Comments on: Couldn’t Handle the Big Love http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/ Gossip for the Hardcore: Henny Without Any Coke Sat, 21 Nov 2009 23:35:23 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Sho'midamonie! http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-864848 Sho'midamonie! Sat, 21 Feb 2009 11:46:30 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-864848 Cons: 1. Akon having more than one wife is illegal, in US continent and it's territories. (though not in Senegal) 2. Akon not being able to manage his time between his career, his family(-ies), and his active pursuit of new love interests, is a great recipe for bad parenting- lo self-esteem kids. (like Chris rock said daddy's job is keeping lil'daughter off the Stripper pole... but those girls are sure talented-im jus sayin':). and don't forget child support when things go wrong. NYS 1 kid=17% 2 kids=25% ...10kids=no more maseratis! 3. Placing your family in a position of ridicule (in an unaccepting society, ie USA), is an unfair burden to them. U know kids are cruel: " yo daddy got like 20 wives, u must be like kid #93, does he even know your name?" Pros: 1. honesty is the best policy. (most women claim they want open communication with honesty, right?) STDs would theoretically be at a lower risk. 2. everyone is equally entitled, no bastard kids, no mistresses (btw-some west african country actually reversed its ban on polygamy d/t pressure from the married women saying that things were better/more equal with polygamy because with the new law, the mistresses got preferential treatment/more upkeep n attn! (aka more goats in Africa = more gucci bags in USA) 3. having someone else share responsibilities, decreases pressure and demands of maintaining a happy husband. (who wants to be trying to look cute, while cooking, cleaning, givin him top when they are pms'n?) that being said... humans are not animals, right? I mean b/c of our intellect and spirituality etc... but our parts are, that's why a pig's heart can keep you going. men generate sperm everyday (and need to bust, or they'll collect carcinogens in prostate= cancer) women start menarche(menstruation) with 300k eggs n by 35yrs you are running on fumes (downsyndrome risk increases from approx 1:1400 at 25yrs to 1:365 at 35yrs). So Akon should do what makes him and his consenting women happy! Just has to use the right terminology: Wife in africa= Baby mamma in US. TI got 4 Diddy got 3 or 4 Shawn Kemp got 8 or 9 even Larry Bird has like 2 or 3 don't ask about mos def... I'm personnally looking for like 2 or 3 baby momma's myself. but truth be told i'll stick with 1 b/c "it's cheaper to keep her!". most MATURE women (meaning past their glory days of early 20's with dreams of marrying prince charming) would trade in a heart beat good looks for security (financial/emotional). so good looks are not a man's most impt asset, sho'midamonie is! Cons:
1. Akon having more than one wife is illegal, in US continent and it’s territories. (though not in Senegal)
2. Akon not being able to manage his time between his career, his family(-ies), and his active pursuit of new love interests, is a great recipe for bad parenting- lo self-esteem kids. (like Chris rock said daddy’s job is keeping lil’daughter off the Stripper pole… but those girls are sure talented-im jus sayin’:).
and don’t forget child support when things go wrong. NYS 1 kid=17% 2 kids=25% …10kids=no more maseratis!
3. Placing your family in a position of ridicule (in an unaccepting society, ie USA), is an unfair burden to them. U know kids are cruel: ” yo daddy got like 20 wives, u must be like kid #93, does he even know your name?”

Pros:
1. honesty is the best policy. (most women claim they want open communication with honesty, right?) STDs would theoretically be at a lower risk.
2. everyone is equally entitled, no ***** kids, no mistresses (btw-some west african country actually reversed its ban on polygamy d/t pressure from the married women saying that things were better/more equal with polygamy because with the new law, the mistresses got preferential treatment/more upkeep n attn! (aka more goats in Africa = more gucci bags in USA)
3. having someone else share responsibilities, decreases pressure and demands of maintaining a happy husband. (who wants to be trying to look cute, while cooking, cleaning, givin him top when they are pms’n?)

that being said…
humans are not animals, right?
I mean b/c of our intellect and spirituality etc… but our parts are, that’s why a pig’s heart can keep you going.
men generate sperm everyday (and need to bust, or they’ll collect carcinogens in prostate= cancer) women start menarche(menstruation) with 300k eggs n by 35yrs you are running on fumes (downsyndrome risk increases from approx 1:1400 at 25yrs to 1:365 at 35yrs).

So Akon should do what makes him and his consenting women happy! Just has to use the right terminology: Wife in africa= Baby mamma in US.
TI got 4
Diddy got 3 or 4
Shawn Kemp got 8 or 9
even Larry Bird has like 2 or 3
don’t ask about mos def…

I’m personnally looking for like 2 or 3 baby momma’s myself. but truth be told i’ll stick with 1 b/c “it’s cheaper to keep her!”.

most MATURE women (meaning past their glory days of early 20’s with dreams of marrying prince charming) would trade in a heart beat good looks for security (financial/emotional). so good looks are not a man’s most impt *****et,
sho’midamonie is!

]]> By: jamaal http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51388 jamaal Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:40:21 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51388 hey, Akon's polygamie is not about african traditions or stuff like that, it's an Islam thing, God has allowed muslims to have until 5 wives and the propher Mouhammed was an example. Isn't having several wives better than going and cheat? yeah, i think it is better. so ya'll who dont know shut up. and leave him alone with his age, ya americans cheat more about your ages. hey, Akon’s polygamie is not about african traditions or stuff like that, it’s an Islam thing, God has allowed muslims to have until 5 wives and the propher Mouhammed was an example.

Isn’t having several wives better than going and cheat? yeah, i think it is better.

so ya’ll who dont know shut up.

and leave him alone with his age, ya americans cheat more about your ages.

]]> By: jimmybones http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51387 jimmybones Thu, 24 Jan 2008 16:18:41 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51387 For all i care, Mary.J shld b dissing d girl in question & not Akon.She saw it from d front door b4 coming in,how cld she b tinkin' Akon wld stick to her alone? "She is greedy & a Husband snatcher & a schimer" for Akon i feel its his choice,after all no man dictates d era.women can really b stupid!! For all i care, Mary.J shld b dissing d girl in question & not Akon.She saw it from d front door b4 coming in,how cld she b tinkin’ Akon wld stick to her alone? “She is greedy & a Husband *****er & a schimer”

for Akon i feel its his choice,after all no man dictates d era.women can really b stupid!!

]]> By: mbongeni http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51386 mbongeni Wed, 23 Jan 2008 23:45:55 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51386 l grew up wit Rachel n truss me shes anotha gud girl gon bad! shes fuckd whole basketball teams in her lil home town of Brighton (south east england) jus anotha gold digga glad akon fuckd it n dun wit it lol! l grew up wit Rachel n truss me shes anotha gud girl gon bad! shes *****d whole basketball teams in her lil home town of Brighton (south east england) jus anotha gold digga glad akon *****d it n dun wit it lol!

]]> By: Rachelle http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51385 Rachelle Tue, 18 Dec 2007 03:09:17 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51385 To: SS Allure, As you prouldy declare to prefer polygomous relationhips, I hope that you are taking measures to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases such as, for example, HIV... To: SS Allure,

As you prouldy declare to prefer polygomous relationhips, I hope that you are taking measures to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases such as, for example, HIV…

]]> By: I hate sellouts http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51384 I hate sellouts Thu, 29 Nov 2007 20:49:17 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51384 She isn't British, shes from Suriname and can we stop with this slave mentality, we're not on the plantation anymore, light or dark we are all black people, we are all one. So stop playing into what the white racists want, united we stand and divided we fall, come on people wise up man! She isn’t British, shes from Suriname and can we stop with this slave mentality, we’re not on the plantation anymore, light or dark we are all black people, we are all one. So stop playing into what the white racists want, united we stand and divided we fall, come on people wise up man!

]]> By: interracialgirl http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51383 interracialgirl Thu, 29 Nov 2007 09:35:10 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51383 oh, they must be match of interracialsingleonline.com , so many fans are discussing about your hot pics and blogs there, u may need to check it.... oh, they must be match of interracialsingleonline.com , so many fans are discussing about your hot pics and blogs there, u may need to check it….

]]> By: Realistically Speaking http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51382 Realistically Speaking Mon, 12 Nov 2007 20:42:23 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51382 Ummm, how does Nigeria always seem to find it's way into negative depictions, he is not Naija, he's from Sierra Leone or somewhere close to there. Please, leave us out of it, we have enough negative stereotypes to deal with!!! As for the chick....what's the confusion. He has money, has clout. What is he doing that is so wrong? African traditions still stand today, even back then, you couldn't just marry any number of wives because with each one, you had to pay a dowry. Women were bought and sold like the NYSE everyday, no biggie. Now, take P. Diddy for example and Kim, Kobi Bryants wife, look at Hugh Hefner, shoot, look at all the artists/actors/athletes, do they look better than we regular people? No, but when is the last time I had someone try to have my baby on purpose? It's all about the $$$. Akon is not an ugly guy to me. Seal, on the other hand....JEEZ!!! I support what my brother Akon is doing, instead of just sleeping around, he is under the sanctity of marriage...lol. He is just doing his part to balance the scale. You females usually talk about there not being enough men, he is just trying to even out the numbers and give y'all a better chance...YOU SHOULD BE THANKING HIM. Realistiaclly Speaking... ESQ Ummm, how does Nigeria always seem to find it’s way into negative depictions, he is not Naija, he’s from Sierra Leone or somewhere close to there. Please, leave us out of it, we have enough negative stereotypes to deal with!!!

As for the chick….what’s the confusion. He has money, has clout. What is he doing that is so wrong? African traditions still stand today, even back then, you couldn’t just marry any number of wives because with each one, you had to pay a dowry. Women were bought and sold like the NYSE everyday, no biggie. Now, take P. Diddy for example and Kim, Kobi Bryants wife, look at Hugh Hefner, shoot, look at all the artists/actors/athletes, do they look better than we regular people? No, but when is the last time I had someone try to have my baby on purpose? It’s all about the $$$. Akon is not an ugly guy to me. Seal, on the other hand….JEEZ!!! I support what my brother Akon is doing, instead of just sleeping around, he is under the sanctity of marriage…lol. He is just doing his part to balance the scale. You females usually talk about there not being enough men, he is just trying to even out the numbers and give y’all a better chance…YOU SHOULD BE THANKING HIM.

Realistiaclly Speaking…

ESQ

]]> By: holly http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51381 holly Sat, 10 Nov 2007 06:40:46 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51381 First of all. This bitch is trying to get plubicity for her career! She's all over every damn gossip site! If she really loved him, she would not have went public about their relationship. Who even knew who this bitch was before this? She's a stupid hoe!!! Let's see how far this will get her in her career....NOWHERE! First of all. This ***** is trying to get plubicity for her career! She’s all over every damn gossip site! If she really loved him, she would not have went public about their relationship. Who even knew who this ***** was before this? She’s a stupid hoe!!! Let’s see how far this will get her in her career….NOWHERE!

]]> By: fugly http://bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51380 fugly Fri, 09 Nov 2007 19:28:12 +0000 http://www.bossip.com/7926/couldnt-handle-the-big-love/#comment-51380 Gosh i sure hate when people compare humans to animals. That is like comparing a bicycle to an spaceship. We are not animals dummies--animals do not get married, wear diapers, drive, wipe their asses, talk, invent things, and etc. Get a fucking clue you monkey. Gosh i sure hate when people compare humans to animals. That is like comparing a bicycle to an *****eship. We are not animals dummies–animals do not get married, wear diapers, drive, wipe their *****es, talk, invent things, and etc. Get a *****ing clue you monkey.

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