin those kinda videos…

This track is corny. She’s not going to be able to top her last album. That’s for sure.

Love Mary but I am NOT a fan of this…Track is whack and the song to me is just a lil corny….and I don’t see it gorwing on me either. I don’t wish depression her again but I don’t like this side!!!

how many times u gotta tell us mary? are u tryin to convince us or yourself? this song is annoyin and i wish she would quit tryin to dance, her and her protege keyshia cuz they aitn got no rhythm

y’all are stupid. this track and video are HOT TO DEATH! i’m glad that i can always count on the Queen to represent real soul music. anyone that likes the K-Ci cracked out ‘My Life” Mary needs to get out of the 90′s and come into the millenium. after all the crap she’s been through, Mary deserves every bit of happiness she has. if you don’t like the new and improved Queen of Hip Hop Soul, go listen to that chickenhead low-budget wannabe mary, keyshia cole. Mary is The Truth.

ALL HAIL THE ONE AND ONLY QUEEN OF HIP HOP SOUL!!!!!

I wouldn’t say that I want her to go back to a life of drugs but the crooning sound of that time is much better, her melodies were much better and the beats were much better just my opinion

Ummm! Not lovin it.

Luv’s it!! Mature song its good to see people in a great place in their life it will inspire others to make sure that they are Happy also and get rid of negative people around them!

Yeah, I like sad Mary music too. She used to be able to make up beat or at least mid tempo music that was still a little sad like “Real Love” and “Be Happy” and “I Can Love You”. I guess those songs aren’t “up tempo” but Mary is a ballader so mid-tempo is as far as she should go un less she is singing the hook on another person’s song or something.

But she does look GREAT!!! Especially for pushin’ 40 pretty hard

Wow…good love has changed Mary, Janet AND Jay-Z’s music. It almost changed Dr Dre’s until his wife told him to stay true to what made him popular.

i like this new happy mary

but i really loved the “my life” mary…i dont know, maybe it was the puff daddy production, songs, are emotion in her voice..

i am glad she is happy now though!

Um no Mary. This is a rip-off of MJ’s Don’t Stop Till You Get Enough intro and the Jackson’ Can You Feel It video. I’m 28 and old enough to remember these Mary. Stop biting.

Btw, K-Ci still has Mary on the brain because I saw him in a play a year ago and he started doing that whole “Mary Mary Mary, I done you so wrong” thing in the middle of a line. lol

Snooze fest

I luv it and she look fab in this video.

you know?…..ummmm…its cool…I see what shes trying to do and its motivating and inspiring…and I think i will begin to like it more and more especiall when im cleaning up…..it really makes me want to do aerobics or something……keep it coming Mary!!! music should be a reflection of your growth and its god to see that she has and is experiencing some BLISS!!!! Like she told yall on one of her earlier albums….all I really want….. is to be happy…….BE HAPPY MARY and keep sharing yo’ world girl!!!!!!

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The track is HOT!!!!! I’m loving it. I think the vid could be a lot better….maybe she should have had some dancers bustin the moves and her doing a little accent, but I gotta give it to her for trying. I’m glad she’s happy, it looks good on her.

Mary, keep yo head up….BE BLESSED!

Its soooo sad and disgusting that people preferred the woman when she was going through the worst moments of her life. The fact that people preferred miserable musci probably means ya’ll are miserable your selves, since misery does love company

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I agree with you folks was loving her when she was down and really going through some serious times in her life.. Now a sista happy and got a hold on things you GOTTA love her for that.. I say join her ladies get your ish together so you can be doing just fine.. stop drinking your hateraide.. but if you do Mary got all the sweet honey you need for it HA!..

@tee

i don’t think people LOVE you and want to be around you when you are depressed and leave when you are happy (it’s usually the opposite). i understand that you are referring to haters and i feel that, but let’s be real: MJB made her career out of passion and pain. People love her b/c they FEEL her and could relate to what she was going through…love/loss, longing, disappointment, whatever. We have happy-go-lucky artists out there-Beyonce, Rihanna, etc who don’t sing about anything with passion/depth-i’m not hating b/c some of their songs are good, but you get my point. So when MJB came out with What’s the 411?, and damn, My Life was and still is my s—, even Share My World…Breakthrough was solid, but this current song just lacks the depth, passion, and meaning that we always expect from MJB. I’m happy that she’s at a good place in her life with a good man and no drugs/drama in her life-that’s beautiful and she deserves it. And many of us can relate to the positive as well. I just think with the changes in the industry she’s trying to stay relevant instead of staying true to the music that makes her MJB. Sing about happiness, love, and having a good time (Be Without You was tight! Who WASN’T jamming to Family Affair when it came out?) but make sure the music is on point while you do it…she may not need Puffy to do that but it sure did help back in the day. This newest song is NOT a strong lead single. It’s not bad, but not fire either.

I LOVE THE VIDEO..LOVE MARY…..I WILL GET THE ALBUM NO MATTER THE PRICE (PREFERABLY $9.99)…..LAST BUT NOT LEAST LOVE THE NEW MARY LOVE THE VID LOVE THE SONG LOVE HER…PEACE

its a good video mary is happy and livin her life everybody thinks that mary supposed to always sig down sad and oldschool songs but she need to keep on doing her she aont gonna fall

This song has grown on me. I am a Mary fan my fav mary CD is My Life, but since I’m not always depressed, I don’t expect Mary to be. I will be purchasing her new CD cause there is always enough on an MJB CD to make it worth it. The video doesn’t keep my attention and I wish they would edit out her talking intro!

I love the song and the video. Mary is working it out and she looks fabulos! The lyrics are on point. Do your thing Mary B!

OMG!! i love me some MJB, but-er-uuuuuummmmm, i’m not ready for this!! all i’ve ever seen her do is the rocking from side to side (we call that “doing the MJB) so all that extra arm flailing and what not, is just a lil too much for me! especially since her feet never leave the floor! lol! i love MJB, but i’m not feeling this song or video!

@ doc-2-b

damn, you totally hit the nail on the head!

i love this song… GO MARY

You know bcz mary has been around for so long, I am gonna let her slide on this track. I understand where she is coming from with this but it sounds like something a person would make up and sing while in the shower..not something to record and try to market. HA HA HA ….but I will give her a “C” for trying.

Still love yah Mary..

@steven

you are the top hater I was referring too I wouldn’t pick you up out of a gutter filled with rats, roaches, feces, slime, blood, used douche bags,used tampons and pads, condoms, used toilet paper, vomit, spit and the ebola disease. You jerk off!

Now @doc-2-b

I can respect your intelligent well versed response clearly you completed the 1st grade unlike steven, I can respect your view and would be able to have an educated debate with you. WOW a real man —- smooches

typo that was Shawn… sorry if any educated steven’s were offended… Shawn is the loser I was referring to

I don’t know. It’s too perky. Her body’s amazing. Who’s her trainer.

@tee…i’m actually female…see how you assumed that i was male b/c i’m a doc in training? LOL…it’s cool though

The video of the song is gospel skate party. Maybe Mary Mary should be singing this.

I am feelin Mary J new joint so much I saw the video just the other day and it was hot. Leave it to Mary J to be looking so greatin all that bangin outfits I really enjoyed it. I can’t wait to cop my girl new album when it drops next month.

I love the song and I love the feel of the song. Mary has many different music styles and it does not hurt to hear her HAPPY at times, people can’t be sad and miserable all the damn time, would you want to be?? Besides who wants to hear strictly sad and lonely songs all the time as singles, if you want that, listen to Keyshia Cole, her whole cd is about that mess!!!

LOVED IT LOVED IT LOVED I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE MARY HAPPY AND AT PIECE WITH HER LIFE IT SHOWS

I like this song, even though I love the heartbroken, blues-ridden Mary more. I’m glad she is happy and in “that” place, though.