Comments on: Why Do Black Women Hate Each Other So Much???

By: brianna

brianna — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 04:02:24 +0000

This is so true. Black people quit trying to make it seem like its a smaller issue than it is. I know all women hate but I have never seen a group of women have so much hate and envy towards each other like black women do. I used to have a lot of black girlfriends in elementary school but ever since middle school…I was just done lol. I was the new girl at my middle school and the black chicks gave me HEL. Their mean glares, the rumors they spread about me, the physical and verbal abuse…and I didn not give these girls not 1 reason to treat me bad. I’m shy and I don’t talk ish or start drama, yet these girls wouldn’t let me catch a break because they thought that I acted all that (notice this is one of their many excuses for not liking someone and covering up the fact that they’re really just jealous). I thought that this was funny since they were some of the most cocky, stuck up conceited snobs lol. High school wasn’t any better. I had more black females hating on me than I had on my side. It was non black girls that accepted me in their groups with open arms and had my back while the black girls took any and every opportunity to spit on me and put me down. I have more black girlfriends now, not all are the same, but black women need to stop wasting so much energy trying to tear each other down and try to pick each other up and be united.

By: jean

jean — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 17:21:45 +0000

The only black girlfriends I have are my relatives.

By: Dana

Dana — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 23:06:41 +0000

It a vaginal thing, color doesn’t have much to do with it. Women cross cultures are self-hating, and take their frustration and petty jealousies out on each other. It just makes me sick.

By: Carla

Carla — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 20:35:10 +0000

In my opinion, the Brothers that do that are no damn good any how, and damn things aren’t that bad, lol…

By: deesac

deesac — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 01:54:21 +0000

Thats because history has proved it that black woman are emotionally unstable. She can never be statisfied. She has no love for the blackman so she goes to the whiteman he fo sho is not going to accept them when the sun comes up. So she turned to her girlfriend but to unhappy persons cannot make a happy couple. And she wonders why the brothers have started to dating out there race ni$@er Please!

By: Roni

Roni — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:25:07 +0000

It all comes down to insecurity…with appearance. Those who are insecure within themselves feel uplifted by tearing another down by treating the other badly (ugly looks, creating false rumorsm sabotage on the work place and the rest of the crazy things they tend to do). With a little therapy, they’ll get better. I say steer clear of them. I do.

By: Roni

Roni — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:16:11 +0000

The ones who embelish in the hating are smply insecure. Because of their unhappiness, Many are unhapy with mostly their looks/appearance and/or, marital status. They can’t fathom seeing a sista’ THEY PERCEIVE as doing better than they. Now if the sista’ is better looking, they become truly green. And don’t let her be happy because that causes their blood to boil. As a result of the bitterness, they dddly feel uplifted by attempting to tear her down with crazy looks, by spreading false rumors and by doing all the silly things they can to give them a temporary fix (Uplift). Needless to say, the happier ones they attempt tearing down are always thriving in all facets of their lives. I think good things happen to good people!

By: ME ME ME

ME ME ME — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 01:51:39 +0000

@continue to act as triflin’ as humanly possible to each other

I love my fellow black sistas! yall all BEAUTIFUL!

By: rashid

rashid — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 21:59:52 +0000

so for a black man, learned from HIS mistakes from being wrong in a marriage, ready to settle for real and earning good $$, solid brother w/east coast mentality and moral character off of faith i ask 1 question: why can’t i find one of these sista’s complaining of no good men?

By: a black man

a black man — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 15:59:40 +0000

ooh i meant african american women haha