Tuesday, December 18th, 2007
Save the Babies
Posted by Bossip Staff
A 7-year old girl fights for her life after being shot 6 times while protecting her mother from gunfire. Alexis Goggins, was hit while Calvin Tillie, 29, attempted to gun down her mother Selietha Parker, 30 inside of her car. Tillie was a former boyfriend of Parker. Goggins suffered from gunshot wounds to the eye, left temple, chin, cheek, chest and right arm.
Black people wake up. Another innocent baby was harmed due to some wild man’s antics. Let’s pray that this little girl pulls through.
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May God Bless this mother and baby! Sick world we living in!
FIRSTY *****S AND BITCCHES HA HA
That is sooo sad, she is in my prayers.
That’s a damn shame. I hope they strap that *****in niggra to the extra krispy chair.
***** you redd u took my 1st (crying like the baby did when she got shot) *conyemplating suicide*
FIRST BETCHES!
@Beantowncrown
What the ***** is wrong with you? you *****ing punk!
Hope and pray that lil girl and mother pull through ok.. sick, sick world we live in.
i hope she makes, we need to be mor ecareful who we bring around our children, its not worth it just to say “i have a man” if he is beatin on u or violent around ur kids
This is a sad…….sad…….situation. As a mother, I think about how she feels to have trusted him at one point and now this. I pray that she stays strong for her daughter and encourage her that GOD is still in control, he doesn’t make any mistakes. And this tragic event will be a testimony to other single women with young children. “They are all we got”
@ Beantowncrown, Great job, make your daddy(satan) proud. How about posting some more lowness for extra credit?
Poor baby, trying to defend her mother! She’ll be in my prayers….
You’s a stupid ***** Beantowncrown! and theirs nothing funny about a little baby being shot! Get a life fool and that 1st ***** is played out!!!!!! Grow up!
OMG…when will ppl learn to stop trying to solve their problems with violence. I mean damn.
This precious child and her mom live down the street from my grand parents, 5 doors, the whole neighborhood is in shock, this was the second time in less than a year that a young mom and child were hurt. Last time a mom, daughter and neice were burned to death cause some wanna be drug dude firebombed the wrong house. Please pray for them, the city is setting up donation information as we speak.
By the way, she made it out of her 3rd surgery so far and is doing ok.
@ Beantowncrown, that was very tasteless. Go play in traffic would ya?
@ Beantowncrown
Never though i see the day when someone would actually make Unkle Kracka look decent. You need to gain a little perspective and know when not to joke or make light of such a tragic event.
@ Beantowncrown,(crying like the baby did when she got shot)
Your a sick person to even say some evil ***** like that.
You pray you take that sick joke back, you have no cl***** at all.
@ Serious Sister
Please keep us posted on that donation info ok? ** hoping that little girl pulls thru**
*I pary you take it back
this is so sad…i pray for the poor little girl and her family.
makes you wonder though, what the hell did the mom do to make him try to shoot her and if it wasn’t a “reason” why would she bring someone like that around her child?
so sad. not to knock anyone, but i am trying my darndest not to be a baby momma and to bring children in this world where they don’t have to worry about things such as that an can just enjoy being a child…
so sad…sick sick world…
This child jumped in front of her mom yelling ” don’t you hurt my mommy” her mom got hit twice once in the head and once in the chest, Alexis was hit 6 times eye, cheek, chin. chest, arm. After shooting her, he stomped her up under the steering wheel of the car they were in, which is where the cops got him, he was trying to kill this baby!
I hope Bubba got something good for his soul, in prisons here, child killers don’t last long..
*I pary you take it back
try again just one more time LOL
This is truly a horrible story. I’m actually looking for information on where I can make a donation to the family.
However, I don’t think Bossip needed to say “Black people wake up” Unfortunately too many bad things are happening to children of ALL races. It is not just a black thing. Stop trying to make Black people feel bad for things they have no control over.
Beantown..good news. You’ve been cleared for suicide. Please proceed. Your family must be real proud of your dumb *****. Idiot.
OMG…my heart goes out to the child and mother. That child is an angel, attempting to be a hero.
Just read Sister’s note regards to him intentionally hurting the baby…hope he rots in hell. You know, when he goes to prison they’re whoppin’ his *****.
Craziest thing about this girl is that she had a stroke as a baby, couldn’t speak, and didn’t appear to be coherent of the world around her. God obviously used her to save her mom’s life. God bless her.
@ Serious Sister
I hope that sicko gets all he deserves… we had a situation like that here in KY. a little girl was shot 5 times and was forced to watch her mother die before she was shot
I MOST DEFINATELY BLAME THE MOTHER! SHE KNEW WHAT KIND OF LOW LIFE PROBABLY DRUG DEALING S***** SHE WAS LAYING WITH!
AND TO BRING THIS KIND OF S***** AROUND HER CHILD??? PROBABLY HAD THIS POOR DEFENSELESS GIRL CALLING HIM “DADDY” UGH! STUFF LIKE THIS MAKES ME MAD!!!!
^ she may not have known or may not have started off that way. People tend to change. Let’s not speculate
Mothers NEED to be more careful who you choose to get involved with AND bring around your child… This CLOWN was an ex-con, I don’t know his criminal past but He’s been locked up before… Truly Sad
Will keep everyone up to date. Her mom met him, he was nice, never told her his history of domestic violence. She discovered he just was not the man for her, he had been stalking her for 3 months, day and night. She got afraid and called a girlfriend here on the block to get her and the baby out of there cause he was standing on the side of her house for like 5 hours and wouldn’t leave. She called the police, they ran him off, but when she went to get into the car with the baby, he jumped in the other door with a gun and forced them to drive around until they convinced him the needed gas. They stopped at the station and the girlfriend went in to pay and told store owner to call 911, she went slow as she could so police could get there. Before she could get to the car, the fool shot the mom 1 time, Alexis jumped from the back to the front seat in front of her mom and yelled ” don’t you hurt my mommy!” dude lost it and hit Alexis 6 times, hit her mom in the side of the head, then dragged baby under the steering wheel and tried to stomp her up under the dashboard which is where they were when police arrived and got him.
BOSSIP YOU ARE SO LATE WITH THIS NEWS!!! IF YOU REALLY CARED ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE YOU WOULD HAVE PRINTED THIS INFORMATION WHEN IT FIRST HAPPENED….SO KNOW THAT IT IS ON NATIONAL NEWS YOU WANT TO SAY SOMETHING???? WELL I GUESS LIKE THEY SAY BETTER SOON THAN NEVER
Mothers NEED to be more careful who you choose to get involved with AND bring around your child
cosign
this is very sad…and anyone on here talking greasy isn’t worth responding to.
bullsh^t for real, just ignore the donkey noises.
I CANT BELIEVE YOU ALL ARE HOLLERING ABOUT FIRST IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF SUCH A HORRIBLE EVENT! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU ALL???? COMMENT ON THE ACTUAL ARTICLE, NOT MAKING FIRST! RIDICULOUS. YOU CAN DONATE TO THIS CHILD’S FUND BY MAIL, HERE IS THE ADDRESS:
MAKE CHECKS PAYABLE TO :THE ALEXIS GOGGINS HERO FUND
CAMPBELL ELEMENTARY
C/O ALEXIS GOGGINS HERO FUND
2301 E ALEANDRINE ST
DETROIT, MI 48207
I’m sure there are reasons to blame the mother, BUT, people need to realize that spousal abuse/murder is a serious…and much more complicated then simple words or just leaving. If that were the case, we would not have so many cases floating around.
oh my. this is so horrible.
& i hope that man goes straight to Hell b/c neither that little innocent baby girl nor her mother did anything to deserve this. imagine how many times (& for how long) he had to have been shooting at her for her body to come in contact with SIX BULLETS.
that sick mother*****er knew exactly what he was doing shooting that girl. he’s the woman’s ex and just because he’s not with the woman anymore, he wants to kill her???? & he’s over her shooting at the innocent child! you would think he would stop after 1 bullet. but 6? smh. God’s gonna get you Calvin Tillie. you’re a sick *****.
God Bless Alexis Goggins…i’ll keep both her & her mother in prayers.
thanks Nicole for the info. Truly sad situation
@ Twyn
Trust me the signs were probably there. She probably just chose to ignore them, hoping that he would change. Seems in this day in age, 90% of the times single mothers and thugs tend to go hand in hand.
@AOKI LEE
It’s wrong for you to just judge this mother like that! Just because this man committed such a stupid act doesn’t mean the mother should have been pre warned that he was a psycho. He could have just flipped out cause she no longer wanted to be with him. I’m almost certain that if she thought for one min he would try to kill her and her little girl she never would have given this piece of ***** the time of day!!
For once I actually AGREE with Unkle Kracka. That is some real bull*****, but honestly that little girl is like an angel from God here for a purpose.
I hope she recovers, thats a miracle of a child.
THE SAD THINGS IS, HORRIBLE EVENTS SUCH AS GO ON DAILY ALL ACROSS THE WORLD BUT ONLY FEW ARE MENTIONED! AS A SANE PERSON I GUESS I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE DO THESE HORRIBLE THINGS WITHOUT REMORSE!
Marquis de Sade
True the signs were probably there, maybe she did not choose to ignore them but too afraid or insecure to do anything.
Actually according to neighbors and family members her on the block right now, she started to suspect there was more to him than he admitted, she told him that she wanted to leave it alone, the sorry punk just would not let it go. Neighbors have helped to run him off before.
Psychotic a**holes are hard to spot even when you marry them you never know what will make another snap.
SeSe is an excellent mother, that child is her entire world the dad left cause he couldn’t handle her diabilities, but her mom is great.
Its really sad that this is the first dude she dated since Alexis’ dad left.
@ soul cry
I’m sure there are reasons to blame the mother, BUT, people need to realize that spousal abuse/murder is a serious…and much more complicated then simple words or just leaving. If that were the case, we would not have so many cases floating around.
^^^ It the D-I-C-K, somebody had to say it!! ISSMH God Bless that little angle. I bet that that greasy ***** goes back to that man to. Some women can’t be alone to save their life, see what happens that baby got shot up 6 mf times, cause mamma want some *****. Get mad at me if you want to. I blame the mother and that *****, fry his *****!
***Again God Bless that 7yr old little girl.***
@ Elove and Aoki Lee, y’all are right. Mothers need to carefully evaluate who they allow around their babies. I know everyone “wants a man”, but to let an ex-con who was clearly violent (and you KNOW she had a clue before this happened) around your children is irresponsible. She can be with whatever s*****bag she wants, but she needs to think of her kids first. I pray the baby recovers and that crazy *****er becomes Bubba’s ***** in prison for the rest of his sorry life.
@ AOKI LEE
I CANT BELIVE YOU WOULD BLAMR HER FOR HIS SICK ***** ACT DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT IF SHE KNEW SHE WOULD ALLOW IT! DONT BE SUCH A INCONSIDERATE PERSON! YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT A HUMAN BEING IS CAPIBABLE OF! YOU SHOULD TRUST NO MAN PERIOD! AND I HEARD SHE LEFT HIS ***** THAT IS WHY HE SHOT HER! AND THE POLICE CAUGHT HIM ON THE SCENE SO THAT LET YOU KNOW THE ***** ***** NIGGGA WAS CRAZY AS HELL! GOD BLESS THEM COMPLETLY!
and I disagree with single mothers and thugs comment that is a choice on the type of man you deal with.
@A Tru Gem
I can’t be mad at you because you are speaking with p*****ion, and p*****ion ignites results.
But that being, maybe she found out ***** and was trying to eliminate him from her life…as a result, he tried to take her out. This happens why too much, which is why some women don’t leave. Either I have you or no one else will…age old story.
Why is everyone getting on Aoike Lee, she is telling the truth, I grew up around it, my mothers was one of them women too who wouldn’t leave alought she knew she should, she didn’t want to be alone. Some ***** is not worth sacrafices you children’s happiness.
Women don’t want to leave. For instance women were complaining that Qunicy shouldn’t except gifts from Diddy cause he treat his momma wrong, that is Kim’s fault not Qunicy, if Kim wants to get treated netter than she needs to leave.. God bless that little angle.
@ A True Gem, when her mother realized he was not right she took all the steps she was supposed to. she reported it, got a personal protection order, notified friends, neighbors, Alexis school, the works.
SeSe is not a desperate chick needing a d-i-c-k, she has been alone raising Alexis from birth.
This is the first man in her life since her daughter was born.
I have personally seen dude in his suit and what not, if you did not know about this story, you would never suspect he is crazy as hell.
Besides, his bail is over a million $$ he ain’t coming back and I know she would not do it anyway.
My condolences to that baby, such a brave person she is.
I’m a fan of “googling” people as soon as I get that last name…………………U never know.
I looked up pedophiles and rapists in my proximity and some will fool U. They don’t have a certain look that’s why I go str8 to the court papers.
Reading is fundamental.
yall *****s need to shut up, i just got my grdes and i got a 3.4 GPA what yall *****s doin *****, im 21 and makin 33 Gs a yea holla @ me
This truly sad may GOD bless that babygirl.
@ a true gem
You sound stupid as hell! Go play in traffic already, *****ody talking about ***** that has nothing to do with anything! Like it’s been said on previous post she LEFT him and that’s why he shot her and her daughter. I cant stand stupid ***** hoes like you always talkin with nothing to say!!!! Damn
Also to all the women saying she should have knew! That’s not always the case. He could have just been loony and never really showed the signs!!!!
Sorry news, but the little girl did p***** away
wild man? you mean her baby daddy?
Terrible, just terrible. What kind of a man pulls the trigger AFTER he sees the baby jump in front of her momma? Who would do that? That nucca needs to be tortured Abu Ghraib style then shot six times and left to rot!!!!!!
My prayers are with this precious little girl.
@ Serious Sister
I grew up around it, and this story of her wanting to leave him is OLD. You don’t get it. Look at Amy Whinhouse there are reports that her husband hit her. This woman is down at the jail to visit him and is eargely awaiting his return from jail so they can shack up agian. Life is not cookie cutter so don’t make the momma the victim she is part of the problem. She like the rest Leave and then Go back, Leave and then Go back. Do you understand how that little girl must have felt. While her mother was getting shot she went and stood in front of her and without hesitation he shot that baby 6 times. I put some money on it the momma is going back to him.
Mahogany
My condolences to that baby, such a brave person she is.
I’m a fan of “googling” people as soon as I get that last name…………………U never know.
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I am a big believer in googling. Even with job applicants. Lawd, some of the stuff people have on the net. Not cute.
But back on topic, this story is a real heartbreaker. At at Christmastime, no less. Awful.
@Beantowncrown
You sound retarded Beantowncrwon, check your grammer 3.4 GPA??
@Serious Sister said… “when her mother realized he was not right she took all the steps she was supposed to. she reported it, got a personal protection order, notified friends, neighbors, Alexis school, the works.”
And that didn’t STOP anything… People it’s called Due Diligence (Thorough Investigation)
If she waited that long then She should’ve waited a little longer after she has had him checked out. We are in the Information Age now… There is NOTHING you can’t find out about somebody via the internaet or telephone service
***** there are single women going out everyday meeting jerks and coming up Missing and then later found DEAD Every *****ing Day… These women need to get a clue about their life as well as their child’s life… I APOLOGIZE if I sound insensitive
SHE A *****IN RYDER!! TOO BAD SHE WAS SO *****IN YOUNG-SHE STILL RYDIN THOUGH. ALLAHU AKBAR
@ Redd
u stay talkin ***** , what u do for a livin stupid!
@ tyyellow
Sorry news, but the little girl did p***** away
^^I was having a good day, until this story, I grew up around domestic violence. And this story just brings back supressed memories. This won’t be a wakeup call, just like Black news here today gone tomorrow and back to the self-destructive behavior. Next week we will hear an even wilder story!
Tonite before I go to bed I will pray for that little Angle.
@ elove
Don’t apologize you have nothing to be sorry for. I grew up around a step daddy who was abusive. The truth needs to be exposed. That is what is wrong with the black community we don’t want to admit the truth about homosexuality, poverty and single mothers and bad boyfriends…that is why ***** like this happens!
It seems like 911 is also to blame for the girl getting shot. They didn’t take Ms. Ford’s TWO calls seriously!
@ Beantowncrown
A livin? What the ***** does that have to with this little girl. Are you purposely trying to push buttons? This is a real tragedy and you’re bragging about your gpa? *****s like you need to castrated so you don’t polute society with your ***** seed.
@Beantowncrown
I know that’s why you like my ***** talking *****! Im a paralegal stupid!
When I read this a few days ago, there was such a sadness that came over me. I just sat for a few moments & cried. I am by no means blaming this woman for what happened to her. Having lived with a psychotic Aunt for several years (who was the same way when I was younger but hid it from the rest of the family quite well) you never can really know a person if they don’t want you to. That being said, LADIES we have to be EXTREMELY careful whom we allow into our lives & for those of us with children AROUND OUR CHILDREN!!! I am sure there were some signs but I truly do not believe that this poor woman could have ever expected that the ***** ***** would act out his sick twisted fantasies or mental instabilities in THIS MANNER. I do want to say that its beautiful the way the members of the community attempted to rally around her & protect her & her child, please know that even though this tragedy occurred know that your efforts were not in vain & that your heart being in the right place, still implies that there is still some hope in this violent, & uncaring world. My family who has lost so many loved ones this year to disease & just plain age, will continue so pray for this little hero & her Mother.
This is so sad. Why did this guy do this? I would love to hear his reasoning. I have a 7 yr old daughter too and this is just too much.
@ KibaJean
I hear what you saying, but 911 has heard this My boyfriend is beating my ***** ***** before, it gets tiring after a while. But I am worried about the little GIRL ONLY I was told she p***** away but I want to hear it for myself.
@ Beantown
Do you get it??? *****ody here is interested in you or what you do. We are here praying for these people, and acknowledging what an angel this little girl really is. It’s a horrible tragedy, and situtation. Congrats to you, your education, and accomplishments, but sweety… your immaturity shines right through your comments. There are appropriate moments where you can act out, but part of becoming a MAN is to know when to give your respect when it’s due. It’ll come to you. Hopefully it’s soon.
For the people, pushing blame on the mother… We NEVER knew her. How can you speculate so quickly? It maybe something you see way too often, or experience yourself. I for one don’t know. This woman may or just lost her child. Don’t speculate… just sympathize. Who are you to put judgement on the mother? Would you have people say that about you?
May God be with them, their family and friends. As for the man who did this… I let his future rest on God’s hands.
that is a tragedy and a miracle all at the same time, God bless their family
Seeing that I live across the street and 5 doors down it would be hard to miss. I live here everyday and see these people. I know the life she leads cause we talk everyday waiting for the school bus. she did not go back to him. after 3 months of dating, she was through with it and did the appropriate things police report etc.
Some black women like her and me know when to leave it the hell alone. My ex hit me one time, and I shot his stupid ***** in the ***** and never served day because I did get the protection order. 13 years later you could not pay him to f*** with me.
In this day and age I don’t date have not dated in 13 yrs. I have 2 little girls and 2 boys, 1 disabled, we are not stupid women, just women who are trying to live life as best we can.
@ A TRUE GEM
YOU SAY YOU GREW UP AROUND IT WHICH IS PROOF IT HAS BEEN HAPPENEING FOR YEARS BUT CHOICES ARE JUST THAT CHOICES! NOW SHE AINT WRONG SHE FOUND OUT AND TRIED TO PREVENT IT! THOSE AND SORRY TO BE BLUNT AND YOUR MOM AND EVERYBODY ELSE WHO WENT THREW IT INCLUDING MY MOM STAYED WITH THEM THATS HOW IT GOT OUT OF HAND TO THE POINT WE WITTNESSED IT! BUT DONT JUDGE HER JUST CAUSE OF THE WORLDS PAST MISTAKES! ***** HAPPEN THAT WE NEVER WANT TO HAPPEN! AND I WANT YOU TO ANSWER THIS ONE TO YOUR SELF HAVE YOU EVER DONE SOMETHING THAT YOU REGRET TODAY? DONT ANSWER UNTIL YOU THOUGHT ABOUT IT FULLY!
The mother should ROTT why should the little girl not enjoy life since she p*****ed away and fat big body stinky ***** goes on to live her life in another abusive relationship.
@ Ms. Collins
Yes I have made plenty of mistakes, but you know what none of my mistake involved a 7 year old little girl getting shot by momma’s ***** supplier. None of my mistake involve me sacrafices the happines of the people around me cause I want “some company” Now you answer my questions, are you just as guilty as the mother.
People do know when something isn’t right. He was an ex-con with a violent history. What do you expect? People are what they do, not what they say and not what they think They are not even what they pretend to be for very long. THEY ARE WHAT THEY DO!
It is unforunate that a child had to suffer, but I, too, blame the mother. She is at fault here. I know that women everyday say that they didn’t know that he was that way, but they really did. They chose to ignore the signs. Violence, anger and aggression isn’t something that can be hidden for very long. The signs are always there.
I can show you any ten or eleven year old child and I can tell you whether he’s going to be a criminal or not. The signs are always there!!!
why can’t men just let go? when the relationship is over, it’s over. why must you kill someone just because they don’t want you? SICK!!!!!
@ true gem
I looked it up and I can not find anything about the little girl dying…THANK GOD cause that leaves me with my hope…not to say that you are wrong…where did you get your info…
Needless to say, this child is the epitome of the word “hero!” How many GROWN people would do what she did?
@ Get A Clue
I see what you are saying, I look at someone like Budda from I Love New York. He has a temper and he looks like the kind that can become abusive. But that still didn’t stop New York for falling for him and women all across the world. The momma needs to be held accountable and teach a lesson to ***** like her.
@arasiam… THOSE aren’t men !!!
THEY are Stupid-*****, Crazy-***** and Criminal-Minded Males ( Not Men )
@ ts
Someone on here said she p*****ed away, but if you said she didn’t then I am so happy, I am about to pray for her right now.
The mugshot does not show what we all saw when he came around. He came correct, flowers, dinners, the works, pushing a lexus and everything. he speaks perfect english when he chooses to and come to our block party. never a hair out of place, treated her like a lady. then boom. if the cop who rides our block had not told her none of us would have ever known.
that’s when she decided to get him out of her life. he never hit or disrespected her until she wanted him to leave for good. go figure.
On google news i saw nothing of her death (and hope i won’t) but here’s a fund for her
Checks should be made out to the Alexis Goggins Hero Fund and sent to Campbell Elementary School in care of the Alexis Goggins Hero Fund, 2301 E Alexandrine St, Detroit, 48207. For information, call (313) 494-2052.
SMH…this is truely sad. Why must the babies always suffer from our mistakes?!
ELove, I stand corrected and you are right!
there has been no report here I can find, as we speak the family is getting in cars to go to the hospital
Everyone, I have checked most major outlets & none are reporting that she has p*****ed away. Lets all continue to pray & hope that she pulls through. …sigh…
@ Serious Sister
The mugshot does not show what we all saw when he came around. He came correct, flowers, dinners, the works, pushing a lexus and everything. he speaks perfect english when he chooses to and come to our block party. never a hair out of place, treated her like a lady. then boom. if the cop who rides our block had not told her none of us would have ever known.
that’s when she decided to get him out of her life. he never hit or disrespected her until she wanted him to leave for good. go figure.
^^^^
Are you serious, you are making excuses, he never hit her, that is what all women who are in abusive relationship say. They always minimize the abuse because they already know that if people found out then people would start preaching and they aren’t trying to hear the shyt. Something happened way before this happened and at this point the mother needs to be honest with herself and other people, casue she has a 7yr old daughter who is fighting for her life. At this point she need to be a billboard for women who are in her situation and with her faking it is just making ***** worse…I can’t believe you Oh he only hit her once….okay! I guess child rapist only rape one, murderers only murder once yeah right!
She’s ALIVE and getting better!
Keeping you in our prayers baby girl!
@Serious Sister… from your last comment IT seems that this person’s appearance and behavior made him seem like the “Perfect Man”
Well, there’s this thing called Intuition and Women suppose to possess this trait/skill nmoreso than men
Because when something seems to be PERFECT… Guess What??? IT NEVER IS !!!!!
Step YOUR game up Sistas because in this day and age YOU can lose your life or WORST… Someone INNOCENT can lose their life becuase of your carelessness
@ Serious Sister
I can’t tell you how many times my mother kicked out my brothers father. When he wasn’t around she was a totally different person. Just when I could take a deep breathe there he was BACK in the house warming up her bed. To this day I don’t have a relatioship with my mother, someone earlier asked me what mistakes I have made, I guess not having a relationship with my mother would be one, but she need to change if she want’s be back in her life.
@ a true gem
please re-read the post, I stated my ex hit me, you got that part twisted, ok, she was never hit i am looking in the girls house every day seeing her daughter play with my kids i have not a damn reason to lie i just tried to give readers background they could not get from the news.
BLACK MEN ARE SO QUICK TO CALL WHITE MEN “DEVILS”!ARE YOU KIDDING ME?BLACK MEN SEEM TO BE THE DAMN DEVILS!I NEVER HAD TO WATCH MY BACK AROUND A WHITE PERSON,SO WHY IS IT THAT WHEN I P***** A BLACK MAN ON THE STREET,I HAVE TO CONSTANTLY BE ON GUARD?I’M TIRED OF THEIR BULL*****!
This fuggin *****hole beantown LMFAO! 33K a year, ***** that aint no money I was making 40k a year at 21 AND COUNTING! You are DELUSIONAL! With a capital D!
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@ Serious Sisiter
No offense but this has nothing to do with you. I understand you left, but to say this man never hit her once until he shot her is delusional and wrong on so many levels. A man who never laid a pink on her all of a sudden grabs a gun and shoots her and her daughter in cold blood…see how crazy and so left field that sounds hearing it from someone else. Okay you were at their house everyday you werent over there 24hr a day he could have smacked her when you left, hello did you see Madea’s Family Reunion, after she had the male stripper in the house she closed the door and he smacked the hell out of her. ISSMH at some people in this world.
That piece of ***** ***** needs to be erased from existence. Anybody who shoots at kids is a *****ing disgrace to mankind and deserves the worst death imaginable. This makes me so *****ing mad that I would honestly kill him myself and lose no sleep over it.
God bless that poor little girl…She’s in my prayers.
@ true gem
you are so special in a good way in i felt your pain threw your words and that why i said what i said we cant judge her from our past experinces we cant say everyone is bad cause our mom let them back in! we should just pray! cause the devil always know what to say in do so you can let him in! and dont let your moms mistake hurt your relationship with her! true gem i lost my mom and the week before she died i told her what i didnt like about her and yeah it was only for a week but i saw a change and i dont regret anything i told her! you are a true gem forreal dont let that ruin your shine! cause thy should respect your mom and farther and the devil is winning that race! so just a thought okay!
@ A True Gem
I think you and Brother Marquis are on the same page when it comes to some of these delusional women when he tried to enlighten Twyn
Marquis de Sade
@ Twyn
Trust me the signs were probably there. She probably just chose to ignore them, hoping that he would change. Seems in this day in age, 90% of the times single mothers and thugs tend to go hand in hand
why are men flipping these days killing there baby ma’s. its not that serious. there are millions of women on this planet so if one doesnt want u move the f*ck on! i see why chicks turn to other chicks. at least if u get into a arguement u fist fight and get it over with no pop a b$tch.
it seems to me that even though this tragedy happened we still have that blame the woman mentality. do you blame a rape victim for being raped? yes we do, when we do not rally around and speak truth then we just accept it. I will always remember the conversations that were put forth about my dear friend and her baby, I can’t imagine the lack of understanding that we as black women have for each other. see the thing is her brother lives in her house also thats why i know no blows were thrown, my granny baby sat for SeSe from time to time neither had a mark or scratch or tears.
Please those of you who do not have that blame the victim mentality, please pray for my friend and her baby, and our community so that all may heal, as I will pray for all of you.
To those who take a lesson from my posts, please p***** it on, sometimes domestic violence from a man can jump out on any woman, and she is not always the blame.
Peace, be safe
a friend
its crazy as hell but that is true single moms do turn to thugs ! i cant disagree with that well atleast where i am from! but single moms and thugs does not always equal death! so it goes back to a killer is a killer and not all thugs are bad!
@ ms. collins
Not all thugs are bad!?! You mean that there are warm and fuzzy/cuddly thugs? I rest my case.
Denial – THY NAME IS WOMEN!
@ SERIOUS SISTER
YOU DONT HAVE TO COMMENT ANY MORE JUST LAYGH AT THE PEOPLE WHO DONT KNOW THE TRUTH BEHIND THE SENCES THEY THE SAME PEOPLE WHO WORSHIP IDLE GODS! LET ME NAME A FEW WHO HAVE FALLEN IN THAT CATERGORY! JAY-Z BEYONCE 2 PAC NELLY PEOPLE WHO NEVER HELD A CONVERSATION WITH THEM SAY THEY LOVE THESE PEOPLE AND FOLLOW WHAT THEY SAY IN DO! A CRIME SHAME! YOU CONTINUE TO PRAY AND BELIEVE THAT THINGS WOULD GET BETTER! CAUSE GOD IS THE DOCTOR IN THE SICK ROOM IN THIS CASE! AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP THE RIGHT MAN WOULD COME YOUR WAY AND GIVE YOU THE WORLD! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY ! OKAY! FROM A TRUE SISTER TO THE NEXT!
Very sad. Il say a prayer tonight. But this is another tragedy where the innocents(espec the young), get killed. I dont wanna speculate on the mother bcos I dont no the situation but to place blame on her is harsh. Mayb she knew he was crazy, mayb da personality change came recently, but Im sure she wudnt have wanted her daughter around that type of behaviour. It shows thats why we have to tyr to be careful who we keep company wiv NOW (he prob did do sum crazy stuff before this happened/the signs were there) cos we pay for it LATER.
Neway I hope the girl has not p*****ed away, but if she has, rest in peace, God is proud of u.
@ WHAT EVER THE ***** YOUR NAME IS DE SADE! LET ME SAY NOTHING TO YOU AT ALL TRY IN READ MY MIND SINCE YOU KNOW EVERY THING! AND ADD THIS TO THE LAST COMMENT YOU THINK I WOULD MAKE…….JERK!
Guys,
This is why good men don’t get married. Ike Turner keeps finding wives but we don’t whip enough *****.
Seriously – there are some crazy *****ed *****s out there. he shot her and a child IN BROAD DAYLIGHT!!. No one saw THAT ***** coming.
On another note. Women who let their ***** get whipped around their kids are stupid, selfish tramps.
@ Richard
It’s been my experience that most women (sistas) in general, needs a little monster in their men. It’s just the nature of things, and as you said, that’s why good men don’t get married. Who needs that kind of drama in your life.
@ Richard & De Sade
Maybe you two arent lookning in the right places because I know plenty good men that have found good women and have gotten married to them. I’m just saying!
I co-sign with you Richard. Nice guys always finish last.
@ms. collins,
thank you for you wonderful words of support, they really help. it just hurts so bad to see major news and now some black sites make her out to be a welfare queen type person which she is not.
@ richard
please re read the story and my posts this happened at 2 in the morning pitch black dark, they never saw it coming.
Of course you finish last Show the *****$!!! Look at your name! Lmao
What love that child has for her mother. My goodness. I hate saying it, but things like this make you want the death penalty. This is bewildering.
This is so sad. I pray to God that she survives this tragedy.
@ Beantown
I usually don’t respond to such idiotic comments but you should be ashamed of yourself. This is a child that this happened to..how can you even begin to make such vile statements? You must be heartless…too bad they don’t teach that wherever you study. Sad.
Beantowncrown, you don’t see that as disrespectful in a post like this? Who gives a damn if you’re first, and you’re not even first!
Anyway.
What a brave child. I hope she is doing okay.
OMG.. My heart breaks for this baby girl.. I pray to God that she makes it. Lord please. The **********er that did that is going to pay dearly and with his life. He does not deserve to be amongst the living. He no longer needs to be cl*****ified as human. Hell even the title of animal is too good. He is a *****in’ turd that needs to be flushed away forever.
Where the F*uck is the nite crew???
I will pray for that sister and her daughter. the punk that did that, he needs to be on a milk carton never to be found again.
UN-BE-LIEV-ABLE!!!!
The bottom line is there is a BABY fighting for her life at the hands of a grown @ss man! PERIOD!!!!!!! Some of these comments turn my f**king stomach! may that man rot in hell!
My prayers and love def goes out that baby and her mother.
There’s a lot that I want to say, but I’ll hold off because I don’t know the whole story, but I do want to say this……not just black women, but we as women period need to be more careful…seriously!!
stop being so eager to let these dudes you just met around your kids!!!!
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MY opinion……
Story is about three weeks old but regardless, the madness must stop. Peace be with mother, child and shooter.
that’s the truth. please read my posts, i am a friend of the family.
Redd
You’re a retard….Stick to what you know ***** and get on the stroll. Keep my *****in name out yo mouth…LOL
I just want to say that Alexis touched a special place in my heart. I read that she was in Special Education at school and very much loved by her teacher and cl*****mates. I pray for her recovery and her life after this incident. She may be “special” but she knows the meaning of love…how many adults would throw themselves in front of gunfire?
I tried to hold my peace but BLACK WOMEN need to wake up. She needs to be held just as accountable as he does. She knew something was wrong with him and to put her child in that situation is a disgrace and irresponsible. When are we going to start thinking and take responsibility? If he/she is not treating you right then get some damn confidence and move on. Stop being so lonely and desperate. Is being with someone that damn important you have to disrespect yourSELF? Get over yourself, your ego, your pride, and make a choice that is befitting to not only yourself but other people. We are not in this world by ourselves, that is why everything affects/effects another person.
Are you serious? Why are people blaiming the mother if she took all the steps to sever the relationship? Let’s be real, if someone REALLY wants to kill you, it’s not that hard for them to do so. She could have moved to Alaska and he could have tracked her down and killed her. Then you idiot would say, But why didn’t she just move to another country entirely instead of just moving to another state. Wake up. Pray for her and her child.
WOW! This is such a tragedy. Lord, I ask that you bless this baby & her moms. I ask you Lord to bind the hand of the enemy so that they are never hurt by anything or anyone again. Mom, I hope you feel no guilt. You didn’t create this monster but, his creator will deal with him. God bless you & your baby!!!!
Some *****hole said: “I’m sure there are reasons to blame the mother, BUT, people need to realize that spousal abuse/murder is a serious…and much more complicated then simple words or just leaving. If that were the case, we would not have so many cases floating around.
^^^ It the D-I-C-K, somebody had to say it!! ISSMH God Bless that little angle. I bet that that greasy ***** goes back to that man to. Some women can’t be alone to save their life, see what happens that baby got shot up 6 mf times, cause mamma want some *****. Get mad at me if you want to. I blame the mother and that *****, fry his *****!
***Again God Bless that 7yr old little girl.***”
You have the post before, the neighbor said that the mother was trying to get rid of the boyfriend.
SeSe is the homeowner in the situation, and he is not Alexis daddy. Please read the posts I have submitted, Tillie’s family lives in the neighborhood too and are devastated, they knew he had a record, but never thought he would do something like this.
everybody that thinks the mother didnt know that dumb ***** dude must open eyes truth is women know the men they date they just take the rist look at britney and Kfed how do u think u can turn a man who dumped a pregnant woman into a loving father ***** even superman or woman cant do that or look at kim porter what kind of example has she set for her kids- stick around with a ho of a so called fiance and have kids by him knowing he doesnt give a rats ***** about u, am sorry but a lot off women need to wake up and start give a stern look at the men they date it is so saq that a little kid is having to suffer for what is probably her mums selfish mistake i know i dont know the mum personally so it is kind of wrong to not give her the benefit of the doubt but history say 99% of the time the woman know something even if it was that he was a drug dealer that is good enough reason to get the f%#$k out of that situation
God bless that little girl
…..while defending her mother?
Seems like the mother should have covered down over her child.
People r applauding this? Damn shame that the mother chose this type of lowlife character to be in her and her child’s life in the first place.
Memchee, please read ALL the post from Serious Sister. She is close to the situation & will give you a much better insight as to how all this played out.
Angel Eyes. I am sorry luv but its not always as cut & dry as we would like it to believe. I have lived with a person that managed to hide from EVERYONE else in my family that she is psychotic. Trust me when I tell you those that are demented or mentally unstable can show their true colours or they might choose not to. It sounds to me like this man was very good at hiding his true nature & then when she decided the relationship was not good for her & her child, she took all the steps to severe ties completely & the anger of the situation made an already crazy man SNAP. Think about the serial killers of the past few decades. Trust me they lived in oblivion with no one else having so much as a clue as to what was going on or simply not intelligent enough to be able to put all the pieces of the puzzle together. But this woman, she did everything according to the system & still (like countless other women) she nearly lost her life & now the life of this precious little girl is hanging in the balance.
So your telling a SEVEN YEAR OLD CHILD, tried to save her mom?!? Or did the mom use her as a shield? Even more so, WHAT kind of MOTHER would allow THIER CHILD to do THAT? Sound screwy to me…
This breaks my heart, this hurts my soul..I am a Mother, and I pray for that little beautiful angel, I pray that she pulls thru…Jesus, what is wrong with our people, when are we going to wake up….Bossip,you are human, you truly do have a soul and “some” comp*****ion for other human beings…I was truly starting to wonder….
PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY – WOMEN SHOULD REALLY BE CAREFULE BRINGING FOLKS AROUND THEIR KIDS. 6 MONTHS AINT EVEN ENOUGH TO TRULY KNOW AN INDIVIDUAL! HAVE SOME RESPECT AND PLEASE EXPECT MORE FOR YOURSELVES!
BUT
BOSSIP YOU HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO WAKE UP? YOU HAVE A VOICE AND OFTEN USE IT TO DEGRADE YOUR OWN PEOPLE! THIS STORY IS ABOUT A MONTH OLD! IF YOU REALLY THOUGHT WE NEEDED TO DO BETTER YOU WOULD CONTRIBUTE TO THAT EFFORT INSTEAD OF RIPPING SOME CELEBS TO PIECES FOR KNOW APPARENT REASON!
YOU WAKE UP AND POST SOME UPDATES ON DARFUR, OUR EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM, HOW YOU ARE HELPING WITH ARTS IN SCHOOL, OR JUST SOMETHING RELEVANT THATS NOT A MONTH OLD ….THEN MAYBE YOU CAN GIVE US INSTRUCTIONS! RACE ISNT EVEN AN ISSUE HERE
I hope that she will be OK. Please let her get well soon! I don’t know what else to say. this is horrible…
This little girl is in Heaven with God. She doesn’t have to suffer anymore. Plus, I am sure that she received a golden crown on her head because she risked her own life to save her mother. When she went to Heaven, I am sure that God told her, “Well done thy good and faithful little servant.”
She was so cute.
Pray for Peace. And Please help put an end to domestic violence.
May she rest in peace ;(
where are yall reading that she p*****ed away??
She is so fat! I saw her pictures on http://www.richcupids.com She is so popular there!
Why the hell do you ignorant negroes get on here claiming first. This is some serious sh-t about a little girl and all you can add is first grow the f up.
That is tearfully sad that poor little gurl and the mum must be in pieces and the *****ing son of a ***** who did that will get theirs- So many *****ed up people out there nower days it’s a scarey world and kids seem to always be the victims.
No you didn’t do that 1st ***** did you see how numb people are- so *****ing shallow and *****ed up and they don’t even realise- WOKE UP
WHY CANT ALL THESE HEARTLESS BASTURDS BE THE TARGETS- MIGHT BE LESS TRAGIC THEN
SHE IS SAFE IN HEAVEN WE ARE IN HELL WITH ALL THE DEMONS
***** BOSSIP I’M DONE WITH THIS SITE IT’S FULL OF TOO MANY *****ED UP TRAGICALLY SHALLOW DUMB POINTLESS PEOPLE THAT ***** ME OFF YOU’LL ARE A DISEASE AND YOUR SPREADING
IT’S NOT GOOD FOR ME TO BOTHER WITH SUCH BULL*****. YOU’LL MAKE ME SICK. I FEEL SCARED FOR OUR FUTURES OR LACK OF AS THESE CREATURES ARE MAKING BABIES AND THOSE LITTLE ONES DONT STAND A CHANCE BEING RAISED BUT SUCH TACTLESS, MONEY & MEDIA DRIVEN JUNKIES
*****ING TRAGICALLY PATHETIC
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THIS LITTLE GURLS FAMILY AND LITTLE FRIENDS THAT HAVE TO BE TOLD THEY WONT SEE HER AGAIN.
This story was on CNN like 2 weeks ago, but they reported that the little girl died…
@ beantowncrown
you do realize that 33 g’s a year aint really sh*t. Just thought you should know that with your 3.4 GPA and all.
The mother knew that he was a thug and continued to mess with dude. She probably did use the child as a shield… lemme find out the child was Special Ed. The guy and the mother ar to blame… let’s hear his side too, then fry him!
We have to be careful with the kinds of people we let into OUR CHILDRENS lives.
C’Mon now Bossip..this is not a “Black People” thing…I’m def praying for the little girl!
My prayers are with both mother and child. I hope the child pulls through she was very strong to do that, but if she survives, she will alway’s have that nightmare of what she witnessed. SAD.
my prayers are with this family also this is so sad. may god be with us
Twyn, you’re in Kentucky? What part? I’m in Louisville.
i have no comment. that whole situation brings tears to my eyes. its the end of time…we better get right wit god!
Prayers to the family!!!
God bless that little angel for wanting to save her mommy. I pray she pulls through this. There is no need to jump on the mother because she did realize there was something wrong with this man and did what she had to do to get him away from her and her daughter. I hope his sorry evil ***** frys for this. What the hell is going on with these men killing women who don’t want them for obvious reasons? Rejection has taken on a whole new meaning. I pray for the mother and her “ANGEL”.
Many Many Blessings to this mother and baby(little girl) my heart and prayers go out to them…Thank GOD for saving this mothers precious gift. I pray that soon they will be healed and hopes for a much better life for them both. “GOD BLESS”. I also hope & pray that this insane person that did this horrible thing to them gets so much needed help.
I have been praying day and night that the good lord bless this angel and her mom. This story breaks my heart to the core, I can not fathome what her mom must be going through. She will always feel some guilt because this was someone she let into her life. I do not believe for a second that if she knew what he was capable of she would of let him in. You can be with someone for years and still not know them. I hate to go back to the past but I wish she would of let the police escort her out the house and into her friend’s car, than maybe this tragedy would of been avoided. But that sick son of a ***** would of found another way to invoke his terror. Lord please let this disgrace for a human suffer so long and hard for what he has done. I am not one for an eye for an eye, but when you hurt children you should pay with your life. The same way a pray for Alexis to get better, I pray for this ***** bag to get tortured. Alexis honey you are in the hands of the Lord now and he will make the decision if you stay here on this earth with your mommy or if it is time for you to come home. God always takes the good ones early. God bless you honey and always know that you are an angel sent from Heaven. Calvin Tillie may you rest in hell for the rest of your miserable sorry ***** life, I hope you get shanked 1,000 times over and over again, in your eyes, your chin, jaw, mouth, ears, your *****. And that still would not be good enough.
How cruel to say she should have known. What mother would intentionally bring a man around like that. Plus most people are doing these types of horrible things to their OWN DAM children!! So don;t throw stones at this woman. This say hindsight is a mother*****er.
that’s horrible.. may god help her to fully recover from this. That little girl is an angel!!! May the shooter be punished in every way.
What a tragedy! I pray both the mother and daughter can fully recover (emotionally, mentally, and physically) from what this monster did.
@Laleezie
6 MONTHS AINT EVEN ENOUGH TO TRULY KNOW AN INDIVIDUAL!
Damn I was going to say the same exact thing. But it should be repeated.
@A True Gem
You have some personal stuff to work out and work on.
*off topic
@yo
I wasnt trying to trump you.
“fully recover from this.” I hadnt read yours. But I see we share the same sentiment.
Don’t have time to review this post but from the few comments I read I’d like to respond…
1)A True Gem: Thanks girl good to know women with COMMON SENSE are left in this world! sounds like you didn’t let your upbringing dictate or affect your adult hood.
2)Ms. Collins & Redd: Yall are some real *****holes! I HOPE you two are NOT mothers! Have any of you heard of the “WAIT, STUDY & SEE” rule?….SINGLE mother’s should NOT bring men around their kids unless this man is SERIOUS about COMMITMENT with HER!
My mom had boyfriends but me & my brother NEVER saw them until she met the RIGHT man & only after 5YEARS of steady extreme dating did she allow him to meet US by that time she studied HIM & he bacame her HUSBAND 2 months later. He is a fabulous man & we are blessed to have him as our dad!!
You broads are too desperate & hungry for male attention {which is fine if you’re grown} but don’t make this nucca your kids daddy!!! Study & watch his movements then make your decision geez women think!!!
Plus, this retard most certainly knew this dude had a proclivity towards violence…he was a JAIL BIRD after all. No dice can’t take a chance on an ex con when it comes to MY kid. If it’s just me that’s one thing but when I have a kid all bets are off!
Now say what ever you want I could care less these are my views & yall can’t change them.
Here’s one for the road:
A mother & child were found stabbed to death here in the Bronx; the ex-boyfirend did it….now how much yall want to bet he had a jail record?????
side note: neighbors say this couple fought like cats & dogs in front of the child all the time {who is not his}
Mothers you need to make better choices. Chances you took men you messed with when you were single YOU CAN’T DO after you have kids.
Point Blank!!!
Bronx mom and daughter found slain
BY ETHAN ROUEN AND TINA MOORE
DAILY NEWS WRITERS
Wednesday, December 19th 2007, 4:00 AM
The scene outside a Furman Ave. apartment building in the Bronx, where a single mom and her six-year-old daughter were found stabbed to death on Tuesday.
Cops found a mother and her 6-year-old daughter stabbed to death in their Bronx apartment Tuesday after the girl’s worried grandmother called 911, a police source and relatives said.
“I’m devastated – when I think – they killed my granddaughter,” Shirley Hilliard Brown, 60, told the Daily News. “I cannot imagine what she went through.”
She said cops found her daughter, Yolande Beckford, 24, and her granddaughter, Monique, dead in the apartment. Police said there were no signs of forced entry at the Furman Ave. building in Wakefield.
The police source said cops were questioning Beckford’s boyfriend, a man Hilliard Brown said she knew only as “Prince.” She said the two recently had a falling out.
“She told him to go to his girlfriend and leave her alone,” Hilliard Brown said. “I don’t know if he got mad and did something to her.”
When she initially called the cops on Monday, Hilliard Brown said she feared Monique and her daughter, a nurse practitioner at a White Plains hospital, had died from carbon monoxide poisoning because she hadn’t heard from them. It was unclear if cops went to the home on Monday.
Hilliard Brown said she called police again Tuesday after Monique’s school – Public School 103 – called her to ask why the child was absent.
“Every time I come she hugs me and says, ‘Grandma, I love you. Do you love me?’” Brown recalled.
Neighbors and friends became worried Monday afternoon because they hadn’t seen the mom and daughter for almost a day.
“We kept calling and calling and calling,” neighbor Simsky Harrison, 23, said. “We banged on the door and kicked it.”
It wasn’t until Tuesday that cops found the bodies. Police had been called again because Hilliard Brown’s sister found the windows open in the back of the apartment.
“She started screaming, ‘Somebody went in there and killed everyone,’” Hilliard Brown said.
Harrison said friends who had been looking for the two were in the building hallway when police opened the apartment door. “That’s when my friend saw the little girl on the floor with her head in a pool of blood,” Harrison said.
Residents described Beckford, who was born in Jamaica and moved to the U.S. with her family at 13, as a “hardworking single mother.”
“It’s horrible – a young woman dead and a child dead,” the building landlord, Paul Gjokaj, 33, said. “It’s tragic. It’s senseless.”
Aoki it is really a damn shame that you would call her mom a retard. I have been in jail a few times (not proud of it) but sure does not make me violent. And I would not want anyone to judge me on the mistakes I made earlier in my life. Your mom dated a man for five years and you did not meet him until 2 months before they were married, that is a lot on it honey. I have a wonderful stepdad and my mom allowed me to meet him at the appropiate time, it did not take 5 years, she needed to know if I was comfortable around him too. We do not know if this crazy **********a met Alexis or not, we know mom’s dated him for 3 months and let him go. Don’t judge her now, pray for her, she doesn’t need your negativity she needs prayer. Views and opinions are like *****holes, everyone has one, I dont think anyone would want to change the way you think, just be more open minded, and if you can not do that, than show some respect for this mother and this very difficult time in her life.
@ Tasha
***** YOU TASHA YES IT IZ I GRAD. IN A FEW MONTHS AND THATS GONNA DOUBLE TO THE MID 60s and ima be 21 dont hate hoe
@ my house
You say you’ve been in jail before? sorry but if you were a guy I was dating {you are a gu- right?} anyway if you were a potential suitor you’d have to GO!!! I don’t do jail birds of any kind & if I had a child that would not even be an issue no way could you be a friend to me.
Call it judgemental but I’d rather be a judgemental fool than a dead duck! Too many crazies out here for me to be staking my childs life. No man is that important.
Yes, my mother waited 5 yras because that’s how long her study of my step dad took. See my mother took her job as PARENT seriously. I don’t know what YOUR mother was doing but some moms do place their kids over themselves you know.
As far as having respect, I have tons of respect for these ladies & my heart breaks for their slain children. But since we were having “real talk” dialogue on Bossip I thought I’d share my feelings on the subject.
Both broads are retards that jeopardized both their lives & the lives of their children by maintaining relations with men who were obviously un-stable!
Point Blank!!!!
I’m sorry but I have to agree with alot of people on here. Her mother is to blame for this…period. That dude was an ex-con. You…do..not..bring..ex..cons around your kids…end of story. You have to be careful about who you bring around kids and little girls especially. When you make the decision or not to have a kid then you have to think about them first. If that means you don’t have man for a long time..then that is just what it means. I’m sorry but I was raised by a single mother and now at 28 I really respect her for not bringing around a bunch of men. She is still single now but I didn’t have a different uncle every week and noone took at advantage of me or hurt me and she set a living example for me not having to have a bunch of men around. When you do decide that having a man takes priority over your child then anything….anything can happen to your child so don’t get surprised when it does.
Pull Through Lil Mama..I’M prayiing for you!
Love You
@Serious Sister
Thay girl, her mother, and your whole neighborhood are in my prayers.
And the smartest, most vigilant people STILL get victimized! ANYONE can be a victim and that doesn’t mean they deserve it any way. The person I blame is that SICK MAN who did this. He is the PERPETRATOR and even my attempts to be a good Christian and pray for his soul are failing right now. May God have mercy on all affected by this tragedy.
Beantown,a peckerwood like you needs to fall back and find out why so many mad lil’ white boys are shootin’ em up in the schools.
@ Love Him
Yes the best laid plans….and all that is true but the lord say’s he’ll help those who help themselves- right?
Women need to be prudent in their search for mates especially when they have youngins at home.
I am glad this story is getting the publicity it deserves. This child is truly a hero. I hope people will help this amazing little girl and her family. I will continue to pray for them. As far as the monster who did it, I will leave that up to his maker.
This is such a horrible thing for someone to have done this to a child and her mother. I have them in my prayers!!!
Aoki:
What my mom did was introduce a wonderful person into my life, who accepted her and her child, and NO, it did not take 5 years for her to study this man to find out if she would want to take him to the next level of getting to know her child, you know why, because my family is a God fearing family and once she saw the same morals and values he had she knew she was on the right track, it was some time but five years, hell no. And best believe her job was taken seriously than, as it is now. Back to the subject at hand, now is not the time to crucify this woman and blame her for what some lowlife sick **********a did. She needs all the prayer and support she can get, if you dont have nothing good to say than dont say ***** at all. Jail or no jail, I still went to college and received my B.A., so I know that people can make mistakes and bounce back. That is why I am not quick to judge people because I know the mistakes I have made.
I am a mother so there is no need to tell me what it means to place your child above yourself, nothing or no one comes before mines, and I will kill a **********a over her too (I guess I am violent).
This is what is wrong with the black community, we do not stick together for *****. If this was a latino blog everyone posting messages would be offering prayers and support and donations. But here, hell no, all you read is “why she had him around her and her child” or “she is the blame for this happening” you could be right but you can also be wrong. So keep your negative opinions to yourself and say something spiritual or positive, that ***** is not hard to do. We as a people have got to see that the world is not respecting us because we do not respect ourselves.
” and I will kill a **********a over her too (I guess I am violent}”
________________________–
LMFAO Done!!!
Back to the subject at hand….@My House,
Did you not read my entire post? I DID SAY MY HEART BREAKS but if you lived where I grew up these type of stories are not anything new. You become numb after while & begin to wonder what makes some women tick! Why keep a no good man in your home?!
I’ll divulge a story…
A few years back my aunt who was living with her man became the target of violence one night. For saftey she ran across the courtyard to her neighbors apt. This neighbor had always warned her to leave this man alone but like a knucklehead my aunt kept taking him back into her home all while seeing other men. Well this particular violent night “her man” followed auntie to the neighbor’s home, kicked in the door shot the neighbor’s 18 yr old son in the neck & shot the neighbor in the chest he then yanked my aunt into the street & made her watch him as he shot himself in the temple. Everyone in that house died as a result of my aunts stupidity!!! I saw firsthand what her lack of judgement did to that poor womans family. What Right Did She Have Running to THAT WOMAN & placing HER & HER SON in harms way? My ignorant aunt knew the dude was 15 months outta jail & he was a violent personality!
You can’t tell me you lay up with a man almost every night & don’t know he got violent tendancies come off it!!!
He needs to go jail for the rest of his life. Why couldn’t he just leave the woman alone instead of trying to kill her and almost killing her child? *****s are just sick.
DAMN SHAME…G
THIS **********A NEEDS TO BE HANG AND SKINNED ALIVE.
THIS ***** IS CRAZY.
IF THE BABY DIES…HE DIES!
“And a child shall lead them….”
What an utterly amazing little soul to put herself in harm’s way to protect her mother. I swear the children are putting many of us so called grown ups to shame We really need to learn from them…
May God bless, protect and keep this amazing little girl, her mother and all those affected by this event. I hope that the man responsible learns something from this; that violence just is not the way…
Got to agree with I Think. This is not something that only black people need to wake up from and ponder; this whole escalation of violence thing in the world is one for the entire human race to work on. Sadly.
What the hell is going on? I do not know the particulars of this case, but I do know if a man puts his hands on you and you don’t put him in jail, you risk losing your life. If you know a man has beaten his past girfriends, why even take the chance. Do your homework.
EXCUSE ME “MY HOUSE”, WHAT THE BLACK COMMUNITY NEEDS TO DO IS ACKNOWLEDGE THAT TOO MAN OF OUR WOMEN STAY IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS, PUTTING THEMSELVES AND THEIR CHILDREN IN HARMS WAY. OFFERING PRAYERS SHOULD AND WILL BE DONE, HOWEVER, REALIZING A SAD TRUTH IS JUST AS IMPORTANT! WHAT WE NEED TO DO IS START PLACING THESE MEN WHO BEAT AND TERRORIZE WOMEN IN JAIL AND STOP GLAMORIZING THIS IDIOTIC “THUG APPEAL”. WOMEN ALSO MUST OWN UP IN THIS AND STOP PLACING MEN BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN!!! SO BEFORE YOU BASH US AS A WHOLE, KNOW THAT OUR RESPONSIBILITY MUST BE BOTH PART AND PARCEL, ADDRESSING THE ISSUE AS A WHOLE.
What NowUknowBetta is trying to say is you stupid Thug Worshipping ***** hos have got to grow up and get that bad boy ***** out your system. Depite popular belief, that ***** ain’t sexy and if you find your ***** getting wet at the thought of being with one of these in and out of jail driveby shootin *****s, go and get some counseling or a life coach.
Beantowncrown
You are an *****hole *****got. You should have been the one shot. How could you say that about an innocent child who loves her mom enough to take 6 bullets for her. God please spare her life and cover her in your holy blood dear father in heaven. My heart goes out to her and her family. GOD BLESS!!!!!