Saturday, March 7th, 2009

SMH: Joe Torry Whoops A Female Comedian’s Ass

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Chris Brown, Suge Knight, and Devante aren’t the only men in the business putting hands on females. Joe Torry just beat the dog mess out of fellow comedian, Vanessa Fraction, in Japan:

We hear that while on the bus touring in Japan, comedians Vanessa Fraction and Joe Torry got into some sort of a physical altercation. The story varies on this unfortunate incident, but both sides do agree on certain things, and here is what is stated as fact; Both comedians for some sort of reason got into a “crack session” where they decided to crack on each other, and Fraction took it to a level that bothered Torry by going through the entire alphabet and coming up with cracks for each letter. Immediately after there was some name calling between both parties. Now here is where the story differs; according to Fraction, Torry immediately jumped up in her face and slammed her down into the bus seat and it took other comics Red Bone and Will E. Robo (both of whom were also on the tour) to pull Torry off of her. Fraction also claims that Torry punched her and pulled out a handful of hair. Torry denies all of the above claims by Fraction, and he claims that Fraction jumped up in his face and scratched him, and that she was extremely unruly to the entire bus, the tour guide and many more folks involved in the tour. He also claims that he did apologize to her for the incident, and that it should have never gotten this far. Meanwhile, Fraction is currently trying to press charges in Los Angeles, as she was unable to do so while in Japan. Torry was temporarily held by the Military Police right before one of their final shows and was later released. Also Fraction plans to move forward with a civil suit against Torry.

These fools are putting hands on women like it’s the newest fad. SMH

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  1. Damn Joe…

    when the checks stop coming in…hmmm

    is it that serious


  2. Anywho!!! Bossip where is Khia Vs Lisa raye Post Khia ethers Lisa

  3. Sydney

    Didn’t his character also *****ault Regina King in Poetic Justice?


  4. TYPICAL ANGRY BLACK MALE….

  5. The Third Eye

    @ Sydney

    You are correct and Golden Brooks in Motives.

  6. Seriously...

    This is ridiculous – Joe used to be the ish… used to be…

  7. Sydney

    @The Third Eye

    I haven’t seen Motives. What is that about?

  8. The Third Eye

    @ Truth

    A terrible situation ideed. But I guess it’s better than a typical angry white male raping, stealing, beating, discriminating, and pileging a number of civilizations, or going through an entire school shooting teachers, students, and faculty.

  9. tanisha

    look at bossip, dont even have the whole story and already convicting joe torry. no better than the white media


  10. @ The Third Eye… say whatever you want but at the end of the day TRUTH HURTS.

  11. Sydney

    Link below to an interview Joe Torry gave regarding the incident. He describes it as a “misunderstanding” that got out of hand, and he has apologized more than once:

    humormillmag.blogspot.com/


  12. @The Third Eye
    Say whatever you want but at the end of the day >>>>TRUTH HURTS! Stop turning this into race comparison. What he did was wrong PERIOD!!

  13. Willie

    Dudes like this are usually raised without a father in the home I have seen it a million times. They have no boundaries and don’t know how to be a man and a lot of them are still angry at their mothers. To stop it, they need to be prosecuted and face time in prison. Use your words not your fists.

  14. Curt

    I cannot stand women beaters! Like Judge Mathis said, they are cowards and will never challenge another male, but they will beat up a female in a minute. They are nothing but *****es themselves and they know it.

  15. im@LoVeR

    bossip pls chris brown nd the rest u mention are definetly not the only ones and u know it. they only got caught thats all and sadly theres more.

  16. The Third Eye

    @ Sydney

    It has Vivica Fox, Shemar Moore, Joe Torry, and Golden Brooks from Girlfriends. Vivica and Shamar are succesful married couple with great careers.

    Shamar then gets involved with Golden. She basically seduces him, so she can pregnant and get child support. Golden is in relationship with Joe and they are going to use it as black mail to get $$ out of Shemar.

    That plan is ruined when Shemar is set up by his best friend and convicted for murder if I recall correctly. Joe thinks Shemar killed Golden, Shemar thinks Joe did it, but it was his best friend who did so and framed him.

    The best friend ends up marrying Vivica. You have to see motives 2 to see how it all goes down. SOunds crazy and soap opera like but it was good.

  17. Kigali(Joyfully Licking the *****es of Random Cracka's Since 1972)

    I never liked his *****got *****

  18. The Third Eye

    @ Truth

    You made it about race with your comment. Don’t get mad because you can’t handle the truth, Stupid *****.

  19. CJ

    come on now Bossip. how you about to post 2 sides to a story, and without knowing what happened just *****ume what happened? SMH

  20. InsertDopeWordsHere

    … sounds like high school…

  21. Sydney

    @The Third Eye

    Wow, that’s some plot! lol

    I must have missed its release. Did it go straight to DVD?

    Totally off topic, but Asunder was another good suspense film with Blair Underwood and Debbi Morgan.

  22. serene

    dang is this whats hot….not cool…at all

  23. The Third Eye

    Yeah, another one of Viv’s straight to DVD releases lol.

    Okay, I’ll have to check that out. Blair Underwood is a talented actor. He’s finally getting some recognition these days.

  24. Sydney

    Poor Viv. . .I’ll try to check it out.

    Yeah, Asunder was directed by Tim Reid and Blair played a man obsessed with Debbi Morgan, who is married to his best friend, Michael Beach.

  25. the one

    *****ody cares about these loud mouth *****es getting beat up. Maybe if they learn how to shut the ***** up, they won’t get driven into the concrete


  26. Wow! And if my memory serves me correct, Joe aint no lil dude

  27. The Third Eye

    @Sydney

    Well, Viv said she is choosing to do striahgt to DVD. She says she’s getting producer or exec. producer credit and more money. She also adds Hollywood isn’t really paying black actresses all that much. She’s doing her but it’s nice to see our people on the silver screen.

    It sounds good. It kinda has the same elements as that new movie Obsessed with Idris Elba and Beyonce. I’ll have to check it out. Blair has the crazy mad man on lock. Have you seen him in Madea’s Family Reunion?

  28. thepromised1

    Garbage… bossip on another witch hunt… if brothers aren’t being labeled gay on this site then they have to be a damned abuser…if a woman lays her gotdamn hands on me… I’m putting my foot where the sun don’t shine… Man, woman or child it doesn’t matter… keep your hands to your gotdamn self… all this don’t hit a woman bullish but meanwhile its okay for her to hall off and do whatever the hell she wants to do or say anything to a man and walk away like she the damn boss of everything… whatever … if your prepared to step in a man’s place by putting your hands on a man… or running your pie hole beyond being respectful… just talking *****, ***** and more ***** pushing a guy far beyond his boiling point….then be prepared to deal with the consequences once that man has reached his limit….

  29. WHIPP HIS *****!

    I honestly think it was the other way around. She probably whipped his *****. Why? Look up Vanessa Fraction on youtube.

  30. Sydney

    @The Third Eye

    No, I haven’t seen Madea’s Family Reunion, but I agree — Blair plays a crazy man superbly, lol. He was out of control in Asunder.

  31. yes sirrrrr!!!

    yea whoop that trick!! LOL

  32. Sydney

    *whispers*

    There are some really, really, really angry men on this site. . .I guess it’s a good venting board for them.

  33. yes sirrrrr!!!

    let me rephrase that whoop that b*tch. LOLLLL

  34. SAN DIEGO PANAMANIAN

    BOSSIP.. YALL ARE SOME SELL OUTS!

    WHY DO YOU GUYS HAVE THE HOE-DASHIANS AT THE TOP OF THE SCREEN??!!!!

    YALL WILL DO ANYTHING FOR SOME $$$ BOSSIP.

    SMMFH :(

  35. TRAILBLAZER

    Men please don’t get comfortable with hittin on a woman becuz one may seriously hurt u or the closest one to you…ur mama. This is a public announcement.

  36. yes sirrrrr!!!

    TRAILBLAZER

    Men please don’t get comfortable with hittin on a woman becuz one may seriously hurt u or the closest one to you…ur mama. This is a public announcement.

    i wish a b*tch could.LOL


  37. @Sydney – Lol you aint lying …

    @SAN DIEGO PANAMANIAN – Already more panamanians in the house…

  38. The Third Eye

    @ Sydney

    Well, I’m out of here. I got to study for my finals. You’re among the few I can have a decent conversation with on Bossip anyways.

    Holla (Frankie’s voice) lol

  39. Sydney

    Hey Txhustla, lol

    I wasn’t referring to you, of course — You’re a gentle brother. LOL!

  40. Sydney

    @The Third Eye

    Bye! I’m out of here, too. Thanks again for the movie recommendation. :)

  41. Another day

    A to Z wow his short *ss provided alot of material for her to work with. Vanessa is funny and was probably getting more laughs than Joe. If a man cant do anything else he will put his hands on you. When are they going to learn?

  42. EECA

    what the hell is up with *****s now. females need to start carryin guns, if they wanna fight u like they females we need to shoot they ***** like we *****s. this is ridiculous

  43. TRAILBLAZER

    @ The Promise1- I think u are getting domestic abuse alil confused with something else. Most domestic abusers(man or woman) do not even need a reason to beat somebody *****. That is why many try to call it an illness in a way. It goes beyond someone hitting u and u hitting them back. It honestly just as simple as u sitting there minding ur business and they come home and beat u because u wearing a green shirt instead of a yellow shirt. Or just because they want to beat you. An argument does not even need to take place. That is what domestic violence is ultimately about.

    But all I have to say to men is if u not goin to step to some dude, which many of u don’t, then don’t get incredible hulk on a woman either.

    Most women will cuss u out but very few of us actually get physical with our men unless some seeeerious ***** took place. But I don’t even cuss out anymore because sometimes walking away hurts more than any words or fists can do. Men expect us to wild out so much that when we don’t they are dumbfounded. Becuz if he ain’t ***** to me then he ain’t goin to be ***** to the next unsuspecting chick either.

  44. Cali *****

    I think *****s and *****es need to control their emotions. This jumping in *****s faces and *****s retaliating with a sock to the jaw is weak ***** azzness. Y’all gotta learn, there’s too much *****s and *****es out there to allow yourselves to get out of pocket over some bull*****. If ***** don’t workout, then take it as God has spoken, and move the ***** on…And this especially goes for *****s, cuz 9 times out of ten, y’all the ones who’s gonna get locked up, whether you started the ***** or not. If the system + *****es ain’t got no compunctions on throwing a 19 year old ***** under the bus for a first domestic abuse offense, then what do you think they will do to a grown ***** 30 something *****? Sometimes, it’s best to take the path of least resistance.

  45. O no Its Misty Babyyy

    y is everyone so quick to judge…u were not *****n there….and u knw what if some of these *****s would shut their damn mouth…and stop jumping up to a man then *****, maybe u wnt get hit……if u p***** a hit u betta be ready to take one…..i dnt agree with domestic violence period…but if someone jumps in my face like thay MR. GET BAD.. then ima show em Im that ***** to get bad with…so put yourself in the situation and look at it from both sidesa…what would you do if you were in the situation…sit back and take it..well good luck *****es cuz im jabbin back with the quickness


  46. @Sydney – Yeah haha not gentle , lol more like moms would hunt me down with her shoe throwing skills…

  47. A Great Black Woman

    Didn’t ya’ll know that in order to prove how much of a BIG man they are , it’s now a MUST that men fight women? The cherry on top is when they brag about whooping a woman’s *****.

    Yup. If they’re not beating us up, they’re wearing our lipstick and high heels. LoL

  48. TRAILBLAZER

    I forgot to add that Im surprised that two comedians couldn’t take a joke. Did someone do a mama joke or something? Because I really don’t know how that got so out of control. They probably were lovers and ***** turned sour and now neither one can take a joke from eachother. Cl*****ic booty call syndrome.

  49. No Turn on Red

    Them niggs from Easr-Buggie always slappin on chicks. it started w/IKe


  50. A lot of these *****es need they ***** kicked… *****, I’m bout to go slap the ***** out of one of my *****es right now as we speak..

  51. educated black man

    men hitting women is wrong and women hitting men too is wrong. i do not hit women,BUT if a woman put a knife on me or punches me then ill personally make sure she gets a black eye. a friend of mine had punched his girl in the face for putting a knife on him and called it self defense and she ended up in jail for 2yrs.

  52. Joshua

    Women getting outta control. That’s why they getting they issue.

  53. JG

    they want to wear the pants now. Sometimes an ***** whippin comes with that

  54. Its6amHoGetOut

    Just to let you know, you cant commit a crime in Japan and be charged for it in Los Angeles, unless Japan issues a warrant then requests extradition, but on some sh*t like this? hell no!

  55. O no Its Misty Babyyy

    @qwest

    hahahahahahahahahahaahhahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhaaha

  56. Junk

    Men who beat women should only be *****ed by other men who beat women. You should not be in a relationship if you cannot deal with conflict without using your fists. You cannot call yourself a man or a woman if you can’t just walk away from the bull***** when problems jump off. Adults should not hit adults, period. “Wearing the pants” has nothing to do with it. If you want to revisit the times when women were docile and meek, I suggest you build a time machine and patent a recipe for fairy dust, because there have ALWAYS been women who have stood up for themselves. I do not condone women hitting men or vice versa. Everyone needs to have self-control. If a 4 year old hits me, I’m not going to haul off and punch them in the neck, because it’s unnecessary and unwarranted. I’m bigger, I have the upperhand and I respect that any damage I do to them, is much worse than anything they can do to me. A 190 lb man beating, biting and kicking a 120 lb. woman is unacceptable and I don’t care if he’s 19 or 50…youth is not an excuse for lacking self-discipline.

    In any case, I think it’s extremely funny that this lady was able to use every letter in the alphabet to crack on this man. And if you can’t take a joke, why initiate a dozens contest…that’s just stupid. If he’s guilty, I hope he gets buried under the jail. NO excuses.

  57. snoop bloggy blog

    Didn’t his character also *****ault Regina King in Poetic Justice?
    ____________________________________

    LMAO……Sure did….she said he had weak ***** waves….lol

  58. About it

    These men are frustrated cuz they don’t have the courage to live as a gay man. They be on they stomachs each night on the DL, that’s why they beat on women. Women, we need to sue them, call the cops, testify against them. This always went on, but I see a trend where this ***** is in the public eye tryin’ to gain some cred.

  59. lisa

    is this a publicity stunt—just work on stepping your game up

  60. Yvonne

    Damn. SMH.

  61. SMDH

    You forgot Larry Johnson :(

  62. Greenie

    Kigali you are an old woman almost forty what are you doing on this blog of teenagers and people in their twenties you old broken down *****!

  63. Dirty Harriet (Get all up in yo ***** like a Enema

    Here we go again.

    I’m starting to believe that these *****s are scared of confrontational situations with men. If they stop bending over and getting *****ed, maybe they wont lose their manhood and have to take their guilt and shame out on a woman by beating them.

    And most likely this is the situation.

    What person gets mad over someone drillin ‘em? If you both are in the same areana (comedy) then you should already know what the deal is. Dont take it to heart. But see these *****-made *****s nowadays are ***** and I’ma keep saying it because I dont see any more real men out here.

    Not that I would want one myself, anyways.

    Like Katt Williams said:

    I dont been with ***** *****, after ***** *****, after ***** *****……may as well get me a *****, *****.

  64. Dirty Harriet (Get all up in yo ***** like a Enema

    Typos:

    -arena
    -done

  65. flu season

    man what the ***** ever
    the reason more women are getting thier ***** beat
    is because *****es are reckless..
    like wtf!
    *****es think they can hop badd cause
    they got *****s
    ***** that *****
    if yu hop bad with someone
    expect to get your ***** dealt with!

    im tired of this women are victim *****!
    equal rights?
    women complained for it…
    now look at yall..whining
    when a ***** treat you equally
    dumb *****es

    p.s im a female.

  66. Yvonne

    @ Sydney,

    Is the movie Asunder the one where towards the end of the movie, Blair knocks Debbi’s girlfriend out with a golf club?

    I have seen Blair Underwood play a couple of roles where he gets psychotic with women and goes off on them in the worse way and IMO he plays those roles a little bit to realistic for me.

    Makes me wonder if he treats women like that when he is mad at them. Either that or he is one hell of an actor. I hoping for the latter.

    Off topic…but did y’all hear about the man in Ohio who just got married and the day after he got married he killed his wife, her sister and her sister kids.

  67. Moreaces

    People are just lossing their minds everywhere..

  68. Honeycream

    1. 2. and the third will be the biggest star to wipe these off the map.

  69. Moreaces

    @Flu Season
    p.s im a female.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Physically maybe, but that’s about it. Your mind aint right. Nor is your heart and soul.. sad

  70. disgustedatjoe

    This was one of my good friends from back in the day. Vanessa has always been the most genuine and most down to earth person.

    And that interview is a typical women beater ‘apology’. He didn’t admit to the craziness he did but then ‘apologizes’?

  71. JC o' B'klyn

    Mother*****ing females want to be treated equal(Same pay checks etc.), ok. so get ready to get slapped when you raise your hand on a guy.

  72. Louey love

    WHEN ARE THE LIGHT SKINNED GIRLS GONNA REALIZE THAT THEM DARK DUDES LOVE HITTING A LIGHT SKINN WOMAN??

  73. MB

    Damn Joe, CB didn’t teach yo dumb ***** a lesson?!

  74. Kigali(Joyfully Licking the *****es of Random Cracka's Since 1972)

    he did not “whip her *****” – he *****aulted and battered her, jackholes

  75. Kigali(Joyfully Licking the *****es of Random Cracka's Since 1972)

    lol @ flu season talking about if you “hop bad” wtf is hop bad?

  76. BKLYNZ OWN

    IN JAPAN:DAMN CANT TAKE *****S NO WHERE

    AND BEAT *****, NOT THE FEAMALE

  77. ***** Deep

    She has got some great legs!

  78. hahahahahaha

    lmao where are all the “domestic abuse activist” . . . . or was that just for Rihanna?

  79. Stupid is as stupid does

    If she hit him first that’s wrong. He has every right to put prevent her from doing it again. Shoving her down to the seat (hopefully it was soft lol) is different from throwing blows. He has a case if she hit him and he was simply ‘restraining her’.

    Now on the other hand…if she didn’t throw one blow but was just getting more laughs than him in a game they both initiated. This guy is a straight up punk. No other word for it. His ego was bruised…and ladies we know how fragile that is. The bigger the ego the more ‘SENSITIVE’ the guy. Funny how men don’t see it as being sensitive but that’s exactly what it is…they get their feelings hurt and they don’t know how to deal with that.

    Make no mistake…Using physical force does not mean that you are ‘STRONG’. It is easy to punch someone down if they make you upset…Its easy give into your anger…not so easy to practice restraint…this requires mental strength. Real men and women know this. Alot of guys are strong in body and weak in the mind.

  80. Junk

    The part that’s getting me is that some men and women on this site seem to be under the delusion that the victim has to provoke the situation in some kind of way in order to be beaten. An abuser will hit a woman NO MATTER WHAT SHE’S DOING. There’s no need for provocation or jumping up into someone’s face. They lack the mental fortitude to control themselves or their actions. They get off on demeaning and physically subduing women. With the Chris and Rihanna case, it’s been said that it’s happened before. There is an established pattern of abuse…not an ISOLATED incident. If this is the case, then Chris is an abuser, flat-out. If Rihanna did hit him, there were more than a few ways he could have diffused the situation: pushed her away, gotten out of the car, called the cops, left her stranded. Instead he beat, punched and choked her…overkill, much? Now, he’s compromised himself, his freedom and his career because he cannot control his rage. Joe was engaging in a verbal back-and-forth with this woman and apparently when she got too close to his ego, he wanted to put his hands on her. That’s not acceptable. He needs to be a man. If he engaged in a provocative situation (cracking on each other) then he should have been able to deal with the impact the insults would have on his ego. Period. Wanting equal rights does not mean that women should now be men’s punching bags. As I stated before, adults should not hit adults. A woman should not hit a man or vice versa. However, should the situation arise, someone has got to be the adult in the situation and walk away. Why would you potentially compromise your freedom to prove that you are a man? Is it really worth it? Is the bid that you’ll have to do in jail really worth a small jab to your pride? If you were truly a man or a woman, nothing that anyone could say should make you compromise yourself.

  81. Stupid is as stupid does

    @Junk, wow, great *****ysis.
    I think we were typing the same time

  82. Junk

    @Stupid is as stupid does:

    Jeez, we almost wrote the exact same thing. Maybe that’s why I liked your comment so much ;)

    Too bad common sense isn’t common.

  83. Stupid is as stupid does

    Dudes talking about if a women says this and that then she should be prepared for a beat down…are yall serious? Have any of you every been in a real relationship?

    If you want a women who does not value her own intelligence has no confidence in herself or in her abilities, no sense of self or self worth or autonomy then go for that chick. She’s the one who will never question you or think for herself because she has no mind of her own. They are out there fellaz, just waiting for guys like you…

    but please don’t go after the confident chick with self esteem and then try to break her down to your level. You can’t have it both ways. Anyone that knows they have worth is going to speak their mind, whether its to agree or disagree with you. Try to express your point of view without using violence.

  84. Stupid is as stupid does

    @ Junk, never underrate your ability to express yourself clearly and coherently.

    Unfortunately many people either lack this ability or they lack an appropriate outlet to express their frustrations. That’s why alot of them resort to violence in the first place.

    For alot of these men, when you strip away their tough exterior, you realize that they’re dealing with major insecurities and feelings of inadequacies but they can’t talk about it because their peers and society would look down on them and call them weak…and how can you fix what you can’t even talk about.

    its really a sad situation when you think about it. Society would easier condone a man being violent than for a man to reveal that he has feelings of vulnerability.

  85. Scooby Dubious

    she doesn’t look very funny.


  86. THEN WE WONDER WHY HIS SERIOUS ***** CAN’T GET ANY REAL WORK.***** *****!

  87. B

    there are six billion people on this planet and ***** is getting whooped every day.Man and females. However, unless they are celebs, you don’t bother to talk about it. So your ***** about women getting hit by men like it is the newest fad is only believed by newbies cause this ***** has been going forever. Get a life Bossip.

  88. InBetween

    WOOWWW THERE ARE SOME ANGRY MEN OUT THERE.

    Chris beat you down Brown started a trend, jk.

    I GUESS YOU ALL NEVER WATCHED SNAPPED, YOU WANNA THINK YOUR SO BAD until you hit the wrong woman who puts a bullet in your head for slappin her around.

    IF TWO PPL ARE AARGUING WHY DOES ONE HAVE TO MAKE IT PHYSICAL??
    whats up with you men saying if a ***** steps to you she’s getting beat like a man…well she’s not a man.
    And you LAME ***** weak ***** women who feel that just because a chick argues her point to a male should get a beat down are in need of some sense.

    If you dont as a man or an adult know how to walk away from someone who is ignorant or weak then you have to drink a cup of manhood.
    So if a lil grade school child stepped to me like he/she is grown its ok for me to whoop the child’s *****…ummm no I’m the stronger one I’ll have to figure out another way to difuse the situation. Because guess who’d going to jail??

    WELL MEN CREATED WAR WHICH CREATED THIS RECESSION.
    $1 TRILLION A DAY TO FIGHT OVER OIL AND A CRAPPY DEMOCRACY and who looses in the end THE INNOCENT.

    men that fight women are women with *****s..case closed

  89. Darkesthourgl*****

    A lot of men will hit a women even if she didn’t “provoke” him. He thinks he own her. I hate it when people make excuses for these losers.

  90. millan hype

    ^^^^women with *****s arent those hermaphradites

  91. InBetween

    @millian
    lol your being too literal.
    You know what I meant. Women beaters are *****

  92. millan hype

    men who hit women are *****ess.but at the same token,their are some pretty dangerous women out there,so i do beleive in self defense.once this girl reached for a knife after an argument and tried to stab me.she had me cornerd in the bedroom,my back was against the wall.so what i do:kicked her in the stomach,wrestle the knife out her hands.but thats a rare case so idk

  93. Joe

    Stop making excuses for him. It’s never alright to hit a woman, you *****ing ignorant savages.

  94. Joline

    I’ve seen his profile on the millionaire & celebrity dating club____Millionaire Loving. C O M____ for hot singles to hook up for Hot Love and Sexy Dating. It is amazing!

  95. dutchmaster

    i bet it was like in poetic justice when regina king told him he wasnt fly and he finally couldn’t take it anymore. where’s tupac when u need him. LOL!

  96. InBetween

    @millian
    lmao ( sorry for laughing) but wth were you doing in a bedroom with your attacker??

    and unless the woman looks like China the wrestler or has a weapon she isnt that darn dangerous but in your situation you didnt kick her as you difused the situation to save your life. You didnt ChrisBrown her to death (I hope)

  97. InBetween

    *kick her *****

  98. millan hype

    in between

  99. millan hype

    nah i had all the rights to. but i was just stating not because your a woman you cant get touched.not all woman are soft

  100. millan hype

    thats why i dont mess with girls from the projects no more.because they crasy

  101. InBetween

    @millan
    lol @ project chicks…can’t relate but i here they’re quite the characters, either way

    umm if you got the knife out her hands why would you have the right to continue kicking her ***** though.

  102. black friday

    ***** that *****. She probably needed her ***** whooped.

  103. InBetween

    black friday…you sound a lil crazy

  104. millan hype

    no i did not kick her *****!! but i had a good reason to kick her *****.i just jumped in my car and sped off.im not that type of guy.im non-confrontational

  105. Darkesthourgl*****

    Didn’t Lorena Bobbit’s husband hit her, too? The one who cut John Wayne Bobbit’s thing off. He did something to her for her to go off like that. There are some women you definately don’t hit because you never know what’s going on in their heads.


  106. Just listened to the dreams Album ..3/5

  107. jerjorju

    For anyone interested, the movie Motives starring Shemar Moore and Vivica A. Fox has been on television, on BET I think. Maybe they will air it again.

  108. Oakland

    WOMEN ARE GOING TO FAR. THEY FEEL AS THOUGH THEY CAN SAY OR DO ANYTHING THEN CRY A MAN SHOULD NEVER HIT A WOMEN

  109. Oakland

    YOU CAN GET MOTIVES AT TARGET….ALONG WITH AL THE BET MOVIES

  110. Yoshimoto

    japs are gonna say: these black people are crazy, they even bring their foolishness to our country

  111. Tanya

    These men need to realize that they are stronger than women and so there is no need to get physical to show their strength. Poor judgement.

  112. TheGoodGood

    this is for the money though… not love/p*****ion but anger can cost a ***** in more than one way. if he cant control his temper then he shoul pay

  113. nauseous

    Enough of this ish!! Women gonna have to start bustin’ a cap off in some *****! I’m not saying kill-a-*****, but hurt him real bad and then get a good lawyer. This abusive stuff is way out of hand.


  114. WORDS HURT!!!! IF YOU CANT TAKE THE HEAT YOU SHOULD GET OUT THE KITCHEN OR IN THAT CASE GET OFF THE BUS!!!! DAMN WHERE’S HIS FUNNY BONE, SHE GOT TO THAT TO.


  115. another celeb turned into a ***** *****!


  116. @ The Third EYE. Aren’t you the one who started talking about angry white males who shoot up schools and rape people????? Maybe you’re missing a few screws if you fail to realize that you’re the one who started the race comparison!! Let’s do a recap, I doubt you’ll be able to grasp concept dumb *****. I said Joe Tory is an angry black male and you jump to his defence by talking about angry white males. so idiot who started the race comparison?? Go read a book. You’re clearly lacking common sense DUMB*****!!

  117. Darkesthourgl*****

    Oh please, he wasn’t much of a celebrity to begin with. So what he did a movie with Janet and Tupac a long time ago. He’s probably *****ed because he’s not as big as a star as he should be. I wonder what Vanessa said to him to make him go off on her.

  118. Fal

    Didn’t Lorena Bobbit’s husband hit her, too? The one who cut John Wayne Bobbit’s thing off. He did something to her for her to go off like that. There are some women you definately don’t hit because you never know what’s going on in their heads.

    _________

    she said he tried to rape her

  119. hmmph

    to many dumb, brainless, neva-had-a-father *****-***** *****s for me to even begin to speak on!!!!

  120. one_last_hurrah

    … don’t hyang out with low-cl*****
    people, and you won’t have to deal
    with low-cl***** bull***** ….


  121. I just saw their show @ Atsugi Naval Air Station here in Japan about a week or two ago and saw him in the BX the next day…She was really funny, but he was just the MC and didn’t really have his own slot…he was really cool in the BX and she seemed really cool after the show…Wow.

  122. EECA

    …….its a shame thats its these ignorant ghetto mentalilty-*****-*****s that get with low self esteem ghetto-mentality-hoodrats (all which have been displayed by many Bossip users today) and create a super breed of ghetto-ignorant-no-future- having babies and start the cycle all over again.

    Natural selection is a ***** tho- in the future America will not have to deal with igorant ghetto foolish black people anymore and you fools will perish.

  123. Harold E

    Im not a woman beater and never have been but i just cant be comfortable with the way most women want to be treated every bit as equal as a guy but dont want the bad. i havent read the story yet (and dont plan to since torry is a *****ody) But if u do stuff that would cause your girlfriends to knock u the ***** out, why would u think a man wouldnt??

    Females if there was any situation where u replace the wife beater with a female would there be so much outrage?? When a guy hits another guy its looked more as entertainment , same with girl on girl. Females want to get paid as much as a guy, play sports with the guys and etc…. But when its a situation even when ure girlfriend would beat that ***** if u threw her keys out the damn car , it much different cuz a guy did it?? now that being said i in no way condone violence against anyone man or woman so guys who do hit women should expect the same confusing consequences as every other wife beater and not be shocked and surprised when a *****storm comes ure way.

  124. DankThomas

    haha thats comedy right there…aye remember in poetic justice when he got kicked in the nuts and they threw his brush over the cliff….they needa Poetic Justice his ***** again

  125. EECA

    @Harold E, we want to be treated the same intellectually and be respected because men and women are equal on that level. But men and women are physically not the same equally.

    I dont understand how men dont understand that.

    A woman cannot do the same damage to a man as a man can do to a woman period. If she punches u it might hurt you but if you punch her you’ll ***** up her face and might knock her out. *****s always tryna rationalize *****, for one man he’s justified in hitting a woman if she hits him, for another if its she gets in his face, and for another its if he comes home and his food is cold.

    It dont take but one good shake or push to shut a female up. That Chris brown type beat down is a sign of a ***** *****

  126. ...

    shes ugly anyway

  127. Harold E

    @EECA, I get what ure saying, but for everyone of u, theres about 12 girls on here that say no matter life or death situation a woman should never be touched and knowing that the man is strongers and his hits will hurt much harder than your hits why punch him in the face in the first place???? That i why i dont go around looking for Nfl players to swing at!!. And with steryotypes going bith ways can u imagine how worse it would be if chris was the one who got his ***** beat?? I dont condone at all what chris did, and according to the sources no matter how chris beat that ***** she still fought him too. If he had just stood there and took a whooping from her with the steryotypes in this day and age… All his fan base would be gone as opposed to just most of it!! The point im trying to make is y cant they both go to jail??? Sure charge chris with a harsher sentence because he did mess her up, but to not charge rhianna at all??? And lets not forget for every 4 girls u have who are genuinely attacked for no reason u also have that 1 girl that takes advantage of a sexually biased system where all she has to say is she was hit and the guy goes to jail!! (never happened to me, but happened to my guy twice) im not saying at all that all women who are hit deserve it or anything like that but the law will always 100 percent be biased towards a womans side in situations like this. And its an obvious uneven advantage.

  128. Harold E

    A girl’s punch to the face may not hurt, but that doesnt mean i want to get hit in the face!!!

  129. Harold E

    For it to truly be even women should expect the same consequence as guys when it comes to violence but they dont cuz society has rules that give 1 side more of an advantage, thats y alot of guys wont ever see it as equal.

  130. EECA

    @Harold E.
    Ok and what if she didn’t hit him? What if she just got in his face but never physically touched him? Was it ok for him to f-ck her up the way he did then? Cuz its plenty of *****s on here saying that them gettin in an arguement and her possibly gettin in his face would’ve been enuff reason to do what he did. Chris brown didn’t look like he had a scratch on him when he was turning himself in and the police report says nothing about Rihanna hitting him at all, just that he opened up a text and they got in arguement.

    Anyways like i was saying, for him to ***** her up as much as he did for as long as did is ridiculous

  131. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    @EECA

    Self-defense is self-defense doesn’t matter the gender. And I want to know where you’ve been where one good shake will quiet a black lioness on the attack. I’ve seen some 130 lb girls go Tazmanian Devil crazy and given 200 lb dudes who know how to scrap all they could handle.

    I’ve also seen a big juicy well fed girl kick the crap out of her smaller bird chested boyfriend. I suppose just because he has a ***** he should stand there and get smacked around or rather give her the pleasure of have him run away and further emasculate himself.

    If anybody puts a hand on me they’ve got about 2 seconds to snap back into reality before they get the business end of a kidney punch. I respect your intelligence to be equal to a man and I respect that you would rationalize there will be potentially devestating consequences for your own actions. I never have hit a woman and plan never to have to as I don’t go in for the psycho chick that thinks combative arguing or fisticuffs are a solution to a problem. But I’m not going to sit here and say should a threat to my well being arise and the perp is a woman that I’m not going to properly defend myself. No one should have to put up with ANYBODY thinking it’s ok to be abusive towards them.

  132. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    That said if Vanessa Fraction wanted to throw hands with me I’d just take it as some kinky S&M foreplay because that girl is nice…

  133. Harold E

    @EECA, i 100 percent agree with you,If chris was the sole aggressor then he deserves any punishment they got, but look back at her words, his words and older reports. They hit each other (but brown went waay overboard) and just like me saying theres ignorant girls here, theres also ignorant guys as well. Can u imagine what the same ignorant girls and guys would be saying if chris got his ***** beat instead of rihanna? Neither of them should have took it to that level (especially chris) but thats the way it is.Chris never denied hitting her she just said he hit her harder and more where as rhianna doesnt claim to not have hit him, the police reports only states what chris brown did to her. In fact she hasnt really said anything but the police and the D.A. released pictures, and a police report (both illegal) through leaks in their departments. I just think both should be in jail, sure give 1 a light sentence and 1 a harder 1, But according to alot of people here No matter what rhianna did or not, the only 1 in jail should be chris and to me that absurd. My sister got beat by her boyfriend once and my dad took a bat to her boyfriends knees. They both fought each other, and they both beat each other up, both had marks on their faces and black eyes (my sister and her ex) it just happen to be his luck to dated a girl w/ a crazy father….Still doesnt mean he should only go to jail.

  134. Harold E

    my sister was just as guilty. but his bad luck

  135. Harold E

    Even that trash tv show muary realized it . cuz they used to let the girls attack the guys all the time on dat show. but the security would beat dat ***** when the guy tried the same. now Security doesnt let either fight each other cuz both are equally wrong.

  136. EECA

    @bloodshot,
    You are missing my point, sure there are fat women, but that doesnt mean when paired up with a smaller guy she will automatically win. I have seen plenty of small guys who are suprisingly strong, and men naturally have hands compared to women, they’re just physically stronger. There are exceptions to every rule, if there is a woman who outweighs you by 300 lbs and you weight 110 soaking weight and she comes swinging at you then yes maybe some DEFENSIVE moves to get her off of you is acceptable,
    but in the 97% of the other cases that are not like that men hitting women, especially to the extent of what CB did, is ridiculous to me, and i hope he gets thrown in jail so he can experience a different type of beat down.

    Rihanna is not 300 lbs she didnt come at him with machete or a chainsaw, CB beat her ***** like that cuz he wanted to beat her ***** like that.

    @Harold,
    Rihanna going to jail when she is most likely a repeated victim of domestic abuse doesnt make sense. Unfortunately most women who get beat by their men have experienced it before and will continue to, and its just as unfortunate that many of these women are weak and will stay with fools like CB.

    Women cannot hurt men the way men can hurt women, thats all there is to it. i’m talking about average me and women not Respuscia or China.

  137. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    You will notice I didn’t at all condone what Chris Brown did. What he did goes beyond self-defense and into punishment. And it seems to me EECA that you are proclaiming the rules of a fair fight. Well I have news…rarely is there such a thing. As somone said, believe it was Harold, most right thinking men wouldn’t go up to and start swinging at a guy that had 6 inches and 120 lbs of muscle on them. If they did would you expect the big muscle man to “only use proportionate force” in riposte out of some illogical notion of a fair fight. OR would you expect the big muscle man to smack the little worm down to the ground like a gnat. That’s basically what you are saying that the smaller aggressor should be forgiven their actions just because they are physically frailer despite their intentions and actions. Which pardon my French is bull*****. As I said before to play off your statement if you want me to respect you as an equal in intellect then please be smart enough not to think you as a woman should get a “get out of *****kicking free” card just because you have two x chromosomes instead of a y.

    In a perfect world every man would sit on the couch with a stoic face as his woman proceeded to re-enact the fight scenes from Enter the Dragon on him. But that’s not reality so let’s not brainwash women into thinking that for no reason should she not expect to get what’s coming to her if she is acting a fool.

  138. ?

    What if I hit u, what would u do?

  139. EECA

    @Bloodshot,
    I don’t condone women hitting men,
    What I am in saying is rationalizing men hitting women is dangerous territory because once you start doing that you open up different men giving different reasons for beating a woman’s *****, and in the case that a fight between a man a woman does ensue, a man will do much more damage to a female then she could ever do to him.

    You know good and well that most domestic violence cases do not stem from a woman going crazy on a man, it comes from a sorry excuse for a human being attacking another one who far exceeds the other in strength.
    I know both you and Harold are mad because it isnt fair that women don’t get thrown in jail as much for domestic violence as men, but life isn’t fair, and if you take the emotion out of it you will that rationally what I’m saying is true.
    Physiologically there is just a difference.

    Look i’m not standing up for the average ghetto hood rat and good-for-nothing thug relationships, their mentalilty is all their own.

    I’m talking about sound minded men and women who get into arguements and it results in a man with scratches on his face but the woman left unconscious. Control your strength is all i’m saying, know what you can do with it and the consequences of using it.

  140. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    sweep the leg. *****ody is going to get that. lol.

  141. Harold E

    @EECA lets *****ume i 100 percent agree with your viewpoint and let use the example of the man who attacks the woman for no reason defense as upposed to that self defense argument. Wouldnt both of the 2 parties going to jail benefit more than only 1 going to jail??? If she knows she can go to jail for getting beat up for no reason y not use that as added incentive to leave a bad relationship??? and with a rate of 95 percent of any domestic disputes favoring women and 22 percent false allegations wouldnt it help stop any violence and any false allegations by scorned women more??? Sure the average man is stronger than the average women, But in my opinion it just gets worse if only the man goes to jail…there will obviously be a reapet trend in abuse if he knows she wont go to jail, and he thinks she wont suffer at all.

  142. EECA

    you’re right about that, I dont know what you are talkin about

  143. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    @EECA

    I think you are arguing something different than either Harold or I are talking about. Neither one of us have said or condoned out of hand abuse of women. Yes I definately realize most cases of violence from men against women are initiated by men and for reasons that don’t bear out any kind of logic or justification. Just as you are saying you are not standing up for the average ghetto hood rat I’d wager we are not standing up for the man who beats his woman because he has mommy issues.

    He and I both are talking about the all too often case of females instigating AND being the physical aggressors and the notion that in such a case even though fewer in number should not be dealt with equally harshly and with equal contempt. A sound minded man and woman in an arguement will not come to blows period. A woman who strikes her man is NOT of sound mind and as such I do not see a point in you or society in telling him that he should not only take the physical abuse but also the psychological abuse that comes along with not being able to defend himself out of fear that HE will be considered the monster.

    Again to use your own words as my ammunition no life is not fair, hence why women need to understand that if you strike a man it will NOT be a fair fight and you should not expect him to restrain himself as such. And appeals for men to control our strength when the woman in question is not controlling her faculties seems to be a bit sexist AND unduely shifting the blame from the victim. Physiology be damned honestly there are consequences for actions and we need to be teaching women that society as a whole will not have your back if you are the bad guy that starts it all anyway.

  144. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    @EECA

    That sweep the leg comment was to ‘?’. Think Karate Kid.

  145. Harold E

    @EECA when 2 men fight they arrest both men, when 2 women fight the arrest both women. Only on Tv are the fighters proportional. in real life there is always a stronger or weaker adversary. but both parties are taken to jail to show them they need to not fight again or theyll both be in jail again.

  146. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    @ Harold E

    That is true to an extent. There are laws making provisiong for mutual combatants. However in this case I’ll take the ladies’ side. More than likely in your typical domestic situation the combat is likely to be VERY one sided and likely to be initiated by the man. In that case the dude needs to be a very tiny cell with a very large and a very horny man hoping that his butt cherry will last the night.

  147. Harold E

    @ Bloodshot agreed when u go overboard in domestic abuse, i think ure sub-conciiously willing to take any consequence that comes to u(man or woman). Cuz even if for some odd reason im ever striked a by a female. I will use every tactic i can before even thinking about crossing the violence line against a woman.(but a guy can only take so many face punches and or crotch shots.)

  148. EECA

    @Bloodshot
    well we agree on some points, disagree on others, and in any case if a man decides to hit a woman there will be consequences that will be felt long after her wounds have healed, having instigated the fight or not, if i’m a cop and i see a man with superficial wounds and i see a woman with considerable damage, the man will do more time. Men should learn to control their emotions just as much as females and realize the world we are in.

    and, even though Karate kid came out when I was alive and it probably still repeats occasionaly, I was still playing with barbies when it came out. Besides it always looked corny I’ve never stopped to watch it.

    @Harold, we still disagree to some extent but I agree with you more now :)

  149. Knot a hoe up

    I’m glad I’ve only had relationships with women of substance because if a woman ever put her hands on me I’d knot a hoe up!

  150. niknak

    Now how the hell does Joe Torry call himself a comedian if he can’t take a joke. Seems like he can dish it but can’t take it. Lame-lost respect for him

  151. Smooth G

    I didn’t see any scratches on Joe, but Redbone turned it out. Remember there is always two sides to the story but if anyone gets in your face you have the right to protect yourself whether they are man or woman. Peace

  152. Knot a hoe up

    For all of you igg-nant women dropping praise on these fake azz men because they say shyt ya’ll want to hear like “men should never hit women”……grab that muffuga by the nuts and try and twist em off……..I bet that real man will knock your dellousional ***** out!!!

  153. Sydney

    @Yvonne

    “Is the movie Asunder the one where towards the end of the movie, Blair knocks Debbi’s girlfriend out with a golf club?”

    Yes, that’s the film, and that was a very disturbing scene. I haven’t seen any other films of his that depict him in that manner, as you described. I’ve seen photos of Blair Underwood with his family (link below to one with his wife and kids), and I’ve never heard anything negative about this personal life. I just think he’s a very versatile actor, and I like that he has played more than the cookie-cutter, handsome ladies man type.

    blackcelebkids.com/2008/06/09/actor-blair-underwood-and-family-attend-benefit-carnival/

    Oh, and yes, the story about the Ohio man, Davon Crawford, suspected of killing his wife, her sister, and three children (including 2-year-old twins) was all over the news Friday and Saturday, but, for some reason, there was no post here. He wound up killing himself when the police cornered him. Coward.

  154. Sydney

    @Junk/Stupid is as stupid does

    Great posts. Thanks for inserting equilibrium into the discussion.

  155. Sydney

    *his personal life*

  156. X

    She cracked on him using every letter of the alphabet(hope someone got it on tape) and he couldn’t take it. What a punk.

  157. The Roc

    Are you sure this isn’t the scene from Poetic Justice?

  158. Only girl, with 3 older brothers

    Chicks, keep ya hands to yaself, NO excuses for a girl hitting on a man expecting him not to excuse you from in front of him. I have brothers and they hit girls..when/if they jump bad..SORRY…we are humans first. This was a fight not a pattern of abuse. Men and woman fight, and they fight eachother too theres no law saying guys can’t hit girls nor is there one saying girls can’t hit guys..Get over your ego WOMAN. In the case of woman who are actually living with DOMESTIC ABUSE it’s Black, Chinese, White, Indian, Spanish…It’s not just black woman it’s all women. So SISTAHS stop trying to own the abusee role, it don’t belong to you.

  159. Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    @EECA

    Never seen Karate Kid…how could anyone have missed the gravitas of a luigi from the East Coast moving out West and having to learn to defend himself from rough and tough surfer dudes from a shrivled old Japanese man that drinks too much sake.

    And yes it was/is corny but God I love it so.

  160. Niasia

    This is unfortunate. I really wish we as women would stop underestimating a man’s breaking point. Neither party should have been physical. We as ADULTS regardless of gender need to learn how to deal with each other. Another case of needing interpersonal skills gone awry! Again why mess up your paper people.I was in a verbal altercation once and the women got in my face and touched my belongings. I had a split second to think about my job and my life! In that split second I went from one second off her ***** to thinking she was not worth my money! We are not in high school anymore. Physical altercations bring the authorities.And not the prin*****l!

  161. ....

    ……he look lik a will beat the ***** outta a woman

  162. FURIOUZ STYLEZ

    WOW…GUESS HE WANTED GIVE HER A DR. DRE DIET ***** WHOOPIN LIKE SHE WAS DEE BARNES

  163. Knight Rider

    hmmm No Women are puttin’ they hands on ppl and thinking they gonna get a free p*****, because they are a women, they they shouldnt get hit.

    Whats going to start back happen, is ppl gonna get they girl cousin’s and em to whoopin a ***** *****.

  164. JayTee

    We don’t even know what happened. Don’t accuse Joe until you know the facts. Women be hittin’ and scratchin’ men all the time, but I guess that’s okay???

  165. tj

    I thought women wanted to be treated equally. She equally got her ***** whooped.
    On a serious note violence is violence. Man or woman who ever put hands on whomever first deserves to be punished.

  166. Hefty

    To all that think a woman cannot hurt a man:
    Give me a double barrel shotgun and some bullets and just let a male run up on the set and attempt to hit me! BAM!

  167. Money is a girl's best friend

    I love Vanessa Fraction. She is the truth. Youtube her on Def Jam, trust me you’ll love her too.

    If this is true I hope she is ok.

  168. Former *****istant

    This doesn’t sound like Joe. I remember when the def jam crew berney, bill, joe, and adele use to ride around to states performing at various venues. Joe was always kewl and a gentlemen. I believe he is a que dawg. Nawwww Joe is not that type of guy.

  169. always knew

    Joe Torry is a grown man that should know better.

    I hope that lady drops a lawsuit on his chroniclly under-employed *****..

    His movies- (all of them)- were messed up. He’s like this in Poetic Justice- do ya’ll remember??
    And plus, there’s always been something about him, that I could never really put my finger on, but I didn’t care for him or his form of comedy…

    Dude sucks and I hope that she sues the *****, out of him… She looks like a bigger verison of Tracee Ellis Ross, to me…

    I hope that he is fired and has a hard time getting a gig. He is WAY TOO OLD FOR THIS ISH.

    @joe Torry- You know your loser ***** know better, than what you’re displaying..Barely finished school, you better start acting like ou know, with your broke *****..

    Low-budget ***** fake actor…

  170. memchee

    I believe Fraction.

  171. stay off his *****....

    @eeca- *****, you sounds like a crazy ***** who wants to scrath her mans face, get out her frustrations, and then go ***** on him.
    yall *****’s is silly…if any person ATTEMPS to put hands on me in a chastising manner or with intentions to harm me- if I can, I will ***** them up-period. And about this crap that females cant do a man any harm..??>>> in what world do you live in? Thinking back to all the domestic disputes I can recall from people i’ve encountered over the last year or so- 3 men got stabbed, and the stabbers were’nt beaten up by those men. Which goes to show that now adays females feel like they have a right to physically check a brother, and on top of it they know the police have their back-right or wrong. Keep it real- I know females who enjoy challenging their man and take pride in the fact that they (think) they can keep up with em.
    Females problem is that they see too many black men as weak, demasculinated, unable to provide and as a result the female has picked up the slack. Since she’s picking up the sucka’s slack, she don’t feel she need to take no orders from no weak ***** man, and this mentality goes so far as her feeling that she is more man than the men are- and this type of thinking will get a *****es ***** beat.

  172. stay off his *****....

    and for the record i dont beleive for a minute that Crhis Browm gave that girl a five minute ***** whooping…that ***** is from the carribean, and those are some hottempered females I must say. And if she contributed any *****ualt to the situation, her ***** need to go sit her ***** down and do at least three days like sir charles
    ********ES LIE***

  173. Little Boy

    @stay off his *****….

    How old are you about 10!?!?

  174. deesac

    I thought the only language a sista understands is someone whooping her ***** they just can’t never shut there big ***** mouths.

  175. RiRi

    I don’t think that anyone will argue the point that violence between men and women in relationships is an issue that transcends race, but reading so many of the above posts has me wondering how much the history of oppression in country influences the way that black people think about men and women handling conflict. It’s sad to realize, yet again, that after so many generations of other people dehumanizing us to enrich themselves, we still *****ume that a black man keeping a black woman in her place (or vice versa)is necessary for finding some satisfaction in a relationship. Women need to respect men, and men need to respect women–agreed. But how do we accomplish this without “whoopin’ somebody’s *****,” pulling a knife, calling people out of their names? Because all the violence seems to be doing is making people hate and fear each other more, which gets us further away from the respect we desperately need and want.

  176. stay off his *****....

    Riri- its pretty damn hard to respect someone that isn’t willing to stand up for themselves. Being an advocate of non-violence myself, i found that (contrary to popular beleif) the most effective way to avoid conflict is not to let an aggressor know that you’ll go thru any lengths possible to avoid conflict, but instead to let the aggressor know that you’ll do anything in your power to defend yourself.
    I recognize violence begets more violence which is why i try hard to avoid it, but lets be real- that non-violence stuff works pretty good against institutions but not against individual bullies- trying that peacful crap with some of these youngsters today will only get you a busted head to accompany your retreat. There are true predators in the world who look for easy prey all day, and going out your way to avoid people or situations that you’ll eventually have to face one day only makes you look like the “victim to be.” If anyone else wants to go thru life being looked at like lunch by whatever predator they encounter so be it, but “not I” said the fly…
    In closing- men should’nt hit women and women should’nt hit men…violence is not enlightened behaviour…and anyone who hits should be prepared to get they ***** hit right back- just so we’re clear.
    Peace, (from the ten year old) Stay off His *****…aka…*****,*****,*****,***** please

  177. canwepleasestopandreflect

    Damn, this ***** needs to stop. No joke can be that serious.

    Honestly though, I would like to hear the alphabet of cracks on him – that must have been some good ***** to get him that riled lol

  178. AWWWWWWWWWWSHADDUUUUUUUP!!!!!

    All I wanna know is what the HELL this chick said to bring out the “bat ***** crazies” out of ol’ boy. If she was a truly innovative and evil heffa, she would set up a blog and itemize every insult from A to Z for all us inquiring minds who wanna know. I’d register up just to see that. I’m surprise to see the Japanese went relatively easy on Torry. Usually they can’t wait to yoke a brutha up and pen him.

  179. AWWWWWWWWWWSHADDUUUUUUUP!!!!!

    Somehow I’m thinking a reference to a shrinking, useless pecker was involved. Ain’t nothing like that kind of remark to get a brutha’s meathooks swinging.


  180. oh yeahhhh @ AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADUPPPP

    Somehow I’m thinking a reference to a shrinking, useless pecker was involved. Ain’t nothing like that kind of remark to get a brutha’s meathooks swinging.
    ______________________
    we allll know there’s a thin line not to be crossed (to many times) in the “YO MAMA” ARENA. He probably was diggin deep in her ***** (look at her, u know he had jokes 4eva about her.. lol)

    and she decided to cross that line. got in his face. and the rest is HERstory.. I see it all the time.. SMH

  181. Kellie

    He probably got mad cuz she was tearing his ***** up with the jokes and couldn’t handle the pressure!!!! LOL He not funny anyway

  182. SoooS*****y

    oh my goodness…who cares!? how many more azz whoopin’ stories we gon’ have to listen to??? fools get tossed up everyday! I think if you don’t wanna get slapped then shut the hell up!!!!!! :)


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  184. Mz Tray

    think they left out the part that maybe they had been intimate at one point and somebody moved on which is how the roasting session got started….. Just seems like there is more to that story.


  185. This Torry does not know how to act. That’s why he was put off the mail truck!!!! He just don’t learn.


  186. “Are you ready for the next comedian?”

    “Damn…is he funny?”

    “Don’t talk back to me *****”

  187. Shauna

    Rod rage….LOL

  188. Carla

    Wait a minute violence on a comedy tour ? Very strange, Joe Torry looks mean, I believe he hit Vanessa.

  189. InBetween

    i know this is late but whatever
    YOU KNOW WHATS CRAZY TO ME..
    AFTER READING THE BLOGS SOME PPL (MEN AND WOMEN) SEEM TO CONDONE MEN BEATING WOMEN THAN ANYTHING…even when you claim you dont agree that a woman should NOT be beat in some cir*****stances…unless a woman (smaller ) than you has a weapon you can more than protect yourself without seriously harming her unless your weak as all f***

    IN MOST CASES AND YOU KNOW IM RIGHT WHEN MEN HIT WOMEN THE FEMALE “SAID” SOMETHING SLICK…SO WHY DOESNT THE GUY SAY SOMETHING TOO WHY BRING THE HANDS.
    AND YOU MEAN TO TELL ME CHILD ABUSE IS OK NOW?? KIDS CAN ME SOME REAL DEMONS (yes the ones that know better)BUT BEATING THEM UP ISN’T RIGHT..YA’LL SOUND LIKE THOSE PPL WHO SAY IF YOU DRESS THE PART YOU DESERVED TO GET RAPED.

    WHY IS IT OK FOR STRONGER INDIVIDUALS TO BEAT ON WEAKER ONES…HOW MANY WOMEN CAN BEAT A MAN UP?? THE WOMEN who dont support men hitting women AREN’T DELUSIONAL THEY’RE FAIR…

    WOMEN BEATERS ARE DELUSIONAL…HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH ONE ( I DO ON A REGULAR BASIS)
    ONLY 1/10 CASES OF MY CLIENTS WITH DV ISSUES ARE THE WOMEN NAMED THE AGGRESSOR…THE AGGRESSOR ALLLLWAYS HAS SOME REASON WHY THEY BELEIVE THE VICTIM DESERVED IT AND ALOT OF MY CLIENTS ARE VICTIMIZED WHILE THEY’RE PREGGO IS THAT OK TOO?? WE CAN BEAT UP PREGNANT WOMEN NOW?? WOOWWWWW AND FOR ALL THE WOMEN CLAIMING IF YOU CAN DISH IT TAKE IT…ONE DAY YOUR GONNA END UP IN A QUARREL WITH A MAN AND IF HE DECIDES TO BEAT YOUR ***** FOR SAYING THE WRONG ***** YOUR GONNA SING A WHOLEE DIFFERENT TUNE…

    AS HARD AS IT IS TO ACCEPT THERE WILL BE HARSH CONSEQUENCES FOR BEATING SOMEONE WEAKER THAN YOU.

  190. MR. TLC

    I beat all 8 of my women when they get out of pocket! A woman needs to be trained like a dog,you gots to kick them every now and then so they will respect you!

  191. J-T

    Here is my take on the whole domestic violence situation.

    It’s a half and half for me. Usually males just beat the hell out of females because they feel like it, but there are also times when the female is the prime reason.

    I’ll be honest, not all females do this, but it could be a true reason, because not everyone’s perfect. Say for instance, a female makes a whole fuss with a male over something little. There will be times in the situation where she’ll start name calling, and even “mush” him constantly. Even if he told her “Be quiet!” or even to the extent “Shut Up!”, she would still be yelling, and it could go worse. Like I said, not all females do this.

    Me, for instance, if I was in a spoken confrontation with someone, I would have trouble defending myself with words, because while they are yelling, I would have to think before I speak in order to respond and be the mature one of us two, and I just can’t think that fast.

    Hitting someone, is basically just used to solve a problem, but to me, it doesn’t. It just makes matters worse.

    On the whole “female can hit a man, but not the other way around” is a bit unfair, because if both occurred, the female would still be respected, but the male wouldn’t. Say if Rihanna beat the hell out of Chris. What would people call Chris? Women wanted to be treated as equal, and when they were, voting was not just the case. That even means being convicted of the same crimes as males.

    Rihanna & Chris’ whole situation: Rihanna shouldn’t be all-around innocent for this one. She told him something, whether it was herpes, or she’s pregnant. Personally, I would just let it go & leave it alone, but with people name calling them, especially Chris, and thinking he would just beat up a girl for no reason, just irritates the hell out of me.

    When I first read this thread, I actually thought they were both fighting, instead of one hitting the other, because Vanessa Fraction does look like the girl that would hit, or even beat up, someone, even a guy.

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