that whole dl situation is just nuts to me……society makes it hard to be yourself but that doesnt mean u have to be selfish and risk your life and that of another person man or woman

Is that R. Kelly and Lloyd in the picture? I knew there was something about those two…

to me, if youre gay,youre gay, just live your life and ill live mine you aint infecting mine…its the brothers with wives and children that i hate thats doin the dl thing and giving their wives hiv… if u fuqqin dont like women just divorce her and get on, thats y i cant stand brothers on the D.L.

wow

@j

Exactly. Hiding it and holding a facade of happiness and “normalcy” is malicious and decietful to the person you’re with. Stop wasting people’s time.

@jb_1030

Hey there! (In and out once again, lol.)

ridiculous!!! the concept of noahs arc doesnt just cover the dl lifestyle it covers ALL aspects of black gay male relationships….its innocence and beauty to everyday hatred and racism brought about by those that refuse to accept its reality.
holla back!!!

I think it is so funny that the DLm brothers say they aren’t gay while they are sticking it to another man

This whole thing is disgusting!! If you are gay, just be gay!

This is not good!!!

damn thats all i can say, and ewwww. I anit got nuffin against gays or nuffin but if you gay dont be tryin to f%$@ women.WE got enough problems as it is already!!!!! we dont need any under cover bortherS OK!!!

This is why its so important for single mothers to have a man in their sons lives…I think this is just another effect of the broken black home.

No man…..no man!!!!

This is not only disgusting, it is also disturbing. To all of the women still looking for a good “man”, be very careful, stay protected, and don’t even think about marrying anyone without a blood test. SMDH

@ De’Vincent;

Im feeling the scriptures its better to use the word of God in situations like this, because he’s the only one that can judge, and he’s the only one that can deliver. Thats whats up!

I have a problem with the term DOWN LOW, coz it applies only to black men.
I could care less if a black man wants to be gay
and sleep with only gay men.
but i can’t stand the fact that these DL ers want to pretend to be straight, get married, and have kids to cover up their lifestyle!

sigh…..i give up i can see the trickle down effect of nothing but ignorance already on a EARLY MONDAY MORNING!!!!

ridiculous!!! the concept of noahs arc doesnt just cover the dl lifestyle it covers ALL aspects of black gay male relationships….its innocence and beauty to everyday hatred and racism brought about by those that refuse to accept its reality.
holla back

i cant wait for letoya lucketts new album “lady love” this is a POSITIVE ROLE MODEL for all ….WE NEED MORE INDIVIDUALS LIKE HER TO STEP UP!!!!!

any man with a black woman would have to be gay

I Love Noah’s Arc!!!!!! Nobody on that show is on the DL…

ugh, let the fruits have fun w/ their sausages . . . don’t need to tell women “sorry”.

WHAT… IN THE… HELL!?!?

THESE KIND OF MEN NEED THEIR BALLS CHOPPED OFF!!! I CAN ACCEPT A BROTHER BEING TOTALLY GAY, BUT TO USE BLACK WOMEN AS A FRONT TO PROVE TO THE WORLD THAT YOU ARE STRAIGHT IS UNACCEPTABLE!!! MAY MEN LIKE THIS BURN IN HELL AND GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR EVIL SOULS!!!!!

ixna noa ayga exsa

omg the gays are coming… the gays are coming… run for your life.

smh@ so many homophobic black people. get over it…. let people do what they want, long as its doesnt involve you, why do you care?

lmao@ the people so “grossed out”, but still managed to post!

Get your facts straight before you make accusations. This show does not depict men on the DL. They are openly gay black men.

WHAT!

Clearly, the picture is not the issue, cluckers. Get serious.

IM Sorry but fine azz black men being gay will ALWAYS be a problem with me…now u ugly ducklins do what u want….

A friend of mine just recently slept with a man without protection, I wanted to jump through the phone and literally ring her neck, then she proceeded to tell me next time they are going to use protection, I was at a loss for words.

@San diego sweetheart
Sweetie where are you meeting these men, LOL! But for real, how did they come about fessing up to this?

Yes sirreee!!! Bring on the dl brothas! Bring em straight to my lap baby!!! Lovin’ me some dl fellas!!!

everybody say if u gay u gay then just be gay, but when they do come out as being gay then u ridicule them. Its a win for lose situation. If u come out as gay u talked about, if u keep it in the closet u talked about.

@Dwight

I agree with you.. being on the DL is wrong and deceptive. But they put all gays in the same catagory. DL is totally wrong in my book. Now being openly gay is one thing, lying about your sexuality is another when it comes to involving another person. I dont think everyone has to go around declaring their gayness, but once you decide to involve, wife, girlfriend, children.. You MUST come on out, and quit the bullshit.

I feel you though.. and I dont agree with most people.

This is exactly why I do not date black men. I know that gay, bisexual and “in the closet” men come in all colors. But the closeted gay man is a huge problem in the black community, moreso than in other communities. And with the rate of HIV infections exploding within the black community, I just won’t take a risk. So I stay away from all black men.

The reality is as a woman: we all must make the right choices. I know it is difficult and almost a losing battle when dealing with men (because you don’t know who is on DL) but this is a growing issue among black women and that is why HIV rates among us are growing.

We must make conscious decisions about who we lay down with and going raw with. If you are going to do it..get tested, be safe-protect, and make good decisions.

@ Blazinyella

my interpretation shouldn’t matter to you because im not God, God’s reason should matter to you because he is. Read it yourself and ask God to help you to understand what he meant and why he did what he did.

this is so rude.. to put pics of women on here? what an embarrassment..that jerk

If you’re gay then be MAN enough to be you. Don’t hide behind the skirt of some woman and endanger her life! That shiite is so damn selfish and cowardly!

That’s why Chocolate city (Wash DC) has an AIDS infection rate that is comparable to Uganda! Freakin’ Uganda people!

And who do you think is leading the charge in the infection rate?? BLACK WOMEN! And where do you think we’re getting this from? Infected BLACK MALES!

Ladies, Protect yourselves! Take control and protect your dang lives!

@shounuff

Everything in the bible is not true. The bible has been re-written several times by man. U should do your research

@ DWIGHT HOWARD is MY BOO!
You’re making it seem like HIV/AIDS is just a gay disease. Most women don’t run out to get a test when their men cheats on them with a female.

c from st louis

as an openly gay man myself, it is as bad as it seems…..Its really bad and i think its just wrong but these are the men that are afraid to be themselves. Men you would have no clue to being gay are the ones that mess around.

Im just TOTALLY disgusted at the whole DL issue, on either end of the spectrum (men & women). its not so much as the taboo of homosexuality that gets me, but the mere fact that these people are that selfish, greedy, and vendictive enough to totally disregard the health (physical, mental, hell even emothinal) of their companion just for the sake of self gratification! that DL stuff is saddening

Sickening… moving on to the next post!!!

@blazinyella

I hear you and yes I think it’s bad, but my main point is that as a woman you cannot allow stuff like this to control you entire psyche. It seems like nowadays women are so paranoid and scared and I just feel like as long as you are smart and aware that you can’t control the external factors. Can we become victims?…Yes, however I don’t think it’s good to be scared and skeptical of every man that steps to you. Women should be wary of men that lie, period. Whether it be another woman or another man or another life in general, it’s all a lie. Any man with integrity and who truly cares about the woman they are with will be open and honest. Honestly, there are women out here that will deal with it and stay with their DL man.

@c from stl

Yea i agree wtih u cause my sis and bff always question lil things their man do. All men not Dl but u do have to be smart, but they main thing is as a woman quit letting me lie all the time and treat u like shit. All woman should as well as men should be using condoms these days. If a man really loves you then he would. Start questioning these men too. Ask them about theit HIV status, and I would even go to the point of going to get tested together. Nobody is gonna come out and say o yea I am HIV positive. Its just a time for our community to wake up and be aware. Quit letting these low life men take control.

sorry for the typos at work and trying not to get caught lol.

1st, they are not DL, they are open gay men on this show, and it is a very good show, more power to them.

I do not knock anyone for being who they are, but the thing that I hate is when these DL men are not being honest with these females that they are dating or married to. If you like men, then like men, but do not try and convince yourself and others that you are not by trying to be straight, when you know you like taking backshots from other men!

@blazinyella

Exactly. Nowadays no one should be active with a person unless they know their STD status. Period. It’s too much out there…

So yea…I’m about to start dating white men…

Don’t worry about your category just worry about the truth talking about black women I need you but I also have other needs. You need to get or pay a clue I can care less of your needs I prefer to live life with out someone else dysfunctional drama. This is why I rarely give men my attention of the day and no I do not like women either but I do give anyone else the right to play with my life and dreams. Men want so much but only willing to ofter so less insanity right?

the only relevancy of the pic is to introduce the post, which is, about gay men.

WTMOTHERF!!!!!! Where the hell is my trash can? That’s disgusting. OMG.

@ Ms.P

So yea…I’m about to start dating white men…
*****************************************************

Ms. P – what took you so long? LOL.

I’m one of those sisters that actually breathes a sigh of relief when I see a Black man with a White woman now, because the AIDS epidemic, in numbers, is disproportionate among Black males. Wonder why??…..

Yeah Noah Ark and it is a good one but I thought this was about an actual DL brother and a book that he is coming out with right?

@LawhavMercythisshitis

Yeah well, hopefully I am bent over and my husband is giving it to me real good.

As for you..ugh no, no ma’am you need to open a bible and use a dictionary if you can’t understand some of the things in there because it’s apparent & no I don’t blame gays for destroying the world lol.

But please oh please don’t make me bust some scripture out in you. Just go to you local Minister because when it comes to the bible between me and you…You won’t win.

sweety im not on here to spreech or slander the word of god … so i wont win but sweety we can go if u want

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lol @lawd and Jessica

lol @ Jessica..

REPLY TO DE’VINCENT YOU ARE TALKING THE MOST SENSE ESPECIALLY IN RELATION TO ABSENT FATHER’S

@ Jessica

That’s 100% real talk! Church!

this homosexuality is getting out of hand. why can’t people realize this is a demon? we need to stop accepting this filth as a society.

QUESTION– WHY ARE BLACK GAYS MORE SCRUTINIZED THEN WHITE GAYS?

DL Brotha is a boogeyman created by fat ugly hoes who are too lazy to work out and improve their appearance. Any guy with that man fat ugly hoes in his scrap book must be gay.

OMG, THIS IS THE REALITY OF THE WORLD WE LIVE IN!!!!

This is one of the epidemics to destroy the Black race. And for some odd reason, there are more and more black men killing black women. It scares me a lot. There’s domestic violence,now it’s HIV/AIDS.

I am better off alone.

THIS IS WHY I TEACH MY DAUGHTER TO LEAVE BLACK MEN ALONE. WHEN I LOOK AT BLACK MEN ALL I SEE IS DEATH. THEY ARE WALKING DEATH AND THEY ANT TO TAKE US WITH THEM.

@BLACK MEN ARE TRYING TO KILL US

I agree with you 100%.

@ CHOCOLATE PRINCESS…

I AGREE W/U 100%. THESE ARE THE TIMES THAT WERE DESCRIBED IN THE BIBLE & I DON’T CARE HOW MANY TIMES THE BIBLE HAS BEEN REWRITTEN, NOBODY COULD’VE FORESEEN THIS BUT GOD HIMSELF. PEOPLE BETTER WAKE UP & GET IT TOGETHER!

@AAdonis

Regardless of what the media do to Gay Black stars or athletes, they STILL have no right to put their wives or girlfriend’s life in Jeopardy.This is very UNGODLY and very, very selfish behavior. It’s a slow suicide and you’e taking someone with you. YOU,BLACK DL MEN need to stop IT! I pray to God that all of your tactics operated by Satan will not destroy Black women.I rebuke you in the name of Jesus.And you,Black women, seek ye first, the kingdom of Heaven and all these things shall be added unto you.STOP SEARCHING FOR A MAN. PRAY TO GOD FOR ONE. STOP BEING SO DESPERATE AND NEEDY!!!!!

I would also like to add: I am soooo tired of seeing GAYS being portrayed as Perfect,Beautiful with a high status.This is the trick of Satan.There is nothing glamorous about this.The media wants you to believe and accept this behavior.The only problem is:They show you the BEGINNING,BUT THEY NEVER SHOW YOU THE END: DEATH .

LOL @ VanTokyo – “I rebuke you in the name of Jesus.”

*Its scandalizing

I’m surprise a sista hasn’t put up a website to ‘out’ DL bruthas like that other woman who launched ‘dontdatehimgirl.’

Wow. Ummm. Read a book.

If you think the Bible tells the future you might need to take a history course at a good college or university in your area.

There have been all manner of plague and debauchery throughout history. Most were far worse than HIV/AIDS or homosexuallity in 2009.

First: I love the gays.
Second: Got no problem with ppl being who they are openly.

My only problem is the lies. If you are bi then tell ppl that. DON’T LIE!! Let women and men make informed decisions about their lives and bodies. If they still want to get down then cool but it is NOT okay to lead a double life. BE WHO YOU ARE!!

This pic is so sensual and has a hint of masculinity that is so erottic it turns me on. These men are fine. So what if they want to keep it on the DL it is no ones business.

love 6am

A person can be gay all day long, what I hate is when they bring other people into it and want people to accept their lifestyle and if you don’t scream “you don’t love me”. If you don’t like drug use, do you have to be around someone that participate in those activities, should you have to associate with a thief, if you don’t find that part of their lifestyle acceptable? My sister, was going through that phase and my husband and I did not allow her around our family.I tell anyone, you can be who you want to be, but just like you have the right to decide who you want to be, I have the right to decide if I want to accept you. I won’t hurt you or call you out your name, but I don’t need you in my space. Other sins get slap on the wrist because they were not classified as an “abomination”. Homosexuality is the one and only thing associated with that word. But preaching is is not necessary be who you want to be, no one can judge you however remember people who don’t agree with your lifestyle have rights too and you must accept them the way you want them to accept yours.

@Holla

Thanks for your kindness,but I was expressing my opinion about the issue.It makes me angry to see how some men can be so callous by covering up who they really are.And I am in no way going to compromise with these types of issues.I apologize if I came across as too harsh.I don’t hate gays,I hate when DL men lie to their love ones.

LOL @ Terry McMillan being the poster child for having a husband on the downlow.

@Just Sayin

Very well put, I made that point earlier in the thread. The key is to be smart, protect yourself and not live irresponsibly. Everything else is completely out of your control…

I think Terry need. I used to read her books from a girlfriend got me hooked on them. She’s not an idiot. …Well, some may debate that. Okay – she’s not a TOTAL moron. I think she knew but she was lonely, vulnerable and wanted a man. She must have thought she could ‘change’ him. I mean, it doesn’t compute… Her claim that she was blind-sighted. She’s an author and just by reading her books, you can see she’s very observant of people, their characteristics and idiosyncrasies. I think she knew.

I WOULD BE AN UNEDUCATED ONE 2 L0L..WELL NOT FULLY EDCUCATED BUT I STAYD IN SKOOL(DISREGARD MY GRAMMAR ERRORS)LMA0

*Correction: ‘I think Terry knew.’

Don’t be fooled people. Its not just black men. Women in general need to be very careful about who you involve yourself with sexually. Homosexuality is on the rise. Damn that prostate…

@Just Sayin

YESSS YESSS

CAN U SAY E-D-U-C-A-T-E-D?

@ OneOfTheGays

Good luck to you but I think the anger you see is focused toward those on the Down Low that lie about who they are and what they do out of fear of rejection. In my humble opinion these men are just as bad as the men who cheat on their wives or girlfriends with other women only to infect them with STD’s like AID’s & HIV.

It all needs to stop and as for your opinion of the bible that is entirely your choice but instead of saying there are inaccuracies I wish you would educate the masses and point them out…It would be interesting to see where you see myths and errors as men over thousands of years have also tried to do but have still come up empty handed.

Anyway if you had something substantial you may be able to silence a lot of people and free those that feel burdened by the words in that book.

So please share and share with proof next time please.

Thank you

ignorant women..

gay men are discusting

@jessica

Girl, for some reason every time I try to bring the Bible up to folks they love to spend time trashing it and talking about how man wrote it and it has a bunch of innacuracies and yada yada yada…ok, maybe that has some truth to it, but I’d rather follow something and have faith in it and get were I need to go after death and God tell me ‘my child, that was innacurate, you were ok’ than to do what I want and go somewhere else after death and have him tell me ‘you should have listened’…. I mean, I’m not perfect as no one is, but I do have faith in the good Book. But, everyone is not going to agree on it especially nowdays…

that is why i always wear condom when i f*ck this african american b*tches. u never know!!!!

@blazinyella

that is one of the devil’s main tricks…everything in the bible is not true…equivalent of….has GOD said to eve

just remember this and for the dl guys—where there is confusion, doubt, fear, and torment GOD is not apart of that

you need to really read what de’vincent be saying to yall…he’s on point

from what i can tell and read many need to find out for themselves if the scripture is real or not by reading it

reading is fundamental and so is spellcheck…if your on a computer…i know that you have that function/tool please start using it

NO MORE EXCUSES PEOPLE

@ c from stl

Got love for you and the bible. I’m a believer and have faith in it too.

@ OneOfTheGays

I have love for you too even though I believe in the bible’s accuracy… Anyway I agree that many people still believe AIDS & HIV is a gay or homosexual disease and it’s not. I also think too many bible thumpers hate on Gays when they should be examples of Christ and love people. Ultimately God is the judge and according to his steep standards the entire world has fallen short and needs Jesus, even those that attend Church every Sunday, Wednesday and whenever. So nobody is perfect in and of themselves.

As for The Zeitgist I saw it and in my opinion it is a claim against Catholicism in support of Paganism. There are many inaccuracies I saw in The Zeitgist mostly because it was attacking beliefs and practices commonly held amongst Catholics which truly have nothing to do with scripture at all. Catholicism is a denomination derivative of the Ancient Text but it is not truly supportive of the words and teachings of Christ Jesus.

Anyway as I said… I have love for you and any true believer would.

t

reading is fundamental and so is spellcheck…if your on a computer…i know that you have that function/tool please start using it

NO MORE EXCUSES PEOPLE

u stop it this is not ur classroom this is a gossip site i have 3 other sites open a my check book out a mug of tea and my office window is open im not sending a email to my boss or teacher

GROSS………..I THINK IT IS HORRIBLE FOR A MAN TO BE SUCH A FREAK THAT HE HAS TO HAVE A WOMAN AND A MAN. THE DEVIL IS BUSY THESE DAYS. LORD, HELP THEM. And yes, woman tend to do the same thing–its just something “different” when two men get together……….SICKENING THOUGHT!!!!

shame on people with no gaydar! get over it. i have never met anyone on the supposed DL who I didn’t know was gay within 5 seconds of meeting them!

By the way… LET ME MAKE CLEAR I AM JUST LIKE EVERYONE OF YOU. IMPERFECT AND LIVING MY LIFE THE BEST WAY I CAN. JUST CUZ I KNOW WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS BY HEART DOESN’T MEAN I’M BETTER AT LIVING RIGHT THAN ANYBODY ELSE. I SIN AND MAKE MISTAKES TOO MY DAD WAS JUST A PREACHER AND MADE US LEARN THE SCRIPTURES FROM HEBREW & GREEK TEXT BECAUSE HE DIDN’T WANT PEOPLE TRICKING US WITH FAST TALK.

So don’t hate me for knowing what it says.

Good Luck to all of you and protect yourselves out here!!

Love,
J~

Hello Ms. Jessica, what is your dads view on homosexuality please go ahead….

Oh my!

lol lawdhave mercy lol okay reese615

no love for the rasta man.. i luv maicans though i have nothin bad to say mo fire

well all our black men are going to be gay anyway…they are coming outta the woodworks….8-80
i stopped reading those E Lynn harris books cuz i am sooo scarred…..they are just selfish…..they want there cake n sh*t….lol

@ LawdhaveMercythisishisreal

lol.. u are silly.. Im sure your dad says homosexuality is wrong when he’s not with his boyfriend..

why are people on sites always worrying about somebody using spell….we at work if you can’t understand it ….stop fycking reading it….we already ain’t suppose to be on blogs and chats…then we get peeps on here worrying about if i spell fyck right….retards…..

AAdonis

@ LawdhaveMercythisishisreal

lol.. u are silly.. Im sure your dad says homosexuality is wrong when he’s not with his boyfriend..

no he hates homos and so i was born and he loves me and my dude sideey to u .. i gots no hate in my blood do u just treat other how u woukd want no matter how different u r

AAdonis
u def have not read all the post the there was a young lady in here going off about the bible and of course her father was a preacher BRAINWASHING HIS KIDS so i asked her what were his thoughts on homsex…. but she did not reply dont come at me all wrong and late

@ Lawdhavemercythisishisreal

a comment was made on 1 of your numerous post that gay men are “discusting”. I was responding to that ma’am. Sorry I should have included that. & FYI most “straight” men that have total contempt for homosexuals are usually hiding something themselves & jus because you were “born” doesnt mean he’s not gay sweetie.. sorry to dissapoint u ..

@Jessica

Well at least you saw the documentary. I think that’s cool. Although, like you, I will agree to disagree and appreciate your civility. I don’t think it was an attack on Catholicism or supported paganism (which translated from the Latin simply means villager). That documentary just told the truth: The bible’s parables and stories come from semitic world myths and fables that were written thousands of years before the historical Jesus was written about or ever emerged. It also supports the belief that you can’t take everything in the book literally.

That’s my opinion. My faith practice is based on consciousness, not dogma. I am only judgemental of Christians who attack my values systems and liftsyle. I am a man who likes men, and I’m in a snappy-happy monogamous relatinship of 3 years AND I know what me and his HIV status is: we get tested regularly. I think all the fearmongering has a lot to do w/ folks not being happy w/ their individual lifestyles and choices. We feel sorry for them. If I were them and I saw two fine-assed 6’0 ft. black 30-somethings riding off into the sunset together–I’d hate my miserable life, too. Lol..

@ Jessica I agree with you 100 % but dear, there are many people in this world that doesn’t have the same beliefs as we do. You don’t have to defend the word of GOD it will speak for itself on judgement day.

AAdonis

@ Lawdhavemercythisishisreal

a comment was made on 1 of your numerous post that gay men are “discusting”. I was responding to that ma’am. Sorry I should have included that. & FYI most “straight” men that have total contempt for homosexuals are usually hiding something themselves & jus because you were “born” doesnt mean he’s not gay sweetie.. sorry to dissapoint u ..

ma’am sweet whateves u werent responding to me becus if u would read u would see i was responding to him dont come 4 me okay GURL
@ a black man

gay men are discusting…. wrote this and i said Heteros r gisgusting take care of ur kids deadbeat dad damn u coming at my neck all types of wrong foolish u are u should have read LAME

I love Noah’s Ark. Great show…

De Vincent you are deep.I cosign to all you wrote.
Gosh!I am so happy that we still have sane people who has good morals on this lovely earth!May God Almighty continue to be your director!

the p.s. is from Noah’s Arc btw

@ qt

And that’s how the downlow gets started and perpetuated. You see the signs and then you screw with him anyway. Sad. Honestly it is.

@MR FAMU …FOOD FOR THOUGHT…in the HOLY BIBLE GOD ALMIGHTY destroyed an entire city because of their homosexual ways.
This lifestyle is wrong in the sight of our creator.I urge persons involved in this lifestyle to seek Jesus and ask that these unholy ways be circumcised from your minds.I am sure deep within your souls you know it is wrong.

@LawdhavMercythisshitis real

Ok I think I followed that. Kind of but you would be the converse that supports my arguement of ok if you are GAY and you did not chose that how come do we see so many people that flop back and forth but do not consider themselves bi. They say they are gay or straight. They change depending on what way the wind is blowing that day. Case in point Sheryl Swoops. She said on her coming out
it doesn’t change who I am. I can’t help who I fall in love with. No one can. .. Discovering I’m gay just sort of happened much later in life. Being intimate with [Alisa] or any other woman never entered my mind. At the same time, I’m a firm believer that when you fall in love with somebody, you can’t control that.”
She stated she loved her husband and did not think she was gay. I’m sure that she at some level found him sexually attractive. I mean you can come at me with oh society didn’t allow her to be honest with herself etc…but out of her own mouth she never honestly thought about other women. By her own admission when she was coming out so lying about her feelings at that point about women would seem a bit silly.
So are there grades and levels of it? Can you be KINDA gay? And if so if you have a bit of both pools could it not be conceivable that you choose one path over the other?

@ bianca

@MR FAMU …FOOD FOR THOUGHT…in the HOLY BIBLE GOD ALMIGHTY destroyed an entire city because of their homosexual ways.
This lifestyle is wrong in the sight of our creator.I urge persons involved in this lifestyle to seek Jesus and ask that these unholy ways be circumcised from your minds.I am sure deep within your souls you know it is wrong.

u over here talking some foolery … if ur referring to the bible and the small town that was filled with the rich and wealthy, who cast away those who were less fortunate and turned their backs on doing whats right they were greedy and full of lust and judgement looked at themsleves as an elite this is y they were destroyed …. and this is u r y DL men still exist blaming gays for destruction of the old world GURL get it together whoever ur teacher is on a spiritual level needs to give u extra credit read it sweety no man shall judge only MURDERS and ADULTERS’S will have to face god on judgement day LAWD have mercy on this poor child she knows not wat she speaks..please dont speak for me i know in heart that i walking on the right path learning and living my life everyday if my god loves me y do u judge me

The picture used for this entry is of two characters on a gay sitcom that DOES NOT advocate the DL phenomenon.

man cakes?? lmao….

black people, we have no one to blame but ourselves for this.. homosexuality is still so taboo in the black community, many of us are so ignorant and hateful toward those who have a different lifestyle than our own.. so this is what we have to deal with.. our men.. our brothers.. our sons.. AFRAID to be themselves.. afraid of not only being rejected by society, but by their own FAMILY and friends.. so these men are doing what they feel is the only thing they can to have SOME happiness.. when people stop being so ignorant and hateful and judgmental, this issue will be close to non existent.

I don’t know about using that picture of D. Stephens and J. Atwood because as far as I know everyone on Noah’s Arc is really straight forward about their sexuality. With that out the way -

I just don’t understand the psychology behind it.
Either you come out to yourself, wife, and family, and just live your life! OR Contract HIV, give it to your wife, possibly any unborn kids because you are not brave enough to be honest.

_shrugs

another boring day.

disgusting..
I threw up in my mouth…

LOL

lol @ jamaica man

ALOT OF IGNORANT PEEPS IN HERE.

one word WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

@wake up

That is a cop out for weak minded behavior. Personal responsibility needs to play a bigger part instead of trying to alibi for their bad behavior.

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why do they have to be goodlooking? take the ugly ones please!!!!!!!!!!

@OneOfTheGays

Yeah…whatever!

@OneOfTheGays

What I Said must have REALLY gotten to you, hugh? I don’t hate Gay people,I hate that fact how that there are so many DL brothers! This is what makes me angry. And I am a christian and I read the bible. I am imperfect as everyone else.

Is it just me or do the position and size of the legs in that first pic look funny?? THose legs are considerably small for men of that size and the position of them ain’t right either……

lol dont hate on black men(the straight ones) Do u want me to bash on black women for carrying aids n stuff more than any otha race out there ?/ i know black women are strong and all that but u women complain to much that make you women look weak
and i know women for fact make wholes in condoms…. im just sayin

I am tired …..it’s 8:42 AM IN TOKYO. Peace and love everybody and Please don’t misconstrue my point of view. GAY or STRAIGHT, God STILL LOVES YOU.

LOL and look at the hands a forearms of the dude with his arm over his head! Why are they so small compared to his upper bicep???? I smell photoshop; it would explain the awkward placement of the sheets as well….what do y’all think??

LOL!!! They are among us!!! I personally would prefer you do you and be you than lie to women and possibly endanger their lives with lies!!!

SHAY

why do they have to be goodlooking? take the ugly ones please!!!!!!!!!!
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GOD will destroy black people along with whites now, thank’s to your adverse behavior.
Blacks now boast about being sinfully stupid, this will come back to curse them. Hell fire will serve you right.

JOHNTAY LIVING THE LIFE. DO YOU LIKE MY PHOTO. DON’T TELL JD ABOUT THE PICTURE. THATS HOW I DO. BUT IF U DON’T REMOVE THAT PICTURE I WILL SUR YOUR ASS. LIVING THE LIFE STYLE.

This is just plain wretched. Wow! secrecy and dishonesty are deadly.

…AND MOST GAY GUYS DONT WANT WOMEN ANYWAYS….WHICH BAFFLES ME WHY PEOPLE ASSOCIATE GAY WITH DL..IF A PERSON IS DL THEY ARE BISEXUAL…NOT GAY!!!!!!

DL men are cowards!!! SOme people already mentioned HIV and random Sexually Transmitted Diseases (like Herpes, Warts etc)… but what about the idea that cheating is cheating??? And if you cant commit to your woman then break up with her. She doesnt want to be cheated on, especially with another man or men. Thats not love.

No too damn many women raised their sons and they got their momma tendencies, period.

Have no idea their role and what they were suppose to be from the jump.

everyone sins.. they whole pointis to try to overcome that temptation, period. God gives us all test. Lust of flesh is a test period. Being gay and lusting everday is not trying to correct it or live godly.. but we all sin so….

What ever your sexual choice….keep it safe…live to love again. Wrap it up ya’ll!

what a waste they are.

I i ever find out that my boy is on the DL imma Kill his ass

lmao r kelly and lloyd hahhaha good one!

I saw this film it was very funny and had constructive point to make .

Denzil is not a detective\doctor\lawyer
Wesley is not a vampire \ cop \drug dealer.