Dear Bossip: He Was Amazing Until I Got Pregnant & Then Wanted To Get Married For His Green Card, Now I’m Ready To Move On

Talk to the hand

Dear Bossip,

Okay Terrance…be gentle. I have been in a relationship with my son’s father for nearly 4 years.

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Dear Bossip: We’ve Been Together 8 Years & He’s Everything I Said I Didn’t Want In A Man, Now I Just Want To Disappear

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Dear Bossip, 

I just learned about you and I think what you are doing is wonderful. I love the advice you give, and I know it is true and honest.

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Dear Bossip: I Want To Get Married, So I Gave Him An Ultimatum Of Now Or Never And He Said Never

Woman confronting man

Dear Bossip,

I recently read the article where the writer said, “He says he’s unhappy, but I can’t let him go, he’s my world.”

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Dear Bossip: He Wants Custody Of His Ex’s Child, But It’s Not His & I’m Having Our First Child Which He Refers To As His Second Child

Pregnant Woman

Dear Bossip,

I am currently in a loving relationship with my high school sweetheart.

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Dear Bossip: My Man’s Mother Keeps Talking Slick To And About My Kids & I’m Tired Of It

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Dear Bossip,

I love your advice, it is right on point and sometimes you go way too hard, but I love the names of your schools. I digress. 

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Dear Bossip: I Met Him While Visiting In Montreal & We Kept In Touch, But I Went Back & After We Slept Together He’s Changed

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Dear Bossip,

I’m from NY and I met this guy on a trip to Montreal, Canada in January 2013.

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Dear Bossip: My Husband Works Nights, Sleeps All Day & I’ve Been In Contact With An Ex & Think I Want An Open Relationship

Woman unhappy in bed

Dear Bossip,

I am almost 26-years old and have been married to my husband for 5 years.

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Dear Bossip: Is He Using Me? He Lost His ATM Card, His Account Is Frozen, His Job Hasn’t Paid Him In 3 Months & I Foot The Bill

Man With Empty Pockets

Dear Bossip,

I am an avid Bossip reader and a reader of your advice column. I am new to the relationship department and could use your advice.

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Dear Bossip: We’re Getting Engaged & Moving In Together, But The Social Media Sites Hinder Our Relationship

Black Man on the computer

Dear Bossip,

I have been seeing a guy since February of last year and in October we finally decided to make it exclusive.

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Dear Bossip: My Man Had A Baby On Me With A Woman Who Is 40 & He’s 25!

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Dear Bossip,

So, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years.

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Dear Bossip: We’re Talking Marriage & He Says It’s Sacred, Yet, I Learned He Was Sleeping With A Married Woman

Man Frustrated With Woman

Dear Bossip,

I met my boyfriend of a year almost two years ago. For the first year we knew each other it was not serious.

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Dear Bossip: I Give Him Money, Yet, He Won’t Make Me His Girl & He Said Unless I Give Him A Certain Amount He Won’t

black man in bank

Dear Bossip,

I’ve been knowing this guy I’m seeing for about ten years. We meet when we were in high school.

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Dear Bossip: The First Time We Were Intimate He Lasted 2 Minutes, Now He’s Lasting 3 Hours & I Get Tired

Black couple in bed

Dear Bossip,

My Fiance and I have been together for 2 ½ years and engaged for about 2 months.

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Dear Bossip: Two Times I’ve Found Used Condoms At My Man’s Place & He Claims That His Boy Used His Place

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Dear Bossip,

Thank you for taking the time to read my message. I have a question but I’m pretty sure I already know the answer.

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