Thank you for your response. I think I’ve probably said enough on this topic, but I appreciate your viewpoint.

Have a good evening.

Thanks! Just trying to keep the sh*t real.

Yes, I read what you wrote or didn’t write about Joy. She looks absolutely radiant. I’m happy for her.

I think women understand that men appreciate attractive women. I object to your depiction of some women as somehow being like aging cars that need to be traded in for younger, prettier models. Pauletta is a distinguished woman who has four children — she looks great, far from a “penny piece.”

If beauty is all it takes to keep a man, then why has Halle had several failed relationships? Because it takes more than a pretty face and a banging body to make a relationship work. There has to be real chemistry, mutual respect, and trust, all of which have nothing to do with the exterior. Those are but a few of the ingredients of a mature, healthy relationship.

Now play nicely with your sistas, please.

Me, trouble. No! That’s not true. What did I say that was not nice.

In the spirit of trying to help ya’ll – I said in a nice way: “Get yourself together spiritually, financially and psychologically, and you will not trip off dude.”

What is wrong with that?

Okay, let me put this way, if a female has got her sh*t together, she’s making money, bought her own condo, get a nice ride, money in the bank, can take a trip when ever she wants, can afford to shop on Rodeo Drive and not bat an eye, and got a dude that’s slammin down raw, she will never, ever have anything negative to say about another female.

With regard to Pauletta, change the wardrobe to more appealing outfits, I’m not saying go out there and look like Nicole Murphy, but add a little Umf to the look and I bet Denzel won’t have that sour look when out in public with her.

That is all I’m saying.

I’m trying to help ya’ll understand why men look at pretty things.

So, you read what I said about Joy.

I see that you’re still trying to stir up trouble. In the spirit of the holiday, why don’t you don the costume of “Mr, Nice Brotha” and give all the sistas compliments this evening, starting with Pauletta And wish Joy well on her engagement

Happy Halloween! Yup, all is well, LOL.

Speaking of Chris Rock, did you see “I Think I Love My Wife?” I thought it was very cute with some good messages om love and commitment.