Dear Ricky Martin, You Didn’t Have To Write A Book To Tell Us You Were Gay!

- By Bossip Staff

While it might seem like coming out the closet should be as simple as just saying, “I’m Gay,” apparently it’s just not that simple for certain celebrities who have been denying the obvious since adolescent superstardom. Take Ricky Martin for example, who now that he’s writing a book, decided to make his long overdue coming out declaration via a six paragraph letter on his website. Pop the hood for the particulars.

A few months ago I decided to write my memoirs, a project I knew was going to bring me closer to an amazing turning point in my life. From the moment I wrote the first phrase I was sure the book was the tool that was going to help me free myself from things I was carrying within me for a long time. Things that were too heavy for me to keep inside. Writing this account of my life, I got very close to my truth. And this is something worth celebrating.

For many years, there has been only one place where I am in touch with my emotions fearlessly and that’s the stage. Being on stage fills my soul in many ways, almost completely. It’s my vice. The music, the lights and the roar of the audience are elements that make me feel capable of anything. This rush of adrenaline is incredibly addictive. I don’t ever want to stop feeling these emotions. But it is serenity that brings me to where I’m at right now. An amazing emotional place of comprehension, reflection and enlightenment. At this moment I’m feeling the same freedom I usually feel only on stage, without a doubt, I need to share.

Many people told me: “Ricky it’s not important”, “it’s not worth it”, “all the years you’ve worked and everything you’ve built will collapse”, “many people in the world are not ready to accept your truth, your reality, your nature”. Because all this advice came from people who I love dearly, I decided to move on with my life not sharing with the world my entire truth. Allowing myself to be seduced by fear and insecurity became a self-fulfilling prophecy of sabotage. Today I take full responsibility for my decisions and my actions.

If someone asked me today, “Ricky, what are you afraid of?” I would answer “the blood that runs through the streets of countries at war…child slavery, terrorism…the cynicism of some people in positions of power, the misinterpretation of faith.” But fear of my truth? Not at all! On the contrary, It fills me with strength and courage. This is just what I need especially now that I am the father of two beautiful boys that are so full of light and who with their outlook teach me new things every day. To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids where born with. Enough is enough. This has to change. This was not supposed to happen 5 or 10 years ago, it is supposed to happen now. Today is my day, this is my time, and this is my moment.

These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn’t even know existed.

What will happen from now on? It doesn’t matter. I can only focus on what’s happening to me in this moment. The word “happiness” takes on a new meaning for me as of today. It has been a very intense process. Every word that I write in this letter is born out of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution.

I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed to be who I am.

Oh those gays… such a flair for dramatics!!!

Now you tell us — was all that really necessary? Ricky boo, we been known your “truth” but thanks for sharing babe.


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  • Raf

    In other words, “my career is over and no one is gonna care if I come out the closet”

  • I like hittin men AND women in the back

    i’d hit…….ferociously

  • thirdeye

    What he meant to say was ” Please dont hate me for being gay and please still come to my concerts and buy my cds”.

  • TheOriginalBlkBarbie

    Who didn’t know that he was gay? This is like hearing old news. I guess it’s a way for him to make some money though (now that his career has been M.I.A. for quite some time).

  • Flower

    That he thought no one knew is beyond me.

  • chaka1

    Ricky is still as fine as the day is long…
    I liked him ever since Menudo.

    Go head, girlfriend!!!

  • listen

    I’m proud of you Ricky!!! It’s not about anyone else except you and when you were ready to share.

  • petrio

    the truth is that Ricky has been having a relationship with Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle doesn’t know it…wat will she do when she does?

  • TheReal Tasha_Mack

    shish swish



  • Angel(formerly UrHeiness)

    He finally fessed up after all these yrs of speculating from his fan as well as the rest of the music industry..
    Oh well,good for him & wish him & his adorable baby,twin boys the best!

  • memchee

    …like hearing George Michael is gay all over again.

    I’m surprised…he did a good job of walking that metro-sexual fine line in his la vida days.



  • betty brown

    My condolences to your family!!

  • betty brown

    What a waste!

  • RedboneKillBill

    Um this is not news, yet he’s gonna get PAID.

  • foxxy cleopatra foster

    Everyone knew this. He still fine though. He’s one of those men that I’ll think, “I don’t care where his peen has been, I’ll still f**k him”.

  • Samantha

    He’s not attractive. He looks estrogenic to me.

  • GotYou

    He’ll be as big of an entertainer as he was yesterday. Look at Elton John – sold out concerts throughout the year. George Michael? Didn’t hurt his career still draws plenty of concert goers and money is in touring these days not CD sales.

    Ricky made a boatload of money before the whole illegal downloading craze went into full effect. He’s chipped in for life and more importantly he’s living his truth.


    w w w . t h e n o i r e f f e c t . c o m

  • Melb2010

    another fag bites the duts. Sorry but he wasn’t born gay, he just got turned out. Who let this fool adopt 2 boys, ugh…. disghusting.

  • Madame X

    I guess I’m slow becuz I’m surprised.

  • yoyo

    i’m not surprised, the only thing that confuses me is that if you’re gay how do you have children with a woman? Obviously a woman aroused you at some point enough to make a child. i’m not bashing him but that is something i have never understood, most gay men have children before they come out later in life. how are you aroused by a woman if you’re gay?

  • J


  • TRUTH IS....

    hopefully the other dudes in the industry on the DL soon come out too

  • Bernie B

    At least he is being honest … so many dudes are NOT … And personally, I think most latin men are bi anyway. Sexuality is an open book and people will sooner or later live their truth …It’s meant to be

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