Sextra: What’s Up With the Fishy Odor?

- By Bossip Staff

Bossip I have a question. My girl is the best thing that ever happened to me but lately she’s been smelling foul. The odor is fishy and overwhelming. We’ve been together for about 6 months and I’ve never known her to smell this way so it caught me off guard when I caught a whiff of it. I thought it was a one day deal considering she was fresh off her monthly but it continued. It’s been two weeks and she’s still fishy. I don’t think she realizes she smells this way because she tries to have sex like everything is cool or if she does know it doesn’t seem to bother her. Why does she smell like that? How do I open up that discussion?

Happy Friday, sir! Thank you for writing in and sharing. Okay, so you want to know what causes the “fishy odor?” Well, more often than not, it’s an infection called Bacterial Vaginosis or BV. The fishy smell is caused by an overgrowth of naturally occurring bacteria in the vagina. It’s very common and, as quiet as it’s kept, it’s more common than a yeast infection. There’s an array of scenarios that can cause a woman’s vaginal PH to be thrown out of whack – it could be hormonal, it could be inconsistent use or a change in birth-control methods. If you two engage in unprotected sex then it could be your seminal fluids. You have to think, the vagina is a dark, moist pocket that has its own bacterial regulatory system and sometimes, for whatever reason, it malfunctions.

The upside: it can be treated! She should go to her lady doctor so they can perform all the necessary tests to be sure it’s BV and they’ll prescribe an antibiotic to to treat it. The downside: many women who are diagnosed often experience recurrences shortly thereafter but, with the help of antibodies, the vagina will rebalance itself. But she absolutely needs to go to the Gynecologist to be sure its BV and not Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. Just to be safe, you should get tested also.

This is not an easy topic to discuss. There’s no easy way to say it. She may be completely unaware of her odor so you should let her know. The best approach is a diplomatic one. Just say, “hey, I’ve noticed an odor lately and I just want to be sure you’re okay. What do we do?” Or something along those lines and the conversation should progress from there. Again, not an easy conversation but try to keep it as nonchalant and easy-going as possible. Hope this helps and good luck to you!

Bossip Readers, how should he tell her?

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  • dee

    Well put!!

  • drenk


  • dee

    Well put!! Men need to learn more about the things that happen with out bodies.

  • Jelani


  • Deesac

    She’s got a yest infection, whatever you do DON’T EAT THE PUZZY!!! BACK UP MOVE AWAY SLOWLY

  • wheredeydodatat

    Just tell her something is fishy around here and it’s coming from down there. LOL!!!

  • Michelle

    I wish I could be a fly on the wall, when that man has this conversation with his girlfriend.
    I can’t think of anything that is the diplomatic way of saying “you have a fishy odor!”

  • queenb

    most woman know about this…very common…unless she is under 21 then she should know….Just talk to her…

  • Choco

    Ummm okay I swear I pray I never have this problem

  • http://urnotpdiddyloser 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS

    disease or infection. you have it too. lol

  • drenk

    7/2/10, 14:44:pm

    I wish I could be a fly on the wall, when that man has this conversation with his girlfriend.
    I can’t think of anything that is the diplomatic way of saying “you have a fishy odor!”

    there is no diplomatic way, thats like saying a diplomatic way to pull teeth, ya just gotta do it!

    just come out and say ‘baby i love you but your p.u.s.s.y.s. been stinkin for the past 2 weeks’

  • Nia

    Women should try probiotics such as acidophilus suppliments to bring back the natural bacteria of the vagina. Try to use dove soap, do not douce it makes it worse, and eat lots of plain natural yogurt.

  • Deesac

    My mother always told me if it smells that means STOP!!!

  • WTF

    I guess things get easier when you’re married… When something don’t smell too right in that region, I let her know like I remind her to lock the doors when she leave.

  • all the men want me.....

    Oh please it happens to all women.It just seems she should have caught a whiff of it first. She may be young and this may be her first one. Come on… that’s life


    @ Yun Dun Know

    How refreshing to read your response! You are dead on it and 100% right! I’m riding with you…love a smart, positive person!

  • Your Nurse Practitioner

    Im sure it is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV AKA an overgrowth of bacteria in the vagina) & a Rx of Flagyl should help. But, I would still recommend that both of u get tested for STDs & HIV.

    Douching is usually a cause of BV, so stop douching ladies!!!

  • n_satiable

    LOL @ bklynista718! Never heard of a “yeaster bunny”….

  • ReALiSt AKA ReALeSt (SLaP Da PoPe & FrEe Da ShEePLe ¬ VaTiCaN = iLLuMiNaTi & DeViL)

    Rotflmaooooooooooooo!!!!! That’s why we call women the FISH STICKS!!

  • Jenice

    LMBO Dead! @ “yeaster bunny”

  • Cougar_Lover

    Ugh!! Why did i even come in here, knowing full well that im staring down a plate of captain d’s….o_O

  • champhf

    tell her to stop passing her cat around…!!! or wait uptill she falls asleep and attack her with some vagisil i think she will get the message.

  • Gold

    You guys are so funny.

  • Gold

    Just back up and move away slowly LMAO

  • OMG!!!!!!!!

    WHATEVER THE HELL LIT IS SHE SMELLS IT TOO! i refuse to feel bad for women that dont snap that p u 5 5 y back! go to the damn doctor! and stop letting that ni 99 a hit it raw!

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