Poor Thang! Brandy Says She And Flo Rida Are Not Serious Cuz She’s Scurred To Give Her Heart Away

- By Bossip Staff

Since she couldn’t keep a lid on her relationship with Flo Rida, Brandy is letting the world in a little bit more by blogging about her dating life. Pop the hood for more

While her brother runs through sexual partners like some folks do toilet paper, R&B singer Brandy says she’s been very cautious when it comes to matters of the heart. In her recent VIBE.com blog Brandy reveals she hasn’t really dated in FIVE years now and her daughter hasn’t seen her with someone since her last relationship… And while she admits to being interested in Flo Rida, all these stories about infidelity have her pretty shook too!

I’ve seen the photos of me and Flo Rida. It doesn’t matter how we met. We met. I don’t want to say that we’re a couple. I can definitely say that he’s somebody in my life and I’m definitely interested but I’m not serious with anybody. I’m a little bit afraid to give my heart away right now. It’s very scary. I’m open to it, but I just want to make sure that I’m taking my time.

It’s definitely because of my past and of course because my gut feeling is like, okay take things slow, don’t go too fast, make sure that your heart is in the right place, his heart is in the right place. That’s hard. I don’t want to go too fast and it not be what I want it to be later on.

If you’re a nice guy and you have your stuff together and you believe in family, I don’t care what industry you’re in. But people that are in the entertainment business are scary because there’s so much out there for them. They can get whatever they want and you have to be a strong guy to be in a committed relationship. You have to be strong and ready for that. And I just think if you’re not ready for that, then don’t tell me that you are and you’re not. Don’t be ready. Be honest with a girl. That’s what I told my brother. As long as you’re honest with women, then you’re fine. Then you can do what you want to do, just as long as you’re honest. Don’t tell somebody that they’re your girlfriend and then you go out and act like you don’t have a girlfriend. That’s not right.

So I’m scared in that sense because I don’t play around with the whole cheating thing. Please don’t do that. I don’t like that. At all. I’m so scared of that. I’m scared to give my heart away. I don’t know where to find a good guy. I just think that they’re around and I think you have to be good and at some point you’ll attract that. I really believe that. First, people should stop looking. The looking thing does not work. Just let love find you.

We can’t even blame Brandy for being protective of her heart. With these d*cks running around literally willy nilly, how easy can it be to trust again — just ask Elin Nordegren or Ginny Barber!

Plus Flo Rida has already run through a few industry chicks (just ask Melyssa Ford). Why should Brandy open herself up for him?


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  • Angel(formerly UrHeiness)

    Flo-rida’s hair looks painted on in this pic lol.

  • http://wetcandyvideos.com thablackyoutube

    Sounds like a cop-out to me.

  • SiDeWayZ

    She’s trying to find love and trust. Good Luck!

  • Catch Phrase

    She’s right in some parts of the interview. Just because someone is honest does not mean they can do what they want to do.

  • Theorius Stylez

    All of these things that she says are code-word for HE DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED TO ANYBODY!! Men are wising’ up!! Dont do it,Dude. Her babydaddy was given her tracks that were hits. She dumped him for the holliwierd life. Now, she wouldn’t know a hit record if Barry Gordy hand delivered it on a silver platter. Dont fall for the tears,Men. Dont get married. If you do, you’ll regret it!!

  • whatever

    I agree with Brandy people need to be upfront and there wouldn’t be all these problems.

  • SparkLe_B1AtCH

    i don’t think that is possible to find. stay single and do you and you won’t ever hurt.


  • Be Original

    I understand her hesitation. If it does progress to something more, I hope this time around she doesn’t lie about the situation the same way she did w/Robert. Lying to the public about the real nature of your relationship is not a good move.


    So, Brandy told her brother to be honest with women & the outcome was he had 2 seasons where he tried to find love on reality tv. Okay. Whatever.

    I don’t understand why she’s keeping her relationship w/ Flo Rida a secret. Nobody is checking for Brandy gossip. Oh, & nobody is checking for Flo Rida either.

  • I like hittin men AND women in the back

    brandy ole azz betta stop the bullchit and sit her zz down, ain’t no.body tryin to lock that shyt down.

  • rae

    if they procreate, i feel bad for that child’s hairline

  • RedboneKillBill

    The first thing she did wrong was blogging about it. Its hard enough for celebs to keep a relationship going, blogging about it 9 times out of 10 will cause its demise.



  • truth be told (the original)

    Shoot, I wouldn’t give my heart to him either. She not as dumb as people make her out to be sometimes.

  • brianne

    i think thats a smart move she has had to many public break ups and relationship issues she needs o take it very slow and keep it very private

  • Boo

    Translation: She’s afraid he’s gonna leave her a$$ for a white girl!!

  • Rolly

    It doesn’t really matter. Brandy’s right saying she wants to take her time before throwing her heart out there. Plus industry nigs be trying to get with anyone who will up their relevancy. So who knows if this dude is into her like that! I’m with Brandy – don’t let no one lock u down until they are trying to be down for real!

  • Jessica

    love you Brandy you the best and I pray you find some one that is real

  • http://bossip yo

    flo rida got a george jefferson hairline



  • MzTrina95fo

    P.S. oh and I bet she ain’t scared to give dat p**** away. I KNOW DEY F****N!! oh and dats a facT!. and dats they business. but dont go all I’m scared now Becky….I mean Brandy

  • Mr.uPPeR CuTTs

    Brandy gotta nice booty…

  • Resident Weevil

    Yo, Florida, I mean, Flo Rida. Shave your scalp!!! My hairline got thin (Not as far back as yours is, pahtna)and my barber tried to push my tape back, I told him to shave it bald. There aint no shame. If the only health problem you got is a way back hairline, your doing well. Gotta give your barber props for creativity, though.

  • http://www.blahblah.com Paris Carter

    her wig is on too low….better hairline brandy

  • kalifa

    brandy looks weird with that wig and those bright a$$ veneers on her teeth…..

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