BOSSIP Exclusive: Toya’s Boo MempHitz Swears On His Daughter He Has “Never Touched A Woman In His Life!”

- By Bossip Staff

Earlier this week Jive artist K.Michelle took to her Twitter page to make allegations that her label head, Jive A&R and Hitz Committee CEO, Memphitz, physically abused her and was blowing her album budget on his new boo, Antonia “Toya” Carter. Neither Memphitz nor K.Michelle is saying much outside of Twitter, but a trusted BOSSIP source tells us this story is just the ugly results of mixing business with personal. Pop the hood for details.

According to our source, Memphitz signed K.Michelle to Jive Records through his Hitz Committee label about a year ago.

“He thought she was unbelievably talented, like a female R.Kelly and he wanted to make her First Lady of Hitz Committee,” the industry insider told BOSSIP exclusively. “He was going around telling people how crazy her voice was and calling her his little sister, but she wasn’t feeling that at all. She wanted to be with him from the beginning. She kept pursuing him, telling him they could be like Jay-Z and Beyonce. He kept trying to tell her it wasn’t going to be like that, but she just wasn’t taking no for an answer.”

“He tried seeing her for a little while, but she had a really negative attitude. That girl was always complaining about something. Everything about her was negative and when Memph realized that, he told her it wasn’t going to work with them.”

Bossip’s source says things came to a head about eight months ago, when the two were at a hotel in Memphis, which is hometown for both of them.

“He told her, ‘I can’t really do this relationship thing with you’ and she started going OFF! She was throwing sh*t, throwing punches. He was trying to avoid conflict so he left and went to his family’s house.”

Our source says K.Michelle followed Memphitz to his family home in Tennessee where she continued making threats that she would ruin his career.

“It was just a mess,” the source told BOSSIP, “Her own manager told her to let it go. She’s already said all kinds of crazy stuff. Before this she was trying to tell people she was carrying his baby, so I can’t say this really surprises me.”

We asked our source if it was possible that Memphitz might have resorted to violence at all while dealing with K.Michelle.

“I can’t see him doing that, EVER. I’ve known some of the other women he has dated and he’s never had a problem with violence. When he heard what [K.Michelle] was saying he swore to me on his daughter and on his life that he has never touched a woman. He’s pretty upset about what she’s suggesting.”

The source also told BOSSIP that it’s his involvement with Toya that has made K.Michelle that much angrier.

“He loves Toya,” the insider revealed. “[K.Michelle] is angry because he won’t be with her, now he’s with this other woman and he’s happy and she can’t even get off his label. She’s talking all this sh*t about him blowing the budget, but he wouldn’t do that. He’s been in this business too long. She just doesn’t understand that she doesn’t call the shots in this situation. Memphitz and Jive get to make those decisions about what songs she sings and how the budget is spent. That’s how it works for any artist. She is not any different.”

BOSSIP reached out to K.Michelle yesterday about her tweets — but we have yet to receive a response.

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  • phatcakes

    ALL these woman that are blessed with SINGING SKILLS should not even want to get involved with your manager or producer.
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  • Choco

    Oh okay well No means NO for men too!

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    I doubt their kids will win any spelling bees.

  • I'm Just Me... Keeping it Real Since: 1983...EXPECTING

    I mean really. If he is abusing you, why are you still working with him.

    You all know I am a DV survivor, but I wonder if at times, folks don’t put themselves in this situation. Why did you follow the man back to his house? See once you do that, the gloves come off.

  • Gaite

    K.MICHELLE. ihave her on facebook and she stays talking reckless. she says some pretty crazy shit. so imma go with MEMPHITZ on this one. thats one sykotic hoeeee. all her POST’s qot me worrying

  • Micaroni715

    I am riding with Memphitz.
    Hold ya head.

  • Britchick91!

    women lie men lie
    but tbh i blv him more than her

  • real black is devil s h i t

    Ho’s have gone totally crazy, cheating with other womens men, accusing men of abuse, all kinds of ish just to get a lawsuit and a paycheck, how about just getting an education and gettin your own ish, triflin azz bishes……..

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  • chyynaa

    It could be true but i think shes just trying to get some attention. Why is she just now saying something now once she found out hes dating Toya?….

  • Sticky-n-Sweet

    For some reason, I’m riding with Memphitz…and ummm, its spelled “psychotic”

  • ThickLikeCornbread

    imma ride with Memphitz on this.

    But I thought K.Michelle was dating R.Kelly?!!

  • CutiePie

    Sounds like K.Michelle is a hater…. Time will tell?!? What u do in the dark will come to light…

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  • redbonekillbill

    Hmmmmm sounds just too suspect…women lie men lie but I’m with Memphitz on this one.

  • Money First

    Wow big ups to Memphitz. As an insider in the music game I have seen some of what people have spoken about this young lady (K Michelle) but once again I will say this to all my fellow brothers in the entertainment field: “If you plan on doing “real” business with a lady never, ever, ever, let it get personal!!! It always ends badly. Ask Irv Gotti.

  • Jocasta

    OH LAWD… So, this is a case of… She’s his Girlfreind but he’s not her Boyfriend… Well in her mind she’s the one and is not taking NO for an answer… Priceless

  • M. GRIMM

    Just another pretty face with no since of reality or respect for herself or others. You got a chance to make moves and you blowing it cause a dude saw how unstable you are and now you using all that energy to start shit. This is how folks end up missing.

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  • thetruth

    I know her personally and this story is false well atleast what ur sayin! Cuz his cuzin has a blog n she told a dif side of the story but all in all! She started sayin stuff in oct/nov but she wrote songs about him “where they do that at” “what kind of man” ect way b4 she said anything about him hitting her! And she is juss like all these other black girls out here ghetto my cuzin n my mom is the same way! What 1 man does to 1 women doesn’t mean he will do 2 the next! But when or if he does this to Toya then what will u say?

  • courtesy

    wow i got nuffin 2 saii about that but dont mix up ur personal life with ur proffession

  • M

    I wouldn’t put anything past k.michelle she definitely slept with her best friend’s boyfriends who’s an NBA player so why wouldn’t she. I’m not saying she’s lying but she’s already got a strike against her.

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