The Evil Eye: Why Black Women Will Never Accept Black Men Dating White Women

- By Bossip Staff

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We’ve all done it before. Cut our eyes at a black guy and a white woman walking together, holding hands. Something about interracial dating doesn’t sit right with most black women and its a touchy topic rooted in a lot of pain and anger. Pop the hood for more

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  • Nat

    I am first!

  • Nat

    I am a black woman and I actually do not give a ‘bleep’ no more when I see a blk guy dating a white woman. Most of the time the guy is ugly and the white girl is fat. So I know they are together out of desperation. Most of the time the fat white girl is paying his bills and givin him head on demand. I used to cringe when I seen a black guy with a white woman but I figure that if he don’t like dating black women that something is wrong with him and black women don’t want him anyway. I have a good and educated black man at home that I been with for 5 years so I could give a damn about some white girl and black guy dating. Go ahead and keep making those bi-racial babies.

  • GGooDei

    WTF

  • GGooDei

    Why can I not post anything!

  • Idis

    I love black women, but im in love with my asian wife. I never felt the love from black women growing up. In my city(milwaukee) its almost as if you have to be a thug or something like that for the black women to feel you. It seems that black women only wisen up and go for a real man when they are old and used up already.

  • http://comcast FoXY

    People date who they like & that’s all good… But you have some black women/guys who will say, that they don’t mess with black women/guys… I find that ignorant/sellout, and not acceptable in my world!!!!!!!

  • nyp

    i don’t really care. relationships are hard enough without hating because YOU’RE single. i don’t seek validation from the outside world all too often. i think that is one of the underlying issues within the black community. i understand the history behind it all but let’s move on, k?

    the sooner black women get over ONLY having a brotha the sooner we’ll find true happiness.

  • num1dominicano

    women are women…I love em’ all…

  • sexual chocolate

    I get that look sometimes when I go out with my woman from Tunisia – you can just feel the visual daggers. Too bad they don’t know she is from Africa.

    Oh well it is their problem not mine, look at me having fun haters – I hope all that hate clog your arteries and give you a stroke.

  • Mogolo

    “Nat

    I am a black woman and I actually do not give a ‘bleep’ no more when I see a blk guy dating a white woman. Most of the time the guy is ugly and the white girl is fat. So I know they are together out of desperation. Most of the time the fat white girl is paying his bills and givin him head on demand. I used to cringe when I seen a black guy with a white woman but I figure that if he don’t like dating black women that something is wrong with him and black women don’t want him anyway. I have a good and educated black man at home that I been with for 5 years so I could give a damn about some white girl and black guy dating. Go ahead and keep making those bi-racial babies.”

    LOL! HATER!

  • hellonursenancy

    We all bleed the same, what’s the big deal? I remember when I met this cute-ass,diesel-ass Norwegian dude, and I was still seeing my cut buddy. Well, when we got to talking about the Norwegian dude, my cut buddy was so turned off, saying “what do you want with a white boy for?!”. He was so angry that I was seeing someone who just so happened to be white, that he couldn’t get “it” to stay up during sex. Needless to say, I started feeling the Norwegian dude officially, so I kicked my cut buddy to the curb. He is still upset to this day. If anything, I get more hate from black men for dating a white man, than from black women….It appears that black men are much more vocal about their disdain. I know the saying is supposed to be “I could care less”, but really, it should be “I couldn’t care less”. Like whoa.

  • jessie

    BLKAKC WOMEN GET JEALOUS BECAUSE THERE INSECURE ABOUT HOW THEY LOOK

  • litechokolit1

    i’m a born from an interracial couple and have to say “is the black woman so almighty that we have to care if she accepts”?, i dont care……

  • ValleyGirl

    I’m not going to LiveSteez.

    I do not care if brothers date white women and maybe can’t speak on the issue because my man is white. *shrug*

  • Alloyboy

    I’m mixed and love mixed women. I can’t take it when I see a mixed woman with a monoracial. NOOO! YOU ARE DISRESPECTING HALF OF YOU WHEN YOU DATE SOMEONE WHO IS THE OTHER HALF OF YOU! HOW DO YOU LOOK YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR AT NIGHT! Don’t you love your non black mother! Love your mixedness! Long live the beautiful mutts!! Halle Berry, Lauren London, Sydney Tamiia Poitier, Jessica Lucas. YEEOOW! Gimmie some of that!

  • litechokolit1

    @ Mogolo
    “I have a good and educated black man at home that I been with for 5 years so I could give a damn about some white girl and black guy dating”
    _________________________________________

    Believe me if your man was so educated, he wouldn’t waste time with a shallow minded, insecure racist beast like you..suffice it to say birds of a feather flock toghether, HE’S NOT EDUCATED AND NEITHER ARE YOU!!!!!!!!!.

  • Absulam

    @Idis

    dude, you hit the nail on the head. I grew up in Chicago and none of the black girls would even look at me because I wasnt a thug, baller, or tough guy. So I said screw it and started dating Polish girls (my HS had a large Polish population).

    I remember my older sister saying that they’d grow out of it but I’m not the type to wait for that. Now many of those same girls have a couple kids already and now the thugs arent appealing to them anymore.

  • L_Boog

    I am a black woman

    I don’t care about interracial relationships

    I am tired of people making it seem like we all care

    I am tired of seeing black guys with non black women and getting that rude stare from them first, because they see me, stereotype me, and assume that I care. I think that bothers me more than anything…But I guess I can’t blame them. when I dated white guys (married now), I would always feel weird around black guys, cuz they always had something smart to say.

  • Lady Shady

    I think black women are beautiful but have very short tempers and most of the time low self esteem, I think this because of the various hair weaves and relaxers that sell like hotcakes to black women. Why isn’t kinky hair glorified? Plus mainstream media doesn’t give black (female) beauty the attention it deserves. But It’s counterproductive to lash out at black males for falling for women of different races (white women in particular) its hard to be a black male in america as well and they too have insecurities and they too are influenced by the media on what is beautiful and desirable. Why can’t a black man go out and find a woman with good hair just as a black woman can go out and wear a weave and never show the hair she was born with, that God gave her?

  • Blood of the lamb!

    IT REALLY SHOULDN’T MATTER IF YOU ARE A BLACK WOMAN AND YOU SEE A BLACK MAN DATING A WHITE WOMAN AND IT UPSETS YOU, YOU ARE JEALOUS AND INSECURE LOVE IS NOT THE COLOR OF YOUR SKIN IT IS HOW THAT PERSON MAKES YOU FEEL. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP WITH THIS RACE ISSUE IT SHOWS HOW IGNORANT, SELFISH, AND RACIST WE ARE AS A WHOLE. IT’S SAD REAL SAD.

  • DATPHILYGIRL

    SEE THIS IS THE SH*T I AM TALKING ABOUT…NOW YOU HAVE ALL THESE MIXED,WHITE,PR,INDIA…WOMAN THINKING
    THEY ARE BETTER THEN US…I MEAN REALLY…DID A DEMON START THIS TOPIC…..SMDH….

    EVERYBODY ALWAYS WANTS TO DEGRADE US BUT ON THE OTHER HAND THEY WANT COLOR * AZZ….

    MY HUSBAND SAID TO ME ONE DAY…YEAH…I AM NOT THE WHITE WOMENS TYPE….U HAVE TO BE UGLY…LOL…I WAS LIKE I SEEN SOME CUTE DUDES WIT OTHER RACES…I NEVER REALLY FELT ANY TYPE OF WAY…WHO CARES AS LONG AS I GOT A MAN…WGAF….

    WHAT IS THY NAME DEMON….SHOW THY YOURSELF….

  • My .2 cents

    I think the reasons black women(some anyway) have problems with it is because they never had a black man in their lives that was worth anything. They grow up without a father and they crave the love and acceptance from men who remind them of their fathers.

  • 2dimplzs

    If they are truly in love and are happy then I am happy for them. I have a problem with the black men who exculsively date white women because they have personal hang ups with black women and lump us all into the same category. That’s what I have a problem with.

    If I see a black man with a white woman on the street who am I to judge? I don’t know their circumstances and what led them together. When I hear our brothas professing that they only date white women for one stupid reason or another that’s when I give them the side-stank-eye!!!!

    Love has no color in my opinion. IGNORANCE comes in all colors, shapes and sizes.

  • litechokolit1

    @Absulam AND @ idis:

    I grew up in Chicago and none of the black girls would even look at me because I wasnt a thug, baller, or tough guy.
    ________________________________________________

    I had the same black vs interracial black racist experience, to be honest i think some are just jealous because you have lightskin and are part of another race that they are not…

  • I really dont care

    look. I’ve overheard some black guys talking and i heard that some of the reasons that they dont like black women is because they are too loud and some are too fat. So now i dont date black guys because most of them are full of crap, so kudos

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