Sextra: Who’s In the Mood For Some Cancer Love?

- By Bossip Staff

Earlier this week, the cycle of the Cancer came upon us and we’re now in the throws of the time of the crab! Cancers, according to astral research, are said to be the most emotional and sensitive beings of the entire zodiac. So in order to protect their soft center, they create a hard shell to shield themselves from pain. They don’t like being hurt; for they are very loyal and giving and when they feel betrayed, it cuts deep. Just as deeply as they hurt, though, they love even deeper. When a cancer is committed to someone, they do not waver. The crab has an innate need to feel emotionally secure within their relationships and if it’s not there, they tend to get a bit possessive. However, if their lover is true and the devotion is without question, watch out! A cancer will devour you in the bedroom! This astral sign will set the scene for a total body experience – the complete arousal of all senses. They’re the type that will draw a candlelit bath with champagne, rose petals tossed upon the silk bed sheets, exotic incense burning with soft music playing in the background. Their main focus is to please their lover and they’ll do so with such passion and so selflessly, you’ll never forget the experience. Toe curling. Although a cancer can and will participate in casual encounters from time to time, the best way to connect with the crab is to first, be genuine and second, get to know them on an emotional and spiritual plane before you delve into the physical. A cancer’s love is forever so don’t even bother with them if you’re the flighty kind because they do, in fact, snap! And when they do that, hold on to your ego because you won’t have much left when they’re done with you!

Cancers are the best. We will give you the shirt off our back if you needed it. That’s just how we are! I will admit we can be very moody at times but everybody has their days! Ummm, and as far as the sex is concerned, I’ve never had any complaints and most guys are surprised by my freakiness! I probably don’t come off as the type that will do some of the things that I do but like I said, I’ve never had any complaints! Cancers are the best! We’re smart and funny and accepting of other people and their differences. I mean, you really can’t go wrong with us in your life because we love so hard. Please believe it. – Cameron, 29 on July 7

I was kind of in a relationship with a cancer and he was a great friend before anything else. I could count on him to be at the same place at the same time because this was before cell phones. So we had this meeting place and he was there on certain days religiously, I really loved him for that. If he wasn’t there, I knew something was wrong and he would find a way to get in touch with me as soon as possible to let me know what was up. He was very loyal, indeed. We did everything together and he was so fun to be around, we always laughed and talked about everything and nothing. He did eventually make a physical pass at me and I was shocked because I thought, by that time, he was only into me as a friend and I was content with that. Sex was okay, it was tender and sweet. I didn’t think much of the physical at all but it did change things. He got possessive and clingy like he had to know where I was and who I was with at all times and if it wasn’t with him, forget about it. He’s still a close friend of mine to this day and if I needed him for anything he’d be there. He’s a really good guy! – Linda, 32

I’m a libra and my ex-girl was a cancer. Man, it was drama all the time and she was never f*cking satisfied. She was emotional which wasn’t a problem for me because I have two sisters and we were raised by my Moms so growing up around all females I, usually, have a leg up on them and I don’t get all wrapped up in the emotional tantrums but, man! This chick got physical and she would scream and cry and storm out the crib all hot around her collar. The crazy part about it was, I felt like I couldn’t leave her because she was so unstable at times and I never wanted to feel responsible for that. The sex was outrageous and it fixed a lot of our problems but that was only temporary because, let her tell it, I was always doing her wrong or not considering her feelings. That was a crazy ride, for real but she was a great person. Still haven’t found a chick as freaky as she was though, good f*cking sex, real talk. – Mike, 30

All the Cancers and lovers of the Crab, please share your thoughts!

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Comments

  • http:chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I’m with a cancer man and most of what you say is true they are caring and giving but I also find him to be lazy and in denial which has become trying but his loyalty makes him a keeper

  • drenk

    i f.c.u.k.e.d. a chick with cancer once, does that count?

  • You Smell Me??

    Ahh Cancers…

  • la bruja

    I’m a cancer. as tough as I am is as soft as I am. loyal and loving. thats us

  • Thumbody

    AWWWW NO LOVE FOR THE CRAB!??? ALRITE, ILL LEAVE A GREAT NOTE! YES, AS A CANCER, WE ARE VERY POSSESIVE..AND JEALOUS..AND FREAKY …AND LOYALY..BEST FRIEND TO EVER HAVE, AND WE ARE EXTREMELY SENSITIVE! SHOUT OUTS TO MY CRABS OUT THERE..WE RUN IT WELL (:

  • You Smell Me??

    Nobody loves the Cancer….

    They come across as emotional, needy, and crazy at times. The Cancer sign is the cancer sign of astrology…

    And this is coming from a Cancer…

  • ShawnM

    said to be the most emotional and sensitive beings of the entire zodiac. So in order to protect their soft center, they create a hard shell to shield themselves from pain. They don’t like being hurt; for they are very loyal and giving and when they feel betrayed, it cuts deep. Just as deeply as they hurt, though, they love even deeper.
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    I think this is mainly describing most women! IMO

  • LYRICS

    CANCERS ARE WONDERFUL!! MY MOMMY N’ MY LIL SIS ARE CANCERS!! THEY WILL LITERALLY GIVE U THE SHIRTS OFF THEIR BACK…LITERALLY!!!!

    I DON’T WANNA KNOW HOW MY MOMMA IS IN THE BEDROOM, MY LIL SIS IS WAY TOO YOUNG 4 ME TO EVEN FATHOM THAT, N’ I’VE NEVER BEEN W/ A CANCER MAN (SEXUALLY), SO I GUESS THAT MIGHT REMAIN A MYSTERY 2 ME!!!

  • I love love an Asian MAN

    That’s why my husband loves me!!!

  • paige

    my brother is a cancer and will do anything that i ask of him he is always there for me….but he claims he hasn’t cried in over 10yrs,,,lol

  • No u can't be boyfriend #2!

    I am not a Cancer (I am a Scorpion) but they are cool in my book!

  • http:chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Yousmellme
    You are funny my cancer man is very needy and emotional and I’m a female so you know there are times when I’m like WTF

  • toosexy

    I am a Cancer and all those things are true..I am very loyal in my relationships and freindship..I only have two friends cuz once you’ve cross me there’s no coming back.. I am VERY SENSITIVE AND EMOTIONAL… it took me a long time to understand why.. but now I know it was my sign.. We do love hard…and are moody.. I don’t like confrontation ,but when pushed to it..I loose it…. So I don’t like getting angry.. cuz i can’t control it once it starts.

  • Irrational Needy Cancer

    My sister is a cancer, and is the most selfish person I know, and she’s an airhead, all the cancers I know are bubbleheads for the most part…the guys that I’ve met (cancer guys) have been very passive aggressive and have a taste for being sneaky. I’m a libra, and when I hear that your sign is cancer, I roll my eyes and hope for the best…..

  • toosexy

    NOW THOSE LEO’S i JUST CAN’T STAND..EXCEPT MY SIS AND HUSBAND…UHHHH

  • You Smell Me??

    Women hear I’m a cancer, and they automatically think I’m in tune with my feelings and sh*t…

    Like I like sobbing over romance novels, and day-dreaming about long walks on the beach…

    I do get moody though, real talk…

    ie. Don’t talk to me first thing in the morning; good morning is all I want to hear. Let me wake up damnit..

  • Louisi@n@Lover

    Anything is better thatn those CRAZZY @ss Gemini’s.

    I have tried to d8 Gemini’s, but they are fu(ked up.

  • No u can't be boyfriend #2!

    Louisi@n@Lover

    Anything is better thatn those CRAZZY @ss Gemini’s.

    I have tried to d8 Gemini’s, but they are fu(ked up.
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    Agreed!

  • hotta than a lotta

    JULY 4TH…AND I AGREE WITH THE ARTICLE…CANCERS LOVE, HARD AND FOREVER!

  • ReJeanne

    Crazy Cancers man, Im a Cancer as well and as of late the last three females ive delt with are all cancers.. thats Ideal for me because i understand them but for some reason they dont like me… lol gotta love it!

  • Louisi@n@Lover

    @ No u cant be my bf #2,

    Im a Scorpio too!!

  • that damn sh#$ disturber

    love cancers. haven’t met one, that i know of, that i haven’t liked…

  • SimplyKay

    I’m a cancer (July 12) and everything written is true. I can be your best friend when we’re on good terms, but if you cross me I will take your pride with me.

  • selena

    Im a cancer woman and i keep getting n2 relatonships with cancers! Y oh Y? lol My bf now is so mushy and I shud understand it but its annoying at times! I think thats bcuz I dated an aqaurius and F*ck#d me up in the head! never again lol bUT i am for sure loyal and all that other stuff!

  • !!!!!

    I LOVE MY HUSBAND HES A CANCER AND YES HES SO F-KIN FREAKY I LOVE IT.

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