Queen Latifah on Sex
Posted by Bossip Staff
Queen Latifah opened up about the old days when she used to get broken off by men. She’s referring to one experience in particular:
“I [used to] ingratiate myself to him and then sleep with him. Afterward, I felt disgusting- really gross and nasty … and I hated myself. That feeling was so horrible, I decided I would never do that again,” Queen La told author Shaun Robinson for the book “Exactly As I Am.”
Sleeping with men when you are a certified cunnilingus expert normally has that effect.
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Melissa
3/19/09, 09:25:am
First!!! Finally #1
oh-so-honestK
3/19/09, 09:27:am
I feel like that was taken out of context somehow
BKLYN IN HOUSE
3/19/09, 09:27:am
DAM SHE LOOK SCARY !!! ***** HARD AS HELL
Sawyer
3/19/09, 09:29:am
This excerpt makes no sense without the rest of the article! Who is “him”, what situation were they in to make her feel disgusted? You cant come to conclusions about whats going on here! This is why things always get “taken out of context”.
MY BAAD
3/19/09, 09:30:am
GO LALA!!!!!
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 09:34:am
In THIS picture, she reminds me of a Russian woman named Olga who drinks beers like orange juice and beats up men.
reese615
3/19/09, 09:35:am
Taking things out of context?? A gossip site would never…
MY BAAD
3/19/09, 09:37:am
Thats the look of a woman thats gettin it in!!! GOOOO LALA!!!!
tiababy09
3/19/09, 09:38:am
LMAO @ “REESE615″.
MY BAAD
3/19/09, 09:39:am
INGRATIATION BAAD= SELF WORTH GOOD
this is the context.
Green M&M
3/19/09, 09:41:am
Sleeping with men when you are a certified cunnilingus expert normally has that effect.
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Bossip, you guys are wrong for this comment!! But then again, this is Bossip-Henny with no *****e!!
jb_1030 (Dreams she is Amber Rose so she can wear those shoes)
3/19/09, 09:44:am
She is still pretty carpert muncher or not. SHe was the baddest back inteh day on wax. Damn I ‘m old talkin about wax.
STEFANY
3/19/09, 09:46:am
You felt disgusted because you don’t like ding ding.
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 09:48:am
@STEFANY
Ding ding? LOL, that tickles me in so many ways…
@Reese615
I want answers from you! No more mysteries…who are you?
Roe ski Love - The checks in the mail
3/19/09, 09:55:am
I’d feel ingratiated if I had to sleep with a beached whale (Queen Latifa)
stuntinonthemhoesfosho
3/19/09, 09:55:am
huh?…can we have more of the article..and a definition please….i just woke up…LOL
jb_1030 (Dreams she is Amber Rose so she can wear those shoes)
3/19/09, 09:57:am
ingratiated
SO I had to go to dictionary .com to look this up. And still am like what the hell is she talking about?
About it
3/19/09, 10:02:am
In THIS picture, she reminds me of a Russian woman named Olga who drinks beers like orange juice and beats up men.
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Why are you gonna make me LOL at work!!!
shavondenise
3/19/09, 10:06:am
LOL at “cunnilingus expert”! Sh*t aint nothing wrong with that. Its worser things to be than a homo and their are better things to be than a homophobe! All yall thats having all the “gay” jokes are the ones on the download because if it aint floating your boat why do you care? Love Latifah, hip hop legend and straight hustler!
shavondenise
3/19/09, 10:07:am
I meant…
LOL at “cunnilingus expert”! Sh*t aint nothing wrong with that. Its worser things to be than a homo and THERE are better things to be than a homophobe! All yall thats having all the “gay” jokes are the ones on the download because if it aint floating your boat why do you care? Love Latifah, hip hop legend and straight hustler!
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 10:13:am
@About it
NO ID
3/19/09, 10:21:am
If only more men were cunnilingus experts, the world would be a much better place!
jb_1030 (Dreams she is Amber Rose so she can wear those shoes)
3/19/09, 10:22:am
shavondenise
I meant…
LOL at “cunnilingus expert”! Sh*t aint nothing wrong with that. Its worser things to be than a homo and THERE are better things to be than a homophobe! All yall thats having all the “gay” jokes are the ones on the download because if it aint floating your boat why do you care? Love Latifah, hip hop legend and straight hustler!
Ok
First I am lost because Quenn Latifa is ingratiated and tehn you say that we are on the download. What they hell does downloading have to do with the Queen being with men or women?
Trulioness
3/19/09, 10:26:am
That’s because she’s a bull-dagger…and why don’t like d*ck
Trulioness
3/19/09, 10:26:am
*we
Erykah
3/19/09, 10:34:am
Ya mean “King”Latifah
BE
3/19/09, 10:35:am
her make up always looks so nice…go Queen – if she likes the P so be it…
Brianne
3/19/09, 10:36:am
I love Queen Latifah. Leave her alone! She is a wonderful and cl*****y African-American actress and singer, yet this site is constantly bashing her. Crabs in a barrel mentality…
Moreaces
3/19/09, 10:37:am
The rest or at least more of the interview/article would maybe shine more light on things. However she is a lesbian. And all that matters is that she is happy with the woman she is with.
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 10:43:am
@reese615
*peeking in*
Hmm…I will find you…
too damn bad...
3/19/09, 10:44:am
I will never believe it! NOT EVER!!!!
Jamillah
3/19/09, 10:47:am
Its obvious Queen Latifah is a lesbian. She is just not comfortable coming out at this point in her life. She has a great career and doesn’t want to alienate any of her fans. What she fails to realize, is that her true fans (and there are many) will accept her no matter what her sexual orientation.
what happened to my name?
3/19/09, 10:49:am
IF QUEEN LATIFAH IS A LESBIAN, WHY IS SHE FAT? EATING FISH SUPPOSE TO MAKE YA SKINNY. LOL!
too damn bad...
3/19/09, 10:50:am
NOT ALL WILL ACCEPT IT.
kmba74
3/19/09, 11:10:am
Bossip, More like E&J with no *****e. Cheap.
wifey06
3/19/09, 11:11:am
That is why I do not belive people are born gay. I believe environment and life experiences lead us one way or another. She experienced something awful with the opposite sex and said no more. Just like a person who has been molested could have that same effect. But then again I am not gay, so oh well.
Just because man make it okay does not mean it is right. Everyone has their temptations and demons to overcome. God givee us all trial and tribulations iti is just how we choose to overcomer them or not.
kmba74
3/19/09, 11:13:am
@wifey06
She never said she was gay. Bossip speculated.
Chica
3/19/09, 11:15:am
I love her makeup.
jb_1030 (Dreams she is Amber Rose so she can wear those shoes)
3/19/09, 11:17:am
IF QUEEN LATIFAH IS A LESBIAN, WHY IS SHE FAT? EATING FISH SUPPOSE TO MAKE YA SKINNY. LOL!
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LMAO!!!!!
come on
3/19/09, 11:21:am
I don’t care what her sexual desire is, all I know is that i’m a true fan of “the Queen”.
Ms_NYC
3/19/09, 11:47:am
I NEED SOME GROUPIE STORIES!
TALES
FROM A
GROUPIE. BLOG SPOT
.COM
Al B Sure lookin' boy
3/19/09, 11:57:am
IF QUEEN LATIFAH IS A LESBIAN, WHY IS SHE FAT? EATING FISH SUPPOSE TO MAKE YA SKINNY. LOL!
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Not if its fried… The bush doesn’t have any nutritional value either.
About it
3/19/09, 11:58:am
@wifey06
She never said she was gay. Bossip speculated
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Which is why you can’t compare the gay struggle to the black struggle. Gays want to remove Prop 8, but don’t want to lose their bank by coming out. We just wanted to get from point A to point B without being run off the road, lynched, shot at, burned, etc. — all the while paying taxes.
If you don’t want your business out there, don’t do these half-steppin’ interviews, i.e., “I felt nasty and disgusting after sleeping with a man”. Did she not think that would raise suspicion? This is just confusion so I would not allow their political agenda to conflate with our political agenda.
darealwifey
3/19/09, 11:58:am
The Queen is the queen. We all *think* we know she’s gay, and most of us still accept her, so let the woman be. She is mad talented, beautiful and minds her own business, so give her the same respect.
Gay or not, I don’t care. I luvs me some Queen Latifah.
reese615
3/19/09, 11:59:am
@ Re…Gambit Luva-Luva…™
What’s up, love? LOL
…gone
darealwifey
3/19/09, 12:00:pm
@ come on
I did not read your post until I finished mine. Thank you. I agree with you 100%. The speculation about what she does sexually in her private life shows how bored and depraved the public is. We ain’t got ish else to do, but pry into the most private parts of people’s lives, and that’s sad.
Seek the light beyond the shadows
3/19/09, 12:03:pm
I like Tifa, and who cares who she sleeps with? I do think its past time to come out of that dusty closet and say YES, I’m here and I’m Queer.
Christy
3/19/09, 12:16:pm
ahhhh is the Queen coming out!! yeahhh boyyyyeeee!!
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 12:21:pm
@reese615
You’re breaking my heart, all this in and out you’re doing! Lol…I know your secret
I just wanted to let you know its safe with me…
reese615
3/19/09, 12:40:pm
@ Re…Gambit Luva-Luva…™
I don’t mean to break your heart. But, I do want to keep you entertained.
Thanks for keeping my lil’ secret.
By the way, you’re in the DMV, correct? wink
DR.FUNK
3/19/09, 13:02:pm
Re…Gambit Luva-Luva…™
In THIS picture, she reminds me of a Russian woman named Olga who drinks beers like orange juice and beats up men.
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Brutal.
Funny.
me (the original)
3/19/09, 13:04:pm
Showing my age…I used to jam to the Queen in middle and high school. She is what I wish more female rappers were..cl*****y, ladylike and dignified while STILL not taking any crap. M.I.A seems to be the only one (selling, at least) who has the right idea.
All hail THE QUEEN..and whoever said she has a lot of fans who’d love her anyway no matter what her sexual orientation is…damn straight!!! (no pun intended haha)
DR.FUNK
3/19/09, 13:09:pm
What favor do lesbian women do the men they have sex with-or more importantly themselves-when they LIVE A LIE? Wanda Sykes came to this conclusion.Maybe Ms. Owens should take a page.
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 13:19:pm
@reese615
You and those winks make me laugh. I picture someone behind a computer screen getting their wink on…
Yup, I’m in the DMV. And where are your headquarters? Or are you and your staff not to disclose that information?
winking really hard.
Niasia
3/19/09, 13:51:pm
I aint never ingratiated no man! shoot they come and go, come and go!
*Treasure*
3/19/09, 13:52:pm
So does this statement means she is coming out of the closet? I think this was taken out of context. I know the queen is very private about her personal affairs.
reese615
3/19/09, 14:15:pm
@ Re
Well…most are in the “A”. Not I. I’ll say this: the University of Maryland in College Park is a hell of a school. Word up.
Yeah, I guess I kinda sit in front of my trusty laptop winking and ***** like a mad scientist. LOL. I need a *****ing life.
Re...Gambit Luva-Luva...™
3/19/09, 14:25:pm
@reese615
LOL! Well, I’m headed to Brazil through a study abroad program with UMCP…its a fantastic school indeed.
Now if you’re giving them props, that means you went there? Or you’re still going? oh the mysteries…
Lol, I’m kind of busy right now…but I’m sure I’ll attempt to get more information out of you soon enough…here’s a wink
(I’m not really winking, just keeping up the silly joke).
reese615
3/19/09, 14:32:pm
@ Re
*went
Well, work hard, sunshine. TTYL (wink) lol
Roe ski Love - The checks in the mail
3/19/09, 14:54:pm
@Re & Reese615 All your pillow talk is making me horny!
Lady Shady
3/19/09, 15:06:pm
her make up looks fantastic.
Tonya Juanise
3/19/09, 15:11:pm
So I guess she felt disgusting when she had to kiss Scooter on Living Single?
jamel
3/19/09, 15:45:pm
i love Queen Latifah
tiralph
3/19/09, 16:11:pm
that girl borne in a lil island name Lesbia, she’s a Lesbian
LBCER
3/19/09, 16:46:pm
Only thing y’all got right is that she looks good. Article makes no sense.
ISTAYWOKE
3/19/09, 18:09:pm
Umm, when is she gonna rumble her ample a@@ out of the closet and when is Jenny Craig gonna stop the checks cause clearly, dat shi.t ain’t workin
dismymoney
3/19/09, 18:59:pm
That last line on that ***** “Sleeping with men when you are a certified cunnilingus expert normally has that effect.” Damn!!! Who is your writer? That line was *****ed up, but epic!
TheGoodGood
3/19/09, 20:48:pm
wow was it that bad?
Ara
3/19/09, 21:23:pm
Queen Latifah, big baller, shot caller, she’s doing her thing ….
ARTOFWAR
3/19/09, 22:07:pm
I [used to] ingratiate myself to him and then sleep with him. Afterward,
I felt disgusting- really gross and nasty … and I hated myself.
That feeling was so horrible, I decided I would never do that again,”
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LOL!!! I would I’m sure, if ever I were to sleep with a man, I too would share your same exact, sentiment Queen,L.
But since that is never going to happen, I will just have to take your word on this one.
LOL, This is as close to a coming out of the closet declaration, as
anyone is are ever going to get, from this woman…Again, I must LOL……ARTOFWAR.
Hail to King latifah
3/20/09, 00:52:am
Come on Latifah we all know what you really want in the bedroom
About it
3/20/09, 09:03:am
She ain’t gonna come out until she gets her orders from Hollyweird. The King bows down to her masters.
SMDH
Lia
3/20/09, 14:11:pm
She’s not going to come out until she done with show business. She’s smart enough to know what’ll happened if she makes that announcement before that time.
deesac
3/22/09, 00:21:am
If only more men were cunnilingus experts, the world would be a much better place!
Thats the same thing I say about sistas if they only suck D$@k correctly well I guess thats why I like all other races Oh well no lose