T-Boz: “They Get Mad When I say This…It Was All About Beyonce Anyway”

Posted on April 6th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Attention Slores, News, Reality TV

Posted by Bossip Staff

T-Boz

T-Boz didn’t hold back a thing in her latest interview with AOL Black Voices. Although, she got the ax yesterday on The Apprentice, that didn’t stop her from very VOCAL about more than a few issues including a TLC film, the ATL Housewives and Bey and Kelly’s D-Child drama:
So we’re starting to see more of you on ‘Celebrity Apprentice.’ Did you intentionally play low-key in the beginning?

If you don’t keep up drama, they don’t show you anyway, and I just feel like they have their favorites. If you’re not into it then Trump’s not into you, and that’s just the way I feel about it. He likes poker, he likes golf, Playboy bunnies and he likes sports and that’s his thing.

You had your big win on episode four and won a check for your charity. How did that feel?

It was a bittersweet night for me because I won, but they made it so depressing with the alcohol thing with Dennis Rodman so it almost took the glory out of winning. As far as me, it was heartwarming because sickle cell is something I’m very passionate about being that I have the disease and I’m a national spokesperson. I do a lot of things because I want to help others, but I want to be that chick that’s here to see my daughter grow old. I want to be a grandmother. I want to cheer for all of us, and it’s really a personal struggle and a fight for me.

Let’s shift gears a little. Your good friend Kandi Burruss is the new member of ‘The Real Housewives of Atlanta.’ What do you think about that?

It’s funny because she really has a great career for herself and she’s a phenomenal writer, so she has a lot of different things going for her than the other wives. I was happy to hear that she is engaged so that’s great. Kim is kind of doing her thing with married men, NeNe has a different approach and Sheree and Lisa Wu are sweet. I don’t think people know that Kandi has a raw personality, so I would like to see who she is going to bump heads with, because she doesn’t take any mess either. That’s gonna be interesting. If you don’t pluck her nerves, she’s easygoing, but if you do, I can’t wait to see her mouthpiece. She’s not one of the wives where the husband makes a lot of money and she uses his money to start a business. She’s coming to the table like, ‘Damn, I am paid because I wrote ‘No Scrubs’ for TLC and those early hits for Destiny’s Child. You better check my resume.’ I love that.

Did you tape an appearance on the show?

We just went to lunch and that’s something that’s natural. What you see is what we would have naturally done. The only reason and the only person that I would have gone on that show for was Kandi and that’s love.

I hear you and Chilli have been approached about a TLC movie. Monique Coleman from ‘High School Musical’ says it’s her dream to play Lisa “Left Eye” Lopes in a film.

That’s awesome to hear. I am interested now whereas I wasn’t before. I actually do want to pursue making this movie. We’re talking to companies now so right now it’s just talk. People are actively pursuing it and that’s a great thing.

What actress would you like to play you in the film?

It would have to be a girl who has a lot of cool personality like a prissy tomboy. She has to look good with blond hair, because she must swag out the blond. I love Kyla Pratt. She has a lot of personality and a lot of spunk. I think Meagan Good can do it, too. I like both of them. In ‘ATL,’ Lauren London played me and she did a great job. ‘ATL’ was about Dallas Austin and my experience growing up in the skating rink. The only difference was that we [were not in a relationship]. That was part of the movie. I executive produced it, and it was a part of my life. That was really my story.

What actress should play Chilli? I pick Keshia Knight Pulliam or Tatyana Ali or anyone else who can brush down their baby hair.

Those are two good picks. Keshia still has that valley girl in her and so does Tatyana, so they make great looks, but they have to get rid of the valley girl part, because Rozanda has no valley girl in her at all. You can buy the lace-front weave and anybody can have her hair. All you got to do is call up Tyra Banks and ask her where she gets her wigs from.


Alicia Keys got you and Chilli to reunite and perform on last year’s BET Awards. How did it make you feel that a singer who wasn’t even in a girl group professionally wanted to celebrate TLC, SWV and En Vogue like that?

I love Alicia and that was the only reason I did it. We’ve never said yes to perform with anybody, ever. She is one of those people that you respect and feel honored to be asked and that’s why we said yes. I don’t count the BET Awards as a real TLC performance. That was just a mess altogether. That was a terrible day for me. It wasn’t a regular TLC show anyway. At a real TLC show, we run things and are energetic and dance. That was just a hot mess. I’m very excited to do what we do, and I’ll be back in my element. That sure wasn’t my element. I’m happy to be back, and we’ll be doing it the way that we do it.

When you hear stories about what’s going on with Destiny’s Child and Kelly Rowland having to fire Matthew Knowles to finally get attention, what are your thoughts?

They get mad when I say this, but I don’t give a damn. It was all about Beyonce anyway. She was my favorite, too, but come on. Her parents are over everything. Who do you think they were going for? It’s always Beyonce. It was supposed to be exactly the way it is now, Bey is on top. I love Beyonce, and I am a fan of hers. She was my favorite in the group even before they were Destiny’s Child and they were the Baby Dolls. She was so cute and pretty. I like all of them, and I wish Kelly the best. When you’re in a girl group, you have differences, and you have to learn how to respectfully agree to disagree. There are a lot of things that happen behind the scenes that people don’t know about. Some girl groups have girls trying to steal other girls’ boyfriends and that’s the ultimate no-no. You have situations like the Kelly thing and Beyonce’s parents. You can say that I’m out for everybody, but if Lisa was to bring somebody in that’s her boyfriend, then I’m gonna feel like you got Lisa’s back more than mine, and that’s gonna be a no-no. I just think that brings a conflict of interest in the beginning. That would have been a hard group for me to be in, because I would have been like your mommy and daddy are running things and they’re gonna have you at heart the most. That’s just how I feel.

There are currently no girl groups in the music business. They all seem to break up. Why do you think it’s like that?

I feel like girls are anal, bitchy and bitter. They’re jealous, envious and compete with each other even though they say they don’t. It always brings issues. They can’t differentiate that this is business, and we don’t have to be best friends. We just have to work together. People have a hard time living with that, because it becomes fake and you have to keep up this whole façade, and you just can’t deal with it and break up. At the end of the day, it’s about making money and having a career. Nobody said you have to go home and hug every day. Some girls can’t deal with that, and I’ve always had girl problems. Girls and me just don’t mix. They’ve always been jealous, tried to take my boyfriends and lie on me. I get it because I’ve always had that happen to me. That’s why I would never do a girl group again. I’m happy to have been with the two I was with, but I would never bring another girl in and start a new group. You don’t have to worry about that with me.

Damn Tionne, we thought that you were a little shy. Guess the hell not.

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  • The Official Mrs. Carter

    1st?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!!

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  • injera70

    Second, I like T-boz and I hope she does good.

  • SOMER

    I hated her performance with Alicia Keys. I have always thought that T-Boz was the worst singer to ever have a record deal. She sound bad on wax & sound even worst live. I am so glad they made her perform live so the world could see that it was all image.

  • JUDY

    I knew T-Boz and Khloe would get fired next because they were too laid back. They were not as driven or aggressive as the other womenn…..sh*t sometimes I even forgot that T-Boz was on the show.

  • Sawyer

    Spot on with her answer about girl groups!!!

  • The Official Mrs. Carter

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  • Just Because

    Dumb women always pick dumb men and dumb friends, that can never be blamed on anyone but the Dummy herself- aka TIONNE WATKINS.

  • Voodoovixen

    Um, didnt they have that whole show to pick another member for the group? I guess thats reality T.V. for ya.

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  • Huh? (new on here but not 2 b confused with the other 1)

    I like T-Boz and loved TLC but she is probably one of those women who are nicer and less suspicious of men then of women. She’s right that too many women do hate each other but men hate each other too but mainly when it comes to money or power, but then it is deadlier.

  • chaka1

    She’s right about the girl groups. Boys tend to fight over money, but girls fight over things that don’t even matter.

  • Jay

    She was right about drama and girl groups but with guys its like a sports team. You can have drama and not get along with a teammate and still put that aside and go out there as a team.

  • ms meca

    girls are so emotional so i can feel what she saying.. men fight over the money and being the boss. half of these women have these d@m nervous breakdowns from stressing over men and worrying about men..

  • PURPPLE, just call me TADOW

    T-boyz was always one of my favorites. Doesn’t help that she seems hawt on the inside as well as out.

  • PURPPLE, just call me TADOW

    oops, doesn’t “hurt”

  • MB

    T-Boz, stay in yo goddamn lane! Ain’t nobody care about what you gotta say! You just bitter because you didnt get where Beyonce’s at. Stop Hatin!

  • crush

    LUV HER!!!

    (but if you really think she likes beyonce…i’ve got an island in ny to sell you)

  • PURPPLE, just call me TADOW

    MB

    T-Boz, stay in yo goddamn lane! Ain’t nobody care about what you gotta say! You just bitter because you didnt get where Beyonce’s at. Stop Hatin!
    **********
    back away from the Beyonce cd NOW

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  • Jay

    @ MB

    T-Boz, stay in yo goddamn lane! Ain’t nobody care about what you gotta say! You just bitter because you didnt get where Beyonce’s at. Stop Hatin!
    —————————————————–

    Tell it, it needs to be said, somebody had to say it.

  • Choc

    I agree with her about girls. A girl is very petty, jealous, insecure and likes to create mess and drama. A woman is not like that. But noone wants to be a woman anymore.

    Of course, I’m not in a girl group, but I see it at work. The miserable, unhappy girls outnumber the women and want to make everyone’s life as miserable as theirs.

  • SHOWNBEE

    omg i get what shes saying, and u bey fans its not that serious the lady is just saying what ppl have been saying for years.

  • hotmilfchocolate

    Girls and me just don’t mix. They’ve always been jealous, tried to take my boyfriends and lie on me.

    ****************************************************

    I HEEEAARD THAT, T!

    damn, i thought I was the only one.

  • Keepin it Real

    The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I love T-Boz!

  • SHOWNBEE

    @MB,
    T-boz been there and done that. not saying that bey isnt good but just like T-boz has been moved out the way so will bey. trust me!!!

  • FRANKY DEVILLE(JUST BROUGHT A CADILLAC)

    Tell’em miss T-boz. still love me some TLC. MY FAVOOOOORRRIITE GIRL GROUP EVER.

  • keyzbaby

    Did she forget that they did that reality show trying to find a third member to TLC a couple years back! how soon we forget!

  • Karen71

    Well, she’s right. After all, the name of the group was Destiny’s CHILD–not ChildREN.

    BUT, that’s not a bad thing. HER parents were creating a group for and around their daughter. IF the other girls and their parents couldn’t see that, shame on them.

  • FRANKY DEVILLE(JUST BROUGHT A CADILLAC)

    Beyonce was the light of DC.
    Think about it people would Dc be as famous if it were just Kelly Lativia and Latoya?? LMAO.HELL NAWW. BEYONCE MADE THAT GROUP A LEGEND. Her voice, her talent and her hardwork basically made that group. I like the other girls but they did not stand out like Beyonce did. She didnt need them then and she dont need them now. They still are breathing so they can still be and DO and whatever they want Beyonce aint stoppin them…she cannot help that mostly everyone around the world fancy her.

  • crush

    that’s why people need to stop believing this beyonce jayz marriage stuff…even if this was a real marriage not pretend…and jayz really did love beyonce not just she aight….how can he be bey’s husband when her daddy is all up in her bizness with controlling interest???

  • P

    Beyonce’s the most talented, but that’s still wrong.

    Always get *professional* management people.

  • Duane Calloway

    Beyonce didn’t need those barkbutts. They served their purpose.

  • SP. E-Z!!!

    lol! @ “SHY GUESS THE HELL NOT!!!”

  • Don’t mind me

    Favouriticism was always there from the beginning. T bozs voice is not nice but I use to love tlc just like I loved destinys child but then …. I grew up still love the old classics remind me of the good old days but yeah I have moved on. Alicia is amazing

  • Divine

    I haven’t had problems with my female friends. We don’t steal each others boyfriends or do stupic crap like that. I find people attract people who are most like them.
    If you have people like that in your life, maybe it’s you and the company you keep?

  • Jasmine

    She sounds really bitter in this interview. I don’t like it when celebs are washed up and start speaking on the new “it” people, in a negative way. It just sounds like Jealousy.

  • crush

    in the beginning beyonce did need those barkbutts….there is no way she would have made it as a solo singer from the jump

    beyonce=prop queen….even the butt pads

  • c from stl

    I loved TLC back in the day, I still listen to their old cds…T-Boz’s voice wasn’t the best singing voice but it had style to it. It flowed well with their sound and it was most definitely original. She could never capitalize off her voice alone, TLC was huge because of their whole style, meaning the way they dressed, their message and of course Left Eye’s flow…

  • crush

    she still needs them=props…even jay, dc, family, whole nine

  • bored

    @FRANKY DEVILLE(JUST BROUGHT A CADILLAC) that is so true. Dont blame her parents, blame us the consumer. We put B in her position, not to say she owes us anything (but the good music and great tours she has been giving us). She just had that stand out power. So of course if something is working, why try an mess it up. They started out as a girl group but Beyonce made it a solo act. They all did (at least tried to) and it’s not Beyonce or the team faults the others did not have what it took to continue on like Beyonce. I personally loved Kelly’s CD and I got it. But she just did not have that stand alone appeal, just like Michelle..

  • Divine

    @Jasmine
    She didn’t sound bitter at all to me. She is saying what many people have been saying for years about Destiny’s Child. She’s being honest.
    Beyonce stan don’t like to hear it but it’s true.

  • c from stl

    I also think what she said about DC was right on. Not that it’s necessarily a bad thing but it’s the truth. The Knowles’ had every intention of making their daughter the star. And, the other members may have had stand alone quality had they been promoted, pushed, and glamorized. It’s rather simple to do and they all could sing so that was never a question…

  • Divine

    @ crush
    She did need them. No black female singer had made it as a solo artist at the time, other than Whitney Houston. Many after that had tried and failed.
    His (Mathews Knowles) best bet was creating a group and then branching out after she became a brand.
    They already had their business model… Diana Ross and the Supremes.

  • Somer

    For those who want to critize Bey’s parents remember it was Mathew who gave up a 6 figure salary at IBM to manage the group. Tina & Mathew gave up their beautiful home in the surburb of Houston to move into a small apartment to fund the groups dreams. What did the other parents do???? If DC never made it, the Knowles could have lost everything. We down black parents who are not there & who don’t support their children. We down the ones who go beyond expectations. Beyonce hates are just mad cause she is not out there like Britney & Lindsey. Two E-True Hollywood disaster stories that were manage by parents.

  • Lady Next Door

    T-Boz has never been the shy type. She told the truth, though. TLC-everyone in the group was the star-you could not replace T Boz, or Chilli or Left Eye. I still think T Boz and Chilli are better than every member of Destiny’s Child-with is Beyonce, Sasha Fierce, and every other ultra ego of Beyonce. :D

  • FURIOUZ STYLEZ

    NEVER KNEW A GIRL GROUP THAT DIDN’T LAST OVER SOME BULLSHIT:

    *SUPREMES
    *LABELLE
    *TLC
    *DESTINY’S CHILD
    *DANITY LAME
    *DRU HILL….HOW-U-DOOIN’

    –JUST TO NAME A FEW…IT’S THE SAME SOUP BOILED OVER

  • http://www.playzdabest.com LadyQ

    @ Somer

    I feel you,
    I just say if you wana reach the top then you have to try harder, and to me Bey is always trying hard…..the other girls seem to laid back…………

  • Divine

    There we go with the arbitrary “HATERS” comments…
    People hate to hear the truth about this girl and her family.
    Nobody is hating as far as I can tell.

  • Divine

    @LadyQ
    That I agree with. She tried hard from the time she was a little kid.
    But I also think as someone said, her family put the investment in so I’m sure she felt more pressure to succeed.
    You can’t never doubt that Beyonce had the talent and drive to make it.
    And her parents made sure she succeed for her sake and their own sake.

    I also agree, better parents would not have let their kids be “used” as props.
    Kelly and her mom were WAY too trusting that the Knowles were looking out for her.
    CLEARLY, they were looking out for the bread winner, Beyonce Knowles.

  • shay

    Well T-Boz you have always been my favorite. I didn’t know ATL was about them though. That’s crazy

  • FURIOUZ STYLEZ

    IS T-BOZ IS ROCKIN’ THE SAME WIG SHE WORN IN “BELLY”?

  • we are living n the last days

    Beyawnce parents got the bulk of the money too! that is why they used the other group members to set up beyawnce for her solo career, like all the love they always talked about having for each other that’s a bunch of b.s at least tlc kept it real about the problems in the group, beyawnce so used to faking and lying soon the world will see her in all her fake-ness and deceit!!!!

  • OneStep

    T-Boz and Chilli really need new hairdos. This is not the 90′s.

  • Shayla

    So I guess In hindisght She is trying to say that one of her girls Lisa or Chilli was jealous when she was dating Dalvin of Jodeci. mmmmmmmmmm Dalvin was a cutie. Girls can be so cut throat and envious.

  • c from stl

    @OneStep

    T-Boz and Chilli really need new hairdos. This is not the 90’s.

    ____

    couldn’t agree more!

  • Shayla

    T boz hair is up to date. This style was created in the 90′s and now has been resurrected again Everybody is wearing Bobs and A-Symetrical hair styles. T boz has always kept her hair in similar styles but at least this style is the latest trend. People are so negative all the time. It sickening.

  • crush

    @somer

    wait…i’ve got an island to sell you…six-figure…you could pay a professional to manage not do it yourself….umm didn’t he have a drug problem…ibm…ok..do your own math…he left them alright

  • Shayla

    As for Chilli’s hair style her hair is gorgeous and all hers. Stop hating. She does not need a weave or a hair cut to copy all of those tacky weave styles.

  • Just Because

    Male Groups have the EXACT same issues as female groups- no more and no less. And for the person who tried to talk about how male groups keep going- every female group has done the same thing change members, reunite or do some reality crap- En Vogue, Brownstone, The Supremes….so you really just proved my point.

  • Kigali (I Love Stay-at-Home Wife/Mothers)

    @Divine,

    “I also agree, better parents would not have let their kids be “used” as props.
    Kelly and her mom were WAY too trusting that the Knowles were looking out for her.”

    Used as props? Kelly aint broke. She got used and paid in the process. Where would Kelly and her mother be with the Knowles? Somewhere in Texas. Matthew put a lot of food in a lot of peoples mouths who probably wouldnt have it otherwise. The market decides who they want and they clearly want Beyounce. Go Bey!

  • T Rubble

    I’m not a “Stan”, but I don’t understand why everyone is bashing her Father. What do you expect him to do. If you have a child who has “it”, wouldn’t you do the same thing. Do you think the other girls would’ve been discovered without DC?

  • The Best

    The reality show was not to find a new member of TLC, but just someone to go on a quick tour with them. They never tried to replace Lefteye.

  • B.I.N.F.L…

    T-BOZ SO PRETTY I LOVE HER I WISH HER WELL WITH EVERYTHING NICE INTERVIEW T :)

  • pm

    someone should start a female group call “Catty by Nature”

  • randomthoughts

    @Just because

    I agree. I always hear men say we are their downfall. WRONG!

  • msk

    THIS IS TRULY THE DEFINETION OF REAL TALK!!!!! I DIDN’T KNOW SHE HAD IT IN HER. UP AND COMING ARTIST SHOULD TAKE A PREP CLASS FROM HER BEFORING ENTERING THE BUSINESS.IT DOESN’T GET NO REALER THAN THAT.SAY IT AGAIN!!!!!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    Reading that comment (just above mine) naming all those groups and remembering a comment further up about longevity of girl groupd vs. guy groups, I wonder what the ratio is?

  • Divine

    @Kigali
    Matthew position the group around Beyonce.
    Everything the girls that left said was not a lie.

    Kelly’s house is in foreclosure and got dropped from her label.
    Good looking out Matthew!

    I do not begrudge or belittle the success of Beyonce. And I said several time, she worked hard and sacraficed for the success AND I said she worked harder than the other girls.

    BUT Matthew was looking out for Beyonce and his family.
    Kelly complained that her album wasn’t getting the attention it deserved AND the changed the release dates based on what Beyonce was doing.
    And several people advised her to leave before she did. Everyone isn’t lying about Matthew.

  • Justtoomuch

    @ Divine

    @ crush
    She did need them. No black female singer had made it as a solo artist at the time, other than Whitney Houston. Many after that had tried and failed.
    His (Mathews Knowles) best bet was creating a group and then branching out after she became a brand.
    They already had their business model… Diana Ross and the Supremes.
    _______________________________________________

    Whatever happen to Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson and Madonna? Mariah alone has sold twice as many records as Whitney Houston! No I don’t think Beyonce could have made it on her own like that she, she needed backup, but she probably won’t admit it.

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brook Lynn Choclate Godess (Thanking Bossip For this Bey Post!!!)

    LOL @ Catty by nature

  • c from stl

    As I’ve stated on another Beyonce thread, if another person (not her daddy or any other family member) was managing DC and Beyonce still walked the same path to success then so be it…but, I have a strong feeling that family wants family to succeed more than anyone else and no one can tell me that extra time and effort was not put in to push Beyonce to the status she has now. Of course she’s talented, beautiful, and smart but I think the vision gets clouded by the fact that her father and mother both had a significant hand in the direction DC went…We’ll never know any other outcome than the one that is but it’s definitely something to ponder on…

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    As far as Beyonce’s concerned—

    One thing’s for certain and two thing’s for sure–

    1. She is one of the HARDEST working women in the industry today.

    2. She married one the most powerful men in the industry today!!

    I’m sure Daddy Knowles didn’t forsee someone of Jay-Z’s character in his daughter’s future yet, I think what won him over was the fact that he (Jay-Z) was very successful in his own right. I guess he felt that as long as he made her happy, treated her right, loved and he could damn sure provide for her…what the hell??

    Now, who wouldn’t want that for their daughter?

  • tj

    I LOVE TLC!!!!

  • Divine

    @Justtoomuch
    Janet Jackson, Madonna came out around the same time as Whitney in the 80s and had well established careers in the 90s. Most folks didn’t even know Mariah was black. And some folks still don’t believe it.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    I’m wondering…….

    If some of us managed a group in which one of our children were in, wouldn’t it be almost automatic that we would want our child to have that “extra?”

    Take for instance fathers that coach their sons…they may not be the best on the team but the dad is damn sure going to give him some P.T.!!

    Look at the mothers that push their little girls into these pageants (which Mykel hates!! Lol))

    I’ve seen THAT first hand and let me tell you–THAT’S nothing short of child abuse!!!

    Yes, Daddy Knowles may have edged his daughter into the spotlight but did the other girls parents sacrifice as much as he did?

  • pm

    @FURIOUZ STYLEZ lol F.U.D.M fucin up da Money

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ Just because….

    I’m going to have to agree with your last post (especially regarding Aliyah)

  • me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!!!

    BWP…B*tches With Problems, I remember them LOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!

    I used to love that song Wanted.

  • c from stl

    @1TruDiva,

    You’re right and I’m sure the other girl’s parents saw this as an opportunity to get their careers off the ground, but I would have also foreseen exactly what happened (especially with LeToya and Latavia)and that’s complications with contracts and the overall direction of the group. It’s kind of like a trade-off with Kelly and Michelle, they had the opportunity to be a part of the best selling girl group of all time but yet they’ll forever be in the shadows of the lead singer and the most successful member – Beyonce. I don’t really know what the best choice would have been but I can forever see both of them struggling for the rest of their careers to get out of that shadow and hold their own…

  • me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!!!

    Just Because:

    Take Beyonce off that list, please. I understand it’s “cool” to like her and she is not without total talent, but you can’t list her as on par with Whitney, Mariah, Toni, Natalie or Chaka. That’s just not how it is.

    For the singers that did not get the status they deserved, you should also add Oletta Adams. That woman has/had an amazing voice.

  • J

    Bey doesn’t get ANY of my money. Not one cent.
    F her. I spend mine on ME.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    I’m almost certain that male groups had similar problems that females groups had. i.e jealousy, back stabbing, and all the likes. I think the reason men groups had more longevity is because of the way men (in general) deal with issues like those.

    Most men are not as emotional (by nature) as women. Men can let things like that go and look toward the success of the group.

    Women don’t forgive and forget as easily. Once there’s some underlying tension in a women’s group–it’s just a matter of time before they’re yesterdays news. The only difference between HOW long they manage to stay together is if there is some true talent all along—i.e En Vogue!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/gazfynest Da Plus- Sized Diva

    she was asked a question and she answered it honestly which doesnt happen very often

  • B.I.N.F.L…

    WHAT T-BOZ SAYING IS RIGHT THOUGH.

  • *Treasure*

    Kelly and Michelle can’t cut it as a solo act. They were not successful in their solo careers because people did not buy their records. Beyonce was the focal point of Destiny’s child, just like Diana Ross was to the Supremes. They will always be back up. Kelly is very pretty and she should concentrate on acting. I hope things work out for them.

    TBoz looks good. She seems bitter about some of the things that went on in her group. I want to know which one tried to steal Dalvin from her. That is an interesting story.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ c from stl–

    And to add to your comment–

    As parents in that situation, you either ride the wheels ’til they fall off or find another avenue for your child to be successful. I’m not made at the Knowles camp! As long as they weren’t doing anything illegal or immoral to the other young ladies…well, it might sound crass but–he looked out for his!!!

    Again, what parent wouldn’t? It’s not the girls in the groups’ fault that Matthew Knowles sold THEIR PARENTS a dream and they bought it!!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    *mad–at the Knowles camp!

  • http://bossip.com phillygurl

    Tboz needs to go st her azz down. Y is she lying about ATL being about her and Lauren London, portraying her. I’ve never heard that b4. Thats a darn lie. Get over it stop hating on B!!!

  • whatever….

    Matthew said in an interview, DC was built that Beyonce has some friends. Don’t ya remember that..nobody wanted to be friend with bey and that’s why matthew decided to pick her some.

  • c from stl

    @1TruDiva

    Yeah, again you make a good point, I guess I just see the strong potential in the other two members (especially Kelly) and I think that they’ll have more of a struggle instead of an edge due to their association with DC.

  • Butterscotch

    Parents generally pull out the stops for their own kids before all others, no matter how well intentioned they are. It’s just a fact of life. Kelly should have struck out on her own a little sooner, but better late than never.

    As for TBoz, I can’t hate on her for being honest about how she feels. At least she’s not snickering in private, getting busted and then backtracking. And it’s not like she’s coming out of left field – she’s just saying what a lot of folks are afraid to say.

    I do feel sorry that she does not seem to have been blessed with the true friendships of sistahood. Maybe she should pay attention to the character of the folks with whom whe surrounds herself. Sounds like she’s been hanging around too many industry folks…

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ C from stl–

    I agree! I only wonder two things–

    If Kelly wouldn’t have joined DC and came out as a solo artist and,

    2. If she came out under the management of someone other than Matthew Knowles.

    I’m positive she would’ve been marketed different and she might’ve had just a tad bit more success.

  • Micaroni715

    En Vogue, TLC, SWV and Destiny’s Child. What do they all have in common? They have all broke up at one time or another.

  • Just Because

    @ Me me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!!! regarding Beyonce being on the list:
    I rated females with OBVIOUS vocal talent that are/were granted Diva Status by the PUBLIC. You can not deny that Beyonce is Both worshipped and Hated live a Divas are.

    I agree Oleta is underrated and so is Shanice Wilson among many others–that is why I added my last bullet point to say there are so many more!

  • Mon

    Beyonce parents did use Kelly and the other members of DC to push her solo career. They knew that she could not made it by herself if she wasn’t is the group first. To me Kelly can sing and dance better than Beyonce she just didn’t get the push she needed.

  • Kool-Aid

    She really sounds like a hater. Sorry, but that’s my opinion. She talks like she’s not washed up or anything. There was no reason for her to say anything about Tyra. The Destiny’s Child thing — sure it may be true, but why she gotta go so hard? And I can’t stand when people who fail automatically consider themselves experts? If she knew so much, she would be somewhere making money instead of losing her house.

  • Kool-Aid

    Oh and Beyonce has already knowledged – a long time ago – that the ultimate plan was for her to be a solo artist. That’s no secret or great revelation.

  • c from stl

    @1TruDiva

    I think she would have had more success. I mean, she was definitely a strong member of DC but she can sing and she’s beautiful and has style. I think if she had gotten new management sooner, like maybe after their Destiny Fulfilled album, she could have really done more. But like someone else said earlier, her solo album was the first one released and it went double platinum….it was their way of testing the market and then they promoted and pushed the anticipation of Beyonce’s album like no other member. Yes, I love Beyonce and yes I think she’s multi-talented and hard working but one would have to be blind to not see how much of a difference was made with all the members and their promotion/album production. But, I guess Kelly felt the need to have loyalty, whether it was because Matt is her father or because of other reasons, she should have branched out sooner…but, you never know, we may have only seen the beginning of Kelly’s potential…

  • Awesome-0-3000

    I like T-boz even more now

  • FURIOUZ STYLEZ

    @ me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!!!

    BWP…B*tches With Problems, I remember them LOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!

    I used to love that song Wanted.

    *****************************************

    HELL YEAH & “2-MINUTE BROTHA” AND “WE WANT MONEY” ARE MY JOINTS

    …”MARRY YOOOOOOOOOU DON’T MAKE ME LAUGH!”

    LMAO!

  • Just Because

    For those who think Kelly and Michelle may have been successful solo artists had it not been for Matthew or if only they had better marketing, that is not true.
    Not everyone in life is going to make it to that number one spot- they just aren’t. Marlon Jackson can sing and dance but out of that family only Janet, Jermaine and Mike were destined for success outside the group. Rebbie had one big hit so I wont count her.

    Every person has a talent threshold and you reach that and then you either rise to icon status or you stay at that level and just continue to get by. Very few ever make icon level and they are:
    Whitney
    Mariah
    Beyonce
    Diana
    Madonna
    Janet
    Cher
    Barbara
    Celine Dion
    Patti Labelle
    Chaka Khan

    All the other singers may have had a good album once or twice, had a good tour once or twice, even hit number one once or twice but they are NOT destined for icon status and that is just they way it is. They can not blame that on anyone else or anything else- it is the way of the world and the pecking order.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ c rom stl–

    I think Kelly’s got some serious potential. I’m rooting for her!!

    @ Just because–

    Again. You made a VERY good point!

    @ Butterscotch–

    You sound much like me!! Just call me a “soccer mom!” (even though neither of my children actually play soccer. Lol!)

  • Fair

    Love T-Boz and she is correct. She has been in the business a long time and knows the good and the bad about the indursty. I still listen to Different Times w/her and Raphael Saadiq, wish her the best and good health

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ Just because–

    Out of your group listed–you forgot Aretha Franklin (although she irritates the crap outta me) and please tell me you mean Barbara Streisand??!!!

  • Just Because

    Also i think people need to look at what they call beng successful in this industry and if you are an artist you need to adjust your expectations and deal with the reality of the situation:
    If you really want to be a singer and you are still making albums, still ahve a contract and still getting booked even if is to the opening of the next grocery store then I consider you to be successful.

  • Just Because

    @ 1 True- sorry about not listing RiRi, along with Gladys Knight and Tina Turner but my focus was on the DIVAS that are WORSHIPPED ACROSS THE BOARD and not just the R&B’s Divas on that second list I gave for pure ICON Status. Aretha is worshipped in a Motherly kind of Negro soul Spiritual kind of way. I listed the women that Gay men love to dress up as and that young girls ALWAYS said they wanted to be like as far as fashion, looks AND talent. No girl ever wanted to dress up like Aretha on Halloween, know what I am saying, LOL!!!!! And yes I meant Mrs. Streisand!

  • Fan Of Bee

    But Beyonce did have to go back with DC the first time she went solo but she did becuz they love each other no matter what… They are sisters!!!!

  • FURIOUZ STYLEZ

    YO JUST IT LIKE THIS….IF MEN DON’T BE DRESSING UP IMPERSONATING YOU THEN YOUR NOT DIVA STATUS!!

  • Brooklyn AL

    Damn She Kept It a 100% Real

  • TheGoodGood

    that’s real talk

  • ty

    this interview was RUTHLESS and so honest, destiny’s child was always about beyonce. and she’s so honest about shit, poor tyra banks..lol

  • Awesome-0-3000

    @ FURIOUS STYLEZ

    haha, true

  • Just Because

    Furiouz Styles said: YO JUST IT LIKE THIS….IF MEN DON’T BE DRESSING UP IMPERSONATING YOU THEN YOUR NOT DIVA STATUS!!
    ____________________________________________________
    Exactly and that is why my list of woman who are DIVAS of Icon status is the TRUTH.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    “even if it’s to the opening of the next grocery store”

    Lol!!!!!!!!!!! Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Again–you’re right!

    Look at it this way–there are a bunch of people that non-industry folks would conside a “has been” but in reality, every race runs it course plus–how many CHOSE to get out of the limelight?

    Another point—There are tons of singers (such as myself) who have no problem whatsoever keeping it under the radar!!

    I love to sing! There is ABSOLUTELY no doubt in that–appearing locally has paid many a mortgage yet, I’m content at what I’m doing right this very moment…I love raising my children….I love my career…grateful for my job and all those other things. I think if I had the opportunity (again) to showcase my talent on a bigger stage, I would have to consider the impact it would have on my children–just as I have then….and now!!

  • Just Because

    @ 1 Tru Diva- I have enjoyed our conversation today. I wish you continued “success” with your god given voice!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ Just Because–

    I could choke you for NOT mentioning Gladys Knight and I could KILL me for not seeing that you didn’t mention Gladys Knight!!

    Lol!!!!!

    You DID mean Babs!
    **whew**

  • Divine

    @Fan Of Bee

    But Beyonce did have to go back with DC the first time she went solo but she did becuz they love each other no matter what… They are sisters!!!!

    Ah Negative….they owed their studio another album. And I think they owe them 1 more. So they will be back together soon…

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ Just Because–

    Thanks and I wish you happiness and succes in whatever you do!

    The convo really has been nice!

    Again, Thanks!!

  • dime10

    gO T BOZ GO VOICEOUTNOW.COM

  • Just Because

    Girl- I loves me some Gladys and Aretha and Hun you know I was so WRONG for forgetting her on that first go round. But you know she has a place on that list for sure!

  • Just Because

    @ ! True soem other Divas – how did we miss Stephanie Mills, Tiawatha Agee (Mtume), Taka Boom(Chaka’s sister), Jocelyn Kennedy (Mothers Finest),Phyllis Hyman, Deniece Williams, Angela Bofill, Angela Winbush, Faith Evans
    We could keep going and going

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    You’re forgiven!!!

    Once again, it’s been very entertaining yet, I must get ready for work. As usual, I’ll check on later and if you’re on, we’ll blog. If not, please enjoy the rest of your day and be safe!!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    @ Just becasue!!

    Dang!!! And Stephanie Mills???!!! (I performed two of her songs recently—I feel good all over and The comfort of a man!! dang!!)

    Oh and what about—Natalie Cole?? We CAN’T forget her?!!

  • Just Because

    Bye- have a good day!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    Damn!

    You’re going to make me late for work!!!!

    **strolling down memory lane**

    I gotta run!!!

    Take care!!

    **1TruDiva has left the building**

  • http://gochitchat.com/wordpress/?p=113 gochitchat.com » T-Boz Interview!

    [...] anybody can have her hair. All you got to do is call up Tyra Banks and ask her where she gets her wigs [...]

  • jb_1030 (is stepping up her purse game until she cleans out her closet of old shoes)

    Hey 1 Tru!!!!

  • TheMan

    Whatever happen to Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson and Madonna? Mariah alone has sold twice as many records as Whitney Houston! No I don’t think Beyonce could have made it on her own like that she, she needed backup, but she probably won’t admit it.

    No mariah has not sold twice as many cd’s as whitney, she released twice as many but they are almost neck and neck.

  • what?

    Diddy should have had her talk to the girls of Danity Kane before he decided to break them up.

    Great interview, I like T-Boz’s personality and I feel like she was keeping it real with Destiny’s Child!

    Everybody and their mama knew that at the end of the day, Bey was the priority.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!

    **peeking back in**

    Hi JB!!!!!!

    **quickly exiting thread**

  • http://undressingher.com undressingHER

    that was real ish she talked about. What did Kelly do with all that money though?

  • simply delicioso

    She looks like she has a black eye in that pic

  • Just Because

    @ NO ID you said: What happens with girl groups is that for the most part, women with singing talent or who are in groups are often not up on the business end of things. They may be a cute girl who is plucked out of obscurity with dreams of stardom (i.e. Cassie, Ashanti, etc.) or have a real talent (i.e. Fantasia, Jennifer Hudson, etc.) Once they get into the game, they are going to have a bunch of men in their ears, from those who want to hook up with them to enjoy the fruits of the lifestyle, to those who want to do business with them and exploit them for their money.
    __________________________________________________
    Need to correct you on those examples you used both Ashanit and Cassie had been working on their careers LONG before they blew up. They both had contracts and demos made with producers prior to getting a hit and getting the big studios involved. Fantasia was on the gospel circuit and if you didn’t know her WHOLE family on BOTH sides has been recording music and performing for about 30+ years so the Barrinos are a bit more famous than her cousins Kci and JoJo in the gospel side of the business.
    There are so many male performers who also DID NOT know the business side of the industry and ended up being taken advantage of, filing bankruptcy, losing everything and blowing their money on crap including drugs and women.
    So tired of people blaming bad decision, ignornace and stupid stuff on someone being a male vs female or vice versa. Men make the same mistakes women do and they have the same emotions. It is called being human.

  • http://mockrockstar.ning.com Mock Rock Star

    I always though T-Boz and Chilli were a couple…

  • Just Because

    @ me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!!!
    You made me laugh so loud! Put your Aretha Halloween Custom up as your picture beside your name!

  • Women who don’t get along with other women are just insecure. Sorry to be the one to break it to you.

  • me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!!!

    @ Just Because

    As soon as I can find a place to get that hat, I definitely will :D

  • @ Just Because

    always knew is that you? :)

  • JSTeeZ

    SHOULDN’T THIS BE UNDER WHEN THE CHECKS STOP COMMING IN…PO BIT WUNTS 5MINS OF FAME L0L BUT W/EVER

    NEXT

  • Mia

    take to another level,no passenger on bey plane……..even DC ;-)

  • me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!

    @ Just Because:

    http://freedomeden .blogspot. com/2009/01/aretha-franklins-hat.html

    Paste and then remove the spaces…LOLOL

  • Just Because

    @ me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO…
    You can buy that hat from Cititrends, Rave, and Beauty Supply Store, Gas Station or check Cashing spot next to the White Pantyhose and white gloves for ushering next sunday, LOL!

    ____Who is Always Knew?_____

  • me (the original) RichardBibs GTFO!!!

    LMAO

  • @ Just Because

    Sorry I didn’t mean to insult you.

  • ThatBKChick

    And one of the world’s most powerful, intelligent and beautiful “darkbutts” (which this fool spelled wrong anyway) is Michelle OBAMA–Bringing the Dark and Lovely, Women back on the Scene folks!!!!

  • Just Because

    I am not offended by the back and forth- it is all Good Dialogue.

    As far as that person who posted about Darkbutts- i don’t engage ignorance. That person posted that to start some mess because even the lightest black woman/ even biracial- has a DARK BUTT!

  • Divine

    “Women who don’t get along with other women are just insecure. Sorry to be the one to break it to you.”

    I agree. And like attracts like. You attract people who are most like you.
    The women I have as friends are confident and refined. They don’t get involved in catty and petty mess. When you got good things going on yourself you don’t have time for foolishness.

  • A

    I agree with T-Boz saying Beyonce is on top because her parents groomed her to be from the beginning. From the get go Beyonce was always the one singing lead. Envogue that is a group because you hear all 4 singers sing. TLC that is a group cuz you hear T-Boz sing, Chilli sing, Left-Eye (RIP) sing, write & rap. Desitny Child was about one child Beyonce. Otherwise why wasn’t it called Destiny Children? Which would have made more sense if they were a four women group? If it was not for LeToya’s first album my mentality would have been “oh she is just a back up singer for Destiny Child”. I still want LaTavia to come out with an album to see if she is “TONE DEAF” as some made her out to be. If Kelly did not have a song called “STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX” I too would have thought Kelly is a just another backup singer for Destiny Child. I mean come on! You only heard one person singing in Destiny Child and that child was Beyonce. Beyonce had a better and longer chance to better her vocal skills more than than the others. I mean if they were a group why weren’t the songs seperated for each person to showcase their voices like EnVogue? And if their were jealousy/insecurities about who sang lead and all, then why did it so long for the LeToya and LaTavia to speak up about who sang what? I firmly believe that LeToya and LaTavia had no problem being backup singers but had a problem with management about how their money was being mishandled, how they weren’t getting better communication from Mathew. It was said that Mathew gave each girls a contract to sign. What was that contract about? And why was Kelly living in the Knowles house? There was a problem in management. Were the other two getting their imformation right like Kelly and Beyonce? I feel Kelly was groomed from the beginning to idolize Beyonce instead worrying about herself. If anything if I feel like if I’m not getting my money, my azz is gonna let u know what’s up! I don’t care if Beyonce happens to be my bestfriend and your daddy is boss, I’m gonna speak up. Because your family is living the high life but I can’t give the same treatment for my own family. Yeah right GTFOH!

  • JobWellDone

    Yes ma girl t-boz!! Best interview ever!!! Gotta respect a chick tha keeps it R.E.A.L!!!!!!!!

  • facefacts

    For the record Destiny’s child was not a GROUP it was ONE child and some backup…BUT LOOK AT BEYONCE’S SELLS HER CANDLE IS BURNING OUT…SO SHE MIGHT HAVE TO REGROUP…its no secret she started biting off people when the group split cuz she was stale even her first album had DC songs on it…MK would make her successful by any means necessary thats why any project she has makes OPRAH!!!! MK is prepared to go broke to keep her relevent and with songs she ‘s got out he just might…

  • http://Bossip AKeys_Stan

    I never got into TLC but much respect

    Total is my fave girl group

  • Christie’s secrets (la vie serait plus belle si j’avais un job !!! grace a dieu tout ira bien tres bientot)

    i dont know, i just feel like you should not be talking about someone else business like that! I mean she should have just avoid that question about beyonce!

  • http://Bossip AKeys_Stan

    Solonge will be speaking her mind about this I’m sure

  • FiveNine

    I agree with everything T-Boz stated. Its actual and factual….

  • http://Bossip AKeys_Stan

    Ms Kelly Rowland needs to put out a tell-all book
    That will be the best seller

  • http://hiphoppopandrnbstop.blogspot.com/2009/04/new-music-brandy-love-me-most.html Mileka

    NEW BRANDY – LOVE ME THE MOST (PROD BY B. COX). CLICK MY NAME (MILEKA) TO LISTEN/DOWNLOAD

  • Lamil

    There is a “Girl” group floating the air waves in North Carolina. Check out Rich Girl. The producer of Beyonce’s Crazy in Love created his own version of Destiny’s Child.

    Do a COPY/PASTE:
    http://myrichgirl.com/get24.html?utm_source=google&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=guptamediasem&gclid=CK_x9PWR3ZkCFQLixgodimvEVw

  • http://google Real Talk

    This is true, I do agree. The thing I have notice dealing with the female species is we have the tendency to worry about the next woman. Who she with? what she got? How she got it? etc…
    I don’t think T-boz was negative she was speaking the truth.

    “The problem is in any organization or click, group whatever,you will have you group of leaders, than the followers and then the admirers. It is up to that person to decide what category they fall in”. Real Talk – Lets’ not forget those who stand behind the ones they think will do a good job at being a leader.

    I personally think that Kelly and Michelle confidence was not as strong as Beyonce’s, when you focus on how much attention a person is getting, you loose track of yourself worth. If I am somewhere that I gets no love. I am out! You can’t expect some one to get the job done for you! Put yourself out there network,or get left behind.

    Girls are petty! Women move forward! Real Talk!

  • Mia

    leave beyonce alonnnnnnnnnnnnnnne

  • hotmilfchocolate

    @ Mia

    leave beyonce alonnnnnnnnnnnnnnne

    &&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&

    lol!

  • http://hiphoppopandrnbstop.blogspot.com/2009/04/new-music-teairra-mari-deja-vu.html Mileka

    New Teairra Mari – “Deja Vu”. Click on my name (Mileka) to listen/download

  • Lady Next Door

    Just because

    I need to correct you on something. For one, I am a fanatic about Earth Wind and Fire. You made a mistake saying they broke up. Where did you read that? It is true Philip did several solo albums, but it also true that the label who originally signed Earth Wind and Fire agreed to do the solo deal with Bailey after Maurice white put in a good word for his friend. Maurice White did solo deals, as well as many of the members of Earth Wind and Fire. THEY NEVER BROKE UP. Check your facts.
    Each and every one of them was multitalented in different instruments and production (Deniece Williams and The Emotions).

    Real talk-if Beyonce could sing and write like say some of the women from Philly (Jill Scott and Jazmine Sullivan), then I could see her being truly talented, but the two women I named can and will have songs that will be classics while Beyonce will be a fad.

  • Lady Next Door

    For every Beyonce, Rihanna, and Ciara, there is Jazmine Sullivan, Jennifer Husdon and Jill Scott.

  • Ohf@ckthat!!!

    Apr 6, 2009 – 11:35 am ms meca

    girls are so emotional so i can feel what she saying.. men fight over the money and being the boss. half of these women have these d@m nervous breakdowns from stressing over men and worrying about men..
    ___________

    Co-sign. I have all male friends, some female associates at work, but I kick it with and go out with men for the most part and it’s not because of the reasons that T-Boz mentioned, but it’s because women are so emotional for the most part. and base their decisions on their emotions, which is DANGEROUS!!! You can loose out on some really good opportunities by not being able to take the emotions out and think with your head. I’ve been told that I am more like men in the regard that if it ain’t about my money, I don’t care.

    I have more of the problem of other women’s men wanting me, and their women knowing it and thinking I want that dog…but if he’ll cheat on you with ME……you know the rest…..yall’s mama’s told yall, like mine did WAY before I started dating!!!!

  • http://bossip ken

    kelly is only looking 4new management as a solo artist destinys child r still gonna make music and 2b honest no matter what n e 1says they r the only female group who can come back with albums and they go multi plat other female groups lake bcuz their drive is gone

  • http://bossip.com jai

    interesting post but how did Aaliyah enter this conversation while she may not have had the best voice the girl had talent it annoys me when ppl down her listen to any of her ballads and u know she could sing and she sold 32 million albums so other female acts were successful at the time there was also Brandy and Monica some of yall act like success for black female artsit is reserved for Beyonce

  • http://bossip kenny

    YOU ARE AND OLD COUGAR WHO CHASED A THUG MACK 10
    AND NOW YOU CAN’T GET NOBODY IN THE FAME INDUSTRY
    BECAUSE YOU HAD KIDSSS MY A SCRUBB, NOW YOU STRUGGLIN.

  • Honestly…

    She looked more than miserable on The Apprentice – apparently it wasn’t just a look.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    There’s a lot to be said about a woman that has no female friends.

    I mean….not ONE??

    Sure, for the most part, we’ve all been through that “I only have male friends, females are catty, back stabbers, etc…”

    However–when you, as a woman can find YOURSELF and you’re comfortable being you, you’ll find some female friends.

    Remember, we ARE what we attract!!!

    It’s easy to sign it off as the “OTHER” women having the issues as far as being freinds but until you can look at yourself and know what YOU bring to a friendship, you’ll always feel slightly off about having/maintaining a friendship with women.

    IMO–There’s not too much greater pleasure in having a real, honest to goodness homegirl in ya life!!

    One that’ll be there when you’re set to go on a date and need to let someone know where and who you’re with.

    One that won’t blink at jumping out of the bed to answer the door at 2:00am when that bastard effed up!

    One that won’t have a problem riding out to catch that no good man (and even though you know he might not be any good, you know when to say that and when to fall back with the comments)

    I’m honered to have been blessed with not one but TWO sincere friends. No I don’t see them or talk to them everyday but I know, I’d give a kidney for them if need be. I know the feelings are mutual.

    Also–it takes that type of friend to BE that type of friend.

    Not intending to piss anyone off–I’m just throwing out some jewels!!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    “COunt on me” by Cece aand Whitney sums up my friendships rather well. I guess that’s why we sing it often!

  • Queeney

    With all the money she earned, she should have gone to finishing school. First of all, although she has a unique voice, it definitely was not meant for singing. My ears still hurt! She comes across as arrogant, resentful, and self-absorbed. So…Beyonce was the only pretty girl in Baby Dolls…one can look at footage and see that’s not true (although she was and is pretty). T-Boz may have an inflated perception of herself, but hey, if you don’t love yourself, who will. I take issue with her saying she would “never bring another girl into TLC” that’s funny because she and Chilli did a reality show called “R U the girl.” Does anyone else remember it? It was lame, just like her! It’s not just females, its anybody who feels inferior to the next person, that includes men, so that’s a null and void statement.

    @uhuru, Matthew didn’t move to an apartment just because he took a less paying job, he and Tina were experiencing martital issues stemming from his eligitiment daughter Kelly…Tina soon accepted Kelly as her own..considering the fact that she does share Beyonce and Solages blood. A bit of a stretch, but stranger things have happened…like Beyonce marrying a camel!

  • http://bossip.com chocolate chip

    T-Boyz is the worst female singer who has had the pleasure of recording hit songs. She should stay away from live perfomances but I like her style. Pretty, tough and a stlye maker for the young. TLC was cool. T-Boyz used to crack me up with that voice but she can dance

  • J

    @MIA

    You sure didnt say shiz when Beyonce was speaking on the Jacksons’ business, see what hypocrites stans are..my bad satans….cause your Beyonce worship has caused most of you to become liars and DEVILS (and that is a devilish trait)….stay in the light (Honesty, TRUTH, FAIRNESS, JUSTICE)

    I would never let some celebrity lead me away from GOD!

  • J

    And yes Beyonce NEEDED DC if she didn’t they would not have formed the group, it was formed so she could develop CONFIDENCE (her parents words)
    So ofcourse the girls were TAUGHT to be inferior and she was taught to feel superior…and that is how we got today’s beyonce as she FED off of the DC girls

  • J

    Don’t believe the hype…ANY body can go broke.

    See how dumb yall are over this woman.

  • Just Because

    @ Lady Next Door find the post where I actually TYPED OUT THE WORDS THAT EWF broke up- go back and re-read, what I said was that there are MALE GROUPS that had issues AND ALSO had some parties that may have stood out more than the group on their own and did solo work.
    No need to correct what is NOT wrong.

    Also your opinions about Jasmine, Jill and Rhianna are just that. My posts were about the females that have BEEN GRANTED DIVA status by the public as a WHOLE. The industry recognizes Beyonce as a DIVA, she is successful and no arguments can negate that. Bottom line the DIVA STATUS has been bestowed on Beyonce and not on Jazmine, Jill or Rhi. It is unfair for you to say that only their music will be quote unquote “timeless”. Every artist who ever made a record has a fan years later, so your opinion is no more correct or valid than any other poster on this site.

  • http://Bossip Mommie

    My comment about Beyonce parents running things is as simple as this Mr & Mrs Knowles made most of the sacrifies by,downsizing their home and financial stablility as well as their marriage. Thorough it all the stayed together. Hell yeah the should be running shit! I don’t recall hearing about the other parents participation.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    @ Just because–

    You’re back on with me??

    OK. I didn’t see your response about Natalie Cole.

    Whatdja think?

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    Another one…

    **humming caught up in the rapture of…**

    Oh, Anita Baker!!

  • TongueTied

    Puzzled Look …can somebody give me a definitive answer on what “real”?? Tionne’s reality, while real to HER is probably not identical to Beyonce’s, to Rhianna’s …hell, may not be the same as Chili’s and they were in the same group!! No two people in HERE have the same “reality” so “keepin it real” as opposed to fake, really loses meaning after awhile, doesn’t it? Everyone’s reality is based on circumstances …my “keeping it real” prolly isn’t the same as anyone elses …or it could be. Just saying.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    I think Beyonce needed DC just as much as they needed her…but for different reasons.

    Her management wanted to “refine her so to speak….Get her ready for a solo career….Get her used to the grinds of an entertainer.

    Plus–I thought it was always known that Beyonce would eventually fly solo.

    If even I knew that, why in the hell didn’t the rest of DC know it?

    Once again–like her or not, she is one of the most hardest working women in the industry today.

    I see more pictures of her performing than I do with her getting “surprised” by the papparazzi.

    Seems to me there are plenty other entertainers that–IMO–let the paps know where they are to get a photo opt–making them look like they just happened to be out and about.

    GTFOOH!!!!
    Lol!!!!

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    Lol @ Tongue tied!!

    I think when most people claim to “keep it real” they are telling THEIR version of what THEY believe to be the truth—Don’t forget that anytime someone “keeps it real” they might just be expressing something that may lead to controversy.

  • TongueTied

    LOL@1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    Thank you, I suspected as much ..reminded me of that Chappelle skit “When keeping it Real goes wrong!” I dunno ..I guess I just admire my brothas and sistahs when they getting they grind on, bustin stereotypes and bubbles, not being just pigeon-holed into one group or genre, but steeping outside the box and shining …and I think all our celebreties strive to do the same. I may not like EVERYTHING Bey does (I don’t!) but I give the sister props on crossin over and getting all the luv ..not just black, white, purple etc. I think we limit ourselves waaay too much staying within the confines of our own. I also agree with you …Stevie Wonder coulda saw beyonce’s solo career coming …why didn’t the rest of DC? tell you why …because they were busy enjoying the sucess of being ” The Number one selling girl group of all time” …they wasn’t exactly dining on Ramen noodles, ya know?

  • always knew

    Dang, even when I’m not here, the haters stay talking about me..I never impersonate, my dear…Got to much class, for that..Only a select few hide behind screens and pretend to be other people…And your little comment about not insulting ‘just because’- I’m glad I stay on your mind. I don’t let any one reside in mine, for free.
    Glad I’m that important, to you all…

    WHY DO THEY SAY HATERS COME IN DROVES?

    THOSE THOSE THAT DO, HAVE
    THOSE THAT DON’T, JUST TALK ABOUT IT :)

  • C.L.

    Correction: Tboz has a closure on the side of her head

  • My Business

    Ok I’m lost. What happen to the girl that won on the T Boz and Chilli reality show because Boz needs something to do go and make music instead of hatting on Density Child it only makes her look even cheaper than the way she sounds!

  • TongueTied

    @ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    Yeah I have seen that isht before …tell you what tho ..I am gonna do all I can to get mine …sistah you do you to the fullest …and let a hater hate! As for Beyonce …I think Katt Williams said it best …” You SUPPOSED to have haterz; if you don’t have any haterz? you ain’t doing shit!”

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™ and Beyonce – keep doing da damn thing!! I’m outta here!!

  • smallbite

    T-BOz needs to sit down in a corner. Since she has a favorite amongst DC. I have one for TLC and it was Lisa Lopez (RIP). She made that group have personality. Seemingly Lisa was a roughneck, but she brought color to this group. See if it was T-Boz or Chilli who carried the group then they would have been able to float on without Lisa. Lisa was the key ingredient to this recipe. So T-Boz SIT DOWN.

  • Demeter

    You gotta give beyonce credit. She is at a point where you just mention her name and you get a headline/spotlight. Maybe if she goes and gets a DUI or has to check into rehab for drugs, people would like her better?

  • Butterscotch

    @ 1TruDiva

    I totally agree with you on the homegirl friends tip! I have been through some rough times in my life, as most people have, and feel so blessed to have my two best friends in the whole world. I do not understand how grown women don’t have at least one or two friends. Aside from God and my family, my friends are my world.

    Just to give you an example, I accidentally knocked over my phone late last night circa 2 a.m. and accidentally hit the speed-dial for one of my best friends. I didn’t even realize what I’d done, but she actually called me back right then to make sure I was OK. What a blessing that is.

    I actually feel sorry for T-Boz because she is missing out on one of the best things in life – true sistahood.

  • yx

    You are great, I am one of your fans for 2 years, but I- am
    not sure of the re ason why your p rofile was found on- __T a
    l l M e e t. C o M____? Don`t you know- your fans[Including
    me] will be sad about this?

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™

    @ Tongue Tied–

    Salute!!!!!!

    Keep it real hun!!!

    See ya!!!

  • concerned

    “T Boz and TLC are jealous of Bey’s and Destiny Child’s success.”
    ————

    Bull.

    TLC HAD all of the success that Destiny’s Child had *before* Destiny’s Child came along.

    There was life & success wayyyyy before DC….

    They’ve been there, done that.

    So neither T-Boz nor TLC are jealous of Beyonce having something that they’ve *already* had.

  • lil’ bit

    first of all i just want to say i thought it was so wrong that she was fired. i think donald is an idiot,he’s on a power trip,& i cant stand his ass.

  • Lucius Fieldon

    She is irrelevant, why is she even asked her opinion on ANYTHING?

  • specialist

    all i got to say is. the reality show she and chilli did was not to find another member for the group. it was for ONE girl to record ONE song with them, for their greatest hits CD. and how can a girl group legend be hating on someone who idolized them? IMO, TLC is the greatest girl group of MY time. but thats just me. T-boz seem to be TOO real for some of y’all commenting on here.

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  • MS. SIPPI

    She need to hush up and be concerned with her own self. It is not nice, when people like her, use other people’s situation, or misfortune to draw attention to themselves. I would be insulted if a reporter wanted me to go into details about someone other than me. She should have just “Shut her mouth” as my grandmother would have said..

  • TongueTied

    Had to peek back in …and the debate still rages, I see …However …for all ya’ll that crack on Beyonce “being ho” Poppin her booty, doesn’t do songs that will last or be proud of, maybe ya’ll remember THIS lil ditty – “I won’t be afraid to touch myself
    It’s all right
    I said it’s all right
    I don’t think it’s wrong to touch yourself
    Ain’t nothing wrong with making it feel good …”

    Yep ..our very own T-BOZ!!!! Damn!!! SMH

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  • facefacts

    lol did anyone catch how Tboz let it be known that even back then someones else was writing the songs for DC3 really why would either one of these groups need to come back?

  • Sharie

    TRUE!!!

  • fromhercreativemind

    TB gettin’ old. She need more eye makeup cause she looks tired. She lookin’ her age finally. And why she snitchin’?

  • Carla

    Trump fired Omarosa, and she wasn’t an entertainer she’s has a degree in finance before she became a reality celebrity eating lunch at the Ivy, in Beveryl Hills lol….

  • Carla

    Opps, I meant Beverly Hills, sorry ! :)

  • lorie

    Keeping it real. That’s what’s up.

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  • dj

    thats right and as far as girl groups go TLC is number 1 forever and always!!!

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