Oprah Discusses Rih On Show & Rih Tweets “She Doesn’t Know What’s Best For Me”

Posted on March 13th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, Oprah

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Oprah previously gave her opinion on the Chrihanna saga, then yesterday she blasted Rihanna’s decision to go back to Chris on her show. Rih caught wind of Oprah’s initial comments and tweeted the March 8th message above.

We’re sure that she’s not going to not like what Oprah had to say yesterday:

“Let me tell you why she got back with him, in my opinion,” Winfrey said. “If you go back with a man who hits you, it is because you don’t feel you’re worthy of being with a man who won’t.”

Winfrey said returning to an abusive relationship boils down to how the victim feels about herself. If you were raised right, she said, “and think you are a wonderful person, somebody hitting you is really offensive to you. “This show is dedicated to all the Rihannas of the world, and to any young men who could ever think about hurting a woman,” Winfrey said.

Winfrey used the Brown and Rihanna incident to spend an hour discussing domestic abuse.

Model and talk show host Tyra Banks, who said she had been emotionally abused in a relationship, recalled Rihanna telling her about growing up around parents who were always fighting, resulting in severe migraines.

“It was almost like a living hell for her,” Banks said. “The moment her parents separated, her migraines went away.”

Likewise, Brown once told Banks he witnessed abuse in his home between the ages of 7 and 13. Brown said the “visual abuse” had an impact on his relationships with women.

“I treat them differently,” he told Banks in an earlier interview played Thursday on “Oprah.” “I don’t want to put a woman through the same thing that person put my mom through.”

Banks told Winfrey when she heard about the Brown-Rihanna incident, she went back to that earlier interview.

“I said, oh my God, he’s repeating it,” Banks said.

She noted Rihanna, while a huge star, is just a regular girl.

“She should not be attacked,” Banks said. “We need to send her love, and hope for her to make the right decision.”

Winfrey quickly added: “I think we need to send love to both of them …. Him to be healed, and for her to be healed also.”

Although Oprah is quite outspoken, we think she is spot on with her comments.  How do you all feel about what she had to say?

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  • whateva!!!

    LAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg bg

    For a minute I thought we were gonna make it thru today with minimal to no talk about this. If I drink the Kool-Aid first do yall promise to take a sip after I die?

  • whateva!!!

    I am tired of this damn story.

  • Lisa Vee

    3rd

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg bg

    Damn Twitter is Lame! ( I hope that makes you feel uncomfortable…yeah you)

  • serene

    It seems like everyone has something to say PUBLICLY about the situation. I wonder how many of these people have tried to reach out to her privately.

    And i still luv O. :)

  • c from stl

    Not only is this story beyond tired but all these celebs speaking on it is annoying. Tyra annoys me so bad I’d like to stick needles in my eyes and Oprah just needs to leave it alone and not speak on it anymore! Rihanna is a grown azz woman and if she wants to go back to that then that’s her business and she’ll get whatever is coming to her…positive or negative.

  • too damn bad…

    like I said…lol

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg bg

    Mandah what up

  • cece

    wow its weird but no one wanted to talk about them being abused before until rihanna, now everyone has something to say…everyday someone gets abused people wake the hell up…why wasnt anyone coming out and speaking about it before.SMDH

  • Harpo said

    Oprah, why won’t you let Princess Ri Ri be Great!

  • Mandah! aka Cranberry Sauce…the vending machine food in the office break room was created by the devil, check the label!

    hey BG

  • kahmmillion

    Every waking moment someone is abused in their relationship, but because it happened to this chick it’s different?

    What the hell? What happen, the other women (or men) who are being abused that don’t have money and aren’t superstars don’t mean shit?

  • Mrs. Rance

    Oprah thinks she knows everything. How does she know the exact reason Rihanna went back? I personally think it’s because she loves him, but what the hell do I know? I heard on CNN that 80% to 90% of victims go back so what Rihanna did is not unusual. I just hope they both get help.

  • keyaris2986

    I hate how this whole thing is being outrageously exploited! They are young people!!!! Leave them alone. Do I condone domestic abuse, of course not I do however believe in the right of choice for everybody. She has the right to decide who she wants to be with. We got to see Rihanna’s pics but did we ever get to see what Chris looked like afterwards??? Unfortunately they both have seen domestic abuse when they were younger so they have tendency to find themselves in similar incidents, let them live and make their own decisions. They are both bright and intelligent entertainers they will make whatever decision that is best for them. And on Oprah…I think this another way for her to get more ratings for her show. Can we talk about something other this now??? Nobody should be judging anyone for the simple fact of we dont know everything. The only being that does know everything is GOD, no Oprah is not GOD either (sorry to shock a few faithful Oprahians) but we need to pray for them and let GOD handle it. Im sure we all got other things to be tending to anyway. Plus people tend to learn from their mistakes so let them live in peace.

  • lisa

    I am tired of hearing about this shyt…if RiRi wants to stay with chris, that’s on her. Everyone else needs to mind their own business, damn, can we move on now!

  • http://bossip.com tasty t

    I AM LIKE YOU BG, I THOUGHT WE WOULD MAKE IT THROUGH TODAY ALSO BUT GUESS WHAT WE WERE WRONG. IF RHIANNA WANTS TO GO BACK TO CHRIS THAT IS HER BUSINESS, AND OPRAH NEEDS TO MIND HERS, AND I LOVE OPRAH BUT THAT IS RHIANNA’S DECISION AND IT IS RHIANNA LIFE OPRAH IS NOT LIVING HER LIFE OPRAH YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE TO LIVE JUST PRAY FOR THE BOTH OF THEM AND LET GOD BE THE FINAL DECISION MAKER NOT OPRA, THE TABLOIDS OR ANYONE IT IS BETWEEN CHRIS, RHIANNA AND GOD SO PLEASE EVERYONE STEP BACK AND LET THE TWO OF THEM LIVE THEIR LIFE AS BEST AS THEY COULD AND THAT MEANS YOU OPRAH.

  • Hope

    Perhaps they are talking about it because it does affect so many women. It’s sad that when people speak up and give another perspective that they are judged. Rihanna can do whatever she wants but she has to accept that there will be consequences for her actions. You can’t tell people to buy what you’re selling whether it’s makeup, shoes, or your music but at the same time that you want them to stay out of your business. Thank God that Oprah and others are speaking out and perhaps they will save someone’s life in the process. Rihanna’s self-esteem is too low and hopefully she’ll see the error of her ways before she ends up like so many others. Unfortunately for Rihanna she is in danger of losing her career because no advertiser is going to want to associate their product with a woman who chooses to stay with the guy who beat her. And anyone who defends his behavior or thinks it wasn’t a big deal, I encourage you to go out into your community and volunteer at a domestic violence non profit to get some knowledge about the subject.

  • jb_1030 (Dreams she is Amber Rose so she can wear those shoes)

    What’s up Mandah!!

  • Yo!

    && it’s not about Oprah, Tyra, and whoever else “minding their business.” They have a right to state their opinions and it’s not like they saying shyt that aint true, they’re actually trying to get it through her head that the shyt aint right.

  • jb_1030 (Dreams she is Amber Rose so she can wear those shoes)

    So once everything is said and done and she starts doing the talk show circuit, I bet Oprah is going to be the first to jump on the let me get the first interview.

  • ATLfinest

    I could care less if they get back together. Chris need Rhianna to be on his team. She hold all the power. At this point Rhi really don’t know if Chris is really sorry & just using her.

  • Whatevah

    The only “emotional abuse” Tyra has dealt with is her receding hairline. Next week she will have a repressed memory about actual physical abuse-putting a size 10 foot in a size 8 shoe.

  • DayShifter

    It’s fine to talk about, but leave Rihanna out of it, she’s not some freaking lab rat or project for people to study and comment on.

    TO OPRAH:
    Sorry Oprah, on this one, you should have worded it differently, you act like this is the first time you addressed this issue, the statement was counter-productive, do you thing and leave Rihanna alone!!

  • Brie

    It’s a matter of principle. Like when other celebrities get in trouble doing things that are common in the community, it is the community/media’s chance to bring light to the problem through example. It’s like child molestation in the black community and foster-care system: it is prevalent, BUT people aren’t paying attention to it. If R-kelly had been convicted that would have been a perfect opportunity to show all the pervs out there that touching on children is NOT ok, but the opportunity was lost w/ all the fans blindly supporting him.

    Wake up, black people- this is common sh*t, and is NOT ok. You know someone who was/ is abused or was killed by an abuser but you didn’t make a fuss- now is your time to save someone you love (which you SHOULD HAVE been doing in the first place). Don’t get angry because it took celebrities to shine light on it, be angry that you never thought to do it yourself.

  • Atnahs

    Exactly, with all the money Oprah has, she can’t even keep her weight under control, and how simple is that? Yet she wants to psycho-analyze someone else. She has her own issues she needs to deal with.

  • Yo!

    In response to Atnahs

    We aint talking about all that && did I even say anything about whether they were doing it for ratings or whatever? No. Point is they’re entitled to their own opinions && what they’re saying about the whole situation is real so don’t feed me all that yaya bullshyt cuz im not tryna read it.

  • Lady J

    I’m tired of the story too, but it just goes to show everyone that despite the best advice to not return to an abuser, people are goin to do what they want….face it people, she is young and dumb..everyone can relate to making a bad decision and continuing down the same path until one has an epiphany to change…..Unfortuanately, she has major influence with the youth, so her bad decisions will affect many, many young women/girls who are in the same position…too bad RiRi didn’t know that she could have made a major impact on young women to leave an abusive relationship…

  • Atnahs

    In Response to Brie……

    I don’t think the black community has a problem with shedding light on the issue……but like all things, this isn’t the first case of domestic violence. But now everyone has an opinion and advise and we have to stop looking at celebrities and OPRAH to fix the problems in our communities and our personal lives.

  • claroliza

    this is such b.s. do you all really think RiRi even knows what Twitter is…seriously. I got love for RiRi,but I am just saying. Plus, give the girl some credit. do you really think her lawyer/management is going to allow her to twittter given the situation?

    heck, do you think CB would let her twitter given the circumsntances? No, they’re probably keeping each other 100% in check with no breathing room.

  • June Bug

    i dont believe this. somebody made this up

  • Victorian

    She suspended her Twitter account….ummm

  • truth_hurts

    Well, the truth is that if you are in an abusive relationship and u are a regular girl. No one gives a shit. Oprah and Tyra are just using this couple for their ratings. Having a talk show is not helping women and men that have abusive tendencies. When I was in an abusive relationship. I had to gather the strength in me to realize it wasn’t worth it. Realistically, most people are in some type of abusive relationship whether it is work, relationships, substance abuse, abusive thoughts…

  • Kigali (Birth control until marriage)

    Personally I am kinda sick of talking about this shit. Oprah, Katie Kuric, Dr. Phill, Tyra all talking about this bullshit. You know if a famous woman killed her child they wouldnt be talking about that because it would alienate their female audicences and would put lie to the idea that women are only victims of abuse and not the perpetrators that they are.

    Why doesnt Oprah do a show on the abuse of children by single mothers. Why doesnt she do a show about how in Atlanta Georgia, the most likely victim of domestic violence is a young black girl at the hands of her black mother.

  • Atnahs

    truth_hurts….I agree!

  • Ara

    @ Nique

    Lmao at you focusing on Tyra’s tongue!! Whew! Stop it!! lol

  • babegyrl

    Can I just get on my soapbox for a minute…… The press and other celeb are acting like this is a first of it’s kind that all of a sudden a chick getting her ears boxed is new……. it’s not, why such a loud outcry now, don’t get me wrong, as a domestic violence is wrong, and it can and does kill… it happens everyday, but too everyday ordinary people, if these celebs really want to do something, after the media glare has died down, stick with it, be a voice not only for RiRi but for Shelly, Tracey and every other ordinary woman who suffers…..

    Next……..

  • the_one

    God there are so many women haters in here, why when a black woman says the abuse of another black woman is wrong she needs to STFU, but when its about some other stupid ish you all want to talk all day.

    YOU ALL SUPPORTING THE ABUSE OF BLACK WOMEN NEED TO STFU AND STFD AND THEN OPEN A BOOK AND BEGIN READING ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, OPRAH IS ON POINT.

    START LOVING YOURSELF MORE THEN YOU LOVE THE MAN THAT HITS YOU, CALLS YOU OUT OF YOUR NAME, OR TRICKS ON YOU, DON’T BE A STUPID GIRL, PERIOD.

    AND ALL YOU OPRAH HATERS SHE IS THE QUEEN OF ENTERTAINMENT, WHATEVER HATE YOU HAVE FOR HER MEANS NOTHING MFS, SHE RUNS SHIT, NOT YOUR UNEDUCATED ARSES, WTF???

    IN PERSON YOU ALL WOULDN’T SAY ISH TO OPRAH BUT “HI MS. WINFREY”, DONT ACT LIKE YOU DO NOT KNOW. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON ANY LEVEL IS NOT OKAY.

    BTW, for all you uneducated people, who know nothing about the law, if C. Brown had injuries that were as severe or even noticeable, Rihanna would have been arrested too, but he didn’t because she couldn’t do as much damage as he could and did to her. Dummies!

  • Atnahs

    Tyra is fake from head to toe. The only reason she even has a show on is because she has no competition. And to think that show won an Emmy, please. Its corny as hell.

  • Shoez

    I WISH ALL THESE CELEBS MIND THEIR DAMN BUSINESS. Now everybody is supposed to be a psych and know every darn thing. They act like they don’t do things that are wrong, like CHEATING! These kids will find their own way whether its together or apart. Let them “LIVE THEIR LIVES”. I didn’t hear Oprah mentioning her good friend Mr. Church…Bebe Winans.

  • inky

    soo what does oprah and gail have to say about their friend be be

  • Atnahs

    your taking it bit far by saying “YOU ALL SUPPORTING THE ABUSE OF BLACK WOMEN”

    I don’t think anyone up here supports the abuse of black women. Or the abuse of anyone women, no matter what the color, or any child, man, or animal. No one should be abused period.

    BUT I don’t think its fair to Rhi to call her out on her decision publicly . And I only say that because, these same celeberites go up in arms about any ole lil thing that’s said about them.

    Look at how Tyra acted when they called her fat, and posted the bathing suit pics……..she like 5 show about it.

    Oprah was still upset at Kim Waynes for making fun of her in an In Living Color skit.

  • babegyrl

    @ the_one

    Boo, it aint that heavy, calm the hell down…. no one is saying that RiRi deserved to get her @ss kicked, what we are saying is, that if Oprah or Tyra really cared for Robyn the should have, could have gone too her in a more private way…. It just looks real cheesy that they decided to use such a public way to “help” her.

  • inky

    no i don’t believe in abuse but , if you pass a lick you should be able to take one

  • roselady

    I think if Oprah & Tyra wanted to let Rihanna know how they feel, I agree with the other writer, they should have contacted her, and NOT made an entire
    show of it. LEAVE IT ALONE PEOPLE.
    She is still a person and should NOT be on blast. She will make up her OWN mind. Shame on you Oprah

  • idunno

    I keep reading comments like ‘they should be talking about women hitting men’ or ‘if she jump out there like a man then she can fight like a man”.

    Nine times out of ten a woman fighting a man with bare hands wont be sending him to the hospital for more than maybe some stitches. There’s some exceptions but it’s the exception, not the rule. But I’d say at least 8 times out of ten if a man really wanted to he could kill a chic with his bare hands. So what if there’s less attention on men in these situations. I’m not saying it’s ok for women to hit men but don’t pretend there isn’t a difference. Don’t act like a little back and forth shoving/slapping between lovers is the same as a man who wails on his girl like he’s fighting a dude.

    Women already get the short end of the stick in enough situations. Men can be fat and ugly and still be superstars while women are held to a higher standard. Men can be deadbeats while women (not that all live up to it) need to take care of the kids. How many female presidents, rappers, CEO’s do you see? Women are making 75% of what men make for doing the same job.

    So what if the rule is men shouldn’t hit women. So what if they’re the ones who should walk away. It’s like a pit bull fighting a chihuahua.

  • Atnahs

    inky……I agree.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Oprah/Tyra were spot on yesterday. Sure, they took/take a lot of flack, but at the end of the day, they made a lot of sense. RiRi is young and “hard ears”…the Bajan term for hard-headed…so let her find out.

    Her dismissing Oprah is part of the problem with a lot of these young girls today, they think they’re too damn grown and have all the answers. Hmm, wonder if she’d listen to Tina?

  • Stephy

    All of you are missing the point of the show. I don’t think it was about ratings, I think it was about awareness. True enough, Chris B. and Rhianna’s situation sparked the interest in this topic…but bottom line, there are a lot of females and even males that are in abusive situations. We can all say it’s their business,which it is…but if this show on yesterday can touch one person, then the 1 hour of ratings was worth it!

    For example, the story about the cheerleader…none of her friend’s knew she was being abused. It’s sad that people opt to live in silence because the world first reaction is, “it’s their business”…sometimes opening your eyes, ears and hearts to what’s in front of you can be helpful. I’m willing to bet, there were some kind of signs and this cheerleader’s friend’s just didn’t see them. It’s just an awful thing…no one deserves any form of abuse be it male of female. In addition, more awareness need to be brought out about male abuse, because it’s real too. Peace Out, Have a great weekend everybody!

  • http://iolastar.com/blog iolastar

    Women abuse men. Men abuse woman.
    Two wrongs don’t make it right.
    Chris & Ri need counseling, but what these two young adults don’t need is every bodies opinion.
    Great dialogue has been created.
    Damn didn’t know so many celebs got their asses kicked.
    Chris and Ri will be redeemed with the right help.
    Finally:

    We are burned out with the story so please magazines, celebrities, blogs, tv just shut the hell up!

  • Atnahs

    Just Sit and Be Pretty……..

    Rhi is not an orphan…..she has parents and family. She can dismiss Oprah if she wants. Who is Oprah???? (don’t get me wrong….we all know that Oprah’s influence goes futher and wider than most celeberities) but again, who is Oprah.

    Rhi doesn’t have to answer to Oprah. If she dismisses her, she dismisses her. Rhi needs to heed the words of parents, family and REAL/CLOSE friends. And not these celebrity peers aka co-workers.

  • Atnahs

    Stephy……

    The BLACK community is very aware of this issue…..Oprah was just trying to catch the rest up.

  • blue

    RIHANNA IS A DAMN ASS. SHE TOOK THAT BOY BACK BECUZ SHE KNOWS THAT SHE TOO HAS ANGER PROBLEMS, THEY BOTH BEEN PHYSICAL WITH EACH OTHER. THEIR CAREERS NEED TO BE OVER! I HOPE NO ONE EVER BUY ANY OF THEIR CD’S OR GO TO THEIR CONCERTS !!!!!!!!!

  • star

    I have to say, yall need to stop hjatin on Oprah. She has covered every incident under the sun, even this one and she does not fight for ratings, she gets that no matter what. She does not even enter the emmys because she was cleaning up every year.

    Tyra is the fake one. She was there talkin about everybody has to support Rih and send love. then Oprah jumped in and said that Chris needs love too. Tyra does all kinds of gimmicks for ratings and I dont believe she was emotionally abused either. She always has people on the show who dont love themselves but she afraid to appear anywhere without that awful lace front that reaching her waist. She should interview herself about self hatred.

    Rihanna knows what went down and thats the only reason she went back, because she probably did throw the first punch and perhaps more punches than him, but his connected. She dont have no battered wife syndrome and she not afraid of him and never was. She probably never saw him react to her slpas and punches before. Fighing is wrong and nobody should do it. It can only lead to mess like this.

  • Mrs. Philly™

    The only person here that is right is Rihanna… she said it best herself, OPRAH doesn’t know her so while she is “flattered” that she “cares”…Oprah should really mind her business along with the rest of the world.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    I feel like they should extend support to her PRIVATELY if their intentions are genuine instead of using Rihanna’s personal issue to increase ratings.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Atnahs, no one is disputing her perogative to dismiss whoever she pleases, the point is that as a public figure, what measure of privacy do you realitically think she’ll get? Oprah and everyone else is going to speak on it, especially if they have a platform conducive to informing a larger audience. Of course RiRi is going to be defensive because she’s got to know that she’s appearing to be quite dumb and immature for getting back with Chris so soon after such a vicious beatdown. If their love is so strong, why not wait a bit? On another noter, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that with all her fame, fortune, looks, etc., she’s still an insecure young lady with self-esteem issues…but I digress…

  • http://bossip gay

    blue:

    i feel sorry for you obviously you don’t know what is love, how to love and obviously not one has shown you love or has every loved you. you seem so hurt and have so much hate. are you jealous that rihanna got in mutal combat with her man as least she had one? do you have a man or woman to love? leave rih alone and chris also. their music will sell even if you don’t buy.

    what more do you need chris to do dammit he is a child and children do stupid theings. why the the seven year old white kid shoot his father and friend. was a shown do on that. who killed the rapper son was a show done on that. the governor seduce a 17 years old male was a show done. these are more pressing issues to held children. deal with these things. do you ha ve food, a job. leave chris alone to survive in this calamitous world with so much black haters.

    love chris and i will buy your music once it comes out

  • http://bossip gay

    Just Sit and Be Pretty

    why do all these sistas stay with down love husbands or boyfriends?

  • Fire

    Bossi u bloody liars!!!!i don’t believe for a sec that those tweets are from Rihanna. if it aint on TMZ it aint true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • what happened to my name?

    TYRA LOOKED RETARDED AND SHE WAS LYING. IF ANYTHING, NAOMI CAMPBELL HAD HER AZZ SCARED NOT A MAN. OPRAH IS MARRIED TO STEDMAN. THEY HAD A RELIGIOUS MARRIAGE CEREMONY SEVERAL YEARS AGO. RIHANNA AND CHRIS COULD OVERCOME THIS. I KNOW PEOPLE WHO FOUGHT AND ARE STILL TOGETHER. LEAVE THEM ALONE.

  • john doe

    men shouldn’t hit women, period…
    woman shouldn’t hit men.. period..
    If u do, u go to jail and get hit in the ass, Chris.
    We dont kno if she hit him or what, but if she did, she needs to go to jail too.. Thats the end of all this .. I hope they learn from this and get their great careers back on track…

  • Carla

    How did the media get a hold of her text messages ? Hmmm, I wonder…

  • Richard

    To all the celebrity victim mongereres…eata dyck!!!

    If Chris hit her first his azz will do the time. If she really was the one going up side his head and he snapped then, hell HE JUST GAVE HER AZZ SOME HELP!!!

  • alyssa

    RIHANNA DOESN’T HAVE A TWITTER. THAT’S A FAKE.

  • Yvonne

    The only person who does not know what is best for Rhianna is Rhianna.

    People are telling her not to go back with Chris, not because of trying to run her life, but because they know what the outcome will be.

    If there is not a permanent change in behavior, which comes through therapy and counseling for a year or more, the outcome will always be the same.

    Beatdown, I’m sorry, beatdown, I’m sorry. The pattern is the same for all. Rhianna and Chris are 21 and 19 and they don’t have a clue about “real” life.

    She needs to listen to someone who has some life experience under their belt.

  • sarah cowen

    The media is exploiting the situation. I HATE Tyra and i’m starting to really dislike Oprah. Take Bow Tyra & Oprah and stop man hating. And why haven’t Oprah did a show on all the children getting killed in Chicago? Why because it doesn’t benefit her?

  • momo

    ugh? this AGAIN !!! there must be other stories out there???

  • Atnahs

    We all know that relationship is not gonna last. They’re too young, and in hollywood—its not gonna last just because of those two factors.. Even if this didn’t happen….we all know its not gonna last.

  • sammie

    ok

  • Tyler

    I’m so over this sh**. Leave them alone. Oprah and Tyra are just trying to make money off of this. We still don’t know why the incident happened in the first place, yet everybody is Monday morning quarterbacking like they were there. I wish the best for Rihanna and C. Brown.

  • Seriously!!

    @Wreckless Driver

    Are you serious with that damn book you wrote?!?!

  • jA jA

    Oprah and Tyra are corect in their respective assessments, but unless their advice was solicited, Ri Ri is also right in telling them to just shut up!

  • The Foosa

    man, everybody needs to stay out of their business. All these people talking about what they should and shouldnt do. No, what you should do is mind your own.

  • MrsLaadee

    I am tired of people hanging on every word Oprah says like she is some kind of prophet.

  • rmay

    Im starting to hate the fact that im black..because everybody tryna kill chris brown career and it not right and noone is stickin up for the boy…black people lettin all these shows diss chris especially tmz racist white fuks..i mean its every white person on every channel…just like michael vick oj simpson…tmz and other networks killed it…and i love barack obama he’s the reason im proud to be black..but when i see oparah tyra banks dissin him,im not proud to be black not at all!!!!!!!

  • http://www.bossip.com Cert.Azz.Stmpr

    Hmmmm,Sprite and crackers.(is’nt that what most pregnant women eat when they get morning sickness.By the way,morning sickness can happen at anytime throughout the day.Just thought I’d put that out there with all the rumors of RiRi being pregnant.

  • MichyW

    I agree with kahmmillon, I don’t wont no one hitting my sons. KEEP YOUR DAMN HANDS TO YOURSELF!!!!

  • Consequences…

    Unbelievable that this is 2009 and people still think that women like being abused. Clearly they are both damaged people who are toxic to one another. I don’t feel sorry for either one of them because they do have resources available to get help. Oprah stated her opinion because she can! If more young people listened to the advice of their elders they could avoid a lot of heartache, poor choices and wasted time. Oprah offered her advice and experience…period. Chris Brown and Rhianna wanted to be famous – guess what? With fame comes a loss of anonymity… The people who buy their albums and go to their concerts are financially supporting their lifestyles… Of course people are going to be in their business. If people don’t like the decisions that they make they may choose to stop supporting them – it’s just that simple… If we could elect a black president based on what people think they know about the man – by the same token we (the consumers) can shut either Chris Brown or Rhianna down. Yes, they have the right to make their own choices but unpopular decisions often have consequences…

  • About it

    Oprah likes to lord over femme fatale types and appear as the “prophetess”. Remember how she “befriended” Halle Berry? It is so wrong, I wish she would stick to fake authors, at least there is some creativity there.
    If Riri wants to go back with him, well, when they are lowering her into her grave, then she will know that she made a bad decision.
    This is so overblown

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    Who was Rih-Rih calling ‘tired crackers’?

  • da da dah

    @ Yvonne.

    You are right chris and RiRi don’t have experience. But things are better learnt when you experience them, not by reading some book or listening to the ‘turning to annoying shows’of Tyra and Oprah.these programs just give you insights.
    And I am sick of Oprah, talking about RiRi in such a manner. It would have been more appropriate to hear that Oprah had a PRIVATE chat with RiRi. not this nonsense.I don’t care if she is influential or not.
    let them have their private moment for f***k sake.

  • dizzy_bettyboop

    I FEEL THAT EVERYONE OPRAH TYRA OR ANYBODY THAT IS BUTTING IN IT IS NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSSINESS IF SHE WANTED TO LEAVE SHE WOULD OF BUT OBVIOSLY SHE DOESNT WANT TO LEAVE HIM SO JUST GIVE IT A F*%&ING REST AND LET HER BE. THE GIRL IS OBVIOUSLY EMBARRASED ABOUT THE SITUATION WHY MAKE IT ANYMORE HARDER FOR HER. RIHANNA IF YOUR READING THIS IM WITH YOU UP 210%.STAY STRONG ….

  • Kay

    Atnahs, I agree with you 100%, wasn’t Oprah a drug user one time, some of these 30,40,50,60 years old need to pull the skeletons out of their closets, I am praying for the both of them, in Jesus eye sight sin, is sin, whether its fonicating, adultress, lying, cheating, stealing, etc. they don’t know whether he will do it again, only Jesus know, and they don’t know if he repented to Jesus, Jesus is the one you repent to not MAN, Jesus forgave you for your sins, why you can’t forgive, you suppose to pick your brother up if he falls, some of you may not been in abusive relationship, guess what the evil forces is so strong in this world, your spouse can go off on you all of a sudden, no body is exempt, with God is more than the whole world against you, I am praying for Chris, because i think he deserves a second chance,he just 19, God gave us a second chance over and over again.

  • ME ME ME

    that is not Rhianna TWITTING yeah right!!!!

  • Kimmie

    I doubt Rihanna is using Twitter, especially when the media can get hold of it…

  • Higher than Giraffe PUSSe

    it is some sick mofo’s in this here world. Lord puhleeze let the next realm be normal. I beg Thee!!!!

  • Tiredofit

    I’m concerned about many things..including her punctuation and the word “camra’s”. ***sigh*** And ya’ll want this sista to be all-knowing about life and relationships…at 21, no less.

  • lt

    camra??? lol

    home = back at the hotel??? awww hotels are her home

  • ANON

    STFU ANS STFD

    TYRA ALWAYS CLAIMING TO HAVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION, ON ALL HER FREAKIN SHOWS=LET HER TELL IT SHE BEEN THROUGH EVERY SITUATION POSSIBLE.

    OPRAH NEEDS TO STFU, AND CONTINUE TO GIVE FREE TVS AWAY TO YT WOMEN.

    M TIRED OF THIS STORY.. THE DOG IS DEAD..IT SMELLS.. THROW IT OUT.. AND MOVE ON!!!

    THESE PEOPLE ARE RECKLESS..

  • hey girl

    Riri is so young she should just move on, but if she want’s to stay with him and get the business who are we to judge? THE WHOLE WORLD HAS WARNED HER.
    Tyra’s so called abuser was Chris Webber, she says emotionally because he did not want to marry her and she went bonkers///

  • http://www.oakwood.edu Stanley

    All you stupid(can’t find a better word that’s clean) bloggers who are supporting Rhi Rhi going back to the beater..ask yourself one question..if that was your daughter or sister..would you encourage her to go back in the toxic relationship? If you are stupid as some of you on this blog is posturing then you probably would..but if you love and is concerned about you daughter/sister..you would ask her to leave..just like Oprah did…Oprah is right again..she was the first one to encourage obama to run and many people voted for Obama because they trusted Oprah’s judgement…OPRAH IS NOT ONLY RIGHT..SHE IS DAMN RIGHT! That Rhi Rhi girl is downright stupid and she has more beat down coming her way…can’t wait to say “told you so” because I know its coming. OPRAH IS RIGHT!

  • http://www.oakwood.edu Stanley

    Rhi Rhi doesn’t know what’s best for her..that’s how stupid she is..or on the other hand she probably knows what’s best for her..”Another dose of good beating” I can hear her now “I know what’s best for me..another beating…you stupid bajan..Chris the beater is lucky you are not Jamaican or else he’ll be hiding from the beef pie posse right now..he would receive a jamaican beating he would know what hit him..Bajans are proud..they take their licks and go back for more..I guess she got that from her father..did’nt you guys see how passive he has been..like its okay that his daughter was beaten down..If she had her mother’s genes{guyanese) then she would leave Chris the beater. GO RHIANNA THE STUPID ONE!

  • http://www.oakwood.edu Stanley

    All of you who are supporting Rhianna to stay with Chris the beater are just as stupid as she is..and are probably in toxic relationships as she is…I SAY STAY RHIANNA AND ENJOY YOUR BEATING..STUPID BAJAN!

  • SHOWNBEE

    @stanley
    aint nobody in a toxic relationship, but more like if u cant beat them join them.

  • Yaboy

    @ bg

    ur twitter was funny as hell…but as for Chris…that my man..i live in VA…she took him back cuz they n love…yall know its a thin line between love in hate…people make mistakes and some people need help with their mistakes…The both good peoples

  • Black Woman

    Unfortunately-young ladies think they are grown, and they do what they want to do. I just saw an episode on Law and Order SVU where a lady was being abused by her husband, and she went back, and he stabbed her to death. I am not going to say rihanna deserves it like some of you say, because it’s irresponsible. I will say it’s sad.

  • Donna

    Oprah is a judgemental and Tyra… Tyra is just as bad. Leave this damn kid alone and let her make up her own mind as to what she wants to do. I’ve said it before. This situation is NOT O.J. and Nicole.

  • sweet_lies

    $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

    that’s all oprah and tyra care about.

  • queen

    I THINK OPRAH AND EVERYBODY ELSE SHOULD MIND THEIR DAMN BUSINESS. THE MEDIA IS MAKING IT WORSE. THEY ARE YOUNG AND BOTH CAN PARTIES CAN REPAIR THEIR IMAGE AND LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE WITH A HEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP.IT WILL JUST TAKE SOME WORK, PRAYER, AND DEDICATION TO BECOMING BETTER PEOPLE. CHRIS IS NOT RIGHT IN HIS ACTIONS, NEITHER IS RI RI.THEY BOTH PLAYED A PART IN WHAT HAPPEND THAT NIGHT AND BOTH SHOULD TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE.THIS A ROAD BLOCK FOR BOTH BUT WITH GOD’S HELP EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. I THINK THAT THEY SHOULD BE TOGETHER IF THEY REALLY LOVE ONE ANOTHER, JUST LEARN TO HANDLE ARGUEMENTS AND DISAGREEMENTS IN A BETTER AND MORE POSITIVE WAY FROM NOW ON!!!! EVERYBODY ELSE GO GET YOU SOME BUSINESS.

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