Child Support Rears Its Ugly Head
Posted by Bossip Staff
Jason Caffey, former NBA player has filed for bankruptcy because he can not keep up with his child support payments. Caffey, who has not been in the NBA since 2003, has yet to pay up for about eight children ranging from ages 3-14 (SMH at them not even knowing exactly how many kids he had):
Former NBA player Jason Caffey had two kids with his wife before she filed for divorce in Fulton County last year. He also has had a slew of children — at least six others — with other women around the country, in and around Atlanta as well as in Alabama, Louisiana and Illinois. Most went to court and got hefty child-support orders from Caffey while he was making millions playing professional basketball. Now he has filed for bankruptcy in Alabama to get the women — and law enforcement — off his back.
Caffey’s attorney in Atlanta says his client agreed to the high payments because he could afford it. In a 10-year career with the Chicago Bulls, Golden State Warriors and Milwaukee Bucks, the 6-foot 8-inch power forward made as much as $5 million a season. “Those days have ended,” lawyer Jim Altman said. “And he’s been saddled by these payments that are absolutely astronomical.” Altman said he doesn’t know what happened to Caffey’s basketball money. Caffey did not return a phone message seeking comment. “He’s a deadbeat,” said another attorney, Clarence Roby Jr., who is representing a Louisiana woman who had two of Caffey’s children. “If you choose to procreate and have children coast to coast and you don’t take care of those children, you’re a deadbeat.”
It’s not clear exactly how many children Caffey has fathered — and his lawyer’s not telling. “It’s more than I have and fewer than what Evander Holyfield has,” said Altman, who has two children, compared to 11 for Holyfield. The attorney for Caffey’s wife, Bebe Caffey of Roswell, said she doesn’t know, either. Neither does her client.
“She didn’t know about all of the children,” lawyer Regina Edwards said. “She knew about a few. She had no idea he was being that disrespectful to her.”
This should be a message for all, damn, man up and take care of your kids…even if it’s a ga-zillion of them. Either that or quit man-whoring…
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TSk.TSk….these ballers today…
Wow…
Really!!!? But someone saw him on a luxury millionaire club http://www.meetrich.com what’s happening??
Damn. Why not just keep it in your pants? Better yet get a vasectomy they are inexpensive, reversible, and will lessen your likelihood of having a child you can’t or won’t take care of until you’re ready.
Why cldn’t he have gotten a lawyer, had all the DNA tests and had reasonable payments set up for when he left the NBA!
Why didn’t he wear a condom?
Why didn’t he get a vasectomy after child#4?
Why didn’t he make any investments for after he left the NBA knowing damn well he has at least 8 chldren to feed, cloth and put through school?
Why did women continue to have unprotected sex with him?
SMDH, more fuel for the stereo type of dumb black atheletes and black men making all these kids they can’t or don’t take care of!
Thats nasty 4real.
NICCAS, need to keep it in their pants!
OH WELL, WAKE UP PEOPLE! HERE IS A LITTLE SOMETHING, FOR YOU TO WAKE UP TO!
Damn….
***** should’ve had that chord cut a LONG time ago.
*****in’ dummy.
Most men with money are hoes…..WOMEN PLEASE UNDERSTAND THERE WILL BE OTHER *****ES WHEN MONEY IS INVOLVED. PERIOD
She didn’t know about all of the children,” lawyer Regina Edwards said. “She knew about a few. She had no idea he was being that disrespectful to her.”
The word “disrespectful” doesn’t quite fit this situation.
vgeezy,
truer words have never been spoken
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disrespectful is sort of a mild way of putting it.
SSSOOO sad….
Why, oh why, must we ALWAYS be the stereotype? Compare black athletes to white rockstars…they ALL sleep with countless groupies, but only *****S have babies with them! Tommy Lee (Motley Crue) slept with sssooo many groupies, but only had children in his mid-thirties when he married Pamela Anderson.
This is just another, all too familiar example of more black, out of wedlock births being raised fatherless to eventually end up as just another stereotype. And we wonder why we will always be looked down upon as the lowest on the todempole (sp).
We’ll never advance as a race if we don’t even take care of our own offspring. Lord have mercy on us all…another embarr*****ment to hardworking, faith-based, family-oriented black people.
I am a woman, but I STILL blame the women! Men cannot give birth and until we, as black woman, demand that men be REAL, FAITH-BASED men and stop having babies out of wedlock for men who will eventually abandon us and the innocent children, then nothing will ever change. If a man knows that the only way for him to become a father is to become a REAL man and commit to a wife and a family, I believe that this would have the most impact in the black community.
However, as long as woman continue to sleep with anything–void of any standards, then our culture will remain the same and we will continue to lead ALL other races in the rate of HIV infection.
Oppo always trying to promote that damn club!
I see those women know about the 9 month wealth building plan. I thought it was a secret.
I used to date Nigel Benns son who was a world champion boxer and he was the same, his son didn’t even know his father past 2 and he has countless brothers and sisters. He even try to deny him and he is the only one out of his kids so far who actually has followed in his footsteps and become a boxer and is making it on the London circuit and your going to turn around and say he isn’t yours.
He (the guy i used to see) had a half brother with the same name!
Athletes are the worse!
These athletes have got to learn that most of these women consider their sperm as nothing but little atm cards that they can use for an 18 – 21 year free ride. You gotta let these groupies p*****, or get a vasectomy. The modern-day groupie ain’t about takin’ no birth control pills – ***** up their logn-term financial goals.
Those other women were not going to mind if he knocked a few of them up. Their lazy *****es saw it as a easy way to have some good money in their pockets from a millionaire baller. So I dont blame him as if hes alone in it. You would be surprised what low down low cl***** women would do-saving ***** in the condoms for later so they can put it inside them lol. Just nasty ***** thast too dayumn funny but disgraceful and disgusting at the same time. Chances are those same women cant get a stable career or anything for themselves or anything in their own name. Just TERRIBLE!
I don’t deal w/ baby mama drama so this post was as interesting as Kim and Puffy.
sorry…all the blame isn’t on him
yes its sad that he is out makin babies like crazy but sheesh…
most women see these men as “cash cows”
these men really need to be smarter
most of us [women] wouldn’t give a regular brother with 6-7 kids (by 12 women)a second glance. why is it that these guys STILL get the time of day…
“cash cows”. you reap what you sow. i don’t feel sorry for the men NOR the women. only the children. poor, poor babies.
Please quit this “all the blame is not on him” talk. We know. However, seeing as he is the one fathering numerous children by numerous women, and not theses women having numerous babies with numerous men, I think it has more to do with this fool being, well, a fool. He desreves everything he gets and more. I hope he goes broke, his baby mamas go broke as well, so that they can teach their children to live economically and actually appreciate money. Useless, uneducated, glorified slave(ys, that is what these so-called black athletes are). Deadbeat. How ever so typical! SMDFH!
I am from La. and I can understand men need to pay child support but on the real. If you know he is not playing sports for what ever reason how to expect for him to continue to pay your astronomical child support. You are being greedy. Half of the time the money is going towards the woman and not the welfare of the child…if you are knowing he is on bad terms why do this to him…seek more money…
Even though the song is laced with ‘*****’ and ‘hoe’ I will quote it to make my point:
“Don’t dump in the gut raw from the giddy up!
Better choose the right one or pick, pick the kiddies up!”
Marquis de Sade sez,
These athletes have got to learn that most of these women consider their sperm as nothing but little atm cards that they can use for an 18 – 21 year free ride.
LMAO!!…..but so true!!
@Ttime
You speak true dialogue.
But, I want to say that men who have sex with women without regard for having a child were taught an some point in their lives to have such a degrading attitude by who? The Black Woman. I am not saying this to put down all black women, so PLEASE, if this is NOT YOU, do not be offended! But, anyway, I’ll cosign.
Marquis de Sade
These athletes have got to learn that most of these women consider their sperm as nothing but little atm cards that they can use for an 18 – 21 year free ride. You gotta let these groupies p*****, or get a vasectomy. The modern-day groupie ain’t about takin’ no birth control pills – ***** up their logn-term financial goals.
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LMAO @^^^^^^^
IT’S CHEAPER 2 BUY CONDOMS AND USE THEM THEN HAVING KIDS U KNOW U CAN’T AFFORD!!!!DUH DUMB A..
Those atheletes will impregnate a hole in a wall, deposit a disease and child.
BLACK MEN SIMPLY HAVE NO IDEA OF WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A FATHER BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT MEN. EVEN ANIMALS TAKE CARE OF THEIR OFFSPRING, THAT’S WHY EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS THAT A AMN WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN IS WORST THAN AN INFIDEL.
GOT CONDOMS?
If I had to hook up some sperm for my atm card, I think I would like to have sperm from Bill Gates or Warren Buffett………someone with multigenerational wealth. Someone who can still make payments when the checks STOP coming it. Hell, need sperm that don’t have to file for bankruptcy, because he *****ed his money away. Someone who can set up a million dollar trust funds for their grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
@ MEN
Do y’all ever feel like the world is all about man bashing especially black men?
@ Women
Do y’all have bfs/husbands? If so do you encourage them?
We can put it on the athletes and other celebrities, but how about putting some back on these hoochie groupies who just want to lay with a “balla” either so she can say that she “has” or to get knocked up by him??
Ladies, you own a large part of this ***** too. I wish my daughter WOULD come home and tell me she’s dealing with an athlete or entertainer…
He need Jesus and so do the women who had his baby. Eight baby momma’s. HIV and hepres aren’t anything to play with. They could have put their children at risk. SMH When will men and women learn. And we wonder why AA are leading cases for HIV/AIDS.
@Black Men Are So..
I gotta tell you to go hang yourself for that garbage. Seeing as know many great Black fathers (and happen to be one myself) I don’t appreciate the sweeping generalization.
Bitter *****.
Pervster
We can put it on the athletes and other celebrities, but how about putting some back on these hoochie groupies who just want to lay with a “balla” either so she can say that she “has” or to get knocked up by him??
Ladies, you own a large part of this ***** too. I wish my daughter WOULD come home and tell me she’s dealing with an athlete or entertainer…
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You contridict yourself. You say put some of the ownership on the ladies (I completely agree) but then your last sentence says I wish my daughter WOULD come home and tell me she’s dealing with an athlete or entertainer… So do you think she would turn into one of those atm card sperm women or that one of those entertainers/athletes would knock her up and leave her? No disrespect, just trying to understand.
@ BLACK MEN ARE SO PATHETIC
What does that say for the women who lay with these (so-called) animals? I suggest that you to the Golden Brooks thread and read The Undisputed Truth’s take on black women who make ***** poor choices on men.
@Pervster
I agree. I am a woman and I was offended by that generalization. That’s why I posted that thread asking all women and all men.
No one is BASHING black men, but I think that there is the unspoken *****UMPTION and EXPECTATION that once you become a millionaire, you cease with the foolish and destrutive behavior.
You should at least BUY yourself some good sense!
Just because you can ***** everyone, doesn’t mean that you should!!
black women are atrracted to men like this……
Then that niggca down here in mobile with clubs (1608)and stuff got everybody think he balling looking crazy
Why?
Why?
http://www.theblackactor.com/
Oh great..I’m happy to clarify. The answer is HELL NO, I’m sure she won’t be one of those women, cause she’s being RAISED right. She knows what love is by the way her FATHER shows it to her. I’m merely stating just in the course of her socialization in college, etc. You can’t stop someone from having a relationship when it’s “true”, but fortunately she has a daddy that recognizes “game” and can put it to her to keep her on the straight path. Period.
My point is, I would HIGHLY DISCOURAGE it. And being as how I myself am an up and coming songwriter/artist I know firsthand the game out here.
What I desire for my daughter has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with loose groupies out here that serve as sperm receptacles, and I cannot see at all why you tried to draw a parallel.
@Pervster
In response to:
I cannot see at all why you tried to draw a parallel.
I drew the parallel b/c you made a generalization about all men in the entertainment and sports field. If you raised her right, which I am sure you are, then why discourage her from dating someone in those fields? As a woman that she will one day become that’s her choice and your statment only furthered the idea that male entertainers and athletes are untrustworthy or would make bad partners.
This ***** is disgusting. damn fool should have tought about his future. now he is just another bum and a drunk waiting to hapen
BLACK MEN ARE SO PATHETIC
BLACK MEN SIMPLY HAVE NO IDEA OF WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A FATHER BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT MEN. EVEN ANIMALS TAKE CARE OF THEIR OFFSPRING, THAT’S WHY EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS THAT A AMN WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN IS WORST THAN AN INFIDEL.
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Generalizations is not sound wisdom. This is all the face of all black men, just like all black women are not as willing to let men inject them with semen to get thousand dollar checks 12 times 18 years. Learn about the black men who are true gods in their business and what they do, dear. Learn about the black goddesses who know how to love and submit to their black gods. Hotep.
“This is NOT all the face of all black men,”
Thank you.
sperm receptacles…lol
no really, lmao
That’s EXACTLY what his ***** gets! The “baby mamas too. My baby’s father plays in the NBA and u better believe I took care of all of that to protect my daughter in case some dumb ***** like this happens. To the wife: I don’t know y u r suprised about him spreading his seed around like that, most of them in the league have multiple children. It’s part of the package and u knew that b4 u married him! And to the “baby mamas”: Ya’ll need to step ur game up too, because u knew the deal when u laid with that man! *****s can’t ball 4eva! I’m not stupid. While those checks r pouring in, I continue to work my professional job as well as attend school full time, so when those checks DO stop coming we r straight! Stop leaving ur destiny in their hands. Take advantage of the situation at hand and handle ur biz, so when them checks stop, u AND ur precious 1(s) are straight!!
To those men:
Why are y’all surprised that a chick only wants you for your finances and your ***** when that’s all you offer her?
To those women:
Why do you wear revealing outfits and then get mad if he only wants to f*ck?
And…
you crack me up. LOL
are you gathering all of this knowledge for a book? LOL…PLEASE tell me when it hits shelves. I will support you girl!
@I Stay SMH
LOL, no I am just so curious. I should have majored in psychology. I ask these questions to people all the time but they won’t answer them. I figure asking online makes it easier for people to be honest.
All the adults involved in this disgraceful situation (with the exception of the wife) need to be ashamed of themselves.
First, he is a dirty *****. A dumb, dirty, ***** who couldn’t manage to hold onto his money after he’d banked millions.
The women are dirty *****s. Golddigging, dirty, *****s looking for easy money.
By now everyone knows what’s up with a dude approaching you for sex with no type of relationship or committment. And we know what’s up with a woman who allows a supposedly wealthy man have unprotected sex with her. How this continues to happen is just baffling to me. Shouldn’t game recognize game? I guess these folks were just too damn stupid.
I’m *****ing appalled!
LMAO@ WhatTheHell? for saying:
“How this continues to happen is just baffling to me. Shouldn’t game recognize game? I guess these folks were just too damn stupid. I’m *****ing appalled!”
@AND..
Please revisit my post when I spoke of “true” relationships, you can only take so much out of blog posts. I said I would HIGHLY DISCOURAGE it. I did not generalize all athletes and entertainers, I simply said “I wish my daughter would”..it was you who made that deduction.
That is where being able to discern the game from the real comes in, being able to see a person’s character and advising your children accordingly. But then you have a source such as Elicious34c telling her story…Not all, but let’s be honest a large portion of them are doing this.
has he ever heard of condoms
He will be broke for a very long time.
@Elicious
Sorry, I wasn’t trying to imagine your *****y size :O)
“..such as Elicious34c telling her story”..
@Pervster
Your last thread only agreed with my last post about you making a generalization. You said I wish my daughter would” (I’m sorry for *****uming so I’ll ask) What did you mean by that statment?
AND
I study psychology and sociology myself.
I say that SOME men who have access to money will use it as a means to satisfy their sexual desires as them seeing the women as sex objects only there to offer sex for their ***** at the right price…
SOME women seek to have RICH husbands who will love them and adore them like a goddess, therefore giving these women access to money, because they may have not had a proper father figure to valid their worth as a lady, but *****uming that men are only interested in who looks sexy, they dress in a manner that prevents the man from noticing their face which is their essence. SOME of these women KNOW some men are out ONLY FOR SEX, but they think they can CHANGE HIM by being with his CHILD. By the time the child is 10 years old, they realize they (SOME women) did this to build a self esteem from without they should have had from within….sorry if this is long….
Get a vasectomy, and run — not walk — the other way when any ***** tries to screw you without a condom.
these females who do this are nasty. he’s a dumb*****. those poor children who are the result o such shamlessness and selfishness need to be taken out of the homes and placed somewhere with people who will love them and not use them as a payday.
Pervster
We can put it on the athletes and other celebrities, but how about putting some back on these hoochie groupies who just want to lay with a “balla” either so she can say that she “has” or to get knocked up by him??
Ladies, you own a large part of this ***** too.
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
shame on all the golddigging *****es
single mothers can still work and survive without getting millions
@AND..For the 3rd time
I would HIGHLY DISCOURAGE it. What did you expect me to say??? Let me try some substitutes for you..
I would..put my daughter in timeout??
I would… disown my daughter (how silly)
I would.. smack the taste out of her mouth (never to my kids) I will spank that ***** though if they get out of line. (By the way I have a teen daughter)
I would…cut her out of her inheritance??
My point is, I’m sure you are well aware of how we use that phrase in certain situations, right?? I merely said it to stress how serious I am about her entering into certain types of relationships; that have a high probability of being destructive.
“has yet to pay up for about eight children ”
Wow, he’s a few kids short of having a full basketball team of illegitimate kids. Congrats!!
I’m just saying, if it is a one night stand, or maybe you just want to hit it, or if you do not plan to marry the lady, can a brother shoot it on her stomach? Does every instance where the brother has sex have to end on the inside? Daaag! Fools, all of them!
I could take my time and read all of these interesting (i’m sure) posts, but I have no idea who this guy is and I’m a basketball fan. So…
Homie, if you make the babies, support and take care of them. Period dot. *This is a PSA to all the dudes and ladies not taking responsibility. You don’t want your kids and folx to see you as a fuggin’ loser* Do you?
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Mahogany
I don’t deal w/ baby mama drama so this post was as interesting as Kim and Puffy.
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Co-sign that!!! STEP YA GAME UP PEOPLE!!!! ON BOTH ENDS!!!!! DUDES, GET VASECTOMIES!!! IT WON’T FALL OFF AND YOU CAN ***** FOR MUCH CHEAPER!!!!
WOMEN!!! KEEP YA *****IN’ LEGS CLOSED SOME DAYUM TIME!!!!
and at the person that compaired WHITE rock stars to Black athletes…
1. You have NO IDEA how many kids Tommy Lee has? The RICHER YOU ARE, THE EASIER IT IS TO COVER UP KIDS!!!! TRUST ME, THERE ARE LOTS OF PEOPLE OUT THERE WITH KIDS WE DON’T HEAR ABOUT!!!
Kid Rock has a son with a Black woman out of wedlock…..
Point is…DON’T BELIEVE THE HYPE!!! WHITE PEOPLE ARE JUST BETTER AT HIDING IT!!!! THEY DO IT TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL INFERIOR AND IT WORKS A LOT OF THE TIME!!!!!
Masters of mind control and manipulation. TRUST ME!!! I grew up with so many rich white girls that just disappeared and re-apppeared a few years later and a couple of pounds thicker in the hip cuz they went away to have a baby!!!
Or have had 23 abortions to get through college instead of sport *****ing!!! So what’s the difference?
Yeah, athletes are bad, but I know some broke brothers with more kids than the tea cup ride can hold at once. Guys like this brought this bad behavior with them to the league. They were merely aided and abetted by a fat check while lacking good judgment.
Black men this, black women that. What about those poor kids who never asked to be put in the situation to begin with ? I wonder how many of them grew up having mom point to the tv cause that was the only time they ever saw their fathers ? This makes me wish there were parental competency tests given at doctors offices. If you fail, you get sterilized.
Smartie
This makes me wish there were parental competency tests given at doctors offices. If you fail, you get sterilized.
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LOL damn
I do agree both parties share the blame. People have just stopped considering the consequences, not only for themselves but for their current and future families
Jason made at least 5 million dollars in one seaon (one year). That’s more money that most people will make in two or three lifetimes.
What in the hell did he spend his money on? And yes, we do know, it wasn’t condoms.
@Pervster
Sorry, didn’t mean to stike a chord just trying to get an understanding. Sensitive much?
ROTFLMAO@
JillyBean819
“has yet to pay up for about eight children ”
Wow, he’s a few kids short of having a full basketball team of illegitimate kids. Congrats!!
@Elicious34
That’s EXACTLY what his ***** gets! The “baby mamas too. My baby’s father plays in the NBA and u better believe I took care of all of that to protect my daughter in case some dumb ***** like this happens. To the wife: I don’t know y u r suprised about him spreading his seed around like that, most of them in the league have multiple children. It’s part of the package and u knew that b4 u married him! And to the “baby mamas”: Ya’ll need to step ur game up too, because u knew the deal when u laid with that man! *****s can’t ball 4eva! I’m not stupid. While those checks r pouring in, I continue to work my professional job as well as attend school full time, so when those checks DO stop coming we r straight! Stop leaving ur destiny in their hands. Take advantage of the situation at hand and handle ur biz, so when them checks stop, u AND ur precious 1(s) are straight!!
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Tell Me you were joking about having a baby daddy in the NBA. That is the post calling the kettle black. These women probably saw the same thing you saw. LMAO at this ish! This whole day is eff up. We talking about women like you and you make it seem like you aren’t one of the women. It’s good you take care of your child but the facts are on the table. I can’t believe your post I must be in the twlight zone.
^^^^ pot calling the kettle black Miss I have a baby daddy in the NBA. Between the Nelly post the ***** in the black out fit and this I must be in the twlight zone.
When are our people gonna stop with foolishness?
Instead of calling the children “illegitimate”, we should call the parents “illegitimate”!! They committ the crime, the child doesn’t!
Just a thought…
When are our people gonna stop with foolishness?
NEVER!!!!!
These guys have all this money, so why don’t they date women who are doctors, executives, lawyers or hell, even an Indian Chief instead of these baby mamas?
How ridiculous. I’ll bet every penny I have (which is probably more than he has) that he feels like a victim of these women. As if somehow he didn’t know that having indiscriminate, unprotected sex would result in child support lawsuits.
If he isn’t smart enough to put on a condom, I’m not surprised he’s run out of money.
Bankruptcy does not absolve you of child support responsibilities. It will allow the court to erase all former calculations and determine support based on post-bankruptcy earnings. He’s not getting away with anything. You can’t file your kids away.
EP
These guys have all this money, so why don’t they date women who are doctors, executives, lawyers or hell, even an Indian Chief instead of these baby mamas?
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That’s a good *****ing point. I never thought about that. If you are on level 20 why are you even wit someone on level 10? And it seems like athletes are the prime ones doing it. At least actors/singers usually marry/date someone who actually has a career of their own.
@AND..
No, not quite sensitive. It just gets to be a bit annoying when someone cannot get something when you tell it to them explicitly 3 DAMN times. It has nothing to do with you “striking a chord”, unless you equate that to beiing obnoxious…
EP
These guys have all this money, so why don’t they date women who are doctors, executives, lawyers or hell, even an Indian Chief instead of these baby mamas?
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Ha! LOL in so many ways
@ AND…. & EP
This may come off as being superficial, but have you seen your average female doctor, lawyer, executive? On average, not a pretty sight.
The reason why groupies are so desirable to the male athlete/rapper/actor is because they work real hard on their looks. That’s their job…Besides, why would a ultra-attractive female doctor/lawyer/executive entertain the thought of dating an overpaid jock, a thug with a recording contract and a narcissistic actor? – They don’t have to.
Having money doesn’t make elevate people. Hello ? What did dumb***** T.I. just get caught doing ? What’s that loon Heather Mills doing ? This b-ball player was probably making up to 5 mil a year thanks to a smart agent, not player. The agent probably pointed to the line on the contract and told that dumb***** where to sign. He’s probably fool enough to put circles or hearts over his little “i” too.
Pervster
@AND..
No, not quite sensitive. It just gets to be a bit annoying when someone cannot get something when you tell it to them explicitly 3 DAMN times. It has nothing to do with you “striking a chord”, unless you equate that to beiing obnoxious…
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No, I don’t I was trying to confirm what you said. AND… I was right. No biggie.
Marquis de Sade
@ AND…. & EP
This may come off as being superficial, but have you seen your average female doctor, lawyer, executive? On average, not a pretty sight.
The reason why groupies are so desirable to the male athlete/rapper/actor is because they work real hard on their looks. That’s their job…Besides, why would a ultra-attractive female doctor/lawyer/executive entertain the thought of dating an overpaid jock, a thug with a recording contract and a narcissistic actor? – They don’t have to.
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Don’t know where you live but you don’t have to be a hoe to be beautiful.
I’d have to disagree. There are lots of powerful and attractive women out here on the playing field. Check out BE’s 50 most powerful women in business.
My observation is that a lot of these powerful black men “say” they want a women that can bring something to the table but they are very intimidated by a woman that can “hold her own” and do well without him.
Some of these guys have REAl complexes, you know. he’s gotta feel like a “man”. His woman has got to be Mrs. {Insert Husband’s name here} instead having their own identity and say so.
A groupie wants what she wants. Her intentions are on the table. She is not desiring respect, self worth, time and consideration.
THAT would be my reasoning as to why they choose the company that they “creep”.
want a “woman”
my bad
lol
All I’m saying is if you got yo’ ***** together get wit someone who has their ***** together. Prime example Beyonce and Jay Z. They both got money and fame so ain’t ***** she can buy him that he can’t buy himself and vice versa so they actually have to be real b/c to them the glitz and glamour is played out.
Marquis de Sade sez,
This may come off as being superficial, but have you seen your average female doctor, lawyer, executive? On average, not a pretty sight.
LOL, you just wait until I tell my sister, cousin, and sister-in-law (all lawyers) on you!
Gross
http://perezhilton.com/?p=7844
@ EP & AND…
Yes, but do they date jocks and rappers? And how many unattractive groupies do you see professional jocks/rappers/actors with, unless they had the misfortune of marrying their H.S. or College sweetheart, who has now gone to seed?
Just feeding into the “black man” sterotype. Thanks! Shame.
I was at the grocery store the other day with my baby. This black guy walked up to me saying, “Oh that’s a quiet baby. We’ll come around if the baby’s like that,” and so on and so on about not being around his child. I ignored him and shortly after, my husband came towards us, and began playing with our child. He felt like a dumb*****. Since when did being away from your baby become so damn funny? And since when did seeing a black woman with their child in public automatically counts as her being by herself with a “baby-daddy”? These damn sterotypes are pathetic. (I’m starting a new sterotype: All black women have at least $7,000 in their savings account)
SMH
Oh girl that made me throw up!! UGH!
EP
Marquis de Sade sez,
This may come off as being superficial, but have you seen your average female doctor, lawyer, executive? On average, not a pretty sight.
LOL, you just wait until I tell my sister, cousin, and sister-in-law (all lawyers) on you!
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I hope they whoop his *****. LOL!!
misfortune of marrying their high school sweetie…
WOW???
@Marquis de Sade
I feel you but that’s their choice. There are plenty of women dating entertainers who have their own careers. I never said anything about lawyer or doctor b/c that’s not the only thing you can do to be succesful. These athletes are making their own beds hard and now they must sleep in them.
Is this where Diddy is headed?
Why would you have this many kids if your ***** was practicing safe sex? TRIFLING ***** motherf*cker!
Beyonce acccused of GHETTOIZING Reno Neighborhood!!! Pretty Ricky Breaks UP!
Well if he knew he had child support like that he should have been trying to extend his career in the NBA, making better investments, or something. It wasn’t like child support spring up on him along with the kids. He need to put his soldiers on strike cause he can afford their past conquest he can’t aquire anymore. Did he at least finish college?
^^^Can’t afford
I’m just curious to know where all the child support money he was paying these women went. I’m sure he was probably paying thousands per kid per month. Who spends thousands a month on a kid? No one I know.
@ thaaazright
You know those $30.00 baby Js add up through the years. lol
^ ummm I tend to think that if he doesn’t even know how many chilrens he HAS — he ain’t been payin much of anything to anyone.
@ bee-mice-elf
*****.. that ***** already there. Hell got 5.. That we know about.. got dayum…
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“Hell he got 5″
^ LOL, but as long as he is EFFin artist in the a$$ with no KY…and continuously bringing in new artists, endorsments, business deals — his family will continue to eat.
you ain’t gon catch ol’ diddy sitting at home pickin his nose waitin on money to fall from the sky…he KNOW he got mouths to feed (including grown ones)
SMDH……For some reason I cant find it in my heart to feel sorry for him……
We’ll never advance as a race if we don’t even take care of our own offspring. Lord have mercy on us all…another embarr*****ment to hardworking, faith-based, family-oriented black people.
I am a woman, but I STILL blame the women! Men cannot give birth and until we, as black woman, demand that men be REAL, FAITH-BASED men and stop having babies out of wedlock for men who will eventually abandon us and the innocent children, then nothing will ever change. If a man knows that the only way for him to become a father is to become a REAL man and commit to a wife and a family, I believe that this would have the most impact in the black community.
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I wholeheartedly agree with Ttime.
Having your biological parents under the same roof is more valuable than anything money can buy. (Unless of course there is abuse in the relationship.)
We as women owe it to our children to choose whom we mate with wisely.
Men, the best gift you can give to your child is to love their mother completely.
these dumb ***** athletes will never learn….
Why he mad all those kids? http://www.spymac.com/details?2295014
This is why its important to wear condoms or at least have sex when your married.
“IF YOU CAN’T FEED THEM, DON’T BREED THEM”!
With all the money these athletes make,they should invest in a case of condoms instead of rims & bling. I guess they are trying to eclipse the record for most kids by an athlete by Ex NBA player back in the ’70’s & ’80’s Houston Rockets guard Calvin Murphy who I believe has around 15 kids. Then u have guys like Sean Kemp, Latrell Spreewell, Willie Anderson who have a multitude of kids. Right now, the person that takes the cake in the NFL is Travis Henry of the Denver Broncos who has 9 kids by 9 babymamas. I guess hockey players don’t act a fool doing the “mattress mambo” like the brothers in the other major sports. All these guys fertilizing all these women will have no money for support & will be sleeping on park benches.
When are our people gonna stop with foolishness?
It’s so funny if you live in Baltimore it’s entirely cool to ask a girl how many kids she has instead of if she has them. Tell her you don’t have kids the question is why? Umm I’m not married chick. Whatever women have the kids women need to stop having kids. Make the guys use condoms. No problem.
When are our people gonna stop with foolishness?
When we go back to the old school way of raising kids. If you are too sorry to raise your child, give them to somebody that wil raise them.
No child should be forced to live with loser parents that view them as a check.
When we encourage education and not drugs, gangs and sex. I shouldn’t see 11 year old girls pregnant. I shouldn’t have to hear in my school the average conversation between young black kids begin with who got shot, bloods, crips, I got arrested or I licked the p***y or ate this d**k. While the Hispanic conversations begin with I got a job, did you see what happen in the news or I bought (blank).
When our black women learn to keep their legs closed. How in the hell can you teach a boy to respect women when they see 5 siblings with different daddies and your bedroom is a motel six
When our pastors stop worrying about how big of a church they have and go baack to saving the community as it was designed to do.
When our black men stop defining manhood by sex. I don’t care if you sleep with half the WNBA, you are a ho and an embarr*****ment to our race for degrading women and yourself.
When we stop praising brothers that break the law. Jena 6? Vick? Pacman? And start praising those that do right. When was the last time anyone praised a young brother that made the honor roll?
When we stop standing by and letting losers ruin our kids. No parent should allow anyone to teach their child to stael car even if they are family.
When we stop watching BET and supporting negative media (movies, magazines & shows). We want some positive stuff to balance out everything. You want to show 50 Cent & LeBron off, then show me all those failed rappers and athletes and explain WHY THEY FAILED.
STOP HONORING FLAVOR OF THE MONTH NEGROS! Can we get some black awards show to show some love to guys that helped pave the way for others or continue to prove we aren’t losers. Levar Burton? Sean Nelson? Arjay Smith? James Earl Jones? Lt. Uhara?
When we stop letting the hood take our kids over. I don’t want to see a middle cl***** black kid trying to be gangsta. Need proof-BOW WOW.
I guess people don’t think about STD’s and AIDS I know I do What a sad society we live in
Bit Player,
It’s same here in Texas. It’s just that middle/high school girls brag about it. We have a tleast two schools where if you don’t have a child, you are a loser.
I second Ghost’s 9:19 post on when our people will stop this foolishness. So let it be written, so let it be done.
@Just an opinion
First of all, I was not a “groupie” and FAR from a w*****. I was in a relationship with this man and knew him waaay b4 he became famous. So don’t categorize people. And for your info, he wanted this baby. So we handled it like adults. Therefore, I don’t fit in that category nor do or will I have that problem. Some things just don’t work out(for whatever reason).I wasn’t looking for a paycheck when I got pregnant. We were dealing with each other for years b4 she was ever thought of. I was a professional nurse when we beagn dating. No, I don’t HAVE to work, but i CHOOSE to because I was already doing that b4 becoming a mother. Not only that I want to show her a positive work ethic. I continue to persue my education because his career could be over tommorow and I want to maintain the lifestyle she has become accustomed to. If he fell off tommorow she will continue to be taken care of. Every story is not the same, so keep your “opinion” to yourself! BOTH people r responsible, not just the man or woman. These atheletes r given a cl***** when they join the league warning them about groupie activity. If they choose not to listen, oh well. We see what the results r………..
That is what they all say. Who is he, is he a bench warmer. IF he ain’t a starter he ain’t worth it. I called you out cause you put your business out there.
You claim to be in that situation why acting all high and mighty. Fact is your just like them. Im sure he was sleeping with other women and you end up having unprotected sex anyway!! Ms High and mighty, you ain’t no different, play stupid all you want.
@ Jus Another Opinion
You are soooo immature…And hopefully in a few years, you’ll look back on your impetuousness and be ashamed…Better yet, why aren’t you heeding the counseling of your mentor “LAWDHAVEMERCY”, when she delicately advised you on an earlier thread regarding Karrine Stepphans aka Superhead, to calm down and show a little restraint and decorum…Afterall, elicious34 just shared her experience in dealing with a personal relationship with a professional ballplayer as pertaining to this current thread. She was polite and articulate and not the least bit condescending, as you so unfairly accused her of. In closing, you should appologize for your unwarranted rudeness and pugnacious attitude. In other words, dare to be different and be a lady.
WOMEN DICTATE SOCIETY’S STANDARDS!!!!!!
U people R so silly half these BM’S R white girls just ask Sprewell who’s has 1 N the bay. Regular dudes R paying child support also 4 multi-kids atheletes should not get special treatment. A postal worker paying 1000 is to a baller 10000. That’s the math
I’m sorry, but seriously, once a guy has two or three children and he’s not with the mother, what can you really expect? Why are some women stupid enough to think that they have the “Magic Box” to make these men settle down. A dead beat is a dead beat by any other name. Cherish your womb and the children it may hold, stop having babies by losers. Althoug, some of you make a living by having loser’s babies.
Love the title!
SUCKS TO BE YOU!!!!
hahahahahahahahahhahahahaha
when will men learn? wrap up strap up! 8 kids? hittin that ***** raw? u know he gotta be burning! i know he burning!
@ just an opinion
First of all I would like to say to u young lady(u MUST b young, due to the immature content in your threads,LOL!), as Marquis de Sade said(thank u!), I was simply stating MY situation and again proving that not every mother of a child whose father is in the league is a “gold digging w*****”. And if u MUST know, he is VERY famous, starts EVERY game, and makes OVER 6 million a year! Don’t hate. I’m sorry if u had a baby by a scrub or something or have been dissed by a baller in the past, but let the animosity go. U don’t know me from adam and it’s really not that serious. Like u, I was just stating MY opinion. No, I am not acting “high and mighty” or think I’m better than anybody else. Actually I am a VERY humble person. And as far as him sleeping with other women, he was, if u REALLY want to know. That’s y I left his *****!!! So, I’m FAAAR from stupid BOOBOO. U really need to grow up! Matter of fact, maybe pick up a book, u JUST might learn something! Because u r ignorant as hell……
N*ggas (there is a distinct difference between black men and n*ggas) ain’t sh*t…..and neither are the ignorant hoodrats who have their illegitimate children.
Birth control is EVERYWHERE and much of it is FREE….use it! I just don’t get it- why in the Holy hell would you raw an NBA player????? AND one with a school of kids already???? These dumb MFs made their messy, trifling beds….now let them lie in it.
When did it become a badge of honor to be a baby mama of any kind???? Guess I didn’t get the memo….
Trifiling, Good for nothing type of Brother!!!
YOU SEE…. LET THIS BE A LESSON TO THE FUTURE BALLERS
ALL THOSE GROUPIES YOU’VE BEEN SEEING WITH THEIR ***** OUT AND ***** AND ***** SHOWING….
RUN **********A RUN!
I am sure all the kids isn’t the only way he “disrespected” bebe. i wonder how his being broke influenced her decision to leave. that sucks though. how can he not know how many kids he has? they’re could end up marrying each other or some ***** because of him
Note to nig nog rappers and gang bangers, etc. Come up with a rap like “If you are going to get silly, better wrap your *****”
You’d think he’d do something after kid #3 but nooooooo.
Was the punani really worth it… fool?
I think not.
Some (some, I use that loosely) men are just dumb. Especially the rich ones. You can get rid of child support just by filing bankruptcy. I am a child support officer.
Oh and I’m probably just as dumb for posting this during work hours.
(CORRECTION IN THE SECOND SENTENCE)
Some (some, I use that loosely) men are just dumb. Especially the rich ones. You CAN’T get rid of child support just by filing bankruptcy. I am a child support officer.
Oh and I’m probably just as dumb for posting this during work hours.
Kneegrows are just plain stupid when it comes to responsibility.
Did most of these females have more that one kid by this man? Did most of these women have a job or were they trying to have kids with a so-called celebrity to get a guaranteed paycheck? If he files bankrupty, will he never have to pay child support or what? Well, it takes two to make a baby, but sadly, the women usually ends up having to take care of the kids mostly by themselves. I feel sorry for the wife(she probable didn’t know about his extra-marital affairs)…..besides, do you think those hoochies cared anything about his wife and their two kids together?……and it seems that he didn’t give a ***** about his wife or the kids they had together. I hate to be critical, but, I think that most husbands end up cheating on their wives at some point, whether they have money or not. Women(wives) if you think that your husband is faithful, THINK AGAIN!…..
Well my people I must say, people don’t think about the outcome when in bed. They are thinking about having fun. In response to the person who asked why these players don’t date doctors, lawyers,and other professionals is simple. Can a player tell me to get on a plane at 1:00am because he wants to have sex? Hell no,but he could do that to a misguided woman who doesn’t have her own situation going on. They can have women in every city they play in and see them on rotation. For some men getting married is great for their PR it means that they are serious,stable and want to build a foundation. It does not stop them from wanting to feel desired. When they come home their wives are not going to be excited like a jump-off would be. For the women I just say that most of the time no matter how great you are in bed he is not going to give you full access. Having a baby by them is serious business because you have to be there for the child for the rest of the child’s life. How will the child feel growing up in a broken home? Having bling today will not do anything for you later if you did not earn it yourself? For the men, you know these women are out there and yet the saga continues right? Try this talk to without mentioning what you do for a living and dress without bling. Men offer tell women about their money like holding a carrot in front of a rabbit then they wonder why she wants the money. If women stop running behind these players and get their own money the world would be a better place. If men focus more on making the money instead of the women they would not be in child support court.