CoCo vs. Black Women on How To Keep a Man: Part 1

- By Bossip Staff

Coco recently did a blog post entitled ‘How to Keep Your Man Satisfied’ and some Black women took offense to the content.

Coco has shot back:

Let me start off by commenting on the first blog I did recently. Even though there’s a lot of love and people by my side… I can’t believe what hatred other people hold. You know who you are…My blogs are intended to be fun, light-hearted thoughts that are on my mind. I’m not speaking for anybody but my own experience. I do not pretend or claim to be an authority on how anyone else should live their life. So why would my blog on “How To Keep A Man” be controversial? Yes, my suggestions may or may not be your cup of tea but its definitely worked for me. I’m very satisfied and happy with my husband,working on a decade of marriage. What I was astonished by was how many people mentioned race, like it was a black and white thing. Not once did I mention color. This was a piece about making your man happy, why would the color of your skin have anything to do with it? I can be the color green and that still doesn’t change the way I love and care for my man.

Although working on a 10 year marriage is cool, we think being “easy going,” having an artificial body, and blonde hair have more to do with keeping Ice T than anything. Oh yeah, her brain game is probably on point too; Ice T probably keeps her jaws extremely busy. SMH.

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  • asdgadg

    Black women can’t handle the truth…………

  • LeahLeah

    Ummm handle the truth about what?? Why do these prostitutes(COCO/SupaHead) continue to come out with books and blogs on how to keep a man??

    As long as your head game is on point,you’re good.
    Nice and to the point. Why is it neccessary to come out with books and blogs???

  • Victor Newman

    Alot of black women got upset because she does things for her man, that alot of them “black women” wouldn’t do, because they think too much of themselves, and feels guilty that someone else of another race is pointing that out. So instead of them being LOGICAL, and saying “you know what there may be some truth in what CoCo is saying, I have tried doing it my way on every single one of my relationships, I did it my momma way, my aunts way and etc…. and it has not work at all, so let me try someone else way!” but instead of doing that yall black women gets upset. Black women listen to me, STOP LETTING YOUR PRIDE AND EGO GET IN FRONT OF YOUR COMMON SENSE!

  • Dboy

    Its so true black woman always bitter always hating why? Why cant black woman just handle the truth like any other woman in any other race. Wake up my black woman stop being so bitter.

  • SDC418

    what i wanna know is why is there no men writing blogs or books about how to keep and satisfy a woman? things that make you go hmmm…it’s as if woman are always bearing the onus of making the so-called relationship work. what about what men need to do to keep the relationship alive and fresh with the ladies in their lives?

  • Bee

    mekamac = Perfect example of a bitter b*tch LOL

  • Sissy

    I recommend you a nice milionaire dating site __Rich Flirts.c o m__. Whenever I chat with my friends on this site, I feel really relaxed and happy. They are easygoing and honest. I enjoy staying on the site. Hope you can find more nice rich friends there. Good luck to you.

  • georgian woman

    Anyone who felt offended or upset is straight jealous. Leave it up to idiots to make her statement an “issue.” I read what she said and too heat to it. Truth is, i don’t know of many happy couples, but if this is the helpful, then many should consider it. Lastly, WHO CARES IF ANYTHING ON ANYONE IS “ARTIFICIAL?” Ladies, Gentlemen!!!!! don’t be shallow or a hater>

  • Kim Anderson

    Now everybody and their mother has relationship advice! Oh please!


    Well I didn’t read the article. However I think when you are in a relationship you should do as much as possible to keep eachother happy. If that means doing stuff you’d never imagine to spice things up so be it. My moto is “I’ll try it once(with the exception of 2 things) if I like it I’ll do it again, if not at least I tried” lol!


    I agree @ Toppcatt, well said!

  • greedy habit

    black women are quick to call someone else fake when they are the ones walking around with synthetic weaves in there heads. hahaha now that’s fake

  • ToppCatt

    Thanks Amber!

  • Victor Newman


  • chanee

    @greedy habit
    lol alot of BW may have weaves in their heads, but coco has weave as well ( just cause she white dont mean thats all her hair) not to mention she has fake breasts and a fake ass, so she’s waaaaayyyyy faker than any black woman i’ve came across. but i guess she gets a pass cause she white right. smh.

  • Raven

    Whatever happened to loving your husband and husbands loving their wives, the biblical way?

    ” 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

    26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

    27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
    Ephesians 5:25-27

    How people want to live in their marriages, that is on them, but, a marriage will never be “healthy”, successful, nor will it last when God is not in the midst of it. Coco, may not have been attacking anyone, I don’t know, I did not read her article, but, the responses from the men, are not those of a respectable man. You have to understand why a black woman would get upset about these comments; some black men carry a stigma of, only wanting to be with a white woman because she is more laid back, and may or may not stand her ground when their is trouble in a relationship, and will just go for her husband or boyfriend doing anything, even if it is a disrespect to her. When a black woman says she will not take a black mans garbage, or any mans garbage for that reason, she is called ghetto, unappreciative, and always nagging. Now, don’t get me wrong, there are white women who will not take garbage either, but, they are not the ones in this subject matter. For those of you men who find peace in telling a black woman that she is jealous for respecting herself, I am sorry for you, because the self-respecting women, are going to be the ones respecting you, being loyal and true, and giving you real love, not just physical pleasure that can vanish over time. As for black women needing to “STEP UP THEIR GAME”….I am not saying that I married my Cuban husband for the sake of not dealing with ignorant black men, but, He is a Godsent, and he does treat me like his Queen, the way that EVERY woman should be treated; black, white, hispanic. I am half native and half black, and I get sick of men of any race, who talk so disgracefully low, about their own race of women.

  • Kami All Day

    @I am Legend:

    I just hope that she isnt letting him disrespect her and using her as his “money-maker”. Because if thats the issue, then it makes the “decade long marriage” more like a “pimps ups, hoes down” kinda thing.

    A woman, period, shouldnt let any man disrespect her, unless of course she doesnt mind because she wants a man just so she can say she has one.

    If whatever she is doing is making him happy then good for her. And him, cuz he seems to be enjoying and reaping the benefits of her “sexuality”.

  • Jamilah

    I like her. I think she is funny as hell. It has nothing to do with race I don’t like Kim K. nor Superhead. They take themselves too seriously while this girl has got what these two want.

  • vanity214

    if they are happy then i’m happy. and even if race did have something to do with it, we all are entitled to having our preferences. I’m tall, so if a n*gga don’t like tall females and prefers to be with a short chic, that’s him. race, height, weight, eye color- all that sh*t is physical characteristics. we can pick and choose what we like

  • chanee


    shut the hell up. no body gives too flying cat turds if you date us or not. and based off ur name and choice of words, you are not a loss to us, we welcome other races to take guys like you off our hands. let them deal with your ignorant ass.

  • chanee

    *two flying cat turds i meant…lol.

  • Kami All Day


    I take it you are young. And because of that reason, you are dealing with young females like you. You both have no idea on to keep each other, let alone, her keeping you.

    Once you grow up and start surrounding yourself with women who are mature and have a mind of their own, you will quickly change your mind on how you view these “black women” that you say are always arguing and acting stupid”. LOL @ you thinking the the little girls you choose to date and mess with are women.

    I mean, I could stoop down to your level and say some things too, but that would be pointless.

    I wish people would try changing who they surround themselves with before they start generalizing.

  • greedy habit

    to be a HAPPY black man you have 2 options. 1) turn gay 2) get with a white woman. I choose option 2… but some brothas aren’t as fortunate

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