It’s not that she’s a black woman…it’s just that she looks “manish”

I have said it since he married her, can’t knock her hustle. I was skeptical about her because she is unattractive even with makeup on, not because she is black and doesn’t fit what society says she should look like! She just looks like a man to me, LOL. But at the same time, she is older, so her game may be a bit tighter, LOL. She got Usher on lock, and the pregnancy was right on time. And where are her OTHER kids, by the way? Because we sure as hell haven’t seen them or even heard about them since she got with Usher, its like this baby is her only one. But at the same time, she has given me the ability to have even more confidence in myself that I could have had Usher if I was in the right place and time! LOL. Cause if he sprung off THAT, I KNOW I could have had him! LOL!

She’s 100% right!

Y’all need to stop. This isn’t a color issue. Gabrielle Union, Nia Long, Tichina Arnold, even poor Kelly Rowland who ar all chocolate women would not get the flack Tameka got. She needs to stop with that nonsense. She got the flack because she’s a cheater old enough to be his mother, who on top of everything doesn’t even get along with his mother! taht AIN’T no light skin/dark skin issue!

PARTLY*

Okay, so I see I’m late as ever… Ne who, I’ll stand by what I’ve always believed regarding these two: SHE GAVE HIM THAT SPECIAL SPAGHETTI.

On another note, isn’t this person NANA the one who always gets into heated debates on this site????

And maybe I’m late to her change of heart, but didn’t Mary J. Fake say she wasn’t coming back on this site???

I’ve been gone a minute, someone update me please>>>>

He Luvs her that’s all that matters!!

**Question 2 all?**

Have all of your dudes/girls have all been models? No, cuz there are less attractive people in this world.

And when you dated somebody that was not that attractive or meet the visual standards of friends n family the first thing they did was call them ugly and asked why you were with them. But it was more than looks that made you be with that person.

So, dont knock who someone else likes.

!!U don’t have 2 wake up 2 that person in the morning!! They do!

If he like her, I luv her!

O, yea and if she wasn’t black it would be, “Why he couldn’t get a sister?” U know it’s true. So, those people alone and let them be happy.

REAL TALK 101

*Men like woman that are in the image of their mothers and Women in the images of their fathers. Don’t think so?! Look at everybody you know or who you date, and tell me different.

But if your mother or father is messed up some kind of way. Pay attention to who you mess with and perfect your future!

Is there black on black hate? yes

Are some black people colorstruck? yes

but is that *the* reason why the public opinion of Tameka is not so good? NO. It’s her personality and her past. We are all entitled to an opinion and if Tameka doesn’t give the public anything positive to think about her then what are we supposed to base our opinions of her on? Come on now. Don’t go blaming your shortcomings on other people.

So, if Tameka had a great past and people acknowledged her for that, would she be saying “the only reason why people say *good* things about me is because I’m dark.”?

Okay, I don’t know what happened to my last comment…

Like I said before, She gave him that SPECIAL SPAGHETTI

and isn’t NANA the person who stays in heated “debates” regardless to the topic???

And maybe I’m late, but didn’t Mary J. Fake say she wasn’t “gracing us” with her apearance ever again???

I’ve been gone for a while, so somebody please fill me in…>>>

Um I just thought about it and at first I didn’t think she was unattractive at all for an older woman. But as it went on and you could clearly see she was coming in between him and his mom…and his fans for that matter, she became less and less attractive. When Usher was with Chilli and Naomi who are darker women nobody said anything so that “I’m dark and that’s why they hate me.” shctick is NOT flying! Maybe its the arrest record? HMMMMM

She’s right.

I just don’t like how she left her husband. I guess she was never happy. & where are her kids? I’ve never seen them.

Preach…….

She has a point, shame on all of you…

shame, shame, shame…

I see it all the time…….

LMAO, she still U.G.L.Y

tameka is right. but i don’t think we hate on her cause she’s black i just think she left her husband, has a trailer load of kids already and went and got pregnant within like 2 months of divorcing her man. It’s sound like a gold digger to me and I think that’s why black women haven’t taken a liking to tameka in my opinion. She has her own agenda is clearly using a good black man. She gave up one for money already

When are you going to get it together….tsk, tsk

hey if usher is happy that’s grand! but it don’t make a difference if she were white , brown, black or blue if she was ugly I was gone say she UGLY….

I know that’s right!

tintin you are so right.. I love the fact that Usher is married to a black woman because he could have been one of those “rich and switch” ones but what angers me is what you said, she left her children behind and any man that will marry a woman that leaves her children behind is just as bad as she is. He has enough money to raise her kids as his own and move them into the house (unless of course they are all over the age of 18).

Read this in Essence, and she is right. It’s sad, but damn it’s true.

If he likes it, I love it! Who gives a Dayum!!

Tintin,

I completely agree with you and couldn’t have said it better…it has nothing to do with being black…it has everything to do with the way she went about things and how she’s perceiving the black woman as the golddigger who would leave her husband and kids for the life of fame and feel younger…honestly I think she was too close to Usher for her to be married at the time for knowing him and that’s why black women don’t like her…People call her ugly and stuff because thats their opinions and some people think she has an ugly personality…so don’t use that blk women hate themselves crap because you are definitely fitting what men sterotype blk women as and why they prefer white women.

Some of you act like you know her personally. Seriously, how do you know the stories that you’re hearing is correct?

The majority of what I’ve been hearing about her lately is that she’s ugly and she looks like a man – but I don’t see no man, I see a woman. So stop trying to backtrack, please.

She is 100% right! Black folks hate dark skinned black women. Chilli was brown skiined and acceptable to blacks because she looks mixed. But black folks would have been just fine with Usher marrying someone like lets say (untalented) Cassie. Black racists can’t stand that Usher married and fathered a child with a black WOMAN. I think Usher and Tameka’s baby will be the first chocolate baby born in Hollywood ever, I’m being sarcastic but there’s a little truth to it.

@ tintin

After all you that you have stated, the question still remains “Who are we to judge”? Riddle me that, please. Thanks in advance

There are alot of BEAUTIFUL black women. Nia Long, Sanaa Lathan…the list goes on. No one calls them ugly nor would they have said something if Usher would’ve wifed them up. It is THIS chick. She wants to try to clarify it to herself. She is not cute and everyone expected Usher to be with a beautiful woman. BEAUTIFUL. No one ever puts her race into it. Its some bs and a cop out to say, Oh cuz she’s black that’s why people don’t find her cute and that if she was hispanic or mixed it would’ve been ok. Whatever. He had the world at his fingertips and he picked a divorced woman in her late 30′s with 3 kids and a shady background. Puhleeze. THAT is why people find issue with her.

A MIND IS A TERRIBLE THINGS TO WASTE!!!!!

Preach nahnah!!!

Now thats some real talk!!

Tintin

said it right!.although i understand where Tamekas coming from

WHAT MAKES HER UGLY???????????

SANAA LATHAN IS SEVERAL SHADES LIGHTER THAN SHE IS!

NIA LONG IS SEVERAL SHADES LIGHTER THAN SHE IS!

COMPARE HER WITH DARKER SHADE BLACK WOMEN – IF Y’ALL WANT TO MAKE A POINT!

I FIND NOTHING WRONG WITH HER! YOU KNEE-GROWNS USE THAT WORD ‘UGLY’ TOO LOOSELY!

SHE’S NOT CONVENTIONAL, BUT SHE’S NOT UGLY!

SHE DOESN’T LOOK LIKE A MAN, SHE LOOKS LIKE A WOMAN!

NONE OF YOU FOOLS KNOW HER PERSONALLY, SO IT’S PRETTY ASININE TO CALL HER A GOLD-DIGGER AND/OR A BAD MOTHER WITHOUT KNOWING WHAT REALLY WENT DOWN!

SOME OF YOU GUYS TAKE ON THESE RUMORS FOR TRUTH BECAUSE IT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL PROBLEMS!

RUMORS ARE RUMORS!

RUMORS ARE RUMORS!

RUMORS ARE RUMORS!

MAYBE SHE’S A GOLD-GIGGER, AND MAYBE SHE IS NOT!

BUT WHY HATE HER SO MUCH WITHOUT CONFIRMATION THAT SHE IS A GOLD-DIGGER?

That’s right…People are just f*ckin’ with Tameka on her looks but it’s really because she gives off a “suspect” vibe.

On a serious note, that woman left behind a whole family. For whateva reason, I don’t think any sane, reasonable mother would just date, become pregnant, and marry after just 2 months of divorce. Aren’t there some unresolved issues that usually lag behind emotional situations such as leaving a family.

It just doesn’t add up or help the “black woman” stereotype.

Strong Black man

the media praises Denzel Wahington anf it makes anybody feel better he is married to a “dark skin’ black woman if that makes people feel any better since folks today are color struck..lol..but it’s not always the case

damn Tameka is that you??

why do y’all keep saying she “left her kids”? i’m sure that wherever she is, her kids are with her. and that means they are with the man she married, usher raymond. how many of you go out with men who already have kids or women who already have kids?

I co-sign with those who believe it has to with her actions and not her looks. I could care less how his wife looks but if she’s leaving her OWN kids for a man with some money then there’s a problem, whether she black, white, latino, asian, whatever. SMDH!!!! Usher look like he want to drink a glass of champagne but ol’ girl done took the glass out his hand like “that’s my drink too!”. LMAO!!!!

USHER HAS A HISTORY OF DATING OLDER WOMEN!

BOTH CHILI AND NAOMI CAMPBELL ARE OLDER THAN HE IS!

WHY NOT CRITICIZE HIM FOR LIKING OLDER WOMEN?

I just can’t get down with this woman…

she does have a point because she is a dark skinned sista she is considered “ugly” my most standards. 100% all black sister is not what is in right now. It’s either mixed or “exotic” black woman its a form of self hatred and it mainly comes from black women. I don’t believe she deserted her kids because they live with their father. some men are better fathers than some women are mothers. She does not seem like the motherly type to me.

I agree with Tammy. She doesn’t fit the hollywood standard.

Because those older Women are SANER than Tameka. Personally, Im glad he’s with a sister but I wish he picked a different one, with less history, a better attitude, and (honestly) that’s easier on the eyes. Black has nothing to do with it.

she’s actually right. It’s sad that some of you hide behind your computers to call someone ugly when you probably look 10x more hideous and put her down by calling her a ‘man’ & ‘maneka’ ect. & like nahnah said Seriously, how do you know the stories that you’re hearing is correct? There are always two sides to a story & GOSSIP that u read on these blogs may not always be 100%. We don’t know the reason she left her husband & we don’t know what is going on with her kids & no it’s not fair to assume she’s a gold digger because it is such a vague assumption. that woman has been a celebrity stylist for years. ya’ll tear down blacks so much on here & then wonder why white people & blogs tear us down because we’re doing it to our own kind.

Didn’t Russell Simmons find himself a young one IMMEDIATELY after he got divorce from that Kimora chick?

Eddie Murphy?

*Wondering…

Kimora and Russ ain’t divorced and what do they have do with this??

@ NAHNAH

YEAH RUMORS ARE RUMORS BUT HAVING MULTIPLE KIDS, BEING A HOOD RAT, AND HAVING MULTIPLE COUNTS OF FRAUD IS NO RUMOR.

I feel Tameka has a point, I am new to responding on this site, but I am an avid reader. I usually go through the comments and read everyone opinion, but I felt a need to comment.I notice that the lighter the skin then the comments are more about how “fine” she is or how she is a “dyme”, it is really saddening to see such a division in our own race. We talk about our people and say such hateful comments about the way they look, or their texture of hair. If the separation of blacks began with the white people back in slavery days, why do we still allow the generational curses to plague our community? Many people make the comment that this site is ran by white people, if it is, I am sure they are sitting back and laughing and probably saying, “see I told you they are a bunch of ignorant people that sit up and disgrace their own community.” I am sure that my comments will not be accepted by many people, but it is time that the curses and ignorance that plague our community stop. So what if she is not what is considered a “dyme” he loves her and that is all that matters. And as far as her being “crazy” I have yet to read one comment she has stated that classifys her as crazy. If she is “crazy” for stating her opinion and sticking up for herself then I guess we all “crazy”

I agree with people who said that this is just a way out for her… I feel as though people can no longer have an opinion…that’s what having an opinion is…it is a personal judgement or perception and if you are the strong black original woman that you are then it shouldn’t get to you because its about the love between you, your husband, and your new son. I think blaming the blk community is straight B.S. just as we are the “only” one who judge you..we are the “only” ones you choose to blame…I bet half the people that complained on that Usher site were not even black…but it’s easier and more understandable to blame the race you came from as haters…I’m sorry Tameka but you will never gain support unless you treat judgemental people as a whole and not just one race…that goes for all blk stars who blame blk people…if your TRULY happy then you need no acceptance from anyone.

I FEEL SHE’S RIGHT WITH MANY CASES BUT IT DOESN’T APPLY TO HER CASE. IF HE WAS TO MARRY GABBY, I THINK THE BLACK WORLD WOULD VIEW THEM AS THE NEW WILL N JADA. TAMEKA IS NOT THAT CUTE & SHE’S OLD. HE’S FANS (MOSTLY YOUNGER FEMALES I’M GUESSING) IS PISSED OFF ABOUT THAT & EVERYTHING ELSE THE HEARD ABOUT HER.

Cover Girl SUMS IT UP THE BEST.

Why the F*ck would Usher suddenly impregnate this woman but not any one of the other black women (especially Chile) he’s been with.

And about her kids. You damn right you don’t see them up in no magazine or out shopping with them. So something definately is not right with that situation.

“she does have a point because she is a dark skinned sista she is considered “ugly” my most standards. 100% all black sister is not what is in right now. It’s either mixed or “exotic” black woman its a form of self hatred and it mainly comes from black women”

@ geezy

I love how you’re laying it all at the feet of black women, like the media, especially black media (music videos and such), and the fact that black men date/marry out far more than black women had nothing to do with that.

We (black women) don’t like ourselves. If I were Hispanic, Usher would have the sexiest wife alive. If I were mixed, he’d have the sexiest wife alive.

^^^ Well I personally disagree with her…I LOVE myself and I know I look good. And if I see another bad (bad being good) black woman walking down the street I’ll give her props….I think black women ARE the sexiest women around…NO HOMO, but hey that’s just me….

Everytime people of color make negative comments about black celebrities, it’s always either self hatred/slavery mentality/or my personal favorite…crabs in a barrel! Lol, are we, as black people not entitled to have an opinion that is not race/color related? Why can’t it be that people just don’t like her personality or actions? Why is, it that we automatically have to like her and think she’s beautiful just because she’s a woman of darker complexion? SMDH…And not all light skinned women, on blogs, are considered ‘dymes’. I’ve heard people talk bad about Tisha Campbell, Kimora Lee, Lumidee, etc., and I’ve heard people talk about how beautiful women like, Naomi Campbell, Kelly Rowland, Nia Long, etc.,

nahnah

Didn’t Russell Simmons find himself a young one IMMEDIATELY after he got divorce from that Kimora chick?

Eddie Murphy?

*Wondering…

……………

UHH THEY NEVER DIVORCED

UHH THEY NEVER DIVORCED

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so they’re just seperated? well, i rest my case.

SHE’S FULL OF CRAP.

UGLY IS UGLY!

I don’t care if it’s black ugly, white ugly, yellow ugly, brown ugly or red ugly.

And homegirl looks like a Ugly Drag Queen and it don’t have a damn thing to do with her color.

I agree with her 100 percent. Chili was just as old as she, and it was all good. Black folks are their own worst enemy.

LMMFAO!

To all those saying yall have a personal problem with Tameka is full of ISH! First of yall don’t even know her so how can anything be PERSONAL?

Second of all I believe what she say to be true many sista’s {& yall know who yall are} don’t like your own damned selve’s so when Usher chose to marry a woman who closely resembled him his momma & his entire family folks within the community acted like he killed JFK!!

And don’t give me that crap about “I don’t like her personality or actions” Cuz like I said B4..DO YOU KNOW HER PERSONALLY?

HAVE YOU EVER MET HER?

DO YALL TALK ON THE REG OR SOMETHING????

Or are yall acting like blind sheep going off on tangents abt a woman yall don’t even know because somebody said they heard their cousin say she was a witch?!

And this is for Angel_Minded: NO OTHER WOMAN GETS HATED ON A REG BASIS AS MUCH AS TAMEKA! SOME OF THE THINGS THAT’S BEEN SAID WAS HURTFUL & CRUEL BEYOND REPAIR…I’VE NEVER HEARD ANY OF THE PEOPLE YOU MENTION: LUMIDEE {WHO’S DAT NE WAY} KIMORA OR TISHA BEING CALLED OUT EVERYDAY ALL DAY LIKE TAMEKA OH YEAH BTW NONE OF THEM LIGHTER COMPLEXIONED FEMALES BEEN BEEN TAGGED A HURTFUL NAME LIKE “MANEKA”

And so that yall know this is coming from Essence who is a very fair skinned black woman…what’s right is right is all I’m saying!

^^^ Well I personally disagree with her…I LOVE myself and I know I look good. And if I see another bad (bad being good) black woman walking down the street I’ll give her props….I think black women ARE the sexiest women around…NO HOMO, but hey that’s just me….

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minus the ‘black as hell ones’, of course.

i see you have a color issue, as you tend to criticize blacks with dark skin.

She’s delusional…people don’t like her because she’s unattractive and resembles a transvestite. Not to mention her shady past with the husband and kids and her so called career as a stylist (she wore Ugg boots and green army cargo pants this summer, come on!). If Usher dated a Latino woman, Black women would absolutely have a problem with it, I can’t agree with her on that one.

I think her complaint holds some validity but when you culminate that with the age difference, the divorce, the kids, the criminal background and the fact that her and the mama don’t get a long….hhmmmm that’s a recipe for disaster…if we were talking about one of these things then I would completely understand but when all of the above apply, don’t act crazy like you don’t know why people want to know “WHY URSHER….WHY????!!!!!!”

so they’re just seperated? well, i rest my case.

NO YOU DONT………..WELL I GUESS ON THE POINT THAT THEY ARE SKREWED UP PAIR TOO

i dont like MANEKA but i can agree with her on that statement! BUT i think the reason why people dont like her is because she ruined a mother/son relationship that the public loved. Usher was a straight up momma’s boy! And also some people think she was the driving force behind the chilli breakup and to add onto that she got like 20 kids and left her husband to be with USH. yeah she had an agenda…because if u read the article she even stated that she was feeding usher all that bull crap about dating chilli and he needed to do him and blaah da blahhh

p.s. if he was married to a woman who wasnt black all hell would break lose lol look at kobe and his wife that money hungry mexican vanessa..people clown them all the time

NAHNAH

GET OFF TAMEKA’s DICK!

THANKS!

FineAsWine:

Sorry if you’re too slow to see the point here!

Why isn’t Russell Simmons getting flack for dating, apparently while still married?

Oh and I agree Black Girls Rock…let the haters kick rocks! the media can have their diluted wanna be chicks. I LOVE BEING BLACK!

TOOO SLOW!!!!

HUH COME HERE!!

FIRST OF ALL I WISH PEOPLE WOULD REALLY STOP SAYING US AS BLACK WOMEN DISLIKE OURSELVES BECAUSE I KNOW IM A STRONG BLACK WOMAN.IF THIS IS WHO HE CHOOSES TO BE WITH AND LOVE WHATS THE PROBLEM?LOOK INTO YOUR OWN CLOSETS AND TELL ME HOW MANY SKELETONS YOU SEE.HOW COME ITS SEEN AS SUSPECT BECAUSE HES WITH HER.IT IS WHAT IT IS.AND JUST FOR FYI JUST BECAUSE SHE JUST GOT A DIVORCE DOESNT MEAN SHE HASNT BEEN SEPERATED AND SINCE WHEN DID ANYONE CONFIRM THAT SHE DOSENT HAVE HER KIDS. P.S. COVER GIRL GET OF MY SWAG!!!!!!!!

@baeyaki

Not true. She is a very successful hair stylist, working with a dedicated clientel, including Ms. Patti.

nahnah ur ass is always bringing up color…maybe yo ass is color struck…what ur man left u for a white girl? no no maybe a light skin chic

NAHNAH SINCE YOU THINK YOU KNOW ME………..YOU SOUND INSECURE AND BITTER………………..

I SEE AND ADMIRE ALL SHADES OF PEOPLE, AND I LOVE THEM ALL…..

YOU MUST BE ONE F THOSE THAT SLIPED THROUGH THE CRACKS WAITING ON A COMPLEMENT

OF..TYPO

Nanah,

I agree with what you are saying….we as a people will fall at the feet of lighter skinned Blacks (like Rhianna) with little or no talent but barely pay any mind to talented darker skinned Blacks….the reason is because “Master” told us that lighter skinned was better and closer to his own complexion….from there things spiraled out of control…the lighter skinned Blacks started to believe the hype and then before you know so was everbody else….

Tameka has kids,tameka has kids, how many kids does flava flava have, nba players have and NFL players have with their wife and jumpoff’s. No offense Usher mother was a stage mom who couldn’t understand that her son wanted to move on grow up and raise a family, the man is 29 yrs old. Hell if I met a man that was his age with one or no kids, I would be passing out coochie coupons. Tameka I hear you folks don’t want to admit it!

well a lot of you have valid points. I never heard she looked like a man until today though! Tameka does not come off to me as a stupid person. She knows she left her husband and kids behind to be with Ush(not that we know the real reason she left, so we can only go by what it looks like, 4 all we know her huband could have left her). and she knows what that looks like to us as outsiders. so she does in a way cop out by blaming how we feel about her, on her skin tone! that may be how the white media fell about her, but she know damn well that thats not why some black women cant stand her. I dont know the whole storry so i really cant make an accurate assumption on this chic. But i will sy that those of you who dont like her just because she is not he type of women you expected Ush to get wit then u have issues.

ps. Nia Long is not dark skinned so stop bringing her up

Usher has his own life to live and I think everyday people get waaaaaayyyyy to caught up in other people’s lives. The boy can marry whomever he chooses to. I doesn’t make any difference to me. And if she is a golddigger, so what? She won’t be the first or that last! And I think people call her ugly b/c they are upset that Usher doesn’t have someone “they” would approve of and why would he give a damn about who we like and don’t like for him! SMH people need to get a life seriously!

And some of what Tameka said was true!

And no one knows REALLY, why Ush and his mom couldn’t get it together. And there is nothing wrong with that! We see this mom-ager thing get outta hand so whatever was good for him and his mom and their business and you can’t be mad at Tameka even if she did have something to do with it! He is a grown ass man and if he can’t be a man and protect his relationship with his momma then he is the dummy!

504

UGLY…LOL

nahnah

I’m always bringing up color, B-Mama, or is it you who’s always pointing out the blackness in other people who are dark?

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Excuse me??obessive much, u going round and reading all my post?? STALKER…

OH and only ppl I like can call me bmama and I’m afraid YOU AINT ONE OF THEM!!!

LMAO

Tameka, though reminds me of Tiffany Polland (New York).

She feels like she nees to remind EVERYONE that Usher loves her. That sounds insecure. You got the man, and your new son, you need to focus on that, and not so much what people say, cause people will always talk about other people. It’s human nature. If she doesn’t stop that, she’ll lose Usher to some young stuff….

^^^^^GO FIXYO WIG

What the hell is going on?

I AM TALKING TO 504

SunGoddess

nahnah is a bish…and faw and 504 got issues but don’t tell them i told u….lol

I agree with what she is saying. MOST of the people hating on her are people who are judging her based on her looks. They think Usher should be with someone who looks different. I had to check my husband on that point, because he was trying to crack on her looks.

GO GET SOME CORRECTIVE LENS FOR THOSE BUGSHOT EYES !

EFF RILEY

CAN I BORROW YOURS 50FRIGHT

Why u wanna bring Riley into this…

and eff Ms. Beasly(sissy kitty)

I sw the ‘colorstruck’ posts. SMH. No comment.

It would be foolish to ignore the age old issue among blacks in regards to shades of black. Starting before our time, yet existing to this day.

Cultures/countries are built on the colour line. The lighter you are, the better you will marry or be provided with opportunities, from the many countries of Africa and Asian. So to ignore it, would be ignoring an on-going plight with our people.

Okay, nahnah needs to calm the eff down. Goodness, when people get so passionate about someone else’s life, you have to questions their sanity. But this is the same chick who will damn near massacre people for liking Beyonce. It all reads: NEVER GOT ASKED TO THE PROM!!!!

Ignore it BMama and 504, I got ya’ll back.

To the subject at hand, tin tin said it best. My dislike for her has nothing to do with her looks (I actually think she’s cute, people with dimples automatically have points in my book). However, what is factual about her is disturbing. The fact that Usher’s mom doesn’t like her, the fact that she left her previous husband and kids for what an intellegent person would assume to be money, all that just reads gold digger. And there doesn’t seem to be anything genuine about that relationship. I’m just saying.

I completely agree with her, that is what I have been saying from the beginning.

I beg to differ, because ugly crosses all color lines. Case in point, Keenan Ivory Wayans wife is white as snow, and looks busted as hell in those pictures posted earlier.

leave that gurl alone! ll of u sound like som ignant ass black ppl! thinking u know this women when yall dont know sh!t. yall frontin like yall hatin on tameka, but yall really hatin on Usher cuz he found somebody he really loves that dont fit the medias cookie cutter light skinned, young, and diva actin mold! yeah this broad might have left her huband and kids, but dont yall think usher knows all that! he ain no fool! he know his $$$$ might have had something to do wit it,but he loves the chic so stfu and leave them the F*ck alone DAMN!!!!!!!

If Tameka is sure of her relationship, then why the hell does what people think matter so much to her? Don’t ya’ll think that makes her sound insecure? She needs to focus on her man and baby…

Welll said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i am white

We’re entitled to post our opinion. That is what the website is about. Goddamn. smh.

It all reads: NEVER GOT ASKED TO THE PROM!!!!

^^^

Ahahhahahaha, it does huh? lmao yea lacyd ur right, but she is so OUT THERE, but whateva…LOL

No Tameka… it’s not because you’re black that we call you ugly and crazy… It’s because you are infact CRAZY and UGLY! Not to mention :: CRAZY AS ALL HELL!

Well I feel that Tameka statement is true… We sometimes as a race do not think Dark skin or Brown Skin is beautiful. I don’t know Tameka personally and really don’t care to much for her, but if she make Usher HAPPY then good. As a race we need to embrace our own culture and ethnic brackground and love it!!! We don’t… I even heard guys say that they only, I repeat only date light skined, mixed, or white girls because they don’t want thier kids to come out dark…That is CRAZY!!! And with society making it seem as though being light, white, or mix is better than dark skin does not make it better. All races are beautiful, but we need to learn how to embace ours and appreciate it more. Just thank about, other races go to the tanning bed to get darker and some can get darker than me… That’s a compliment to me. So guys let’s embrace and race, skin color, hair, big butts, and anything else that make us who we are.

504- i think u just killed me

LMMFAO!!!Riley got something for ms. beasley tho’, tell her to meet him round the corner in @ lunch time….LOL

I am happy for him and her. I also think she is an attractive black woman and all the people on here hating are probably just mad he is not with any of you.

MS BEASLEY HAS A LUNCH DATE, SHE SAID MEET HER AT 3:15 WHEN THE SECOND BELL RINGS

Love is hard to find as it is, I can’t be angry or hate when love is found by another.

yall still killin me

its not so much her looks as it is the shady energy she give off… too me it wouldnt matter if she was light or dark… why arent they seen with her kids in public? why dont we see them at lunch or dinner with his mother? i mean if she really was interested in people’s perception of how she is… and since she chose to comment on it she must be… try some positive publicity instead of what we are used to seeing… pics of her grimacing, frowning, “dont think about taking my man” look… start with that. basically shes hoodie and we all know it…

I truly think Tameka is right in the case. 1st off, it shouldn’t matter how old she is, how she look, the complexion of skin, or her weight. It shouldn’t matter if she’s a known thief, or a liar. Non of that should matter. It shouldn’t matter if she has 50 kids by 50 men. She is the one Usher chose in the end. My job as a fan is not to criticize his personal decisions. I am fan of his work only. I should not be consumed with who he chooses as a bride. That is stepping over the line. Why should I feel the need to what type of woman he should be attracted to? I am so happy he married a black woman. That’s it and that’s all! If he’s happy, I’d like to hear it and see it in his music…END OF CONVERSATION!

Riley said kool! And don’t be bring’n killa kitty! 504!!LMAO

truly think Tameka is right in the case. 1st off, it shouldn’t matter how old she is, how she look, the complexion of her skin, or her weight. It shouldn’t matter if she’s a known thief, or a liar. Non of that should matter. It shouldn’t matter if she has 50 kids by 50 men. She is the one Usher chose in the end. My job as a fan is not to criticize his personal decisions. I am fan of his work only. I should not be consumed with who he chooses as a bride. That is stepping over the line. Why should I feel the need to tell Usher what type of woman he should be attracted to? I am so happy he married a black woman. That’s it and that’s all! If he’s happy, I’d like to hear it and see it in his music…END OF CONVERSATION!

Being a chocolate sister, I have to say that I hate when people play the colorstruck card. Only people with complexes get mad and bring up the fact that people are color struck if they fancy women of lighter shades. That’s they’re preferance, who cares. If you know what you bring to the table, if you know your own beauty, then why should it matter to you individually? It’s not like people are dying because Rhianna is popular, or Beyonce is too. Just remember that the first successful black women on a major scale were dark skinned (Whitney Houston). So I could care less.

NO!!!!! BEACAUSE THERE ARE A LOT IF BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN IN OUT THERE THAT ARE SINGLE WITH NO KIDS AND HAVE A GOOD JOB IM SORRY HE COULD HAVE DONE BETTER THAN THAT BUT, MONEY TALKS (FOR HER TO LEAVE FAMILY FOR HIM )MONEY TALK

@ Cover Girl, i think she’s been his stylist for a very long time… he’s probably been hitting that looong before her divorce. but the real question is if that is how their relationship/marriage began with cheating and deception, and thats their foundation… does anyone think this will really end on some death do us part?

Preach on it LacyD!!

um, no it’s because he can do so much better in the looks department she is not pretty but she’s not the ugliest. Gabby Union is dark and very pretty also Kelly Rowland is kinda pretty, last but not least Amarie isn’t hard too look at she’s dark(I know she’s mixed) but she look all blk to me. Ugly women don’t understand ppl aren’t hating on them because of their skin color it’s because their not so easy on the eyes and that’s with every race…and a lot of other sistas are looked over becuz of their attitude and ghetto ways. JMO

People on here talkin bout Tameka’s right but in the Djimon post they were calling that beautiful black man ugly. I don’t give a flying ninja’s balls that she’s with him. He was with Chilli and her ass is black and people always said they make a cute and beautiful couple. She was not Halle Berry light skin, she was brown skinned and beautiful and was a good person. She may be right on some levels but people didn’t hate her cuz she was dark-skinned, they hated her ass for being a golddigging beard who dropped her kids and husband for a lil fame and fortune. If you can’t take the heat Tameka get the f*ck out the kitchen.

Have a nice day y’all

Tameka is right.

And I think it’s funny how people act like they know everything about Tameka’s past and how she came to be with Usher. We’re so quick to judge, especially when it comes to our own people…

I totally agree w/ nahnah. The same ones that are dogging Tameka are the same ones that would be mad if he was with a woman of another race. In general I think that as blacks we just have a problem with supporting eachother. We claim pro black but don’t want to admit that we do have a problem with in our selves, when it comes to our natural hair and dark skin.

We want to judge her but don’t know any of the real details of her life and her relationship with Usher. I am happy to see a real black couple in the worlds eye view, it has been a while. All of us have a past. So let’s just try to see this black couple through .

Bahama Mama

Riley said kool! And don’t be bring’n killa kitty! 504!!LMAO

^^^^

MS. BEASLEY SAYS YOU DON’T GET TO MAKE THE RULES, JUST BE THERE OE BE SKEERRED !!!!

OE = OR

Okay, since people want to use the defense that we’re acting like we know her personally, let me outline what is likely real in her life:

Fact: She has 3 kids. Do we all agree on this?

Fact: She left her husband and three kids. Do we all agree on this?

Fact: She became pregnant with Usher’s baby as soon as we knew they were dating. Suspect as hell, but can we all agree on this?

Fact: Got married in miliseconds. Pretty suspect too, but I’m sure we can all agree it happened.

What can probably be disputed and entered into the catagory of we don’t know for sure is all of that back ground information. That ish just looks funny, and if you choose to ignore that, then that’s you. But you have to admit that something is strange and not right about their relationship. But hey, if they like it, I love it!!!

504

Uh yea i get to make the rules, I DID set up the meeting…LMAO, if killa is showing up then Riley is bringing the gansta pimp dude…How bout them cookies….LOL

I dont really care for her, but she is absolutely correct in her assessment.

tameka’s right

SO wait a EFFIN minute all yall that think Tameka is right, think that mixed and hispanic women are sexier or prettier than black women??

All of the women on here juding her for jumping ship for Usher would have probably done the same thing but faster. So stop fronting like you are hollier than thou. Usher knew this woman for ten years and a relationship developed. I’m not saying she is an angel, but neither is Usher. Like it or Not. She is his wife and even the BIBLE says leave and Cleve. MOMMY needs to step back. Wife is first. Usher is not his mom’s man. Usher is a son to her. Son’s become men and start families. I don’t like the fact she has so much baggage either, but that is Usher’s choice.

I dont care what anybody says, there are some facts about this you cannot dispute:

1. Chick is not attractive

2. Chick is old

3. She is not someone who has been with Usher for a while

4. Chick’s got three kids that are NOT USHERS

5. If was Usher’s close family, I would be plotting this suspect chick’s downfall from the beginning

Those are the facts

She’s full of BS. She looke like a man, that’s why everybody gets on her. There a plenty of beautiful chocalate to dark women. Tichina Arnold, Tamala Jones, Tarjj Hanson, Buffy the Body, Regina King, Naomi Campbelletc. Tameka, you’re ugly, you look like a dude. Get over yourself.

Point blank this woman in this situation is not right. Black, White, Brown, Green, whatever…she had a family, dumped them and immediately got on with another meal ticket. She’s not ugly because of her looks, she’s ugly because of what she did. What she did is make those loyal responsible females look bad all because she’s greedy and needy.

As much as I disapprove of choices, I enjoy USHER a hell of a lot more and hope that things work out for him. I just wish he would’ve taken more time to make sure this was the best thing for him. Their whole relationship seems hella quick.

But if there is something amiss with this whole thing, it will not work.

Hell Chilli wasn’t light skinned! She was the darkest of TLC and the prettiest one.

She’s simply not attractive.

I can’t believe there’s all these blk ppl on here and in this country that think we blk ppl hate on blk ppl because we hate ourself…it’s maybe because we hate blk ppl who make us all look bad. I’m stuck with the stereotype many of black women had left for the good blk women and it takes someone to get to know us before they can see we’re not hoodrats, goodiggers, with serveral baby daddies, lazy, on welfare, or we have a bad attitude, weave in our hair etc. The worst of ppl are more expose than the ones who are not and they same use all. This is off topic, but it is what it is.

I really deciphered whether I should say this but Ashley is an ASS by nature and I couldn’t stop sarcastically laughing!

All these folks pointing out facts abouts Tameka. How about this

1. Is none of your mofo business what Tameka did. FACT

2. No one in is this world is perfect

FACT

3. Get off your high horse wannabe Christians, the bible says in order for God to forgive you for your sins to be forgiven you have to forgive others.

FACT

Case in point what about Makhai (can’t spell that) Phiffer and his wife son, he has another baby momma who said he was a bad father, was that ever brought up when he and his wife welcomed their son into the world. Basically we don’t know what happened in either situation. Stop taking it so seriously sheez!

@ Detgirl

Good point!!!

Oh forgot one

6. He BETTER have an AIRTIGHT prenup

To my favorite educated poster above… its Mekhi Phifer….

She has a valid point about the black community being color struck, every woman except black or brown skin, kinky hair is beautiful, exotic or sweet. Black woman are always called Loud, but I seen PLENTY of loud, bossy white, hispanic, asian women…when someone calls black men out on dating outside, they say love has No color..So why can’t the color black get any love.Also I feel sorry for a man that hates what he see in the mirror, who won’t date a woman who has the same color as his mother or sister.

With that said..

I think people don’t like Tameka because of her personality not her color.

I love dark-skinned women, but she’s just not attractive. I think the biggest issue is that we think Usher could “do better”. We didn’t hate on the darker skinned Naomi Cambell or Chili because they’re fine. She’s two pull-ups away from posting a triple-double. Chick probably got that voice the media be using when they want to hide someones identity. ROFLMAO…I need stop

Being color struck even in our own community is always gonna be here. Even as a dark skinned woman myself..I have accepted it. Its sad but true. Tameka needs to come to the realization that people are always have their opinions. She is livin in la la land thinkin she dont know why people dont like her. He dated young, prominant and beautiful black women in the past. So some people are lookin at her like…Yuck,,is he serious? He married an old, facially challanged chick with stretch marks and three kids?” Wake up girl. Dont make this a color issue like all dark skinned women are on the defensive…cause we’re not. You are just a huge downgrade for usher and you need to deal with it.

Testing…

@Jus Another Opinion

Tell ‘em. Can’t even keep their own relationships right, yet they are worried about other people.

I haven’t heard anyone comment on not liking her b/c of her color but more on her actions. She does make a very valid point about the skin tone thing. IDK her and so whatever. Like she said she is the one Usher loves. I’m sure he could pick any number of women but he chose her so that’s all that matters in the end.

@Detgurl

“I can’t believe there’s all these blk ppl on here and in this country that think we blk ppl hate on blk ppl because we hate ourself…it’s maybe because we hate blk ppl who make us all look bad.”

Good points. I don’t dislike anyone based on skin tone or feel superior or inferior to anyone else. I have no preferences with guys I’ll date. I know ppl who have this complex. My last roommate said she would be devastated if her children were not lighted skinned cuz she didn’t want a dark baby. I was shocked!!! I couldn’t believe ppl actually feel this way but to each their own.

@AND

They do…and it’s not just in North America. As I’ve stated, cultures and countries are built off of this premise.

Her face is actually pretty – her attitude seems a little ugly. Also, the situation is SUSPECT…. WHERE are her kids? Has anyone ever seen a picture of Usher, Tameka, and her kids together? What’s up? I have 3 kids and am married. You mean to tell me I would never be photographed with my new man and my kids together?

There are many, many beautiful brown and dark-skinned women out here. I agree with those who’ve said black women are probably the most beautiful women on the planet. We come in all shapes, sizes and colors. I hope Usher and Tameka are happy and can stay together, but the ish is suspect and has been from the beginning. I’m inclined to think she has something on him….

@ Strong Black Man:

“She’s two pull-ups away from posting a triple-double.”…

LMMFAO!!!!!!

She’s not that bad looking but my thing with her is that it seems like she could care less about her other children. Where are her other children? I think I read somewhere that she hates girl children, doesn’t she have girls also?

And to top that off she has a nasty ass attitude.

I come for the comments this is a blog so stop people for saying how they feel. I don’t have to form a little girl group, just to get people to like me, Aint saying no names!

@JAO

Much agreed. Living in glass houses, yet steady throwing stones.

He married her so he could have someone to stand up to his mama. That woman couldn’t let Usher be a man so he got an older woman so that he could get his independence from his mother.

everyone need to back off. she’s telling the truth, yeah she’s old and she not as hot as everyone would like but its definately the colour issue!!!!! if she was light skinned with the same features she wouldn’t have to deal with all the mess about her being ugly! Black people need to fix up its a shame!

@JAO

Don’t let it get to you. There are very intelligent ignorant people in this world who love to put others down instead of having an adult conversation. Some ppl were never taught how to communicate with others w/o the name calling, scrutinizing, or sarcasm. Just do you.

I totally agree with Tameka. I think she’s fierce…

So what if you find her ugly, being ugly or not doesn’t stop you loving someone…if you’ve evr been in love you’ll no its whats on the inside that really counts!!!!!

I agree with her… Screw the color or race, there are more important things to talk about besides her looking like a man. If a man say he wouldnt hit then you met a liar of he just like high yellow females and on the fence of only dating white women or being gay.

Reading these comments, I’d swear you all know them personally. And I’m inclined to believe you all are drop dead gorgeous.

Regarding those ‘facts’ some of you posted above:

1. She has three kids.

And?

2. She left her husband behind.

According to her and Usher, she was legally seperated from her husband, who was dating himself, when she started messing with Usher.

3. She abandoned her kids?

Haha! Just because her kids aren’t in the limelight? What pathetic souls some of you are!

4. She’s ‘ugly’…And how is that a fact? That’s a matter of opinion, and, unfortunately, our beauty has been defined by outsiders – so our perception of beauty is warped as hell. With that said, she’s an average looking black woman with some nice features. Not to mention beauty is 100% subjective. I’m sure plenty of people in this world would find some of you ugly as well.

I’m sure many of you would find Isaiah Washington’s wife unattractive too.

Nevertheless, I agree with what she had to say. A lot of you subconciously hate her for obvious reasons, especially when non of your asses even know her personally.

And since she’s with Usher, only he should make the determination on whether or not she’s a ‘downgrade’, and since he’s public with his woman, unlike many black men who date ‘beautiful’ woman for purposes other than love, he must have real feelings for her.

The fact is both of them have already addressed the rumors and defended themselves, but I guess people are going to believe what they want to believe.

Cutie

So what if you find her ugly, being ugly or not doesn’t stop you loving someone…if you’ve evr been in love you’ll no its whats on the inside that really counts!!!!!

I totally agree. How many ppl get in terrible accidents and they are disfigured or deformed as a result. Their spouses, children, friends, family don’t say “well you’re ugly now so I don’t want you”.

and another thing… Yall mf act as if you know her personally. You dont know what her and her X went through. He could of been wooping her ass nightly and raping her in the morning but she dumb for leaving the FAMILY right??? clowns I tell ya

sorry NahNah, I just seen your post… School em girl… I think you are a girl.

Suddenly this thread turned into a Oprah Show Pity Party

Don’t throw jabs and ask why someone turned around knocked you ass out

USHER STOP EATING THE SPAGHETTI AND DROP THIS CHICK

Nahnah

I might not agree with you when it comes to how some black choose to live in life and in a result get left behind but I do agree with you on this post, and AND also. I’m glad you haven’t tried to hold back how you feel just to fit in on this site, not saying no names.

THEIR BABY PICS!!!

TXbred

“Suddenly this thread turned into a Oprah Show Pity Party ”

lol^^^^^^

size 2 my ass. stop shopping at the GAP with their notorious fake ass vanity sizing.

she’s unlikeable because she left her husband and children for a rich man, and then tried to cause conflict with said rich man’s mother. her character is ugly.

Nahnah

I might not agree with you when it comes to how some black choose to live in life and in a result get left behind but I do agree with you on this post, and AND also. I’m glad you haven’t tried to hold back how you feel just to fit in on this site, not saying no names.

_______________________________

It’s all good. But, no, I have never been the one to hold back just to fit in. I try and tell it like I feel for the most part. I’m glad you appreciate that, and no hard feelings if we don’t agree on other things. Opinions and theories make the world go round.

PEACE!

Nita

size 2 my ass. stop shopping at the GAP with their notorious fake ass vanity sizing.

So that’s why I looked a hot damn mess when I got ready to wear those jeans that looked so great at the store. lol

and another thing… Yall mf act as if you know her personally. You dont know what her and her X went through. He could of been wooping her ass nightly and raping her in the morning but she dumb for leaving the FAMILY right??? clowns I tell ya

________________________________

Tell it!

call it whatever you want to, but who the F*&^ is Usher.?? I hope you are a female and just ryding his d*^$ & not a man hating on a women.

The dark skin issue is stupid.

There are plenty of Dark skinned females out there that:

A. Are not 40 with three of another man’s kids

B. Does not look like a foot

C. Your ACTUAL family can tolerate

D. Once you propose, wont try to get married as fast as humanly possible (laywer’s office)

As a young black male it pains me to see a sucessful black male who still can’t escape from this BS. If I came home with a 40 year old chick (or any chick) with 3 kids, my family collectively beat me down on where I stood!!!

Like I said before, at least Superhead is honest about her cash grab

@Island girl

Damn right, girl. No wonder people can’t find happiness.

TXbred

B. Does not look like a foot

LMMFAO^^^^^^^

TXbred,

Did you want Usher for yourself?

My man is 10 years older than I am (I’m 26 and he’s 36, my family love him.). Maybe your family need to be a little more open-minded.

No wonder so many of you are bitter and lonely.

You all are too pre-occupied in other peoples’ love lives. Let’s not mention the borderline psychotic focus on material things and predefined beauty.

@ TX BRED

The dark skin issue is stupid.

^^Denial, denial wasn’t you the one trying to mack to I stay SMH.(bust out laughing) You didn’t see her face, all you saw was her body, I remember cause I couldn’t stop laughing exat words…damn SMH you make me wanna put my pic up. I haven’t seen you mack another other girl on here and there plenty of darkskin women who have put gravtars up! LOL @ that time. woo woo wooo

Maybe they are compatible because he has know her for a really long time.

Y’all are really cracking me up today. All the people saying that Usher went for somebody who reminds him of his mama are a hoot! So you’re saying Usher’s mama looks like a man? Nobody is hating on Tameka, she just looks manish. Period. If she didn’t have kids or just have a baby I would’ve thought she was a transgender person.

Hmm… Last I checked, no one was pissed about Usher dating Chilli. Despite the long hair, ain’t she black?

I agree with Tameka 100%. Black people of today are being brainwashed in a completely different way than in the past. Black women are being devalued and black men are leaving them in droves for every other race, and our community is accepting it all in the name of “love is blind”.

Usher married a DARK SKINNED Black woman, who isn’t mixed and he is happy. A black male celebrity marrying a black woman these days is becoming less and less occurrance. And let alone a black male celebrity marrying a dark skinned black woman these days…SUPER RARE!!!

I still congratulate them. I hope they have a lot of babies. Black love is a beautiful thing, and not just light skinned black love.

*note* I am not against interracial dating as much as I am pro black relationships these days. Some people don’t like interracial dating because they believe some are superior to others. That is not me. I just don’t believe black people get the amount of respect others do, and if they don’t respect and value us, why should we do it to them. I don’t like seeing non-blacks in black artists videos not because I don’t think they are good enough, but because white, hispanic, asian, indian, artists rarely use black women in their videos…let alone as a lead role. You scratch my back I will scratch yours.

lol @ txbred…i admire your family values..dont let anyone try to shut u down

nahnah..since your here chatting it up with us..wouldnt that make you someone “pre-occupied” with the rest of us..hmmm? riddle me that bat-man

JAO..i would totally comment on your insecurities and all about not having any friends..not mentioning any names of course..but work is calling me..

Oh and JAO

I don’t LIKE yo ass either! HOW BOUT THEM COOKIES

I don’t like seeing non-blacks in black artists videos not because I don’t think they are good enough, but because white, hispanic, asian, indian, artists rarely use black women in their videos…let alone as a lead role. You scratch my back I will scratch yours.

That’s a good damn point. It may be one or two of us in their videos and most of the time they look mixed yet we will only use one or two medium to dark skin black women in our own videos. Most look mixed or non-black. I never thought of that before.

He Nina, Chili is Black and Puerto Rican (which explains the straight hair). So technically she is mixed.

LMAO@ Biracial Chili and a quarter Chinese Naomi Campbell. Both have non-sub-saharan features.

I think you guys should try harder than that.

And the age thing is OUT THE WINDOW, since both Chili and Naomi Campbell are way older than he is. Seriously, is it the age or we kidding ourselves?

Chili’s father is Arabic, not PR.

Bahama Mama

“You broads ain’t gotta call no names…But I will. So how but Nahnah,And JAO(lmao wasn’t I who started calling u that,N E WAY) get off other peoples NUTS!!!! It’s funny how jealousy can come thru the computer screen…Anyway I don’t really got nothing else to say..Except yall hoes betta stay in ur lane…LMAO at not wanting to call no names…DUMMIES”

I didn’t call any names b/c there are way too many to call and I wasn’t speaking on anyone specific. Any given day you come on here there is always someone talking crazy. If what I typed did not apply to you then don’t respond (mature ppl know this). Since you were the only one who did respond to it I guess those that feel guilty speak first. In order for me to be jealous you would have to have something I want but IDK you so I don’t want anything you have.

USHER IS NOT CUTE….HE LOOKS LIKE EMANUEL LEWIS IN A GROWN MAN’S BODY!

I don’t understand this whole “Tameka looks manish” thing. She is actually a very attractive women. Yes, she is older than Usher but attractive nontheless.

But then again, I march to a different beat because I still don’t understand where Denzel is sooooo handsome. He has a confident swagger which is attractive but I just don’t get where he is so good looking.

@JAO

@nahnah

What did y’all do to Bahama Mama? I don’t recall saying anything to her but she got all pissy and c&p our comments together to do a “group diss” lol.

EFF RAY PARKER JR.

Co-sign with AND

Since you were the only one who did respond to it I guess those that feel guilty speak first. In order for me to be jealous you would have to have something I want but IDK you so I don’t want anything you have.

^^^ Her shyt don’t even be fuuny, I didn’t say shyt about friends, this is cyber world, well if this is all you do all day I guess having people kiss your ass on here is validating, ( I shall say a prayer for you)

what??? Anyway, post yourself an X or a present and lets judge your/her ass. This lady was getting flashes taken of her before Usher so now what??? Oh & one other thing, since she has been married & has three kids by her husband @ the time, that means she would be the jump off or not good enough for a successful man? Man Please… thats third grade thinking. In that case most black women with kids will be on deff after a certain age.

nahnah, we were both wrong, her father is apparently Guyanese. But I was a little bit closer to you as Guyanna is closer to Puerto Rico than Arabia.

@504okaay

EFF RAY PARKER JR.

lol^^^^^

@JAO

who was kissing her ass and why?

LMAO

looks like I hit I hit a nerve!!!

HA!

My momma say I’m Funny!!!

I am a black woman who loves herself, and I got much love for my fellow sistas as well. Truth is Tameka you made the public react the way that we have. You look angry in all of your pics and interviews you are always so negative. Get a grip girl! You’ve got him now. Lighten up and be happy.

Bahama Mama

My momma say I’m Funny!!!

LOL^^^^^^^^^^^^^

LMAO

looks like I hit I hit a nerve!!!

HA!

^^^nope not even a giggle, as you claim you produce, you question your own self by shorting you own shyt. I only give giggles…you just admited you wasn’t funny. LMAO

I have to agree tameka we see physical features than judge nobody is perfect! Even your wannabe latino white girl beyonce! Usher I applaud you found happiness that all that matters! Congratulation!

Bahama Mama

My momma say I’m Funny!!!

LOL^^^^^^^^^^^^^

^^^

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, tell me you didn’t say that!

Bless her heart, you know what that means when people say that.

Trick I didn’t say I give out giggles…I come here to get them….Uz a dummy…

And I neva said I was funny…Hell there some str8 clowns on this site…LIKE YOU!!! but you make me laugh in a different way…HA!

TXBred,

You killin it today. Comparing that girl to a foot…COMICAL GENIOUS!! Loves it.

People (nahnah) need to chill out with all these sermons. If nothing else about blogging urks me, it’s when folks try to convert others into believing and thinking what they believe. What is the purpose??? Seriously, will it make you feel better if everyone agreed with you? So the f*ck what if your definition of beauty is not the same as mine. It’s what makes the world go round. And if we all thought like you, then you would be just as bad as the conformist that you loath so much. Lacyd is just saying…

LMMAO @ PCF

always steppin in the room yelling…BUT I LOVE HER!!!

lacyd

TXBred,

You killin it today. Comparing that girl to a foot…COMICAL GENIOUS!! Loves it.

Agreed^^^^^^

If nothing else about blogging urks me, it’s when folks try to convert others into believing and thinking what they believe. What is the purpose??? Seriously, will it make you feel better if everyone agreed with you?

Preach.

anyway it’s been fun…but I’m won’t get overtime to stay and Kick JAO’s ASS soooooooooo see yall in the a.m.

ya’ll slay me LOL

LMMFAO and YOU STILL don’t call me bmama…yea i say it for giggles myself…So what if i don’t make u laugh…And you R who?

Exactly!

Night all

@ JAO

Is bless your heart supposed to be an insult?????? If so, please insult me. I need a blessing today.

Ciao Bmama!! I told you I got this. Shhhhh….not another word

She is mad dumb for thinkin that people dont like her cz she blk. no thats not the reason she is just plain old ugly. Like there are ugly lightskin girls, ugly hispanic and ugly white girls .so what is she gettin at . lke ur ugly get over. Das just a plain old dumb attempt at tryin to sound like she got somethin to say.

@ hama

Cause I don’t like you, and could care less if you liked me. Check your self, cause you aint that fresh. I’ll call you what I want to!

AYYYY!!! What it do AND…?

B-MA….

I LUB YOU & I THINK YOUR FUNNY & I DON’T AGREE WITH YOU ALL THE TIME !

Ciao Bmama!! I told you I got this. Shhhhh….not another word

^^^ Seems like we checking “our cyber friends” grown ass woman checking you. Just pictured it hama walked over to a corner and slumped down after she told her ro be quiet.

“I told you I got this. Shhhhh….not another word”

oooh who the eff are you, her little side kick. I’m scared!

@lacyd

Chilln’ like a villain with a gold tooth fillin’

@lacyD

haha trying to provide some comedy, cause its a sad day for us H towners

JAO put a pic up baby!

And you know I am way younger than your ass, don’t front!

It’s funny how some of you use “she’s never with her OTHER kids” as an excuse to say something ain’t right with her. I’m sure she’s with them. Maybe she’s just managed to not be photographed with them. Did it ever cross some of ya’llz minds that maybe Tameka doesn’t want to subject them to the same public scrutiny that the media has subjected her to. Maybe she’s trying to protect them from it. Ever think about that?

BTW: I’ve seen her photographed with at least one of her kids. There was a pic of them in S2S Mag a while back.

That’s wassup AND…(Still keeping with the down south twang, espescially since Pimp C died. Awww RIP Pimp C. I’m so sad about that).

JAO,

So I’ve made another enemy. Good, you’re type makes my day go by. Unfortunately, you DO NOT fit my standards of a debate partner. You’re responding in a very childish manner, and personally, I don’t know how to talk to children outside of go sit down somewhere. So I regret to inform you that your remark towards me will effective immediately become null and void. That is until you learn how to speak like an adult. If that’s impossible for you, no hard feelings, please DO NOT hurt yourself trying to come up with a whitty remark. I will not be held responsible for your brain freezes. Don’t come back with a you don’t know me remark, because that won’t work either. I know enough based on what you said to me initially. I’ll just find another enemy.

Have a nice one

@ TX BRED

I am proud in the flesh KC all day baby, what the eff do you look like. I never once said I wasn’t proud of who I was are you.

so I know I’m biting but @lacyd I am going to use your 5:00pm post the next time I have a smart ass come at me. Damn my feelings are hurt?

DO NOT hurt yourself trying to come up with a whitty remark.

^^^^Keyword witty…enough said! Thanks!

Witty is similar to clever and unique.

Giggles is similar to not there and just and effing funny.

Same to Lacy’d you can join your cyber friend with the dunce cap!

Giggles is similar to not there and just noteffing funny.Sorry! Anyway..moving along!

@ AND…

Use it and abuse it. People fail to realize that the best way to insult a person is to do with out them knowing it. Kind of like white people and thier silent racism (twisted comparison, but it’s the only thing I could think of

@ JAO

just making sure you are happy, cause from reading your posts, it seems like you are the inspiration for “Diary of a Mad Black Woman”

Oh and you need to apologize to LacyD for talking down like that, you know you really don’t want it with H Town

JAO,

I know I said you weren’t worth my time of day, but I can’t help but help you. Key word “trying”. PAY ATTENTION. You failed, miserably. Try again.

@TX Bred & Lacy’d

I know I said you weren’t worth my time of day, but I can’t help but help you. Key word “trying”. PAY ATTENTION.

^^^??? and you still typing…seems like you need to pay attention? TX BRED??? Don’t flatter yourself! since your last attempt at romance FAILED on the blog site go to meetrich.com honey…any effing way!

TXbred

@ JAO

just making sure you are happy, cause from reading your posts, it seems like you are the inspiration for “Diary of a Mad Black Woman”

low blow^^^^^^^^^^

I must be worth the time of day, cause you still typing…read your own shyt!

just making sure you are happy, cause from reading your posts, it seems like you are the inspiration for “Diary of a Mad Black Woman”

I guess you are the inspiration for Tales of the Crypt.

Ooh you two are boring!

just making sure you are happy, cause from reading your posts, it seems like you are the inspiration for “Diary of a Mad Black Woman”

^^^was that suppose to be an insult…That movie mad money..glad you a witness…cut my mofo check!

Usher married who he loved it’s not for ya’ll to understand. Be a fan of his music and stay out of his personal life. You don’t get to choose who he loves. And Tamaka is 100% correct about hateful black women. Usher married a sister he has consistantly been with sisters unlike the rest of the sell-outs in the Entertainment world. Who would ever thought that black women would be so hateful towards their own sister. There is nothing wrong with Tameka.

@ JAO

We may be boring, but you’re sure as hell doing me a favor. Thought I told you that your type makes my day go by. You can keep trying, but nothing you’ve said has any sting factor. And it’s apparent that you’ve been stung. If you wanna be a part of our club (bmama, txbred, 504, AND…, and a few others who are missing today), that’s all you have to say. Don’t go off like the lonely kid at lunch time just because you don’t get our sense of humor, or we don’t agree with your P.O.V. Just holla at us, you can be our friend. Until then, keep on trying and pay attention.

@JAO

haha you can keep going back to that if you want, but it doesnt change your obvious problem with what me and my boys call TPS (Tyler Perry Syndrome)

Oh but at least you “educated” as you stated to me before…

@ JAO

We may be boring, but you’re sure as hell doing me a favor. Thought I told you that your type makes my day go by. You can keep trying, but nothing you’ve said has any sting factor. And it’s apparent that you’ve been stung. If you wanna be a part of our club (bmama, txbred, 504, AND…, and a few others who are missing today), that’s all you have to say. Don’t go off like the lonely kid at lunch time just because you don’t get our sense of humor, or we don’t agree with your P.O.V. Just holla at us, you can be our friend. Until then, keep on trying and pay attention.

^^^Your still talking about me I love the love and the hate. PS. JAO

I’d rather go on Flavor of Luv and then be your friend!

I’d rather sleep with Lil Wayne (faints)and eat banana slices then be your friend!

I’d rather be Jay-z lips then be your friend!

I’d rather be whoppi goldbergs dreds than be your friend!

Why cause Im still funnier than your friend! Donnnnnnnnnkey!

lacyd, nothing you can do about it, hun.

I will continue to type whatever I please, whether you like it or not. So go on with youself!

How do I take you seriously, you’re a Beyaki fan!

@BKSG

if only some ppl were passionate about other topics in this country, more than 300 post, wow

like education, gang violence, teenage pregnancy, and a list of other issues that plague the urban community, this dialogue would be on a mission to eradicate certain issues.

^^I talk about that but, TXBRED see that as the Tyler Perry Sysdrome! He keeps talking about Tyler Perry, what man sit around and talks about TP…?

hi people. i have nothing to say cuz these post are just funny! plus i just wanted to see if i can say “bmama” without getting “typed-on” lol so again…hi every one, and by everyone i mean the nice ppl…lol

TXBRED see that as the Tyler Perry Sysdrome! He keeps talking about Tyler Perry, what man sit around and talks about TP

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No, the question is – what man huffs and puffs about who another man marries?

Unless he has a crush on Usher, I dunno…

Oh, and lacyd,

Being stupid and having opinions based on ignorance ain’t being a noncomformist. Check yourself!

sad but true. tameka makes a strong point.

TXBRED see that as the Tyler Perry Sysdrome! He keeps talking about Tyler Perry, what man sit around and talks about TP

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No, the question is – what man huffs and puffs about who another man marries?

Unless he has a crush on Usher, I dunno…

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*DEAD*

sad but true. tameka makes a strong point.

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yes she does, and because it’s so ingrained in many of our heads, it’s almost no longer identifiable.

I can’t put my finger on it but something about her that’s not right.For one she’s a gold digger and an old fart that needs to go find a man her age.I’m not hatin on her but ur married with 3 kids then ur divorced then married again after how many months of dating.That baby came a little quick to she knows how to trap em.Did she leave her kids behind or do they camp out at Usher’s I see why Mamma don’t like U.

HOME FROM WORK & LOOKING FOR MORE LAUGHS…..

LOOKING FOR MORE CONTRADICTIONS

Ain’t nobody trippin off Tameka because she is dark skinned. In the eyes of some, she aint the cutest thing and she looks “whooped on.” She needs to accept it and charge it to the game.

had to leave for a sec; glad i didnt miss anything… beside two chicken heads squawking

if you were refering to me being offended, i’m not, i’m a leo, lol. i just wanted to know where you stood since you were generalizing ppl on here, and isnt that why you’re all full of piss and vinegar right now? ppl making general assumptions?

What makes people believe that a celebrity will tell the truth in an interview? Not saying that Tameka didn’t, but none of us know her personally. She could be saying what peoople want to hear (or telling the truth). I take the whole Essence interview with a grain of salt. Just like a lot of political candidates won’t tell you how they REALLY feel about abortion, the death penalty, etc. Just sayin……

504!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ 504–

Eff Greg from the Brady Bunch! Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eff Sam for not marrying Alice!

Eff Marcia for being prettier then Jan!

*than, sorry!

Eff the Osmands who were the white Jackson Five!!Lol!

Eff NKOTB who were the white New Edition!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

eff 1trudiva because now alice is crying again…talking ’bout she makes the best damn meat loaf…….lmao!!!

DEEEEEEEE-VAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

EFF THAT LIL ANNOYING BLONDE HEAD BOY WITH THE GLASSES

EFF LEAVE IT BE FOR TALKING ABOUT ALICE’S MEATLOAF !!! MINE IS BETTER & I’M FUNNY TOO !!! LOL

504….did i hear cook off in this mug????????

EFF SUGAR RAY LEONARD LEFT NOSTRIL

tameka is wrong. people don’t like her because she left her family to be with usher and sites kept saying his mom doesn’t like her.

LEAVE IT BE…

BRING ON THE GROUND BEEF !!!

504!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HEY HO!!

FAW !!!!

HEY STANK !!!!

hon…it has nothing to do with race…chili is the same complexion and she’s gorgeous.

her looking like the ass of a horse has nothing to do with why most people hate her…she is old as dirt, has a criminal past, all these other kids, and doesn’t get along with his mother…there are so many other reasons…

Eff part of my “crew” for being here!

eff leave it be ’cause she’s down with me! Lol!!

Eff “it’s beginning ti look a lot like Christmas!

Lmao!!!!!!!

EFF SUGAR RAY LEONARD LEFT NOSTRIL

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OK. OK. I’m wid it……

eff Micheal Jackson’s “other glove”. Lol!!!

Why I was just in the break room and I was getting ready to buy some bar-be-que tato chips, a snicker bar, and a Mountain Dew. The IT man (who’s all beefed up and lives at the gym) comes in so I just bought an apple!

Her statement does reflect many ignorant black folks but at the end of the day it is a blessing for Usher to LOVE A FULL BLACK WOMAN! I really don’t give a fuk why she left her ex and kids ’cause men do that shYt er’day!

1tru…he could get it huh? bowleged christmas bonus???? lmao!!!

I think this bish forgot that Chili is about her skin color but we loved Chili and Ursh together. The difference is Chili doesn’t look like a damn man.

hey TRUE ASS DIVA WIT YO BAD SINGIN ASS!!!

LOL

JUST JOKES GIRL

oh my word Diva u wildin out again ROTFLMAO!!!!

why are there 367 comments for a Manly ass Maneka Foster post? last time i saw this many comments was at my ‘MJC’ concert way back when

she has a VERY good point Black women do have issues especially when the person is dark-skin..disagree if you want

^^^^^ LOL!!!!!

dat was at Mary J Clone

my surname is Blige-Isaacs NOT ‘Clone’.

and why is ‘here we go’ still talkin bout Tameka Foster? lol

Mary…. I think you forgot to take your meds again. Remember your pressure points..woosa woosa

oh pleaze Chi Mi!

you are a d*ck eater, and a stalker. Always commenting on my posts.

Go back to learning the choreography for Real Love. I’m out, I got a promo photoshoot 2morro morning so I need my beauty sleep. Some of us actually have highly successful careers…

*looks sideways at broke ass Chi Mi pulling her microwave fries outta her Easy bake oven*

SORRY FOR THE TYPOS…

Eff FAW’s typos!

No homo!!!!!

I’m back!!!!!!!!!!!!

In and out….In and out!

Sound familiar??! Lol!!!!

and..

eff all the poeple who hate on the people that don’t take the people seriously!

And eff Eddie Murphy for that effed up song he wrote when he thought he was a singer! Lol!

and eff me for runnin’ this post the hell up! like Meka, Errrsher, nem are relevant. Or however indahell you spell it!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eff Diana Ross in The Wiz!

People don’t like Camilla(who married Prince Charles) but you do not hear her complaining about why people hate her cuz she knows her swag game was sketchy. So Tameka should not use the race excuse to justify people’s dislike for her. Why everything gotta be a damn race issue. People don’t like you…you suck it up and move on. This chick is delusional.

Go back to learning the choreography for Real Love.

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I…am…OFFICIALLY…dead!!!!!!!!!

“Real, Love—

I’m searching for a real love.

Someone to set my heart free.

Real love—

A-a-a-a-a-u-u-m-m searchin’ $ a real love.”

doo-doo-doo-doo-doo-doomp!

Take that!!!! LMMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ IBW–

Good point!

I guess we can sum up Camille and Prince Charles as having..oh..let’s just say…for arguments sake…class? Lol!!!

OK. OK.–

eff Camille for looking JUST like prince Charles. Sans the ears, that is!

Eff Dora for coming across the border and settin’ my ass back $99.00 for that dammin’ doll! Dammit! Lol!!!!

And eff the rent to own people for NOT giving me a hook up on my libbin’ room furniture!

$17.99 a week! Boy oh, boy! By the year 2067, it’ll be mine all mine!

And eff the couch for having Jheri Curl juice on it!!

Bastids! Lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lmao 1trudiva!!!!!!!!!

Girl I’m still here! Lol!!

OK. What are your “eff’s”. Lol!!

Why my job doin’ Secret Santa this year…I was on vacay for a few days and when I got back it was one name left. The person that absolutely nobody likes??!!!!!!!!

Why Ima wrap up that clock my aunt gave me for my birthday and regift it to her backstabbin’ ass!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

eff that secret santa mess

eff being lactose intolerant

and eff the cable company for this bull ish they charging me to watch!!!!

Why after she open it Ima ask for my gift bag back??

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Deader than dead!!!!

**fannin’ maself wid da martin Luffa Da Kang funeral fan**

**whew**

Eff the cable company man for tellin’ me he was gonna hook me up for $20.00 and a porkchop sammich!

fat bastid never showed up!

eff getting a cramp cuz im laughing so hard at you takng your gift back!!!!

EFF TRU FOR BEING MY CONSISTANT CYBER SISTER….SIKE!!

Why am I sittin’ here listening out for the cleanup man to double back through?

Why I put on some more lip gloss ’cause I heard him in the other office?

**pushin up my brestesess**

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.

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**wavin’ that sessy wave to him**

Yeah. he could “get it”!!!!!!! Lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

**wiping the tears from my eyes**

EFF MY NEW DOG LEAVING STICKY LOADS ALL THE TIME!

EFF MY HUBBY FOR GETTIN HIS ASS

EFF MY GRAVATAR FOR HIS EYES CONSTANLY POPPING OUT AFTER I PUSHED THEM IN!!

EFF THE CLEAN UP MAN………..HE AINT HELP ME

eff my dog for just still being here…..

eff not having a custodian walking thru my house so i can apply lippy….

Eff Mykel’s feet for stinking so bad at the Dr’s. office, they gave me some alcohol swabs for ‘em to clean all up between her toes. And eff her for thinking it was funny!

Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eff my son’s dog Cinnamon for always havin’ gas!

She burps, too!

WTF???????????? Lol!!!!!!!!!!

Why when we were younger did my twin brother have a dog named Mr.T that used to chew gum??

No LIE!!!!!!

I do not care for Tameka because of her age, her alleged neglect of her own children and former husband for a man. Of course she was going to get pregnant, she fertile aZZ hell, that hole probably as big as Usher. By I digress.

Her comments that are posted all over the net about Black women hating one another, honey. All cultures deal with this, I believe ours is more defined because everyone “wants to be black” in theory but not in reality(that may fly over some of your heads)

I have seen puerto rican women, Asian women, and especially white woman hate on each. Don’t get it twisted men do too, contrary to popular belief. How can anyone say those women in Hollywood are beautiful when a majority are fake. The average Black woman I know is beautiful, noting average about any of the ones I see..Average to me would be a ponytail, jeans n sneaks and we still kill it planting in the garden. SO baby if you average, its because that is what you think. I have always told my students that they are beautiful, because too many black children suffer from the brainwashing of their parents…get a grip…and find your beauty…in African comparison not European.

…Tameka is not Ugly, she just does not have a good stylist. Her jawline can be complimented with Bangs, the part makes her head look long. Why hate her because she is dark skinned? Baby we Black Woman run the world, look at how we ruin careers. Now if she ruins Usher career, and her children’s lives, she will suffer, regardless. Tameka, you need to deal with your own issues…including not being Chili..because you know that was who he really wanted. Honestly, I thought he would always go back to Regan Gomez Preston.

Yes there is a lot of self hate, not to mention the hate we receive from Asians, Latinos and other women who lust after Black men and Hate us…Believe it or not, men (Asian, Latino, etc.) have revealed to me that the reason why Black Women are so hated because all men secretly lust after them..I actually thought they were joking, until too many said the same thing. I asked why they lust after Black women, they said because of what they hear about their sexual nature, but Black women ain’t checking for anything but Black men…

So sistahs, when you think you see Chino at the corner looking at you, he is..we are beautiful and powerful.

eff me, cuz stinky feet are funny!!!!

ALRIGHT LEAVE IT BE………..MY NEW NIGHT TIME BUDDY

EFF MY CAT FOR JUMPING ON MY LABTOP TRYNNA GET MY ATTENTION KNOWING HER AS NEED TO GET TO THE LEFT

BEING PICKY ON HOW COLD HER WATER IZ

Ya’ll bet NOT make me go to the “why” questions! We’d be up in here ALL night!

EFF ME FOR MISIN MY DOG BUBBA!!

EFF EVRYBODY THAT HAD A DOG NAMED COCO

Is someone still commenting on Meka, Ersher nem?

im still here fine as wine

eff my bunny for running around his cage with a toy in his mouth, like im not watching the real housewives of o.c

and eff them tricks too

Is someone still commenting on Meka, Ersher nem?

…………………….

EFF THEM I ONLY CARE ABOUT THE BABY PLEASE SAVE THE BABY!!

Eff the guy that lives up the street and around the corner from me. He’s got two pits–one named Cocaine and other other named Felony!!!

And I’m supposed to be turned on by that sh*t! Lol!!!

USHREKA..I MEAN

Why my daughter got a rabbit named Arab!

I swear, no lie! Arab! Lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

why it gotta be eff the coco dog owners???? i did right by that dog!!!!! what has coco been telling you? ungrateful bastard!!!

why my son name my rabbit…wait for it………….BUN-BUN…..

the hail?????

OK FAW and my new cyber friend– LIB (leave it be)

Ima ’bout to be out for now! I’ll check in tomorrow. You young ladies have a good night and if your not at home yet, get home safe! If you are home–eff bofe ya’ll for being in a warm house while I have to go out in the cold! Lol!!

Good night, ladies!

coco been telling you? ungrateful bastard!!!

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Dead for the last time tonight!

good nite 1tru and fine as wine…my ass gotta get up at 6 in the morning!!!!

LIB IT SEEMS THAT COCO IS A PET NAME ERY BODY KNOWS PERSONALLY…LOL

NIGHT YALL I HAVE TO BE UP 4 5:00 I PARTY LIKKA ROCKSTAR!!

I LUV U TRU…..U MA GIRL

lol @ FAW, LIB, and Diva….yall some crazy chicks for making me laugh so hard.

@BlackBeauty

girl you speak nothing but the truthness. Hell i know them white boys checking for me and be calling me talkin bout when they gon get some but I’m down with my beautiful, chocolatey black men.

IBW–(IN MY BEST FLAVA FLAVS VOICE OMMITING GOLDIE’S NAME) IBW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN!!!!!

Damn!!!!!!!!

Now tell us how you REALLY feel! Lol!

BTW—

PCF IS a regular. At least, a regular and gots senrorority up in dis! (Anyone that was here when it was Haloscan–R.I.P.!)

Lol!!!!!!

OK. I’m out–

Good night, nighthawks!

I am so sick of people saying that the reason people do not like Tameka is because she is dark-skinned, people do not like Tameka because she is known for her bad attitute, ignorant actions among other ridiculous things she has done……Real love is real love…it shows so for once black people lets not make this a color thing…….and to be honest if Tameka was light skinned and ugly…..she would still get talked about and probably worse especially with that attitude and so on….Has anyone noticed that since this women stepped into this man’s life it has been nothing but negativity and drama.

What is a real black women as some of you have stated she is because to me a real black women has character, strength, dignity, class, morals, respects herself and others, is virtuous, kind, honest, loyal, walks in love, confident, feminine…the list could could go on…and to be a “real black women” as some of you are stating has a blessed life meaning everything she touches in her enviroment, community, etc. is going to be blessed…I mean you have you trials and tribulations….but when something is blessed by God honey it shows no matter what… so to me real beauty comes from within.

For years there has been a rift among light skinned and dark-skinned women (that was stated by white people) that needs to be healed…all black is beautiful.

So please stop supporting black women that are ignorant and conduct themselves that does not shine positive light on the black community…so why would we support this type of negativity…I believe in black love and I happy he at least married a black women but at what cost? Is all the negativity worth it?

You know what it is pathetic the way black women hate on each other but it is also pathetic that we as a black community celebrate ignorance…but nobody is mad that Usher married a black women…honey they are celebrating that fact but it is everything else that came with Tameka that people are complaining about…lets try not to get this confused and make this a color issue once again…her very public actions and ignorance are what bothers me and to be honest many other people.

Another problem that I have is everybody is getting on here celebrating blackness but you are all still making it a color thing by constantly talking about what shade of blackness you are what does it matter I thought all shades are beautiful?…what does it matter what color you are because being a black women is beauty in itself no matter how you look…I was raised to see no shades, colors, ethnicities, or religions, my parents taught me that all people are equal and that no matter what people say the color of your skin is beautiful. Whether you are a beautiful light-skinned,brown-skinned, or dark-skinned honey you are fabulous!!!!

But I am sorry comments like that one say alot about your character, your self-esteem and you ignorance…..someone of good character and esteem would not have to defend themselves and the relationship like this!!

OKAY SO….

I get to work at 4am (a ridiculous time, because we have a huge presentation at 8am)…

and im at work right now, reading through this post…FUNNIEST ever…im so mad I wasnt involved in this yesterday…

from what I see, there were madddd different heads arguing with each other about maddd different topics….

who knew Tameka brings the evil outta people?

oh wait, she’s ugly…nevermind…makes sense

being a dark blk woman myself,and would not be caught dead in ashers arm. so in a way they deserve each other. pls dont hate on dark honeys cause we banging!!!!

meh… i feel like most of the reason people talk about her is because she is so random. perhaps her size and age but not really. nobody would’ve expected her. it has nothing to do with her race and skin color. people will talk nobody what you look like and who you are ESPECIALLY when you marry a celebrity.

Narcissa,

I could not have said it better!…I think this post has definitely made a split betweeen light and dark which is not good…The beauty of being black is that we come in so many shades with all different types of hair so someone who is light with curly hair does not mean they are right off the back mixed as people would say because being black is so versatile which is why so many hate on us and get tans, implants of all types, eyes pulled to be chinky, etc…and they stay trying to pull us apart to the point where being light is not being black enough and being dark is not pretty and we have to overcome that..Usher on that note if he is happy then thats what he is and I feel as though Tameka sees a flaw because someone who goes through so much for society to accept them and be so convinced that its true love is only shower that there’s a hole somewhere in there…I don’t need to hear rumors…the way she interviews with these magazines shows a piece of her ignorance and triflin personality.

Mr O Dot,

Oh, u made my heart flutter!! *tearing up* Ur such a good hubby!! WE R having a SPECIAL dinner tonight!!!

LMAO

nahnah

well why don’t u go suck on something now!

So I’ve made another enemy. Good, you’re type makes my day go by. Unfortunately, you DO NOT fit my standards of a debate partner. You’re responding in a very childish manner, and personally, I don’t know how to talk to children outside of go sit down somewhere. So I regret to inform you that your remark towards me will effective immediately become null and void. That is until you learn how to speak like an adult. If that’s impossible for you, no hard feelings, please DO NOT hurt yourself trying to come up with a whitty remark. I will not be held responsible for your brain freezes. Don’t come back with a you don’t know me remark, because that won’t work either. I know enough based on what you said to me initially. I’ll just find another enemy.

Have a nice one

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Damn!

@BlackBeauty

*Standing Ovation!*

PRRRRREEEEEEAAAACCCCHHHHHH!!!!

Nahnah,

I wish you would quit acting like you know everything. Your tone is so omniscient that I’m wondering if God has access to the internet. But since I know you’re not him, then basically you just sicken me. All the time, everytime I see a message from you, I either read it just to see what nonsense has escaped your fingers, or I just keep it moving because I don’t feel like being urked but your ultra afrocentric theories. Though your style is acceptable by my standards, the things you say couldn’t sit well with me even if you paid me. That said, you keep on talking because I know you will. Go ahead and tell the world about your sex life to defeat ideas of you being a lonely, miserable, Tyler Perry Syndrone struck beast, because I know you will. (FYI it aint necessary, no one cares). Go ahead and tell people what they are thinking, and how they’ll react, because I know you will. You are after all “omniscient” right???

Step down from the high horse chick, you’ll feel much better. I promise.

NahNah girl you know we agree on some things but on this one I just gotta ask you, you really really believe that people do not like Tameka cuz she’s dark skinned? A lot of people do not think Tiny, Jasmine Guy, even Rihanna in all her tenhead glories is cute. You think any man will pick Tiny over Gabrielle Union or Naomi any other day?

And for the record, she remind me of this girl I hated back in high school who tried to justify her nasty behavior towards blacks and whites by saying we hate her cuz she’s dark skinned. That line is as tired as Beyonce’s weave.

And finally my family ain’t average looking, we is some good looking African people…dark skin and all.

IBW!!

hey FAW…girl this post is wicked crazy (in my best white girl voice) lol

Damn your gravatar sexii

I agree with her. Dark skinned women can’t even get their music nor videos played on black radio stations anymore. If you think of the black females artist that we are bombarded with it is three of them. Alicia Keys, Beyonce, and Rhianna. I for one am sick of atleast two of them.

No Tameka. It’s not because you are black or darker skinned. It’s b/c you have a stank attitude. I’ve seen the way you act in public.

Ugly personalities make people ugly. But in your case, ugliER.

IBW-Ideal Black Woman

hey FAW…girl this post is wicked crazy (in my best white girl voice) lol

Damn your gravatar sexii

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GURL HE BE BRINGIN SESSY BACK!!!

IBW-Ideal Black Woman:

I truly believe people are EXTRA hard on her because she’s not mainstreaminly(?) beautiful. I think the public/fans are so fixated on celebrities being with a certain type of woman (who are usually young, thin, caramel/light-skinned/and even white) that the rumors became more believable in our minds, which caused the mass hatred towards her.

Eddie Murphy got Melanie Brown pregnant, and won’t even acknowledge the baby, but he doesn’t get as much hate as this woman. Not to mention his actions has been CONFIRMED and not speculation and/or rumors. In fact, her alleged actions are quite the norm in Hollywood, yet I don’t know anybody who’s received so much hate as she has.

The skin color thing is not isolated, but definately intertwined in the whole issue. In other words, she doesn’t fit the beauty standard, which typically does not include dark-skinned black women.

And we all know the average “bangers” are light in tone with less West-African looking features. Furthermore, the general African American standard of beauty is similiar to that of whites because that’s what has been put in our minds. Do you see what I’m saying?

And I’m sure you and your family are beautiful. What I meant by average is regular, day by day, non-glamourous and non-made up, black women.

I hope my explanation helps…

I agree with her. Dark skinned women can’t even get their music nor videos played on black radio stations anymore. If you think of the black females artist that we are bombarded with it is three of them. Alicia Keys, Beyonce, and Rhianna. I for one am sick of atleast two of them.

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Unless of course they are degrading themselves, like that Remy Ma, chick.

Do you know how many times I’ve heard black men and women call India.Arie monkey/gorilla looking?

And no talent having Rihanna (at least Beyonce and Alicia can sing) is everywhere.

I said it before I’ll say it again…There has yet to be a dark skinned sista that was projected as a “sex symbol” or “beauty” in our culture.

We so use to the latinas & asians & white girls as being depicted as sex symbols & beauties. When a self assured average looking black woman emerges folks are quick to call her arrogant, obnoxious & self centered????

None of us know this woman yet yall say she has a

shady past. How do YOU know that?

And even if she does have a jail record from her younger day’s I wonder how many folks on this board HAS ONE TOO?!

Shoot some of yall make me sick!

I am a light skinned woman and I think Tameka is pretty, black and beautiful. She and Usher are friends and in love. Just like my husband and I. Who cares if some black men want whit e women; we are sistas are over it. It is just as hard for white women to get white men that is why the marry black men. Leave Usher alone; Tameka is real a good mom and an experienced wife; she knows how to treat a man. Usher has identified this; it is not about color. We need all the strong black families as we can get.

WHy are you all tripping… stop generalizing. There are several black men in Hollywood that married black women or are dating them. Denzel Washington, Samuel Jackson, Cedric Entertainer, Isaiah Washington, Shaq, Lebron James, Jackie Long, Bobby Brown, etc. and some white David Bowie, Chris Noth, Robert Deniro, Jeff Goldblum, Boris Becker, Robert Ebert. And here is a list of Celebrity white men and black women: Alfre Woodard and Roderick Spencer. Whoopi Goldberg and Eddie Gold. Diahann Carroll and Vic Damone. Shadoe and Beverly Stevens. Opal Stone and Ron Perlman. Anne-Marie Johnson and Marty Grey. Deniece Williams and Brad Westering. Leslie Uggams and Grahame Pratt.

Black women wake up.. don’t let the media and blogs dictate who you are… if this man won’t the next will. We have value and are beautiful and dont settle for less. You better believe and many white women can atest to this…if a man is marrying a women solely because of her looks and/or color …in the long run she is going to suffer. Any women married to a celebrity has to put up with is arrogant pompous ass i.e. ask Beyonce, Kim Porter, etc. there is a price to be paid regardless of color.

“I said it before I’ll say it again…There has yet to be a dark skinned sista that was projected as a “sex symbol” or “beauty” in our culture.”

DIANA ROSS ring a bell?

bahama,

ill come home early for that one!

She’s always referring to dark/light trying to divert attention from her ugly ass attitude. Usher is the celebrity, not Tameka. She isn’t liked b/c her attitude sucks, not to mention the drama her stupid ass brings and the way he treats his mother now that she’s a part of his life. She is just classless, unlike Chili, who wasn’t threatened at all by the women screaming for Usher’s attention. She carried herself like a lady and respected his mom.

BTW, I am a professional dark skinned black women, with a husband, fam and home, so the excuses won’t apply here.

Break it down Real Essence…

Yes, Usher’s mother is color struck too. Everybody knows blacks play the opposites rule. Mothers of dark skinned sons want them to marry light or white so they can have grandkids with lighter skin and “good” hair. Likewise Mothers of Hispanic girls never want their daughters to mess up the bloodline with a dark skinned man (for example JLo). Stop fronting and just admit it, black folks go crazy for light skin and so called good hair. It’s been that way for ages and will always be and denying it is just being politically correct. If Tameka Raymond were light skinned, black folks would be a little less critical and would search for something good about her. How about Eddie Murphy one upping Mel B on the light skin scale, that’s why he chose Tracy Edmonds. Everyone knows he is repulsed by darker skinned women. And does anyone remember the article years back in Essence I believe about Will Smith being prejudiced against dark skinned women and replaced the dark skinned mother of Fresh Prince with a light skinned mother and then made it near impossible for the woman who played the dark skinned mother to get work in Hollywood. We can on and on but the truth is whatever her past Tameka Raymond is judged harsher than a light skinned wife would be. It is very bold and sincere (no Public RElations light skinned trophy wife here) for Usher to have chosen her. In a way, makes me respect him more. Better believe Usher is honorable and will see to it that her children from her first MARRIAGE (no out of wedlock babies for Tameka) will be well cared for and educated.

Well I personally agree with Tameka. If she were lightskinned or white, some people would have probably hated a bit but not to this extent. We as black women are always complaining about black men not really apreciating the TRUE beauty of black women and Usher goes against that and finds a BLACK woman and we want tear her apart. This is ridiculous!! I have actually seen her person and I must say that pictures do not do her justice. She actually is very pretty in person, petite, and looks much younger. So she’s an average lookin’ woman…SO WHAT. So is Tiny (very), so is Tay Diggs’ (white) wife, Cuba Gooding Jr (white) wife, and honestly once you take off all that make-up Venessa Bryant, but because she is a real black woman she has to be perfect for anyone to remotely be interested in her?? Why?

Wasn’t Chili from TLC dark-skinned — it has nothing to do with your skin honey, it is everything else.

I don’t think she is but question: so what if she is ugly anyway?

no really…uh…so what?

no really really, someone please answer…why do u care if she is ughl?

I was raised with different colours in my family – I dont see colour but it’s not even about colour it’s a bout shades- it’s getting pathetic.

As long as the kids don’t suffer be with whoever you want people

“I Love being dark skinned!”

AIN’T DEMI MOORE DIVORCED WITH TEN KIDS MARRIED TO A MAN 20 YEARS YOUNGER??

BUT SHE IS BEAUTIFUL SO IT’S OK RIGHT. ARGH MY RACE IS SICK!!

SPEAK ON Z…

SPEAK ON!

TELL IT LIKE IT IS!

Usher is the man! He stood up for his BLACK woman and MARRIED her! Usher for president!

she UGLY SHE UGLY–HURTFUL words reminiscent of the COLOR PURPLE come to mind. why we black women like to use that word? and when will we STOP?

i mean JENNIFER ANISTON ugly like sin–and frankly angelina’s beauty is kinda subjective, but they are white people’s poster women.

why can’t we appreciate ourselves like that?

DEMI LOOKS MANLY TOO.

The point that Tameka made is a MUTE one. Spirit has no color and places no value whatsoever on a person’s pigmentation. She deliberately and intentionally made the statement to evoke outrage and gain attention and from the looks of it, it’s working. The truth of the matter is her problem has nothing at all to do with her color; it has EVERYTHING to do with the fact that she has an inferiority complex. She’s very insecure about her looks and is looking for someone to blame instead of going within and dealing with her issues. That’s the REAL problem and it’s a wonder noone has been honest enough to tell her that.

*****MAKES NO DIFFERENCE, TAMEKA, HOW THE WORLD SEES YOU; WHAT MATTERS IS HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF******

What makes her noteworthy enough to be included in the listing of celebrities. She happens to be the wife of a celebrity. Chocolate to vanilla, all the flavors are awesome!

i’m happy usher married a black woman. but why did he pick the black woman who looks like a black man? chick looks like a dude, she’s a chick-a-dude!!!

ITS NOT THAT SHES BLACK BUT THE QUESTION ONE HAS TO ASK IS WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU LEAVE CHILLI FOR THAT I MEAN DAMN!!!!!