We’re Not All ‘Five Star Chicks’ – And That’s Fine

- By Bossip Staff

“He just couldn’t handle it because you’re too awesome and too pretty.”

That is one of my favorite lines from the movie “He’s Just Not That Into You.” The context is a woman consoling a friend. Some guy never bothered calling the young lady back. It’s a hilarious line, but we really do say inane things like that to each other and ourselves. Do you really think ol’ boy didn’t call back because you are too awesome and pretty?

Continued at MadameNoire.com

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  • kerry

    wtf

  • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

    lol reminds of clueless when Cher was consoling Ty: “You’re too good for him”. She was like, “IF IM TOO GOOD FOR HIM, HOW COME IM NOT WITH HIM!” LOL. FORGET THESE DUDES LADIES, THEY ONLY WANT CHICS WHO D O N T WANT THEM. REAL TALK

  • AMERIIE IS BETTER BEYONCE

    AMERIIE IS A DYME, SHE IS GORGEOUS BEAUTIFUL, TALENTED AND INTELLIGENT, HOW MANY WOMEN OUT HERE HAVE ALL OF THOSE TRAITS?

    EXACTLY

    • I Am Legend (Allergic To Darkies)

      GROUPIE

  • I Am Legend (Allergic To Darkies)

    Amerie sux get over it you are just a GROUPIE

  • HARDMIKE

    (Put my bulletproof vest on)

    Some of yall a lil delusional it might stem from low self esteem or the way the media make yall feel about being black women, but a majority of the time when you think “all eyes are on you” its usual a figment of your imagination

    I mean really if you have to always dress to get attention it probably means you aint as fly as you think, a fly woman could rock a potato sack and still be looked at, but she is being took at face value, aint nobody looking at her like “I bet she got a fire personality” or “I bet she can hold her a good conversation”

    and I got cousins who dont even get “dressed up” and did “up” for men, they do to outshine the next broad, cause you know ho3s like to “pick” if you aint up to date

    so a lot of that shat come from you wanting to compete

    • MissB

      LOL@(Put my bulletproof vest on)

      You betta preach!!!!

    • that damn sh#$ disturber

      @ caramel AGREED “especially when some of them are relatives…smh…”

  • Crisy

    You just had to get that off your chest!! didn’t you???

  • Caramel Cat™

    Pretty much!

  • CAT EYES

    There is no such thing as a woman being too “beautiful” or “awesome” for a man to want her.Its her character that keeps them running away from her…..isn’t it interesting how the most handsome men are married to what some women would call “ugly”?Thats because her character has made her beautiful in his eyes.

    • Bebe

      ….In most cases….NO… There aren’t that many men (or people in general) who aren’t that shallow.

      I ONLY have male friends. Men are very visual and hilariously honest. Usually, if a great looking guy is dating or marries a “not so great” looking woman – its usually because he knows she won’t leave him, and she’s typically devoted no matter how he treats her.

      He might grow to love her- once he realizes she’s amazing but not without “taking her for granted” for a long period of time.

      Example: TI and Tiny…

  • MsRachael

    So true!

  • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

    Nothing worse than men who overrate themselves and think that marrying him is the best thing since sliced bread. yawns. I pity the fool of a woman who bases her self worth on being ahem “wifed up”. If you were on food stamps, some thirsty negroid would marry you for free meals.

    • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

      the only thing worse would be the “multiple baby mama” having father that created and abandoned her. lol

  • fake azz preachers

    this is like the first time where sane people commented on a post i’m so proud of my beautiful black people…I think its alot of women who have natural beauty and they don’t get credit for it, so to all my down to earth, no judgemental, non weave having women i love you and salute you, to you lame azz lace front broads, GROW UP that stuff looks stank anyway

  • AQueenWaits

    YUP!

    Maybe they meant “starfish”.

  • Moanmyname( Loving my natural self)

    but why a pic of Chrisette Michelle? I like her. she really seems like a down to earth chick. and even with all her hair cut off she’s still an Empress in my book. She’s gorgeous to me…

    • GoalDigger

      I saw her (Chrisette Michelle) in concert..yes, she is gorgeous…her very presence is breathtaking…but she doesnt have much on the backside…maybe that’s why she’s the poster child, or maybe because her beauty isnt superficial…I dont have much on the backside either…which is most likely why Im now dating outside my race where im valued as a whole and not by body parts…

  • GoalDigger

    I think that the reason that a lot of black women are single, is because we would rather wake up alone for the rest of our life, or be cheated on, etc…than to date outside of our race or religion…other cultures will marry in a heartbeat…its just something about our mentality right now that has us settling for less…if we would know our worth, the men would have no choice but to realize it as well…congrats on the marriage, pray together, stay together;)

  • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

    Who are you to tell BLACK females what they are not? You sound like a jealous female from another race. Who appointed you judge of millions of black females that you dont even know?

  • chrissy

    @goaldigger…i like that name…but that is all my girlfriends talk about white and black they aint putting up wit the bullsh*t…just to say i got a man or i am married…..the men need to tighten up….they think its us…but it’s not….TIGHTEN UP MEN!!

    • GoalDigger

      oh ok, i see what you’re saying…yea, having a title is not worth being miserable…some people dont know how to be content by themselves…those are the people who will endure a relationship where they’re not being respected, because they dont know their value, and dont know how to love themselves…yea, there comes a time when you have to say enough is enough, im done with this mess, come correct, or dont come at all

    • Ralph

      Chrissy, aint no one ask for your life story. I could careless about your snow goon or thick cornbread family life. Many black women are to arrogant, talk too much, and combative. Its not about dealing with foolsihness its about toning down all that ghettoness and arrogance. This is the problem black women have one of stankiest attitudes sometimes. Calm that down, and Shut up, and know your role. Washing dishes and cooking a man a meal.

    • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

      Many black women are to arrogant, talk too much, and combative. Its not about dealing with foolsihness its about toning down all that ghettoness and arrogance. This is the problem black women have one of stankiest attitudes sometimes. Calm that down, and Shut up, and know your role.

      You just described yourself. Are you a black woman? SMMH

  • Mama Said Knock You Out

    @ AMERIIE IS BETTER THAN BEYONCE

    AMERIIE IS THE SH!T

    F.CUK WHAT A HATER HAS TO SAY.

    I AGREE THAT AMERIIE IS BETTER THAN BEYONCE

  • zai

    couldnt have said it better…..

  • Just Bored

    I wouldn’t want to date a man that didn’t think I was “pretty” and “awesome” and a “five star” woman in HIS eyes.

    This topic is just dumb. If a man doesn’t call back, don’t even try to find out why – keep it pushing and be glad he bounced and let the right man find you.

    • QueensBoogie

      super co-sign.

  • NEEKYUK

    Amen! Aint nobody having sleepless nights about you nucca!!

  • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

    tell em Chrissy!!!! sick of these clowns!!!

  • David

    I hate women who think they are all that, I pretty much hit em and quit em…. And what’s sad a lot of ladies try so hard to look good(which is important) but most important is your personality and bedroom demeanor… 😉

    • Ralph

      David that’s whats up brotha, been trying to tell these chickens on here for a minute. Its personality that wins them over in the long run not some stank attitude.

  • David

    @ Just Bored

    I guarantee you have been dating them all you life, don’t get it twisted; and I don’t need to see how pretty you are because no matter how good you think you look, you ain’t all that!

  • http://www.showmestate.com 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS (A SPADE IS A SPADE)

    six figures isnt enough for me to marry some lame dude. and fyi: THAT IS THE REASON IM STILL SINGLE. LATER HATER!

  • http://lecoil.tumblr.com/ Educated Goon

    Chrissette has a very pretty face, so I have no idea what she is talking about?

    Maybe she is trying to get all the ugly women on her side so they can buy her album?…. She’s witty!

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