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3rd, 4th, or 5th!

1st!!1

She already took him down, so what else’s new?! Besides who cares? NEXT!

yeah, she gonna take him down alright, lol

1st! *yawn*

in ca the law does not require her to testify if she does not want to

same story said many ways

2nd

her lawyer knows that…just fancy talk to appease everybody

they both have made huge sacrifices

the public needs to let it be

He’s done whether she cooperates or not

it is what it is…and their both packin (heat)

now how does that new tattoo relate to this story?

THE BEST THING FOR C BREZZY TO DO, IZ NOT APOLOGIZE TO THAT SCUMBAG BYTCH , BUT DONATE HIZ TIME AND EFFORT AND DO CHARITIES TO BENEFIT THE BATTERED AND BRUISED WOMEN IN THESE SHELTORS AND GET A REALITY SHOW LIKE T.I. DID IN HIS LAST DAY OF REDEMPTION!

….what the f@#k ever….

THE BEST THING FOR C BREZZY TO DO, IZ NOT APOLOGIZE TO THAT SCUMBAG BYTCH , BUT DONATE HIZ TIME AND EFFORT AND DO CHARITIES TO BENEFIT THE BATTERED AND BRUISED WOMEN IN THESE SHELTORS AND GET A REALITY SHOW LIKE T.I. DID IN HIS LAST DAY OF REDEMPTION!
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….agreed….

you betta not mess with them…or get jacked the eff up…they aint scared of each other

COLONEL STINK! I AGREE AS WELL …WHATZ POPPING DADDY -O?

Oh, he took himself down. . .Au revoir!

And, no, he doesn’t need a reality show. Give it to a brother who’s actually behaving in a positive manner and not another one who landed on the wrong side of the law.

idk what exactly happened but they said she started hitting him WHILE he was driving, i never hit a girl in my life but if anyone hits me and i mean ANYONE hits me while im driving i would hit that person back because i rather kill you b4 we both end up getting killed or some innocent person in the street gets killed caused by me running them over!

@GLOK

Not a damn thing….same $h!t different day fam….what’s good on ya end?….

Give Dr. Benjamin Carson, the black neurosurgeon, his own television program, for example.

Or this brother, Dr. Carnell Cooper, a Baltimore trauma surgeon who’s saving lives every day, who was just recognized by CNN, cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/03/25/cnnheroes.carnell.cooper/index.html.

why subpoena if no trial…lawyer talk
this can’t go to trial it’s too public and tainted

SYD …WHAT???????

@Glok

Those are the types of men who deserve to have a reality show, not two-bit celebs who break the law.

SYD ..IM FEELING THAT PAM GRIER PIC LOVE THAT SISTAH …BODY LIKE A GODDESS TIL THIS DAY,AND I KNOW SHE DONT HAVE NO COBB WEBBZ IN THAT BASEMENT EITHER!

chris doesn’t need a reality show…he’s too talented and popular for that nonsense

@Glok

“AND I KNOW SHE DONT HAVE NO COBB WEBBZ IN THAT BASEMENT EITHER!”

Lawd have mercy. . .lol.

Yes, Ms. Grier, did and still has a following.

WHO CARES!!!! this situation is over exposed!!!

Z! WHAT DOES HE NEED TO DO ,TO MAKE UP FOR ALL THE ABUISED WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY SINCE HE IZ THE POSTER BOI FOR ABUSE, TELL ME?!

This case isn’t going to trial. Stop playin. Chris will cop a plea. I’m shocked he hasn’t done it already.

Yesterday she wasn’t cooperating…today she’s cooperating…This is just bullshit.

She needs to go climb a steep hill and take a bow off the cliff.

Whatever, Rihanna kicks rocks! Chris take her down!

M

chirs hold your head up son….and if you make it out of this get as far away from this woman as possible….
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Yeah, and don’t beat the next chick. Dummy.

Yeah, Joe Camel has his nose all in this because she is his money maker for real. I believe if he had not intervened as well as Oprah, Tyra, and others who have made contact with her, she would still be with him.

I can’t see how this case could go to trial. Where could the prosecutor find an impartial jury. Everybody and their mamma has heard the details, seen the photo, read the opinions of the media who overwhelmingly hate CB and have already convicted him, heard legal opinion and all that. I dont thin the OJ case had this much said about it before the actual trial.

The DA in LA is doing this because he wants to appease th epublic and get back intheir good graces since they messed up the OJ case and are very inconsistent.

they’ve both put their careers on the line…and they still have their careers. next

so what happened after miami?

and each other. next.

and more fame. next.

and still have their core bases. next.

who cares this is so old

and got y’all on this site/thread coming back for more. next.

competition is fierce

lol, lol, lol

Rihanna needs time to get over her relationship with Chris. But if she takes too much time then this case might get dismissed with no more than a slap and warning on Chris. I hope she helps prosecute Chris to the fullest even if she is still loves him. Spousal abusers need to be locked up. I dont care if he never hit her before or after this public event, and if hes sorry or not. He only wants her forgiveness, as far as we know, so that his fans will forgive and forget. Yahhh m…f’n right.

WAKE UP RIHANNA- once a beater, always a beater. its a never ending cycle and your just like the rest of the women who get verbally and emotionally beat down right before the whole physical beatings start.. ah yes and then the good ol’apology and a few manly tears.. and then its beat down time again. there IS a better man out there.

Now she wants to cooperate now that she sees Chris isn’t thinking about her. Tear her azz down in the court room Chris, the media has already tried to detroy your career, you have nothing to loose.

@michelle stop describing your life experiences

wow…what a harsh lesson to be learned at such a young age of 19

All I can say is KARMA what goes around comes around…

so what did she do with the “I’m Sorry” braclet/necklace

that’s where the problem lies when you try to define/predict others people lives based on your own experiences or what you can relate to

both chris brown and rihanna are worldwide entertainers….being artists makes the behavior different already..now add the rest…you need a bigger box and label, mamm

she’s wearing it…look at the pics on here

I’m a bit sick of Little Miss Frankenstein Forehead and this tiny-bopper drama. NEXT!!!!!!!!!!

you better hate now…in a minute you guys want be able to stand them, lol

i don’t hate…i celebrate….and stay on the winning team

Rihanna needs to appease her fans(ie white people) thats why this case is so big because their young black and rich.
White people can’t understand why she would go back to him seeing as they look at this from a perspective where they don’t know how F’d up Ri has been to Chris and how good he has been to her.
Her lawyer has to say things like that but that doesn’t change the fact that he wants Chris to get off because Rihanna wants Chris to get off.

Once a beater always a beater? Girl whatever!Yeah someone should have been told Chris the same thing, she was the abuser in the relationship. I’m sick of women always thinking men are always the abusive ones. Just because Chris doesn’t have any bruises doesn’t mean that Rihanna is innocent, she is an abuser as well. DV applies to both men and women. She should have kept her hands to herself and let the boy go head in cheat or whatever, she could have walk away from the situation instead of trying to control him by beating him with a shoe.

when the defense attorney and her attorney…are standing rt. beside each other and chris that should tell you something rt. there

DO RIGHT [GREAT POINT]

Once a beater always a beater? Girl whatever!Yeah someone should have been told Chris the same thing, she was the abuser in the relationship. I’m sick of women always thinking men are always the abusive ones. Just because Chris doesn’t have any bruises doesn’t mean that Rihanna is innocent, she is an abuser as well. DV applies to both men and women. She should have kept her hands to herself and let the boy go head in cheat or whatever, she could have walk away from the situation instead of trying to control him by beating him with a shoe.

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Now why do DV males stay so silent? They never call the police or speak about their abuse let alone abuser….why is that?

starting to learn all people don’t need money…first they need common sense

otherwise the money will be gone and they will be back to square one

and why call it common sense when it doesn’t seem to be that common

wiped through the chicken-little tirades now this ish

i hope this just applies to blog threads and not real life situations

Where is his injuries or why wasn’t she charged if she did abuse him. Iam sick of the she hit him first bullshit, why didn’t he wait for the cops and press charges..

who says they aren’t married…the media..oh rt. trust one thing from the media but don’t trust the other…all or nothing…make up your mind

yes, relax, relate, and release

he walked away from her and the car before the police wer called…went back for her in different car but by that time the police were there…possibly

better to live to see your lawyer than get carted off with the lapd…possibly

Rihana stop snitching! Girl you’re gonna end up in the trunk for testifying just like that Ice Cube song.

LOL. She’ll probably end up in Chris Brown’s trunk eventually. Whatever happens to the hoodrat it’s no big loss for the rest of us. Bubble gum pop “stars” like Rihana are a dime a dozen.

yeah she’s bubble gum alright…you better save that for kerri and ciara

oh and avril, jessica, etc.

whooshh

z

starting to learn all people don’t need money…first they need common sense.
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Money just magnifies who you are. If you are a sweet gentle person who is very charitable, then with money, you will be a sweeter gentler person who is even more charitable.

If you are a thug or thug wannabe when you are poor, then with money you become a thug who can buy better weapons and hire better lawyers.

Your basic personality never changes. The public is always surprised when celebriites or rich people screw up their lives. They would have screwed up lives anyway, only if they were poor, no one would care or take pictures of it.

UGH!!! Can we move on to another topic please?!! Damn!!!

Ri Ri needs to go home and relax. get her mind together and go on tour. Chris Brown is suffering enough. i cant be mad at him. and she shouldnt be either.

i could careless if she testifies, and i don’t think chris brown needs to be made an example out of…he is just a child…and their problems have nothing to do with me..so if he releases a CD i WILL buy it.

Get a life people!!

don’t try this at home…but sometimes cheating equals acting out….or having difficulty controling your hormones….each situation has to be weighed separately…not a one size fits all type of thing

cheating/jealousy, etc. it all equals bs

you got to make choices and decide…

that’s why it’s good practice not to judge other people—on the outside looking in

Chris! When is the next album?

@ essence

yes, chris is suffering driving around last weekend in his blue ferrari (which he has worked very hard for an earned)

the moral stop judging what you don’t know

oh and he was smiling

in the pic

i like mrs. mayes

Good for her….

I think this is so unfair. I’m sure she done something to CB. I like the both of them but now that this happen i’m no CB side ONLY because they media and soceity is dogging him out. She’s no angel.

Oh..and personally..I am tired of seeing another black man being crucified in the media. I want him to be penalized as well but I don’t think institutionalizing him in one of America’s finest jails (being sarcastic) is an option. He needs serious therapy. That anger stems from someone. That needs to be addressed.

*…stems from somewhere…

@let’s talk truth

when you take your rosy-colored glasses off

it’s called racism, america thrives off of it..is a way of quickly separating and pulling down the next man…when you find that person ask them about hatred, fear, disproportionate opportunities, education, not sharing the pie

okay…ty

Hey when this is over and everyone finds out how crazy Rihanna is and that CB is still with that girl its gonna make them the 09 bobby and whitney.
I’m on team Chris primarily because everyone is acting like Chris is the devil walking on earth. Its unfair because people are glad that the pictures of Rihanna got put out just so they can use her for something that she doesn’t want to be a part of. She wants Chris to get off and to put this behind them.

sorry my bad….racism is a worldwide practice on planet earth….expect that and more negativity–so your feelings won’t get hurt…be prepared

chris and rihanna got to much going for them to be compared to bobby and whitney….whitney 7yrs older then bobby, grew up in the church, veteran in the business…and falls for this wool…that was her..choice on her….

@Z

For what…racism is not my issue..I don’t deal with it because I don’t let it affect me. The world is unfair yes that is life..but I don’t let anyone tell me what I am capable of..never have…never will. No excuses on my plate. I handle my business

So I will keep my rose-colored glasses on while I am listening to their music with the top down on a nice breezy day.. HA!

My president is black…so what you saying.

stay breezy!

and i heard that…truth! i’m on your side

Miss you Chris!!! Love you Chris!!! I’m your #1 fan Chris!!!

Be Easy Breezy!

love is a splendid and great thang!

Someone take my name?

z is breezin through

Chris, Rihanna has the whole world on her side, but as long as you keep GOD on your side, you have already won.

all the best!

sorry queen…so what country do you run?

i believe in asking questions first and not assuming things, you know?

yeah.

PLEASE – she is just trying to keep herself relevant since she is talentless.

you can have it all back…much peace.

I don’t want it no more.

My life is bigger than this now.

good for you

Thanks

life should be big and have many dimensions!

No way. Her lawyer is saying that to keep the heat off of her. Her lawyer is working with Chris’lawyer since when does that happen if she is going to testify. Both of those lawyers know something we dont. And here goes the white media AGAIN trying to drum up more drama.

Pele, she found the time to forgive him, why cant you?

Everything about this case says she is one confused chick.

HE SHOULDNT BE MADE AN EXAMPLE…PEOPLE WHO COMMIT CRIMES SHOULD HAVE A PENALTY…NOT JUST ONE WHO IS IN THE LIMELIGHT…

She got some explainin to do after all this legal bull is over.
Why did Chris hit you Ri
Why are back together
Why didn’t you stay with him
Are you afraid of Chris
Do you still love him
Are you guys still close
Are you going to write a song about this
Is Chris going to write a song about this
Why did you act like you broke up with him

Ri you better tell the truth and nothing but the truth because if Chris gets locked up because you wanna act like a little girl. Its a wrap for your career.

[...] released by Fox News Monday night, both Rihanna’s lawyer and the Los Angeles County District Attorney Spokesperson say the “Take A Bow” diva is cooperating with the Chris Brown ‘making criminal [...]

LMFAO@GLOK

Wait!! so someone told Rihanna’s to get mad at Chris again…
*crying softly**

so does this mean there will be no production for “Whats Herpes Got To Do With It???”

gosh darn it

LET’S CALL A SPADE A SPADE…. THIS HOE IS DOING WHATEVER SO HER CAREER DOESN’T SUFFER !!!!! SHE WILL ALWAYS BE A LOSER.

OMG if chris brown goes to jail,i’l never but her album. She is very stupid if she cant take a stand in her life.This minute she dosen’t want to testify,the next minute sshe is saying she wants to.she sees now that nobody is feeling sorry,now she wants people to start looking at her as a mentor. DUMB ASS.

im sooooooo over rihanna at this point.

plus im 4 the kids…. so i cant support this poster child for accepting domestic abuse

She deserves nothing but for him to pay the price for his actions.

IF SHE GAVE HIM HERPES SHE ALREADY TOOK HIS AZZ DOWN….

WACK!!

Gotta co-sign @ LOVE OPRAH…

Making excuses for women that assault men and get their asses beat down don’t sound logical to me, how about we promote men and women keeping their hands off of eachother period..

I believe Forehead aka Rhi Rhi started the whole sh*t. He was wrong for hitting her but he should press charges on her ass. She’s not innocent by a long shot.

Besides from what my folks in the industry tell me, Chris has numerous witnesses for his defense even some folks from her circle of friends set to testify that she was both mentally and physically abuse towards him and he previously walked away and at most would restrain her from hitting him. I tell you now get ready to see that the princess is no princess at all but rather a manipulative spoiled brat and that what happened here was someone had finally reached that point and snapped unfortunately on their abuser……

Rihanna’s career is just fine..She is still selling records and her commercials are still airing. Her career is more important than him and Chris was the one ARRESTED. I do not believe for one minute that Rihanna hit him and all the guys on here use that as an excuse because they probably hit their girls. Rihanna does not need Chris and his career is totally threw. Chris has not performed, been interview or done anything because most people don’t want anything to do with a man that hits a woman.

Chris brown forever!!!

I do not believe for one minute that Rihanna hit him and all the guys on here use that as an excuse because they probably hit their girls.

LOL. Stop.

…Riri can’t sing, that will take her career down, his shine was what propelled her.

I can’t wait for the photos the police took of Rihanna the day after the attack to be released, and they will be released. According to TMZ they are way worse than the other ones because they show all of the bruising and swelling. Can’t wait!

@Jason

Her attacking him is no myth, factually she attacked him with her damn shoe while he was driving, DRIVING no less…..so we could have been faced with a fatal crash which killed both they asses or a pedestrian hit and killed or worse…because of a damn text message ????? thats sounds like a serious mental issue to me……

I REFUSE to read the comments, but I am SO GLAD she is cooperating.. Im REALLY happy that she is standing up for herself.. God Bless her!

Chris Brown should be so sorry by now yet he hasn’t said anythign about it.. I guess he thinks it will be forgotten.

YO ITS LIKE EVERYBODY GETTING PISSED CAUSE WE STICKIN UP FOR CHRIS BUT HOW COULD U BLAME US, WE DONT KNOW HIM PERSONLALLY BUT FROM WHAT WE KNOW THE DUDE SEEMS COOL. MINE I WAS LOOKING AT A CLIP AND CHRIS WAS KISSING HIS DOG, DUDE WHO KISS THEY DOG JUST DONT BEAT THERE GIRLS. SHE ATTACKED HIM WHILE DRIVING, HE OPENED THE DOOR AND TOLD HER TO GET OUT, AND SHE STAYED, AND PROB STARTED BEATING HIM AGAIN, SHE WANTED TO FIGHT, AND IM SORRY I BLAME HER FOR EVERYTHING, IF SHE NEVER HIT I WOULD NOT BE HAVING THIS CONVO. I STILL THINK THEY WERE ON THE VERGE OF BREAKING UP,AND HSE WAS NOT HAVING IT. SHE GOT PISSED TO SEE HOW QUICKLY HE WAS MOVING ON. THAT PICTURE OF HIM AND HER AT THE PARTY TELLS IT ALL, SHE WAS NEVER ALL OVER HIM AT AWARDS LIKE THAT. AND HE LOOKING AT HER LIKE WHAT U DOING. I WONT THEM TO DROP THE CHARGES JUST LIKE THEY DID WITH THE SHAMWOW DUDE.

I guess the reunion between them was a bust.

Still have love for Ri-Ri <3.

She doesn’t need to testify, Cali will testify for her.

Look at all the delusional Chris Brown fans. Poor things are still blaming the victim. The black community is f*cked up alright.

Chris Breezy all day long!

I see Rihanna fans still thinks she’s a victim, so sad.

What’s really sad is that when a man hit a woman back after she throws numerous of punches on him, he is called a woman beater, but the woman on the other hand the woman is called the VICTIM. That’s some bullsh*t for yo azz.

I guessed those tatto was going to be her revenge in taking chris down. cos y wuld a girl have tattos of guns after she got beaten. chris you better be scared. hahahaha..

GO CHRIS, WE ALL LOVE YOU! Oh, my bad Rihanna you too.

Chris, this chic wasn’t even recognized until you started dating her. Be very careful of triffling girls.

WHOOP THAT TRICK WHOOP THAT TRICK LOL

I agree, Mark.

I seriously doubt Rihanna ever wanted any of this to go public..but once the police are involved (and remember folks, an ONLOOKER called the cops, not Rihanna)…that’s it.

Like someone said in another thread, Jay-Z has his hand in the Rihanna cookie jar in a financial aspect. I’m sure he’s taken measures to prevent a reconciliation between the two.

She is cute.. I want to find a such wife… Are you? Feel free to view my photos @@@ L a r g e K i s s . c O m where you can find many handsome man who love bbw, like me — a real handsome man who want a good woman here.

Chris Brown need to go to jail! you must never hit a woman..I don’t care if she hits you with a shoe..Black men(I’m one)need to be taught how to take care of our women and treat them right..all these so called little boys who are going around inpregnating our young black girls and not stepping up to the plate to take care of the child, need to go to jail too with Chris..I don’t care if you are a black doctor, lawyer, profesional athlete or R&B singer..If you hit a woman you should go to jail with OJ..Chris Brown, OJ and the other black men who likes to hit women are all stupid..and should be incarcerated..I wish the Judge throw the book at Chris the woman beater Brown..Another thing is that we black people put so much emphasis on these so called celebrities..Singer, actresses etc..lets refocus and celebrate the black doctors(Ben Carson) etc..men of integrity..and forgot these little punks in the hip hop and R&B world..

We need to take better care of our black women..protect them and love them, forgive them and shield them..they are the cornerstone of our race..when the worthless black father would leave his wife with five children and go live with another woman..This strong black woman would work day and night to support her kids..when the worthless punk man leaves..the mother is always around to take care of these kids..I worked in the prison system and all the stories I’ve heard from the inmates are pretty much the same..”My father left my mother and never supported his children..These guys are punks like Chris Brown and OJ.. “Let it be so, to jail you go, for hitting on a woman, write a song and turn your life around and defend our black women” NOW MAKE AN R&B SONG OUT OF THAT.. you little punk woman beater you..JAIL JAIL JAIL JAIL IS WHERE YOU OUGHT TO BE, JAIL JAIL JAIL JAIL FOR BEATING ON RHI RHI..NOW Make another hip hop song with those lyrics..you little woman beating punck

Stanley, what type of bullsh*t you on??? Damn! Give the young dude a break, he did apologize, it was untentionally.

Chris Brown deserves due process. They both need help. I really think that there is more to this story than meets the eye – literally.

Well Stanley, if some of these black woman were to act and carry themselves as mature black woman, than maybe, just maybe, man would consider treating them as the beautiful black queen that they are.

Chris’ career will be fine if he does this:

1) Go to starbucks everyday for 2 months after the case is over

2) Bash out Rihanna’s windows with an umbrella

3) Shave his head completely bald

4) 2 weeks in UCLA’s psych ward

That’s all he has to do! I’m rooting for you Breezy!

Wow Stan, go talk that sh*t somewhere else, dude you on the wrong site.

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@ Stan
If Rihanna can forgive this kid than what does that tell you. Its the black people like you who want judges to throw the book at our people that end up breaking up families and cause tragedies like what that guy did to his two sisters. Do you really think that going to prison is going to help Chris Brown become a better person. I think if he does any time it would compound his anger and increase the chances of him doing something like this in the future.
You all need to step off the high horse this is Breezy’s first ever offense in any type of court and you want them to throw the book at him. SMMFH man

No Rihanna didn’t call the police…

BUT…She didn’t hesitate to speak to the police the next day or the day after that…She had time to backdown…but she went ahead with the “escalating” over time theory…

No need to encourage anyone to change paths now…Let her tell her side…It’ll only make way for Chris to have to answer the many questions that no one can figure out…

Chris…You have plenty of support out here…and as for those radio stations not playing his music…That’s there choice…but if they are not gonna play his music they shouldn’t scarf up ratings by continually talking about this situation…

And for those of you who feel like the original statement release was full of b^((&**+…It was…remember…the person that called the police said their was a woman and man…the woman was screaming and histerical and the man was calm. The man calmly got out of the car…but the report said that Rihanna said that he was punching her legs and feet while she was kicking him out of the car…

I can’t wait til Chris can talk to the public…and if I’ve got my antennas right…I’m quite sure the “reality tv” slugs are plotting a redemption show…Ya’ll know they ain’t gone pass this one up…

STANLEY!!!!!!!

LOOKS LIKE YOU GOT DADDY ISSUES, ILL PRAY FOR YOU BRUE.

BREZZY IS NOT YOUR FATHER. DONT PUT YO DADS PROBLEMS ON HIM.

BREATHE RELAX AND FORGIVE
BREATHE RELAX AND FORGIVE.
JESUS HEALS ALL HEARTS

All you black men out there who are saying or implying that Rhianna deserve what she got from Chris Brown and calling her the B word and the H word..All of you are jail material..and it wouldn’t be long..we need to clean up our black community of the filth elements..There is no excuse for hitting a woman..she is not your child..and we should even be careful when hitting kids because there is a thin line between spanking and abuse..Now if Chris Brown could physically abuse Rhianna that way..and the picture told the story..then who the hell is beating Chris Brown? There is no equal opportunity justice here so I say to jail for six months..he may come to his senses..while in jail give him counseling because he is going to do it again..put him in the same cell with OJ if you ask me.

Gimmiethat,
Whether the woman is a B or a H you have no right to put your hands on her..she is not your child. If a guys does to your daughter what chris brown did to Rhianna I hope you’d sing a different song than you are singing now.

All of you are just ignorant and God will deal with ya’ll. We should be trying to help these children not DESTROY them. Black plp we really need to get a life!

I’m confused,
Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that they should not suffer the consequences of what they did..Of course we need to forgive Chris Brown but he needs to go through some procedure that would leave a lasting impression on him so he doesn’t do it again. If he were my son I’ll say the same thing..Don’t hit a woman she is not your child..leave her before hitting her..she may have done things that make you feel like hitting her but leave her and let another man do that and go to jail…Remember “SHE IS NOT YOUR CHILD”. Black man a word to the wise is sufficient..based on the kind of blogs I’m seeing on this site..it does not seem as though there are too many wise people here..but I still have to give some commonsense advice..if it helps one black man..it is worth it.

For the ones that support Chris lets touch and agree on APRIL 6th, that God will bring him through this mess, Satan have power, but God got all power, Chris deserves a second chance like everybody else, in God’s eye sight sin is sin whether its murder, fonicating, lying, cheating, etc, I believe Chris went to Jesus and ask for forgiveness, and God has forgiving him,Man don’t forgive but God forgave them for what ever the reason is, TMZ,LAPD is corrupt, they work together, they want Chris to do jail time, for some reason they all are so fascinated over Rihanna, they want her for them selves. I am praying for Chris, and will be fasting and praying on APRIL 6th.

Black man! Hitting a woman can land you in jail and can bring your career to a crash landing. Ask OJ and Chris Brown. YOu think you must hit a woman to be a man?..you little punk!

@ Stanley
If my daughter treated her boyfriend like Rihanna treated Chris and then have something happen to her like that night I would tell her she was just as wrong as him.
As human beings we are taught to end conflicts with words if you as woman forgo that and stop acting like a lady and lay hands on a man he has the right to defend himself.
Imagine if your son was in Chris’ situation would you want him to go to jail and come out an angry black man and end up doing the same thing.

Kay,
The bible says that we must forgive..but the bible says that man has suffer the consequences for everything he does..why are you praying for Chris Brown alone..why not pray for Chris Brown and Rhianna? You so called Christians always amuse me with your garbage reasoning and using the Bible to justify it. The bible is plain as day..you must suffer the consequences of your deed..I think the name Kay is a female name..how come you don’t feel for Rhianna and you are a woman and a christian?

Mark,
There is no excuse for hitting a woman..and you and I do not know the full story..but I know he beat her to a pulp. Yes, I talk to my child everyday about respecting people regardless of color or creed..and living by the golden rule..Do unto others as you would have them do unto you..Let me create a scenario here..if after Chris beat Rhianna the way he did..she got some goons to go beat him to a pulp or take him out..what would you be saying..I guess the point I’m trying to make is that we have to think about the ripple effect of our actions..And yes, If after all the counseling and advice I give my son about not hitting a woman and the consequences that can bring and he still went ahead and beat a woman the way chris brown did! Yes I say go to jail..because sometimes it takes jail to bring some of us to our senses…Ask Malcolm X he said that! Jail brought brought him to his senses..You feel me brother!

People don’t feel for Rihanna like they feel for Chris because he is a young man who is getting it from all sides and is so depressed that he can’t even focus on what he loves.
Why should we feel for Rihanna when she has moved past the situation and left Chris in tears and having the time of her life being used and abused by these nobody whiteboys that she is hanging out with now.
I feel sorry for both of them having to go through this at such a young age but to me Chris is the only one in need of sympathy at this point Rihanna was never a victim she new why that night turned out like that and she isn’t commenting on the situation because she still cares for Chris.

umm whats new about this

Riri is not cooperating. Her attorney taking the DA’s calls is not cooperating. What else do you expect the DA to say? They know their hand is weak regardless what the gossip mongers tell you.

Keep your head up Chris, we are all behind you

Stanley,
for your info, i am praying for the both of them, but i have more sympathy for Chris because of people like you that want to send him to JAIL, and i believe from the bottom of my heart God has given him a second chance like he has given you, pull the skeltons out of your closet, Rihanna is ok the white man got her back, my God said pray for my brother when he falls.God don’t want none of us to suffer, its satan that wants us to suffer, thats why God put it in my heart to pray for Chris. and i’m going to do just that.

We goin back and 4th on sumthin out of all our hands. They r both yung. Chris will make more just as RiRi will. They live, they learn. Get Over It Already!!!

I am on team BOTH but I will say as I have said before I do not know what happened that night in the car and none of us do. I feel wrong was done on BOTH sides. If she was beating him with a shoe and ended up beating his azz cause he NEVER hit her back at all (not beat her down) he would be the laughing stock of the industry for letting his girl beat him down. I hope in the end they can remain friends. If its true that she was abusing him before this night then she needs to be on the couch as well and on her knees asking for forgivness as well.

This entire situation is heartbreaking. I refuse to throw either RhiRhi or Chris under the bus. I want them BOTH to admit to the wrong they each did that night and move on as friends and or a couple that is their choice.

If Will hit Jada or Jay hit Beyonce(ONCE before they were married) would ppl be so quick to call them no good men and for them to leave? I believe Jay mushed a girl anyway and it was caught on tape.

This girl has a tattoo of a gun on her body. This girl obviously likes violence she even said she liked it in an interview. She liked hitting Chris all those times and he didn’t do anything. She got used to hitting him and him not doing anything. She pushed him to far that night and he snapped. She was still fighting when he giving the whooping. I don’t think they deserve the lashing the media is giving them because at the end of the day they both some immature emotional kids.

I wonder if Chris will ever admit to the former abuse IF there was any. I think the public would look at him as weak for not being able to control his girl. I agree they are both very young and we would have never heard about this had they pulled over in a hood vs a white neighborhood..lol

@ Ermy Erm–

Please add “and ne’er do wells” in your screen name add on!!!

Chris already told somebody who worked at Lids in VA that this case is not what it seems and he is doing good.

Is Rihanna aa US citizen?

@Tru that is a good question

@the lovely I feel he crossed the line I think had he just hit her more ppl may be on his side but he snapped for whatever reason that night. Some say anger issues other say he was tired of her beating on him that night.

I feel they both played a part in what went down that night. I always said her silence spoke volumes. I think she hates being portrayed as the “victim” but her ppl are making her roll with it at least until after April 6th.

I meant hit her once to defend himself if thats the way it went down

WE LOVE CHRIS BROWN!!!

HE HIT HER TO DEFEND HIMSELF FROM WHAT!????????. I DID NOT SEE A SCRATCH ON HIM.people who defend such horrible behaviour themselves need to re-evaluate themselves… DOWN WITH CHRIS!!!! rihanna better speak up or she will go down with him, she must keep her self respect by doing what needs to be done.

riri or chris cant talk right now so dats why they stayin quiet. u are not allowed to speak of pending cases publicly. maybe after he makes his plea they could say something. but if i was him i would still shut up. they will try to incriminate him. you see how he ssid sorry. “I AM SADDEND OVER WHAT TRANSPIRED”

thats not an apology he did not admit to what he did, and he cant, he cant even come out and say, she attacked me and i lost my cool and SLAPPED her back. cause they would catch him and her. they cant talk, or there both screwed

wait could rihanna be deported if she gets a charge? she is not a citizen april 6 cant wait.

soon will see all of this unravul ya thoght ya was sick of chriannna, its gonna get tens times worst. either he says not guilty or cops a plea. oh lawd

@ The Lovely Miss Silhouette (aka MissBlaze44)

There is a difference between self defense and what Mr Brown did. He could have pushed her to the ground, or restrained her. Take another look at the pic of her. That ain’t self defense. SMDH!

Wow, this was great convo in here today. I was at work and missed it. Glad to see Sydney and Stanley’s solid thoughts though!

@Just thats what women should do that are being ABUSED that is NOT her testimony although everybody wants it to be. She was in a FIGHT with her boyfriend that she started. Nobody on here would tell a woman who is being abused day in and day out just for breathing to stay (I am not saying rhianna should stay or leave) no matter if she was rich or poor.

i agree with mark

Will we ever see Chris’s mugshot? She could have been hitting him with a shoe w/o leaving a mark on him. I wonder if they took pics of his hands

rihanna irritates my soul and chris brown is ugly as all hail(lol)!

yes i said hail and not h3**

He tried to push her out the car per the “affadavit” so at that point she should have gottten out OR he should have gotten out to avoid any hitting.

@Mark..lol She sure can’t dance. I just said it would be a wrap if she could get a real 8 count down pat..lol She is still one of the top fashinistas in the game though. FIERCE!!

If they want to be together they can although I think Chris was over the relationship before this all jumped off.

@IM I agree about her being mad at the victim title I said that from day one..lol Lil Miss Sunshine can’t be happy about that. Not good girl gone bad..lol

Very good point about them arguing in the street after she allegedly had been choked out and I always said she didnt have an brusies on or near her neck.

We know he beat he and that was wrong but can we get the FULL story once and for all. Cause it does not add up to me either.

In the court of public opinion he iis guilty. I wonder if he can salvage his career at this point. Everybody from Oprah to Dr Phil has basically painted CB as an “abuser” .

Well all Rihanna has to do is say he isn’t an abusive boyfriend to get rid of that label for CB.
Public opinion changes with the wind. I remember when this story first came out it seemed like everybody was on Ri’s side, now look at it people are seeing how far fetched that affidavit sounds and now that Ri’s out having fun and Chris is looking sad people are taking up for him now. I think that with time everybody will forget about it aside from people making jokes at his and Ri’s expense.
On another topic this girl Ri can dance a little. I remember her and chris did this MJ tribute to thriller in perth she’s the joint in the black dress she was keeping up with Chris. Its all on youtube she surprised me a little.

@ Daisy
She isn’t a citizen of the US so I don’t think ole girl can get a valid drivers license. She a foreign alien right.
I think in barbados they don’t be pulling people over like that. I know they don’t be doing that in Jamaica. They got the as long as you don’t crash type attitude down there.

yo i saw dat vid of them doing the thriller vid and she was singing hate that love you to hime in another vid and she elbowed him

THEY REAL CUTE BUT I THINK THERE RELATIONSHIP WAS COMING TO AND END EVEN IF THIS DID NOT HAPPEN

The point being that if he had stayed at the scene and talked to the cops they wouldn’t be in this situation now. Chris needed cool off time so he left.

@Stanley

“We need to take better care of our black women..protect them and love them, forgive them and shield them..”

I just read your posts, and I know you’re in the minority on this blog, but your words, in my mind, define who a man should be, and I applaud you for your maturity and wisdom. I know you encountered strong opposition here (as expected), but keep on expressing your opinions.

correction to the last sentence: we’re not all giving up on them.

Chris Brown’s career is essentially over. This situation is very different than most cases because of the cowardly moves of Chris. Most people will always look at him as a wife beater regardless and his career will stall. Most other cases involve and weapons, drug, whatever, very forgettable charges. But for Chris to hit a woman like that will NEVER be forgotten. He has committed career suicide.

@CRAZY

LOL @ feigning a marriage proposal. I believe chick was behaving too badly and things were too crazy for her to even go for it.

In a perfect world, he would’ve pulled over, got out, and walked away. BUT…This is not a perfect world…B/C

In a perfect world, guys don’t get e-booty calls while with their main chicks and the girlfriend doesn’t go off and start hitting the man.

I think he did the best he could in the situation being 19 (a kid) and with a crazed, self-indulgent, spoiled pop princess.

I also don’t think he put an ENTIRE smackdown on her crazy ass. I really believe an (accidental?) elbow to the mouth, trying to restrain her and/or getting a lick or two in was enough to cause the bruising she had.

lol i got a theory cause i heard rumors dat they broke up before this happen, i heard it in january, and when i saw the pics of them at the clive davis party, i started thinking about it more. she was all over him hugging him, and she never all over him in public. NEVER at award shows, and in the pic he was looking so uncomfortable.

and then the text.

now u know how they say the only way a dude could get caught cheating is because he wants too.

if chris knew he was cheatin wouldnt he make sure she is no where near his phone,

did he want her to see it?

did he did not care?

were they already broken up but just wanted to got to grammy to show face. ?

did she get mad to see how quickly he moved on?
so many question

since she is so jealous wouldnt he know never to have his phone near for her to catch it?

was it a incoming text?

or a text that was already and she picked up the phone and read it?

lol idk

I know this is not the site for commonsense advice but since I love my black people I’ll give it anyway..I think we need to introduce the course “conflict resolution” from elementary through graduate school and make it mandatory. Also, encourage churches to focus on teaching conflict resolution because even so called christian men are beating up on their wives vis a vis the bynum story.. Conflict resoluton teaches how to resolve situations without being physical. Black men when your woman act up..shake your head, smile in your mind, walk away..go take a walk..ponder if you could stay and live with that or not..end the relationship if you must..and keep your dignity…let her go..let another man handle that. WORD!

@KAY, I am always amazed at you so called christians who portend to read the good book but uses it to justify your biases etc. The good book says that God forgives but it also says that you still have to suffer the consequences for your misdeeds..Chris Brown will not go to jail because he is a celebrity who can afford high priced lawyers..an ordinary poor black man would go to jail for doing the same thing that Chris Brown did..now if Chris Brown gets through this without something to shock some sense into his “african brain” there is a possiblity that he would do it again..I hope next time it would not be your daughter..because I know you would be singing a different song then

@I’M CONFUSED
Ofcourse Rhianna is at fault too but does that give Chris license to knock the living crap out of her? Learn to walk away and dump them..A real man gots to do what a real man gots to do and that is not beating on a woman but giving her the pink slip if you think you cannot live with her shenanigans..feel me! That is what real men do! Because you hit her..you go to jail..then what!

yellow love is dead

Don’t worry when Chris sees that girl again and when Rihanna sees that boy again. It will be like all this never happened. Thats how Young love works. You take a break and then try again the right way.

@ crazy

you one of the few making some sense…opening up the lenses alot wider like that…exactly

why would you let someone near your phone

i think/my opinion that they have the SAME issues, pros, and cons

they are alot alike in more ways than one

—when i first heard about this i expected the woman to be rihanna immediately

because they are always together…like they can’t stay away from each other….i think that they really do care tremendously for each other….they are connected

your

both do just fine on publicity shots

but they are pics on the net of them together days before the pre-grammy event (so being together that night can’t just be about publicity…doesn’t explain the other days…just another day)

there are reports that chris got mad at her the night of her timbaland performance…the day before (who cares if your broken-up and moving on)

then who drives off with someone that they can’t stand

who goes home (he allegedly says “when we get home” while he’s driving) with someone that you want to break up with

who pretends call and sits on keys if your being abused

who gets out of the car and not immediately walk away from someone that you don’t have feelings/intense for

???????????

i’m just trying to open the lenses for some of the haters to better equate all of this….so they can stop hating on either of them

they are both alike

and i wish them both the best

There’s one thing for sure…

This is a situation that has a lot of people captivated…

hitting the clubs shows that she is alright and isn’t being held against her will by chris (media tried to make it read like he was possessive or that she was)…just insecure….think that has passed though

she never promoted club-hopping before…reason for it now

she never looks drug or high leaving the club

it’s good that they’re both keeping quiet/by choice and law

anything that she says would be misconstrued by the media anyways…same for chris

yes, that’s why their both marketable

i see their careers soaring not lagging

and unlike many….both can deliver more…we’ve just seen the beginning for them

this is probably good for them….better to get caught out there w/ your mate and learn something from it

then to get yanked later by some gold-digger or wannabe actor

the public likes and respects authenticity…you can’t be something that your not and pull it off…either that’s you or that’s just an image…now images just aren’t good enuf…ask jlo

these two have behaved i.e their music, lyrics, clothing, nature, exact

i wouldn’t expect anything else…they both keep it real

a good thing

no american female celeb would have put love before her career

and no male celeb would have put their girl before their own interest

there is no way rihanna or chris could have kicked-off a tour w/o the other being there for support

these two are the real deal…together first and foremost for the right reasons…not just a good look, after-thought, prop, or opportunity

that’s way the have a bright future ahead of them

their fans really need to come together and cheer for both of them

if they weren’t together they still wouldn’t be with you

@ tigga
cosign evrything you said.

mark…u the one…keep it up!

ya, smart boy

co-sign w/ crazy, daisy, mark, tigga, i’m confused

stanley, you did your thing playing the devil’s advocate…kudos

@ tiga i feel but brezzy was done with this chick, if u know u cheating, then y have her near your phone, he wanted her to see it.

@truth

what’s up…and breezy wasn’t done w/ her…when your done you just hand-out the pink slip….i think he might have been feeling unappreciated for a variety of reasons that i don’t want to even hypothetically share…just my take…

that’s why even though the fans/peers can’t handle it initially…they get over it…if your hott enuf..it’s best to define your relationship…that way there is no confusion…don’t think there is confusion anymore though….they put it out there bold….

go to mtv when ya got something to promote

when you got something to discuss…still thinking what show…for their audience…? hmmm

ok…maybe sway and them….
today show host and them
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normal/ chips dehumani/

Rihanna is going to kill her career if she doesn’t let that pea headed boy gooooooooo…..

Both their careers will be just fine. She has to play her cards right which she will. Chris is NOT an abuser thats all she has to say it was an isolated incident that she started and she will be fine. He was wrong he has gotten help stick with a story like that and she will be fine and her cd has to be FIRE

Whatever she can do to look better she will do.

This is all just PR talk. Her lawyer is saying this so it looks good to the public. Just like the “break” from each other. The best thing Chris can do is to hide from the public thats why he’s in virginia. The best thing Rihanna can do is go out and act like everything is ok hence all the going out she’s doing. It’s all a big OBVIOUS front.

It’s sad that they have to be confined like that. Every couple goes through problems, most of your own PARENTS probably had issues similar to this. Just because he messed up once doesnt mean he’ll do it again. I’m sick of Oprah and the media saying if he did it once he’ll do it again and acting like he’s a monster…it’s a minor blip. We all make slip ups. I will continue to support both Rihanna and Chris.

Now if this happens again…..

I’m so sick of people talking smack about Chris and Rihanna…wtf some of ya’ll are actin’ like the damn media now. He made a mistake, he apologized, she forgave him…what else do you want? I think people just like to see stars fall from grace. They want Chris to go to jail and they want Rihanna to be single and miserable. I dont believe for one second that the media really cares about this girl, look how quick they turned on her, from victim to getting negative press now. I bet if this was some white couple, half of this s**t would not be coming out!

@Sarena I have said as well they BOTH need to be on somebodys couch they can even go togehter at some point IF they want to still be with each other.

@Melissa co sign ^5

NEW JACK CITY PT II-IN STORES EVERYWHERE..GO GET YA COPIES..COP 10 COPIES!!

hahaha both a pair of arseholes. Chris you did me a favor didn’t like her!Rhianna your doing me a favor making an example of him didn’t like him. Thankyou both so very much!!

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