Ladies: Steve Says You Should Think Like a Man

Posted on January 28th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, Steve Harvey

Posted by Bossip Staff

Steve Harvey

While not giving two rats @sses about Katt Williams, Steve Harvey’s new book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, is sitting pretty at #3 on Barnes and Nobles most sold book in the world. We’re sure Mr. Harvey is laughing hysterically all the way to the bank.

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Pop the hood for a few pics and excerpts from the book…

“There is no truer statement: men are simple. Get this into your head first, and everything you learn about us in this book will begin to fall into place. Once you get that down, you’ll have to understand a few essential truths: men are driven by who they are, what they do, and how much they make.”

“Your man knows what you want: the ultimate commitment- The Ring. He knows, too, what he needs: you. But your proposal never comes and the way your man is acting, it’s not coming anytime soon. And so, you wait. And Wait. And wait some more. Men are happy being single or unmarried because it makes us feel young and carefree. Marriage does not. Responsibility and marriage do not fit into that feeling, until all of the playing gets tired and we realize we have to be grown-ups, or something-or someone-makes us grow up.”

“To sum up, we’ve got to have these three things- support, loyalty, and sex- from you or we’re going to go.”

“Men show their love with the three P’s. If we love you we will Protect, Profess and Provide for you.”

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Ladies and Fellas…true or false?

Discuss.

  • Janelle

    I’d read it….

  • zmoneyent

    Looks cool. But there’s so much books out there telling you what to do.

  • KC

    I think Steve should sit back and just chill out. Ugh, he gets on my NERVES. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO freakin mad that doug banks is no longer a morning show because the Steve Harvey morning show is super whack and they do the same ish EVERY F@##ING DAY.

  • doublecheeseburger

    I’ll read it but My relatiosnship is good, i’ll just read it for the laughs,, i know steve harvey can make me laugh

  • hmmm

    this book is def going on my list of must read books.

  • http://youretheworst.blogspot.com rek

    laughin all the way to the bank? mmmmm… i don’t think so. stand up is what these comedians do and when put to the test, harvey was a no show. no amount of money can buy you back your dignity, respect and save you from shame. example: 50 cent

    i like steve harvey’s look though, unmasked darth vader swag

  • NIKKI UNDERWOOD

    I think you should cut your head off Steve…

    Walk like a man…or a chicken with its head removed…wha?

  • NIKKI UNDERWOOD

    I respect the ‘Three P’s’ though….

  • http://bossip HoneyLove

    Steve Harvey touched played with my private when I was a young boy

  • TASTY

    Hmmmm alright,alright, he might be talkn bout sumthin
    sounds interesting

  • NIKKI UNDERWOOD

    ^^^^WTF???^^^^

  • Raquel29

    IDK. Looks interesting enough to read while in the bathroom after some cabbage. lol
    But this is what my homeboys put me up on already so I think I’m well-prepared for the BS that men throw my way. No need really to spend any dough on this.

    ‘Aye, can I borrow that book”?

  • Raquel29

    And he isnt even THAT funny. He looks like a weeble. Dont ask me what that is. It fits his face though.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!!

    FUK STEVIE HARVEY…NIGGR IF YOU WERE THINKING LIKE A MAN WHY WAS YOU WEARING A WOMANZ WIG?…WHO THOUGHT YOU WERE FOOLING! NIGGR!

  • VERY Sad 2C Dis

    I’m with KC on this one. Steve Harvey is a country BAMA fo real! LOL
    His act was the least funniest out of all the Kings of Comedy when they were on tour and he continues to portray himself in a very arrogant light. I’m not a fan and believe his fan base is probably 40+.

  • VERY Sad 2C Dis

    LOL @ Glok9n
    ***cracking up laughing***
    and his Bubba Gump lips look like 2 butt cheeks turned sideways! LMAO

  • http://dicooper.spaces.live.com/ DICooper

    I’m mad at Steve for getting 50 and selling out the game.

    That’s not gangster, bruh.

  • uptowngirl

    not really interested in what a “celebrity” has to say about relationships etc. if i want to know what my man thinks i’ll ask him,how about that? and didn’t he recently divorce the “love of his life” and marry a new chick. yeah i’ll pass on the book bruh

  • http://www.k.com noelle

    What if you do the opposite?? Cause I have to check Kanye all the time.

  • Simply Ecstasy

    I like Steve better with hair (toupee, wig, lace front or whatever it was)… it looks better than the alien swag. Anyhow, I’m not a fan of his but the book does sound interresting and I might check it out if the price is right.

  • grendel

    I dunno, I dont judge a book by it’s author, seems like a lot of your are mad about his wig, him taking over the radio show, 50 cent…

    SMH…

    The book seems interesting, and I could see reading it and leaving it around for the lady to also pick up.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!!

    LOL@ VERY SAD 2 C THIS! YOU MURDERED IT!LMAO!

  • sourgrapes

    THIS IS THE CORNIEST, WACKEST MOTHER ON TV, RADIO, OR MOVIES… HIS COMEDY IS DRY AND IS STRAIGHT BOOTY BUTT GARBAGE TRUCK JUICE

  • KC all day

    I think I must cop this or at least sit inside Barnes and Nobles and free it one of my free days.

    He cracks me up when he be telling women “if you want closure in a relationship close your legs”

  • Jersey Girl

    I refuse to accept advice from a man who has had three wives. I can hit or miss by myself. I will also not accept advice from a man who speaks badly, in public, about his ex-wife. I really don’t think it would be smart. @KC, I am SOOOO seconding your feeling about Steve.

  • Roe ski Love -GO STEELERS

    More brainwash bullshit. The two females who cohost his show, always laugh at his corny shit, even though its not funny. His advice is wack because you cant assess an entire relationship based on one episode or event. The funniest thing he ever did (it was meant to be serious)was when and his bodyguard took pictures riding toy horses for a photoshoot. Both of their big fat asses on toy rocking horses thinking that they looked sexy. That’s what was stupid about the whole photo shoot, men trying to look sexy (shits gay if you ask me) He’s talking all that fly and fifty shit, when he has titties and a pot belly and a gray ass hairy chest. Now he wants to be a relationship expert after recently getting a nasty divorce. I know his book sucks because he sucks.

  • DETinATL

    I dig the 3 P’s ALL DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    We do what we want for who we want. Commitment does not start with a P so we don’t need it. The issue comes when you stretch more than your worth and start doing too much.

  • Black.Woman

    Steve Harvey’s face. :roll:

  • http://bossip Shaunie27

    HE DOES HAVE REALLY GOOD ADVICE… I CAN’T WAIT TO GET MY HANDS ON IT…

    @ ANYONE

    HAS HE EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE KATT WILLIAMS RANTS?

  • Think About It

    @ JERSEY GIRL

    Jersey represent.

    That’s the first thing I thought. And if I were a man, I wouldn’t want my woman reading a bunch of hack advice from Steve Harvey. This strikes me as some “How to Be a Playa” bullshit, in terms of it containing little rules and such to help women “stay on top of their game”. Not checking for it. I’m really interested to hear what men honestly think about the concept for the book, just based on the title (Act Like a Lady/Think Like a Man…or vice versa).

  • Chanel

    Steve is telling the truth. Yall dummies out there need to study this book, I over 30 and reading this book right now. Steve is on point!!! THIS BOOK IS THE TRUTH SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!

  • Phenomenal Dee (God Bless President Obama, the First Family, and the U.S.A.)

    Roe ski Love -GO STEELERS

    More brainwash bullshit. The two females who cohost his show, always laugh at his corny shit, even though its not funny. His advice is wack because you cant assess an entire relationship based on one episode or event.

    DITTO to the INTH DEGREE!!! You are absolutely correct!

    Those chicks stay laughing at him to keep their jobs I guess. I really don’t understand why Carla is on the show AT ALL. Trying to talk cool, and still spitting 80s jargon!

    Steve is lame, and I often question his self proclaimed “authority” when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS and LIFE in general. Nephew Tommy does a better job on the show than he does, and that’s not saying much!

    And what the heck is up with the color of his finger nails; and that big azz dome? He should consider putting a hat on, ala NeYo, ’cause that thang is larger than his ego, and that’s extermely large! Makes him look like the Squidwert dude on SpongeBob, or a Big-Mouth Bass outta water!

  • tupac is a fraud…..

    Maybe Steve should write about phuckin over your friends. Bernie Mac once told a story about when he got the role for “Ocean’s 11″ and told Steve,Steve called his agent and tried to steal the role from Bernie. Your a scumbag Steve!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Lynnett

    The book isn’t a comedy. It just tells women what men think from a man’s point of view. Why do women even ask women for advice about men. Dumb!!! He’s merely giving his opinion on manhood. He is so right. Women reduced their standard or have none because they are desperate to have anything rather than nothing. Women learn how to deal w/ men from their mother’s destructive relationships. It’s a cycle.

  • Marquis de Sade

    Total bullshit! When did marriage equate to growing up? The measurement of growing up, is knowing what you don’t want, not giving in to societal’s whims.

  • BKLYNZ OWN

    ACT LIKE A LADY……WTF…PLEASE, YOU DONT NEED A BOOK ON HOW TO TREAT A LADY.ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS PIPE EM GOOD,LISTEN TO THEM,TAKE EM OUT,BUY THEM THINGS AND PIPE EM GOOD…..AND ALL A MAN NEEDS IS SEX,A COOK MEAL,SOME SPACE AND SEX. SHIEEEEET I COULD WRITE A BOOK.

  • mrs. don’t be fooled

    Steve is full of it. First he stole the book. Check it out for yourself. Same title, copyrighted from 2003. But people now want to buy it from a man who is on wife #3!

  • truth, iam a girl

    did anyone see when Steve Harvey on that late night show? He said his bald head was like wet meat! Crazy man. But I kinda Like Steve though. I hope he aint leave his other wife for some girl!

  • sugar&spice

    *blank stare*

    I wouldn’t read this shit if they were giving it away for free. Mr. Ed needs to back to chompin’ on some hay and leave the relationship advice to someone who’s better equipped to give it.

  • sugar&spice

    @ Tupac

    That is the precise reason why I would NEVER support any project of his. He’s a fuggin’ snake in the grass, and I also find it totally laughable that a man who’s been married 3 times is trying to give women advice. WTF?!

  • emmy

    blegghh.

    not every woman wants to be married, and tied down. men need to realize that. I definately don’t. that seems like a really boring, existence. I need art…life…I’ll get married when I’m like 70.

  • DR.FUNK

    IT’S BEEN DONE.Kinda’ like a re-made movie…but hey…glad to see the brotha’ is moving copies.

  • Ava

    I have the book. EVERY woman needs to READ this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://dmonarchy.com TY DGAME

    Anyone who falls for Steve Harvey’s new hustle,is a true blind follower.Steve Harvey is a hypocrite on his third marriage,because he was a cheat “as well as other things”.His present wife is on her third one,who’s first to were drug dealers “can anyone say gold-digger,who no moral compass” and now he wrote a book. Go ahead suckers,and buy it.

  • Chanel Shades

    Does he talk about leaving his first 2 wives in the book? GTFOH Steve.

  • Kigali (Is working with a full clip of IDEAS)

    Black females arent programmed to act like ladies. Isnt in their DNA.

  • Sydney

    I have listened to some of the Strawberry Letters on Steve Harvey’s morning show, and he does drop some gems of wisdom (pretty much of the common sense variety, but, hey, we all need reminders, every now and then).

    This book sounds like the black version of He’s Just Not That Into You (which is coming out in movie form soon, I think, with Drew Barrymore et al — Looks pretty funny). Or Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

    I say, save your money and listen to the radio show for free or visit the site, if you’re so inclined. :)

  • GoodKarma4me

    Or if you have time go to Barnes and Noble, and kick back on one of there sofas and read it there.

    i know most of you guys have the time..

  • http://bossip MY BAAD

    everyone who swears they know are usually the ones that SHOULD probably pick it up. A single piece of knowledge could send u soaring.

  • http://bossip MY BAAD

    i hate to say it but BKLYNZ OWN summarized it pretty good. as far as i can tell..

  • Brandy Johnson

    I went to the NY book signing and picked up the book and Steve signed my copy. I was going to read the intro and first chapter and before I knew it I was on chapter 5!!! Steve is really putting it down in this book. I’m a 24 year old woman and up until this point I had men ALL WRONG! Maybe after this book I can finally act right and get a man.

  • JillyBean819

    If I thought like a man, I’d be thinking about rims and bitches right now.
    Hahahajkjkjkjkjkhahahaha

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!!

    @BKLN OWMZ! YA DID A GOOD FUKKING JOB, TELLING THE TRUTH!!! THATZ ALL WE WANT!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Oh so now steve harvey wants to drop wisdom huh? when he was on that stupid ass UPN (United Plantation Network) all he did was shuck n jive for the camera and that morning show is just an extension of that sh*t.

    Let 6am tell you ladies whats real and whats not about us men and our feelings toward you.

    1. we will take care of your ass, we’ll love you, protect you, provide for you and nurture/encourage you. But we wont do all that sh*t if you have a big mouth, nothing to say, talk a bunch of sh*t to us while we’re doing all this for you or you become lazy.
    2. If we marry you at 130lbs, you’d better be no more than 140lbs after all the kids are born. Then you head right to the gym to get back to 130.
    3. Cheat on us and you may as well move in with the new n*gga, we dont forgive, and we also know the new n*gga is always broke no matter what he told you.
    4. We love our mothers, yeah we know she can be invasive sometimes, but damn she can cook really good and for some reason her food taste even better after eating your sh*t for so long. Thats even if you can cook too.
    5. When your man comes home from work have his bath ready, a drink in hand and his dinner done or almost done.
    6. We wanna watch sports, unless youre into sports too dont talk while they’re on. Even if you dont like sports sit next to his ass in panties and a wifebeater with no bra (this wont work for you fat hoes)make sure the food and alcohol never needs re-filling.
    7. Dont go buy a car unless your man is with you, even if its your own money, salesmen know how to manipulate women.
    8. There will always be a family account and his personal account, dont ask him why he needs this or how much is in there. (he could be saving up to buy you a bigger ring or take you on a surprise vacation.
    9. Cancel that myspace or facebook sh*t, we arent stupid we know why women have these. Remember your man is there, these other n*ggas are broke and struggliin’ if the have time for that sh*t.
    10. Dont give your kids those ghetto ass names like “shaquanda, moqueesha, quiana or De Aundre, Jamal, etc” we want our offspring to be able to at least get an “interview” so they can get a job after college.
    11. Don’t pester us for expensive ass designer purses or shoes, we know women love that sh*t, why do you think we have the other account? (refer to #8)
    12. Don’t listen to your unmarried friends, theres a reason why the’re unmarried. (refer to #1)
    13. Of course we look at other women, were men, but we aint gonna touch and we wont ever disrespect you while we’re out with you, you get our 100% attention.
    14. No we aint gonna lend your side of the family money (unless we love them just as much as you do, which is rare)other than your parents maybe.
    15. No your girlfriend cant stay with us more than two weeks, if she’d have spent less on weave and nails she’d have her rent money.
    16. If one of her babydaddies are acting up thats her problem, she shouldnt be f8ckin’ with thug n*ggas anyway.
    17. No you cant get extensions.
    18. No you cant cook chittlins in the house, i dont care how many relatives from the south are coming over.
    19. yes return to college please!
    20. No I aint going to any Tyler Perry movie with your ass!

    Love 6am

  • black

    This is wack, this is whats wrong with people today. Every man is different, every woman is different. Not all black people are the same. Steve Harvey wrote this book to make money off of women who have had problems with men, Just like the cat who only writes books about brothas on the down low, just like Tyler who only writes screen plays about women being done wrong. Black women are eating this mess up and believing it. BROTHAS…there is officially a lucrative market on the hate of the BLACK MAN…..and whites are not behind it.

  • Real Man

    Bottom line is this……..why would i want a women who carrier’s situations it like a man, how do you expect to gain respect from a respectable brother. B/c what your really doing is playing games. Y would i want a women who acts out of character (like a man), i want a women of her natural exsistence, A WOMEN. This is like me telling my daughter about what to expect when she has her period, but i never experience one i my life.

    Men view the world thru the eyes of a man, we handle and do things based on our perspective of being a man in this world and the same goes for women.

    So should men start “Acting like men and Thinking like women”. Dont think so, I a man and i only know how to think like a man.

    That’s the problem with society today, Women want to carry it like men, and Men want to be women.

    Men and Women are built mentally different. Try and carry it like us men and women will really get there feelings hurt.

    Act like a Lady and a Woman and you will find a good respectable Man, as long a he’s given a chance.

    Im a Man, and i stand by it, lol.

  • P

    he should stick to books and leave comedy

  • Rachel

    LOL @ 6am. I don’t know about that alcohol part though. I know my man would definitely agree with you.

  • YoungFlyFlashy

    @ Kigali or whatever your name is

    Why are you talking??? Can you please get off this BLACK website then if it’s all that?? Like now??

  • baraka

    6am, u should come join us @ madenation.com. There are lots of women there who would just eat u up.

  • Real Man

    6am is on point. No need for you women to read the book, all you need to know it right there for free.

  • Roe ski Love -GO STEELERS

    @6am Dude I think your on to something there. Who needs to read Steve’s bullshit book?

  • Juancito

    I agree with him on that support stuff. If I had support from a woman, I’d be good to go! ;)

  • Natasha

    I will buy this book. I think it will be great read!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    6am is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

    Thanks for the compliments.

    I gotta bounce ya’ll, my 6am impersonator/stalker should be here any minute, she’s gonna hate what I typed above because her babydaddies are all locked up.

    Love 6am

  • Talley-B

    6am

    shut the f up……damn, that was some ignorant shit….REAL men stand up..PLEASE!!! thats the problem, there arent any real men anymore, just some pretend ass niggas…..it gets on my nerves…..i listen to steve in the morning, and the man has some valid points that are life-tested…..you Katt Williams groupies need to understand that what steve is talking about is true….but of course, there will be some backlash against myself as well as steve, but later on in life, you will see…..out…….

  • Real Man

    Talley-B

    I agree Steve has some valid points at times, but honestly, telling women to think like men, come on now. Women have needs and Men have needs and 6am is just telling it from a Man’s point of view of what makes up happy. But of course a women wouldnt understand b/c they are not a man.

    Thats just like women trying to tell a man how to be a man.

  • http://bossip Shaunie27

    HE HAS GOOD ADVICE… I THINK THE BOOK WILL BE A SUCCESS!!! ALSO STEVE TELL NEPHEW TOMMY I WANT MY DAYUM MONEY BACK CUZ HE LIKETA PUT ME TA DAYUM SLEEP AT THE STARDOME IN BHAM 2 WKS AGO… CONTACT ME FOR MY ACCT NUMBER…

  • SeptemberChick

    the “three P’s” are real…i’d read it :)

  • Ridingfinest

    So would my husband Rachel. But Steve has a point women. First an formost we must always remain a lady at all times even when we want to go off. If more women thought like a man we as women would have less heartach.

  • PhillyGrownYoungWoman

    mr harvey has an point. women always yap about what they know about men, when they KNOW NOTHING and are sooooo lost. shut up & read ladies.

  • Real Man

    Ridingfinest – “If more women thought like a man we as women would have less heartach”

    But you dont have all the other stress that comes with being a man (for example as a black woman do you fear being shot by the police like they do us black men)……but it seems that this is all about emotions…..Well, if women take time out too get to know someone and give respectable Men a chance then alot of this would be a non-issue.

    Bottom line……….Women trying to act like men is nuthing more than Women playing games…..and when men peep this act he will treat u different and nuthing good is going to come out of it.

    JUST BE YOU AND ONLY YOU. WE GOT GROWN ASS PEOPLE PLAYING GAMES AND THEY DONT EVEN KNOW IT.

  • 2dimplzs

    Steve Harvey need to sit his big lipped, bald headed chrome-dome self down with his garbage book about relationships! Advice coming from a man who has cheated on all of his wives? I think not! All he does is sit on his show yelling at people, rushing them off the phone, his two side kick are his “Mmm-Hmm” choir who laugh at everything that comes out of his mouth and sometimes before he even says anything they are laughing their butts off! I think Tommy is funnier than Steve! Steve is nothing more than a poor excuse of a cheating man who thinks because he has managed to stay married to a woman for 2 years without cheating on her (YET)that it makes him qualified to give women advice. Give me a flippin break!! I too am pissed that they took Doug Banks away for this buffoon! I really started to dislike Steve when he started hating on Bernie Mac publicly because Bernie was getting his paper making movies and having his own show. Then he gets to Bernies funeral and tried to muster up some tears???? Go sit down you a$$ hole and keep your advice for someone whose actually weak minded enough to listen to you!

  • Nancy31

    BOOKS ARE SOLD OUT WTF!!!! I need this book, I’ve been single for way too long and hey this book is worth a shot! Besides if a 52 year old person is dropping knowledge you betta listen…

  • 2dimplzs

    And another thing: Like another poster already said, his so-called “advice” is nothing more than common sense and I’m sure his book is packed full of more garbage! I’m sorry – the man has been married 3 times and cheated on each wife. He is in no position to give me any type of advice! I am a 35 year old woman who has been happily married for 15 years with 4 beautiful children. What turns me off about Steve is how he makes excuses for cheating. He has a reason and a excuse for his actions. He sums it up by saying “That’s what men do.” No the hell it ain’t! There are a lot of faithful men out there who truly love their wives and who love them so much that they wouldn’t hurt them in the worst way they possibly could by cheating on them! Then Steve says “Well it wasn’t her, it was me, but I did love my wife.” Right there Steve doesn’t know the definition of love because if he did he wouldn’t have cheated on ANY of his wives! He’s a dog. He’d go out on the road doing his stand up and would sleep with the first thing(s) that caught his eye. That’s not love. Love would keep you from doing anything to hurt your mate. Love will keep your desires and affections for ONE PERSON ONLY, your MATE! This man is a complete JOKE people. I have zero respect for him or any so-called advice he’s offering. His morning show has to be one of the most irritating shows I’ve ever listened to. Before he came on we had Doug Banks and I LOVE Doug Banks show. Then they got rid of Doug and brought in Steve. I liked Steve for the first year or two, then him and his entire crew started to get on my last nerves with their rudeness and stupidity. I am a loyal listener to the Tom Joyner morning show and will never listen to Steve Harvey again. His ego has taken over his entire show.

  • Make sure yo feet is on that plastic!

    please, what the hell does he know?

  • http://bossip Shaunie27

    THE ADVICE IS COMMON SENSE, BUT YOU HAVE SOME SILLY WOMEN THAT THINK THAT THEY CAN HOLD A MAN DOWN BY USING OR MIS-USING SEX, AND YOU HAVE SOME MEN OUT THERE THAT WILL TELL THEIR MISTRESSES ANYTHING TO PRO-LONG THEM FROM FINALLY STEPPING. IF YOU LISTEN TO HIS SHOW AND THOSE STRAWBWRRY LETTERS AND THE ADVICE HE GIVES IT MAKES A LOTTA SENSE… THIS BOOK IS NOT ABOUT HOW TO GET A MAN, IT’S ADVICE ON HOW NOT TO FALL FOR THESE GAMES THESE CROOKED ASS MEN/AND SILLY WOMEN CAN PLAY.

  • http://dmonarchy.com TY DGAME

    Anyone who falls for Steve Harvey’s new hustle,is a true blind follower.Steve Harvey is a hypocrite on his third marriage,because he was a cheat “as well as other things”.His present wife is on her third one,who’s first to were drug dealers “can anyone say gold-digger,who has no moral compass” and now he wrote a book. Obama is president now,blacks have got to learn support those who truly deserve it.Steve Harvey is weak and that’s why he surrounds himself with weak people.Go ahead suckers,and buy his two faced book.

  • 2dimplzs

    If you need a cheating man to tell you how to avoid cheating men then there is something seriously wrong with YOU and YOUR JUDGMENT! I don’t need a so called reformed cheater telling me what kind of men to avoid because I was taught better by my parents and I have COMMON SENSE of my own! I was able to find a good, decent, faithful man and wonderful father ON MY OWN!! Just because a so-called comedian who happens to be a cheater and knows the mind of cheating men writes a book doesn’t mean that every woman should drop $24 and cop his book and follow his advice! Women need to be smarter and make smarter choices and stop looking to self help books and former cheating men to teach them how to pick a mate! How about you open up a bible and examine your life and what it is in you that is making you make such poor decisions in your life when it comes to choosing a mate??? Wake up women and be smarter!!!

  • http://bossip.com chocolate chip

    Steve Harvey still looks retarded

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Correction, Im sure what I typed above will help the “right” people.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    @ Real man,

    Thanks for understanding exactly what I typed.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Watch out for my impersonator/stalker, see you tomorrow.

  • Tdub

    Oh please 6am is a faggot. All of his animosity against women is because he is gay. No man would waste his time on blogs trashing women unless he does not like the opposite sex. stupid ignorant asshole.

  • gemini620656

    While Steve’s book may be interesting and have valid points, I keep asking myself why do some women feel as though they need a man to instruct them on how to be a woman? If a woman cannot raise a man…wouldn’t it be safe to say that the opposite applies? Just thinkin…

    Maybe some women should get in touch with their own truths and insecurities regarding certain issues and get real with themselves…what do you think?

  • Tdub

    another thing 6am thinks he has fans but he doesn’t he is just a stupid wisecracking knucklehead fag who is his own biggest fan. No one looks forward to your stupid posts. fag nigga. go suck on some more cock!!!

  • jlove

    Steve and Ron Isley are sharing dentures!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    So T-Dub youre my stalker/impersonator? Shame shame shame, whats the matter bossip finally stopped your sh*t and now you had to pick another name?

    Tell me which number on my list pissed you off more?

    Cant gain weight?
    Dumb ass ho’ with nothing important to say?
    Wont lend your broke ass family money?
    Dont give your kids ghetto ass names (t-dub is short for Taquannisha Dummy)

    Are you that broke ass friend who needs a place to stay?
    Is one of your babydaddies actin’ up?
    Cant get into college, not even Jr College?

    To all the men in here, you’ve just seen prime examples of b*tches you should always avoid, let them keep f*ckin’ those thug n*ggas and having their kids. You keep it real with a woman who wants what you want, keeps you happy, can hold a conversation with you without using “kno wha um sayin’, smackin’ gum, you can bring around your family or a work get together and one who’s gonna help you get to where you wanna be” T-Dub and Talley-B (damn they even sound like two broke ass nothing b*tches who’d bother the f*ck outta you at a club)aint what youre looking for………unless youre about to get outta jail!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Thats about to get outta jail and need a place to stay and a dumb b*tch to f*ck!

    Love 6am

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    And Taquannisha Dummy (T-Dub) you shouldnt hate me this much, its unhealthy, at least I spit the truth at your dumb hoorat ass.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    hoodrat, sorry! I gotta stop laughing when i type this sh*t!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    My jump off is here. I have to lube my asshole real good. I need a nice fat dic* before i go to bed. goodnight all

    love 6am

  • Sunshine305

    @ Fake Its6am above,

    Everybody is gone dummy! Fuggin’ idiot

  • leta354

    yeesh – some people need to move around…anyhoo, likes Big Daddy’s book – God never places you where you don’t belong!

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    OOoooo, that nigga got some big teeth.

  • Nancy

    I went to the book signing in Broolyn last night and the like was wrapped around the Barnes and Nobles but it was worth it! I need to find out ” How To Get The “Damn” Ring” LMAO

  • Kesha

    I feeling those 3 P’s…Men need to step it up and I’m glad Steve is initiating it!!! Also do men really value themselves on what he said? If so women are soooooo different lol

  • http://dmonarchy.com TY DGAME

    Let’s start by taking on those who love to cry out ebonics “No one is hating on you!!!!”,I’m calling your ass a hypocrite….period. So please stop whinning and using that other ebonics phraise “playa hater”,to keep getting sympathy from those who don’t like the facts to get in the way of the stars in there eyes.I think your a good comedian and was a fan of your past T.V. show “DGAME POINT” those who can be praised can also be criticized,but it seems someone like your babysitter Rushion Mcdonald,forgot to tell you that. Your the #1 urban radio talk personality on radio today,but only because you surround yourself with paid ass kissers “Heckle and Jeckle and a nepotism nephew”and the reason your boy Rushion blocked me,because I wouldn’t become one. Just like you can comment strongly on your strawberry letters,One can comment just as strong about you. “DGAME POINT” (1).How many times did you cheat on your first wife? (2). How many times did you cheat on your second wife? (3).How many children do you have,and by how many different women? (4).Have you ever neglected any of your children? (5). Did you ever abuse “physical,mental,emotionally” your first or second wife? (6).Did you ever try to cheat “Mary Harvey”with your lawyers help? (7).Is it true that your third and present wife,is on her third marriage,as well? (8).Was your wife “Majorie” first two husbands,both drug dealers? (9).Did Marjorie know they where drug dealers? ………”Of coarse she didn’t” (10).Do you think she fell in love with you,ooooooooor for some other reason?$$$$$……..No,I’m sure it was because you made her laugh.”DGAME POINT” You writing a book telling Black women about Black men,has to be funniest joke you have told In your life.The only men you can speak for is those who have cheated on there first two wives or How to find a woman,who’s cut from the same cloth. Please understand that just because Tyra,Oprah,Banks and others suck-up to you,doesn’t mean others lack in dignity in respect to there profession,”Mine being talk radio”. Steve Harvey made the choices in the paths he took to fame and fortune so stop bitching about those things comming to the light,just because they show you to human. DGAME understands nobody is perfect but the difference between you and I “besides your bank account is larger then mine…..for now” is that I’m good enough to have strong personalities around me,and not overpaid cheerleaders. Oh,I forgot (11). Why did you get rid of jacque ried?,I liked her because I’m still trying to figure out what the hell carla is there for.Congrats on your book,I’m sure it will do well,there are many suckers out there. Finally we have an african american who is President of the United States,at the same time brings a powerful image of pride,dignity,respect,knowledge and class along with his wife Michelle and there two beautiful daughters.It’s time for us in the black community to make a choice in whom we throw our support to,because it says alot about who we really are as individuals. “DGAME POINT” Too all you managers and exc producers out there”Just because they have name recognition,doesn’t mean you have the best product”.We should do the same with big name entertainers as we do with big name food products,that we find out are tainted “remove them from the shelves”. I “DGAME” voted for Obama,and will comment on him openly and honestly,unlike others in urban talk radio.I was raised by a strong and proud single black mother who loved me,but put me in my place when I was messing up and as much as I am proud to be black,sometimes I have to put my people in there place “when they deserve it” in my opinion………again,unlike others in urban media. I don’t deal in “ebonics” or have any desire to learn “nigga-romics” So if I can call out the names and details of pathetic,ignorant people who happen to be white “Limbaugh,Hannity,Ingraham,Coulter,Oreilly” I can and will call out the names of the pathetic,ignorant of those who share my handsome tan…….again,unlike others in the urban media.”DGAME NOTE” To me talk radio is not about “like or dislike” it’s about the debate of strong opinion about whatever or whoever and nobody’s name is to big to be on the list.So to you Steve Harvey and others,”If you have a glass jaw,step aside and make way for real mustle” your boy “Rushion Mcdonald” will tell you that “Ty DGAME” bends over for nobody. There’s no so called hate here for you,nor is there any fear……trust,so stop crying please it’s embarrassing. Anytime, Ty DGAME DMONARCHY”BEHOLDEN TO NO ONE”

  • http://bossip Shaunie27

    @ 2DIMPLZ… UH… SHADDUUP… I DON’T ‘NEED’ ANYONE TO TELL ME ANYTHING… I’M GLAD YOU ARE HAPPY IN YOUR MARRIAGE, I’LL BE MARRIED IN MAY AS WELL THATS HOW IT SHOULD BE… I SIMPLY SAID FOR THOSE WHO CANNOT RECOGNIZE GAME WHEN THEY’RE BEING PLAYED THIS BOOK WOULD BE HELPFUL… SO PLEASE CHILL THE F&%K OUT!!!

  • Krusher Kronkite

    Most of the bloggers are clowinin but I have to agree with Mr. Harvey. The majority of magazines and books out there are for women and by women, attempting to explain how a man thinks. And finally when a brother attempts to explain he is ridiculed. No wonder Asian,Latino,and White Women are enjoying the fruits of your labor lol! Learn to shut up and listen sometimes and you might learn something Jitterbug!

  • Green Grass

    I’d read it

  • yausa

    Men only really need the THREE F’s: Fu*****, Football and Food, and not necessarily in that order. It’s women with the complex emotional needs.

  • Marshabio

    I used to like him.

  • Ro

    I LOVE you, Bam!!

  • Ro

    I read Steve’s book, and the brotha is on point!

    Love this one:
    —The Ninety Day Rule: Ford requires it of its employees. Why don’t women require it of a man?

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