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Happy Birthday to me – oh this is about erykah and another baby – next new news please.

congrats can’t wait to hear the name of this one

Bossip, Ya’ll make me sick,,,You act like the woman got 20 kids…this is her THIRD! Congratulations, Earth Mother Erkyah!

Congratulations to the beautiful soul(s) who chose you as their mother!

Peace, Mumma!

She is so sexy. I was told she is very popular on a Heres site” HerpesLoving. com”

DAG look at how big his hands are! TWITTY MILK are u serious why not just TITTY MILK smdh

3 freakin’ children is not a lot. At least she and the father(s) of these children are in a better position than most to be financially responsible for them! It’s not that I encourage children outside of marriage, but in this day and age, when 70% of black children born are born into single parent homes, why are we attacking someone who is capable of caring for them?

GO GIRL! LOVE’S YA

chile congrats but i must say, twitty milk is border line child abuse…in school she will be called titty milk im most sure of lol

cala

She is so sexy. I was told she is very popular on a Heres site” HerpesLoving. com
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dagggg it like that?!?! LMAO!

…….ZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz…….ZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzz………

I need this to be confirmed because ya’ll make up some shit Bossip. I don’t believe she’d name her baby that.

TWITTY MILK???

You already know they gonna be saying, “Hey…hey titty milk.”

Shame on Erykah. I mean, she’s cool and all musically, but I can’t get with her thought process sometimes.

I hope the name is wrong, but congrats

Badu must got that super duper good good. I like Jay Electronica.. .dude is the best MC out now.. but I hope that goodness Badu got, don’t make him change up like she did to Common, and andre lol

*dead* @ ‘oft used birth canal’.

But yeah…maybe now she’ll get her tubes tied and stop contributing the OOW plight in our community.

I didn’t even read the story b4 posting my first message, which is why I’m posting again to say, WTF @ that name?!?! Seriously…thst has GOT to be a fuggin’ joke. smmfh

I think Twitty Milk is a joke (like titty milk)… I hope that’s not it. I’m waiting to hear this name. To see if this name can beat SEVEN and PUMA… what other name fits with these?

LOL@everyone really thinking she’s naming her child twitty milk. i swear.

Congrats to Ms. Badu!!

May the lord bless her newest addition.

lol, whatever happen to names like Jackie, Monica and Bree.

At first glance her babydaddy looks like the AllState insurance dude.

Lol

Ok I am done

@Purpple:

Hey, you cant put anything past these crazy industry folks. Especially a woman as eccentric as this. I wouldnt put it past her one bit.

@ Purple, you know some people take things way to literal and any one who knows Erykah knows she has a sarcastic dry sense of humor.

“@Purpple:

Hey, you cant put anything past these crazy industry folks. Especially a woman as eccentric as this. I wouldn’t put it past her one bit.”

ok but there’s a difference between eccentric and crazy. Her kids names have deeper meanings so to me twitty milk was an obvious joke but hey, thats just me.

are u Raquel26??? whats going on

“Twitty Milk” is a joke because they were both on their Twitter pages during the whole birthing process. Congrats to them!

“@ Purple, you know some people take things way to literal and any one who knows Erykah knows she has a sarcastic dry sense of humor.”

thank you, i knew i wasn’t the only one who gets Erykah.

@Purpple:

LOL…yeah man. I was trying to put this anime gravie up and I had to re-register cuz I forgot my dayum password. lol

Then, it still aint work, so I’m like F-it. Oh, well…..I cant stand Bossip sometimes. Talking about I cant add a signature and sh_t. Lame.

Whats good though?? Besides…I’m not 26 anymore…lol

No please keep your legs close. That’s going to be really nice to here you tell your children the different daddys they all have. Some far 3 kids by 3 different men it time to “Put a ring on it” or keep you legs CLOSE.

Congrats to Erykah.

@Purp:

True, true. Alot of folks do things for shock value. I thought this could one of ‘em.

congrats ms. badu !!!

LOL…ok Raquel29 i was just checking before i semi-cussed somebody out for biting your name. I cant stand that.

baduizms…erykah badu is my girl…can’t say anything bad about her.

Love her! Congrats Erykah!

@ Purple

No mam your not I have always been a fan of hers 3 babies or one it doesn’t make a difference in her music.

YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Erykah! I love you! I wanna have YOUR baby!

Get it 2gether BOSSIP the D.O.C.is not a WESTCOAST RAPPER hes from the SOUTH which is DALLAS,TX. he use to rap with NWA back in the 90`s.

bossip is horrible, horrible, hates everybody and it ain’t cute. So what Perez does it, thats tacky white (even though he is cuban) folk shit.

@Purp:

I feel you on that too though. I see that alot. But it me!

Dang! I know ya’ll probably dont care but I wont be able to post that much anymore.

My supervisor just told me that I will be filling in for another person that has gotten promoted on my team and that I will be the one to take his position as Senior Agency Specialist!! ALOT more responsibility and MONEY!! I’m excited though because that means I take on more clients (and more issues).

So, this is my farewell…..until I go home and get on the PC.

I think the real issue is her having 3 kids by 3 dads and never been married anyone who says that okay is probably living the way she is. Even if blacks have been for years raised by single parents why voluntarily put your kids through that even if you have the money NOW to take of them?

CONGRATS U OLD CUM BUCKET!

I don’t wanna here any of you bitches complaining about Diddy or any other nigga having babies by multiple groupiehos or other opportunistic golddiggers.

umm maybe you mean hear? not here smarty

I hear you NEVER KNOW.

That is the primary problem in our culture. I don’t care if she does have money. Why do you need to procreate with every man you date?
Its so tacky, why don’t Black people feel their children deserve to be raised in a two parent home? It would really change things in our community if this crap would stop.

3 children. . .3 different fathers. . .No marriage

Good morning

Oh well, to each her own. I still love your music, Erykah.

At least you don’t have 14 kids under the age of 8, no job, and you’re living in your parents’ house. Oh, and this just in, the new babies are being fed DONATED breast milk — which doesn’t sound very appetizing (Eww):

The eight children born Jan. 26 to Nadya Suleman, 33, are in the hospital, breathing unassisted and are being fed donated breast milk, said Kaiser Permanente spokesman Jim Anderson.

Marquis de Sade

Please you are queen bitch number one LOL. I feel sorry for a man who has to result to arguing and bickering w/WOMEN!!!! to fill their day lol. You are very in touch w/your feminine side………

KENNEDY

Who told you that you were a women, nigga bitch?

Congrats Erykah!!! Take your time and take care of that beautiful baby girl (I can only imagine with Erykah the mom) Dont worry about what people have to say about this and that… you do you girl…

LOL@Raquel…dang corporate america takes down another bossiper.LOL

hey Syd, im curious cause ive had this convo before….does random breast milk turn you off more than random cow breast milk, cuz when you really think about it…..

@Candy Girl…HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Cograts to Ms. Budu and I hope she really considers becoming an “honest woman.” I believe she’ll have at least five to seven children (we know she doesn’t believe in even numbers soooo). Even she has to admit…three different children’s father; I’m sure Kigali will have a field day with this post.

lol @ twitty milk
Congrtas, E. Keep it Goddess~

MARQUIS YOUR ACTING LIKE THE NIGGA BYTCH SON!

Hey Purp

To be honest, I’m not as informed about food safety as you, so I can’t really comment on the quality of breast milk vs. cow milk.

I just think the phrase “donated breast milk” doesn’t seem very appealing, lol.

trying to act like all is normal because she snaps in defense of her 3 baby daddy having a#$. smh atcats hitting it raw!

LOL, i hear you Syd. I think Id take almost any womans “clean” breast milk for my baby over cow milk or formula any day.

@Purp

I don’t want any woman’s milk for my baby except mine.

Do you remember that scene in The Hand That Rocks the Cradle when Rebecca de Mornay breastfed the other woman’s baby late at night? That made me cringe.

Twitty Milk??
ahm, okay then!

I feel sorry for those children. Having men running in and out of their home and they momma.

Dudes hand just about covers her whole neck with two fingers. She better not get out of line, he could choke her to death with just two of his fingers. She already looks like she having trouble breathing.

Erykah Badu is a self centered self worshipping idiot who feels she is above and beyond social morality because she is just so dam funky.

Good afternoon!

So, let me get this straight. This is her 3rd child with the 3rd baby daddy? For some reason, I just always thought she was smarter than that. Oh well. To each her own. Long as she’s happy – that’s all that matters – I guess.

But let’s be real here – who needs that kind of chaos, drama and confusion? And the KIDS – lets just hope they ALL get along as they get older.

Still – somehow I just had it in my head that this young lady was smarter than that!

AND, since when is it soooo STRANGE for a woman to give birth NATURALLY – WITH NO PAIN KILLERS?

I don’t understand that. I gave birth to two girls who BOTH weighed in at OVER 8lbs. and I have them both NATURALLY with NO PAIN KILLERS.

Like, what’s the big deal about that? I’m confused!

Yeah – one, maybe two with two different baby daddy’s. BUT THREE!!!

Like I said – let’s just hope the kids ALL continue to grow up loving eachother and not being jealous because one daddy might have done more for HIS own child that how the OTHER two are being treated.

These things DO happen amongst children as they get older. They know whose daddy loves them from whose doesn’t by how they’re treated, etc.

Just because it’s Ms. Badu doesn’t mean it CAN’T happen!

NINA! I WANT SOME OF YOUR TWITTY MILK!!!

MS BADU IS THAT FUNKY, AND GOT A FAT FUNKY AZZ ASWELL!!!

The child name is Mars

Hi Nina, MissBlaze

I’m sorry, but Erykah is now in her 30s, no? She’s not a naive high school/college kid who got knocked up by her boyfriend. She’s a grown woman who is now tied to not one — but three — different men who fathered her children. That’s a lot of individuals to juggle.

It’s not enough to say “there are a lot of women with children with more than one father.” Some of us need to make better choices, if not for us, then for our sons and daughters.

*children by more than one father*

@ Sydndy

Thank you. Hence, I always thought she was SMARTER than that!

*if not for ourselves*

Whew, please pardon the typos

@ KMBPYT

lol, whatever happen to names like Jackie, Monica and Bree.
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That was a good one. LOL

@MissBlaze

Well, I think it goes to show that we can’t use celebrities as our role models. Yeah, Erykah makes beautiful music, but I wouldn’t look to her as a relationship guide. Her situation may work well for her, but I see it as impractical and irresponsible.

I’ll put it this way — if one of my friends or relatives were in similar scenario, I would think she was making poor choices that were avoidable.

*were in a similar scenario*

@sydney,

I understand what your saying. so everybody is playing God now right?! I hear some of you saying two is okay but three is not. If its wrong to have a child with more than one person it should apply regardless if its two, three, four or five. Christians are the very first people to judge people. I’m not saying I totally agree with her decision, but I also dont see how other people are better.

and please dont act like you dont know any people with different daddies. You may be one yourself.

@ Sydney

As would I. In the real world we would deem this a ploy to try and keep / hook a man. You can’t please EVERY damn body and think that you can keep / hook them just because you have his baby.

BB in an hour – ALL MY CHILDREN IS ON! LOL. A show so fitting for this topic. LOL

@Sydney…

Question: Do you know any people that have kids with have diff fathers/mothers? yes or no

@Nina

No, I don’t have any kids, so there aren’t any “daddies” in my life, except the one who created me.

I don’t think anyone is playing “God” or saying that certain situations don’t occur. But there comes a point when we all have to examine our flaws and how certain traits impact our lives and those around us. I happen to think that having a series of children by different men is an avoidable situation — especially for, as I said before, a grown woman who should know better.

It’s not about being better than anyone else — It’s about choices and consequences, IMHO.

@Nina

“Question: Do you know any people that have kids with have diff fathers/mothers? yes or no”

Yes, I do — And out of those I do know, it has been a struggle. The more men you procreate with, the more challenging it can become, IMHO.

@MissBlaze44,

The problem with the modern Western woman is that it is all about her own happiness and everyone, even her children are a distant second. No, it isnt cool as long as she is happy. What about her children? They are going to grow up and know what the hell is going on. It is confusion. It is nihilism, it is amorality but as long as she is happy right?

“Oft used birth canal” you all some judgmental ass bitches! What the hell is wrong with you all! This is a woman a BLACK woman we are talking about here who just brought life into the world. Why you got to be so negative. I swear I don’t know why I still come to this site! Most of the “gossip” site are cruel though so…I would love to see how some of their lives are since they can pass judgement on people so easily! Congrats Ms Badu…now I want my “return of the Ankh” album pronto!!! LOL!

Twitty Milk….interesting….i’m sure she’s joking

Hole up Nina up in here…hey girl

@Nina Knows,

Have you considered sterilization? We dont need people like you to procreate because that will just bring the median IQ of black people way down.

@sydney

All I’m saying is it is judging any way you want to put that. Who is anyone to say she is having a “series” of mistakes, or accetping our flaws. I’m sure she would take offense to that. How do we know she didnt plan each of her babies.

Obama has a sister with a diff dad, but i’m sure thats ok because it was ONE off.

I see no difference between 2 or 3. If you believe in something do it all the way, dont be biased and half assed.

If its wrong to have babies by diff people, cool I can respect that. but I can not respect somebody throwing out what they “think” and feel in society.

I seen a story with the duggar family. This man and woman has 18 kids. they say badu’s kids will be messed up with diff daddies. but you can be messed up with one daddy. I think having too many damn kids can mess your kids up as well. Where her kids may get over attention, having 18 might not grant you enough. but because its one dad and one mom, i guess its ok.

LOL, Syd If it was a situation where another woman had to give my child milk Id prefer that way more as long as she is healthy. Not like some deranged scene in a movie. It makes much more sense than a cow to me.

Wait what are we talking about, Nina dont even talk to Kigali…it’s a waste she’s a brickhead.

@ kigali

What do you use as a basis for amorality? I hope it is not your bible!

I’m sorry kigali I dont indulge in conversations with retarded ass people. The #1 candidate for sterilization is the flith that gave birth to you.

now, back to the topic…..

whut up Purpple… see the madness? smh & lol

THE TOPIC IS …I WANT A HAVE A MENAGE WITH YOU AND PURPPLE!!!

@naisa,

Sorry I dont have a bible but I have about 3 decades of research that states quite consistently that children raised by two parents are healthier, happier, do better in school, dont get involved with crime, drug, alcohol use, and promiscuity like thier counterparts raised by single mother. Is that good enough for you. Its no surprise that prisons are filled with men and women raised by single mothers not Presidential candidates.

This isnt even a black issue. Every race of woman and man on this planet has had and will continue to have kids by diff people. by mistake, accident or planned.

Purpple… yup, after that one comment, she is totally ignored from here on out.

@Purple,

Yes maybe I should go out and have kids by three different men. That wouldnt make me a brickhead ofcourse.

@kigali

You have issues. I am just saying we should have respect. I am not the one to spew hatred about anyone. And I usually do not pass judgement b/c I lead a life where I cannot. But you my dear seem as though you do no wrong and can judge all. I would love to see your life. I am sure it is not as perfect as you pretend to be! And sterilization is not a bad idea, the world is over populated anyway! I have no children and don’t intend to for a long time maybe never…try a different insult!

Another one?

Hey all I know is who am i to judge, Nobody’s situation is perfect or Ideal and i cant say anything negative about babies who are getting fed and taken care of by responsible parents. Just like how people want to judge polygamous households. The world will never be perfect, we will never have every single black family or any race otherwise come out of a what a married household is perceived to be by American society . We just have to have something to say about someone who is taking care of their household on a highly functional level. But that probably from some sort of personal incompetence that we refuse to recognize in ourselves. Sometimes there is just nothing to say when you are functioning on a high level yourself with a certain amount of knowledge and wisdom. Sounds like her situation beats half these lonely dried up women’s sitting around waiting for a ring and a certificate. I think focusing on self brings more positive results and thinking. im just saying, just my opinion, nothing personal twards no1…

KIGALI YOUR PROBLEM IS YOU DONT GET DICK ..FROM NO MUH FUKKA, BYTCH …COME GET SOME BLK DICK FROM YOUR BOI!!!

@Nina

Speaking for myself, I think 18 kids is far too many, particularly in this day and age.

Honestly, if Erykah’s situation was planned (which, indeed, is very likely), that’s worse to me. If you can plan a pregancy, why can’t you plan a wedding? Children are a life-long responsibility, and, to me, they deserve as much stability as possible. Having different fathers come in and out of the home is not stable, IMHO.

@Purp

LOL, I mentioned that movie scene because I think the feeding of one’s child is very personal, and, barring any prohibitive health condition, when I do have a child, I want to nourish him/her myself.

Your a brickhead no matter what you do, lets not talk about the suffrage of your kids with you as a mother….moving on…

@niasia,

I know the difference between right and wrong. I am not perfect. I am not going to give bullshit a pass because the person is black. I expect more from black people, unlike you. I will pass judgement because I am a responsible adult. So allow the responsible adults to run shit while mental adolescents such as yourself can sit and play with your toys.

I dont respect bullshit. Why would you?

SYD YOUR BIOLOGICAL CLOCK IZ TICKING!!! I CAN HELP!!!

@kigali

I think you are Anne Coulture

Bossip is there anyway we can block its IP address for GOOD! I know several people raised by single mothers who are just fine! My first mom was a heroin addict. My adopted family… well dad was a crack addict and an alcoholic. But me well I have a college degree,. my own place, and my own vehicle and NO children! My point is your theory is all Effed up Kigali. I am just fine…and I had the worst type of upbringing. What is your rebuttal to that….shouldn’t I be in prison or strung out somewhere according to your RESEARCH? Stop being judgemental!

Why do I feel like I’m speaking a foreign language?

Are my ideas that antiquated?

@Purple,

Right, no one is perfect. Is that why you black females constantly dog Kim K out? I never hear you guys talking about not judging her and respect her decisions as an adult but Ms. Badu can have children at random and we are supposed to worship at her feet. Aint that some shit.

You black females need to ask Kim K how she managed to supposedly have sex with all those men but stay child free. Instead of dogging her, yall need some advice.

Yeah, congratulations, her third baby with her third baby daddy, way to play into the stereotypes Erykah. Just fabulous.

yeah girl i see and of course i co sign your sentiments. bias and judgment is all it is yet nobody wants to be judged themselves, just the judges.

LOL @ Glok

@syndey..

*sigh* I’m not even gonna go back and forth about this piece of paper we call a marriage certificate. I feel thats the problem with people today, so busy living for other people, scared somebody gonna call you a hoe or call your baby a bastard, they get trapped inside these faux society values.

If getting married would gurantee me a life of bliss, what do you explain of our divorce rate right now. Thats one reason many women are marrying down low men, cheating, having babies by diff men and lying about it… because they keep doing what somebody else wants them to do.. not what their heart is telling them to do.

Sydney

”
Why do I feel like I’m speaking a foreign language?

Are my ideas that antiquated?”

No, they aren’t. They just make too much sense.

yeah girl i see and of course i co sign your sentiments. bias and judgment is all it is yet nobody wants to be judged themselves, just the judges.
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This is the key ingredient of religion, especially christianity. Judge everyone BUT yourself.

girl dont talk to me about what you perceive other “black” women to be doing on a “black centered blog” All that is immaterial to that cia agent bullshit you be tryna kick.

@Sydney

Why do I feel like I’m speaking a foreign language?

Are my ideas that antiquated?

____________________________________________________

Hey girl, no you sound perfectly normal to me, I have the same sentiments…

That’s nice Erykah had a baby girl, but why did she name her daughter Twitter ?

@Nina Knows,

What is your proof that the alternative to procreating without being married is a better situation? The fact is Erykah Badu ISNT going to stay with this man. The divorce rate is 50%; the seperation rate between couples like hers is 80%.

She will be single by 2010. Would you like to bet on it?

“Sounds like her situation beats half these lonely dried up women’s sitting around waiting for a ring and a certificate. I think focusing on self brings more positive results and thinking.”
____________________________________________
EXACTLY! some married people are the most miserable people on earth, alwasy trying to spice up a relationship. If they stopped to think for a min, and got married for the right reasons they wouldnt have these problems.

Nina
girl, if only this blog paid me to go there.
I need compensation.

tomatoes tomotoes Kigali all of your “statistics” sound phucked up, so what you want a apple?

@Nina

I’m not trying to subscribe to anyone else’s doctrine of morality — I have long determined that the path I want for my life is marriage THEN children. This is the model I saw growing up, it’s the model friends and relatives around me have followed, and it’s what I see as most practical for my future children.

A marriage certificate is more than a “piece of paper” — It is a symbol of a commitment.

As far as the divorce rate, I think some people enter marriage with the blinders on, instead of knowing what they want and selecting the right, compatible. It’s a serious life-affecting decision that I don’t intend to take lightly. And if I do marry and my marriage fails, it doesn’t mean that I’m going to give up on the institution or devalue it.

*ignoring the bullshit*

Purp, have you heard what the baby’s name is yet?
(and of course they didnt get the titty milk joke)

@ kigali

You make generalizations and you know it! I don’t know for the life of me why I decided to take an ignoramus up like you today.

Anywho I take no issue with Ms. Badu that is her life. I wish we all could be perfect like Kigali but we can’t…how devastating. I would hate to be your child for real…that is if anyone would dare donate sperm/vagina to you! You are here just to be vitriolic and that is not cool!

@Sydney

@Nina

I’m not trying to subscribe to anyone else’s doctrine of morality — I have long determined that the path I want for my life is marriage THEN children. This is the model I saw growing up, it’s the model friends and relatives around me have followed, and it’s what I see as most practical for my future children.

A marriage certificate is more than a “piece of paper” — It is a symbol of a commitment.

As far as the divorce rate, I think some people enter marriage with the blinders on, instead of knowing what they want and selecting the right, compatible. It’s a serious life-affecting decision that I don’t intend to take lightly. And if I do marry and my marriage fails, it doesn’t mean that I’m going to give up on the institution or devalue it.

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CHUUUUURCH!!!!!

@Marquis
@c from stl

LOL! Just checking. Glad to see I’m not alone.

@Purple,

“Sounds like her situation beats half these lonely dried up women’s sitting around waiting for a ring and a certificate.”

Why not ask her children how happy they are. I bet all those children who have one mommy and one daddy are one million times happier than her children will ever be and their musical chairs baby daddy situation. LOL.

This me me me bullshit needs to stop when you bring children into the world.

*selecting the right, compatible person*

lol..no i haven’t heard of the babies name yest Nina, no word. i wonder…

@Kigali (Jim Crow Laws to keep black men with black women)

@Purple,

“Sounds like her situation beats half these lonely dried up women’s sitting around waiting for a ring and a certificate.”

Why not ask her children how happy they are. I bet all those children who have one mommy and one daddy are one million times happier than her children will ever be and their musical chairs baby daddy situation. LOL.

This me me me bullshit needs to stop when you bring children into the wo
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CHUUUUUUURRRCH!!! (not often though )

Hmm I’m wondering if all the women on this site who state marriage is outdated and just a piece of paper that doesn’t mean anything feel that way because no man is trying to marry them?

ignoring retards “speculations” and “i bets” which are used to fuel an invalid argument aka a dumb thought.

“Hmm I’m wondering if all the women on this site who state marriage is outdated and just a piece of paper that doesn’t mean anything feel that way because no man is trying to marry them?”
********
HMMM, I’m wondering if you could step up your translation of what you think were trying to say cause that ain’t it.

SYD ALWAYS BRING THE TRUTH,KILUGILY, ALWAYS BRING THAT BULLSHIT,NINA AND PURP WONT GIVE UP NO SNATCH…BUT STAY IN AGREEMENT!!

@Glok9n,

All I ask is that you bring the dictionary.

You never hear men sitting around waiting on a woman to marry them, no wonder they run from commitment. Some women dont feel complete until a man marries them. I can see how some men look at marriage like a damn burden.

Marriage should be a spritiual connection, not because you got knocked up, or dont want people talking about you.

Purpple, I would love to know what it is. You know she gonna search for a deep as meaning. I know I love her son’s name… brilliant.

Why when someone talks about the legal aspect of marriage do people turn it into a “marriage is more than a piece of paper” debate

of course marriage is

all i ask is higher thinking, challenge yourself.

@PURPLE- ”

ignoring retards “speculations” and “i bets” which are used to fuel an invalid argument aka a dumb thought.”
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LIKED YOUR POST. GOOD FOR U….

I am happy for Ms. Badu. I would hope that she would settle down but if she is comfortable and happy, with the way things are…Who am I to say anything..I hope she’s happy and healthy…Kids are miracles. I just wish they could all be part of a old-fashiond upbringing….I wish Ms. Badu love, happiness, and continued success…PLUS A FULL TIME FATHER, FOR THE CHILDREN…(I still LOVE your music)…….

@EXOTICA! WE MEN DONT WANT MARRIAGE WE WANT TO SLAY THAT PUNANNY WITHOUT GIVING UP THE LOOT ALL THE TIME, CHEAPER TO KEEPER!,WE REALLY WANT TO TRICK OUR MONEY ON ANY AND EVERY SWEET PIECE OF AZZ WE SEE! TRUTH BE TOLD!

@exotica,

Ofcourse that is the reason. Constructing this rational against marriage is their way of coping with rejection. More and more black women will be saying the same thing in the coming years. 70% of them are single. Black men arent proposing. White men arent proposing, so they must reject marriage because it has rejected them.

Dam, I need to kiss my husband. He saved me from this miserable fate.

@ exotic

Why should we be so priviledged for a MAN to marry us? I swear people it is 2009 who gives a rat’s ass about being married? Some people act like that is all WOMEN want. I want to make money, buy my house, and travel before I have to put up with a man for the rest of my life! Every woman is not pining for a man to just pop the question, some of us got lives to live! And even when I settle down I still won’t be married in the “traditional” sense. Marriage is a religious institution! And I swear I could so do without the pageantry of it! Give me a break! Don’t generalize and get your head out of the 1950′s!!! Not all women just WANT to be married!

@glok9- hey there…sorry udon’t like my comments but they are what they are….Oh well…I see the resident idiot, Kigali/ Marquis is here…

BRB…(in about 15 min)

KILUGILY YOU MARRIED YOUR VIBRATOR BYTCH ..IZ MY EBONICS GETTING BETTER!

LOL at kigali thinking 70% of black women are single. Ask your husband if thats true. lol, seriously.

Just cause he ain’t marry her don’t mean she single, He’ll tell you.

@Marquis De Sade

I don’t wanna here any of you bitches complaining about Diddy or any other nigga having babies by multiple groupiehos or other opportunistic golddiggers.

Marquis de Sade

KENNEDY

Who told you that you were a women, nigga bitch?
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Spoken like a true homo! LOL You are pissed LOL! You act as if I stole your feather boa. Why are you referring to Black women on this board as bitches You low life?

@Glok9n: The real glok !!!

WE MEN DONT WANT MARRIAGE WE WANT TO SLAY THAT PUNANNY WITHOUT GIVING UP THE LOOT ALL THE TIME, CHEAPER TO KEEPER!,WE REALLY WANT TO TRICK OUR MONEY ON ANY AND EVERY SWEET PIECE OF AZZ WE SEE! TRUTH BE TOLD!
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What a disappointment, to hear this coming from you..BUT the truth will set u free…Always good to hear the truth…I’ll be back in a few……

Exactly Nina, Its okay when people want it to be okay or rationalize it for their own minds.

girl kigali is as see through as saran wrap. dont nobody feel like playing with her

Congratulations Erykah.

Children are a blessing. I hope Erykah has found stability is a stable loving relationship, for her sake as well as her childrens. Children need consistency. It is detrimental for children to be raised in a household where the mother is constantly having new affairs with different males. Not only is it confusing, It sets a poor example for the children.

@niasia.. I agree. Plus alot of times they get married and shit changes. I’m sorry but too many women have alternative ass motives.

as soon as he put a ring on it, you get fat, stop giving it up, pushing out all kinds of kids and nagging. Try doing all that shit before he proposes, and see if he still wanna marry your ass.

I’m not saying everybody, because I have seen some nice marriages but most commonly they are what I described. and that’s every race.

just look at them bridezilla bitches… smh

Hi always knew

ALWAYZ KNEW! I NEVER SAID ANYTHING BAD ABOUT NOTHING YOU SAY GORGEOUS…..IF I SKIPPED YOUR COMMENT ILL DOUBLE BACK …SISTAH YOUR BRILLIANCE IS BEYOND COMPARE … YOU ROCK RUFF AND TUFF WITH YOUR BAD SELF …YOU MY SIS AND I LOVE YOU !HURRY BACK !

LMAO@them bridezilla bitches. i be feeling sorry for them men…but most likely he’ll “break out” sooner or later. believe me.

@Kigali

Not true. There are indeed marriage-minded brothers out there. But, in order to attract such men, you have to be “marriage material,” and that includes being a “whole” person on your own, IMHO. I don’t expect a man to bring anything to a relationship that I don’t already have for myself.

I think some (emphasis on “some”) sisters subconsciously believe that a real commitment is something beyond their reach or they are somehow undeserving, so they settle and engage in unhealthy behaviors. And this doesn’t just occur among black women — Women of other races also allow themselves to receive less than they deserve.

The truth is, if you have certain standards and desires for your life, you don’t have to settle for less. You have to value yourself first.

“girl kigali is as see through as saran wrap. dont nobody feel like playing with her”
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LMAO… you right abou that one.

I’m sorry but I see women getting mad that they husband cheat. All they brag about is how they cook & clean, not realizing he can get a maid for that shit. lol & smh

@c from stl

“Very true, but his mom did marry both men. Her and his father divorced quickly after it became known that he already had other wives.”

You took the words out of my mouth.

KILUGILY YOU MARRIED YOUR VIBRATOR BYTCH ..IZ MY EBONICS GETTING BETTER!

LMAO!!

ALWAYZ KNEW WE MEN IM SPEAKING FOR THE ONES I TALK TOO ..THEY ARE NOT SATISFIED BEING MARRIED TO ONE WOMAN…I SAY THAT ON BEHALF OF THE MEN THAT WONT SAY IT…I DONT FEEL THATZ A GOOD THING BUT, REALITY …MARRIAGE IS JOKE TO MOST, BUT TO THOSE THAT FOUND REAL LOVE, I APPLAUD THEM AND MAY GOD BLESS THEM !SORRY FOR THE BLUNTNESS SIS, NO PUN!

Very good point Sydney. You’re right it’s all about standards and what you feel you deserve. I just laugh when women make disparaging remarks and talk about how there are no good black men out there or all the good black men are marrying white women because that’s not true.

I’m black and so is my fiancee and every single one of my black girlfriends is engaged or married to a black man. All of us are educated, self sufficient and have no out of wedlock children. If you conduct yourself like marriage material it isn’t too hard to find a like minded partner.

And to the commitment-minded sisters out there, avoid “men” like the ones Glok just described, lol.

Congratulations. A baby is a blessing.

THAT AINT RIGHT SYDNEY!LOL! !

@exotica

Very good point Sydney. You’re right it’s all about standards and what you feel you deserve. I just laugh when women make disparaging remarks and talk about how there are no good black men out there or all the good black men are marrying white women because that’s not true.

I’m black and so is my fiancee and every single one of my black girlfriends is engaged or married to a black man. All of us are educated, self sufficient and have no out of wedlock children. If you conduct yourself like marriage material it isn’t too hard to find a like minded partner.

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Exactly. Your situation and friends sounds identical to mine. My husband is a black man and all my friends are married to or engaged to black men. All of us were also without children before we married. I only have one girlfriend who is married to a white man and he was the first white man she ever dated. It’s all about how you carry yourself and surrounding yourself with the right people. You have to be the image that you want.

ALWAYZ KNEW! DONT GET ME TWISTED IN THAT GROUP OF MEN, I LOVE MY BOO, AND ONLY HER …LETZ SAY TEMPTATION IS A MUH FUKKA!

@exotica

Well, it goes back to a lesson I learned long ago, if you give out an aura that you are valuable, people will respond in turn. And those who don’t will quickly get out of your way. I’ve heard men say that they can sense desperation or low self-esteem in women.

Carry yourself well and the rest will follow, IMHO.

“Very true, but his mom did marry both men. Her and his father divorced quickly after it became known that he already had other wives.”
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boy, I knew somebody was gonna make an excuse for it. So if she married her kids fathers is ok.. gtfoh. Thats a double standard all day, everday.

So basically if you have it documented on paper its ok… yup, gotcha. has nothing to do with morals or values, more like propoganda, and paperwork.

@Sydney,

Thats the problem isnt it? I just dont see too many black females being marriage material. Who the hell will marry Ms. Badu when she got three kids already? Too many black females just take themselves out of the market with all their baggage.

@ Glok

Marriage may not sound appealing right now, but when you grow older in age and your looks start deteriorating you won’t have that swagger any longer and the ladies will stop calling.

It is not a good feeling when you are 70 years old and alone with no one to care for you in your old age.

VERY CORRECT SYD WE DO THATZ WHY WE STRIKE THEM LIKE PREY…BUT FOR YOU STRONG MINDED SISTAZ,WE APPROACH WITH CAUTION!!! CUZ WE KNOW YOU NOT HAVING THAT SHIT!

Glok, if you don’t mind me asking, you have children, right?

@ TREASURE THATZ UNDERSTOOD,VERY TRUE BY THE WAY, BUT YOU SEE IM A PRETTY BLK NIGGR….MY LOOKS AINT GOING NOWHERE FOR A LONG TIME TO COME ..AND EVEN STILL ILL BE CHASING THEM OL ELDERLY LADIES SKIRTS!!! ITZ CONFIDENCE, PLUS VIAGRA MAY HAVE SOME FUTURISTIC ENHANCEMENTS FOR OL JACKSTEEL HERE!

YES SYD, ONE BOY AND ONE ON THE WAY!!! SAME MOMMA!

@Glok

So, again, if you don’t mind me asking, do you plan to marry her?

@ Glok

lol. I hope so for your sake.

YES, ONE DAY !

@Glok

LOL, what day is that? Before your next child is born?

Let me stop. . .

@Sydney, I agree and I know that marriage isn’t something that everyone needs or desires. I’m just finding it amusing that the same people on here who claim they don’t care about getting married are the same ones who go apeshit every time there’s a Reggie Bush/Kim K thread, so I just don’t understand the contradiction.

and @c from stl: that’s funny your friend married the first white guy she ever dated, I bet she didn’t see that one coming LOL.

NO SYD! WE MUST MEET FIRST, AFTER WE HAVE OUR BOSSIP BABY! ILL ASK YOU TO JOIN US IN A HAND OF MARRIAGE ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY I LOVE A MENAGE AND A LEGAL ONE IS ALL TO THE GOOD!….SYD YOU HEARD OF BIG LOVE !??

If Erykah Badu wants to keep having babies out of wedlock and not take the time to get to know the men who she lays down with to have these babies then let her. Everyone knows that when a people know a woman has multiple babies with multiple men she is classified as a whore. With that being known let Badu continue to be classified as that if it makes her happy.

I’m glad her and the child are doing fine, but please don’t let it be true she named her child Twitty Milk.

@exotica

To me, words are powerful, so the statement “marriage isn’t important to me” is pretty much a rejection of the concept — And I think that can develop into a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I think C from Stl hit it on the head — You have to be the image that you want. If you dwell on negativity, that’s what will surround you.

@Nina Knows

“Very true, but his mom did marry both men. Her and his father divorced quickly after it became known that he already had other wives.”
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boy, I knew somebody was gonna make an excuse for it. So if she married her kids fathers is ok.. gtfoh. Thats a double standard all day, everday.

So basically if you have it documented on paper its ok… yup, gotcha. has nothing to do with morals or values, more like propoganda, and paperwork
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I’m not making an excuse, I’m simply stating that it’s not a good example to use for single motherhood b/c she actually did make the effort to marry both fathers of her children. It’s not about documentation, the documentation is nothing but a mere symbol of two people’s efforts to have stability. If it doesn’t work out then that’s just life, but it’s important to show some type of commitment to something in life which is morally sound.

“So basically if you have it documented on paper its ok… yup, gotcha. has nothing to do with morals or values, more like propaganda, and paperwork.”

girl talking about this is a waste of time

@exotica

and @c from stl: that’s funny your friend married the first white guy she ever dated, I bet she didn’t see that one coming LOL.

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No she didn’t…lol… When she first started dating him she couldn’t believe that she went that route, and then as time went on, he remained consistent in treating her like the queen that she is and they married this past summer. Neither have had any children and they live in a beautiful home together making big moves. It’s all about the mindset of the individual…

LOL @ Glok

Yes, I’ve heard of Big Love, and, no, I don’t believe in polygamy. So thumbs down on that idea, lol.

But please send me a Bossip invitation when you decide (and I hope it’s soon) to marry the mother of your children.

yes she had a beautiful analog girl in a digital world!! Congrats Erykah (ABlaznBeauti from my space=)

SOLOMON HAD OVER THOUSAND WIVES AND CUNCUBINES,WHAT WRONG WITH ME SHARING THE LOVE WITH 3 WIVES!? THEY WILL ALL PERFORM THEIR WIFELY DUTIES!

SYD I’LL PROBALLY MARRY YOU FIRST, PRETTY YOUNG THING!LOL!

@MEAN GURL! WHEN KANYE HAVING ITZ BABY?

@Glok

“SYD I’LL PROBALLY MARRY YOU FIRST, PRETTY YOUNG THING!LOL!”

See, if I were your girlfriend (or whatever the relationship is you have with your children’s mother), I would read that and would receive the wake-up call I so desperately needed.

Black American men seem to be stuck in a chasm of different issues…like the one where, they think like animals, they have to constantly mate and not be responsible for the situations that they cause….Pre-marital sex leads to unplanned pregnancies and or STD’s…Men were born with brains and restraint, not all men stay on that level…Some actually get past what’s in their pants, another sign of not being able to grow up…

Anyhoo, that’s precisely the reason, that I chose to marry someone, from another country, too many underlying issues and stereotypes= American black male lost… I was still able to find EVERYTHING that I required, without all the extra baggage..I love my husband, even more…

PRESIDENT OBAMA also has a Brother from his FATHER’S side. AND he has also stated that meeting his other SYBLINGS and family members that he never knew was very “PAINFUL & TROUBLING” for him.

I don’t know about y’all, but, this IS NOT a good thing.

All this sleeping around – having babies over here with this one and babies over there with that one – but I guess this is what MOTHER EARTH does!

Get Real!!!!!!!

TWITTY MILK???? I LOVE HER VOICE AND ALL, BUT SHE IS WEIRD.

These weren’t text messages, these were message left on Twitter by the couple themselves. If you’re following them on Twitter (of which I am) can you get the updates yourself.

Twitty Milk – Twitty as in Twitter…

Ok….yes, she’s rich; able to take care of herself and kids and all…but will she ever have a husband first??? Why does she PURPOSELY have all of her children born out of wedlock????? We have enough of this going on in the Black community…she should stop setting bad examples for our young people.

@glok9- no offense taken, I already found my diamond…All I see, is men being selfish in regards to their need to have several women..those types usually don’t have time for much else, pursuing different women takes alot of effort and persistence…I am not judging any man that thinks that way, who am I to say that, that it’s wrong or right? They just tend not to get too much done…

I know about the different religions with the various wive, etc…That’s just too weird, to me..Couldn’t picture it and would NEVER agree to a crazy arrangement like that…the woman does not benefit, in that mess and then raising her children alongside the other ‘wives’ children…OMG! Couldn’t do it! Never happen in a thousand years…I’m glad hubby still wants to set a financial goal and then we are completely out of this country..the sooner the better…want to raise the kids way differently than the spoiled way they are now…But hey,whatever works for you, right:)

@Kigali- how did I know that u would be in this thread,of all places?? You didn’t go anywhere near that story of the white lady having 8 kids, unmarried, already filed for bankruptcy and living at her mother’s house…You didn’t even bother to address that, but here we go, with your extra bs towards black women…So many people have told me that you are a white male that works for Bossip and does this ignorant ish, to get the blog numbers higher? WoW! You’r that little, huh?…

SYD! DARLING IM A FLIRT CANT HELP THAT BUT …..WHEN IM WITH A LADY…ESPECIALLY MY KIDZ MOM, I TRY TO KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE LIKE….WERE GONNA MAKE THIS WORK !!! NOTHING LIKE BLK LOVE!

Oh, and another thing – ALL 18 of them babies is by ONE DONAR ONLY!!!!!

*DONOR*

@Glok

No, there’s nothiing like black love.

But if you “love” her and deem her worthy of giving birth to your children, why haven’t you married her?

Just curious.

Nina you here check ur email(totally unrealted to this thread despite what the haters think you are not that important)

@ Always knew

Didn’t you know? Rap Stars and Singers are IMMUNE to catching STD’s or any other diseases for that matter.

ALWAYZ KNEW! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU SIS,YOU STRIKE AS THAT WOMAN THATZ NOT GOING FOR ANY KIND OF BROTHA ANYWAY ..IM NOT MAD ….BUT GLAD YOU FOUND YOUR DIAMOND HOLD ON TO HIM.I HAVE A LOT TO SHARE WITH THE WOMEN,SOMETIMES ITS JUST MIND SEX ..NOTHING PHYSICAL,JUST SOMEONE TO TALK TO.

@Always knew,

Black American (wo)men seem to be stuck in a chasm of different issues…like the one where, they think like animals, they have to constantly mate and not be responsible for the situations that they cause….Pre-marital sex leads to unplanned pregnancies and or STD’s…(Wo)Men were born with brains and restraint, not all (wo)men stay on that level…Some actually get past what’s in their pant(ie)s, another sign of not being able to grow up…

Anyhoo, that’s precisely the reason, that I chose to marry someone, from another country, too many underlying issues and stereotypes= American black (fe)male lost…

I corrected it for you.

@ALWAYS KNEW! YOUR MAN IS FROM THE WEST INDIES..OR AFRICAN!? I KNOW HE BLK!

@kigali- if u aren’t going to answer why you didn’t go out of your way to blog about the white unmarred woman with 14 kids and no husband, I don;t want to talk you. You are not going to get me upset, with your stormfront views…Go head now, quit playing with the grown folks, go play with the little kids that you’re used too…:)

@ SYD! CUZ SHE DONT LIKE THEM OLD SKOOL JAMZ LIKE YOU!!! NOW I WOULDA MARRIED YOU IN A HEARTBEAT!…YOU PLAY ALL MY LOVE MAKING JOINTS ALL THE SONG I LIKE! THATZ WHY SISTAH!

@Sydney

Gosh why you all on the man about why he not married! Why do they need a ring and a peice of paper to “solidify” their relationship? I mean that is all marriage is and a bunch of CHEESY ass pageantry! I swear I hate the pageantry of weddings!

check again

You black females need to ask Kim K how she managed to supposedly have sex with all those men but stay child free. Instead of dogging her, yall need some advice.
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PREACH!!! That is some TRUTH for yo ass right there!

Umm maybe because Kim K. was SMART ENOUGH TO USE SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!

There are SOME of us who actually use BIRTH CONTROL – OR better yet – make THE MAN WRAP THAT SHIT UP!

HOW ‘BOUT THAT!!!!

@niasia

“Gosh why you all on the man about why he not married! Why do they need a ring and a peice of paper to “solidify” their relationship? I mean that is all marriage is and a bunch of CHEESY ass pageantry! I swear I hate the pageantry of weddings!”

If you don’t like the “pageantry” of weddings, there’s an easy way to avoid it — Go to the Justice of the Peace.

I’m directing questions to Glok because having children with a woman may strike some as the “solidification” of a relationship, but until a man formally commits to you, the only thing that’s “solid” is uncertainty, particularly if you keep giving birth to his children with no ring in hand.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

Now THAT’s cheesy.

HOW ABOUT WE DONT KNOW HOW MANY KIDZ KIM ABORTED…WE KNOW SHE CANT HAVE NO NIGGR BABIES HER BULLSHIT CAREER WOULD BE OVER …WE CANT COUNT ON A INJURED PLAYER FOR INCOME CAN WE?!

@Sydney

If you don’t like the “pageantry” of weddings, there’s an easy way to avoid it — Go to the Justice of the Peace.

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And yes, it really is that simple.

@glok9- he’s from the west indies…

The pageantry of weddings — Hmph!

What about the drama of having kids by random men, or getting pregnant repeatedly by a man who has no intentions of marrying you?

Shoot, give me pageantry.

Don’t get me wrong, I congratulate Ms. Badu on her latest addition to her family, I really do, but at the same time, I pray that they grow up to be happy, healthy children who will RESPECT her in what she’s done/doing to those kids.

That’s all….

@WreckLess Driver

You black females need to ask Kim K how she managed to supposedly have sex with all those men but stay child free. Instead of dogging her, yall need some advice.
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PREACH!!! That is some TRUTH for yo ass right there!

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U r wrong for that! I don’t need to ask Kim K. anything. I never had children before marriage. I went to the doctor for check-ups and my annual. In college to the Planned Parenthood (just in case)..I never had a an issue..And not only that there was 2 people that I involved with in college.. I dumped both, they weren’t exciting or smart enough for me….Kim K is a celeb for u,not to me, i don’t look to celebs, for information how -to-live my life. I have my own manual and in charge of my own destiny..

ALL MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO EXERCISE CONTROL, AND GET THEIR LIVES STARTED BEFORE HAVING CHILDREN, THIS WORLD WOULD BE A MUCH BETTER PLACE.IT TAKES 2, NOT JUST THE WOMAN,SO STOP WITH THE BS…

I need another form of entertainment. Bossip is harder on negros than Jim Crow!

WHEN HAZ THE BLK MAN BEEN OBLIGATED TO MARRY THE BLK WOMEN, WE NEVER WERE TAUGHT TO, ,WE FAILED YOU SISTAZ….SHIT I HEAR SISTAZ SAYING FUK THAT NIGGR AFTER I GET THE BABY… HEZ GONE…..I HEARD THAT AND SEEN THAT FROM WOMEN NOT ALL BLK..SOME DONT WANT THE MAN AROUND AND THOSE THAT DO AFTER 2 YRZ…… 911 !!!

@MissBlaze44

Don’t get me wrong, I congratulate Ms. Badu on her latest addition to her family, I really do, but at the same time, I pray that they grow up to be happy, healthy children who will RESPECT her in what she’s done/doing to those kids.

That’s all….

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thank you..ditto…

@ Glok9

What are you talking about? Kim’s first husband was BLACK and she’s already stated that her and Reggie Bush are talking MARRIAGE and that she WANTS TO HAVE HIS BABIES.

Not only that – y’all FAIL TO REALIZE that Kim doesn’t even really HAVE A CAREER. Her CAREER is being EXACTLY what she already is. RICH, Bitch!

She doesn’t CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF HER HAVING REGGIE’S BABIES – BECAUSE THAT IS A NONE ISSUE FOR HER!

LOL@all the imaginary Badu situations, LOL

WELL THOSE ARE THE FRIENDS I SPEAK OF @ALWAYZ KNEW! NOT ALL….ME DONT HANG WITH FOREIGN..I MY SELF IM A BAJAN MAN

@Glok9n: The real glok !!!

WHEN HAZ THE BLK MAN BEEN OBLIGATED TO MARRY THE BLK WOMEN, WE NEVER WERE TAUGHT TO, ,WE FAILED YOU SISTAZ….SHIT I HEAR SISTAZ SAYING FUK THAT NIGGR AFTER I GET THE BABY… HEZ GONE…..I HEARD THAT AND SEEN THAT FROM WOMEN NOT ALL BLK..SOME DONT WANT THE MAN AROUND AND THOSE THAT DO AFTER 2 YRZ…… 911 !!!

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Honestly ALL (and I do mean all) the problems with black america TODAY can be traced back to the era after mlk and malcolm x died and the black panther party folded, but it’s not worth getting into the discussion about it on this thread. Just IMO.

@Always knew,

A woman having 14 kids by artificial insemination is VERY rare. It is the norm for black females to pick niggas name out of a hat and make a kid with them.

Well ill tell yall this, Erykah has spread a lot of wisdom and Im not aware of her talking explicit sex talk on the internet or writing pornographic books. Maybe she has too much on her hands and good men in her life to have to manifest her sexuality that way.

@ Glock9

You are CLUELESS to who Kim Kardashian, and who her PARENTS are. Kim K. and her LITTLE SISTERS have more money than Reggie Bush!

Yeah, look it up, Homey!!!!!

@WHEN HAZ THE BLK MAN BEEN OBLIGATED TO MARRY THE BLK WOMEN, WE NEVER WERE TAUGHT TO, ,WE FAILED YOU SISTAZ….SHIT I HEAR SISTAZ SAYING FUK THAT NIGGR AFTER I GET THE BABY… HEZ GONE…..I HEARD THAT AND SEEN THAT FROM WOMEN NOT ALL BLK..SOME DONT WANT THE MAN AROUND AND THOSE THAT DO AFTER 2 YRZ…… 911 !!!

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That’s true! I neve wanted kids before I got married. Then after I got married, I thought, I really don’t NEED him to be there, but I love him being there, he gives me my space when I need it..I adore and love him. I take my vows seriously…But, if we ever did divorce or split up, I would still only have children with him. I would never change the blood line. ( Yeah, even if we split, only 1 father) I couldn’t and wouldn’t do that to my kids. They would definitely ask, they already ask the craziest things:)

hubby always says we are going to end up like ossie and rubydee, (never split up)…I certainly hope the fates allow…

MISS BLAZE!!! ALL KIM K MEN WERE BLK I THINK AND DONT CARE …SHE KEEPS THAT MAN HAPPY….AND LOVES THE SHIT OUTTA HIM! BLK WOMEN, SOME BLK WOMEN WOULDNT GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY…..SHE LOVE HER CHOC, LOL! BLK WOMEN NEED TO EXPRESS THAT SAME LOVE ! THATZ ALL SIS!

WTF Black men have always valued marrying black women EVEN IF THE MARRIAGE WASN’T LEGAL

yall ignorant muthaphuckas need to read a book or 575

@MissBlaz44,

I bet if you go into Ms Badu bathroom her towel rack got Hers, His, His, His, monogrammed towels hanging.

ALWAYZ KNEW!!! SIS I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT LONG EVERLASTING LOVE!REAL TALK, YOU AND YOUR LIL BOYZ DESERVE THAT!!!

@ Purple

Let her have another baby – or two – and tell me she won’t need A LIST to keep track of whose daddy is coming and when.

Tell me that shit won’t get confusing for a Sistah after awhile? Tell me it won’t, I dare you to even try! LOL

at least the chile has seen a monogram towel in her life, im sure you’ve only heard about it. So is your beef not being married or having 3 daddies that take care of their kids. Your life’s phucked up so youll take whatever you can get huh.

@ sydney

We are going to have to agree to disagree. I am not religuous at all and I do not favor the institution of marriage because it is all about religion and in my humble opinion it is very male biased. Especially with the traditional vows! So don’t come at me with the old black lady sayings and all. That wont work. To each its own and I stand by that. But some people on this blog do not believe that. Every person on this earth will operate differently than yourself. It is not your place to judge them. Everyone does not want to get married. You do not have to be married to have a healthy relationship. Just look at the divorce rate. Just don’t place your values onto other people! Erykah may not want to get married. Glok 9n might not want to get married why can’t you accept that without judgement? And their children do not have to grow up to be aweful like you say…some of the worst people I know have two parent who are married. So it is not all it is cracked up to be. Anf if you think a RING will keep a man…well then honey you are sadly mistaken. I hope you have or get your RING honey cuz we know they SOLIDIFY like nothing else!

@ Purple

Let her have another baby – or two – and tell me she won’t need A LIST to keep track of whose daddy is coming and when.

Tell me that shit won’t get confusing for a Sistah after awhile? Tell me it won’t, I dare you to even try! LOL
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c’mon Missblaze you are exaggerating

bet you this, she wont need a list to keep track of her bank account or her child’s bright future’s

THE BLK MAN FROM SLAVERY WAS ONLY TAUGHT TO BREED WITH BLK WOMEN!!! YOU READ DUMMY!….WE NEVER WERE TAUGHT TO LOVE YOU AND PROTECT YOU IN THIS COUNTRY AND WHEN WE DID, THE GOVERMENT FOUND A WAY TO DESTROY THE BLK FAMILY UNIT AND THEBLK MAN WAS FORCED TO LEAVE!!! THESE ARE CURSES!!!

Ironically ‘Tyrone’ is playing on my Yahoo! LaunchCast station…lol

“I am not religious at all and I do not favor the institution of marriage because it is all about religion and in my humble opinion it is very male biased.”

this is the basis of the debate at hand. Nobody needs someone to legally bind them together to be married, successful or happy. fact. anything else is semantics.

@ always knew

They are the PERFECT EXAMPLE of what ALL marriages should be. ‘TIL DEATH DO US PART – and that is the only reason why Ruby Dee is no longer with her husband – BECAUSE through DEATH did they part!

@Purple,

I have a husband, I have stability. I will not be having random men up in my house. My children deserve better. The values my marriage, my commitment, my loyalty will teach my children, money cant buy.

You cant out smart me ho. Stop trying.

@kigali-”A woman having 14 kids by artificial insemination is VERY rare. It is the norm for black females to pick niggas name out of a hat and make a kid with them.”
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I don’t know anyone like that..You need to stop lying so much…Your audience is getting smaller by the second….Black women fall in love and have children with those same men. We can’t help if he choose not to be there, or changes his mind…That’s not our fault, that SOME men run out on their kids…There are more white Americans than there are black families, Period. There are more whote folks on welfare than there are blacks. You’re damn right, it’s not a phenomenon, they do it every day!! Nobody says a damn thing to them though! Jon and Kate, some other free loading white folks, having umpteen kids to get a FREE ride. Give me a break! GTFOH! you are such a LOSER! (with a capital L) why are u talking to me? you know I hate u. I wish everyday that you would disappear and NEVER return..What kind of white guy works at a jewish company running a website aut blacks, while working stormfront duties?? How’s the P.H.D. from the community college coming along?

@ always knew

You know – it’s funny how nobody has done an EXCLUSIVE on Ruby Dee and Ossie Davis – there’s was A GREAT LOVE AFFAIR.

Why doesn’t BET do a SPECIAL on THAT?

KILUGLY!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING LIAR BUT A DOG AND A DILDO, AND NEITHER ONE OF THEM WILL FUK YOU, YOU SNOBBY HO!!! WHAT MAN CAN HAVE SEX WITH A 24/7 AZZ BLOGGER BYTCH LIKE YOU! GO FUK OFF LOSER!

Its funny you think this is a competition of intellect and somehow I am your toughest competitor or challenge kigali, but I outsmarted you a long time ago…as can be exampled by you still thinking you haven’t been outsmarted

Just because you say you have a husband and your situation is stable doesn’t make it the truth. I don’t know your life and your shyt could be hanging off a cliff like the thoughts you type. The same way Erykah would probably say her shyt is stable you wouldn’t take her for her word either im sure.
….and you haven’t been outsmarted…yeah only in a dummies eyes.

if only i had to try…some new bloggers get on so i actually do have to try…i welcome the challenge

@ Purple

BRIGHT FUTURES? Let’s hope so my dear. There are stars whose money stretches WAYYYY LONGER than Ms. Badu’s whose children HAVE COMMITTED SUICIDE.

So please – spare me THAT BULLSHIT about the money she has because IT DON’T MEAN SHIT!!!

Let’s hope she can INSTILL LOVE into them instead of trying to sooth them with MONEY because HER ASS AIN’T AROUND when THEY NEED HER.

THAT’S what will be important – NOT HER MONEY!!!!

@Kigali

Your husband is probably banging someone right now other than you. you could be headed for divorce in a flash and never saw it coming and then you would be a single mother trying to make it. Nothing is ever solid! Especially something like a “marriage” shoot they cheat ALL the TIME! Just be prpared for the unexpected honey! Nothing is solid. Know that! If you are anything like you are in cyberspace in real life you should not talk too fast for real!

@niasia

Yes, we will have to agree to disagree because I have, do, and will always respect the institution of marriage.

Also, a couple may choose to alter their vows for their wedding — People do it all the time.

You say a ring won’t keep a man — I say it’s a symbol of commitment. Bearing a man’s child/children surely won’t guarantee his presence, as we see evidence of all around us.

As for the “old black lady sayings,” our elders have lived longer and have amassed more knowledge than us, so, frankly, I find those sayings very useful and very true to life.

damn eryka badu is soo uglyyyy!!

@glok9-”THE BLK MAN FROM SLAVERY WAS ONLY TAUGHT TO BREED WITH BLK WOMEN!!! YOU READ DUMMY!….WE NEVER WERE TAUGHT TO LOVE YOU AND PROTECT YOU IN THIS COUNTRY AND WHEN WE DID, THE GOVERMENT FOUND A WAY TO DESTROY THE BLK FAMILY UNIT AND THEBLK MAN WAS FORCED TO LEAVE!!! THESE ARE CURSES!!!”
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true, but you need someone to feed into your brainwashing in order to become a victim, most black males have chosen not to leave the plantation…Lusting after the white man’s woman, screwing anything and everything that comes their way, then doesn’t want to deal with the consequences..Blk men didn’t have to leave..Some just chose too…And to this very day, we are still wearing those scars…I often read blogs pf blk men exclaiming their love for these women and my heart fills with pain for the legions of blk women, who wait in vain for a prince that is not coming…they have been brainwashed and just don’t care anymore..they are complicit in their own demise/ which is tied to our blk female) demise…
It’s a vicious cycle that has claimed too may blk men. Then those same kids grow up affected and repeat the same cycle..It never ends..It really is stability and the commitment to do the thing together…I hope that more bros and sisters get married, for the right reasons…I hope that we as women, stop having children, with no commitment..was never acceptable, maybe in some places ,but that was always frowned upon, where I am from….You have to ultimately decide which path, you will choose…You are responsible for you and your seeds..Nobody should have to make you or chase you. I would NEVER give a man the satisfaction of chasing him or tking him to a white man’s court, so they can further dvide my family and decide what’s ‘right’….

I hope the damage can be repaired, but I really doubt it- when you talk the whole of America–…
I’m really hoping that Barack and Michelle started a new ‘trend’ the blk man gong back to his home, where he belongs:)!..

@niasia,

Youre an intellectual midget. Why are all these college educated black females so stupid? Its like they dont know how to crunch numbers. LAst question, what happened to the other two niggahs Ms. Badu was with? Yeah, I only been married once. She is on her third shack up.

Bye.

“@ Purple

BRIGHT FUTURES? Let’s hope so my dear. There are stars whose money stretches WAYYYY LONGER than Ms. Badu’s whose children HAVE COMMITTED SUICIDE.”

ok so thanks for helping me not bullshyt and add to the point that neither money nor marriage means you will be successful, neither one. Im sure married people be at them “i lost my kid to whatever” meeting to, u missed the point about money ….it gives you a head start or advantage, just like ur saying marriage does. get it now?

@ PURPLE

I’m sorry, Purple, your “intellect” might be on point with SOME blogs – BUT YOU SOUND LIKE AN ASS REGARDING THAT “Bright Future” comment.

You can’t REPLACE LOVE WITH MONEY. That’s the same problem most of those OTHER RICH folk had with their kids. UNTIL THEY COMMITTED SUICIDE!!

BRIGHT FUTURES? Let’s hope so my dear. There are stars whose money stretches WAYYYY LONGER than Ms. Badu’s whose children HAVE COMMITTED SUICIDE.

So please – spare me THAT BULLSHIT about the money she has because IT DON’T MEAN SHIT!!!

Let’s hope she can INSTILL LOVE into them instead of trying to sooth them with MONEY because HER ASS AIN’T AROUND when THEY NEED HER.

THAT’S what will be important – NOT HER MONEY!!!!

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This entire comment was ……. STUPID

good ass points miss

Poor Jay Electronica. He’s been voo doo’d.

Keep bringing beauty and love in to the world. You don’t have to have a marriage to have a loving family!!

And PUL-EASE – don’t tell me BLACK kids don’t commit suicide, okay.

Like I said there are some people whose children have done it whose money goes wayyyy further than Ms. Badu can EVER dream – yet they couldn’t take not having the love of their parent. HAD ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD FOR THEIR OH SO BRIGHT FUTURE – but still DIDN’T HAVE LOVE FROM THE PARENTS.

I see you in a totally differen’t light – you and your “intellect”.

*ROLLING MY DAMN EYES*

kirby

This entire comment was ……. STUPID
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Nina truly, now im saying that money replaces love, and obviously this love must be equated with legal marriage assuming all legal marriages are based in this so called “love” missblaze refers too

i sound like an ass but you cannot understand the bigger picture and the point of my comment.

communication is everything

And PUL-EASE – don’t tell me BLACK kids don’t commit suicide, okay.
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nope, weak ass black kids do,that probably hung around white kids.

@@niasia

Yes, we will have to agree to disagree because I have, do, and will always respect the institution of marriage.

Also, a couple may choose to alter their vows for their wedding — People do it all the time.

You say a ring won’t keep a man — I say it’s a symbol of commitment. Bearing a man’s child/children surely won’t guarantee his presence, as we see evidence of all around us.

As for the “old black lady sayings,” our elders have lived longer and have amassed more knowledge than us, so, frankly, I find those sayings very useful and very true to life.

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I have always felt that you should only listen to advice about relationships and marriage from elders, b/c they are the ones who have weathered the storm of life and can tell you about all the ups and downs they had to endure to make it to their happy ending. even if they didn’t have a fairy tale ending, they still know waaaaayyyy more about life in general than women our age or younger. I had a friend that said he only listens to relationship advice from old married women…lol

That message was for Sydney

Kigali as usual go a head and turn this into your delusional statistics of “most black females”

anybody with a brain knows you talk out ur arse and that someone put the hoodoo on you and cursed you with the spirit of Margaret Sanger.

I rebuke you.

What’s strange to me is – YOU’VE NEVER EVEN SEEN A PICTURE OF THIS WOMAN WITH NEITHER ONE OF HER KIDS.

Maybe the Paparazzi don’t deam her as “STAR QUALITY” to follow her around for a picture – but DAMN. At least you SEE Kimora with her kids SOME DAMN TIME.

And maybe she (Ms. Badu) can be a homebody, MOTHER EARTH who stays home behind the walls with her kids – home-schooling them, nurturing them, 24/7!

God, I sure hope so.

Peace out, y’all.

I’ll holla!!!!

romance without finance is a NUISANCE.

love is very important, but you can love your kids to death, if you cant provide for them, they WILL BE a ward of the state.

Purp, you know I get where you coming from.

@MissBlaze please stop it honey, I just put your little flame out. and yes I do know it all… hince the name. Thanks!

lol..i can count on you to clear shyt up thats for sure Nina

@ALWAYZ KNEW! KICK THAT SHIT SISTER WAKEM UP!…..THATZ WHY WE ARE IN THESE CONDITIONS WE DONT LOVE EACH OTHER AS A RACE…SO HOW CAN WE(AS A WHOLE) LOVE THE MARRIAGE LIFE….SOME OF DONT VALUE THAT BOND!!! WE LOST OUR SPIRITUALITY IN SLAVERY!!! CURSES!

Hi Kirby

@c from stl

“I have always felt that you should only listen to advice about relationships and marriage from elders, b/c they are the ones who have weathered the storm of life and can tell you about all the ups and downs they had to endure to make it to their happy ending.”

Yes, I concur. And they have the time to sit down with you and give you great advice. It comes from personal experience.

@Nina

“nope, weak ass black kids do,that probably hung around white kids.”

Nina! Are you serious?

What’s strange to me is – YOU’VE NEVER EVEN SEEN A PICTURE OF THIS WOMAN WITH NEITHER ONE OF HER KIDS.

Maybe the Paparazzi don’t deam her as “STAR QUALITY” to follow her around for a picture – but DAMN. At least you SEE Kimora with her kids SOME DAMN TIME.

And maybe she (Ms. Badu) can be a homebody, MOTHER EARTH who stays home behind the walls with her kids – home-schooling them, nurturing them, 24/7!

God, I sure hope so.

Peace out, y’all.

I’ll holla!!!!
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another STUPID ass comment, you on a roll today.

oh so now, because YOU dont see here with her kids… she’s never with them. since when Erykah Badu had to report herself to you.

and FYI, she drops her kids off at school every morning, dumb ass broad. Her house has a studio in it, and she takes her kids on tour with her because she can AFFORD a nanny.

you can keep trying, but you aint ready boo.

@Purple,

So very typical. Last time I checked money doesnt raise kids. Money isnt going to keep your kids for staying off drugs, having unsuccessful relationships, staying away form violence, or alcohol abuse or teen pregnancy. Money doesnt immune you to those things. However growing up in stable environments will reduce the likelihood. If you have a problem with my statistics, you can always refute what I am saying. Since you havent, I know you cant. Its a lot easier to make personal comments than it is to deal with facts.

Its why I cant debate with females. Too caught up with feelings and not facts. Its not wonder you guys dont do the hard sciences.

SYDNEY ARE YOU BIRACIAL?… YOU DONT HAVE TO ANSWER IF THAT OFFENDS YOU!!!

@Glok

“SYDNEY ARE YOU BIRACIAL?… YOU DONT HAVE TO ANSWER IF THAT OFFENDS YOU!!!”

LMAO, no, brother, I’m not biracial — both my parents are black. Why do you ask that?

Purpple

whats funny is they’ll say Kimora isnt black enough when they wanna dog black women. But give Kim K a pass by excusing the fact that bitch is white, the whole white and nothing but the white.

@sydney..

Yes, Im serious. would you like to hear my thoughts on suicide?

Kigali be clear
Ive refuted your statistics and “facts” many times before and disproved them, anyone here who was present should recall, shyt if you have time on your hands the threads with the comments are still there…refer to my comment to missblaze if you want to lead astray on a “money dont raise kids” tangent.

I dont have any feelings about your situation it is what it is and that’s fact. Everything that you type is a representation of you and your personal life so you dont have to admit but im well aware of it.

Correction, it’s not that you can’t debate females, but you can’t debate opinions that’s the problem. If you stop worrying about being outsmarted on bossip maybe you could catch up with me Nina and maybe 1 or 2 others and understand the hard sciences you lack understanding of. Everything in life is levels. Your level is very apparent to the levels above you.

LOL! JUST ASKING….I SAY A LOT OF THINGZ THAT OFFEND MY BIRACIAL SISTERS! WOW! IM TOTALLY IMPRESSED! IM LOOKING FOR A WOMAN LIKE YOU AND @ALWAYZ KNEW THEN I’LL MARRY SHE!!!

How about you get married 3 times and have children with each men? Is it still immoral! or do you have to stop having kids after the first marriage?! I absolute LOOOOOOOVE Erykah and I cant say that i agree with her lifestyle but she is obviously not living under the same morals and concepts as us! SHe is a hippy! I heard that she homeschool her kids too? I mean, I don’t know how she manages that but I know i would have loved to have a funky mother like her! Mine is cool but she is so into the christianism morality stuff! I love my mother!! i just wish she would be less chocked by us young people LOL!

“black bytch” should be in quotes because Kigali’s blackness has not been verified and is definitely in question.

“another STUPID ass comment, you on a roll today.

oh so now, because YOU dont see here with her kids… she’s never with them. since when Erykah Badu had to report herself to you.

and FYI, she drops her kids off at school every morning, dumb ass broad. Her house has a studio in it, and she takes her kids on tour with her because she can AFFORD a nanny.

you can keep trying, but you aint ready boo.”

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LMAO, make a note that you can never just say random shyt and expect it to fly with everyone

@Nina

“Yes, Im serious. would you like to hear my thoughts on suicide?”

Sure — I’m surprised by your statement. There have been recent writings on rising depression, suicides, and other psychological disorders among young blacks, and not all of them live in predominantly white areas, or associate primarily with whites.

In fact, I think a number of brothers and sisters suffer from some sort of mental illness for which they never receive treatment.

I want to hear your thoughts on Suicide Nina, agree or disagree im intellectual enough to respect another’s point of view…

isn’t that all life is anyway…a point of view

ok ima shut up for yall really hate my spectacular

@Glok

“IM LOOKING FOR A WOMAN LIKE YOU AND @ALWAYZ KNEW THEN I’LL MARRY SHE!!!”

I’m sorry, I don’t mean to belabor the point (I sound like Katie Couric, lol), but what about the mother of your children?

I’m not even sure if i have thoughts on suicide other than that cliff thing i talked about but yall may spark some thoughts to arise…

In which world are you living! With the rate of divorce, re-marriage, re-composed families etc…, we should forget about the “i met my husband, we have kids and we are gonna die together”. Look at the men talking on Bossip. The new generation is not going to stay with a woman all his life! AT some point, they would want to “upgrade” for a younger bitch! Same for US women! SO what! I want to get married and have kids with a man i would love from all my heart and die with him but life is just something else! I personnally think we are not meant to live our life with the same partner! Unless you are lucky enough to find your soul mate but I think most of us never meet him/her but we can love someone and try to build something but we all know it might not last. Just like lately, I heard some people are buying houses even though they are not even married?! Sometimes I wonder what people are thinking but hey, you gotta live your life and enjoy the moment! What can i say?!

And no matter how rich you are, know that money alone, doesn’t make ANYONE happy. Money solve temporary situations. It doesn’t provide you with the real things that you need. There is a huge difference….Money doesn’t give you a hug, when you need one, money doesn’t go on trips with you, be there for you, that’s why u have so many fake relationships, people using other people ‘just for money’

Money is what u make of it. i like nice things but I have learned the hard way. I don’ love anything. My love and real value is in the people that I have around me, my advisors, my teachers, my relationships with family. the stuff that can’t be bought at any store. The auntie that puts you in your place. That uncle you never grew out of playing with, basketball and the cousins that you played with and close too…That’s the real value and if you hve no one to share it with, you’re usually even more messed up….(Just an observation)

At one of my fav dinner spots, Benihana, we were sitted at my reg table, I requested my personal chef, he came out and then another big wig came in and they seated him at our table. I was pissed,because I NEVER share our table with anyone. I buy out the seats, so that we cabn hav pivacy and not have anyone in our faces,except the wait staff..this white guy comes in, they seat him at our table…we order,we all eat..my hubby starts talking to the guy, they go into a long conversation, hubby picks up white man, as an investor in one of his projects, white man lonely wanting to have dinner with us. Bills came, hubby went to pay, white man pick up tab and asks us to come on his ‘boat’ the next day…to this day he and hubby are good friends, me no so much, I don;t socialize with people I don’t know..Money is onya tool used to help you and those u love.To make their lives comfortable. It in no way gives you what u need. That comes from within…That’s why u hear about rich recluses all the time, they loved money but nothing else, and had noone else…just money…

@Purp

What’s with the cliff image? lol

Sounds like Thelma and Louise.

@ Christie’s secrets

You said it correctly honey. Erykah operates differently than most. Why these people feel the need to apply their morals to her is beyond me. They must not listen to her music b/c if they did they would know she is VERY different. In her song “Me” she sings…I USED to pray to god above! She is not on the same level as some on here! So let it go! And most of you all so up in arms about her not being married are that way b/c of your RELIGION. You can take that religon and shove for all I care! Every one doesn’t believe in christianity! And for the life of me I can’t understand why blacks are so into it…It was passed on from the SLAVE MASTER!

HEY SYD! SHEZ A GOOD WOMAN,LOVE HER AZZ TO DEATH …BUT SHE DONT STIMULATE MY MIND WITH BLK ISSUES SHE ALWAYS GOES UP AGAINST ME WHEN IM RIGHT..I LOVE HER CHALLENGING ME BUT SOMETIMES ITS UNCALLED FOR….YOU GUYZ SEEM UP ON THINGZ, I ASK HER ABOUT SIMPLE THINGS JUST TO SHARE QUALITY TIME… SHE LIKE FUK OFF WITH THAT SHIT!

Also Disclaimer(specifically for Kigali)

I already told that you are on my hitlist. You cannot disrespect Black women, females, girls or however you want to excuse it and not be disrespecting me. Now some of these other black women may let that fly but you know you are like the modern day slave master’s wife and all Id holla if i see you would be “off with your head”

You will have problems with me all day everyday on bossip and anywhere else because I will ride for black women and men the same, black women, girls, females, boys, men, adolescent whatever you want to call it.

Unemotially I will continue to smash you.

Sydney where everybody be saying if they could choose the way they die. I never had no way in mind id choose to go but falling off a cliff may be it, i dont know it was just babble in one of the post the other day

@Glok

“HEY SYD! SHEZ A GOOD WOMAN,LOVE HER AZZ TO DEATH …BUT SHE DONT STIMULATE MY MIND WITH BLK ISSUES SHE ALWAYS GOES UP AGAINST ME WHEN IM RIGHT..I LOVE HER CHALLENGING ME BUT SOMETIMES ITS UNCALLED FOR”

But you CHOOSE to stay with her and to have her give birth to your children. So she may not have a grasp of black issues or whatever, but you made the decision to keep her in your life and to take on the most important role of being the mother of your children.

@Christie’s secrets (Barack is with michelle, so “who’s gonna save my soul now?”)

In which world are you living! With the rate of divorce, re-marriage, re-composed families etc…, we should forget about the “i met my husband, we have kids and we are gonna die together”. Look at the men talking on Bossip. The new generation is not going to stay with a woman all his life! AT some point, they would want to “upgrade” for a younger bitch! Same for US women! SO what! I want to get married and have kids with a man i would love from all my heart and die with him but life is just something else!
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My parents were married for over 30 years, before my father died. If he was alive, they would stil be together..Same with hubby’s parents…And I hope the same with me…hy wouldn’t you want to grow old together? Why would you be afrid to get old? Just as you were born, surely you will die..

I would like to have a companion (hopefully my hubby) that knows all my quirks, likes, dislikes, etc, that familiarity, that comes along with the closeness of 2 indviduals) that would care for me and vice versa until, it’s time to leave….Why wouldn’t you want a relationship, like that? That’s the way I was raised. I am old-fashioned, I know it. That’s just the way I live, maybe yours is much different.If u are happy, I ;m happy for u..I just see this as a continuation of issues that our community needs to deal with at large..At least change the way of thinking, in regards to children, because that’s exactly why u have so many messed up adults…this is just my own opinion..I am not dictating or suggesting that this is what your life should look like. This is what I know. Not a diss or slam,to anyone…just the way things are done, around my way…BTW: I will be 36, in June…

@ Purple

Damn momma you goin hard aint you? LOLOLOL!!! Kigali aint even worth it for real!

naw niasia kigali aint worth it all you are def right about that.

@HANNIBAL-

Aren’t you late for your Klan meeting?

And Bossip, ya’ll are some assholes for these descriptions of Erykah. I ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO BAN THIS SITE!

Anyway, back to the Klan member, HANNIBAL, get a fu*king life. YOU’RE DISGUSTING.

SYD! EXACTLY BUT YOU DONT WANT TO DICUSS FASHION AND MATERIAL THINGS IN LIFE WITH THAT MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN ..THATS NOT ALL WE DISCUSS, BUT CHANGE UP BE VERSATILE A LIL BIT! YOU KNOW SWITCH UP THE CONVO! HER LOVE FOR GOD AND HER BEAUTY ATTRACTED ME TO HER …..WE NEVER HAD A LOT OF TALKING IN THE SAK OR ON THE PHONE…WE DID AT FIRST!!!!

@ Glock9n

Excuse me, Glock, but I need to holla at Sydney for a minute.

@Glok

“WE NEVER HAD A LOT OF TALKING IN THE SAK OR ON THE PHONE…WE DID AT FIRST!!!!”

LOL — so outside of the “sack,” it doesn’t sound like you two of much in common.

So, just out of curiosity, is she fine with your situation? Does she want marriage?

BOSSIP, PLEASE STOP. YOU ACT LIKE SHE HAS 12 KIDS AND ON WELFARE. SHE HAS 3, BY THREE DIFFERENT MEN. SO WHAT!!! SHE CAN TAKE CARE OF THEM. WHY YOU CARE?

Hey MissBlaze

What’s up?

MISSBLAZE! ITZ ALL GOOD! DONT COCK BLOCK NOW …AHA J/K…NAH REAL TALK!

@ always knew

Trust me, I m 26 and I would love to have a man doing everything for me, that i would love so much! Im idealist too (im a cancer lol). But im just being realistic! My parents are another generation, this is the generation of plastic surgery, realty shows, fake fake, man, woman, every body is fake! its like people are not looking for real things, real feelings, real commitment, just real things anymore! Im just 26 and with men of my age, its really hard! I have a friend who just got pregnant, and she is not the only one! These girls are not married and are having kids from men they think they love or just like! But im looking at it like this! AT least, they will have a children, someone they really love and this love is inconditionnal! Me, im waiting for a man that i would be in love with and that would love me back, marry me before having a kid so i know i might not have a kid before my 28th anniversary! If you are always waiting for something so special and so inconditionnal, you might wait a long time, I dont want to be a lonely girl! I date man, everytime but i never met someone who touch my heart! IDK!

@ Sydney

Being that I WAS THE ONE who brought up SUICIDE, Yes, I’d like to know your take on that.

Being that black kids ‘only started commiting suicide by hanging with whites’.

SMDH real hard on that one, but elaborate for me, please.

Ok syd real quick …. i think suicide is for pussies. If I gotta go out, it’ll be like cleo in set it off.

its a cop out. point blank. in my eyes anyway. and its selfish. It takes a very weak individual to commit suicide and very cowardly… at least go out with a bang.. no pun intended.

I’ll give you the long version in a min.

@ Christie

Girl I totally understand. My mom would not divorce b/c she felt as though “marriage” is for life. My dad never cheated or hit her but he was an alcoholic and a drug addict. I know if she had only just had the power to leave it would have been a lot better for us! We lost out on two parents b/c dad was either drunk or high and mom was always upset because he was drunk or high. And of course the marriage didn’t start out that way. But when do you just say enough is enough. Oh I know…. some vow in a book written by a man told you to stay no matter what! Till death do us part is not always the way! My father passed on due to his addictions and I feel like for the first time in a LONG time my mom knows what it is like to be free and love herself! And it took death to give that to her? In no way do I feel joy over my father’s death but I must admit even through the grief I see a different mom that I never ever got to see when he was here! But that is marriage for you! They can have it…if I ever commit and it doesn’t work especially if I have children I will have no problem with bouncing right on out! The children will thank me! I know if only my mom had left a long time ago my sister and I would have a lot less issues!

@MissBlaze

Oh, I’m still waiting for Nina’s response — That’s her statement.

Gurl, puh-lease…

I’m interested in YOUR comment ONLY!

Nina just balled out on us huh, i dont know what happened but i shall be lurking…

SYD! IT BEEN 7 YRS NOW AND WE DOING FINE…WERE APART SHEZ IN OUR HOME IN VA IM IN NY I DO SPEND THE WEEKNDZ…WE TALK ALOT NOW OF COURSE! SHE WANTS TO GET MARRIED …I TOLD HER SOON, VERY SOON! CUZ I MIGHT FIND A SYD OR A ALWAYZ KNEW! ..KEEPING OPTIONS OPEN!

@MissBlaze

Here’s what I posted earlier, by the way:

Sure — I’m surprised by your statement. There have been recent writings on rising depression, suicides, and other psychological disorders among young blacks, and not all of them live in predominantly white areas, or associate primarily with whites.

In fact, I think a number of brothers and sisters suffer from some sort of mental illness for which they never receive treatment.

Ok Nina see where you coming from a lot of people have that view. I guess that’s some reason why bible folk deem it an unforgivable or worse sin or something like that.

its a beautiful thing…shes having children and can take care of them. its not like shes some broke down woman that cant afford and love her children. y cant yall b happy and stop hating….i hope the people who write these stories live perfect lives cause bossip is very quick to talk about someone

@Glok

LOL, Lord have mercy. SMH.

You’ve been together for 7 years, are going to have your second child together, and you still have you “options open?”

@ Sydney

Or misdiagnosed as well. Bi-Polar and Schezophrenia – some doctors tend to misdiagnose these diseases.

@Glok-”“HEY SYD! SHEZ A GOOD WOMAN,LOVE HER AZZ TO DEATH …BUT SHE DONT STIMULATE MY MIND WITH BLK ISSUES SHE ALWAYS GOES UP AGAINST ME WHEN IM RIGHT..I LOVE HER CHALLENGING ME BUT SOMETIMES ITS UNCALLED FOR”
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we are all made to grow..maybe your approach is wrong, or maybe you could come differently, help her expand her intellect, I disagree with hubby, sometimes, but I usuallly follow what he says. He’s the head of our household. If I strongly disagree we’ll go off, and compromise…However, usually what he says, goes….

I take my vows seriously. I honor and cherish my husband. I am still working on the submissive part.
I am very headstrong and independent. Although, he knew this before we married. We were friends, for years, before we started a relationship…He is just turning 30, this year..No outside children…No previous babymamas, no extra drama..We agree on pretty much everything..He’s my best friend…

@ Glok9- How could u let ur children come into thids world without your last name? When children are born, ur are supposed to whisper their name (so only the can hear it)and say their whole name to them..It’s the very start of their existence! That family name symbolizes the very values, that your family consists of. it’s your badge or coat of arms…You should do right by that, young lady…You really should…If u don;t want to marry, don;t make excuses, just don’t…But if u love her, really love and want to protect your child from harm and be there for/ with them, you need to marry her..Glok9, how old are you? Don’t u want your child to have the best possible upbringing? What could be better, than being with Daddy? I’m a daddy’s girl, personally…My heart stopped the day he died…Fathers are VERY IMPORTANT TO THEIR KIDS AND WOMEN…

I’m glad that you can see that this marriage vs.non-marriage, has helped tear our community apart…Thanks for the compliment.I really do hope you marry her. Not cause everyone is telling you to, but because you love her and it’s the right thing to do….

Not judging anyone that doesn’t marry, it’s just a different type of lifestyle…I’m not too familiar with…Just different, from my own life experiences..

And I remember us having this convo on Lisa Nicole Carson – whom I often wonder about. Just wanted your take.

On the subject of suicide and mental illness, as I wrote before, I do believe that there are some sisters and brothers who are suffering from a form of mental illness, but have not been diagnosed nor are receiving the proper treatment.

I believe there are different forms of suicidal thought. To me, a person who doesn’t care about his own safety (or that of those around him), engages in life-threatening behavior, and if arrested or confronted, says he doesn’t care if he lives or dies, is showing signs of a serious internal issue.

I think there are also those among us who are depressed and exhibit that depression as intense anger and self-alienation.

SYD! THATZ WHAT IM SAYING! THE DAYZ SEEM TO GO BY SO FAST…HAVENT YOU NOTICED? SMH! BOY TIME FLIES!!

@MissBlaze

“@ Sydney

Or misdiagnosed as well. Bi-Polar and Schezophrenia – some doctors tend to misdiagnose these diseases.”

Yes, I remember our conversation on Lisa Nicole Carson. Also, the late Bebe Moore Campbell’s daughter was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, if I’m not mistaken (Ms. Campbell wrote about her daughter’s illness in a book, 72 Hour Hold).

@ Sydney

Depression is a SERIOUS condition that leads – many times – to Suicide. AND more often than not those same PILLS that are prescribed for depression can make one kill themselves.

@Glok

“SYD! THATZ WHAT IM SAYING! THE DAYZ SEEM TO GO BY SO FAST…HAVENT YOU NOTICED? SMH! BOY TIME FLIES!!”

Yup, time sure does fly — But the days will slow up once you start planning your wedding. How many months are there until the new baby arrives?

Niasia

I totally feel you!
I mean, somehow, the way are parents raised us, in a very tradionnal way is not a service because we just feel like we dont fit! I want something big, maybe the kind of love that actually does not exist! I know, love , marriage is a hard business, that you have to make it work but how do you know when its time to bounce? My parents are african and I know that my mother used to tell me that you don’t leave a man JUST because he cheated?! I mean, isnt that already big! Maybe because im young that i feel that its the biggest disrespect ever done to a woman, I dont know!I never heard about my father being unfaithful to my mother but I know, i found a text message on his cell phone from an unknown number saying “i love you”! Until now, im still thinking about that! But even if something happened, they were smart enough not to let us kids know! But sometimes its just too much!How much can you habdle because of the wows you took one day! When you marry someone, i just suppose at some point, you start evolve and sometimes, its not in the same way so i guess, it sno the same man anymore?!!! What GOD really htink about divorce lol?

Yes, that BEAUTIFUL young lady. She hasn’t acted in anything in awhile. After that show she was in with LL Cool J, she was on an episode of 90210 – then she was gone.

I just thought she too was just depressed after the passing of her mother. So sad.

@MissBlaze

Yes, depression is a very serious condition that can manifest itself in different forms. I think many of us have been heavily influenced with the cultural stigma still placed on mental illness — We view someone who seeks therapy, for example, as “crazy.”

@ Glock9n

Time flies by because we’re OLDER. When we were all young – time just draggggged on byyyyyy. Now that we’re getting older – these years are going by like – SWOSH!

Read 72 hour hold. excellent book. poor Maya.

ALWAYZ KNEW! MY SON HAVE MY LAST NAME, AND MY UNBORN WILL HAVE TOO…SHEZ A GREAT WOMEN BUT WEAK IN AREAS ……AND TO BE HONEST I LIKE LIVING CARE- FREE! YOU BLK WOMEN AND LATINO WOMEN ARE SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL ..IM 28 I FEEL YOUNG AND IM DOING VERY WELL FOR MYSELF MY KIDS WILL WANT FOR NOTHING, ITZ THAT I HAVE A WOMAN THAT I CANT STAY ALONG SIDE WITH CUZ SHEZ GREEDY! IM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR FATHERS PASSING ! HE BE PROUD OF YOU, FOR DAMN SURE, I AM !

@MissBlaze

Yes, Maia Campbell is a beautiful young lady, who’s also very ill, I believe. I think she may have been hospitalized at some point for her condition. It’s very sad.

yeah most likely she was hospitalized. If you look at her movies/appearances you can see the downhill decline on screen. She was even taking those nude pics on drugs.

6 MONTH’S SYD! WEDDING? WE GOOD LIKE THIS FOR NOW!

@Purp

I do want to read that book. It sounds very interesting.

@ Sydney

Too bad some people only see these issues as being a “cope out” without knowing the REAL underlying conditions of one killing themselves.

Which doesn’t have a DAMN THING TO DO WITH BEING AROUND WHITE PEOPLE. Amazing – the stupid-stupid things that come out of people’s mouths.

Anyhoo, people who need help need to get it and not feel any way because they’re asking for help.

But Bebe Moore Campbell’s daughter – and Lisa Nicole Carson – I hope they get the help they need.

@Glok

“AND TO BE HONEST I LIKE LIVING CARE- FREE!”

LOL, how are you living “care-free” when you have one child here and one on the way?

Play time is over, bruh.

You have to think about the model you want to set for your children. You’re a Dad.

On the real! my mother would pimp slap me and throw holy water on my head if i birthed three babies with three differnt men! too many, too complicated!

MISSBLAZE! YOU ARE CORRECT, SISTER IT WAS FUN WHEN TIME WENT BY SLOW …RIGHT? NO BILLZ, NO KIDZ , NO WEDDINGZ(@SYD) NO WORRIES! JUST KOOL AID AND BIG FUN!

it was Syd, there may have been some fiction in it but it sounded like a pretty true depiction of what Bebe was going through with maya, then to top it all off bebe passing away like she did. Hopefully maya will get better and be ok. the library has it in a audio book u can rent online if you have a library card.

@ Glock9n

Word, family reunions in Savannah, GA – those were the days.

But seriously – there comes a times when you’ve got to man-up (in YOUR case that is) because like Sydney said, you’ve got to make it right for those kids.

And I’ve had to change my ways too – hell I’ve got to be there for my grandson. I keep him every weekend because my daughter works.

Sure I want to go out – and I do when I want to – but for the most part I LOVE being around my grandson and being there to help raise him.

@MissBlaze

I agree — I think there are black kids who have been committing suicide in different ways for years. They may not be taking their own lives, but they wake up not caring whether they live or die and that affects their actions, who they hang with, etc.

I do believe that there are brothers and sisters reaching out for help in different ways, even if it’s subconsciously.

Its funny/crazy in the book her mom talked about her bipolar behavior and Bebe would say things like “she is so pretty but she went and shaved all he eyebrows off and drew them in with white eyeliner” or something to that effect. Then i look up in see Maya in some movie or picture and he eyebrows are shaved off and drawn in.

@ BMW

I was raised by my GRANDMOTHER – so you already know….

HEY SYD!IM A FUN DAD, A HIP DAD, TOGETHER WE ATTRACT LOT OF BABES!!! SOME LADIES, ASK SOME OF THESE SAME QUESTION YOU ASKING …BUT THE CHARM TAKES OVER….ITZ LIKE THEY COULD CARE LESS AND BE READY TO TAKE ON RESPONSIBILITY AS “NEW MOM”!

@Christie’s secrets (Barack is with michelle, so “who’s gonna save my soul now?”)-

what state are u in? i think ur location, has everything to do with the types of men that ur talking about…Yes, there is alot of fakeness, nowadays, but you will still find people with your values, common interests, etc..

When I was younger, I did not want to marry or have childen. I thought that it was waste of time…I wanted to pursue my career and get myself together before I even thought about being with anyone. I took my time, growing up..I didn;t have the distractions, that you all have now..computers were just starting, there was no email, fax or text messaging..things now-a-days come too fast, along with people’s sense of entitlement. I think it could possibly be the places you may or may not frequent..What re someof your interests? I used to love comedy shows, plays, observatories, museums, traveling, single cruises, discovering new things..I made a list, alomst like the one I had before college. On that list, were all the things that I wanted to accomplish, within the next 5 years. No man was on the list. I finished school and started various business and investments. I met hubby through school , he didn’t finish, due to his cash situation, at the time. I did, though, We took it slow. I really wasn’ looking for a relationship. I just wanted to pay off my Stafford loans andbuy some real estate…he came along when I wasn’t looking or planning for him…even after he proposed, I didn’t want to marry,I thought that he would change, and start acting up…I made him wait 7-8 years before I would do it. I wanted to really KNOW him. Not just on good days. Not just whn things are going well, I wanted to know what made him tick..Plus, he wasn’t from here, he had an accent…Soon as I found out that he wasn’t seeing anyone, that I need to be concerned about I still took my time…(Good things take time, you can’t rush it) He never left my side. I thought abuot making him sign a pre-nuptial. I thought about all the stuff we went through. I didn’t have him sign anything. We are still together, to this day. I have never cheated on him and vice versa. I can say I know this because he is home, every night except when we travel, or I want to get away, alone…He’s everything I could’ve ever dreamed of and the best part, is he’s my best friend. We get each other and understand, each other…We built our own investments and ones we have together. I helped him get his ish together. He doesn’t want to go anywhere:) He keeps talking about how these women just want his money and he’s married, so they are out of luck!..I am extremely blessed and I know it…YOURS IS OUT THERE, TOO! Don’t give up…

When u are not expecting it, he will make himself known to you. You will know when it is happening..(Or at least, I think, it happened that way with us) The hardest part of any relationship is TRUST, HONESTY, TRUTH,LOVE Once you have that down, you pretty much have everything else, that you need …
Open your eyes. Don;t go to the same places, your results will always be the same…You want different results, try something different.. make sure you build your relationships with these cornerstones, you shouldn’t go wrong…Be true to yourself, FIRST!..That will bring you true happiness!..Prince charming, is just the icing on top…

@Purp

Yeah, from my understanding of bipolar disorder, individuals who suffer from this condition experience extreme highs (mania) and lows (depression). Their behavior can be highly erratic, so Maia’s nude photos, shaving of her eyebrows, etc., sound like symptoms of her illness, IMHO.

@Glok

“A FUN DAD, A HIP DAD, TOGETHER WE ATTRACT LOT OF BABES!!!”

You attract “babes” with your son?

@ Sydney

True, and these so-called SOCIAL WORKERS at school can be the worst. Kids TELL them, I’m being teased, things aren’t working out at home – PLEASE help me.

And what do they do? Give them that ol’ text-book-bullshit. “This is just a part of growing up. You need to learn how to adjust.”

WHAT?!

That’s how that young spanish girl was found HANGING in the closet by her mother. SHE TOLD the school she was being teased and asked for help AND THEY FED HER THAT BULLSHIT.

Question(s)–

Why do we uplift Erykah and praise her for having multiple babies from multiple men while we “side eye” the Kwandisha’s, Precious’s, and Tee-Tee’s around the way when they do the same?

Is she an exception because of her monetary status?

At the end of the day, the term bastard is not defined nor determined by the amount of money your parents make or their social status.

She’s a grown woman who can clearly make decisions for herself.

It’s the children my heart bleeds for–especially the boys!

Hi Peeps!

Sydney– Sorry I missed you in DC!!!!

@MISS BLAZE ! SC AND ATL, GOOD TIMES AT THEM REUNIONS, I FEEL YA ON THAT,I WILL MAKE A CHOICE AND YOU ARE RIGHT, TIME TO MAN UP AND MARRY THAT GAL ……. BECAUSE MY SEEDS ARE NUMBER 1 OTHER THAN GOD IN MY LIFE! BUT NO TIME SOON !

O Sydney they were truly symptoms of her illness. Bebe knew this

YES SYD WE DO THAT ..IM I SAYING TO MUCH HERE?

@ Sydney
@ Glock9n

Yeah, Sydney, Babies DO look good on a man. LOL!!! I have MUCH admiration for any man I see taking his child to school or to the park. In a stoller or with the child strapped on their chest – there’s something hella sexy about it – AND MEN KNOW IT, TOO!

I don’t know. I don’t know.

always knew!

thank you girl!
I also have a lot ambitions, im about to start a company of cosmetics BIO! I live in France and I met a lot of guys but not the kind i would love to be with! Im talking about his mentality,someone like me! I actually met a guy like that when i was in USA! He was perfect but i guess it was not meant to BE!
Sometimes i really think that i will end up lonely! Im even starting just to have sex because of my needs and i dont call back cause it was just for that night! Something changed in me! I was played few times so i decide to keep my heart form being broken again! I just cant trust a man anymore! some men took my money, cheated on me, even robbed me! I dont let a man come in my life like that anymore!

Hey Diva!!

I’m so sorry about your visit — I decided not take the trek into the city.

Did you enjoy yourself?

HEY SYD! IM GOING TO ANSWER YOUR NEXT QUESTION SARA PALIN STYLE…..KATIE COURIC!!!

3 babies and 3 different fathers and you wanna praise this women? she’s nothing more than a selfish b*tch who doesnt give a flying f*ck about what her kids are gonna go through later on.

Do I know you Christie’s Secrets? You seem familiar.

@MissBlaze

“Yeah, Sydney, Babies DO look good on a man. LOL!!! I have MUCH admiration for any man I see taking his child to school or to the park. In a stoller or with the child strapped on their chest – there’s something hella sexy about it – AND MEN KNOW IT, TOO!”

Yes, I do smile when I see fathers with their children.

Glok, you need to do the right thing and marry that woman, lol. SMH.

Sydney–

I really did!! There were several times during the trip that was actually spiritual! I was ALMOST moved to tears! I think the only reason I didn’t was because they would’ve froze midstream down my cheeks!

Lol!!!

@ Lil Kim’s Penny Saver

Gurl, you need to scrool WAY up and see how I’ve been ridiculed. But it’s all good though.

Apparently, it won’t matter what the kids will Go Through – because MONEY WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL THEIR ILL WILLS!

@ 1TruDiva

DIVAAAAAA!!! What’s up, MA, how was everything?

@Diva

“I really did!! There were several times during the trip that was actually spiritual! I was ALMOST moved to tears! I think the only reason I didn’t was because they would’ve froze midstream down my cheeks!”

LMAO! Girl, you’re hilarious.

My mom said the same thing! She took a bus up to the Mall and said she has never been so cold in her life.

@Kigali

“Its the same with teachers. I really hate when they get a bad rap because we all know good and dam well that there are some parents out there that need to be shot.”

I know several teachers who would agree with this statement — excluding the “they need to be shot” part.

My twin brother is an educator in the NYC school system. I’m sure I’ve shared the story of one of his students committing suicide because he was teased unmercifully. Believe it or not, there are actually some teachers that encourage it!

SMH!

I think I would be forced to show unbridled rage if my child was being bullied!

The more I think of it…..hell, it’s not beneath me to fight a kid!!!

Especially one that’s a bully!!!

I can see me now….punchin’ some lil mufukka in his throat for bullying up on Mykel!

No…I think I’d elbow him in his throat! Less telltale bruising!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MISSBLAZE TELLEM …THANK YOU! LADIES LOVE THAT FIRST THING THEY SAY IS AWWWW HEY CUTIE PIE!, MY LIL MAN LOVES THAT SHIT! SO DO I YOUR RIGHT!

@ MissBlaze44—

HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How is ya!!!!

I didn’t know erykah badu and D.O.C. had a baby together. congrats to her and Jay

lol, it is frustrating when you miss the point sometimes i know.

@Diva

Who could ever bully beautiful Mykel? Just look at her.

@ 1TruDiva

See, this is why I mess with you – because you’re a SMART sistah and we think along the same lines (I’m referring to Ms. Badu).

When I stated what you stated I got called “STUPID, all kinds of shit by MISS-KNOW-IT-ALL “NINA KNOWS and her side-kick PURPLE!

But, yeah, her MONEY WILL CURE EVERYTHING!

SYD IM REALLY WAITING FOR YOU BUT YOUR TAKEN ALL THESE CYBER LOVES YOU HAVE ON HERE GETZ ME JEALOUS…I’LL WAIT YOU….. YOUR WORTH IT PRECIOUS! HEY WE’LL GET MARRIED SOON, FOR REAL! I JUST LOVE WOMEN!

@niasia-”We are going to have to agree to disagree. I am not religuous at all and I do not favor the institution of marriage because it is all about religion and in my humble opinion it is very male biased. Especially with the traditional vows! So don’t come at me with the old black lady sayings and all. That wont work. To each its own and I stand by that. But some people on this blog do not believe that. Every person on this earth will operate differently than yourself. It is not your place to judge them. Everyone does not want to get married. You do not have to be married to have a healthy relationship. Just look at the divorce rate. Just don’t place your values onto other people! Erykah may not want to get married. Glok 9n might not want to get married why can’t you accept that without judgement? And their children do not have to grow up to be aweful like you say…some of the worst people I know have two parent who are married. So it is not all it is cracked up to be. Anf if you think a RING will keep a man…well then honey you are sadly mistaken. I hope you have or get your RING honey cuz we know they SOLIDIFY like nothing else!”
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Thats because the relatiomship was not good to begin with. And it only workd, if the 2 people are really in love and committed o themselves and the marriage..It doesn’t work, if someone only wants to be a parent sometimes. It doesn’t work, fi he is creeping. It doesn’t work if the people, are still acting like they don’t want to be MARRIED.

That’s why i still think, that people should NOT have childen until they are ready to undertake that kind of responsibility..Just think, the children that you are playing with today, tommorow, may rule the country…This stuff is serious as a heart attack..that’s wh the blk family is still in a destruction stat, when you take away rules, you get anarchy. Complete chaos..That is why there are rules and a order in everything, from nature on down, structure is needed for survival…

I;m not downing the people who don;t marry..If they don’t want to marry, that’s on them..I just wanted to spread some facts about the blk family and the results, of not having a blk male= order and discipline in the household….Even in that moie Boyz in the Hood- Larry Fishburne would always take his son aside and tell them to watch, how his friends, without parents, turned out

There was a BIG difference. That’s when I realized that maybe it’s not the right thing to do..She could barely contain them, and they did grow up to be criminals. The one who had the scholarship was gunned down and never made it out…

You don’t have to marry anyone…but it just seems like you would especially if you put the children’s needs before your own..That’s soley his choice..However, also be sure to point out the disadvantages, of the children, with different fathers, different men. The cycle must stop. We have to stop it. Noone else can do it for us..

the chains have to be broken, conscious or not, we will still grow, whether into a blooming flower or plant of maybe turn into a weed, with no hope for any sunshine or bloom…Life is that same way..It’s what you do with it..And I for one, don’t think ANY child should be made to feel less than, unequal too or not good enough…this is a primary battle on the child’s self-esteem, no father= set up for failure

All in all, we all make our choice…@glok9- i love all my brothers, we may not always see eye to eye, but even Pac said’ we’re all made to evolve, if we don’t evolve, we die’

I don’t know how much true, it can be…i just hope 1 less broken home, 1 happier family..

Ur right about 2 family unhappy homes- those are the people that didn’t want to get married, or only stayed because of the children..That’s a whole nother mistake…

nice chattin with everyone. I need to get this liability certificate faxed over to Adolfson- Petersen Construction…And I have to make sure they get it in time, or my invoice(s), will be paid late (and i can’t have that:)….

Check u guys out in a bit..All my sisters, peace be with you…Love you first..the right one will come along,. just don’t be too critcal when he does, you’ll scare him off…And let it not be about the money…list the characteristics that you would like, when you find what you’re looking for, you will feel like you hit the jackpot!
and the wait is WORTH IT!

@ Glok9n

LOL you are too funny. She’ll get to you.

@ always knew

C U Later, Girl.

@ Sydney–

I told you what happened one time with the boy pullin’ Mykel’s hair when I vissited my dad?

Shoot! I’m being real!

I….WILL…FIGHT…A…..KID!!!!!!

Lol!!!

1TRU DIVA! YOU STILL GOT THAT D EAGLE?…JUST POP TRUNK, PULL THAT BAD MUH FUKKA OUT….NO MORE BULLIES!!!!

Hey Snoop

@Glok

LOL, you need to put the flirting to the side and make an appointment at the Justice of the Peace. It’s quick and painless, from what I’ve heard.

@ Kigali

“The values my marriage, my commitment, my loyalty will teach my children, money cant buy.”
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Check and mate!!

Purp,

They dont know the point at all. Its hard to debate with someone who doesnt even understand the topic.

Bye, Always Knew

@Diva

“@ Sydney–

I told you what happened one time with the boy pullin’ Mykel’s hair when I vissited my dad?”

LOL, don’t boys do that to girls when they like them?

LOL…missblaze you sound offended because you totally missed the point. when did i call you stupid cause I don’t recall. But with some of your comments i possibly could have now that you mention it. Someone thinking along the sames lines as you doesn’t make you or them smart. sorry. Funny this is, none of what you said even bothered me in the slightest. especially how you keep ranting about how money will cure everything totally proving you missed the point of the original statement. sigh with a chuckle. Unfortunate how we have to go be “enemies” and all now it seems…

@ MissBlaze44–

You know you’re my cyber sis!!!

The only difference is–you always remain poised and use tact!

I, on the other hand have NO PROBLEM greasin’ up and snatchin’ off my earrings and wig!

ROTFLMAO!!!!

**putting wig on straight**

@ 1TruDiva

I’ve been chillin-chillin, Sistah.

Yeah, sometimes you DO have to go upside these children’s heads. That teasing thing is THE WORST. Sorry your brother had to go through that. And you’re right – the teachers ARE WORSE because they do NOTHING about the situation.

@ syd…..How are you?

@ glok…I see u in here fam.

@ always knew…. You speak some real talk woman.

Hey PURP!!!!

@ Syd– True! But this water-head, ashy elbowed bastard was just mean!

The advantage of being a young spring chicken sometimes is you may learn and excel at a way faster rate than your older counterparts or peers. like how the crystal children turn to the indigo children turn to the i dont know what are they calling them now. GOD BLESS THE AQUARIAN AGE

@Diva

You know, it was weeks ago when you posted this, but I still chuckle about it — You told one troll that your hand smelled like (blank) from handing his arse back to him.

That still cracks me up. LOL!

Hi diva havn’t seen you in a minute

@ Glok–

I can’t mess with you on that but I got a stoppa, though! The “nine” ain’t NO joke!!!

Lol!!!!!!

ALWAY KNEW! MY PLEASURE BEAUTIFUL, WE BLK MEN LOVE SISTAZ LIKE YOURSELF….AND WE MUST DISAGREE SOMETIME NO LOVE LOST SISTA, THIS CONVO WOULD BE KNOW WHERE IF WE ALWAYZ AGREED!!!

“Hi diva havn’t seen you in a minute”
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I be trynta act like I can do without BOSSIP…knowin’ DAMN well I’m addicted and can’t stay away!

@ 1TruDiva

LOL!!!! Yes, I do try to remain calm. I am an AQUARIUS after all… I’ll just leave it at that! LOL!!!

Purp,

check ya box

SNOOP! WHATZ UP!

Heeeey, guess who’s bizack. just call me sidekick i guess…

@ Purple

Say what? I have no “enemies” because I don’t waste time on such NEGATIVE ENGERGY as that.

But be my guest…

1TRU DIVA! THAT WHY I GOT TWO OF THEM SHITZ! I LOVE THE RAPIDNESS AND NOISE IT MAKES !!! LOL BE CAREFUL NOW!

SNOOP! WHATZ UP!

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The price of living fam and the crime rate…lol

LOL sad but true Diva I think its got a hold of us all!

Yep, MORE NEGATIVE ENERGY!!! Teee-Heee!!!

lol, see thats why they be mad as us!!

so to sum up todays retard lesson: its ok to act like your shit dont stank, and all your morals and rules apply to everyone but yourself.

okay, got it… let me jot this down.

@Christie’s secrets (Barack is with michelle, so “who’s gonna save my soul now?”)

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Don’t u give up…Please, there are real blk men u there. I swear…And they are not leftovers, either…The next time you meet a brother, don;t go out with him, if he doesn’t fit what’s on your list…If he does, go out with him, but take it slow..Really get to know him…Then build from there..But you need that SOLID FOUNDATION and UNDERSTANDING of each other,FIRST!..I will say when I was at Syracuse University, there were alot of brothers who were there, but you still have to pick and choose, but they are looking to settle down to, some go to college, to find their wives or husbands…Sweetheart, make your list, don’t stray from it, you will get, what you want…Don;t settle, if u do, u will never forgive yourself and then you become those lonely empty marriages that you speak of…If u are not friends first, I don’t think it can really work….Dig deep to find the answers to the questions, you have…I;m telling you, all your answers are right there..Believe in yourself and don’t change your mind..When you d find him, he will be estatic, that you thought enough about him, that u waited…Money—NEVER mix money. Even after you are married. My husband all on accounts except 2. Those had before the marriage and it’s my fund to just save and raid on case of emergency. I did not start intermingling funds until we married. Then I made sure that he understood that we are in a community property state.If anythingn goes down, he can have th house and all possessions in it, but I get the kids, no fighting about it. the businesses would be liquidated and sold. Dividends divied up…That’s all fine and dandy, at the same time when you do stuff like that, you diminish the value of investments or savings for your children…That’s why I tell people, if they are not going to be right, don; get married. If u r ready to settle down, go for it…On dates, meet him there- movies, restaurant, etc. go dutch, don;t ever give a man ANY money unless there is a good reason for it and you have ties to him…Don;t let them come to your house or apartment until he is ready to be serious with you. Absolutely, don;t sleep with him, if u really like him…Don;t date for money..Date based on your attraction to him and how you feel about him. Be upfront and honest. Tell him exactly what will happen, once you guys start dating, if he violates your trust, don;t look for it, it will come out in the wash, one way or another. trust him until he gives you reason not too. Don’t make the next man, pay for the last man’s sins, especially if u really got hurt….And most certainly find out his views in reference to marriage, before the 2 of u get serious. So that you know what he thinks, before you get attached and feelings hurt…

brb in 20 min..

MISS BLAZE! DONT GET BOTHERED WITH ALL THAT RIFF RAFF,THEY COULD HAVE EASILY JOIN THIS CONVO WE NO ENEMIES ON LINE….ITZ NOT THAT SERIOUS!

responded Nina, holla back

I don’t have kids and not married. I grew up in a home with mom and dad and my baby brother….my mom was a poor unmarried teen mom 2 two boys, before my dad. I grew up with her ringing in my ears, never have bastard kids….your life will be f*cked up as a woman….get an education…it takes 2 parents to raise kids people wake up!

funny how you want to keep perpetuating “negative energy” now that we aren’t even debating the topic anymore missblaze
People use all kinds of debate tactics, the best one is to know when the debate is over though.

SNOOP THOSE THINGZ ARE BEYOND ANY OF OUR CONTROL …LIVE LIFE AND ADAPT I GUESS!

nina turn to anthony beorduex NOW

@ Glok9n

My sentiment, exactly.

look at all the issues with these kids…my boyfriend had bastard kids before we met….I helped him raise them….now both girls are teen moms at 16 and 17 with deadbeat dads!

SNOOP THOSE THINGZ ARE BEYOND ANY OF OUR CONTROL …LIVE LIFE AND ADAPT I GUESS!
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basically

Hello peeps.
Congrats to Babu.
She is the realest.
We all have hangups. So, lets move on.
She is in the spot light and some peeps want her to have the image they want her too. And she will not submit. If so, she would be denying herself… Keep your soul Badu. Keep living..

its on commerical… you know my tv stay on this shit.

What is up with Erykah and 3 kids w/ 3 daddies. Ladies, if you’re going to have kids out of wedlock, at least have them with the same father. I don’t care how rich she is, this ain’t right. WTF

Ladies. . .

How is everyone this fine evening?

how ironic right…. its destiny

@ Tearose333

And where was his BABY MAMMA’S? Just asking. Did he have custody of all of them? ‘Cause I find it strange that you didn’t have any BABY MAMA DRAMA!

@NINA KNOWS! ITZ THAT PUNK SHIT YALL DOING NOW EMAILING EACH OTHER ..MAN THATZ THAT BULLSHIT YO….YOU WERE A HUMBLE CHICK KICKING IT WITH EVERYONE…NOW YOUR A GANGSTA BYTCH ONLINE? THE SHIT AINT COOL! YOU ACT LIKE YOUR LACKING SOME DICK BABE!!!

got damn even the coffee is good.. lol

@ Sydney

When did you leave? And yes, of course I’m still fine. LOL!!!

NINA I HEAR YOUR IN DALLAS IF YOU WANT SOME GOOD DICK LIKE THAT COFFEE HOLLA AT PLAYER!

glok.. you are a retard.. admit it

you can say it, i wont tell nobody.

check ur mail

LOL @ MissBlaze

Alright, just checking. LOL!

lol@Nina, ahhh you caught the show in time. ha.

well if smart means you gangster and what does outside email have to do with you or anybody else…..daym do u want to be included that bad.

Yea I caught it, but I almost got arrested by officer glok a min ago for talking about it.. lol

@ Sydney

I’m sitting here doing what I do best this time of evening:

Blogging with ALL you lovely people – and eating sunflower seeds. I love them.

Hey nina!

I named my “nine” after you!

It’s got much kick! Besides, I look real sexy at the gun range. You’d be surprised how many men think women need assistance. That is, until my target comes back with better hits than theirs!

I hope your honored!

lol, hell yea he do! glok is like a fussy baby, when he dont get attention he start cyber crying, cussing and fussing.

come here glok, let me wipe your little ass….

PUNK ASS PURPPLE! YEAH I WANNA INCLUDED AND TALK ABOUT BALWIN HILLS LIKE YOU GANSTAZ ONLINE!!!

whut up Diva!! yes I am honored.. now put the gun down and step away from the register… lol

awwww rofl @ glok

dawg you a trip bringing up baldwin hills, so thats why you pissed. you punk ass talked about el debarge with sydney all nite long.

so shut up.

**backing away s-l-o-w-l-y**

Lol!!!

Dang, Nina, why did you have to bring up Debarge? LMAO!

purpple never said she was gangsta. she does intimidate people, but that’s not her fault. lol

lol Nina he is going to hurt you if you dont stop being my e-friend.

NINA! I GET LIKE THAT WHEN I THINK OF THE NON DICK YOU AND PURPPLE ARE NOT GETTING…. ME, BIG DICK…. WILL TRAVEL!!!

“dawg you a trip bringing up baldwin hills, so thats why you pissed. you punk ass talked about el debarge with sydney all nite long.

so shut up.”
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LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO well geez laweeze you could have jumped in the conversation at anytime.

P.S.- I don’t ignore you on purpose its just the caps

OK. OK. Guess the song—

NO CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(I promise, I’ll try to post one that I know MOST of the words….)

“Last night I dreamed, that you were here with me and we were in each other’s arms, it was oh so heavenly.”

“You held me close to you and whispered in my ear….”

You have to name the title and the artist/group.

Go!!!!!!!!!!!!!

glok dont nobody want that little limp dick.

(*note that will be the only and last comment about your “parts”… so enjoy)

I TALK ABOUT LOVE MAKING MUSIC WITH SID …YA JEALOUS ASS STILL TALKING ABOUT THAT HUH? AT LEAST WERE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX UN LIKE YOU TWO … WHO THE FUK WATCH BALWIN HILLS….GANGSTAZ!!!

LOL wow, black women getting along is a lost art isn’t it. Yall act enamored and surprised like it’s an endangered species.

Theres plenty of people on this blog who email each other or have at some point or another. thanks.

…. ME, BIG DICK…. WILL TRAVEL!!!
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call me crazy but isnt that false advertising.

LOL@jealous of your debarge convo and “opposite sex” reference. aaaaaaaaahahahahahaha

Oh, shit… Fantasy DAMN A DReam

@diva

I’m thinking……

Is it Debarge, Diva? lol

call me crazy but isnt that false advertising.
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LOL yes

@ 1TruDiva

I know the song and I’m humming it to myself…

Something about a dream and knocking at my door

LOL@jealous of your debarge convo and “opposite sex” reference. aaaaaaaaahahahahahaha

ditto!! yea like we were soooooooo jealous. glok, gtfoh. I really didnt peep the shit till too late anyway, but I still know yall was talking about debarge, crying and cyber holding each other…lol

@ diva….mary j blige- a dream

#2–

**grabs yellow highlighter/microphone and jumps on top of the desk**

“-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-eye!”

“Can’t…get…off…my…high…horse!

“And…..I…..ca-an’t

“Letchu go—-ho”

“You are the one who—hoooo—whoooo.” “you are the one…who…makes…me…feel

“So ho-ho—real! (yeah,yeah,yeah)

“Oh, what am I supooosed to do?”

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH…

“What am I supposed to do……”

**slumps back down in seat**

“ditto!! yea like we were soooooooo jealous. glok, gtfoh. I really didnt peep the shit till too late anyway, but I still know yall was talking about debarge, crying and cyber holding each other…lol”

lmaooooooooooo, im sorry i really had to LOL at that…..

dammit

@ snoop bloggy blog

Don’t you have a birthday coming up soon, or did it pass already?

no you didnt, lol. somebody else’s guy by i dont know who at this time! i dont know if thats the proper title either

then i realize, that your somebody else’s guy???

Snoop–

You’re correct (in a way) but Sydney got it 1st only because DeBarge did it before Mary!!

@ 1TruDiva

Somebody Else’s Guy / DON’T KNOW THE ARTIST!!!

THEY USED TO GETTING FUKKED TO DMX AND 50 CENT, THEY DONT KNOW SHIT ABOUT DEBARGE!!! OR THAT NEW SONG… I KISSED A GAL AND I LIKED IT …FUK OUTTA HERE!!! DEBARGE GET THEM PANTIES MOIST FOR A NIGGR YOU JOKING!?

@ missblaze44….yes it’s this thursday

@ PURP–

Congrats!

The artist is Jocelyn Brown!!

I got it? I won!!

What did I win?

I didnt say I didnt like debarge, because I do… I like all they shit.

@ diva….but she didn’t do the title so i win *sticking my tongue out @ sydney*

Aint nobody hating on Erica loose cooch. I thought her kids were home schooled. Lies and BS. She is a mentally warped phony chick who happens to have a little talent. She will not be exempt from criticism of bringing 3 kids into the world with 3 diff daddies WITHOUT the benefit of marriage. You can say what you want about divorce, but to me if a man has enough RESPECT to MAKE you HIS WIFE not just a seed holder, then that IMO says a lot. I say she’s phony because she played coy with FIONE AZZ COMMON,on some I am celibate type shyt, then ran and had raw sex with broke azz no voice having DOC. GTFOH WITH DAT BS

Lol @ Sydney!!

Can I give you guys another one?

Nina, you’re wrong for calling me out like that, you know, lol. You know you’ve shed a tear to a Debarge song, too. LOL!

@Snoop

*sticking my tongue back at you*

I won – Nah, nah, nah. . .

@ Sydney

Free coffee at your nearest STARBUCKS!

when you put on that show girl i couldn’t help but guess it.

Debarge is all good with me.

Yes, Diva!

*placing hand above buzzer*

Lol @ Snoop!!!

@ snoop bloggy blogg

Okay, just checking. I thought I’d missed it.

lol@sydney… naw I had to tease a bit, it wasnt you, it was glok who was getting all emotional.

I’ll take the free coffee, MissBlaze. LOL!

LOL, Sydney you wanted to throw a drink on Glok that night it seemed but he never takes a hint.

SYD YOU KNOW WE HAD FUN ….AND HE FUN NEVER ENDS CUZ I GOT SOME MORE OL SKOOL JOINTS FOR YOU!

@ stopdamadness

LMFAO @ that shit you just said….

PURP! YOU WANTED IN THAT CONVO BAD YOU SLEPT FUKKED UP THAT NIGHT ALL HORNY, WETT AND LONELY …NO DICK!!! JUST YOU AND YOUR EMAIL!

@ Glok….you like Switch fam?

Calling all girls is my shit.

Boy if i wanted in that convo I would have typed. You was the one sounding wet and lonely. LMAO

**blowing dust off 45′s**

OK. OK!!!

“You—hoo–hoo–hoo–hoo–”

“You’re just as sweet as peaches and cream”
(to me your as sweet, as peaches and cream)

“you must’ve stepped right outta my drea-heems, cuz you and I were meant ta be-he”
(cuz you and I were meant to be-he)

IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIi eye-hi-hi-hihi!

“I yam a very for-tu-nate guy”
(so lucky am I, to be by your side)

GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What old school do you have for me, Glok?

Give me something I can croon to. . .Catch my drift?

jefferey osbourne- we both deserve each others love… classic

hahaha… wet and lonely!! probaby was over there shrivering like a puppie.

WHAT DO I WIN!!

I’m sorry my shits soooooooooo slow..

As soon as I get my income tax check, I’ma pay off the rent-to-own people then, I’ma upgrade!

Lol!!!!!

@Diva

Ice Cream Castles, Morris Day and The Time?

lol@myself for typing puppie instead of puppy… i never seen it put like that. damn even my mistakes got swagger.

@ stopdamadness

What a cowinky-dink. You mean to tell D.O.C. is BROKE? I’m still LMAO at what you wrote.

Maybe she was affraid that Common would peep her “ho” card, no?

Yeah, I think that was it to.

SNOOP I JUST GOT HIPPED TO SWITCH …BUT I LIKE THE JOINTS HEAR ON YOUTUBE!!! THERE WILL NEVER BE AND I CALL YOUR NAME …PLAY THOSE JOINT FOR A CHICK AND SHE’LL GET WETT LIKE PURPPLE ASS BE GETTING!

Ooh, Jeffrey Osbourne. . .

Girl, you know the deal
Baby, stay with me tonight

Snoop–

I can see I’ma havta go waaaaaaay back on you!

Actually–it WAS Jeffrey! However–the group he sang the song under was called L.T.D.–not when he was solo!

@Nina

“lol@myself for typing puppie instead of puppy… i never seen it put like that. damn even my mistakes got swagger.”

Please stop — You all are making my stomach hurt.

LOL!

@ Syd…i already won that one, but i’m go check out ice cream castles ( in the summertime)….lmao

OK——–

I got one NOBODY will guess!

Ready??????

@ diva you right it is LTD

I won again! Yeah!!!

Take that, Snoop!

LMFAO, Glok gotdaymit you funny sometime

@ syd….take a look @ 7:39 and you tell me who is the victor…lol

I wouldn’t mind some EARTH, WIND & FIRE! Now they are the shit.

lmao @ the bold on “sometime”… yea boy, dont get to flattered. lol

Never mind. I’m about to BLOW my neighbor’s out with some EARTH, WIND & FIRE right now!

You mean, I didn’t win?

OK, game face on.

Bring it on, Diva!

*hand above buzzer*

AIGHT SID! THESE ARE THEM JOINTS RIGHT HERE! SYD THIS MY DEDICATION TO ALL YOU LADIES CAUSE YOU LOVE ME BABY = DENISE WILLIAMS, MISDEMEANOR= SYLVER ,RISING TO THE TOP = KENI BURKE AND CLOSER THAN JUST FRIENDS= SURFACE CHECK THOSE OUT ! MISS BLAZE, 1 TRUDIVA, REMEMBER THESE!!!

OK….

Here goes………….

(You guys are gonna be shocked)

“It, doesn’t take much for me to know when a woman’s lonely..
“E—specially when I’m all alone myself.”

“If, there’s any-one out there that needs love like I need love Just–Hold on and I’ll be there….”

“When you call on me………”

Would you mind, if I touched – if I kissed – if I held you tight in the morning light?

@MissBlaze

I love Earth, Wind and Fire!

Dancing in September. . .

@Diva

Jackson Five?

@Glok

Great selections — I’ll check those out.

NINA AND PURPP TAKE NOTESB YA HEAR…NEXT TIME THEM GOONZ YOU GET WITH, DONT PLAY LOVE MAKING SONGZ GET OUT THAT HOUSE ASAP….TELLEM YOU NOT FUKKING TO NO MORE NWA AND DA DOGGPOUND!!!

@ Glok9n

OMG!!! LMFAO FOR REAL AT THAT SHIT!!!!!

it’s luther but i don’t remember the title

Dance. . .Boogie Wonderland. . .Hah Hah. . .

It’s I’ll Be There — Jackson Five

It was remade later by Mariah and Luther, right?

@ Glok…..back up off the POUND now…lol

I smash off DOGG POUND- Bomb azz pu$$y….lol

CHECKEM OUT SYD I GOT MONEY ON THIS KNICKS GAME! BRB!!! STAY ON YALL AND BLOG, THIS IS BLOGGING!!! NINA & PURPPLE GET YOUR PANTIES MOIST OFF THEM JOINTS OK THEN WE’LL TALK !!!

“stop trying to act like you schooling somebody.”

I would have been so pissed hearing joss stone sing AL GREEN. …. hell naw, and where the hell does julio get off. nobody name JULIO should never even attemp a al green song.

but maxwell did a real good job on them bet awards that time.

People say that it was the Bee Gees who were the original artists of HOW CAN YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART, but I’ve never heard their version before.

DAMN SNOOP!!!

Why you in my pocket????!!!!

Lol!!!

It IS Luther—–skinny Luther, though!

“When you call on me!”

You’re good!

Someboby else go!!

I wanna guess some!!!

That was really nice, MissBlaze.

Here’s a vid of the Bee Gees version, by the way:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COqUjfrB8dI

Yes, Girl, he rocked it. I remember that.

Y’all remember this song?

“I may not be a lady – but I’m all woman. From Monday to Sunday I work harder than you know. I’m no classy lady – but I’m all woman, and this woman needs a little love to keep her warm.. you’re not the only one.”

How about this one?

Heavenly Father watchin’ us fall
We take from each other and give nothing at all
Well, it’s a doggone shame
but never too late for change
so, if your luck runs low
Just reach out and call His name, His name

@MissBlaze

Donna Summer, She Works Hard for the Money?

@ Sydney

No, Gurl – LISA STANSFIELD! Black folks just REFUSED to believe that woman could sing that well and not be black. Sorry to say, but it was US who ran her out of town like she was an OUTLAW in the West.

I like donna summer, on the radio, thats my shit.

dayum misz badu,
lets do a quick tally here, 3 babies, 3 different baby daddies, 0 ring. earth mutha my ass. try run of the mill hood rat.

@MissBlaze

That’s Lisa Stansfield?

Dang, she sounds like a sista.

That’s different from her hit, Been Around the World, right? She was looking for that brotha, lol.

@Nina

Yeah, On the Radio’s a classic.

I like Bad Girls.

@ Sydney

YES – Bad Girls is my shit too.

Yeah, Lisa Stansfield has a very SOULFUL voice and that song – ALL WOMAN – was my jam. People always thought it was somebody else who did that song.

Yall still going strong…message!

Here’s another one:

…..It’s boardering on insanity. So black, so unclear. And suddenly eyes focus and realize that this man should not be here.

…..It’s funny how there’s no emotional moment, but after it’s over you with you could disown it. As you get up to tell this stranger to leave – the love of your life walks in and see everything.

….and the pain of loosing everying comes over you – all you can say is that you… didn’t mean to.

Did y’all guess yet?

…you’re a mother – you’re a wife – but you’re also a cheater!

@MissBlaze

There Some Hos in This House?

lol, got it.

Please excuse that last post lol.

I’m still thinking. . .

Ohhh, girl, one silly moment of lust, just cost you everything that you’ve ever loved…

Anyway, that’s HEATHER HEADLEY’s “I Didn’t Mean To”.

@ Sydney

LMAO You STOOPID!!!

Oh, Heather Headley. . .I like her. She performed at the inaugural concert, right?

when i looked at those photo gallerys i felt swept away

who you telling… me too. I was SOLD!! lol

Okay…

…..He broke your heart – he took your soul. You heart inside, ’cause there’s a hole.
…..You need some time, to be alone. Then you will find, what you’ve always known.
…..I’m the one who really loves you, Baby – I’ve been knocking at your door.

…..I’m the one who really loves you, Baby – I can’t take it any more.

I wanna be with you until we’re old – you’ve got the love you need right in front of you – PLEASE COME HOME!!!!

Goodnite ladies!!

Come on, y’all:

…..As long as I’m livin’ – I’ll be waitin’
…..As long as I’m breathin’ – I’ll be there.
Whenever you call me – I’ll be waitin’
Whenever you need me – I’ll be there.

Bye Nina.

YALL IN HERE GUESSING SONGZ? …HEY SYD DID YOU HEAR ANY OF THOSE HITZ?

@ Sydney

LENNY KRAVITZ “I’ll Be Waiting”

@MissBlaze

Girl, you got me. I think I’m going to call it a night, too. This was fun.

Yeah, Glok. I listened to those songs. Nice picks! Thanks

Have a good night, all.

@NINA! SOFTEN UP A LIL BEFORE I COME OUT THERE AND TEAR YOUR BACK OUT… GOOD NITE SUGAR! I STILL GOT LOVE FOR YA….KNOW THAT!

Good night!

GOOD MY SISTAZ! …IGHT SYD THANK YOU!

GOOD NIGHT! MISS BLAZE!

I don’t consider a role model, most humans are not capable of that anyways. My sister in law who is 17 years old loves her to death, and thinks everything that she does is so spiritual. People let her get away with this because they think she is on another level! but she’s human just like us!

wow, so erica badu, has three baby daddy and not even married to one of them.. is she at least with the latest baby daddy.????. c’mon, now…

dam, why didn’t she have a baby with Common, when she dated him….. he was in- love with her ass..

I’m sorry, say what you will but three living baby daddy’s is just messy and confusing for the kids!!! I don’t care what she says about her “queendom”.

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I love Erykah Badu. As long as she can take care of her children and they are healthy who cares. I can’t judge her life. Does it make a difference if she were with a jerk as long as the children all had the same father ?

um, not too many pple know this but diahnna ross has i think 3 or 4 different baby daddies… but i think shen was married to all of them..

The baby’s name is not Twitty Milk…ppl will believe Jesus lived around the corner from Michael Jackson if Bossip or any other media outlet for that matter told ya’ll.

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