May God Bless this mother and baby! Sick world we living in!

That is sooo sad, she is in my prayers.

FIRST BETCHES!

i hope she makes, we need to be mor ecareful who we bring around our children, its not worth it just to say “i have a man” if he is beatin on u or violent around ur kids

This is a sad…….sad…….situation. As a mother, I think about how she feels to have trusted him at one point and now this. I pray that she stays strong for her daughter and encourage her that GOD is still in control, he doesn’t make any mistakes. And this tragic event will be a testimony to other single women with young children. “They are all we got”

@ Beantowncrown, Great job, make your daddy(satan) proud. How about posting some more lowness for extra credit?

Poor baby, trying to defend her mother! She’ll be in my prayers….

OMG…when will ppl learn to stop trying to solve their problems with violence. I mean damn.

This precious child and her mom live down the street from my grand parents, 5 doors, the whole neighborhood is in shock, this was the second time in less than a year that a young mom and child were hurt. Last time a mom, daughter and neice were burned to death cause some wanna be drug dude firebombed the wrong house. Please pray for them, the city is setting up donation information as we speak.

By the way, she made it out of her 3rd surgery so far and is doing ok.

@ Beantowncrown, that was very tasteless. Go play in traffic would ya?

@ Beantowncrown

Never though i see the day when someone would actually make Unkle Kracka look decent. You need to gain a little perspective and know when not to joke or make light of such a tragic event.

@ Serious Sister

Please keep us posted on that donation info ok? ** hoping that little girl pulls thru**

*I pary you take it back

this is so sad…i pray for the poor little girl and her family.

makes you wonder though, what the hell did the mom do to make him try to shoot her and if it wasn’t a “reason” why would she bring someone like that around her child?

so sad. not to knock anyone, but i am trying my darndest not to be a baby momma and to bring children in this world where they don’t have to worry about things such as that an can just enjoy being a child…

so sad…sick sick world…

This child jumped in front of her mom yelling ” don’t you hurt my mommy” her mom got hit twice once in the head and once in the chest, Alexis was hit 6 times eye, cheek, chin. chest, arm. After shooting her, he stomped her up under the steering wheel of the car they were in, which is where the cops got him, he was trying to kill this baby!

I hope Bubba got something good for his soul, in prisons here, child killers don’t last long..

*I pary you take it back

try again just one more time LOL

Beantown..good news. You’ve been cleared for suicide. Please proceed. Your family must be real proud of your dumb ass. Idiot.

OMG…my heart goes out to the child and mother. That child is an angel, attempting to be a hero.

Just read Sister’s note regards to him intentionally hurting the baby…hope he rots in hell. You know, when he goes to prison they’re whoppin’ his ass.

Craziest thing about this girl is that she had a stroke as a baby, couldn’t speak, and didn’t appear to be coherent of the world around her. God obviously used her to save her mom’s life. God bless her.

@ Serious Sister

I hope that sicko gets all he deserves… we had a situation like that here in KY. a little girl was shot 5 times and was forced to watch her mother die before she was shot

^ she may not have known or may not have started off that way. People tend to change. Let’s not speculate

Mothers NEED to be more careful who you choose to get involved with AND bring around your child… This CLOWN was an ex-con, I don’t know his criminal past but He’s been locked up before… Truly Sad

Will keep everyone up to date. Her mom met him, he was nice, never told her his history of domestic violence. She discovered he just was not the man for her, he had been stalking her for 3 months, day and night. She got afraid and called a girlfriend here on the block to get her and the baby out of there cause he was standing on the side of her house for like 5 hours and wouldn’t leave. She called the police, they ran him off, but when she went to get into the car with the baby, he jumped in the other door with a gun and forced them to drive around until they convinced him the needed gas. They stopped at the station and the girlfriend went in to pay and told store owner to call 911, she went slow as she could so police could get there. Before she could get to the car, the fool shot the mom 1 time, Alexis jumped from the back to the front seat in front of her mom and yelled ” don’t you hurt my mommy!” dude lost it and hit Alexis 6 times, hit her mom in the side of the head, then dragged baby under the steering wheel and tried to stomp her up under the dashboard which is where they were when police arrived and got him.

Mothers NEED to be more careful who you choose to get involved with AND bring around your child

cosign

this is very sad…and anyone on here talking greasy isn’t worth responding to.

bullsh^t for real, just ignore the donkey noises.

I’m sure there are reasons to blame the mother, BUT, people need to realize that spousal abuse/murder is a serious…and much more complicated then simple words or just leaving. If that were the case, we would not have so many cases floating around.

thanks Nicole for the info. Truly sad situation

@ Twyn

Trust me the signs were probably there. She probably just chose to ignore them, hoping that he would change. Seems in this day in age, 90% of the times single mothers and thugs tend to go hand in hand.

Marquis de Sade

True the signs were probably there, maybe she did not choose to ignore them but too afraid or insecure to do anything.

Actually according to neighbors and family members her on the block right now, she started to suspect there was more to him than he admitted, she told him that she wanted to leave it alone, the sorry punk just would not let it go. Neighbors have helped to run him off before.

Psychotic a**holes are hard to spot even when you marry them you never know what will make another snap.

SeSe is an excellent mother, that child is her entire world the dad left cause he couldn’t handle her diabilities, but her mom is great.

Its really sad that this is the first dude she dated since Alexis’ dad left.

and I disagree with single mothers and thugs comment that is a choice on the type of man you deal with.

Why is everyone getting on Aoike Lee, she is telling the truth, I grew up around it, my mothers was one of them women too who wouldn’t leave alought she knew she should, she didn’t want to be alone. Some dick is not worth sacrafices you children’s happiness.

Women don’t want to leave. For instance women were complaining that Qunicy shouldn’t except gifts from Diddy cause he treat his momma wrong, that is Kim’s fault not Qunicy, if Kim wants to get treated netter than she needs to leave.. God bless that little angle.

@ A True Gem, when her mother realized he was not right she took all the steps she was supposed to. she reported it, got a personal protection order, notified friends, neighbors, Alexis school, the works.

SeSe is not a desperate chick needing a d-i-c-k, she has been alone raising Alexis from birth.

This is the first man in her life since her daughter was born.

I have personally seen dude in his suit and what not, if you did not know about this story, you would never suspect he is crazy as hell.

Besides, his bail is over a million $$ he ain’t coming back and I know she would not do it anyway.

This truly sad may GOD bless that babygirl.

@ a true gem

You sound stupid as hell! Go play in traffic already, nobody talking about dick that has nothing to do with anything! Like it’s been said on previous post she LEFT him and that’s why he shot her and her daughter. I cant stand stupid ass hoes like you always talkin with nothing to say!!!! Damn

Also to all the women saying she should have knew! That’s not always the case. He could have just been loony and never really showed the signs!!!!

Sorry news, but the little girl did pass away

wild man? you mean her baby daddy?

Terrible, just terrible. What kind of a man pulls the trigger AFTER he sees the baby jump in front of her momma? Who would do that? That nucca needs to be tortured Abu Ghraib style then shot six times and left to rot!!!!!!

My prayers are with this precious little girl.

@ Serious Sister

I grew up around it, and this story of her wanting to leave him is OLD. You don’t get it. Look at Amy Whinhouse there are reports that her husband hit her. This woman is down at the jail to visit him and is eargely awaiting his return from jail so they can shack up agian. Life is not cookie cutter so don’t make the momma the victim she is part of the problem. She like the rest Leave and then Go back, Leave and then Go back. Do you understand how that little girl must have felt. While her mother was getting shot she went and stood in front of her and without hesitation he shot that baby 6 times. I put some money on it the momma is going back to him.

Mahogany

My condolences to that baby, such a brave person she is.

I’m a fan of “googling” people as soon as I get that last name…………………U never know.

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I am a big believer in googling. Even with job applicants. Lawd, some of the stuff people have on the net. Not cute.

But back on topic, this story is a real heartbreaker. At at Christmastime, no less. Awful.

@Beantowncrown

You sound retarded Beantowncrwon, check your grammer 3.4 GPA??

@ tyyellow

Sorry news, but the little girl did pass away

^^I was having a good day, until this story, I grew up around domestic violence. And this story just brings back supressed memories. This won’t be a wakeup call, just like Black news here today gone tomorrow and back to the self-destructive behavior. Next week we will hear an even wilder story!

Tonite before I go to bed I will pray for that little Angle.

It seems like 911 is also to blame for the girl getting shot. They didn’t take Ms. Ford’s TWO calls seriously!

When I read this a few days ago, there was such a sadness that came over me. I just sat for a few moments & cried. I am by no means blaming this woman for what happened to her. Having lived with a psychotic Aunt for several years (who was the same way when I was younger but hid it from the rest of the family quite well) you never can really know a person if they don’t want you to. That being said, LADIES we have to be EXTREMELY careful whom we allow into our lives & for those of us with children AROUND OUR CHILDREN!!! I am sure there were some signs but I truly do not believe that this poor woman could have ever expected that the bloody prick would act out his sick twisted fantasies or mental instabilities in THIS MANNER. I do want to say that its beautiful the way the members of the community attempted to rally around her & protect her & her child, please know that even though this tragedy occurred know that your efforts were not in vain & that your heart being in the right place, still implies that there is still some hope in this violent, & uncaring world. My family who has lost so many loved ones this year to disease & just plain age, will continue so pray for this little hero & her Mother.

This is so sad. Why did this guy do this? I would love to hear his reasoning. I have a 7 yr old daughter too and this is just too much.

@ Beantown

Do you get it??? Nobody here is interested in you or what you do. We are here praying for these people, and acknowledging what an angel this little girl really is. It’s a horrible tragedy, and situtation. Congrats to you, your education, and accomplishments, but sweety… your immaturity shines right through your comments. There are appropriate moments where you can act out, but part of becoming a MAN is to know when to give your respect when it’s due. It’ll come to you. Hopefully it’s soon.

For the people, pushing blame on the mother… We NEVER knew her. How can you speculate so quickly? It maybe something you see way too often, or experience yourself. I for one don’t know. This woman may or just lost her child. Don’t speculate… just sympathize. Who are you to put judgement on the mother? Would you have people say that about you?

May God be with them, their family and friends. As for the man who did this… I let his future rest on God’s hands.

that is a tragedy and a miracle all at the same time, God bless their family

Seeing that I live across the street and 5 doors down it would be hard to miss. I live here everyday and see these people. I know the life she leads cause we talk everyday waiting for the school bus. she did not go back to him. after 3 months of dating, she was through with it and did the appropriate things police report etc.

Some black women like her and me know when to leave it the hell alone. My ex hit me one time, and I shot his stupid ass in the ass and never served day because I did get the protection order. 13 years later you could not pay him to f*** with me.

In this day and age I don’t date have not dated in 13 yrs. I have 2 little girls and 2 boys, 1 disabled, we are not stupid women, just women who are trying to live life as best we can.

@ Ms. Collins

Yes I have made plenty of mistakes, but you know what none of my mistake involved a 7 year old little girl getting shot by momma’s dick supplier. None of my mistake involve me sacrafices the happines of the people around me cause I want “some company” Now you answer my questions, are you just as guilty as the mother.

People do know when something isn’t right. He was an ex-con with a violent history. What do you expect? People are what they do, not what they say and not what they think They are not even what they pretend to be for very long. THEY ARE WHAT THEY DO!

It is unforunate that a child had to suffer, but I, too, blame the mother. She is at fault here. I know that women everyday say that they didn’t know that he was that way, but they really did. They chose to ignore the signs. Violence, anger and aggression isn’t something that can be hidden for very long. The signs are always there.

I can show you any ten or eleven year old child and I can tell you whether he’s going to be a criminal or not. The signs are always there!!!

why can’t men just let go? when the relationship is over, it’s over. why must you kill someone just because they don’t want you? SICK!!!!!

@ true gem

I looked it up and I can not find anything about the little girl dying…THANK GOD cause that leaves me with my hope…not to say that you are wrong…where did you get your info…

Needless to say, this child is the epitome of the word “hero!” How many GROWN people would do what she did?

@ Get A Clue

I see what you are saying, I look at someone like Budda from I Love New York. He has a temper and he looks like the kind that can become abusive. But that still didn’t stop New York for falling for him and women all across the world. The momma needs to be held accountable and teach a lesson to mofo like her.

@arasiam… THOSE aren’t men !!!

THEY are Stupid-Ass, Crazy-Ass and Criminal-Minded Males ( Not Men )

@ ts

Someone on here said she passed away, but if you said she didn’t then I am so happy, I am about to pray for her right now.

The mugshot does not show what we all saw when he came around. He came correct, flowers, dinners, the works, pushing a lexus and everything. he speaks perfect english when he chooses to and come to our block party. never a hair out of place, treated her like a lady. then boom. if the cop who rides our block had not told her none of us would have ever known.

that’s when she decided to get him out of her life. he never hit or disrespected her until she wanted him to leave for good. go figure.

On google news i saw nothing of her death (and hope i won’t) but here’s a fund for her

Checks should be made out to the Alexis Goggins Hero Fund and sent to Campbell Elementary School in care of the Alexis Goggins Hero Fund, 2301 E Alexandrine St, Detroit, 48207. For information, call (313) 494-2052.

SMH…this is truely sad. Why must the babies always suffer from our mistakes?!

ELove, I stand corrected and you are right!

there has been no report here I can find, as we speak the family is getting in cars to go to the hospital

Everyone, I have checked most major outlets & none are reporting that she has passed away. Lets all continue to pray & hope that she pulls through. …sigh…

She’s ALIVE and getting better!

Keeping you in our prayers baby girl!

@Serious Sister… from your last comment IT seems that this person’s appearance and behavior made him seem like the “Perfect Man”

Well, there’s this thing called Intuition and Women suppose to possess this trait/skill nmoreso than men

Because when something seems to be PERFECT… Guess What??? IT NEVER IS !!!!!

Step YOUR game up Sistas because in this day and age YOU can lose your life or WORST… Someone INNOCENT can lose their life becuase of your carelessness

@ Serious Sister

I can’t tell you how many times my mother kicked out my brothers father. When he wasn’t around she was a totally different person. Just when I could take a deep breathe there he was BACK in the house warming up her bed. To this day I don’t have a relatioship with my mother, someone earlier asked me what mistakes I have made, I guess not having a relationship with my mother would be one, but she need to change if she want’s be back in her life.

@ a true gem

please re-read the post, I stated my ex hit me, you got that part twisted, ok, she was never hit i am looking in the girls house every day seeing her daughter play with my kids i have not a damn reason to lie i just tried to give readers background they could not get from the news.

@ Serious Sisiter

No offense but this has nothing to do with you. I understand you left, but to say this man never hit her once until he shot her is delusional and wrong on so many levels. A man who never laid a pink on her all of a sudden grabs a gun and shoots her and her daughter in cold blood…see how crazy and so left field that sounds hearing it from someone else. Okay you were at their house everyday you werent over there 24hr a day he could have smacked her when you left, hello did you see Madea’s Family Reunion, after she had the male stripper in the house she closed the door and he smacked the hell out of her. ISSMH at some people in this world.

@ true gem

you are so special in a good way in i felt your pain threw your words and that why i said what i said we cant judge her from our past experinces we cant say everyone is bad cause our mom let them back in! we should just pray! cause the devil always know what to say in do so you can let him in! and dont let your moms mistake hurt your relationship with her! true gem i lost my mom and the week before she died i told her what i didnt like about her and yeah it was only for a week but i saw a change and i dont regret anything i told her! you are a true gem forreal dont let that ruin your shine! cause thy should respect your mom and farther and the devil is winning that race! so just a thought okay!

@ A True Gem

I think you and Brother Marquis are on the same page when it comes to some of these delusional women when he tried to enlighten Twyn

Marquis de Sade

@ Twyn

Trust me the signs were probably there. She probably just chose to ignore them, hoping that he would change. Seems in this day in age, 90% of the times single mothers and thugs tend to go hand in hand

it seems to me that even though this tragedy happened we still have that blame the woman mentality. do you blame a rape victim for being raped? yes we do, when we do not rally around and speak truth then we just accept it. I will always remember the conversations that were put forth about my dear friend and her baby, I can’t imagine the lack of understanding that we as black women have for each other. see the thing is her brother lives in her house also thats why i know no blows were thrown, my granny baby sat for SeSe from time to time neither had a mark or scratch or tears.

Please those of you who do not have that blame the victim mentality, please pray for my friend and her baby, and our community so that all may heal, as I will pray for all of you.

To those who take a lesson from my posts, please pass it on, sometimes domestic violence from a man can jump out on any woman, and she is not always the blame.

Peace, be safe

a friend

its crazy as hell but that is true single moms do turn to thugs ! i cant disagree with that well atleast where i am from! but single moms and thugs does not always equal death! so it goes back to a killer is a killer and not all thugs are bad!

@ ms. collins

Not all thugs are bad!?! You mean that there are warm and fuzzy/cuddly thugs? I rest my case.

Denial – THY NAME IS WOMEN!

@ SERIOUS SISTER

YOU DONT HAVE TO COMMENT ANY MORE JUST LAYGH AT THE PEOPLE WHO DONT KNOW THE TRUTH BEHIND THE SENCES THEY THE SAME PEOPLE WHO WORSHIP IDLE GODS! LET ME NAME A FEW WHO HAVE FALLEN IN THAT CATERGORY! JAY-Z BEYONCE 2 PAC NELLY PEOPLE WHO NEVER HELD A CONVERSATION WITH THEM SAY THEY LOVE THESE PEOPLE AND FOLLOW WHAT THEY SAY IN DO! A CRIME SHAME! YOU CONTINUE TO PRAY AND BELIEVE THAT THINGS WOULD GET BETTER! CAUSE GOD IS THE DOCTOR IN THE SICK ROOM IN THIS CASE! AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP THE RIGHT MAN WOULD COME YOUR WAY AND GIVE YOU THE WORLD! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY ! OKAY! FROM A TRUE SISTER TO THE NEXT!

On another note. Women who let their ass get whipped around their kids are stupid, selfish tramps.

@ Richard

It’s been my experience that most women (sistas) in general, needs a little monster in their men. It’s just the nature of things, and as you said, that’s why good men don’t get married. Who needs that kind of drama in your life.

@ Richard & De Sade

Maybe you two arent lookning in the right places because I know plenty good men that have found good women and have gotten married to them. I’m just saying!

I co-sign with you Richard. Nice guys always finish last.

@ms. collins,

thank you for you wonderful words of support, they really help. it just hurts so bad to see major news and now some black sites make her out to be a welfare queen type person which she is not.

@ richard

please re read the story and my posts this happened at 2 in the morning pitch black dark, they never saw it coming.

What love that child has for her mother. My goodness. I hate saying it, but things like this make you want the death penalty. This is bewildering.

This is so sad. I pray to God that she survives this tragedy.

@ Beantown

I usually don’t respond to such idiotic comments but you should be ashamed of yourself. This is a child that this happened to..how can you even begin to make such vile statements? You must be heartless…too bad they don’t teach that wherever you study. Sad.

Beantowncrown, you don’t see that as disrespectful in a post like this? Who gives a damn if you’re first, and you’re not even first!

Anyway.

What a brave child. I hope she is doing okay.

Where the F*uck is the nite crew???

I will pray for that sister and her daughter. the punk that did that, he needs to be on a milk carton never to be found again.

The bottom line is there is a BABY fighting for her life at the hands of a grown @ss man! PERIOD!!!!!!! Some of these comments turn my f**king stomach! may that man rot in hell!

My prayers and love def goes out that baby and her mother.

Story is about three weeks old but regardless, the madness must stop. Peace be with mother, child and shooter.

that’s the truth. please read my posts, i am a friend of the family.

I just want to say that Alexis touched a special place in my heart. I read that she was in Special Education at school and very much loved by her teacher and classmates. I pray for her recovery and her life after this incident. She may be “special” but she knows the meaning of love…how many adults would throw themselves in front of gunfire?

I tried to hold my peace but BLACK WOMEN need to wake up. She needs to be held just as accountable as he does. She knew something was wrong with him and to put her child in that situation is a disgrace and irresponsible. When are we going to start thinking and take responsibility? If he/she is not treating you right then get some damn confidence and move on. Stop being so lonely and desperate. Is being with someone that damn important you have to disrespect yourSELF? Get over yourself, your ego, your pride, and make a choice that is befitting to not only yourself but other people. We are not in this world by ourselves, that is why everything affects/effects another person.

Are you serious? Why are people blaiming the mother if she took all the steps to sever the relationship? Let’s be real, if someone REALLY wants to kill you, it’s not that hard for them to do so. She could have moved to Alaska and he could have tracked her down and killed her. Then you idiot would say, But why didn’t she just move to another country entirely instead of just moving to another state. Wake up. Pray for her and her child.

WOW! This is such a tragedy. Lord, I ask that you bless this baby & her moms. I ask you Lord to bind the hand of the enemy so that they are never hurt by anything or anyone again. Mom, I hope you feel no guilt. You didn’t create this monster but, his creator will deal with him. God bless you & your baby!!!!

SeSe is the homeowner in the situation, and he is not Alexis daddy. Please read the posts I have submitted, Tillie’s family lives in the neighborhood too and are devastated, they knew he had a record, but never thought he would do something like this.

…..while defending her mother?

Seems like the mother should have covered down over her child.

People r applauding this? Damn shame that the mother chose this type of lowlife character to be in her and her child’s life in the first place.

Memchee, please read ALL the post from Serious Sister. She is close to the situation & will give you a much better insight as to how all this played out.

Angel Eyes. I am sorry luv but its not always as cut & dry as we would like it to believe. I have lived with a person that managed to hide from EVERYONE else in my family that she is psychotic. Trust me when I tell you those that are demented or mentally unstable can show their true colours or they might choose not to. It sounds to me like this man was very good at hiding his true nature & then when she decided the relationship was not good for her & her child, she took all the steps to severe ties completely & the anger of the situation made an already crazy man SNAP. Think about the serial killers of the past few decades. Trust me they lived in oblivion with no one else having so much as a clue as to what was going on or simply not intelligent enough to be able to put all the pieces of the puzzle together. But this woman, she did everything according to the system & still (like countless other women) she nearly lost her life & now the life of this precious little girl is hanging in the balance.

So your telling a SEVEN YEAR OLD CHILD, tried to save her mom?!? Or did the mom use her as a shield? Even more so, WHAT kind of MOTHER would allow THIER CHILD to do THAT? Sound screwy to me…

I hope that she will be OK. Please let her get well soon! I don’t know what else to say. this is horrible…

This little girl is in Heaven with God. She doesn’t have to suffer anymore. Plus, I am sure that she received a golden crown on her head because she risked her own life to save her mother. When she went to Heaven, I am sure that God told her, “Well done thy good and faithful little servant.”

She was so cute.

Pray for Peace. And Please help put an end to domestic violence.

May she rest in peace ;(

She is so fat! I saw her pictures on http://www.richcupids.com She is so popular there!

SHE IS SAFE IN HEAVEN WE ARE IN HELL WITH ALL THE DEMONS

This story was on CNN like 2 weeks ago, but they reported that the little girl died…

@ beantowncrown

you do realize that 33 g’s a year aint really sh*t. Just thought you should know that with your 3.4 GPA and all.

The mother knew that he was a thug and continued to mess with dude. She probably did use the child as a shield… lemme find out the child was Special Ed. The guy and the mother ar to blame… let’s hear his side too, then fry him!

We have to be careful with the kinds of people we let into OUR CHILDRENS lives.

my prayers are with this family also this is so sad. may god be with us

Twyn, you’re in Kentucky? What part? I’m in Louisville.

i have no comment. that whole situation brings tears to my eyes. its the end of time…we better get right wit god!

Prayers to the family!!!

God bless that little angel for wanting to save her mommy. I pray she pulls through this. There is no need to jump on the mother because she did realize there was something wrong with this man and did what she had to do to get him away from her and her daughter. I hope his sorry evil ass frys for this. What the hell is going on with these men killing women who don’t want them for obvious reasons? Rejection has taken on a whole new meaning. I pray for the mother and her “ANGEL”.

Many Many Blessings to this mother and baby(little girl) my heart and prayers go out to them…Thank GOD for saving this mothers precious gift. I pray that soon they will be healed and hopes for a much better life for them both. “GOD BLESS”. I also hope & pray that this insane person that did this horrible thing to them gets so much needed help.

that’s horrible.. may god help her to fully recover from this. That little girl is an angel!!! May the shooter be punished in every way.

What a tragedy! I pray both the mother and daughter can fully recover (emotionally, mentally, and physically) from what this monster did.

@Laleezie

6 MONTHS AINT EVEN ENOUGH TO TRULY KNOW AN INDIVIDUAL!

Damn I was going to say the same exact thing. But it should be repeated.

@A True Gem

You have some personal stuff to work out and work on.

*off topic

@yo

I wasnt trying to trump you.

“fully recover from this.” I hadnt read yours. But I see we share the same sentiment.

Don’t have time to review this post but from the few comments I read I’d like to respond…

1)A True Gem: Thanks girl good to know women with COMMON SENSE are left in this world! sounds like you didn’t let your upbringing dictate or affect your adult hood.

2)Ms. Collins & Redd: Yall are some real assholes! I HOPE you two are NOT mothers! Have any of you heard of the “WAIT, STUDY & SEE” rule?….SINGLE mother’s should NOT bring men around their kids unless this man is SERIOUS about COMMITMENT with HER!

My mom had boyfriends but me & my brother NEVER saw them until she met the RIGHT man & only after 5YEARS of steady extreme dating did she allow him to meet US by that time she studied HIM & he bacame her HUSBAND 2 months later. He is a fabulous man & we are blessed to have him as our dad!!

You broads are too desperate & hungry for male attention {which is fine if you’re grown} but don’t make this nucca your kids daddy!!! Study & watch his movements then make your decision geez women think!!!

Plus, this retard most certainly knew this dude had a proclivity towards violence…he was a JAIL BIRD after all. No dice can’t take a chance on an ex con when it comes to MY kid. If it’s just me that’s one thing but when I have a kid all bets are off!

Now say what ever you want I could care less these are my views & yall can’t change them.

Here’s one for the road:

A mother & child were found stabbed to death here in the Bronx; the ex-boyfirend did it….now how much yall want to bet he had a jail record?????

side note: neighbors say this couple fought like cats & dogs in front of the child all the time {who is not his}

Mothers you need to make better choices. Chances you took men you messed with when you were single YOU CAN’T DO after you have kids.

Point Blank!!!

Bronx mom and daughter found slain

BY ETHAN ROUEN AND TINA MOORE

DAILY NEWS WRITERS

Wednesday, December 19th 2007, 4:00 AM

The scene outside a Furman Ave. apartment building in the Bronx, where a single mom and her six-year-old daughter were found stabbed to death on Tuesday.

Cops found a mother and her 6-year-old daughter stabbed to death in their Bronx apartment Tuesday after the girl’s worried grandmother called 911, a police source and relatives said.

“I’m devastated – when I think – they killed my granddaughter,” Shirley Hilliard Brown, 60, told the Daily News. “I cannot imagine what she went through.”

She said cops found her daughter, Yolande Beckford, 24, and her granddaughter, Monique, dead in the apartment. Police said there were no signs of forced entry at the Furman Ave. building in Wakefield.

The police source said cops were questioning Beckford’s boyfriend, a man Hilliard Brown said she knew only as “Prince.” She said the two recently had a falling out.

“She told him to go to his girlfriend and leave her alone,” Hilliard Brown said. “I don’t know if he got mad and did something to her.”

When she initially called the cops on Monday, Hilliard Brown said she feared Monique and her daughter, a nurse practitioner at a White Plains hospital, had died from carbon monoxide poisoning because she hadn’t heard from them. It was unclear if cops went to the home on Monday.

Hilliard Brown said she called police again Tuesday after Monique’s school – Public School 103 – called her to ask why the child was absent.

“Every time I come she hugs me and says, ‘Grandma, I love you. Do you love me?’” Brown recalled.

Neighbors and friends became worried Monday afternoon because they hadn’t seen the mom and daughter for almost a day.

“We kept calling and calling and calling,” neighbor Simsky Harrison, 23, said. “We banged on the door and kicked it.”

It wasn’t until Tuesday that cops found the bodies. Police had been called again because Hilliard Brown’s sister found the windows open in the back of the apartment.

“She started screaming, ‘Somebody went in there and killed everyone,’” Hilliard Brown said.

Harrison said friends who had been looking for the two were in the building hallway when police opened the apartment door. “That’s when my friend saw the little girl on the floor with her head in a pool of blood,” Harrison said.

Residents described Beckford, who was born in Jamaica and moved to the U.S. with her family at 13, as a “hardworking single mother.”

“It’s horrible – a young woman dead and a child dead,” the building landlord, Paul Gjokaj, 33, said. “It’s tragic. It’s senseless.”

Both broads are retards that jeopardized both their lives & the lives of their children by maintaining relations with men who were obviously un-stable!

Point Blank!!!!

I’m sorry but I have to agree with alot of people on here. Her mother is to blame for this…period. That dude was an ex-con. You…do..not..bring..ex..cons around your kids…end of story. You have to be careful about who you bring around kids and little girls especially. When you make the decision or not to have a kid then you have to think about them first. If that means you don’t have man for a long time..then that is just what it means. I’m sorry but I was raised by a single mother and now at 28 I really respect her for not bringing around a bunch of men. She is still single now but I didn’t have a different uncle every week and noone took at advantage of me or hurt me and she set a living example for me not having to have a bunch of men around. When you do decide that having a man takes priority over your child then anything….anything can happen to your child so don’t get surprised when it does.

Pull Through Lil Mama..I’M prayiing for you!

Love You

@Serious Sister

Thay girl, her mother, and your whole neighborhood are in my prayers.

And the smartest, most vigilant people STILL get victimized! ANYONE can be a victim and that doesn’t mean they deserve it any way. The person I blame is that SICK MAN who did this. He is the PERPETRATOR and even my attempts to be a good Christian and pray for his soul are failing right now. May God have mercy on all affected by this tragedy.

Beantown,a peckerwood like you needs to fall back and find out why so many mad lil’ white boys are shootin’ em up in the schools.

@ Love Him

Yes the best laid plans….and all that is true but the lord say’s he’ll help those who help themselves- right?

Women need to be prudent in their search for mates especially when they have youngins at home.

I am glad this story is getting the publicity it deserves. This child is truly a hero. I hope people will help this amazing little girl and her family. I will continue to pray for them. As far as the monster who did it, I will leave that up to his maker.

This is such a horrible thing for someone to have done this to a child and her mother. I have them in my prayers!!!

Back to the subject at hand….@My House,

Did you not read my entire post? I DID SAY MY HEART BREAKS but if you lived where I grew up these type of stories are not anything new. You become numb after while & begin to wonder what makes some women tick! Why keep a no good man in your home?!

I’ll divulge a story…

A few years back my aunt who was living with her man became the target of violence one night. For saftey she ran across the courtyard to her neighbors apt. This neighbor had always warned her to leave this man alone but like a knucklehead my aunt kept taking him back into her home all while seeing other men. Well this particular violent night “her man” followed auntie to the neighbor’s home, kicked in the door shot the neighbor’s 18 yr old son in the neck & shot the neighbor in the chest he then yanked my aunt into the street & made her watch him as he shot himself in the temple. Everyone in that house died as a result of my aunts stupidity!!! I saw firsthand what her lack of judgement did to that poor womans family. What Right Did She Have Running to THAT WOMAN & placing HER & HER SON in harms way? My ignorant aunt knew the dude was 15 months outta jail & he was a violent personality!

You can’t tell me you lay up with a man almost every night & don’t know he got violent tendancies come off it!!!

He needs to go jail for the rest of his life. Why couldn’t he just leave the woman alone instead of trying to kill her and almost killing her child? Mofos are just sick.

DAMN SHAME…G

“And a child shall lead them….”

What an utterly amazing little soul to put herself in harm’s way to protect her mother. I swear the children are putting many of us so called grown ups to shame We really need to learn from them…

May God bless, protect and keep this amazing little girl, her mother and all those affected by this event. I hope that the man responsible learns something from this; that violence just is not the way…

Got to agree with I Think. This is not something that only black people need to wake up from and ponder; this whole escalation of violence thing in the world is one for the entire human race to work on. Sadly.

What the hell is going on? I do not know the particulars of this case, but I do know if a man puts his hands on you and you don’t put him in jail, you risk losing your life. If you know a man has beaten his past girfriends, why even take the chance. Do your homework.

EXCUSE ME “MY HOUSE”, WHAT THE BLACK COMMUNITY NEEDS TO DO IS ACKNOWLEDGE THAT TOO MAN OF OUR WOMEN STAY IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS, PUTTING THEMSELVES AND THEIR CHILDREN IN HARMS WAY. OFFERING PRAYERS SHOULD AND WILL BE DONE, HOWEVER, REALIZING A SAD TRUTH IS JUST AS IMPORTANT! WHAT WE NEED TO DO IS START PLACING THESE MEN WHO BEAT AND TERRORIZE WOMEN IN JAIL AND STOP GLAMORIZING THIS IDIOTIC “THUG APPEAL”. WOMEN ALSO MUST OWN UP IN THIS AND STOP PLACING MEN BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN!!! SO BEFORE YOU BASH US AS A WHOLE, KNOW THAT OUR RESPONSIBILITY MUST BE BOTH PART AND PARCEL, ADDRESSING THE ISSUE AS A WHOLE.