Dear Bossip: She Needs to Move On

Bossip I have a major problem. Well I’ve been with my man for about a year and change and he has a girl who’s 6 and a 4 year old boy with his baby mama. They were engaged and she called off the wedding because she felt like Continue »

Sextra: ‘She Has No Walls!’

Yo Bossip I gotta situation. Been seeing this girl for almost 3 months now and she told me from the door she wasn’t trying to get down until she got to know me. Continue »

Dear Bossip: I’m Engaged but Still Pursue Other Women

I’m engaged to a beautiful woman with whom I’ve shared the last 4 years of my life and we’re getting married in the fall. I truly believe she is “the one” for me and my life would be incomplete without her, she’s my partner and I love her. Continue »

Sextra: Who’s in the Mood for Some Gemini Loving?

Happy Friday, Bossip Readers! Today marks the dawning of the Gemini cycle of the zodiac! Anyone feeling not quite themselves? Could be your other half trying to stir up some action . . . it’s in the air! The Gemini is said to be one of the most adventurous lovers Continue »

Ladies, It’s Okay to Play the Trump Card!

Good day Bossip Readers! Here’s to another “Almost There Thursday!” So let’s talk the “trump card,” ladies! You know how when you’re really feeling someone, you start to get excited about the possibilities and next thing you know you’re stalking your phone? Continue »

Dear Bossip: My Guy Falls . . . Short!

Hello,

I have a question for you. I have a significant friend and we are dating and things are really good. He is thoughtful, sweet and considerate. We have alot in common and we are great together…outside of the bedroom. Continue »

A List of Ways to Tell if He/She is Playing Games

Good day Bossip Readers! Here’s to an “almost there Thursday!” For those of us who are still actively dating, it’s hard to tell sometimes if someone is really into you and wanting to see where things go or playing around. It’s especially hard when Continue »

Dear Bossip: Ultimate Betrayal

Dear Bossip,

I just found out that my high school sweetheart and husband of 3 years cheated on me yet again. The hardest thing about him cheating on me was the way I found out. After charging his iPod, I came across many videos Continue »

Sextra: Is Withholding Sex a Good or Bad Idea?

Happy Friday Bossip fam! Let’s start the weekend with an engaging discussion about the ever perplexing relationship protocol shall we? It is no secret that there are high and low points in every relationship and every couple manages each in their own way. When times get hard, however, some couples fight it out and have really great make-up sex, in other cases Continue »

Dear Bossip: Natural vs. Fake

I have an issue Bossip. Me and my boyfriend have been together for close to 3 years and I love him but lately I’m not so sure if he loves me like he says he does. Here’s the problem, when we met and first started dating he didn’t have a problem with my appearance. Continue »

Sextra: Physical vs. Emotional Cheating

What’s the difference many would ask. But apparently, for some, a sexual affair outside of the relationship is not a deal-breaker or a means to an end. After speaking to a few people, in terms of physical infidelity the general idea is: sometimes these things happen. Continue »

A List of Ways to Avoid the Dreaded Shut Down

God Day, Bossip readers! In light of yesterday’s “Dear Bossip” post, the question begs: how does a couple communicate if one party has shut down? How do you initiate constructive dialogue when times are rough? Continue »

Dear Bossip: I Love My Husband But . . .

Dear Bossip,
I am torn between following my heart or my mind. I am really stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am 26 years old and my husband is 36 years old. We have been together for almost four years but only married for a year and seven months. Continue »

Sextra: Separating Sex and Emotion

Happy Friday, Bossip Readers! With sex being a large part of our culture and society, there’s no disputing the fact that sex is different for men and women. Lately, however, it seems as though women have taken on an attitude that is similar to a man’s, in terms of sex. It’s almost as if women have adapted to a man’s ability to separate sex and emotion and, in turn, have learned to do the same. Continue »

Dear Bossip: I Want New Body Parts

Dear Bossip, I have a topic for your advice column. I want to know if I’m tripping. I’m 32 and my husband is 37. We’ve been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids. Our oldest is 5 and our twins are 2. When I married my husband I was small framed Continue »