Mashonda Says Alicia Keys Asked Her Son And Swizzy’s Daughter To Call Her Mommy…

- By Bossip Staff

Swizz Beak has moved all the way “On To The Next” by marrying former mistress Alicia Keys, but his ex-wife Mashonda is still clearing the air about what actually happened to their marriage and the strange request Stepmommy Alicia made of her son Kasseem Jr.

You might’ve thought Mashonda already said EVERYTHING that could be said, but you’d be wrong!

Mashonda covers the new October issue of Sister 2 Sister Magazine and spills even more surprises — including how Swizz was still sleeping with her when he was dating Alicia, why she’s still talking about their messy divorce and how Alicia had the nerve to ask her son to call her Mommy!

On Swizz and Alicia’s affair:

S2S: Were you guys dating other people before he got with Alicia? Were you guys separated?
Mashonda: We were married. Sleeping in the same bed and having sex every night while he was seeing Alicia. Okay? It was an affair. 100 percent. I don’t know why people want to change that rule so much. We had just had a kid, for crying out loud. Our child was 8 months. I found out about Alicia two days before my son turned 1. They had been doing their thing for months before that.

On Why She Continues To Speak About It If She’s Moved On:

Mashonda: People ask me why am I still talking about this and why don’t I just leave it alone. I’m like, this is going to help somebody. My story is a universal thing. This is not just something that only happened to me: This happens to women every day. Mine was just ugly. If I can help the next woman get through and be positive, then I’m going to talk about it.

On Alicia Asking Kasseem Jr. to call her ‘Mommy’:

S2S: You said that Alicia wanted your baby to call her “mommy”. How do you know that she said that?

Mashonda: My son told me.

S2S: And you told her that is not going to happen?

Mashonda: Yeah. I sent her an email and asked her to please respect what I am to him and it’s not right for her to think that is okay. She never replied. She doesn’t reply to me. She has never given me that respect.

S2S: What does Swizz say?

Mashonda: He said okay, he would stop it. He wouldn’t let her do it.

S2S: That would be kind of confusing for the child.

Mashonda: Oh, it is. It is so unfair to the child. I have been in contact with the little girls mother (the woman in England who has Swizz’s baby). She’s a young girl. She’s a spiritual girl. She apologized to me… I don’t even judge her. I can’t. She’s totally different than the other one. This other one knew. Alicia knew about me 100 percent. Swizz introduced me at prior events. They were signed to the same record company. She knew. And I emailed her and asked her to stop doing what she was doing and she disregarded me. Just like she disregarded me when I asked her to not have my son thinking it was okay to call her “umi.” You’re not his umi. You just met my son.

S2S: “Umi” is like “mommy”?

Mashonda: “Umi” means “mommy” in Arabic. I’m like no. And then after I spoke to the lady in London, she told me that she tried to get her daughter to call her “umi” as well.

S2S: She’s met the lady in London?

Mashonda: Yes. I’m glad she’s having her own child now because now she will have someone to call her “umi”.

S2S: Wow.

Mashonda: Like, if you want to be a stepmother, that’s great. Be a stepmother. But don’t think that it’s okay to make a kid call you “umi” or “mommy.”

WOW… Mashonda does not play! That’s crazy bold of Alicia to do something like that.

Is Mashonda still going too hard or are Swizzy and Alicia FOUL on so many levels that they deserve to keep getting put on blast in public?

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  • Nikki

    This broad is certifiable, it is very apparent that this split has caused her some serious mental issues, she really needs to go and seek help. How does she expect for her son to have a decent relationship with his Dad, new stepmom and other siblings if she continues down this road? She is going to ruin the relationship between him and is son, such a shame, Typical black woman. If I can’t have you, I will interfare with your relationshi with you and your child, this chick is such a liar.

    • Tee

      Nikki how do you know it’s lie…I don’t think we should judge her and call her a liar…when no one really knows the truth…and the typical Black women I’m going to let that one slide…and not even comment…

    • Nikki Strong

      @Nikki, that’s a very immature thing to say on your part. If you’re a mother of a child, and the fathers has a new relationship with another woman then that’s what it is. She is not your child’s mother!!! You are! At the end of the day the whole thing started out foul, and not for nothing we should mad at Swizz more so because he knew he had a family and he disrespected it for Alycia. We have to giving celebs the edge cause they’re celebs. AKeys is wrong and she’ll get hers trust me..

    • Droppin it like its hot since 1986

      @Nikki You don’t seem to understand the situation she was placed in so your comments sound somewhat immature and we all weren’t there in there home to see how it came to this. Furthermore, none of us can judge her for speaking out on her defunked marriage. Some of us have been their and some of us are headed their. Mashonda has every right to correct Alicia for trying to make Mashonda and Swizz’s son call her mommy. Alicia needs to know her place and it’s not her part to interfere into the relationship of a mother and child, especially when you are the reported mistress. Swizz needs to also let Alicia know her place if this is true.
      Ppl, need to understand, this defunked divorce ONLY SERIOUSLY AFFECTS THE KIDS involved so yes, Mashonda needs to move on and do her. She’s a beautiful woman and I’m sure she’s going to find a man that’s going to stay true to her. I think by her speaking has educated me on relationship so kudos to her for dropping me some knowledge.

    • cc

      I was gonna say the same thing, why are you so sure it’s a lie? You’re obviously the type of chick who has no problem letting a man hop out of one woman’s bed and into yours. You probably think you’re “wifey material”. Look @ Mashonda, she was his WIFE. And he completely betrayed her and threw their union in the toilet bc they were probably going through things and he found someone he thought was new and fresh. Men do that all the time and it’s chicks like you who let them. As females we should have more respect for ourselves and each other. For you to be so insensitive to what this woman went through shows you are just as immature, callous, and selfish as any other Homewrecking wh*re. You’re the one who needs help and some self esteem.

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    • Gonna be hot today

      Alicia? Is that you???

    • melo

      She has every right to vent where and when she wants for however long it takes her to heal. How is she certifiable? Maybe you’ve been a jump off and advocate the other side of this mess. She’s a very strong woman that has been through something that tears at your very being. Perhaps, if an outsider interfered with your family you’d see the light.

    • ImaPC

      None of us know if Mashonda is telling the truth or not, but if she cares anything about the harmony she keeps saying she wants, she wouldn’t keep going to publications with her personal business. Its ridiculous, and SHE is ridiculous.

      I don’t blame Alicia for never replying to her, who goes on Twitter when they’re an ACTUAL celebrity (not a reality star) and airs out their dirty laundry, like Mashonda did?

      Im sorry if they were cheating, because thats not right, but that doesn’t make everything Mashonda has done in the aftermath okay. She has to think of her child and just grow up. (BTW-I don’t even know if believe Mashonda on if they were still living together as a married couple..because she seems like the type who would exaggerate to push her public persona).


      I agree w/ Tee. If you are a stepmother, that is YOUR role. Those children have mothers. When swizz cheats on her-and it WILL happen- I wonder how she’ll feel when the next one does her baby like that. She has no regard for the other women in this situation AT ALL. Karma is a b.i.t.c.h. Her very own song says WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND… If she’s so prolific and pro-woman, you would think she would have the decency to try and be civil with Mashonda and the London girl. Those two are going NOWHERE. Just because you now have the ring does not white wash these women, their memories, OR children away. Umi my azz. If she asked them to call her homewreckin skeeza ho i wouldn’t be mad tho.

    • JLynn

      How is it typical of black women to defend what is hers. That is her child—not Alicia’s child. If the rumors about the affair are true then Alicia needs to fall back and let MaShonda and her husband handle their relationship with their child(son). It’s funny that you said it is typical for black women to always interfer with their ex’s new relationships. I look at that statement like this—you’re basically saying it happens to black women all the time and our boyfriends, companions and husbands cheat on us to a frequent degree? If the rumors about the affair is true then MaShonda has every dag-on right to be angry. And I would continue to put them on blast because this type of behavior should not be celebrated and condoned. We are doing to much as a society now-a-days. It is time to put right back at the and put wrong back at the very bottom.

    • nikki2727 must have been the dip in more than one situation, the call her a lie is uncalled for and I believe that A got out really easy dating a married man with an infant, of course there is going to be hostility and even if only half of what she says is true, this will stay out there until she has had her chance to heal, is ti fair that not only does this woman disrespect her marriage and her family but then she gets the sympathy of the whole world behind her and she was the one that was wrong(Alicia) Mashonda just needs time to heal and she needs to be heard.

    • Nostradamus

      since some are lost..peep this…the way game goes is….you play me and i play yo a ss back only harder.I’m sure Mashonda has moved on and I’m almost postive she is dragging this thing on but ask urselves..had RICH SWIZZY
      not gave her a bone to run with…she wouldn’t be in the spot lite as we speak.

    • OMG

      WOw alicia is a mess, and she mesed with a married man she made the song called karma, and she’s gonna have to deal with it soon

    • nik

      He should have wondered how his affair would affect the child. If you want to lead a home, lead by example. As the husband of Mashonda, he should have considered the effects of his affair on his family. Now you want to talk about her behaviour?

    • BklynGirl1029

      Actually he ruined his relationship with his son by disrespecting his son’s mother and having an affair. Period end of story.

    • I wish a b*tch would

      I wish a b*tch would tell my son to call her mommy. There would be problems. And I would expect my son’s dad to check the HELL out of his wife or girlfriend.

    • God's Angel

      I wish a b.*.t.c.h would ask my son to call her mommy. And I would expect my son’s father to check the heck out of the bird that asked that of my son.

    • God's Angel

      I wish a bird would ask my son to call her mommy. It would not have the outcome that silly bird was expecting.

      And I would expect my son’s father to check the heck out of that bird for asking my son to do something that stupid. I don’t care how long his dad and wife/girlfriend been together.

    • Okay

      Just because we heard the gossip and have moved on doesnt mean that mashonda’s life isnt torn apart daily and forever because of alicia keys and swizz’s actions. She has spoken because people keep asking her to speak_ Its rare to hear a woman handle herself with such dignity. So I want to here more! She is a lady to the end and its obvious to me and Swizz had a better and more connected relationship with her than with Alicia. He effed up big time. And if he hasnt realized he messed up yet, He will soon.

  • Tee

    Wow…idk what to say! I think that if this is true that Swizz and Alicia deserves to be put on blast…esp. if they are coming out of the pocket like that!

  • Tracy

    I hate the fact that Swizz dumped Mashonda for Alicia, I mean,YOU HAVE KIDS WITH THIS WOMEN!!! WTH? Alicia needs to find her own man.

    • detdoll5

      what’s it to you that he left his wife for another woman? this happens all the time SFW! AK has got her on own man, Swizz Beats. Mashonda is the one that needs to get a man and life while she’s at it. I might have had sympathy for Mashonda if she had handled the end of her marriage like a grown woman. But instead she took the scorned woman route and put AK on blast. How tacky and low brow was that, very. The world took one side of the story and ran with like it was the whole truth. Mashonda tried to throw salt on AK’s name like a typical hood rat chick would do. But while she sulks and stews and her miserable woman juices Ak and Swizz went about their business getting married and waiting for their new bundle of joy. So to Mashonda choke on the bile you tried spit on AK and Swizz. And oh yeah, what else would the kids call AK? Certainly they wouldn’t be allowed to call her by her first name. To disrepectful if they did.

    • Real Talk

      This is not the first relationship to dissolve in the history of life. People grow up and move on.

      This is apart of life. You have to have your own life, goals and ambition. A women has to bring more to the table than good looks and nice figure. You have to maintain a relationship throughout the years. You have to either grow together or grow apart.

      You fall in love with the same person over and over again by learn new things about them and how they enrich your life.

  • Hey There

    She asked a question all she can get is a yes or no answer. Don’t know until you ask.

    • carmelle

      Damn yall that was her husband!! She does deserve respect in this whole ordeal..Now i look at Alicia in a whole new light. I guess i wont be buying her music anymore!! I’m tired of people regardless if they are celebrities to think it is ok to sleep with peoples’ husband.

  • ebonyhud

    If you were married you would feel this way people act like there above everything lol most people women and MEN never get over something like that.

  • da real one


    • wisdom2




  • Its Bambi *itch!

    That’s messy..she’s the mother and it’s her right to be heard.I think she wouldnt make it public if A-Keys came correct and responded to her. Just like all of us,celebs really have personal’s not like she’s behind a piano all day!

    • Halos Eyes

      I could not have said it better myself doll! btw… love the name

  • Mabel

    The best thing Mashonda can do is to write a book to married and attached women on how to recognize the signs of a cheating spouse and how to move on afterward. This may be more cathartic and financially rewarding than doing these free interviews. So Mashonda, find a literary agent and publishing house and get a writing.

  • Yeah I Said It

    Everything in life ain’t black & white. She knew about the affair b4 the divorce? Why she ain’t blast Alicia then? If its true about Alicia ignoring her and f*cking Swiss she geographical.


    It is what it is.

  • Yeah i said it

    Wrong not geographical

  • tb

    I would have beat the breaks off Aliciz for that mess. If true, it is disrespectful for some broad to tell someone else’s kid to call her mommy. I would have shoved my foot down her throat.

    Well Swizz was sleeping with, aat the minimum, all three of them at them same time and Alicia “Cankles” Keys thinks she has a prize. I can’t wait until she gets dogged out (more than before, because Swizz has been cheating on her too) like he dogged out Mashonda.

    Mashonda is very annoying. I understand she’s hurt, but she needs to let that dog go. Get over it girl. He is so not worth it. He’s no longer your problem, he’s Alicia’s problem now. Just wait 2 yrs, you will have the last laugh.

    • JaKai

      Right about that tb!!

  • Yanaba

    I love Alicia but that is just foul to try and force another woman’s child to call you mommy…

    • crazystuff

      So, why would you even believe it? Just because someone said it doesn’t make it true. I think if Mashonda would have asked in the right way to discuss this it would have been discussed in private. Making something of nothing. As usual.

  • Caligurl

    I agree. She needs to go to doctor cause instead of sounding like a victim she starting to sound psyco. Its time to let it go girl. He gone move on.

  • danimoni


    • Nikki Strong

      AGREED 100%

    • cindy

      NO marriage is not that serious. You take it like it is and let it go when necessary, prn, asap, as desired.
      Swizz and Mashonda marriage was over before Alicia Keys stepped in.
      Mashonda is a big time liar

  • sickofit

    AKeys is full of crap! i hope he takes every dime her stupid butt made and ever makes!!

    i have no respect for her ! and SB will do the same thing to AKeys that he has already done to his wife!!

    Just wait and see!!

    • melo

      100% co-sign!

    • cindy

      Alicia Keys is an honorable woman. Swizz chose Alicia to be his wife. Let them enjoy their life.
      alright @ Miss Jackie

      Forget mashonda
      Mashonda is out of reality and living on Mars Hill

      Mashonda is inflicting pain on herself and jeopardizing the happiness and well-being of her son.

      forget mashonda – stfu

      At lease Elin v. Tiger – Elin has a psych degree, builds a child mental health clinic and lives near Tiger. This is all Elin probably wanted her whole life. I don’t believe Elin actually wanted Tiger for lifetime of marriage.

      Swizz gives mashonda more than enough money for all worthwhile projects. mashonda still not satisfied.

      Forget mashonda


    No Mashonda is not going hare…Alicia needs to be ashamed of herself…she has stepped out of line and Swizz Beats is bogus for even letter her get that far…like Mashonda said she got her own baby now maybe she will chill…

  • htown-chick

    She ain’t wrong for putting they dirty @sses on blast! He dogged her on so many levels .she don’t owe him silence..nor Alicia .. miss keys needs to realize..the same way u got him is the same way u lose him!

  • Mock Rock Star

    Put them on blast. Alicia’s own child is going to call Alicia

  • Gina

    Alicia Keys is a mistress and homewrecker. Mr. Beatz is a cheater and adulterous man. I don’t care if they’re married now or not. What she did After all God doesn’t honor divorce so He see’s Mashonda and Swiss’s covenant and that’s all. Alicia is striking me as a selfish, ignorant diva who has no concern about anyone but herself hiding under the mask of some sweet woman. Whatever. I will never buy her albums again and I know a lot of people who say the same thing. Nevertheless, me not buying her music is not going to put a dent in her pocketbook and I realize that…but Karma will handle that, in due time and at the right time!!

    • crazystuff

      Just saying Mecca. Not judging.

  • Me

    Damn, Mashonda! You were married to Beaks, but the way you talk about the homewrecker Keys is like “Oh, I hope she takes it easy and has mercy on me when it comes to my husband..”! Seems like you’re intimidated by that b*tch…You act like you have no control over this cituation, esp. when Keys asked you son to call her mommy? What???? Where they do that at??? I’d be juicing Beaks for the last cent he got right about now, so that homewrecker would know that you would have to married before you can wear the pants in this cituation and show at LEAST SOME remorse and respect to you for what she’s done cause it’s NEVER ok! Please, girl, get more respect for yourself cause my heart goes out to you, but right now you’re acting like you are “the other woman”….I’m out!

  • The real deal ...

    Ive been where Mashonda has been and let me tell you it is a very hurtful thing to go through. We should not be so quick to judge her in regards to her thoughts and fellings as we are not her and we dont feel her pain. Some folks bounce back quickly and other folks not so much. A “LEASH”a & Switch Beaks deserve each other. They are so wrong on so many levels, and equally I might add! See, folks will say well its all Switch’s fault and not A”LEASH”a’s! I say bull$hit! Anyhoo.. Mashonda needs to forgive for HER OWN sake and just forget about them. Just sayin….

  • Me

    Not to mention that Beaks is only picking up the “bird’s seeds”…Literally…Lmao

  • at peace

    I’m honestly done with Mashonda…I felt for you at the beginning but now you need to STFU. You should be happy that alicia is trying to get to know your child and bond with him unlike some stepmothers who just wouldn’t give a shit. It’s time for you all to find peace in this situation and honestly I don’t see that happening if you keep airing your dirty laundry in public. If you have a problem with her set a up a meeting between YOU, HER and the child’s FATHER. Hell you can do it legally through the court system if you’d like.

    • Me

      I’m afraid it’s not that easy though…Mashonda obviously has feeling for Beaks (why?)still…I’ve also been in a similar cituation, but I’d be damned if I let his new baby mother disrespect me or even look @ me funny! My baby’s father is scared of me as hell, except he’s broke anyway, but Mashonda just needs to step up and show more respect for herself period.

    • CHance

      This is the first ADULT thing Ive seen so far in this post. Seriously, anyone with a brain can see now that Mashonda talking to the press like this is just going to be putting more stress on their situation.

      If she got a problem with Alica & Swizz, talk to them. And if Swizz said he would put a stop to this alleged “Umi” mess, why does it need to talked about in a magazine? Mashonda is playing the situation bec. she knows Alicia would lose out by every acknowledging her, since she’s the bigger star. But sometimes as a woman you have to have more dignity and maturity than your need for vengeance.

    • cindy

      @at peace – I agree

      Mashonda STFU

      Now think about all 10 years, married to a man, man going and coming, man having outside children, man working, man supporting and providing in the home, and mashonda at home.

      The meaning is Swizz was having other women, having children, and having mashonda during the same 10-year stretch. Looks like mashonda could not hold and keep her husband. Mashonda could not meet her husband needs and expectations. Mashonda is off the track.

      Swizz was a good husband and mashonda misses Swizz provisions and affections. Good Swizz gone, and now mashonda can contribute to household management and support herself. Mashonda wants more money for her own deceitful, selfish, and conceited interests.
      MASHONDA STFU – sloppy piiig

      Everytime mashonda opens her mouth, mashonda tells me that she did not love Swizz and only wanted the material items Swizz gave her- and still want them.
      Mashonda is all about money, money, moneyand has no contributions.
      Where is mashonda lover(s)?

      mashonda is not a praying woman

  • at peace

    Because the other woman is not Famous. I think Swizz has cheated on Mashonda more then the three times that we know about. And I believe she knew about the other affairs as well. She finally found one she can cash in on and that’s what she’s going to be doing trust me.

  • marsha

    This is what I mean she says it and everyone believes what she says because she is the only one talking. This story does not sound truthful, first of all how much time could Alicia have possibly spent with the little girl? That child is barely 2 so for her to have asked the child to call her mommy she would have had to do so in front of the mother because no two year old is vocal enough to come home and say that Ms Alicia asked me to call her Mommy, no way, you can hardly understand what a two year old is really saying, and as for her son who is 3 and a half. I don’t see him coming home and saying that. I could see her questioning him and maybe him saying yes based on the questions. The thing that is eating Mashonda and that is going to keep slowly killing her is Alicia’s refusal to respond to her craziness ignoring an insane or scorned person causes them to become more psychotic and she keeps saying it in every interview, but she contradicts herself because she claims that they don’t have anything to discuss but the kid but yet she is angry when she does not respond to her other foolishness. I can already tell how this story is going to end. Nasir his oldest son will be the one who will have a true whole relationship with his Dad and have the benefit of two wonderful moms, but because of their mothers petty actions the other two will be robbed of this type of relationship and they will have their moms to thank for it. All you have to do is look at rev. Runs family to see how wonderful a blended family could be, but all egos have to be thrown out the window. I don’t see this happening with Mashonda and she looks like she is trying to get into Jahna’s head because she is young and impressionable. Continue to stay above the freu Alicia and continue to encourage your husband to have as much of a relationship as possible with his kids as they grow older they will know who was truly on their side. Kids always figure it out.

    • thatsmybiz1

      Swizz’s daughter is actually 3-years-old. She was born May 22, 2007.

    • Me

      Hey Marsha,
      I guess you were there and you know the 2 going on 3 year old personally and you know all 2 year old vocabulary ability… never mind the fact that children can communicate if trained from day one…and kids from overseas learn at a faster rate b/c they don’t use television to raise them as it is apparent your did!

    • plsstop

      Hey Marsha,
      I guess you were there and you know the 2 going on 3 year old personally and you know all 2 year old vocabulary ability… never mind the fact that children can communicate if trained from day one…and kids from overseas learn at a faster rate b/c they don’t use television to raise them as it is apparent yours did!

    • plsstop

      To sit and read the whole article and still feel compelled to say something negative makes you look really smartHey Marsha,
      I guess you were there and you know the 2 going on 3 year old personally and you know all 2 year old vocabulary ability… never mind the fact that children can communicate if trained from day one…and kids from overseas learn at a faster rate b/c they don’t use television to raise them as it is apparent yours did!

    • cindy

      Regardless. I would never believe that a 2 or 3 year old gave that kind of information.
      Mashonda is a habitual, career, escalating liar.

      I am disappointed in all this mashonda garbage
      Mashonda has vowed to be a psychopathic lunatic liar and is beyond help

      The S2S article sounds sick

      Swizz and Alicia are strong, viable, and productive lovers. Swizz and Alicia are focused in their love and career.
      Blessings to Swizz and Alicia forevermore !!!!!!!!!

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